Exactly. I’ll admit that kind of interaction would make me uncomfortable. However, if there is a genuine sense of trust between us, then I know that anything will happen.
@@a-bootiful-mind6648 I agree. For sure. I think a lot of it is going to depend on the individual and their present character, as opposed to how they were in the past. But having said that, history can and often does repeat itself.
@@a-bootiful-mind6648 I can empathize with Stephanie on the whole “knowing that you have hooked up with your friends is uncomfortable” issue. How she handled it was really inappropriate. She also could have done without saying that she came there with a motive. Even if there was good intentions behind what she meant.
He was full on flirting , cuddling and saying i love you , and I love you more than that! And saying they will always have history and chemistry ffs! I would of been weirded out from the start as his and erikas body language was so weird and off. It was right for her to just ask an honest question about it, what was wrong with that?? And her saying she has never been best friends with someone she kept hooking up with , I’m sorry but I feel that Erika also needs to make her understand what it is , not just go quiet , get angry, then walk off 🤷🏻♀️ she can’t say she needs to accept her past BUT not discuss it at all, it’s weird.
It sucks that you had to announce that you don't like Stephanie just so that people don't make assumptions and attack you. When in reality both of them have flaws but everyone seems to brush over Erika's flaws and defend her no matter what even though Stephanie speaks a lot of truth
Stephanie is not insecure. She is right. Trying to figure out what's happening and asking the question to Erika. U can't just MINGEL and ZINGLE with everyone while being in a relationship. There r some RULES.
@@ElloFantasy OPEN RELATIONSHIP. BULL SHIT. EASY WAY TO CHEAT. loyalty is the fundamental rule of any relation ship. U r not on a window shoping Speer man.
@S.J. K there are rules, they're just different from relationship to relationship, be it no cheating, be it seeing other people too or the rule could even be that there are no rules
I disagree. There aren’t any RULES. But there are boundaries. You don’t know what those boundaries are until they’re discussed / talked about. I think Stephanie is in the right, but saying there are “rules” is incorrect. It’s always about establishing communication, and letting your partner know what makes you feel uncomfortable or insecure, and it’s up to both people involved to come to an agreement. That’s what makes good relationships healthy.
if my girlfriend slept with her best friends i would feel weird about that as well? stephanie is definitely not insecure, just uncomfortable about the fact that her girlfriend has slept with her friends.
She’s only kissed him, I’ve slept with some of my male friends and kissed majority of them. Some have girlfriends and I’m friends with those girls because it didn’t mean anything. Maybe it’s the difference between cultures, cuz Australia is a different culture and most people I know have kissed the boys we know.
guy rose yea, it’s okay if you do that!! not judging. i’m just saying it’s completely okay if steph was uncomfortable by it. i feel like erica just overreacted a little bit.
Annisa Sharif Erika said she only kissed him a couple times, I mean there’s games like spin the bottle, A/B that have made me make out with my friends, or we’ve been super drunk and just hooked up (that means kiss in Australia). But you’re very unlikely to find a friendship group in Australia that doesn’t have multiple people who have hooked up or slept with each other.
guy rose i’m not from australia so i guess that’s why? i’m from england and i haven’t really seen many people kissing their best friends. some do but i have personally never heard anyone i know do that so that’s probably why? thank you for explaining respectfully! i really appreciate it.
@@guyrose2350 that's not normal in Australia lol. maybe in some groups but it's not common. it would be the same anywhere in the world, some people are comfortable getting physical with their friends and others aren't. i'm disgusted by the thought of hooking up with a friend.
@@cheatincheese-sticknowjust412 They stated that Erika had definitely been sexual with several of the women there at the very least, dude also never corrected her about "hooking up" and it certainly didn't sound like they'd only made out.
@@cheatincheese-sticknowjust412she’s hooked up with everyone in the party at some point, like not judging Erika it’s her life at the end of the day but to just act casual about it with her gf and to keep bringing it up as a joke it’s pretty fucked tbh
Please. Steph thinks she has this amazing introspective view on every little detail and then Erika literally says a sentence and puts her in her place. Steph is broken.
They're both toxic af lets be fair. Erika - typical edgy girl tryna be different and a unicorn bc she's so special, she isn't like everyone else, she's wild and free and everything she does is fine bc that's her vibe & Stephanie -her fragile victimhood she exudes in every situation so it's okay for her to explode on other people, bc she'll cry about it afterwards. So basically 16 year old girls trapped in adult bodies. Both need to grow the fuck up, and definitely not be together.
Exactly thank you, it annoys me to see Stephanie getting attacked when she's literally one of the only people I've seen on this show who is actually trying to hold a proper functional conversation. But Erika gets all moody and storms off every time
How about it’s not the time or place for it? Stephanie is a grown woman who needs to know how to take a person aside or know it should be saved for another day. Nobody wants to have this type of conversation in front of everybody. It’s childish.
Garnet97 she was asking questions bc she wanted to understand and get to know the situations that Erika likes to be in. I think it was the right time bc she wouldn’t get to know this “new thing” at home.
Erika acts like a child. She has no care for how her girlfriend feels, and gets defensive when she tries to have an adult conversation with her. Maybe shes not mature enough to be in a relationship.
