Absolutely true, need to be careful here, my partner of 43 years has rejected my attempts at this, he sees it as a weakness, some alpha males dismiss this aspect of life, better have a beta male if you want this experience.
@@mariangrimsdell1112 I'd love to take that test, pretty sure I'm a Sigma female too :) There's a channel on here that talks about Sigma male traits, they are hard to find as they aren't necessarily 'out & about', like attracts like, good luck ;)
This is uncanny because my man says this is what he needs and wants so much and it is my place. We come into my place he loves the quietness of my apartment. He says he loves to come to my place because it is peaceful and loving. I play soft non verbal music in the background. I allow him to speak and let him know he can say anything I will listen. While hold his hand and caress his arm so soft while he cries and opens his heart.
I remember why you stood our from the relationship coaches I have watched and it's because of your energy and sincerity. Thank you for uploading videos like this. I've changed my relationship dynamics 360
At any cost I don't wanna go with bad people,, mine is a new life I'm gonna utilise n spiritual way,, all the coaching people want to give me I'm ready.. Even if my health is bad,, I don't mind sharing my views with good people..
I would say it's not so much an act of courage but rather an act of trust. I met a lady 17 months ago and I've shared things with her I've never shared before in 45 years of prior marriage and dating. I thank God for this amazing lady.
I agree! I imediately confesed to my ex that I was seeing one of his best friends without me know who he was. Not only he appreciated it, I gained his trust and we got back together. We have an amazing relationship that's goes beyond sex. We talk at a level that we are not afraid of judgment. I find him so attractive and sexy when he cries and opens his heart.
I’ve attracted more consciously aware men , i just share my experiences and how I’m a former substance addict and that my negative experiences have given me a positive outcome and give them a non judgemental place for them to emotionally open up . The wrong type of men won’t be able to handle it and no man can use against me what I’ve already accepted about myself
All men should greatly tithe you monthly for this incredible free, vital lessons, that you are sharing with women. After all, these teachings, properly practice, are mutually beneficial for the both sexes.
When you love your man this is what you do... Besides being a man , he is a person with all the feelings of sensitivity. I adore my man and holding sacred space for him and us creates a deep bonding. It takes a conscious secure woman to witness without judgement... Thank you Bern!!
Videos like this are changing and improving the quality of my partnership. Thank you so much! I wish someone had taught me all this decades ago! Some people intuitively “know” many valuable relationship skills by observation of their healthy parents as they were growing up. But for those of us whose parents were divorced or otherwise dysfunctional, this type of education is literally a quality-of-lifesaver! 😊
This advise works well with relationships that both men and women are working to grow together... However this is also dangerous when it comes to narcissistic men/or women. Mental abuse is real, so we have to understand and know who is worth fighting for and who isn’t.
Exactly the comment I was looking for. I did all these things because he showed himself to be a guy who loves and respects me, and wants nothing but love and respect from me. He kept the facade for 5 years of dating and 2 years after the wedding. The day I found I was pregnant, was the day crazy making started. He blamed everything on my hormones, isolated me and held me hostage to my own principles. 20 years of spiralling before some semblance of normalcy now.
I agree. I feel this is how to work with an “ego”. Most men are still in ego consciousness because of the patriarchy. They are master manipulators. Because they can. As women close the gap …our tolerance for this is less and less. We are healing our codependency and no longer willing to pet the ego. Happy more men are doing the work. Maybe they can learn about us. 😉
@@wendywilliams3962 I don’t know… I think there is definitely toxic femininity. It’s not talked about, but men are seriously reacting too it and starting to go MGTOW. I think we as women need to be careful to be in balance, just as men need to.
I’ve made so many mistakes in the past with men not understanding these principles, sadly even lost relationships. This information was very helpful. Thank you so much!💕
Bern, can you do a videos on how to: A. How to Have hard conversations B. Support and gently push on him going for his dreams… difference between being a cheerleader and teammate
I often watch these kind of videos while rolling my eyes but to me, this is your most informative and clearly-delivered video. This is very true especially when you started off with ' a man who is hungry for it'. That is absolutely the key. Well done!
