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  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself 2 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    This lady needs to get a job. You need your own money ma’am. He’s coming and going. You can’t rely on unreliable.

  • @Shirleyowens383
    @Shirleyowens383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    She said I don’t want a good guy I want a bad guy, Be careful what you ask for, Now you surprised that he’s bad💁🏾

    • @brooklyndecember
      @brooklyndecember ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She was 15!

    • @selfishgirlsgofirst
      @selfishgirlsgofirst ปีที่แล้ว +4

      she was à 15 years old. He's à predator and took davantage of that girl

    • @mrsjayhoward
      @mrsjayhoward ปีที่แล้ว +9

      When I was 15 I knew better we got to stop giving that pass. She was fast and wanted a grown ass man.

    • @papagrande2006
      @papagrande2006 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @papagrande2006
      @papagrande2006 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎯🎯🎯@@mrsjayhoward

  • @paigejohnson71
    @paigejohnson71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    I can actually say, I am loving Star Jones in this role. She is awesome and has credibility. I like her boldness and honesty. Okaaaay Git it Judge Star!!

  • @preciousjemstone2816
    @preciousjemstone2816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    She needs to let this marriage go. He keeps saying he loves her, but his actions and his disregard for her feelings doesn't show it.

    • @momonie4
      @momonie4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What marriage?????? She needs to let that FOOL GO!!!!! She also should have worked, had a business or something to produce income. OMG she chased this idiot at 15 & couldn't wait to have his baby...That's all she wanted outta life SMFH

    • @anitadell9407
      @anitadell9407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@momonie4 not everyone gets the guidance they need in this life, u don't know her background, but thk God this her 1st step

    • @DominiqueHarris-xg9rj
      @DominiqueHarris-xg9rj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know that's right

  • @shenquejames7598
    @shenquejames7598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    You cannot be a doormat unless you allow people to walk all over you! Million dollar advice.

  • @namea99
    @namea99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    I'm sorry but when people tell you who they are the first time *believe them* . He never lied about his character he flat out admitted he was a bad man. She fell in lust at first sight and wanted to have him regardless of the warnings. I do give her a lot more leeway because she was 15 though.

    • @lzl3lol
      @lzl3lol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I give no leeway personally

    • @perseveranceofkeisha8792
      @perseveranceofkeisha8792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yea, leeway gains you nothin.

    • @missnurseeri
      @missnurseeri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Namea, I agree. Fifteen is still a kid. Acting grown doesn't make anyone grown.

    • @inn2beauty10
      @inn2beauty10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you @Namea! He told her he was a bad guy and she ran to him. Listening to her go on about him being “a bad guy” was annoying me as much as it’s annoyed him all those years! 👏🏽He 👏🏽told 👏🏽you 👏🏽day 👏🏽one 👏🏽ma’am!!! I don’t have patience for stupidity and people not believing 💩 stinks. He told her how smelly it would be and she laid in it, rolled around, popped out some kids and then smeared it on them. Deplorable!

    • @userNOTfound1-3
      @userNOTfound1-3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@inn2beauty10 Amen

  • @amberlawrence1647
    @amberlawrence1647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Why would you beg to be with someone who repeatedly told you he didn’t want to be married to you. Bye bye!

  • @sharlene67
    @sharlene67 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    A perfect instance of “be careful what you wish for”.

  • @sylvia5459
    @sylvia5459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    I was married for 21 yrs and was completely dependent on my husband with 3 young children. Divorcing him was the best thing I could’ve ever done for myself and the kids. Yes it was painfully hard, a very rough transition. But I found myself and I grew strong on my own and found my self worth. You don’t need a man to support you or depend on like your life depends on it. Growth is a beautiful thing. I hope she can find her strength and self worth.

    • @angelicrealtor
      @angelicrealtor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      PREACH!!! Congrats ❤

    • @sylvia5459
      @sylvia5459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@angelicrealtor Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤️

    • @MsTM-bt2tu
      @MsTM-bt2tu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes indeed!!!

    • @dawnellacunningham5508
      @dawnellacunningham5508 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mm

    • @tidey4
      @tidey4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      See young man example 2000 why not to get married.

  • @evangdeborahmiddlebrook5770
    @evangdeborahmiddlebrook5770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    The reason this husband doesn’t want a divorce, and just a separation is because if things don’t work out between the woman, he’s been with he can “always return back to his house.” He’s left her ( 5 ), times and he doesn’t even have remorse and not an ounce of feeling.

