I once got talking to an English speaking Thai lady in the Bank and when we were leaving she said "I'll see you later" which she was using as a form of goodbye. I immediately responded by asking how that would be possible in such a big city and she laughed and offered me her phone number. We ended up spending a lot of time together after that.
The reason I mentioned this one is that there was no pay involved. What brought it to an end is finding out that she was married to another Farang. I guess he was the one paying.
@@stevenoliver7120 so technically you payed by investing time and energy / effort, while risking to catch a disease… this whole time everything was a lie even if the other guy payed for it… guess that’s not something fun to remember, perhaps you’re romanticising it to much ;)
I have been to Thailand 7 times, and I love it. I watch a lot of youtube channels that focus on Thailand. As I write this, I am only half way through the video, and I think this could be one of the best Thai interviews that I have seen! Even the big channels like RWFY have not made a interview video this good! I hope you can keep finding guests this good. I love music and I really like the Thai pop music scene. I would love it if you could interview some Thai music artists.
Thanks for the fun, light-hearted, informative interview session. The ladies are kind, lovely, friendly, easy-going, and they have good hearts. Liked & subscribed!
Both ladies are wise and knowledgeable about everyday life. Genuine, which is nice to see. I`m surprise Darin is going to Germany. Europe is in serious economic decline and sliding into recession.
Everything is possible here but some things are rare. For example, 27 years ago my wife and I eloped and told our parents after the fact, so no Sin Sot. She was 23 and I was 43. I had already been living here for 20 years, spoke the language and had good life in Bangkok. We have successfully cobbled together an interesting hybrid life and we are very happy with but is not completely Thai or Farang. The point is, each couple is unique and if you are truly in love you can write your own script with a little knowledge, understanding and good communication skills.
Really enjoyed this interview mate. Nice to see two lovely and educated Thai girls talk about dating culture, and beating the stereotypes! Well done mate. My dream is to find a Thai woman just like Darin, infectious energy, educated and beautiful. I better book a flight to BKK! Would love to see more videos like this. Keep up the good work.
Another great informative video, especially with the thai girls being decent girls and saying ehat they thought with questions. Was funny, though, when she remembered shat you said when meeting. It gave me a chuckle. For you guys, too. Yes, great content, another great informative vid for guys coming over. I'm usually a 7 month trip type and need to be special girl to get me as not 1 night stands even when in my city uk. They guys should learn not play easy too, the girls then see that as a challenge. But nice girls you pick them well for this topic. Being going to Thailand 15+ years but even your channel, you learn new things keep it up..
Hey from Maine .. I was on Natalia’s live this morning and I told her to go on your pod cast !! It’ll grow both your channels so reach out to her again , let’s make this interview HAPPEN!
Darin is really Beautiful n Has an amazing personality + Her Style is really nice, This is just another reason to head back to BKK - Much Love from Canada 🇨🇦
I thought your podcast was real. I think the girl hating on Thai women is just bitter because her life plan isn’t working out. Your guests were very honest and educated. Both carried themselves professionally. Keep doing great podcasts. Well done Eric.
There are so many more reasons to go to Thailand than just for the beautiful women. Thinking that all foreign men go to Thailand just for the women is like thinking that people go to the movie theater just for the popcorn. Sure, it's there, and it's nice, but it isn't the main event. Not by far.
I was in Bangkok/Phuket in 2019. I came back to CA and met a Thai woman in her early 40’s on Match. She’s very attractive and she gets a lot of attention. We dated for 4 months. I had to break up our relationship because I felt she was too aggressive about pursing love and marriage. Our relationship had me wondering if she had a husband back home. Knowing what I know today, she was very loyal to me but I was cynical about her true intentions.
@@TheBodiesInTheWaterBeckons Yes, Indians in SEA also follow that most of the time. Believe Indians are like the only exception where brides have to pay for the Dowry but nonetheless a Dowry still exists
ofc they're from Isan, lol. And did the girl on the left say he name is Bonus...ha - love how they pick their non-Thai names.. nice podcast, randomly ran into this channel and it's nice to hear from the other side, thanks all for sharing,
Thanks for watching 🙏 I was actually surprised they were from Isaan, I just didn’t get that vibe from them. And btw they tend not to choose their own nick-names, their parents do.
Actually my nickname is Bonus. This name was given to me by my parents because I was their first child and it was like a bonus to them and you probably aren't wondering why my name isn't in Isan. Thank you for watching.