Thank you Bern! The 90/10 rule. My brother is a lovely guy but has become very negative and given up on love --he just turned 50. He says he cannot communicate with me or anyone. I think he needs to find that sacred space. He had it with his last gf but it all fell apart. As I believe he's going through a depression. This was very useful Bern and an essential video to keep searching for that one soul that will be my kindred spirit and I his. I am praying and am trying to help my brother too, but it's not easy. Sending hugs from Canada 🇨🇦
Thank you. I needed this. At first I felt so foolish for not having known all of this in past relationships. But when you expressed how your advice applies to worthy individuals, I began remembering my own worth. I'm far from perfect, and have made my fair share of mistakes. But all the things I did right, still only amounted to toxicity & trauma. Because these were people who chose starvation over feeding their hunger for growth. I still have much to learn, but I remain insatiable! And this time, I know the man who's come into my Life is worthy of my effort, and just as hungry as I. 🥰
Wow!!!!! This is soooo good!!! I've had this exactly experience with my Best male friend . Alllll the profound information that you're teaching in this video, was the exact reaction I'd displayed, while he was soo vulnerable and open to me. Thank you for putting it into words, I can understand it now so much better....I can promise, I'll remember this for always, AND will be able to do it do much BETTER when it may happen again. This was EXCELLENT!!! GOD BLESS YOU WITH MORE WISDOM.
A thought relevant to this discussion: Women think he’s being avoiding when he isn’t focused on her eyes. “Look me in the eyes!” is a common complaint in an intense emotional discussion between mates. He’s really being intimate, sitting beside you and avoiding direct eye contact. A man looks his adversary in the eye, and sits beside his friend. I’d rather he think of me as a friend. We can look each other in the eyes during real intimacy. 🥰
Very good video and should come with a bold addition that the man should be healthy mentally & emotionally and able to honour the sacred space created. emotionally unavailable men and narcs don't cut it and will disrespect this sacred space .stay vibrant and discerning beautiful ladies ♥🌹
I agree! When I specify "high-value" that is EXACTLY what I'm referring to. If a man is not mentally, emotionally and spiritually healthy, he certainly isn't high-value in my book.
@@BernMendez Thanks bern.your appreciated for your contribution to relationship world and your niche is unique because it's about healthy partnership 🌹
This is a game-changer. This will cause people to grow and become that high-quality man or woman, because the reverse is also true. Intimacy= into me see.
Absolutely insightful! And i like just that you say if he gives you strength when you are scared, i guess that is the most powerful feeling for him cos you can never see any weakness with someone like that. You can only hold lots of respect towards them. Thank you Bern
I think I met my guy. I love that his actions and words matches! He recently told me I'm precious to him, I'm inside his heart and sees me as his future wife. I got scared cuz we only dated for 6 months so how can he be sure. Thanks!
Thank you for making this video Bernardo!!! 🙏🙏🙏 I am transforming myself and renewing my mind-set when it comes to the Men that I find myself attracted to. I first and formost needed to understand that really getting to know someone involves more than what his favorite color is or what his favorite foods are and what kind of music and movies he likes. I was a known people pleaser!!! 2nd of all I believe that I really needed to know what I wanted in a Man!!! And 3rd and most importantly I needed to know my worth!!! What I'd put up with and whay I would'nt put up with!!! I really understand a Man being vulnerable and opening up, I appreciate that and his willing to be open enough to surrender his ego! It's very refreshing!!! I LOVE this Man that I'm getting to know!!! "GOD BLESS YOU" and I have just SUBSCRIBED!!! 💚
Yes I did create that famous sanctuary you’re talking about and he even confined to me about his plans to look for another woman So now I need that sanctuary myself and can’t find it
Time to take one step back and remember who you really are. Time to find your own strength and without rushing listen to the lessons that came from this experience so you can see more clearly next time around. At times, in life other humans (often doing the best they can, even if the best isn't good enough) betray our deepest sense of trust. Remember that this feeling doesn't have to be permanent, every nightfall comes accompanied by its corresponding dawn.
I highly recommend Marshall Rosenberg's Non Violent Communication, as well as another system called Authentic Relating. In the system of AR there is an exercise called Circling. Cheers 😊
This is what I'm.looking for. Thank you so much for sharing. I love you for loving us women. This video is helping me.. thank you and God bless you 🙏❤️
This is such important information. I appreciate you so much. Best point is understanding that I must remember that his vulnerable moment cannot be about me!!!!!!!
Amazing, Amazing Advice. Thank you. My BF went thru an extremely sad an traumatic episode in his life he tells me he wants to share with me in greater detail. Thank you for the advice on how to Best address this forth coming conversation and perhaps how I can be an even better friend and partner.
