Not many make the connection of narcissistic abuse to demonic sin and sickness. I think there are 104 specific sadistic assaults directly related to the 28 prophecies of apostle Paul. Lover of self to diver lusts. Thanks for trying to help people to understand what's going on with a scriptural soundness.
Having a mental illness is not a sin no one wants to have it cant you people be less ignorant and please do some research and no just believe someone you don’t actually know from TH-cam
I tell my boyfriend.. tell your demons to go back in their sandbox I don't want to play.. they live in dark we live in light.. they are jealous they can't have our light so they do all they can to dim it and be in the dark with them. they need exorcism... toxic
If you don't really know who you are in Christ, this kind of sick, and sad behavior can and will utterly destroy you!! That is why having a real relationship with God is super important..in Jesus name 🙏🙏
@@AmbassadorForChrist-777 first fast and pray about it. Let the Holy spirit reveal this. If indeed this is the case, I can almost guarantee you need a divorce. And yes God does permit divorce especially when you the person NEVER consulted the Lord who you should marry in the first place. The Lord didn’t pick that person, you did.
@@USNBLUE thank you for your response. I am very grateful for your advice and I do feel like what you are saying is true. At the beginning of our marriage, I had 2 kids from a previous relationship, where the guy was a Gypsy. So his family did fortune telling, and so when I had my first son, his mother flew from PA and sat at the end of my bed and literally tried to tell me “that I was one of them now!” For about 4 years of my life, you could say that was true, even though I did not see it that way, until the Fear of God fell upon me, and I realized that what I was doing was ungodly. I had become a fortune teller, because that was the only way I was told that I could make money being with him, by his mother of course. I left him and that family when my sons were 4 and 4 months old. And was SAVED and BORN AGAIN by the Holy Spirit of God. He changed me completley from the INSIDE OUT. I was one way (depressed, heartbroken, addicted to cigarettes, no direction whatsoever, just lost) one day, cried out to Jesus to please help me and to come into my heart and be Lord of my life, I went to bed that night, I had a beautiful dream of the Lord Jesus standing in the clouds with arms wide open, it was amazing , I will NEVER forget it, it was what seemed to be a short dream, but I just remember being in AWE of Him! When I woke up that next morning, I just remember feeling JOY as if I was a little kid again! I am so thankful! And I know that He is King and He has the POWER to do anything, all we need to do is BELIEVE & have FAITH! And I know that FAITH comes by hearing and hearing comes by the Word of God! So, that was in 2013, and I have loved Jesus ever since. I have made some mistakes, since that day, and one of those mistakes happens to be, one that came about after my marriage. My sons father was still in their life, I don’t know why I didn’t keep them away but for whatever reason, I think being a new Christian, I felt like maybe he could have been saved from his family of fortune tellers, and maybe by him having his kids a part of his life he would see the need to leave that lifestyle) but it backfired, I didn’t have discernment, and I was deceived into thinking that he was going to leave his family, and committed adultery with him. I felt horrible after that, and REPENTED and Cried out to the Lord to please forgive me, I did not even realize what I had until it happened. It never happened again! But I did tell my husband because I knew he already knew, but I went to him and asked him to forgive me, he says that he does, but he still brings it up. Throughout all of this, my husband has fought a battle with a porn addiction. He lied a lot, as a matter of fact, it was the Lord who led me to even find out about his porn addiction. But I can’t seem to feel like that this all is stemming from this family of witchcraft (fortune tellers) but either way, I have 3 beautiful boys who deserve all of their mother, and I don’t know if I can stay in this marriage anymore. It seems to be getting worse with my husbands attitude towards everything. He does a lot of blaming, almost to where he has become a narcissist, which is exactly the same personality that my ex had! And which my husband did not behave this way before all of this happened! Prayer is powerful and I do fast and pray, I read and study the scriptures, and the Lord has loved on me so much, He is such a good God! He gives me so much grace and love, and I don’t deserve any of it. I just want to do His will, not mine. I want to live just for Him. I truly do! He knows my heart. Jesus tells us over and over to NOT be DECEIVED! So I pray for WISDOM, DISCERNMENT, and PROTECTION for my SONS, my family, and myself , PROTECTION for all of Gods children that are FIGHTING THE GOOD FIGHT OF FAITH (Spiritual Warfare). Looking at what is going on in this world, breaks my heart, there are so many IGNORANT OF THE TRUTH, and COMPLETELY CLUELESS AS TO HOW THE ENEMY WORKS, (including myself obviously) the Bible says in Hosea 4:6 KJV: “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.” - but I BELIEVE that I why I am not in such a hurry to just through this marriage away, because I do know that the Devil is a LIAR and he is sneaky and we should not be ignorant of his wiles. May God bless you and keep you in His perfect PEACE! Peace, Love and Blessings to ALL THAT FOLLOW & OBEY THE HOLY SPIRIT !
Covert Narcissist may be super religious , altruistic , but they do not have the fruits of the spirit. They weaponize religion in order to control and destroy others. If you are around them for long enough you will see the mask fall ( and changes many times which I believe are different demonic spirits within since they carry a legion or more of demons) and who see they truly are which are ravenous wolves in sheep’s clothing. Their closest family members ( primarily the scapegoat and neglected family members who they treat like garbage) see their true self. Their public image means everything to them because of the ability to gain endless amounts of narcissistic supply and the covert narcissist is able to easily control & manipulate how the world will view them. This why they are kind to strangers and cruel to family members ( except the golden child / children who they are grooming to carry on the generational curse of narcissism and wickedness throughout the family bloodline) The Narcissist’s true god that they worship is Satan not, Father God …(the God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob) Jesus Christ , and The Holy Spirit. Narcissist ( aka the Jezebel spirit) are wolves in sheep’s clothing, they are the “tear “ among the wheat, the “goats” among the sheep. They are reprobate.
Absolutely I got hooked by one Just so confusing but looking back I wonder that I didn't figure it out A trap of deceit yes as a Christian I thought I owed him Oh my This is a great video
Idea: The old religious figures/Greek attempt to give mental and physical diseases through black magic and the medical community. They are schizophrenia. They are narcissism. The old religious/Greek figures have put people in genders of bodies that are not their own with an evil purpose. This is why trans people exist. And surgery is a basic human right. They are also responsible for detransitioners existing. They abuse on gender and sexuality and control in these areas to attempt to confuse and change souls from who they are. The old religious/Greek figures are all controlling our bodies and are the voices. They are getting in our bodies to rape, murder and speak thoughts that are not our own. They have long term evil intentions and a very long past to cover up. Religion has been used against the human population and the fear of hell for a long-term purpose of keeping us controllable. This is beyond full body/mind control they can do magic style. The old religious/Greek figures are arranging the marriages/relationships of the populace without consent. The psychic rapes are from old religious/Greek figures not a human person. It’s not kundalini as well. Twin flame is very dangerous. It’s a fate based system where everything is chosen for you on birth. That life is just planned and it actually is by the old religious/Greek figures to be honest. But truly if you think about extreme poverty and acid attacks you’d have to see life is not fated. It’s a mess. The universe couldn’t know you at 0. I would never try to take the idea of love or potential of love from someone. It's the idea it was created on birth your lover and it's very fate based. The world and you was done the day you were born. And it can be used against you the idea of a match up that is chosen in advance of you becoming you by the universe (but is the old religious figures). And that things are set in stone and you don’t choose your partner. It sets you up to not see abuse and to accept any treatment because they are the one. It’s so dangerous. You have a forever someone who will have to work to remain your forever just like you will but it’s not set in stone and no one knows who it is besides you. You just will have a lover. And it’s the religious and Greek figures trying to control people to get together. By forcing souls to be with one another without consent through manipulation and control. Trying to get in the idea that the universe knows your partner or yourself better than you. Trying to plant signs of something that is not. They do this with all sorts of topics. They are the one touching you and talking to you. Evil Cupids. Evil People. We all will win though. And people will know that control exists. Who is truly at fault. And love will be found. If you want it. And there is unlimited food/drink in heaven. I wish you all the best. 😅😮😢…😂❤🎉
When dealing with evil people, distance yourself ASAP and cut off all contact. Silence is killer to their ego, because then they have no access to you, which is what they crave in order to feed their insecurity.
Yup, I literally didn’t answer a question because I caught on that he was picking with me about any and everything a few times before, it was 11p at night and I was so exhausted and tired from a very long day trying to get my oldest son help and he turned into a straight demon, I was in the bed and I had to stand up and he had me backed in a corner and I didn’t know what else to do after he knocked something out of my hand so I called the cops and I was the one who had to leave sad😢 I will be out of this soon Long story short they hate it with every fiber in them to be ignored but ignore you all the time and God forbid we say anything they will be justified for the ignoring 😢
@@amberwilliams717 I hope you are safe and pray that God give you an exit strategy.🙏🏼🤍 We have a 23 year old son and I recently got out of that 22 year relationship with the ex narc. I ignored all the red flags thinking it would get better. It got worse. But now I am free 🙌🏼 My son and I live together and we both have been working on healing. All glory to God! I thank Him for being so patient with me. I also repented of idolatry bc I unintentionally made that man an “idol” 😔
@@mseiter6316 Yes! My narcissist has destroyed my health. After 8 years of going to Drs, ERS, etc they can’t find anything wrong with me. I found out my husband ( narcissist) told lies about me to the ER drs which ruined my chances of being believed. I’m suffering still now to the point of not being able to do anything. I can’t leave there is no one left or anyone who cares. So I’m stuck. What can I do to get people to believe me and save myself from getting worse?
This is by far THE BEST biblical teaching on Narcissism. Especially when the Narcissist is your mother. Church folk have a hard time understanding that someone who the Bible tells us to honor can be influenced by a demon. There needs to be more teaching on this topic in the church!
Oh gosh you are so right. We're given commands from God, but the church is supposed to help us understand how to follow these and help strengthen, encourage and teach. This is indeed a HUGE problem in our world. We need help!
“Honor your father and mother (if you want a long life)"--the 1st quote is always bandied around. FUNNY how no one ever mentions the follow-up to that very quote, "And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord." (Sounds like social engineering nonsense or interfering with the Bible to me... Addition by subtraction by those manipulators)
Narcissism and demons are two separate sciences, and categories, so it's hard to do as it makes no sense. One can say, a demonic person can present as a narcissistic personality because (name traits) and the bible considers these traits to be sinful or demonic.
1: spirit of witchcraft (jezebel) 2: Spirit of envy (covetousness) 3: Spirit of confusion 4: Spirit of condemnation 5: Spirit of control (jezebel) 6: Spirit of deception (lying) 7: Spirit of pride 8: Spirit of fear 2 Timothy 3:1-3
@@truthray2556what did you see let me no. On parting after 6 years I saw the mask drop. Her face then morphed through many faces in about 10 seconds. Her face then went to a young girl then went to a blank canvass then back to the orginal face. I then saw the word harlot on her forehead. And the Holy Spirit said legion.? The Holy Spirit spoke to my heart and said what does darkness and light have in common. And I’ve set you free from the snare of the fouler.
Yes, my husband has a narcissistic colleague. He sometimes lies which can even seem like a detriment to himself. It’s just so strange. And yes the lying when they don’t even need to lie about it at all. It’s so crazy 😢
My mother is a covert Christian professing Narc. She has been this way all my life, but only recently since I’ve been going to therapy and studying up on this topic do I recognize her for what she is. I grew up with zero self-esteem due to her incessant criticism and a complete lack of empathy and no more than perfunctory interest in anything to do with my life. She is always been discontented, judge mental, negative, loves to gossip and triangulates her children against one another. This has created estrangements that may never be healed even with her death. Thanks to a spiritually strong father who is the leader of our house, I grew up in the church and served as a missionary in Japan. I was there for six years and my mother never called, rarely sent me cards or gifts and even after I returned to the states, she has never exhibited any interest or curiosity about what I did there. If it’s outside of her very limited daily life, she has zero interest. She’s a fixture at church, and has participated in many groups, Bible study, bell choir, ladies group, committee positions, etc. I can’t say that I’ve ever in my life seen her crack Bible outside of the ladies Bible study ever. Any good spiritual habits we got from our dad. I know that demonic spirits exist but I never believed until now that my family would be targeted by them, because after all we were all believers right? But I sit beside my mother in church and I know with the people around her do not suspect: she is a loveless hypocrite, presenting as a sweet Christian elderly lady. Church is this social club that she goes to to feel superior for other people. She’s 87 years old and I honestly do not know if I am going to see her in heaven or not. The spirit of narcissism is contrary to the spirit of repentance. I don’t think she would ever admit to being wrong or unkind because she thinks highly of herself, doesn’t admit fault, and genuinely seems to be gratified when she’s got some thing negative to cost for bow or if one of her children are struggling and having a hard time. I try to cultivate civil detachment but struggle not to despise her for not loving me properly-or any one besides herself. And she lies constantly about matters big and small, like what time she went to bed. I will ask her bland questions I already know the answers to just to hear her lie to my face for really no reason. Now that I know what I’m dealing with, the signs of narcissistic demons are self evident. She herself had a super critical and narcissistic mother who we prayed in vain that she would not turn out like. Narcissistic mothers damaging their daughters generation after generation.
Pathological lying ; Hypocrisy. Selfishness. With all due respect, but, people who suffer from chronic poverty develop a hatred towards others who are wealthy and affluent, ( envy ). 2 Timothy 3:1-5 Fake friends… Frenemies ( false friends ). Demonic forces. Ephesians 6:10-18
@@KAT-dg6el The Devil knows himself. At least he was honest with you that time, As the saying goes, “when someone shows you who they are, believe them.” Women especially have a tendency to think that they can change somebody with enough love. But when you are with a narcissist, giving them all of yourself is like ringing the dinner bell for a wolf. They will devour you because they can and spit out your bones. The fundamental trait of a narcissist is contempt for everyone but themselves, so they become a law into themselves and it becomes a game to see how many times they can dupe other people. It’s a sport to them. Additionally they are also oppositionally defiant to all forms of authority and control… They must have the control in every situation. Therefore they will subvert expectations of them at every turn. It doesn’t matter if they don’t gain anything by lying; if they are expected to tell the truth they will do the opposite. They are like toddlers in that regard but toddlers grow out of their oppositional defiance. Narcissists never do even when it’s not in their best interest. They literally would rather go down in flames than submit to their inferiors. To them everyone is their inferior, including legal authority and even a sitting monarch.
@@anientix I believe narcissist are unloved,rejected,abused, traumatized individuals who missed the opportunity to recognize the darkness and instead went full speed ahead with resentment,bitterness,contempt,self pity, shame,malice etc which opened a portal for demonic spirits to reside. I was raised by a narcissist and by her demon.
Narcissist are created from trauma. The lack empathy because no empathy was showed towards them. They are self serving because they had to be to get any needs met as a child. They learned how to manipulate and control those around the to meet their needs and continued this behavior into adulthood.
@@elliemathews6884 correct psychological analysis of it. Behind the act of abuse though, comes the spiritual elements.. I do think narcism in cooperates both psychological and spiritual dynamics with the latter being the dominant factor.
That’s the sign you are not one. I have learned that we have to examine ourselves to make sure we aren’t engaging in narcissistic behaviors if we’ve been ingesting that poison for far too long…most of us have. We are to be loving and set apart…provoked by the spirit of God through Christ in us. 🌈❤️🩹💚💙☮️✝️✡️
That’s extremely common , but know that if your even thinking You are , that Your definitely not ! The Narcissist would never even care , and is not capable of even thinking that ! ❤
I had the experience of seeing a narcissist's mask drop, and what I saw was chilling. I described it to a friend, and she told me I had seen the narcissist's demon. I instantly knew that was correct. I will never forget that look. Interesting to me how the narcissist thinks they are in control, when actually they have ceded control to evil.
I watched aguy after he had had words with his girlfriend &i walked in..He was sitting downand i saw his brow drop low &his eyes turn black! I knew it was a demon.
Please pray for me. I have been SUFFERING in a narcissistic marriage. My husband is a sinister narcissist and has caused nothing but depression in my household. I live in misery. I don't believe he will ever change. I need God to make a way .
My paternal grandmother used to pray for us but it didn't stop the Evil Narcissism of my father from destroying my mother..my sister is also a narcissist. Took me a lifetime to work that one out!!!
And ALSO, please pray ARDENTLY for the "adult" children that are narcissists & FOR the people they manipulate & abuse! It's awful for the parents, siblings, & spouses to be around narcissistic "adult" kids.
Before I even discovered the epidemic and symptoms of narcissism. When dealing with my narcissist wife I would literally say the phrase, "you have the devil inside your heart." The way these people prey on others with zero remorse, can only be defined as pure evil.
I too deal with a narcissist wife. She's isolated me from my family for the last 15 years. I'm so tired of being abused and used. I'm in a constant state of depression and walk on egg shells. Not allowed to have family or friends over. I had a major lung surgery last October and a couple of weeks leading up to the surgery date I was talking with friends and family asking for prayers. She was extremely jealous and I was constantly told "it's not about me!" I actually had to go stay at my brother's the night before my surgery. Wife had her pistol out with a round in the chamber held to her chest. I had to leave at that point. It's a 37 yr marriage and I've been the sole bread winner. I can't even afford to divorce because I financially can't support us both and would lose my home in the divorce. I'm a disabled veteran and don't want to be homeless so I just continue to take the abuse and control. We can't attend church because she doesn't like people. Sorry for venting on a reply to your post.
