*"Woman Love being 'In Love',.. Until, They are 'Out-of-Love!¡"* ->So the Question Begs:: *"DO They Really ... 'Love',,,that is: 'Unconditionally'?"* *"A Man Then BECOMES, or Is Really, in the Beginning:: 'Just-a-Convenience '!¿¡"*
@jamesthegooner yea but what they WANT changes like the wind. Wants change with age, for all humans. The difference is men treat people like other humans. Woman treat humans like commodities
Women need to start repealing their privileges that were granted to them. Until then you can talk all you want, it will change nothing. Gl ladies you’re on your own.
@jragon9215 My point is she didn't want a wedding. No extravagant party. We went out to dinner later and went home. She didn't think planning a wedding was worth the hassle. She's not with me for the glamour.
And this Gentlemen is why I always say. " Just stay single " I've experienced it all first hand been married Been the Chad Been in more friend zones than I can count. Been in situationships Been in transactional relationships Been in open relationships Done it all. And it all leads to hell. Spare yourselves and focus on yourselves. Okay bye.
Wow! The next time someone asks me " what happened to your marriage? Why did you send her away?"..I will just share this link!😅. This describes the decline and fall of the West. Thanks Sarah! I could not have said it better, if I tried!!!
You just described my ex-wife perfectly. The first hint things were not going to be easy for me was just two weeks into our marriage she says to me at dinner, I think we are in a rut. She complained that we just go to work and do chores around the house. Adulting isn't for most women neither is accountability.
Okay, I can understand when people get into a rut after several years of marriage, but good grief, not two weeks!!! Your ex sounds like she's a Narcissistic Drama-Queen Karen, who's probably a babbling Airhead.
I asked my sewing instructor why wedding dresses don’t have a replaceable skirt hem. These dresses are made from expensive satin silk. Instructor said the wedding dress wasn’t expected to last more than one day. I asked “so these women buy these expensive dresses solely for bragging rights?” The answer was yes, the women just want a price tag to brag to their office mates.
Why don't more people realize that a woman's life is simply a competition with the women around her. It's not enough for a woman to win, all the others have to lose as well.
@@chadbennett7873 Well said, brother. My GF complained about the weight she gained over the Xmas holiday, which was maybe 2kg; nothing significant. I told her that I hadn't noticed and she was just as hot as ever. I also explained that despite working in a male-dominated industry (construction), I have never-not once-heard any straight man say he likes skinny women. But the number of guys I've heard say they like curves? I can't count that high. It made not an iota of difference to her; she wants to be slim because the women she works with are younger and thinner.
@EmreCanKorkmaz same with EVERYTHING ! It's all about the bragging rights to her girlfriends. It's sad really. Men... find a woman that is perfectly fine with getting married by the Clerk of the Peace at the courthouse, and you will know you have a keeper !
Weddings have the same effects on women as constantly being on Social Media addicted to attention she receives. For the married Men, be careful when these words come out of her mouth; “I’m Not Happy!” Your marriage is now on Borrowed Time! Well said Sara!
@@saraeatononshorts I hope one day you’ll do a long form video about your background, age, family, and why you decided to be a Men’s Rights Activists and a staunch Anti-Feminist. The Culture in the West needs an Army of Women like you to change it and get back to a society with stable long term marriages and Families are the norms again esp. for our society to survive let alone thrive.
When did all this start.? I’m asking because I graduated in 1983, and very few classmates were children of a single parent or divided home..very few. Many of the girls were actually friends with some of us guys..they’d hang out, party, go to concerts…and help split and stack firewood, throw hay bales, hunt deer - they were cool and didn’t come with an agenda. I notice the stark difference in society, and just wonder about the “where and when” of it all. Thank you - Excellent content. Well said.
This is why men need to stop fighting or worse unaliving eachother over a woman. She will say all the horrible things just to get that thrill of drama. Men need to walk away and let her be with her own misery.
So true. My ex girlfriend (post marriage) just invited her ex boyfriend to her birthday but also wanted me to come. Even though her ex has had disrespected me several times before, including groping her in front of me. How sick. I left her.
Those are emotional men that have invested their all into the relationship. That’s why you only give 80% in the relationship and keep 20% for yourself.
All a woman has to do to get a man to attack another is... 1. Constant Dick therapy to the new fool 2. Baiting the victim until he lashes out at her. 3. Go back to the new fool with this "evidence" and tell him. "I am afraid." 4. Fake crying and hysteria. Result is, a bad outcome for everyone caught in the spiders web.
That was always a boundary for me, even with close friends. I told one of my best friends for years, “I’ll back you up on anything, anywhere, anytime, but I am not fighting another man over some s*** your sister gets herself into.”
Women would destroy youtube and spawn riots before this could be made mandatory. They would label this mysoginistic redpill propaganda, many would ask if Sara is a doctor to diagnose narcissism and so on. Gaslighting in it's finest. Let's just post this video to our sons and daughters.
I worked in the wedding business for years and this is spot on. The moment the wedding ended women would burst into tears. They get hit with a $50-$100,000 bill for these weddings and it’s all over their whole life for a year or two before the wedding is about the wedding, they spent five minutes worrying about how to make a great marriage. And then guess who has to clean up the mess once it’s all over and she’s all depressed because she’s no longer the main character weddings are such a massive scam.
My ex was in the wedding design business. Decorations flowers etc etc. I helped her with every wedding she ever did but 2 then claimed I never supported her. It was my income that allowed her to chase her dream “business”. I think she saw all these happy brides and then looked at our life where all I did was work my two jobs and help her evenings and weekends and she wondered where it all went. She gave up on our marriage and her business. Now she’s working back at her old job. I am no longer walking on eggshells and being unappreciated for all the shit I did for her.