@@mytube6538 yesss she is sooo toxic, its pathetic how she always plays the victim when she puts steph in situations like this. Steph is not the bad guy she makes her seem to be.
Hell even I'm glaslit. I'm watching all of Erika's friends say her actions are okay & I really thought Steph was overreacting until I read the comments section.
Stephanie shows her body for money but won’t accept that her Gf has exes that she’s still friends with. I think they both have lifestyles that don’t mess well
@Hdewy I wouldn't necessarily say that Erika's wrong, Steph and her obviously grew in very different ways hence why they view this situation differently. Erika grew up in a small town, everyone knows everyone, it would make sense if they'd encountered a situation where friends have been inmate. Steph is not used to this hence why she is uncomfortable. Neither are wrong nor right, they simply both view the situation very different.
I encourage you to watch a few of Stephanie's TH-cam videos and compare that persona to the one that you saw on the show. She's either phony on TH-cam or phony on TV. Or both. 👎
Steph even said what's on social media isn't really the type of person she really is. Erika took her to that boob art thing and Stephanie's said it made her feel uncomfortable 🙄 May be not be the ideal first date for some people, but Erika is that type of person who loves the unordinary
tbh I 100% agree with Stephanie with this one...I would feel very very uncomfortable if my partner brought me to a party where there were people he had previously hooked up with
i dont even think its the hooking up. i feel like thats fine but that guy was totally all over her and she couldnt tell him to f off because her gf was there. thats just weird
I can see why she feels like a monster)): she was just trying to get answers not look like a bad person...her intentions didn’t come from a bad place...she seen how her gf is getting hugged and kissed by this dude who’s supposedly her “friend” yet they’ve hooked up. Plus this dude said “there has always been a connection and they’re will always be” like dude what?!?!? It seems like HES the jealous one..!? Ugh 😩
I don't like Erika. Why on earth would you bring your potential partner to meet friends who u slept with? Of course ur friends would not be supportive .. your potential partner will be taking away their main lay from them. Come on, it's obvious! Those people are not friends and Erika is just kidding herself
@@yoneels ‘clearly you dont come from a small town’ um, small town girl here, it still would run this way, and stephanie was not rude for asking a simple question. erika was the rude and toxic one in this situation, she blew up at poor stephanie for having very clear insecurities about her gf getting drunk at a party full of her ex’s while that guy, whatshisface, kissed up on her. If my bf were to have that sort of interaction with one of his ex’s, i would break up with him on the spot. Erikas lucky stephanie didnt take that route. Also, ‘when shes clearly straight’ assuming someones sexuality aint it either hunny.
@@eggyolks3274 ms. girl you only represent YOUR small town, NOT the others. Just because your small town dynamic isn’t similar to another small town’s doesn’t mean I’m incorrect. No she was not rude to ask questions, but she failed to see Erika’s POV. Erika should’ve let Stephanie know more details of the relationships within their small town so she could have a better understanding, absolutely. Stephanie had been presenting jealousy and trust issues from the get go instead of actually listening to Erika. Stephanie is NOT the innocent one. Also since you think I’m “assuming she’s straight” I’m literally in the LGBTQIA+ Community, I clearly know the difference between someone queer baiting for clout&someone who genuine with their sexuality. There’s been multiple videos exposing that Stephanie has been faking bisexuality for fame do your research:)
It upsets me how she thinks it’s perfectly fine to have her ex be all over her and expect her girlfriend to be like “haha okay😌”. I think it’s disrespectful to be all over someone’s girlfriends when you have a sexual past and respect how that person feels. If she isn’t comfortable with a boy who has a past with his girlfriend touching her then he should respect it. And they all act like it’s nothing.
I deadass wouldn’t be able to go into a room full of my boyfriends exes. That’s so uncomfortable and not respectful. Why would I want to hangout and see everyone he’s hooked up with, that’s so uncomfortable
She’s a trooper. The insecurity/anxiety i would get from walking into that room knowing there’s people my significant other has hooked up with would be through the roof!
okaaaaayyyy, now i really dunno is it just me or is it really awkward when you bring your girlfriend to a party where you've hooked up with many of your friends that are literly there and..... hugging?! like, i'm not against hugging.... but with some who you slept with? like, seariously?! do you even take your relationship seariously?
I had a friend like that, he knew I am a LESBIAN and no interest in him, knew I have a girlfriend and a dont see him more than a friend, says he understands and that he doesnt even like me, but whenever we hang out he was all over me touchy hugging me but in a romantic way and I told him im not comfortable with this. And after 4 years of getting sick of " i dont like you dont worry" but touching me and saying I was HIS HAPPINESS. I cut him off. I simply said to get over and be happy with his life, to find someone for him and let me be happy with my girlfriend because we fought becuase of him. Thats what Erika should have done because she is clearly not comfortable with him touching her. And he clearly likes her in that way and its gross really
@HappyBaker Steph is straight, she doesn't want to be intimate or romantic with Erika. Edit: Steph is only with Erika to be on the show and chase clout
@HappyBaker It might be worth you looking into their relationship then. Look at steph's youtube channel. She's either being 100% fake on there or 100% fake on the show, you pick.