I remember when I was a child crying in the bathroom because my "mom" had had a very sudden change in personality, and I knew that she'd been possessed by a demon. I didn't even really know what a demon was, but I remember knowing for some reason that that's what had happened. 25 years later and she's still doing it. Everything she is lines up with NPD.
Oh my goodness I’m sitting in my car crying because for two years I was in a relationship with this spirit, thought I was going to lose my mind, met him at the time of the loss of my son, wow he played on my weakness !! This spirit came to destroy me, however I’m so glad my eyes are opened and I will never dismiss the red flags again!! Almost two months no contact thank you Jesus ❤
My ex-husband is a narcissist and worked full time in the church as the music minister. He was also a closeted homosexual. I totally felt oppressed and "haunted" by his demons. The day I told him to leave, was the day I felt like I commanded those demons to leave.
@@chriscampbell9207 They might have first met in a church setting. I'm a longtime Christian and can tell you that church is a very social environment. Many people meet and get married that way.
Having experienced close contact with a narcissist, I have found that the only solution is to put as much distance between you and them as possible. Nothing else will work. You can’t reason with them, and you will never change them.
@@susandumbill8805 they have to come to the realization that they need to change. Thats the only way anything will be different with them. They need to repent and they need healing
This just makes so much sense. I have had some recent run-ins with narcissists and the the thing that strikes me is how incredibly clever they are. It has to be demonic. I would be exhausted trying to make up all these games they play. I think the behavior is beyond normal human capability.
Totally agree, after having become the innocent victim of a covert narc 'friend' I'd socialised with at a church for several years and never seen anything but "a spiritual, kind Christian" - but whose 'mask' was slipping as she became older. It is an EXTREME concealment they practice which they believe 'has' to be maintained at almost any cost - and therefore people need to be aware, and wary, until they can get to know what others are truly like. Very sad, but behind the 'love' can be a very destructive and vicious current!
Would not say they are clever. Actually they are incredibly stupid if not for the fact that demons actually influence them. For some reason they know the things that causes us misery. But yet they are ignorant about almost everything and when you talk to them, you actually think they are pretty stupid because they are stupid.
@@monalisasmile6306think about this. They would not be able to survive if there is no external influences. Sometimes you ask this qtn. How they go so far despite being talentless
as it's almost impossible to survive in this world with the skill set of a 3 year old ,which is basically what narcissists are, their only chance of survival is to let in these evil entities that steer their bodies & minds
It's why I struggle feeling so sad for my ex. I felt that sad little boy inside that's just insidiously puppeteered by demons. I just wished I could save him. All I can do is just pray as much as I can for him.
That the way narc. Manipulate ypu They let you think to be sorry about him that you try to pray and "help" or save them. Don't be emotionally involved, put boundaries
It's deflection - faking their beliefs as they are deceivers and setting their stage for unrighteousness unto others. I lived with one for 14 yrs. and did it all over again with the second one for 7 yrs. They are great actors until they have the contract.
So True. Also in families from people who are supposed to love and care for you. They use your love to gain material assets and use you without any feelings of love unless it is for themselves
I use the term pharasies they are modern day Pharasies. That sect was the religious hypocrite of the day. Whitewashed on the outside. And rotting within.
Exactly! They believe they are entitled to know God, they basically are lead by ego and also narcissism, very serious cases. Religion is the worst guide.
The narc acts as the Trojan horse for the spirits that have a hard time accessing you. Wow Kris! I can’t tell you how freeing this point you made is for me. You just helped me reframe years of abuse. Thank you
You described my mother. She is horrible to me. She has been in competition with me and undermining everything I've done in my life. She's ruined my career, my relationships, even made me homeless. I pray for her deliverance but I know God will judge her I don't need to judge her.
Same here. To have a target on your back all your life from the mother who is supposed to be your refuge and biggest defender, is indeed to be haunted by a demon.
I actually saw my ex transform in front of my eyes. I know without any doubt I lived with a demon. Grew up in this and it's followed me lifelong. But I'm finding who I am in Christ. He must have great plans for me. Thank you and thank you Jesus.
I believe every word in this video. I've experienced a narcissistic relationship years ago it felt like I was in a relationship with the devil. I prayed for a way out of that toxic hell; God heard my cry and freed me thank you for sharing your video it's educational and informative. 🙏🏾
@@NichelleLC how do you know if god wants you to deal with that yourself, maybe as a test? You cant, but you cant count on a miracle, you have to step up for yourself and leave this sucker, sometimes god wants You to act, dont just hope and pray for a miracle. Thats a big issue with a lot of christians, instead of acting with christ they just wait for him to act. Thats not how it works
@@NichelleLC If you have to leave everything behind just do it. I’ve been there years ago. God will give you the open and you take it. You are protected. Understand that. Don’t tell him or give hints. He’s demonic so he already knows anyway but make sure you act like God already set you free. Make the leap. Stop giving this creature power over you. Go to a shelter in another state if need be. My prayers are with you. 🙏🏾
It is so true my husband is a narcissist and I used to ask myself what am I doing wrong. I thought he would change his behavior if I give him more love, more understanding, more support. How wrong was I! When he is in his narrsisistic rage his eyes turn dark. You can actually feel the presence of the demon. Please pray for me he is really terrible towards me, bellitels me daily, blames me for apsolutly everything, even the things that are obviously his fault. Unfortunately he is far away from God and demons are doing everything to keep him there. We have 2 teen children. We really need your prayers because the divorce is not an option for me as a Christian woman.
It definitely is demonic. I loved my narc, but the love was on my part. He was/is too tortured and afraid. He woke up in the middle of the night screaming. He finally told me the dream. He was terrorized. At church, during service, the pastor discernedthat someone needed deliverance. He couldn't go on until that person came up front. Finally, my husband, with white knuckles wrapped around the seat in front of him, propelled out of his seat and came up front (not his nature at all). He never had another tormenting dream, but other demons manifested. There needs to be so much more teaching on the subject.
You absolutely can feel and see the demonic aspects in these dynamics, drugs,sexual immorality, lying, cruelty, and futurefaking and making you jealous its insanity mine purposely kept me awake at night sleep deprivation a true breakdown of your mental energy
Barbara , yes that's all fine but we've only got 4 cheeks bottom and face and so you can only turn them once ? But the scriptures also say that there are only so many times you can forgive and there are certain sins against us that we do not and cannot forgive
Now I know what I put up with for thirteen years. These people are unbelievers. My narcissist wife discarded me. She thought she was holy, Lying and accusing me of things I never did. She even said I had the spirit of jezebel in me. But greater is he that is in me, than he who is of this world. I'm on the road to recovery from this, And now i'm experiencing more of God's peace and goodness. Thank you for your insight!!
This whole thing is the work of Satan. Satan is having difficulty conquering the family of God, so Satan had chosen narcissists to advocate for himself and to destroy the Kingdom of God and God's children. Don't let the devil wins you and terrorizes your precious life that God has given you. Stay and focus on God. Be strong. Know that God is stronger than the devil. Let God fight and face your battles against the demonic beings! Total surrender! Don't surrender to the devil, but surrender to the Living God!❤❤❤
Wow. I was discarded around Dec 21. It’s a disturbing situation as 28 years is a long time to spend with someone who I felt was a lifetime arrangement. Also found I am an emotional empath. The thing that Jesus said was to NOT be eye pleasers of men. So now I have put a few boundaries in place and this video has defined a number of beautiful thoughts to mull over. Self righteousness is a term I completely despise. My complete trust in my God has given me so much respite, so much more respect for his helping hand. At times you feel like it would be better not to wake up the next day, not with ill intent towards myself, but for peace, however during the darkest nights I have laid my worries upon him, and he has never let me down. Days without money in my account, low on food, at times low fuel, but feel it has been necessary to endure as Jesus said we would need to to, but not on our own strength. Without humility we will be easily overcome , it’s helps us to stop, pause and refocus. Similar attacks,and really harsh callous treatment from the narc, being accused of things that I never did or said. The gaslighting is truly evil and poisonous. Organising trips behind my backs then attacking me for finding out. Hugs to those enduring and Thankyou for sharing experiences.
Both of my parents, who are now deceased, were narcissists. The demons manifested more strongly in my mother. Once, it took over her body completely & transformed her face & eyes. It looked at me with hate & that's when I knew it was a demon. I also saw a demon manipulate my dad's body, making him go from slouching to standing up straight. I know it's real.
It is so unusual there are two narcissists in relationship, but it is possible. I would say your mother was true narcissist in that case but dad could be also manipulated by demon. The rule is that narcissist will search for people who have borderline syndrome or are full of empathy. Narcissist doesn't need second narcissist in relationship.
I'm sorry for your experience. My mother is a narc and feel that the only way to eliminate her destruction will be her death unfortunately. I also believe she will outlive many. I don't wish death upon her but rather divine healing but her condition only seems to get worse or it has just become so obvious to me when she is crossing set boundaries, dismissive behavior and words, and her extreme desire to control others. I am now in No Contact as I already tried the other options my whole life. I'm 48 yo now.
That’s exactly it: they jam your signal! My head was scrambled eggs by the end!!! God has set me free…healed my heart, mind, body and soul. Joy has returned; peace, clarity, focus: confusion, chaos, exhaustion and anger no longer reside here! 🙌🏻👏🏻🙏🏻💃🏻💝
I have always suspected that my mother's malignant narcissism was not just a personality disorder. She has a malevolent spirit. I have seen her eyes turn black. I am not the only one who has observed this. Not pupils dilated. Completely black.
That's scary. I've often wondered if my mother's hate towards me had something to do with evil energy, as she hates me just for existing, and actively hates me for succeeding. May God bless you, and your mother. I'm genuinely sorry for your suffering with her. I know how much that hurts. I will pray for you.
@@anitaspencer1734 I don’t know you but I sympathi e with you. I know a young woman who’s mother hated her and showed cruel favouritism to her siblings. She said her grandma also showed the same behaviour. She said her grandma didn’t speak to her , but only ever used to stare malevolently at her. I said “your mother and grandmother had narcissistic personality disorder. Your mother inherited it from her mother. Sometimes evil is directly inherited Other times it is inherited from distant ancestors. Agoraphobia and schizophrenia are also not necessarily directly inherited, but many times from distant relatives. Generational curses can be broken by going to catholic masses that directly deal with generational curses
It's a terrible thing for a child to be born to a mother like this. She also has Munchausen a syndrome by proxy. The story of my life is one of suffering, grief and loss. My siblings are dead. My life ruined. Anita you must have your own tragic story too. My heart goes out to you.💞
@@mercuryxyz7222 My mother is a lapsed Catholic. Her mother was cruel to her. I saw her once after she died. I was nine years old and visiting my grandfather. I woke up during the night to the sight of an evil old hag standing over my bed. At the age of six I began having the same recurring nightmare of an evil old hag walking slowly behind me down a dark street with a knife in her hand and no matter how fast I ran, she just got close and closer. I don't know if evil is inherited or not but I do know this. I am not evil. I am very empathic. I feel the pain of others as if it were my own. I have been a kind and loving mother to my children.
@@abscondis if I were you I’d get checked for symptoms of schizophrenia. It is a genetic disorder that creates demonic illusions. See a psychiatrist who specialises in this disorder. He can tell you if you’ve got it. But remember also the gospel of the parylitic. Jesus said “ I’ll cure you now , but if you don’t return to God , your illness will come back”. By rejecting God , you accept His enemies “. Evil spirits are invited in by the sinner. We are all tempted by demonic forces who implant their evil illness upon us. If good people suffer , it has an express purpose for good. Read the last chapter of Blessings by Mary Craig “what makes the desert beautiful “. It will answer all your questions. Also read “city of God” by Mary of Agreda. Volume 3. The Transfixion “
Divorced the most malignant narcissist years ago. Oh man do I have a book to write. He still drags me through court to try to destroy me. So sick! This makes So much sense to the 14 years I was stuck in this hell. Healing and I know God has a reason for my story!
I was in a short term relationship with a narcissist. The betrayal trauma I went through after all the lying, confusion, gaslighting and betrayal was so draining. And what scared me the most is that person used God and Christ to hide their true colors. It's scary how deceiving a narcissist can be. Thank you God from delivering me from this evil and giving me tools to recognize it.
You are describing my most recent experience. It was also a short term relationship, but I fell for the love, bombing , hook line and sinker. I am recovering, but it’s been very painful.
@@anne-marie6098 I know exactly what you mean. It's been hard for me too, after the breakup I was trying to figure out the why for what they did. I just coulldn't understand it. And the reason is that the things they did, I could never even think about doing them.. But does it matter to understand? I don't believe so. Forgive them, for yourself, and shut the door. Forgive yourself and remember the lessons from all this. No matter how long it takes, everything will fall into place
My mother was a Narcissist, and I BARELY survived the abuse I was subjected to. It got so bad throughout my life that it almost drove me to end myself. It's certainly caused permanent damage to me in a number of ways. My mother died recently, and while talking to my dad I found out even more things my mom had done in the past that I never even knew about. The things she did to other people, from emotional abuse to manipulation to gaslighting and blame-shifting, was almost unbelievable. But since I'd been subjected to so much of it myself I recognized all of it. The scope of it all, however, was shocking. My mother was genuinely evil. She was an honest-to-god monster. I don't think she was possessed by a demon; I think she _WAS_ a demon.
I'm sorry you had to experience such horrible treatment from the person who's supposed to love you the most. 😢 I pray that you will heal from it all and and learn to forgive her. You now have the tools to be able to identify narcs and other kinds of evil people. Use your tools. Your experience was not in vain. ❤
I thank God that I found your channel. I just realized (a week ago) that my husband is a Christian covert narcissist. I cannot believe how I did not know about the narcissist. I knew since weekend after our honey moon that I made the biggest mistake of my life. Now 12 years later, 17 years of relationship, I can finally see it for what it is. Pure evil. Please pray for me
So sorry love. Remember that no matter how many people pray for you and send you well wishes only you can make the decision to set boundaries or leave. The minute you decide what you're going to do, the universe will send you opportunities through people, places or things towards your next step. The courage is in you.
My God can deliver anyone from the spirit of Narcissism I believe it 1000% Nothing is more powerful than my Elohim. Praying for my child’s father to be delivered in Yahusha’s name
I knew it was spiritually rooted. The narcissist I dated was developing his own religion and he was “downloading” it from God. He believed the Bible when he could find verses of Scripture to support what he believed. He was controlling, a liar, dishonest, prideful, selfish, self-centered, and just an evil person. I cannot believe, in retrospect, I gave him my time and energy. He is demonic and I aligned myself with him. God forgive me. No contact 7 years now, but he is always lurking around. I pray for God’s protection and for my obedience in following the Word so I will never entertain him again out of my dislike for him. I must leave him to the Lord.
F Jms in the Holy Scriptures '7' was always the end of a cycle - the '8th' year, after the 7th, is a start of new beginnings. You are free from this person. Move forward in your life and enjoy Messiah's blessings - do not look back - the present day moves forward - be the overcomer Messiah has called you to be - run the race! Prevail with strength and courage!
My former wife who was supposed to be a born again Christian is also narcissistic. She finally discarded and divorced me because she couldn’t get her way with me. She was not able to pull me down. It took me a few years to figure this all out. But having figured it out I am healing. And I am seeing a new story being written in my life by my Lord Jesus Christ.
My Christian mother was a real narcissist and she was high profile and yes she practiced witch craft and I often found her talking to herself However all the rest of the family adored her as a glorious Christian and totally discarded me
Heavenly Father our loving Lord Jesus Holy Spirit who leads and guides us . We praise You and lift up Your name above all names. You are our God, our Creator, our Lord and Savior. I lift up Caz with thanksgiving, for her to ask for prayer is a huge step towards being healed and delivered. Give her Your strength and courage to seek out the proper help they need to be released from this bondage in Jesus name amen…. You also need to remember we are to confess our sins one to another… which means one person you can trust, not a church congregation or even here. As you have already read not everyone is on your side and have no idea of what they are sharing. It is just words to them but could be daggers for you. Find a good God fearing person to help you. Blessings from an old gal who has been thru it all but that is how God cleanses us then uses us.
@@diyr791the prayer I prayed for Caz was also for you…. When I feel stressed or oppressed I simply say. Let the Lord Jesus Rebuke you and then leave it in His hands. I also start praising and thanking God oh the enemy hates that. God bless you and heal you.
Sharon back years/decades ago this stuff was not ever talked about even in church & I was confused to what was going on with my parents, especially my father!!
There wasn't the knowledge or understanding of Narcissism that there is today. I'm so sorry that you have suffered so very much at the hands of a malignant narcissist. Continue to heal. God Bless You Always.
WOW, so happy I found your channel. Narcissism has become a social epidemic and we've become surrounded by Godless sociopaths and psychopaths who particularly exploit kind, generous Christians. They leave a trail of destruction with the pain and suffering they create. Video and scriptures are spot on!
Yes, as an empath I could easily detect that energy and it’s as if I wanted to smite it right away because narcissists certainly aren’t aware of this toxic energy as they’re blinded by that demonic energy. It’s such a difficult task to make them admit they’re carrying that energy and will keep on denying it and maintain this false, angelic image to fool others over and over again.
Sometimes a narcissist can manifest demonically. It can make an observer feel confused & disoriented. The enemy definitely exploits the fears & insecurities of narcissists & make very obnoxious, easy to hate, & hard to love. Sometimes only way is by prayer for them, but avoiding them sometimes all you can do.
Very true 💯. God is good I escaped this death trap. I was married to a covert narcissist for 15 years and now 1and half years free. I feel like I can write volumes of books. Thank you Jesus for setting me free.
