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This is not a nice guy. He is a doormat. You can be a kind man and not take abuse.
totally...This guy is TOO nice...she saw him coming a mile away!! I know my Brother is one...
60 years old with 11yo twins? Who wants to guess that they are her kids from a previous marriage?
He married the first woman that let him sleep with her.
“I’m not the type of person to fight over money”.
Got that right
RIGHT!!! and this is why he is in the position he is in!!!!
By the tone of his voice I don't think he is going to do anything about this. Too nice of a guy.
Indeed, he sounds completely hopeless, his wife destroyed any shred of self respect he only waits for the sweet relief of dead
He's not nice he's a doormat thats scared of conflict. He needs to get the house under his name get his wife counseling to stop her spending and then pay off the mortgage.
@@cesaravegah3787 🤣😂😂😂
Nice, or really stupid?
Canadian. Nice.
So she basically threw away a precious gift from her parents. Lovely.
He sounds like McFly before he punched Biff in Back to the Future.
Hello? Hello? Anybody home? Think McFly. Think.
"I have your car towed here and all you have is lite beer???"
I thought the exact same thing and went looking for this comment 😆
😂😂😂
Lmfao!!!
My marriage is strong! Also my wife lied to me to the tune of $100k in consumer debt causing us to mortgage a paid off home. She hasn't added me to the deed of the house even though we're married and live together in the marital home...
This guy is one sentence "I'm not happy" away from losing everything if he pays off that mortgage without getting his name on the property also. Talk about no backbone...
He’s in complete denial. Dave sure shook him out if that “strong marriage” delusion.
Also he "didn't realize" how much she was buying....
He didn't think of the fact that he'd be paying off her house. 😑
this hits home. before being married i was a hoarder and a compulsive shopper. thanks to my husband's support i have changed my habits. this was extremely hard to do! there was a lot of fighting however it has been worth it!! i don't miss those days of a over cluttered apartment and having 0 money in my bank account. our life together is well on the way on the road of recovery getting out of debt and saving for a home! Freedom is on the horizon i don't want to stay a slave any longer!!
That's awesome!! Great work!! We were flat broke when we were young and stupid. We ended that and said we were never going to be there again. And we weren't.
I’m sure your husband wasn’t a pushover like the man on this call. Great job for listening to him and letting him guide you out of your mess
@@dialac1 thank you so much and i am thankful he isn't a pushover
The simp factor is off the charts here.
Can't simp when married
@@teebone2157facts but that comment was funny
You can definitely simp when marry. Case in point.
@@teebone2157 Obviously, you can. He’s doing it.
Hahaha 100% true
this man is lost. he's so used to being a pushover that he thinks it's normal. the fact they had kids in their 40s, she didn't care to put his name on the deed, she spent $100k behind his back, and won't take accountability for her poor spending habits, shows the house is burning and he's just sitting there saying everything's okay. he's the type whose wife will divorce him outta nowhere, and he'll be there wondering why she left and took everything.
This all Canadian men and why their country is so broken.
She won't leave. HE will be the one leaving....headed DIRECTLY to the streets as a homeless person.
@@bobjames6622 He will come out as transgender before then.
@@francismarion6400 If you are American, claiming Canada is "broken" is unbelievably ironic. And 100% wrong.
@blabbinglobster America is broken too, no doubt, but Canadians get their bank accounts frozen for talking bad about their leaders.
"I'm not the type of person to fight over money"...no kidding.
"she has always handled the money". So he knows a compulsive spender is in charge of the money?
The simp level is real.
That dude is clueless and ignorant. He needs to take responsibility.
Funny that he is not clueless about her compulsive spending. But yet is ignorant about it.
Key words he didn’t just say $100,000 he said a few $100,000 in credit card debt
This is financial infidelity & a disaster on the horizon. The definition of a STRONG marriage isn’t having a spouse with a compulsive spending habit who hides spending hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt from their spouse.
You are TOO NICE MAN!
$100,000 IS CRAZY NUMBER TO LIE
Listen close: "It was in the hundreds of thousands"
At least DOUBLE the crazy
@@jacobawojtowicz true Dat
At first I thought it was a simple question of just paying off the mortgage v's investing.