    • @mlm1916
      @mlm1916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      'Cos she puts up with it.
      She's lost all of her self-confidence.
      She needs a job. He knows that she is dependent financially.

    • @cynthiasaracino7114
      @cynthiasaracino7114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He is not a man. He's a manipulative man child.

    • @elainepinnock2933
      @elainepinnock2933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg thank god I see this give me more courage n glad I get rid of my ex

    • @bmore8338
      @bmore8338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because she keeps taking him back

    • @d820m
      @d820m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      and she took him back five times, there will be a 6th, 7th and 8th time coming...I'm calling it right now🤣

  • @ybshadyii4375
    @ybshadyii4375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    This is a PRIME EXAMPLE OF WHY GIRLS/LADIES need to be Financially and MENTALITY Secure 1st.Before Entering ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP!!! MAKE AND HAVE YOUR OWN!!!

    • @meanlene4823
      @meanlene4823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup! And don't listen to the Late KS! This is where your daughters will end up! 🤨

    • @Mrs.Adrian
      @Mrs.Adrian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Billi Holiday said it best…God bless the child that’s got his own

    • @ybshadyii4375
      @ybshadyii4375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Mrs.Adrian Amen!!!

    • @fee179
      @fee179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      This is pissing me off!! Hard to watch.
      She needs to leave him because he doesn’t want her.

    • @ybshadyii4375
      @ybshadyii4375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@fee179 NEVER LET SOMEONE TELL YOU MORE THAN ONCE - THAT THEY DON'T WANT YOU NOR TO BE WITH YOU!!! NEXT!!!

  • @kerrywhite5253
    @kerrywhite5253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Why does she even want to be with him?ugh..🤮

    • @peacefreedom4930
      @peacefreedom4930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Trauma bonded to him

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@peacefreedom4930 nope she just the oldest living fool in love but she’s the only one in love…

    • @chrissb3979
      @chrissb3979 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Because she wanted a bad man...your tongue is powerful. Now she's all shocked😲

  • @kenyak2959
    @kenyak2959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    The boy is probably acting up because he sees how mean he is to his mom! Boys don’t play about their mommas!

    • @LLStark
      @LLStark ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He street. He's a street neg and I believe something spiritual has to happen in order for him to change other than that he's not going to change. Not only that, the man doesn't love her like "a man loves a woman". The love is over with him.

  • @malenkadivine
    @malenkadivine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Miss lady, please don’t waste anymore of your precious time and energy! It’s been 30 years….HE IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE. WALK AWAY!!!!!

  • @moussabby
    @moussabby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    Please keep those episodes coming. I'm devouring them! Judge Star is great!!!

    • @AngaVt
      @AngaVt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hey Moussabby, makes two of us Gal!🤩💞

    • @royalzennrelax
      @royalzennrelax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes I loving it .again .

    • @nastyyella300
      @nastyyella300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She ok the last judge was better

    • @moussabby
      @moussabby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nastyyella300 They're all good in what they do. :)

    • @chocolateangel8743
      @chocolateangel8743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've always enjoyed seeing Star Jones on T.V. as well.

  • @jasminasinanbegovic6225
    @jasminasinanbegovic6225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    He is honest and was honest from the first sentence they exchanged...she took her role of victim and stood next to him whatever he would do for 30 years...no time she meant serious enough to leave. Learn to love yourself, don't go out in looking for love. Nobody can give it to you if you got no love to offer, and therefore love yourself first

    • @sharonbosley6028
      @sharonbosley6028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My mother always told me that I have to learn how to like myself before I can asked someone to love me.

    • @mrsaunders9989
      @mrsaunders9989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ty…accountability

    • @brooklynforever1990
      @brooklynforever1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sure nuff

    • @kilos4058
      @kilos4058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Period! Best comment I heard so far ❤

    • @selfishgirlsgofirst
      @selfishgirlsgofirst ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she was à 15 year old. He was an old guy. She's a victim.

  • @sheilataylor7497
    @sheilataylor7497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You wanted a "bad guy", you got him.