@@NichelleLC praying with you my sister. They are souls on a mission to steal kill and destroy like their father satan. They don't stop until they accomplish their mission...to destroy what God has put in us so that we don't become what God intended us to be. Unfortunately some of their victims have not made it through to tell their stories of victory.... depression, suicide, confusion etc were served to them and they succumbed 😢 It's a spiritual warfare that we must win at the courts of Heaven through the blood of Jesus Christ.🙏
Just such a great teaching!! "it's not your job to change them"- so true ! Brings to mind Job 41 "touch the leviathian once and you'll never do it again! " and Psalms 74 "God will crush the heads of the Leviathan" Just lift that person to God and step away.
I really needed to hear it is not my job to change them.That is so difficult to accept when it is your only daughter who suffers all of the red lights of narcissism! Your whole life is battered thinking you must have done a lot wrong to have given birth,and raised such a nasty person. She is 56 years old now, and thank God for the education I receive from these videos! I have been able to see my position in her life. GONE!!!
Yes. Not only is it not our job - Jesus is the ONLY One Who can heal this very dangerous affliction anyway. He healed the demoniacs in the Bible and only had to speak to cast the demons out from possessing people. Praise God we have a secure and faithful God to turn to!
My former pastor was a narcissist, just like my spouse (I found out the hard way.) When going to him for marriage guidance, he chastised me and said our marriage issues were all my fault because I chose to marry him. My fault because I should have known better and had the duty to know his family beforehand. The spouse stood there standing with his arms crossed, just starring at me, enjoying me get chewed out. Never mind that the spouse verbally and emotionally abused me and our kids; constantly abandoned us; connected with females via social media, watching porn and “talking” to females clients; Plotting with employees to pull the rug from underneath me and my kids. I was blamed for everything. After that horrific day, I left that church never to return.
My mother is a Roman Catholic and talks about how perfect she is because she goes to church every day and prays. Since childhood, she has destroyed the entire family with her controlling and narcissistic behaviour. She constantly criticizes, gossips, belittles, humiliates, and controls others with an inheritance from her family. No one wants to be around her, ever.
my mom is a narcissist who use the Bible to threaten, criticize condemn and manipulate everyone, sometimes I think that the devil doesn't have to interfere in my life, because mom does that really well 💔 ( she has 5 kids only me and my oldest sister look out for her)
I work with a severe narcissist. The boss won't fire him because he feels sorry for him because of the unfortunate circumstances this young man is in, he drives everyone at the jobsite to anger constantly. I took this young man to prayer recently, and I heard a reply from Jesus and he said to me, don't you worry, I'll handle him. This brought joy to me to hear this. For people to change usually takes a bit of time, so I'm watching carefully every day to see how God is changing this situation. I'm optimistic.
I work with one too...she's my boss. Slowly, insidiously, she's been working on making me look stupid and devalued. She's brilliant and can do no wrong in the management's eyes. I've thought she has a demon for some time...knowing this helps. She laid into me again today at work...I was so upset for a while. It's causing me to question everything I do...I can't please her. But suddenly I thought, I'm no longer going to care...God knows what the truth is. I can't fight her, but He can. Tomorrow I will start anointing the office with oil.
I want to know who the narcissist is who deceived everybody into thinking there are 8 guys you can blame your mistakes in life on. I think that guy must be the 9th guy who did not make it to that list.
@@irmielam5192 that's so sad to work or live around people that devalue your worth.. that demonic spirit inside of narcissistic is jealous of you, Not bc of what you have but bc of who you are..that person could never be you...so the narcissistic person (jealous/ control freaks) tries to break our spirit. . but they can't bc our spirit is of Our Heavenly Father...(we are Nothing like them at all)..and that's why we seems to be easy prey for them to push our buttons to get reactions of angry to make it seems we have the problem and they're innocent...take care ..it's good to recognize the devil..and pray for him to get thee behind you"... . .I had to realize that with my sister, that narcissistic Spirit was jealous of me Not bc what I had (bc she had much more than I had) but bc of who I am...she could never be me...so she lied on me so many times, i can't count, to make me look bad .I had to wake up and just step back out of the craziness and non stop merry go round of my so called family...my life is so stress Free now. And I especially don't like grinning and pretending with people that I know don't respect me...I pray🙏 that that evil spirit is gone from your work place,so you can have peace of mind at work❤...take Care 🙏be blessed 🙏
@Eli Zabet Everything about what Jesus says here is biblical. Man can't change man, only God can change man, and we're commanded not to worry. So, don't worry about them, I'll handle it is just an awesome word from God. He hears us always, and is very intune with all our circumstances. I love God soo much!
@@irmielam5192 Don't just anoint with oil but pray for her salvation a nd cover yourself in the mighty blood of Jesus Christ. Learn how to be a prayer warrior for the people around you who are suffering from a lack of hope.
Awesome video. All the narcissis did in my life was to make my faith stronger in my Lord and Saviour. Instead of breaking me down I feel more empowered.
Absolutely. Narcissism doesn't come from God but Satan. Narcissism develops because people have unresolved traumas. Work on your healing with the Lord. Go to a recovery. Rebellion, envy, arrogance are demonic.
Its a constant undermining, bringing you down to their level, rebellious, using, expecting more and delivering little as possible, false accussing, starting fights for no reason, has a problem with even breathing wrong, nasty attitude, and lives nasty. Questions everything you do, and jealouse hatefull of anyone external in your life. I would say dealing with a demon. Their jokes are always demeaning.
@Smittay-Sr. This is my spouse...it is becoming harder daily to keep my strength during the verbal and physical abuse periods. Everything you described is what I endure daily..he is a very sick person and my health is suffering . I need help but have nowhere to go and no money.
Living around someone like this, one of the most frustrating things is the blaming and pointing of fingers… if something undesirable happens, no matter how small, this person only cares about who the blame can be put on.. (forget about the real world solution to the given problem or situation). What’s important to this person is the blaming. Thats their end goal, not solving the issue.. the issue is solved in their mind when blame can be set upon someone other then them selves.. The exact opposite of the ideas from the book “extreme ownership” by Jacko Willink. Anyone else relate?
Thank you for this super informative teaching! Demons are present for sure! My ex-narc friend of 38 years began slipping toward the end. One day when I was being manipulated on the phone her voice went "low" like a man's voice. That was the first time I heard a demon speaking through her. Creepy! The Lord showed me to it was a demonic soul-tie and I went no-contact since. I'm free, healthier and much happier! Thank you Jesus!
Me to, its like Hell there, they have strong voice, i was thinking its more than one Person speaking, or when they laughed its like laughing at someone. They dont know how to laugh from heart. And shape shifting was there. In every moment they are other person. They look through People, searching for new victims to manipulate.
Caroline I was married to a weak man who was a drunk ? Albeit a functioning drunk ? Because he worked in a secular job ? But as soon as the alcohol hit after a good few pints he turned ever so nasty ? I was downstairs one time ? He was upstairs and I swear ? I just said outloud " oh you horrible Man ! You will not frighten me " Then he shouts down " I heard that ((( he couldn't have possibly heard as I said these words in a quiet undertone " ))) Down he flysheet towards me cracking my skull against a corner of a wall in such a narcissistic rage hexalmost killed me there and then ???? I carried on going out with him at weekends because let's face it he worked hard all week ? He went off on one daily at weekends in his Narcissistic drunken rages ? But the strange thing is ? That when he was sober he was as quiet as a mouse ? Two different Personalities ? I'm married now to a lovely kind man ! But my ex husbands abuse has taken years to recover from My point is , is that I could never ever put my finger on what actually triggered him to be so bloody cruel to me his Children's Mother ? Whom he feigned to care for ? I found out later that he was a Womaniser and had formed a serial relationship with another Woman on the Internet? Only found out through one of my Sons who Found his site on the computer years later ? These People are so very dangerous they truly are and professionals at manipulation ? Glad I'm away or I would have been dead !
@@wendyjones5853 yes the alcohol can invite the bad spirits in .In islam alcohol comes from the word ALKool which mans spirit or demon. We don't need alcohol in our lives.
@@wendyjones5853 I have an alcoholic narcissist father whose demon I have fought with since childhood to protect my mother and sister. The mind games he played were meant to deteriorate our mental and physical health so that we can always depend on him and so that he can continue his mental abuse as being the one who is right and not sick. Glad you escape. I still have not escaped as inflation, bad luck made me to make less money than him, which he as a narcissist uses now to attack my mother as he always mentions to her that I did not get the job I wanted to have despite having college degrees and more technical knowledge, which he arrogantly despises having the blue-collar mentality and arrogance towards education, which he always tried to undermine since high school. He undermined me all these years so that I would become a weak adult so that he can always control my mother as he would tell her that her son will never be able to take of her and that she will always need him. The narcissistic demon targeted me as a way to isolate my mother. It seems that your narc husband targeted you so as to isolate your sons from their mothers. That is how they usually behave and one of their underlying motives behind their outlook and behavior.
She is a smart women, communicated very well. My ex wife is a narcissist before I knew what narcissist was had this awful feeling that she was the devil. Crazy, knowledge is power!
My life has already been destroyed damage is done. As long as they were in my life it was like living in a constant nightmare. I was around people like this my whole life. I thought everyone was like this. One day I prayed I ask God to remove them from life if they really didn't love or care anything about me and only wanted to use me. It wasn't even a week later and they were gone! I had to ask God to do it. I loved them I wanted them to love me.
I had a 34 year marriage with a sociopathic narcissist, and now I get to deal with 2 sons who are narcissists. He even poisoned me, and attempted to turn all friends against me. God heard my prayers. I care for my youngest son who has serious mental health issues now. My husband passed from serious health issues.
@Danielle Horton I thought about leaving him every day. If I had supportive family, I would have. I could not leave my son to go to a regular job, due to his disabilities. Sending prayers and love to you, and your children!
Nothing helps when you're trapped in the narcissists house, with no way out, no friends, no money, all family members believe the narcissist and think I'm crazy. I'm 60 years old and trapped in my severely narcissistic mothers house and under her thumb, for 15 years now. There's no help for me, I pray every night to not wake up in the morning, death is my only escape and relief.
Death isn’t your only escape. Knowledge is your escape. Kept listening and learning. I’m on the same journey with my narcissist husband and mother. I believed the only escape was if one of us died. I’m searching for answers now it keeps me going. Keep going. Your not alone
As a Christian and scapegoat survivor of systematic narc abuse (who was even terrorized by demons from a young age), I truly believe that the spiritual war spoken of in Ephesians 6 manifests itself through narcissists. No matter where in the world; black/white, young/old, male/female, whatever religion/belief, they are ALL the same!
Exactly. In one of Ovid's greek myth, there was a story about a man called Narcissus. One day, he decided to get a break and relax himself into the wilderness. Passing by a pool of clean water, he ended up seeing his own reflexion.. And like Lucifer, he fell presumably but this time, not because of his pride but because of his unparalleled beauty.. He died because he had loved so much what he saw in his own reflexion that he got obsessed and drowned himself because of it. Not to mention that he indirectly murdered a woman called 'Echo' in the story by not giving her even a salt of attention.. As the archetype of narcissism, i thought relevant to mention that story of Narcissus since he strikingly reminded me of Lucifer.. This also show that typically, a narcissist can't live purely out of oneself and that alone this 'strong' personality type inevitably fall. Of course in this myth we see that it is the archerype of a 'man' but i've always thought that these trait of characters so to speak was originally a feminine trait.. I don't believe that a 'true man' can manifest such a manipulative trait. Pulling trait behaviors was always a female thing. So i'm going to spill my opinion about it. I think like you that they are possessed by a spirit. The Jezebel spirit so to speak.. Which reminded me that in the Bible, there was a goddess that pagans tribes in ancient Israel worshipped. The queen of heaven Ashtarte, the sumerian goddess of love and WAR.. She is also Lucifer, and in my opinion, Eve the mother goddess in Genesis.. In the norse myth she can be compared with Loki the trickster god (dess). And as a goddess of war she has an army of demons at her disposition. Which is why we see such an epidemic of malevolent narcissism lurking into the world. These narcissistic behaviors are demonically driven. I suggest people should compare narcissism to characters such as Narcissus, Loki, Lucifer, Ashtarte and see if that ring a bell. Also i suggest peoples to inform themselves on the matter by getting in touch with an 'expert' on the domain called Paul Claude Racamier. And reading some of his books of course.. I know he is a french author but he is extremely knowledgeable on the subject and even describe some of the most complex mechanism involving narcissism.
My ex-boyfriend is a narcissist. I've never known anyone who was more involved in church activities. He's at church for Bible studies, teaches classes at church, attends Sunday services, and he leads the small group leaders. He acts and believes that he is special and gets answers from God to his questions within 10 minutes or so. The people at church are mesmerized by him, and yet, once away from church, he is a very abusive man emotionally and psychologically. He tried to tell me that I'm a narcissist, but I was raised by one (maybe not full-blown, but many narcissistic tendencies), and the result of that is that I am an empath. That's why he chose me. He saw an easy target. I am so blessed to have been able to escape that relationship after only a couple of years.
This video was insightful for me. I am escaping right now a decades long marriage with a narcissist. It seemed like I needed to do whatever it took to preserve the marriage following the instructions on the Sermon on the Mount. The scars are deep, but by the Spirit I still stand. Thank God you escaped! The checklist below is pretty much a resume for her: Manipulation Envy Covetousness Confusion Condemnation Control Deception-Liar Exaggerate themselves, diminish you Pride Entitlement Fear (?) --------------------------------------------------------- 2 Timothy 31-5 !!
@krd4447 Yes, I believe that God answers our questions and prayers in HIS time, not in ours. This guy behaved like he had a hot line to God. He would pull his car over to the side of the road to ask how much he should pay for a house, and within minutes he would receive an answer. It was very fake to me. He used to tell me that he'll be at a much higher level in heaven than I will. I don't think that is for him to decide, and I'm not sure I'll see him there, but that's not my call. God will decide whether he'll be there or not.
@@MyVisualRomanceyuppp , I was watching a video on TH-cam where this transgender model said that her “ onlyfans “ boyfriend randomly woke up out his sleep and started talking and crying about needing god. She said she looked on his location on his cell phone and he was at the “ church” a place she said, he literally “ hated”. Pray , because demons will even try to find their way in godly monument’s
I grew up under this kind of attack. My mother ... Ive been fighting this spirit off all my life. Its infected my whole family. I left as soon as I could, but my family is still in it. My brother, in his 50s looted me the last time I let them in. Now I just travel with my pets, stay away from everyone. Way too much trauma being around ppl.
@gregbot6444 not true not everyone is like that as someone who came from a severely toxic family right through from being abused sexually, physically, mentally, financially as they'd actually steal my salary when I worked it wasn't easy. Me and my sisters made our own life after our mother threw all of her girl kids out as soon as they reach age, we left her with her son she's now running behind us to take care of her even though she isn't physically sick and her grown sons in their 20, 30 and 40 are still living with her to this day. Sometimes you have to cut the family off and run and it doesn't mean you're a narcissist
Great video Kris...not to mention they have zero forgiveness and zero love or intimacy....it's such a mind bender...especially when she claimed to be a believer
Like my father, he never called his sons 'sons' but "boys" like a criminal gangster says 'my boys will' e.c.t.!! He told my baby brother he was with the mafia before any of us were born but told nothing about it to me & 2 other brothers & otherwise he would have taken that secret to his grave & such folk are secretive in so many areas,i its not funny!!
Hi from South Africa 🇿🇦 again spot on. As I've grown in Christ I've realised their "strengths" aka anger, rage, wrath etc... are weaknesses and they looks foolish. It did take me many years at Jesus' feet and many blessed videos to realise this. Thanks be to God for healing and deliverance. Thanks also to you Kris for your time and love to the body of Christ who are hurting. Be blessed 🙏🖐
@leerobs 1118 Well hello my Brother from England ! Thankyou for your input ! I often wonder if we are judging others at times ? But GOD works in mysterious ways HIS wonderscto perform ? Because I'm of the belief that if the devil can't find you he sends a Narcissist to blight your life ? Glad you've got Jesus as your guiding light xxxxx
Yes!! I felt the Spirit of fear was a HUGE spirit driver. Atleast that it was I felt around them since my childhood. I also felt the spirits of deception and anger. I didn't experience safety and peace until after I moved out of my parent's house. With extremely limited contact, I am pleasantly surprised to experience a noticeable improvement in anxiety. God deserves all the glory and I thank the prayers/support of a good Christian family.
I have a narcissistic mother. It’s very difficult. I felt more stronger though when I actually realised and named this awful behaviour. Now when she says demeaning things to me I know I’m. It like that, it’s her trying to make herself feel better. I have dropped off how much interaction I have with her, even when I did this over a year ago. She was on the phone crying and going crazy saying I had just dropped her. All I did was not call her to chat as I realised it was me giving all the time and attention to the relationship. It’s so so hard though. I’m currently trying to ask God for healing me so I can relate to other females better as I have only just realised she has damaged that in me also. Keep asking God for help and you will get there 🙏🙏🙏
Yes! The evil spirit driving the narcissist will do its best to hide behind the narcissist's personality but one day it will truly reveal itself. You know because you instantly recoil in horror - recognising it. The game is then over. You KNOW, beyond any shadow of a doubt, you're dealing with the devil!
