Man cheat of the whim, even when our girl is perfect. When vvomen cheat they usually thought about it for a while, due to lack of something from her man. So when we do its not personal, when they do its personal most of the time.
@@Alumnikiid personal or not personal, it is still an intended thing not a mistake. The art of self control applies to all of us and for sure if someone lacks something, it should be communicated because at the end of the day, we are responsible for our actions and we need to account for the nonsense we do.
@@lexxbrown2075 Agreed. My statement was pointing out the differences between s*xes. One party has time to process, the other just does it of the whim. Both should be accountable however.
@@Lillie839 You just wanted to comment. I’m a woman sis, there is no fantasy either you are or you aren’t a good woman. You must be the thot posing as a good woman. Blaming your actions on other people instead being accountable for cheating instead of walking away.
This seriously bothers me. Like how can a woman cheat and still be considered a good woman? 🤷🏾♂️ They try to justify every single thing that they discredit men for doing.
@@colinc5531 setting high expectations on a partner does not equate their chance of not ever going to cheat. You can believe the grass is greener theory of believing that a good woman will not cheat if you did your part all you want. Bottom line women are capable of cheating if they are given the opportunity to
Running a stop sign while looking at your phone is a mistake, cheating is sneaking to talk on the phone, meeting up at a spot and hiding it! Ain’t nothing bout that a mistake 😒
You're 100% right. Do you see though how every woman on this panel was attempting to justify cheating by talking about it in reaction to what the man is or is not doing? And then they had the audacity to say "that's accountability".
Bruh they really out here capping for camera when she cheats shes done stop accepting trash people. Good people dont cheat period! She cheats she is automatically a bad person she has no moral or values
It just seems like society has made cheating the norm and people are calling it mistakes... this is for men and women .. completely sad. U can be great to a person and they will still step out ... selfishness
@@stackzdollaz9508 u should leave her. Cheating is wrong bcuz of the psychological damage you do the person u cheat on. It literally hurts them and is just as bad, if not worse than hitting them. Emotional wounds take longer to heal than physical ones. I took a few Ls in fights back in the day, but that heartbreak thru getting cheated on aint no joke.
Y’all wild. All this “maybe they just made a mistake” when a woman cheats. If she cheated, she’s not a good woman. It’s easy. If somethings lacking the in relationship, and they go cheat, she’s not a good woman. Y’all love to take away all accountability.
@@jodyrelle08 men don’t cheat us catching a nut is like taking a piss when a woman does they’re emotionally invested and have been talking to the guy for a while if you don’t want your man to find someone else to pleasure him for the time being then when he ask for sex regardless of wether you feel like it or not give it to him or he’ll find someone else assuming he has multiple options or prostitution it’s nothing to throw 100$ or got to a brothels
@@Xerolyst that is a immature child who only want his selfish desires fulfilled. Love her unconditionally but when she fucks it up , it is fucked up conditionally and she will know it
@@superGJ24 yea that’s delusional if ppl loved unconditionally then those 500 pound land whales would pull more chicks then me since they have a better personality
What makes a “good” person cheat (man or woman) is internal. Stop blaming your short comings on other people. You cheated Bc you’re insecure and thought you were missing out. You cheated Bc you were too afraid to let go of the relationship when the boundaries were broken repeatedly. You cheated because you were too selfish to die to your own flesh desires for your partner. These are honest truths. Stop the cap 🧢. Relationships are a choice. I choose my partner. I choose to be with her every day. And if I no longer choose to be with her then I’ll end my commitment to her and we can both move accordingly with integrity. A “good” Cheater is kind of oxymoronic to an extent. I wouldn’t say a cheater is automatically a bad person; however there’s no justification for what they did. Therefore, cheating is a manifestation or fruit of a bad root. The root of the problem is within not external. Accountability.
I was with Amanda until she suggested its cool to cheat so you know for is the "grass is greener." Nah if you wanna find out if the grass is greener stay single or be an adult be honest about your curiosity and let the other person decide if they can rock with that or if they wanna walk. You give someone you respect that option.
