Baby, I'm Not Ready: Marissa Mirto v Stephen Lawrence
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 พ.ย. 2023
- Marissa says her boyfriend is full of broken promises. She says he promised her marriage and children but has yet to deliver. She’s done wasting her time and is ready to move on.
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As Judge Toler might have said: "He has her installed in his home like an appliance".
Key words? "Big Wedding" Anytime one says the other deserves a big wedding OR dream wedding, rest assured, they're stalling. That person doesn't want or isn't ready to get married. LISTEN TO WHAT PEOPLE SAY TO YOU!! And ma'am...Why you wanna have a baby in your mid-40s and possibly older? Also do you really want to drag a man to the altar?
Exactly
That part. She says she's running out of time...I'm pretty sure she's already out of time.
Right. Bringing a baby to that couple isn't gonna do anything but cause more problems than what they already have
@@OSMRDucksLIB She's not. She's just out of time with HIM.
Women speaking on how men feel about giving the woman they love a nice wedding. Omg 🤫...forever
His excuse for everything is he can't afford it, DUDE SHOULD STOP, ,HE JUST AIN'T FEELING HER, LIKE THAT 😮
As Judge Lynn would say "Never let a man tell you more than once he dont want you."
Old girl looks WAY older than 44.
She looks like she's geeking too
Stressful relationships will age you real fast 😩
@@thefreequency½¹h¹8😊
She looks like she's stressing
Allllooooooottttt....
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So glad the son said something. His points were valid.
He wants to be with her, just not married or with a baby. But he doesnt wanna let her go either
Son is correct. Forcing a marriage or baby is not going to make her happy. She need to focus on herself
He can have a baby at 70, what a ridiculous comment.
He keep using this big wedding as an excuse to string her along. She doesn’t need a big wedding, what she wants is marriage and a child which he is now unwilling to give her. See ya!
She’s too damn old for a child. She’s just desperate at this point because of her age.
And I think he just using her for a place to stay. He don’t bring money, and he don’t have sex with her.🤔
They don't need a big expensive wedding, just a Justice of the Peace. They can start their family then. But I agree he really doesn't want to get married or have a family, not in this decade anyway.
@@Kwamedogg50
Women still have babies at 44. As time evolves, women have babies at later ages.
@@God-Love-Freedommost have miscarriages at 40 so pls stop spewing bs to women
To me he's a little suspect. Why would you want to have a kid and get married to a man who doesn't even help you financially. This man goes to work and doesn't have any money to help you with. That should be more of a problem he's living off of you.
He don’t really like her! I don’t think he’s attracted to her to make her a wife! I think he just thinks she’s comfortable.
Dayumm you say he don’t even like her well it won’t work for sure😂😂😂….
So he's a user ?! 🤬
He's got a financial motive for being with her. He gets to keep all his money
Is there something wrong with being comfortable?
@@Reezy12333 yes. When your partner wants to move the relationship forward and you’re BSing and wasting their time.
I don't ever want to be desperate to beg for a ring or a Marriage
The son is correct, she needs to focus on her happiness instead of forcing a baby and marriage. He's not a bad guy but I don't think he really likes her anymore
We waited 4 years and got our license yesterday🎉🎉🎉
Wow! Congratulations! You’re a better woman than I am. I would never wait for years for a man to want to marry me.
Overall i think he's just not into her. He's comfortable with her, but not into her enough to settle down with marriage and kids. She's not going anywhere. She will constantly nag him, and he will continue making excuses.
He doesn't want this women. He wouldn't bring men to sleep on his couch. She doesn't get it
He probably got a child she’s unaware of, or he’ll have one on her in a few years. That’ll crush her. Leave him.
He doesn't want the marriage yet.
-He pushing things further for something he really doesn't want the commitment
I agree & I think Judge Star said, “H don’t know any her.”
Now, this lady is going to see this episode and probably think Judge Star messy…
He is using her and has no intentions on ever marrying her. Why by the cow when you get the milk for free?
