I've been listening to Abraham for a while, Regan Hillyer, Tony Robbins and other teachers on manifesting and spirituality, but your videos are making these concepts so much more accessible for me. I've never heard Abraham say that if you're trying to manifest financial wealth from the position of "I want to feel financially secure so I need to make more money" (as you did in a previous video) then that position itself is coming from a place of lack. Mind blown!!!! That's all I've been doing this entire time. What you're saying echoes other people I've listened to, but the way you put things just makes these concepts super clear for me and I appreciate that! Thanks so much for the work you're doing!
I love his clarity too but Abraham hicks does say that if you feel 'need' then you are emitting lack in your vibration and will receive the evidence of it. I love what Abraham Hicks teaches but I am also loving the simple clarity of David Bayers teachings as well. They, and Dr. Joe Dispenza, all come together as a new path for people to forge for well-being and wholeness. I am appreciating this most of all. ❤
Yeah Abraham talks about if you’re saying like I want money so bad that it hurts , you’re in a lack of money mentality which is why money wasn’t happening in the first place
@JessicaGCook As Abraham says, " Any time you use the word 'need' you are in a lack vibration." They go hand in hand. Lately, I've been feeling the vibration of not needing anything, though I have huge financial dreams. It feels so good that I go there often. I see all the abundance everywhere but am in the vibration of not needing anything. It's so delicious I keep going back to it. 😁
David is like the Joe Dispenza of business. I'd love to see you guys work together. Bringing more awareness in life and business. Thanks for your content. Can't wait to be in a coaching session with you.
It's one of the lifelong lessons those who wish to control the people never want us to understand. May the rest of your days be filled with more joy and understanding of our amazing capabilities as creators blessed with a consciousness from our Creator.
In my journey of personal growth and empowerment, I realize most people have been that way but what really comes to mind when delving into this stuff is my dad. He has passed away but that man was such a lost soul. There was no getting through to him. The most primal state human I've ever encountered. I read something once that said, "Some people aren't meant to evolve so you know what it looks like when you don't." And that hit home for me because I swore to myself at a very young age that I would not allow myself to be like my parents but especially like my dad. Seeing a person be so unaccountable, and now to put it in David's words of primal, I refuse to live a life like that even more.
I just recently discovered you and I have to say that you are the first one (out of all of those spiritual speakers -including Esther Hicks) who explains all these things in such details, and breaking those deep theories down to the T. Your videos have really changed my perception, mind, and most of all Beliefs. I am sharing your videos with all my friends and I'm hoping they will affect them as much as it affected me. So Thank you for your incredible content!!
I agree! David make the most sense of them all. I have been listening to others for years, but it has never clicked until now. They are too "woo woo" to be relatable and make connections to my own life.
God Bless you! I cannot stop watching your videos, the examples and explanations of why have given me a direction of clarity. I’ve have great admiration for Wayne Dryer and others I’ve listen too. But many times leaving their videos not fully comprehending their messages leaving me somewhat struggling on how to get to the place of peace! Thank you so much wishing you great success in your life’s journey!
35 yrs sober and still suffer with control and fear. Grateful I found you. Love the deep dive!!! Practice the principles in all of your affairs. Your work is what’s missing in most recovering people’s life! I’m familiar with the science you speak of. I’ve followed Joe Dispenza, Bruce Lipton, Gregg Braden and many others. The 12 steps was channeled and a “gift” to all of humanity! Thank you for expanding on the power of the steps and what they can do you…..FREEDOM FROM THE BONDAGE OF SELF!! You are my new sponsor. 🎉
I fight through the primal state of fear nearly every morning and sometimes during the night. Thanks for getting into actual, tangible tools to overcome.
I found you 4 days ago and you have changed my life. This was a great episode that clearly explained fear and how to address it. Your content is so well explained and genuine. I appreciate the fact that you relate your own experience. It makes it real for me. I’m going to check out the decision matrix today. Thanks, David. Great information 😊
I am can’t believe how much you are changing my life in such a short time. Your authenticity is so appreciated. You inspire me and for that I’m so very grateful. I finally found a mentor in you that I have been longing 0:05 for. Thanks, David. I’ll get your book this weekend.
I am beyond grateful for you! I appreciate the way you walk through the actual steps of how to do the work. Too many online guru people throw platitudes at you and tell you that you have to change your mindset, but they don't tell you how in the hell to do that. You do. Thank you.
I search the best teacher for myself and i came across yours videos. You are so carismatic and very good in explaining thinks. You are my favorit now. Love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for all you do. You are making a difference in my life. After meditating on this video the information coalesced into one thought- “Is feeling this way in this moment necessary for my survival?” I think that will be my mantra when the apparitions of fear show up. Thank you for helping me sort that out.
About 70% Watching this has been a game changer. The idea of looking for when you’re in a fearful state and reframing these thoughts as teachers is so empowering !!🙏
Like this video. Here’s my interpretation .Beliefs are the stories we tell ourselves , especially when facing uncertainty. Our words/actions in uncertain times are driven by our belief. If we feed ourselves with evidence which aligns with belief we want to build, we do away with the limiting belief and make new ones.