Having resided in Thailand for 14 years and having formed friendships with many individuals in relationships with Thai partners, I've reached a conclusion. Do Thai women prefer foreigners over Thais? As a whole, the answer is NO. Given the choice between a Thai or foreign partner of equal status, attractiveness, education, and wealth, they would almost always opt for the Thai. From my encounters with thousands of Thai women dating foreign men, a common pattern emerges. Most of these women are: Dark-skinned from Isaan Have short, stubby noses Often single mothers Have a high number of past relationships or have been involved in the sex industry at some point. While this isn't representative of everyone, it's the case for the majority. As you can see, these individuals rank lower in the Thai dating pool. High-quality Thai men typically prefer light-skinned partners with more defined features, who are educated and come from respectable families far removed from the sex industry. Women in this lower category of the dating pool may only attract a motorbike taxi driver or someone of similar social status or wealth. They observe that foreigners do not discriminate based on skin color when seeking a partner, and many overlook their background or past involvement in the sex industry. Therefore, they target foreigners because Thai men want nothing to do with them.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ Hey, Think I posted it on a couple videos relating to this topic. I was interested to hear if others who have lived in Thailand or locals came to the same conclusion.
My opinion on it is this- What you said may have been true in the past but it is certainly not like that now - at least in a general sense. Many Thai women successful or not, white skin or dark skin, prefer foreigners over Thai men. And there are also Thai women who prefer Thai men over foreigners for one reason or another. I agree that Thai men (and asian men in general) have a certain "ideal" of what is most attractive, and that is different than what typical westerners like. I would also say that many foreign men would prefer a different "look" overall. So, all things being equal, do Thai women prefer foreigners? I think it depends on a lot of factors, but it's not as simple as the "leftovers" going to the foreigners.
You make some good points and I agree there has been a shift recently, but still overall Thai women would prefer to date a Thai due to cultural and language reasons. This is the same for most nationalities; generally, people date within their own culture. It is still true that the majority of Thai women who are actively searching for a Farang partner are single moms soured by a previous bad Thai relationship or involved in the sex industry. I do get your point that not everyone is like this but just statistically its the majority(I have no data, just my experience after 12 years here, living in multiple provinces). I also agree that there are some Thais who want a foreign partner not because they have access to higher value men in the foreign dating pool but because of their interest in international/Western culture or because they want a partner with more of a feminist/progressive view on relationships and don't want a more traditional male-led Traditional gender-role relationship. This is especially true for women with high-status jobs; in this case, they don't want the traditional gender-role type relationship that Thai men generally prefer.@@OneNightinBangkok_
I think it's hard to build a relationship without speaking Thai or Issan, even though the other person is an English speaker. Language shapes the way we are thinking. Cultural differences, however exciting, are an important part of any relationship. I fell in love with this country a long time ago. Speaking Thai was a real game changer. I'm always surprised to see so many foreigners not making the effort to speak the language....
I loved this interview Eric and ladies. By the way, the dating and bringing a friend along is very normal in Thailand. That's how I met my wife. She was the friend that came along. And thank you for mentioning the fraudster Natalija. She always claims to bring so much value, but I have yet to see any.
Sinsod is like a dowry. Happens a lot in Asian culture. Now I know who to look for when I come to Bangkok and want to get to know normal local Thai girls 😂 Great video and cheers
Great video and very informative of what to expect the next time there. Do you use local talent when filming and editing? I am planning to do some videos there on my next trip?
@@OneNightinBangkok_Hats off, you definitely do a good job with the filming and editing. Is there a local platform you can recommend where I can source some local talent for filming and editing? Looking for quality but want to be cost-effective.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ Thanks. Enjoying the content. Keep it up. Not sure if you already did this video but would be curious to see interview of the challenges of finding and dating normal local Thai Women from the perspective of a foreigner living in Thailand for several years.
I don't think it's a problem complimenting someone and it's nice that they respond whereas in the West girls tend to turn their noses up when you are just trying to be nice. Girls in Thailand are happy to respond with a smile to a greeting or a compliment.
I am Hmong, and my ex husband had to pay sin sod and we are both from the US, my mom told me that the husband family pays to show the wife's family that they will love and care for the daughter, the guy in the background is correct!