I built my wife her dream house. She designed the floor plan. I spent 2 years, every night after work, all vacations, building this house by hand. Never once was i thanked, just criicized for things not looking like she thought it would. 23 years later i am still in the house, which is fully paid off, and she is long gone. @@Cougs2894
I can only hope, that the teen kids are playing these videos to eachother in school. Unfortunately I did not learn any of this in school and got hit hard while learning by doing. LOL.
Worst part about all this is that I really believed in love. I really believed in life long partnership. Sacrifice. Doing whatever it took to adjust and coordinate together to make things work through both the good times and the bad. There are no modern women out there who think this way.
My new bride packed me a lunch before work exactly one time. Not that I asked for it but after that I noticed I never felt appreciated for my sense of duty to my family.
@TheBlackGlovesOfficial you're lucky you didn't have that once. We ended up getting divorced and I paid child support for 13 years to two boys who completely disregard me.
Since I cannot tell a broken one from one that functions until way down the road, I find it easy to live without women. I never think about them anymore after a few months of just giving up caring about dating and all that crap. I thought I would miss them more, but I really don't.
Here’s my analogy. Women are like pot. When you have pot you smoke pot. When you are a regular smoker and you run out or can’t smoke the first few days are not at all pleasant and you can’t sleep for shit. After about a week you get used to it, you get good sleep, and you start to feel better. As time goes by it becomes no big deal. Women are the same way. After a few months without sex you get used to it and you really don’t care (this, of course, is different for young men who exist in a hyper-testosterone state).
This needs to go viral. As a man I will never be able to help women self-reflect, much less look at their entire culture/society. The narcissism and feminism eating away at their culture is not something they will accept being pointed out by a man. But a woman... a woman could reach them, especially if the message takes this approach.
So just to be clear, she will never ever take accountability and responsibility for what she does. You could not have made a better video explaining it from A to z. God bless you
You just described and hit the nail on the head on every woman cheating story, post out there. Those types of women want the material, not the growing up and responsibility part. It seems they look at life thru the lens of a spoiled child, not an adult. It's a very destructive mindset.
MY PET PEEVE is there is absolutely no appreciation for a man to work 8-12 at a mind-crushing, back-breaking job just to see the lion's share of his income got to the benefit of SOMEONE ELSE. It's just expected entitlement.
That same "rock" that she loses down the drain or worse she hides her "rock" that she brags about just to cheat. No woman is worth that expensive rock just to be cheated, broken up, or divorced.
This video is so true I experienced this with my ex wife she loved being a girlfriend,fiancé,bride,young wife,mother but hated being my lover and emotionally abused me gaslighting me and given me the silent treatment, she could bash my family from time to time but I could never say negative things about her family she would fall apart and abuse me.
Sara, this is by far the best arc story of most modern women’s lives I have EVER seen…..EVER! The devastating truth is accountability is to a woman what kryptonite is to superman. The vast majority of women can’t stand videos like this one from Sara even though it literally lays out the brutal truth as to why they struggle with men, dating and relationships so much. Perhaps most devastating part for me as a man watching this video….it undermines if not shatters any faith and confidence I have in women’s ability to make SMART, RATIONAL AND RESPONSIBLE decisions. If your feelings dominate you and reason & personal responsibility ALWAYS take a back seat when making decisions….EVERY SINGLE TIME!?! That’s a recipe for a life of disaster!! My father always reminded me…SON, ALWAYS, ALWAYS ENSURE YOU HAVE AND DISPLAY EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE. It’s a lesson that’s ALWAYS served me well. In my humble opinion, most of today’s modern women refuse to humble themselves, be self aware and self reflect in order to self improve. This is why it would appear they lead a life cycle of continuous upsets, failures and disappointments. We men LIVE AND UNDERSTAND Sara’s video and it’s why we’re increasingly just checking out, have already checked out and are now just keeping to ourselves living our best lives. Sara…this video of yours deserves to go viral!! Great job! Gland slam home run!!
WoW as an 53 Afro American male, this lady’s wisdom is unprecedented, she universally broke down the #1 factor why these divorces, broken marriages, and relationships issues Amen 🙏 PREACH
Yup. I was the husband, paid for the marriage , the father, worked out of the home, raised my daughter, took her to and from school school, helped her with her homework, cooked all the meals, cleaned the house, did the yard, paid ALL the bills, paid off MY million dollar home in 15 years, paid for my daughters private school, and college tuition, and was cheated on. Divorced. Amazing because in my Ex’s mind it was ALL my fault. I suppose it was…….but Hey, I’m free. 😀
Half way through reading your post I started thinking: "And I bet she said it was all his fault!". So it was no surprise when I got to the end!!! 😂 We can laugh now, but I'm sorry you had to go through all of that. All the best. 😊
My ex threw a shit fit at an expensive steakhouse for a celebratory dinner IMMEADIATELY after getting married at the courthouse. I should've not only acknowledged to myself ahead of time that it was a poor decision, but should've not turned in the marriage license after her public freakout. A mistake I will never make again.
My god, you just described my last/current relationship! How did I not see all this? These women who think like this need help from professionals. Who does this? Who thinks this is just OK? It’s now the new normal? It’s really no surprise so many marriages fail nowadays, if many women think like this, how on Earth will this “trend” ever change? Its crazy. I sincerely, truly, am so so sad for the innocent children.
this is on point! and ill say this! as long as social media and dating apps exist this will only get worse! things will not get better, younger generations are growing up just like this thanks to social media
And there are many people who grew up being often ignored by their parents. Not exactly conducive to independence later on in life, despite popular opinion.
@@hananokuni2580 We have to examine why you think that - if someone is not giving you constant attention and validation and catering to your every whim - that person is ignoring you…
@@serendipitouscomet My guess is that they are making up for lost time, so to speak. Those who got plenty of attention when young don't always seek it out when older because they feel secure enough. As well, there is the culture factor. In some countries people tend to prefer being by themselves, whereas in others people like to be in proximity to each other..
