The Demonic Spirits Behind Narcissism

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  • That creepy, evil feeling you get when encountering a narcissist isn't in your imagination. In today's video, we unpack the demonic spirits behind narcissism and how you can protect yourself.
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  • @Kris_Reece
    @Kris_Reece  ปีที่แล้ว +258

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    • @HandmaidenofGod
      @HandmaidenofGod ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The quiz links say you can't go forward unless you created the Typeform. Please let me know when they are available. Thank you.

    • @courtneyn.5910
      @courtneyn.5910 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what if you think you are a narcissist bc of this list, what do you do?

    • @jeannedouglas9912
      @jeannedouglas9912 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Not many make the connection of narcissistic abuse to demonic sin and sickness. I think there are 104 specific sadistic assaults directly related to the 28 prophecies of apostle Paul. Lover of self to diver lusts. Thanks for trying to help people to understand what's going on with a scriptural soundness.

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  • @mariaapolo2602
    @mariaapolo2602 ปีที่แล้ว +2010

    I have always believed narcissism was demonic

    • @TruthBeTold0914
      @TruthBeTold0914 ปีที่แล้ว +176

      Me too. And if you've ever experienced it, you can feel and see it at times.

    • @Amanda.Marie40
      @Amanda.Marie40 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      It’s sin yes

    • @shireenramnarain4005
      @shireenramnarain4005 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Yes theres drmons among us
      Its getting worser?

    • @robertdoble7665
      @robertdoble7665 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Well the definition of it would be Satan thinking he was better than his creator. Pimp slap coming. :-)

    • @itsbubbles4021
      @itsbubbles4021 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Having a mental illness is not a sin no one wants to have it cant you people be less ignorant and please do some research and no just believe someone you don’t actually know from TH-cam

  • @TK.000
    @TK.000 ปีที่แล้ว +767

    The scariest narcissists are the covert type and the ones that are super religious. You get blindsided because you think they’re Godly people.

    • @jamievaldez9986
      @jamievaldez9986 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Omg yes!

    • @choosecorporate
      @choosecorporate ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yep i fell for the okie doke

    • @deerene
      @deerene ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Covert Narcissist may be super religious , altruistic , but they do not have the fruits of the spirit. They weaponize religion in order to control and destroy others.
      If you are around them for long enough you will see the mask fall ( and changes many times which I believe are different demonic spirits within since they carry a legion or more of demons) and who see they truly are which are ravenous wolves in sheep’s clothing. Their closest family members ( primarily the scapegoat and neglected family members who they treat like garbage) see their true self. Their public image means everything to them because of the ability to gain endless amounts of narcissistic supply and the covert narcissist is able to easily control & manipulate how the world will view them. This why they are kind to strangers and cruel to family members ( except the golden child / children who they are grooming to carry on the generational curse of narcissism and wickedness throughout the family bloodline) The Narcissist’s true god that they worship is Satan not, Father God …(the God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob) Jesus Christ , and The Holy Spirit.
      Narcissist ( aka the Jezebel spirit) are wolves in sheep’s clothing, they are the “tear “ among the wheat, the “goats” among the sheep. They are reprobate.

    • @pattigal1862
      @pattigal1862 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Absolutely
      I got hooked by one
      Just so confusing but looking back I wonder that I didn't figure it out
      A trap of deceit yes as a Christian I thought I owed him
      Oh my
      This is a great video

    • @TheInformerAllyCurtis
      @TheInformerAllyCurtis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Idea:
      The old religious figures/Greek attempt to give mental and physical diseases through black magic and the medical community. They are schizophrenia. They are narcissism.
      The old religious/Greek figures have put people in genders of bodies that are not their own with an evil purpose. This is why trans people exist. And surgery is a basic human right. They are also responsible for detransitioners existing. They abuse on gender and sexuality and control in these areas to attempt to confuse and change souls from who they are.
      The old religious/Greek figures are all controlling our bodies and are the voices. They are getting in our bodies to rape, murder and speak thoughts that are not our own. They have long term evil intentions and a very long past to cover up.
      Religion has been used against the human population and the fear of hell for a long-term purpose of keeping us controllable. This is beyond full body/mind control they can do magic style.
      The old religious/Greek figures are arranging the marriages/relationships of the populace without consent. The psychic rapes are from old religious/Greek figures not a human person. It’s not kundalini as well.
      Twin flame is very dangerous. It’s a fate based system where everything is chosen for you on birth. That life is just planned and it actually is by the old religious/Greek figures to be honest. But truly if you think about extreme poverty and acid attacks you’d have to see life is not fated. It’s a mess. The universe couldn’t know you at 0.
      I would never try to take the idea of love or potential of love from someone. It's the idea it was created on birth your lover and it's very fate based. The world and you was done the day you were born.
      And it can be used against you the idea of a match up that is chosen in advance of you becoming you by the universe (but is the old religious figures). And that things are set in stone and you don’t choose your partner. It sets you up to not see abuse and to accept any treatment because they are the one. It’s so dangerous. You have a forever someone who will have to work to remain your forever just like you will but it’s not set in stone and no one knows who it is besides you. You just will have a lover.
      And it’s the religious and Greek figures trying to control people to get together. By forcing souls to be with one another without consent through manipulation and control.
      Trying to get in the idea that the universe knows your partner or yourself better than you.
      Trying to plant signs of something that is not. They do this with all sorts of topics. They are the one touching you and talking to you. Evil Cupids. Evil People.
      We all will win though. And people will know that control exists. Who is truly at fault. And love will be found. If you want it. And there is unlimited food/drink in heaven.
      I wish you all the best.
      😅😮😢…😂❤🎉

  • @UncleRobsGarage
    @UncleRobsGarage 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    Finally someone who acknowledges the devil is backing the narcissist.

    • @tessamohler3021
      @tessamohler3021 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s hard to see that?

    • @jeremyarroyo360
      @jeremyarroyo360 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@UncleRobsGarage i called my nac the devil and she flipped.

    • @RuthEsther-nn6qe
      @RuthEsther-nn6qe 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That is obvious. Pride and narcissism are the roots of all sins. Satan is the ultimate narcissist.

  • @James-mc5hc
    @James-mc5hc 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

    Narcissistic spouse will completely destroy a marriage and the family.

    • @realtorkellysmith2179
      @realtorkellysmith2179 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Lived it, God got me out and 6 years of healing. Now I'm equally yoked with Jesus.

    • @shaggysbaggy4204
      @shaggysbaggy4204 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agree

    • @mseiter6316
      @mseiter6316 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And destroy your health

    • @tessamohler3021
      @tessamohler3021 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mseiter6316 Yes! My narcissist has destroyed my health. After 8 years of going to Drs, ERS, etc they can’t find anything wrong with me. I found out my husband ( narcissist) told lies about me to the ER drs which ruined my chances of being believed. I’m suffering still now to the point of not being able to do anything. I can’t leave there is no one left or anyone who cares. So I’m stuck. What can I do to get people to believe me and save myself from getting worse?

    • @tessamohler3021
      @tessamohler3021 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do you get out! When you’re all alone?

  • @SoldbySharone
    @SoldbySharone 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +396

    I used to say “I feel like Satan and his Demons are walking around my house” … Now, I’m sure I was right. Thank God for Awareness🙏🏽

    • @Queen-Of-Hearts144
      @Queen-Of-Hearts144 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly

    • @katricebryant8258
      @katricebryant8258 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      This is the BEST breakdown of a true narsasist!!! Woman of God, thank you!

    • @chriscampbell9207
      @chriscampbell9207 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Keep rebukimh them in the name of jesus!!!

    • @davoncole7859
      @davoncole7859 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Me too. I said that one day In the midst of an argument ( Satan is here right now)

    • @DGP8630
      @DGP8630 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me too felt the same....and pray to God that please remove all these....😮😮😮😮😮

  • @aywilliams1552
    @aywilliams1552 ปีที่แล้ว +816

    This is by far THE BEST biblical teaching on Narcissism. Especially when the Narcissist is your mother. Church folk have a hard time understanding that someone who the Bible tells us to honor can be influenced by a demon. There needs to be more teaching on this topic in the church!

    • @sunnyskye1106
      @sunnyskye1106 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Oh gosh you are so right. We're given commands from God, but the church is supposed to help us understand how to follow these and help strengthen, encourage and teach. This is indeed a HUGE problem in our world. We need help!

    • @Matt-602
      @Matt-602 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      “Honor your father and mother (if you want a long life)"--the 1st quote is always bandied around. FUNNY how no one ever mentions the follow-up to that very quote, "And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord." (Sounds like social engineering nonsense or interfering with the Bible to me... Addition by subtraction by those manipulators)

    • @lucillekluivert343
      @lucillekluivert343 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      NOT ONE DEMON BUT LEGEONS OF DEMONS

    • @serenity8876
      @serenity8876 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Narcissism and demons are two separate sciences, and categories, so it's hard to do as it makes no sense. One can say, a demonic person can present as a narcissistic personality because (name traits) and the bible considers these traits to be sinful or demonic.

    • @Find_Amelia_Island
      @Find_Amelia_Island ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed!!!!

  • @jojomarie5218
    @jojomarie5218 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Narcissists are Bullies and Bullies are Cowards.

  • @MauriceRivers415
    @MauriceRivers415 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    When dealing with evil people, distance yourself ASAP and cut off all contact. Silence is killer to their ego, because then they have no access to you, which is what they crave in order to feed their insecurity.

  • @jeanwolfe8436
    @jeanwolfe8436 ปีที่แล้ว +1977

    If you don't really know who you are in Christ, this kind of sick, and sad behavior can and will utterly destroy you!! That is why having a real relationship with God is super important..in Jesus name 🙏🙏

    • @ashleyrobbins1913
      @ashleyrobbins1913 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      What if your husband is showing these signs of being a narcissist?

    • @USNBLUE
      @USNBLUE ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@ashleyrobbins1913 first fast and pray about it. Let the Holy spirit reveal this. If indeed this is the case, I can almost guarantee you need a divorce. And yes God does permit divorce especially when you the person NEVER consulted the Lord who you should marry in the first place. The Lord didn’t pick that person, you did.

