I understand that. Not necessarily first hand; but by being married to an INFP and having an INFP son. Thank you for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
I'm an INFP, slow to anger, sweet, and very good at the arts. I like my space when I'm hurting or working through things, at the same time around the right kind of people I become extraverted. If you attack or threaten my friends or loved ones, watch out. That's the fastest way to anger me.
Agreed. Fiercely protective of friends and family, but would also defend and advocate for someone I dont know or even actively dislike; in the face of injustice
@@myisfpjourney7813 To activate infp anger you have to really stupid in your approach or just straights up threatening. Last time when i was threaten in a argument with my parents i destroyed a solid wooden table and a wall with a one swing of my arm. After i hit the table my whole arm was like yellowish green for a week. Because infps realize that their anger is deadly they rather hold it inside but also with a Si child we remember everything that you did to us and once you cross the line all the negative feelings flow and we can bring up shit that you did 10- 20 years ago. If you miss treat a infp like jsut dont shake it under a rug or it will be used against you xD. If you have infp childrean and if you treated them unfairly in the past like just say sorry to them. The way to love a infp is to help them fufill thier Ne dreams. If you do that they will never snap on you.
Honestly I don't think it is for the group that I talk and fight for my ideas. I am really individualistic (and INFP XD). Convincing a group is really exausting and hard, I always prefer talking to the individuals. It's more personnal, easier to adapt and understand the other one, and it leaves more room for discussion. I let people have their opinions, and freedom as long they don't hurt me with them. But I expect them to respect my opinions as much I respect theirs. Forcing ideas on me is a no go. If we happen to discuss an idea, I am going to share and fight for mine, that's sure, but never forcing anyone. I only want to give and recieve a new perpective of an issue, I don't even want to fight, just debate. We will both get out better of this. Some would think I look for conflict but I am just really curious and/or defending myself, I would never hurt others purposely. If I am able to make someone think about what I said, and listen and try to understand me, that makes me the happiest :3 However if the debate ends badly ("You're annoying", "Stop looking for trouble" tc) I won't rest until I find a way to change that, either continuing the discussion until it is okay (which in my experience only frustrates them more) or make up to them later, even maybe indirectly. (example if we had a debate (for me)/ conflict (for them) on a movie we watched, later I would suggest that we watch a new movie or somthing similar.) Since the last lingering feeling is negative, and I hate that (since I want harmony in my relationships), I would try to change the last experience into something else. "You're avoiding the problem", "You're not taking me seriously" etc. I just want things to be good, is it necessary to stick to a negative feeling for something so trivial? :( (Besides I'm always taking everything really seriously, beacuse I want to be taken seriously too. If I want to change the atmosphere between us it's not because the issue isn't serious, but because I find our well being more important. We can talk about the problem in a non conflictual way and find a compromise.) But I think INFPs want to have harmony in their realtionships, not necessarly in a group. And I don't really like groups actually x) Sure there is family, friends, but I will always analyse more my realtionships one by one with each of the members of the group than with a collective entity. Anyway sorry for going out of subject ^^' Thank you for the video, it is really helpful! Have a nice day :3
Litsu 6 - Thank you for your perspective. I really appreciate it. Keep in mind, when I say “the group,” I simply mean the people in your life that you respect or that matter to you. I don’t necessarily mean a large group or just some general group of people that you may or may not care about. Still, I think I get what you are saying and your thoughts are very helpful for me to understand INFPs better. Thank you for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already. Be awesome at all you do!
I am an INFP. Litsu I agree with a lot of what you said. I fight for my ideas because I value them. Convincing a group is really exhausting. I prefer individual conversations too. My ISFP Journey I don’t see my friends as a group. They are individual people, very few of them know each other. I don’t enjoy large groups so I generally stay away from them.
I also strongly agree with everything you wrote here >.< Lol and don't forget, we like cuteness (?) I think XD as you can see, most of the INFPs would type cute emojis in their comments XD (not saying everyone typing cute emojis are INFPs though o.o )
Hey, so generous of you, to speak positively about INFPs. As an INFP, I got the feeling, that most of the videos show more negative sides of INFPs in contrast to INFJs for example. I think, INFPs and maybe also ISFPs need to be encouraged much more, to spread their feelings and beliefs. Someone has to tell them: I don´t understand all of your complex character, but I believe that you can bring so musch love and inspiration into this world. But as long as most of the videos are describing INFPs as childish and ununderstandable, crazy people, people tend to think, INFPs would be egocentric or strange. In fact, they want to create the world to be a better place and argue with themselves a lot in order to think as positive and tolerant as possible of the people around them.
I am an INFP and I have no desire to change anyone’s mind. I do enjoy debating with others sometimes but only in small doses. If we are debating you probably are not gonna change my mind. I value humanity as a whole and I agree with your son, I am always thinking about my affect on the world.
Thanks for your really interesting video. I'm an INFP. I'm the sort who is not group orientated. I strongly dislike politics and group think. Yet I know what you mean. Within the INFP is someone who may stand up for justice and protect the underdog. The word 'group' doesn't fit for me. 'Humanity' fits better. We have a desire to see humanity evolve. For me it is heartfelt but from an objective philosophical idealistic place.
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I'm an INFP and I'm angry a lot. Sometimes extremely so, but you might not know it because I can keep it mostly below the surface. It's not healthy unless we can do something about it or let it out in some creative way.
Thank you for sharing that. How old are you? I ask this because I see that anger in my 20 year old INFP son more than I do in my 41 year old INFP wife. Could be a gender issue; but it could be a “mellowing with age” issue.
@@myisfpjourney7813 I am 32 I have anger issues now than I did when I was a young infp. I was a peaceful n keep peace infp in my 20s. Cptsd can bring anger out too. We are usually traumatised by those taken advantage of our sensitive sides.
@@healingandgrowth-infp4677 Exactly. I also have CPTSD from a childhood in which I was invisible and taken advantage of in addition to other abuses. I'm twice your age but still sometimes go through cycles when I'm angry about how it affected my life. I suspect that since INFPs are sensitive and introspective that trauma is worse for us than some other types. Unfortunately I think it is also more common for INFPs since we're different from most people.
