“Do You Know What’s Going On?”

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  • @billbob4856
    @billbob4856 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +204

    “I’m not the type of person to fight over money”.
    Got that right

    • @carmelitaromero-doc
      @carmelitaromero-doc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      RIGHT!!! and this is why he is in the position he is in!!!!

  • @fdadrtrttewrt
    @fdadrtrttewrt 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +188

    This is not a nice guy. He is a doormat. You can be a kind man and not take abuse.

    • @mr.snicker-doodles7081
      @mr.snicker-doodles7081 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      totally...This guy is TOO nice...she saw him coming a mile away!! I know my Brother is one...

    • @tkordik
      @tkordik 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      60 years old with 11yo twins? Who wants to guess that they are her kids from a previous marriage?

    • @gtileo
      @gtileo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He married the first woman that let him sleep with her.

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@gtileoindeed

    • @raccuia1
      @raccuia1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is a Pollyanna. Pollyanna's are very dangerous to themselves and other people. In fact they are "cloy". The hosts said things and then what came out of his mouth was on another tangent. One example, they were talking about his wife and her excess spending habits and the next thing that came out of his mouth was his like for her parents which had nothing to do with the topic.

  • @brookiegremlin6660
    @brookiegremlin6660 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    So she basically threw away a precious gift from her parents. Lovely.

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +231

    By the tone of his voice I don't think he is going to do anything about this. Too nice of a guy.

    • @cesaravegah3787
      @cesaravegah3787 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Indeed, he sounds completely hopeless, his wife destroyed any shred of self respect he only waits for the sweet relief of dead

    • @makatelli
      @makatelli 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      He's not nice he's a doormat thats scared of conflict. He needs to get the house under his name get his wife counseling to stop her spending and then pay off the mortgage.

    • @jjohnson5014
      @jjohnson5014 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cesaravegah3787 🤣😂😂😂

    • @linhaton4957
      @linhaton4957 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Nice, or really stupid?

    • @ccjdis
      @ccjdis 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Canadian. Nice.

  • @ctb3343
    @ctb3343 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    This man is a human floormat

  • @sjf8305
    @sjf8305 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    this hits home. before being married i was a hoarder and a compulsive shopper. thanks to my husband's support i have changed my habits. this was extremely hard to do! there was a lot of fighting however it has been worth it!! i don't miss those days of a over cluttered apartment and having 0 money in my bank account. our life together is well on the way on the road of recovery getting out of debt and saving for a home! Freedom is on the horizon i don't want to stay a slave any longer!!

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That's awesome!! Great work!! We were flat broke when we were young and stupid. We ended that and said we were never going to be there again. And we weren't.

    • @dialac1
      @dialac1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m sure your husband wasn’t a pushover like the man on this call. Great job for listening to him and letting him guide you out of your mess

    • @sjf8305
      @sjf8305 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dialac1 thank you so much and i am thankful he isn't a pushover

    • @maxwellspeedwell2585
      @maxwellspeedwell2585 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Always remember where you came from. Set-up a financial plan (ok…a budget), review it monthly, and ALWAYS cherish your husband. It is a very rare man who will take-on a project. Most men, and very few quality men will take on a woman as a project. Life is just too short for that. Remember, and recount what he has done for you everyday.

  • @Wyo2Wis
    @Wyo2Wis 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +391

    The simp factor is off the charts here.

    • @teebone2157
      @teebone2157 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Can't simp when married

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@teebone2157facts but that comment was funny

    • @danielr951
      @danielr951 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      You can definitely simp when marry. Case in point.

    • @iBryanDBrown
      @iBryanDBrown 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@teebone2157 Obviously, you can. He’s doing it.

    • @shawncho5217
      @shawncho5217 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hahaha 100% true

  • @dyates6380
    @dyates6380 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +196

    How is this guy even finding the courage to phone this story in?