    • @ashleyrobbins1913
      @ashleyrobbins1913 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@USNBLUE thank you for your response. I am very grateful for your advice and I do feel like what you are saying is true. At the beginning of our marriage, I had 2 kids from a previous relationship, where the guy was a Gypsy. So his family did fortune telling, and so when I had my first son, his mother flew from PA and sat at the end of my bed and literally tried to tell me “that I was one of them now!” For about 4 years of my life, you could say that was true, even though I did not see it that way, until the Fear of God fell upon me, and I realized that what I was doing was ungodly. I had become a fortune teller, because that was the only way I was told that I could make money being with him, by his mother of course. I left him and that family when my sons were 4 and 4 months old. And was SAVED and BORN AGAIN by the Holy Spirit of God. He changed me completley from the INSIDE OUT. I was one way (depressed, heartbroken, addicted to cigarettes, no direction whatsoever, just lost) one day, cried out to Jesus to please help me and to come into my heart and be Lord of my life, I went to bed that night, I had a beautiful dream of the Lord Jesus standing in the clouds with arms wide open, it was amazing , I will NEVER forget it, it was what seemed to be a short dream, but I just remember being in AWE of Him! When I woke up that next morning, I just remember feeling JOY as if I was a little kid again! I am so thankful! And I know that He is King and He has the POWER to do anything, all we need to do is BELIEVE & have FAITH! And I know that FAITH comes by hearing and hearing comes by the Word of God! So, that was in 2013, and I have loved Jesus ever since. I have made some mistakes, since that day, and one of those mistakes happens to be, one that came about after my marriage. My sons father was still in their life, I don’t know why I didn’t keep them away but for whatever reason, I think being a new Christian, I felt like maybe he could have been saved from his family of fortune tellers, and maybe by him having his kids a part of his life he would see the need to leave that lifestyle) but it backfired, I didn’t have discernment, and I was deceived into thinking that he was going to leave his family, and committed adultery with him. I felt horrible after that, and REPENTED and Cried out to the Lord to please forgive me, I did not even realize what I had until it happened. It never happened again! But I did tell my husband because I knew he already knew, but I went to him and asked him to forgive me, he says that he does, but he still brings it up. Throughout all of this, my husband has fought a battle with a porn addiction. He lied a lot, as a matter of fact, it was the Lord who led me to even find out about his porn addiction. But I can’t seem to feel like that this all is stemming from this family of witchcraft (fortune tellers) but either way, I have 3 beautiful boys who deserve all of their mother, and I don’t know if I can stay in this marriage anymore. It seems to be getting worse with my husbands attitude towards everything. He does a lot of blaming, almost to where he has become a narcissist, which is exactly the same personality that my ex had! And which my husband did not behave this way before all of this happened!
      Prayer is powerful and I do fast and pray, I read and study the scriptures, and the Lord has loved on me so much, He is such a good God! He gives me so much grace and love, and I don’t deserve any of it. I just want to do His will, not mine. I want to live just for Him. I truly do! He knows my heart. Jesus tells us over and over to NOT be DECEIVED! So I pray for WISDOM, DISCERNMENT, and PROTECTION for my SONS, my family, and myself , PROTECTION for all of Gods children that are FIGHTING THE GOOD FIGHT OF FAITH (Spiritual Warfare).
      Looking at what is going on in this world, breaks my heart, there are so many IGNORANT OF THE TRUTH, and COMPLETELY CLUELESS AS TO HOW THE ENEMY WORKS, (including myself obviously) the Bible says in Hosea 4:6 KJV:
      “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.”
      ‭‭- but I BELIEVE that I why I am not in such a hurry to just through this marriage away, because I do know that the Devil is a LIAR and he is sneaky and we should not be ignorant of his wiles.
      May God bless you and keep you in His perfect PEACE!
      Peace, Love and Blessings to ALL THAT FOLLOW & OBEY THE HOLY SPIRIT !

    • @sandrajennings3842
      @sandrajennings3842 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Amen to that.

    • @bxpak1975
      @bxpak1975 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well said!!

  • @stellabella5601
    @stellabella5601 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    I've gotten so brainwashed that I started questioning if I am the narcissist.... lord help me

    • @pondwaterfarm8598
      @pondwaterfarm8598 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Me too

    • @charlesthomas9960
      @charlesthomas9960 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      That’s the sign you are not one. I have learned that we have to examine ourselves to make sure we aren’t engaging in narcissistic behaviors if we’ve been ingesting that poison for far too long…most of us have. We are to be loving and set apart…provoked by the spirit of God through Christ in us. 🌈❤️‍🩹💚💙☮️✝️✡️

    • @elizabethhannah4704
      @elizabethhannah4704 ปีที่แล้ว

      They continuously project their vileness onto others and the outside world.

    • @healthadvisor464
      @healthadvisor464 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yesssss 💔💔

    • @monabarber2335
      @monabarber2335 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      That’s extremely common , but know that if your even thinking You are , that Your definitely not ! The Narcissist would never even care , and is not capable of even thinking that ! ❤

  • @Maybe-jg4ef
    @Maybe-jg4ef 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    5:15 "Narcissists are addicted to lying!" You realize this when they tell an untruth they didn't have to tell or a LIE. Run, rabbit, RUN

    • @quasimodo614
      @quasimodo614 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, my husband has a narcissistic colleague. He sometimes lies which can even seem like a detriment to himself. It’s just so strange. And yes the lying when they don’t even need to lie about it at all. It’s so crazy 😢

    • @KAT-dg6el
      @KAT-dg6el 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I told my ex I can tell when you’re lying. He said how? I said your lips are moving. He nodded his head and said Yep.

    • @marywenzel3199
      @marywenzel3199 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My mother is a covert Christian professing Narc. She has been this way all my life, but only recently since I’ve been going to therapy and studying up on this topic do I recognize her for what she is. I grew up with zero self-esteem due to her incessant criticism and a complete lack of empathy and no more than perfunctory interest in anything to do with my life. She is always been discontented, judge mental, negative, loves to gossip and triangulates her children against one another. This has created estrangements that may never be healed even with her death. Thanks to a spiritually strong father who is the leader of our house, I grew up in the church and served as a missionary in Japan. I was there for six years and my mother never called, rarely sent me cards or gifts and even after I returned to the states, she has never exhibited any interest or curiosity about what I did there. If it’s outside of her very limited daily life, she has zero interest. She’s a fixture at church, and has participated in many groups, Bible study, bell choir, ladies group, committee positions, etc. I can’t say that I’ve ever in my life seen her crack Bible outside of the ladies Bible study ever. Any good spiritual habits we got from our dad. I know that demonic spirits exist but I never believed until now that my family would be targeted by them, because after all we were all believers right? But I sit beside my mother in church and I know with the people around her do not suspect: she is a loveless hypocrite, presenting as a sweet Christian elderly lady. Church is this social club that she goes to to feel superior for other people. She’s 87 years old and I honestly do not know if I am going to see her in heaven or not. The spirit of narcissism is contrary to the spirit of repentance. I don’t think she would ever admit to being wrong or unkind because she thinks highly of herself, doesn’t admit fault, and genuinely seems to be gratified when she’s got some thing negative to cost for bow or if one of her children are struggling and having a hard time. I try to cultivate civil detachment but struggle not to despise her for not loving me properly-or any one besides herself. And she lies constantly about matters big and small, like what time she went to bed. I will ask her bland questions I already know the answers to just to hear her lie to my face for really no reason. Now that I know what I’m dealing with, the signs of narcissistic demons are self evident. She herself had a super critical and narcissistic mother who we prayed in vain that she would not turn out like. Narcissistic mothers damaging their daughters generation after generation.

    • @p1nakitto
      @p1nakitto หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pathological lying ; Hypocrisy. Selfishness. With all due respect, but, people who suffer from chronic poverty develop a hatred towards others who are wealthy and affluent, ( envy ). 2 Timothy 3:1-5 Fake friends… Frenemies ( false friends ). Demonic forces. Ephesians 6:10-18

    • @marywenzel3199
      @marywenzel3199 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@KAT-dg6el The Devil knows himself. At least he was honest with you that time, As the saying goes, “when someone shows you who they are, believe them.” Women especially have a tendency to think that they can change somebody with enough love. But when you are with a narcissist, giving them all of yourself is like ringing the dinner bell for a wolf. They will devour you because they can and spit out your bones. The fundamental trait of a narcissist is contempt for everyone but themselves, so they become a law into themselves and it becomes a game to see how many times they can dupe other people. It’s a sport to them. Additionally they are also oppositionally defiant to all forms of authority and control… They must have the control in every situation. Therefore they will subvert expectations of them at every turn. It doesn’t matter if they don’t gain anything by lying; if they are expected to tell the truth they will do the opposite. They are like toddlers in that regard but toddlers grow out of their oppositional defiance. Narcissists never do even when it’s not in their best interest. They literally would rather go down in flames than submit to their inferiors. To them everyone is their inferior, including legal authority and even a sitting monarch.

  • @LaCantressa
    @LaCantressa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +229

    I had the experience of seeing a narcissist's mask drop, and what I saw was chilling. I described it to a friend, and she told me I had seen the narcissist's demon. I instantly knew that was correct. I will never forget that look. Interesting to me how the narcissist thinks they are in control, when actually they have ceded control to evil.

    • @TEWMUCH
      @TEWMUCH 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Wow.

    • @angelaireland2268
      @angelaireland2268 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I have seen the demon in my 9 year old great granddaughter. Those eyes are not her eyes. Always with the words ' I hate you'.

    • @angelaireland2268
      @angelaireland2268 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I will not give up on any of the narcissists in my life. Love is powerful. God is Good.

    • @TEWMUCH
      @TEWMUCH 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@angelaireland2268 yikes. I pray for her deliverance from that demon. Protect yourself always tho.

    • @hilarydunaway4807
      @hilarydunaway4807 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I watched aguy after he had had words with his girlfriend &i walked in..He was sitting downand i saw his brow drop low &his eyes turn black! I knew it was a demon.

  • @TheSpiritofBeverlyBolden
    @TheSpiritofBeverlyBolden ปีที่แล้ว +215

    Ty I've been saying narcissism is a demonic spirit...anything that has no empathy for another human cannot be human

    • @HopeinJesus1987
      @HopeinJesus1987 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💔💔

    • @TheSpiritofBeverlyBolden
      @TheSpiritofBeverlyBolden ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@aclaire89 I believe narcissist are unloved,rejected,abused, traumatized individuals who missed the opportunity to recognize the darkness and instead went full speed ahead with resentment,bitterness,contempt,self pity, shame,malice etc which opened a portal for demonic spirits to reside. I was raised by a narcissist and by her demon.

    • @shanaeingram541
      @shanaeingram541 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheSpiritofBeverlyBolden well said 💯

    • @elliemathews6884
      @elliemathews6884 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Narcissist are created from trauma. The lack empathy because no empathy was showed towards them. They are self serving because they had to be to get any needs met as a child. They learned how to manipulate and control those around the to meet their needs and continued this behavior into adulthood.

    • @shanaeingram541
      @shanaeingram541 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@elliemathews6884 correct psychological analysis of it. Behind the act of abuse though, comes the spiritual elements.. I do think narcism in cooperates both psychological and spiritual dynamics with the latter being the dominant factor.

  • @RRS78999
    @RRS78999 ปีที่แล้ว +704

    SPOT ON!!! Why does the church seem to be TOTALLY ignorant about narcissism? THANK YOU SO MUCH for putting this out there!!!

    • @reesedaniel5835
      @reesedaniel5835 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because the "churches" are FULL of them!!!!

    • @Kris_Reece
      @Kris_Reece  ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Thanks so much for watching :)

    • @sandrajennings3842
      @sandrajennings3842 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      They don’t want to lose the tithes and offerings and whatever goes in their pockets.

    • @greenqueen2673
      @greenqueen2673 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because most of those in leadership in the churches are narcissists themselves.

    • @bunny4dp
      @bunny4dp ปีที่แล้ว

      The church is mostly run by wolves in sheep's clothing=narcissists

  • @LouieShowers
    @LouieShowers 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    Before I even discovered the epidemic and symptoms of narcissism. When dealing with my narcissist wife I would literally say the phrase, "you have the devil inside your heart." The way these people prey on others with zero remorse, can only be defined as pure evil.

    • @MrWhipple1062
      @MrWhipple1062 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I too deal with a narcissist wife. She's isolated me from my family for the last 15 years. I'm so tired of being abused and used. I'm in a constant state of depression and walk on egg shells. Not allowed to have family or friends over. I had a major lung surgery last October and a couple of weeks leading up to the surgery date I was talking with friends and family asking for prayers. She was extremely jealous and I was constantly told "it's not about me!" I actually had to go stay at my brother's the night before my surgery. Wife had her pistol out with a round in the chamber held to her chest. I had to leave at that point. It's a 37 yr marriage and I've been the sole bread winner. I can't even afford to divorce because I financially can't support us both and would lose my home in the divorce. I'm a disabled veteran and don't want to be homeless so I just continue to take the abuse and control. We can't attend church because she doesn't like people. Sorry for venting on a reply to your post.

