Juliana's FINAL DAYS (REDO)

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  • I decided to delete the video, I posted, of Juliana's final days and remove certain scenes. As of today, December 7, 2016, Johns Hopkins Hospital has yet to provide us with a logical reason why Juliana's health declined so rapidly starting on October 20, 2016.
    She started a rapid decline the evening of October 20th and EVERYONE told us it was the result of the pain medications. We want the truth. She died on October 24. As of today, Johns Hopkins is refusing to have another meeting with us to address some of our questions regarding her death as they couldn't answer a few of our questions in our first meeting which we initiated. NO ONE, FROM THE HOSPITAL, TOLD US SHE WAS GOING TO DIE SOON. She was scheduled to start new cancer treatment on October 26th.
    NO ONE contacted us, from the hospital, after her death (except for a doctor and a nurse coming to the last viewing)...NO ONE. It was like we didn't even exist. Yesterday, the hospital said they will send us a letter in the next thirty days to explain how and why she died. We deserve the truth. We deserve answers. There was something that happened between Thursday (October 20) and Friday (October 21) the day she was discharged from the hospital. We can't be the only family who has had a similar situation happen to their child.
    The gaping hole in Tammy's heart and my heart is growing and growing every day. We don't know what happened...for sure. We want the truth.
    Love you all!

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  • @balintanna2311
    @balintanna2311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3192

    I was born in the same year as her, i turned 18 just a couple of moths ago, I never realized how lucky i am, just to be here, just to be healthy. Rest In Peace little angel.

    • @user-ms2go7fn2d
      @user-ms2go7fn2d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ❤️💞

    • @andrejkaratulovska1546
      @andrejkaratulovska1546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    • @ailenelovelly1051
      @ailenelovelly1051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I’m thankful for being on this earth so many families go through this and it’s so sad

    • @Timoothy_vu
      @Timoothy_vu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I am diagnosed with **** don’t want to talk about it I don’t do no treatment, May God keep you healthy and same goes for others amen🙏

    • @quadralynnnorfleet5988
      @quadralynnnorfleet5988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Not lucky blessed

  • @jeanmyers1787
    @jeanmyers1787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    I’m 68 and lost my husband when he was aged 63 to cancer. We thought we were so unlucky, and we were but when I see these children going through cancer eight times before dying my heart goes out to them and their parents.

    • @steveclinton4084
      @steveclinton4084 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hello jean how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family

    • @claudiakrizay
      @claudiakrizay ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel the same way. So sorry about your husband.

    • @joetisdale30
      @joetisdale30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I lost my husband who was 39 to cancer he fought it for 10 years at the end of it he was at such a peace because of his faith but he was also blessed because we had a great hospice nurses .I would also lose my mother and my father 2 and 3 years later to cancer as well. I would not want to watch my child suffer and die from this awful disease. It is so heartbreaking maybe one day they will find a way to cure this disease. Prayers sent.

  • @TaraVixen
    @TaraVixen ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I was a cancer nurse for adults, and one thing all family members do is try to “feed” their loved ones as they think it will give them strength! We used to take the water etc away once the patient was loosing consciousness as families would still try to give it to them causing them to aspirate.
    I don’t understand why this family were not given mouth swabs to moisten her lips. They are flavoured and can be used safely to moisten the mouth, or If you want to moisten the lips and mouth please do it using a sponge in tiny amounts to avoid aspirated pneumonia.
    Unfortunately no one can tell you how long someone will last & this is common during cancer treatment that patients will take a sudden turn for the worse but the family should have been told that she would be going home to pass away not to recover & if they were not told that the signs were obviously there l, then the hospital is negligent.
    It is the morphine that aids a painful death and when given in the hospital it’s the build up that slows the breathing down with added sedative that gives a peaceful passing.
    This family should have been given mouth swabs and a machine to administer morphine & sedative so she wasn’t waking and was peaceful.
    I’ve given many patients a very peaceful passing from cancer and it can be a very pain free peaceful passing if done properly & can be done in the home with family around them.
    If this family were not told that the signs, when she left the hospital were that she would be going home to pass, then this hospital was very negligent and should have to give answers why she was not discharged with the meds etc to have a peaceful passing with her family and her little dog Maddy.
    I struggled to watch this video as a nurse & a mother, as it could have been far more peaceful for Juliana and her family, and with the right advice & equipment to give her a far more peaceful passing.
    Passing does not have to be painful, it can be done peacefully but it must be planned and it must be with medication which unfortunately means your loved one will be unconscious and will not regain consciousness but it will be peaceful. it also can only happen if the family are ready for that and understand that to pass peacefully they will be unconscious which is the hardest part for families to except. The hardest part is accepting the signs and knowing it’s time to give up the fight & now time to say goodbye and give them the best passing we possibly can, free of pain surrounded by their loved ones surrounded by love.
    My heart goes out to this family and what they had to go through watching her pass this way 😢💔 RIP Juliana 💔xx

    • @Numb217
      @Numb217 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      This was the best comment I have read. You are a great nurse. I have had many Hospice patients pass very peacefully.

    • @jenniferfatzinger7714
      @jenniferfatzinger7714 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      My mom died of cancer 12 years ago and she died in the hospital and they gave her morphine for the pain which helped her so I agree.

    • @eruncensored
      @eruncensored 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I really struggled watching 😢 for the same reasons my heart is torn nobody prepared them!

    • @jenniferfatzinger7714
      @jenniferfatzinger7714 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I totally agree with you.

    • @juniordixie9489
      @juniordixie9489 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@eruncensoredI think they did and they were in denial.

  • @joannerawles1622
    @joannerawles1622 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    One the saddest videos I've ever seen. But what an amazing young girl she was and how strong she was with all she went through. How she fought so hard to fight this illness and won only to have it come back again, and again. She deserves a medal for her bravery and the battle against cancer. It was so sad that she just couldnt fight it anymore. RIP Juliana with your angel wings and no more pain.

    • @Jessica-wo6px
      @Jessica-wo6px หลายเดือนก่อน

      😇😇🎈🎈

  • @marciaclegg6005
    @marciaclegg6005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +752

    I am a hospice nurse, no one no one has the right to tell her family what they should do unless they have walked in these parents shoes for a mile
    Rest in piece with God, where their isn’t any pain . Thank you God for this brave child.

    • @joannebrown6163
      @joannebrown6163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I couldn't agree more, I have so much respect for the parents who have terminally ill children, and the hospice nurses and doctors. You are all amazing xx

    • @annekalunn8567
      @annekalunn8567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I lost my first uncle cancer and lost my grandma to cancer and Alzheimer’s

    • @nikki3726
      @nikki3726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Piece? Really?