    • @fauxbro1983
      @fauxbro1983 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      hes clueless

    • @JustinCase780
      @JustinCase780 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      He's playing a violin during the last hours on the Titanic.

    • @Omar_Zazzle
      @Omar_Zazzle 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    • @gtileo
      @gtileo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@fauxbro1983he's sad and pathetic and fell for the first woman that went out with him

    • @maxwellspeedwell2585
      @maxwellspeedwell2585 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He’s fixed his car, triple waxed, stood back to admire his labor but both tires on the other side are flat.

  • @Neoquaker1
    @Neoquaker1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    He sounds like McFly before he punched Biff in Back to the Future.

    • @MrBrewman95
      @MrBrewman95 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Hello? Hello? Anybody home? Think McFly. Think.

    • @willheorwonthe608
      @willheorwonthe608 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      "I have your car towed here and all you have is lite beer???"

    • @blazerbeavs2333
      @blazerbeavs2333 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I thought the exact same thing and went looking for this comment 😆

    • @kopanomatlala7217
      @kopanomatlala7217 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂

    • @snowman41131
      @snowman41131 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lmfao!!!

  • @drn13355
    @drn13355 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

    "she has always handled the money". So he knows a compulsive spender is in charge of the money?

    • @lizh4933
      @lizh4933 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The simp level is real.

  • @GigaChad_169
    @GigaChad_169 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    My marriage is strong! Also my wife lied to me to the tune of $100k in consumer debt causing us to mortgage a paid off home. She hasn't added me to the deed of the house even though we're married and live together in the marital home...
    This guy is one sentence "I'm not happy" away from losing everything if he pays off that mortgage without getting his name on the property also. Talk about no backbone...

    • @Nardaa-ox3be
      @Nardaa-ox3be 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He’s in complete denial. Dave sure shook him out if that “strong marriage” delusion.

    • @sitcomchristian6886
      @sitcomchristian6886 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Also he "didn't realize" how much she was buying....

  • @penelope5500
    @penelope5500 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    "I'm not the type of person to fight over money"...no kidding.

  • @BaconMountainMan
    @BaconMountainMan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

    He didn't think of the fact that he'd be paying off her house. 😑

  • @BrianErwin
    @BrianErwin 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    this man is lost. he's so used to being a pushover that he thinks it's normal. the fact they had kids in their 40s, she didn't care to put his name on the deed, she spent $100k behind his back, and won't take accountability for her poor spending habits, shows the house is burning and he's just sitting there saying everything's okay. he's the type whose wife will divorce him outta nowhere, and he'll be there wondering why she left and took everything.

    • @francismarion6400
      @francismarion6400 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      This all Canadian men and why their country is so broken.

    • @bobjames6622
      @bobjames6622 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      She won't leave. HE will be the one leaving....headed DIRECTLY to the streets as a homeless person.

    • @francismarion6400
      @francismarion6400 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bobjames6622 He will come out as transgender before then.

    • @blabbinglobster
      @blabbinglobster 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@francismarion6400 If you are American, claiming Canada is "broken" is unbelievably ironic. And 100% wrong.

    • @francismarion6400
      @francismarion6400 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @blabbinglobster America is broken too, no doubt, but Canadians get their bank accounts frozen for talking bad about their leaders.

  • @kimmietooshoes
    @kimmietooshoes 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Rachel is more fired up on this call than usual.

  • @ulf5738
    @ulf5738 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    That dude is clueless and ignorant. He needs to take responsibility.

    • @maryknight6020
      @maryknight6020 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Funny that he is not clueless about her compulsive spending. But yet is ignorant about it.

  • @bigboyk1989
    @bigboyk1989 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Key words he didn’t just say $100,000 he said a few $100,000 in credit card debt

    • @genglandoh
      @genglandoh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good catch you are right is it more then $100,000
      I would invest the money and keep it away from her.
      If he pays off the home she will just do it again.
      The home needs to be in both people because it will be a mess when one of them dies.

