ASMR~ You Are the Problem

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  • @lightasmr9225
    @lightasmr9225 ปีที่แล้ว +1230

    Standing at 3am in front of a mirror be like:

    • @sjidodhf
      @sjidodhf ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ms but it's 4am

    • @meeppmorpp
      @meeppmorpp ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sjidodhfsleep

    • @gabriela6041
      @gabriela6041 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sjidodhf5am

    • @sammypants4721
      @sammypants4721 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@gabriela60416am

    • @tinalyzhen
      @tinalyzhen ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sammypants4721 14am

  • @zainabfaizieva205
    @zainabfaizieva205 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    This was a free therapy I never knew I needed at 2 am

  • @dlwlrmae
    @dlwlrmae ปีที่แล้ว +62

    “Do you have any interests outside of being liked?” Ouch. She really got me with that one.

  • @fourj_s
    @fourj_s ปีที่แล้ว +203

    couldn't even sleep cause this was the best therapy session I've had

    • @pwuuh
      @pwuuh ปีที่แล้ว +9

      righttt omg this gave me tingles but also had me reevaluating my life

  • @Ambanoid
    @Ambanoid ปีที่แล้ว +289

    She says the darndest things while making the darndest facial expressions. Love her for that.

    • @cdme4595
      @cdme4595 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Darndest💀💀💀

    • @mischievousscroundel7277
      @mischievousscroundel7277 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I love that youtube is suggesting translating your comment to english for me, which makes your comment so much funnier

    • @TheGlitchedDoge
      @TheGlitchedDoge ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Define "darndest" for me please

    • @catchthemallpokemon3745
      @catchthemallpokemon3745 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TheGlitchedDogeSouthern for "weird" (my best guess)

    • @ImJugg
      @ImJugg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@catchthemallpokemon3745 southern? impossible

  • @_Phara0h_404
    @_Phara0h_404 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Can you do more videos like this? It feels like an audio book that’s giving advice but also adding subtle humor so you don’t feel too bad. Made me smile and I needed it.

  • @kitkat4275
    @kitkat4275 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Honestly, while it ofc, IS a role play, it's also great advice for (imo) those of us going through struggles and/or depression to try and get our lives together, very much, change around what doesn't work and fake it til u make it, I love it

    • @ElectricChaplain
      @ElectricChaplain ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I hope everyone can find friends with her level of insight in their own lives.

  • @joelicottrell1266
    @joelicottrell1266 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I feel like I’m getting told major life lessons in these videos aside from ASMR. Like not only can I watch these for sleep but watch them as a recent graduate who’s still very unsure what I’m gonna be doing in the next 4 years (I watch these videos a lot during the day…)

    • @joelicottrell1266
      @joelicottrell1266 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even in the satirical role plays, I enjoy attempting to listen and learn lol

  • @schizo_rugpull
    @schizo_rugpull ปีที่แล้ว +38

    every day I wake up and ask myself "What can I do today to make sure that I am in fact, the problem?" If I am not the problem I will have brought shame and dishonor to my bloodline.

  • @paolosardi9734
    @paolosardi9734 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Please do more of these. This literally healed me, you give great advice.

  • @calgacus34
    @calgacus34 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I always appreciate your content for being thought provoking, interesting and occasionally hilarious. Always love to see the upload notifications. Thank you for making such incredible stuff.

  • @drisoubouzoubaa
    @drisoubouzoubaa ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Avoiding responsability, chasing dopamine, being lucid and delusional at the same time, having difficulties to stay grounded because of a chaotic mind, even this perfect description of my love life
    I feel like she is talking to me directly, and I wonder to what extent she described herself aswell
    I never felt like I was the "target" of a youtube video even though i lost so many days watching
    I was always observing something smart, something shitty, somethint fun, something dumb
    I always had the feeling i knew to which kind of groups corresponded a specific kind of "content"
    But I've never listened, during all these years, someone who spoke to me
    Thank you

    • @CalliAMusic
      @CalliAMusic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

    • @Nappyyyyy
      @Nappyyyyy ปีที่แล้ว

      Took the words right out my mouth

    • @Tom_Corvus5
      @Tom_Corvus5 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @drisoubouzoubaa *crappy

    • @Tom_Corvus5
      @Tom_Corvus5 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Nappyyyyy♪tag, you're it♪

  • @MeredithAnne88
    @MeredithAnne88 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I started exercising again a couple of weeks ago. Despite the soreness, I'm proud that I'm taking charge of this.