    • @mythoughts6922
      @mythoughts6922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Totally agree, and I have done hospice cases as well. Very hard for her to suffer, as well the family and to feel helpless. You do all you can, seek all the help you can. Then it comes down to the ( Cancer) illness, prognosis, her body, immune system, treatments available, the effects of those treatments, chemo, radiation, medication and etc. And perhaps some spirituality as well.

    • @MaestroStefanoPetrini
      @MaestroStefanoPetrini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      begin to realize that we are only animals who get sick and in the eyes of the universe we are nothing.*Ps any god doesn't exists

  • @marjoriepope7015
    @marjoriepope7015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +546

    2 days before she died and she was still smiling at the camera. What a sweet soul

    • @Italian_girl89
      @Italian_girl89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yes, she was something of extra special ❤️

    • @liztrainer895
      @liztrainer895 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Was hoping she would beat this

    • @sumachizs3262
      @sumachizs3262 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean she didn’t know that she should die two days later

    • @torimig2151
      @torimig2151 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Italian_girl89 you can see her color change grayish

    • @flowermusic3487
      @flowermusic3487 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@torimig2151 so?

  • @Italian_girl89
    @Italian_girl89 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Juliana was already dying when Miss America visited her at hospital 😢
    Her skin color changed and she struggled to breathe and stay awake. Poor sweet soul.

    • @rachelreid8621
      @rachelreid8621 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I agree. I noticed she had mottling in her videos a day or 2 before, and then when Miss America was visiting ,it looked like she started going through agonal breathing.
      My heart goes out to her parents, as I know this is not anything any parent wants to go through.

    • @Tracy-rf7ri
      @Tracy-rf7ri 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rachelreid8621 Miss American need to gtfo

    • @nancysacca6813
      @nancysacca6813 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I thought the same thing ❤

    • @jenniferfatzinger7714
      @jenniferfatzinger7714 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She was on morphine and some other drug when miss America was there.

  • @eruncensored
    @eruncensored 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    As I study to become a hospice nurse I really wished someone would have told the parents the truth that she was actively dying and it was time to just make her comfortable. It Seems these parents weren’t properly prepared and it makes my heart hurt. They really thought they would be able to get her more treatment. These beautiful parents did the best they knew to do and I know she thanks them for it. So beautiful mom was right by her side rubbing her into the next realms. Fly high beautiful angel❤

    • @user-fo3oq7in9t
      @user-fo3oq7in9t 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I disagree with you because god is not though yet and maybe they already know but Jesus Christ is powerful

    • @RandomComment6
      @RandomComment6 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-fo3oq7in9twhy would God allow this?

    • @Jessica-wo6px
      @Jessica-wo6px หลายเดือนก่อน

      I do agree there could have been a lot more better communication between the parents and the hospital. The doctors didn't properly explain to them that she was nearing the end and the parents didn't properly handle it as a result. I'm not blaming them and ultimately, cancer is the real evil here. I'm sure everyone involved has some regrets and wish they would have done things differently.💔

  • @simplyxaxby2732
    @simplyxaxby2732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    Wow. Battling cancer 8 times before losing the battle is incredible. She is a strong fighter, she is probably watching over you in heaven right now. She is in a better place, you will see her up there when your time comes. So sorry for your loss. Praying for you Julie and your family.💜💜

    • @ourcreatorwords933
      @ourcreatorwords933 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      know about our Creator th-cam.com/play/PLinLM3tHjYbzxXM-jizfjwycrMXipFhI5.html

    • @arsheenzahid1972
      @arsheenzahid1972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brandieubanks8980 cool down mate what's your problem 😆

    • @MrSpecificity
      @MrSpecificity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can say that again

    • @angmoulton8528
      @angmoulton8528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think this is beautifully written 💓

    • @babyhandgrenade4004
      @babyhandgrenade4004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know she is. I've heard that your loved ones can see you in heaven while you're on Earth but to them it's like looking at you from the Next Room. That gave me a lot of comfort because I lost my grandma in 2006 very suddenly and I know she's still around.

  • @Kat-lg9zm
    @Kat-lg9zm 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1250

    She had the death rattle in her breathing. Her lil body was tired. Rest easy sweetie

    • @jamsla2635
      @jamsla2635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Roxelle The Great yea she did. U could easily tell how bad she was suffering, at least the dog was w/ her showing her love. Hope she found some comforting w/ her fur baby. Poor baby. Id be cuddled up w/ her till she passed.

    • @albertinapeswa
      @albertinapeswa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Rest

    • @inavanmourik4792
      @inavanmourik4792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Ik heb met verbazing een stukje gekeken van de opname van het stervende meisje. Hoe kan je als ouder zo iets filmen. Dit is zo privé in mijn ogen. Waarom gingen de ouders niet naast haar liggen haar knuffelen en haar kussen. De enige die ervoor haar echt was is het hondje. Rust in vrede lief dapper meisje

    • @adelaidemarie
      @adelaidemarie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Jams La at least the dog? Are You Trying to insinuate her Parents didn’t Love her. Jesus how cruel Are you?

    • @shannonbuschman9593
      @shannonbuschman9593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@Italian_girl89 I thought the same thing why wasn't the child back in the hospital,? Too many people in the room and everyone asking questions like she could talk and answer back

  • @Melissa-JC
    @Melissa-JC ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Okay, I tried holding back the tears, but I couldn’t. The tears really flowed. Gone to soon in life. She fought hard. Her doggy Maddie, definitely knew something was really wrong. Dogs are very intelligent (except when running into the traffic) & they can sense feelings and illness. What a loving fur baby she had. And how much Juliana loved her Maddie. 😢💔

    • @lourdesleone5990
      @lourdesleone5990 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Muito triste chorei muito 😢😢

    • @ginnyronning9532
      @ginnyronning9532 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How sad, how lucky I am!! THANKYOU, what a awsome gal you are through and through

  • @NightGazer
    @NightGazer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    As a person that has seen death many times over in my job. You never, never force fluids. She could have aspirated, she would have been gone sooner then later. She was in her final stage, you hold her close and tell her love her.

    • @albertao4074
      @albertao4074 ปีที่แล้ว

      Likely morphine

    • @NightGazer
      @NightGazer ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@albertao4074 If that is so, then they should have done a butterfly. Less invasive.

    • @nataliechild9163
      @nataliechild9163 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Put the video camera down and hold your dying daughter for the love of God!

