We Need Sex (Soul Ties, Covenants and Emotional Bonding for a Healthy Sex Life)

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  • @maryade4416
    @maryade4416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    This video is soo AMAZINGGGG. This is the “sex” talk the church needs to have with singles. EXPLAINNNN whyyyy we aren’t meant to be having sex without bashing sex and scaring people into purity. You guys are amazing as usual 💕

    • @alkelangaspard
      @alkelangaspard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yessss I was thinking the same thing! This was so good 👌🏽

  • @chanellmichelle
    @chanellmichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    The video just started and I’m already prepared for Vicky acting like a 10 year old the whole time. I love her. 💀

    • @everythingiswe
      @everythingiswe  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😂😂 get ready for the giggles

  • @kellyannr
    @kellyannr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I love how bold you guys are for the kingdom of God even when it may be uncomfortable to do so. I also love that Cam says things as is without compromise. I really pray that God uses you guys MAJORLY in this realm to overturn every negativity associated with Godly covenants. This is NEEDED. You guys are NEEDED.

  • @tonielease4301
    @tonielease4301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I was not even prepared for how deep this conversation is. But I am also so grateful for this information. As a young adult I just thought sex was casual; but this conversation makes me think about Jesus conversation with the woman at the well. This is such an important conversation for all people. Glory to God for making us so intentionally. 🙏

  • @naomib3804
    @naomib3804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is good!! I didn’t think the conversation would go that far but I ain’t MADDDDD!

  • @deebestest100
    @deebestest100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Cam: not to sound churchy and deep
    Me: PLEASE DO IT!

  • @Affranchie
    @Affranchie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Vicky, I get you about not watching certain shows. I consistently skip the sex scenes because I have a vivid mind an vivid dreams too, and I sure don't need THAT in my mind.

  • @AIClaw22
    @AIClaw22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This transparency will heal our people. God bless you both. Praise Him! 🙏🏾💕

  • @DaniSprowl
    @DaniSprowl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’m here for this podcast!!! Y’all don’t sugarcoat it! Thank you!

  • @user-eo5qr6te8q
    @user-eo5qr6te8q 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I honestly love these honest conversations and just as an additional point, I think we should also reinforce the fact that 'Consent' still very much applies to marriage. God has created sex for us to enjoy and share within marriage and as you guys mentioned, we shouldn't be selfish with our bodies, nevertheless, your body should not be violated by your spouse and your consent is still necessary. Thank you guys for your platform!

    • @everythingiswe
      @everythingiswe  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely, we consider each other and don’t FORCE each other to do anything, because that wouldn’t be fair or enjoyable or comfortable. We never want to hurt our spouses

  • @thesoulfoodpodcast
    @thesoulfoodpodcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Listennn Sister Vicky we don't think you not watching certain things on TV is childish like Cameron said, "that's wisdom." Anyone who thinks that's childish is either ignorant, naïve or in denial. Personally, I don't listen to secular music in general and I'm not saying that everyone else has to have that same conviction but I know myself and the effects listening to that kind of music has on my mind and actions and the more I grow in my walk with God, the less I desire listening to that sort of music anyways. Plus your dad's truth behind hip hop DVDs also gave me more understanding and strength in that area so I'm GOOD. Shout out Pastor Lewis! So, keep protecting your soul and guarding your heart sis. Thanks for the upload, I feel like the moral of today's topic is you have to deposit emotional intimacy in your love bank before you can make withdrawals because just like in everything else in life you get what you put in!

  • @official1kirsty165
    @official1kirsty165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I can tell Vicky boutta be goofy asl😂😂I’m so here for it🥰♥️

  • @etrinaatterberry5801
    @etrinaatterberry5801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Victoria you are not childish. Not at all. It's important to protect yourself from what you know is destructive. I very much appreciate your transparency.

  • @CSALayouts
    @CSALayouts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    First of all HOW WHY y’all do us like this?????? 😩This message was fire 🔥. As a married woman shoot..... Maaaaaaan listen I’m convicted for my mindset regarding sex/marriage/and the connection there of....This was powerful 🗣PERIOD!!!! Everything is we University hitting 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.

