I wonder if any of these mothers will ever have enough self-awareness to finally realize that they aren't supporting their sons, they're destroying them?
Well said I have a son he is my only child I get how much they love their children but I am not a selfish mother I would not be happy if my son didn't go out and make a life that's all I ever wanted for him I would never stand in his way I can't wait for grandchildren lol I will treat his wife like a queen 👑
Tre is gonna lose a great woman because of his unhealthy attachment to his mom. His mom said she didn't see a connection between Tre and Abbey. That's because LORENDA IS ALWAYS IN THE WAY💯
I wonder how he's going to feel when he sees Abby being happy with someone else? He clearly loves her. His mom need to stay out of her grown son's business. But she never going to do that. Sad.
This is sad. His mom wont live forever and this unhealthy attachment he has for his mother is setting him up for future depression and toxic relationships with women. His mom is not teaching him that moms have a lane and the women in his life have a lane. His mom wanna cross lanes and drive all over the road which will lead her son off a cliff when she dies.. shame on you ma'am..
YES!! I had the same thoughts! I swear these mothers don't want their sons happy and their sons seem to get off on it! Like after mom dies, what is he going to do? The moms and sons on here seriously need psychiatric help.
Sad? no! Guys like Tre are just not deserved to have a girlfriend like Abby. Women today are no longer serverts expected to constantly attend to their husbands.
Tre looks sad over his breakup with Abbey you could hear it in his voice but he still allows his mother to control his decision. He should marry to Abbey raise his own family, and focus more on his relationship with Abbey his mom needs a life of her own.
He’s not gonna marry anyone let alone abbey (she dumped his ass because he wasn’t giving her the attention she needed and he was always putting mommy first) if he never realizes that he has an unhealthy relationship with his mother and he needs to set the boundaries with her he should’ve set when he was with abbey.
If my mother in law ever came to my house at 4.30 am in the morning to do laundry - I would throw her OUT of my house! PERIOD! Abbey was to 'soft' to tell her that!
Ya I tried to ask my mom for help and she said no. If I go back I won't leave apparently. Also asked her for food, she said no but then donated food to a food bank. Tough love she called it. Ya tough love.
They were together for over 10 years that's plenty of time to get to know someone, spend time with and build a life together. But what some men fail to realize is that no women wants to stay as a gf indefinitely. In order for that next level of commitment he has to man up. He clearly at almost 30 didn't get the memo. The gf loves him and was all in but you can't keep messing up, being childish etc and expect a lady to stay. The mom is a major enabler
I think it's good to have a relationship with your parents. A healthy relationship. I think that in some instances there should be boundaries set. Especially when you're an adult. Receive the advice but if it doesn't feel right or interrupts your love life, especially when you believe in your heart that you've found the One. Sometimes you have to override the advice. Tre's a grown man. Let him grow up and make his own mistakes. Parents need to learn how to let go. Your child has to grow up. Because you're not always going to be around.
Once your child has a child the umbilical cord needs to be cut. Should have been long ago but definitely at that point. This is your life and your family you are raising your mother did her thing and created and raised hers there's no reason she also has to dictate how you create yours. Ideally you marry someone who your family also likes but the most important thing is you like them. You gotta decide is it concern and consideration your family not approving or control and over attachment. In this case it's obviously the latter. Hell they had a kid together and she would rather see the child have a broken home than her son stay with the mother and try to make things work without her being a 3rd wheel. That's red flags. Sadly this woman should have run long ago from this situation and her family should have been more vocal about this being no good for her.
This woman is awful to break up her son's relationship. Especially knowing she has a grandbaby and how divorce affects children. This mom should be ashamed of her actions. She doesn't love her son. She sucks the life out of him. When she leaves this world she will render him helpless and incapable of dealing with life.
But it happens alot some mothers are very possessive with their sons. It dont matter who she is never good enough and that is sad. Because in the end the son will never be a man. Lose the best thing he had because of him being a mamas boy.
I think she did the right thing to break up. Because if a man always wants to be with his mother then his girlfriend then it’s something wrong with that.
I believe this break was coming way before the show anyway not just because of his Mom but you can tell they wasn't happy just doing what was best for Kam
Tre & his mom are in a unhealthy relationship. You can love your mom , but once you get married you have to start your relationship with your wife . Tre needs to start having a healthy relationship with his mom , it's like Tre & his mom are married. Plus Tre' s mom needs to give Tre is manhood back . Not healthy at all !