You have never heard of a dowry? In other countries it is the other way around, the bride;s family gives money to the Husbands family. Very common in Asia and Middle East, years ago was very common in Europe.
i look at it like, If a person pays for something they appreciate it more, if they decide to play with the womans heart and just get her pregnant and leave, they have already paid the child support and financial support ahead of time since there is no child support etc in Thailand, it is also less likely that you get married and then want to divorce the next month if you paid a hefty amount of money to get married.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ Honestly I think I got very lucky. My wife is Thai but she studied for several years in Germany. We met for a night of fun but have now been together close to 8 years. But as far as any tips, choose a pretty one, because at least the memories will be good 🤣
200k isn't enough for a foreigner. 500k up but probably at least 1 million. Had this discussion a few times. (Sometimes they just want the money for the ceremony to show off and you can keep some or half of it after the wedding. Just keep your eyes on the plate with the money on it.)
The topic of Natalija is crazy. She sounds bitter, arrogant, and jealous. The attitude she has towards foreign men and Thai women is the reason why she is still single and men leave their home country to seek nicer (kinder) more pleasant women. This is one of the reasons why I plan to move there. All the best!
23:25 how much its depend on the family so normally people will marry to the same place in the society so if they are very rich it can be 100 million with ton of gold or it can be 100,000 or sometime nothing (some people rent the money) so some prople will thing that their parents sell their daughter maybr its like that 200 years ago but now its more like to prove your commitment to their daughter that you can take care of her
Give Darin some time to master her English, and she will be sharing more insightful info about how the things are going on in Thailand from Thai women's perspective! a few years later have her as a guest again, mate! thanks.
Nobody exchanges numbers in Thailand. And I actually think that her offering her Line ID is more often a thing they do if they are not interested. Because they will just immediately block you.
To the host's friend Dan who's a newbie in Thailand, he definitely has no idea what he's talking about. What "security deposit" is he talking about ?? What about the guy's "security deposit" in return ?? I've known lots of good normal ladies whom are not married because of their greedy parents demand of crazy amount of "sin-sod" although their daughter loves his man very much, and it happens to both Thai men and foreigners alike. And their daughters choose to be single until their parents demise, and then they will look for a partner to look after each other as they already age obvoiusly. All these greeds are created by a vicious cycle which, had to be start eroding in these times. Pity to those ladies who truly loves their future partners, but unable to satisfy their parents thirst of money and face.
That was ummmm- intriguing (not in a bad way, just interesting how little they know about Western preferences for S.E. Asian or East Asian women, white Western girls, and that expat women don't accept their friendship when they offer it
Those Thai girls are educated and speak English. I'd love to hear Natalija Kica speak Thai. That is the misconception Western people have. Yes, Thai people don't sound educated when they speak English but can you imagine how you would sound if you spoke Thai? You have to get out of this Eurocentric mindset to truly understand the context, IMO.
I been dating recently many normal Bangkok office girls and i think they feel fear for farangs. Or hard to trust. They go out for months and dont want kisses or any other physical things, and some even told me to not push and needs to feel comfortable. This is not one girl but many and multiple dates. So i wonder if normal Thai ladies behave like that
yea that's normal because our culture it's like you are a girl you should protect your body don't let the man touch or do something that's inappropriate such as kiss. It's self-preserving. In the past girl can't have sex before marry or if you gonna hold the girl hand need to ask her parents first.
I have it the other way around. I found that Thai women go balls to the walls during dating. They make the moves to go physically quick, try to move in, want a relationship after dating 2/3 weeks.
It's not hard to meet a girl, it's near impossible. Women saying, "just come a talk to us, we are friendly", is not going to work with most people today, we aren't used to it anymore. Plus, it's very intimidating walking up to a group of Ladies, when they are talking Thai with each other, and you don't understand them. It's not easy meeting 'normal' women. The pretty ones are taken, divorced, with Kids or crazy. Good luck. 14 years in Thailand and still single, nothing to do with money or looks, just no suitable "normal" women around. 52 btw. (I was in a relationship for 5 years, Girl was everything the Stereotypes say, sadly, and she didn't come from a bar.) It's a lottery and I don't play the lottery.
Honestly the girl on the right has that so pretty she's probably a ladyboy look so I think some guys would be put off. Also she has an adams apple - which actually means nothing, Megan Fox has a massive one - so some guys will be intimidated. Obviously when she speaks you can tell she isn't. I think anyway 😂 F#ck me Thailand is wild I swear, nothing is what it seems. If my own father visited me after a few months there I'd probably want to check his passport 😂 Bonus seemed lovely but i feel she was left out a bit so maybe have her back on again she seems way cool.