Love your videos David! I believe more and more in this saying:”When the student is ready, the teacher will appear!” Thank you! Greetings from Florida!
I’m just working on this today! I developed lower back pain and O know it’s related to finances! And my therapist appointment at 10 explained it to me but didn’t click until now! Brother David, thank you for sharing this gold knowledge!!!
I love what you are saying! I succeeded with fear as fuel, it breakdown, it is not self-sustaining. Higher intelligence within you is nudging you towards self-correction, self-organizing… that is when a greater order emerges, like heart and brain coherence… In those states, your nervous system self-regulates, your awareness is expanded, heart is open, connection is the feeling…
Thank you! This was helpful regarding rethinking the fear being a memory! I had a pretty good life and a 40 year teaching career that I enjoyed, until I was exposed to horrible toxins which took down my entire body and damaged every system. I have done everything right to heal, but 4 surgeries, infections from everything including the hospital, and a family (including my daughter and son) who doesn’t care enough to even check on me. I’m in freeze response right now from PTSD from the medical system which kept me sick for 21 years. I’m recovering, but like you, my body is catching up! I also had horrible trauma from a family member last year, which broke down my CNS, and I can hardly function now, and it’s extremely hard for me to drive being in constant anxiety, and having a mentally disabled, but brilliant, son about whom I’m constantly concerned. Everyone left me because of him and my illnesses and pain, but that’s ok. I just need help sometimes because I’m so tiny and almost 70. My stomach is in knots as I type this. I appreciate your videos!
Consumed your content literally binged and subscribed. The Gideon Bible and Les Brown episode hit hard with some crazy synchronicity in my own experience. Keep inspiring 🙏🏻
I believe one day we will be aligned with the energetic connectivity of advancement through the stagnation of fear. We will transform negativity in mere minutes! For our present time, there is David!! Thank you for the knowledge 🙏
While listening to this I figured I’m in that primal state probably 98% of the time! I have moments where I’m joyful but like you explained in there there’s so many circumstances from my old thinking that bring me back to the primal state that I switch back without even thinking about it. Whenever you actually gave a strategy on what to do when the fear comes up or the circumstances come up that reinforces fear I’ll begin to cry. For the first time I felt like it’s something that I could actually do to move myself out of fear. It’s interesting. I have your book, and starting on the chapter on detox matrix! Thank you, Dave for sharing the stuff with us!
I would say 90% of my day is spent in fear. Your definition of what fear encompasses might make that number higher. I was able to meditate using a Joe Dispenza morning meditation today and get more out of it thanks to one of your recent videos about manifestation and how the art of allowing. That video is raising my awareness to be alert when it comes to not letting myself react to my family who is under huge stress right now. Better to let someone else be right than to get into the resistance of disputing whose right. Let that shit go. Much more important to be in a state of allowing than to engage in conflict over whose who in the hierarchy. I am the one in this equation who is ready to be a conscious creator. I am the lighting rod for positive change. Breaking old habits is taking on a whole new meaning. I am excited about the possibilities. Remembering that what I see is what I previously attracted and to be relaxed while being vigilant for opportunities and direction. I AM so close now. ❤
Another great video! 😁You explain it where it makes it easy for people to understand and practice it. I will say I have adapted a lot of the things you say, especially being aware of my thoughts and making the decision to change my thought process to a more positive outlook and not let a bad situation upset me to for too long.😃
I appreciate so much how you are able to distill things into simple ideas. It's part of your genius, your brilliance, a divine gift, I believe. Thank you for sharing all of these with us.
This is a good explanation I appreciate the fact that you give tools to use. I’ve been dealing with anxiety/agoraphobia since childhood. I got really sick with Lyme and autoimmune. My nervous system has gone nuts!! I’m back to somewhat agoraphobic and irrational thoughts actually keep me from driving. It’s horrific. I’m doing eft, meditation and any tool I can find on TH-cam. Love your videos
Brutal! Será mi podcast diario por el próximo mes, si ha causado tanto impacto en mi ahora, no quiero ni pensar cuando lo tenga asimilado ❤❤❤❤ mil gracias por tu contribución al mundo!
Truth! Realizing you are not your thoughts and emotions is the first step to awakening. It can be like realizing you have a broken arm, the realization doesn’t make it stop hurting. Training your nervous system is a great concept like meditation is a workout for focus. It takes time and patience.
Yes, no one "makes us feel our emotions", we generate them, and we can change our reactions to other peoples' actions by changingbour mindset. We can learn not to feel anger and especially not to react out if anger. But it doesn't mean that somebody's action wasn't unfair, when it was. I don't agree that we should always reinteprete the situation to the poitnt to give the credit to the bad treatment, that maybe this person is right, and it's only "my emotions", "it is me who has to change", "it's only my trauma response". No, we have to see bad behaviour as it is, just not get emotional about it and just remove yourself from the situation if possible. Otherwise it is self-gaslighting.