And don’t forget they live in walking distance of each other’s homes!😳. The best is he leaves the door unlocked so she can walk right in anytime she wants to?????
After 10 years and they have a baby together and they dont have a bond? Im sure they did n it fell apart cause of his mom over time. Im never datin a mommas boy. Once i find out in done.
The kid will have less exposure to the dysfunctional son mother relationship so that's a win. Staying together when it's just not working only hurts everyone and often the child the most.
The kids a winner still in the end because he’ll have two parents that are happy apart instead of miserable together. And parents that love him no matter what
Y’all don’t think this has something to do with her color? I say bc the mom acted like something was so wrong with her . If she was a black woman maybe this would of played out differently ijs🤷♀️
He’ll never find anybody good enough for his mom cause it’ll be the same cycle in his other relationships until he sets boundaries 😂mother manipulative asf
What's sad is this man sacrificed his childs upbringing and well-being to worship his mother. Maybe it wou6have ended anyways or just constant fighting but he never tried he simply clung to his mother anf destroyed any chance of being a man.
I've dated a Mama's boy before and he would explain to her our sex days and why he would do certain positions and I couldn't understand why do you need to discuss that and so much more with your mama. I believe they had a sexual relationship as well 😂 it's crazy to say but I believe now when I look at it many years from here that I was the other woman 😂😂 in their relationship ...
Well real talk I got a cousin and my dad's side that's like this guy a pure full blown mama's boy has a kid with a girl and everything they've been broken up for 5 years now🤔
56 and ignorant as can be! That's sad! Of course they couldn't make it work! He will never be able to make it work because he is dating his mom! He will not have a good relationship until she passes away and that is horrible! She should want to see him happy and in love, but nooo, this heffa just wants her son all to herself! Sick!!!
The bond is the baby ans the love they have for each other. That mom is wrong she should stop because if Abby gets remarried she will loose her grand kid and then we'll see. When Abby move with her new partner and baby cuase she's a good women and the men know when they have a good women around.
Unless the child is at risk in any way then it should never be kept away from either parent or grandparents. That's alienation and has been proven to be detrimental to a child's well being. Children are way too often used as pawns when relationships break down
@@amaraamara2712 I agree about the other parent but a grandparent isn't a parent (usually custody wise). This guys mom is toxic and has some issue with the child's mom so keeping the kid away from her would be completely valid.
How does his mum not see that the reason abby wasn't getting attention was because of his mum and all the attention he was giving her and not their relationship. Which is why it fell apart like it did. It seems that the son wants to date his mum. I hope they find a way to co parent properly without his mum's interference.
What did I just roll up on? This is the worst mom I’ve ever seen, she’s horrible and the son will never be any good for anyone. I just hope Abbey wises up and not let this man in appropriately influence their son. Ugh, this is not cute
Tre has a very masculine face and gorgeous BODY and nice personality. But there is something UNNATURAL the way he acts around his Mother and her him. And really weird how much his mothers face is identical to his face.
I wonder if any of these mothers will ever have enough self-awareness to finally realize that they aren't supporting their sons, they're destroying them?
Well said I have a son he is my only child I get how much they love their children but I am not a selfish mother I would not be happy if my son didn't go out and make a life that's all I ever wanted for him I would never stand in his way I can't wait for grandchildren lol I will treat his wife like a queen 👑
@@nightstar8073 do you like puerto rican women 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@justiceforlia3740 yes
@@nightstar8073 okay i just had to make sure do you want your son to date a puerto rican women.
@@justiceforlia3740 I don't care if she's an alien as long as she loves my baby
I like the way Abbey’s mom responded to the breakup versus Tre’s mom. She’s too old to be acting like that.
Tre is gonna lose a great woman because of his unhealthy attachment to his mom. His mom said she didn't see a connection between Tre and Abbey. That's because LORENDA IS ALWAYS IN THE WAY💯
I wonder how he's going to feel when he sees Abby being happy with someone else? He clearly loves her. His mom need to stay out of her grown son's business. But she never going to do that. Sad.
He deserves to lose her. 🤷🏽♀️ She’s too good for this foolishness!
@@kimistry9533
Hopefully a grown up ..tre and his mother are sickening ….
@@enclavebrat He is also very lazy and wants his mommy to do everything for him! Get help Tre you need it! 😡
I just hollard the same thing!
This is sad. His mom wont live forever and this unhealthy attachment he has for his mother is setting him up for future depression and toxic relationships with women. His mom is not teaching him that moms have a lane and the women in his life have a lane. His mom wanna cross lanes and drive all over the road which will lead her son off a cliff when she dies.. shame on you ma'am..