    • @plantpants3746
      @plantpants3746 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I am assuming there were no hospice workers to give mom advice.

    • @NightGazer
      @NightGazer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@plantpants3746 Since she was passing away at home. There would have to be hospice nurses stopping by.

  • @blinkfan5735
    @blinkfan5735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    It breaks my heart seeing beautiful babies go through this type of situations...Rest In Peace beautiful princess

    • @elissagubber410
      @elissagubber410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I just said this isn't right it literally tears my heart to pieces i lost my husband last July 27th 2020 from cancer they found it and he passed 50 days later he turned 55 on July 23rd 4 days later he passed his sister passed away this yr on his first Heavenly B'day July 23rd she also had cancer. I'm tired literally just tired of CANCER especially this lil ones they don't deserve to go through any of this they should be playing with Friends,riding their bikes,laughing, and all the other good stuff that kids like to do I am so sorry for the family my heart and prayers go out to you...😔🙏🏽💗🙏🏽

    • @vijayalakshmi-kb8dw
      @vijayalakshmi-kb8dw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Its really heartbreaking.

    • @merugubhanuprakash6084
      @merugubhanuprakash6084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are an blink l am blink and army

    • @ericmugambi4951
      @ericmugambi4951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True it’s really hurting

  • @lisaedenshaw-krieger4241
    @lisaedenshaw-krieger4241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    I lost the love of my life to colon cancer. It was heart breaking when her breathing changed. Reminded me of what I experienced. I tell myself that I enjoyed the days we has and cherish the memories. What a precious daughter you had. I saw the love you all have for her.

  • @olivedog1880
    @olivedog1880 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Maddie was such a loyal pup. Rest in peace, both of them 💔

    • @Jessica-wo6px
      @Jessica-wo6px หลายเดือนก่อน

      May she and her Momma fly in Heaven💔💘😇

  • @gloriasantana7937
    @gloriasantana7937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    When that lady told that sweet little angel that they were doing Pizza without her I thought was the cruelest meanest thing anyone could ever tell a sick dying child that couldn't eat. But could still hear you and understand what you were saying. That was so cruel !!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @scratchy1704
      @scratchy1704 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes such an ignorant person.

    • @kimbauman3733
      @kimbauman3733 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Definitely cruel

    • @x_aj_x1157
      @x_aj_x1157 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      People say and do weird things in situations like these. Try not to judge too harshly. Sometimes people don't know how to deal with these kinds of situations or even know what to say . Watching a child actively die in front of you is kind of hard to take in on an emotional level I would imagine. You could liken it to people who laugh at funerals. It's not because they aren't sad, but kind of a nervous/anxious response.

    • @maryannewebster4100
      @maryannewebster4100 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hi Gloria Santana its Maryanne from the UK yes i really do agree with you what that lady said was the cruelest thing that you can say to a dying sick child and actually i get the same thing because I can't swallow any solid food's because my food pipe doesn't work I was born like it rest in peace Juliana and I'm so proud of you you were so brave all through it well done baby girl we will all miss you until we meet again when we go to heaven❤

    • @belabelutsa2099
      @belabelutsa2099 ปีที่แล้ว

      the lady in red or miss?

  • @nadiachalabi9838
    @nadiachalabi9838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +406

    I have lost my 9 years old son from leukima in December 2019. I know exactly what they have been through. There is no word to describe the pain I felt and I still feel losing my child. Only someone who went through it can understand.

    • @jamielynn8497
      @jamielynn8497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I am just so so so sorry. I can’t even begin to comprehend your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family and pray for you to find the strength u need to endure 💕

    • @Overflow02
      @Overflow02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't be sad I'm sure your angel is happy and is in a better place now. I wish you all the best ♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
      @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As a mother of 2 daughters i empathize with you. Thats the worst thing ever to lose your child. I pray angels watch over you. I almost lost my 11 yr old daughter to diabetic ketoacidosis. She was just diagnosed this March of 2020. I am thankful she was saved. But i lost it when she was life flighted to children's hospital. It didnt go to her brain. Thank God. She's been type 1 diabetic for almost 4 months now.

    • @dvalin.
      @dvalin. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stay strong

    • @boadiceaosei4548
      @boadiceaosei4548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And I lost my eight years old son from internal bleeding and I’m not over it since 2011 😭😭😭💔

  • @libbypropp4846
    @libbypropp4846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    I watched a Frontline episode recently called "Being Mortal" where a doctor talked about how bad the medical profession can be at having very honest and tough conversations about death. And so often families don't know how dire their loved one's prognosis truly is and decisions about hospice and palliative care can't be made. This feels like a heartbreaking example of this problem. We have to get better at talking about death

    • @talesfromtheleashexpatdogl1426
      @talesfromtheleashexpatdogl1426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah because none of us get out of here alive. RIP sweet angel

    • @estelleschneider9033
      @estelleschneider9033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      We need Jesus yo be able to do that..by the Holy Spirit..LOVE

    • @jennybyrd2818
      @jennybyrd2818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Yes! Death needs to be destigmatized because we all will face it. Its one of the few things in this world that every single person will go through. Even as a person with a chronic disease my dr appointments are confusing at best. Families need to be told the truth as soon as that decline starts to happen because it will make the death a little less traumatic.

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s ridiculous!

    • @katluann
      @katluann 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They had no trouble waving a DNR in front of my face everyday and saying he can’t make it! I said Jesus is coming do your jobs before I sue your a**! Jesus showed up and shocked the socks off them! A true miracle when they got over their shock they were happy!

  • @JayLang7
    @JayLang7 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Looks like the dog knew and was there to support his best friend. It’s really hard to watch this without having a flood of emotions. Can’t imagine how hard it was for her and her parents. Rip little angel ❤❤❤

  • @coastalcreekwoodworks8795
    @coastalcreekwoodworks8795 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What a beautiful angel ❤️... I'm surprised how much a little video has taught me about what's really important in life and what's trivial. That's the first time I've cried in decades. Rest in peace to you, and all the others.

  • @smitatripathilifestylewith2122
    @smitatripathilifestylewith2122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    One can clearly see that mom is trying to control her tears trying hard to look brave in front of the daughter god bless

    • @mauricedebrosse9047
      @mauricedebrosse9047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Patti Lanni And what ? (Et alors) ?

    • @enzapatriziafichera7519
      @enzapatriziafichera7519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Che dispiacere !!

    • @smitatripathilifestylewith2122
      @smitatripathilifestylewith2122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Juliana you were a fighter I can never forget your brave smile in front of the camera inspite feeling so much of pain .
      Rest in peace, love from india .