  • @ZoeysMusings
    @ZoeysMusings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "You are cute but not cute enough for my salvation." 😂😂 Thank you for having this important conversation. Soul ties are a real thing and unless you understand the weight and true significance of covenants, you'll never get why you should be married when engaging in sexual acts 🙌🏽👏🏽💯

  • @brandyecropper1780
    @brandyecropper1780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Couples like the Logan’s that are in agreement on things they both value, is so refreshing🥺👏🏽 love you both for your transparency❤️

    • @everythingiswe
      @everythingiswe  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you! It baffles us that people actually commit to life long relationships without agreeing on core values. That’s so underrated. A relationship is nothing without a solid foundation of shared respect, values and belief systems.

  • @MizzNekia
    @MizzNekia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so glad I found you guys again!! I looked up people who went to Dubai 3 years ago before my husband and I went for his birthday and I loved the videos! The dynamic of your relationship reminded me of ours! So happy that you guys started a podcast we can both watch/listen , learn and create open dialogue! God is moving! ❤️

  • @iamlisaevans
    @iamlisaevans 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Y’all taught on today! I’m like you Vicky. I can’t watch explicit content either. It pops up in my dreams real quick.

  • @Anis971
    @Anis971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Watching from France for yeaaarsss (since your marriage) I just subscribe to your podcast channel and I love it !! Thank you for sharing those things with us guys 🙏🏾 I’m now 25, single but I listen very carefully each and every advice and experience that you giving us. Thank you for this, God bless you 🙏🏾

  • @fiocherry
    @fiocherry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ive been watching Vicky's person beauty channel since I was in middle school, and now Im about to graduate college and I just want to let yall know what a pleasure it is to listen to your podcast!
    I appreciate how real yall keep it and you keep God at the center of everything and share that too!! Both of you always bring up such good points and also show us what a God centered marriage looks like (respectful of each other, loving, kind, humble, serving each other etc.)
    I really hope marriage is in God's plan for me but whether it is or isnt, I always feel encouraged to keep walking with Jesus after your podcasts! 😊

  • @tammys1696
    @tammys1696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Facts from beginning to end!! I learned about this years ago, and the information is life changing! I thank God for TRUTH. Hosea 4:6 "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge" This was a great conversation that people need to hear. Keep the content coming Mr. & Mrs. Logan!

  • @mariaa.6324
    @mariaa.6324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Look, I am here for these consistent videos!!! I need them to get me through my workdays! 😩🙌🏾
    I feel you, Vicky! My mind is way too visual. My friends think I'm childish for not watching certain shows/movies (honestly I only rock with comedy or a chill drama lol), but I know I am wise for doing so. Thanks for confirming I ain't the only one 😅

  • @robynsmcrae
    @robynsmcrae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why I’m watching this at work and almost yelled 🗣“come on here Vicky!” Sis is teaching...this is so good! & yes Vick. I just watched a show on Netflix and I was like oh this too much let me not even watch. And yes Cam, it’s wisdom.

  • @Fashion_With_Tamyia
    @Fashion_With_Tamyia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I usually just watch and not comment, but this is my favorite episode/podcast so far♥️

  • @tamikalove2658
    @tamikalove2658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much Everything is We is everything...I'm hear for the transparency and for all the keys 🙌🏿 Praise the Lord for you guy's we need these conversations in Christiandom!

  • @DearLove92
    @DearLove92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Nobody:
    Vicky: “it’s a pink people thing” 😂😂😂

    • @yumyum215
      @yumyum215 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I literally thought I was the ONLY person who used that phrase 🤣😂🤣🤣 I knew I liked her!

    • @knanderson24
      @knanderson24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Took me out!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @CSALayouts
    @CSALayouts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Time to tune in! My fav podcast/you tubers

  • @amandacarr3929
    @amandacarr3929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    VICKY!!!!!! You are not alone.... That be my mind!!!!!!!! That's why I stay away from certain content as much as possible..... GIRL THIS WHY I FREAKING LOVE YOU! WE HERE!