@@hananokuni2580 No you’re not understanding my question. There’s a middle ground. It’s not showering someone with attention and validation or ignoring them. You can give your kids a normal amount of attention. The fact that you think it’s either or shows you were probably raised that way, to think that men have to completely cater to you with every action they make or they’re by default ignoring you. A man’s life shouldn’t revolve around you.
@ I failed to declare a couple of things. First, I am a man and second, I agree with what you stated. I will have to word things more carefully in the future. What I meant to say was that those who are obsessive when it comes to validation from others those who were often emotionally neglected in childhood tend to be the ones that exhibit this behavior. Being around someone like this can be and is often exhausting. More than a few parents distance themselves emotionally from their children in a bid to promote a sense of independence early on (which I personally consider to be putting the cart before the horse), leaving a void that the children try to fill throughout their lives. One example is when they expect a romantic partner to provide that which the parents had to provide _through a stable parent-child relationship_ in the first place. It is possible to overcome this, but it is by no means easy to do, since it's essentially a process of reprogramming the body and brain to behave differently in one's environment. Everyone else is able to strike a balance.
This video is genius! You perfectly described the path of many modern relationships when women are addicted to social media attention and validation. It's just sad that so many men today try to make things work without knowing that their relationships were a ticking bomb from the start.
The scary part is... This behavior is so common place and predictable, Sara describes my ex wife like they know each other. Roll that statment around for a min.
Damn girl. You just described my ex-wife pretty much exactly. She got all her life advice and expectations from TV and magazines, all trying to sell unrealistic fantasies for a dollar. This was before social media was what it is now. But it happened exactly as you describe. I learned a lot from that experience. But it all boils down to bad role models. Taking unrealistic, impractical advice from sources trying to get something from you. It programs people to self sabotage.
She will never stay in a relationship bro. Women like that will always get left. My wife used to talk shit to me to our infant son. She was the most disrespectful emotionally unsafe person
I had to rewatch this about 3-4 times. This is spot on, unfortunately after experiencing it I have zero intentions of getting into another relationship. It’s not worth it.
This young lady is 100% on target. Her wisdom is way beyond her years! Her brutal honesty is totally refreshing. THE TRUTH HURTS‼️ We almost never hear women tell the truth like she does. We need to find a way to help her spread her message. Please keep this website going, regardless of how much resistance you encounter from other women. You are telling the TRUTH‼️‼️
Well said.. I enjoy your candid.. No fluff and window dressing. It's amazing to hear from a women's view.. The obsession of attention and validation is just unbelievably exhausting. No wonder men don't want in on the carousel of chaos. Keep up the great work..
Get this woman's subscriber's numbers up!!! She IS the TRUTH. I dropped a bass lines in [F#] to your voice in this video. Now when I listen, the suspense is through the roof...you get it.
What laws could mandate against narcissism or lack of self growght if the society elected a perfect example of narcissist as it's president? Making it problematic to divorce would only make that man more unhappy. We need education on how to build relations slowly and carefully examining potential mates. We need to learn how to fall in love safely. How to back out of having sex on first date and how not to take people you've had sex with for granted.
@@MarcinWojtczuk Change laws that....incentivize women to file for divorce, that strip fathers of their rights to raise their own children, change laws to punish people who make false claims of violence or abuse, get rid of support payments and alimony. Start putting lawyers in jail who help women concoct false alligations of abuse. We have been governed by the rule of "happiness" for the last 50 years, and you can see how that worked out, and we are all tired of it. Even people who once benefited from it are tired of it. WE NEED REAL CHANGE. Not fuzzy feel good garbage talk.
@@MarcinWojtczuk Change laws that....incentivize women to file for divorce, that strip fathers of their rights to raise their own children, change laws to punish people who make false claims of violence or abuse, get rid of support payments and alimony. Start putting lawyers in jail who help women concoct false allegations of abuse. We have been governed by the rule of "happiness" for the last 50 years, and you can see how that worked out, and we are all tired of it. Even people who once benefited from it are tired of it. WE NEED REAL CHANGE. Not fuzzy feel good garbage talk.
Change laws that....incentivize women to file for divorce, that strip fathers of their rights to raise their own children, change laws to punish people who make false claims of violence or abuse, get rid of support payments and alimony. Start putting lawyers in jail who help women concoct false allegations of abuse. We have been governed by the rule of "happiness" for the last 50 years, and you can see how that worked out, and we are all tired of it. Even people who once benefited from it are tired of it. WE NEED REAL CHANGE. Not fuzzy feel good garbage talk.
This could be the single scariest video I've ever seen. No movie, no theatre performance, no injury, no witnessing of an accident... nothing tops this. I've seen it exactly this way....through friends. Hearing it being put together in a story / diary format is more confirmation. K. Bye.
OMG!!!! Yes! I’ve seen this with MULTIPLE women at work! Also, i remember the first time a woman called me a narcissist. It was when I found out the guy who was “just a friend” was actually “just her ex from high school” and I made it clear he needed to go. Damn, I’m such a narcissistic toxic insecure man.
Modern w-m-n are like : ATV's or Jet Ski's. You know you are not going to riding them everyday. You know you are going have to pay for the maintenance. And you know they lose value every year. So you are much better off just renting a new model when needed. A pro will treat you right so you become a repeat customer. A wife is already getting everything so why should she care.
I'll never forget when my ex-girlfriend and her bestie were drinking wine and talking about engagement rings and told me to not even bother proposing if the ring was less than $3k. $3k isn't a lot, this was 20 years ago, but I just thought it was odd how they had a dollar amount cut off the man was supposed to spend and let me know the amount.
Similar experience when I was dating a young girl after my divorce, she had mentioned $7k should be spent on a wedding ring, it was based off of a percentage of my annual income….I ditched her 7 years ago and no longer date or talk with any of these satanic beasts!
@@VagabondLifeOffMyYears It's weird bc the money could go to the downpayment on a home and you give them a nice ring and maybe later a nicer one, but get the downpayment for the house together first. And later when they go to the pawn shop after they initiate divorce they don't even get half for the expensive ring.
