This Woman Goes on Her First Date Ever on Tell My Story ❤️
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ต.ค. 2024
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The fact she’s not ashamed that she hasn’t dated and been in a relationship is admirable but she’s so cute though it’s surprising
Michael Price why when a girl holds of being in relationship her sexuality is questioned?? If she said she hasn’t met guys that she’d want to date and is extremely shy and insecure was she supposed to go hunting for a man?
@Michael Price She said she was really shy and doesn't go out much. And there might be some influence form her upbringing.. Maybe more conservative
@Michael Price
I'm almost 17 and I've never been on a date before...I could be just like her in a few years. Guys have asked me out, even guys that I liked. But I always get really bad anxiety and end up not going on a date with them. Sometimes I'm super rude to the guy, just because I don't know how to act around boys who like me. Or just boys in general. Idk...I'm weird. But that doesn't make me a lesbian😂 Same with the woman in the video!
I'm almost 25, and I've only been on one date. Like Gabrielle said, it's hard to date when you're shy and insecure. It also seems like so few people are interested in me or men that are interested are people you know you would not get along with. I want a relationship, but at this point I'm not settling for someone. I've waited this long, I can wait longer 😌
@@KeyJKandy exactly! And the good that came out of it was that I learned to be happy with just my company and know what I want in a relationship
Get her back on for another date! I want her to find someone who makes her happy!
Damn I should have listened to the voice in my head that said "don't open the comments you'll find SPOILERS"
I want to make her happy!!!!!!
She CAN'T find someone to make her happy. Only SHE can make herself happy. Another person can only ADD to the happiness SHE creates for HERSELF!
@@montgomerycamjr - I'm pretty sure that's what @akumabito2008
meant... 😂 The fact that she's on this show is proof enough that she may not feel fulfilled with her dating life. She already seems like a positive/happy person, so I doubt @akumabito2008
meant "makes her happy" as in "change her whole outlook on life."
@akumabito2008
may have also meant that he wants her to find someone who she likes, because she can only be so happy with this outcome. Best case scenario, she's made a new friend. Worse case, she hasn't. But none of those two are the ultimate goal of this video. If the goal of this video was met, it would have boosted her happiness, aka she would have found someone that "makes her happy."
@SoulPancake Please do this for us!
Sure, give the woman who never was on a date or in a relationship someone who wants a polyamorous relationship
Right?! Opposites attract maybe?
They're terrible at pairing people up. They purposefully pair up people that have some conflict of interest (ex. Super religious with not religious, liberal with conservative, etc) so they can make a title like "Will X difference lead to them not dating or will they be able to overcome it?"
It also causes more comments which lead to more views and money for them
both sides would work if they were from Utah :-)
Henry B Lmaoo riight😭😂
Maybe she’ll discover something about her self!:)
I really like her voice for some reason (especially when she is speaking low and relaxed). It sounds like a voice I'd love to listen to in an animation movie, a podcast or an audiobook. :) This was a nice episode. They both seem like very kind people.
I love that even though they were so different they didn't seem to real judge each other.
Why is this comment shown to have been posted 2 weeks ago?😮 Am I the only one who's seeing this?
Also that smoothe southern accent coming out
@@yerkesartay441 Knows Too Much. Yerke Must Be Silenced!
Jake Morales 😂😂
She has an amazing smile
I'll tell her you said that 😁(I'm her sister)
I don't like to comment like this, but overall she's prettty nice.
@@ahhh2728 Keep me updated 👍
She is amazing
Marissa g yeah i’m her cousin i’m gonna give her the message too
Also why do you keep matching people that are obviously not for each other
Wouldn't it get boring if every pair matched up though? I like the differences.
@@anthonyt425 I agree but differences would be cool if they are surprisingly springing out of the explanation of choices they made, and not when its the basic ideals the people have. I mean after all it IS a dating show. Also, watching people match is way much more special than awkwardly disappointed couples fake giggling and shaking hands in the end imo..
@@nourkotria yeah people can be different on paper but love each other (and vice versa) when it's like fundamental political beliefs, like the bi/homophobe woman (personally I wouldn't even let her on the show tbh and found that an odd question), or completely different relationship wants like kids/marriage/monogamy it's a bit unfair on them.
To give them new experiences maybe and new perspectives? We would all stay the same and never evolve in our beliefs and knowledge if we always stayed in our bubble ;)
retweet....(a joke) lmao
*both have anxiety*
-video producers-“THEYRE SOULMATES”
I’ve never related to someone more I could easily see myself not being in a relationship until I’m 25
i'm 30 and never been in a relationship forever single not ready to mingle
Rxma x wow as long as you’re happy!!
