DETACH, go ghost & UPGRADE your life
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ย. 2024
- Heyy girl it's time... it's time to detach yourself from situations that are holding you back so you can upgrade yourself and become the woman you were mean't to be. In this video I talk about how to learn detachment and how to stop caring so much about outside things.
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Do y’all like these kind of videos? Or prefer me sitting down talking?
Love this kind too
Both are fine, i listened while cleaning and working on my life.
i love both❤
I like these active videos 🙌🏾
Both (:
Yes I love these kinds of videos. I am grieving the old version of myself and accepting that I am more now. Learning to fill my own cup. ❤
This is so motivational Tysm. I get in my head and this helps me redirect my thoughts.
Wow same here. Like wow everything I thought was wasn’t from family to friends. But there is this new beginning right here waiting. ❤
@@LashayneHampton yes you will get there ❤️
Had a dream of going no contact and woke to this
Loved this, I've been thinking about no longer being easily available to certain people lately❤❤❤😊
Girl you might have just changed my life… why my tire pressure light is on right now? And I have someone in my inner circle who is okay with their car barely making it down the road 😮 I’m shook…. It was meant for me to hear this honey! Wasn’t even looking for this, but thank you so much! ❤🙌🏽
I’m so happy to hear it connected with you and yes I learned we just gotta pay attention to the signs🤞🏾
Gurl I love how consistent you are ❤ keep going
Agreed! ❤
Yep!!
You should create vlogs too girl, these type of videos have great potential for that 🫶🏾, they’re really motivating for your audience ❤
When you said ghost, you didn't mean your family did you. I want to ghost them right now. I'm not happy here. I feel very misunderstood by them, and they really won't help.
I even tried to explain this in a nice way that was completely true, although you could still here my annoyance, and they responded like I said something wrong & untrue, and kind of acted like they were the victim. 😕
That actually hurt me because telling anyone how i feel is extremely hard due to people usually responding by either not understanding or even trying to,
completely shutting me down denying anything I said,
or if they can't deny it, they will just react as if what i said is wrong and play the victim...like my relative just did.
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It’s okay to feel that way, it’s honestly normal so don’t let anyone deflect from what you’re saying as if it’s an issue. They’ve been there too I’m sure, a lot of people just don’t have the confidence in doing so & that’s okay too.
I’m glad you spoke up & keep speaking up for yourself. God will take you places, so long as your obedient to His Word. Jesus even says leaving your family and all things for Him is being obedient trusting that you WILL be okay in this life and the life to come. Be confident. How old are you if you don’t mind my asking?
@@TyJeanee Thank you. 🙂 Stuff like this has been going on since I was eight.
And oh boy has my relative been there before.
How she doesn't help me around here, is exactly what she complains about her sister & brother doing to their mom.
And the physical & mental toll that takes on her mom when her brother & sister don't help her, which my relative completely understands, has a similar effect on me when my relative doesn't help around here.
However, my relative doesn't understand that when it comes to me.
Oh, and I'm probably much older than you. I'm 42. 😊
The cartoon profile pic of mine probably got y'all thinking I'm a kid. 😄
I would go, but I can't just yet. I am here helping my father. At first I was helping my mother untill she passed.
My relative is also staying at my dad's house with us....rent free. So, I can't really get away from her or the situation right now. At least not without leaving my dad. If I did, there will be no one to help him.
My relative certainly isn't going to do it.
She already acts helpless enough, but is the type to tell you how grown she is.
@@GoaWay... yeah everyone doesn’t adhere to what bothers them & try to help but instead become what they don’t like unfortunately. Like my parents were heavy drinkers & smokers but not one kid out of 5 does that. Not sure what you’re relative is dealing with & if her mothers distress rubbed off on her but I’m sure her seeing you take care of your father is planting a seed that caring and helping makes a difference.
I did think you were a teenager lol.
& you’ll know when it’s time to go, sorry about your loss🫶🏽🫶🏽 idk whats it’s like to deal with a close passing so I won’t say I understand but I’m sending love to you, your father & your relative, you’re a blessing to them I’m sure.
@@TyJeanee thank you.
@@GoaWay... of coursee
Several situations you used as examples are happening to me. I’ve responded very well to some bad situations in the past few weeks and I’ve been fighting and this is exactly what I needed to hear!
You got this🤞🏾🫶🏾
The videos are always right on time with what I deal with. Thank you for being YOU. Keep going and never give up because you have an army of us behind you!♡
Love the consistency.☺
Wow......🥲🥲
Thank u so much for stiring up these Emotions in me, so that I could propel forward.
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#Elevation
#HealingFR
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love this format!
I love this type of content. I really needed to hear a lot of things you stated in this video. Keep glowing , growing, and evolving ❤.
Thank youu🫶🏾
Girl you were spitting fire in this video!! Several words were said
I needed to hear this
this was a great video, loved listening while playing basketball with the guys.
Thank youu
This was perfect💯🤞🏽
Thank youu
I’m currently at my rock bottom and have been for 3 days. I have to do something to get out of this. I’m ruining myself and my relationships with my loved ones.
loved the video so real
Love this thank you i needed this 😍😍🔥
Love this video !
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Loved this! 💜✨️
Yesss!!❤❤
What if the people around you keep reminding you of your past or who you trying to change from?
That’s your answer that who you have become is who you were born to be. Hope you changed for the better. Girl forget them people, okay! Today. ♥️
Den you start to keep distance from them. They cannot come wid u in future. They belong in the past..not everyone will be at the finish line of yor life.
You can't change and keep everybody around you. You have to leave some people behind, and start with those that try to remind you who you use to be. If people want to stay stuck in your past then you leave them there.
Love it need more of this🥺🤍