Thank you for so much I needed to here That I have that with my boyfriend but I'm open too asist him with more understanding of his needs thank you u did help me a lot God bless you sir 👍👏🙏
omg this awesome, literally just now, i just hacked a lung while my guy friend was opening up, and he got pissed and hung up on me. ☹️it's wasn't my fault but i'm glad to hear that my 'breathing' was a trigger for him ..
Omg, Bern this is so beautiful. Also, you remember I you advised me to say no to pizza politely on dates. You will be so proud to know that I did that and it's not as big a deal as much I was making in my head. Also, Bern what to do when your favourite man is not planning dates with you?
My man told me I am his lover and his best friend and my home is like a big hug for him. But unfortunately his jealousy destroyed everything again and I don't know how to handle it, he blocked me and is so upset with me he even shouted in front of others that every one knows I have sex with my neighbor, but this is so ridiculous, we are just friends. I am always thinking if it is my fault that I am not able to give him the feeling he can trust me, or is it just his character.
One of the most incisive videos ever. Wow! Even though I’m a man, it shone a light into my soul. Just broke up with a lady who would have found this vlog helpful. She exploited my vulnerability as I was opening up to her went too far and tried a little bit of blackmail. I closed up in a second and that was it. I still love her though
I agree all except being a provider. I think it's much better if both parties contribute...I can financially provide for myself & this simply increases my self confidence while still really appreciating him.
As beautiful as it is for women to be in their Feminine energy, I ask, why do many fellas don't want to make space for their lady when she needs his support? There's a need for people to seek councilling with a professional. There's many child and adult traumatic situations unhealed to take the steps to grow in relationships.... There's so many damaged people that stay stuck in their ego, men and women 😘
True and what happened to the men that are in competition With each other to be with a woman, nowadays it seems the women have to do all the work, it seems the women are forced to become more masculine than feminine and it's all out of balance
As a woman I would also like this from a man 😂 get this kind of presence from my girlfriends but from a life partner than would be 👌 symbiotic suppose and sharing
It's a place where both spouses need a loving space especially when both work. Children are the reason most men don't get it cause most women have dealt with crying children and Bill collection agencies who have threatened their lifestyle. And they are overwhelmed with their day.
Either wants to assuage his own guilt, or leave the door open incase it doesn't work out with new woman. And that's not always conscious. It's not a good thing, and is about his interests not yours. So don't respond and let him leave your life x
@@heatherwoodley8244 Heather you are fantastic and as you said its not for my benefit but for his. That's really it in a nutshell and you have helped me to realise its not worth responding to. Thank you so much xx
@@sula1529 Thank you love! Learned from painful experience and videos like this while I tried to deal with said painful experiences. Each day we become wiser! I hope you are well and healed now. Xx
This has occurred between me and the man I've been dating for a couple of months. He has that need, but has moved away from the chemistry we had in the beginning. We are yet to even kiss. He feels more safe with me every time we talk on the phone, but I would also like some physical contact. Am I doing this wrong?
Pay attention to red flags. Showing affection is very important. Only you know what time frame is appropriate for you. For me, I would have wanted kissing by now. Pay attention to the red flags. Good luck.
I think more important is submission. Loyalty. Honesty. Integrity. Respect But apparently that’s too hard as they can’t even make men a sandwich. They’ll whine why we’re asking them to feed us when we’re working extremely hard…
Stupid. All you do is whine and complain yet have the audacity to demand submission and everything else. Whilst not being able to do the bare minimum 🤮. Men who are men are not online throwing tantrums and demanding things from women, as they naturally attract what they want by you know,......actually being men. FYI you aren't the only ones working. Certainly
While this can help you understand what high-value men want (in a relationship that's heading toward commitment), this video is about taking things deeper IF you have attracted a worthy, amazing man. If you're experiences challenges when it comes to attracting a worthy man, then here's a free training that can help you more with that: bit.ly/my-dating-cure-training
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Hungry for more food😛😂✨
Note ladies, he has to be a man who is hungry for love and care if not, you will be wasting your talent on the wrong man.
Facts
Absolutely true, need to be careful here, my partner of 43 years has rejected my attempts at this, he sees it as a weakness, some alpha males dismiss this aspect of life, better have a beta male if you want this experience.