    • @maxwellspeedwell2585
      @maxwellspeedwell2585 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My dad did that. My parents had good cash flow, but were terrible with money. Before he passed he set-up their finances so my mom couldn’t get ahold of the money all at once. He (rightly so) knew she would be broke within 18 months of his passing. She’s a little frustrated that she can’t go totally wild (she is still careless with money, just not totally wild) but she still has decent cash flow, her property taxes are current, probably has several thousand in credit card debt, and now has several hundred thousand that has accumulated faster than she can spend it.
      This caller needs to put restraints in place to keep his wife from spending them into oblivion (actually, she already has).

  • @pamt3915
    @pamt3915 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    This is financial infidelity & a disaster on the horizon. The definition of a STRONG marriage isn’t having a spouse with a compulsive spending habit who hides spending hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt from their spouse.

  • @lonmidwest5363
    @lonmidwest5363 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    At first I thought it was a simple question of just paying off the mortgage v's investing.

  • @MyTremorJourney
    @MyTremorJourney 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    You are TOO NICE MAN!

  • @danieldolan6146
    @danieldolan6146 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He sounds like the kind of guy to be in this situation

  • @maryannanderson2213
    @maryannanderson2213 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Let's let the person who has a shopping addiction be in charge of the bills and handle all the spending. What could possibly go wrong?

    • @philipramsden4975
      @philipramsden4975 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This was literally me. Now that we're separated and I have a handle on the finances, I'm slowly putting out the dumpster fire she created. She literally had over $1k worth of Yeti and Stanley mugs.

  • @MyTremorJourney
    @MyTremorJourney 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    $100,000 IS CRAZY NUMBER TO LIE

    • @jacobawojtowicz
      @jacobawojtowicz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Listen close: "It was in the hundreds of thousands"
      At least DOUBLE the crazy

    • @MyTremorJourney
      @MyTremorJourney 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jacobawojtowicz true Dat

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes very crazy

  • @DebbieBennett-p5v
    @DebbieBennett-p5v 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    So aggravating on how spouses dont even know their financial situation. Spouses running up over $100,000 in shopping and the take a mortgage out on a mortgage free home...plus its HER house. Sickening and stupid. Dont call in then not do anything about it

    • @greggpurviance7252
      @greggpurviance7252 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DebbieBennett-p5v yes, it was stupid to take a mortgage out for CC debt.

    • @sonicmoj1
      @sonicmoj1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree. I check my bank accounts at least once a day. How the hell can someone live like this? I have no words. This one just needs his ass kicked to get into shape. That's all. There's no time to be gentle in a marriage. Fight over finances always to get both aligned!!

    • @kristencampbell5533
      @kristencampbell5533 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sonicmoj1 Anyone can open up a credit card in their own name without telling anyone else or attaching anyone else's name to it, and there would be no way for that other person to see it. If small minimum payments were being made out of a joint account, that also might not trigger an alarm, because the other person would have no way of knowing the balance on the card.

  • @laundrygoddess4
    @laundrygoddess4 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    I'm in canada. Please listen. Put the money in a plan that is marked as funds from inheritance. She can't touch it. Ever.

    • @danasmith8292
      @danasmith8292 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly this.

    • @nowe6639
      @nowe6639 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Do you own laundromats? Just wondering because of the name and I’m trying to get into the business 😅. Also here in Canada

    • @ReAl-uu8ku
      @ReAl-uu8ku 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He has to protect his inheritance from the crazy wife!

  • @jacobawojtowicz
    @jacobawojtowicz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    Where's John at on this one??? "Peter, do you feel safe?"

    • @bradycone
      @bradycone 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Nah, to John it's always the woman who is unsafe and all the problems are the guy's fault.

    • @terriesmith2616
      @terriesmith2616 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Baloney would just blame the husband. It's the husband's fault that she spends hundreds of thousands of dollars because he made her feel unsafe.