“He was the missing puzzle piece.” Now she on Divorce Court to try and rush him into marriage. 🙄
Us women start getting afraid of not ever being able to have a baby again once that time gets closer. It feels very … isolating. It’s like a world is just being crushed in our arms. It’s extremely difficult to accept. I’m not going to say she needs to accept it. The marriage thing though… I hate when men use the money excuse. When we want ti get married 9/10 the “wedding day” isn’t all that important. We just want to be your wife.
A man should want you to be his wife. If he does then he ask.
I hate when women pressure men to marry and also want to change them…which she does. It’s desperate. Highly off putting, so I can imagine for him.
@@Burlykim13
When men asks women to marry them, does it mean those men are desperate?
Please love yourself
@@God-Love-Freedomdepends on the situation he’s proposing for. If a man is proposing solely to keep her thats desperation.
She can’t even get the man to the altar, first get him to the altar and then have the baby. But…..that man truly is not ready for a full commitment involving marriage. Tragic She may have to accept what she can get for now or bounce.
I say she bounce!Her clock has toked,it will be hard for her to conceive at that age,look at the age of her first child,that boy is'nt even considering his mom!All he seem to be glad about is having a stepdad!He does'nt mind being an "only"child,it suits him just fine!Mama you make up your mind if you're willing to be content being a bride'maid,but never a bride!Tell that grown boy "bye"!
It's just ridiculous to pressure someone to marry you
Women nowadays are desperate
Insane. Then it will all go bad because of the pressure!!
That man is just using her for a place to live. He don’t bring money to the bills. And then he don’t have sex with her. Just think about it a minute
He not having sex with her cause she baby crazy and he probably think she trying to trick him into it. He keeps telling her he doesn't want a baby " right now".
This man is just using her for conveniences obvious not that interested and doesn't think much of her not to marry her and I think she should just move on and get somebody that can love her and maybe have a child with. You never stay with a person that lets you know day one they're not interested in day one marriage and children. Everyone deserves to be happy and to feel loved respect it and need it. The judge was right he's using her and he doesn't really love her 👩🏻⚖️🤷🏼♀️🤦🏻♀️👎🏼🤡🤬🦃🦂🦃🦂🦓🦄🍷🥃🗞️📺📽️😨🤯🤪🎉
This statement is absolute truth. 🎤
It literally took me a day to get through this episode because of how annoying that woman’s voice is.. Yes, I think he’s stalling. Yes, I think he has her installed. Yes, he’s comfortable with the current situation. However, given how mature and rational her son was, I don’t think she’s the type to ever actually be satisfied..
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I totally agree! I hate that some women think they have to bully a man into a relationship. If he isn’t on the same timeline as you…leave. It’s better to be alone than to be with someone who isn’t totally sure they want you. And by totally sure I mean, he would know in 2 years if he is ready to marry you!
She has every right to be upset. Let’s focus on who’s in the wrong instead of policing her tone.
If he WANTS too, he will. He DON'T want too, so he won't! Simple.
Really don’t like commenting on how the judges look, but Judge Star I love that hair style and length on you. You look so beautiful!!!!
He's wrong about Mick Jagger btw. He had a daughter with a Black American beauty in the 60s. Look it up.
He never publicized his relationship or his daughter in fear of racism, threats, and discrimination.
He isn’t being honest. Kind of sad. Just tell this woman you don’t want to get married and you
Don’t want children. You can tell he doesn’t want to lose her so he is stringing her along.
They haven’t really been together long enough😮 He looks scared 😳
GREAT DRESS Judge Star!! 🌟
DUMP HIM!! He’s using you and lying to you smh
She is Coo Coo !😂😂
At her age, she's a high risk pregnancy. She's already overweight, which makes it worse. He doesn't want marriage or a baby. Strange situation.
I’m getting secondhand embarrassment from this case. She’s so desperate for marriage and he couldn’t care less. She’s going to end up divorced trying to force it.
Yep
She should divorce to prevent herself from forcing it.
Big time
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Wow bringing up Mick jagger but l understand both parties
Walk away 😂😂😂
Just tell her you don't want children
She kept Saying Just tell Me that's Not What You Want🤔He's Showing her clearly that he doesn't A child by her EVER!!!
Why does Judge Star keep saying you dont plan for a baby, a baby just happens?!?!