I think it's extremely important being upfront with your partner. Having past relations amongst your friends I'm not sure is the norm? There's nothing wrong with it if that's what you and your friends are comfortable with and can move on from it. But I've never been with someone who's done that and I've never had relations with my friends and then continued being friends with them. Any past relationships I've had are in the past, I don't feel the need to continue on with a past flame in my life, friends or otherwise. On the other hand, I think Stephanie should have stood her ground and decided that it wouldn't be appropriate for her to be at a party with her GFS friends when she had been arguing all week about said friends. Yet she is still entitled to feeling weird about the situation and Erica needs to realize what she does is not something everyone does. There's nothing wrong with it but it's just odd. I would not feel good being in Stephanie's position, I would not feel like I'm being considered or respected because I have never experienced that type of friendship with anyone.
Being uncomfortable when you're s/o tells you they have slept with people they are still in close contact with is normal and okay. Yelling to your s/o in front of their friends is not. Talk privately, see if your boundaries match and if not, move on. People are different, point blank period.
This guy telling her "you need to be okay with this" and "you have to respect that" is getting on my nerves. She's trying to figure out where y'all stand on the platonic frienship scale and then she will decide what she is okay with and what she can respect. They're treating her like her question is crazy or offensive. Which to me, highlights exactly why it needs to be asked.
y'all arguing in the comments about whom is right in this situation and the answer is... neither! they don't have clear enough communication and haven't talked enough they DON'T EVEN KNOW EACH OTHER ENOUGH TO KNOW EACH OTHER'S BOUNDARIES AND YEA!! lmao
By the two minute mark I was annoyed. Erica’s behavior comes off as incredibly disrespectful. Who takes their betrothed into a room filled with exes (and possibly even current lovers) and then carries on so?! It’s appalling.
Like I understand her. If my partner had slept his friends in the past I would feel super uncomfortable about it. It’s kinda gross. Erika obviously has lack of respect and doesn’t understand how Stephanie feels. She doesn’t have issues, in fact if I were her I’d feel the exact same way.
The way Erika starts talking and acting at 3:58 shows that she can't handle confrontation, she just shuts down and I agree with Stephanie's frustration towards that. It is odd to ask your partner to emote and be more open but you shut down whenever they want to emote any emotion other than the nice ones you want.
She wouldn’t get that upset about her asking any questions to her friend that she hooked up with “Unless” she doesn’t want her to know she is hiding something more! Why get upset and say ask away about anything! Then she flipped it to make it seem like it was Steph fault! Yeah that’s weird!!
Oh yeah let me just go to a party with my girlfriend and be like:"hey that's Thomas my best friend I hooked up with him and even that dude there yeah oh who? Ahh that Angelica my ex girlfriend" dude tf?
Stefanie doesn’t have trust/jealousy issues when she tells her gf and her gf’s best friend that she doesn’t feel comfortable with them being touchy/flirty around herself thats called honesty and if Stefanie's gf has a problem w/that, she might better try an open relationship or no relationship at all
I’m here 4 years later, and I’m so happy to see that other people don’t like Erika either. I remember watching this season as it aired, and everyone hated on Stephanie for everything, but I personally found Erika super skeezy in several ways.
Age gap Love She voiced her needs to Erika but Erika obviously didn’t care to take them into consideration. So why would Steph wanna be intimate with Erika???
@@agegaplove927 not THAT quick..that hadn't known each other long enough for her to be that upset about that shes going on about. Seems like you get irritated too quick.
The show blew this out of proportion. Erika confirmed that at this party she had kissed one person. She wasn’t in a room full of erikas ex’s just one guy she kissed while drunk.
Bro i dont blame either of the girls.The real problem is Adam “me and steph always had and always will have chemistry “BRO WTF SHE HAS A GIRLFRIEND ASWELL OF HOW TOUCHY HE IS AND ERIKA NEEDS TO GROW A PAIR AND SAY SHIT BOUT IT CUZ ADAM NEEDS TO BACK TF OFF.
Erika lives in a remote outback town called Port Augusta, the entire population is 13,000 people. If she has a group of 12 friends, it wouldn't be unusual to kiss one of them and stay friends as it's such a small town. Nobody gets to eject exes from a friendship circle when things don't pan out, it shows maturity that they have a civil relationship.
But she has every right to be uncomfortable, has nothing to do with insecurities or jealousy, was just a deflection on Erika's part and victim blaming.
That guy is absolutely into Erika and the worst part is that probably he was hitting on her to show Steph she's from him or something, He even smiled when Erika and Steph argued. Erika and her friends are very immature and toxic, they seem like these college kids who were getting drunk and high because they didn't care about school and thought that was cool, something like this kind of people that are grown ass adults but still act like high schoolers
I'm so glad everyone in the comments understands Steph, I thought I was being crazy but honestly her gf put her in such an uncomfortable position making her an outsider and then playing the victim. Steph deserves better
"Erika and I have always had chemistry and we probably always will" - theres your answer steph lmao
Or he’s just a creep and Erika doesn’t feel the same way.
right 😢
Exactly. I’ll admit that kind of interaction would make me uncomfortable. However, if there is a genuine sense of trust between us, then I know that anything will happen.
@@a-bootiful-mind6648 I agree. For sure. I think a lot of it is going to depend on the individual and their present character, as opposed to how they were in the past. But having said that, history can and often does repeat itself.
