I "met" you when I was lying in a hospital bed, with covid, in November of 22. I listened to your videos for 9 days. You became a great friend. My parents were both hospitalized with me. Dad didn't make it out. My mom came to recover with me for 2 weeks before she got secondary pneumonia and passed away. Three weeks after my dad. I hurt for you when you lost your dad. I have prayed for you when you went "missing" or looked "off." I have POTS and other autoimmune issues and understand and can empathize with you. Some days, or weeks, are just off. I can't name it, but I can feel that things aren't "right." I've learned to accept that and I give myself grace now during those periods. I hope that if you haven't already that you will do the same soon. We spend our youth beating ourselves up. At this stage of life, we should be enjoying who we are. Thank you for keeping me company when I was afraid I was dying. For when I was grieving the loss of my parents. For ALL the days that I don't feel right and just can't bother moving around. Please remember that you are in my prayers. Maybe some time when you aren't doing great, you'll remember that you have a friend out here that is praying for you. I know that I am not the only one. There is an army of us, I'm sure. God bless you 💖💖💖
I'm so sorry for your terrible losses. It is horrible that you lost both parents within 3 weeks. They had to have been great parents because they raised an empathetic daughter who tries to help others. God bless you and yours.
@lynnewright31 Thank you. It was very kind to post your comment. We all need someone who can encourage us, empathize with us, walk beside us, and cry with us. Most of all, for me, I need someone to hear me. I guess that is my love language. It's easy for me to listen, and Melissa is so easy to "hear." She is so genuine. I love and respect that. 💖
I could relate to much of what you discussed here about weight and self-esteem. You have been through so much...now I hope you can truly enjoy your new life! You have been so brave! Nothing was going to stop you. It's funny though...when you showed your pictures throughout the years...you were always beautiful. Always pretty with a kind expression. I know burnout my friend. I also know what it's like to take on the sorrows of our subscribers. It changes us forever. A very Merry Christmas to you and yours sweet one, Susan & Desi
Melissa….you’re such an inspiration! I know you’ve been through so much, but you look stunning now! You were beautiful before, but your story gives me a lot of hope. I can relate to having such weight gain and am the biggest I’ve ever been. I’m working on my health now and have taken off 18 lbs so far. I look forward to living in a body that I can be proud of. Thank you for sharing your story. 💜❤️🩷
Thank you so much for posting and sharing your story. I wish you much continued good health here on out. I had gastric bypass surgery 2 years ago and had lost 160 pounds. I am in Canada so I did have to wait 4.5 years to get my surgery and there was quite a rigorous process (lots of hoops to jump through). I haven't lost any more weight and I need to, by about 50 pounds worth. I agree about the talk therapy, I have started doing that this year and it'll be a slow process. I ended up being divorced after 24 years and now nearly 2 decades later, I'm just starting to process and start healing. Food too was my comfort. I will be 60 in a few years and would really like to be more healthy, and more mobile (both my knees need replacing but right now I can't because of other chronic health issues) Being over 200 pounds overweight totally destroyed my knees especially. In the last six months I've started to do more self care - wanting to wear makeup to boost my spirits. I've been buying so much and lots of it doesn't work with mature skin. So I have been enjoying your videos. Today's video just really touched me and so I wanted to thank you for sharing your story. Happy Holidays to you and your loved ones!
Randi, People blame the fact that they are unable to lose weight because they're not able to exercise, but the main key is what you put in your mouth. Because people in the hospital all lose weight because they don't eat that much, along with elderly people who eat very little. So you can lose the weight if you eat half of what you did when you were able to work out, but people continue to eat the same even when they stop working. So you can do it, just zip the lip & take up a new hobby!!! God bless the new you on your new journey. YOU can do it for YOU!!!!!!
@@valentina-pg4bj Valentina, my mother taught us if we don't have something good to say, don't say anything at all. Since I was not asking for advice, please do not offer any. For you to tell me to zip my mouth and eat half what I am eating, very harmful. Not that you deserve to know, but I get 600 calories a day into my body most of it is protein. So if I were to be silly enough to listen to some unsolicited internet person's advice of eating 300 calories per day, just imagine the health concerns that could result. Thankfully I am followed by and listen to my specialists. Please do not respond to me. This post was to thank Melissa for an inspiring video so do not get side tracked from that.
You look amazing! Everyone I know that has had the weight loss surgery says they would do it in a heartbeat. I wish I had the money to do that! I’m morbidly obese and trying to do it with diet and exercise. Wish me luck! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I hope you have a fantastic new year!
I wish you the best of luck. I can tell you that it won't be easy, but it will be worth it. When you want to give up, remember that your weight came over time and it's going to take time to lose. If you have a setback, give yourself grace, please. Start from where you are, and be patient. Don't beat yourself up about anything. I tried to remember that i wasn't beating myself up when i was putting on the weight. Remember, everyone may not be in your corner, and that's okay. Be your own cheerleader. I suggest you take photos and measurements along the way because the scale will discourage you at times. I don't know you, but i love you for trying. I believe you will succeed if you just keep going, no matter what. YOU GOT THIS. 😊
I'm rooting for you Annette. It's such a struggle & can be frustrating. Try modifying to a keto based diet & do intermittent fasting if you can. It's helped me keep the weight off all these years. You got this girl!
@@MrsMelissaM thank you! I am currently following a modified keto. It’s doable, but difficult. I lost 70 pounds 2 years ago, but then backslid hard, gained it all back and picked up a binging habit. I think I have that under control now, but definitely need to add some therapy. Thanks for the encouragement!
I, too, have reached 300 lbs. I’m considering Ozempic, but I know I’ll most likely gain the weight back after stopping it. I’ve become so sedentary that just walking down the driveway to my mailbox wears me out. I’m 60 and feel 80. I appreciate you being so real about your journey.
@@karenschmid5465 Could not agree more Karen~ both my husband & myself, as well as many other people we know. It's as if we're aging in reverse, in so many ways. The biggest changes & deepest healing has taken place after transitioning from keto to primarily meat based, or "carnivore". Spent years researching it all, since I just couldn't fathom not eating a "low fat/whole grain/lean protein/12 servings of veg & fruit" type diet. We'd been taught this for decades, yet it was making us sicker.What we eat really does affect every system in the body & brain. It truly does feel amazing, & wish the same for anyone & everyone else it may do the same for.Samantha in AZ
I have lost 40 pounds with Ozempic, worked out with a personal trainer for two weeks and now weight train 3x a week on my own at 50 years of age. Never exercised a day in my life. Highly recommend.