Judge Toler would be losing her sh*t hearing another say & imply this.
You SHOULD be planning babies. "Those people are expensive! And they'll drive you nuts!"
All of a sudden you want to let “a proposal” develop organically, but y’all JUMPED right into a relationship when you met each other???? #Next #Excuses
This case is another example of Americans not being honest with each other before entering into relationships.
😂 " THE CLOCK IS TICKING"... At 44 woman your clock done ran out sit your ass down and go adopt a baby or kid that could use some love and a wonderful home...
Judge star and Robert need to stop the nonsense, there are millions of people that plan to have their children everybody ain't reckless with their sperm and eggs... The son is very sensible...lol
He wants her, he just don't want a baby...💯
If he doesn't want a baby and you do, a definite deal breaker.
You have told no lies… maybe she needs to go to school for child development and open up an nursery and she’ll get all the joy and happiness in the world and make some money… I can’t change the way she feels but I do know that in a relationship their is a lot of give and take.. meeting in the middle, it can’t never be just one way… so either she needs to go where it is that one who is in their forty’s almost 50 out here still trying to have kids🤷🏽♀️. but your comment is💯💯
@@andreawashington5430 😁 you have told no lies either and I am in full agreement with your comment too...
@@susanrodriquez1024 🙂 I agree and he just needs to be direct with her but he probably was waiting for her to come to her senses while she was waiting for him to give in... They BOTH weren't on the same page...lol
Nothing wrong with having preferences and deal breakers but SOMETIMES you must realize when something is good enough and try to hold on to it... Trust me she'll have a more difficult time trying to find a good settled middle-aged man who wants to have a baby than he will touring the country with his wrestling group making money in various states meeting women that desperately want a good man.......
But hey we all choose our paths lol....💯
Hi all
I will just say that in my short 30 years on Earth, I've never heard a single woman say they want just a simple, small wedding. When you run the numbers of what you'd want (not settle for), the number keeps going up. She MIGHT settle for a small wedding, but then he would never hear the end of it
Ya! I wanted a very private ceremony, but his mom said I'd regret it. So, we had a decent wedding, but I hand made almost everything! --- well, turns out, it didn't matter cause it ended in divorce. But should I do it again, if ever, it will be a TINY Wedding like a tiny house!
I did, we got married alone and had 45 people for a celebration a week later. I told my husband we can have a big wedding for our family on our 10yr anniversary, when we have something to celebrate.
Baffles me that no one is criticising her for her behaviour..
Edit: a baby shouldn’t just happen wtf? A baby should be planned logically and rationally. If that’s people’s mentality on having children then I understand why most people are fatherless or/and traumatised.
Dude don’t want you miss
She said “the math ain’t mathing “ 💀
That red is absolutely beautiful
NO' that's not enough AT ALL. Either You're MARRIED or You're NOT 🤗
Something is really wrong this woman.
Has she seen " he's just not that into you"??😂
Let the man be a role model in her son’s life without being committed to her. Is that so hard?
What if he and the son are having an affair!!! 🤯
I know, I know... I'm wrong for such a thought 😔
Lady go on with your life. Your son needs to get a life of his own. This man do not want to marry. He is just buying time go on with your life you are all ready being a wife only needs license.
He’d probably marry her if she didn’t want a child. It’s not like she doesn’t have any kids… come on now baaby she’s old enough to see when a man is shows he doesn’t want you. Move around ms lady it’s ok you’ll find what it is you want
Being the only child, that son profits from being on the man’s side. If she passes, he gets everything..
He is hoping that by the time he is ready it will be to late for her to have a baby. He aint slick
I think this one was totally off. He loves her, he wants her, but she’s pressuring him after just 2 years? Yikes…
I bet she supports hims while he live a dream he has. However 44 having a baby is tough.
If he doesn't wanna put a ring on it and have a baby with her honey find u a man who will.Dont be desperate for a man.
😂 she’s too old to be talking about a baby. Ma’am, stop!
her son just dont want her to have another child, he is mommas baby
A baby at this age.
As a grown ass woman...i m not looking for a man who is into wrestling...thats too weird for me!