    • @angels8248
      @angels8248 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss! People can call us childish but we’re actually spiritually mature enough to know we have to guard our eyes, ears, etc because it effects our spirit!

  • @cyndie0074
    @cyndie0074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    They way Vicky be holding back her laugh 😆😭🤣

  • @reneesessence
    @reneesessence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The level of discernment is through the roof!! I love to see it :)

  • @loveafrica97
    @loveafrica97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Nobody:
    Cam: Let’s be clear
    😭😭😭 love y’all!
    So many gems!

    • @everythingiswe
      @everythingiswe  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 FACTSSSS

  • @thedejahdenise
    @thedejahdenise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The episodes keep getting better and better!

  • @KiKiL
    @KiKiL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "𝗖𝗨𝗠𝗦" 𝗜𝗡 𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗧𝗔𝗖𝗧🤭🤭 Sorry, that took me completely out🤣🤣🤣Love y'all!

  • @jazmineolaya8875
    @jazmineolaya8875 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the way y’all broke down the importance of what sex is beginning middle and end. I will be tuned in for more podcast 💛

  • @Coilyco
    @Coilyco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Vicky, you have my thought process 100%....I’m so happy I matured and became spiritual....and women are Visual so men get yourself together as well. I’m tired of holey pants and dingy sweat shirts 😩

  • @AIClaw22
    @AIClaw22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “Intentionality is key.” -Vicky Logan
    T-shirt originated here first people! 😅

  • @christinnna355
    @christinnna355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I enjoy this podcast every week!!! Listen this intro’s and outro’s have me cracking up, can only imagine the bloopers 🤣

    • @everythingiswe
      @everythingiswe  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol if we have bloopers we leave them in 😂 I don’t edit out bloopers

  • @palatiniswinetasting
    @palatiniswinetasting 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was definitely a powerful intellectual conversation. Definitely a conversation that is also intentional for singles to learn from. God is so so intentional with everything! I love this! And love ya'll!

  • @CarmelAfrique
    @CarmelAfrique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I don’t think your choice to sensor what you take in through your eyes is childish. Like your husband said, it’s wisdom and taking spiritual authority over your body. I don’t think we realize how detrimental or how far back a trigger can send us. We are never too high to be humbled by our flesh. Sometimes people don’t understand the sacrifice that goes into preserving your marriage and maintaining your covenant... and that’s okay, because other people don’t have to be accountable to your covenant. Lastly, I love the discussion around the power of a covenant. I think the church has to do a better job of explaining why the pot is hot and not just the message of “don’t do it.” Pre-marital sex in all forms of exposure is an assault on your marriage bed and that/those previous covenants have to be broken and in some cases continually casted down and rejected! One thing about me is I love Bible and the word was in the podcasts, even without the physical Bible!! Bless you two! ❤️

  • @justforwork1164
    @justforwork1164 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had water in my mouth when you said throw it back .... I almost died !

  • @kristab4070
    @kristab4070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is a hard pill to swallow for some people, but it's the truth. These videos are getting gooder and gooder!😄 awesome job! Who needs a marriage counselor, all I have to do is click on "everything is we" by Cam an Vickie💯

  • @j8cqu3lin3
    @j8cqu3lin3 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    lol it’s the fact that i knew the commercial “this is the table where grandson and granddad will bond” lol but lovely conversation!!!

  • @Brittsays1
    @Brittsays1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The sorority/fraternity thing ohhhh how I wish yall would’ve went there, and when cam said “if you ain’t married and you want to have sex,that’s the devil “ 😂😂😂I was weak

  • @MinisterJoshuaLacy
    @MinisterJoshuaLacy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was an AMAZING conversation! That’s all I can say 🙌🏻🔥

  • @tasha6734
    @tasha6734 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes I agree. If something in the relationship or stress, this will definitely block our sexual connection. Good video.

  • @TheAliciaC23
    @TheAliciaC23 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! Finally someone is talking about this. I think we should normalize this conversation. There are so many people walking around hurting others bc of this!