What is good or bad though can be subjective. Sometimes people have different views and cultures and paradigms. So it’s not always absolute. That’s not to say your trauma responses and painful experiences aren’t valid. But if you point a finger always towards others, you’re putting the power in their hands. And sometimes it’s simply their bad behavior. Other times it’s a trigger that is buried inside your brain or body. It’s coming from fear, it’s an imprint or memory from the past. As a litmus test, I try to remember to ask myself what would my heroes do in this moment? Is this true? Or does it warrant my reaction? Often it’s having compassion for myself and for those who passed on their trauma. It’s the meaning we give to the events. Loving others as God or creation does us even when we’re not perfect. That’s a more empowering way to get what you want. Like a muscle grows stronger with practice, it’s a path to true life freedom. ❤
I thought I needed to take a few notes, but most of your context is very good! My back pain is already gone by observing a t, not judging it, acknowledging it that is just a body memory…and it’s not helpful for me right now. Thank you body. What I need help is getting into the highway without panic. I’m getting information about daring the fear…it has been challenging. More info on this will help me. I only experience it driving in wide spaces on the highway. Thank you SO much for all this treasure of information!
Been suffering w/debilitating anxiety and depression for months. Just started learning about CBT (cognitive behavior therapy) a week or so ago from a friend who's also a counselor. I thought "great, that's all I need is MORE thinking / more sh*t to process in my head" and it doesn't help... But somehow, the way David explained this (much simpler) 3 steps made a connection with me today and I've written down 2 long pages of "Old Ideas" (Chapter 5 of the Big Book;-) I assigned to myself from years ago; and then wrote down a page of EVIDENCE TO THE CONTRARY of he lies I've been telling myself.
I have only recently discovered you and your teachings, you are a life changer! There are so many others I’ve been following for so many years now, but it’s you that’s making the most impact. Yes, I understand how we are presented with what we are ready for when we are ready. I just have to thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me level up by freeing myself of fear. I swear I’ve tried everything but just couldn’t shake what’s been running in the background. Thank you! I also have to mention the coincidences that my name is Carol, my soon to be husband’s name is David, and we have a cat named Dexter. Tell me that’s not something! My first episode with you was on your path to the Gideon Bible on your way home from Fort Lauderdale. Thanks for the peace my friend. 🙏🏻♥️
I like to say that if something makes me feel mad, sad, or upset, I am only feeling that painful reaction to the degree that I believe them. If I have an unconscious belief that I'm a bad person, any comment in this regard will cause me pain because my ego loves to be right. My ego will say see, I am bad. I knew I was right! And now the brain has done me a wonderful service. It has shown me what I believe. The strength of my negative reaction or feeling is the strength of my belief. And I can use these reactions and offenses to become free.
This is so beautiful! So for the past few weeks I’ve been desiring knowledge/information/guidance on how to heal my relationship with money, how to be less fearful and more decisive, how to create more miracles in my life and how to become a better, the best version of myself and this week David’s videos popped up and each one is an answer to my “prayer” thank you 🙏🏽
Indeed this is the game..✨ ”By the sun and its brightness, and the moon as it follows it, and the day as it unveils it, and the night as it conceals it! And by heaven and ˹the One˺ Who built it, and the earth and ˹the One˺ Who spread it! And by the self conscious /Consciousness and ˹the One˺ Who fashioned it, then with ˹the knowledge of˺ right and wrong inspired it! . Successful indeed is the one who purifies it, and doomed is the one who corrupts it.” The Sun 91:9 Thank you David✨
I have been in a primal state for 63 years...my new spiritual tool is reframing my childhood trauma that created FEAR based emotions and a lifetime of suffering through disempowering limiting beliefs. I feel like the only thing I have done successfully is survive the holocaust of an unnurturing parents and generational trauma that was never even recognized as such until now. At this point, I am just really angry and disappointed and struggling not to blame myself for stuff that was not my doing but happened none the less. It's really hard to let it go (the body keeps the score) when I have been experiencing the biological, physiological, and every other -logical effects on a daily basis that have caused paralysis in many areas of my life. Im really sad and question if on top of everything else...am I chronically depressed from the diagnosis.
Actually you are hitting the deep questions in people’s minds and explaining them with simplicity and I feel this video like others is very very encouraging You are addressing areas which cause people to give up and give in. THANKYOU David.
I have just started watching you on TH-cam and i think your brilliant at getting this message through. ❤❤❤❤and i really appreciate it thank you so much
Thank you for letting me know I'm on the right track by manifesting this podcast. I just learned of you this early am as I'm laying here overthinking. 😮
Damn, I love you brother. This hit home and made PEEEEEFECT sense. I’ve been doing the work and seeing slow incremental changes but seem to bump my head again & again. I spend at least 6hrs+
Hi David, I’ve been following your content recently, and everything you share really resonates with me. Your words are like my thoughts personified. You do a great job sharing wisdom, and it’s much appreciated. We even have the 12 Step program in common! I love your philosophy and look forward to meeting you one day. Rock on, man!