@@mondoenterprises6710if you find a woman that can understand and even live out this logical approach, you just may have one you can tolerate for 50 years
This is so interesting fr, women want the wedding without the marriage. She likes the idea of marriage not the reality of it. She lacks contentment, accountability and happiness. “She made a permanent decision based on temporary feelings”, that is spot on😭🙏
My daughter in law is exactly this. Social media junkie. How did she get the fix again? Overseas "Vow renewal" She's too narcissistic to ever have a child.
Amazing, Sara. ❤This should be taught in schools so that young people know what goes on OR what will go on and how to avoid it. I knew a woman who was happily married and she loved her husband (her words), but she also said she was "still looking for 'the one'" (the guy who rides up on a white horse to take her away to his castle). It's ridiculous.
This is the best psychoanalysis I’ve ever heard. Every woman should at least give this post a listen. We may all know someone who could benefit from this wisdom.
You nailed again Well done , im an old man now and nothing changes , before social media , it was a social group , church etc , mothers group, sport club for the kids ......the provider and protector is the alleged villian and perpitrator ....she will encourage other mothers who complain to leave their husbands and champion them untill she sets her own escape to greener grass .
Sara! Thank you Sister! In Spanish you say “Estas Clarita” or “tas Clarita” you are more clear than pricey mountain water! Wow! Such profound knowledge, I’ve lived through it, you are right! Cheers
Men are in love.
Women are in business.
Men value love.
Women love value.
The irony is that if women valued love like we did, they'd have everything they want
TRUTH 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
*"Woman Love being 'In Love',..
Until, They are 'Out-of-Love!¡"*
->So the Question Begs::
*"DO They Really ... 'Love',,,that is: 'Unconditionally'?"*
*"A Man Then BECOMES, or Is Really, in the Beginning:: 'Just-a-Convenience '!¿¡"*
Men seek value too. In the form of beauty, fertility, nurturing, chastity. Hard to love a woman that doesn't possess those
Profound
It's sad how accurate this is.
What is sad is how few men realize it before they get into a marriage and get dumped like a rotting fish and taken for anything he has 🤷♂️
True
Same with lots of men. Iam man and watched and noticed they pretend to be perfect but mask slips after 6 years of dating
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@z0mb1e564 why you think some guys who actually are single single choose not to date or entertain the idea of dating because of bs like this
They all want to be married but none want to be a wife and do wife stuff.
Mg tow is freedom
That’s her problem…because she couldn’t lock down who she’d WANT to be a wife for.
@jamesthegooner yea but what they WANT changes like the wind. Wants change with age, for all humans. The difference is men treat people like other humans. Woman treat humans like commodities
"Are you willing to cook" if the answer is no, end the conversation right there.
@@Meister333 huh? Don’t talk to me.
CELIBACY, gents.
Look into it.
Preach on, Sara. Women love the idea of marriage, not being married. Your description sums it rather well.
Women want a wedding but don't want to be wives.
Sara does a remarkable job in laying it all out. However, I am left with the thought that the majority of women are head cases.
I used to say that I felt like a manikin cut out at the wedding.... nobody gives a crap about the groom....
Women need to start repealing their privileges that were granted to them. Until then you can talk all you want, it will change nothing. Gl ladies you’re on your own.
💯💯 accurate social media has destroyed woman nowadays
I've said for a long time, Women today want the Wedding - Not the Marriage.
My wife and I got married at the county clerk's office. She's a good woman.
Me too
@@Robert-qw3lrshe’s a good woman right now
@jragon9215 My point is she didn't want a wedding. No extravagant party. We went out to dinner later and went home. She didn't think planning a wedding was worth the hassle. She's not with me for the glamour.
They should marry each other
And this Gentlemen is why I always say.
" Just stay single "
I've experienced it all first hand
been married
Been the Chad
Been in more friend zones than I can count.
Been in situationships
Been in transactional relationships
Been in open relationships
Done it all.
And it all leads to hell.
Spare yourselves and focus on yourselves.
Okay bye.
Correct 👍
Absolutely 1,000% Correct!
Facts
Wow! The next time someone asks me " what happened to your marriage? Why did you send her away?"..I will just share this link!😅. This describes the decline and fall of the West. Thanks Sarah! I could not have said it better, if I tried!!!
sex workers for the win!
You just described my ex-wife perfectly. The first hint things were not going to be easy for me was just two weeks into our marriage she says to me at dinner, I think we are in a rut. She complained that we just go to work and do chores around the house. Adulting isn't for most women neither is accountability.
Okay, I can understand when people get into a rut after several years of marriage, but good grief, not two weeks!!!
Your ex sounds like she's a Narcissistic Drama-Queen Karen, who's probably a babbling Airhead.
Mine too !!
Accountability is kryptonite to a majority of women today.
Wow, there's goldfish with greater attention spans.
Had the same experience... Like what did they expect being an adult was going to be? Especially in your 20s when you start with nothing!
I asked my sewing instructor why wedding dresses don’t have a replaceable skirt hem. These dresses are made from expensive satin silk. Instructor said the wedding dress wasn’t expected to last more than one day. I asked “so these women buy these expensive dresses solely for bragging rights?” The answer was yes, the women just want a price tag to brag to their office mates.
Yes
Same with diamonds.
Why don't more people realize that a woman's life is simply a competition with the women around her. It's not enough for a woman to win, all the others have to lose as well.
@@chadbennett7873 Well said, brother. My GF complained about the weight she gained over the Xmas holiday, which was maybe 2kg; nothing significant. I told her that I hadn't noticed and she was just as hot as ever. I also explained that despite working in a male-dominated industry (construction), I have never-not once-heard any straight man say he likes skinny women. But the number of guys I've heard say they like curves? I can't count that high. It made not an iota of difference to her; she wants to be slim because the women she works with are younger and thinner.