    • @LouieShowers
      @LouieShowers 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@MrWhipple1062 that's extremely intense. Make sure you ALWAYS prioritize your safety and sanity. Be well 🙏

    • @beaustur
      @beaustur 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I remember when I was a child crying in the bathroom because my "mom" had had a very sudden change in personality, and I knew that she'd been possessed by a demon. I didn't even really know what a demon was, but I remember knowing for some reason that that's what had happened. 25 years later and she's still doing it. Everything she is lines up with NPD.

    • @Syamhouse
      @Syamhouse 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@LouieShowers ditto.

  • @user-ze9gc6cc9c
    @user-ze9gc6cc9c 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    My ex-husband is a narcissist and worked full time in the church as the music minister. He was also a closeted homosexual. I totally felt oppressed and "haunted" by his demons. The day I told him to leave, was the day I felt like I commanded those demons to leave.

    • @chriscampbell9207
      @chriscampbell9207 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He was a phony and im glad youre gone

    • @GabrielB7369
      @GabrielB7369 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      my ex used church into marrying him. Still regret it up to this day

    • @chriscampbell9207
      @chriscampbell9207 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GabrielB7369used church? How so?

    • @randy_cbc8811
      @randy_cbc8811 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@chriscampbell9207 They might have first met in a church setting. I'm a longtime Christian and can tell you that church is a very social environment. Many people meet and get married that way.

    • @TEWMUCH
      @TEWMUCH 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yuck!

  • @heiditugers
    @heiditugers ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Most of the narcissists I have met have been in the Church. Perfect hiding place for them.

    • @mikejohn0088
      @mikejohn0088 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It's deflection - faking their beliefs as they are deceivers and setting their stage for unrighteousness unto others.
      I lived with one for 14 yrs. and did it all over again with the second one for 7 yrs. They are great actors until they have the contract.

    • @christineturner1457
      @christineturner1457 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So True. Also in families from people who are supposed to love and care for you. They use your love to gain material assets and use you without any feelings of love unless it is for themselves

    • @keithstewart7514
      @keithstewart7514 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ditto, Amen

    • @cindysanchez9808
      @cindysanchez9808 ปีที่แล้ว

      I use the term pharasies they are modern day Pharasies. That sect was the religious hypocrite of the day. Whitewashed on the outside. And rotting within.

    • @EvelynFluyeVida
      @EvelynFluyeVida ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly! They believe they are entitled to know God, they basically are lead by ego and also narcissism, very serious cases. Religion is the worst guide.

  • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
    @sunshinesunflowerz1647 ปีที่แล้ว +835

    1: spirit of witchcraft (jezebel)
    2: Spirit of envy (covetousness)
    3: Spirit of confusion
    4: Spirit of condemnation
    5: Spirit of control (jezebel)
    6: Spirit of deception (lying)
    7: Spirit of pride
    8: Spirit of fear
    2 Timothy 3:1-3

    • @micktaylor1991
      @micktaylor1991 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      When I was discarded I saw jezabel manifest.

    • @notpunishmentbutdevelopmen8260
      @notpunishmentbutdevelopmen8260 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      IM SO GLAD GOD SEE EVERTHING ❤

    • @deniseelsworth7816
      @deniseelsworth7816 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Spirit of condemnation no. 4. A reminder to us all.

    • @truthray2556
      @truthray2556 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@micktaylor1991 I have had that too

    • @micktaylor1991
      @micktaylor1991 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@truthray2556what did you see let me no. On parting after 6 years I saw the mask drop. Her face then morphed through many faces in about 10 seconds. Her face then went to a young girl then went to a blank canvass then back to the orginal face. I then saw the word harlot on her forehead. And the Holy Spirit said legion.? The Holy Spirit spoke to my heart and said what does darkness and light have in common. And I’ve set you free from the snare of the fouler.

  • @michellebrown6580
    @michellebrown6580 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    Oh my goodness I’m sitting in my car crying because for two years I was in a relationship with this spirit, thought I was going to lose my mind, met him at the time of the loss of my son, wow he played on my weakness !! This spirit came to destroy me, however I’m so glad my eyes are opened and I will never dismiss the red flags again!! Almost two months no contact thank you Jesus ❤

    • @BodilessVoice
      @BodilessVoice 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Going on my six months of no contact with my parents, both of whom are narcissists. Never felt better! Thanks be to God.

    • @CherokeeTrails
      @CherokeeTrails 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes thank you for saving our sister Michelle .
      Praise you forever our Savior and King!

    • @lisabrewer5090
      @lisabrewer5090 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Myself

    • @onlymisslisa
      @onlymisslisa หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      met mine a week after i lost my dad. crazy!

  • @LeOlamVaed
    @LeOlamVaed 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    My God can deliver anyone from the spirit of Narcissism I believe it 1000% Nothing is more powerful than my Elohim. Praying for my child’s father to be delivered in Yahusha’s name

  • @Faith4Word
    @Faith4Word ปีที่แล้ว +786

    Thank you for uncovering the darkness. Please praying for the kids subjected to narcissists.

    • @vidanaps714
      @vidanaps714 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😢😔🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💔💔💔💔

    • @elizabethhannah4704
      @elizabethhannah4704 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      My paternal grandmother used to pray for us but it didn't stop the Evil Narcissism of my father from destroying my mother..my sister is also a narcissist. Took me a lifetime to work that one out!!!

    • @michelleduncan9965
      @michelleduncan9965 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      And ALSO, please pray ARDENTLY for the "adult" children that are narcissists & FOR the people they manipulate & abuse! It's awful for the parents, siblings, & spouses to be around narcissistic "adult" kids.

    • @elizabethhannah4704
      @elizabethhannah4704 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@michelleduncan9965 An exorcism would be a good idea for any narcissist...the ONLY WAY to deal with this EVIL is to ignore and GET OUT!!!!

    • @Seymorrebutts
      @Seymorrebutts ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@elizabethhannah4704 for us Catholics, doing a confession is like doing an exorcism on one self. Satan hates when you ask for forgiveness.

  • @alohahawai
    @alohahawai ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Avoid such people!!!!

  • @djmandyland
    @djmandyland 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    It's why I struggle feeling so sad for my ex. I felt that sad little boy inside that's just insidiously puppeteered by demons. I just wished I could save him. All I can do is just pray as much as I can for him.

    • @antoninapronina2773
      @antoninapronina2773 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That the way narc. Manipulate ypu They let you think to be sorry about him that you try to pray and "help" or save them. Don't be emotionally involved, put boundaries

    • @jimmycruz1504
      @jimmycruz1504 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I pray that I could get an exorcist to get those demons out of her.

  • @eligefashion
    @eligefashion 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    You described my mother. She is horrible to me. She has been in competition with me and undermining everything I've done in my life. She's ruined my career, my relationships, even made me homeless. I pray for her deliverance but I know God will judge her I don't need to judge her.

    • @quasimodo614
      @quasimodo614 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @malakaikunahau
      @malakaikunahau 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Are you sure we are not sisters? This is my mother as well. Bless you and I pray for your recovery.

    • @SMKovalinsky
      @SMKovalinsky 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same here. To have a target on your back all your life from the mother who is supposed to be your refuge and biggest defender, is indeed to be haunted by a demon.

  • @robinconnelly6079
    @robinconnelly6079 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    This just makes so much sense. I have had some recent run-ins with narcissists and the the thing that strikes me is how incredibly clever they are. It has to be demonic. I would be exhausted trying to make up all these games they play. I think the behavior is beyond normal human capability.

    • @goldenautumn3073
      @goldenautumn3073 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree, after having become the innocent victim of a covert narc 'friend' I'd socialised with at a church for several years and never seen anything but "a spiritual, kind Christian" - but whose 'mask' was slipping as she became older. It is an EXTREME concealment they practice which they believe 'has' to be maintained at almost any cost - and therefore people need to be aware, and wary, until they can get to know what others are truly like. Very sad, but behind the 'love' can be a very destructive and vicious current!

    • @monalisasmile6306
      @monalisasmile6306 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I believe that. They to have knowledge of things they couldn't or shouldn't know but the things in plain view they have no idea of.

    • @ohgin12345
      @ohgin12345 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Would not say they are clever. Actually they are incredibly stupid if not for the fact that demons actually influence them. For some reason they know the things that causes us misery. But yet they are ignorant about almost everything and when you talk to them, you actually think they are pretty stupid because they are stupid.

    • @ohgin12345
      @ohgin12345 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@@monalisasmile6306think about this. They would not be able to survive if there is no external influences. Sometimes you ask this qtn. How they go so far despite being talentless

    • @gigiarmany4332
      @gigiarmany4332 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      as it's almost impossible to survive in this world with the skill set of a 3 year old ,which is basically what narcissists are, their only chance of survival is to let in these evil entities that steer their bodies & minds

  • @abscondis
    @abscondis ปีที่แล้ว +405

    I have always suspected that my mother's malignant narcissism was not just a personality disorder. She has a malevolent spirit. I have seen her eyes turn black. I am not the only one who has observed this. Not pupils dilated. Completely black.

    • @anitaspencer1734
      @anitaspencer1734 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      That's scary. I've often wondered if my mother's hate towards me had something to do with evil energy, as she hates me just for existing, and actively hates me for succeeding. May God bless you, and your mother. I'm genuinely sorry for your suffering with her. I know how much that hurts. I will pray for you.

    • @mercuryxyz7222
      @mercuryxyz7222 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@anitaspencer1734 I don’t know you but I sympathi e with you. I know a young woman who’s mother hated her and showed cruel favouritism to her siblings. She said her grandma also showed the same behaviour. She said her grandma didn’t speak to her , but only ever used to stare malevolently at her. I said “your mother and grandmother had narcissistic personality disorder. Your mother inherited it from her mother. Sometimes evil is directly inherited Other times it is inherited from distant ancestors. Agoraphobia and schizophrenia are also not necessarily directly inherited, but many times from distant relatives. Generational curses can be broken by going to catholic masses that directly deal with generational curses

    • @abscondis
      @abscondis ปีที่แล้ว +39

      It's a terrible thing for a child to be born to a mother like this. She also has Munchausen a syndrome by proxy. The story of my life is one of suffering, grief and loss. My siblings are dead. My life ruined. Anita you must have your own tragic story too. My heart goes out to you.💞

    • @abscondis
      @abscondis ปีที่แล้ว +57

      ​@@mercuryxyz7222 My mother is a lapsed Catholic. Her mother was cruel to her. I saw her once after she died. I was nine years old and visiting my grandfather. I woke up during the night to the sight of an evil old hag standing over my bed. At the age of six I began having the same recurring nightmare of an evil old hag walking slowly behind me down a dark street with a knife in her hand and no matter how fast I ran, she just got close and closer. I don't know if evil is inherited or not but I do know this. I am not evil. I am very empathic. I feel the pain of others as if it were my own. I have been a kind and loving mother to my children.

    • @mercuryxyz7222
      @mercuryxyz7222 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abscondis if I were you I’d get checked for symptoms of schizophrenia. It is a genetic disorder that creates demonic illusions. See a psychiatrist who specialises in this disorder. He can tell you if you’ve got it. But remember also the gospel of the parylitic. Jesus said “ I’ll cure you now , but if you don’t return to God , your illness will come back”. By rejecting God , you accept His enemies “. Evil spirits are invited in by the sinner. We are all tempted by demonic forces who implant their evil illness upon us. If good people suffer , it has an express purpose for good. Read the last chapter of Blessings by Mary Craig “what makes the desert beautiful “. It will answer all your questions. Also read “city of God” by Mary of Agreda. Volume 3. The Transfixion “

  • @Yvagne
    @Yvagne 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Yes, as an empath I could easily detect that energy and it’s as if I wanted to smite it right away because narcissists certainly aren’t aware of this toxic energy as they’re blinded by that demonic energy. It’s such a difficult task to make them admit they’re carrying that energy and will keep on denying it and maintain this false, angelic image to fool others over and over again.

