Wait so he told her that she could stay home to focus on school and then got jealous because she was in the bed while he had to work.? That’s scary… she needs to watch her back smh
I get the impression a lot of men say/do things that sound “manly” such as stay home and I’ll take care of you or I’ll pay all the bills but they don’t actually resonate with this line of thinking. They want to be showcase that they are the epitome of masculinity- a man sufficient enough to care for a woman + kids on a single income- but they don’t actually know what the reality of these things entail. It’s all performative.
He's brave for telling the truth... finally. This is what it is with these men. Jealous for many other reasons too, even women's beauty!!! They will hurt a beautiful woman out of jealousy over her actual beauty! I'm glad he's at least trying to work on himself rather than turning to abuse.
Shout out to the lady with the poem, that’s so TRUE and I’m proud of the young man for taking accountability for his jealousy and responsibility for his mental health. It takes a big man to admit his inadequacies and a bigger man to fix them. I’m proud of the dude and best wishes to him and his wife. ✊🏾❤️🌟
Right. That's what I said. BM think different when they have money but being a BM bread winner they are either nasty hearted or will just leave you all together so ......🤷🏾
This is what I speak about these men grew up with childhood trauma. They then get a wife that they either cannot afford or get jealous of just because she is a woman, and they have to be a provider. Its sick!
This is actually my old coworker. We would always have deep conversations about life, faith, etc. I'm glad to see that he is doing well and that him and his wife continue to succeed. He's very much transparent and aware.
@@djredd1225nope. That’s father from the truth and what the person commented went over your head. It don’t matter who believes in what. It’s how you understand and translate it. Yall be forgetting that, “he who finds a good wife is abundant.” But yall be forgetting that. 👀but go off. They are not equally yolked in any sense. That woman needs to leave him and live her herself. Jealousy is dangerous with men, especially living under the same roof with them. Nope. My life and my sanity and more important.
He has a lot of demons. He's selfish and jealous and is probably be abusive. He's strangely obsessed. Imagine how he would behave with a child in the picture? He would try everything to hurt her. He hates her. I don't think she's safe.
I've been married for 10 years and we have never been attacked spiritually or ootherwise That is a weird thing to say, and to me an excuse to do what he wants and then blame it on outside forces.
I appreciate his transparency but as a believer he ought to know the favor his wife has he can also receive through her. He also misappropriated scripture in this clip. His true issue is his insecure attachment style which stems from not getting his needs met in childhood. It's not his fault his needs weren't met but it is HIS responsibility to take accountability instead of be resentful of his wife. 👑
This is dangerous feelings. You say you support her and love her but those feelings are hidden hate. Although he was brave for speaking it, its really alarming to know many men feel this on the inside. What in the world?!?
Jealous partners are not to be taken lightly and are a very common thing. They usually know you the target best better than anyone in your circle and while that's not a bad thing, the fact the jealous partner knows so much more of you, they CAN and in most cases DO use information they're aware of you against you and hurt you. Watch your backs everyone, don't put nothing past NO one out here no matter how close you believe you are with them. Spiritual Warfare is very real out here, watch your backs ✔️
Most men who take all the financial weight usually resent and despise their women. That’s why u should always have some type of financial security of your own as a woman!
Wow. I looked on his Instagram and his wife is so beautiful. He is definitely lacking in what he received as a child. It is still scary. He still has work to do..
I am Christian that man is lying because if youbtruly have a relationship with God, First you would also see the favour of God on you since treating her right means God answers your prayers.....He didn't treat her how he should or gave her the bear minimum and God showed him that he is the one who truly provides for her not he fake attempts and that us truly why he was mad😂😂😂😂. He is mad that God out give him😂😂😂
I think that what he’s trying to explain is that Blach men have flaws too even though they like to pretend that they don’t. He seems to be trying to get other men to acknowledge their own jealousy and take the steps to fix their attitudes & behaviors and also understand that jealousy is a spirit that needs to be cast out. We wrestle not against flesh & blood . . . . .
No he’s just a breadwinner who is not rich.. he is not dusty he is honest. Men need to feel appreciated too and so do children. Black ppl it’s okay to love fr
I wonder if they have kids. And I wonder when/if they have them if they’ll be secretly resented as well. I also wonder what his wife thinks of his confession. I hope it’s a red flag to her
I don’t think this particular man is a dusty and I think you should change the title. A lot of men can’t even admit their wrongs and be transparent about it.
And I bet you he was raised by a single mother. No positive father figures in the home. He inherited unhealthy emotions from only having a women as a roll model and he resented God for not having a father in his life..: I would not be surprised if this were the case
Wow! He admitted his faults & SPIRTUAL WARFARE. That stuff *is* real. You have to know *GOD* to know that. But you STILL called him a dusty. You better hope he is lying about his relationship with GOD. Because if HE forgave him & you are STILL poking; that can literally be HELL to pay. THIS is why many people simply choose to NEVER ADMIT that they were wr9 g in the forst place. *Unforgivng* hearts are often just as bad as the ppl they point a finger to.