@EmreCanKorkmaz same with EVERYTHING ! It's all about the bragging rights to her girlfriends. It's sad really. Men... find a woman that is perfectly fine with getting married by the Clerk of the Peace at the courthouse, and you will know you have a keeper !
Weddings have the same effects on women as constantly being on Social Media addicted to attention she receives.
For the married Men, be careful when these words come out of her mouth; “I’m Not Happy!” Your marriage is now on Borrowed Time!
Well said Sara!
You’re welcome
@@saraeatononshorts I hope one day you’ll do a long form video about your background, age, family, and why you decided to be a Men’s Rights Activists and a staunch Anti-Feminist. The Culture in the West needs an Army of Women like you to change it and get back to a society with stable long term marriages and Families are the norms again esp. for our society to survive let alone thrive.
And also "you're boring."
When did all this start.?
I’m asking because I graduated in 1983, and very few classmates were children of a single parent or divided home..very few.
Many of the girls were actually friends with some of us guys..they’d hang out, party, go to concerts…and help split and stack firewood, throw hay bales, hunt deer - they were cool and didn’t come with an agenda.
I notice the stark difference in society, and just wonder about the “where and when” of it all.
Thank you - Excellent content.
Well said.
@@MIDNIGHTSUNALASKAsame
They all want to be a bride. Few want to be a WIFE.
Spot on!
This is why men need to stop fighting or worse unaliving eachother over a woman. She will say all the horrible things just to get that thrill of drama. Men need to walk away and let her be with her own misery.
Too many men are violent turbo simps. Stay strapped.
So true. My ex girlfriend (post marriage) just invited her ex boyfriend to her birthday but also wanted me to come.
Even though her ex has had disrespected me several times before, including groping her in front of me.
How sick. I left her.
Those are emotional men that have invested their all into the relationship. That’s why you only give 80% in the relationship and keep 20% for yourself.
All a woman has to do to get a man to attack another is...
1. Constant Dick therapy to the new fool
2. Baiting the victim until he lashes out at her.
3. Go back to the new fool with this "evidence" and tell him. "I am afraid."
4. Fake crying and hysteria.
Result is, a bad outcome for everyone caught in the spiders web.
That was always a boundary for me, even with close friends.
I told one of my best friends for years, “I’ll back you up on anything, anywhere, anytime, but I am not fighting another man over some s*** your sister gets herself into.”
This video should be mandatory to watch before any state issues a wedding license!
Yeah, yeah….like it used to be mandatory or close to it, to watch car wrecks on film before one wanted to learn how to drive.
Women would destroy youtube and spawn riots before this could be made mandatory. They would label this mysoginistic redpill propaganda, many would ask if Sara is a doctor to diagnose narcissism and so on. Gaslighting in it's finest.
Let's just post this video to our sons and daughters.
😂😂😂
Government issued piece of paper. To extort more money from men. Figure out marraige yet??
I worked in the wedding business for years and this is spot on. The moment the wedding ended women would burst into tears. They get hit with a $50-$100,000 bill for these weddings and it’s all over their whole life for a year or two before the wedding is about the wedding, they spent five minutes worrying about how to make a great marriage. And then guess who has to clean up the mess once it’s all over and she’s all depressed because she’s no longer the main character weddings are such a massive scam.
My ex was in the wedding design business. Decorations flowers etc etc. I helped her with every wedding she ever did but 2 then claimed I never supported her. It was my income that allowed her to chase her dream “business”. I think she saw all these happy brides and then looked at our life where all I did was work my two jobs and help her evenings and weekends and she wondered where it all went. She gave up on our marriage and her business. Now she’s working back at her old job.
I am no longer walking on eggshells and being unappreciated for all the shit I did for her.
Wow !! Thanks for the wisdom. Real eye opener !!
I built my wife her dream house. She designed the floor plan. I spent 2 years, every night after work, all vacations, building this house by hand. Never once was i thanked, just criicized for things not looking like she thought it would.
23 years later i am still in the house, which is fully paid off, and she is long gone. @@Cougs2894
I agree. Weddings are the biggest scam going…
It called the wedding - marriage - divorce complex. The biggest racket there is.
If every female were like you, there would be no divorce
This woman is amazing. This video should be played everywhere! ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you…
I can only hope, that the teen kids are playing these videos to eachother in school.
Unfortunately I did not learn any of this in school and got hit hard while learning by doing. LOL.
@@saraeatononshorts
The truth is self-evident and immutable.
You have a great mind.
Grateful I am.
@@saraeatononshortsNo, Thank you.
@@saraeatononshorts Dopamine hits you nailed it Sara 🎯
Wow, a brilliant rendition of every woman's story. Women want a man to love them, men want a woman to love. Who's the narcissist?
The one who is incapable of stability, craving attention, validation and excitement.
Summed it all up in under 9 minutes. It’s all true - been there seen it heard the exact same words as you just described. Take note gents.
That was hard lol .. and glitches for longer videos
@ haha treat yourself to a drink after that one.
Worst part about all this is that I really believed in love. I really believed in life long partnership. Sacrifice. Doing whatever it took to adjust and coordinate together to make things work through both the good times and the bad. There are no modern women out there who think this way.
Marriage used to be about surviving and getting through life together. Modern society’s technology and conveniences has made it not so anymore.
That's why it's called the Bpill. Live and learn. And turn that tv off. Better yet throw it out.
Men are looking forward to the marriage. Women are looking forward to the wedding.
and divorce
The marriage solidifies the cash and prizes during the exit stage.
Are we looking forward to the marriage? Why would we? There is nothing positive at the end of the tunnel
@@GodhandPlusOne I was referring to blue-pilled men.
This is a MUST SEE for young men and those contemplating marriage.
This is the single best commentary on modern women I have seen.
My new bride packed me a lunch before work exactly one time. Not that I asked for it but after that I noticed I never felt appreciated for my sense of duty to my family.