  • @xander7ful
    @xander7ful 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Both of my parents, who are now deceased, were narcissists. The demons manifested more strongly in my mother. Once, it took over her body completely & transformed her face & eyes. It looked at me with hate & that's when I knew it was a demon. I also saw a demon manipulate my dad's body, making him go from slouching to standing up straight. I know it's real.

    • @arturgrygoruk4705
      @arturgrygoruk4705 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It is so unusual there are two narcissists in relationship, but it is possible. I would say your mother was true narcissist in that case but dad could be also manipulated by demon.
      The rule is that narcissist will search for people who have borderline syndrome or are full of empathy. Narcissist doesn't need second narcissist in relationship.

    • @CCANGEL333
      @CCANGEL333 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm sorry for your experience. My mother is a narc and feel that the only way to eliminate her destruction will be her death unfortunately. I also believe she will outlive many. I don't wish death upon her but rather divine healing but her condition only seems to get worse or it has just become so obvious to me when she is crossing set boundaries, dismissive behavior and words, and her extreme desire to control others. I am now in No Contact as I already tried the other options my whole life. I'm 48 yo now.

  • @Chelz15
    @Chelz15 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    The dark feeling near them narcs is tangible, it's really unsettling .....

    • @truth322
      @truth322 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Totally👍..I thought I was imagining it

    • @natibelfortunato6879
      @natibelfortunato6879 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      oof yes. you can feel a darkness looming and hovering over you or in the room.

  • @johnhiggins4470
    @johnhiggins4470 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Having experienced close contact with a narcissist, I have found that the only solution is to put as much distance between you and them as possible. Nothing else will work. You can’t reason with them, and you will never change them.

    • @chriscampbell9207
      @chriscampbell9207 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I have a few close relatives i stay away from

    • @susandumbill8805
      @susandumbill8805 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      They have to want to change. Sometimes avoiding them is all you can do - and pray for them, as God leads. ❤

    • @anneboychuk989
      @anneboychuk989 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@susandumbill8805 they have to come to the realization that they need to change. Thats the only way anything will be different with them. They need to repent and they need healing

  • @dummybear8989
    @dummybear8989 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I was in a short term relationship with a narcissist. The betrayal trauma I went through after all the lying, confusion, gaslighting and betrayal was so draining. And what scared me the most is that person used God and Christ to hide their true colors. It's scary how deceiving a narcissist can be.
    Thank you God from delivering me from this evil and giving me tools to recognize it.

    • @anne-marie6098
      @anne-marie6098 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are describing my most recent experience. It was also a short term relationship, but I fell for the love, bombing , hook line and sinker. I am recovering, but it’s been very painful.

    • @dummybear8989
      @dummybear8989 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@anne-marie6098 I know exactly what you mean. It's been hard for me too, after the breakup I was trying to figure out the why for what they did. I just coulldn't understand it. And the reason is that the things they did, I could never even think about doing them.. But does it matter to understand? I don't believe so. Forgive them, for yourself, and shut the door. Forgive yourself and remember the lessons from all this. No matter how long it takes, everything will fall into place

  • @Smittay-Sr.
    @Smittay-Sr. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Its a constant undermining, bringing you down to their level, rebellious, using, expecting more and delivering little as possible, false accussing, starting fights for no reason, has a problem with even breathing wrong, nasty attitude, and lives nasty. Questions everything you do, and jealouse hatefull of anyone external in your life. I would say dealing with a demon. Their jokes are always demeaning.

    • @BodilessVoice
      @BodilessVoice 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I grew up with two of them. I called them mom and dad. I've now gone no contact, at all. Thank you Jesus!

  • @Karen-pd4rl
    @Karen-pd4rl ปีที่แล้ว +178

    I actually saw my ex transform in front of my eyes. I know without any doubt I lived with a demon. Grew up in this and it's followed me lifelong. But I'm finding who I am in Christ. He must have great plans for me. Thank you and thank you Jesus.

    • @adamcefalu9430
      @adamcefalu9430 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      The devil will try and get you through them

    • @skiknee22
      @skiknee22 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ditto~! Wow, I was so shocked! Not once, but twice. I can confirm what you say. TY Praise God for His strength.

    • @2anthro
      @2anthro ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Confirming your experience. Peace with you.

    • @1980shameka
      @1980shameka ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes-same for me. Narcissism has followed me throughout my entire life.

    • @hughesfamily1999
      @hughesfamily1999 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!

  • @Thebohorainbow
    @Thebohorainbow ปีที่แล้ว +74

    When I left my ex narcissist I was under aggressive demonic attack.. I had to be delivered from demonic oppression! I will never speak there names but I was so lost suicidal and broken to the core.. I found Jesus and was filled with his spit!! He healed every broken piece of me and made me hold again!! JESUS IS REAL ABD HIS LOVE IS EVERLASTING!

    • @michelleshoffner7976
      @michelleshoffner7976 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm actually there now and I left my narcissistic ex husband going on 3 years ago. I suffered under his crap for 18 years. He still causes problems for me even now. His own family literally call me more family to them than him. I kept him somewhat reigned in off of their backs and actually made him do right by them. He's with a fellow narcissistic woman now and they treat his mom and sister pure viciously. They all know I literally fled for my life because I was actually entertaining suicidal ideation. My now husband but was just a mere coworker back then told me if I didn't get away from whoever made me so sad all the time that he and my other friends feared I'd just drive my truck off a bridge one day. So thankful I left and he's still a monster to me, worse so now but he doesn't have anywhere near the access he had before.

    • @imjoeimjoe
      @imjoeimjoe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you need help. REAL help. There are no demons. Only sick people, stop buying into this garbage !

    • @bcbro142
      @bcbro142 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@michelleshoffner7976 I'm so sorry that happened to you, and I'm so glad you got away. It sounds like my situation. I was suicidal for about 15 years. And just thought it was the Lyme disease. But it was actually all the narcissists in my life and now that I've gotten rid of all of them most of my problems have gone away. I still have complex PTSD. And we know Jesus is the only way to heal the brokenness inside of us. The one thing Christianity does not describe well enough in the Bible is where the devil actually is. They talk about him being in another realm. But hes actually here on Earth walking amongst us. And hes usually as close to us as our own Mother's, the mind can lie, but the body never lies, we can feel them. You get anxiety, and your heart starts pallipitating that means a narcissist is close. You're getting amped up for a fight fighter flight. God bless you on your healing journey

  • @mysecretcloset5334
    @mysecretcloset5334 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    I thank God that I found your channel. I just realized (a week ago) that my husband is a Christian covert narcissist. I cannot believe how I did not know about the narcissist. I knew since weekend after our honey moon that I made the biggest mistake of my life. Now 12 years later, 17 years of relationship, I can finally see it for what it is. Pure evil. Please pray for me

    • @elizabethwambui9901
      @elizabethwambui9901 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So sorry love. Remember that no matter how many people pray for you and send you well wishes only you can make the decision to set boundaries or leave. The minute you decide what you're going to do, the universe will send you opportunities through people, places or things towards your next step. The courage is in you.

    • @derricmorgan9727
      @derricmorgan9727 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Easier said then done. But get out now!!!! I'm going through what you are now.

    • @lizzieschuch2800
      @lizzieschuch2800 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The universe is just part of creation. You might as well say a blade of grass will send her a better fate.....
      Jesus is the only way to the Father.

    • @sirtedricwalker2979
      @sirtedricwalker2979 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AMEN! ​@@lizzieschuch2800

    • @helendosch3461
      @helendosch3461 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏🏻

  • @ritadoran5039
    @ritadoran5039 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    You absolutely can feel and see the demonic aspects in these dynamics, drugs,sexual immorality, lying, cruelty, and futurefaking and making you jealous its insanity mine purposely kept me awake at night sleep deprivation a true breakdown of your mental energy

  • @kimberlys347
    @kimberlys347 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    The narc acts as the Trojan horse for the spirits that have a hard time accessing you. Wow Kris! I can’t tell you how freeing this point you made is for me. You just helped me reframe years of abuse. Thank you

    • @JoeyBvr
      @JoeyBvr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So I've been right all along to other people more knowledgeable than me, great hypothesis on my end!

    • @elizabethwambui9901
      @elizabethwambui9901 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Profound 💯

  • @rhondacooper7957
    @rhondacooper7957 ปีที่แล้ว +414

    I believe every word in this video. I've experienced a narcissistic relationship years ago it felt like I was in a relationship with the devil. I prayed for a way out of that toxic hell; God heard my cry and freed me thank you for sharing your video it's educational and informative. 🙏🏾

    • @wendyjones5853
      @wendyjones5853 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Somewhere in psalms it says " AND I SHALL HEAR THE CRIES OF MY PEOPLE THE OR0HAN AND I SHALL HEAR AND I SHALL ANSWER HIM

    • @NichelleLC
      @NichelleLC ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Please pray for me, I’ve cried out to God to be delivered from this, no one understands. I need a miracle to get out.

    • @MegaGutemusik
      @MegaGutemusik ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@NichelleLC how do you know if god wants you to deal with that yourself, maybe as a test? You cant, but you cant count on a miracle, you have to step up for yourself and leave this sucker, sometimes god wants You to act, dont just hope and pray for a miracle. Thats a big issue with a lot of christians, instead of acting with christ they just wait for him to act. Thats not how it works

    • @NichelleLC
      @NichelleLC ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@MegaGutemusik I understand, my current situation is very complex.

    • @carmelwine7610
      @carmelwine7610 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@NichelleLC If you have to leave everything behind just do it. I’ve been there years ago. God will give you the open and you take it. You are protected. Understand that. Don’t tell him or give hints. He’s demonic so he already knows anyway but make sure you act like God already set you free. Make the leap. Stop giving this creature power over you. Go to a shelter in another state if need be. My prayers are with you. 🙏🏾

  • @cazdoodle7737
    @cazdoodle7737 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Keep me in your prayers! I struggle with evil spirits and narcissism.

    • @diyr791
      @diyr791 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Pray for me as well, thank you

    • @donnas2375
      @donnas2375 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You have to want them out with all your soul in the Name of Jesus Christ or worse can re-enter!

    • @Gimo76
      @Gimo76 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Heavenly Father our loving Lord Jesus Holy Spirit who leads and guides us . We praise You and lift up Your name above all names. You are our God, our Creator, our Lord and Savior. I lift up Caz with thanksgiving, for her to ask for prayer is a huge step towards being healed and delivered. Give her Your strength and courage to seek out the proper help they need to be released from this bondage in Jesus name amen…. You also need to remember we are to confess our sins one to another… which means one person you can trust, not a church congregation or even here. As you have already read not everyone is on your side and have no idea of what they are sharing. It is just words to them but could be daggers for you. Find a good God fearing person to help you. Blessings from an old gal who has been thru it all but that is how God cleanses us then uses us.

    • @Gimo76
      @Gimo76 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@diyr791the prayer I prayed for Caz was also for you…. When I feel stressed or oppressed I simply say. Let the Lord Jesus Rebuke you and then leave it in His hands. I also start praising and thanking God oh the enemy hates that. God bless you and heal you.