  • @dosageofdemi
    @dosageofdemi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whewww this talk has me convicted, but providing much revelation at the sameeee timeeee

  • @inetbutterfly
    @inetbutterfly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is beautifuuuuullllll. Thank you for taking the time and speaking about this.

  • @afiabelleheart
    @afiabelleheart ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so deep and so good!!!

  • @onlyfatuofficial9262
    @onlyfatuofficial9262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So proud of you Vicky , you actually did a good job lol .
    I thought you were gonna play around the whole time. 😄🙌🏾

  • @tiara8738
    @tiara8738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And by communion I mean...”throw it back”... VICKY! Girl 😭

  • @desireewright2079
    @desireewright2079 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I say Cam spoke a WORD at the end !!!!! Omg

  • @MoniqueXSM
    @MoniqueXSM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hereeeeeee for this 👏🏽. Let me get a pen & a paper!

  • @YEM8991
    @YEM8991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of your best podcast by far!

  • @jemzeerahstudio4198
    @jemzeerahstudio4198 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. I really thought I was weird for having dreams about events and moments in my life that I didn’t even intentionally try to think about😭This is the first time ever I’m relating with someone about this. My dreams are so far off sometimes cause of a moment that happened I n the day that reminded me of something. It doesn’t even have to be sexual at all. Thanks so much Vicky for saying all that. I’m learning so much from this channel. I’m finally now discovering it’s a brain thing.

  • @KiKiL
    @KiKiL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "𝗗𝗥𝗬 𝗛𝗨𝗠𝗣𝗜𝗡'' 🤣🤣🤣 I throughly enjoyed this PC👌🏾

  • @pettymayonesa89
    @pettymayonesa89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The irony - the VRBO commercial Cam is talking about was the first ad that popped up for me 😂😭

    • @valerieeey
      @valerieeey 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here😂😂😂

  • @ldwoods3237
    @ldwoods3237 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was awesome! Blessings to you both and may your union grow stronger🙏🏽I've subscribed and look forward to more great content!!!

  • @successmade1
    @successmade1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this ! I will definitely share this with my husband and some of my married friends love it !

  • @alyshia6846
    @alyshia6846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    In the times that we are in, We NEED the churchy and deep.

  • @iyanahgayle9872
    @iyanahgayle9872 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed this topic. I mean I enjoy every single one cause y’all keep it real 👏🏾I appreciate y’all for dropping gems 💕

  • @linenashley
    @linenashley 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ayyyye new podcast it’s lit! Perfect timing! My last client just left and I’m bout to eat lunch and indulge 😌

  • @jubilantpublic
    @jubilantpublic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was one of the best one yet

  • @joannaharris6738
    @joannaharris6738 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is soooo necessary and explains so much. I said wooooooww after every jewel dropped. 😂 I am tweaked.

  • @debradunwoody-green6319
    @debradunwoody-green6319 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two are us when we where young , I’m like that to this day Vickie. I like happy and positive things in my spirit . I have nothing against my husband watching his shows but that’s not my thing.

  • @cchany14
    @cchany14 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    See I love your videos, keep them coming. I'm here for it. Thanks for blessing the church with your gift🤩😍

  • @missanika16
    @missanika16 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd love for you to discuss boundaries when it comes to sex. Should boundaries exist? When is okay to say I'm not comfortable with certain sexual acts? I need you guys to write a book, journal, couples exercises, or something lol.

    • @everythingiswe
      @everythingiswe  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You have to do what works for your marriage. That’s all we can say 😂 thats why you have to communicate. Each couple is different.

  • @theamberbrooks7066
    @theamberbrooks7066 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always look forward to hearing you guys!

  • @DiamondDenise
    @DiamondDenise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Y'all walking tight, but yall are right! I loved this episode ❤️ 😩🙌🏽😂😊

  • @sokatoa541
    @sokatoa541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really grateful for the wisdom y’all share 🔥🔥

  • @boluadebekun9370
    @boluadebekun9370 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vicky is so beautiful her smiling in the beginning at idk what but wow! Lol

  • @Keyonna277
    @Keyonna277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE Y’ALL ‼️‼️‼️ THIS IS SO GOOD‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @speaklifemv
    @speaklifemv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Lord put my oxytocin in the freezer until I get remarried 😩🤣🤣🤣🤣👀 Jesus!!!