@@a-bootiful-mind6648 I can empathize with Stephanie on the whole “knowing that you have hooked up with your friends is uncomfortable” issue. How she handled it was really inappropriate. She also could have done without saying that she came there with a motive. Even if there was good intentions behind what she meant.
Dude, imagine walking into a room full of your girlfriend's exes.
exactly everyone’s saying that stephanie’s immature but i’d feel bad. i’d be comparing myself to my partners ex’s if i were in a room of them
what a nightmare!
ForDaZS one of them is and the others she’s just hooked up with which doesn’t make it any less awkward
Man that’s rough and all the people she been with
@ForDaZS lol, did you watch the video?😂
The dude likes her lol just doesn’t or can’t admit it lol
She seems so nice. She deserves someone like Adam
damn i feel like he flat out did admit it though! "we've always had chemistry and always will...", yikes.
He thinks he's too good looking for her lol
no man will make friendship with hot girls. he only wants to have a good sex and thats it
He was full on flirting , cuddling and saying i love you , and I love you more than that! And saying they will always have history and chemistry ffs! I would of been weirded out from the start as his and erikas body language was so weird and off. It was right for her to just ask an honest question about it, what was wrong with that?? And her saying she has never been best friends with someone she kept hooking up with , I’m sorry but I feel that Erika also needs to make her understand what it is , not just go quiet , get angry, then walk off 🤷🏻♀️ she can’t say she needs to accept her past BUT not discuss it at all, it’s weird.
Having to be with your new partner in a room full of people she slept with is definitely awkward why would she expect that to be ok?!
Exactly like that’s disgusting
I understand there’s needs to be trust in a relationship but I would feel uncomfortable.
mAyBe YoU aRe JuSt InSeCuRe
@@bulidrians2182 lmao
right
Lemme introduce you to my 12 friends, they're all my ex's as well. Wait, why do you seem uncomfortable?
how dare you try and ease your discomfort by chatting with one of them!
They aren't her exes tho?
And not only that but her and her friends are also all extremely cringey and think that they and their "lifestyle" is cool
Nice!...yay
@@larav2534 no...they r...
I don't like Stephanie... but in this situation, Erika was in the wrong. Massively.
Yup
It sucks that you had to announce that you don't like Stephanie just so that people don't make assumptions and attack you. When in reality both of them have flaws but everyone seems to brush over Erika's flaws and defend her no matter what even though Stephanie speaks a lot of truth
Gold Rose what makes you think she would cheat? I’ve seen no indication of that at all
I don’t know anything about this couple. Can you go into detail as to why you don’t like Stephanie?
I agree
Stephanie is not insecure. She is right. Trying to figure out what's happening and asking the question to Erika. U can't just MINGEL and ZINGLE with everyone while being in a relationship. There r some RULES.
@S.J. K Yes u r right for someone like U RULES r like opinions. Hope U also experience the same than U will understand the opinion better. YO👍
@S.J. K No there are rules in relationships, there's such a thing as "cheating". There are open relationships and there are closed relationships.
@@ElloFantasy OPEN RELATIONSHIP. BULL SHIT. EASY WAY TO CHEAT. loyalty is the fundamental rule of any relation ship. U r not on a window shoping Speer man.
@S.J. K there are rules, they're just different from relationship to relationship, be it no cheating, be it seeing other people too or the rule could even be that there are no rules
I disagree. There aren’t any RULES. But there are boundaries. You don’t know what those boundaries are until they’re discussed / talked about. I think Stephanie is in the right, but saying there are “rules” is incorrect. It’s always about establishing communication, and letting your partner know what makes you feel uncomfortable or insecure, and it’s up to both people involved to come to an agreement. That’s what makes good relationships healthy.
Erika: brings Stephanie to a party with a bunch of her ex’s
Stephanie: fells uncomfortable
Erika: surprise pikachu face
Lmao
Only one of them was her actual ex tho lol🤷♀️
Brings her to a party with her friends........Thats it
It was a party with friends lol so she slept with 1 not like it was ongoing dah you gotta be frigid if you cant be friends with an ex lol
what is uncomfortable about it dummy
she doesn’t have jealously issues she’s right
Yeah her friends were acting like Stephanie was crazy . If my girl was doing that with guys , I would have freaked out way more than her
if my girlfriend slept with her best friends i would feel weird about that as well? stephanie is definitely not insecure, just uncomfortable about the fact that her girlfriend has slept with her friends.
She’s only kissed him, I’ve slept with some of my male friends and kissed majority of them. Some have girlfriends and I’m friends with those girls because it didn’t mean anything. Maybe it’s the difference between cultures, cuz Australia is a different culture and most people I know have kissed the boys we know.
guy rose yea, it’s okay if you do that!! not judging. i’m just saying it’s completely okay if steph was uncomfortable by it. i feel like erica just overreacted a little bit.
Annisa Sharif Erika said she only kissed him a couple times, I mean there’s games like spin the bottle, A/B that have made me make out with my friends, or we’ve been super drunk and just hooked up (that means kiss in Australia). But you’re very unlikely to find a friendship group in Australia that doesn’t have multiple people who have hooked up or slept with each other.
guy rose i’m not from australia so i guess that’s why? i’m from england and i haven’t really seen many people kissing their best friends. some do but i have personally never heard anyone i know do that so that’s probably why? thank you for explaining respectfully! i really appreciate it.