“Sin Sod” the money a man pays for marriage is what we in the West call a dowry. This is common in many parts of the world, including Western countries
Yep I’m aware of what a dowry is. I just didn’t use that word because I used that to describe Sin Sod in a previous video and the comments started complaining 🤷♂️
A marriage dowry (giving money to the bride's family) used to be common in the west. In fact many things about Thai culture used to be common in the west. The woman who posted that anti-Thai video demonstrated exactly why western men are sick of western women.
34:30 With regards to the three categories of men, I'm sure this is exactly the experience she has had. IMO like attracts like and the stable, successful, faithful men clock her straight away and give her a hard pass.
I once got talking to an English speaking Thai lady in the Bank and when we were leaving she said "I'll see you later" which she was using as a form of goodbye. I immediately responded by asking how that would be possible in such a big city and she laughed and offered me her phone number. We ended up spending a lot of time together after that.
how much did you have to pay 555
The reason I mentioned this one is that there was no pay involved. What brought it to an end is finding out that she was married to another Farang. I guess he was the one paying.
@@stevenoliver7120 so technically you payed by investing time and energy / effort, while risking to catch a disease… this whole time everything was a lie even if the other guy payed for it… guess that’s not something fun to remember, perhaps you’re romanticising it to much ;)
Smash?
Yes!! More of this! Let's hear the local girls on the podcast!
Thanks for the feedback
I have been to Thailand 7 times, and I love it. I watch a lot of youtube channels that focus on Thailand. As I write this, I am only half way through the video, and I think this could be one of the best Thai interviews that I have seen! Even the big channels like RWFY have not made a interview video this good! I hope you can keep finding guests this good. I love music and I really like the Thai pop music scene. I would love it if you could interview some Thai music artists.
Love the comment. Thanks for watching.
Thanks for the fun, light-hearted, informative interview session. The ladies are kind, lovely, friendly, easy-going, and they have good hearts. Liked & subscribed!
Thanks for watching 🔥
Both ladies are wise and knowledgeable about everyday life. Genuine, which is nice to see. I`m surprise Darin is going to Germany. Europe is in serious economic decline and sliding into recession.
Thanks for watching
Just spent 2 months in Bangkok, flew home for a week and booked a ticket back...haha you get addicted to it.
Thailand has you now 😂
😂😂😂 I literally just did the same thing 😂😂
Went Thailand 3 years ago first time and said I’ll be back every year until I live there
This was probably one of the best, funniest, clearest interview about thai girls, good one bro 👑
Thanks for checking it out. About to post another one 🙏
Everything is possible here but some things are rare. For example, 27 years ago my wife and I eloped and told our parents after the fact, so no Sin Sot. She was 23 and I was 43. I had already been living here for 20 years, spoke the language and had good life in Bangkok. We have successfully cobbled together an interesting hybrid life and we are very happy with but is not completely Thai or Farang. The point is, each couple is unique and if you are truly in love you can write your own script with a little knowledge, understanding and good communication skills.
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Really enjoyed this interview mate. Nice to see two lovely and educated Thai girls talk about dating culture, and beating the stereotypes! Well done mate. My dream is to find a Thai woman just like Darin, infectious energy, educated and beautiful. I better book a flight to BKK! Would love to see more videos like this. Keep up the good work.
Thanks for the comment and yes, I agree with everything you said 😁
Just found your channel, great interview, I really enjoyed. I am going to Thailand for first time in a couple of days. Really looking forward to it.
Thanks for checking it out! I also suggest watching the one on Bangkok nightlife (episode 2) 👍
How was it!!
Another great informative video, especially with the thai girls being decent girls and saying ehat they thought with questions. Was funny, though, when she remembered shat you said when meeting. It gave me a chuckle. For you guys, too. Yes, great content, another great informative vid for guys coming over. I'm usually a 7 month trip type and need to be special girl to get me as not 1 night stands even when in my city uk. They guys should learn not play easy too, the girls then see that as a challenge. But nice girls you pick them well for this topic. Being going to Thailand 15+ years but even your channel, you learn new things keep it up..
My God, Darin is a stunner!
Lovin your videos. The vibe is so chill while you walk around and when you eat. My man loves his food. 😄
Bonus is incredible! Omg I want to get to know her :)
Great show.