    • @lanceehrsam8296
      @lanceehrsam8296 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly. John would've found a way to tell this guy it's his fault, and he's in the wrong.

    • @MrTmenzo
      @MrTmenzo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Peter is not a woman so he doesn't get any help from him tehee

    • @alainsoltura
      @alainsoltura 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Peter needs to pick up a backbone at Walmart. Isle 3. 😅

  • @trey8872
    @trey8872 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    “When?!” 🤣

  • @rustykatt3870
    @rustykatt3870 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    The caller needs to consult with a lawyer.

  • @Ginger-sm5ed
    @Ginger-sm5ed 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    1) do not put inheritance in house. Inheritance is not a joint asset. Consult a investment person to keep inheritance separate
    2) you can not give up your right to matrimonial home. If your married doesn't matter who's name or who paid or gave the house.
    3) don't just put it in your rrsp. Find a financial planner or lawyer
    I'm from Canada. My lawyer wasn't pleased when my husband put some inheritance on the matrimonial house.

  • @Tockohead260
    @Tockohead260 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    My wife and I were married for 16 years and I would have said our marriage was strong right up until the day that she told me she wanted a divorce. This came six months after we paid off the mortgage as well as her student loans and became debt free. Moral of the story: Don't get complacent, you never really know what's in someone else's heart.

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      As long as I’ve lived this always cracks me up when the one partner is blindsided to the other partner’s unhappiness. I’ve seen it with men and women. Where one is clueless how unhappy their partner is. There are definite signs.

    • @Tockohead260
      @Tockohead260 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@katemiller7874 You're right, given unlimited time and perfect hindsight I, I realize now that there were signs of her unhappiness much earlier on. It might be helpful for you to understand that most people who are heavily invested in their relationship tend to have a very optimistic view about the cracks they see developing; that there'll always be time to address the small stuff. This is especially problematic if their partner is very good at maintaining a veneer of "everything's okay"; they may not have any idea how deep the damage goes behind the surface. My ex-spouse even admits that she constantly "wallpapered over" her problems with our relationship so I wouldn't know how she really felt.

    • @Bumblebee-jl3ur
      @Bumblebee-jl3ur 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm so sorry that happened to you. Stuff like that makes me not wanna get married. I'm sire you feel super used 😢

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Indeed😊

  • @erikcampen8276
    @erikcampen8276 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He’s sounds like a super nice man, giving, loving.
    And, at least in this case, that is his downfall.
    As my late father said, “Sometimes it’s better to be pissed off than pissed on.”

    • @RetirementbyDesign26
      @RetirementbyDesign26 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s profound and words to live by

  • @siegfriedbraun5447
    @siegfriedbraun5447 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I keep thinking "those poor kids"!

  • @jasonrodgers9063
    @jasonrodgers9063 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Wife is 55 and Mom to 11 YEAR OLD twins??!!
    HOLY GERIATRIC MAMA, BATMAN!

    • @SLB_888
      @SLB_888 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂

    • @jasonleatherwood2172
      @jasonleatherwood2172 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @bettygrable6440
      @bettygrable6440 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Sounds like IVF

    • @superblump87
      @superblump87 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@bettygrable6440for sure

    • @lizh4933
      @lizh4933 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bettygrable6440 InVoluntaryFukover.

  • @fauxbro1983
    @fauxbro1983 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    wife is gonna pull the zip cord on marriage and get the house lol

    • @JP-uy9kq
      @JP-uy9kq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah, maybe Peter knows this deep down.

    • @laundrygoddess4
      @laundrygoddess4 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's martial property regardless of whose name is on the bill. The debts are also marital sadly

    • @CoffeenSpice
      @CoffeenSpice 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@laundrygoddess4you mean marital? 😅

    • @NrthrnKnght
      @NrthrnKnght 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      she is having an affair too

  • @santafilipina9020
    @santafilipina9020 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    He is docile.

  • @Savedandfreed
    @Savedandfreed 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Im glad Dave was on this call. This dude needs some real brothers in his life to wake him up.