Two of my friends were like 30+ before they got into relationships and one's engaged, other planning to move in with the dude. Some people wait ages but then meet 'the one' first time, others go through lots of shorter relationships or unhappy ones.
Fraggin' Aardvark so true
Saammmeeee
This is the most respectful episode I’ve ever seen. I love these two
She's so pretty and has such a warm laugh and smile. I really liked her
man this guy is next level hipster
lmao right its so cringe
He’s been drinking to much soy, all masculinity has been void from his body.
Hipsters if they were created in the 80s
I’m so annoyed by his existence
bhahahah xD
She’s so naturally pretty 😍
I love these videos, specially when we see a lot of chemistry between them. And even if they don't become a couple they respect each other which makes the videos better
They are both attractive, kind, sincere and non-judgmental. Too bad they were not a match.
Hes an ugly ginger
he's not sincere
@@tinipants2 naah man
Sunbeam645 those are judgements
I wish more people would have that view on creating a family especially if they know they’re not up for the responsibility
Jana Sh why? Most people can’t afford it. People just have a realistic mindset.
Rocket Lights exactly what I mean but societies tend to pressure women to have kids so some people fall for it even if they’re not financially/personally ready
Ppl need to stop having kids. Our planet 🌎 is dying
@@luluseatowngetdown6251 Exactly, bro.. like, it's completely your choice but people need to stop forcing married couples to have kids....
He’s in love with his friends
Is that bad?
@@mysoul95D he just pointin out
Lmaoooo
When she said she didn’t want kids I thought she just didn’t want kids but the fact that she is thinking of what her children would have to struggle with is amazing. She seems so sweet and kind, empathetic. She is very thoughtful.
two really cool people.
i loved how open she was to learn without judgement, and how he was there to educate without being pushy
hopefully they can both find what they’re looking for
I wanna know who made the question of “ do u have a passport “
Lol 😂
🤪 Plus do u hav an insurance
Kkkk
She's gorgeous!
There is such a genuine energy emanating from her.
Relating so much! First kiss at 25 first boyfriend at 26 but now married,31.
Everyone assumed I had a boyfriend by 13😂😂😂
I was extremely socially awkward till 27... first kiss at 28... multiple semi-serious relationships after that.. some blunders on my end.. and now single at 36 (still can't get over my blunders).
thats great, congrats. i wish it worked out for me that way :‘)
Omg please bring her back for a second episode with someone more compatible,i am SO invested in her!!!
y'all i'm turning 30 soon and have never dated, for those same reasons. shy, sensitive and also deal with anxiety. genuinely uninterested in the guys who have asked me out. and the (TWO) times i actually felt something mutual, it just got complicated. lately i've been freaking out about it tho, feeling pretty lonely but not wanting to force anything. not dating until your 20s (or 30s) shouldn't be any more surprising/judged than choosing to be in relationships with five people at one time. but sometimes it seems like the latter is more socially acceptable :'(
U a dude or chick?
Relax, it will come natural, just don't close doors by not trying
@@Dbulkss chick, why?
I relate to you so much :o I'm turning 30 next year and I've only been in one relationship which was last year. I thought he had mutual feelings but it turned out he only liked me as a friend or family member. I'm really awkward with people and I'm also super insecure and have a hard time believing anyone can find me attractive.
Preach...I can relate to this so much. There is "single discrimination" in our society for sure. If you're still single at 30, you're judged hard. People assume that either you're gay or there's something wrong with you. But you could date 30 different people by 30 and that's normal. Why settle for someone you don't even love, just so you can seem "normal"? Hang in there...the struggle is real!
Her first date? Hoooow, she is super pretty
Vanesza ikr
People dont get in relationships because of their looks??
@@oneof134 absolutely
Well, I meant “date” not a relationship, at least in my case I don’t mind going out with someone I find eiter interesting or attractive, and that doesn’t mean I will end up coupling with that guys, is just only a part of getting to know another person. Anyway, I appreciate all answers 👋🏻
What Not To Do At a Stoplight it’s better to be single because of “attitude” rather than to settle for breadcrumbs. Women are needing men less, they can’t even help you in an orgasm plus sex toys exist so
Not just pretty, she is also sweet. Go to Greece girl! We need people like you !
She's got a lot to offer, like her growing confidence and hope she'll meet the "right one".