  • @asiablackgrl6482
    @asiablackgrl6482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I love Judge Stars honesty 👏🏿 👩🏿‍⚖️ And now we’re seeing real married couples 🙌🏿

  • @jaesimpson425
    @jaesimpson425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    He told her who he was in the Beginning. He straight up told her “ I’m a bad guy”As judge Toler would say don’t let him tell you more than once. She let him tell her for 30 years

  • @TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548
    @TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Let this be a lesson ladies, NEVER EVER!!!! become completely dependent on a man (husband). You may end up dealing with emotional, mental, physical and financial abuse. The person who holds the purse usually makes all the rules regarding your life. No way in hell you get to leave me once with kids and think a divorce is not coming. They both need individual therapy. They are both broken people ☹️.

    • @bestdarky19
      @bestdarky19 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea but sometimes the husband alone work in marriage bc for my case I make twins, daycare very expensive and grandparents past away early so I have no one to watch them so therefore I had to agree wit my husband to be a stay at home wife. But watching things like these is like dame I would pray I never end up like this bc your you will be abuse in all those ways you mentioned in true. .

  • @xandrafrancois
    @xandrafrancois 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The pain of staying is often worse than the pain of being alone. I hope she understands that the pain will go away.

  • @minkki5656
    @minkki5656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    This is just sad. The wife has become so dependent on this man, and even though she knows the relationship is toxic, she's willing to stay with him. You can put that under low self esteem. I think she has came from trauma, due to the fact when she spoke about at 15, going after this older guy. She also stated she was beaten when she was younger. That says a whole lot as to why she's conditioned to be in toxicity, and not willing to escape it. This guy is from the streets, he told her he was bad at the beginning. I have learned that when a man tells you something about himself, women, we need to listen. He can't stand noises. He can't stand when people raise their voices, he has issues with authority figures. At his age of 59, you would think he would have learned something over the years. He's seems to still have that street ang gang mentality. She's not divorcing him. She will continue to stay, and show her kids that this is the way to live. Last but not least, she need a damn job!!! Whining because he left her without anything? Stop depending on a trifling man, and get off your butt and take care of your kids. They are to damn old for these types of shenanigans.

    • @sexytrinny52
      @sexytrinny52 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Baby you said whole table full.

    • @d820m
      @d820m 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mentioned before that this man's "give a damn" gave out about 20 years ago, but damn she's annoying as fuck🤣

    • @nastyyella300
      @nastyyella300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What did he say or do that displayed a street mentality?

    • @chocolateangel8743
      @chocolateangel8743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@nastyyella300 You clearly weren't listening. He, himself, said he was from the streets and a bad guy and that she shouldn't pursue him from the time they met. Heck, even the modern-day research says that BM don't make good partners for anyone (based on their inability to provide, the fact that they don't engage in the lives of their children, the fact they don't build or invest in their own community and more).

    • @sholondaflynn6483
      @sholondaflynn6483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Baby, this!👆 If I could like your comment a 100x I would.

  • @ronnelhamiel7921
    @ronnelhamiel7921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    She doesn't need to be married to anyone until she gets herself together.

  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    She needs to leave. He doesn't give a damn about her or his children. She needs to find a job to build her stability and confidence, because right now, he's all she has and she's clinging to him for that reason.
    She's afraid she won't make it on her own. Whew!!! Been there...and proved to myself that I could.

    • @VClary
      @VClary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Purchased a Compaq computer in the 90s self taught and never depended on someone ever again.

    • @triciabrown2605
      @triciabrown2605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She needs to go look a job because he doing this to her because she doesn't independent on her own she needs to get a job talk true judge she doesn't a family find something to do

    • @tyronzasmith3735
      @tyronzasmith3735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, trust God He'll always make a way. People will block your blessings. I gained more in life once I left the toxic relationship.

    • @kishablessed5397
      @kishablessed5397 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@triciabrown2605huh 🤔🤯 I tried to read your comment 3 times now I feel dyslexic 😖

    • @kishablessed5397
      @kishablessed5397 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@triciabrown2605huh 🤔🤯 I tried to read your comment 3 times now I feel dyslexic 😖

  • @TatiBak
    @TatiBak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Wow it look me a GOOD minute to fall in love with Judge Faith but sheeeeesh it only took 3 episodes for me to enjoy Judge Star very damn much! I thought I was done with this show but I guess I’ll stay tuned in 😌

    • @starjones9147
      @starjones9147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I'm so glad you gave me a chance!😀

    • @filmfestivalradio1
      @filmfestivalradio1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Judge Star looks just fabulous every single day! I love the beautiful n colorful wardrobe her stylists select for her. And the hair and makeup re both just so on point!