@@guyrose2350 that's not normal in Australia lol. maybe in some groups but it's not common. it would be the same anywhere in the world, some people are comfortable getting physical with their friends and others aren't. i'm disgusted by the thought of hooking up with a friend.
"I slept with all of my friends, here they are. what, you don't like it?" I'd have a problem with all of that, too.
She made out with like one of them. Stephanie is overreactive over a person she isn't even attracted to.
@@cheatincheese-sticknowjust412 They stated that Erika had definitely been sexual with several of the women there at the very least, dude also never corrected her about "hooking up" and it certainly didn't sound like they'd only made out.
@@cheatincheese-sticknowjust412 actually she has hooked up with SEVERAL of her friends and had sex. Gross. She’s the pass around girl
@@cheatincheese-sticknowjust412 and the man that she made out with, started hugging and kissing her face and is her best friend who she's around.
@@cheatincheese-sticknowjust412she’s hooked up with everyone in the party at some point, like not judging Erika it’s her life at the end of the day but to just act casual about it with her gf and to keep bringing it up as a joke it’s pretty fucked tbh
Erika makes this difficult and then blames Steph. Toxic
Please. Steph thinks she has this amazing introspective view on every little detail and then Erika literally says a sentence and puts her in her place.
Steph is broken.
Dyl3mma _ this is literally the the first episode I’ve watched sooooo who the toxic one in the relationship?
Hugs the puppy in the picture🥰💚🥰💛🥰💙💛🥰💚🥰💙🥰💛
They're both toxic af lets be fair. Erika - typical edgy girl tryna be different and a unicorn bc she's so special, she isn't like everyone else, she's wild and free and everything she does is fine bc that's her vibe & Stephanie -her fragile victimhood she exudes in every situation so it's okay for her to explode on other people, bc she'll cry about it afterwards. So basically 16 year old girls trapped in adult bodies. Both need to grow the fuck up, and definitely not be together.
Erika has been toxic the whole time I can’t stand her at all. And then she never says sorry.
The fact that Erika is so defensive is a bit suspicious tbh
Erika is totally toxic bruh,, Stephanie literally asked a question & all of erika’s friends are being so toxic and rude
Exactly thank you, it annoys me to see Stephanie getting attacked when she's literally one of the only people I've seen on this show who is actually trying to hold a proper functional conversation. But Erika gets all moody and storms off every time
How about it’s not the time or place for it? Stephanie is a grown woman who needs to know how to take a person aside or know it should be saved for another day. Nobody wants to have this type of conversation in front of everybody. It’s childish.
Garnet97 she was asking questions bc she wanted to understand and get to know the situations that Erika likes to be in. I think it was the right time bc she wouldn’t get to know this “new thing” at home.
Garnet97 It’s the perfect time and place considering Erika wanted to bring her new gf to a party filled with either ex’s or people she slept with.
yah..and they r sayings tephanie is jealous..shes just voiced her concerns and asked Adam what she needed 2 know.
I wouldn't like to be at a party where my soon to be has had sexual relations with almost everyone!! Don't blame you girl!
I have to admit though, props to Erika for atleast telling Stephanie about it. It would've been much more disastrous if Steph found out on her own
Erika acts like a child. She has no care for how her girlfriend feels, and gets defensive when she tries to have an adult conversation with her. Maybe shes not mature enough to be in a relationship.
True
Erika is the ultimate gaslighter. Also, when introducing your new girlfriend to your mates probably DON’T go wild and hit beer bongs? Who does that.
yeah and definetly not talk about making out with your friends...
Erika is so toxic
@@mytube6538 yesss she is sooo toxic, its pathetic how she always plays the victim when she puts steph in situations like this. Steph is not the bad guy she makes her seem to be.
@@natajaa1909 steph is an utter clown
Hell even I'm glaslit. I'm watching all of Erika's friends say her actions are okay & I really thought Steph was overreacting until I read the comments section.
I would feel so uncomfortable in stephanie’s situation like omfg
Stephanie run away ...Erika has a different lifestyle.
Stephanie shows her body for money but won’t accept that her Gf has exes that she’s still friends with. I think they both have lifestyles that don’t mess well
the shade of it all
I honestly think they were such mismatched people. Neither was really in the wrong they were both just immature and mismatched.
Completely agree
@Hdewy I wouldn't necessarily say that Erika's wrong, Steph and her obviously grew in very different ways hence why they view this situation differently. Erika grew up in a small town, everyone knows everyone, it would make sense if they'd encountered a situation where friends have been inmate. Steph is not used to this hence why she is uncomfortable. Neither are wrong nor right, they simply both view the situation very different.