Why didn't the judge ask the man what his issues are with her? 🤔🤔 Also, did the judge just hint that she could trick him into getting pregnant?? Ok...wtflip?!🤨
That's the real reason for the lack of sex between them.
@lindawilliams2716 Right! If the man had said he was trying to empragenat her w/out her consent, Star would have went off!
The reason he's dragging his feet. Is that something in him is telling him don't get this woman pregnant. Listen to that voice. I can tell something is off about her.
Miss' WALK AWAY! 🤔
did he just ask who plans for a baby, they just happen? Dumbest question ever. I think low level people just sleep around and wait for a surprise accident baby. Grown ups plan their lives, Mr.
Have a child at 44/45 is preposterous! She’s delusional!
He doesn't want to be rushed not wanting her is two different things but let her go your better off bro
She need to listen...he explained how he had enough time...he must know she doesn't have time on her side..but he seemed ok with that..to me that means..he doesn't see long term there
Ugh, I hate workaholics. Some women I've dated were workaholics & didn't want to take time off to see me, not even on Sundays. This woman deserves better. If he's not willing to take time off work for her, then he doesn't deserve her. I understand he wants to be financially stable first, but if you're already making enough money to cover rent & utilities, then that should be good, and you don't have to work a lot. Take time off to spend with your girlfriend/boyfriend/fiance.
He doesn’t want to marry her and keeps stringing her along.
Life is so unfair. Men can father children way up in age while women CAN'T beyond a certain age.
That lady should just WALK. That man will let her reach the point where she cannot reproduce a child then leaves and impregnate some one else.
Even the son agree with the defendant 😮
She doesn’t need HIM
Poor family, one wants one thi g and the other wants something else
Sounds like he’d marry although he feel like financially they’re not there but the baby is out of the question and probably for good reasons. Wome people start having. baby Fever when they get older and that’s more of emotional than logical for several reasons. Don’t let no one force you into that cause that’s a long time ro be bonded to someone you may decide isn’t for you later and it’ll be harder to sever ties and also to the child who will be born into the situation. They should have one more talk and don’t spare feelings be brutally honest and go from there.
She has crazy eyes….Furthermore, she can’t pay her rent, but wants a baby? Doesn’t make sense.
Biological clock ticking? At 44? 😳 Man, that clock tocked. And I understand they older but 2 years isn't a long time.
Who plans for a baby? Robert, that's the problem with society now...
Tgeres a good saying us women need to go by, “WHEN SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE BELIEVE THEM”
Hi Judge star 👀
She’s doing too much girl you don’t need another baby if you’re acting like this already sheesh
Shes giving wife duties at girlfriend prices...WHY?! He does NOT want to get married, hes satisfied with the situation. The marriage wouldnt last.
I don't understand people who conform to societal expectations and succumb to self induced "pressure"; I can't imagine living this way. She's unbelievably desperate, yikes 😬 i dont understand why he's with her 🤔
Does brick have to hit!? He doesn't want to be married or a make a baby. .
She has a son why have another baby at 44. He will be on the road and she will be doing everything by herself. He don’t want to get marry. She needs to walk away
Her son was WRONG for being on old user's side.
Goodness, very indecisive man, her son is very modern in his beliefs, his mom is not.
Marissa, if you’re reading this then here goes. Stop begging that man to marry you and give you the life feel you deserve. You’re old enough to know better so do better for yourself.
All I have to say is that her desperation is going to make her jump from the frying pan into the fire. A baby in mid 40's? Are you Janet Jackson or Mariah Carey? What in the world???
She won’t leave him lol.
He's using her
Do you have proof that I'm using her?
@@stevesavage142 Well... she basically said that when she said "where's the money?" and "the math ain't mathing". I'm sorry if you don't like my opinion
Dont bother with older women 😂😂😂
He probably has another whole woman/family on his travel route! Ijs
Wait! These people are only 44 and 40? Is this a joke?
A baby.She had a baby.He is grown. Girl.Go get your life. Adopt because those babies need a happy home.Happy being the key.She is not that.Get some happy in your life.Even some Joy.When you got joy,you don't put up with foolishness.