This is the dumbest comment I’ve ever seen
💯💯💯💯💯
YES!! I had the same thoughts! I swear these mothers don't want their sons happy and their sons seem to get off on it! Like after mom dies, what is he going to do?
The moms and sons on here seriously need psychiatric help.
Sad? no! Guys like Tre are just not deserved to have a girlfriend like Abby. Women today are no longer serverts expected to constantly attend to their husbands.
Abbey and the mom are the sweetest mother/daughter duo...❤
When his mom said she “could see that from a mile away” I was like of course she did! She doesn’t want him with anyone or any girl
Tre looks sad over his breakup with Abbey you could hear it in his voice but he still allows his mother to control his decision. He should marry to Abbey raise his own family, and focus more on his relationship with Abbey his mom needs a life of her own.
He’s not gonna marry anyone let alone abbey (she dumped his ass because he wasn’t giving her the attention she needed and he was always putting mommy first) if he never realizes that he has an unhealthy relationship with his mother and he needs to set the boundaries with her he should’ve set when he was with abbey.
Well said 🙌🏻
Tre should grow up before he marry Abby. He doesn't deserve Abby.
If my mother in law ever came to my house at 4.30 am in the morning to do laundry - I would throw her OUT of my house! PERIOD! Abbey was to 'soft' to tell her that!
She sweet just tell her plz can you come like 9:00am
Tre should be the one to face his mom, not Abby. Don't blame the victom.
It's nice to know you always have your momma and her doors will always be open. ❤That's special.
Yeah, it's "special" alright.
Ya I tried to ask my mom for help and she said no. If I go back I won't leave apparently. Also asked her for food, she said no but then donated food to a food bank. Tough love she called it. Ya tough love.
@@Whynotcreate How old are you??
@laughingtiger101010 sorry to hear that. I hope things get better.
They were together for over 10 years that's plenty of time to get to know someone, spend time with and build a life together. But what some men fail to realize is that no women wants to stay as a gf indefinitely. In order for that next level of commitment he has to man up. He clearly at almost 30 didn't get the memo. The gf loves him and was all in but you can't keep messing up, being childish etc and expect a lady to stay. The mom is a major enabler
I don't understand why she had a kid with this kid.
@@janemariehowardlove really can make women really dumb sometimes!! They’ll really ignore the red flags!!
And she obviously has an unhealthy attachment to her son.
Good for her he’s not worth it
Agreed
I think it's good to have a relationship with your parents. A healthy relationship. I think that in some instances there should be boundaries set. Especially when you're an adult. Receive the advice but if it doesn't feel right or interrupts your love life, especially when you believe in your heart that you've found the One. Sometimes you have to override the advice. Tre's a grown man. Let him grow up and make his own mistakes. Parents need to learn how to let go. Your child has to grow up. Because you're not always going to be around.
Once your child has a child the umbilical cord needs to be cut. Should have been long ago but definitely at that point. This is your life and your family you are raising your mother did her thing and created and raised hers there's no reason she also has to dictate how you create yours. Ideally you marry someone who your family also likes but the most important thing is you like them. You gotta decide is it concern and consideration your family not approving or control and over attachment. In this case it's obviously the latter. Hell they had a kid together and she would rather see the child have a broken home than her son stay with the mother and try to make things work without her being a 3rd wheel. That's red flags. Sadly this woman should have run long ago from this situation and her family should have been more vocal about this being no good for her.
Abby seems like a good woman and trey will regret his decision. Now he can marry his mom I bet his mom is so happy now.
His mother's being super selfish one day she's going to drop dead and he'll be old, lonely and depressed with no one to care for him like she had.
Good. Tre deserve to be lonely after he let Abby alone on Valentine's Day.
I wish you Abbey, to find better man. you deserve it, and you will. don’t worry. This guy wasn’t worth your energy nor your love.
She saw it coming…. Lady you pushed it lol… you wanted this
They didn't have a connection or a time to themselves because of Tre's mom.
Abbey is sooo much better off. As long as Tre lets his mom run him he won’t have anyone
His momma raised an Immature Grown Little Boy! Good Job!
Best thing Abby can do is cut off toxic people
These mothers are lonely and it is giving sad and pathetic. Go get you a man, a life something and allow your GROWN SONS to be MEN!