That dude obviously likes her
they can’t call it the “past” when he says they find hooking up with friends normal and say they’ll always have chemistry
I don't know but I somewhere get a vibe that they are a fake couple or are being fake towards each other.
they are broken up since some time anywyas QWQ
I encourage you to watch a few of Stephanie's TH-cam videos and compare that persona to the one that you saw on the show. She's either phony on TH-cam or phony on TV. Or both. 👎
this whole show is fake
Steph even said what's on social media isn't really the type of person she really is. Erika took her to that boob art thing and Stephanie's said it made her feel uncomfortable 🙄
May be not be the ideal first date for some people, but Erika is that type of person who loves the unordinary
@@meditativeliving but teaches you a lesson lol
tbh I 100% agree with Stephanie with this one...I would feel very very uncomfortable if my partner brought me to a party where there were people he had previously hooked up with
i dont even think its the hooking up. i feel like thats fine but that guy was totally all over her and she couldnt tell him to f off because her gf was there. thats just weird
I can see why she feels like a monster)): she was just trying to get answers not look like a bad person...her intentions didn’t come from a bad place...she seen how her gf is getting hugged and kissed by this dude who’s supposedly her “friend” yet they’ve hooked up. Plus this dude said “there has always been a connection and they’re will always be” like dude what?!?!? It seems like HES the jealous one..!? Ugh 😩
Her girlfriend gaslit her with the whole, Don't say you never screamed at me." and storm off.
Yeah and he even kissed her and went "I love love you" and held her nobody is gonna be 100% calm about that
@@MmmKayHuuNay yes she did Erika is horrible
THE GLARE. THE WHOLE STARE SHE GAVE ERICA WHEN SHE HIT THE BEER BONG. THE FRICKIN SHADE
Erika is insane if she didn't think questions should be asked!!! Run Stephanie and run fast!!!
She belongs to da’ streets.
She belong to the gameeeee *troy ave voice*
@@user-nv3sh5jh3p What future said about 69s Baby momma
I don't like Erika. Why on earth would you bring your potential partner to meet friends who u slept with? Of course ur friends would not be supportive .. your potential partner will be taking away their main lay from them. Come on, it's obvious! Those people are not friends and Erika is just kidding herself
@@yoneels ‘clearly you dont come from a small town’ um, small town girl here, it still would run this way, and stephanie was not rude for asking a simple question. erika was the rude and toxic one in this situation, she blew up at poor stephanie for having very clear insecurities about her gf getting drunk at a party full of her ex’s while that guy, whatshisface, kissed up on her. If my bf were to have that sort of interaction with one of his ex’s, i would break up with him on the spot. Erikas lucky stephanie didnt take that route.
Also, ‘when shes clearly straight’ assuming someones sexuality aint it either hunny.
@Ashley uh no. This is farther from the truth.
@Ashley clearly you’ve never lived in a small town where everyone’s been in a relationship together😂
@@eggyolks3274 ms. girl you only represent YOUR small town, NOT the others. Just because your small town dynamic isn’t similar to another small town’s doesn’t mean I’m incorrect. No she was not rude to ask questions, but she failed to see Erika’s POV. Erika should’ve let Stephanie know more details of the relationships within their small town so she could have a better understanding, absolutely. Stephanie had been presenting jealousy and trust issues from the get go instead of actually listening to Erika. Stephanie is NOT the innocent one. Also since you think I’m “assuming she’s straight” I’m literally in the LGBTQIA+ Community, I clearly know the difference between someone queer baiting for clout&someone who genuine with their sexuality. There’s been multiple videos exposing that Stephanie has been faking bisexuality for fame do your research:)
It upsets me how she thinks it’s perfectly fine to have her ex be all over her and expect her girlfriend to be like “haha okay😌”. I think it’s disrespectful to be all over someone’s girlfriends when you have a sexual past and respect how that person feels. If she isn’t comfortable with a boy who has a past with his girlfriend touching her then he should respect it. And they all act like it’s nothing.
Well apparently everyone at the party was an ex of hers, so this is probably their normal.
Long story short: Erika is toxic and Steph just needs to runnnnn.
well said
hmmh not sure about that
They're just crazy incompatible.
K a g e y a m a
Steph is just as toxic
This is no different than when Tom took Darcy to party with his ex girlfriend. It’s awkward!
Kind of like Jovi taking yara to a strip club, awful
Not girlfriend. They just dated and never become a couple.
I deadass wouldn’t be able to go into a room full of my boyfriends exes. That’s so uncomfortable and not respectful. Why would I want to hangout and see everyone he’s hooked up with, that’s so uncomfortable
She’s a trooper. The insecurity/anxiety i would get from walking into that room knowing there’s people my significant other has hooked up with would be through the roof!
okaaaaayyyy, now i really dunno is it just me or is it really awkward when you bring your girlfriend to a party where you've hooked up with many of your friends that are literly there and..... hugging?! like, i'm not against hugging.... but with some who you slept with? like, seariously?! do you even take your relationship seariously?
Yeah and the whispering and comments of I love you, but I love you more than that though, and that they will always have chemistry and stuff too!
How awkward would u be if ur Stephanie 😂
I had a friend like that, he knew I am a LESBIAN and no interest in him, knew I have a girlfriend and a dont see him more than a friend, says he understands and that he doesnt even like me, but whenever we hang out he was all over me touchy hugging me but in a romantic way and I told him im not comfortable with this. And after 4 years of getting sick of " i dont like you dont worry" but touching me and saying I was HIS HAPPINESS. I cut him off. I simply said to get over and be happy with his life, to find someone for him and let me be happy with my girlfriend because we fought becuase of him. Thats what Erika should have done because she is clearly not comfortable with him touching her. And he clearly likes her in that way and its gross really
But the man still like her ...
