Caylee Cresta Household Divides: Chores, Lack of Sex and How to Fix It | The Man Enough Podcast
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Will splitting the share of household chores lead to creator intimacy in the bedroom? Digital creator and TikTok marriage counselor, Caylee Cresta shares her history with masculinity both growing up and in her own marriage. She shares her findings on splitting household chores, disconnected intimacy in relationships and how to foster greater understanding between men and women.
About Caylee Cresta:
Caylee Cresta is a content creator and tik tok star with over 2M followers famously known for her comeback series where she reacts to toxic opinions and videos from men (usually regarding women) through stern advice and education. Caylee created her channel while working as a public construction project manager where she would hear her male employees share the pains of marriage and complain about their wives and at the same time complain about the lack of sex in their relationships. She started to wonder “what do men want from women?” and thus the channel was born. Her aim is to bridge the communication gap between men and women by eloquently and calmly explaining viewpoints that many women are hesitant to express themselves.
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Timecodes:
01:10 Episode Starts
03:15 Introducing Caylee Cresta
07:43 When Is The Last Time You Didn’t Feel Enough
14:15 Breaking Cycles Of Trauma
18:34 Looking For Love (In Wrong Places)
27:13 Doing The Dishes Does Not Equal Better Sex
29:38 Sexual Disconnect Between Women And Men
37:34 We All Need More Empathy
41:20 The Power Of Listening To Women
43:15 Holding Your Partner Accountable
50:55 Stay At Home Girlfriend
56:22 The Contract of Marriage (starting with Justin breaking down the CHOICE that women need to have)
01:04:10 Jamey’s Challenge For Male Listeners
01:06:42 What Does It Mean To Be Man Enough
Quotes:
“Feminism is about choice.” - Caylee Cresta
“Sometimes the familiar is actually not safe. “ - Caylee Cresta
“My father’s sense of obligation was greater than his sense of self preservation.” - Caylee Cresta
“We fall in love with a man’s potential, not who he is.” - Caylee Cresta
“For women, intimacy doesn’t start when you take your clothes off, it started that morning.”
“Men can recognize that women tend to tie emotions into sex yet you don’t understand why your wife doesn’t want to have sex with you when you aren’t providing her with any emotional support.”
“Femininity is a quality…there’s nothing wrong with a woman embracing her femininity. .. at the same time, a woman should not be looked down upon for having the same ambitions as a man has been able to have.” - Justin Baldoni
Caylee Cresta Social Links
TIKTOK: / cayleecresta
IG: / cayleecresta
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Small kindnesses. This is all we need. When my husband and I first started dating, I was a single mom of 1.5 year old twins, worked full time, and was going back to school online full time at night. I was at peak exhaustion. This man, who had NO responsibility for me or my children saw that I had dozed off on the couch in the middle of the day (turns out I had Lyme). Instead of gently waking me, he covered me with a blanket, made dinner and played with the kids. I literally bawled my eyes out when I woke up because I was just not used to receiving such kindness. It was probably an hour that I slept, but it was EVERYTHING.
Wow!!, so kind !! 😲👏🏼👏🏼🥰
Love her insight and clarity.❤
Thank you for listening
Her episode was SO good
I was waiting for this, I’m so happy we finally got it.👏
We couldn't not release it
Have been waiting for this episode. Loved every second ❤️
A beautiful episode
Great conversation !, hearing the perspectives!! 😃👏🏼👏🏼
Thank you all for sharing these wonderful conversations!
I wish they had discussed the stay at home girlfriends trend to a greater extent. Far as choices not negatively impacting a partner. Stay at home girlfriends could be dropped after 4 or 5 years with literally nothing to show for except that they served their boyfriend well. Its incredibly dangerous.
I mean idk I think living for free is payment enough no?