Y’all don’t know God and be phony! Please stop using God’s name in this foolish because everyone has freewill therefore ppl be knowing exactly what they be doing. It isn’t our job to give this man any grace when they don’t do the same for women!
Y’all are insufferable in the comments, he’s actually not a dusty…he’s a *man* who acknowledges and actually has the capacity to see the error in his ways…jealousy is a real thing whether you’re married or not and unless you work through it, taking it to God to release you from it it does have the power to move you in ways you never thought possible…he’s not a bad man or husband for that matter and just because you get married doesn’t mean that you won’t have to face yourself and your own demons!! I’m glad that he has a wife who is a praying woman and her faith is unshakable, as he stated he can now see that even being with a woman of her caliber is indeed Gods favor in his own life!!! Men deal with jealousy too especially concerning their partners and a lot of them just don’t know what to do with it, this man did and I’m proud of him!!!
Wait so he told her that she could stay home to focus on school and then got jealous because she was in the bed while he had to work.? That’s scary… she needs to watch her back smh
I get the impression a lot of men say/do things that sound “manly” such as stay home and I’ll take care of you or I’ll pay all the bills but they don’t actually resonate with this line of thinking.
They want to be showcase that they are the epitome of masculinity- a man sufficient enough to care for a woman + kids on a single income- but they don’t actually know what the reality of these things entail.
It’s all performative.
This! They want the respect that comes with being the sole provider, but they don't actually want to be the sole provider.
@ 🎯
Performative masculinity
The don’t want to do the Work, Sacrifice and Selflessness that comes with it!
But, want ALL the PRAISE, and ATTENTION that comes with it.
He's brave for telling the truth... finally. This is what it is with these men. Jealous for many other reasons too, even women's beauty!!! They will hurt a beautiful woman out of jealousy over her actual beauty! I'm glad he's at least trying to work on himself rather than turning to abuse.
If he were truly brave he'd get therapy and go to marriage counseling instead of showing the entire Internet how ignorant he is
Shout out to the lady with the poem, that’s so TRUE and I’m proud of the young man for taking accountability for his jealousy and responsibility for his mental health. It takes a big man to admit his inadequacies and a bigger man to fix them. I’m proud of the dude and best wishes to him and his wife. ✊🏾❤️🌟
They all have hidden motives money, status, beauty, sex and being married sometimes gets you in social circles that you would never be in otherwise.
He is not giving dusty vibes cause a dusty would never admit this out loud lol
It’s hard to believe hes actually a bread winner cause he keep saying how he was taking care of her. That’s how you know it’s rare amongst them 😂😂😂
He just got a job last month and paid his first bill this morning. Couldn’t wait to make this video
Right. That's what I said. BM think different when they have money but being a BM bread winner they are either nasty hearted or will just leave you all together so ......🤷🏾
He is a bread winner of eating it.😭
This is what I speak about these men grew up with childhood trauma. They then get a wife that they either cannot afford or get jealous of just because she is a woman, and they have to be a provider. Its sick!
This is actually my old coworker. We would always have deep conversations about life, faith, etc. I'm glad to see that he is doing well and that him and his wife continue to succeed. He's very much transparent and aware.
My black ex were like this too. Im shocked dude admitted it😮. Super shocked 🫣. Those type are scary. He must be changing 😬🤞🏾
I don’t know he seemed to be into dudes … that could be the real reason why he hated her so much
Also, he proved that him and his wife are not equally yoked. Hiding the dysfunction behind religion, typical.
Thissss!!
If they are believers of Yashua they are equally yoked....please stop misinterpreting scripture.
@@djredd1225nope. That’s father from the truth and what the person commented went over your head. It don’t matter who believes in what. It’s how you understand and translate it. Yall be forgetting that, “he who finds a good wife is abundant.” But yall be forgetting that. 👀but go off. They are not equally yolked in any sense. That woman needs to leave him and live her herself. Jealousy is dangerous with men, especially living under the same roof with them. Nope. My life and my sanity and more important.
He has a lot of demons. He's selfish and jealous and is probably be abusive. He's strangely obsessed. Imagine how he would behave with a child in the picture? He would try everything to hurt her. He hates her. I don't think she's safe.
Im scared for his wife!😮😢😮
I've been married for 10 years and we have never been attacked spiritually or ootherwise That is a weird thing to say, and to me an excuse to do what he wants and then blame it on outside forces.
I appreciate his transparency but as a believer he ought to know the favor his wife has he can also receive through her. He also misappropriated scripture in this clip. His true issue is his insecure attachment style which stems from not getting his needs met in childhood. It's not his fault his needs weren't met but it is HIS responsibility to take accountability instead of be resentful of his wife. 👑
They don't understand that because they are always jealous of women.