  • @ayefo7800
    @ayefo7800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Ladies, we gotra stop giving these miserable, emotionally immature men our time, our bodies, amd our hearts. They are never going to respect you!!!

  • @andreawashington5430
    @andreawashington5430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Hey Everybody Nah, Judge Star when you put beating (whipping) into the analogy to slavery you really made me look at it differently…Because I was whipped as a child because of the wrong I done, but it wasn’t abuse I’ll admit and yes I didn’t do it again but I do see your point and it’s always another way of displaying discipline 💯💯

    • @lifenfavor2013
      @lifenfavor2013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same here…She really made me realize whippings with belts was a strong correlation to slavery.

    • @Sandrinarhonda
      @Sandrinarhonda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lifenfavor2013 yuppp which is why I won’t physically or emotionally abuse my future children. They will get timeout and stuff like that but I refuse to do them like that .

    • @imred357
      @imred357 ปีที่แล้ว

      The way I've been saying this for five years now and I was looked at crazy
      I'm so glad the message is getting out there.

    • @d820m
      @d820m 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Sandrinarhonda Time out? Why, so them brats can PLAN other evil shit to do? Take time out of your busy day to whup that ass!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @aw8119
    @aw8119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Seeing these older couples and the things that they have been through and are going through is educational and helpful to everyone.

  • @sabrina21clark
    @sabrina21clark 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    WOW! He's a narcissist and her pain is an inconvenience to him.

    • @reeboo43
      @reeboo43 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      perfectly said!

    • @vergilsdisciple3057
      @vergilsdisciple3057 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She chose her bed of shii now she gotta lay in it. Ion fee bad

  • @SamoreIntuitiveChats
    @SamoreIntuitiveChats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Exactly stop abusing these kids smh. All it does is lead to a new generation of traumatized adults

    • @melim3l130
      @melim3l130 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s a fact.

    • @lamaridelbridge9601
      @lamaridelbridge9601 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      These kids today are soft as hell and fast to pick up a gun and go jail. I'm a 80s baby that got the belt from my parents. Fast forward I'm 37 and never been in trouble with the law and tough mentally. Giving kids timeout and punishment not working for hard headed kids. That's why most of them are in jail or with a onlyfans page lol

  • @nikkibankhead6759
    @nikkibankhead6759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So did he leave because the gangs were on his neck or because of the responsibility that his family brought??!

    • @junkienikki3
      @junkienikki3 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He was in danger so he left

  • @thewise2443
    @thewise2443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    the 1st mistake was when he told you he was a bad guy and before you pursued him again you should've took your time before having that baby. you should've seen was he really a great man ... when the judge asked was there any romantic times, she only said yea this 1 one time and then still talked negatively... just because someone has been together for a long time doesn't mean it was good... its quality of quantity

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think she continued to have babies to keep him home so he would stop leaving her for other women!!!

  • @kiarussell6914
    @kiarussell6914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    His heart is hardened so bad he needs to seek The Lord for help and she needs The Lord for healing and comfort 🙏

  • @TwiceSmittenOnceShy
    @TwiceSmittenOnceShy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Gatta love when these women say they want a “bad boy” and then when they get what they wanted they act like the narrative was supposed to be something else.. Don’t get me wrong, it’s still tragic, but is this what you wanted or what you thought you wanted?

    • @JayBerri92
      @JayBerri92 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I wonder if the women ever realizes where it all started. “Wanting a bad boy” & then getting one

    • @TwiceSmittenOnceShy
      @TwiceSmittenOnceShy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Nolo Contendere Preach 🙌🏾

  • @d820m
    @d820m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    she was tired of being "the good girl?" sounds to me she brought all that misery on herself 🤣

    • @Imbugoy
      @Imbugoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      she was only 15 back then, and she became the supply for the narcissist. so sad

    • @Remember_Eden
      @Remember_Eden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      And she stayed for 30 years, to boot. At some point being the victim becomes a drag. She seems to like it.

    • @DB-tv9jp
      @DB-tv9jp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts she chose a man that was not good for her from the beginning & now she's upset make it make sense & he told you from day 1 he wasn't shit he told her! SMFH

    • @nadejel7060
      @nadejel7060 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Imbugoy Thank you! These guys make no sense.. exactly why children need parents, to help guide them.

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Imbugoy nope she married him at 20 so she knew better especially after he left her and the kids to go live it up with other women… she doesn’t get a pass..she’s not a victim!!!