Oh that's what I've been doing! I didn't realize I was pruning. People wonder why I don't get stuck in unresourceful emotions anymore & misassumed I wasn't being "real"
Brilliant. Clear. Inspiring. Sometimes we just need someone to lay out 'the obvious' to help us complete the step away from the perceived traps. Thank you.
You said self-fulfilling prophecy and I have had this debate in my mind whether I'm psychic or whether things are a self-fulfilling prophecy. It has been hard to distinguish one from the other many times.
I used to as I’m highly sensitive - I realised most of what I was feeling wasn’t mine. I now just feel the fear and it goes. I hope you can turn things around for yourself, good luck xx
@@klanderkal I’m just going through a time of life really dealing with all the trauma I’ve been shoving down. It’s really hard as I’m sure you know! It’s so much sometimes. But I’m committed to this journey. Thanks for asking. You doing okay?
@megblackwolf5470 im really not. I just Cannot accept the circumstances of the trauma, and losses. I suffer terribly from the anxiety and depression. I also have this insomnia. I tried all sorts. Still I just Cannot sleep. I'm on day 3 again. I'm so messed up. I'm gonna suffer all day even worse now. I cannot leave the apt these days. I did go walking yesterday.. hoping I would be tired enough to sleep.... I took valerian root, apigenin and magnesium and passion flower.... didn't work at all. I also prayed... still,.. no relief. I'm not sure if I can survive longer.
Been listening to your podcast since the beginning of the year. You have such succinct way of breaking things down. I love it. My question is... I had cancer diagnosis. I wasn in total fear, yet through a series of amazing miracles I was cancerfree without chemo ans radiation in a matter of months. Based on the 2 states of being how is this possible? Often when we create our own reality poeple say you must be positive but what happens when we are seemingly consumed w fear yet we are blessed. Can you offer any insights on this? Been wondering for years and no has been able to answer this for me.
Hey @David, To be clear, the quote about fear that you mentioned is from Eleanor Roosevelt. When you say, Roosevelt, most people generally think Teddy, or FDR, and she doesn't get the credit.
Same answer was mine.... I couldn't apply these methods. My life was destroyed... and there's no way out of my constant horrible thoughts... did you have tragedy in your life too?
I've been listening to Abraham for a while, Regan Hillyer, Tony Robbins and other teachers on manifesting and spirituality, but your videos are making these concepts so much more accessible for me. I've never heard Abraham say that if you're trying to manifest financial wealth from the position of "I want to feel financially secure so I need to make more money" (as you did in a previous video) then that position itself is coming from a place of lack. Mind blown!!!! That's all I've been doing this entire time. What you're saying echoes other people I've listened to, but the way you put things just makes these concepts super clear for me and I appreciate that! Thanks so much for the work you're doing!
I love his clarity too but Abraham hicks does say that if you feel 'need' then you are emitting lack in your vibration and will receive the evidence of it. I love what Abraham Hicks teaches but I am also loving the simple clarity of David Bayers teachings as well. They, and Dr. Joe Dispenza, all come together as a new path for people to forge for well-being and wholeness. I am appreciating this most of all. ❤
Yeah Abraham talks about if you’re saying like I want money so bad that it hurts , you’re in a lack of money mentality which is why money wasn’t happening in the first place
@JessicaGCook As Abraham says, " Any time you use the word 'need' you are in a lack vibration." They go hand in hand. Lately, I've been feeling the vibration of not needing anything, though I have huge financial dreams. It feels so good that I go there often. I see all the abundance everywhere but am in the vibration of not needing anything. It's so delicious I keep going back to it. 😁
David is brilliant in the way that he breaks down the concepts.
David is like the Joe Dispenza of business. I'd love to see you guys work together. Bringing more awareness in life and business. Thanks for your content. Can't wait to be in a coaching session with you.
It kinda of sucks to discover that 90% of my time on earth for these 60 years have been spent in the primal state.
At least now you know.😄 Imagine knowing it on your death bed...
It's one of the lifelong lessons those who wish to control the people never want us to understand. May the rest of your days be filled with more joy and understanding of our amazing capabilities as creators blessed with a consciousness from our Creator.
In my journey of personal growth and empowerment, I realize most people have been that way but what really comes to mind when delving into this stuff is my dad. He has passed away but that man was such a lost soul. There was no getting through to him. The most primal state human I've ever encountered. I read something once that said, "Some people aren't meant to evolve so you know what it looks like when you don't." And that hit home for me because I swore to myself at a very young age that I would not allow myself to be like my parents but especially like my dad. Seeing a person be so unaccountable, and now to put it in David's words of primal, I refuse to live a life like that even more.