    • @michellemartinez5337
      @michellemartinez5337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@brandieubanks8980 it is her daughter ...she adopted her so that is her. Legal daughter shame on you to come on this page to be ugly on a family who shared their daughters last days

    • @my4daughters
      @my4daughters 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brandieubanks8980 spend some time broadening your vocabulary! There was no need in jumping on this lady for her comment, there was nothing ugly or hurtful said! As a Mom of a daughter that has fought cancer twice now, it is okay to cry with your babies and communicate that we adults are scared or hurting too. I pray u never have to face a day like this family has!! Another tip if u wanna troll get off videos of parents sharing intimate and personal time with their sick child bc there are Mothers out here watching to prepare themselves for similar situations!

  • @briruiz9006
    @briruiz9006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    I hope she is having a good time in heaven rest in peace :(

  • @mikayla521
    @mikayla521 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Now that I have had time to think about this, I think the reason why the hospital stopped any new treatment is because they felt she had been through enough. She knew was not going to get better, even though the parents wanted her to press on, you can see she had gone a long ways already, she was suffering, by the time they took her home she was barely eating , I think the hospital knew she had been through a lot in her well young life, and enough was enough. I have read the whole story, and I cry every time I think of what she went through, her bravery, her courage, and her willingness to keep fighting, and always with smiles, and love for all who loved her back. It is because of things like this that I question my own faith!

    • @MireilleSXXX
      @MireilleSXXX 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The hospital didn't stop new treatment. After they found that she has cancer again, they scheduled treatment for the following week. Juliana was taken home only for the weekend and should be back on Monday. But the day before she left hospital, they gave her a doubled dose of painkillers and from that on she declined rapidly. But nobody had any idea that she could die 2 days later. Nobody was prepared for the catastrophe. After she had died the hospital officials refused answering the parents' questions. The parents guessed that she could have died of an overdose of her painmeds. And in my opinion is that the most probably explanation for what's happend with Juliana that weekend when she died with her parents at home.

    • @user-mr8ep9lv1i
      @user-mr8ep9lv1i 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      71 here & been thru so many loses in my lifetime & this still breaks my heart. 😰 What a brave soul this child has! She's still with us ❣

    • @gamingforever6687
      @gamingforever6687 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its genocide. The medical jouranals state that chemo and radiation dont work. Doctors make direct cuts from prescribing these. High grade pure THC oil and a gallon of raw juicing a day would have cured it very easily. MD directed medicine is the NO1 leading cause of death, most of it doesnt work. GOOGLE IMAGES - ACIDOSIS CYCLE.

    • @seer1623
      @seer1623 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      This poor little girl should have been in a hospice or properly medicated so she didn't experience so much stress and pain. At the 11th hour the parents dropped the ball. She smiled and played with that puppy because mom and dad desperately needed her to, not because she had it in her at that point. What a loving, selfless girl. Thank goodness she's at peace.

    • @gamingforever6687
      @gamingforever6687 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Be quite NPC, your drone responses go unheard, go talk to the wall.@@seer1623

  • @it-stillhauntsme5581
    @it-stillhauntsme5581 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Trying to give fluids during the dying process is the worst thing you can do

  • @tomfontaine2183
    @tomfontaine2183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I'm a 62 YO man and I'm balling my eye's out, May she rest peace. I watched far too many in my life pass, It doesn't get easier.

    • @th3azscorpio
      @th3azscorpio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You'll see your loved ones again.

  • @myleshiasmith1813
    @myleshiasmith1813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +648

    You can’t tell someone on how to deal with losing their child . Just because they chose to film it doesn’t make them bad parents or not having compassion for their daughter. Death is a natural thing and a lot of people don’t even get a chance to say goodbye. They wanted to have and share the last moments of her life on film & probably for them self and to show others who might be or have gone through similar situations know that they’re not alone .

    • @Jill.McGlothlin42
      @Jill.McGlothlin42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Myleshia Smith I followed her journey on FB and John was evil. He forced Julian to hang on and he used her. We’re not judging we know what we saw.

    • @jeanne9729
      @jeanne9729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I agree, Of course a parents will video every chance they have, knowing full well they may your last memories.

    • @Jill.McGlothlin42
      @Jill.McGlothlin42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Jeanne No, it was much deeper than that. You would of had to follow them from the beginning. He was seriously very controlling and a narcissist. Tons of people on his page spoke about his behavior. He basically had no relationship w/ his other kids. It was very sad to watch.

    • @jeanne9729
      @jeanne9729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I did follow them from the beginning. 😊 Not sure what you mean , first time I ever heard that .

    • @Jill.McGlothlin42
      @Jill.McGlothlin42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Nanny Slime Yes, very strange. Did you see at the funeral he was the only one who didn’t hug his kids? They never really spoke to him and they always acted scared of him.

  • @11solus11
    @11solus11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    First of all, I want to thank you for sharing this video. However, I can’t understand why doctors or anyone from the medical facility didn’t tell you that your daughter is terminal and all she needs is hospice care at home, not another treatment in the hospital. For anyone with hospice experience, it’s obvious, she was actively dying, struggling to keep herself awake for days. And I felt she didn’t want to disappoint expectations and hope put in her. That’s why it's SO important to educate ourselves not only about how to live, but how to recognize a dying process and comfort our loved ones as best we can, according to their needs, will, and body condition. Your daughter made a heroic, but exhausting battle that no one who dies should ever be going through. Nevertheless, someone fu..ked up her right to let go.

    • @violettheorgangrinder3232
      @violettheorgangrinder3232 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      That narcissistic father did 🤬

    • @alisonscofield6653
      @alisonscofield6653 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree. However, I think that almost every medical professional absolutely hates to give up, especially on a young patient. Sometimes they continue to fight long after they should.

    • @seer1623
      @seer1623 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I've watched several of these videos, and it's obvious how much these parents loved that little girl. But what is missing is conversations about what she was feeling, what she wanted. I don't hear questions of, are you in pain? Do you want to let go? Is this too much? Do you want to rest right now, instead of making a friggin' halloween pumpkin -- days before her death. An adult can assert these needs and take charge of their passing, but a kid who's battled this vile disease for nine years cannot. The medical staff should have counselled the parents about dealing with end of life issues.

    • @marilyn60
      @marilyn60 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I stumbled on this researching a family matter. I am going to have a hard time sleeping. I can not opinionated. Therefore, I must exit and wish all a peaceful evening. ❤

    • @trickortrump3292
      @trickortrump3292 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      They absolutely told the parents. This is just denial after the fact. If the parents didn’t know she was actively dying, why on earth did they not call an ambulance? They didn’t because they knew there was absolutely nothing the hospital could have done for her. They knew she was at the end.