@@lesliegann2737 so youre saying these types are related to traumas? I saw a study about how ppl can tend to be introverted when they were left to tend to themselves as children. It took me several yrs to realize that me being left alone, hrs at a time, by myself, from what i can remember, starting off around maybe 6-8, prob isnt exactly a normal thing. i can remember how i felt about it. I just dont remember it phasing me any 🤷🏻♀️. Or maybe i was too young to even feel scared. I just know i didnt think too in depth about it. Give me a coloring book, or music, & i was fine. I guess that is kind of sad. Sooo... That shapes how we are? Behave, feel, & think? Or am i off subject? :/ I really want to see a study on how many cancer signs are infj, or infp. No one can make fun of this. Bc i see personality tests as the same thing. If it equates, correlates, has similarities, it just would. Then youd prob want to entertain that there is some truths. This is something my type... Would say, huh? Sometimes, I hate being sensitive. Everything seems to trigger me. Then i feel like maybe im just being crazy. But then again, ill be knowing stuff, not even always knowing how i do, i just do. Id say maybe some thoughts are educated... Guesses. other times, i really am just pulling things out of thin air. Sometimes i dont realize im doing it either, till someone calls me out on it. i feel like i have a natural built in guard too. Also, Ive read summaries about how i attract narcissists. I think thats complete bs. Bc i usually sniff out bs, & lack the. If anything fd up has happened to me, its bc i got stuck. Or someone had to go out of their way to be leachy towards me. Narcissistic could almost imply that someone was willingly gullible too. Bc those weirdos are only that clever to - themselves. I dont take sh at face value. Im too crazy..., Remember? Ill go through a billion questions & scenerios prob before i start being more obvious reactive & or swayed. Besides, its rare but i actually feel like at times, i might attract other intuitives. Not bs ones, just ones so on point about everything, its creepy. Its like minus me giving answers to their intrusive questions. & Theyll still be on point. About ppl several miles away, passed ones, ,...
@@ahhwe-any7434 I don't know for sure if some types get more trauma than others but it makes a kind of sense to me since society wants everyone to be the same rather than enjoy and respect differences. I also enjoyed being alone in my own world but I was still traumatized. My experience as a child and adult with my narcissist mother protected me against falling into relationships with narcissists as I intuit something is off about them.
As an infp, the most personal growth I've had the most were from my isfp friends. They got me out of the house more than any type... It's crazy... And help me pick up new skills along the way.
I'm an INFP and I rarely get really angry. When I do get angry I'm much more likely to be angry on someone else's behalf rather than my own. Even though I tend to prefer to spend time alone, or one on one, I do care for my small group of friends and family, and support them 100%. I loathe crowds, but I genuinely care about others, sometimes to my own detriment. I often have to remind myself to provide self care. When I'm hurt, or overwhelmed I will pull away and isolate to process my feelings. I don't intentionally abandon anyone, or anything. Sometimes I just need a bit of space to clear my head. I do have a very well developed set of values, but I try to respect other people's right to have their own values even if I disagree. If, however, someone disrespects my right to have mine, and tries to force me to conform to something I don't believe in, I will definitely stand up for my values. I will also stand up for the rights of others, especially if they cannot stand for themselves. (Children, animals, etc)
Naph N - This all sounds very much like most of the INFPs I know. Thank you for taking the time to share this. I appreciate it. And thank you for watching. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
Thank you for this video. I needed this. I have an ISFP friend and the similarities of when I listened to you speak are astonishing. Lol By nature INFP's do not like conflict. That being said, when something or someone is not in accord to our moral values and wants to control us, it's like a fire in our soul. Especially, if we feel it would harm others as well. I wouldn't even normally open up like this and post but you inspired me and coincidentally or maybe not coincidentally helped me. Thank you 🙏
Lovely video! I’m an INFP and I really think, in regards to the ‘selflessness’, ISFPs and INFPs...it just depends. I mean, INFPs might seem to be more concerned about the group as an Ne concept maybe? And that’s why it appears that way? But plenty of ISFPs I know seem more concerned about their group than INFPs (in my limited experience). I also think perhaps INFPs really DO suppress that rage more than ISFPs due to Se trickster? That’s just my theory, but I think INFPs allow things to be bottled up a tad more than ISFPs, since ISFPs have that strong Se. I could be wrong, I mean I know ISFPs also hate conflict, but I wonder if it’s harder for them to bottle things up compared to INFPs, who usually bottle things up WAY too much. Haha. Anyway, I subscribed, love your videos!
The Loneliest Man Channel - Good thoughts. I think what you’re saying makes some sense. That is something I’ll try to pay more attention to. Thank you for that. And thank you for watching and for subscribing. That’s awesome!
New INFP here. It's very common for INFP's that we almost never know what we want bc we dont have Ni in any of our 4 first cognitive functions. That's also why we wander so much. The destination is not set and gets updated frequently. The only thing we know for SURE is that we want the freedom to explore new original patterns with max abstract Ne out of the box discovery making, no matter how abnormal it is, also getting whatever makes us most comfortable and NOT get forced to stop or choose a path that is going against our inner morale values/symphathies and exploration ideas (Fi & Ne). Every time you ask an INFP "What do you want?" is VERY hard to answer bc they often dont know the answer. Their main goal is to make a possitive long term impact in this world and by NOT knowing how to do that in our own personal way we get lost and very hungry to figure it out (Eventually). Only when we do figure it out or a peace of it, on how to make progress on possitive long term world change in someones/everyones life (Big or small) can we finally know what we want for once. Shortly after figuring it that out we dont know what we want again and need more research/explorations to refine our previous understandings of the world bc of Ne just updated us on something new peace of the everlasting puzzle (again & again). This is what it looks like to me for now. Does anyone recognise any of this as an INFP or is it only me?
Although I’ve typed as ISFP, I can super relate to not being able to pick one path and stick with it. There are too many possibilities, not to mention so many obstacles too...Wish Ni would kick in and help me out already! At my age, I shouldn’t still be wandering...;-;
the_dazey_infp - Indeed. I’m not proud of it, but there it is. Thank you so much for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already. Thanks again.
I like that FiTe. I think technically, when our Te is attacked it is actually Ti rage (the demon function) that comes out. Splitting hairs I know, but INFP are nothing if not informative responding. And I felt the need to respond since I loved the analogy ...if that is the correct terminology. Anyway keep up the FiTe and always be FiNe to others when you are able.
I’m an INFP. It was lovely hearing your experience. Your hair looks just fine. I’m personally different. It’s not about the group. Sometimes it’s about a very large group such as LGBTQIA or the fight against systemic racism or environmental protections but those goals are just part of it for me. I care deeply about the world and not just the world but every individual out in the world no matter who or where they are. In the Greek language there are different words for and different kinds of love. I feel agape for everyone. An unconditional love. I feel this even for those who’s value judgements don’t line up with mine. I can stand up for things I believe and it’s terrifying. I stood up against bullies but never when they were bullying me only for others. Scared me so much but I couldn’t not do it. I couldn’t just stand by. I really want to be clear about this, I do not think I’m better than anyone else. I know all this sounds very self aggrandizing and just thinking about tooting my own horn gives me a stomachache. Writing this is giving me a stomachache. I hate being angry. I hate conflict. The only times I engage in that is when my morals compel me to. I’m getting better about letting it go. Being an INFP it feels like no one truly knows me. I’m very often in my own mind. Usually having a existential quandaries or crises. Trying to understand the nature of humanity or consciousness or existence or death. It feels like I’m seeking meaning and a higher purpose always. It’s hard for me to put my thoughts into words or relate to people. I understand people. I feel for people but connecting in a truly meaningful way is difficult.