    • @helendosch3461
      @helendosch3461 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏🏻

  • @sramirez777
    @sramirez777 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My former pastor was a narcissist, just like my spouse (I found out the hard way.) When going to him for marriage guidance, he chastised me and said our marriage issues were all my fault because I chose to marry him. My fault because I should have known better and had the duty to know his family beforehand. The spouse stood there standing with his arms crossed, just starring at me, enjoying me get chewed out. Never mind that the spouse verbally and emotionally abused me and our kids; constantly abandoned us; connected with females via social media, watching porn and “talking” to females clients; Plotting with employees to pull the rug from underneath me and my kids. I was blamed for everything. After that horrific day, I left that church never to return.

  • @JayJ111
    @JayJ111 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    I praise God for this teaching 🙌 Many don’t realize it’s spiritual warfare. Enough is enough with these demons!

    • @tiger-resssparkle2686
      @tiger-resssparkle2686 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I b told mine moulded shaped me how crazy

    • @tiger-resssparkle2686
      @tiger-resssparkle2686 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pray infree from this demon

    • @Ab-abovetheFirmament
      @Ab-abovetheFirmament ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It is so true my husband is a narcissist and I used to ask myself what am I doing wrong. I thought he would change his behavior if I give him more love, more understanding, more support. How wrong was I! When he is in his narrsisistic rage his eyes turn dark. You can actually feel the presence of the demon. Please pray for me he is really terrible towards me, bellitels me daily, blames me for apsolutly everything, even the things that are obviously his fault.
      Unfortunately he is far away from God and demons are doing everything to keep him there. We have 2 teen children. We really need your prayers because the divorce is not an option for me as a Christian woman.

    • @tiger-resssparkle2686
      @tiger-resssparkle2686 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ab-abovetheFirmament I pray he gets deliverance

    • @kathystevens7532
      @kathystevens7532 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It definitely is demonic. I loved my narc, but the love was on my part. He was/is too tortured and afraid. He woke up in the middle of the night screaming. He finally told me the dream. He was terrorized. At church, during service, the pastor discernedthat someone needed deliverance. He couldn't go on until that person came up front. Finally, my husband, with white knuckles wrapped around the seat in front of him, propelled out of his seat and came up front (not his nature at all). He never had another tormenting dream, but other demons manifested. There needs to be so much more teaching on the subject.

  • @MH_Prof
    @MH_Prof ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I knew it was spiritually rooted. The narcissist I dated was developing his own religion and he was “downloading” it from God. He believed the Bible when he could find verses of Scripture to support what he believed. He was controlling, a liar, dishonest, prideful, selfish, self-centered, and just an evil person. I cannot believe, in retrospect, I gave him my time and energy. He is demonic and I aligned myself with him. God forgive me. No contact 7 years now, but he is always lurking around. I pray for God’s protection and for my obedience in following the Word so I will never entertain him again out of my dislike for him. I must leave him to the Lord.

    • @natnielsen8472
      @natnielsen8472 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      F Jms in the Holy Scriptures '7' was always the end of a cycle - the '8th' year, after the 7th, is a start of new beginnings. You are free from this person. Move forward in your life and enjoy Messiah's blessings - do not look back - the present day moves forward - be the overcomer Messiah has called you to be - run the race! Prevail with strength and courage!

    • @loverules802
      @loverules802 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like a Jorge p. Lol

    • @MH_Prof
      @MH_Prof ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@natnielsen8472 Hallelujah!

    • @leianahkahahawai4649
      @leianahkahahawai4649 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow amen well said!

  • @hereim5648
    @hereim5648 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Absolutely. Narcissism doesn't come from God but Satan. Narcissism develops because people have unresolved traumas. Work on your healing with the Lord. Go to a recovery.
    Rebellion, envy, arrogance are demonic.

    • @debrastover562
      @debrastover562 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trauma & shame when younger?

  • @nancywood9027
    @nancywood9027 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I never felt I was going crazy dealing with a narcissist , but I felt THEY were crazy and were wearing me out. Emotionally toxic - definitely yes!

  • @barbarab2590
    @barbarab2590 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    It all starts with trauma and bitterness, which then easily slides into narcissism. A legion of trouble.

    • @greenblood5640
      @greenblood5640 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maybe that's why Jesus commanded to forgive not 7 times, but 70 x 7 times

    • @WendyJones-zx7is
      @WendyJones-zx7is 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Barbara , yes that's all fine but we've only got 4 cheeks bottom and face and so you can only turn them once ? But the scriptures also say that there are only so many times you can forgive and there are certain sins against us that we do not and cannot forgive

  • @jimmy031408
    @jimmy031408 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Now I know what I put up with for thirteen years. These people are unbelievers. My narcissist wife discarded me. She thought she was holy, Lying and accusing me of things I never did. She even said I had the spirit of jezebel in me. But greater is he that is in me, than he who is of this world. I'm on the road to recovery from this, And now i'm experiencing more of God's peace and goodness. Thank you for your insight!!

    • @Kris_Reece
      @Kris_Reece  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm sorry to hear of what you've endured, but I'm so glad it's drawn you closer to our Lord and your faith is in tact. Many blessings on your journey.

    • @jidoorifalcon
      @jidoorifalcon ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m so sorry. The gaslighting is real. It’s so frustrating

    • @encouragingmind2day
      @encouragingmind2day ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This whole thing is the work of Satan. Satan is having difficulty conquering the family of God, so Satan had chosen narcissists to advocate for himself and to destroy the Kingdom of God and God's children. Don't let the devil wins you and terrorizes your precious life that God has given you. Stay and focus on God. Be strong. Know that God is stronger than the devil. Let God fight and face your battles against the demonic beings! Total surrender! Don't surrender to the devil, but surrender to the Living God!❤❤❤

    • @mrs.evelynkerr8799
      @mrs.evelynkerr8799 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hey there. My husband told me the same thing and trust me that God will clear your name through his son who died on the cross for us.❤

    • @underdoggys5415
      @underdoggys5415 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Wow. I was discarded around Dec 21. It’s a disturbing situation as 28 years is a long time to spend with someone who I felt was a lifetime arrangement. Also found I am an emotional empath. The thing that Jesus said was to NOT be eye pleasers of men. So now I have put a few boundaries in place and this video has defined a number of beautiful thoughts to mull over. Self righteousness is a term I completely despise. My complete trust in my God has given me so much respite, so much more respect for his helping hand. At times you feel like it would be better not to wake up the next day, not with ill intent towards myself, but for peace, however during the darkest nights I have laid my worries upon him, and he has never let me down. Days without money in my account, low on food, at times low fuel, but feel it has been necessary to endure as Jesus said we would need to to, but not on our own strength. Without humility we will be easily overcome , it’s helps us to stop, pause and refocus. Similar attacks,and really harsh callous treatment from the narc, being accused of things that I never did or said. The gaslighting is truly evil and poisonous. Organising trips behind my backs then attacking me for finding out. Hugs to those enduring and Thankyou for sharing experiences.

  • @teeka7777
    @teeka7777 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Nothing helps when you're trapped in the narcissists house, with no way out, no friends, no money, all family members believe the narcissist and think I'm crazy. I'm 60 years old and trapped in my severely narcissistic mothers house and under her thumb, for 15 years now. There's no help for me, I pray every night to not wake up in the morning, death is my only escape and relief.

    • @susandumbill8805
      @susandumbill8805 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Hi Teeka, I pray God will guide you as to what to do, how & when. He loves you and wants good for you.

    • @teeka7777
      @teeka7777 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@susandumbill8805 Thank you very much!

  • @garethwest9069
    @garethwest9069 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    As a Christian and scapegoat survivor of systematic narc abuse (who was even terrorized by demons from a young age), I truly believe that the spiritual war spoken of in Ephesians 6 manifests itself through narcissists. No matter where in the world; black/white, young/old, male/female, whatever religion/belief, they are ALL the same!

    • @lapilulecryptee7518
      @lapilulecryptee7518 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly.
      In one of Ovid's greek myth, there was a story about a man called Narcissus.
      One day, he decided to get a break and relax himself into the wilderness.
      Passing by a pool of clean water, he ended up seeing his own reflexion..
      And like Lucifer, he fell presumably but this time, not because of his pride but because of his unparalleled beauty..
      He died because he had loved so much what he saw in his own reflexion that he got obsessed and drowned himself because of it.
      Not to mention that he indirectly murdered a woman called 'Echo' in the story by not giving her even a salt of attention..
      As the archetype of narcissism, i thought relevant to mention that story of Narcissus since he strikingly reminded me of Lucifer..
      This also show that typically, a narcissist can't live purely out of oneself and that alone this 'strong' personality type inevitably fall.
      Of course in this myth we see that it is the archerype of a 'man' but i've always thought that these trait of characters so to speak was originally a feminine trait..
      I don't believe that a 'true man' can manifest such a manipulative trait.
      Pulling trait behaviors was always a female thing.
      So i'm going to spill my opinion about it.
      I think like you that they are possessed by a spirit.
      The Jezebel spirit so to speak..
      Which reminded me that in the Bible, there was a goddess that pagans tribes in ancient Israel worshipped.
      The queen of heaven Ashtarte, the sumerian goddess of love and WAR..
      She is also Lucifer, and in my opinion, Eve the mother goddess in Genesis..
      In the norse myth she can be compared with Loki the trickster god (dess).
      And as a goddess of war she has an army of demons at her disposition.
      Which is why we see such an epidemic of malevolent narcissism lurking into the world.
      These narcissistic behaviors are demonically driven.
      I suggest people should compare narcissism to characters such as Narcissus, Loki, Lucifer, Ashtarte and see if that ring a bell.
      Also i suggest peoples to inform themselves on the matter by getting in touch with an 'expert' on the domain called Paul Claude Racamier.
      And reading some of his books of course..
      I know he is a french author but he is extremely knowledgeable on the subject and even describe some of the most complex mechanism involving narcissism.

  • @eleanorjordan3404
    @eleanorjordan3404 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    That’s exactly it: they jam your signal! My head was scrambled eggs by the end!!! God has set me free…healed my heart, mind, body and soul. Joy has returned; peace, clarity, focus: confusion, chaos, exhaustion and anger no longer reside here! 🙌🏻👏🏻🙏🏻💃🏻💝

  • @rsj2027
    @rsj2027 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    There's too many of these people who are like this 😢

  • @alyssaazhomes
    @alyssaazhomes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Divorced the most malignant narcissist years ago. Oh man do I have a book to write. He still drags me through court to try to destroy me. So sick! This makes So much sense to the 14 years I was stuck in this hell. Healing and I know God has a reason for my story!

  • @susandumbill8805
    @susandumbill8805 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Sometimes a narcissist can manifest demonically. It can make an observer feel confused & disoriented. The enemy definitely exploits the fears & insecurities of narcissists & make very obnoxious, easy to hate, & hard to love. Sometimes only way is by prayer for them, but avoiding them sometimes all you can do.

  • @georgew.5639
    @georgew.5639 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    My former wife who was supposed to be a born again Christian is also narcissistic. She finally discarded and divorced me because she couldn’t get her way with me. She was not able to pull me down. It took me a few years to figure this all out. But having figured it out I am healing. And I am seeing a new story being written in my life by my Lord Jesus Christ.