6 months on Zepbound and I am down 65 lbs (SW 358). I was always too scared to get weight loss surgery. I gained and lost over 100 lbs three times in my life (61yo). Zepbound saved me not only physically, but mentally and emotionally. I plan on staying on the medication for life. 2 main reasons.... 1) the science shows value to the heart and kidneys, reduces inflammation and pain, and other conditions (Hoshimotos & PCOS for example). 2) I have the disease of obesity which includes an Endocrine system GLP-1 (hormone /peptide) deficiency. GLP-1 deficiency means my gut-brain communication doesn't work. I never knew when I was full (satiety) until I was so physically full I couldn't eat any more. Add to that always being compelled to eat because the you're-full fool-push-the-plate-away signal never got sent to my brain. My brain freaked our 24/7 "YOU'RE STARVING TO DEATH YOU MUST CONSUME FOOD". And that's called "Food Noise". I never knew there was such a thing until I started watching YT channels for Ozempic/Wegovy/Monjouro/Zepbound patients. I just thought normal sized people had strong willpower to ignore that disruptive cacophony. Injecting GLP-1 and Tirzepatide gives me agency over food and food choices. My brain now gets the satiety signals from my stomach! Pushing away the plate has never been so EASY. So THIS is what "normal" people feel like. No wonder they can decide to lose 10 lbs and then DO IT! Amazing power. And now I have it. The food noise is my kryptonite. I don't ever want to lose this Super Power. The weight is just going away. I don't get hungry... or rather, I feel hungry when my body signals to my brain (super power) that it needs energy. So I fuel it. I no longer have Oreos and Nachos pervasively invade and interrupt my thoughts. I now have a feeling of control that I only dreamed of having before Zepbound. I actually want to move my body. Go for walks, park farther from my destination, etc. It's weird.....and wonderful all at the same time. The best decision I EVER made. I hesitated for a year due to believing all the not-true negative stories about side effects. Oy. I regret that I didn't start a year earlier. My only advice to anyone on the subject, is: the perfect time to start is now. ❤
Darling lady. You are so courageous! Thank you for sharing your story. I was with you during your weight loss journey PRAYING! Sending a big warm virtual hug❣️
Melissa, I am sorry that you are still experiencing pain due to the portal vein blockage. Prayers of healing and low pain days. Take care and thank you for always showing up with great content 💜
Wow! What an incredible woman you are! What a journey you have been on! We love you, Messila! It's so important to take care of you! Merry Christmas, Beautiful! ❤
Ah Melissa What a lovely person you are. Thank you for sharing your journey and all the challenges you’ve been through. My weight has yo-yo-ed over the years and I also have several autoimmune diseases. It’s all a bit rubbish, but staying positive and putting on a bit of makeup helps a lot. Wishing you the best in 2025 xx
I’m so sorry that I’m just now seeing this video, Melissa ❤You know how much I love you❣️I’m so proud of you, and grateful for your honesty and authenticity. If I had a chance to be a BFF with someone, it would be you ❤Happiest New Year, EVER💯❤️🥰🙏🏼🎊❣️🥂
AGREE! I am currently seeing a Registered Dietitian once a month(In person -Not internet 11:32 ) so far I have lost about 30lbs with 40 more to go and having a professional person who has actually had clinicals in order to get their bachelor's/ master's degree shows me they know their stuff. A 3 week nutrition course online will not cut it , for sure get an RD. Very good advice.❤
No apologies need. I never realized what you were going through, but knew it was a tough time. Love you Melissa. You’re glowing and thanks for being honest with your friends here.
Melissa that must have been a very hard video to speak about. I give you so much credit. Thank you for speaking from the heart. You are an inspiration to us all. I have been with you for years & will continue as long as you are here. Love you very much.
What a wonderful way to share what all you've been through... You have been a source of strength for me as I've gone through one of the hardest years of my life. You may remember that I told you I shared fibromyalgia with you, along with psoriatic arthritis , migraines, gut issues & some follow-ons from the main condition. In February of 2024, my husband was admitted to the hospital with covid, aspirational pneumonia, and swallowing issues. After he was admitted to the hospital, I found out I had covid, which then became pneumonia, I was having some shortness of breath, but pushed it aside as stress. My husband was sent home from the hospital under hospice care on March 4 . He died on March 9. My breathing issues got worse, but I still felt like it was stress & added unbearable grief. Fast forward to November 2. I ended up in an ambulance on the way to the ER because I couldn't get enough oxygen to be able to breathe, talk, move... Anyway, I was admitted to the hospital with Acute Respiratory Failure with Hypoxia. I was sent home after 11 days, with oxygen in several formats, a salt restricted diet, fluid intake restrictions, plus follow-up visits with my pulmonologist, a new cardiologist & my primary care doc. Also lots more tests... Anyway, I am now diagnosed as having Interstitial Lung Disease, which is more than I have the strength to explain... But, the point in all this is that we often face many life-changing events, health issues, loss & grief, but we can find the strength to move forward & still have purpose in our lives. Melissa, you bring hope & encouragement to your viewers who are facing challenges in their lives. You spoke words of encouragement to me indirectly in your videos & directly to me in your replies. Thank you! In this community we can bring encouragement & support to each other in a very safe environment. Thank you, Melissa for all that you do for your viewers. You are loved & appreciated!!!
You hit it all ! When you’re going thru this kind of weight loss you need an array of Drs for different medical issues you may have but who are all in conjunction with you “ the patient” for your well being physically and mentally ! You are doing remarkable! I’m sure so many will gain an insight on the pros and cons of this surgery and will make good decisions based on your video ! Sending you Hugs and a very Merry Christmas 🎄 ❤Barb
You look amazing, I understand the autoimmune diseases but not weight issues. I think we all have to make our on personal decisions. You look amazing and I pray you continue to be healthy and strong. 🙏💛
Wow. I will have to watch this again to take it all in. Thank you for sharing so much in depth personal stuff. But please, please don't let guilt force you to put out videos. We will wait for you. Your mental health is so much more important. I hope you can resolve your personal issues and can come back to us with peace in your heart. Happy holidays!
This video proves you never know the journeys someone goes thru! You shared such personal stories and it means so much to so many! You are a strong, beautiful woman!!❤
You’re a very strong woman. You went through so much. Best always. Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, happy New Year. Whatever holidays anyone celebrates I wish the best to all
I remember all this. The night you did an on the spot video loosing hair. You had back issues to. I seem to remember. Love you to. Its good to let people know that don't know. No matter your weight you are always beautiful. And yes it's fine to say but if like you , your very aware. Not easy to live with. Hey Diggy Doggies. XxX ❤❤❤🦮🐾🐾🐶🐾🐾
I’ve had a tummy tuck. I was 38. I also had my post-baby boobs fixed at the same time. Not sure I’d recommend that…..but I was glad I did it. It made a world of difference to my self esteem. I think everyone should do what they want if they can afford it. Thank you for sharing your journey.
Melissa - I am so sorry that your life was/is turned upside down with all the health issues. Dispite everything you have gone thru you still take time to bring joy to others. Thank you for that. Merry Christmas and Happy New Years
Merry Christmas Melissa, I have been with you and your journey for over 9 years and you still inspire me, your one brave lady with all you’ve been through. I always thought you were beautiful back then and you’re still a beauty.🥰🎄❤️
Melissa, you are such a sweet, kind person to share your journey with all of us. I had RNY in 2018 and lost over 200 pounds super quick, since then, over the past 3 years, I gained back over 100 pounds. So mad and disgusted with myself at times. It is so hard and people don't understand. Everything in our lives goes back to food and if have a compulsive personality, like me, it can become overwhelming. I so proud of you for keeping your weight off, even though your journey has been harder than most, you are such an inspiration. All the best wished for you in 2025!