Thank you :) My ex and best friend is I believe ISFP. I am an INFP woman. He is so much a sensor type. He feels, sees, hears everything. I love to help him with all he need, He always say I have been everything in one to him, wife, mother, secretary,doctor, dietician. He appreciate that and need that, but he also knows exactly how he want me to do everything for him. He can be very critical of small details if the food is not exactly how he want. If he is gonna make a decision with something he knows always after he made it if it was right or wrong which can not be easy for him so I encourage him to take his time. I do with things too, look at all options, but after I finally made the decision I am happy with this. Me and him can go together for hours in shops and not buying anything :) I am very sensitive and he is straight forward but can says things he don´t mean. I dont become angry ever but frustrated, hurt, sad and cranky, passive agreesive. I will always have a specific emotion and for my friend he always use the word "upset" for everything. I think he is not as aware of emotions to differentiate. He shows his emotions in unconstructive ways and lets out anger on me if he is upset or stressed etc. I try to get him to talk to me (I talk more in general than him, he is more quiet) and I want to listen. I am a good listener but its hard to get him to open up. I have patience and a lot of love. And he will tell me after some time what it was he really was worrying about etc and then I have a lot of empathy for him. He knows exactly how to make me feel better we both do. He always knew how to handle me like from day one, my family members still don´t really know sometime. He knows he have to be little persistent and not give up on the first try, and that I usually want hugs and just love and he will say I´m sorry quickly. I think this is why I never hold grudges especially with him.
@@myisfpjourney7813 Thank you and for answering. Are you a follower of Jesus too that´s wonderful! I just found your channel, will definetely look for more videos and subscribe. I love your type I just want you to know! Keep being you and God bless
The comparison of Ne an Ni really made me realize why I always cared about the future of my friends. True, I'm willing to give up a better future of myself, if it will make the future of the group better. I would care about their future even more than they would. And it's because I want a shared future. As for the anger, I'm sure Se is just reactive, while Si is not. It takes some time to realize that you are angry, and even then you want to have an quiet conflict.
Nice insight. The effect of introvert or extrovert on a function is truly amazing. I see this better with your enlightened viewpoint. As an INFP our Ne seems to make other introverts think we are extroverts, but of course only when we are in those functions that have extroversion (usually N or maybe T for us). Thank you for sharing this and I mean that sincerely and with veracity. ISFP will only be angry in the moment, they will not be angry for that which has passed. I believe you are correct that this is a reactive nature of Se. With Si we are more likely to bear a grudge and stew about things that upset us and have passed, perhaps even long past. As a young man I was constantly bullied at home and school. I got strong and was fast, but hating conflict I let things build for many years. Once it boiled over, it took many more years to settle things again. Those days are long past now and I believe it has made me stronger for having gone through such a crucible. Very little can faze me now, except the thing no INFP can stand, harm those I Love and you will incur my immediate response.
As INFP, I love my ISFP friend cos' he brings me life, enjoying the present moment and spontaneous action. And I contribute vision and analytical discussion 😄
I think that sounds like a good synopsis many ISFP/INFP friendships. Thanks for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
As an INFP, I know you're absolutely right about us standing up for our beliefs & doing the right thing. I think of myself as a live & let live person. But the minute someone crosses a certain line, that line in the sand... watch out. There is just no way I'm gonna let you hurt anybody in any way. Even a stranger. Not on MY watch.
Thank you :)! I am an INFP and i do empathise with the fact that a lot of us are sometimes misunderstood. People take my intentions of being nice wrongly most times, like i have an ulterior motive when truely, i just do what i do, because it is the right thing.
I'm INFP. I'm learning about this. There is not much detail in my country. I would better keep learning through TH-cam. I have anger. But I've never ever in my life rage to make other feel afraid of me. If I get angry I will just stay quiet or turn away. Thanks you for sharing.
@@myisfpjourney7813 My plrassure. To me, rage is a lost, a harm and a useless. I don't like it to happen to me. If things don't go my way I will comfort myself not hurt myself more by raising anger. If someone do something wrong to me It's that person fault I don't deserve the pain(rage is painful fealing).
This was beautiful, you’ve cleared up some major confusions for me. One of my best friends is ISFP but we fell out primarily because of his tendency to be selfish... I understand it better now...
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Dakuta 12 - You are on this earth for a reason. The world needs you. You may not see it, but that does not change the fact that it’s true. You have a unique gift that can be used to improve the lives of others. Be strong, and be awesome.
As an INFP I once hated myself as well (long before I knew what an INFP was). I had trouble dealing with the deep feelings that would overwhelm me. I became a cutter and also punched walls until my knuckles would swell and bleed. What does not kill us will make us stronger. Your depth of feeling can bring you into a world others cannot even imagine. All I can say is spend time sorting through them, think about how you feel for those you care. There is no type more ferocious in the defense of those they love or in defending what they believe in. I will gladly die for a friend or family, even for a stranger that is unable to defend themselves. I will sacrifice everything for what I believe, I will bear any injustice, any pain, because we must be true to ourselves and our values. The death we feel inside if we don`t, overshadows and eclipses what we feel on the outside. I know this may sound braggadocious to those who do not really understand the depth of the INFP, but those who do it will resonate in verity. Embrace the power you possess, it can and will transform you. If you hate yourself, then love others. Love them until any hate you feel shrinks and dissolves. Once you submerge into the depth of your love for those who mean more to you than your next breath, you will understand that love for yourself is nothing in comparison.
This made me feel good about myself because I agree. Now, like everyone, we ARE selfish sometimes, but I'll say that for example years ago another person didn't see the red light and crashed my car on the front passenger seat, moderately hard. Broke the window, my car did a whole 360°, the door was pretty much ruined and the trunk got displaced. Thank God, I just got a tiiiiiny scratch on my forehead from the glass, and my neck was a bit sore. But IMMEDIATELY after I knew I was ok, I thought about how *PISSED* I would've gotten if my best friend, whom I had just had breakfast with, were to have been in the passenger seat. I was relaxed and understanding with the guy that crashed me, but I just *know* I would've been quiite different had he hurt my friend.
I really enjoyed listening to you! Especially because I can relate to you in so many ways as my family is infp dad and isfp mum, and my infp/isfp siblings. It was just so lovely to be able to reflect on what you have said. I recognise so many things in my families behaviour. I find my isfp mum overall difficult to really understand, and she's so closed off, but I totally see how she values doing her own thing in her own time, whereas my dads slant on the world always includes impact on others.