    • @_omri_
      @_omri_ ปีที่แล้ว

      im proud of you :) 👏👏

    • @laneatkinson6441
      @laneatkinson6441 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm happy for you! I really need to exercise too. Getting started is the hardest part 😫

    • @CedanyTheAlaskan
      @CedanyTheAlaskan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So proud of you!

  • @MegaKronny
    @MegaKronny ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are my favorite unhinged therapist

  • @GeoBiddy
    @GeoBiddy ปีที่แล้ว +8

    the "if your depressed.... walking." took me OUT, thank you for that laugh :,)

  • @lightasmr9225
    @lightasmr9225 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I am bowing to your creativity Miss Angelica 🙇‍♀

  • @toadleyasmr
    @toadleyasmr ปีที่แล้ว +6

    honestly pleaseee do this again. just a 21 minute video helped me reflect on like all aspects of my life

  • @charlie-gb7tj
    @charlie-gb7tj ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “have you ever considered that you’re the problem” yes many times actually 😆😆😆

  • @deliriouscheeto
    @deliriouscheeto ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congrats on 666k followers!!! Truly a milestone to remember

  • @Slow_snail
    @Slow_snail ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You always have the best outfits I swear- everything always goes together with the backgrounds and the persona of the video. Thanks for the mildly passive aggressive but calming life tips!

  • @cjmmoseley
    @cjmmoseley ปีที่แล้ว +6

    angelica, ive been watching you for 4 years now, and idk if your cross or mustard seed necklaces are new, but i just noticed them tonight and i wanted you to know how happy they made me! i love it when people are just casually expressing their faith online and its so comforting to see one of my favorite creators use just that. you gave amazing advice in this video along with that, and i just wanted you to know how inspiring you are to your followers.

  • @supportURgranny
    @supportURgranny ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's us, hi, we're the problem, it's us!

  • @dominiquejones2629
    @dominiquejones2629 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “You love yourself” … “that’s code for no” 😂😂😂

  • @sckmylightsaber
    @sckmylightsaber ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Always on point, i've just said goodbye to a "friend" for these exact reasons

  • @nighteegoblingtyime5197
    @nighteegoblingtyime5197 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I did not expect to be mentally stripped naked like a plucked chicken in the corner of this Burger King tonight

  • @generalkaboom6642
    @generalkaboom6642 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    POV: Your therapist is 100% honest

  • @ankitha50
    @ankitha50 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2:00 - hitting it off hard
    2:50 - !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    4:00
    4:43 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🚨🚨🚨
    5:30 - routine
    6:25 - isolation
    6:45
    9:05 - self check
    10:00 - engaging with ppl (the right way)
    11:10 - mom
    12:25 - relationship with self
    13:35 ^cont..
    14:45 - tidbit abt dopamine
    15:00 - overall routine
    15:48 - real
    16:15 anger (17:45)
    18:20 !!! (your whole life)
    19:20 - when you feel like it's not worth it

  • @fixit_feidhlim
    @fixit_feidhlim 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    same energy my therapist had when diagnosing me with three different personality disorders in the same session

  • @jennag8544
    @jennag8544 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As taylor swift said, “I’m the problem, it’s me”

  • @96xoxo64
    @96xoxo64 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Okay this is so thought provoking I have to rewatch this tomorrow when I am awake

  • @mazikeenxo
    @mazikeenxo ปีที่แล้ว

    Best therapist ever can’t wait for our next appointment very helpful thank you 🙏

  • @franzhaas5597
    @franzhaas5597 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The last two episodes have just been beautiful we love you angelica.

  • @Kn1feShift
    @Kn1feShift ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Happy 666k subscribers, Angelica! And thank you for the surprisingly pinpoint accurate therapy.

  • @kaitlyncollette
    @kaitlyncollette ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I actually really needed this today 😢 thx❤

  • @solarslunar
    @solarslunar ปีที่แล้ว +4

    love the new intro,, “your actions are always your own 😮” !!!

  • @anders.sweden
    @anders.sweden ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the best kind of ASMR! I'm so tired of everyone whispering, soft or normal voice is perfect 👌🌷

  • @aikatamagoes
    @aikatamagoes ปีที่แล้ว +9

    this hits me hard 😢 idk if i should be crying or laugh

  • @jaymike3302
    @jaymike3302 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was really really good. Relaxing. But it takes talent to keep it going like that.