How amazing your journey has been. Funny that even with all that weight, you were still beautiful. I am so happy for you. You look absolutely amazing. HAPPY HOLIDAYS...................MINDY
Thanks for sharing. I have Raynaud’s, too. I had a tummy tuck May 2023. I had just turned 65. I had gained 36 lbs when pregnant- I only started at 118, so it was a lot on my small frame, but doctor wasn’t concerned. I lost it because I was a nervous wreck being a first time mom!I had the bit of extra skin though. Then I had another child 4.5 years later, gained 36 lbs again. I lost that, too. Then, 10 years ago, I had my 4th spinal surgery and recovery was tough- I was 56 then. In the 4-5 years after that, I slowly added 30-35 lbs. overindulging and not be very active. I hated it, so I cut out all the junk and started walking almost daily and I lost it over the period of a year or so. (My older male neighbor complimented me, saying he noticed how much better I looked- that was nice to hear! Those close to you don’t notice as much because they see you daily). But, I did have this loose belly skin. Not much fat, I was about 122 lbs. Saw a plastic surgeon and treated myself. The recovery was harder than the spine surgery! So tough! I had the drains for 6 weeks. I “fudged” the output numbers so they’d take it out. I regret that now, because I think my belly would have been a little flatter if I didn’t. BUT, a year and a half later, I am very pleased with the result. I told the surgeon, I just wanted to look better in clothes and I do. She said I was “the perfect candidate” with that extra belly skin. I have a cut from hip to hip, but it all healed well and my husband likes the result, too. He was very supportive.
Hey Melissa! I’ve been with you for quite a few years. I can’t begin to imagine all the pain and struggle. I like so many others have my own mental and health issues. You are such an inspiration to see how far you’ve come and what a strong, determined woman you are. It really makes my problems seem so small. Thank you for your transparency over the years. You have been a blessing and joy to so many of us. God bless you always. I hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas and a healthy, happy new year. Much love and many prayers continued.❤
Melissa, I am really sorry for all your struggles. I am very health conscious and yet have three auto immune diseases. I saw out a functional medicine doctor and she put me on hydroxycloriquine. It has made quite a difference. I haven’t had any flares since being on it and it brought my thyroid antibodies way down. I enjoy your videos so much! Thanks for hanging in there. Praying the new year brings you good health!🙏
“Merry Christmas Eve Eve” Melissa! Glad you’re feeling better. You’ve had quite the journey. I’ve gained a lot of weight the past few years and my Dr referred me to Bariatrics early this year. I have a couple of friends who’ve gone through it and they’re very happy. I realize that it’s just not for me. It’s just way too restrictive. I enjoy going to a party of a buffet when I visit Las Vegas. We had a potluck today and I made some wise choices. The room was filled with carbs but I stuck with protein 😊 I’ve lost 10 pounds this month by being more mindful and hitting the gym. Hope you and your family have a heathy band happy 2025!! 😊❤️🎅🏼🎄💚🙏🏻
You have been through so much and my heart goes out to you ❤ Having the support of people on YT has helped me through so many hard times so I can absolutely relate Love and hugs Frances ❤
I had a gastric bypass 20 years ago things are much different today then they were back then but i weighted 400 lbs i have lost 200 and for the most part keep it off but i never had plastic surgery I have learned to love my body. Thanks for sharing your story
I think that if you are brave enough to share the things you do on TH-cam, like your life struggles and some of your family's experiences, it means you're a very strong woman! You may not always feel that way, but it just goes to show how strong and resilient you are! I really feel like you're a great example for all of us who struggle through life. Having good supportive family and friends in one's life is key!❤😊
Melissa you are my hero. I have fibromyalgia plus other issues which would take too long to mention. Knowing what you are going through and have gone through gives me hope to go forward. You were the first person I ever followed on TH-cam and you will always be my number 1. Have a fantastic Christmas and may 2025 bring you better health and all you wish for. With Love xxx💖💖💖
Thank you so much for sharing this bit of information I have watched you for the last couple of years but I haven't watched you consistently on every video so some of your issues I was aware of but not all of them. I am 61 now I just turned 61 on the 15th of December and I'm experiencing so many different things I'm about the same height as you right now I'm about 2:25 I go up and down between 2:10 and 2:25 and when I had my hysterectomy back in 2013 I started developing this gut that I never ever had before and I have had a lot of physical issues with broken bones from horse accidents broken back all kinds of issues I usually have kept pretty busy but I was on prednisone and all kinds of those things that automatically make you feel better but they also make you very fat and I do have a eating disorder definitely deal with issues with comfort food so this was inspiring to hear I am so thankful that you shared I have been considering a few things to try and lose weight and get rid of this gut I have it's very massive and I'm so uncomfortable all the time and I don't want to feel like this anymore I want to be able to do things I'm going to be a grandmother for the first time in May of 25 and I want to be a good grandma I don't want to be able to keep up and enjoy my grandchildren for many years to come So I definitely want to talk to a registered dietitian and start my journey there Thank you again for sharing your journey
I remember when you were going through all this. You look amazing. All your pain and struggles have paid off. I hope this New Year brings you good health and happiness ❤
You are such an inspiration! You have been through so much and you always have a smile on your face and a great attitude. Thanks for all you do! Merry Christmas!
I think you are the BEST!!! Such a strong and resilient woman. You give great advise and are so relatable and have helped me with other things besides just makeup. I really appreciate you, thank you!!! much love and light!!
Sweet Melissa... I believe we all have a purpose in life even if we don't know what it is. I can't say I understand the purpose of pain and suffering... and as you said no one is immune. Maybe the question is how we deal with the cards dealt us. You've shown grace..strength and beauty. Honestly your resilience is phenomenal!! May the coming year bring you and your family abundant blessings for all things good💞💕
I have heard about you weight loss journey. So sorry about all your medical issues. I admire you in so many ways and you’ve come thru. I admire your attitude and your conviction. You’re doing so well considering all that happened ❤️🎉😔
Thank you for this update! I’ve been up against that wall this year myself. I have a very difficult time just moving. But I believe I’m getting past that, setting goals and moving toward them again. I’ve watched you as you’ve gone though all this, and am so thankful you’re coming through it! Thank you for sharing! You are a beautiful person through and through! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Thank you for sharing your experience. I've been considering some surgery myself after I lose about 50 more pounds. I've been "husky" my whole life so those who drop the weight are always an inspiration to me ❤
Oh Melissa….you are a strong lady. You have been through so much and look at you now. Talking about it helps you and others. Thanks for being strong and thank you for being here for us!! I look forward to seeing your videos. Thank you for your honesty. Wishing you and the family Happy Holidays. ❤
Wow Melissa!!! You’ve been through the ringer. It had made you stronger . However, yes please take a break . TH-cam can be very exhausting . I want you to do well and be well . Thank you for sharing your success story, and you look amazing!!! God bless you , Merry Christmas!!! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
You're story and early life is so much like mine. I always felt fat as a teen, even when I wasn't. I gained weight after marriage and 4 children, 3 of which were delivered by c-section. For about 20 years, I hovered around 285 (but topped out briefly at 300.) But I was recently diagnosed with diabetes and that helped me lose 110 pounds. My 2025 New Year's resolution is to lose the final 20 pounds and build some muscle. I'll be 63 at the beginning of 2025. Thank you for sharing your story. It was very encouraging.