Thank you 😊
I don't wanna insult your friend but you are on another galaxy so hot & cute sametime@@bonus6007
You are a great interviewer. Your questions are subtlety loaded. You would make a good cop.
Hahaha I’m not sure everyone else watch this channel would agree with you but thank you 🤪
Hey from Maine .. I was on Natalia’s live this morning and I told her to go on your pod cast !! It’ll grow both your channels so reach out to her again , let’s make this interview HAPPEN!
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She said she’s interested so maybe reach out ? Even a remote would be awesome
@@DuaneBernier but for how much? will be a free one or paid? :D
Darin is really Beautiful n Has an amazing personality + Her Style is really nice, This is just another reason to head back to BKK - Much Love from Canada 🇨🇦
Agree 🔥
I thought your podcast was real. I think the girl hating on Thai women is just bitter because her life plan isn’t working out. Your guests were very honest and educated. Both carried themselves professionally. Keep doing great podcasts. Well done Eric.
Thanks for watching and thanks for the comment 🙏
You have a great setup for a podcast. Like the guest doesn't have to hold mics, and the lights
Thanks
There are so many more reasons to go to Thailand than just for the beautiful women. Thinking that all foreign men go to Thailand just for the women is like thinking that people go to the movie theater just for the popcorn. Sure, it's there, and it's nice, but it isn't the main event. Not by far.
yes exactly!! but "someone" go to the theater because wanna try popcorn
that kind of guys tend to go to Pattaya. Some to Phuket
I was in Bangkok/Phuket in 2019. I came back to CA and met a Thai woman in her early 40’s on Match. She’s very attractive and she gets a lot of attention. We dated for 4 months. I had to break up our relationship because I felt she was too aggressive about pursing love and marriage. Our relationship had me wondering if she had a husband back home. Knowing what I know today, she was very loyal to me but I was cynical about her true intentions.
yea, the cultural differences can seem strange at first.
Darin makes me want to goto Thailand 🔥🥰
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God bless she's gorgeous! Wifey material for sure!😍
Sin Sod is not just in Thailand, in a lot of Asian cultures, grooms will have to pay a Dowry which is the same as Sin Sod to the bride's family.
Except for India. That's the only country i know of that the rule of Sin Sod is reverse. The girl's the one who has to pay.
@@TheBodiesInTheWaterBeckons Yes, Indians in SEA also follow that most of the time. Believe Indians are like the only exception where brides have to pay for the Dowry but nonetheless a Dowry still exists
@@TheBodiesInTheWaterBeckons because the man is the price normaly
ofc they're from Isan, lol. And did the girl on the left say he name is Bonus...ha - love how they pick their non-Thai names..
nice podcast, randomly ran into this channel and it's nice to hear from the other side, thanks all for sharing,
Thanks for watching 🙏 I was actually surprised they were from Isaan, I just didn’t get that vibe from them. And btw they tend not to choose their own nick-names, their parents do.
Actually my nickname is Bonus. This name was given to me by my parents because I was their first child and it was like a bonus to them and you probably aren't wondering why my name isn't in Isan. Thank you for watching.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ I meant seems like all the beautiful girls here in BKK come from Isan...
@@bonus6007 tbh love the name - thanks for the explanation where you got your nickname, that's great - your bf must be called lucky ;)
Great value to know more about Sin Sod.
thanks for watching
Having resided in Thailand for 14 years and having formed friendships with many individuals in relationships with Thai partners, I've reached a conclusion. Do Thai women prefer foreigners over Thais? As a whole, the answer is NO. Given the choice between a Thai or foreign partner of equal status, attractiveness, education, and wealth, they would almost always opt for the Thai. From my encounters with thousands of Thai women dating foreign men, a common pattern emerges. Most of these women are: Dark-skinned from Isaan Have short, stubby noses Often single mothers Have a high number of past relationships or have been involved in the sex industry at some point. While this isn't representative of everyone, it's the case for the majority. As you can see, these individuals rank lower in the Thai dating pool. High-quality Thai men typically prefer light-skinned partners with more defined features, who are educated and come from respectable families far removed from the sex industry. Women in this lower category of the dating pool may only attract a motorbike taxi driver or someone of similar social status or wealth. They observe that foreigners do not discriminate based on skin color when seeking a partner, and many overlook their background or past involvement in the sex industry. Therefore, they target foreigners because Thai men want nothing to do with them.
No offence intended, but it is the truth, most Thai women who choose to date Farangs do so as they rank low in the Thai dating pool.