@@mistyrose7511wow. thank you for this - "some ppl aren't meant to evolve so...."
It's as if you know this isn't a natural state of being and yet here we find ourselves 45 years later. I still have hope that this too will pass.
I just recently discovered you and I have to say that you are the first one (out of all of those spiritual speakers -including Esther Hicks) who explains all these things in such details, and breaking those deep theories down to the T. Your videos have really changed my perception, mind, and most of all Beliefs. I am sharing your videos with all my friends and I'm hoping they will affect them as much as it affected me. So Thank you for your incredible content!!
I agree! David make the most sense of them all. I have been listening to others for years, but it has never clicked until now. They are too "woo woo" to be relatable and make connections to my own life.
God Bless you! I cannot stop watching your videos, the examples and explanations of why have given me a direction of clarity. I’ve have great admiration for Wayne Dryer and others I’ve listen too. But many times leaving their videos not fully comprehending their messages leaving me somewhat struggling on how to get to the place of peace! Thank you so much wishing you great success in your life’s journey!
Absolutely!!! Agree 💯! I can't wait until he is the new president!!😊
I like it when you close your podcast with I love you" - you say it like you mean it.
35 yrs sober and still suffer with control and fear. Grateful I found you. Love the deep dive!!! Practice the principles in all of your affairs. Your work is what’s missing in most recovering people’s life! I’m familiar with the science you speak of. I’ve followed Joe Dispenza, Bruce Lipton, Gregg Braden and many others. The 12 steps was channeled and a “gift” to all of humanity! Thank you for expanding on the power of the steps and what they can do you…..FREEDOM FROM THE BONDAGE OF SELF!! You are my new sponsor. 🎉
I fight through the primal state of fear nearly every morning and sometimes during the night. Thanks for getting into actual, tangible tools to overcome.
Me too. You’re not alone.
I found you 4 days ago and you have changed my life. This was a great episode that clearly explained fear and how to address it. Your content is so well explained and genuine. I appreciate the fact that you relate your own experience. It makes it real for me. I’m going to check out the decision matrix today. Thanks, David. Great information 😊
I'm so glad!
I am can’t believe how much you are changing my life in such a short time. Your authenticity is so appreciated. You inspire me and for that I’m so very grateful. I finally found a mentor in you that I have been longing 0:05 for. Thanks, David. I’ll get your book this weekend.
You are talking directly to me!!!! I stay in a primal state, but I won’t anymore!!!!❤❤❤❤❤😊
I am beyond grateful for you! I appreciate the way you walk through the actual steps of how to do the work. Too many online guru people throw platitudes at you and tell you that you have to change your mindset, but they don't tell you how in the hell to do that. You do. Thank you.
I search the best teacher for myself and i came across yours videos. You are so carismatic and very good in explaining thinks. You are my favorit now.
Love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you! 😃
Thank you for all you do. You are making a difference in my life. After meditating on this video the information coalesced into one thought- “Is feeling this way in this moment necessary for my survival?” I think that will be my mantra when the apparitions of fear show up. Thank you for helping me sort that out.
About 70%
Watching this has been a game changer.
The idea of looking for when you’re in a fearful state and reframing these thoughts as teachers is so empowering !!🙏
Totally agree that being in fear and other negative states harms the body. Relaxation of mind and body is very important for our health.
Like this video. Here’s my interpretation .Beliefs are the stories we tell ourselves , especially when facing uncertainty. Our words/actions in uncertain times are driven by our belief. If we feed ourselves with evidence which aligns with belief we want to build, we do away with the limiting belief and make new ones.
Fear of not feeling well, fear of when or if I'll ever feel comfortable in my own skin.. Being in a sympathetic nervous system 24/7
Love your videos David! I believe more and more in this saying:”When the student is ready, the teacher will appear!” Thank you! Greetings from Florida!
I’m just working on this today! I developed lower back pain and O know it’s related to finances! And my therapist appointment at 10 explained it to me but didn’t click until now! Brother David, thank you for sharing this gold knowledge!!!
I don't understand why he doesn't have more followers! He's a modern day Sage and Guru! ❤
I love what you are saying! I succeeded with fear as fuel, it breakdown, it is not self-sustaining. Higher intelligence within you is nudging you towards self-correction, self-organizing… that is when a greater order emerges, like heart and brain coherence… In those states, your nervous system self-regulates, your awareness is expanded, heart is open, connection is the feeling…
@@performancewithin Seems as if you are doing great...I've been doing sleep meditation...and it's been amazing being a single Mom.
Thank you! This was helpful regarding rethinking the fear being a memory! I had a pretty good life and a 40 year teaching career that I enjoyed, until I was exposed to horrible toxins which took down my entire body and damaged every system.
I have done everything right to heal, but 4 surgeries, infections from everything including the hospital, and a family (including my daughter and son) who doesn’t care enough to even check on me. I’m in freeze response right now from PTSD from the medical system which kept me sick for 21 years. I’m recovering, but like you, my body is catching up!