Hi Melissa I have watched you through all of this and you are a incredible women. You have always been very beautiful. My friend had the gastric bypass surgery and she did good but then she gained some weight back that caused her some health problems. With her Dr. advice she has since lost the weight now. Thank God! She was in a dangers place with her health because of gaining the weight back. You are helping so many with sharing your journey here. I love all your makeup reviews and sick care. I have learned so much from you. Thank you. Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas . 🙏♥️🎄🎁
Hi Melissa !! Thank you for sharing . We all love ya here ❤ you have such a beautiful soul inside and out , genuine and honest . Take time for yourself and take care of your health first and foremost. Hope you have a wonderful Xmas break with your family and friends ❤🤗
I’m glad you are doing really well now. I would never go to Mexico for surgery due to the fact that if you have a complications, surgeons and Dr in USA don’t want to treat you. They didn’t do the original surgery and it’s a liability for them. Even when you’ve had surgery here in the USA, other surgeons don’t want to fix a complications from another surgeon patient. Normal the will send you back to the original surgeon. I have some issues with autoimmune functions and it took almost 10 years to finally have an anesthesiologist diagnose what was happening and was able to treat the situation. I’ve been watching your videos since you started and just love how kind and real you are. Thank you for always helping us feel good about ourselves 🌺
Thanks so much for sharing! Most people would not be brave enough but you have really done a great job explaining everything and the photos were imperative for more clarity. I'm hoping you are feeling better now and that 2025 brings you good health. Thanks again.
I think you're extraordinary. Even with diagnosed conditions, you got through all of that. You look great! God bless and Merry Christmas to you and yours.
I’m working with Dr. Gaye Gorman in Midland Michigan. I’m not brave enough to have surgery and am fortunate to not have any major health issues. It’s taken about 6 months but I’m starting to have more good days than bad. I wish you the best and thank you for sharing your journey. You have always been beautiful inside and outside. It just took you a while to figure it out.
Thank you for your update. This community supports and loves you! I had a gastric Sleeve 2 1/2 years ago and it's been a struggle. I am finally getting to onederland, but I've had to use Mounjaro to help me. I still don't know if I'll have plastic surgery. I won't make that decision until I lose another 40lbs or so. God bless you and your story and thank you for sharing! I really look forward to watching your videos.
I turn to food for comfort also. It’s a struggle. I’m just slightly over weight but I can gain weight. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I love your videos. You are beautiful.
Yes I had a C-Section too. Over the last 20 years the belly seems to be sinking lower & lower. I'm intending also to have a tummy tuck once I find a competent surgeon who doesn't cost a fortune
I’m so glad you are in a good place I know women that have had surgeries and end up with lopsided boobs, or pockets in stomach area and even feel they stilll are heavy so nit happy . So happy for you. You look great God bless you all
Hi Melissa I'm happy that your feeling better than you were, you were and are such a brave woman to have been through everything that you have dealt with, hope everything else turns out well for you, merry Christmas hope to see you in 2025 1
Boy, do I get the burnout comment. 2 spinal stenosis surgeries, hip, knee, foot, left shoulder ( just finishing recovery) right shoulder next, then carpal tunnel. Actually, for me, it is all the time consuming physical therapy that gets old and painful, but I like the therapists and other patients which makes it better. I have decided to look at it like this: I am very lucky that I CAN do these things and hopefully get better. Some people cannot so I try and bite my tongue and move forward. Hang in there with me! Merry Christmas Melissa, GOD bless!❤❤
I wish I had learned about KETO in my 50s before I messed up my metabolism. It solved most all my problems. Fatty liver middle weight, cravings, A1C, frequent illnesses/colds. Liposuction and surgery can be beneficial in removing stubborn fat cells however the only to maintain/regain your health and weight is through diet. Food is medicine.
I am so happy that I watched your video..I have autoimmune disorder and gut issues and had Majpr back surgery( 4 /fusions and four new disks and other issues) that I am not recovering like I hoped I would...wow thanks for all you do for us and we love to see you any time.. Stay strong God loves you and so do we.. God Bless and Merry Christmas😘😘
I think the less surgical procedures or intrusive things that we do to our bodies the better. There’s so many other ways that we can get help for losing weight. The psychologist and talk therapist would be good in addition to education about food and nutrition which I believe should be taught in school. Wishing you good health going forward Melissa and a merry Christmas.
I "met" you when I was lying in a hospital bed, with covid, in November of 22. I listened to your videos for 9 days. You became a great friend. My parents were both hospitalized with me. Dad didn't make it out. My mom came to recover with me for 2 weeks before she got secondary pneumonia and passed away. Three weeks after my dad. I hurt for you when you lost your dad. I have prayed for you when you went "missing" or looked "off." I have POTS and other autoimmune issues and understand and can empathize with you. Some days, or weeks, are just off. I can't name it, but I can feel that things aren't "right." I've learned to accept that and I give myself grace now during those periods. I hope that if you haven't already that you will do the same soon. We spend our youth beating ourselves up. At this stage of life, we should be enjoying who we are. Thank you for keeping me company when I was afraid I was dying. For when I was grieving the loss of my parents. For ALL the days that I don't feel right and just can't bother moving around. Please remember that you are in my prayers. Maybe some time when you aren't doing great, you'll remember that you have a friend out here that is praying for you. I know that I am not the only one. There is an army of us, I'm sure. God bless you 💖💖💖
I'm so very sorry about your parents Tamara. I'm so happy you're here with us 💛
What a touching post! All the best to you!
I'm so sorry for your terrible losses. It is horrible that you lost both parents within 3 weeks. They had to have been great parents because they raised an empathetic daughter who tries to help others. God bless you and yours.
Ooooh my heart. What a touching comment 🫶🙏🏻🥰
@lynnewright31 Thank you. It was very kind to post your comment. We all need someone who can encourage us, empathize with us, walk beside us, and cry with us. Most of all, for me, I need someone to hear me. I guess that is my love language. It's easy for me to listen, and Melissa is so easy to "hear." She is so genuine. I love and respect that. 💖
I could relate to much of what you discussed here about weight and self-esteem. You have been through so much...now I hope you can truly enjoy your new life! You have been so brave! Nothing was going to stop you. It's funny though...when you showed your pictures throughout the years...you were always beautiful. Always pretty with a kind expression. I know burnout my friend. I also know what it's like to take on the sorrows of our subscribers. It changes us forever. A very Merry Christmas to you and yours sweet one, Susan & Desi
Thanks for your sweet support Susan! 💖
I'm just happy tht you got through it all with flying colors and you look gorgeous!!