My wife and I were married for 16 years and I would have said our marriage was strong right up until the day that she told me she wanted a divorce. This came six months after we paid off the mortgage as well as her student loans and became debt free. Moral of the story: Don't get complacent, you never really know what's in someone else's heart.
As long as I’ve lived this always cracks me up when the one partner is blindsided to the other partner’s unhappiness. I’ve seen it with men and women. Where one is clueless how unhappy their partner is. There are definite signs.
@@katemiller7874 You're right, given unlimited time and perfect hindsight I, I realize now that there were signs of her unhappiness much earlier on. It might be helpful for you to understand that most people who are heavily invested in their relationship tend to have a very optimistic view about the cracks they see developing; that there'll always be time to address the small stuff. This is especially problematic if their partner is very good at maintaining a veneer of "everything's okay"; they may not have any idea how deep the damage goes behind the surface. My ex-spouse even admits that she constantly "wallpapered over" her problems with our relationship so I wouldn't know how she really felt.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Stuff like that makes me not wanna get married. I'm sire you feel super used 😢
So aggravating on how spouses dont even know their financial situation. Spouses running up over $100,000 in shopping and the take a mortgage out on a mortgage free home...plus its HER house. Sickening and stupid. Dont call in then not do anything about it
@@user-oq4ow9rr6z yes, it was stupid to take a mortgage out for CC debt.
I agree. I check my bank accounts at least once a day. How the hell can someone live like this? I have no words. This one just needs his ass kicked to get into shape. That's all. There's no time to be gentle in a marriage. Fight over finances always to get both aligned!!
@@sonicmoj1 Anyone can open up a credit card in their own name without telling anyone else or attaching anyone else's name to it, and there would be no way for that other person to see it. If small minimum payments were being made out of a joint account, that also might not trigger an alarm, because the other person would have no way of knowing the balance on the card.
“When?!” 🤣
wife is gonna pull the zip cord on marriage and get the house lol
Yeah, maybe Peter knows this deep down.
It's martial property regardless of whose name is on the bill. The debts are also marital sadly
@@laundrygoddess4you mean marital? 😅
she is having an affair too
I'm in canada. Please listen. Put the money in a plan that is marked as funds from inheritance. She can't touch it. Ever.
Exactly this.
Do you own laundromats? Just wondering because of the name and I’m trying to get into the business 😅. Also here in Canada
He has to protect his inheritance from the crazy wife!
Let's let the person who has a shopping addiction be in charge of the bills and handle all the spending. What could possibly go wrong?
He’s sounds like a super nice man, giving, loving.
And, at least in this case, that is his downfall.
As my late father said, “Sometimes it’s better to be pissed off than pissed on.”
That’s profound and words to live by
Wife is 55 and Mom to 11 YEAR OLD twins??!!
HOLY GERIATRIC MAMA, BATMAN!
😂😂😂
I was thinking the same thing
Sounds like IVF
@@bettygrable6440for sure
@@bettygrable6440 InVoluntaryFukover.
Somebody get this guy a set...
He has them but they are made from Playdough.
He's Canadian, so.......
@@lot2196 Yes, you are right. We are very nice people, sometimes for all the wrong reasons.
Dude, get a backbone
I'm sure this guy would make breakfast for his wife's boyfriend at HER house.
@@TM_Stone Hahahahahaha!!!!
THIS. Get a spine!
He had a kid at 49? Jeeez
The caller needs to consult with a lawyer.
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How is this guy even finding the courage to phone this story in?
hes clueless
He's playing a violin during the last hours on the Titanic.
@@fauxbro1983he's sad and pathetic and fell for the first woman that went out with him
Peter is the first guy I’d ever tell to watch red pill videos to start evening him out.
Lol
Where's John at on this one??? "Peter, do you feel safe?"
Nah, to John it's always the woman who is unsafe and all the problems are the guy's fault.
Baloney would just blame the husband. It's the husband's fault that she spends hundreds of thousands of dollars because he made her feel unsafe.
Exactly. John would've found a way to tell this guy it's his fault, and he's in the wrong.
Peter is not a woman so he doesn't get any help from him tehee
Peter needs to pick up a backbone at Walmart. Isle 3. 😅
I keep thinking "those poor kids"!