This shows us that the relationship lacks communication, the fact that you'd be annoyed by what your partner does and step out, you never talked about it in a way they would try to reform
I disagree communication is provided its been clear that women in long term relationship/marriage tend naturally drift because of the fact that they want the financial,security and thrill from the outside party due to wanting to have it all. Every 10 years when you are in a relationship/married ? Your partner. Evolve to a different person you won't recognize.
I am a strong believer in the fact that cheating is a selfish act. The same energy you put forth to manipulate and deceive your partner to go behind their back and cheat is the same energy you could have used to communicate that issue better and if not heard to simply leave. I feel that people cheat because they become complacent in their situation and the though of having to remove themselves from a full situation becomes overwhelming and uses cheating as a justifiable outlet when it's not anybody's fault for your own actions.
I am with Oliver. I cheated because I was being neglect…no attention and comfort. He was cheating on me. I went and cheated but afterward it just didn’t feel good at all.
Great conversation! What we don’t talk about is how we are conditioned to sleep around before marriage, then think we can turn it off just because we said “I do.”
YES MA'AM honesty is key when you're honest and they cant adjust that's where the problem comes in EVERY sense if your partner cant accept you for what you want and like and cant compromise or adjust then thats the problem
How about we say people lack true discipline nowadays, and that cheating is not a mistake. It's thought thoroughly, specially on a woman since it takes a lot for a woman to give her guts.
Good women are human too and are sexually attracted to other men it happens its life I believe what needs to be communicated more is can he or she really do this thing called relationship or marriage
Ok, but we all are attracted to other people besides our partner. Yet some of us still don't cheat. Now what? Once again good people don't cheat, they verbalize and communicate.
When I was a cheater, I wasn't a gh00d dude. I was a selfish mf I definitely had some gh00d qualities but cheaters aren't gh00d ppl. That negates the gh00dness of a commitment
I am not a cheater. But I would discuss the issues directly with my spouse. If the needed changes do not occur, I would get a divorce. If my spouse cheated on me one time, I would get a divorce immediately without any further discussion. Cheating is a selfish act proving they do NOT love their spouse. Commitment means NO cheating.
Exactly they will talk to a dude that don't match your finances and success but the fact that he's home and only chill for a living. No substance there
@@hitekanikanibaloyi6922 I witness this from my homeboys who are career driven and great fathers that are married who discover their wife have affairs with men that don't provide any type of that security. Women that are taken love to prove prove prove to convince others but fail to understand that they should be secure of themselves and from there they would of got everything God have provided in their husbands.
I agree with honcho. A good women is not going to cheat she will leave and if you want to say that if they get past it the relationship for the man and the way he looks at her will not be the same ever for him.
Well said Oliver. But also rico good women wont cheat, they protect there pride and wont lower there self and walk away. I'm not gonna belittle myself to hurt someone else
I think good people cheat because of several reasons..1 is they are still attracted to the opposite sex.. that's a given.. just because she's in a relationship doesn't mean other baby aren't attractive.. we all have slept with people that we lust and not love.. let's be real.. another one is 1 man can't offer everything.. he may not have done characteristics this other dude have.. and vice versa.. that's her search for a perfect man because women feel they're partner should be perfect and when he's not she go looking for the missing pieces..
Plausible deniability!!!!!!! But let a man do exactly this and tries to "explain?" why he's still in the wrong. This makes a man think he's darned if he doesn't and darned if he doesn't so why get into a relationship anyways? That's the main reason why men are refusing to date these days.
Why when a woman cheat she is good, this is a play on words. But when men cheat we are not considered good. Sister code here is strong af. You not a good person if your cheating. Hurt people hurt people, so instead of good let’s say hurt/tired woman/man.