Bro do you copy and paste this comment on everyone’s TH-cam channel? Thanks for the dissertation?
@@OneNightinBangkok_ Hey, Think I posted it on a couple videos relating to this topic. I was interested to hear if others who have lived in Thailand or locals came to the same conclusion.
My opinion on it is this-
What you said may have been true in the past but it is certainly not like that now - at least in a general sense. Many Thai women successful or not, white skin or dark skin, prefer foreigners over Thai men. And there are also Thai women who prefer Thai men over foreigners for one reason or another.
I agree that Thai men (and asian men in general) have a certain "ideal" of what is most attractive, and that is different than what typical westerners like.
I would also say that many foreign men would prefer a different "look" overall.
So, all things being equal, do Thai women prefer foreigners? I think it depends on a lot of factors, but it's not as simple as the "leftovers" going to the foreigners.
You make some good points and I agree there has been a shift recently, but still overall Thai women would prefer to date a Thai due to cultural and language reasons. This is the same for most nationalities; generally, people date within their own culture. It is still true that the majority of Thai women who are actively searching for a Farang partner are single moms soured by a previous bad Thai relationship or involved in the sex industry. I do get your point that not everyone is like this but just statistically its the majority(I have no data, just my experience after 12 years here, living in multiple provinces). I also agree that there are some Thais who want a foreign partner not because they have access to higher value men in the foreign dating pool but because of their interest in international/Western culture or because they want a partner with more of a feminist/progressive view on relationships and don't want a more traditional male-led Traditional gender-role relationship. This is especially true for women with high-status jobs; in this case, they don't want the traditional gender-role type relationship that Thai men generally prefer.@@OneNightinBangkok_
Great podcast 👌🏻
I think it's hard to build a relationship without speaking Thai or Issan, even though the other person is an English speaker. Language shapes the way we are thinking. Cultural differences, however exciting, are an important part of any relationship. I fell in love with this country a long time ago. Speaking Thai was a real game changer. I'm always surprised to see so many foreigners not making the effort to speak the language....
Agree. It's always weird to me when I see someone living here for YEARS and they don't even have a basic understanding of the language.
Great video. Lovely girls.
Great interview. Any man would be lucky to meet a lady like these two.
I loved this interview Eric and ladies. By the way, the dating and bringing a friend along is very normal in Thailand. That's how I met my wife. She was the friend that came along.
And thank you for mentioning the fraudster Natalija. She always claims to bring so much value, but I have yet to see any.
Thanks for watching
Sinsod is like a dowry. Happens a lot in Asian culture. Now I know who to look for when I come to Bangkok and want to get to know normal local Thai girls 😂
Great video and cheers
Thanks for checking it out
This video was really good
10 days and I'll be back in thailand... I can't wait!
Enjoy 🙌
Great video and very informative of what to expect the next time there. Do you use local talent when filming and editing? I am planning to do some videos there on my next trip?
I’m the local talent 😂
@@OneNightinBangkok_Hats off, you definitely do a good job with the filming and editing. Is there a local platform you can recommend where I can source some local talent for filming and editing? Looking for quality but want to be cost-effective.
@@MarqueeVitality-mu2se honestly I'm not sure. I don't personally know anyone that offers something like this
@@OneNightinBangkok_ Thanks. Enjoying the content. Keep it up. Not sure if you already did this video but would be curious to see interview of the challenges of finding and dating normal local Thai Women from the perspective of a foreigner living in Thailand for several years.
They are both very funny😂 liked this interview
Thanks for watching
I don't think it's a problem complimenting someone and it's nice that they respond whereas in the West girls tend to turn their noses up when you are just trying to be nice. Girls in Thailand are happy to respond with a smile to a greeting or a compliment.
Swiping right until I match with Darin...😂 ➡️🔥
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I love this podcast. I just discovered it. Great work we need more🎉
Thanks for checking it out
I am Hmong, and my ex husband had to pay sin sod and we are both from the US, my mom told me that the husband family pays to show the wife's family that they will love and care for the daughter, the guy in the background is correct!
The problem with SinSot is that even after that one time payment, the girl is pressured to support the family on an ongoing basis.
If I met Darin... I would have zero interest in meeting other women. She is stunning!
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Enjoyable podcast thanks 👍
Thanks for watching
Vietnamese girls used the term "butterfly" 55 years ago when I was in Vietnam .....lol
Interesting!
Im loving her, you are the best😊
Very funny hopefully you’ll get them on again.