👏🏼👏🏼
All i heard was he has mommy issues
They sealed their fate....BARS!!!
I respect his honesty and it’s good that he found healing for the issue.
That lady deserves a medal ❤️❤️❤️
This is dangerous feelings. You say you support her and love her but those feelings are hidden hate. Although he was brave for speaking it, its really alarming to know many men feel this on the inside. What in the world?!?
Pure uselessness
I appreciate your honesty brotha
Jealous partners are not to be taken lightly and are a very common thing. They usually know you the target best better than anyone in your circle and while that's not a bad thing, the fact the jealous partner knows so much more of you, they CAN and in most cases DO use information they're aware of you against you and hurt you. Watch your backs everyone, don't put nothing past NO one out here no matter how close you believe you are with them. Spiritual Warfare is very real out here, watch your backs ✔️
I need a direct youtube link to that poem! i want to share it alone.
The intro spoken word was deeper than the ocean blue …Poseidon when she slid in …God level speaking with intelligence. ❤
I appreciate his honesty 🙏🏾
Most men who take all the financial weight usually resent and despise their women. That’s why u should always have some type of financial security of your own as a woman!
He coming around 😅😢
Wow. I looked on his Instagram and his wife is so beautiful. He is definitely lacking in what he received as a child. It is still scary. He still has work to do..
I am Christian that man is lying because if youbtruly have a relationship with God, First you would also see the favour of God on you since treating her right means God answers your prayers.....He didn't treat her how he should or gave her the bear minimum and God showed him that he is the one who truly provides for her not he fake attempts and that us truly why he was mad😂😂😂😂. He is mad that God out give him😂😂😂
I appreciate his honesty. He is being transparent and it seems like this is behind him now.
Thank God for growth. ❤
It’s not behind him.
I think that what he’s trying to explain is that Blach men have flaws too even though they like to pretend that they don’t. He seems to be trying to get other men to acknowledge their own jealousy and take the steps to fix their attitudes & behaviors and also understand that jealousy is a spirit that needs to be cast out. We wrestle not against flesh & blood . . . . .
No he’s just a breadwinner who is not rich.. he is not dusty he is honest. Men need to feel appreciated too and so do children. Black ppl it’s okay to love fr
Don’t ask god for forgiveness, ask your wife.. she’s the one you offended 🤡💀
Spoke nothin but facts Ma'am
I love how he said it was a “demonic attack” he knows! It very much was the spirit of jezebel on his mixed with a little ahab!
He didnt want to be a man?
I wonder if they have kids. And I wonder when/if they have them if they’ll be secretly resented as well. I also wonder what his wife thinks of his confession. I hope it’s a red flag to her
2% fights...
Sounds like he needs to ask his wife to help him in ways that she can …you should cover each other imo …. God favors both of you
Was…. A lot of men think that way!
Can I get the link to this poem please!
WANT MORE LADIEZ!
🙏🏾🙏🏾👍🏾👍🏾
SMH the name fits the description 😂
I don’t think this particular man is a dusty and I think you should change the title. A lot of men can’t even admit their wrongs and be transparent about it.
Why are you so entitled to think she has to change her title because you said so. Someone being jealous of their wife is not a loser/dustie. How?
Lolololol a mammy has been spotted
@@kiowah231Exactly it don’t take much for the cape to come on it’s really sick!
And I bet you he was raised by a single mother. No positive father figures in the home. He inherited unhealthy emotions from only having a women as a roll model and he resented God for not having a father in his life..:
I would not be surprised if this were the case
Wow! He admitted his faults & SPIRTUAL WARFARE. That stuff *is* real. You have to know *GOD* to know that. But you STILL called him a dusty. You better hope he is lying about his relationship with GOD. Because if HE forgave him & you are STILL poking; that can literally be HELL to pay. THIS is why many people simply choose to NEVER ADMIT that they were wr9 g in the forst place. *Unforgivng* hearts are often just as bad as the ppl they point a finger to.
Oh boohoo 😂😂😂
Y’all don’t know God and be phony! Please stop using God’s name in this foolish because everyone has freewill therefore ppl be knowing exactly what they be doing. It isn’t our job to give this man any grace when they don’t do the same for women!
Y’all are insufferable in the comments, he’s actually not a dusty…he’s a *man* who acknowledges and actually has the capacity to see the error in his ways…jealousy is a real thing whether you’re married or not and unless you work through it, taking it to God to release you from it it does have the power to move you in ways you never thought possible…he’s not a bad man or husband for that matter and just because you get married doesn’t mean that you won’t have to face yourself and your own demons!! I’m glad that he has a wife who is a praying woman and her faith is unshakable, as he stated he can now see that even being with a woman of her caliber is indeed Gods favor in his own life!!! Men deal with jealousy too especially concerning their partners and a lot of them just don’t know what to do with it, this man did and I’m proud of him!!!