@@dorothy792I totally agree. Right now I have two step kids who are narcissistic just like their mother and her mother. One is grown finally and the other has a few more years to go but luckily is stay so busy with life “keeping up with the Jone’s” that they’re are too busy to be around me. They hate boring people. I have learned to be very EXTREMELY boring. Lol😂
Dear Kris, the information you are giving on your channel is HEALING in itself! I cried out to the Lord 2 nights ago, begging Him to show me how to deal with this situation once again. He responded IMMEDIATELY by bringing your channel across my path. I spent yesterday educating myself by watching your videos and I have PEACE I never dreamt possible! Thank YOU for your validation, the way you explain exactly what is going on. My heart is broken that people I love live like this - they truly need Jesus. HOWEVER, I feel free. Jesus, bless Kris Reece every day in personal ways. Bless her ministry as she points people to YOU. Thank You that YOU are truth, that YOU are FREEDOM and PEACE! Keep anointing Kris with Your Holy Spirit every single day. AMEN. THANK YOU for being the healing balm of Gilead all over me.
Amen! It took me unto the age of 40 to realize that I have been supportive of narcissists for most of my life out of compassion. Once i realized that they were not going to change no matter how much I tried to be there for them and starting eliminating those people from my life I have become much more successful and live a more fulfilling life. Part of this realization was seeing that there are demonic spirits and satan is not a projection of humanity's own corruption. It was then that I found my way to the truth and the way and the life of Jesus and the Gospel.
Thank You Jesus that you will help me to heal completely from what ever the devil that worked through people has stolen from me - in Jesus Mighty Name I ask You - Amen and Amen 🙏🙏🙏
It wasn’t until several years after my divorce that I realized she was Narcissistic and had the Jezebel Spirit. She basically smiled as she walked out the door for the last time. That Hurt more than the actual divorce. It’s taken quite some time to heal. After watching this and other videos on the subject, I realized it was the demonic spirit within her. “It wasn’t me! It was the Narcissistic, Jezebel Spirit …..” I was a damn good husband to her… She needed her fix of somebody new to infect. Most everything in this video was spot on… It put me on the path to healing…. Thanks.
Being a victim of narcissisric Abuse! I need to listen to this, wow, this is right on ! Pray that I get healing that I need to get over what happened to me because of dishonest people that have hurt me and use me!
I've been around this my entire life through my mother. Manipulation, lies, mind control, and witchcraft. I wasnt aware of this until I have gotten much older. I have not only experienced this from my mother but from church leadership as well. Lord knows I have tried to set boundaries, pray, and have a connection. Once the same record is played over and over again I'm done . I know that I need couseling cause I find myself emotionally exhausted and irritable. Thanks so much for the teaching and video on this. ❤
I'm certain that the spirit of control is much the same as the spirit of witchcraft. And, yes, it can get us into an emotionally vulnerable state. Maybe that's why God leads many of us to walk away from such people, even family and/or churches/church leaders.
This was exactly like my late husband. 18 years I went through this abuse. I’m free now but his influence still affects me. God is good and is setting me free from all this evil. Thank you for this information. It confirmed what I thought.
Yup.... It's a living nightmare. I called out my mother's demon and it was very disturbing. It breaks my heart because she really needs help now that she's elderly, but she will not change. She is convinced that she IS God and no one can enlighten her. It's been a life of enduring her abusive behavior. No more.
I feel for you. You can’t do anything else. You’ve tried. You’ve done ENOUGH. God says, no more. We end up living our abusers curses by staying too long. It’s particularly difficult when it’s a parent. Especially someone that is supposed to be your mother.
It's been a life-long battle, but I thank the Lord for his loving protection against everything meant to destroy me even before I was born. One must hold tight to our lord and savior to withstand the attack of the enemy. Stay strong sister.
Someone once asked me, what is it about ME that attracts narcissists... With that being said, it's crucial to look within ourselves, as well, to find the answer to such a question. Cannot continue repeating such a viscous cycle. God-fidence is key. 💯 Great awareness video.
In my case and in many others, if you had a narcissistic parent, you always want them to love you. But they never will nor can they. In our grown up relationships, we try to correct the wrong done to us at such a young, vulnerable age. That’s why we are attracted to narcissists.
If you are empathetic and kind and have a light that you radiate..many times we may be unaware of how brightly we truly shine. They will latch on to you like no other as they're very attached to your light while they're silently hating you because of jealousy until it becomes not silent.. they want to drain your energy bc they are energy vampire's have have zero light of their own. . and yes, I believe the Jezebel spirit is residing in them and have witnessed eyes turn black. Education on this is so important as it is considered a personality disorder and in the spiritual realm possession in my opinion. I was unaware of intense spiritual combat and the spirits they possess at the time and I see myself as totally victimized and wronged at the time and I have and am still forgiving but now dealing with severe trauma from the abuse. Thrusting God for complete healing as it has been several years now. Now when I spot one or have an encounter I use the word of God and they will flee.
Empaths attract covert narcissists. If you love helping and fixing and giving you’re an empath and the covert needs your light and generosity because they can’t manage their own lives. Once you’ve given and given and given but at some point need something in return their mask comes off and they turn on you. If you can’t give them the supply they need they no longer have use for you and they begin the abuse.
This is absolutely truth. I have been divorced for 1 year now from a man who fits each criteria and the only thing that saved me was rededicating my broken, crazy life , mind, soul, to Jesus Christ. A Holy Fire Wall has been placed between us and I'm now allowing God to have his perfect will in my life, I learning to walk in freedom , free from condemnation, and bathed in the Love of God and Grace. I regret wasting 32 years on that hateful monster, but grateful the Lord rescued me from the jaws of the enemy and I'm safe in the arms of Jesus ♥️
I was married for 37 to a Narcissist,through the yrs there were Red Flags,but I just brushed it off! I am completely horrified by the things he's done,he lie's,I do Love him,but I Divorced him,he won't stop! When I say horrified,it is even worse! I stay confused,I need help so Thank you for recommending Faithful Counseling,I will be reaching out to them today
With all the knowledge we have today who would keep them around? My parents were narcissistic to put it mildly and I went no contact years ago. Any person who even resembles narcissistic traits I get rid of them by going ghost. They have no place in my life. This is excellent content.
Because sometimes it’s hard to get rid of them. In this case my MIL is the narcissist but my husband loves her. If it was for me i would have never stayed in contact with her.
Unfortunately my mother & son are narcissist however I pray to GOD to work through my son because he is still young just 21 that our Lord Jesus Christ rid him of these Demons he has a whole life ahead of him and I have Faith in our Almighty creator that he will change my son....thy will be done in Jesus Name I pray for a healing and a cleanse for my son Jason. Please if anyone reads this pray for him prayer is so powerful I believe it will work...pray Jesus all glory goes to our heavenly father. As for my mom...well she is 87 now and I have learned to live with her that way....boy was it hard!
Unfortunately sometimes it’s just not that easy. Age, health issues, lack of finances, family ties- all of these factors and more can make it difficult if not impossible to leave. Let’s pray for those stuck in these horrendous relationships that God will make a way out for them and let’s all give them grace and love and understanding.
I started to listen to exorcist priests about how demons work . The narcissist personality is IDENTICAL with the demons . If you are surrounded by these people , you are most likely under a spiritual attack. (Gangstalking )Even how dark it seems God will protect you if you live live like a true christian , and prayer is everything in a spiritual combat.
Awesome Video, reminds me of the scripture: For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. I have learned to pray about everything, Give it to God! These people are out of our control, turn them over to the only one who can-Our Heavenly Father! God Bless!
@@Kris_Reece we’ve prayed for our son in law for years thinking it was immaturity and laziness. Nope. It’s covert narcissism and our daughter is an empath. She’s a beautiful soul who loves the Lord but because of circumstances beyond her control, and it’s a long story, she could no longer do everything for everybody. She has 3 small children with him but he’s the biggest child of all. Once she needed his help he of course can’t handle that because he can’t manage life and needs her to do it for him, his mask came off and he is verbally, emotionally and even sexually abusive to her. She is suffering mentally because of the stress. I’ve thought it could be demonic spirits but we knew something was off with him before she married him. It’s been 4 years of dating and 12 years of marriage. He has become a monster and we will help our daughter any way we can but she has to want it. She has to say enough is enough and be ready to start over. Everything they have is because of her. It’s so disheartening to see our once strong independent daughter be a shell of herself and struggling to take care of herself and children.
I am older, retired and saved for 40 years and was walking through some issues my dear friend was having in her marriage! She named this as her husband’s problem and as she described what she was going through it hit me like a ton of bricks…I was raised by a narcissist, my father!!! I knew I escaped my childhood and my home battling something but didn’t know what! 😳
Am so sorry to tell u that she will never see it nor change...i had the very same toxic hope for my mother for many many years and prayed to god but my mom never changed and i see that she had made her choice long ago and i can do nothing about it...hence i changed myself and moved on....
I still love my 95 year old mom who lives alone. She’s like she’s on steroids. I pray for her, but I’m 77, fairly healthy myself. She’s disinherited me, which hurts, but I’ve come to grips with as the Lord is my provider. I just don’t have it in me to be in contact with the wild rages and accusations any longer. The worst is her lies and efforts to alienate my children. Truthfully (and weirdly) I still feel sad about cutting her out of my life. I love the Lord and want to be obedient to Him.
@@tonihendrix6652 Romans 16:17-20 : I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them. (18) For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery they deceive the minds of naive people. (19) Everyone has heard about your obedience, so I rejoice because of you; but I want you to be wise about what is good, and innocent about what is evil. (20) The God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet. The grace of our Lord Jesus be with you. -- I hope this verse helps you. Honor your mother by forgiving her in your heart as Christ forgives us, and rest in the wisdom that the Lord wants us not around people who sew strife and division ❤️
My mom was a born again covert narcissist. She fooled everyone but me. All siblings got devalued, but no others figured out what was right in front of them. I was the only one who got discarded with a smile. Got slapped after a kiss. Had to informed of her best born again friends who were swingers. To this day, every woman I have ever known has been mom. Crazy how that works. I have so much protection from God in all things but my relationships. I'm grateful.
The problem with narcs is that those born in this type of families tend to choose relationships that feel "familiar", therefore they attract other narcs. You need to cut your relationships with the narcs, be alone, work on yourself, clean your subconscious (where all this programming is) and persistently pray. In time, you will notice that you will attract less and less narcs and more and more good people, even wonderful people, golden friends who will help you and watch over you like embodied angels.
@@eeaotly 100% I've literally been in the desert for 60 days now have major breakthroughs with my inner child. Last night we resolved the largest trauma. At times I think the only options for another relationship is with another narc or another codep. Each non-preferred.
@@eeaotly This is because people growing up around narcs are dealing with familiar demonic spirits. They "piggy back" from generation to generation through soul ties of the human relationship - so this can happen between non genetically related people as well. The way to get rid of them is to declare Jesus Christ as ruler of your life and live it - follow His narrow road - not the board road of the world. This means: hearing and reading His Holy Word, praying and reciting His scripture out loud, out loud declaring His shed blood over your life and over your home, praising and worshipping Him with your heart/mind/soul. As Paul teaches meditate on Him with thanksgiving and gratitude all the day long and in the middle of the night as well. The demon forces interferring will leave because they can not stand the Names of God and of His Son Yeshua/Jesus.
You’re so right !! I remember when I couldn’t sleep next to him and woke him up and asked him to pray with me, cuz something wasn’t feeling right he did but I opened my eyes a little and seen the fear in his eyes and disgust, and smile when I was praying, he prayed first but he recited the “Our father who art in heaven…” he said that’s the only prayer he knew, then I went and boy did I feel great after I prayed. Peacefully slept too! 😊 he was emotionally, spiritually, and physically abusive.
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what if you think you are a narcissist bc of this list, what do you do?
Not many make the connection of narcissistic abuse to demonic sin and sickness. I think there are 104 specific sadistic assaults directly related to the 28 prophecies of apostle Paul. Lover of self to diver lusts. Thanks for trying to help people to understand what's going on with a scriptural soundness.
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I have always believed narcissism was demonic
Me too. And if you've ever experienced it, you can feel and see it at times.
It’s sin yes
Yes theres drmons among us
Its getting worser?
Well the definition of it would be Satan thinking he was better than his creator. Pimp slap coming. :-)
Having a mental illness is not a sin no one wants to have it cant you people be less ignorant and please do some research and no just believe someone you don’t actually know from TH-cam
You can not change that person, I like that statement. God himself will do that
Finally someone who acknowledges the devil is backing the narcissist.
It’s hard to see that?
@@UncleRobsGarage i called my nac the devil and she flipped.
@@tessamohler3021when you know the truth, the counterfeit is easy to see. A wolf in sheep’s clothing.
I tell my boyfriend.. tell your demons to go back in their sandbox I don't want to play.. they live in dark we live in light.. they are jealous they can't have our light so they do all they can to dim it and be in the dark with them. they need exorcism... toxic
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I used to say “I feel like Satan and his Demons are walking around my house” … Now, I’m sure I was right. Thank God for Awareness🙏🏽
Exactly
This is the BEST breakdown of a true narsasist!!! Woman of God, thank you!
Keep rebukimh them in the name of jesus!!!
Me too. I said that one day In the midst of an argument ( Satan is here right now)
Me too felt the same....and pray to God that please remove all these....😮😮😮😮😮
Narcissists are Bullies and Bullies are Cowards.
Amen
If you don't really know who you are in Christ, this kind of sick, and sad behavior can and will utterly destroy you!! That is why having a real relationship with God is super important..in Jesus name 🙏🙏
What if your husband is showing these signs of being a narcissist?
@@AmbassadorForChrist-777 first fast and pray about it. Let the Holy spirit reveal this. If indeed this is the case, I can almost guarantee you need a divorce. And yes God does permit divorce especially when you the person NEVER consulted the Lord who you should marry in the first place. The Lord didn’t pick that person, you did.
@@USNBLUE thank you for your response. I am very grateful for your advice and I do feel like what you are saying is true. At the beginning of our marriage, I had 2 kids from a previous relationship, where the guy was a Gypsy. So his family did fortune telling, and so when I had my first son, his mother flew from PA and sat at the end of my bed and literally tried to tell me “that I was one of them now!” For about 4 years of my life, you could say that was true, even though I did not see it that way, until the Fear of God fell upon me, and I realized that what I was doing was ungodly. I had become a fortune teller, because that was the only way I was told that I could make money being with him, by his mother of course. I left him and that family when my sons were 4 and 4 months old. And was SAVED and BORN AGAIN by the Holy Spirit of God. He changed me completley from the INSIDE OUT. I was one way (depressed, heartbroken, addicted to cigarettes, no direction whatsoever, just lost) one day, cried out to Jesus to please help me and to come into my heart and be Lord of my life, I went to bed that night, I had a beautiful dream of the Lord Jesus standing in the clouds with arms wide open, it was amazing , I will NEVER forget it, it was what seemed to be a short dream, but I just remember being in AWE of Him! When I woke up that next morning, I just remember feeling JOY as if I was a little kid again! I am so thankful! And I know that He is King and He has the POWER to do anything, all we need to do is BELIEVE & have FAITH! And I know that FAITH comes by hearing and hearing comes by the Word of God! So, that was in 2013, and I have loved Jesus ever since. I have made some mistakes, since that day, and one of those mistakes happens to be, one that came about after my marriage. My sons father was still in their life, I don’t know why I didn’t keep them away but for whatever reason, I think being a new Christian, I felt like maybe he could have been saved from his family of fortune tellers, and maybe by him having his kids a part of his life he would see the need to leave that lifestyle) but it backfired, I didn’t have discernment, and I was deceived into thinking that he was going to leave his family, and committed adultery with him. I felt horrible after that, and REPENTED and Cried out to the Lord to please forgive me, I did not even realize what I had until it happened. It never happened again! But I did tell my husband because I knew he already knew, but I went to him and asked him to forgive me, he says that he does, but he still brings it up. Throughout all of this, my husband has fought a battle with a porn addiction. He lied a lot, as a matter of fact, it was the Lord who led me to even find out about his porn addiction. But I can’t seem to feel like that this all is stemming from this family of witchcraft (fortune tellers) but either way, I have 3 beautiful boys who deserve all of their mother, and I don’t know if I can stay in this marriage anymore. It seems to be getting worse with my husbands attitude towards everything. He does a lot of blaming, almost to where he has become a narcissist, which is exactly the same personality that my ex had! And which my husband did not behave this way before all of this happened!
Prayer is powerful and I do fast and pray, I read and study the scriptures, and the Lord has loved on me so much, He is such a good God! He gives me so much grace and love, and I don’t deserve any of it. I just want to do His will, not mine. I want to live just for Him. I truly do! He knows my heart. Jesus tells us over and over to NOT be DECEIVED! So I pray for WISDOM, DISCERNMENT, and PROTECTION for my SONS, my family, and myself , PROTECTION for all of Gods children that are FIGHTING THE GOOD FIGHT OF FAITH (Spiritual Warfare).
Looking at what is going on in this world, breaks my heart, there are so many IGNORANT OF THE TRUTH, and COMPLETELY CLUELESS AS TO HOW THE ENEMY WORKS, (including myself obviously) the Bible says in Hosea 4:6 KJV:
“My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.”
- but I BELIEVE that I why I am not in such a hurry to just through this marriage away, because I do know that the Devil is a LIAR and he is sneaky and we should not be ignorant of his wiles.
May God bless you and keep you in His perfect PEACE!
Peace, Love and Blessings to ALL THAT FOLLOW & OBEY THE HOLY SPIRIT !
Amen to that.
Well said!!
The scariest narcissists are the covert type and the ones that are super religious. You get blindsided because you think they’re Godly people.
Omg yes!
Yep i fell for the okie doke
Covert Narcissist may be super religious , altruistic , but they do not have the fruits of the spirit. They weaponize religion in order to control and destroy others.