She probably thought that was to much effort and said “never again”
A wife who adores her husband will pack lunch everyday.
You're lucky. I never had that once.
@TheBlackGlovesOfficial you're lucky you didn't have that once. We ended up getting divorced and I paid child support for 13 years to two boys who completely disregard me.
@@MikeGathercole I sickens me just to read this. I'm sorry man.
Since I cannot tell a broken one from one that functions until way down the road, I find it easy to live without women. I never think about them anymore after a few months of just giving up caring about dating and all that crap. I thought I would miss them more, but I really don't.
Here’s my analogy. Women are like pot. When you have pot you smoke pot. When you are a regular smoker and you run out or can’t smoke the first few days are not at all pleasant and you can’t sleep for shit. After about a week you get used to it, you get good sleep, and you start to feel better. As time goes by it becomes no big deal. Women are the same way. After a few months without sex you get used to it and you really don’t care (this, of course, is different for young men who exist in a hyper-testosterone state).
how 'bout kids?
I agree. except: THEY make the kids...
This needs to go viral. As a man I will never be able to help women self-reflect, much less look at their entire culture/society. The narcissism and feminism eating away at their culture is not something they will accept being pointed out by a man. But a woman... a woman could reach them, especially if the message takes this approach.
" Going through Life seeking External Validation " Great video! Peace out
Holy fuck she cooked a full course meal! I like how she always ends with a simple “ok bye” 😂
So just to be clear, she will never ever take accountability and responsibility for what she does. You could not have made a better video explaining it from A to z. God bless you
Thank you for validating what every discarded guy who has been that “ husband” has had to live through.
NO LIES WERE TOLD🗣️
You just described and hit the nail on the head on every woman cheating story, post out there. Those types of women want the material, not the growing up and responsibility part. It seems they look at life thru the lens of a spoiled child, not an adult. It's a very destructive mindset.
MY PET PEEVE is there is absolutely no appreciation for a man to work 8-12 at a mind-crushing, back-breaking job just to see the lion's share of his income got to the benefit of SOMEONE ELSE. It's just expected entitlement.
The Ok bye always gets me chuckling. Thank you for your honesty.
I love that too.
That same "rock" that she loses down the drain or worse she hides her "rock" that she brags about just to cheat. No woman is worth that expensive rock just to be cheated, broken up, or divorced.
Huge warning sign. Chick who requires big ring and fancy wedding. They're easy to weed out. The B-man never ceases to amaze.
This video is so true I experienced this with my ex wife she loved being a girlfriend,fiancé,bride,young wife,mother but hated being my lover and emotionally abused me gaslighting me and given me the silent treatment, she could bash my family from time to time but I could never say negative things about her family she would fall apart and abuse me.
Been there, done that.
Eventually they do hate being your lover… bait and switch… such a waste of time
We must have married/divorced the same woman.
Tell your son's to be psychiatrists.
Endless employment
You can't raise children for a lifetime with a wife that is a child.
Sara, this is by far the best arc story of most modern women’s lives I have EVER seen…..EVER!
The devastating truth is accountability is to a woman what kryptonite is to superman. The vast majority of women can’t stand videos like this one from Sara even though it literally lays out the brutal truth as to why they struggle with men, dating and relationships so much.
Perhaps most devastating part for me as a man watching this video….it undermines if not shatters any faith and confidence I have in women’s ability to make SMART, RATIONAL AND RESPONSIBLE decisions.
If your feelings dominate you and reason & personal responsibility ALWAYS take a back seat when making decisions….EVERY SINGLE TIME!?! That’s a recipe for a life of disaster!!
My father always reminded me…SON, ALWAYS, ALWAYS ENSURE YOU HAVE AND DISPLAY EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE. It’s a lesson that’s ALWAYS served me well.
In my humble opinion, most of today’s modern women refuse to humble themselves, be self aware and self reflect in order to self improve. This is why it would appear they lead a life cycle of continuous upsets, failures and disappointments.
We men LIVE AND UNDERSTAND Sara’s video and it’s why we’re increasingly just checking out, have already checked out and are now just keeping to ourselves living our best lives.
Sara…this video of yours deserves to go viral!! Great job! Gland slam home run!!
WoW as an 53 Afro American male, this lady’s wisdom is unprecedented, she universally broke down the #1 factor why these divorces, broken marriages, and relationships issues Amen 🙏 PREACH
100% based
sheer lunacy
Based on what?
I always wondered why some women thought the wedding was everything, but forget the marriage is 10000 times more important.???
The more expensive the wedding, the higher is the chance of divorce.
Damn, Sara is the truth. Everyone needs to hear this. This is the real state of relationships with modern day women.
Yup. I was the husband, paid for the marriage , the father, worked out of the home, raised my daughter, took her to and from school school, helped her with her homework, cooked all the meals, cleaned the house, did the yard, paid ALL the bills, paid off MY million dollar home in 15 years, paid for my daughters private school, and college tuition, and was cheated on. Divorced. Amazing because in my Ex’s mind it was ALL my fault. I suppose it was…….but
Hey, I’m free. 😀
Half way through reading your post I started thinking:
"And I bet she said it was all his fault!".
So it was no surprise when I got to the end!!! 😂
We can laugh now, but I'm sorry you had to go through all of that.
All the best. 😊
You probably already know this, but just reaffirming here that you are indeed a wonderful man that I hope to be like one day.
Ofcourse it's your fault. Shame on you for being a great husband and a loving caring father!! How dare you!!
*LOL*. That’s what she said. 😀
Sara, you are so right, spot on and real all the time. Thank you for opening our eyes! 👀
My ex threw a shit fit at an expensive steakhouse for a celebratory dinner IMMEADIATELY after getting married at the courthouse. I should've not only acknowledged to myself ahead of time that it was a poor decision, but should've not turned in the marriage license after her public freakout. A mistake I will never make again.