  • @what_color_is_the_rainbow
    @what_color_is_the_rainbow ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for this video, i really needed to hear all of this, i never realised how predictable i am nor how much of a jerk ive become over the years. im depressed and delusional and have isolated myself and you were right when you said that when youre depressed you dont know how to get out of the mess youve created and so far everyone ive seen talking on the matter just do it so vaguely and dont give any advice and you just feel even more lost and useless after listening to them or they speak very black and white ish and in extremes and give a lot of excuses and try to just comfort you about it which i know is with good intentions but its not so helpful. honestly i legit gotted down the advice bc i honestly have no idea what steps to do to improve myself. it makes me feel better that people relate to this and i really hope this time i wont just do the numerous empty attempt to go and change everything.

  • @ill_think_abt_it_maybe_xo_4922
    @ill_think_abt_it_maybe_xo_4922 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lowkey going through a depression and this helped motivate me to do something so thanks :)

  • @thedremob6560
    @thedremob6560 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is free therapy i never thought i needed at 4am

  • @slimothyjames2304
    @slimothyjames2304 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I never knew that what I needed was to just be brutally called out lmaoooooo
    Thanks Angelica, this was super helpful

  • @foureyedfreak
    @foureyedfreak ปีที่แล้ว +4

    the title got me chuckling, thanks

  • @imogenadams4699
    @imogenadams4699 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    'have you ever considered that you are the problem'
    'uuuuum maybe?'

  • @backedup39
    @backedup39 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Another brilliantly unique ASMR from.a brilliantly unique creator.

  • @daisyjaneasmr
    @daisyjaneasmr ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i’m gonna rewatch this while i do my makeup tmrw and hope that it fixes me

  • @Thefinnland_therealone_
    @Thefinnland_therealone_ ปีที่แล้ว +8

    “Have you ever considered that you are the problem?” Yes, I have, actually

  • @CutiePatootieScaramoochie
    @CutiePatootieScaramoochie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video was unironically helpful thx

  • @thatenbyartist517
    @thatenbyartist517 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love the new intro!

  • @Blockboy7mWV
    @Blockboy7mWV 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The way you assessed how my lifes going without knowing me is wicked, thanks for the therapy

  • @pisssarah
    @pisssarah ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this is your best one omfg

  • @Isabelle_195
    @Isabelle_195 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is what I need my therapist to do to me, not just listen and ask me how it makes ME feel.

  • @fauxwit6535
    @fauxwit6535 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She would be such a good energy to meditate with

  • @markierterkommentar7455
    @markierterkommentar7455 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    4:17 got me rethinking my whole life

  • @senpai_brendon1317
    @senpai_brendon1317 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    why did you read me to sleep… i can’t tell if this was the universe telling me to take accountability and deal with my problems or just a cute silly video 😭

  • @shoesmel
    @shoesmel 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    this woman is of a societal importance

  • @campow4
    @campow4 ปีที่แล้ว

    “I would say if you’re depressed-walking.” Shes so real for that

  • @zionjones1339
    @zionjones1339 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Maybe I’m the problem

  • @tomjpearson5475
    @tomjpearson5475 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this today ❤

  • @AdamnobbyEden
    @AdamnobbyEden ปีที่แล้ว +7

    *Absolutely* my dear _Angelica_......you nailed it !.....I am the problem.
    The challenge is solve this *problem* !
    You'll get a fuzzy-wuzzy-loyal-friend. ✌🏽

    • @ElectricChaplain
      @ElectricChaplain ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pets are great for company and giving you a little responsibility to take care of them.

  • @alienboy4670
    @alienboy4670 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Angelica knows me so well. She's so good 😁👍

  • @lifaen
    @lifaen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I listened to this few times, cus it gives me little ASMR (i have high tingle immunity, unfortunately) but the message in this...wow.
    I still don't know if I'm too uncomfortable with being alone or too comfortable. I never had much friends, now almost all my friends are online friends. I am comfortable to go to café, shopping or even going to cinema alone, but I am chronically online, always checking if my friends on discord wrote something.
    Today I felt that I might be too influenced by my group of friends, feeling shitty from a little bit of disagreement with me.
    I'm too addicted to the internet to spend a day alone. I could do it, but in a day when I have enough energy etc.

  • @RichardPS_
    @RichardPS_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Turns out most people don't realize they're the problem until someone points it out. That's when others find out their character.