Melissa….you’re such an inspiration! I know you’ve been through so much, but you look stunning now! You were beautiful before, but your story gives me a lot of hope. I can relate to having such weight gain and am the biggest I’ve ever been. I’m working on my health now and have taken off 18 lbs so far. I look forward to living in a body that I can be proud of. Thank you for sharing your story. 💜❤️🩷
That's wonderful Donna! Congrats 👏
Thank you so much for posting and sharing your story. I wish you much continued good health here on out. I had gastric bypass surgery 2 years ago and had lost 160 pounds. I am in Canada so I did have to wait 4.5 years to get my surgery and there was quite a rigorous process (lots of hoops to jump through). I haven't lost any more weight and I need to, by about 50 pounds worth. I agree about the talk therapy, I have started doing that this year and it'll be a slow process. I ended up being divorced after 24 years and now nearly 2 decades later, I'm just starting to process and start healing. Food too was my comfort. I will be 60 in a few years and would really like to be more healthy, and more mobile (both my knees need replacing but right now I can't because of other chronic health issues) Being over 200 pounds overweight totally destroyed my knees especially. In the last six months I've started to do more self care - wanting to wear makeup to boost my spirits. I've been buying so much and lots of it doesn't work with mature skin. So I have been enjoying your videos. Today's video just really touched me and so I wanted to thank you for sharing your story. Happy Holidays to you and your loved ones!
Congratulations on such tremendous success sweetie 😘
Randi, People blame the fact that they are unable to lose weight because they're not able to exercise, but the main key is what you put in your mouth. Because people in the hospital all lose weight because they don't eat that much, along with elderly people who eat very little. So you can lose the weight if you eat half of what you did when you were able to work out, but people continue to eat the same even when they stop working. So you can do it, just zip the lip & take up a new hobby!!! God bless the new you on your new journey. YOU can do it for YOU!!!!!!
@@valentina-pg4bj Valentina, my mother taught us if we don't have something good to say, don't say anything at all. Since I was not asking for advice, please do not offer any. For you to tell me to zip my mouth and eat half what I am eating, very harmful. Not that you deserve to know, but I get 600 calories a day into my body most of it is protein. So if I were to be silly enough to listen to some unsolicited internet person's advice of eating 300 calories per day, just imagine the health concerns that could result. Thankfully I am followed by and listen to my specialists. Please do not respond to me. This post was to thank Melissa for an inspiring video so do not get side tracked from that.
You look amazing! Everyone I know that has had the weight loss surgery says they would do it in a heartbeat. I wish I had the money to do that! I’m morbidly obese and trying to do it with diet and exercise. Wish me luck! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I hope you have a fantastic new year!
I wish you the best of luck. I can tell you that it won't be easy, but it will be worth it. When you want to give up, remember that your weight came over time and it's going to take time to lose. If you have a setback, give yourself grace, please. Start from where you are, and be patient. Don't beat yourself up about anything. I tried to remember that i wasn't beating myself up when i was putting on the weight. Remember, everyone may not be in your corner, and that's okay. Be your own cheerleader. I suggest you take photos and measurements along the way because the scale will discourage you at times. I don't know you, but i love you for trying. I believe you will succeed if you just keep going, no matter what. YOU GOT THIS. 😊
I'm rooting for you Annette. It's such a struggle & can be frustrating. Try modifying to a keto based diet & do intermittent fasting if you can. It's helped me keep the weight off all these years. You got this girl!
@@MrsMelissaM thank you! I am currently following a modified keto. It’s doable, but difficult. I lost 70 pounds 2 years ago, but then backslid hard, gained it all back and picked up a binging habit. I think I have that under control now, but definitely need to add some therapy. Thanks for the encouragement!
@@lilbit2274 thank you so much! 😊
@annettegatlin2161 You're so very welcome 😊
I, too, have reached 300 lbs. I’m considering Ozempic, but I know I’ll most likely gain the weight back after stopping it. I’ve become so sedentary that just walking down the driveway to my mailbox wears me out. I’m 60 and feel 80. I appreciate you being so real about your journey.
My dear friend, I hope you will think about going keto/carnivore. It changes everything. God bless you!
@@karenschmid5465 Could not agree more Karen~ both my husband & myself, as well as many other people we know. It's as if we're aging in reverse, in so many ways. The biggest changes & deepest healing has taken place after transitioning from keto to primarily meat based, or "carnivore". Spent years researching it all, since I just couldn't fathom not eating a "low fat/whole grain/lean protein/12 servings of veg & fruit" type diet. We'd been taught this for decades, yet it was making us sicker.What we eat really does affect every system in the body & brain. It truly does feel amazing, & wish the same for anyone & everyone else it may do the same for.Samantha in AZ
Yup I know how it is
I have lost 40 pounds with Ozempic, worked out with a personal trainer for two weeks and now weight train 3x a week on my own at 50 years of age. Never exercised a day in my life. Highly recommend.
6 months on Zepbound and I am down 65 lbs (SW 358). I was always too scared to get weight loss surgery. I gained and lost over 100 lbs three times in my life (61yo). Zepbound saved me not only physically, but mentally and emotionally. I plan on staying on the medication for life. 2 main reasons....
1) the science shows value to the heart and kidneys, reduces inflammation and pain, and other conditions (Hoshimotos & PCOS for example).
2) I have the disease of obesity which includes an Endocrine system GLP-1 (hormone /peptide) deficiency. GLP-1 deficiency means my gut-brain communication doesn't work. I never knew when I was full (satiety) until I was so physically full I couldn't eat any more. Add to that always being compelled to eat because the you're-full fool-push-the-plate-away signal never got sent to my brain. My brain freaked our 24/7 "YOU'RE STARVING TO DEATH YOU MUST CONSUME FOOD". And that's called "Food Noise". I never knew there was such a thing until I started watching YT channels for Ozempic/Wegovy/Monjouro/Zepbound patients. I just thought normal sized people had strong willpower to ignore that disruptive cacophony. Injecting GLP-1 and Tirzepatide gives me agency over food and food choices. My brain now gets the satiety signals from my stomach! Pushing away the plate has never been so EASY. So THIS is what "normal" people feel like. No wonder they can decide to lose 10 lbs and then DO IT! Amazing power. And now I have it. The food noise is my kryptonite. I don't ever want to lose this Super Power. The weight is just going away. I don't get hungry... or rather, I feel hungry when my body signals to my brain (super power) that it needs energy. So I fuel it. I no longer have Oreos and Nachos pervasively invade and interrupt my thoughts. I now have a feeling of control that I only dreamed of having before Zepbound. I actually want to move my body. Go for walks, park farther from my destination, etc. It's weird.....and wonderful all at the same time. The best decision I EVER made. I hesitated for a year due to believing all the not-true negative stories about side effects. Oy. I regret that I didn't start a year earlier. My only advice to anyone on the subject, is: the perfect time to start is now. ❤
Darling lady. You are so courageous! Thank you for sharing your story. I was with you during your weight loss journey PRAYING! Sending a big warm virtual hug❣️
Melissa, I am sorry that you are still experiencing pain due to the portal vein blockage. Prayers of healing and low pain days. Take care and thank you for always showing up with great content 💜
Wow! What an incredible woman you are! What a journey you have been on! We love you, Messila! It's so important to take care of you!