@@mariangrimsdell1112 Sigma males excel at this :)
LouRegina How funny, I did one of those tests, the result said I was a sigma female, how do you find a sigma male 🤣
@@mariangrimsdell1112 I'd love to take that test, pretty sure I'm a Sigma female too :)
There's a channel on here that talks about Sigma male traits, they are hard to find as they aren't necessarily 'out & about', like attracts like, good luck ;)
This is uncanny because my man says this is what he needs and wants so much and it is my place. We come into my place he loves the quietness of my apartment. He says he loves to come to my place because it is peaceful and loving. I play soft non verbal music in the background. I allow him to speak and let him know he can say anything I will listen. While hold his hand and caress his arm so soft while he cries and opens his heart.
I remember why you stood our from the relationship coaches I have watched and it's because of your energy and sincerity. Thank you for uploading videos like this. I've changed my relationship dynamics 360
Thank you for your kind words, J.J.
At any cost I don't wanna go with bad people,, mine is a new life I'm gonna utilise n spiritual way,, all the coaching people want to give me I'm ready.. Even if my health is bad,, I don't mind sharing my views with good people..
I would say it's not so much an act of courage but rather an act of trust. I met a lady 17 months ago and I've shared things with her I've never shared before in 45 years of prior marriage and dating. I thank God for this amazing lady.
Love it!!!!😍😍 so beautiful you've found this
I agree! I imediately confesed to my ex that I was seeing one of his best friends without me know who he was. Not only he appreciated it, I gained his trust and we got back together. We have an amazing relationship that's goes beyond sex. We talk at a level that we are not afraid of judgment.
I find him so attractive and sexy when he cries and opens his heart.
@@yazminduvall133
It's certainly a rare thing. I'm so glad you managed to keep the relationship together. It could have gone either way.👍
Is it her or is it that you were ready to trust? (Maybe both?)
@@Reddragons111
Ahaaa.... perceptive... we're totally on the same wavelength... she's shared with me things she's never told anyone and vice versa.
I’ve attracted more consciously aware men , i just share my experiences and how I’m a former substance addict and that my negative experiences have given me a positive outcome and give them a non judgemental place for them to emotionally open up . The wrong type of men won’t be able to handle it and no man can use against me what I’ve already accepted about myself
Wonderful material. Life changing. Thank you.
All men should greatly tithe you monthly for this incredible free, vital lessons, that you are sharing with women. After all, these teachings, properly practice, are mutually beneficial for the both sexes.
When you love your man this is what you do... Besides being a man , he is a person with all the feelings of sensitivity. I adore my man and holding sacred space for him and us creates a deep bonding. It takes a conscious secure woman to witness without judgement... Thank you Bern!!
Deepok Chopra said any marriage can be mended by attention affection and appreciation. I give him that wow.
Videos like this are changing and improving the quality of my partnership. Thank you so much! I wish someone had taught me all this decades ago! Some people intuitively “know” many valuable relationship skills by observation of their healthy parents as they were growing up. But for those of us whose parents were divorced or otherwise dysfunctional, this type of education is literally a quality-of-lifesaver! 😊
Deborah, thank you for sharing and I'm grateful to be able to help you.
This man is the MOST REAL one I have ran into...he is speaking FACTS!
This advise works well with relationships that both men and women are working to grow together... However this is also dangerous when it comes to narcissistic men/or women. Mental abuse is real, so we have to understand and know who is worth fighting for and who isn’t.
Well said.
Exactly the comment I was looking for.
I did all these things because he showed himself to be a guy who loves and respects me, and wants nothing but love and respect from me. He kept the facade for 5 years of dating and 2 years after the wedding. The day I found I was pregnant, was the day crazy making started. He blamed everything on my hormones, isolated me and held me hostage to my own principles. 20 years of spiralling before some semblance of normalcy now.
@@purvamandlik4696
Thanks for sharing 👍
Wish you all the best 😗
I agree. I feel this is how to work with an “ego”. Most men are still in ego consciousness because of the patriarchy. They are master manipulators. Because they can. As women close the gap …our tolerance for this is less and less. We are healing our codependency and no longer willing to pet the ego. Happy more men are doing the work. Maybe they can learn about us. 😉
@@wendywilliams3962 I don’t know… I think there is definitely toxic femininity. It’s not talked about, but men are seriously reacting too it and starting to go MGTOW. I think we as women need to be careful to be in balance, just as men need to.