    • @user-hs4jz7pw6g
      @user-hs4jz7pw6g ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Once they can't get any more supply from you-they move on-they die without sucking supply off someone-im almost dead-and so is she-

    • @mollymuch2808
      @mollymuch2808 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My Christian mother was a real narcissist and she was high profile and yes she practiced witch craft and I often found her talking to herself
      However all the rest of the family adored her as a glorious Christian and totally discarded me

    • @peter8545
      @peter8545 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ditto but THANK YOU JESUS ì'm also on the path of healing now that I know who and what, and I was surrounded by them

    • @ohgin12345
      @ohgin12345 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is not a believer

  • @williamlindner3984
    @williamlindner3984 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    You have covered the narcissistic element that other "narcissist experts" ignore.. Thank you.....

    • @G_Demolished
      @G_Demolished ปีที่แล้ว

      They ignore it for a reason. It’s a fairy tale for grownups.

    • @kimberlygreidanus5639
      @kimberlygreidanus5639 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen,

    • @leikkkkkkkkkkkk5788
      @leikkkkkkkkkkkk5788 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      G demolished is faithless so while I do not who or what he places his faith in, I pray he finds his way back to the Lord.

    • @AnnaK-gv3kn
      @AnnaK-gv3kn ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@G_DemolishedSo how are you here? Science proved Big Bang theory FALSE.

    • @ohgin12345
      @ohgin12345 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@G_Demolishedsure. You think normal ppl who are just badly behaved can act the way like a narcissist. You are the one who is in denial

  • @t.m.h.4499
    @t.m.h.4499 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Thank you. I am so tired to deal with my narcissistic mother. Really tired. And I cried out to my Lord Jesus for help.

    • @quasimodo614
      @quasimodo614 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I have a narcissistic mother. It’s very difficult. I felt more stronger though when I actually realised and named this awful behaviour. Now when she says demeaning things to me I know I’m. It like that, it’s her trying to make herself feel better. I have dropped off how much interaction I have with her, even when I did this over a year ago. She was on the phone crying and going crazy saying I had just dropped her. All I did was not call her to chat as I realised it was me giving all the time and attention to the relationship. It’s so so hard though. I’m currently trying to ask God for healing me so I can relate to other females better as I have only just realised she has damaged that in me also. Keep asking God for help and you will get there 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Fancy1450
    @Fancy1450 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I’ve witnessed this demonic behavior first hand. When you pray before you enter the home you know it’s demonic. I’m still trying to understand how someone can be overcome with this mental illness, be so ugly and hateful to someone they claim to love. The mental state that puts you in is very hard to overcome. After 2nd guessing myself for years bc he made me think I was the crazy one, God showed me over & over what I needed to see and gave me the courage to finally walk out for the last time. Just ask Him to reveal what’s in the person’s heart & mind and show you what you need to see & then believe it. I feel bad for my ex, but not bad enough to put myself in that position ever again. I do pray that he will turn to God (once again) and ask for forgiveness and walk in Christ. He’ll have to ask for help himself, we can’t cure these folks.

    • @barbarap1477
      @barbarap1477 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm married to one. He has put me literally thro hell for the past 60 years! It's too late in life to make changes. I'm finiancially ruined and my health is in shambles. I'm just ready to go home to be with the Lord!

    • @Fancy1450
      @Fancy1450 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@barbarap1477 I’m so sorry. Pray. And then pray some more. I wouldn’t have made it without God. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @lucrecepatrick9234
      @lucrecepatrick9234 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If God wanted to cure the evil, He would have saved the devil. He didn't. He just separated their ways in two very opposite side. Light and darkness.
      Just leave. Light and darkness can't get along.

  • @solarchos4352
    @solarchos4352 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    My mother was a Narcissist, and I BARELY survived the abuse I was subjected to. It got so bad throughout my life that it almost drove me to end myself. It's certainly caused permanent damage to me in a number of ways.
    My mother died recently, and while talking to my dad I found out even more things my mom had done in the past that I never even knew about. The things she did to other people, from emotional abuse to manipulation to gaslighting and blame-shifting, was almost unbelievable. But since I'd been subjected to so much of it myself I recognized all of it. The scope of it all, however, was shocking.
    My mother was genuinely evil. She was an honest-to-god monster. I don't think she was possessed by a demon; I think she _WAS_ a demon.

    • @melisentiapheiffer3034
      @melisentiapheiffer3034 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Sometimes, I believe they are the offspring of cane because they are so malicious and spiteful.

    • @LoriBothwell
      @LoriBothwell 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Gosh, I’m so sorry 😢May God heal and love you so much she is a distant memory 🙏

    • @candygirlcan
      @candygirlcan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I'm sorry you had to experience such horrible treatment from the person who's supposed to love you the most. 😢 I pray that you will heal from it all and and learn to forgive her. You now have the tools to be able to identify narcs and other kinds of evil people. Use your tools. Your experience was not in vain. ❤

    • @sakanaomylyngz6202
      @sakanaomylyngz6202 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I face the same hell as yours

    • @sakanaomylyngz6202
      @sakanaomylyngz6202 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      My step mother too full of demonic spirit to tortured me alot

  • @SuzkaMares
    @SuzkaMares ปีที่แล้ว +113

    My mother is a Roman Catholic and talks about how perfect she is because she goes to church every day and prays. Since childhood, she has destroyed the entire family with her controlling and narcissistic behaviour. She constantly criticizes, gossips, belittles, humiliates, and controls others with an inheritance from her family. No one wants to be around her, ever.

    • @petitelou
      @petitelou ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sadly same story😢

    • @arcticablue
      @arcticablue ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am sorry you're having to deal with this. I was 48 when I learned that my mother is not who she has always claimed to be.

    • @namelesswreck6383
      @namelesswreck6383 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      my mom is a narcissist who use the Bible to threaten, criticize condemn and manipulate everyone, sometimes I think that the devil doesn't have to interfere in my life, because mom does that really well 💔 ( she has 5 kids only me and my oldest sister look out for her)

    • @MsBellsandy
      @MsBellsandy ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You should throw the white washed tomb verse at her. And the verse about only speaking edifying words.

    • @annem2922
      @annem2922 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I am sorry about your Mum. I hope you are able to love her safely from a distance. So that we don’t become hateful as they have allowed themselves to become. Her being a Catholic, an Orthodox, or a Born again Christian, or new Ager or a Muslim has nothing to do with it. Sin is sin. Every other title is merely a cover up and not the cause. There are faithful Christians who sincerely love Jesus and love all of God’s Creation & they are Catholic, Orthodox, Protestant… and I believe there are Muslims who don’t know who Jesus is yet, and love people & are sincerely seeking Truth.
      Narcissism cuts across religions, race, cultures, continents…..
      Peace unto you💟

  • @BigB69
    @BigB69 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I told my girlfriend she was partially possessed. What happened after I genuinely cannot believe. Something was brought up out of her and I faced off with the demonic force with love. I watched the hate build behind her eyes as i explained what she was doing and repeated that i loved her at the end of each sentence. She was being used as a puppet to tear me down. To tear us down. I did not allow it. I was given the words to say by the grace of God. Who carried me through the interaction. He told me this was a pattern. I called out her pattern and the demon inside of her broke. She knew as well. All the while she was squirming trying to make me mad. Saying vile things. Things to get a rise out of me. Grace saved me. God saved me. I do not want to leave her alone. She lost her father recently. I told her Ive cried thinking of her father and her and she told me in a sarcastic tone "thanks for crying" she continues to tear down and devalue my love. If not for the grace of God I would have crumbled by now 🙏 I am a warrior of God and I will not allow this to run my life. Nor the demons in my narcissistic coworkers.

    • @susandumbill8805
      @susandumbill8805 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      God give you the wisdom, guidance and discernment you are going to need. God bless you, and show you His timing in everything.

    • @BigB69
      @BigB69 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@susandumbill8805 Amen. Thank you🕊 🙏

  • @sarahsarles7805
    @sarahsarles7805 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This was exactly like my late husband. 18 years I went through this abuse. I’m free now but his influence still affects me. God is good and is setting me free from all this evil. Thank you for this information. It confirmed what I thought.

  • @sharonbates516
    @sharonbates516 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    I wish I would've known about narcissism 30 years ago. Thank you for sharing, this really opened up a new understanding for me.

    • @Kris_Reece
      @Kris_Reece  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm so glad you've found it helpful. Thanks for watching 😊

    • @lloydnyirenda3770
      @lloydnyirenda3770 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have my bosses all of them are narcissistic

    • @allaboutdetox7526
      @allaboutdetox7526 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lloydnyirenda3770 if your mother is narc then your whole life is narc, until healing

    • @RonSafreed
      @RonSafreed ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sharon back years/decades ago this stuff was not ever talked about even in church & I was confused to what was going on with my parents, especially my father!!

    • @elizabethhannah4704
      @elizabethhannah4704 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      There wasn't the knowledge or understanding of Narcissism that there is today. I'm so sorry that you have suffered so very much at the hands of a malignant narcissist. Continue to heal. God Bless You Always.

  • @saltlifegull4091
    @saltlifegull4091 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    WOW, so happy I found your channel. Narcissism has become a social epidemic and we've become surrounded by Godless sociopaths and psychopaths who particularly exploit kind, generous Christians. They leave a trail of destruction with the pain and suffering they create. Video and scriptures are spot on!

    • @nutech1810
      @nutech1810 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Most of it is a social contagion. So once they separate themselves from bad people, they were just pseudo narcs.

    • @chriscampbell9207
      @chriscampbell9207 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Well im a christian and i can tell right away (Gods discernment) whos phony and jezebel and not gonna be in my life except in prayer

    • @chriscampbell9207
      @chriscampbell9207 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They arent in this christians peaceful happy world--- i bound satan in the name of jesus!!

    • @AhmadIzzatShahmierRosdi-gi1ug
      @AhmadIzzatShahmierRosdi-gi1ug 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

  • @sabrinapetersen5358
    @sabrinapetersen5358 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Being a victim of narcissisric Abuse! I need to listen to this, wow, this is right on ! Pray that I get healing that I need to get over what happened to me because of dishonest people that have hurt me and use me!

    • @sirtedricwalker2979
      @sirtedricwalker2979 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most of the time we can look in the mirror and blame ourselves for allowing the abuse...We didn't know what we didn't know ...

  • @louisasmiles
    @louisasmiles 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Not just from narcissists... this seems to fit other abusive people

  • @Daily4Jesus
    @Daily4Jesus ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Very true 💯. God is good I escaped this death trap. I was married to a covert narcissist for 15 years and now 1and half years free. I feel like I can write volumes of books. Thank you Jesus for setting me free.

    • @bidenwearstrumpscrappypamp1829
      @bidenwearstrumpscrappypamp1829 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You set yourself free no sky deity does that for you.

    • @NichelleLC
      @NichelleLC ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Please pray for me. I’m in this trap and I am desperately praying to be delivered from this situation.

    • @Daily4Jesus
      @Daily4Jesus ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@NichelleLC praying with you my sister. They are souls on a mission to steal kill and destroy like their father satan. They don't stop until they accomplish their mission...to destroy what God has put in us so that we don't become what God intended us to be. Unfortunately some of their victims have not made it through to tell their stories of victory.... depression, suicide, confusion etc were served to them and they succumbed 😢 It's a spiritual warfare that we must win at the courts of Heaven through the blood of Jesus Christ.🙏

    • @luzdubon8996
      @luzdubon8996 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It may help other women going through the same tornado of confusions.

    • @anneleonard4298
      @anneleonard4298 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@Angela Allen Research trauma bonding. Praying for you. I left after 25 years. Glory to God!

  • @jacobjacob3257
    @jacobjacob3257 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I work with a severe narcissist. The boss won't fire him because he feels sorry for him because of the unfortunate circumstances this young man is in, he drives everyone at the jobsite to anger constantly. I took this young man to prayer recently, and I heard a reply from Jesus and he said to me, don't you worry, I'll handle him. This brought joy to me to hear this. For people to change usually takes a bit of time, so I'm watching carefully every day to see how God is changing this situation. I'm optimistic.