  • @cali7815ca
    @cali7815ca 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wooooo!!! Yall made it PLAIN!!! 👍👍👍🥰🥰🥰💜💜💜

  • @AngelY101
    @AngelY101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    😂😂😂and by communion I mean . “Throw it back.”💀🤣🤣🤣

    • @yumyum215
      @yumyum215 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I screamed 😂🤣🤣

  • @nauticamaxwell1916
    @nauticamaxwell1916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “and by communion i mean...throw it back” 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jordanbriannalea
    @jordanbriannalea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a great episode, speaking nothing but facts.

  • @jonathanclerger1776
    @jonathanclerger1776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Appreciate yall for talking about the real real !!!...... Oh and dont even worry about making it CHURCHY 💯💯💯💯

  • @Moniluvsulongtime
    @Moniluvsulongtime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Teach us Vicky 🗣🗣🗣

  • @HeyEricaSmith
    @HeyEricaSmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is right on time guys!!

  • @kianaelders9948
    @kianaelders9948 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode is everything!! 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @ems4202
    @ems4202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My fave TH-camrs 😂 and they came right on time with a topic that I have been blessed with ♥️ #Perfect Timing

  • @feyi4103
    @feyi4103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ahhhh y’all are really spilling facts 😬

  • @janicevance6981
    @janicevance6981 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS IS SO GOOD! I JUST HOPE ONE TO MEET YOU ALL

  • @deebestest100
    @deebestest100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y’all opened my eyes. Thank you 👏🏾

  • @Zipporahwalker2107
    @Zipporahwalker2107 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Currently reading the bible in a year and we are in Ezra buttt previous years we was the same missing days here and there then it never continued so I 💯 agree

  • @cynthiawashington5386
    @cynthiawashington5386 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was good. I needed this. God is good ❗

  • @_.lamaar_5577
    @_.lamaar_5577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “ shaboingboing “ 😂

  • @itschanel4099
    @itschanel4099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really had to stop watching certain programmes aswell. Vicky I get you haha people be looking at me side ways when I say that😹

  • @Brianarenee_
    @Brianarenee_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sound churchy and deep bro ! You speaking to some people !

  • @nanabema3806
    @nanabema3806 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys so much, my favorite TH-camrs

  • @chanellmichelle
    @chanellmichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Currently watching and I’m loving this. Let’s get medical!!!!

  • @taylorsmith1984
    @taylorsmith1984 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey yall! Just a suggestion could you # your episodes to make it easier for us to binge watch or catch up on old episodes??

  • @tayloralexandria1808
    @tayloralexandria1808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent content

  • @SunshineQu33n
    @SunshineQu33n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Same !! I can’t watch Insecure 😞🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @Dowssonn
    @Dowssonn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo there’s so much to pray for

  • @charmedbycrystaldean
    @charmedbycrystaldean 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a great topic.

  • @Affranchie
    @Affranchie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always tell youth and single people if you feel like having sex, it's just God's way of telling you that you are a normally functioning human being called to get married at some point and that you should wait. Because those who like the apostle Paul are eunuchs for the Lord will not feel that sexual desire (and they usually are very special people, which is why the catholic church has had so many issues because they have imposed this principle on men who weren't supposed to carry that burden, but I digress...)

    • @sikholiwesibisi3714
      @sikholiwesibisi3714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What happens if you have the desire but never get married?

    • @Affranchie
      @Affranchie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sikholiwesibisi3714 By choice or by circumstance? If it's by choice, I feel like you're shooting yourself in the foot, because you know what God's word says about purity and sex. If it's by circumstance, I do believe that God can help you stay pure and let you meet your spouse at some point. I don't think He wants you to suffer like that.

  • @DiAnnBigford
    @DiAnnBigford 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Songs of Solomon. Thas all. Btw I loved this y'all

  • @mommyinaround7622
    @mommyinaround7622 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s the name of the doctor in Atlanta that did your saliva test?