  • @hailietallant1241
    @hailietallant1241 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the way this is my therapy rn

  • @CalliAMusic
    @CalliAMusic ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thewizardliz vibes, loving this new side Angelica is showing hehe

  • @Gowhipsnakes555
    @Gowhipsnakes555 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The start had me crying 😂😂😂

  • @burcuvasdfg596
    @burcuvasdfg596 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    why did it helped and mottivated me better than seassions of therapy 😅😅 angelica love, you better give us weekly sessions

  • @Miguelle100
    @Miguelle100 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this so much

  • @avielp
    @avielp ปีที่แล้ว

    All of this speaks to me and of me

  • @Supernova-lc2yf
    @Supernova-lc2yf 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    10:36 Girlie turned on ROBOT MODE

  • @KazieD
    @KazieD 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My free therapy session 😢 we need a part 2 urgently

  • @jordanjmdjmd74
    @jordanjmdjmd74 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I knew it 😢

  • @huelads740
    @huelads740 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is actually really good advice. Idk why so many people have a problem with this.

  • @atishjaiswal9531
    @atishjaiswal9531 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This video is paradoxical, she's making you fall asleep but saying things which is why you need help in falling asleep in the first place

  • @spawnofabtch6076
    @spawnofabtch6076 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This felt like Wallace Wells talking to Scott Pilgrim at 3:AM on their shared floor mattress

  • @VickyDPi
    @VickyDPi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you Angelica. Congrats on 666k subscribers. Well deserved!! And yes, yes I am the problem.

  • @BunnyDudette.
    @BunnyDudette. ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “It’s me, hi. I’m the problem, that’s me.”

  • @Dylan-kb7gw
    @Dylan-kb7gw ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing video❤️

  • @specialluna8885
    @specialluna8885 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Metade desse vídeo foi um socão na consciência, mas esses conselhos são muito bons 💀

  • @sweetkarma1345
    @sweetkarma1345 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this

  • @PopChanx
    @PopChanx ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video, it's truly very helpful. However, I am wondering how did you do your hair like that... It looks so practical :')

  • @isadoragascho9276
    @isadoragascho9276 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Did you major in psychology or is this a subject you take particular interest in and study on the side?
    As someone who is also really fascinated with psychology, I hope you put out more videos like this! Very refreshing.

  • @LostStarChaser
    @LostStarChaser ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats on 666k subscribers!!

  • @amberlybonilla3234
    @amberlybonilla3234 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is better than therapy

  • @spare_me_my_life
    @spare_me_my_life ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Angelica really makes the most relatable videos on earth

  • @hanniefaerie2984
    @hanniefaerie2984 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I came here expecting to laugh and got told off and I’m kinda glad I did bc this is great advice omg how did u know…

  • @jaymike3302
    @jaymike3302 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with your assessments.

  • @noahalbert2073
    @noahalbert2073 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Does cleaning count as exercise
    Yes Or No

  • @laneatkinson6441
    @laneatkinson6441 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    *TAKES NOTES* 📝📝📝 This is extremely helpful and relevant to my current circumstances 💖

  • @Michael-gm5zz
    @Michael-gm5zz ปีที่แล้ว

    this is not a good time for this, i’m going through it but also, this is so needed, i need to be put back in place

  • @czaweenuh
    @czaweenuh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Have you ever considered you're the problem?"
    Good question, Angelica. 😂

  • @MicheeMon
    @MicheeMon ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😮 I think I need another session

  • @kekemumu4702
    @kekemumu4702 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's 3:16 and I thought it would be fun to watch a Angelica video for you know... Shits and giggles and sleep... But wtf now I'm here spooked and with a new existencial crises 😅😅😅 I loved it tho, I do like some self reflection ❤

  • @purpleunicorn87
    @purpleunicorn87 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How dare you make me feel this stuff at 4:30am

    • @purpleunicorn87
      @purpleunicorn87 ปีที่แล้ว

      [As if it wasn't fully my choice to keep watching]

  • @absolutegarbage3654
    @absolutegarbage3654 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the new intro

  • @liambull9361
    @liambull9361 ปีที่แล้ว

    i’ve got to know who/what inspired this it was still really helpful but wow

  • @selfmade0545
    @selfmade0545 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your heaven sent ❤

  • @jaymike3302
    @jaymike3302 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As for movies...I KNEW The Flash would bomb (even while the media was saying it's the best ever). And I enjoyed it bombing. Because I'm rooting for Aquaman...and the media saying it stinks is a great sign.

  • @abimariposa2842
    @abimariposa2842 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She's asking some serious questions as I'm here running away from responsibility to study for the finals 2 days later 💀

    • @SKayy_28
      @SKayy_28 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!!!

  • @Gillespie4real
    @Gillespie4real ปีที่แล้ว

    Appreciate you Angelica!