Stop Expecting YOU from Others | Cyrus Ausar

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  • Listen… We can’t expect PEOPLE to do what WE would do. Why? Because they’re not us! A lot of times we expect more of a person than what they’re truly capable of doing! Try your best not to get frustrated when others. You have a higher sense of self-awareness they have not yet developed!
    What’s going on TH-cam?! My name is Cyrus and I'm a speaker, author, and suicide prevention expert. I’ve dedicated my life to developing resources that help others overcome depression and suicide! I’ve created videos, programs, books, workbooks, and audiobooks because I understand each of us learns differently. My mission is for these resources to boost YOUR self-awareness and help YOU win YOUR war with mental health!
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    I’m open to all conversations (LITERALLY!) so PLEASE share your experience or suggest topics you feel I should speak on. I always look forward to each and every one of you sharing your perspective!
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ความคิดเห็น • 70

  • @Zoegottiy
    @Zoegottiy ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is good
    People won’t understand until they go through it.

  • @angelenicole1243
    @angelenicole1243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is so true, I could write a book about where I came from and nobody would figure it’s me who wrote it.

  • @RN1BSN
    @RN1BSN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is deep, powerful and right on time! Thank you, King.

  • @kirkobangz9341
    @kirkobangz9341 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Guys like this really feel like they do it to genuinely help others. Like this info doesnt even apply to them because they practice what they preach and we're just here to listen to him. Thanks

  • @ipsitachats
    @ipsitachats ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You can always forgive when you realize that they acted from their level of consciousness - eckhart tolle

    • @thecitizenjoan
      @thecitizenjoan ปีที่แล้ว

      POWER OF NOW CHANGED MY WHOLE LIFE. Not exaggerating.

  • @alexakaa.charlesross8919
    @alexakaa.charlesross8919 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've been trying to deal with lazy coworkers that end up making more work for me, i just try to keep in mind that karma comes around to everyone

    • @PoeticSneakerHead
      @PoeticSneakerHead 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      At 43, I've been through this throughout my life...always being the "hard worker" and reliable. After calling the behavior out and having meetings, I've learned to just remove myself from these environments.

  • @FruityHachi
    @FruityHachi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    this is comforting, so much truth bombs
    it's scary that in society it's acceptable for adults to deal with stressors through alcohol, drugs, promiscuity
    one female content creator claimed that everyone who "acts young" is suffering from a mental disorder, meaning an adult can't smile, can't laugh, can't play with a dog, can't sing karaoke, can't watch cartoons, can't play video games, can't use adult coloring books etc., and many people actually don't understand what is age regression and think anything that's fun is being used as a "coping mechanism" for trauma, how sad is their outlook to think that adults can't engage in some healthy fun activities
    it helps me to understand that they haven't overcome their judgments and biases and haven't done the research

  • @Claire18Hi
    @Claire18Hi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You know, I've tried to find videos about this for so long. I do have this issue. I firmly believed on treating people they way you want to be treated. And every time this didn't happen, I wasn't treated as I treated them, my mood would spiral. Even for the most trivial things like being engaging when talking about an interest, like I try to do for them.
    After so many videos on this subject FINALLY this one did a good job on explaining a way to think about it and work on it.
    Thank you
    Just subscribed and will be watching the rest of your videos

  • @djdj2628
    @djdj2628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes! I understand! It's so lonely though!

  • @quia-kia
    @quia-kia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awwww mannn.. Thank u for this.. Your really helped me to see things better.. I'm empathetic and I internal sometimes people and situations honestly I don't mean that's just me and I feel like nobody understands because everyone is so logical or simply don't understand. But this helps me to see. I have to stop expecting myself from other people. Thank you for this

  • @deennoverduniyaa
    @deennoverduniyaa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You gave the advice that my dad never did, thank you for this!! Makes a lot of sense now

  • @lloydfrancis9149
    @lloydfrancis9149 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are absolutely right, I thought everybody had Christian values especially Americans but I had to find out the hard way

  • @DopeFiend
    @DopeFiend 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I only expect bare minimum, sometimes i don't even get that, gets kinda annoying at times.

  • @alyssavalerros5585
    @alyssavalerros5585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Simple solution to all our problems!

  • @notsobaddie111
    @notsobaddie111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Correct. I sat in it and processed my own emotions ❤

  • @usisiphoqamata
    @usisiphoqamata 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Whoa, why am I crying right now. And this video is from 3 years ago.

  • @theresanewwell3269
    @theresanewwell3269 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my God thank you for straight to the point and clarifying what it is.