ISFP-A - My bestie is INFP-A, our mind is really in sync. Now a days we barely meet. but we don't need constant hangouts, phone calls or msgs to strengthen our bond. It's just we both know we're always there for each other. But I met a new friend INFP-T. She always hang out with me. She is really nice but sometimes it feels like she's too much. Like she is negative about everything & we simply don't get along. It's just I'm bearing everything. I really can't help but comparing my bestie & her. I guess we fully can't think about people with their personality type.
Thank you for this video. I'm an infp & i wish to tell/give people the wisdom or knowledge I've gained in my life, I want to make a better world, i love art & craft, I do get mad easily but I rarely show it.
I would subscribe this channel if it was the journey of INFP. But I clicked like, watched it till the end and subscribed this channel because I appreciate your value and I'm INFP. :D
Antoinette Novella - Thank you. It is Aug 23. And thank you for watching and commenting. It is very encouraging. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
The things I also care about include: • Dog • The walls I've been staring at to daydream • The emotions of the ghosts around me • The fact that some "kids" on the internet may just be old people with an xtremely energetic spirit. ( the fact that I might have accidentally offended them bothers me ) • food
As an INFP that is in a relationship with a ENTP and a toodler, I can tell you I rage a lot sometimes because my boyfriend trolls me and while I'm stressed XD. I can't controle my anger
I am an INFP and I believe Rage is not about personality types rage is about the suppression of wounded feelings, whenever a person does not process their feelings appropriately it does not give their feelings the proper respect and love acknowledgment and acceptance necessary for healing but instead always chooses to suppress them those feelings are going to just get pissed and they're going to express themselves they're not giving a place to transform into healing and that only happens through acceptance but we are a bunch of boneheads who won't allow our feelings a place to surface and breathe but instead we always suppress them drowning them in our convenience and in our lack of understanding how important valuing acknowledging and accepting our feelings are in our physical psychological and spiritual well-being.
I only know a hand full of INFJs; and don’t know most of them really well. I like to really know a group of people before I talk about how they make me feel.
I'm a male isfp and throughout the years upon meeting infp,s I noticed that when speaking to an infp I feel an electric connection of endearment to the infp. Please tell me why that is. I don't know why. Also the fact that they use "big picture" thinking is a little scary for me when dealing with infp's and when they speak something I don't understand I just nodd. In agreement. Is doing so beneficial or detrimental to the connection. Please tell. Thank you
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Could it be that the difference lies in Ne vs Ni? I think that INFPs stand up for/speak up about their values because they believe doing so COULD convert/convince the people around them whereas ISFPs knows the probability of others changing/converting is so small so why bother/what's the point.. Sometimes I think that INFPs try to change others for the better even in situations where they are unlikely to change anyone. It's as if their lack of Ni makes them unable to see the likelihood of future success but rather just the possibilities of potential success.
Here's a secret...sometimes as an INFP it really IS as simple as "fuck off, leave me alone and don't tell me what to do." XD Sometimes there's more to it and sometimes I just can't even.
I hope you came to this conclusion about the Ne Si and Ni Se axis independent of either Michael pierce or c. s. Joseph's description of the quadras. It would be quite a vindication.
jacob massengale - I have watched some of their videos. They have some stuff I like and some I don’t. I would be dishonest if I said that I have not been influenced by them; I have a bit. But I get a lot more out of some other sources. I also really look at my own observations as well. It’s a combination of many thoughts and thinkers.
I feel like ISFP Se Ni makes them move on from things and stay focused on themselves while INFP Ne Si gets stuck over analyzing things way after it happens. So when INFPs values are really challenged it’s like uprooting there whole entire world and so they are much more willing to fight for it.
Well, there are different theories on how personality type comes to be. I personally believe we are born, wired, for our type. Now I firmly believe that upbringing, environment, and life experiences shape how our type comes out in each of us. But I think we are born the type we are. Just my theory. Thanks for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already. BTW, I have a video about personality type in children. You might check it out.
My ISFP Journey I gotcha and thanks for your quick response. I agree with your theory, and I think that life in its totality can shape you into doing things outwardly different. However, within those cognitive functions are there and they are set.
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Nice to watch these types of vids because a lot of us feel like aliens on this earth.
I understand that. Not necessarily first hand; but by being married to an INFP and having an INFP son. Thank you for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
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Ive described it as "being a man on the moon"
I'm an INFP, slow to anger, sweet, and very good at the arts. I like my space when I'm hurting or working through things, at the same time around the right kind of people I become extraverted. If you attack or threaten my friends or loved ones, watch out. That's the fastest way to anger me.
Carmine Sanders - Sounds about right. Thank you for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
INFPs are like a velvet-covered anvil. Soft to the touch, but hard to the punch.
I agree. Sometime we don't really mind if someone hurts us but not to others that we love.
Agreed. Fiercely protective of friends and family, but would also defend and advocate for someone I dont know or even actively dislike; in the face of injustice
@@myisfpjourney7813 To activate infp anger you have to really stupid in your approach or just straights up threatening. Last time when i was threaten in a argument with my parents i destroyed a solid wooden table and a wall with a one swing of my arm. After i hit the table my whole arm was like yellowish green for a week. Because infps realize that their anger is deadly they rather hold it inside but also with a Si child we remember everything that you did to us and once you cross the line all the negative feelings flow and we can bring up shit that you did 10- 20 years ago. If you miss treat a infp like jsut dont shake it under a rug or it will be used against you xD. If you have infp childrean and if you treated them unfairly in the past like just say sorry to them. The way to love a infp is to help them fufill thier Ne dreams. If you do that they will never snap on you.
Honestly I don't think it is for the group that I talk and fight for my ideas. I am really individualistic (and INFP XD).
Convincing a group is really exausting and hard, I always prefer talking to the individuals. It's more personnal, easier to adapt and understand the other one, and it leaves more room for discussion.
I let people have their opinions, and freedom as long they don't hurt me with them.
But I expect them to respect my opinions as much I respect theirs. Forcing ideas on me is a no go. If we happen to discuss an idea, I am going to share and fight for mine, that's sure, but never forcing anyone. I only want to give and recieve a new perpective of an issue, I don't even want to fight, just debate. We will both get out better of this.
Some would think I look for conflict but I am just really curious and/or defending myself, I would never hurt others purposely. If I am able to make someone think about what I said, and listen and try to understand me, that makes me the happiest :3
However if the debate ends badly ("You're annoying", "Stop looking for trouble" tc) I won't rest until I find a way to change that, either continuing the discussion until it is okay (which in my experience only frustrates them more) or make up to them later, even maybe indirectly. (example if we had a debate (for me)/ conflict (for them) on a movie we watched, later I would suggest that we watch a new movie or somthing similar.) Since the last lingering feeling is negative, and I hate that (since I want harmony in my relationships), I would try to change the last experience into something else.