  • @kathynotaro7386
    @kathynotaro7386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I have been watching all of the past videos. I am an RN of 32 years. I have a lot of feelings about this little girl. The biggest one being that she was beautiful and had a spirit of no other. Her smile was contagious. God bless this family. John and Tammy, how are you doing? I hope you are finding some peace and comfort as time goes on. Your little Julianna was a doll!! She was an absolute doll, and so inspiring. xoxox

  • @paulanewhouse4252
    @paulanewhouse4252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    She is out of her misery now. She is at peace. An angel of god.

  • @pheble.pebble
    @pheble.pebble 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It was just so sad to watch… I know Julie is in a better place now, free of pain and treatment, but she was such a fighter and a strong girl. Love her and miss her ❤

  • @Motherofthedead
    @Motherofthedead ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for sharing your heartbreak mom and dad. I’m still praying for your family. This is a real look of what childhood cancer does to children and families. I hope the donations poured in for the honor of Juliana to eliminate this horrible horrible disease. Thank you again for sharing. May God keep you.

  • @helenbrown6488
    @helenbrown6488 6 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I REALLY DO NOT THINK HIS WIFE WAS ALL FOR THE FILMING OF JULIE IN HER FINAL DAYS OF HER LIFE. AND I DO THINK EITHER ONE KNEW ANYTHING ABOUT DYING, HE WANTED TO BE THE CENTER OF ATTITION!

    • @brittanyherbeck3269
      @brittanyherbeck3269 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Helen Brown I agree. You can tell based on the looks she was giving john

  • @EmanViam
    @EmanViam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    I believe that her father just wanted to memorialize her. Don’t judge. Yes, my husband died and it was way worse, I didn’t film anything of course. My life is destroyed. Seeing this makes me connect with her family. There was nothing they could do and that must’ve been horrible. Don’t judge.

    • @amandalyubelsky5251
      @amandalyubelsky5251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Joesndanuyankifan 6 days ago l believe that father just wanted mezireaz her yes my husband died it wrs worse l didn’t film anything of wanted memoirs Don judeg; Yes my husbdan died and it wigh her family There weas nothing of and that

    • @KristineMarieTxSPI
      @KristineMarieTxSPI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@amandalyubelsky5251 ??

    • @woody4984
      @woody4984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      How can you tell that it was a lot worse for your husband??

    • @EmanViam
      @EmanViam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      michelle wood seriously!

    • @EmanViam
      @EmanViam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amanda Lyubelsky huh?

  • @Mandy7D7
    @Mandy7D7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    It breaks my heart to know Tammy called Hospice and they never returned her calls and never showed up to help them with Julie's last days. And they released her from PICU to home? There is usually and step down process. If they were going to skip it so she could die at home fine but they never told John & Tammy their child was actively dying?
    I'm so sorry for the extra misery you and she went through as the entire medical community left you alone in your darkest time. 💔

    • @Numb217
      @Numb217 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I am a volunteer for Hospice and this makes no sense to me. We always return calls. The hospital would have known death was imminent. The signs were there even to a lay person like me. The internet is full of videos addressing these sign & symptoms. There are many videos from Hospice workers with phone numbers you can call. This confuses me a great deal.

    • @SV-hw9he
      @SV-hw9he 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Not trying to hate on grieving parents, but often times grieving people aren’t the most rational… or they want to blame somewhere have it be someone’s fault etc because it’s hard to accept the painful fact their child passed from the disease. I see a lotttt of “medical negligence” videos where people are saying stuff that just could not have happened in the way they describe. Some can’t read between the lines, they are in active denial even WHEN the doctors tell them “you are dying”/“your child has terminal illness and will not recover, make the time she has her quality”:

    • @juniordixie9489
      @juniordixie9489 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He kicked them out of the house. So them not returning calls is not true.

    • @Jessica-wo6px
      @Jessica-wo6px หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Both sides mishandled Juliana's last moments. She should have been kept in the hospital.

  • @Welp503
    @Welp503 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is disturbing. That little girl should have been in hospice. She’s gasping for air why are you shoving tea down her throat??? I truly hope to god that she wasn’t suffering in the end.

    • @juniordixie9489
      @juniordixie9489 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She was. The father kicked them out. He deleted that video.

    • @pigtailsandteddybears
      @pigtailsandteddybears 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@juniordixie9489 Was there a video showing more of her final day or something? I keep seeing people discuss how hard it was to watch, more than this "redo" video.

    • @juniordixie9489
      @juniordixie9489 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@pigtailsandteddybears there was but the dad deleted parts of the family telling her it was ok to go to heaven

  • @miasandholdt
    @miasandholdt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    For the love of God, let the girl sleep. I don't understand why no one asks Miss America to leave so Juliana could sleep

    • @jackycook64
      @jackycook64 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Mia because you have eternity for that when you die. Interactions are invaluable when you are isolated in the hospital. You don't want to miss out on something special just because you are tired.

    • @notlana983
      @notlana983 6 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Its weird how they ignore the fact that shes dying.

    • @brandontsosie1734
      @brandontsosie1734 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Mia right that got to me too😒

    • @luisarojas7566
      @luisarojas7566 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Mia you’re right when you are sick the last thing you want is talking 😞

    • @cindybrooks6370
      @cindybrooks6370 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      lana maybe Juliana accepted the fact that she was dying and wasn't afraid, we all are dying in one way or another, I'm not afraid of it, I just look at it as another step in my life.

  • @relatablereactions7658
    @relatablereactions7658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +643

    I can’t believe why everyone is hating about him posting this , it was his right. She looked like a sweet angle let her fly high!❤️

    • @ksanurse
      @ksanurse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      No everyone copes with this level of illness. Men mostly don’t because they think they can fix things and some things they can’t. It makes them feel powerless. You have to forgive them, they don’t mean to offend the parents. In the old days dying was public and people feared it less. Now people are terrified to die because most of You never see it. Think instead the family was sharing their last precious moments with their daughter. Maybe it will remind people to hug their kids and realise how lucky they are this isn’t them.

    • @pannydeparker3613
      @pannydeparker3613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Your right she's a cute queen rip i will never forget you

    • @pannydeparker3613
      @pannydeparker3613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Your right let her fly up in the pretty clouds but don't worry she will return to earth to thank you us

    • @assx_vivix8877
      @assx_vivix8877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ik this isn't a joke, but what angle?🤣

    • @sharonbee4185
      @sharonbee4185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I guess no one can be entitled to their own opinion. When it's not your opinion you can't believe it. Get a grip. Not everyone was hating - just some. And i don't consider it hating - maybe some just couldn't believe the lack of respect.