I also had horrible trauma from a family member last year, which broke down my CNS, and I can hardly function now, and it’s extremely hard for me to drive being in constant anxiety, and having a mentally disabled, but brilliant, son about whom I’m constantly concerned.
Everyone left me because of him and my illnesses and pain, but that’s ok. I just need help sometimes because I’m so tiny and almost 70. My stomach is in knots as I type this.
I appreciate your videos!
Consumed your content literally binged and subscribed. The Gideon Bible and Les Brown episode hit hard with some crazy synchronicity in my own experience. Keep inspiring 🙏🏻
Love that!
David.
Keep holding the light! 💡
I believe one day we will be aligned with the energetic connectivity of advancement through the stagnation of fear. We will transform negativity in mere minutes! For our present time, there is David!! Thank you for the knowledge 🙏
Great video! Thank you. Opened my mind to a fear I didn’t know I was unconsciously reacting to.
Glad it was helpful!
You’re a God sent!❤
While listening to this I figured I’m in that primal state probably 98% of the time! I have moments where I’m joyful but like you explained in there there’s so many circumstances from my old thinking that bring me back to the primal state that I switch back without even thinking about it. Whenever you actually gave a strategy on what to do when the fear comes up or the circumstances come up that reinforces fear I’ll begin to cry. For the first time I felt like it’s something that I could actually do to move myself out of fear. It’s interesting. I have your book, and starting on the chapter on detox matrix! Thank you, Dave for sharing the stuff with us!
I would say 90% of my day is spent in fear. Your definition of what fear encompasses might make that number higher. I was able to meditate using a Joe Dispenza morning meditation today and get more out of it thanks to one of your recent videos about manifestation and how the art of allowing. That video is raising my awareness to be alert when it comes to not letting myself react to my family who is under huge stress right now. Better to let someone else be right than to get into the resistance of disputing whose right. Let that shit go. Much more important to be in a state of allowing than to engage in conflict over whose who in the hierarchy. I am the one in this equation who is ready to be a conscious creator. I am the lighting rod for positive change. Breaking old habits is taking on a whole new meaning. I am excited about the possibilities. Remembering that what I see is what I previously attracted and to be relaxed while being vigilant for opportunities and direction. I AM so close now. ❤
Which video your listening to specifically?
Love this! Once you understand how the mind works, applying concepts such as this becomes much more palatable. Thanks for freely educating.
Your videos are so helpful! Thank you for sharing
It's only true for you...... this is everything! Changing what is true for me!!
Another great video! 😁You explain it where it makes it easy for people to understand and practice it. I will say I have adapted a lot of the things you say, especially being aware of my thoughts and making the decision to change my thought process to a more positive outlook and not let a bad situation upset me to for too long.😃
I appreciate so much how you are able to distill things into simple ideas. It's part of your genius, your brilliance, a divine gift, I believe. Thank you for sharing all of these with us.
Needed something new. Resonating thoroughly. Great stuff. Looking forward to changing my limited beliefs. Thanks David
This is a good explanation I appreciate the fact that you give tools to use. I’ve been dealing with anxiety/agoraphobia since childhood. I got really sick with Lyme and autoimmune. My nervous system has gone nuts!! I’m back to somewhat agoraphobic and irrational thoughts actually keep me from driving. It’s horrific. I’m doing eft, meditation and any tool I can find on TH-cam. Love your videos
Sending love and healing energy your way @phyllisboyle1162
Brutal! Será mi podcast diario por el próximo mes, si ha causado tanto impacto en mi ahora, no quiero ni pensar cuando lo tenga asimilado ❤❤❤❤ mil gracias por tu contribución al mundo!
Truth! Realizing you are not your thoughts and emotions is the first step to awakening. It can be like realizing you have a broken arm, the realization doesn’t make it stop hurting. Training your nervous system is a great concept like meditation is a workout for focus. It takes time and patience.
Yes, no one "makes us feel our emotions", we generate them, and we can change our reactions to other peoples' actions by changingbour mindset. We can learn not to feel anger and especially not to react out if anger. But it doesn't mean that somebody's action wasn't unfair, when it was. I don't agree that we should always reinteprete the situation to the poitnt to give the credit to the bad treatment, that maybe this person is right, and it's only "my emotions", "it is me who has to change", "it's only my trauma response". No, we have to see bad behaviour as it is, just not get emotional about it and just remove yourself from the situation if possible. Otherwise it is self-gaslighting.
What is good or bad though can be subjective. Sometimes people have different views and cultures and paradigms. So it’s not always absolute. That’s not to say your trauma responses and painful experiences aren’t valid. But if you point a finger always towards others, you’re putting the power in their hands. And sometimes it’s simply their bad behavior. Other times it’s a trigger that is buried inside your brain or body. It’s coming from fear, it’s an imprint or memory from the past. As a litmus test, I try to remember to ask myself what would my heroes do in this moment? Is this true? Or does it warrant my reaction? Often it’s having compassion for myself and for those who passed on their trauma. It’s the meaning we give to the events. Loving others as God or creation does us even when we’re not perfect. That’s a more empowering way to get what you want. Like a muscle grows stronger with practice, it’s a path to true life freedom. ❤
I thought I needed to take a few notes, but most of your context is very good! My back pain is already gone by observing a t, not judging it, acknowledging it that is just a body memory…and it’s not helpful for me right now. Thank you body.