My eyes rolled to Antarctica when he said he's polyamorous. People like him should announce themselves from the beginning. Otherwise it should be assumed that the other person is looking for a monogomous relationship on a date.
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@@HugoFerreira24photo Why ignorant? It makes complete sense to disclose what you're looking for at the start of the date. It's the same way dating apps often say if someone is looking for something casual vs. relationship. Perhaps it is you being ignorant and not understanding why others think the way they do before commenting?
Elite I mean he’s not a murderer, “people like him” made it sound like he’d done something horrible, he’s just polyamorous
Indralin But you are on this show to find this one person for yourself, not be in a relationship to share them with 0 commitment.
Agreed
These two are such open, accepting, chill people! Love the girl, especially.
I am so happy I discovered the non-listed content in SP's TH-cam-Cards für the hardcore viewers! Thank you!
edit: His eyes, her smile, her voice, his hair color, I LOVE THEM!
edit II: she is doing a great job explaining the question about having children
The videos are great, so I think it is a bit of a shame that more people don't get to see them
Wait what?
@Deutscher Thanos no, same here
@Deutscher Thanos It was unlisted before but some had the link to it so they watched it earlier.
She is a really gorgeous!😍
She is so lovely and kind and reminds me of Sara Bareilles.
Being awkward does NOT mean you have social anxiety!! I swear people be throwing that word around without knowing what it means
Also if she doesn’t want to be in a polyamorous relationship, then leave her alone
He maybe said awkward because it’s embarrassing to bear it all in public. I say awkward because people find that quirky and not necessarily weird. You don’t know if he does or does not have social anxiety. I’d give him the benefit of the doubt for having courage to say it
He left her alone. He even told her that that going into her first relationship it should be however she wanted it to be.
VC He said he likes parties and social events. People with SA dread social events and avoid them bc their fear of embarrassing themselves is so intense.
TributesAndUnique with all due respect, if you aren’t a mental health professional you really can’t legitimately generalize behaviors. Depression itself can cause weight loss OR weight gain, insomnia OR oversleeping. Those are opposites. I really don’t want to debate about this, but as someone diagnosed with SA sadly, I love the idea of parties and can be very social in such situations if my mood is high. Otherwise, I can barely walk into public and have tricking fear at parties, etc. I’m not going to try and police someone’s words and symptoms. Anyhow, have a good day.
xSquidTrap thank you 🙏
bob looks like a cartoon character representing the embodiment of a retro-hipster, im gonna sketch him right now.
Your IG please!
Lmao😂😂😂
She's so pretty and yet she is waiting for someone who genuinely likes her.. makes me feel better about myself who is 19 and never been in a relationship
Ava Meyers girl, do you! Don’t date till you’re comfortable. Your self-respect will pay off in spades!
He's got that serial killer glasses. 🤔
U seems judgmental
lol
drew 876 🤣🤣🤣
SHE is insecure??? girl how? you are so stunning, you need to stop that now
Being stunning isn t just about looks.
She is a beautiful soul, but we never know what ppl have been through
That's right we don't what people have been through in this life or the last, but the way we presently are with others can get clues and try to make that a reason to strengthen our character- call it deep introspection.
@@alia4976 3قف wta
Aw I wanted them to work out! But I get it. Let's get this girl a man!
@Michael Price Why do you keep pushing the gay possibility? How about you let people decide their sexuality and identity for themselves. She knows what she is attracted to. Stop speaking for people and thinking you know everything. There are many reasons as to why someone hasn't dated.
@Michael Price So move on then. Stop trying to speak for her.
@Michael Price I'm sorry, what? Do I have a gun to your head? Did I threaten your family? How exactly am I forcing you to reply with stupid comments?
@Michael Price you talk like a virgin, so are we suppose to assume if you haven't been on a date if you're 25+ that you should come out as gay.. stop being so ignorant
She’s so cute! Her personality/voice reminds me of Violet from the incredibles lol
She is adorable. I applause him for being honest in what he is looking for in a relationship.
Great job Gab! You are so full of class and grace ❤️
I haven't even watched yet but I'm already excited. I love these videos regardless of the outcome
Edit: okay I watched it and aww I hope she finds someone she's so beautiful and kind
May this lovely young woman’s patience lead her into the most pleasant, amazing journeys in her life! All of Father God’s best blessings to her always🌹🙏🏼❣️
RetiredOldNurseMamawME amen!
She's so cute. They both just have such sweet and happy personalities, I was just smiling watching this!