I’ve made so many mistakes in the past with men not understanding these principles, sadly even lost relationships. This information was very helpful. Thank you so much!💕
Thank you so much for sharing and so glad this was useful!
Vulnerability and allowing someone to be authentic with no judgement
Bern, can you do a videos on how to:
A. How to Have hard conversations
B. Support and gently push on him going for his dreams… difference between being a cheerleader and teammate
Thank you for your suggestions.
@@BernMendez I like these topics. Esp the gently push towards goals and dreams. Thank you!
I often watch these kind of videos while rolling my eyes but to me, this is your most informative and clearly-delivered video. This is very true especially when you started off with ' a man who is hungry for it'. That is absolutely the key. Well done!
Wow, thank you!
Love your relationship intelligence!!! Thank you, Bern!
Always support a man when he opens up his heart , remove expectations and outcomes. ❤️
Thank you Bern! The 90/10 rule. My brother is a lovely guy but has become very negative and given up on love --he just turned 50. He says he cannot communicate with me or anyone. I think he needs to find that sacred space. He had it with his last gf but it all fell apart. As I believe he's going through a depression.
This was very useful Bern and an essential video to keep searching for that one soul that will be my kindred spirit and I his. I am praying and am trying to help my brother too, but it's not easy. Sending hugs from Canada 🇨🇦
Thank you so much, and your brother is lucky to have you as a sister. You can't create change for someone but providing inspiration never hurts.
Be yourself. Use your power to control yourself, not others😇❤
Thank you. I needed this. At first I felt so foolish for not having known all of this in past relationships. But when you expressed how your advice applies to worthy individuals, I began remembering my own worth. I'm far from perfect, and have made my fair share of mistakes. But all the things I did right, still only amounted to toxicity & trauma. Because these were people who chose starvation over feeding their hunger for growth. I still have much to learn, but I remain insatiable! And this time, I know the man who's come into my Life is worthy of my effort, and just as hungry as I. 🥰
Wow!!!!! This is soooo good!!!
I've had this exactly experience with my Best male friend .
Alllll the profound information that you're teaching in this video, was the exact reaction I'd displayed, while he was soo vulnerable and open to me.
Thank you for putting it into words, I can understand it now so much better....I can promise, I'll remember this for always, AND will be able to do it do much BETTER when it may happen again.
This was EXCELLENT!!!
GOD BLESS YOU WITH MORE WISDOM.
A thought relevant to this discussion: Women think he’s being avoiding when he isn’t focused on her eyes. “Look me in the eyes!” is a common complaint in an intense emotional discussion between mates. He’s really being intimate, sitting beside you and avoiding direct eye contact. A man looks his adversary in the eye, and sits beside his friend. I’d rather he think of me as a friend. We can look each other in the eyes during real intimacy. 🥰
Very good video and should come with a bold addition that the man should be healthy mentally & emotionally and able to honour the sacred space created.
emotionally unavailable men and narcs don't cut it and will disrespect this sacred space .stay vibrant and discerning beautiful ladies ♥🌹
I agree! When I specify "high-value" that is EXACTLY what I'm referring to. If a man is not mentally, emotionally and spiritually healthy, he certainly isn't high-value in my book.
@@BernMendez Thanks bern.your appreciated for your contribution to relationship world and your niche is unique because it's about healthy partnership 🌹
@@Thekingsdota Thank you for adding your voice, for watching and for being you. 🙏
Yes!!!
@@BernMendez Agreed. 👍🏼
This is great Bern. I've been listening for a few years now. I've finally met a good loving man who might be the right one for me.
Good luck Lucie!!
This is a game-changer. This will cause people to grow and become that high-quality man or woman, because the reverse is also true. Intimacy= into me see.
I love this guy definitely the best coach online x
I love this. This is truly your calling Bern!
This was an absolute cup of tea Bern! Only you could have made this topic make so much sense! Well done.
Brillant. Your explanation perfect. Gave me a name "creating sanctuary" for those moments when my friend would reluctantly open up.
Absolutely insightful!
And i like just that you say if he gives you strength when you are scared, i guess that is the most powerful feeling for him cos you can never see any weakness with someone like that. You can only hold lots of respect towards them.
Thank you Bern
This goes both ways. I was with a good guy who rushed the process with ME and totally turned me off. We are no longer together and I feel relief
I think I met my guy. I love that his actions and words matches! He recently told me I'm precious to him, I'm inside his heart and sees me as his future wife. I got scared cuz we only dated for 6 months so how can he be sure. Thanks!