I believe listening to all sides whether you agree or not will give you a well rounded understanding on any topic and gain insight on perspectives so as to navigate any topic and be able to empathize with others. We are all doing the best we can with what we have, learned, be conditioned, experienced and perceived. There are golden nuggets in every conversation. Thank you as always for an interesting conversation. 🙏❤
Thank you for sharing your perspective
Great topic, even better podcast! Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Love her tiktok, and loved this open discussion
Thank you so much for listening
Best episode!
I had been waiting for this episode! Love it!❤
So many great topics covered
Loved this episode. Caylee really brings thought and insight to make one think. Thankful you posted the full episode!
Wow…. She got it on the spot when she was talking about women and giving and how we feel 😭
I am here listening to this and I am crying I could relate 💯 ❤
Here from TikTok (27:00) thanks for the conversation
Thanks for coming over! Glad you're here.
Loved it ! Huge thanks ❤❤❤
Women weaponize men’s feelings against men. Men quickly learn not to share that with women, and if he hasn’t learned that lesson yet, trust and believe that a woman will teach him sooner than later.
Thank you for sharing your perspectives
I think that one goes both ways for both genders, buddy. Inconsiderate reactions and manipulative tactics used against you when you share something vulnerable. I know women experience that everyday. Therefore, I do like the points made in this video that recognizes both men and women need a safe space to do just that and how do we work on ourselves so that our partner experiences that freedom in the relationship.
I think the problem with her and other modern content creators (both men and women) is the unbalanced, polarized nature of their content. Content creators put out video after video representing one viewpoint. But that's what gets the views.
Couldn't agree more... she said men go on dates thinking " do i like her" and women go on dates thinking " does he like me" aren't most of us thinking both? Who the actual f*ck doesn't care about being liked by someone that they like? Wtf is happening here?she makes these separations thatonly exist in her head and on misogynistic social media....Even the other woman calls her out on it with the sex for doing dishes... the idea that is the standard is actually ridiculous and degrading and just selective nonsense... but she had no clue😂 that just makes sense in her head 😂
I'm halfway and I can barely stand how extremely amatonormative this is. People can have great sex after just a few minutes without even knowing each other. I experience it all the time when I visit a sex worker and yes, more often than not she really enjoys it too. If someone does not want sex, don't have sex, if someone wants to have sex, have sex. It's not that complicated.
OK, I have to admit, in the end it gets a lot better. Feminism is about choice, I agree with that. And that nothing is more masculine than not feeling threatened about your masculinity. I also despise men spitting on a woman just because of her content, then you really need to 'man up'.
So in the end, mixed feelings. But that in itself is OK.
You wanna know what's bogging down energy for the lack? It's men's testosterone dwindling because of plastic products and a lack of men's health awareness.
I dont like the updo hosts interventions. Unnecessary and rude and at times misleading. But only at times... it doesnt mean the whole relationship is toxic... nooo....
I feel like a lot of these conversations do are dishonest. Men HAVE to bring a certain amount of value to get sex/ be attractive to women. Women do not have to put in as much effort to get sex
Thank you for expressing how you feel!
@@WeAreManEnough Why are you thanking this misogynistic chode?
right but they dont want it most of the time. By the time women are out of their teens theyve been shown more than enough times that men only want sex and that turns them into something they dont want to be. Some kind of transaction. So why would easily being able to get something you dont want, from people you dont want it from, be seen as a positive?
@@SuTho You’re saying women don’t want sex? Also, women have NO CLUE how something so effortless for them can be extremely difficult for men. It’s a positive because of the complete lack of effort required
@@swaggy5419 It’s a positive because of the lack of effort? I can drive through a mud puddle with nearly no effort too but my car being filthy isn’t a positive just because it was easy for me 😂😂😂 YOU perceive it as a positive because you think it would be a positive for YOU. Your viewpoint is completely self centered which is probably why it’s harder for you to connect with partners.
Man love the podcast. . . But funded by P&G 🤮
I'm curious is the majority of this channel women or men?
By the comments I think it’s split pretty evenly
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