They're both bi lol
@@tdh6666 that means nothing, respect people and their choices
@@bee1913 How is your comment relevant
So Steph is in the wrong for being uncomfortable surrounded by people Erika has hooked up with? ._. Very weird!!!
that’s so toxic like if my bf took my to a party with all the friends he’s slept with... i can’t even imagine a situation where that would be ok
Stephanie has every right to be upset
I love how they're just drinking with no music💀
Right like what type of party has no music
I kinda like that idea tbh, can't stand screaming over each other. Maybe they would start the music later or it's just a hang-out/gathering.
@@nijah4524 ikr so fuckng boring
Probably because of copyright reasons with the show being filmed
Kinda hard to be in a lesbian relationship...when one isnt gay
@HappyBaker Steph is straight, she doesn't want to be intimate or romantic with Erika. Edit: Steph is only with Erika to be on the show and chase clout
@HappyBaker It might be worth you looking into their relationship then. Look at steph's youtube channel. She's either being 100% fake on there or 100% fake on the show, you pick.
@Junaid Iqbal She deadass admits to being straight/bicurious, not bisexual, she's literally only using the label for clout. Sincerely: an ace-bi.
Nope. Two lesbians can be together. One lesbian and one bisexual can be together. Two bisexuals can be together. It doesn’t matter
@@meganweipers2101 too bad stephanie is straight as an arrow.
I think it's extremely important being upfront with your partner. Having past relations amongst your friends I'm not sure is the norm? There's nothing wrong with it if that's what you and your friends are comfortable with and can move on from it. But I've never been with someone who's done that and I've never had relations with my friends and then continued being friends with them. Any past relationships I've had are in the past, I don't feel the need to continue on with a past flame in my life, friends or otherwise.
On the other hand, I think Stephanie should have stood her ground and decided that it wouldn't be appropriate for her to be at a party with her GFS friends when she had been arguing all week about said friends. Yet she is still entitled to feeling weird about the situation and Erica needs to realize what she does is not something everyone does. There's nothing wrong with it but it's just odd. I would not feel good being in Stephanie's position, I would not feel like I'm being considered or respected because I have never experienced that type of friendship with anyone.
Being uncomfortable when you're s/o tells you they have slept with people they are still in close contact with is normal and okay. Yelling to your s/o in front of their friends is not. Talk privately, see if your boundaries match and if not, move on. People are different, point blank period.
Idk it really looks uncomfy if I was Steph
Weird friends. My best friend is a woman and if I'm with her and her date i don't show any overt affection towards her. No reason to introduce drama.
Bro. No offense but her almost hooking up with all her friends in her group is Disturbing. She is Jackie from the 70 show
I don't think they have the same understanding of intimacy in general
This guy telling her "you need to be okay with this" and "you have to respect that" is getting on my nerves.
She's trying to figure out where y'all stand on the platonic frienship scale and then she will decide what she is okay with and what she can respect.
They're treating her like her question is crazy or offensive. Which to me, highlights exactly why it needs to be asked.
They all dead ass seem like they hook up w eachother 😂 so thats why they think its normal and “she’s dramatic “
We are getting actual footage of an introvert/extrovert relationship.
Saying “we will always have chemistry” not cool. This couple is not good together imo.
Like OMG... Erika is messing around with everyone. Including Moe with the gimpy leg from home alone when snakes was talking.
Oh...I thought she was with the dude. Lol
😂😂😂
Been kissing everyone baby. Keep the change you filthy animal
She was SMOOCHING WITH EVERYBODY! Now get on your knees and tell me you love me....
y'all arguing in the comments about whom is right in this situation and the answer is...
neither!
they don't have clear enough communication and haven't talked enough they DON'T EVEN KNOW EACH OTHER ENOUGH TO KNOW EACH OTHER'S BOUNDARIES AND YEA!!
lmao
Imagine walking into a room with your girlfriend and finding out she's been intimate with like everyone there..
By the two minute mark I was annoyed. Erica’s behavior comes off as incredibly disrespectful. Who takes their betrothed into a room filled with exes (and possibly even current lovers) and then carries on so?! It’s appalling.
I love how Stephane cry’s without shedding a single tear
I wouldn’t describe this as insecurity or jealousy. She is having a mature, upfront conversation because she’s been put in an uncomfortable position.
Like I understand her. If my partner had slept his friends in the past I would feel super uncomfortable about it. It’s kinda gross. Erika obviously has lack of respect and doesn’t understand how Stephanie feels. She doesn’t have issues, in fact if I were her I’d feel the exact same way.
imagine being in a room with all of your s/o friends with benefits and they call you “jealous” and “immature” for being uncomfortable around them
Stephanie is a beautiful girl, she should date someone who actually cares about her feelings.
The way Erika starts talking and acting at 3:58 shows that she can't handle confrontation, she just shuts down and I agree with Stephanie's frustration towards that. It is odd to ask your partner to emote and be more open but you shut down whenever they want to emote any emotion other than the nice ones you want.