Great tips and they do work. Thank you very much for sharing and for your channel.
love the advice, your Energy is beautiful. The background and color make you look great!
Thank you for your kind words, Raven.
Beautiful video thank you Bern 💞
Glad you enjoyed it, Raquel : )
Thank you for making this video Bernardo!!! 🙏🙏🙏 I am transforming myself and renewing my mind-set when it comes to the Men that I find myself attracted to. I first and formost needed to understand that really getting to know someone involves more than what his favorite color is or what his favorite foods are and what kind of music and movies he likes. I was a known people pleaser!!! 2nd of all I believe that I really needed to know what I wanted in a Man!!! And 3rd and most importantly I needed to know my worth!!! What I'd put up with and whay I would'nt put up with!!! I really understand a Man being vulnerable and opening up, I appreciate that and his willing to be open enough to surrender his ego! It's very refreshing!!! I LOVE this Man that I'm getting to know!!! "GOD BLESS YOU" and I have just SUBSCRIBED!!! 💚
Yes I did create that famous sanctuary you’re talking about and he even confined to me about his plans to look for another woman So now I need that sanctuary myself and can’t find it
Time to take one step back and remember who you really are. Time to find your own strength and without rushing listen to the lessons that came from this experience so you can see more clearly next time around. At times, in life other humans (often doing the best they can, even if the best isn't good enough) betray our deepest sense of trust. Remember that this feeling doesn't have to be permanent, every nightfall comes accompanied by its corresponding dawn.
Great video,great advice!and excellent eye opening💯Thanks Bern❤
You're so welcome, Sandra!
@@BernMendez ❤
WONDERFUL , unique & very spirutualy speak video , thank you Bern
Thank you for all your insights and knowledge and for sharing so generously
I highly recommend Marshall Rosenberg's Non Violent Communication, as well as another system called Authentic Relating. In the system of AR there is an exercise called Circling. Cheers 😊
This is what I'm.looking for. Thank you so much for sharing. I love you for loving us women. This video is helping me.. thank you and God bless you 🙏❤️
So glad this was helpful.
This is such important information. I appreciate you so much. Best point is understanding that I must remember that his vulnerable moment cannot be about me!!!!!!!
So glad this was useful.
Amazing, Amazing Advice. Thank you. My BF went thru an extremely sad an traumatic episode in his life he tells me he wants to share with me in greater detail. Thank you for the advice on how to Best address this forth coming conversation and perhaps how I can be an even better friend and partner.
Your advice is precious! Thank you Bern.
Thank you for so much I needed to here That I have that with my boyfriend but I'm open too asist him with more understanding of his needs thank you u did help me a lot God bless you sir 👍👏🙏
You are so welcome, Ellen.
Immediate like just for putting time stamps :) Great vid,thank u Bern, we love u
Glad you enjoyed this!
Thank you for your invaluable feedback and insight,, and much appreciated advice! Keep up the great work!
Thanks Bern, eye opening as always
Thank you for watching.
So true. I agree. I have 3 sons and i know this.
Glad you found this useful!
Great point about the hunger. Never mentioned in other videos by others!
Very helpful - thank you you for sharing!
omg this awesome, literally just now, i just hacked a lung while my guy friend was opening up, and he got pissed and hung up on me. ☹️it's wasn't my fault but i'm glad to hear that my 'breathing' was a trigger for him ..
Omg, Bern this is so beautiful. Also, you remember I you advised me to say no to pizza politely on dates. You will be so proud to know that I did that and it's not as big a deal as much I was making in my head. Also, Bern what to do when your favourite man is not planning dates with you?
“Loyalty” (and Understanding)
Thanks for watching.
My man told me I am his lover and his best friend and my home is like a big hug for him. But unfortunately his jealousy destroyed everything again and I don't know how to handle it, he blocked me and is so upset with me he even shouted in front of others that every one knows I have sex with my neighbor, but this is so ridiculous, we are just friends.
I am always thinking if it is my fault that I am not able to give him the feeling he can trust me, or is it just his character.
Such amazing advice!!! Thank you 🙏
Bern you're awesome. Thank you ❣
Brilliant video!🖤💯💯💯🌈☯️🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much, Annemarie : )
Yes, very helpful! Thank you!
This is great thanks so much!!!
You're so welcome, Heather!