Abbey he’s not the one for you! Let him marry his mommy! 😅
Both mothers were happy that they broke up tbh
I am so glad she broke up with him
I mean him and his mum can continue their weird love story together😂
This woman is awful to break up her son's relationship. Especially knowing she has a grandbaby and how divorce affects children. This mom should be ashamed of her actions. She doesn't love her son. She sucks the life out of him. When she leaves this world she will render him helpless and incapable of dealing with life.
They weren’t married firstly. Secondly the mother didn’t break anything off, he’s a grown man. If he really wanted to be with that woman he would’ve.
This show literally is sick
But it happens alot some mothers are very possessive with their sons. It dont matter who she is never good enough and that is sad. Because in the end the son will never be a man. Lose the best thing he had because of him being a mamas boy.
When you have a mother in Law who is difficult you have to speak up and set boundaries.
He was too much of a mommas boy and to unhealthily attached to his mother to do that.
Abby can do much better then Tre he needs to grow up and stop being a momma's boy. I hope the baby can see his grandmother doesn't care about him.
It's hard in the beginning, but Miss Abby, you deserve so much better. Your real king.
I love how she was like finally! Then be like you gotta do what's best for the child.
These moms think their sons are their husbands
I hope trey realizes it's his mother's fault for this break up I feel sad for the son they have together because it's thr grandmothers fault
I can't see any woman wanting to date Trey because of his ignorant mom. She is beyond ridiculous.
Abbey deserves a real man Tre doesn’t deserve to have a girlfriend.
His mom is his best friend, that’s his problem. His other half should be his best friend. 🙄
She’s said finally, the mom always wants to break them up , mama boys are pathological mental
Mama needs some better wigs.
I think she did the right thing to break up. Because if a man always wants to be with his mother then his girlfriend then it’s something wrong with that.
Moms should do what they can to keep them together. ❤
He looks just like his mom too. This is sad
Well looking at the mom she seems like she's all happy about it on the inside but she said she knew it was coming🤔
Mm hmmm facts...
The mom praying for their downfall is foul for that. Especially since they have kid. I hope they get back together and ignore the mom. 😅😂
NO HOPE FOR TRE !!!!!!!!
WTF do you mean "I can be myself now" after a breakup, you should be your true self both when you're dating and single.
Abbey, PLEASE leave this Mama's Boy! You can do so much better than him!
Great that she left! No use of competing with moma!
I believe this break was coming way before the show anyway not just because of his Mom but you can tell they wasn't happy just doing what was best for Kam
Tre & his mom are in a unhealthy relationship. You can love your mom , but once you get married you have to start your relationship with your wife . Tre needs to start having a healthy relationship with his mom , it's like Tre & his mom are married. Plus Tre' s mom needs to give Tre is manhood back . Not healthy at all !
And don’t forget they live in walking distance of each other’s homes!😳. The best is he leaves the door unlocked so she can walk right in anytime she wants to?????
Abbey is either way too nice to say what needs to be said, or she's a little naive in how she deserves to be treated.
glad Abby got away from those two sickos....what did they do to their sons that made them so dependant...lika a spouse. creepy.
She is crippling him for liffe
I knew his mom would be immature! In reckon she doesn’t even like her grandchild!
Omg this guy will never have a woman in his life
Mother talks about them having a bond how can they when your all up in their house 24 7 trey GROW UP AND BE YOUR OWN MAN
After 10 years and they have a baby together and they dont have a bond? Im sure they did n it fell apart cause of his mom over time. Im never datin a mommas boy. Once i find out in done.
The only loser in this situation is the poor baby :(
More damage is caused to children if the parents stay together just 'for the kids sake' So long as they manage to co parent well things will be fine.
The kid will have less exposure to the dysfunctional son mother relationship so that's a win. Staying together when it's just not working only hurts everyone and often the child the most.
The kids a winner still in the end because he’ll have two parents that are happy apart instead of miserable together. And parents that love him no matter what
@@Mussikkienkelinot with a mama's boy. She'll want the kid back next
@@amaraamara2712not with a mama's boy she'll want the kid back next
Her mom is beautiful. They look like sisters ❤
He just wasted Abbey's time He's pathetic
Selfish mom!!
It’s sad to see his mother has broken up their relationship.
Y’all don’t think this has something to do with her color? I say bc the mom acted like something was so wrong with her . If she was a black woman maybe this would of played out differently ijs🤷♀️
I honestly think that boy ain't gonna marry anyone whether black or not.😢
Naw she will do a black woman the same if she's not up at 4am cooking and cleaning to her standards
He’ll never find anybody good enough for his mom cause it’ll be the same cycle in his other relationships until he sets boundaries 😂mother manipulative asf
These women need to find their own men and quit treating their sons as fill in husband's
What's sad is this man sacrificed his childs upbringing and well-being to worship his mother. Maybe it wou6have ended anyways or just constant fighting but he never tried he simply clung to his mother anf destroyed any chance of being a man.