Why is it when women cheat, we look for an "external" excuse/reason for it? Somehow, it's always the man's fault when a woman cheats. Cheating is an act of selfishness. Cheating happens when you put your urges and desires ahead of your relationship. It's never the other person's fault.
That’s a false misconception that every person that chooses to cheats is a bad person. Good ppl makes bad decisions every day. Doesn’t mean they are bad ppl, they are human . But one must be held accountable for their actions period!
if she leaves she been planning to leave, now some good girls that isn't planning to leave and just happened to end up in a situation that lead to cheating will stay.
My thing is here that wether A dude cheats or female cheats, If you know for a 100% fact that you are gonna cheat on your partner then you shouldn’t be in a relationship with that person. What’s the point of leading him on/she on If you are going to cheat at the end?🤔 It doesn’t make any sense....
Good woman communicate, try to work it out or as a last resort, leave. There is no in between, cheating is the breaking of a commitment between 2 individuals. Whatever the desires or circumstances may be that lead to it is irrelevant, at the end of the day, what's important is how much your significant other means to you. Whenever you're about to commit an action that you know is wrong, you have to ask yourself if you're willing to still do it knowing full well that it will hurt them just so you can feel better about yourself. If feeling good in the moment is worth more to you than however much history there is in your relationship then stop being selfish and leave. You can't cheat and expect to come back, once a cheater always a cheater.
Why are you'll blaming or saying that the reason for a woman to cheat is that she has to be in a bad place in her relationship or BF or being mistreating... A woman can cheat even if they are in a good healthy relationship. Cheating isn't a mistake or either a side effect of something that was done. cheating is a choice. people make these choices for various reasons. same for men. As the guy in the suit said why if she cheats she isn't a good woman or if she doesn't she is a good woman. - That makes no sense.
Rashann been keep it real. When the man get boring and all women just said it he boring. As soon as he said five different points why she cheats the women reacting shift.
Being a good woman comes being with Understanding, being Forgiving ect & with that can come reciprocity, or it can come with hurt. A good woman is also prepared for the Good Or The Bad & will remain a good woman to our self and leave. You can’t be a good woman and violate your love language for the sake of someone who won’t do the same. Seeing the good in someone has everything to do with thy self. Keep that same mindset do what’s best and not stay in a toxic relationship or damage your representation of yourself and violate your morals and cheat. You are not a good woman, your bitter/ hurt/ scorn if you cheat. Period.
If we are to dive into these issues we have to view them as compatible to both genders because they are. Even in most of the women's explanation they anchored it to the man. If a problem arose then it should have been communicated and if it couldn't be solved then it's time to exit. Plus it doesn't necessarily have to be a prob they might have just gave into temptation or got lost in someone's else. It's always interesting to see that men cheat because their dogs but no probs could occur from girlfriend or wife. Regardless if a person decides to make take that action, they know the consequences and know it's wrong. They let their selfishness override their judgment and followed suit.
I hate the narrative that people are sticking to one situation in regards to cheating which is, your partner did something or you're not getting something from your partner and that makes you go out and do XYZ. It would have been better if you broadened the cheating aspect because some people cheat based on the situation that they find themselves and not because it has anything to do with their partner. She could be easily influenced by her friends even when she has everything she wants in a relationship, her boss might be saying you want this promotion right, there are numerous factors but it still boils down to what Rico said which is good women don't cheat
Good women don’t cheat. And any woman trying to rationalize how a woman can still be good but make a mistake, is likely just a bad woman trying to convince herself she’s good despite being a cheater. The second you allow a woman to keep the title of “good” after cheating, only to chalk her cheating up to a “mistake”, you’re going to get a lot note unapologetic cheating with the excuse being “I’m a good woman who made a mistake…every body makes mistakes”. Nevertheless, cheating isn’t a mistake. Often the process of cheating takes hours, days, weeks, even months of getting to know another man. All that’s needed to avoid that is the utterance of one word, one time, and that’s “no”. You can’t tell me a woman that chooses “yes” when she wakes up to a text from that man, yes when he takes her out, yes when he flirts with her, yes when he asks her to come over, and yes when they’re in bed, isn’t cheating deliberately, when all it took was one “no”. That’s not a mistake.