Merry Christmas, Beautiful! ❤
thanks for being vulnerable and sharing this story. so many of us are dealing with these things or similar issues. Nice to know we are a community.
Ah Melissa
What a lovely person you are. Thank you for sharing your journey and all the challenges you’ve been through. My weight has yo-yo-ed over the years and I also have several autoimmune diseases. It’s all a bit rubbish, but staying positive and putting on a bit of makeup helps a lot. Wishing you the best in 2025 xx
Melissa, you have been through the mill.
I’m sorry you went through so much but if it matters, you look great and sound great. Thank you for sharing all this with us
I’m so sorry that I’m just now seeing this video, Melissa ❤You know how much I love you❣️I’m so proud of you, and grateful for your honesty and authenticity. If I had a chance to be a BFF with someone, it would be you ❤Happiest New Year, EVER💯❤️🥰🙏🏼🎊❣️🥂
AGREE! I am currently seeing a Registered Dietitian once a month(In person -Not internet 11:32 ) so far I have lost about 30lbs with 40 more to go and having a professional person who has actually had clinicals in order to get their bachelor's/ master's degree shows me they know their stuff. A 3 week nutrition course online will not cut it , for sure get an RD. Very good advice.❤
As an RD with a Master’s degree: thank you for your support
No apologies need. I never realized what you were going through, but knew it was a tough time. Love you Melissa. You’re glowing and thanks for being honest with your friends here.
Amazing video, that's for sharing. We all love you, beautiful lady ❤
Melissa that must have been a very hard video to speak about. I give you so much credit. Thank you for speaking from the heart. You are an inspiration to us all. I have been with you for years & will continue as long as you are here. Love you very much.
As a larger woman who hit that platue I think you are strong to get the surgery, no chance here in UK unless you have money. Well done 👏 xx
Unless you go to Mexico too!
What a wonderful way to share what all you've been through... You have been a source of strength for me as I've gone through one of the hardest years of my life. You may remember that I told you I shared fibromyalgia with you, along with psoriatic arthritis , migraines, gut issues & some follow-ons from the main condition. In February of 2024, my husband was admitted to the hospital with covid, aspirational pneumonia, and swallowing issues. After he was admitted to the hospital, I found out I had covid, which then became pneumonia, I was having some shortness of breath, but pushed it aside as stress. My husband was sent home from the hospital under hospice care on March 4 . He died on March 9. My breathing issues got worse, but I still felt like it was stress & added unbearable grief. Fast forward to November 2. I ended up in an ambulance on the way to the ER because I couldn't get enough oxygen to be able to breathe, talk, move... Anyway, I was admitted to the hospital with Acute Respiratory Failure with Hypoxia. I was sent home after 11 days, with oxygen in several formats, a salt restricted diet, fluid intake restrictions, plus follow-up visits with my pulmonologist, a new cardiologist & my primary care doc. Also lots more tests... Anyway, I am now diagnosed as having Interstitial Lung Disease, which is more than I have the strength to explain... But, the point in all this is that we often face many life-changing events, health issues, loss & grief, but we can find the strength to move forward & still have purpose in our lives. Melissa, you bring hope & encouragement to your viewers who are facing challenges in their lives. You spoke words of encouragement to me indirectly in your videos & directly to me in your replies. Thank you! In this community we can bring encouragement & support to each other in a very safe environment. Thank you, Melissa for all that you do for your viewers. You are loved & appreciated!!!
My heart breaks for you Julie. I'm so very sorry. I'll keep you in my prayers.
@@MrsMelissaM Thank you so much, Melissa.
Thank you for sharing your story with honesty and compassion.
You hit it all ! When you’re going thru this kind of weight loss you need an array of Drs for different medical issues you may have but who are all in conjunction with you “ the patient” for your well being physically and mentally ! You are doing remarkable! I’m sure so many will gain an insight on the pros and cons of this surgery and will make good decisions based on your video ! Sending you Hugs and a very Merry Christmas 🎄 ❤Barb
What a wonderful testimony to your strength and honesty. Thank you for sharing.
You look amazing, I understand the autoimmune diseases but not weight issues. I think we all have to make our on personal decisions. You look amazing and I pray you continue to be healthy and strong. 🙏💛
Wow. I will have to watch this again to take it all in. Thank you for sharing so much in depth personal stuff. But please, please don't let guilt force you to put out videos. We will wait for you. Your mental health is so much more important. I hope you can resolve your personal issues and can come back to us with peace in your heart. Happy holidays!
This video proves you never know the journeys someone goes thru! You shared such personal stories and it means so much to so many! You are a strong, beautiful woman!!❤
You’re a very strong woman. You went through so much. Best always. Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, happy New Year. Whatever holidays anyone celebrates I wish the best to all
I remember all this. The night you did an on the spot video loosing hair. You had back issues to. I seem to remember. Love you to. Its good to let people know that don't know. No matter your weight you are always beautiful. And yes it's fine to say but if like you , your very aware. Not easy to live with. Hey Diggy Doggies. XxX ❤❤❤🦮🐾🐾🐶🐾🐾
Melissa - you are so brave, thank you for sharing. ❤
I’ve had a tummy tuck. I was 38. I also had my post-baby boobs fixed at the same time. Not sure I’d recommend that…..but I was glad I did it. It made a world of difference to my self esteem. I think everyone should do what they want if they can afford it. Thank you for sharing your journey.
Melissa - I am so sorry that your life was/is turned upside down with all the health issues. Dispite everything you have gone thru you still take time to bring joy to others. Thank you for that. Merry Christmas and Happy New Years
Merry Christmas Melissa, I have been with you and your journey for over 9 years and you still inspire me, your one brave lady with all you’ve been through. I always thought you were beautiful back then and you’re still a beauty.🥰🎄❤️
You’ve been an inspiration to me for years. Thank you. Your honesty and authenticity speaks to your integrity. Thank you.
You are an inspiration and a strong woman. Keep on staying strong.
Melissa, you are such a sweet, kind person to share your journey with all of us. I had RNY in 2018 and lost over 200 pounds super quick, since then, over the past 3 years, I gained back over 100 pounds. So mad and disgusted with myself at times. It is so hard and people don't understand. Everything in our lives goes back to food and if have a compulsive personality, like me, it can become overwhelming. I so proud of you for keeping your weight off, even though your journey has been harder than most, you are such an inspiration. All the best wished for you in 2025!
Wow.. Your honesty and sincerity touches me every time. Thank you this was so helpful.
Thank you for the update on your health. We all care about you and wish for a wonderful 2025 for our Melissa!
God bless you Melissa. You've really been thru it. Thank you for sharing. Merry Christmas!