What I need help is getting into the highway without panic. I’m getting information about daring the fear…it has been challenging. More info on this will help me. I only experience it driving in wide spaces on the highway. Thank you SO much for all this treasure of information!
Been suffering w/debilitating anxiety and depression for months. Just started learning about CBT (cognitive behavior therapy) a week or so ago from a friend who's also a counselor. I thought "great, that's all I need is MORE thinking / more sh*t to process in my head" and it doesn't help...
But somehow, the way David explained this (much simpler) 3 steps made a connection with me today and I've written down 2 long pages of "Old Ideas" (Chapter 5 of the Big Book;-) I assigned to myself from years ago; and then wrote down a page of EVIDENCE TO THE CONTRARY of he lies I've been telling myself.
So helpful.
I have only recently discovered you and your teachings, you are a life changer! There are so many others I’ve been following for so many years now, but it’s you that’s making the most impact. Yes, I understand how we are presented with what we are ready for when we are ready. I just have to thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me level up by freeing myself of fear. I swear I’ve tried everything but just couldn’t shake what’s been running in the background. Thank you!
I also have to mention the coincidences that my name is Carol, my soon to be husband’s name is David, and we have a cat named Dexter. Tell me that’s not something! My first episode with you was on your path to the Gideon Bible on your way home from Fort Lauderdale. Thanks for the peace my friend. 🙏🏻♥️
That’s amazing 😂😂
I like to say that if something makes me feel mad, sad, or upset, I am only feeling that painful reaction to the degree that I believe them. If I have an unconscious belief that I'm a bad person, any comment in this regard will cause me pain because my ego loves to be right. My ego will say see, I am bad. I knew I was right! And now the brain has done me a wonderful service. It has shown me what I believe. The strength of my negative reaction or feeling is the strength of my belief. And I can use these reactions and offenses to become free.
This has helped me identify some primal states to work on. Thank you. Peace Love and Light.
Incredible video thank you for providing the steps to move away from the limiting beliefs and fear 🙏🏼💗
This is so beautiful! So for the past few weeks I’ve been desiring knowledge/information/guidance on how to heal my relationship with money, how to be less fearful and more decisive, how to create more miracles in my life and how to become a better, the best version of myself and this week David’s videos popped up and each one is an answer to my “prayer” thank you 🙏🏽
Amazing David Bayer you are the one explaining it so clear with 💝 love you too...A Changed Mind !
I always feel empowered after watching your videos. I so much appreciate it, thank you.!
Indeed this is the game..✨
”By the sun and its brightness, and the moon as it follows it, and the day as it unveils it, and the night as it conceals it! And by heaven and ˹the One˺ Who built it, and the earth and ˹the One˺ Who spread it! And by the self conscious /Consciousness and ˹the One˺ Who fashioned it, then with ˹the knowledge of˺ right and wrong inspired it! .
Successful indeed is the one who purifies it, and doomed is the one who corrupts it.”
The Sun 91:9
Thank you David✨
You just have this way of simplifying what seems to be complicated. Your timing is with this video is right on the dot!
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you for being here all your teaching is a great help
Yes. Your videos are fantastic. Thank you for the work you do 🙏
I always say this of your videos,but this right here is pure gold
I have been in a primal state for 63 years...my new spiritual tool is reframing my childhood trauma that created FEAR based emotions and a lifetime of suffering through disempowering limiting beliefs.
I feel like the only thing I have done successfully is survive the holocaust of an unnurturing parents and generational trauma that was never even recognized as such until now.
At this point, I am just really angry and disappointed and struggling not to blame myself for stuff that was not my doing but happened none the less. It's really hard to let it go (the body keeps the score) when I have been experiencing the biological, physiological, and every other -logical effects on a daily basis that have caused paralysis in many areas of my life. Im really sad and question if on top of everything else...am I chronically depressed from the diagnosis.
David you are valuable ❤
Actually you are hitting the deep questions in people’s minds and explaining them with simplicity and I feel this video like others is very very encouraging
You are addressing areas which cause people to give up and give in. THANKYOU David.
Observing yourself in the fearful moment is a really powerful way to diffuse the energy of it.
💯 I learned abpit somatics back in Nov and it changed my life and perception of the world because you get out of fight or flight or freeze mode.