"You're avoiding the problem", "You're not taking me seriously" etc. I just want things to be good, is it necessary to stick to a negative feeling for something so trivial? :( (Besides I'm always taking everything really seriously, beacuse I want to be taken seriously too. If I want to change the atmosphere between us it's not because the issue isn't serious, but because I find our well being more important. We can talk about the problem in a non conflictual way and find a compromise.)
But I think INFPs want to have harmony in their realtionships, not necessarly in a group. And I don't really like groups actually x) Sure there is family, friends, but I will always analyse more my realtionships one by one with each of the members of the group than with a collective entity.
Anyway sorry for going out of subject ^^' Thank you for the video, it is really helpful! Have a nice day :3
Litsu 6 - Thank you for your perspective. I really appreciate it. Keep in mind, when I say “the group,” I simply mean the people in your life that you respect or that matter to you. I don’t necessarily mean a large group or just some general group of people that you may or may not care about. Still, I think I get what you are saying and your thoughts are very helpful for me to understand INFPs better. Thank you for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already. Be awesome at all you do!
I am an INFP. Litsu I agree with a lot of what you said. I fight for my ideas because I value them. Convincing a group is really exhausting. I prefer individual conversations too. My ISFP Journey I don’t see my friends as a group. They are individual people, very few of them know each other. I don’t enjoy large groups so I generally stay away from them.
I also strongly agree with everything you wrote here >.< Lol and don't forget, we like cuteness (?) I think XD as you can see, most of the INFPs would type cute emojis in their comments XD (not saying everyone typing cute emojis are INFPs though o.o )
Hey, so generous of you, to speak positively about INFPs. As an INFP, I got the feeling, that most of the videos show more negative sides of INFPs in contrast to INFJs for example. I think, INFPs and maybe also ISFPs need to be encouraged much more, to spread their feelings and beliefs. Someone has to tell them: I don´t understand all of your complex character, but I believe that you can bring so musch love and inspiration into this world. But as long as most of the videos are describing INFPs as childish and ununderstandable, crazy people, people tend to think, INFPs would be egocentric or strange. In fact, they want to create the world to be a better place and argue with themselves a lot in order to think as positive and tolerant as possible of the people around them.
Thank you for watching and for sharing your thoughts.
Dude, you rock. I really appreciate how good you are at appreciating others. It is very uplifting.
Thank you. That is encouraging
I am an INFP and I have no desire to change anyone’s mind. I do enjoy debating with others sometimes but only in small doses. If we are debating you probably are not gonna change my mind. I value humanity as a whole and I agree with your son, I am always thinking about my affect on the world.
Thank you for sharing these thoughts. I appreciate them.
Thanks for your really interesting video. I'm an INFP. I'm the sort who is not group orientated. I strongly dislike politics and group think. Yet I know what you mean. Within the INFP is someone who may stand up for justice and protect the underdog. The word 'group' doesn't fit for me. 'Humanity' fits better. We have a desire to see humanity evolve. For me it is heartfelt but from an objective philosophical idealistic place.
Leslie Gann - Thank you for your thoughts. I appreciate you. It helps me understand people better when I get comments. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
@@myisfpjourney7813 Thanks. Yes I did subscribe :-)
it's more like a bigger picture or impact rather than biases of the group.
Read my mind 👀
inferior te in infps comes out as irrational thinking which annoys alot of people lol
- I think I can see that. 🙂 thanks for watching and commenting
I'm an INFP and I'm angry a lot. Sometimes extremely so, but you might not know it because I can keep it mostly below the surface. It's not healthy unless we can do something about it or let it out in some creative way.
Thank you for sharing that. How old are you? I ask this because I see that anger in my 20 year old INFP son more than I do in my 41 year old INFP wife. Could be a gender issue; but it could be a “mellowing with age” issue.
@@myisfpjourney7813 I am 32 I have anger issues now than I did when I was a young infp. I was a peaceful n keep peace infp in my 20s. Cptsd can bring anger out too. We are usually traumatised by those taken advantage of our sensitive sides.
@@healingandgrowth-infp4677 Exactly. I also have CPTSD from a childhood in which I was invisible and taken advantage of in addition to other abuses. I'm twice your age but still sometimes go through cycles when I'm angry about how it affected my life. I suspect that since INFPs are sensitive and introspective that trauma is worse for us than some other types. Unfortunately I think it is also more common for INFPs since we're different from most people.
@@lesliegann2737 so youre saying these types are related to traumas? I saw a study about how ppl can tend to be introverted when they were left to tend to themselves as children. It took me several yrs to realize that me being left alone, hrs at a time, by myself, from what i can remember, starting off around maybe 6-8, prob isnt exactly a normal thing. i can remember how i felt about it. I just dont remember it phasing me any 🤷🏻♀️. Or maybe i was too young to even feel scared. I just know i didnt think too in depth about it. Give me a coloring book, or music, & i was fine. I guess that is kind of sad. Sooo... That shapes how we are? Behave, feel, & think? Or am i off subject? :/ I really want to see a study on how many cancer signs are infj, or infp. No one can make fun of this. Bc i see personality tests as the same thing. If it equates, correlates, has similarities, it just would. Then youd prob want to entertain that there is some truths. This is something my type... Would say, huh?
Sometimes, I hate being sensitive. Everything seems to trigger me. Then i feel like maybe im just being crazy. But then again, ill be knowing stuff, not even always knowing how i do, i just do. Id say maybe some thoughts are educated... Guesses. other times, i really am just pulling things out of thin air. Sometimes i dont realize im doing it either, till someone calls me out on it. i feel like i have a natural built in guard too.
Also, Ive read summaries about how i attract narcissists. I think thats complete bs. Bc i usually sniff out bs, & lack the. If anything fd up has happened to me, its bc i got stuck. Or someone had to go out of their way to be leachy towards me. Narcissistic could almost imply that someone was willingly gullible too. Bc those weirdos are only that clever to - themselves. I dont take sh at face value. Im too crazy..., Remember? Ill go through a billion questions & scenerios prob before i start being more obvious reactive & or swayed. Besides, its rare but i actually feel like at times, i might attract other intuitives. Not bs ones, just ones so on point about everything, its creepy. Its like minus me giving answers to their intrusive questions. & Theyll still be on point. About ppl several miles away, passed ones, ,...
@@ahhwe-any7434 I don't know for sure if some types get more trauma than others but it makes a kind of sense to me since society wants everyone to be the same rather than enjoy and respect differences. I also enjoyed being alone in my own world but I was still traumatized. My experience as a child and adult with my narcissist mother protected me against falling into relationships with narcissists as I intuit something is off about them.
As an infp, the most personal growth I've had the most were from my isfp friends. They got me out of the house more than any type... It's crazy... And help me pick up new skills along the way.
I think ISFP and INFP make good friends.
I'm an INFP and I rarely get really angry. When I do get angry I'm much more likely to be angry on someone else's behalf rather than my own.