1) do not put inheritance in house. Inheritance is not a joint asset. Consult a investment person to keep inheritance separate
2) you can not give up your right to matrimonial home. If your married doesn't matter who's name or who paid or gave the house.
3) don't just put it in your rrsp. Find a financial planner or lawyer
I'm from Canada. My lawyer wasn't pleased when my husband put some inheritance on the matrimonial house.
This is so messed up. Does he think letting his wife do whatever she wants is a strong marriage? Is that the leader he wants to be?
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Simps are there own worst enemy. Geez.
**Their** 😉
@@expectthabest951 Yeah, alright, Karen!
This guy is delulu 😂😂😂
She's an addict and needs to be treated as such! She needs help ... THEY NEED HELP!!
Im glad Dave was on this call. This dude needs some real brothers in his life to wake him up.
received a house as a gift, but has a mortgage on it, and has 11 year olds in his 60s? What a whirlwind of poor life choices for decades.
IVF is a horrible decision, but leave the kids outta it bro
The Simp machine Lol
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"our marriage is strong" what is wrong with him? - also why does he allow her to handle the money? insanity!
Pay the house Peter… if you wanna be homeless when she divorces you
She’s on it too. He’s gonna have to buy her out to keep the house, square one.
If she don't stop the spending, all four are going to be homeless.
Get a side by side refrigerator box. It has much more room.
I heard him say hundreds of thousands!
Thats what i heard my question is what card company gives anyone that much unsecured debt
@@jasonleatherwood2172Lots of them.
He did indeed say hundreds - plural. Too sad for words.
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"We worked hard and had kids." Waaah waaah waaah. So did we. My wife and I had kids and we both worked fulltime. Now, we're both 65 and we still both work. And we have no debt and a paid-off house!! Stop being a wimp and fix this!!
100K????....heck no......she apparently wears the pants in the relationship. This guy probably gets walked over by her and everyone else everyday.
He is docile.
You have to be kidding me... you let the addict make all the spending choices and your just perfectly fine with how "awesome" your marriage is.
I do like the equal say that ramsey preachs. I tend to think that there are some situations that doesn't work for. In this situation... if im him. We are 50/50 equal say or im out. And she goes to therapy a real therapist... and doest stop until she can demonstrate multiple years of control. Theres no way i would pt up with this. She can work nights and weekends and pay it off herself. Completely unacceptable.
Dude. It is ultimatum time. Shes 55 years old. Shes an adult. Shes lived long enough to figure out handling her own problems. Your enabling her by believing these false statements of why she struggles. Ive been through my own stuff. Everything i did because of it... im responsible for. Its on me. Now sure my past may have set me up for some difficult times. But i made the decisions. It makes the behavior understandable. It NEVER excuses behavior.
She needs to hear ine thing from you.. in a loving way. "I love you. But this stops today. If i need to be the money gatekeeper for awhile while you work on yourself.thats fine. But if you overspend and hide that from me again. I will immediately file for divorce. It will end our relationship and it will not be recoverable."
Agree. A lot of people’s problems in life could be solved if they were willing to put their foot down and say “No” and actually follow through if/when the line is crossed.
“You stop spending money like this and fix what you’ve done or I leave”. Either she fixes the spending or not. Her choice if she wants the relationship to continue.
Now, if you make that threat and don’t follow through… well you just hosed yourself bud, you’re getting walked over twice to three times as bad now.
This was a difficult call to listen to. 🤦🏻♀️
He's calling from a Nordstrom cafe.
😂😂😂😂
Funny...but since the caller is Canadian, it is impossible since Nordstrom withdrew from Canada last year.
I could tell by the sound of the environment.
Dying
Lol
Peter and his family live in Toronto. Toronto has the highest or second highest house prices in Canada.
Right? That house is worth well over a million dollars.
Tell me, you are doormat without telling me that 🙄.
55 and 60 and 11 year old twins! Wow.
Probably IVF
We are 51 with an 11 year old. Sometimes it doesn't work when you want it to, so you accept it when it does .
No wonder he is a Canadian 😂
Regardless of the state of marriage, an American would have sounded aggressive.😅
Wheres Delony to ask if he safe? He's whispering.