If you are around them for long enough you will see the mask fall ( and changes many times which I believe are different demonic spirits within since they carry a legion or more of demons) and who see they truly are which are ravenous wolves in sheep’s clothing. Their closest family members ( primarily the scapegoat and neglected family members who they treat like garbage) see their true self. Their public image means everything to them because of the ability to gain endless amounts of narcissistic supply and the covert narcissist is able to easily control & manipulate how the world will view them. This why they are kind to strangers and cruel to family members ( except the golden child / children who they are grooming to carry on the generational curse of narcissism and wickedness throughout the family bloodline) The Narcissist’s true god that they worship is Satan not, Father God …(the God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob) Jesus Christ , and The Holy Spirit.
Narcissist ( aka the Jezebel spirit) are wolves in sheep’s clothing, they are the “tear “ among the wheat, the “goats” among the sheep. They are reprobate.
Absolutely
I got hooked by one
Just so confusing but looking back I wonder that I didn't figure it out
A trap of deceit yes as a Christian I thought I owed him
Oh my
This is a great video
Idea:
The old religious figures/Greek attempt to give mental and physical diseases through black magic and the medical community. They are schizophrenia. They are narcissism.
The old religious/Greek figures have put people in genders of bodies that are not their own with an evil purpose. This is why trans people exist. And surgery is a basic human right. They are also responsible for detransitioners existing. They abuse on gender and sexuality and control in these areas to attempt to confuse and change souls from who they are.
The old religious/Greek figures are all controlling our bodies and are the voices. They are getting in our bodies to rape, murder and speak thoughts that are not our own. They have long term evil intentions and a very long past to cover up.
Religion has been used against the human population and the fear of hell for a long-term purpose of keeping us controllable. This is beyond full body/mind control they can do magic style.
The old religious/Greek figures are arranging the marriages/relationships of the populace without consent. The psychic rapes are from old religious/Greek figures not a human person. It’s not kundalini as well.
Twin flame is very dangerous. It’s a fate based system where everything is chosen for you on birth. That life is just planned and it actually is by the old religious/Greek figures to be honest. But truly if you think about extreme poverty and acid attacks you’d have to see life is not fated. It’s a mess. The universe couldn’t know you at 0.
I would never try to take the idea of love or potential of love from someone. It's the idea it was created on birth your lover and it's very fate based. The world and you was done the day you were born.
And it can be used against you the idea of a match up that is chosen in advance of you becoming you by the universe (but is the old religious figures). And that things are set in stone and you don’t choose your partner. It sets you up to not see abuse and to accept any treatment because they are the one. It’s so dangerous. You have a forever someone who will have to work to remain your forever just like you will but it’s not set in stone and no one knows who it is besides you. You just will have a lover.
And it’s the religious and Greek figures trying to control people to get together. By forcing souls to be with one another without consent through manipulation and control.
Trying to get in the idea that the universe knows your partner or yourself better than you.
Trying to plant signs of something that is not. They do this with all sorts of topics. They are the one touching you and talking to you. Evil Cupids. Evil People.
We all will win though. And people will know that control exists. Who is truly at fault. And love will be found. If you want it. And there is unlimited food/drink in heaven.
I wish you all the best.
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When dealing with evil people, distance yourself ASAP and cut off all contact. Silence is killer to their ego, because then they have no access to you, which is what they crave in order to feed their insecurity.
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No contact
Yup, I literally didn’t answer a question because I caught on that he was picking with me about any and everything a few times before, it was 11p at night and I was so exhausted and tired from a very long day trying to get my oldest son help and he turned into a straight demon, I was in the bed and I had to stand up and he had me backed in a corner and I didn’t know what else to do after he knocked something out of my hand so I called the cops and I was the one who had to leave sad😢
I will be out of this soon
Long story short they hate it with every fiber in them to be ignored but ignore you all the time and God forbid we say anything they will be justified for the ignoring 😢
@@amberwilliams717 I hope you are safe and pray that God give you an exit strategy.🙏🏼🤍
We have a 23 year old son and I recently got out of that 22 year relationship with the ex narc. I ignored all the red flags thinking it would get better. It got worse.
But now I am free 🙌🏼 My son and I live together and we both have been working on healing. All glory to God! I thank Him for being so patient with me. I also repented of idolatry bc I unintentionally made that man an “idol” 😔
Narcissistic spouse will completely destroy a marriage and the family.
Lived it, God got me out and 6 years of healing. Now I'm equally yoked with Jesus.
Agree
And destroy your health
@@mseiter6316 Yes! My narcissist has destroyed my health. After 8 years of going to Drs, ERS, etc they can’t find anything wrong with me. I found out my husband ( narcissist) told lies about me to the ER drs which ruined my chances of being believed. I’m suffering still now to the point of not being able to do anything. I can’t leave there is no one left or anyone who cares. So I’m stuck. What can I do to get people to believe me and save myself from getting worse?
How do you get out! When you’re all alone?
This is by far THE BEST biblical teaching on Narcissism. Especially when the Narcissist is your mother. Church folk have a hard time understanding that someone who the Bible tells us to honor can be influenced by a demon. There needs to be more teaching on this topic in the church!
Oh gosh you are so right. We're given commands from God, but the church is supposed to help us understand how to follow these and help strengthen, encourage and teach. This is indeed a HUGE problem in our world. We need help!
“Honor your father and mother (if you want a long life)"--the 1st quote is always bandied around. FUNNY how no one ever mentions the follow-up to that very quote, "And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord." (Sounds like social engineering nonsense or interfering with the Bible to me... Addition by subtraction by those manipulators)
NOT ONE DEMON BUT LEGEONS OF DEMONS
Narcissism and demons are two separate sciences, and categories, so it's hard to do as it makes no sense. One can say, a demonic person can present as a narcissistic personality because (name traits) and the bible considers these traits to be sinful or demonic.
Agreed!!!!
1: spirit of witchcraft (jezebel)
2: Spirit of envy (covetousness)
3: Spirit of confusion
4: Spirit of condemnation
5: Spirit of control (jezebel)
6: Spirit of deception (lying)
7: Spirit of pride
8: Spirit of fear
2 Timothy 3:1-3
When I was discarded I saw jezabel manifest.
IM SO GLAD GOD SEE EVERTHING ❤
Spirit of condemnation no. 4. A reminder to us all.
@@micktaylor1991 I have had that too
@@truthray2556what did you see let me no. On parting after 6 years I saw the mask drop. Her face then morphed through many faces in about 10 seconds. Her face then went to a young girl then went to a blank canvass then back to the orginal face. I then saw the word harlot on her forehead. And the Holy Spirit said legion.? The Holy Spirit spoke to my heart and said what does darkness and light have in common. And I’ve set you free from the snare of the fouler.
5:15 "Narcissists are addicted to lying!" You realize this when they tell an untruth they didn't have to tell or a LIE. Run, rabbit, RUN
Yes, my husband has a narcissistic colleague. He sometimes lies which can even seem like a detriment to himself. It’s just so strange. And yes the lying when they don’t even need to lie about it at all. It’s so crazy 😢
I told my ex I can tell when you’re lying. He said how? I said your lips are moving. He nodded his head and said Yep.
My mother is a covert Christian professing Narc. She has been this way all my life, but only recently since I’ve been going to therapy and studying up on this topic do I recognize her for what she is. I grew up with zero self-esteem due to her incessant criticism and a complete lack of empathy and no more than perfunctory interest in anything to do with my life. She is always been discontented, judge mental, negative, loves to gossip and triangulates her children against one another. This has created estrangements that may never be healed even with her death. Thanks to a spiritually strong father who is the leader of our house, I grew up in the church and served as a missionary in Japan. I was there for six years and my mother never called, rarely sent me cards or gifts and even after I returned to the states, she has never exhibited any interest or curiosity about what I did there. If it’s outside of her very limited daily life, she has zero interest. She’s a fixture at church, and has participated in many groups, Bible study, bell choir, ladies group, committee positions, etc. I can’t say that I’ve ever in my life seen her crack Bible outside of the ladies Bible study ever. Any good spiritual habits we got from our dad. I know that demonic spirits exist but I never believed until now that my family would be targeted by them, because after all we were all believers right? But I sit beside my mother in church and I know with the people around her do not suspect: she is a loveless hypocrite, presenting as a sweet Christian elderly lady. Church is this social club that she goes to to feel superior for other people. She’s 87 years old and I honestly do not know if I am going to see her in heaven or not. The spirit of narcissism is contrary to the spirit of repentance. I don’t think she would ever admit to being wrong or unkind because she thinks highly of herself, doesn’t admit fault, and genuinely seems to be gratified when she’s got some thing negative to cost for bow or if one of her children are struggling and having a hard time. I try to cultivate civil detachment but struggle not to despise her for not loving me properly-or any one besides herself. And she lies constantly about matters big and small, like what time she went to bed. I will ask her bland questions I already know the answers to just to hear her lie to my face for really no reason. Now that I know what I’m dealing with, the signs of narcissistic demons are self evident. She herself had a super critical and narcissistic mother who we prayed in vain that she would not turn out like. Narcissistic mothers damaging their daughters generation after generation.
Pathological lying ; Hypocrisy. Selfishness. With all due respect, but, people who suffer from chronic poverty develop a hatred towards others who are wealthy and affluent, ( envy ). 2 Timothy 3:1-5 Fake friends… Frenemies ( false friends ). Demonic forces. Ephesians 6:10-18
@@KAT-dg6el The Devil knows himself. At least he was honest with you that time, As the saying goes, “when someone shows you who they are, believe them.” Women especially have a tendency to think that they can change somebody with enough love. But when you are with a narcissist, giving them all of yourself is like ringing the dinner bell for a wolf. They will devour you because they can and spit out your bones. The fundamental trait of a narcissist is contempt for everyone but themselves, so they become a law into themselves and it becomes a game to see how many times they can dupe other people. It’s a sport to them. Additionally they are also oppositionally defiant to all forms of authority and control… They must have the control in every situation. Therefore they will subvert expectations of them at every turn. It doesn’t matter if they don’t gain anything by lying; if they are expected to tell the truth they will do the opposite. They are like toddlers in that regard but toddlers grow out of their oppositional defiance. Narcissists never do even when it’s not in their best interest. They literally would rather go down in flames than submit to their inferiors. To them everyone is their inferior, including legal authority and even a sitting monarch.
Ty I've been saying narcissism is a demonic spirit...anything that has no empathy for another human cannot be human
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@@anientix I believe narcissist are unloved,rejected,abused, traumatized individuals who missed the opportunity to recognize the darkness and instead went full speed ahead with resentment,bitterness,contempt,self pity, shame,malice etc which opened a portal for demonic spirits to reside. I was raised by a narcissist and by her demon.
@@TheSpiritofBeverlyBolden well said 💯
Narcissist are created from trauma. The lack empathy because no empathy was showed towards them. They are self serving because they had to be to get any needs met as a child. They learned how to manipulate and control those around the to meet their needs and continued this behavior into adulthood.
@@elliemathews6884 correct psychological analysis of it. Behind the act of abuse though, comes the spiritual elements.. I do think narcism in cooperates both psychological and spiritual dynamics with the latter being the dominant factor.
I've gotten so brainwashed that I started questioning if I am the narcissist.... lord help me
Me too
That’s the sign you are not one. I have learned that we have to examine ourselves to make sure we aren’t engaging in narcissistic behaviors if we’ve been ingesting that poison for far too long…most of us have. We are to be loving and set apart…provoked by the spirit of God through Christ in us. 🌈❤️🩹💚💙☮️✝️✡️
They continuously project their vileness onto others and the outside world.
Yesssss 💔💔
That’s extremely common , but know that if your even thinking You are , that Your definitely not ! The Narcissist would never even care , and is not capable of even thinking that ! ❤
SPOT ON!!! Why does the church seem to be TOTALLY ignorant about narcissism? THANK YOU SO MUCH for putting this out there!!!
Because the "churches" are FULL of them!!!!
Thanks so much for watching :)
They don’t want to lose the tithes and offerings and whatever goes in their pockets.
Because most of those in leadership in the churches are narcissists themselves.
The church is mostly run by wolves in sheep's clothing=narcissists
I had the experience of seeing a narcissist's mask drop, and what I saw was chilling. I described it to a friend, and she told me I had seen the narcissist's demon. I instantly knew that was correct. I will never forget that look. Interesting to me how the narcissist thinks they are in control, when actually they have ceded control to evil.
Wow.
I have seen the demon in my 9 year old great granddaughter. Those eyes are not her eyes. Always with the words ' I hate you'.
I will not give up on any of the narcissists in my life. Love is powerful. God is Good.
@@angelaireland2268 yikes. I pray for her deliverance from that demon. Protect yourself always tho.
I watched aguy after he had had words with his girlfriend &i walked in..He was sitting downand i saw his brow drop low &his eyes turn black! I knew it was a demon.
Please pray for me. I have been SUFFERING in a narcissistic marriage. My husband is a sinister narcissist and has caused nothing but depression in my household. I live in misery. I don't believe he will ever change. I need God to make a way .
Thank you for uncovering the darkness. Please praying for the kids subjected to narcissists.
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My paternal grandmother used to pray for us but it didn't stop the Evil Narcissism of my father from destroying my mother..my sister is also a narcissist. Took me a lifetime to work that one out!!!
And ALSO, please pray ARDENTLY for the "adult" children that are narcissists & FOR the people they manipulate & abuse! It's awful for the parents, siblings, & spouses to be around narcissistic "adult" kids.
@@michelleduncan9965 An exorcism would be a good idea for any narcissist...the ONLY WAY to deal with this EVIL is to ignore and GET OUT!!!!
@@elizabethhannah4704 for us Catholics, doing a confession is like doing an exorcism on one self. Satan hates when you ask for forgiveness.
Before I even discovered the epidemic and symptoms of narcissism. When dealing with my narcissist wife I would literally say the phrase, "you have the devil inside your heart." The way these people prey on others with zero remorse, can only be defined as pure evil.
I too deal with a narcissist wife. She's isolated me from my family for the last 15 years. I'm so tired of being abused and used. I'm in a constant state of depression and walk on egg shells. Not allowed to have family or friends over. I had a major lung surgery last October and a couple of weeks leading up to the surgery date I was talking with friends and family asking for prayers. She was extremely jealous and I was constantly told "it's not about me!" I actually had to go stay at my brother's the night before my surgery. Wife had her pistol out with a round in the chamber held to her chest. I had to leave at that point. It's a 37 yr marriage and I've been the sole bread winner. I can't even afford to divorce because I financially can't support us both and would lose my home in the divorce. I'm a disabled veteran and don't want to be homeless so I just continue to take the abuse and control. We can't attend church because she doesn't like people. Sorry for venting on a reply to your post.
@@RickyBirdwellSr that's extremely intense. Make sure you ALWAYS prioritize your safety and sanity. Be well 🙏
I remember when I was a child crying in the bathroom because my "mom" had had a very sudden change in personality, and I knew that she'd been possessed by a demon. I didn't even really know what a demon was, but I remember knowing for some reason that that's what had happened. 25 years later and she's still doing it. Everything she is lines up with NPD.
@@LouieShowers ditto.
EXACTLY!!!!
Oh my goodness I’m sitting in my car crying because for two years I was in a relationship with this spirit, thought I was going to lose my mind, met him at the time of the loss of my son, wow he played on my weakness !! This spirit came to destroy me, however I’m so glad my eyes are opened and I will never dismiss the red flags again!! Almost two months no contact thank you Jesus ❤
Going on my six months of no contact with my parents, both of whom are narcissists. Never felt better! Thanks be to God.
Yes thank you for saving our sister Michelle .
Praise you forever our Savior and King!
Myself
met mine a week after i lost my dad. crazy!
My ex-husband is a narcissist and worked full time in the church as the music minister. He was also a closeted homosexual. I totally felt oppressed and "haunted" by his demons. The day I told him to leave, was the day I felt like I commanded those demons to leave.
He was a phony and im glad youre gone
my ex used church into marrying him. Still regret it up to this day
@@GabrielB7369used church? How so?
@@chriscampbell9207 They might have first met in a church setting. I'm a longtime Christian and can tell you that church is a very social environment. Many people meet and get married that way.
Yuck!
Having experienced close contact with a narcissist, I have found that the only solution is to put as much distance between you and them as possible. Nothing else will work. You can’t reason with them, and you will never change them.
I have a few close relatives i stay away from
They have to want to change. Sometimes avoiding them is all you can do - and pray for them, as God leads. ❤
@@susandumbill8805 they have to come to the realization that they need to change. Thats the only way anything will be different with them. They need to repent and they need healing
This just makes so much sense. I have had some recent run-ins with narcissists and the the thing that strikes me is how incredibly clever they are. It has to be demonic. I would be exhausted trying to make up all these games they play. I think the behavior is beyond normal human capability.
Totally agree, after having become the innocent victim of a covert narc 'friend' I'd socialised with at a church for several years and never seen anything but "a spiritual, kind Christian" - but whose 'mask' was slipping as she became older. It is an EXTREME concealment they practice which they believe 'has' to be maintained at almost any cost - and therefore people need to be aware, and wary, until they can get to know what others are truly like. Very sad, but behind the 'love' can be a very destructive and vicious current!
I believe that. They to have knowledge of things they couldn't or shouldn't know but the things in plain view they have no idea of.
Would not say they are clever. Actually they are incredibly stupid if not for the fact that demons actually influence them. For some reason they know the things that causes us misery. But yet they are ignorant about almost everything and when you talk to them, you actually think they are pretty stupid because they are stupid.