  • @RainWalking
    @RainWalking 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Woman wants bad man, gets bad man, gets treated badly. Then complains about it and stays.
    When you could have had a good man and better.

    • @DB-tv9jp
      @DB-tv9jp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯💯💯💯 Facts

  • @Passion85031
    @Passion85031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I know it’s easier said then done but I think she needs to leave. I’ve been in a relationship and have felt the same way. I depended on my kids dad and was disappointed. I know it’s been 30 years but sometimes you just have to let go. I know the kids are afraid and confused. Beating a child doesn’t help. And Mrs Jones is correct it’s not right. Sis you can’t make him love you I tried for my babies too it just caused more trauma. The kids deserve to see a happy mom not one that has to wear a mask of fake happiness

  • @98rastafarian
    @98rastafarian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Judge Star 💫 No Filter & Straight Up & Old School. I love it ❤️🖤

    • @livinmabestlife
      @livinmabestlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But she aint a real judge

    • @ShaqC
      @ShaqC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@livinmabestlife Jerry Springer wasn't a real judge either and he did a show.

  • @mimineren8787
    @mimineren8787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I don’t feel sorry for her. She chased him and got what she chased !

  • @oceanlady66
    @oceanlady66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Judge Starr is rocking this court show !

  • @miloperrault2614
    @miloperrault2614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Star, I wasn't sure when hearing you were going to be the new judge. I am totally sure now and this is the third episode. You are telling like it I.S. is and I'm here for it, great job. Keep it coming!

  • @d820m
    @d820m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    safe to say that "his give a damn" gave out a long time ago😂😂😂

  • @Imbugoy
    @Imbugoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    that guy is a narcissist. run lady cry no more

  • @tharris9074
    @tharris9074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She was “tired of being the good girl” and been getting played every since. If you going to be a bad girl know how to play the game love.

    • @danielleadams6609
      @danielleadams6609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She was 15, she didn't really get a chance to be any kind of girl...

    • @vergilsdisciple3057
      @vergilsdisciple3057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@danielleadams6609 She 45 now. Whats her excuse?

  • @jazzjames1688
    @jazzjames1688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Loving what Judge Star is bringing to this show. She’s saying what people need to hear!

  • @tonyaharper2468
    @tonyaharper2468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I never wanna get married and have been single 11yrs.

  • @stamp211xxoo
    @stamp211xxoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This new version of Divorce Court reminds me more of Relationship Court. There needs to be a title change in my opinion.

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ma’am, you can save those tears, heartache, and anguish…
    Even your very own mother told you to leave that grown man alone.
    HE told you to leave him alone & that he was a bad guy…
    YOU chose that man. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes…..

  • @TheSowUnique
    @TheSowUnique 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    STOP telling a man he can not disciplline his kids....and this is why the kids are OUT OF CONTROL!!!!!

  • @DdShevanii
    @DdShevanii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is sad, he doesn't deserve her love and devotion. Please get out of this relationship, make room for a better man. It's not too late to get a job and live on your own for you and your kids. He's so pathetic

    • @d820m
      @d820m 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      who's gonna want her annoying ass and her baggage, what SANE man is signing up for that BS🤣🤣

  • @briggsneal1016
    @briggsneal1016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We need to start taking responsibility for our own actions. There's not 24yrs of "he did this to me". At some point it's "I let".

  • @jacobpaulk8404
    @jacobpaulk8404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great job, Judge Starr. I’m looking forward to more episodes with your sound advice.

  • @kerrywhite5253
    @kerrywhite5253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He warned her from the beginning and she was interested in his sexy.

    • @d820m
      @d820m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      that's what I said, she brought that misery on herself from the get-go, even after she was repeatedly warned, and now she wants to cry about it?😕

    • @delilahspivey1093
      @delilahspivey1093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      exactly

  • @yes2768
    @yes2768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    i’m loving Star Jones she gives great advice❤

  • @MaleBlackExpat
    @MaleBlackExpat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was actually better than expected! Enjoyed it thoroughly.

  • @kevinblackmon7982
    @kevinblackmon7982 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He's narc he looks much older & he's not.
    She surely needs me. He can't see beauty
    cause he's blinded by his ugliness

  • @JayBerri92
    @JayBerri92 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One thing Mrs Star gone do is point out accountability 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @natnat0576
    @natnat0576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yeah all that meaness is inside him..He is done and not emotionally there..Lady get on your feet and leave him alone...I know its easier said than done these days...He is outta there

  • @alfredthomas4006
    @alfredthomas4006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She said she wanted a bad boy!!!!!!!!