His mom just needs to get a life and a man most of these moms need to stop treating their sons like if they’re the wife’s or gf
Tre and his mum AKA... Debbie and Colty from 90 day fiancé
She caused her grandson to be raised in a single parent home. Just like her and her son.
Where's his dad Because I have no words for this woman
You can’t please your child the way a women can. Let him be a man for once.
I'm so glad that Abbey got away from him and his mom
"I feel like I just, like, got out of a, like, high school relationship."
Well, you sure speak like one, like
I've dated a Mama's boy before and he would explain to her our sex days and why he would do certain positions and I couldn't understand why do you need to discuss that and so much more with your mama. I believe they had a sexual relationship as well 😂 it's crazy to say but I believe now when I look at it many years from here that I was the other woman 😂😂 in their relationship ...
For fck sakes, I felt super weird when my dad gave me the sex talk.
Because I know them from tik tok ! I didn’t know he was that much of a mommas boy
Well real talk I got a cousin and my dad's side that's like this guy a pure full blown mama's boy has a kid with a girl and everything they've been broken up for 5 years now🤔
"There wasnt a true connection", how is he going to develop a connection with someone if he's emotionally kidnapped by you, miss??
“i made some points “ like what??😂😂
I'm surprised Abby stayed this long
It couldn’t be me. It’s one thing to live your mother, but this right here. Absolutely NOT.🤷🏾♀️
I think it’s just wrong to claim to be a “ Christian “ and live your life immorally!
True but we are all sinners regardless
since all humans are sinners, i think it’s just wrong to claim to be a christian. Thus, nobody should be a christian, based on your reasoning.
This is realty tres mom def don’t act like this😂😂😂😂
No u ruined ur son's relationship u broke them up bc she's selfish delusional
Tre’s mom is no good mother in law material
56 and ignorant as can be! That's sad! Of course they couldn't make it work! He will never be able to make it work because he is dating his mom! He will not have a good relationship until she passes away and that is horrible! She should want to see him happy and in love, but nooo, this heffa just wants her son all to herself! Sick!!!
The bond is the baby ans the love they have for each other. That mom is wrong she should stop because if Abby gets remarried she will loose her grand kid and then we'll see. When Abby move with her new partner and baby cuase she's a good women and the men know when they have a good women around.
Unless the child is at risk in any way then it should never be kept away from either parent or grandparents. That's alienation and has been proven to be detrimental to a child's well being. Children are way too often used as pawns when relationships break down
@@amaraamara2712 I agree about the other parent but a grandparent isn't a parent (usually custody wise). This guys mom is toxic and has some issue with the child's mom so keeping the kid away from her would be completely valid.
Abbey is gorgeous, Tre is losing a good thing
No women needs another kid, plain and simple.Either be a man or be a BOY forever.
That girl dodged a bullet of crazy
mom: they don't have a connection.
Well you always in between them!
Hahaha she said they didnt bond with each other! I wonder whyyy? Mama ?
I can understand people loving their moms but how the mothers act are too extreme
We need Shelly on here…!!!
How does his mum not see that the reason abby wasn't getting attention was because of his mum and all the attention he was giving her and not their relationship. Which is why it fell apart like it did. It seems that the son wants to date his mum. I hope they find a way to co parent properly without his mum's interference.
Es kann mir doch Niemand erzählen, das sowas Realität ist.
What did I just roll up on? This is the worst mom I’ve ever seen, she’s horrible and the son will never be any good for anyone. I just hope Abbey wises up and not let this man in appropriately influence their son. Ugh, this is not cute
Is Abby’s mother a dental doctor?
A dentist?
Aww she’s so sweet.
Her mom looks young
Because she has no bad bone in her. If you have no bad bone in you, there are chances you'd look younger than your age cause evil ages you .
Allot shows are fake for tv but...if any truth in this one..she needs to run.
What’s wrong with this mother? It’s her fault
Tre has a very masculine face and gorgeous BODY and nice personality. But there is something UNNATURAL the way he acts around his Mother and her him. And really weird how much his mothers face is identical to his face.
Abby did the right thing …she can’t even get flowers for Valentine’s Day F him .