She's adorable. Putting her with him was a big mistake. Why would the producers do that to her?
Why do it to him? They both lost out
she's so sweet. i love her aura because i relate to it so much 🥰
I don't see chemistry. She's beautiful🔥 and she's too good for him
Her smile is so contagious, im in love
It didn’t say polyamorous on the card, Bob.
She’s so adorable she deserves the whole world
I can relate with this girl. I’ve not been into relationship too. “Not to open relationship but she wanted a loyal one” 🙈❤️😊👏🏻
You know what, this is better than those tinder dates you have where, after you meet, they just ghost you and all. At least here, you’d know right off the bat that “he would not want to date you.” Saves you trouble of questioning yourself.
👏🏻 good episode.
aarinmade Omg I thought I was the only one that experienced tinder ghosting!😂😂🤣
i think this was my favorite episode so far
I feel sorry for Bob when I read the comments... The way he spoke about it was really nice and honest and I think for Gabriëlla there couldn't be a better person to confront her with this.
Note: With the confronting part I mean that Soulpancakes just put people together with a way to wide differents. In this case: Both introvert, but no relationships vs poly.
So to Bob: I am glad and happy about the way you portraited polyamor-relationships:)
Technically she hasn’t yet had a “first date”. That was merely an interview to see IF they’d want to date.
Isn't a first date an interview on whether two people are compatible?
She is quite lovely and I think she deserves someone that makes her happy.
That open relationship thing was super off-putting! But hey, each to their own. He's still single, so obviously none of his multiple relationships have worked either. ;)
Jojo Bee well maybe keep that to yourself? I mean let people do what makes them happy! I won’t judge anyone depending on what kind of relationship works for them, and you shouldn’t either!! If monogamy is your thing that’s great, if polyamory is someone else’s thing, that’s great! Peace and love to all
What's more off putting is the fact he didn't admit he is bisexual too
@@emblalo Exactlyyyyy!! 💯
I turn 23 in about 4 days and I've never dated or done anything with with a girl. The fact that she's 25 and still isn't rushing tells me there's a lot more of someone like her near my age and gives me hope. I hope she finds someone soon.
I think it’s more insulting when they say I would date you at first but once they got to know them they say I would not date you like lmao ok
Laura Patino right. It’s like “yah you look hot but I kinda hate your personality” lmao 😂
i think its more insulting when they say i wouldnt date u at first
Nah honesty is best. It's not an insult.
I agree, but they explained after that it was because of the polyamory thing and not because of their personality
Momera I know I was just saying in general for all of these types of dates
Thank God they didn't start dating, she seems so sweet and innocent and he is on some next level ish with multiple people where things can get messy fast
Actually poly relationships don't get as messy as mono, it's human nature to be with more than one person, we're the only primates that try stick to one partner, but considering most marriages end in devorce and its almost always messy and gross, I'd say mono isn't working out that great, it's because jealousy, love someone enough to know there are people out there that can make them happy in ways you can in certain areas
Fun fact she is my dance teacher 💕
Let me get to know her ! 😍😍
Then you must be pretty too, I'll go for you
Loving this series. They both look like great people, perhaps not just for each other. He looks more confident than he comes across and she is just super cute.
She is very cool and relatable! She reminds me of Lucy from Parks and Recreation played by Natalie Morales.
Liz I can see that!
That's it! It was bugging me who she reminded me of.
Finally, a person I can relate to! Love her honesty & personality.
please feature more mid-late 20/30 somethings with no dating experience... there must be more out there T_T
She's all kinds of cute, has a great personality, seems reasonably confident and not insecure about the status of her love life, and is genuinely understanding and interesting in learning new things. Maybe not the most adventurous person in the world, but that isn't always a bad thing anyway.
I'd totally ask her out.
This guy looks and sounds like my first kiss guy and that's stressful for the viewing experience TBH
lol
Her eyes, smile and voice is so amazing. Gorgeous lady ☺
Why wouldn't he date her upon first glance? She's wayyyy more attractive!
Maybe because not everyone is basic and gets their first impression just from looks? Wow shocking right.
@@AnimeSpotlight Exactly
He said bc he didn't know her yet and would be weird for him to date someone he doesn't yet know (maybe im sensing some level of demisexuality? 🤔🤔)
I love these! and I'm so happy to also see someone who hasn't dated before because I haven't either; makes me feel like I'm not alone
I really really like these people & that’s rare for me. Both have soothing voices ✨💖✨
She is so gorgeous. There’s no way I’d ever say no to such an adorable, beautiful girl like that...