You’re amazing Sara! Thanks for clearing this all up
My god, you just described my last/current relationship! How did I not see all this? These women who think like this need help from professionals. Who does this? Who thinks this is just OK? It’s now the new normal? It’s really no surprise so many marriages fail nowadays, if many women think like this, how on Earth will this “trend” ever change? Its crazy. I sincerely, truly, am so so sad for the innocent children.
this is on point! and ill say this! as long as social media and dating apps exist this will only get worse! things will not get better, younger generations are growing up just like this thanks to social media
All "girls" are mommy...Daddy look at me, buy me, entertain me! from cradle to grave there is never any change!
And there are many people who grew up being often ignored by their parents. Not exactly conducive to independence later on in life, despite popular opinion.
@@hananokuni2580 We have to examine why you think that - if someone is not giving you constant attention and validation and catering to your every whim - that person is ignoring you…
@@serendipitouscomet My guess is that they are making up for lost time, so to speak. Those who got plenty of attention when young don't always seek it out when older because they feel secure enough.
As well, there is the culture factor. In some countries people tend to prefer being by themselves, whereas in others people like to be in proximity to each other..
@@hananokuni2580 No you’re not understanding my question. There’s a middle ground. It’s not showering someone with attention and validation or ignoring them. You can give your kids a normal amount of attention. The fact that you think it’s either or shows you were probably raised that way, to think that men have to completely cater to you with every action they make or they’re by default ignoring you. A man’s life shouldn’t revolve around you.
@ I failed to declare a couple of things. First, I am a man and second, I agree with what you stated.
I will have to word things more carefully in the future. What I meant to say was that those who are obsessive when it comes to validation from others those who were often emotionally neglected in childhood tend to be the ones that exhibit this behavior. Being around someone like this can be and is often exhausting. More than a few parents distance themselves emotionally from their children in a bid to promote a sense of independence early on (which I personally consider to be putting the cart before the horse), leaving a void that the children try to fill throughout their lives. One example is when they expect a romantic partner to provide that which the parents had to provide _through a stable parent-child relationship_ in the first place. It is possible to overcome this, but it is by no means easy to do, since it's essentially a process of reprogramming the body and brain to behave differently in one's environment. Everyone else is able to strike a balance.
What a brilliant crystallization of the hunger for validation, without any foothold on the worth of real life beyond themselves.
This video is genius! You perfectly described the path of many modern relationships when women are addicted to social media attention and validation. It's just sad that so many men today try to make things work without knowing that their relationships were a ticking bomb from the start.
Give this woman the nobel peace prize. She knows what she is saying.
Amen to that. Forget these melons who actually get the peace prize. THIS will bring peace to billions of people if only they knew
The scary part is...
This behavior is so common place and predictable, Sara describes my ex wife like they know each other. Roll that statment around for a min.
Damn girl. You just described my ex-wife pretty much exactly. She got all her life advice and expectations from TV and magazines, all trying to sell unrealistic fantasies for a dollar. This was before social media was what it is now. But it happened exactly as you describe. I learned a lot from that experience. But it all boils down to bad role models. Taking unrealistic, impractical advice from sources trying to get something from you. It programs people to self sabotage.
Damn, sounds just like my ex-wife
😢
@ , it was a blessing Sara, I just feel bad for my boys . Thanks for your videos, you’re awesome!
Wow! What a gig.
I didn't hear about it until years later, but on our wedding night, my ex wife was crying and called her mother, because reality had hit her...
FFS 😅
“Motherhood isn’t what she thought it was.” Yes, it’s about the kids, not the mother.
I remember when I was about to get divorced, my wife started calling me "Turd" instead of my name to my daughter. At that point I was 100% out.
She will never stay in a relationship bro. Women like that will always get left. My wife used to talk shit to me to our infant son. She was the most disrespectful emotionally unsafe person
Evil
I would not change a single word.
Facts and wisdom
Damn… She speaks the truth.
Thank you 🩷
I had to rewatch this about 3-4 times. This is spot on, unfortunately after experiencing it I have zero intentions of getting into another relationship. It’s not worth it.
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Weddings were a way for royalty and aristocracy to show off their wealth.
Poor people would just have simple weddings.
This is something everyone has to remember.
The book The Jungle illustrates the effects of an expensive wedding for struggling people.
And just like that the clouds parted in the sky and the heavens shined down on earth. I feel like 50 years of feminism was just murdered.
No wonder all the jewelers are closing and offering 70% off.
This is the most glorious rant I have heard in years! The best and yet tragic part is that it's all true.
This is exactly why I’m single.
This young lady is 100% on target.
Her wisdom is way beyond her years!
Her brutal honesty is totally refreshing.
THE TRUTH HURTS‼️
We almost never hear women tell the truth like she does.
We need to find a way to help her spread her message.
Please keep this website going, regardless of how much resistance you encounter from other women.
You are telling the TRUTH‼️‼️
This is terrifying. I feel so sorry for young men
Wow! This is absolute GOLD! Well done. There needs to be a new song called It’s All About The Dopamine by someone other than Diddy.
Well said.. I enjoy your candid.. No fluff and window dressing. It's amazing to hear from a women's view.. The obsession of attention and validation is just unbelievably exhausting. No wonder men don't want in on the carousel of chaos. Keep up the great work..
Facts!!!!
I lived it
A very sober look at marriage and expectations.
Ugh. Sara is all too accurate with this assessment. 😂
This is incredible, never seen a woman cook this hard.
Get this woman's subscriber's numbers up!!! She IS the TRUTH. I dropped a bass lines in [F#] to your voice in this video. Now when I listen, the suspense is through the roof...you get it.
Where can we hear it?
Holy crap! This is gold!
Thank you!
Unfortunately she’s 💯 on point.
DANG.
This flawlessly characterized modern brides & modern wives...whoa
Preach!!
By the way, this woman needs to explain this to congress! Maybe some laws will finally change. Our society is really sick right now.