  • @Savedandfreed
    @Savedandfreed 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This is so messed up. Does he think letting his wife do whatever she wants is a strong marriage? Is that the leader he wants to be?

  • @Themoomabides
    @Themoomabides 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Peter is the first guy I’d ever tell to watch red pill videos to start evening him out.

    • @Dan16673
      @Dan16673 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lol

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    He's calling from a Nordstrom cafe.

    • @expectthabest951
      @expectthabest951 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      😂😂😂😂

    • @travisbickle1455
      @travisbickle1455 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Funny...but since the caller is Canadian, it is impossible since Nordstrom withdrew from Canada last year.

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I could tell by the sound of the environment.

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Dying

    • @superblump87
      @superblump87 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol

  • @kayn2756
    @kayn2756 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    This guy is delulu 😂😂😂

  • @BREEZYM6015
    @BREEZYM6015 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I inherited a 1979 El Camino and a mobile home from my dad. I decided to sell the mobile home because it was in Arizona and I live and work in Las Vegas. Plus the mobile home needed a lot of repairs and my dad still had a mortgage on it. I used the money from the sell of the mobile home to put a good chunk down to buy a townhome and I kept the El Camino because I didn't have a car prior to that.

  • @elizabethpieters7798
    @elizabethpieters7798 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    Simps are there own worst enemy. Geez.

    • @expectthabest951
      @expectthabest951 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      **Their** 😉

    • @bobjames6622
      @bobjames6622 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@expectthabest951 Yeah, alright, Karen!

  • @robloxvids2233
    @robloxvids2233 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "My marriage is strong" is about as good an example of cognitive dissonance as you can find.

  • @scottpegggoldenberg9736
    @scottpegggoldenberg9736 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Codependency is hard to overcome!

  • @furryplantsandcoins9070
    @furryplantsandcoins9070 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    She's an addict and needs to be treated as such! She needs help ... THEY NEED HELP!!

  • @jamaicaninthekitchen4358
    @jamaicaninthekitchen4358 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    So he is willing to throw away his inheirtance on her and he owns nothing.

  • @naca1553
    @naca1553 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I heard him say hundreds of thousands!

    • @jasonleatherwood2172
      @jasonleatherwood2172 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats what i heard my question is what card company gives anyone that much unsecured debt

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jasonleatherwood2172Lots of them.

    • @Archer335
      @Archer335 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He did indeed say hundreds - plural. Too sad for words.

  • @picadosinferno
    @picadosinferno 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The amount of red flags modern men ignore in order to be with someone is absolutely insane.

  • @d.j.daugherty4945
    @d.j.daugherty4945 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    The Simp machine Lol

  • @NatalieS-kh3ck
    @NatalieS-kh3ck 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "our marriage is strong" what is wrong with him? - also why does he allow her to handle the money? insanity!

  • @elizabethallen4353
    @elizabethallen4353 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Rachel is great.

  • @HoustonTom
    @HoustonTom 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Taking out a mortgage on a paid off gifted house. Thats spitting on your parents who gave it to you.

  • @Shadowwind4
    @Shadowwind4 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What about the next 100k of credit card debt she runs up after he pays off her mortgage? His inheritance will be gone and he’ll have to take out another mortgage after this one is paid off. NO WAY

  • @rustykatt3870
    @rustykatt3870 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Peter and his family live in Toronto. Toronto has the highest or second highest house prices in Canada.

    • @hilaryb8807
      @hilaryb8807 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right? That house is worth well over a million dollars.

  • @tofuhunter3797
    @tofuhunter3797 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    55 and 60 and 11 year old twins! Wow.

    • @sitcomchristian6886
      @sitcomchristian6886 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Probably IVF

    • @juliejohnson6753
      @juliejohnson6753 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We are 51 with an 11 year old. Sometimes it doesn't work when you want it to, so you accept it when it does .