If a good women is cheating. It’s possible she is not fully communicating her feelings with her husband. As she starts not feeling she isn’t getting something she then cheats. My problem is a lot of women never communicate what they need. Everything can be great but then they acquire some new desire that isn’t met because they never speak on it After that if she is communicating then there’s a disconnect that may be the fault of the husband. Or both of you. Which is where relationship counseling is good. If the guy can not be interested and can’t seem to put any other commitment to meeting your needs that your communicating as clear as possible. Then yeah who knows, walk away ? Cuz y’all have no growth potential, marriage sound for sure lead to divorce
As a rule, gh00d women DON'T cheat because good women don't just fuck with no emotion. So if they are done they would LEAVE. THESE ARE NOT GH00D WOMEN.
Cheating isn't a mistake.. It is an intention, an outcome of a thought process
Thank you, someone said it
Man cheat of the whim, even when our girl is perfect. When vvomen cheat they usually thought about it for a while, due to lack of something from her man. So when we do its not personal, when they do its personal most of the time.
@@Alumnikiid personal or not personal, it is still an intended thing not a mistake. The art of self control applies to all of us and for sure if someone lacks something, it should be communicated because at the end of the day, we are responsible for our actions and we need to account for the nonsense we do.
@@lexxbrown2075 Agreed. My statement was pointing out the differences between s*xes. One party has time to process, the other just does it of the whim. Both should be accountable however.
@@Alumnikiid everyone cheats off a whim not just men the same way women aren't just cheating because they're lacking something
And please understand… Cheating is premeditated and not a mistake.
Ooh another good word
If she is a good woman she ain’t cheating. She is leaving the relationship the right way.
I promise I was about to comment the same thing.
And vice versa
@@boydog00 yeah
you must live in a fantasy lol
@@Lillie839 You just wanted to comment. I’m a woman sis, there is no fantasy either you are or you aren’t a good woman. You must be the thot posing as a good woman. Blaming your actions on other people instead being accountable for cheating instead of walking away.
Rico was on point!
Good women don’t cheat!
Yes it's really that simple and straightforward.
If she cheating she ain't a Good Woman...FOH!
This seriously bothers me. Like how can a woman cheat and still be considered a good woman? 🤷🏾♂️ They try to justify every single thing that they discredit men for doing.
Facts
nah bruh if the women is cheating she been talkin' to that guy or known him for a while.. it's a premeditated murder
I believe the biggest mistake is putting your partner on a high pedestal and forgetting the fact they are capable of making mistakes.
Cheating is not a MISTAKE !
@@colinc5531 setting high expectations on a partner does not equate their chance of not ever going to cheat. You can believe the grass is greener theory of believing that a good woman will not cheat if you did your part all you want. Bottom line women are capable of cheating if they are given the opportunity to
@@superyael881 i guess you didnt read or understand my statement....anyone is capable of cheating but lets be clear, IT IS NOT A MISTAKE !
@@colinc5531 yes there is unintentional cheating
@@superyael881 ok if you believe that, well then go ahead, my friend !...
Running a stop sign while looking at your phone is a mistake, cheating is sneaking to talk on the phone, meeting up at a spot and hiding it! Ain’t nothing bout that a mistake 😒
Cheating comes when you are not satisfied in your relationship but good women don't cheat they walk out of the situation.
You're 100% right. Do you see though how every woman on this panel was attempting to justify cheating by talking about it in reaction to what the man is or is not doing? And then they had the audacity to say "that's accountability".
Bruh they really out here capping for camera when she cheats shes done stop accepting trash people. Good people dont cheat period! She cheats she is automatically a bad person she has no moral or values
It just seems like society has made cheating the norm and people are calling it mistakes... this is for men and women .. completely sad. U can be great to a person and they will still step out ... selfishness
Playing devil’s advocate. Sooo if the man been cheating there whole relationship n she cheats 1 time how do u feel about that?