I agree with Steph on this but wow what a messed up couple
messed up couple? The only messed up person is Erika.....You're toxic as hell if you can't see that lol
She isn’t not taking the past for what it is. She’s asking questions to get some clarity
You can see how uncomfortable Erika is when Adam keeps going to hug her and clinging to her
Anyone else have such second hand embarrassment 😬
Yea
Me, I’d be embarrassed inviting people I’ve been intimate with let alone bringing a current partner with those people
She wouldn’t get that upset about her asking any questions to her friend that she hooked up with “Unless” she doesn’t want her to know she is hiding something more! Why get upset and say ask away about anything! Then she flipped it to make it seem like it was Steph fault! Yeah that’s weird!!
Oh yeah let me just go to a party with my girlfriend and be like:"hey that's Thomas my best friend I hooked up with him and even that dude there yeah oh who? Ahh that Angelica my ex girlfriend" dude tf?
I am 😂 at Erika's earrings that say "fūckboy repellent"
Stephanie needs to ditch this Kelly Osborne wannabe 🙄
That party looks dry there’s just a bunch of people drinking Like we’re is the music and dancing 🤔
The most boring party ever, just trying to look cool drinking like teenagers and they are grown ass people
Stefanie doesn’t have trust/jealousy issues when she tells her gf and her gf’s best friend that she doesn’t feel comfortable with them being touchy/flirty around herself thats called honesty and if Stefanie's gf has a problem w/that, she might better try an open relationship or no relationship at all
i’m with steph on this one and i think erika knew there would be a strong chance steph would react this way
I would’ve left the party
This is so awkward omg. I would be so uncomfortable if I was Steph
Woah...I thought only guys did stupid stuff like this. Gay, straight, bi, inconsiderate is inconsiderate.
exactly. welp, i guess everyone has a bad side.
Erika is so defensive about Steph feeling insecure about her kissing her friends. A lot of this is a maturity issue in my opinion.
Everyone needs a friend like Heather ❤
I’m here 4 years later, and I’m so happy to see that other people don’t like Erika either. I remember watching this season as it aired, and everyone hated on Stephanie for everything, but I personally found Erika super skeezy in several ways.
How many times did Steph say
That makes me feel uncomfortable?
I want to go home?
Oh and bring up her illness?
Age gap Love She voiced her needs to Erika but Erika obviously didn’t care to take them into consideration. So why would Steph wanna be intimate with Erika???
@@aylas2353 But even if you knew a person's whole medical history. Wouldn't you get tired of the person brining it all the time?
@@agegaplove927 not THAT quick..that hadn't known each other long enough for her to be that upset about that shes going on about. Seems like you get irritated too quick.
Your point?
What is her illness?
The show blew this out of proportion. Erika confirmed that at this party she had kissed one person. She wasn’t in a room full of erikas ex’s just one guy she kissed while drunk.
She not jealous...
These two just aren’t a good fit. And it’s neither of their faults. They just don’t mesh well.
I get her being uncomfortable and asking questions......getting loud and throwing a tantrum isnt the move. Youre entitled tofeel how you feel though.
Bro i dont blame either of the girls.The real problem is Adam “me and steph always had and always will have chemistry “BRO WTF SHE HAS A GIRLFRIEND ASWELL OF HOW TOUCHY HE IS AND ERIKA NEEDS TO GROW A PAIR AND SAY SHIT BOUT IT CUZ ADAM NEEDS TO BACK TF OFF.
it almost seems that hes trying not to laugh lol
Please tell me they broke up, this is so toxic.
Adam at 1:35 😳 CRINGY
The entire party looks so cringy 🤢
Don't get with someone that disclosed all that info and has that lifestyle and then act blindsided.
Erika lives in a remote outback town called Port Augusta, the entire population is 13,000 people. If she has a group of 12 friends, it wouldn't be unusual to kiss one of them and stay friends as it's such a small town. Nobody gets to eject exes from a friendship circle when things don't pan out, it shows maturity that they have a civil relationship.
You can’t blame her for being “jealous.” ‘Friends’ shouldn’t really do that and her gf should undstand what’s going on and not just yell at her.
Stephanie is honestly so out of her league, she’s beautiful
Bro she’s not wrong at all that’s friendship group is tapped - so weird I don’t get friend groups that sleep with each other -
I want a friend like Heather
HA!
Nothing kills a relationship faster than jealousy and insecurity 👌🏼
But she has every right to be uncomfortable, has nothing to do with insecurities or jealousy, was just a deflection on Erika's part and victim blaming.
have you ever heard of respect?
Stephanie come back to the states and find a more conservative caring woman. I promise they exist. You don’t need that type of drama. Dueces ✌️
That guy is absolutely into Erika and the worst part is that probably he was hitting on her to show Steph she's from him or something, He even smiled when Erika and Steph argued. Erika and her friends are very immature and toxic, they seem like these college kids who were getting drunk and high because they didn't care about school and thought that was cool, something like this kind of people that are grown ass adults but still act like high schoolers
I'm so glad everyone in the comments understands Steph, I thought I was being crazy but honestly her gf put her in such an uncomfortable position making her an outsider and then playing the victim. Steph deserves better
@ 00:34...you can hear somebody in the background say "awkward moment" 😂😂😂😂😂