Even though I tend to prefer to spend time alone, or one on one, I do care for my small group of friends and family, and support them 100%. I loathe crowds, but I genuinely care about others, sometimes to my own detriment. I often have to remind myself to provide self care.
When I'm hurt, or overwhelmed I will pull away and isolate to process my feelings. I don't intentionally abandon anyone, or anything. Sometimes I just need a bit of space to clear my head.
I do have a very well developed set of values, but I try to respect other people's right to have their own values even if I disagree. If, however, someone disrespects my right to have mine, and tries to force me to conform to something I don't believe in, I will definitely stand up for my values. I will also stand up for the rights of others, especially if they cannot stand for themselves. (Children, animals, etc)
Naph N - This all sounds very much like most of the INFPs I know. Thank you for taking the time to share this. I appreciate it. And thank you for watching. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
@@myisfpjourney7813 I already did :) Thanks for the video it's always interesting to see other Type's points of view. It's good perspective.
Thank you for this video. I needed this. I have an ISFP friend and the similarities of when I listened to you speak are astonishing. Lol
By nature INFP's do not like conflict. That being said, when something or someone is not in accord to our moral values and wants to control us, it's like a fire in our soul. Especially, if we feel it would harm others as well. I wouldn't even normally open up like this and post but you inspired me and coincidentally or maybe not coincidentally helped me. Thank you 🙏
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Lovely video! I’m an INFP and I really think, in regards to the ‘selflessness’, ISFPs and INFPs...it just depends. I mean, INFPs might seem to be more concerned about the group as an Ne concept maybe? And that’s why it appears that way? But plenty of ISFPs I know seem more concerned about their group than INFPs (in my limited experience).
I also think perhaps INFPs really DO suppress that rage more than ISFPs due to Se trickster? That’s just my theory, but I think INFPs allow things to be bottled up a tad more than ISFPs, since ISFPs have that strong Se. I could be wrong, I mean I know ISFPs also hate conflict, but I wonder if it’s harder for them to bottle things up compared to INFPs, who usually bottle things up WAY too much. Haha.
Anyway, I subscribed, love your videos!
The Loneliest Man Channel - Good thoughts. I think what you’re saying makes some sense. That is something I’ll try to pay more attention to. Thank you for that. And thank you for watching and for subscribing. That’s awesome!
Thank you so much for your video ❤️Enjoyed it a lot
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New INFP here. It's very common for INFP's that we almost never know what we want bc we dont have Ni in any of our 4 first cognitive functions. That's also why we wander so much. The destination is not set and gets updated frequently.
The only thing we know for SURE is that we want the freedom to explore new original patterns with max abstract Ne out of the box discovery making, no matter how abnormal it is, also getting whatever makes us most comfortable and NOT get forced to stop or choose a path that is going against our inner morale values/symphathies and exploration ideas (Fi & Ne).
Every time you ask an INFP "What do you want?" is VERY hard to answer bc they often dont know the answer. Their main goal is to make a possitive long term impact in this world and by NOT knowing how to do that in our own personal way we get lost and very hungry to figure it out (Eventually). Only when we do figure it out or a peace of it, on how to make progress on possitive long term world change in someones/everyones life (Big or small) can we finally know what we want for once.
Shortly after figuring it that out we dont know what we want again and need more research/explorations to refine our previous understandings of the world bc of Ne just updated us on something new peace of the everlasting puzzle (again & again).
This is what it looks like to me for now. Does anyone recognise any of this as an INFP or is it only me?
Words With Meaning - Good thoughts. And yes, that description fits my INFP wife and my INFP son. Thanks for watching and thank you for commenting.
@@myisfpjourney7813 You're welcome and thanks for further confirming these patterns as accurate.
Although I’ve typed as ISFP, I can super relate to not being able to pick one path and stick with it. There are too many possibilities, not to mention so many obstacles too...Wish Ni would kick in and help me out already! At my age, I shouldn’t still be wandering...;-;
Ombrifuge IX - Not all who wander are lost.
It is also our weak Te. It tells us what we should do but our strong Fi holds us back from doing what statistics tells us to do.
Great video! As an INFP, I thought my Te-rage was bad... in fact I call it my Te-Shark. Guess we all got a little ‘FiTe’ in us! 🤪
the_dazey_infp - Indeed. I’m not proud of it, but there it is. Thank you so much for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already. Thanks again.
I like that FiTe. I think technically, when our Te is attacked it is actually Ti rage (the demon function) that comes out. Splitting hairs I know, but INFP are nothing if not informative responding. And I felt the need to respond since I loved the analogy ...if that is the correct terminology. Anyway keep up the FiTe and always be FiNe to others when you are able.
I’m an INFP. It was lovely hearing your experience. Your hair looks just fine.
I’m personally different. It’s not about the group. Sometimes it’s about a very large group such as LGBTQIA or the fight against systemic racism or environmental protections but those goals are just part of it for me. I care deeply about the world and not just the world but every individual out in the world no matter who or where they are. In the Greek language there are different words for and different kinds of love. I feel agape for everyone. An unconditional love. I feel this even for those who’s value judgements don’t line up with mine. I can stand up for things I believe and it’s terrifying. I stood up against bullies but never when they were bullying me only for others. Scared me so much but I couldn’t not do it. I couldn’t just stand by. I really want to be clear about this, I do not think I’m better than anyone else. I know all this sounds very self aggrandizing and just thinking about tooting my own horn gives me a stomachache. Writing this is giving me a stomachache.
I hate being angry. I hate conflict. The only times I engage in that is when my morals compel me to. I’m getting better about letting it go.
Being an INFP it feels like no one truly knows me. I’m very often in my own mind. Usually having a existential quandaries or crises. Trying to understand the nature of humanity or consciousness or existence or death. It feels like I’m seeking meaning and a higher purpose always.
It’s hard for me to put my thoughts into words or relate to people. I understand people. I feel for people but connecting in a truly meaningful way is difficult.
Thank you for sharing. I truly appreciate it. And thank you for watching. I love to hear the different perspectives of different people.
Agreed.
Thank you :) My ex and best friend is I believe ISFP. I am an INFP woman. He is so much a sensor type. He feels, sees, hears everything. I love to help him with all he need, He always say I have been everything in one to him, wife, mother, secretary,doctor, dietician. He appreciate that and need that, but he also knows exactly how he want me to do everything for him. He can be very critical of small details if the food is not exactly how he want. If he is gonna make a decision with something he knows always after he made it if it was right or wrong which can not be easy for him so I encourage him to take his time. I do with things too, look at all options, but after I finally made the decision I am happy with this. Me and him can go together for hours in shops and not buying anything :) I am very sensitive and he is straight forward but can says things he don´t mean. I dont become angry ever but frustrated, hurt, sad and cranky, passive agreesive. I will always have a specific emotion and for my friend he always use the word "upset" for everything. I think he is not as aware of emotions to differentiate. He shows his emotions in unconstructive ways and lets out anger on me if he is upset or stressed etc. I try to get him to talk to me (I talk more in general than him, he is more quiet) and I want to listen. I am a good listener but its hard to get him to open up. I have patience and a lot of love. And he will tell me after some time what it was he really was worrying about etc and then I have a lot of empathy for him. He knows exactly how to make me feel better we both do. He always knew how to handle me like from day one, my family members still don´t really know sometime. He knows he have to be little persistent and not give up on the first try, and that I usually want hugs and just love and he will say I´m sorry quickly. I think this is why I never hold grudges especially with him.