    • @irmielam5192
      @irmielam5192 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I work with one too...she's my boss. Slowly, insidiously, she's been working on making me look stupid and devalued. She's brilliant and can do no wrong in the management's eyes. I've thought she has a demon for some time...knowing this helps. She laid into me again today at work...I was so upset for a while. It's causing me to question everything I do...I can't please her.
      But suddenly I thought, I'm no longer going to care...God knows what the truth is. I can't fight her, but He can. Tomorrow I will start anointing the office with oil.

    • @Yatukih_001
      @Yatukih_001 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I want to know who the narcissist is who deceived everybody into thinking there are 8 guys you can blame your mistakes in life on. I think that guy must be the 9th guy who did not make it to that list.

    • @brendabyrd668
      @brendabyrd668 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@irmielam5192 that's so sad to work or live around people that devalue your worth.. that demonic spirit inside of narcissistic is jealous of you, Not bc of what you have but bc of who you are..that person could never be you...so the narcissistic person (jealous/ control freaks) tries to break our spirit. . but they can't bc our spirit is of Our Heavenly Father...(we are Nothing like them at all)..and that's why we seems to be easy prey for them to push our buttons to get reactions of angry to make it seems we have the problem and they're innocent...take care ..it's good to recognize the devil..and pray for him to get thee behind you"... . .I had to realize that with my sister, that narcissistic Spirit was jealous of me Not bc what I had (bc she had much more than I had) but bc of who I am...she could never be me...so she lied on me so many times, i can't count, to make me look bad .I had to wake up and just step back out of the craziness and non stop merry go round of my so called family...my life is so stress Free now. And I especially don't like grinning and pretending with people that I know don't respect me...I pray🙏 that that evil spirit is gone from your work place,so you can have peace of mind at work❤...take Care 🙏be blessed 🙏

    • @jacobjacob3257
      @jacobjacob3257 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Eli Zabet Everything about what Jesus says here is biblical. Man can't change man, only God can change man, and we're commanded not to worry. So, don't worry about them, I'll handle it is just an awesome word from God. He hears us always, and is very intune with all our circumstances. I love God soo much!

    • @Dr.JulieJames
      @Dr.JulieJames ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@irmielam5192 Don't just anoint with oil but pray for her salvation a nd cover yourself in the mighty blood of Jesus Christ. Learn how to be a prayer warrior for the people around you who are suffering from a lack of hope.

  • @gregnormanpatientsafetyfirst
    @gregnormanpatientsafetyfirst 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    She is a smart women, communicated very well. My ex wife is a narcissist before I knew what narcissist was had this awful feeling that she was the devil. Crazy, knowledge is power!

  • @laurenlowery5799
    @laurenlowery5799 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I always knew my older sister was evil by her cruelty and hatefulness. She has emotionally scared her 5 daughters. Our mother cut contact with her, as have I. A demons voice actually came from her mouth and spoke to me once...that is when I stopped contact. It's voice was chilling. I realized she hated me so much because I love the Lord, am giving, and have empathy for others. She can't stand it. I finally realized the evil I felt so many times actually came from her. I am thankful and blessed to be free of her. This was such a great video. So glad I found this channel.

  • @lolobaba9999
    @lolobaba9999 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Awesome video. All the narcissis did in my life was to make my faith stronger in my Lord and Saviour. Instead of breaking me down I feel more empowered.

    • @egydcommunity2203
      @egydcommunity2203 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same here!

    • @prilok9436
      @prilok9436 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Amen Amen! The demons think they won but we’ve just become more stronger than where we were standing with God.❤

    • @chriscampbell9207
      @chriscampbell9207 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Praise God for victory in christ!!!

    • @AntoinetteTitus
      @AntoinetteTitus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So are you all living with or seperated from the narccisist ? Thanks

    • @DeeAnn29
      @DeeAnn29 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen🙏🏾

  • @sservas2378
    @sservas2378 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Just such a great teaching!! "it's not your job to change them"- so true ! Brings to mind Job 41 "touch the leviathian once and you'll never do it again! " and Psalms 74 "God will crush the heads of the Leviathan" Just lift that person to God and step away.

    • @marymargaretblumhorst5359
      @marymargaretblumhorst5359 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really needed to hear it is not my job to change them.That is so difficult to accept when it is your only daughter who suffers all of the red lights of narcissism! Your whole life is battered thinking you must have done a lot wrong to have given birth,and raised such a nasty person. She is 56 years old now, and thank God for the education I receive from these videos! I have been able to see my position in her life. GONE!!!

    • @goldenautumn3073
      @goldenautumn3073 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes. Not only is it not our job - Jesus is the ONLY One Who can heal this very dangerous affliction anyway. He healed the demoniacs in the Bible and only had to speak to cast the demons out from possessing people. Praise God we have a secure and faithful God to turn to!

  • @theresajordan898
    @theresajordan898 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I am older, retired and saved for 40 years and was walking through some issues my dear friend was having in her marriage! She named this as her husband’s problem and as she described what she was going through it hit me like a ton of bricks…I was raised by a narcissist, my father!!! I knew I escaped my childhood and my home battling something but didn’t know what! 😳

  • @andrewbosman3065
    @andrewbosman3065 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank You Jesus that you will help me to heal completely from what ever the devil that worked through people has stolen from me - in Jesus Mighty Name I ask You - Amen and Amen 🙏🙏🙏

  • @FanOfTheSky
    @FanOfTheSky ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Living around someone like this, one of the most frustrating things is the blaming and pointing of fingers… if something undesirable happens, no matter how small, this person only cares about who the blame can be put on.. (forget about the real world solution to the given problem or situation). What’s important to this person is the blaming. Thats their end goal, not solving the issue.. the issue is solved in their mind when blame can be set upon someone other then them selves.. The exact opposite of the ideas from the book “extreme ownership” by Jacko Willink. Anyone else relate?

  • @caroliney.4725
    @caroliney.4725 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Thank you for this super informative teaching! Demons are present for sure! My ex-narc friend of 38 years began slipping toward the end. One day when I was being manipulated on the phone her voice went "low" like a man's voice. That was the first time I heard a demon speaking through her. Creepy! The Lord showed me to it was a demonic soul-tie and I went no-contact since. I'm free, healthier and much happier! Thank you Jesus!

    • @Kris_Reece
      @Kris_Reece  ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yes, I've even seen some have facial changes.
      Thanks for watching and sharing.

    • @DD-D007
      @DD-D007 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me to, its like Hell there, they have strong voice, i was thinking its more than one Person speaking, or when they laughed its like laughing at someone. They dont know how to laugh from heart. And shape shifting was there. In every moment they are other person. They look through People, searching for new victims to manipulate.

    • @wendyjones5853
      @wendyjones5853 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Caroline I was married to a weak man who was a drunk ? Albeit a functioning drunk ? Because he worked in a secular job ? But as soon as the alcohol hit after a good few pints he turned ever so nasty ? I was downstairs one time ? He was upstairs and I swear ? I just said outloud " oh you horrible Man ! You will not frighten me " Then he shouts down " I heard that ((( he couldn't have possibly heard as I said these words in a quiet undertone " ))) Down he flysheet towards me cracking my skull against a corner of a wall in such a narcissistic rage hexalmost killed me there and then ???? I carried on going out with him at weekends because let's face it he worked hard all week ? He went off on one daily at weekends in his Narcissistic drunken rages ? But the strange thing is ? That when he was sober he was as quiet as a mouse ? Two different Personalities ? I'm married now to a lovely kind man ! But my ex husbands abuse has taken years to recover from My point is , is that I could never ever put my finger on what actually triggered him to be so bloody cruel to me his Children's Mother ? Whom he feigned to care for ? I found out later that he was a Womaniser and had formed a serial relationship with another Woman on the Internet? Only found out through one of my Sons who
      Found his site on the computer years later ? These People are so very dangerous they truly are and professionals at manipulation ? Glad I'm away or I would have been dead !

    • @Sezfluffy
      @Sezfluffy ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@wendyjones5853 yes the alcohol can invite the bad spirits in .In islam alcohol comes from the word ALKool which mans spirit or demon. We don't need alcohol in our lives.

    • @jacqueslee2592
      @jacqueslee2592 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@wendyjones5853 I have an alcoholic narcissist father whose demon I have fought with since childhood to protect my mother and sister. The mind games he played were meant to deteriorate our mental and physical health so that we can always depend on him and so that he can continue his mental abuse as being the one who is right and not sick. Glad you escape. I still have not escaped as inflation, bad luck made me to make less money than him, which he as a narcissist uses now to attack my mother as he always mentions to her that I did not get the job I wanted to have despite having college degrees and more technical knowledge, which he arrogantly despises having the blue-collar mentality and arrogance towards education, which he always tried to undermine since high school. He undermined me all these years so that I would become a weak adult so that he can always control my mother as he would tell her that her son will never be able to take of her and that she will always need him. The narcissistic demon targeted me as a way to isolate my mother. It seems that your narc husband targeted you so as to isolate your sons from their mothers. That is how they usually behave and one of their underlying motives behind their outlook and behavior.

  • @teresamccollum8954
    @teresamccollum8954 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My life has already been destroyed damage is done. As long as they were in my life it was like living in a constant nightmare. I was around people like this my whole life. I thought everyone was like this. One day I prayed I ask God to remove them from life if they really didn't love or care anything about me and only wanted to use me. It wasn't even a week later and they were gone! I had to ask God to do it. I loved them I wanted them to love me.

  • @ruthlessog9098
    @ruthlessog9098 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You’re so right !! I remember when I couldn’t sleep next to him and woke him up and asked him to pray with me, cuz something wasn’t feeling right he did but I opened my eyes a little and seen the fear in his eyes and disgust, and smile when I was praying, he prayed first but he recited the
    “Our father who art in heaven…” he said that’s the only prayer he knew, then I went and boy did I feel great after I prayed. Peacefully slept too! 😊 he was emotionally, spiritually, and physically abusive.

  • @sherry0074
    @sherry0074 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    My ex-boyfriend is a narcissist. I've never known anyone who was more involved in church activities. He's at church for Bible studies, teaches classes at church, attends Sunday services, and he leads the small group leaders. He acts and believes that he is special and gets answers from God to his questions within 10 minutes or so. The people at church are mesmerized by him, and yet, once away from church, he is a very abusive man emotionally and psychologically. He tried to tell me that I'm a narcissist, but I was raised by one (maybe not full-blown, but many narcissistic tendencies), and the result of that is that I am an empath. That's why he chose me. He saw an easy target. I am so blessed to have been able to escape that relationship after only a couple of years.

    • @stevenfenster1798
      @stevenfenster1798 ปีที่แล้ว

      This video was insightful for me. I am escaping right now a decades long marriage with a narcissist. It seemed like I needed to do whatever it took to preserve the marriage following the instructions on the Sermon on the Mount. The scars are deep, but by the Spirit I still stand. Thank God you escaped! The checklist below is pretty much a resume for her:
      Manipulation
      Envy
      Covetousness
      Confusion
      Condemnation
      Control
      Deception-Liar
      Exaggerate themselves, diminish you
      Pride
      Entitlement
      Fear (?)
      ---------------------------------------------------------
      2 Timothy 31-5 !!

    • @MyVisualRomance
      @MyVisualRomance ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Most narcissists are peacocks strutting their self for attention. Quite common to see them involved in church activities for all the wrong reasons.