Great interview nice to see some good honesty.
Thanks for watching
Very beautiful women, great sense of humor.
Thanks for watching
Darin looks like a perfect girl ;)
The problem with sinsod is they don't give it back if the woman cheats or leaves
That guy's not lying. Kudos to him. All or nothing baby.
It would be probably interesting to have someone like @TraeBaddTV on your show, he is a black guy in Pattaya who has 3 Thai Girlfriends
i suscribe but please can you let me know if AI jobs and data scientist jobs are in demand in thailand ?
You have never heard of a dowry? In other countries it is the other way around, the bride;s family gives money to the Husbands family. Very common in Asia and Middle East, years ago was very common in Europe.
I've heard about only India 555555
Yep, I’m aware of what a dowry is but for some reason people blew me up in the comments when I used that word in a previous video. Not sure why.
Lol She Does Give Wiched Witch of the West Vibes ( Phuket European Girl )
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Dowries were very common in West too
i look at it like, If a person pays for something they appreciate it more, if they decide to play with the womans heart and just get her pregnant and leave, they have already paid the child support and financial support ahead of time since there is no child support etc in Thailand, it is also less likely that you get married and then want to divorce the next month if you paid a hefty amount of money to get married.
12:32 that Adams apple tho 😅
I met my wife on Tinder in Thailand! It's possible!
Awesome. Any tips?
@@OneNightinBangkok_ Honestly I think I got very lucky. My wife is Thai but she studied for several years in Germany. We met for a night of fun but have now been together close to 8 years. But as far as any tips, choose a pretty one, because at least the memories will be good 🤣
200k isn't enough for a foreigner. 500k up but probably at least 1 million. Had this discussion a few times. (Sometimes they just want the money for the ceremony to show off and you can keep some or half of it after the wedding. Just keep your eyes on the plate with the money on it.)
Hi love your video, is it possible to I clude the sub title also thankssss
Thanks for watching. It’s something I will try to add in the future 🙏
The topic of Natalija is crazy. She sounds bitter, arrogant, and jealous. The attitude she has towards foreign men and Thai women is the reason why she is still single and men leave their home country to seek nicer (kinder) more pleasant women.
This is one of the reasons why I plan to move there.
All the best!
I think you all are referencing the dowry tradition in Thailand. Many countries practice this culturally.
23:25 how much its depend on the family so normally people will marry to the same place in the society so if they are very rich it can be 100 million with ton of gold or it can be 100,000 or sometime nothing (some people rent the money)
so some prople will thing that their parents sell their daughter maybr its like that 200 years ago but now its more like to prove your commitment to their daughter that you can take care of her
Cool girls.. they are down to earth..
Give Darin some time to master her English, and she will be sharing more insightful info about how the things are going on in Thailand from Thai women's perspective! a few years later have her as a guest again, mate! thanks.
Thumbs up 👍 Eric
Thanks 👍
ดาริน you're awesome!
Two beauties, id love to meet them both 😁
Great personalities.
Thanks for watching
Women like Natalia Kica is exactly why Passport Bros exist! LOL
Nailed it.
My uncle recieved 2 million for my cousin. After wedding he gives it back to her to buy a house. Wealthy family's do it for show.
Yes I’ve heard of this! Thanks for the comment
31:00 it's about receiving money 💰 😂
She is a beautiful Thai girl....
Rules are different here lol 🎉
When a girl asks can we exchange Instagrams instead of giving you her number she is politely telling you to eff off and she’s not interested lol
Nobody exchanges numbers in Thailand.
And I actually think that her offering her Line ID is more often a thing they do if they are not interested. Because they will just immediately block you.
I would agree. Either they just want more followers or they will scrutinize your ig and find something they dont like. Waste of time 99% of the time.
To the host's friend Dan who's a newbie in Thailand, he definitely has no idea what he's talking about.
What "security deposit" is he talking about ?? What about the guy's "security deposit" in return ??
I've known lots of good normal ladies whom are not married because of their greedy parents demand of
crazy amount of "sin-sod" although their daughter loves his man very much, and it happens to both Thai men and foreigners alike.
And their daughters choose to be single until their parents demise, and then they will look for a partner to look after each other as they already age obvoiusly.
All these greeds are created by a vicious cycle which, had to be start eroding in these times.
Pity to those ladies who truly loves their future partners, but unable to satisfy their parents thirst of money and face.