@@stackzdollaz9508 they're both wrong
@@kennylada5561 ik that but would u leave her or still stay with her? Knowing she stayed with you after u been caught few times
@@stackzdollaz9508 u should leave her. Cheating is wrong bcuz of the psychological damage you do the person u cheat on. It literally hurts them and is just as bad, if not worse than hitting them.
Emotional wounds take longer to heal than physical ones.
I took a few Ls in fights back in the day, but that heartbreak thru getting cheated on aint no joke.
Y’all wild. All this “maybe they just made a mistake” when a woman cheats. If she cheated, she’s not a good woman. It’s easy. If somethings lacking the in relationship, and they go cheat, she’s not a good woman. Y’all love to take away all accountability.
How are you a good woman if you cheat!!! And how are these people sitting here and trying to justify a cheating woman.... Shm 🚶🏾♂️
I agree that cheating shouldn't be justified, but I hope you apply that same logic to men.
@@jodyrelle08 men don’t cheat us catching a nut is like taking a piss when a woman does they’re emotionally invested and have been talking to the guy for a while if you don’t want your man to find someone else to pleasure him for the time being then when he ask for sex regardless of wether you feel like it or not give it to him or he’ll find someone else assuming he has multiple options or prostitution it’s nothing to throw 100$ or got to a brothels
@@Xerolyst that is a immature child who only want his selfish desires fulfilled. Love her unconditionally but when she fucks it up , it is fucked up conditionally and she will know it
@@superGJ24 yea that’s delusional if ppl loved unconditionally then those 500 pound land whales would pull more chicks then me since they have a better personality
What makes a “good” person cheat (man or woman) is internal. Stop blaming your short comings on other people. You cheated Bc you’re insecure and thought you were missing out. You cheated Bc you were too afraid to let go of the relationship when the boundaries were broken repeatedly. You cheated because you were too selfish to die to your own flesh desires for your partner. These are honest truths. Stop the cap 🧢. Relationships are a choice. I choose my partner. I choose to be with her every day. And if I no longer choose to be with her then I’ll end my commitment to her and we can both move accordingly with integrity. A “good” Cheater is kind of oxymoronic to an extent. I wouldn’t say a cheater is automatically a bad person; however there’s no justification for what they did. Therefore, cheating is a manifestation or fruit of a bad root. The root of the problem is within not external. Accountability.
Well said
You hit it on the head with this one!!!!!
It’s an Oxymoron
lmao I tend to agree wit u... it b hard 4 me to take a chick bak after cheating
On god, I read the title and came here just to type it. You see how people play with words to normalize thot shit?
Thank you
FACTS! SHE'S NOT GOOD PERIOD
What????????? GOOD WOMEN DO NOT CHEAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was with Amanda until she suggested its cool to cheat so you know for is the "grass is greener." Nah if you wanna find out if the grass is greener stay single or be an adult be honest about your curiosity and let the other person decide if they can rock with that or if they wanna walk. You give someone you respect that option.
Oliver is a really good guy, and slightly naïve. I hope a woman never taints his true character as a person.
This shows us that the relationship lacks communication, the fact that you'd be annoyed by what your partner does and step out, you never talked about it in a way they would try to reform
I disagree communication is provided its been clear that women in long term relationship/marriage tend naturally drift because of the fact that they want the financial,security and thrill from the outside party due to wanting to have it all. Every 10 years when you are in a relationship/married ? Your partner. Evolve to a different person you won't recognize.
I am a strong believer in the fact that cheating is a selfish act. The same energy you put forth to manipulate and deceive your partner to go behind their back and cheat is the same energy you could have used to communicate that issue better and if not heard to simply leave. I feel that people cheat because they become complacent in their situation and the though of having to remove themselves from a full situation becomes overwhelming and uses cheating as a justifiable outlet when it's not anybody's fault for your own actions.