  • @tugray7740
    @tugray7740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So eye opening

  • @yohgamalarnaidugunasegaran2874
    @yohgamalarnaidugunasegaran2874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @dustinz4979
    @dustinz4979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m a new subscriber brother, thank you for this. This message really hit me hard, I lost my dad and grandfather in September of last year from Covid. I’ve been struggling with expecting more of others during this time. Much love!

  • @2WOKE-
    @2WOKE- ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, I really needed to hear this. Thank you for putting this out there. Have been struggling with expecting others to treat me as I treat them for a long time now. Something that I've never grasped, until now. Thank you very much for your time & insight

  • @Teyxo07
    @Teyxo07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true. I need a daily reminder of this,Glad i found it. God bless you

  • @KK-by1ms
    @KK-by1ms ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my God this is so true I expect Me from other people

  • @Wriggs74
    @Wriggs74 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do it all the time, and I've been doing it all my life, and it is so tiring. Thank you for the video.

  • @Drifter_-rb9hw
    @Drifter_-rb9hw 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thx for giving me a wake up call. I've been struggling with this until I came across your video a few mins ago.

  • @Frasso-sabino
    @Frasso-sabino 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this spoke to my heart , thank you it was a very qualitative video!

  • @robertcalamusso1603
    @robertcalamusso1603 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen Brother.
    🇺🇸☮️

  • @Kalen-ux9yx
    @Kalen-ux9yx หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the video

  • @awesomemax3330
    @awesomemax3330 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank u Cyrus. Your talk is very good. Please continue posting. U will encourage many lives

  • @tim8468
    @tim8468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed to hear this. Well done sir. Thank you.

  • @lizziethelizzard4808
    @lizziethelizzard4808 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ah, thank you for helping me take a step outside my self. This helps so much.

  • @stevengreenstock6095
    @stevengreenstock6095 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your perspective feels like a good friends advice, thank you

  • @mikaylaharris3783
    @mikaylaharris3783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    notifs on

  • @TarantulasBox
    @TarantulasBox 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a phenomenal video omg ❤

  • @gavins.6109
    @gavins.6109 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Super helpful

  • @angelz7785
    @angelz7785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so important, thank you so much

  • @meekmeek8198
    @meekmeek8198 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are absolutely right ✅️

  • @randallhill7979
    @randallhill7979 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this message, I needed to hear this today. This is true

  • @Angie-AFB
    @Angie-AFB ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your videos. You have much wisdom and the information you share has given me more insight and has been very helpful!

  • @MJ-qb5ph
    @MJ-qb5ph ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent. Thank you. Bless

  • @LearnwithMuqaddasofficial
    @LearnwithMuqaddasofficial ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks. May ALLAH always lead you to right path Ameen

  • @marjoleinvanderperkmusic6601
    @marjoleinvanderperkmusic6601 ปีที่แล้ว

    Refreshing message

  • @ipsitachats
    @ipsitachats ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so real

  • @guacgirl
    @guacgirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this ❤

  • @Ross_Embossed
    @Ross_Embossed 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep putting out your videos! Great shit

  • @isaacpowell1408
    @isaacpowell1408 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow this made me subscribe 🤔

  • @debsstarfish1413
    @debsstarfish1413 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truth thank you really great perspective thank you for spelling it out to me, I needed that 🙏

  • @abdelrahmanadel631
    @abdelrahmanadel631 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this, this is amazing thank you

  • @artemisphotinou1332
    @artemisphotinou1332 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant

  • @jamessutton9874
    @jamessutton9874 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this

  • @Nokss_20
    @Nokss_20 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true

  • @businessgal2950
    @businessgal2950 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed to hear this

  • @nanciemarin4026
    @nanciemarin4026 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow that was deep I need that

  • @Ahmad-ru4ou
    @Ahmad-ru4ou 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks really needed this❤

  • @mbangadolf7149
    @mbangadolf7149 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is perfect!

  • @lorraineoneill9297
    @lorraineoneill9297 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're videos are fantastic. I find the background music distracting

  • @rickbeastrandolph
    @rickbeastrandolph 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎉🎉🎉

  • @Stephanie1974
    @Stephanie1974 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @Bossmonting
    @Bossmonting 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💯💯

  • @nomsonnadi
    @nomsonnadi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    #wisdom

  • @jellybellyfun3288
    @jellybellyfun3288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:40 your voice pitch went HIIIIIIGH!!! Lol

  • @loriolson1143
    @loriolson1143 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true

  • @sytyanna
    @sytyanna ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you

  • @H.J.G
    @H.J.G 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you