    • @Rosediamond270
      @Rosediamond270 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sitcomchristian6886 yes, probably Ivf and most likely not her eggs, but donor eggs!

  • @CarnivoreStork
    @CarnivoreStork 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This was a difficult call to listen to. 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @aavhashBharti-bv9br
    @aavhashBharti-bv9br 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

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  • @kendrapratt2098
    @kendrapratt2098 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    “It got worser and worser”

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My life is betterereder and betterereder. 😂

  • @nordikcajun5417
    @nordikcajun5417 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Tell me, you are doormat without telling me that 🙄.

  • @robertbokke
    @robertbokke 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    No compulsive spender could sustain a healthy marriage.

  • @toddbrown9095
    @toddbrown9095 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Dude didn’t “pay” any credit cards off, he just transferred the debt from one bucket to another.

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    @ShankarKumar-m7s 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @raghavendraspoojary7074
    @raghavendraspoojary7074 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow … they managed to blame the guy by the end !!!!

  • @RussellSpjut
    @RussellSpjut 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The fact that he won't ask his wife to add his name to the deed when he's financially on the hook and married to her indictates some really deep problems. Unfortunately nice people are often easy for takers to take advantage of 😢

  • @betitos11
    @betitos11 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Don't pay off her debt. Its her debt and her house. Keep your inheritance for you.

  • @greggpurviance7252
    @greggpurviance7252 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Dude, get a backbone

    • @TM_Stone
      @TM_Stone 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I'm sure this guy would make breakfast for his wife's boyfriend at HER house.

    • @lizh4933
      @lizh4933 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TM_Stone Hahahahahaha!!!!

    • @penguin12902
      @penguin12902 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THIS. Get a spine!

  • @yxs3221
    @yxs3221 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    No wonder he is a Canadian 😂
    Regardless of the state of marriage, an American would have sounded aggressive.😅

  • @djpuplex
    @djpuplex 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Wheres Delony to ask if he safe? He's whispering.

  • @MyTremorJourney
    @MyTremorJourney 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    YOU NEED A TOUGH COUNSELLOR

  • @ohreally8259
    @ohreally8259 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Pay the house Peter… if you wanna be homeless when she divorces you

    • @gessrinky9129
      @gessrinky9129 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s on it too. He’s gonna have to buy her out to keep the house, square one.

    • @kimberlymartin459
      @kimberlymartin459 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If she don't stop the spending, all four are going to be homeless.

    • @lizh4933
      @lizh4933 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get a side by side refrigerator box. It has much more room.

  • @GAFB1122
    @GAFB1122 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Dave is 100% right about how ebablers may be the nicest and kindness people in the world BUT they do more harm than good!!
    I see it most with parents and their children. Also, many parents who enable their children also tend to be very hypocritical as they hold others to standards that they do not hold their children to. I personally know many of these people and I've observed many more.
    Shame, shame, shame!

    • @lizh4933
      @lizh4933 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I've worked in substance abuse rehab. The enabling is real.

  • @robloxvids2233
    @robloxvids2233 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Imagine this guy seeing a spider in his house. Probably runs out screaming.

  • @lochielongsocks3589
    @lochielongsocks3589 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The guy who called is one of the biggest pushover losers bro, kept masking excuses for his wife bad behaviour and her and his terrible decisions, dudes a chump

  • @alanj9978
    @alanj9978 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    People get a free house and will still be in debt when they should be retiring. With teenage kids.

    • @francismarion6400
      @francismarion6400 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      At least he funded the milkman's kids education.

  • @HangNguyen-ih8rf
    @HangNguyen-ih8rf 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    “Pay check to pay-check but i want to invest.”

    • @jochenkraus7016
      @jochenkraus7016 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The inheritance is additional money that you could put somewhere else.
      I think here's a risk she'll pile up debt again and the the additional money is gone and nothing has changed.

  • @maryknight6020
    @maryknight6020 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This guy needs a backbone!!!