  • @karenhusman7333
    @karenhusman7333 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What a wonderful tribute that had to be so difficult to film. Thank you for sharing this celebration of life to the world. God Bless.

  • @theresalero7039
    @theresalero7039 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I'm very sorry for your loss. As a Nurse I know that we can't always predict the path a terminal patient may take. Life and death aren't always logical and yes, that sucks, but it's a fact. I'm so sorry.

  • @ashtheanimecat7077
    @ashtheanimecat7077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    Poor girl, you could hear the death rattle in her breathing. Rest in peace angel.

    • @annekalunn8567
      @annekalunn8567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Zixuan Xing I not nice to hear my mum had

    • @alessandrasocio2090
      @alessandrasocio2090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @texasj123 most likely she was in hospice or the parents wanted her to let go and not get drugged up anymore.

    • @marymcdonald7418
      @marymcdonald7418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @texasj123 Please read the book. It explains why...

  • @Fiona-sg9wh
    @Fiona-sg9wh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    The medication didn't make her worse. I am an ICU nurse and have seen many die from cancer. I could tell she was in the process of dying from the beginning of the video. Rest easy in knowing that and that you were all with her.

    • @ella-bt8hp
      @ella-bt8hp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Why didn't the family know this? Very upsetting knowing they believed she was going to get better 💔

    • @tiffany3294
      @tiffany3294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I'm not a medical professional I work in the hospital a little bit as a unit secretary but even someone like myself could tell at the very beginning that she was actively dying and going downhill. It breaks my heart

    • @tiffany3294
      @tiffany3294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@ella-bt8hp I think people just don't feel comfortable talking about death especially when it's a child maybe they were hoping things would change

    • @caroltaylor3931
      @caroltaylor3931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Me too, she was starting to Cheynes Stoke before even leaving the hospital! The transfer from hospital to home would have caused her great pain, she would have needed extra meds for the journey.

    • @th3azscorpio
      @th3azscorpio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@ella-bt8hp They knew she was dying, they just chose not to accept it out of grief. Don't blame them one bit, having been there myself.

  • @kerstinkraemer9744
    @kerstinkraemer9744 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I can't understand why parents would show off their dying child on the internet like this

    • @user-dx4vh1fs1l
      @user-dx4vh1fs1l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Choquant

    • @helenanasci970
      @helenanasci970 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ele sempre filmou ela e seus irmãos desde bebês

  • @kel2700
    @kel2700 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    She’s so beautiful! I bet she always made everyone smile & for sure still does!!❤️❤️

  • @jenmarks6594
    @jenmarks6594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    No child should ever have to go through this. May Juliana rest in sweet peace while asleep with the angels.

  • @imru9924
    @imru9924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +662

    she was adopted :( that's so sad storyy, nobody deserves anything like this. Life is cruel and so unfair.

    • @abigale3629
      @abigale3629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      At least she was adopted into a happy and loving home with people who loved her unconditionally :>

    • @fec9496
      @fec9496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes it is!!!

    • @Maya-hq3nv
      @Maya-hq3nv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      What’s wrong with her being adopted!?

    • @imru9924
      @imru9924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@Maya-hq3nv nothing, i meaning that she wasn't their biological child. She was certainly wanted and loved.

    • @tyyfunimateeditzz8578
      @tyyfunimateeditzz8578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Maya-hq3nv girl if u woulda read the whole thing then u woulda knew what he was tryna say

  • @bequietkitty
    @bequietkitty 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The more you put fluid in her mouth the more fluid seeped in her lungs. The body has no strength anymore to flex the way it needs to fully pass things through.
    She needed medicine that could sedate her so she could have passed in peace, completely pain free.

  • @arwaothman4376
    @arwaothman4376 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am really sorry for your loss. It’s really heartbreaking to see your child died with cancer. I saw lots of videos I am really sad crying

  • @emilylange4748
    @emilylange4748 6 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    No one should have to die like this. We don't even let our pets suffer like this. I can't finish this video, poor child.

    • @agusblackbird2486
      @agusblackbird2486 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You did well. At the end it's her dead body in the funeral. So cruel.

    • @hydie0073
      @hydie0073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Emily Lange I know it's more than I could take I'm screaming for the Queen to just let her sleep please just let her rest!!!!😢😢😢😢😭

    • @louisavevers9709
      @louisavevers9709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is actually a normal way of dying when someone is suffering with cancer. The pain is bad, and usually the pain relief is what helps quicken the end. Cancer is a very cruel disease, and sadly there is no nice way around it!

    • @louisavevers9709
      @louisavevers9709 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@agusblackbird2486 I don't understand this. What is cruel?

    • @tenazshah3362
      @tenazshah3362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Pls grow up....death is never pretty...its a medical stop to your life.....did you expect angels with golden Harp's

  • @annxx7976
    @annxx7976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    Aside from the fact that this little lady is dying from cancer, there are several quite disturbing aspects to this, some that people have already mentioned in the comments. I don’t think her final hours were particularly well handled in terms of pain control and a general misunderstanding of the physiological process of death itself. I also get the feeling that Mom resents that camera at points, which I would too. I don’t understand this obsession with filming everything and missing the moments because of it.

    • @Morebeeswithpisces
      @Morebeeswithpisces 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Ann xx I agree. I am perplexed as to why this is being shared on TH-cam. I understand documenting her last days to keep and share with loved ones, but this feels too intrusive.

    • @katie6902
      @katie6902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      For memories and to honor her

    • @katie6902
      @katie6902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      To keep her memory alive

    • @annxx7976
      @annxx7976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@katie6902 I see and understand that, I do honestly. But was this the right way to go about it? I don’t know, and I don’t have the right to judge, but it does feel extremely intrusive and rather obsessive when it gets down to the really really emotional occasions. I probably should have said in my original comment that I was meaning this particular video alone, but kind of across the board with all of the videos.

    • @annxx7976
      @annxx7976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @BlewnHeadGasket you expect to post stuff like this on TH-cam and not have it discussed or criticised? Lol that’s not how social media works, fuckwit, do some research.