  • @worldhealthrn
    @worldhealthrn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know she ain't bringing this man on national TV crying about some flowers for Valentine's Day

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom4930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He told me, “ you don’t want me. I’m a bad guy “
    I told him “ I want a bad guy “.
    Uh ma’am you got exactly what you wanted. Why are we here today?

  • @azebenoit8842
    @azebenoit8842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This relationship is toxic even the children want to run away from him the mother should run with them n don't look back !!!

    • @melim3l130
      @melim3l130 ปีที่แล้ว

      They’re adults now.

  • @irene27206
    @irene27206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why build a family with someone who told you they are not good? Women, women please do better so that your children can learn from you

  • @shaybutter3403
    @shaybutter3403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    all that whining was def annoying... Lowkey.. Nails on a chalk board.
    I feel bad for her but she kind of purposely signed up for it... She even admitted it...

  • @Lincolnberries
    @Lincolnberries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Plaintiff bought this on herself.

  • @d820m
    @d820m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    jesus christ lady, what did you EVER for him....those tears....only way those could have been any drier is if she was standing in the Sahara Desert🤣

  • @dowardwashington9958
    @dowardwashington9958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    🤔 Idk.....She really needs to find her own job/ sources of income. You can't complain he's cheap, he's this, he's that.....And you don't have your own

  • @janashockley8263
    @janashockley8263 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is terrible! Why & how she has tolerated this dude & his disappearing acts, the disrespect, is just horrible! He ain’t worth not one of her tears, period! Dude is a piece of s#&%!

  • @opulence_prime
    @opulence_prime 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I don’t agree with physically disciplining kids either. Stars is on point!

    • @andrewmatzo8167
      @andrewmatzo8167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I bet your kids are terrible too

  • @mogetit5999
    @mogetit5999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He said he would do anything for her yet he wouldn’t do the one thing she asked for, apologize.

  • @sunshinebutterfly4654
    @sunshinebutterfly4654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is a sad situation...good example of why a wife should be financially stable on her own so that she can move on out of a toxic relationship. She is probaby still with him getting the abuse.

    • @DB-tv9jp
      @DB-tv9jp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How about when a man tells you he ain't shit from day 1 believe him & go find better. It's ok to work & build with a decent man but you ladies loves the bad boys as she said she didn't want good she wanted bad man & that's what she got dont cry now

  • @redbird9000
    @redbird9000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great job Judge Star!

  • @annabella7188
    @annabella7188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I bet you her people roll their eyes every time she speaks about her husband 👀 what did she expect from a street dude? I hate that she wasted her time with him(minus having children) but at some point she need to point the finger at herself and fix it!!!

  • @chase395
    @chase395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Narcissists can't see fault within themselves

  • @Regalem3
    @Regalem3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel for her, but he told he he wasn't any good from the beginning. If you're sick of being hurt, let him go.

  • @savtrill333
    @savtrill333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm about tired of these people swapping judges😂 gahlee

  • @SamoreIntuitiveChats
    @SamoreIntuitiveChats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sounds like he has ODD. Also a few other things
    . He needs therapy to get your root of his issues.

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had to google it but I can see it.

  • @zulu3274
    @zulu3274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    🤨 HIM - I'm a bad boy. You DON'T want me, STAY AWAY FROM ME !!!....
    😍 HER - I LOVE bad boys, I want you and WE going to be TOGETHER...
    🙄 ME - She gets mad when a bad boy does BAD BOY STUFF... It's like getting mad at a snake🐍 for being a snake🐍...
    Make it MAKE SENSE...
    🙂I'm not a woman hater by any means. I just have a low tolerance for people that can't take accountability for their part within why things go wrong... Be careful Judge Star. You seem to be leaning towards the man can't do anything right and the woman is NEVER wrong side of things... Stay fair or neutral because we are in the age of EQUALITY and society is watching...😉
    RIP - Kevin Samuels

  • @radrew684
    @radrew684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That's the man she chose

  • @Bedstuy4lyfe
    @Bedstuy4lyfe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is BS. They grew up together as children in there teens. No experience with other people. They still had to find themselves. 30 years and counting, still wanna save their marriage.

  • @martineterrell1798
    @martineterrell1798 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am so excited to see Judge Star Jones, love you lady...You're the best!!!!