  • @janise01
    @janise01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Strong marriage", 5 seconds later: "My name isn't on the house but it's on the mortgage to the house."
    Oh geez.
    I could understand not having a blood relative on the deed if this was an ancestral family home without a mortgage b/c you want to guarantee to keep it in your family no matter what. However this is just some house her parents loaned them the down payment for. There's no chance I'd ever be on the hook for any loan tied to an asset I don't have ownership rights to. That's nuts.

  • @luisvigo3777
    @luisvigo3777 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This man need to get his wife under control

  • @rustykatt3870
    @rustykatt3870 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is a heartbreaking call. I'm wondering when this family will loose their housing and become homeless. Are costs being put on credit cards because money is flowing to other things??? I wish this family and all of us the best.

  • @Lehlohonolokganakga
    @Lehlohonolokganakga 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'll agree to anything as long as there's a prenup

  • @nikkisigmon8090
    @nikkisigmon8090 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Im not the one to fight over money" = complete doormat. He's in this position and perfectly fine with it.

  • @JaneDoe-xy2os
    @JaneDoe-xy2os 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You know what, she will just use you…you will just get hurt….don’t trust people who are compulsive spender, believe me

  • @sloth9669
    @sloth9669 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    He’s a push over who married an addict. She’s doing her thing and he being who he is. Let them sink. He knows it’s wrong and does nothing but enable

  • @joelmartinez2278
    @joelmartinez2278 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    100K????....heck no......she apparently wears the pants in the relationship. This guy probably gets walked over by her and everyone else everyday.

  • @jimroscovius
    @jimroscovius 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "We worked hard and had kids." Waaah waaah waaah. So did we. My wife and I had kids and we both worked fulltime. Now, we're both 65 and we still both work. And we have no debt and a paid-off house!! Stop being a wimp and fix this!!

  • @Sizukun1
    @Sizukun1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    received a house as a gift, but has a mortgage on it, and has 11 year olds in his 60s? What a whirlwind of poor life choices for decades.

    • @sitcomchristian6886
      @sitcomchristian6886 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      IVF is a horrible decision, but leave the kids outta it bro

  • @allenwinters8103
    @allenwinters8103 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm mad!!!!! And i'm only 2 minutes in

  • @fenderstratplayer05
    @fenderstratplayer05 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When the Ramsey comes out in Rachel, she is at her best

  • @kokabr
    @kokabr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If he is paying the loan, he should have his name on the deed. And it's probably not a good idea to put his inherentance in her home because she'll probably ring up another hundred thousand in credit card debt and they'll have to get another mortgage. Better to use the inherentance money wisely. Also, maybe he shouldn't get a mortgage in his name if the house is in her name. At 60, he should be making wiser decisions.

  • @biggace2398
    @biggace2398 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love Papa Dave!❤

  • @talont1978
    @talont1978 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A fool and his money are easily parted

  • @schondra1993
    @schondra1993 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You don't ever have to feel bad for protecting yourself! Money isn't everything but it's important. He needs to stop simping and cover his behind. Esp since his wife has a history of not being trustworthy.

  • @rustykatt3870
    @rustykatt3870 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Peter in Toronto....are you reading these comments??

  • @tubenachos
    @tubenachos 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Our marriage is strong." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @IrishMexican
    @IrishMexican 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great advice and wisdom by the Ramsey fam here

  • @HanselFinancial
    @HanselFinancial 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Some people….I will never understand. lol

  • @Tashas_Travels
    @Tashas_Travels 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol 😂😂😂, i was embarrassed on his behalf. So sad

  • @SLangel18
    @SLangel18 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg what a push over! Poor guy. He should really grow a backbone

  • @FortuneSeek3rz
    @FortuneSeek3rz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    After you hang up the phone, file the divorce paper work..

  • @philipgerry5228
    @philipgerry5228 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He didn’t tell their income. Free house, too much debt. Need more income.