He isn't going to suit her.
She is very sensitive & insecure.
His weirdness & openness will scare her out eventually!
geminilicious that could be the case, but sometimes differences make balance. he could open her up more
@@haleybrooks6213
He will give her a push to open up socially in the beginning & she might like it, but soon enough she will realize that's not the shape & dynamic of a long term relationship that she wants!
She needs loyalty & assertion.
She won't find that in someone who always seeking open relationships!
They can be friends but not partners.
ugh. I always feel like people who seem so compatible say they don't want to date each other. they're both so sweet and so open. props to them :)
I can't believe it. Her story is like mine 😊🖒
She has such a beautiful spirit.
Gabrielle! You said you are insecure but you are gorgeous and sweet and funny and charming! I hope you find a great guy who sees that in you! Praying you will find your soulmate!
This was really good. I appreciated their discussions in addition to answering the questions.
She is so beautiful and funny... many guys would be lucky to have a girl like her.
She is so sweet girl with such sweet smile as well
omg I'm so happy for both of them. it really felt like I was watching the boy version of me interact with the white version of me. I'm glad they both survived. They're so cute and seem fun. I have hope for the future.
Your channel gives single people hope!💖💖💖
She’s magnetic. 😍
She's a doll. I hope she learns how lovely and valuable she is.
They should’ve been paired differently. She needs a nice conservative man. He needs a more confident liberal woman. My 2 cents.
@@emmabunch-benson7922 ...i think you get what he meant tho.
How many conservative men don't want kids tho? He def needs a liberal woman tho.
@@mattsmith3354 Well less liberal than this guy, but probably somewhere in between
He definitely needs a more left leaning woman. Someone who leans really far to the left. Someone open minded and kind of funky and has an eclectic look to her. I can see her with a conservative or perhaps independent sort of guy. I’m having a hard time picturing what he’d look like though
I not sure he needs a woman at all tbh
It would be cool to see Gabrielle back for a second episode!
I’m 26 and until this year I had never been in a relationship, it will all come in due time girl!
She's only 25 she'll meet someone someday in the future.
I was getting more of a gay vibe from him, I don't think they were a good match. They both seem really sweet and interesting.
He seems open to all genders.
She is so pure!!!
Hey y'all! Just wanted to talk about my experience. I'm 19 and just like so many of you, haven't had any dating/ relationship/ sexual relationship. And heck, I don't even mind. I've had guys ask me out, most of whom I liked back as well and the happiness I felt after I got to know like that makes it pretty clear I'm straight. Like trust me, I'm straight (wish I was lesbian tho cuz guys suck ngl). But my anxiety and fear of disappointing any one and every one I'll ever be with has always restricted me. I have pretty low self confidence but I do hope to find someone who's like me and will be able to relate to me and till then, I am so ready to wait. Not having dated someone in no matter how many years of age does not mean I'm a secret lesbian, asexual or simply weird. It's just who I am and it felt really good reading all of those comments which made me feel so much less alienated in a world where dating has become a trend and as someone said, so many just do it for the heck of it or due to peer pressure but y'all let's be proud of ourselves for not giving into that. Cheers. THANKS FOR COMING TO MY TED TALK.
Soo it's been 3 years since you wrote this, any updates?
She is lovely and has such a loving personality. I hope she meets someone who deserves her.
They could have been a good couple, but its clear why they are not in relationships so frequently, as they are pretty particular about their choices
Whoever marries her is a lucky guy. Dark hair, light eyes is such a combo. Really though, she’s super pretty, but she’s got this innocent/sweet/naive/cute, dorkiness about her and I bet she’ll be loyal to you until the end of time.
The pressure of being a certain age and having not dated/had a bf, is all in her head. The pressure might be there, because she’s made it a thing. It’s one thing to not date because nobody wants you, this ain’t her problem. She’s got options, she just doesn’t realize it. When the right guy finds her heart, she’ll blossom like a flower.
This girl is just like me 🙈. I'm so undateable. I feel like I'm watching myself on a date lol.
I'm almost 25 and don't have much dating experience either. I love her
How many times did he say polyamourous?
They were both so incredibly sweet, this made my heart feel a little more full today❤️
She’s so beautiful it’s crazy how she’s never dated
well if you dont let anyone in and are insecure, that settles it real fast. so i am not surprised.
She is gorgeous!! And I love her honesty. She kind of reminds me of myself... I knew they wouldnt work but they seem like they could be really good friends!