Count it all Joy - There is a lot of insight there. Thank you for watching and for commenting.
Count it all Joy - By the way, I love the book of James. Count it all joy my brethren when you face various trials...
@@myisfpjourney7813 Thank you and for answering. Are you a follower of Jesus too that´s wonderful! I just found your channel, will definetely look for more videos and subscribe. I love your type I just want you to know! Keep being you and God bless
Count it all Joy - I am a believer, yes.
The comparison of Ne an Ni really made me realize why I always cared about the future of my friends. True, I'm willing to give up a better future of myself, if it will make the future of the group better. I would care about their future even more than they would. And it's because I want a shared future.
As for the anger, I'm sure Se is just reactive, while Si is not. It takes some time to realize that you are angry, and even then you want to have an quiet conflict.
jTiKey - Great thoughts. Thank you for sharing!
Nice insight. The effect of introvert or extrovert on a function is truly amazing. I see this better with your enlightened viewpoint. As an INFP our Ne seems to make other introverts think we are extroverts, but of course only when we are in those functions that have extroversion (usually N or maybe T for us). Thank you for sharing this and I mean that sincerely and with veracity.
ISFP will only be angry in the moment, they will not be angry for that which has passed. I believe you are correct that this is a reactive nature of Se. With Si we are more likely to bear a grudge and stew about things that upset us and have passed, perhaps even long past. As a young man I was constantly bullied at home and school. I got strong and was fast, but hating conflict I let things build for many years. Once it boiled over, it took many more years to settle things again. Those days are long past now and I believe it has made me stronger for having gone through such a crucible. Very little can faze me now, except the thing no INFP can stand, harm those I Love and you will incur my immediate response.
As INFP, I love my ISFP friend cos' he brings me life, enjoying the present moment and spontaneous action. And I contribute vision and analytical discussion 😄
I think that sounds like a good synopsis many ISFP/INFP friendships. Thanks for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
As an INFP, I know you're absolutely right about us standing up for our beliefs & doing the right thing. I think of myself as a live & let live person. But the minute someone crosses a certain line, that line in the sand... watch out. There is just no way I'm gonna let you hurt anybody in any way. Even a stranger. Not on MY watch.
Throw the love around. We bloody need it ^^
Oh an, INFP want to change the world. By helping one person at a time. Because I = 3 is a crowd ^^
Thank you :)! I am an INFP and i do empathise with the fact that a lot of us are sometimes misunderstood.
People take my intentions of being nice wrongly most times, like i have an ulterior motive when truely, i just do what i do, because it is the right thing.
Thank you for watching and commenting
I'm INFP. I'm learning about this. There is not much detail in my country. I would better keep learning through TH-cam.
I have anger. But I've never ever in my life rage to make other feel afraid of me. If I get angry I will just stay quiet or turn away.
Thanks you for sharing.
The fact that you don’t rage is a wonderful thing. It has taken so much work for me to calm my anger. Thank you for watching and commenting.
@@myisfpjourney7813 My plrassure.
To me, rage is a lost, a harm and a useless. I don't like it to happen to me. If things don't go my way I will comfort myself not hurt myself more by raising anger. If someone do something wrong to me It's that person fault I don't deserve the pain(rage is painful fealing).
Every TH-camr: and now we come to the introverted feelers
**ignores esfp and isfp because they aren’t marketable**
This was beautiful, you’ve cleared up some major confusions for me. One of my best friends is ISFP but we fell out primarily because of his tendency to be selfish... I understand it better now...
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@@myisfpjourney7813 will do my man, keep making great content :D
Thank you! 🙃😊 -INFP
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So much useful. Thank you so much! I truly appreciate isfp. For me you are wise in a very simple and unique way.
I am an INFP - and I hate myself. Good to know someone doesn't.
Dakuta 12 - You are on this earth for a reason. The world needs you. You may not see it, but that does not change the fact that it’s true. You have a unique gift that can be used to improve the lives of others. Be strong, and be awesome.
I understand (as in INFP) but we are much more appreciated than we know
As an INFP I once hated myself as well (long before I knew what an INFP was). I had trouble dealing with the deep feelings that would overwhelm me. I became a cutter and also punched walls until my knuckles would swell and bleed. What does not kill us will make us stronger. Your depth of feeling can bring you into a world others cannot even imagine.
All I can say is spend time sorting through them, think about how you feel for those you care. There is no type more ferocious in the defense of those they love or in defending what they believe in. I will gladly die for a friend or family, even for a stranger that is unable to defend themselves. I will sacrifice everything for what I believe, I will bear any injustice, any pain, because we must be true to ourselves and our values. The death we feel inside if we don`t, overshadows and eclipses what we feel on the outside. I know this may sound braggadocious to those who do not really understand the depth of the INFP, but those who do it will resonate in verity. Embrace the power you possess, it can and will transform you. If you hate yourself, then love others. Love them until any hate you feel shrinks and dissolves. Once you submerge into the depth of your love for those who mean more to you than your next breath, you will understand that love for yourself is nothing in comparison.
This made me feel good about myself because I agree. Now, like everyone, we ARE selfish sometimes, but I'll say that for example years ago another person didn't see the red light and crashed my car on the front passenger seat, moderately hard. Broke the window, my car did a whole 360°, the door was pretty much ruined and the trunk got displaced. Thank God, I just got a tiiiiiny scratch on my forehead from the glass, and my neck was a bit sore. But IMMEDIATELY after I knew I was ok, I thought about how *PISSED* I would've gotten if my best friend, whom I had just had breakfast with, were to have been in the passenger seat. I was relaxed and understanding with the guy that crashed me, but I just *know* I would've been quiite different had he hurt my friend.
I really enjoyed listening to you! Especially because I can relate to you in so many ways as my family is infp dad and isfp mum, and my infp/isfp siblings. It was just so lovely to be able to reflect on what you have said. I recognise so many things in my families behaviour.
I find my isfp mum overall difficult to really understand, and she's so closed off, but I totally see how she values doing her own thing in her own time, whereas my dads slant on the world always includes impact on others.
My tears drop whenever I find someone who understands, poor me.
Omg watching this video and reading all these comments make me feel relatable to someone for the first time and that there are people like me too....