What laws could mandate against narcissism or lack of self growght if the society elected a perfect example of narcissist as it's president? Making it problematic to divorce would only make that man more unhappy. We need education on how to build relations slowly and carefully examining potential mates. We need to learn how to fall in love safely. How to back out of having sex on first date and how not to take people you've had sex with for granted.
@@MarcinWojtczuk Change laws that....incentivize women to file for divorce, that strip fathers of their rights to raise their own children, change laws to punish people who make false claims of violence or abuse, get rid of support payments and alimony. Start putting lawyers in jail who help women concoct false alligations of abuse. We have been governed by the rule of "happiness" for the last 50 years, and you can see how that worked out, and we are all tired of it. Even people who once benefited from it are tired of it. WE NEED REAL CHANGE. Not fuzzy feel good garbage talk.
@@MarcinWojtczuk Change laws that....incentivize women to file for divorce, that strip fathers of their rights to raise their own children, change laws to punish people who make false claims of violence or abuse, get rid of support payments and alimony. Start putting lawyers in jail who help women concoct false allegations of abuse. We have been governed by the rule of "happiness" for the last 50 years, and you can see how that worked out, and we are all tired of it. Even people who once benefited from it are tired of it. WE NEED REAL CHANGE. Not fuzzy feel good garbage talk.
Change laws that....incentivize women to file for divorce, that strip fathers of their rights to raise their own children, change laws to punish people who make false claims of violence or abuse, get rid of support payments and alimony. Start putting lawyers in jail who help women concoct false allegations of abuse. We have been governed by the rule of "happiness" for the last 50 years, and you can see how that worked out, and we are all tired of it. Even people who once benefited from it are tired of it. WE NEED REAL CHANGE. Not fuzzy feel good garbage talk.
@@MarcinWojtczuk More woke nonsense. People are tired of the feel good, fuzzy happiness narrative. WE NEED REAL CHANGE TO FIX THIS MESS.
Kids 12-16yrs NEED to see this every month, especially young MEN!!!🤔🤩
Thats why there are more divorces now
This could be the single scariest video I've ever seen. No movie, no theatre performance, no injury, no witnessing of an accident... nothing tops this. I've seen it exactly this way....through friends. Hearing it being put together in a story / diary format is more confirmation. K. Bye.
OMG!!!! Yes! I’ve seen this with MULTIPLE women at work! Also, i remember the first time a woman called me a narcissist. It was when I found out the guy who was “just a friend” was actually “just her ex from high school” and I made it clear he needed to go. Damn, I’m such a narcissistic toxic insecure man.
Modern w-m-n are like : ATV's or Jet Ski's. You know you are not going to riding them everyday. You know you are going have to pay for the maintenance. And you know they lose value every year. So you are much better off just renting a new model when needed. A pro will treat you right so you become a repeat customer. A wife is already getting everything so why should she care.
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Sara - I love your content and especially your final phrase: „kby!“
I'll never forget when my ex-girlfriend and her bestie were drinking wine and talking about engagement rings and told me to not even bother proposing if the ring was less than $3k. $3k isn't a lot, this was 20 years ago, but I just thought it was odd how they had a dollar amount cut off the man was supposed to spend and let me know the amount.
Similar experience when I was dating a young girl after my divorce, she had mentioned $7k should be spent on a wedding ring, it was based off of a percentage of my annual income….I ditched her 7 years ago and no longer date or talk with any of these satanic beasts!
@@VagabondLifeOffMyYears It's weird bc the money could go to the downpayment on a home and you give them a nice ring and maybe later a nicer one, but get the downpayment for the house together first. And later when they go to the pawn shop after they initiate divorce they don't even get half for the expensive ring.
@@mondoenterprises6710if you find a woman that can understand and even live out this logical approach, you just may have one you can tolerate for 50 years
Fake jewelry for fake females. Spend your money on something useful .
That would have been the end of the relationship right there if it was me
For this to be so true and increasingly uniform is sad. Man from Uganda, East Africa and i can relate!
Oh god. Throwing truth bombs.
It seems marriages today come with a "expiration/sell by/shelf life date" this installment offers a way for decoding that date.
This is so interesting fr, women want the wedding without the marriage. She likes the idea of marriage not the reality of it. She lacks contentment, accountability and happiness. “She made a permanent decision based on temporary feelings”, that is spot on😭🙏
Thank you for your honesty!
Thank you!!!
Bravo, well said. Excellent job decoding modern women behavior.
My daughter in law is exactly this. Social media junkie. How did she get the fix again? Overseas "Vow renewal" She's too narcissistic to ever have a child.
Thanks for taking the time to make this honest vid. It's so accurate, it should accumulate millions of views.
Good advice, keep your guard up.
Amazing, Sara. ❤This should be taught in schools so that young people know what goes on OR what will go on and how to avoid it.
I knew a woman who was happily married and she loved her husband (her words), but she also said she was "still looking for 'the one'" (the guy who rides up on a white horse to take her away to his castle). It's ridiculous.
The other side of green grass is not greener grass.....
Its DIRT!!! 🪦
😂😂😂🎉🎉
Peace of mind and freedom forever!!!😂😂
It’s greener because it’s growing over someone’s septic system.
This is the best psychoanalysis I’ve ever heard. Every woman should at least give this post a listen. We may all know someone who could benefit from this wisdom.
You nailed again
Well done , im an old man now and nothing changes , before social media , it was a social group , church etc , mothers group, sport club for the kids ......the provider and protector is the alleged villian and perpitrator ....she will encourage other mothers who complain to leave their husbands and champion them untill she sets her own escape to greener grass .
Even the most beautiful w-m-n out there that guys are chasing, there is guy out there that got tired of her B.S.
Sara! Thank you Sister! In Spanish you say “Estas Clarita” or “tas Clarita” you are more clear than pricey mountain water! Wow! Such profound knowledge, I’ve lived through it, you are right!
Cheers