WOW AWESOME MESSAGE 👍👍👍
One of the most incisive videos ever. Wow! Even though I’m a man, it shone a light into my soul. Just broke up with a lady who would have found this vlog helpful. She exploited my vulnerability as I was opening up to her went too far and tried a little bit of blackmail. I closed up in a second and that was it. I still love her though
High value man is a humble , loving ,caring , emphatic ,provider and protector . You are calling dusties ‘ High Value Men’.
I agree all except being a provider. I think it's much better if both parties contribute...I can financially provide for myself & this simply increases my self confidence while still really appreciating him.
As beautiful as it is for women to be in their Feminine energy, I ask, why do many fellas don't want to make space for their lady when she needs his support? There's a need for people to seek councilling with a professional. There's many child and adult traumatic situations unhealed to take the steps to grow in relationships.... There's so many damaged people that stay stuck in their ego, men and women 😘
True and what happened to the men that are in competition With each other to be with a woman, nowadays it seems the women have to do all the work, it seems the women are forced to become more masculine than feminine and it's all out of balance
Deeply useful xxx Thankyou xxx
Great video.
As a woman I would also like this from a man 😂 get this kind of presence from my girlfriends but from a life partner than would be 👌 symbiotic suppose and sharing
Beautiful, Bern
Thanks for listening.
Thank you!
Sounds very nice, and of course men would like this, I think women would too..
It's a place where both spouses need a loving space especially when both work. Children are the reason most men don't get it cause most women have dealt with crying children and Bill collection agencies who have threatened their lifestyle. And they are overwhelmed with their day.
Yeah, really great to watch this video, ultimately take ur man for urself, tnq so much
Awesome!
Wow
This is SUPER right on advice. Rare actually
So glad you enjoyed it!
Why does a man come back trying to see if you are ok after he is moved on and with a new woman? What does he want?
Either wants to assuage his own guilt, or leave the door open incase it doesn't work out with new woman. And that's not always conscious. It's not a good thing, and is about his interests not yours. So don't respond and let him leave your life x
@@heatherwoodley8244 Heather you are fantastic and as you said its not for my benefit but for his. That's really it in a nutshell and you have helped me to realise its not worth responding to. Thank you so much xx
@@sula1529 Thank you love! Learned from painful experience and videos like this while I tried to deal with said painful experiences. Each day we become wiser! I hope you are well and healed now. Xx
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You're welcome, Shelda.
Brilliant incredible
Bern your advice are always great ..thanks so much
This has occurred between me and the man I've been dating for a couple of months. He has that need, but has moved away from the chemistry we had in the beginning. We are yet to even kiss. He feels more safe with me every time we talk on the phone, but I would also like some physical contact. Am I doing this wrong?
Remember this is for emotionally available high value men. Sounds like yours may not be capable of giving back.
Pay attention to red flags. Showing affection is very important. Only you know what time frame is appropriate for you. For me, I would have wanted kissing by now. Pay attention to the red flags. Good luck.
Step 1. Don't do it with any of Kevin Samuel's followers
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One thing. Every relationship started because somebody wanted sex. How a person handles it from there is on you.
I pray I am that woman.
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Oops 90 10. Got it
I think more important is submission. Loyalty. Honesty. Integrity. Respect
But apparently that’s too hard as they can’t even make men a sandwich. They’ll whine why we’re asking them to feed us when we’re working extremely hard…
Not all women that's does not cook for their husbands...we cook for them and ensure that their stomach are full and their balls drained.....😃
Stupid. All you do is whine and complain yet have the audacity to demand submission and everything else. Whilst not being able to do the bare minimum 🤮.
Men who are men are not online throwing tantrums and demanding things from women, as they naturally attract what they want by you know,......actually being men.
FYI you aren't the only ones working. Certainly
I wish he did this for me ;)
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If I have to do all of these things to get a man. I rather be single. It is too much for hunting a nen
While this can help you understand what high-value men want (in a relationship that's heading toward commitment), this video is about taking things deeper IF you have attracted a worthy, amazing man.
If you're experiences challenges when it comes to attracting a worthy man, then here's a free training that can help you more with that: bit.ly/my-dating-cure-training
A woman should not have to hunt for a man
Can you please talk little bit slowly??
You can slow down the playback speed yourself. 😉
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Sex works every time!
Men sound more complicated than women lol
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I guess you think women are jesus??🤯
Haha, not at all.
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Thank you for watching.