I have just started watching you on TH-cam and i think your brilliant at getting this message through. ❤❤❤❤and i really appreciate it thank you so much
Thank you thank you❤
I am going to implement this into my life
I spend slot of time In fear
Now I have a solution
I appreciate your work
Thank you for letting me know I'm on the right track by manifesting this podcast. I just learned of you this early am as I'm laying here overthinking. 😮
This was very useful. The way you explain this makes it very easy to understand. Thank you 🙏
Perfect timing!
Damn, I love you brother. This hit home and made PEEEEEFECT sense. I’ve been doing the work and seeing slow incremental changes but seem to bump my head again & again. I spend at least 6hrs+
Hi David,
I’ve been following your content recently, and everything you share really resonates with me. Your words are like my thoughts personified. You do a great job sharing wisdom, and it’s much appreciated. We even have the 12 Step program in common! I love your philosophy and look forward to meeting you one day. Rock on, man!
Wow, thank you glad you’re here Joe ❤️🙌🏻
Thanks for your video!
Oh that's what I've been doing! I didn't realize I was pruning. People wonder why I don't get stuck in unresourceful emotions anymore & misassumed I wasn't being "real"
Great information!! thank you for explaining so clearly and sharing wonderful examples i truly enjoy the way you teach!
Amazing thanks you🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Love your videos! The shaky camera really gets me though.
Thank you, gr8 insights ❤
Thanks David, this really helps.
Brilliant. Clear. Inspiring.
Sometimes we just need someone to lay out 'the obvious' to help us complete the step away from the perceived traps.
Thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
@@DavidBayer33 Thank you. Yes. Just shared it along. 🙏✨
Great content. Very glad I came across this channel.
I’ve never thought about how much time I spend in a primal state. 😅
You said self-fulfilling prophecy and I have had this debate in my mind whether I'm psychic or whether things are a self-fulfilling prophecy. It has been hard to distinguish one from the other many times.
my feelings create my reality more than my thoughts
The only reason you have the feeling is because of thought
4:46 I believe I spend 90 percent of my life per day living in fear.
I used to as I’m highly sensitive - I realised most of what I was feeling wasn’t mine. I now just feel the fear and it goes. I hope you can turn things around for yourself, good luck xx
I just found you today! Incredible content! You are my new favorite personality. Thank you!
34 years in fear
Brilliant!! Thank you, brother… Namaste 🙏❤️
Thank you ❤
David, this is dope! Thank you! 💪🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
You bet
I really needed this today, thank you.
You are so welcome!
I didn't realize how fear manifests itself in so many ways .
Love this video! Do you have a clearing process when you are actually mentally, emotionally or physically attacked say by a sociopath or psychopath?
Thank you!
Feel the fear and do it anyways! Great vid.
Ready.
Nobody is ever truly fearless (example: Miyamoto Musashi), but you can transform it or harness it to constructive use.
thank you for videos
Thank you!🙏🏼
Your videos are so good, Wow😊
Glad you like them!
Thank you.
I'm in primal state all day/night.. Extremely horrible tragedies. Trauma and depression.
I’m so sorry you are suffering. You’re not alone.
@megblackwolf5470 Thank you!🫶... Im trying non medications... still,.. its hard for me.
💙💙💙
@@megblackwolf5470 I hope you're okay 👍?
@@klanderkal I’m just going through a time of life really dealing with all the trauma I’ve been shoving down. It’s really hard as I’m sure you know! It’s so much sometimes. But I’m committed to this journey. Thanks for asking. You doing okay?
@megblackwolf5470 im really not. I just Cannot accept the circumstances of the trauma, and losses. I suffer terribly from the anxiety and depression. I also have this insomnia. I tried all sorts. Still I just Cannot sleep. I'm on day 3 again. I'm so messed up. I'm gonna suffer all day even worse now. I cannot leave the apt these days. I did go walking yesterday.. hoping I would be tired enough to sleep.... I took valerian root, apigenin and magnesium and passion flower.... didn't work at all. I also prayed... still,.. no relief. I'm not sure if I can survive longer.
I was afraid of not watching this 🎉
Been listening to your podcast since the beginning of the year. You have such succinct way of breaking things down. I love it. My question is... I had cancer diagnosis. I wasn in total fear, yet through a series of amazing miracles I was cancerfree without chemo ans radiation in a matter of months. Based on the 2 states of being how is this possible? Often when we create our own reality poeple say you must be positive but what happens when we are seemingly consumed w fear yet we are blessed. Can you offer any insights on this? Been wondering for years and no has been able to answer this for me.
Love this
I struggle first thing in the morning and in the evening. It seems that anxiety comes through when I’m feeling tired.
Out here doing God’s work fr
🙏🏾Thank you🙏🏾💯
Hey @David,
To be clear, the quote about fear that you mentioned is from Eleanor Roosevelt. When you say, Roosevelt, most people generally think Teddy, or FDR, and she doesn't get the credit.
It’s actually Montaigne but yes agreed
I’m in a primal state all the hours I’ awake
Same answer was mine....
I couldn't apply these methods.
My life was destroyed... and there's no way out of my constant horrible thoughts... did you have tragedy in your life too?