  • @suchitraroy1758
    @suchitraroy1758 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    These few moments had such uplifting effect on Juliana. That she is struggling to breathe is obvious, yet these few moments shown in this video had definitely been positive for Juliana. The fact she is so sick cannot be changed, but a few moments of normalcy is wonderful. Having being critically with lung disease last year snd almost not making it, I can almost feel her struggles to breathe. Now she is pain free. May Juliana Rest In Peace, angle.🙏❤️

  • @anne-mariemcinnis9143
    @anne-mariemcinnis9143 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    This video is a great teaching tool, actually. It teaches the what not to do and could be a very good eye opener for a lot of people who might be tempted to do the same with a loved one, at the time of actively dying. The family obviously was completely ignorant of the dying process or else things would of been done completely differently. So to turn this video into a positive, it would be awesome that it be used as a tool. As a hospice volunteer, I’ve heard of families doing what this family did, yet seeing it, is wayyyyy more effective in teaching about the dying process and the do’s and don’ts!!! This family would of been better equipped to act appropriately, should they had known what is taught in hospice and palliative care!!!

    • @cindibarton1167
      @cindibarton1167 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well we don't always get that chance as my daughter died 14 hours after I first took her to the emergency

    • @anne-mariemcinnis9143
      @anne-mariemcinnis9143 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cindibarton1167 I am so sorry about your loss! No parent should have to go through such tremendous grief. None! Please know that I will keep you in my 🙏🙏🙏prayers and ask for 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇angels to carry you through!

    • @22lyric
      @22lyric ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anne-Marie McInnis, shame on you!

    • @anne-mariemcinnis9143
      @anne-mariemcinnis9143 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@22lyric Jude, why do you say shame on me? I don't think I said anything unkind. Yet, I obviously something that wasn't liked and would love to understand, especially because my heart is at the right place.

    • @mambi74
      @mambi74 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@anne-mariemcinnis9143 You said nothing wrong or offensive - some people can't deal or just resort to being offended when faced with facts they don't like. It wasn't easy watching this poor brave girl suffer so much before her end.

  • @diakleeman4996
    @diakleeman4996 5 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    The dog has more compassion than humans. That made me cry

    • @jewelseng9900
      @jewelseng9900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      john vonburg she’s right the family dog has more compassion giving all the love she needs. That family is juz strange and cold

    • @nunya2954
      @nunya2954 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @john vonburg - You sound like you could be the weirdo Dads brother with that comment. Maybe you are a soulless POS too.

    • @PheonixStarsx
      @PheonixStarsx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly .fucking white people in my religion and culture if anyone ever recorded the last moments of someone’s passing they would get a huge seyaat (my language for sins) and on judgement day the person will ask them “why didn’t you respect me when I was dying ?”

    • @daviddriscollservantofJesus
      @daviddriscollservantofJesus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@PheonixStarsx First you are racist. Second what does your man made religion done for you ? You go by the name killerslumber. No religion will save you only Jesus Christ. And no one will be asking anything after they day they die. If she goes to heaven she will have such joy why would she ask a question so carnal as that? When we die we either go to heaven or hell. There isn't going to be pointless carnal conversations. Those with faith in Jesus to save their soul eternal bliss and joy and peace and those who rejected the way out of sin eternal damnation. I hope she is in heaven with Christ Jesus with no more pain or suffering just eternal joy.

    • @nunya2954
      @nunya2954 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PheonixStarsx - LOL - Wrong God you have in your life. In the Bible the real GOD plainly tells us we see HIM as soon as we die and we account to HIM our sins as we bend our knee to Him. Then you are judged, by God. Not by man, not by others that have died before us.

  • @anttony80
    @anttony80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    To the family of this little girl....as i sit her as a 44 year old recovering adict! I am ashamened of myself!! All the times i complained that life wasnt fair!! God rest this little girls soul...may god keep you with him as you lay to rest!! I am so sorry

    • @laniakeas92
      @laniakeas92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Don't compare your life to hers.
      We all have different roads and paths.

    • @krisrhood2127
      @krisrhood2127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don't judge yourself. Everyone's toothache hurts the worst

    • @heybitch8577
      @heybitch8577 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laniakeas92 huh?

    • @bloom9295
      @bloom9295 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We all do mistakes and that's ok

    • @MiraBella1972
      @MiraBella1972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't be ashamed! Know that you are absolutely loved! You have value regardless of what you might think!
      Love and light to you!

  • @Michelle-gw4db
    @Michelle-gw4db ปีที่แล้ว +3

    R.I.P. sweet angel. You have no pain now. Such a brave sweet little girl.

  • @franciedcuestaa
    @franciedcuestaa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gracias por compartir. Te abrazo muy fuerte.

  • @ronmendoza4916
    @ronmendoza4916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Poor girl. Sounded like she was in pain in her last days. No way I'd like to go out like that.

    • @darrylbutler5993
      @darrylbutler5993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don’t want my last moments with someone forcing raspberry tea into my mouth when I’m dying

  • @ellennghihepa9067
    @ellennghihepa9067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    The easiest part is knowing when shes gone, her pain will be no more. The suffering ends. 😞😞😭

  • @theparkinsontribe9105
    @theparkinsontribe9105 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I followed Juliana and the worse part for me was hearing the breathing and her struggles to breath, that was heartbreaking… Juliana should have been given some morphine to help her along her way sooner than she suffered 😢😢😢

    • @the_arrogance
      @the_arrogance 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@TubbyNutkinwhy is that out of curiosity?

    • @vegon.begone
      @vegon.begone 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think they were worried she would die sooner. The parents seemed upset in the description because of the pain med increase that had the possibly of killing her

    • @michellemartorell2394
      @michellemartorell2394 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She actually was not struggling to breathe. That was a normal breathing pattern for a person who is actively dying.

    • @RaquelSantos-qx2st
      @RaquelSantos-qx2st 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God why?? Why were they not educated ?? Why didn't the hospital Dr's nurses someone anyone help those parents??

  • @Wassuppples
    @Wassuppples 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I know this was an “old” video do, but I am glad YT brought me here. I found it hard to watch at certain times. I couldn’t even handle some of the scenes when she was at home. So, I can’t even start to understand how her family remains to feel. I just hope at this point in your life, that you only remember all the wonderful memories you had with her. She truly is a hero. Her spirit and soul was strong. It was why she fought for so long. Even until her final hours, she didn’t want to disappoint her parents.
    I had a friend who went through stage 4 of a very rare form of leukemia. He didn’t find out until it was already all over his body. The doctor gave him only weeks to live. Actually, the doctor was shocked to see his test results and was surprised he was still around and fighting. The doctor told him that he should have died already. He was strong and he was a fighter.
    I know you might still have so many questions, but I wanted to tell you that the doctors had told my friend that if he was still around to fight it, that there was a new treatment that they can have him try out. He never made it to that appt. Two days before he was scheduled to start the new treatment, he died.
    I hope you find solace in knowing that you raised one amazing young lady and that one day you all will be together again.. Until then, know that she is still around you as you continue with your life (no matter how hard) that when your time comes, she will be there with you helping you through it.