What's the point of being in a relationship or marriage if over time the honest woman as proclaim will choose to step out.
Shes never yours its just your turn
I am with Oliver. I cheated because I was being neglect…no attention and comfort. He was cheating on me. I went and cheated but afterward it just didn’t feel good at all.
Great conversation! What we don’t talk about is how we are conditioned to sleep around before marriage, then think we can turn it off just because we said “I do.”
Cheating should be the end of a relationship staying with a cheater is toxic!
She doesn't respect him anymore.
Why y'all letting each other TALK without cutting in 😳👏🏿💯
YES MA'AM honesty is key when you're honest and they cant adjust that's where the problem comes in EVERY sense if your partner cant accept you for what you want and like and cant compromise or adjust then thats the problem
Where in marriage does it says happiness. It’s not about happiness it’s about duty. And build a better tomorrow.
Good comment.I agree totally
Or take responsibility for cheating and say you are not a good women at all
How about we say people lack true discipline nowadays, and that cheating is not a mistake. It's thought thoroughly, specially on a woman since it takes a lot for a woman to give her guts.
Y’all Normalize cheating instead of communication or just leaving😕
Energy is reciprocated if you're a good woman and don't have a good man it's something insincere about her
Please explain ? Trying to understand how there is something insincere about her if the man is choosing not to be a good man to her ?
Good women are human too and are sexually attracted to other men it happens its life I believe what needs to be communicated more is can he or she really do this thing called relationship or marriage
Sometime a good woman wants to be bad for a day without being judged
Still not a good woman if she cheats
@@123smc we all getting judged regardless by people..its necessary
Ok, but we all are attracted to other people besides our partner. Yet some of us still don't cheat. Now what? Once again good people don't cheat, they verbalize and communicate.
@@calltyshon yup
Trust is gone once you cheat
When I was a cheater, I wasn't a gh00d dude. I was a selfish mf I definitely had some gh00d qualities but cheaters aren't gh00d ppl. That negates the gh00dness of a commitment
Each person on here has a great point.
Communication is the key
she cheats if she don't respect u
I really appreciate Oliver with this conversation and how he came to the table with all facts! Thank you for speaking up for women
Emotional cheating keeps a relationship, no strings attached🏃
A good person can't cheat!
They have only 2 options: Stay or Let It Go!
(Brian Mcknight "Stay or Let it Go" or Donnell Jones "Where I wanna be")
I am not a cheater. But I would discuss the issues directly with my spouse. If the needed changes do not occur, I would get a divorce. If my spouse cheated on me one time, I would get a divorce immediately without any further discussion. Cheating is a selfish act proving they do NOT love their spouse. Commitment means NO cheating.
Yeah that title is ehhhhh. I'm tryna process but i can't lol
No matter what you give a woman, she’s going to cheat regardless.
Exactly they will talk to a dude that don't match your finances and success but the fact that he's home and only chill for a living. No substance there
That's not true
That’s a lie.women are selfless beings,they are not selfish like many men
@@hitekanikanibaloyi6922 lmao 🤣
@@hitekanikanibaloyi6922 I witness this from my homeboys who are career driven and great fathers that are married who discover their wife have affairs with men that don't provide any type of that security. Women that are taken love to prove prove prove to convince others but fail to understand that they should be secure of themselves and from there they would of got everything God have provided in their husbands.
I agree with honcho. A good women is not going to cheat she will leave and if you want to say that if they get past it the relationship for the man and the way he looks at her will not be the same ever for him.
Everything begins with a thought. Both men and women cheat good or bad. Excuses for cheating everybody got one. Take your pick.
If you cheat your not a good man or woman
Cheating is not a mistake
I just got hip to yall channel and this is the best and most relatable channel. I can’t get enough of it too much good convo, topics and advice!🔥🔥🔥🙏🏾
The brother in the suit had a good way of looking the situation. I think Oliver is pandering or naive with his understanding about women cheating.
correct, bullshitting
If you want to cheat just be single simple as that, making up all these excuses to do something is crazy.