You are such a strong woman and I admire you greatly I love you and I asked the Lord to continue to watch over you God bless you
How amazing your journey has been. Funny that even with all that weight, you were still beautiful. I am so happy for you. You look absolutely amazing. HAPPY HOLIDAYS...................MINDY
Thanks for sharing. I have Raynaud’s, too. I had a tummy tuck May 2023. I had just turned 65. I had gained 36 lbs when pregnant- I only started at 118, so it was a lot on my small frame, but doctor wasn’t concerned. I lost it because I was a nervous wreck being a first time mom!I had the bit of extra skin though. Then I had another child 4.5 years later, gained 36 lbs again. I lost that, too. Then, 10 years ago, I had my 4th spinal surgery and recovery was tough- I was 56 then. In the 4-5 years after that, I slowly added 30-35 lbs. overindulging and not be very active. I hated it, so I cut out all the junk and started walking almost daily and I lost it over the period of a year or so. (My older male neighbor complimented me, saying he noticed how much better I looked- that was nice to hear! Those close to you don’t notice as much because they see you daily). But, I did have this loose belly skin. Not much fat, I was about 122 lbs. Saw a plastic surgeon and treated myself. The recovery was harder than the spine surgery! So tough! I had the drains for 6 weeks. I “fudged” the output numbers so they’d take it out. I regret that now, because I think my belly would have been a little flatter if I didn’t. BUT, a year and a half later, I am very pleased with the result. I told the surgeon, I just wanted to look better in clothes and I do. She said I was “the perfect candidate” with that extra belly skin. I have a cut from hip to hip, but it all healed well and my husband likes the result, too. He was very supportive.
Thanks so much for sharing your experience Janet. Congratulations 🎊
Hey Melissa! I’ve been with you for quite a few years. I can’t begin to imagine all the pain and struggle. I like so many others have my own mental and health issues. You are such an inspiration to see how far you’ve come and what a strong, determined woman you are. It really makes my problems seem so small. Thank you for your transparency over the years. You have been a blessing and joy to so many of us. God bless you always. I hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas and a healthy, happy new year. Much love and many prayers continued.❤
Have a blessed Christmas, know you are in my prayers for health and strength as you continue on your wellness journey MrsMelissa❤🙏🏼.
Melissa, I am really sorry for all your struggles. I am very health conscious and yet have three auto immune diseases. I saw out a functional medicine doctor and she put me on hydroxycloriquine. It has made quite a difference. I haven’t had any flares since being on it and it brought my thyroid antibodies way down. I enjoy your videos so much! Thanks for hanging in there. Praying the new year brings you good health!🙏
wow girl what an inspiration you are. Thank you for addressing so many important issues. We love you.
I'm happy and grateful you're open and honest with us about your journey! Thank you for always being your beautiful self 💖
“Merry Christmas Eve Eve” Melissa!
Glad you’re feeling better. You’ve had quite the journey.
I’ve gained a lot of weight the past few years and my Dr referred me to Bariatrics early this year.
I have a couple of friends who’ve gone through it and they’re very happy.
I realize that it’s just not for me. It’s just way too restrictive. I enjoy going to a party of a buffet when I visit Las Vegas.
We had a potluck today and I made some wise choices. The room was filled with carbs but I stuck with protein 😊
I’ve lost 10 pounds this month by being more mindful and hitting the gym.
Hope you and your family have a heathy band happy 2025!! 😊❤️🎅🏼🎄💚🙏🏻
You have been through so much and my heart goes out to you ❤
Having the support of people on YT has helped me through so many hard times so I can absolutely relate
Love and hugs
Frances ❤
You are courageous, strong and determined, Melissa. You inspire through your positive spirit and ability to overcome all odds!
I had a gastric bypass 20 years ago things are much different today then they were back then but i weighted 400 lbs i have lost 200 and for the most part keep it off but i never had plastic surgery I have learned to love my body. Thanks for sharing your story
I think that if you are brave enough to share the things you do on TH-cam, like your life struggles and some of your family's experiences, it means you're a very strong woman! You may not always feel that way, but it just goes to show how strong and resilient you are! I really feel like you're a great example for all of us who struggle through life. Having good supportive family and friends in one's life is key!❤😊
Melissa you are my hero. I have fibromyalgia plus other issues which would take too long to mention. Knowing what you are going through and have gone through gives me hope to go forward. You were the first person I ever followed on TH-cam and you will always be my number 1. Have a fantastic Christmas and may 2025 bring you better health and all you wish for. With Love xxx💖💖💖
Thank you so much for sharing this bit of information I have watched you for the last couple of years but I haven't watched you consistently on every video so some of your issues I was aware of but not all of them. I am 61 now I just turned 61 on the 15th of December and I'm experiencing so many different things I'm about the same height as you right now I'm about 2:25 I go up and down between 2:10 and 2:25 and when I had my hysterectomy back in 2013 I started developing this gut that I never ever had before and I have had a lot of physical issues with broken bones from horse accidents broken back all kinds of issues I usually have kept pretty busy but I was on prednisone and all kinds of those things that automatically make you feel better but they also make you very fat and I do have a eating disorder definitely deal with issues with comfort food so this was inspiring to hear I am so thankful that you shared I have been considering a few things to try and lose weight and get rid of this gut I have it's very massive and I'm so uncomfortable all the time and I don't want to feel like this anymore I want to be able to do things I'm going to be a grandmother for the first time in May of 25 and I want to be a good grandma I don't want to be able to keep up and enjoy my grandchildren for many years to come So I definitely want to talk to a registered dietitian and start my journey there Thank you again for sharing your journey
Thank you Melissa for being vulnerable and for sharing your weight loss journey. Wishing you strength and health. Greetings from London 🇬🇧💜🔮🌺
I remember when you were going through all this. You look amazing. All your pain and struggles have paid off. I hope this New Year brings you good health and happiness ❤
You are such an inspiration! You have been through so much and you always have a smile on your face and a great attitude. Thanks for all you do! Merry Christmas!
I think you are the BEST!!! Such a strong and resilient woman. You give great advise and are so relatable and have helped me with other things besides just makeup. I really appreciate you, thank you!!! much love and light!!
Sweet Melissa... I believe we all have a purpose in life even if we don't know what it is. I can't say I understand the purpose of pain and suffering... and as you said no one is immune. Maybe the question is how we deal with the cards dealt us. You've shown grace..strength and beauty. Honestly your resilience is phenomenal!! May the coming year bring you and your family abundant blessings for all things good💞💕
Thank you sweet friend.
Thank you for your honest, heartfelt sharing. You are a lovely person and I hope you can get to feel as well as you look, which is great!
I have heard about you weight loss journey. So sorry about all your medical issues. I admire you in so many ways and you’ve come thru. I admire your attitude and your conviction. You’re doing so well considering all that happened ❤️🎉😔
Thank you for this update! I’ve been up against that wall this year myself. I have a very difficult time just moving. But I believe I’m getting past that, setting goals and moving toward them again. I’ve watched you as you’ve gone though all this, and am so thankful you’re coming through it! Thank you for sharing! You are a beautiful person through and through!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Thank you for sharing your experience. I've been considering some surgery myself after I lose about 50 more pounds. I've been "husky" my whole life so those who drop the weight are always an inspiration to me ❤
My takeaway today is that I need to deal with emotions before they become health diagnoses. Overeating is not my friend. ❤
💯 yes Jessa!