That was ummmm- intriguing (not in a bad way, just interesting how little they know about Western preferences for S.E. Asian or East Asian women, white Western girls, and that expat women don't accept their friendship when they offer it
So if it's a deposit is there a refund in cass she leaves or divorcs
Those Thai girls are educated and speak English. I'd love to hear Natalija Kica speak Thai. That is the misconception Western people have. Yes, Thai people don't sound educated when they speak English but can you imagine how you would sound if you spoke Thai? You have to get out of this Eurocentric mindset to truly understand the context, IMO.
sinsod = dowry in English its existed in all cultures I'm sure at some point. we don't ask for it in America anymore though
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Dowry went from the wife's family to the husband though.
I'd say that it's difficult for many Western women everywhere! Because so many of them are oozing salt and vinegar!
I been dating recently many normal Bangkok office girls and i think they feel fear for farangs. Or hard to trust. They go out for months and dont want kisses or any other physical things, and some even told me to not push and needs to feel comfortable. This is not one girl but many and multiple dates. So i wonder if normal Thai ladies behave like that
yea that's normal because our culture it's like you are a girl you should protect your body don't let the man touch or do something that's inappropriate such as kiss. It's self-preserving. In the past girl can't have sex before marry or if you gonna hold the girl hand need to ask her parents first.
I think most Thai women are a lot more conservative than foreigners tend to realize.
I have it the other way around. I found that Thai women go balls to the walls during dating.
They make the moves to go physically quick, try to move in, want a relationship after dating 2/3 weeks.
It's not hard to meet a girl, it's near impossible. Women saying, "just come a talk to us, we are friendly", is not going to work with most people today, we aren't used to it anymore.
Plus, it's very intimidating walking up to a group of Ladies, when they are talking Thai with each other, and you don't understand them. It's not easy meeting 'normal' women. The pretty ones are taken, divorced, with Kids or crazy. Good luck. 14 years in Thailand and still single, nothing to do with money or looks, just no suitable "normal" women around. 52 btw.
(I was in a relationship for 5 years, Girl was everything the Stereotypes say, sadly, and she didn't come from a bar.) It's a lottery and I don't play the lottery.
Honestly the girl on the right has that so pretty she's probably a ladyboy look so I think some guys would be put off. Also she has an adams apple - which actually means nothing, Megan Fox has a massive one - so some guys will be intimidated.
Obviously when she speaks you can tell she isn't.
I think anyway 😂
F#ck me Thailand is wild I swear, nothing is what it seems. If my own father visited me after a few months there I'd probably want to check his passport 😂
Bonus seemed lovely but i feel she was left out a bit so maybe have her back on again she seems way cool.
Yes they are both lovely (and definitely not a ladyboy 😂). I will be sure to have them on again.
hahaha not only you think like that but I understand
Nice Video, But i like all other video too
Thanks for watching
It’s like adopting a dog from the dog owner. The dog owner wants “homing fee” if you want to adopt a dog from the owner.
uh....sure?
So…what’s a problem? If you value the woman that you gonna marry as a dog…so?
Darin is gorgeous
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Farang girl is so upset that men prefer hot young Thai women who treat them well!
Lucky Germany.....
where is the waiting list to sign up to be darin's international bf.. 🤔🤭
I think it’s gonna be a long list 😅
sinsod = dowry, was normal throughout feudal europe too
No, the opposite. Dowry went from the wife's family to the husband.
I haven’t dated a non Asian woman in ten years. It’s just a preference.
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Would be interesting if the interview was done in Thai, some how I think her answers might be different. OH MY GOD
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“Sin Sod” the money a man pays for marriage is what we in the West call a dowry. This is common in many parts of the world, including Western countries
Sounds like you have never heard of a dowry before. Very common in many, many countries. I am sure even in the US at one point.
Yep I’m aware of what a dowry is. I just didn’t use that word because I used that to describe Sin Sod in a previous video and the comments started complaining 🤷♂️
A marriage dowry (giving money to the bride's family) used to be common in the west. In fact many things about Thai culture used to be common in the west. The woman who posted that anti-Thai video demonstrated exactly why western men are sick of western women.
34:30 With regards to the three categories of men, I'm sure this is exactly the experience she has had.
IMO like attracts like and the stable, successful, faithful men clock her straight away and give her a hard pass.
I 100% agree
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If you meet at a bar lol
9/10 it’s just short term casual
You can test that theory and find out for yourself 😂