Cheating just wrong, period.
THANK YOU RASHAAN the accountability of women is NEVER discussed
Great conversation 🔥
Well said Oliver. But also rico good women wont cheat, they protect there pride and wont lower there self and walk away. I'm not gonna belittle myself to hurt someone else
A good woman is capable of cheating when she is being neglected in some way and is about to check out anyway
Rico so real... so far every video I agree with what he says
Good women don't cheat. Period
Good people do not cheat
I think good people cheat because of several reasons..1 is they are still attracted to the opposite sex.. that's a given.. just because she's in a relationship doesn't mean other baby aren't attractive.. we all have slept with people that we lust and not love.. let's be real.. another one is 1 man can't offer everything.. he may not have done characteristics this other dude have.. and vice versa.. that's her search for a perfect man because women feel they're partner should be perfect and when he's not she go looking for the missing pieces..
Good woman and bad decision don't belong in a sentence. It doesn't matter what happened but u made a choice to do what u do
The words “good” and “cheat” don’t go together…but that’s just me.
Agree
Oliver is top tier 👌🏾 👏🏾. He just got it!
Oliver trippin. And the same goes for anybody justifying when men cheat
Once you cheat it’s a wrap 🤷♀️🤷♀️ I’m cheating 24/7 FOH
lol.
my chat is, why cheat if you can just leave? cause if you you’re really tired or fed up just walk away from the relationship and leave
Plausible deniability!!!!!!! But let a man do exactly this and tries to "explain?" why he's still in the wrong. This makes a man think he's darned if he doesn't and darned if he doesn't so why get into a relationship anyways? That's the main reason why men are refusing to date these days.
That jacket clean af.
Why when a woman cheat she is good, this is a play on words. But when men cheat we are not considered good. Sister code here is strong af. You not a good person if your cheating. Hurt people hurt people, so instead of good let’s say hurt/tired woman/man.
Good women dont cheat 💯🤝🏿
Why is it when women cheat, we look for an "external" excuse/reason for it? Somehow, it's always the man's fault when a woman cheats. Cheating is an act of selfishness. Cheating happens when you put your urges and desires ahead of your relationship. It's never the other person's fault.
Oliver is spot on!
That’s a false misconception that every person that chooses to cheats is a bad person. Good ppl makes bad decisions every day. Doesn’t mean they are bad ppl, they are human . But one must be held accountable for their actions period!
She’s not a good woman if she cheats
That word accountability is kryptonite to women lol
if she leaves she been planning to leave, now some good girls that isn't planning to leave and just happened to end up in a situation that lead to cheating will stay.
I'm glad we could come up with so many good excuses and reasons for women that cheat. ... very interesting
Great talk!!!!!! Agreed
I love yalls topics. Keep up the good work
My thing is here that wether A dude cheats or female cheats, If you know for a 100% fact that you are gonna cheat on your partner then you shouldn’t be in a relationship with that person. What’s the point of leading him on/she on If you are going to cheat at the end?🤔 It doesn’t make any sense....
Good woman communicate, try to work it out or as a last resort, leave. There is no in between, cheating is the breaking of a commitment between 2 individuals. Whatever the desires or circumstances may be that lead to it is irrelevant, at the end of the day, what's important is how much your significant other means to you. Whenever you're about to commit an action that you know is wrong, you have to ask yourself if you're willing to still do it knowing full well that it will hurt them just so you can feel better about yourself. If feeling good in the moment is worth more to you than however much history there is in your relationship then stop being selfish and leave. You can't cheat and expect to come back, once a cheater always a cheater.
How could a good woman cheat ?
Here come Oliver with that simpin
Why are you'll blaming or saying that the reason for a woman to cheat is that she has to be in a bad place in her relationship or BF or being mistreating... A woman can cheat even if they are in a good healthy relationship. Cheating isn't a mistake or either a side effect of something that was done. cheating is a choice. people make these choices for various reasons. same for men.