  • @vikatikoisolomone9722
    @vikatikoisolomone9722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jeez, at 15 I was still climbing trees around my house and all the boys were either friend and cousins 🤦‍♀️

    • @selfishgirlsgofirst
      @selfishgirlsgofirst ปีที่แล้ว

      blame the grown as adult that took advantage of her

  • @daniellehoreau7721
    @daniellehoreau7721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You would think she'd tired of being sick and tired? Even if she has a lot of trauma how can she put up with 30 years of sadness, disappointment, and lies?!

    • @Lb2Shay
      @Lb2Shay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea idk what to say. She's still not even tired enough.

  • @2intriguing1
    @2intriguing1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Dayum. Im here for this shift, I thought judge Lynn could read an individual down to their shoes. When she said what she said about beating a child with a strap👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I am a black woman and have been preaching this for years. I do not raise my son that way. Those of you who do, contribute to the decimation of our society today. And I dont understand why women won't be financially independent in marriage, its proof this traditional ish dont work. Hes filthly and displays typical BM pathology. You don't want people yelling at you but you do that and worse. Ma'am pick your dignity up off the ground and leave cockroaches in the trash

    • @amin291
      @amin291 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Typical BM pathology"--- speaks volumes of you and the others that like your post

    • @amin291
      @amin291 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      "traditional ish" work for ppl raised to be such ..a sista who went searching for a bad boy and a brotha who was a never do well from the jump do not a traditional relationship make..

    • @2intriguing1
      @2intriguing1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amin291 I'm a woman genius 😉

  • @Bear4196
    @Bear4196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She’s a doormat and loves it. He’s a narcissist.

  • @zipporahcooper400
    @zipporahcooper400 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When she first met him he said Honestly you don't want mess with me I'm I'm a bad dude she said well I'm tired of good I want be bad. And that's why first impressions matters to me

  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I like this. I like Judge Jones!!

  • @MzFine1
    @MzFine1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She’s too old to be begging a man to love her! Ridiculous

  • @bruhservices225
    @bruhservices225 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He did say he was a bad man I’m the beginning😂

  • @tashab1628
    @tashab1628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    May God heal this woman. I think it starts from childhood. Fathers need to teach their daughters what real love is and how men should treat them. So sad. I hope this man looks back at this video and sees how horrible he is to her. I hope that no other woman gets hurt by him again.

  • @Gisellej80
    @Gisellej80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    👀 5times he cheated. You don't cut an run it's family. She needs to get a job. An he is wrong to hit his chid

  • @VeronicaGillispie
    @VeronicaGillispie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This wife has done nothing but complain about this man but yet she wants to stay with him which is crazy and bipolar marriage. This man has not yet shown no love for this woman nor concern to her crying and break down. She's just wanting an apology that she will NEVER get. She might not think this was her best now believe me you're going to be thankful for saving yourself from a grand disappointment, potential STD that you can't get rid of, and hurt/ killed trusting the wrong people that you thought they had your best interest) at heart. SAD BUT TRUE

  • @evonjohnson4078
    @evonjohnson4078 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That man is not human. He was assembled by an intoxicated person using used parts. He is really "BAD"

  • @SoldierSpiderx
    @SoldierSpiderx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't feel sorry for her at all, the fact he warn her in the begin when they first met when she was 15 and he was 19 and he told her straight up he a bad guy and she still got with him, what worse even her mom told her that he an older guy and she still got with him, after years of him cheat on her, she really mad cause she couldn't change him and even she said she a good girl that want a bad dude when they first start dating so it her fault why she in this situation like if someone show you who they really are believe them

  • @LinCarlock
    @LinCarlock 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He said you don't want to be with me. I'm a bad guy. He told her the truth. I can respect his honesty. She chose that life with him

  • @dallasnicole295
    @dallasnicole295 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dealing with a older guy I had the same issue just emotionally not there and only want their needs satisfied and would leave their whole family over selfishness

  • @CandyCoated96
    @CandyCoated96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Gonna Miss Judge Faith 💗 Loved her, but excited to also see STAR representing Divorce Court. 🙌

  • @98rastafarian
    @98rastafarian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Well we had a good run” oh wow

  • @iBlindAssassin
    @iBlindAssassin ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She wanted a bad guy, & she got him!

  • @marcyhodge7862
    @marcyhodge7862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Words from the wise...(Judge Lynn Toler) " Never let a man tells you he doesn't want you more than once."