@@monalisasmile6306think about this. They would not be able to survive if there is no external influences. Sometimes you ask this qtn. How they go so far despite being talentless
as it's almost impossible to survive in this world with the skill set of a 3 year old ,which is basically what narcissists are, their only chance of survival is to let in these evil entities that steer their bodies & minds
It's why I struggle feeling so sad for my ex. I felt that sad little boy inside that's just insidiously puppeteered by demons. I just wished I could save him. All I can do is just pray as much as I can for him.
That the way narc. Manipulate ypu They let you think to be sorry about him that you try to pray and "help" or save them. Don't be emotionally involved, put boundaries
I pray that I could get an exorcist to get those demons out of her.
The dark feeling near them narcs is tangible, it's really unsettling .....
Totally👍..I thought I was imagining it
oof yes. you can feel a darkness looming and hovering over you or in the room.
Most of the narcissists I have met have been in the Church. Perfect hiding place for them.
It's deflection - faking their beliefs as they are deceivers and setting their stage for unrighteousness unto others.
I lived with one for 14 yrs. and did it all over again with the second one for 7 yrs. They are great actors until they have the contract.
So True. Also in families from people who are supposed to love and care for you. They use your love to gain material assets and use you without any feelings of love unless it is for themselves
Ditto, Amen
I use the term pharasies they are modern day Pharasies. That sect was the religious hypocrite of the day. Whitewashed on the outside. And rotting within.
Exactly! They believe they are entitled to know God, they basically are lead by ego and also narcissism, very serious cases. Religion is the worst guide.
The narc acts as the Trojan horse for the spirits that have a hard time accessing you. Wow Kris! I can’t tell you how freeing this point you made is for me. You just helped me reframe years of abuse. Thank you
So I've been right all along to other people more knowledgeable than me, great hypothesis on my end!
Profound 💯
You described my mother. She is horrible to me. She has been in competition with me and undermining everything I've done in my life. She's ruined my career, my relationships, even made me homeless. I pray for her deliverance but I know God will judge her I don't need to judge her.
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Are you sure we are not sisters? This is my mother as well. Bless you and I pray for your recovery.
Same here. To have a target on your back all your life from the mother who is supposed to be your refuge and biggest defender, is indeed to be haunted by a demon.
Why is it so hard to walk away ???????
I actually saw my ex transform in front of my eyes. I know without any doubt I lived with a demon. Grew up in this and it's followed me lifelong. But I'm finding who I am in Christ. He must have great plans for me. Thank you and thank you Jesus.
The devil will try and get you through them
Ditto~! Wow, I was so shocked! Not once, but twice. I can confirm what you say. TY Praise God for His strength.
Confirming your experience. Peace with you.
Yes-same for me. Narcissism has followed me throughout my entire life.
Amen!
I believe every word in this video. I've experienced a narcissistic relationship years ago it felt like I was in a relationship with the devil. I prayed for a way out of that toxic hell; God heard my cry and freed me thank you for sharing your video it's educational and informative. 🙏🏾
Somewhere in psalms it says " AND I SHALL HEAR THE CRIES OF MY PEOPLE THE OR0HAN AND I SHALL HEAR AND I SHALL ANSWER HIM
Please pray for me, I’ve cried out to God to be delivered from this, no one understands. I need a miracle to get out.
@@NichelleLC how do you know if god wants you to deal with that yourself, maybe as a test? You cant, but you cant count on a miracle, you have to step up for yourself and leave this sucker, sometimes god wants You to act, dont just hope and pray for a miracle. Thats a big issue with a lot of christians, instead of acting with christ they just wait for him to act. Thats not how it works
@@MegaGutemusik I understand, my current situation is very complex.
@@NichelleLC If you have to leave everything behind just do it. I’ve been there years ago. God will give you the open and you take it. You are protected. Understand that. Don’t tell him or give hints. He’s demonic so he already knows anyway but make sure you act like God already set you free. Make the leap. Stop giving this creature power over you. Go to a shelter in another state if need be. My prayers are with you. 🙏🏾
I praise God for this teaching 🙌 Many don’t realize it’s spiritual warfare. Enough is enough with these demons!
I b told mine moulded shaped me how crazy
Pray infree from this demon
It is so true my husband is a narcissist and I used to ask myself what am I doing wrong. I thought he would change his behavior if I give him more love, more understanding, more support. How wrong was I! When he is in his narrsisistic rage his eyes turn dark. You can actually feel the presence of the demon. Please pray for me he is really terrible towards me, bellitels me daily, blames me for apsolutly everything, even the things that are obviously his fault.
Unfortunately he is far away from God and demons are doing everything to keep him there. We have 2 teen children. We really need your prayers because the divorce is not an option for me as a Christian woman.
@@Ab-abovetheFirmament I pray he gets deliverance
It definitely is demonic. I loved my narc, but the love was on my part. He was/is too tortured and afraid. He woke up in the middle of the night screaming. He finally told me the dream. He was terrorized. At church, during service, the pastor discernedthat someone needed deliverance. He couldn't go on until that person came up front. Finally, my husband, with white knuckles wrapped around the seat in front of him, propelled out of his seat and came up front (not his nature at all). He never had another tormenting dream, but other demons manifested. There needs to be so much more teaching on the subject.
You absolutely can feel and see the demonic aspects in these dynamics, drugs,sexual immorality, lying, cruelty, and futurefaking and making you jealous its insanity mine purposely kept me awake at night sleep deprivation a true breakdown of your mental energy
It all starts with trauma and bitterness, which then easily slides into narcissism. A legion of trouble.
Maybe that's why Jesus commanded to forgive not 7 times, but 70 x 7 times
Barbara , yes that's all fine but we've only got 4 cheeks bottom and face and so you can only turn them once ? But the scriptures also say that there are only so many times you can forgive and there are certain sins against us that we do not and cannot forgive
Avoid such people!!!!
Now I know what I put up with for thirteen years. These people are unbelievers. My narcissist wife discarded me. She thought she was holy, Lying and accusing me of things I never did. She even said I had the spirit of jezebel in me. But greater is he that is in me, than he who is of this world. I'm on the road to recovery from this, And now i'm experiencing more of God's peace and goodness. Thank you for your insight!!
I'm sorry to hear of what you've endured, but I'm so glad it's drawn you closer to our Lord and your faith is in tact. Many blessings on your journey.
I’m so sorry. The gaslighting is real. It’s so frustrating
This whole thing is the work of Satan. Satan is having difficulty conquering the family of God, so Satan had chosen narcissists to advocate for himself and to destroy the Kingdom of God and God's children. Don't let the devil wins you and terrorizes your precious life that God has given you. Stay and focus on God. Be strong. Know that God is stronger than the devil. Let God fight and face your battles against the demonic beings! Total surrender! Don't surrender to the devil, but surrender to the Living God!❤❤❤
Hey there. My husband told me the same thing and trust me that God will clear your name through his son who died on the cross for us.❤
Wow. I was discarded around Dec 21. It’s a disturbing situation as 28 years is a long time to spend with someone who I felt was a lifetime arrangement. Also found I am an emotional empath. The thing that Jesus said was to NOT be eye pleasers of men. So now I have put a few boundaries in place and this video has defined a number of beautiful thoughts to mull over. Self righteousness is a term I completely despise. My complete trust in my God has given me so much respite, so much more respect for his helping hand. At times you feel like it would be better not to wake up the next day, not with ill intent towards myself, but for peace, however during the darkest nights I have laid my worries upon him, and he has never let me down. Days without money in my account, low on food, at times low fuel, but feel it has been necessary to endure as Jesus said we would need to to, but not on our own strength. Without humility we will be easily overcome , it’s helps us to stop, pause and refocus. Similar attacks,and really harsh callous treatment from the narc, being accused of things that I never did or said. The gaslighting is truly evil and poisonous. Organising trips behind my backs then attacking me for finding out. Hugs to those enduring and Thankyou for sharing experiences.
Both of my parents, who are now deceased, were narcissists. The demons manifested more strongly in my mother. Once, it took over her body completely & transformed her face & eyes. It looked at me with hate & that's when I knew it was a demon. I also saw a demon manipulate my dad's body, making him go from slouching to standing up straight. I know it's real.
It is so unusual there are two narcissists in relationship, but it is possible. I would say your mother was true narcissist in that case but dad could be also manipulated by demon.
The rule is that narcissist will search for people who have borderline syndrome or are full of empathy. Narcissist doesn't need second narcissist in relationship.
I'm sorry for your experience. My mother is a narc and feel that the only way to eliminate her destruction will be her death unfortunately. I also believe she will outlive many. I don't wish death upon her but rather divine healing but her condition only seems to get worse or it has just become so obvious to me when she is crossing set boundaries, dismissive behavior and words, and her extreme desire to control others. I am now in No Contact as I already tried the other options my whole life. I'm 48 yo now.
That’s exactly it: they jam your signal! My head was scrambled eggs by the end!!! God has set me free…healed my heart, mind, body and soul. Joy has returned; peace, clarity, focus: confusion, chaos, exhaustion and anger no longer reside here! 🙌🏻👏🏻🙏🏻💃🏻💝
Mine too😢
God bless you,
I have always suspected that my mother's malignant narcissism was not just a personality disorder. She has a malevolent spirit. I have seen her eyes turn black. I am not the only one who has observed this. Not pupils dilated. Completely black.
That's scary. I've often wondered if my mother's hate towards me had something to do with evil energy, as she hates me just for existing, and actively hates me for succeeding. May God bless you, and your mother. I'm genuinely sorry for your suffering with her. I know how much that hurts. I will pray for you.
@@anitaspencer1734 I don’t know you but I sympathi e with you. I know a young woman who’s mother hated her and showed cruel favouritism to her siblings. She said her grandma also showed the same behaviour. She said her grandma didn’t speak to her , but only ever used to stare malevolently at her. I said “your mother and grandmother had narcissistic personality disorder. Your mother inherited it from her mother. Sometimes evil is directly inherited Other times it is inherited from distant ancestors. Agoraphobia and schizophrenia are also not necessarily directly inherited, but many times from distant relatives. Generational curses can be broken by going to catholic masses that directly deal with generational curses
It's a terrible thing for a child to be born to a mother like this. She also has Munchausen a syndrome by proxy. The story of my life is one of suffering, grief and loss. My siblings are dead. My life ruined. Anita you must have your own tragic story too. My heart goes out to you.💞
@@mercuryxyz7222 My mother is a lapsed Catholic. Her mother was cruel to her. I saw her once after she died. I was nine years old and visiting my grandfather. I woke up during the night to the sight of an evil old hag standing over my bed. At the age of six I began having the same recurring nightmare of an evil old hag walking slowly behind me down a dark street with a knife in her hand and no matter how fast I ran, she just got close and closer. I don't know if evil is inherited or not but I do know this. I am not evil. I am very empathic. I feel the pain of others as if it were my own. I have been a kind and loving mother to my children.
@@abscondis if I were you I’d get checked for symptoms of schizophrenia. It is a genetic disorder that creates demonic illusions. See a psychiatrist who specialises in this disorder. He can tell you if you’ve got it. But remember also the gospel of the parylitic. Jesus said “ I’ll cure you now , but if you don’t return to God , your illness will come back”. By rejecting God , you accept His enemies “. Evil spirits are invited in by the sinner. We are all tempted by demonic forces who implant their evil illness upon us. If good people suffer , it has an express purpose for good. Read the last chapter of Blessings by Mary Craig “what makes the desert beautiful “. It will answer all your questions. Also read “city of God” by Mary of Agreda. Volume 3. The Transfixion “
Divorced the most malignant narcissist years ago. Oh man do I have a book to write. He still drags me through court to try to destroy me. So sick! This makes So much sense to the 14 years I was stuck in this hell. Healing and I know God has a reason for my story!
@@alyssaazhomes Write the book!
@alyssaazhomes please know nothings impossible with Hod pray for them.
I was in a short term relationship with a narcissist. The betrayal trauma I went through after all the lying, confusion, gaslighting and betrayal was so draining. And what scared me the most is that person used God and Christ to hide their true colors. It's scary how deceiving a narcissist can be.
Thank you God from delivering me from this evil and giving me tools to recognize it.
You are describing my most recent experience. It was also a short term relationship, but I fell for the love, bombing , hook line and sinker. I am recovering, but it’s been very painful.
@@anne-marie6098 I know exactly what you mean. It's been hard for me too, after the breakup I was trying to figure out the why for what they did. I just coulldn't understand it. And the reason is that the things they did, I could never even think about doing them.. But does it matter to understand? I don't believe so. Forgive them, for yourself, and shut the door. Forgive yourself and remember the lessons from all this. No matter how long it takes, everything will fall into place
My mother was a Narcissist, and I BARELY survived the abuse I was subjected to. It got so bad throughout my life that it almost drove me to end myself. It's certainly caused permanent damage to me in a number of ways.
My mother died recently, and while talking to my dad I found out even more things my mom had done in the past that I never even knew about. The things she did to other people, from emotional abuse to manipulation to gaslighting and blame-shifting, was almost unbelievable. But since I'd been subjected to so much of it myself I recognized all of it. The scope of it all, however, was shocking.
My mother was genuinely evil. She was an honest-to-god monster. I don't think she was possessed by a demon; I think she _WAS_ a demon.
Sometimes, I believe they are the offspring of cane because they are so malicious and spiteful.
Gosh, I’m so sorry 😢May God heal and love you so much she is a distant memory 🙏
I'm sorry you had to experience such horrible treatment from the person who's supposed to love you the most. 😢 I pray that you will heal from it all and and learn to forgive her. You now have the tools to be able to identify narcs and other kinds of evil people. Use your tools. Your experience was not in vain. ❤
I face the same hell as yours
My step mother too full of demonic spirit to tortured me alot
I thank God that I found your channel. I just realized (a week ago) that my husband is a Christian covert narcissist. I cannot believe how I did not know about the narcissist. I knew since weekend after our honey moon that I made the biggest mistake of my life. Now 12 years later, 17 years of relationship, I can finally see it for what it is. Pure evil. Please pray for me
So sorry love. Remember that no matter how many people pray for you and send you well wishes only you can make the decision to set boundaries or leave. The minute you decide what you're going to do, the universe will send you opportunities through people, places or things towards your next step. The courage is in you.
Easier said then done. But get out now!!!! I'm going through what you are now.
The universe is just part of creation. You might as well say a blade of grass will send her a better fate.....
Jesus is the only way to the Father.
AMEN! @@lizzieschuch2800
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My God can deliver anyone from the spirit of Narcissism I believe it 1000% Nothing is more powerful than my Elohim. Praying for my child’s father to be delivered in Yahusha’s name
Amen ❤🙏🏼
Yahushua. Sha is demonic
I knew it was spiritually rooted. The narcissist I dated was developing his own religion and he was “downloading” it from God. He believed the Bible when he could find verses of Scripture to support what he believed. He was controlling, a liar, dishonest, prideful, selfish, self-centered, and just an evil person. I cannot believe, in retrospect, I gave him my time and energy. He is demonic and I aligned myself with him. God forgive me. No contact 7 years now, but he is always lurking around. I pray for God’s protection and for my obedience in following the Word so I will never entertain him again out of my dislike for him. I must leave him to the Lord.
F Jms in the Holy Scriptures '7' was always the end of a cycle - the '8th' year, after the 7th, is a start of new beginnings. You are free from this person. Move forward in your life and enjoy Messiah's blessings - do not look back - the present day moves forward - be the overcomer Messiah has called you to be - run the race! Prevail with strength and courage!
Sounds like a Jorge p. Lol
@@natnielsen8472 Hallelujah!
Wow amen well said!
You have covered the narcissistic element that other "narcissist experts" ignore.. Thank you.....
They ignore it for a reason. It’s a fairy tale for grownups.
Amen,
G demolished is faithless so while I do not who or what he places his faith in, I pray he finds his way back to the Lord.
@@G_DemolishedSo how are you here? Science proved Big Bang theory FALSE.
@@G_Demolishedsure. You think normal ppl who are just badly behaved can act the way like a narcissist. You are the one who is in denial
My former wife who was supposed to be a born again Christian is also narcissistic. She finally discarded and divorced me because she couldn’t get her way with me. She was not able to pull me down. It took me a few years to figure this all out. But having figured it out I am healing. And I am seeing a new story being written in my life by my Lord Jesus Christ.
Once they can't get any more supply from you-they move on-they die without sucking supply off someone-im almost dead-and so is she-
My Christian mother was a real narcissist and she was high profile and yes she practiced witch craft and I often found her talking to herself
However all the rest of the family adored her as a glorious Christian and totally discarded me
Ditto but THANK YOU JESUS ì'm also on the path of healing now that I know who and what, and I was surrounded by them
She is not a believer
Keep me in your prayers! I struggle with evil spirits and narcissism.
Pray for me as well, thank you
You have to want them out with all your soul in the Name of Jesus Christ or worse can re-enter!
Heavenly Father our loving Lord Jesus Holy Spirit who leads and guides us . We praise You and lift up Your name above all names. You are our God, our Creator, our Lord and Savior. I lift up Caz with thanksgiving, for her to ask for prayer is a huge step towards being healed and delivered. Give her Your strength and courage to seek out the proper help they need to be released from this bondage in Jesus name amen…. You also need to remember we are to confess our sins one to another… which means one person you can trust, not a church congregation or even here. As you have already read not everyone is on your side and have no idea of what they are sharing. It is just words to them but could be daggers for you. Find a good God fearing person to help you. Blessings from an old gal who has been thru it all but that is how God cleanses us then uses us.