You are such an inspiration! I have so much admiration for you.🧡🧡🧡
Oh Melissa….you are a strong lady. You have been through so much and look at you now. Talking about it helps you and others. Thanks for being strong and thank you for being here for us!! I look forward to seeing your videos. Thank you for your honesty. Wishing you and the family Happy Holidays. ❤
Thanks for sharing. I knew about many of the things that have happened to you but not all of them...wow! ❤
Sending you love and support from England xx
Wow Melissa!!! You’ve been through the ringer. It had made you stronger . However, yes please take a break . TH-cam can be very exhausting . I want you to do well and be well . Thank you for sharing your success story, and you look amazing!!! God bless you , Merry Christmas!!! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
You're story and early life is so much like mine. I always felt fat as a teen, even when I wasn't. I gained weight after marriage and 4 children, 3 of which were delivered by c-section. For about 20 years, I hovered around 285 (but topped out briefly at 300.) But I was recently diagnosed with diabetes and that helped me lose 110 pounds. My 2025 New Year's resolution is to lose the final 20 pounds and build some muscle. I'll be 63 at the beginning of 2025. Thank you for sharing your story. It was very encouraging.
Hi Melissa I have watched you through all of this and you are a incredible women. You have always been very beautiful. My friend had the gastric bypass surgery and she did good but then she gained some weight back that caused her some health problems. With her Dr. advice she has since lost the weight now. Thank God! She was in a dangers place with her health because of gaining the weight back. You are helping so many with sharing your journey here. I love all your makeup reviews and sick care. I have learned so much from you. Thank you. Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas . 🙏♥️🎄🎁
Hi Melissa !! Thank you for sharing . We all love ya here ❤ you have such a beautiful soul inside and out , genuine and honest . Take time for yourself and take care of your health first and foremost. Hope you have a wonderful Xmas break with your family and friends ❤🤗
I’m glad you are doing really well now. I would never go to Mexico for surgery due to the fact that if you have a complications, surgeons and Dr in USA don’t want to treat you. They didn’t do the original surgery and it’s a liability for them. Even when you’ve had surgery here in the USA, other surgeons don’t want to fix a complications from another surgeon patient. Normal the will send you back to the original surgeon. I have some issues with autoimmune functions and it took almost 10 years to finally have an anesthesiologist diagnose what was happening and was able to treat the situation. I’ve been watching your videos since you started and just love how kind and real you are. Thank you for always helping us feel good about ourselves 🌺
Thanks so much for sharing! Most people would not be brave enough but you have really done a great job explaining everything and the photos were imperative for more clarity. I'm hoping you are feeling better now and that 2025 brings you good health. Thanks again.
Take care of yourself beautiful lady❤
Melissa thank you for sharing. Wishing you much health in 2025💕
I think you're extraordinary. Even with diagnosed conditions, you got through all of that. You look great! God bless and Merry Christmas to you and yours.
I’m working with Dr. Gaye Gorman in Midland Michigan. I’m not brave enough to have surgery and am fortunate to not have any major health issues. It’s taken about 6 months but I’m starting to have more good days than bad. I wish you the best and thank you for sharing your journey. You have always been beautiful inside and outside. It just took you a while to figure it out.
God bless you Melissa! You are one brave lady! ❤
Thank you for your update. This community supports and loves you! I had a gastric Sleeve 2 1/2 years ago and it's been a struggle. I am finally getting to onederland, but I've had to use Mounjaro to help me. I still don't know if I'll have plastic surgery. I won't make that decision until I lose another 40lbs or so. God bless you and your story and thank you for sharing! I really look forward to watching your videos.
WOw, you are very impressive and brave. Thank you for sharing this with is... God Bless You. Merry Christmas....
I turn to food for comfort also. It’s a struggle. I’m just slightly over weight but I can gain weight. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I love your videos. You are beautiful.
I thought I commented on this.
Glad you're okay you've been through so much.
Take care Melissa Jennifer 🤗
Thanks girlfriend
Gosh you have gone through it I’m sorry. I wish you good health now
You are such an inspiration and a beautiful soul. Thank you
Thank you for speaking so openly about your experiences.
Yes I had a C-Section too. Over the last 20 years the belly seems to be sinking lower & lower. I'm intending also to have a tummy tuck once I find a competent surgeon who doesn't cost a fortune
❤ YOU are amazing and brave and please be kind to yourself. We'll be here when you are more yourself. Merry Christmas dear Melissa
I’m so glad you are in a good place I know women that have had surgeries and end up with lopsided boobs, or pockets in stomach area and even feel they stilll are heavy so nit happy . So happy for you. You look great God bless you all
Thank you for sharing. Looking pretty today. Merry Christmas to you and yours 🎄❤️
I love you and your channel ❤️. Take a break, and come back when you are ready. 🎉
Hi Melissa I'm happy that your feeling better than you were, you were and are such a brave woman to have been through everything that you have dealt with, hope everything else turns out well for you, merry Christmas hope to see you in 2025 1
Boy, do I get the burnout comment. 2 spinal stenosis surgeries, hip, knee, foot, left shoulder ( just finishing recovery) right shoulder next, then carpal tunnel. Actually, for me, it is all the time consuming physical therapy that gets old and painful, but I like the therapists and other patients which makes it better. I have decided to look at it like this: I am very lucky that I CAN do these things and hopefully get better. Some people cannot so I try and bite my tongue and move forward. Hang in there with me! Merry Christmas Melissa, GOD bless!❤❤
I wish I had learned about KETO in my 50s before I messed up my metabolism. It solved most all my problems. Fatty liver middle weight, cravings, A1C, frequent illnesses/colds. Liposuction and surgery can be beneficial in removing stubborn fat cells however the only to maintain/regain your health and weight is through diet. Food is medicine.
Great reminder. And you're so right!
Sending love, peace and healing energy. ✌️❤️🕊
I am so happy that I watched your video..I have autoimmune disorder and gut issues and had Majpr back surgery( 4 /fusions and four new disks and other issues) that I am not recovering like I hoped I would...wow thanks for all you do for us and we love to see you any time.. Stay strong God loves you and so do we.. God Bless and Merry Christmas😘😘
Wishing you comfort & hoping for your recovery Sylvia.
I think the less surgical procedures or intrusive things that we do to our bodies the better. There’s so many other ways that we can get help for losing weight. The psychologist and talk therapist would be good in addition to education about food and nutrition which I believe should be taught in school.
Wishing you good health going forward Melissa and a merry Christmas.
You are so courageous and brave , thank you for sharing. You’re lovely and sooo talented🥰❤️
You look beautiful, and so sweet also! Thank you for your honesty.
I really enjoyed this. I appreciate your transparency and educational insight. ❤