INFP will take a stand for their beliefs
ISFP will hold their values to themselves
ISFP-A - My bestie is INFP-A, our mind is really in sync. Now a days we barely meet. but we don't need constant hangouts, phone calls or msgs to strengthen our bond. It's just we both know we're always there for each other. But I met a new friend INFP-T. She always hang out with me. She is really nice but sometimes it feels like she's too much. Like she is negative about everything & we simply don't get along. It's just I'm bearing everything. I really can't help but comparing my bestie & her. I guess we fully can't think about people with their personality type.
Thank you for this video. I'm an infp & i wish to tell/give people the wisdom or knowledge I've gained in my life, I want to make a better world, i love art & craft, I do get mad easily but I rarely show it.
Side note, are you a KPOP fan?
@@myisfpjourney7813 Yes I am, thanks for noticing
@@eliza544 - my 17 year old ISFP daughter is a huge KPOP fan and a dancer. We went and saw the Black Pink movie together a couple months ago
@@myisfpjourney7813 That's great, I'm a huge BTS fan.
@@eliza544 she is too
I would subscribe this channel if it was the journey of INFP. But I clicked like, watched it till the end and subscribed this channel because I appreciate your value and I'm INFP. :D
Congratulations on your anniversary - whether it was earlier this month or today or later this month. Love the content. Resonates strongly.
Antoinette Novella - Thank you. It is Aug 23. And thank you for watching and commenting. It is very encouraging. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
Now plz make a video why the infp loves the isfp so i can see what i bring to the table lol
Andre Melo - Maybe I can get my wife to make a video about why she loves me. 😄
@@myisfpjourney7813 that would be awesome loving the videos keep up the good work!
@@myisfpjourney7813 pls do! I would like to learn more about these two's relationship, ty
@@myisfpjourney7813 please do this, INFP-ISFP relationship is barely ever talked about and I'm an INFP dating an ISFP so I'd love to see it.
Nafisa Tabassum Zahin - I mentioned it to my wife. She didn’t seem to jump at it. I think I will bring it up again. We’ll see!
The things I also care about include:
• Dog
• The walls I've been staring at to daydream
• The emotions of the ghosts around me
• The fact that some "kids" on the internet may just be old people with an xtremely energetic spirit. ( the fact that I might have accidentally offended them bothers me )
• food
Yeah, I do take a stand for it, very frequently to my detriment 😅
INFP GANG
i really wish i can meet more ISFPs cus I haven't met a single ISFP.
Amazing vid !
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As an infp
We fight for our value coz it is our core identity
It is life or death for us
I believe that. Thank you for watching and commenting
As an INFP that is in a relationship with a ENTP and a toodler, I can tell you I rage a lot sometimes because my boyfriend trolls me and while I'm stressed XD. I can't controle my anger
Having a toddler causes all calmness to fade away. But you’ll look back on these days with fondness.
I don’t know what the video is about yet, but thank you :)
Wow, Infp here, and I am just finding out that not everyone hates us.
I am an INFP and I believe Rage is not about personality types rage is about the suppression of wounded feelings, whenever a person does not process their feelings appropriately it does not give their feelings the proper respect and love acknowledgment and acceptance necessary for healing but instead always chooses to suppress them those feelings are going to just get pissed and they're going to express themselves they're not giving a place to transform into healing and that only happens through acceptance but we are a bunch of boneheads who won't allow our feelings a place to surface and breathe but instead we always suppress them drowning them in our convenience and in our lack of understanding how important valuing acknowledging and accepting our feelings are in our physical psychological and spiritual well-being.
How about INFJ’s? Are we too out there in the future? Lol 😆
I only know a hand full of INFJs; and don’t know most of them really well. I like to really know a group of people before I talk about how they make me feel.
I'm a male isfp and throughout the years upon meeting infp,s I noticed that when speaking to an infp I feel an electric connection of endearment to the infp. Please tell me why that is. I don't know why. Also the fact that they use "big picture" thinking is a little scary for me when dealing with infp's and when they speak something I don't understand I just nodd. In agreement. Is doing so beneficial or detrimental to the connection. Please tell. Thank you
I love ISFPs too,my dude!My favorite FMA character Wrath is an ISFP.
Thanks for watching and commenting. What is FMA? Sorry...I’m old.
@@myisfpjourney7813 Full Metal Alchemist 2003 not to be confused with the Manga,Brotherhood which was the 2009-2011 remake made to be more in line with The Manga(The Manga went into hiatus during the first Greed Arc and creator Hiromu Arakawa gave Studio Bones her blessing to end things their own way which as you would expect quite divided the fandom.)or the terrible Netflix Live-Action Film.(Proving Japan can fuck up their own adaptations too).
@@bobbyhavens gotcha
Quite clear expressed :) is the Big Lebrowsky also ISFP ,)?
Fulfilled . de Coaching Maria Wagner Sommerstraße 5 - I’ve never seen that movie, so I can’t say. Thank you for watching!
Could it be that the difference lies in Ne vs Ni? I think that INFPs stand up for/speak up about their values because they believe doing so COULD convert/convince the people around them whereas ISFPs knows the probability of others changing/converting is so small so why bother/what's the point..
Sometimes I think that INFPs try to change others for the better even in situations where they are unlikely to change anyone. It's as if their lack of Ni makes them unable to see the likelihood of future success but rather just the possibilities of potential success.
Not pushed by value judgements of the group
Here's a secret...sometimes as an INFP it really IS as simple as "fuck off, leave me alone and don't tell me what to do." XD Sometimes there's more to it and sometimes I just can't even.
I hope you came to this conclusion about the Ne Si and Ni Se axis independent of either Michael pierce or c. s. Joseph's description of the quadras. It would be quite a vindication.
jacob massengale - I have watched some of their videos. They have some stuff I like and some I don’t. I would be dishonest if I said that I have not been influenced by them; I have a bit. But I get a lot more out of some other sources. I also really look at my own observations as well. It’s a combination of many thoughts and thinkers.
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I feel like ISFP Se Ni makes them move on from things and stay focused on themselves while INFP Ne Si gets stuck over analyzing things way after it happens. So when INFPs values are really challenged it’s like uprooting there whole entire world and so they are much more willing to fight for it.
I can see that. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
what enneagrams are you and your wife?
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It’s so strange how I have an ISTP dad and an ESFJ mom and yet I’m an INFP
Well, there are different theories on how personality type comes to be. I personally believe we are born, wired, for our type. Now I firmly believe that upbringing, environment, and life experiences shape how our type comes out in each of us. But I think we are born the type we are. Just my theory. Thanks for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already. BTW, I have a video about personality type in children. You might check it out.
My ISFP Journey I gotcha and thanks for your quick response. I agree with your theory, and I think that life in its totality can shape you into doing things outwardly different. However, within those cognitive functions are there and they are set.
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