@@diyr791the prayer I prayed for Caz was also for you…. When I feel stressed or oppressed I simply say. Let the Lord Jesus Rebuke you and then leave it in His hands. I also start praising and thanking God oh the enemy hates that. God bless you and heal you.
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I wish I would've known about narcissism 30 years ago. Thank you for sharing, this really opened up a new understanding for me.
I'm so glad you've found it helpful. Thanks for watching 😊
I have my bosses all of them are narcissistic
@@lloydnyirenda3770 if your mother is narc then your whole life is narc, until healing
Sharon back years/decades ago this stuff was not ever talked about even in church & I was confused to what was going on with my parents, especially my father!!
There wasn't the knowledge or understanding of Narcissism that there is today. I'm so sorry that you have suffered so very much at the hands of a malignant narcissist. Continue to heal. God Bless You Always.
WOW, so happy I found your channel. Narcissism has become a social epidemic and we've become surrounded by Godless sociopaths and psychopaths who particularly exploit kind, generous Christians. They leave a trail of destruction with the pain and suffering they create. Video and scriptures are spot on!
Most of it is a social contagion. So once they separate themselves from bad people, they were just pseudo narcs.
Well im a christian and i can tell right away (Gods discernment) whos phony and jezebel and not gonna be in my life except in prayer
They arent in this christians peaceful happy world--- i bound satan in the name of jesus!!
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Yes, as an empath I could easily detect that energy and it’s as if I wanted to smite it right away because narcissists certainly aren’t aware of this toxic energy as they’re blinded by that demonic energy. It’s such a difficult task to make them admit they’re carrying that energy and will keep on denying it and maintain this false, angelic image to fool others over and over again.
Sometimes a narcissist can manifest demonically. It can make an observer feel confused & disoriented. The enemy definitely exploits the fears & insecurities of narcissists & make very obnoxious, easy to hate, & hard to love. Sometimes only way is by prayer for them, but avoiding them sometimes all you can do.
Very true 💯. God is good I escaped this death trap. I was married to a covert narcissist for 15 years and now 1and half years free. I feel like I can write volumes of books. Thank you Jesus for setting me free.
You set yourself free no sky deity does that for you.
Please pray for me. I’m in this trap and I am desperately praying to be delivered from this situation.
@@NichelleLC praying with you my sister. They are souls on a mission to steal kill and destroy like their father satan. They don't stop until they accomplish their mission...to destroy what God has put in us so that we don't become what God intended us to be. Unfortunately some of their victims have not made it through to tell their stories of victory.... depression, suicide, confusion etc were served to them and they succumbed 😢 It's a spiritual warfare that we must win at the courts of Heaven through the blood of Jesus Christ.🙏
It may help other women going through the same tornado of confusions.
@Angela Allen Research trauma bonding. Praying for you. I left after 25 years. Glory to God!
There's too many of these people who are like this 😢
Just such a great teaching!! "it's not your job to change them"- so true ! Brings to mind Job 41 "touch the leviathian once and you'll never do it again! " and Psalms 74 "God will crush the heads of the Leviathan" Just lift that person to God and step away.
I really needed to hear it is not my job to change them.That is so difficult to accept when it is your only daughter who suffers all of the red lights of narcissism! Your whole life is battered thinking you must have done a lot wrong to have given birth,and raised such a nasty person. She is 56 years old now, and thank God for the education I receive from these videos! I have been able to see my position in her life. GONE!!!
Yes. Not only is it not our job - Jesus is the ONLY One Who can heal this very dangerous affliction anyway. He healed the demoniacs in the Bible and only had to speak to cast the demons out from possessing people. Praise God we have a secure and faithful God to turn to!
My former pastor was a narcissist, just like my spouse (I found out the hard way.) When going to him for marriage guidance, he chastised me and said our marriage issues were all my fault because I chose to marry him. My fault because I should have known better and had the duty to know his family beforehand. The spouse stood there standing with his arms crossed, just starring at me, enjoying me get chewed out. Never mind that the spouse verbally and emotionally abused me and our kids; constantly abandoned us; connected with females via social media, watching porn and “talking” to females clients; Plotting with employees to pull the rug from underneath me and my kids. I was blamed for everything. After that horrific day, I left that church never to return.
My mother is a Roman Catholic and talks about how perfect she is because she goes to church every day and prays. Since childhood, she has destroyed the entire family with her controlling and narcissistic behaviour. She constantly criticizes, gossips, belittles, humiliates, and controls others with an inheritance from her family. No one wants to be around her, ever.
Sadly same story😢
I am sorry you're having to deal with this. I was 48 when I learned that my mother is not who she has always claimed to be.
my mom is a narcissist who use the Bible to threaten, criticize condemn and manipulate everyone, sometimes I think that the devil doesn't have to interfere in my life, because mom does that really well 💔 ( she has 5 kids only me and my oldest sister look out for her)
You should throw the white washed tomb verse at her. And the verse about only speaking edifying words.
That's why they are demon possessed. They think just because they are associated with Christianity they are covered. Oh they are in for a big surprise
I work with a severe narcissist. The boss won't fire him because he feels sorry for him because of the unfortunate circumstances this young man is in, he drives everyone at the jobsite to anger constantly. I took this young man to prayer recently, and I heard a reply from Jesus and he said to me, don't you worry, I'll handle him. This brought joy to me to hear this. For people to change usually takes a bit of time, so I'm watching carefully every day to see how God is changing this situation. I'm optimistic.
I work with one too...she's my boss. Slowly, insidiously, she's been working on making me look stupid and devalued. She's brilliant and can do no wrong in the management's eyes. I've thought she has a demon for some time...knowing this helps. She laid into me again today at work...I was so upset for a while. It's causing me to question everything I do...I can't please her.
But suddenly I thought, I'm no longer going to care...God knows what the truth is. I can't fight her, but He can. Tomorrow I will start anointing the office with oil.
I want to know who the narcissist is who deceived everybody into thinking there are 8 guys you can blame your mistakes in life on. I think that guy must be the 9th guy who did not make it to that list.
@@irmielam5192 that's so sad to work or live around people that devalue your worth.. that demonic spirit inside of narcissistic is jealous of you, Not bc of what you have but bc of who you are..that person could never be you...so the narcissistic person (jealous/ control freaks) tries to break our spirit. . but they can't bc our spirit is of Our Heavenly Father...(we are Nothing like them at all)..and that's why we seems to be easy prey for them to push our buttons to get reactions of angry to make it seems we have the problem and they're innocent...take care ..it's good to recognize the devil..and pray for him to get thee behind you"... . .I had to realize that with my sister, that narcissistic Spirit was jealous of me Not bc what I had (bc she had much more than I had) but bc of who I am...she could never be me...so she lied on me so many times, i can't count, to make me look bad .I had to wake up and just step back out of the craziness and non stop merry go round of my so called family...my life is so stress Free now. And I especially don't like grinning and pretending with people that I know don't respect me...I pray🙏 that that evil spirit is gone from your work place,so you can have peace of mind at work❤...take Care 🙏be blessed 🙏
@Eli Zabet Everything about what Jesus says here is biblical. Man can't change man, only God can change man, and we're commanded not to worry. So, don't worry about them, I'll handle it is just an awesome word from God. He hears us always, and is very intune with all our circumstances. I love God soo much!
@@irmielam5192 Don't just anoint with oil but pray for her salvation a nd cover yourself in the mighty blood of Jesus Christ. Learn how to be a prayer warrior for the people around you who are suffering from a lack of hope.
Awesome video. All the narcissis did in my life was to make my faith stronger in my Lord and Saviour. Instead of breaking me down I feel more empowered.
Same here!
Amen Amen! The demons think they won but we’ve just become more stronger than where we were standing with God.❤
Praise God for victory in christ!!!
So are you all living with or seperated from the narccisist ? Thanks
Amen🙏🏾
Absolutely. Narcissism doesn't come from God but Satan. Narcissism develops because people have unresolved traumas. Work on your healing with the Lord. Go to a recovery.
Rebellion, envy, arrogance are demonic.
Trauma & shame when younger?
Its a constant undermining, bringing you down to their level, rebellious, using, expecting more and delivering little as possible, false accussing, starting fights for no reason, has a problem with even breathing wrong, nasty attitude, and lives nasty. Questions everything you do, and jealouse hatefull of anyone external in your life. I would say dealing with a demon. Their jokes are always demeaning.
I grew up with two of them. I called them mom and dad. I've now gone no contact, at all. Thank you Jesus!
@Smittay-Sr. This is my spouse...it is becoming harder daily to keep my strength during the verbal and physical abuse periods. Everything you described is what I endure daily..he is a very sick person and my health is suffering . I need help but have nowhere to go and no money.
@jacquelynhaas8184 Another name for it is narcissist vulnerable. They are the victim and it's your job to make it right.
Living around someone like this, one of the most frustrating things is the blaming and pointing of fingers… if something undesirable happens, no matter how small, this person only cares about who the blame can be put on.. (forget about the real world solution to the given problem or situation). What’s important to this person is the blaming. Thats their end goal, not solving the issue.. the issue is solved in their mind when blame can be set upon someone other then them selves.. The exact opposite of the ideas from the book “extreme ownership” by Jacko Willink. Anyone else relate?
Thank you for this super informative teaching! Demons are present for sure! My ex-narc friend of 38 years began slipping toward the end. One day when I was being manipulated on the phone her voice went "low" like a man's voice. That was the first time I heard a demon speaking through her. Creepy! The Lord showed me to it was a demonic soul-tie and I went no-contact since. I'm free, healthier and much happier! Thank you Jesus!
Yes, I've even seen some have facial changes.
Thanks for watching and sharing.
Me to, its like Hell there, they have strong voice, i was thinking its more than one Person speaking, or when they laughed its like laughing at someone. They dont know how to laugh from heart. And shape shifting was there. In every moment they are other person. They look through People, searching for new victims to manipulate.
Caroline I was married to a weak man who was a drunk ? Albeit a functioning drunk ? Because he worked in a secular job ? But as soon as the alcohol hit after a good few pints he turned ever so nasty ? I was downstairs one time ? He was upstairs and I swear ? I just said outloud " oh you horrible Man ! You will not frighten me " Then he shouts down " I heard that ((( he couldn't have possibly heard as I said these words in a quiet undertone " ))) Down he flysheet towards me cracking my skull against a corner of a wall in such a narcissistic rage hexalmost killed me there and then ???? I carried on going out with him at weekends because let's face it he worked hard all week ? He went off on one daily at weekends in his Narcissistic drunken rages ? But the strange thing is ? That when he was sober he was as quiet as a mouse ? Two different Personalities ? I'm married now to a lovely kind man ! But my ex husbands abuse has taken years to recover from My point is , is that I could never ever put my finger on what actually triggered him to be so bloody cruel to me his Children's Mother ? Whom he feigned to care for ? I found out later that he was a Womaniser and had formed a serial relationship with another Woman on the Internet? Only found out through one of my Sons who
Found his site on the computer years later ? These People are so very dangerous they truly are and professionals at manipulation ? Glad I'm away or I would have been dead !
@@wendyjones5853 yes the alcohol can invite the bad spirits in .In islam alcohol comes from the word ALKool which mans spirit or demon. We don't need alcohol in our lives.
@@wendyjones5853 I have an alcoholic narcissist father whose demon I have fought with since childhood to protect my mother and sister. The mind games he played were meant to deteriorate our mental and physical health so that we can always depend on him and so that he can continue his mental abuse as being the one who is right and not sick. Glad you escape. I still have not escaped as inflation, bad luck made me to make less money than him, which he as a narcissist uses now to attack my mother as he always mentions to her that I did not get the job I wanted to have despite having college degrees and more technical knowledge, which he arrogantly despises having the blue-collar mentality and arrogance towards education, which he always tried to undermine since high school. He undermined me all these years so that I would become a weak adult so that he can always control my mother as he would tell her that her son will never be able to take of her and that she will always need him. The narcissistic demon targeted me as a way to isolate my mother. It seems that your narc husband targeted you so as to isolate your sons from their mothers. That is how they usually behave and one of their underlying motives behind their outlook and behavior.
She is a smart women, communicated very well. My ex wife is a narcissist before I knew what narcissist was had this awful feeling that she was the devil. Crazy, knowledge is power!
My life has already been destroyed damage is done. As long as they were in my life it was like living in a constant nightmare. I was around people like this my whole life. I thought everyone was like this. One day I prayed I ask God to remove them from life if they really didn't love or care anything about me and only wanted to use me. It wasn't even a week later and they were gone! I had to ask God to do it. I loved them I wanted them to love me.
I had a 34 year marriage with a sociopathic narcissist, and now I get to deal with 2 sons who are narcissists. He even poisoned me, and attempted to turn all friends against me. God heard my prayers. I care for my youngest son who has serious mental health issues now. My husband passed from serious health issues.
@Danielle Horton I thought about leaving him every day. If I had supportive family, I would have. I could not leave my son to go to a regular job, due to his disabilities. Sending prayers and love to you, and your children!
Prayer for your younger son ❤️🙏
@@lulu-qw8xy Thank you!
I can relate, 22 years.
He also died, it was how I was freed.
I believe he tried to kill me, and that’s why God took his life.
I don't know how you've survived that-only by God's protection!
Nothing helps when you're trapped in the narcissists house, with no way out, no friends, no money, all family members believe the narcissist and think I'm crazy. I'm 60 years old and trapped in my severely narcissistic mothers house and under her thumb, for 15 years now. There's no help for me, I pray every night to not wake up in the morning, death is my only escape and relief.
Hi Teeka, I pray God will guide you as to what to do, how & when. He loves you and wants good for you.
@@susandumbill8805 Thank you very much!
Death isn’t your only escape. Knowledge is your escape. Kept listening and learning. I’m on the same journey with my narcissist husband and mother. I believed the only escape was if one of us died. I’m searching for answers now it keeps me going. Keep going. Your not alone
As a Christian and scapegoat survivor of systematic narc abuse (who was even terrorized by demons from a young age), I truly believe that the spiritual war spoken of in Ephesians 6 manifests itself through narcissists. No matter where in the world; black/white, young/old, male/female, whatever religion/belief, they are ALL the same!
Exactly.
In one of Ovid's greek myth, there was a story about a man called Narcissus.
One day, he decided to get a break and relax himself into the wilderness.
Passing by a pool of clean water, he ended up seeing his own reflexion..
And like Lucifer, he fell presumably but this time, not because of his pride but because of his unparalleled beauty..
He died because he had loved so much what he saw in his own reflexion that he got obsessed and drowned himself because of it.
Not to mention that he indirectly murdered a woman called 'Echo' in the story by not giving her even a salt of attention..
As the archetype of narcissism, i thought relevant to mention that story of Narcissus since he strikingly reminded me of Lucifer..
This also show that typically, a narcissist can't live purely out of oneself and that alone this 'strong' personality type inevitably fall.
Of course in this myth we see that it is the archerype of a 'man' but i've always thought that these trait of characters so to speak was originally a feminine trait..
I don't believe that a 'true man' can manifest such a manipulative trait.
Pulling trait behaviors was always a female thing.
So i'm going to spill my opinion about it.
I think like you that they are possessed by a spirit.
The Jezebel spirit so to speak..
Which reminded me that in the Bible, there was a goddess that pagans tribes in ancient Israel worshipped.
The queen of heaven Ashtarte, the sumerian goddess of love and WAR..
She is also Lucifer, and in my opinion, Eve the mother goddess in Genesis..
In the norse myth she can be compared with Loki the trickster god (dess).
And as a goddess of war she has an army of demons at her disposition.
Which is why we see such an epidemic of malevolent narcissism lurking into the world.
These narcissistic behaviors are demonically driven.
I suggest people should compare narcissism to characters such as Narcissus, Loki, Lucifer, Ashtarte and see if that ring a bell.
Also i suggest peoples to inform themselves on the matter by getting in touch with an 'expert' on the domain called Paul Claude Racamier.
And reading some of his books of course..
I know he is a french author but he is extremely knowledgeable on the subject and even describe some of the most complex mechanism involving narcissism.
My ex-boyfriend is a narcissist. I've never known anyone who was more involved in church activities. He's at church for Bible studies, teaches classes at church, attends Sunday services, and he leads the small group leaders. He acts and believes that he is special and gets answers from God to his questions within 10 minutes or so. The people at church are mesmerized by him, and yet, once away from church, he is a very abusive man emotionally and psychologically. He tried to tell me that I'm a narcissist, but I was raised by one (maybe not full-blown, but many narcissistic tendencies), and the result of that is that I am an empath. That's why he chose me. He saw an easy target. I am so blessed to have been able to escape that relationship after only a couple of years.
This video was insightful for me. I am escaping right now a decades long marriage with a narcissist. It seemed like I needed to do whatever it took to preserve the marriage following the instructions on the Sermon on the Mount. The scars are deep, but by the Spirit I still stand. Thank God you escaped! The checklist below is pretty much a resume for her:
Manipulation
Envy
Covetousness
Confusion
Condemnation
Control
Deception-Liar
Exaggerate themselves, diminish you
Pride
Entitlement
Fear (?)
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2 Timothy 31-5 !!
Most narcissists are peacocks strutting their self for attention. Quite common to see them involved in church activities for all the wrong reasons.
@krd4447 Yes, I believe that God answers our questions and prayers in HIS time, not in ours. This guy behaved like he had a hot line to God. He would pull his car over to the side of the road to ask how much he should pay for a house, and within minutes he would receive an answer. It was very fake to me. He used to tell me that he'll be at a much higher level in heaven than I will. I don't think that is for him to decide, and I'm not sure I'll see him there, but that's not my call. God will decide whether he'll be there or not.