As the guy in the suit said why if she cheats she isn't a good woman or if she doesn't she is a good woman. - That makes no sense.
A good woman leaves a relationship that is no longer useful. She does not cheat, a cheater is not a good woman.
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Rashann been keep it real. When the man get boring and all women just said it he boring. As soon as he said five different points why she cheats the women reacting shift.
Hello oxymoron haven't seen you in a while.
No good woman cheats (virtuous woman /morally upright)point to note.
Being a good woman comes being with Understanding, being Forgiving ect & with that can come reciprocity, or it can come with hurt. A good woman is also prepared for the Good Or The Bad & will remain a good woman to our self and leave. You can’t be a good woman and violate your love language for the sake of someone who won’t do the same. Seeing the good in someone has everything to do with thy self. Keep that same mindset do what’s best and not stay in a toxic relationship or damage your representation of yourself and violate your morals and cheat. You are not a good woman, your bitter/ hurt/ scorn if you cheat. Period.
When a woman cheats its normally for a reason and that man usually ain't taking her back.
Lack of accountability......
Women get honest when they get caught.
I agree….Good women don’t cheat.
If we are to dive into these issues we have to view them as compatible to both genders because they are. Even in most of the women's explanation they anchored it to the man. If a problem arose then it should have been communicated and if it couldn't be solved then it's time to exit. Plus it doesn't necessarily have to be a prob they might have just gave into temptation or got lost in someone's else. It's always interesting to see that men cheat because their dogs but no probs could occur from girlfriend or wife. Regardless if a person decides to make take that action, they know the consequences and know it's wrong. They let their selfishness override their judgment and followed suit.
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I hate the narrative that people are sticking to one situation in regards to cheating which is, your partner did something or you're not getting something from your partner and that makes you go out and do XYZ. It would have been better if you broadened the cheating aspect because some people cheat based on the situation that they find themselves and not because it has anything to do with their partner. She could be easily influenced by her friends even when she has everything she wants in a relationship, her boss might be saying you want this promotion right, there are numerous factors but it still boils down to what Rico said which is good women don't cheat
Cheating is not a mistake she or he made that choice to cheat no excuses
Good women don’t cheat. And any woman trying to rationalize how a woman can still be good but make a mistake, is likely just a bad woman trying to convince herself she’s good despite being a cheater. The second you allow a woman to keep the title of “good” after cheating, only to chalk her cheating up to a “mistake”, you’re going to get a lot note unapologetic cheating with the excuse being “I’m a good woman who made a mistake…every body makes mistakes”.
Nevertheless, cheating isn’t a mistake. Often the process of cheating takes hours, days, weeks, even months of getting to know another man. All that’s needed to avoid that is the utterance of one word, one time, and that’s “no”. You can’t tell me a woman that chooses “yes” when she wakes up to a text from that man, yes when he takes her out, yes when he flirts with her, yes when he asks her to come over, and yes when they’re in bed, isn’t cheating deliberately, when all it took was one “no”. That’s not a mistake.
Underrated comment. You're spot on
If a good women is cheating. It’s possible she is not fully communicating her feelings with her husband. As she starts not feeling she isn’t getting something she then cheats. My problem is a lot of women never communicate what they need. Everything can be great but then they acquire some new desire that isn’t met because they never speak on it
After that if she is communicating then there’s a disconnect that may be the fault of the husband. Or both of you. Which is where relationship counseling is good. If the guy can not be interested and can’t seem to put any other commitment to meeting your needs that your communicating as clear as possible. Then yeah who knows, walk away ? Cuz y’all have no growth potential, marriage sound for sure lead to divorce
Rico’s face lol
As a rule, gh00d women DON'T cheat because good women don't just fuck with no emotion. So if they are done they would LEAVE. THESE ARE NOT GH00D WOMEN.