    • @sherry0074
      @sherry0074 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @krd4447 Yes, I believe that God answers our questions and prayers in HIS time, not in ours. This guy behaved like he had a hot line to God. He would pull his car over to the side of the road to ask how much he should pay for a house, and within minutes he would receive an answer. It was very fake to me. He used to tell me that he'll be at a much higher level in heaven than I will. I don't think that is for him to decide, and I'm not sure I'll see him there, but that's not my call. God will decide whether he'll be there or not.

    • @carolgood5602
      @carolgood5602 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank God you’re out. Be careful

    • @baddiezone
      @baddiezone 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MyVisualRomanceyuppp , I was watching a video on TH-cam where this transgender model said that her “ onlyfans “ boyfriend randomly woke up out his sleep and started talking and crying about needing god. She said she looked on his location on his cell phone and he was at the “ church” a place she said, he literally “ hated”. Pray , because demons will even try to find their way in godly monument’s

  • @mariannejackson8954
    @mariannejackson8954 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I had a 34 year marriage with a sociopathic narcissist, and now I get to deal with 2 sons who are narcissists. He even poisoned me, and attempted to turn all friends against me. God heard my prayers. I care for my youngest son who has serious mental health issues now. My husband passed from serious health issues.

    • @mariannejackson8954
      @mariannejackson8954 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Danielle Horton I thought about leaving him every day. If I had supportive family, I would have. I could not leave my son to go to a regular job, due to his disabilities. Sending prayers and love to you, and your children!

    • @lulu-qw8xy
      @lulu-qw8xy ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Prayer for your younger son ❤️🙏

    • @mariannejackson8954
      @mariannejackson8954 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lulu-qw8xy Thank you!

    • @Irina-uv1tv
      @Irina-uv1tv ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can relate, 22 years.
      He also died, it was how I was freed.
      I believe he tried to kill me, and that’s why God took his life.

    • @user-hs4jz7pw6g
      @user-hs4jz7pw6g ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't know how you've survived that-only by God's protection!

  • @lisaamyx-gray3553
    @lisaamyx-gray3553 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Perfect description! The narcissist in my life is my brother. I’ve felt he was a bully and he gets very angry when anyone uses the word “narcissist”, now I understand why! I love the scripture, “he who exhausts himself, will be humbled…” My brother took advantage of me after my husband died. I truly was vulnerable and he jumped right on that! I had no idea. God brought me out of that.

  • @Intella2
    @Intella2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When I would tell my husband I wanted a divorce…because he was emotionally and verbally abusive (to me and my daughter) he’d quote the scripture God hates divorce! I stayed sooonmany years in torment and even after I left he made it difficult.

  • @lmorter7867
    @lmorter7867 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    It's impossible to avoid a narcissist if they are in your immediate family, especially a spouse.

    • @dorothy792
      @dorothy792 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Very true and also other family. People seem to think it's always your spouse. I think it's best to limit exposure as another person has commented..

    • @lovinilcesoir
      @lovinilcesoir 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@dorothy792I totally agree. Right now I have two step kids who are narcissistic just like their mother and her mother. One is grown finally and the other has a few more years to go but luckily is stay so busy with life “keeping up with the Jone’s” that they’re are too busy to be around me. They hate boring people. I have learned to be very EXTREMELY boring. Lol😂

    • @TEWMUCH
      @TEWMUCH 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Uhh when u are grown and learn to take care of your own business, u can distance yourself from anyone u please.

  • @lauriaktahi
    @lauriaktahi ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I grew up under this kind of attack. My mother ... Ive been fighting this spirit off all my life. Its infected my whole family.
    I left as soon as I could, but my family is still in it. My brother, in his 50s looted me the last time I let them in.
    Now I just travel with my pets, stay away from everyone. Way too much trauma being around ppl.

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@gregbot6444 not true not everyone is like that as someone who came from a severely toxic family right through from being abused sexually, physically, mentally, financially as they'd actually steal my salary when I worked it wasn't easy. Me and my sisters made our own life after our mother threw all of her girl kids out as soon as they reach age, we left her with her son she's now running behind us to take care of her even though she isn't physically sick and her grown sons in their 20, 30 and 40 are still living with her to this day. Sometimes you have to cut the family off and run and it doesn't mean you're a narcissist

    • @baddiezone
      @baddiezone 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @gregbot6444I find it sad , when people come from large families of narcissists, that seems like a nightmare

  • @ourinvisibleenemies7779
    @ourinvisibleenemies7779 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “Your enemies will be members of your own household.”

    • @p1nakitto
      @p1nakitto หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen 🛐

    • @lobedenherrnmeineseele3114
      @lobedenherrnmeineseele3114 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is exactly what happens to me right now. The Narcissist came and stole my 2 Sons with his lies and Manipulation. He tries to provoke me. The Words he said to me after he stole my youngest Son : Where is your God? What kind of Believer are you?
      My Heart is broken but i will never stop loving my God and my Savior Jesus!

  • @PattiG-lm5vd
    @PattiG-lm5vd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was married for 37 to a Narcissist,through the yrs there were Red Flags,but I just brushed it off! I am completely horrified by the things he's done,he lie's,I do Love him,but I Divorced him,he won't stop! When I say horrified,it is even worse! I stay confused,I need help so Thank you for recommending Faithful Counseling,I will be reaching out to them today

  • @sashamarie1353
    @sashamarie1353 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Yes!! I felt the Spirit of fear was a HUGE spirit driver. Atleast that it was I felt around them since my childhood. I also felt the spirits of deception and anger. I didn't experience safety and peace until after I moved out of my parent's house. With extremely limited contact, I am pleasantly surprised to experience a noticeable improvement in anxiety. God deserves all the glory and I thank the prayers/support of a good Christian family.

  • @greghayes7933
    @greghayes7933 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Great video Kris...not to mention they have zero forgiveness and zero love or intimacy....it's such a mind bender...especially when she claimed to be a believer

    • @MF-lj6se
      @MF-lj6se ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true

    • @RonSafreed
      @RonSafreed ปีที่แล้ว

      Like my father, he never called his sons 'sons' but "boys" like a criminal gangster says 'my boys will' e.c.t.!! He told my baby brother he was with the mafia before any of us were born but told nothing about it to me & 2 other brothers & otherwise he would have taken that secret to his grave & such folk are secretive in so many areas,i its not funny!!

    • @angelaslaton3211
      @angelaslaton3211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh they love acting like their a believer.

  • @LibbySlaughter101
    @LibbySlaughter101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes! The evil spirit driving the narcissist will do its best to hide behind the narcissist's personality but one day it will truly reveal itself. You know because you instantly recoil in horror - recognising it. The game is then over. You KNOW, beyond any shadow of a doubt, you're dealing with the devil!

  • @Tina-ex9xn
    @Tina-ex9xn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It’s absolutely demonic and pure evilness, There’s a book I got that’s titled Biblical perspective of narcissist and it helped me tremendously,I highly recommend it and for Christians especially to see what Gods words say about it.May God Bless and heal all those that have been the target to these types of people 🙏🙏🙌🔥

  • @ketherwhale6126
    @ketherwhale6126 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Finally! Someone talking about these harsh walk ins. They have no boundaries and will hurt the youngest of who they claim to “ love”.

  • @nancymassiattie3892
    @nancymassiattie3892 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Demons take your identity away! Having a relationship with the Lord will give you purpose and heal and take away that narcissism. I was in a toxic relationship with one and I noticed it at times but made me think I was crazy for even saying it. Now they’re diagnosed with all kinds of things including narcissism. God confirmed I made the right decision.

  • @delightgutip1610
    @delightgutip1610 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! This is so freeing!!

  • @GodHelpMe369
    @GodHelpMe369 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please Holy-Benevolent angels, come to my aid.
    Comfort me and protect me and guide me and direct me and soothe me.
    My heart is heavy and I’m so tired of going through this pain.
    I need your help to get me through this.
    Please no more heart break. I'm in hell.
    I can't keep going through hell. HELP ME!!

  • @alastairwest5200
    @alastairwest5200 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've always suspected that Narcs are possessed, and this confirms it. Your only protection is in Jesus. Thank you Lord for your protection...

  • @joshuaemerson1980
    @joshuaemerson1980 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Amen! It took me unto the age of 40 to realize that I have been supportive of narcissists for most of my life out of compassion. Once i realized that they were not going to change no matter how much I tried to be there for them and starting eliminating those people from my life I have become much more successful and live a more fulfilling life. Part of this realization was seeing that there are demonic spirits and satan is not a projection of humanity's own corruption. It was then that I found my way to the truth and the way and the life of Jesus and the Gospel.

  • @jkiser5143
    @jkiser5143 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great. Thank you !

  • @theresakeck3852
    @theresakeck3852 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video !!

  • @fightswithspirits915
    @fightswithspirits915 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My mom was a born again covert narcissist. She fooled everyone but me. All siblings got devalued, but no others figured out what was right in front of them. I was the only one who got discarded with a smile. Got slapped after a kiss. Had to informed of her best born again friends who were swingers. To this day, every woman I have ever known has been mom. Crazy how that works. I have so much protection from God in all things but my relationships. I'm grateful.

    • @calibeau
      @calibeau ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Master Liars and Chameleons, Run!!!!!!! Oscar award actors......God protected me during my on and off again pseudo relationship.....

    • @brittanyberghuis6672
      @brittanyberghuis6672 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Covert narcissist are soooo tricky! My ex husband is one. Praise God for my clarity

    • @eeaotly
      @eeaotly ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The problem with narcs is that those born in this type of families tend to choose relationships that feel "familiar", therefore they attract other narcs. You need to cut your relationships with the narcs, be alone, work on yourself, clean your subconscious (where all this programming is) and persistently pray. In time, you will notice that you will attract less and less narcs and more and more good people, even wonderful people, golden friends who will help you and watch over you like embodied angels.

    • @fightswithspirits915
      @fightswithspirits915 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@eeaotly 100% I've literally been in the desert for 60 days now have major breakthroughs with my inner child. Last night we resolved the largest trauma. At times I think the only options for another relationship is with another narc or another codep. Each non-preferred.

    • @natnielsen8472
      @natnielsen8472 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eeaotly This is because people growing up around narcs are dealing with familiar demonic spirits. They "piggy back" from generation to generation through soul ties of the human relationship - so this can happen between non genetically related people as well. The way to get rid of them is to declare Jesus Christ as ruler of your life and live it - follow His narrow road - not the board road of the world. This means: hearing and reading His Holy Word, praying and reciting His scripture out loud, out loud declaring His shed blood over your life and over your home, praising and worshipping Him with your heart/mind/soul. As Paul teaches meditate on Him with thanksgiving and gratitude all the day long and in the middle of the night as well. The demon forces interferring will leave because they can not stand the Names of God and of His Son Yeshua/Jesus.

  • @tukamona96
    @tukamona96 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I've been around this my entire life through my mother. Manipulation, lies, mind control, and witchcraft. I wasnt aware of this until I have gotten much older. I have not only experienced this from my mother but from church leadership as well.
    Lord knows I have tried to set boundaries, pray, and have a connection.
    Once the same record is played over and over again I'm done . I know that I need couseling cause I find myself emotionally exhausted and irritable. Thanks so much for the teaching and video on this.

    • @susandumbill8805
      @susandumbill8805 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm certain that the spirit of control is much the same as the spirit of witchcraft. And, yes, it can get us into an emotionally vulnerable state. Maybe that's why God leads many of us to walk away from such people, even family and/or churches/church leaders.

  • @sism3028
    @sism3028 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video! Thank you!