Thank God you’re out. Be careful
@@MyVisualRomanceyuppp , I was watching a video on TH-cam where this transgender model said that her “ onlyfans “ boyfriend randomly woke up out his sleep and started talking and crying about needing god. She said she looked on his location on his cell phone and he was at the “ church” a place she said, he literally “ hated”. Pray , because demons will even try to find their way in godly monument’s
I grew up under this kind of attack. My mother ... Ive been fighting this spirit off all my life. Its infected my whole family.
I left as soon as I could, but my family is still in it. My brother, in his 50s looted me the last time I let them in.
Now I just travel with my pets, stay away from everyone. Way too much trauma being around ppl.
@gregbot6444 not true not everyone is like that as someone who came from a severely toxic family right through from being abused sexually, physically, mentally, financially as they'd actually steal my salary when I worked it wasn't easy. Me and my sisters made our own life after our mother threw all of her girl kids out as soon as they reach age, we left her with her son she's now running behind us to take care of her even though she isn't physically sick and her grown sons in their 20, 30 and 40 are still living with her to this day. Sometimes you have to cut the family off and run and it doesn't mean you're a narcissist
@gregbot6444I find it sad , when people come from large families of narcissists, that seems like a nightmare
Great video Kris...not to mention they have zero forgiveness and zero love or intimacy....it's such a mind bender...especially when she claimed to be a believer
So true
Like my father, he never called his sons 'sons' but "boys" like a criminal gangster says 'my boys will' e.c.t.!! He told my baby brother he was with the mafia before any of us were born but told nothing about it to me & 2 other brothers & otherwise he would have taken that secret to his grave & such folk are secretive in so many areas,i its not funny!!
Oh they love acting like their a believer.
I seen my ex narcs face shift to a deranged face and back in a slpit second. I can't unsee it
Stay away from him. I know you don’t need to be reminded.
You are ABSOLUTELY correct!
Be strong in the Lord!!!
Pray always!
No she’s not.
Hi from South Africa 🇿🇦 again spot on. As I've grown in Christ I've realised their "strengths" aka anger, rage, wrath etc... are weaknesses and they looks foolish. It did take me many years at Jesus' feet and many blessed videos to realise this. Thanks be to God for healing and deliverance. Thanks also to you Kris for your time and love to the body of Christ who are hurting. Be blessed 🙏🖐
Praise God! Thanks for sharing and watching. I'm glad you're here.
Amen brother 🙏🏾
@leerobs 1118 Well hello my Brother from England ! Thankyou for your input ! I often wonder if we are judging others at times ? But GOD works in mysterious ways HIS wonderscto perform ? Because I'm of the belief that if the devil can't find you he sends a Narcissist to blight your life ? Glad you've got Jesus as your guiding light xxxxx
Yes!! I felt the Spirit of fear was a HUGE spirit driver. Atleast that it was I felt around them since my childhood. I also felt the spirits of deception and anger. I didn't experience safety and peace until after I moved out of my parent's house. With extremely limited contact, I am pleasantly surprised to experience a noticeable improvement in anxiety. God deserves all the glory and I thank the prayers/support of a good Christian family.
Thank you. I am so tired to deal with my narcissistic mother. Really tired. And I cried out to my Lord Jesus for help.
I have a narcissistic mother. It’s very difficult. I felt more stronger though when I actually realised and named this awful behaviour. Now when she says demeaning things to me I know I’m. It like that, it’s her trying to make herself feel better. I have dropped off how much interaction I have with her, even when I did this over a year ago. She was on the phone crying and going crazy saying I had just dropped her. All I did was not call her to chat as I realised it was me giving all the time and attention to the relationship. It’s so so hard though. I’m currently trying to ask God for healing me so I can relate to other females better as I have only just realised she has damaged that in me also. Keep asking God for help and you will get there 🙏🙏🙏
Yes! The evil spirit driving the narcissist will do its best to hide behind the narcissist's personality but one day it will truly reveal itself. You know because you instantly recoil in horror - recognising it. The game is then over. You KNOW, beyond any shadow of a doubt, you're dealing with the devil!
Finally! Someone talking about these harsh walk ins. They have no boundaries and will hurt the youngest of who they claim to “ love”.
Narcs dont love
They use ,abuse n throw
It's impossible to avoid a narcissist if they are in your immediate family, especially a spouse.
Very true and also other family. People seem to think it's always your spouse. I think it's best to limit exposure as another person has commented..
@@dorothy792I totally agree. Right now I have two step kids who are narcissistic just like their mother and her mother. One is grown finally and the other has a few more years to go but luckily is stay so busy with life “keeping up with the Jone’s” that they’re are too busy to be around me. They hate boring people. I have learned to be very EXTREMELY boring. Lol😂
Uhh when u are grown and learn to take care of your own business, u can distance yourself from anyone u please.
Dear Kris, the information you are giving on your channel is HEALING in itself! I cried out to the Lord 2 nights ago, begging Him to show me how to deal with this situation once again. He responded IMMEDIATELY by bringing your channel across my path. I spent yesterday educating myself by watching your videos and I have PEACE I never dreamt possible! Thank YOU for your validation, the way you explain exactly what is going on. My heart is broken that people I love live like this - they truly need Jesus. HOWEVER, I feel free. Jesus, bless Kris Reece every day in personal ways. Bless her ministry as she points people to YOU. Thank You that YOU are truth, that YOU are FREEDOM and PEACE! Keep anointing Kris with Your Holy Spirit every single day. AMEN. THANK YOU for being the healing balm of Gilead all over me.
Amen! It took me unto the age of 40 to realize that I have been supportive of narcissists for most of my life out of compassion. Once i realized that they were not going to change no matter how much I tried to be there for them and starting eliminating those people from my life I have become much more successful and live a more fulfilling life. Part of this realization was seeing that there are demonic spirits and satan is not a projection of humanity's own corruption. It was then that I found my way to the truth and the way and the life of Jesus and the Gospel.
I’m 58 😢
Thank You Jesus that you will help me to heal completely from what ever the devil that worked through people has stolen from me - in Jesus Mighty Name I ask You - Amen and Amen 🙏🙏🙏
I've always suspected that Narcs are possessed, and this confirms it. Your only protection is in Jesus. Thank you Lord for your protection...
Omg! Ignorance is bliss.
I never felt I was going crazy dealing with a narcissist , but I felt THEY were crazy and were wearing me out. Emotionally toxic - definitely yes!
It wasn’t until several years after my divorce that I realized she was Narcissistic and had the Jezebel Spirit. She basically smiled as she walked out the door for the last time. That Hurt more than the actual divorce. It’s taken quite some time to heal. After watching this and other videos on the subject, I realized it was the demonic spirit within her. “It wasn’t me! It was the Narcissistic, Jezebel Spirit …..” I was a damn good husband to her… She needed her fix of somebody new to infect.
Most everything in this video was spot on… It put me on the path to healing…. Thanks.
Being a victim of narcissisric Abuse! I need to listen to this, wow, this is right on ! Pray that I get healing that I need to get over what happened to me because of dishonest people that have hurt me and use me!
Most of the time we can look in the mirror and blame ourselves for allowing the abuse...We didn't know what we didn't know ...
I've been around this my entire life through my mother. Manipulation, lies, mind control, and witchcraft. I wasnt aware of this until I have gotten much older. I have not only experienced this from my mother but from church leadership as well.
Lord knows I have tried to set boundaries, pray, and have a connection.
Once the same record is played over and over again I'm done . I know that I need couseling cause I find myself emotionally exhausted and irritable. Thanks so much for the teaching and video on this.
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I'm certain that the spirit of control is much the same as the spirit of witchcraft. And, yes, it can get us into an emotionally vulnerable state. Maybe that's why God leads many of us to walk away from such people, even family and/or churches/church leaders.
This was exactly like my late husband. 18 years I went through this abuse. I’m free now but his influence still affects me. God is good and is setting me free from all this evil. Thank you for this information. It confirmed what I thought.
Yup.... It's a living nightmare. I called out my mother's demon and it was very disturbing. It breaks my heart because she really needs help now that she's elderly, but she will not change. She is convinced that she IS God and no one can enlighten her. It's been a life of enduring her abusive behavior. No more.
I feel for you. You can’t do anything else. You’ve tried. You’ve done ENOUGH. God says, no more. We end up living our abusers curses by staying too long. It’s particularly difficult when it’s a parent. Especially someone that is supposed to be your mother.
It's been a life-long battle, but I thank the Lord for his loving protection against everything meant to destroy me even before I was born. One must hold tight to our lord and savior to withstand the attack of the enemy. Stay strong sister.
She might be possessed if she believes she is God.
Someone once asked me, what is it about ME that attracts narcissists... With that being said, it's crucial to look within ourselves, as well, to find the answer to such a question. Cannot continue repeating such a viscous cycle. God-fidence is key. 💯 Great awareness video.
In my case and in many others, if you had a narcissistic parent, you always want them to love you. But they never will nor can they. In our grown up relationships, we try to correct the wrong done to us at such a young, vulnerable age. That’s why we are attracted to narcissists.
If you are empathetic and kind and have a light that you radiate..many times we may be unaware of how brightly we truly shine. They will latch on to you like no other as they're very attached to your light while they're silently hating you because of jealousy until it becomes not silent.. they want to drain your energy bc they are energy vampire's have have zero light of their own. . and yes, I believe the Jezebel spirit is residing in them and have witnessed eyes turn black. Education on this is so important as it is considered a personality disorder and in the spiritual realm possession in my opinion. I was unaware of intense spiritual combat and the spirits they possess at the time and I see myself as totally victimized and wronged at the time and I have and am still forgiving but now dealing with severe trauma from the abuse. Thrusting God for complete healing as it has been several years now. Now when I spot one or have an encounter I use the word of God and they will flee.
Empaths attract covert narcissists. If you love helping and fixing and giving you’re an empath and the covert needs your light and generosity because they can’t manage their own lives. Once you’ve given and given and given but at some point need something in return their mask comes off and they turn on you. If you can’t give them the supply they need they no longer have use for you and they begin the abuse.
@@JSDolly-qc4bh This makes total sense 🙏🏻
Soft hearted..easy prey..lots of supply
This is absolutely truth.
I have been divorced for 1 year now from a man who fits each criteria and the only thing that saved me was rededicating my broken, crazy life , mind, soul, to Jesus Christ.
A Holy Fire Wall has been placed between us and I'm now allowing God to have his perfect will in my life,
I learning to walk in freedom , free from condemnation, and bathed in the Love of God and Grace.
I regret wasting 32 years on that hateful monster, but grateful the Lord rescued me from the jaws of the enemy and I'm safe in the arms of Jesus ♥️
do you guys still live together
I was married for 37 to a Narcissist,through the yrs there were Red Flags,but I just brushed it off! I am completely horrified by the things he's done,he lie's,I do Love him,but I Divorced him,he won't stop! When I say horrified,it is even worse! I stay confused,I need help so Thank you for recommending Faithful Counseling,I will be reaching out to them today
With all the knowledge we have today who would keep them around? My parents were narcissistic to put it mildly and I went no contact years ago. Any person who even resembles narcissistic traits I get rid of them by going ghost. They have no place in my life. This is excellent content.
My narcissistic brother, I evicted him 2 years ago & I am so glad I did, but it was pure hell for months!!
Because sometimes it’s hard to get rid of them. In this case my MIL is the narcissist but my husband loves her. If it was for me i would have never stayed in contact with her.
I couldn’t imagine dealing with two of them
Unfortunately my mother & son are narcissist however I pray to GOD to work through my son because he is still young just 21 that our Lord Jesus Christ rid him of these Demons he has a whole life ahead of him and I have Faith in our Almighty creator that he will change my son....thy will be done in Jesus Name I pray for a healing and a cleanse for my son Jason. Please if anyone reads this pray for him prayer is so powerful I believe it will work...pray Jesus all glory goes to our heavenly father. As for my mom...well she is 87 now and I have learned to live with her that way....boy was it hard!
Unfortunately sometimes it’s just not that easy. Age, health issues, lack of finances, family ties- all of these factors and more can make it difficult if not impossible to leave. Let’s pray for those stuck in these horrendous relationships that God will make a way out for them and let’s all give them grace and love and understanding.
I started to listen to exorcist priests about how demons work . The narcissist personality is IDENTICAL with the demons . If you are surrounded by these people , you are most likely under a spiritual attack. (Gangstalking )Even how dark it seems God will protect you if you live live like a true christian , and prayer is everything in a spiritual combat.
Awesome Video, reminds me of the scripture: For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
I have learned to pray about everything, Give it to God! These people are out of our control, turn them over to the only one who can-Our Heavenly Father! God Bless!
Amen Sherri Lynn
@@Kris_Reece Amen!!!!!
@@Kris_Reece we’ve prayed for our son in law for years thinking it was immaturity and laziness. Nope. It’s covert narcissism and our daughter is an empath. She’s a beautiful soul who loves the Lord but because of circumstances beyond her control, and it’s a long story, she could no longer do everything for everybody. She has 3 small children with him but he’s the biggest child of all. Once she needed his help he of course can’t handle that because he can’t manage life and needs her to do it for him, his mask came off and he is verbally, emotionally and even sexually abusive to her. She is suffering mentally because of the stress. I’ve thought it could be demonic spirits but we knew something was off with him before she married him. It’s been 4 years of dating and 12 years of marriage. He has become a monster and we will help our daughter any way we can but she has to want it. She has to say enough is enough and be ready to start over. Everything they have is because of her. It’s so disheartening to see our once strong independent daughter be a shell of herself and struggling to take care of herself and children.
I am older, retired and saved for 40 years and was walking through some issues my dear friend was having in her marriage! She named this as her husband’s problem and as she described what she was going through it hit me like a ton of bricks…I was raised by a narcissist, my father!!! I knew I escaped my childhood and my home battling something but didn’t know what! 😳
Just got a 2 year order of protection from a narcissist I am trying to divorce. Thank you Jesus!
I need one of those from my neighbour but scared of what she'd do..she's just a few doors down..
An excellent explanation. I pray my narcissistic mother will see that the devil is taking over her words and actions and repent.
Am so sorry to tell u that she will never see it nor change...i had the very same toxic hope for my mother for many many years and prayed to god but my mom never changed and i see that she had made her choice long ago and i can do nothing about it...hence i changed myself and moved on....
I still love my 95 year old mom who lives alone. She’s like she’s on steroids. I pray for her, but I’m 77, fairly healthy myself. She’s disinherited me, which hurts, but I’ve come to grips with as the Lord is my provider. I just don’t have it in me to be in contact with the wild rages and accusations any longer. The worst is her lies and efforts to alienate my children. Truthfully (and weirdly) I still feel sad about cutting her out of my life. I love the Lord and want to be obedient to Him.
@@tonihendrix6652 Romans 16:17-20 : I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them.
(18) For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery they deceive the minds of naive people.
(19) Everyone has heard about your obedience, so I rejoice because of you; but I want you to be wise about what is good, and innocent about what is evil.
(20) The God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet. The grace of our Lord Jesus be with you. -- I hope this verse helps you. Honor your mother by forgiving her in your heart as Christ forgives us, and rest in the wisdom that the Lord wants us not around people who sew strife and division ❤️
My mom was a born again covert narcissist. She fooled everyone but me. All siblings got devalued, but no others figured out what was right in front of them. I was the only one who got discarded with a smile. Got slapped after a kiss. Had to informed of her best born again friends who were swingers. To this day, every woman I have ever known has been mom. Crazy how that works. I have so much protection from God in all things but my relationships. I'm grateful.
Master Liars and Chameleons, Run!!!!!!! Oscar award actors......God protected me during my on and off again pseudo relationship.....
Covert narcissist are soooo tricky! My ex husband is one. Praise God for my clarity
The problem with narcs is that those born in this type of families tend to choose relationships that feel "familiar", therefore they attract other narcs. You need to cut your relationships with the narcs, be alone, work on yourself, clean your subconscious (where all this programming is) and persistently pray. In time, you will notice that you will attract less and less narcs and more and more good people, even wonderful people, golden friends who will help you and watch over you like embodied angels.
@@eeaotly 100% I've literally been in the desert for 60 days now have major breakthroughs with my inner child. Last night we resolved the largest trauma. At times I think the only options for another relationship is with another narc or another codep. Each non-preferred.
@@eeaotly This is because people growing up around narcs are dealing with familiar demonic spirits. They "piggy back" from generation to generation through soul ties of the human relationship - so this can happen between non genetically related people as well. The way to get rid of them is to declare Jesus Christ as ruler of your life and live it - follow His narrow road - not the board road of the world. This means: hearing and reading His Holy Word, praying and reciting His scripture out loud, out loud declaring His shed blood over your life and over your home, praising and worshipping Him with your heart/mind/soul. As Paul teaches meditate on Him with thanksgiving and gratitude all the day long and in the middle of the night as well. The demon forces interferring will leave because they can not stand the Names of God and of His Son Yeshua/Jesus.
You’re so right !! I remember when I couldn’t sleep next to him and woke him up and asked him to pray with me, cuz something wasn’t feeling right he did but I opened my eyes a little and seen the fear in his eyes and disgust, and smile when I was praying, he prayed first but he recited the
“Our father who art in heaven…” he said that’s the only prayer he knew, then I went and boy did I feel great after I prayed. Peacefully slept too! 😊 he was emotionally, spiritually, and physically abusive.