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"My marriage is strong" is about as good an example of cognitive dissonance as you can find.
Dude didn’t “pay” any credit cards off, he just transferred the debt from one bucket to another.
People get a free house and will still be in debt when they should be retiring. With teenage kids.
At least he funded the milkman's kids education.
The amount of red flags modern men ignore in order to be with someone is absolutely insane.
I inherited a 1979 El Camino and a mobile home from my dad. I decided to sell the mobile home because it was in Arizona and I live and work in Las Vegas. Plus the mobile home needed a lot of repairs and my dad still had a mortgage on it. I used the money from the sell of the mobile home to put a good chunk down to buy a townhome and I kept the El Camino because I didn't have a car prior to that.
Dave is 100% right about how ebablers may be the nicest and kindness people in the world BUT they do more harm than good!!
I see it most with parents and their children. Also, many parents who enable their children also tend to be very hypocritical as they hold others to standards that they do not hold their children to. I personally know many of these people and I've observed many more.
Shame, shame, shame!
I've worked in substance abuse rehab. The enabling is real.
The fact that he won't ask his wife to add his name to the deed when he's financially on the hook and married to her indictates some really deep problems. Unfortunately nice people are often easy for takers to take advantage of 😢
Rachel is great.
He’s a push over who married an addict. She’s doing her thing and he being who he is. Let them sink. He knows it’s wrong and does nothing but enable
YOU NEED A TOUGH COUNSELLOR
This guy isn’t safe and cannot breathe. His wife is clearly controlling and abusive
She has his rocks in a lock box.
You can't help guys like him. He's too far gone. Simps gonna simp. At this point, I don't even feel bad for him.
He is a man, he doesn’t need to be saved from a woman.
It’s like a wolf that chose to act like a puppy and be abused by a cat.
Never feel sorry
This man need to get his wife under control
im glad im single
No compulsive spender could sustain a healthy marriage.
“Pay check to pay-check but i want to invest.”
The inheritance is additional money that you could put somewhere else.
I think here's a risk she'll pile up debt again and the the additional money is gone and nothing has changed.
“It got worser and worser”
My life is betterereder and betterereder. 😂
He should’ve handled all the money
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Wow … they managed to blame the guy by the end !!!!
Don't pay off her debt. Its her debt and her house. Keep your inheritance for you.
You don't ever have to feel bad for protecting yourself! Money isn't everything but it's important. He needs to stop simping and cover his behind. Esp since his wife has a history of not being trustworthy.
This is a heartbreaking call. I'm wondering when this family will loose their housing and become homeless. Are costs being put on credit cards because money is flowing to other things??? I wish this family and all of us the best.
He needs to grow a backbone and not give away his inheritance to someone who may or may not screw him over for life. his dad would spin in his grave.
Nice guy syndrome 😢
Dave, Racheal nice try, but this enabler is clueless!
Shit storm, 60 with a twin of 11 years old..... wtf
Adjustable rate mortgage..
Why not refinance on a fix rate?
I don’t think Canada & Australia have fixed rates from what I’ve heard.
But I could be wrong.
@@CarnivoreStork damn that sucks
@@johndone8045
Yes.
Canada doesn't have long-term fixed-rate mortgages.
This guy is screwed 😂 decades of conditional simping is impossible to erase 😢
As a fellow Canadian, dude needs to get his name on the house title YESTERDAY
After you hang up the phone, file the divorce paper work..
"Im not the one to fight over money" = complete doormat. He's in this position and perfectly fine with it.
Sir there is NO WAY I would pay off a house that isn't mine I'm a woman on his side DON'T YOU DO IT !!!
Wow, she really found the perfect guy for her.
Imagine this guy seeing a spider in his house. Probably runs out screaming.
He sounds like the kind of guy to be in this situation
What did this guy want to hear?
Money aside, if the wife's name is the only name on the title to the house and something should happen to her, there could be probate issues in his future? His name should be on the house for that reason alone.
This is what "nicer than God" looks like. Learn to say NO!
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glad to write her tay I do hope she will help handle my paycheck properly☺️☺️☺️
Can I start with as low as $1,000?
You know what, she will just use you…you will just get hurt….don’t trust people who are compulsive spender, believe me