    • @Jessica-wo6px
      @Jessica-wo6px 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      My heart breaks for her parents. I can't imagine how it must feel to watch your baby get cancer eight times then lose her after fighting for her life for so long. Bless them💔💔💕💕

  • @serenastante4132
    @serenastante4132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    the dog gave her all the love she deserved

    • @Italian_girl89
      @Italian_girl89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      serena stante animals are better than people. Her father was busy to film her agony instead of stay with her. No words.

    • @jewelseng9900
      @jewelseng9900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      serena stante u r absolutely right! The whole bunch of family knows nth 😤😤

    • @racheldemain1940
      @racheldemain1940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      My Dad would have been reading to me, singing to me and just cuddling me.

    • @louisavevers9709
      @louisavevers9709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Italian_girl89 he was filming because soon she would be gone and he wanted to keep her memory alive! I wish someone had done this on my dads last days!

    • @louisavevers9709
      @louisavevers9709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jewelseng9900 they knew their daughter was sick. The only way you know what to do, is if you've been through it before! Of course they knew nothing, they hadn't experienced it before!!

  • @loldianaaa
    @loldianaaa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    What a loyal friend Maddie was. I'm a veterinary nurse, and I've seen a few shelter dogs that were with their owners when they died. I think they really go through their own mourning, there's something really special about the bond between dogs and their people. Also, it's their instinct to lick like crazy when they have their own problems, it's like they think the more they lick the better they'll get. Maddie knew something was wrong, and was doing the best she could (like the rest of you) to help her girl.

    • @pugzilla9172
      @pugzilla9172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Diana P.
      I know :(
      that part where the dog started licking her arm made my cry so hard! Poor baby knows

    • @FireXConor
      @FireXConor 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Animals have better senses than us, they can even tell when we're sick, and come over to help us through our suffering, or when we're dying, come over and comfort us during our final days. Maddie knew what was happening before anyone else, what a good dog. 😢

    • @ThePlutoandMarsEffectofTarot
      @ThePlutoandMarsEffectofTarot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Very true. Cats are very keen on Death or Sickness as well. I always say that Animals are way to good for Humans & are even better than us.

    • @candytiger644
      @candytiger644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Animals are very loyal and knowing. My cats hang around me a lot more when I get sick or injured. Unlike many humans, animals don't judge, they just know by instinct and love.

    • @charlottekey8856
      @charlottekey8856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ThePlutoandMarsEffectofTarot Yeah, my cat knew when I was going to the hospital though there was no evidence for him. He meowed urgently and looked with big worried eyes. I had another cat who met me at the door with big worried eyes, even pulling back the curtain with his paw, when I'd had a bad altercation on the way home.

  • @tinag3751
    @tinag3751 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh my God I just found this video so saddened to hear of her. Passing these many years later God bless you all.

  • @Heaven-dy9lj
    @Heaven-dy9lj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bless you all.

  • @suepete
    @suepete 6 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Parts of this were like a freak show with so many people in the room seated accordingly, and just staring at her while she was dying. I would NEVER want a bunch of people watching me like this. Ugh.

    • @cyberspelunker1980
      @cyberspelunker1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Me neither. I understand wanting to offer support but I’d never want to be seen in this condition.

    • @belle369
      @belle369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah but would you really have a choice? She’s laying there lifeless barely able to to anything except groan.

    • @heybitch8577
      @heybitch8577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shut up

    • @davidlagomarsino4850
      @davidlagomarsino4850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You and me both!! Irrational in my opinion

    • @ceejamm3180
      @ceejamm3180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wait until you're dying to pass judgements. You might change your mind.

  • @luluirizar7281
    @luluirizar7281 5 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    She died because her body can't stand anymore treatment...she has suffered a lot she has fought bravely ...she received every treatment available....it was time to let her go....with dignity...hospital has no blame...this type of cancer has no cure.....she was going to die sooner or later. She is resting ...no more suffering......I admire her parents' dedication..but I would never put in a video my child dying in youtube for people to see
    it is something private.

    • @phodge0919
      @phodge0919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Its helpful because now i know what to look for regarding her food intake..i learned from one of the commenters of the video...i admired their willingness to share..
      Unless the parents knew what her death sounded like then they most certainly would have done something...they are not the experts, the hospital staff supposed to be...
      This cancer and any OTHER cancer CAN BE HEALED...the problem is we're conditioned to believe it cant be cured so we spend money, lots of money to pay everyone to watch a patient die...
      To say she wouldve died any way is callous and cruel..its easy to speculate when its not your child.

    • @jondiroma8326
      @jondiroma8326 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lulú Irizar you sound as though you are judging her parents who are seeking all the comfort and solace they can receive from losing her. Certainly you don’t mean to do that when they only wished to share this beautiful girl with the rest of the world?! Also let’s not forget that she was old enough to ask for discretion if that was her desire.

    • @goodmother2500
      @goodmother2500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lulú Irizar thats so right

    • @Italian_girl89
      @Italian_girl89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I totally agree with you. Putting a video of your dying daughter is simply a shame. Did you see the original video? There were scenes of Juliana’s body!!!! I was really shocked! a father who loves his daughter does not behave like that. I love Juliana, she is and will be my inspiration forever, but I don’t like her father.

    • @karunavaghela9965
      @karunavaghela9965 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Italian_girl89 I think she was adopted, on the cake it said Happy 13th Adopted day

  • @michellewhyatt4438
    @michellewhyatt4438 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a very very sad end to a beautiful little girl heartbreaking. But she has to suffer no more. Fly high beautiful angel xxx

  • @blugreen123
    @blugreen123 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Something's not adding up. Why were they giving her liquids? Commanding her to "swallow it down and not choke on it" was inappropriate. Why did they not take her back to the hospital or call 911 when she was in obvious distress. Where was hospice? She should have at least been on pain medication.

    • @Jomac87
      @Jomac87 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They refused to believe she was dying which is why hospice wasnt involved. Then they may have been told to notgive her fluids but they were so pigheaded in their belief that she wasnt dying. The only one that suffered due to their arrogance was Julianna!! Anyone who tried to advise them were shot down. John had to remove parts where he was shown to be a control freak who believed he knew better than doctors. A silly old fool who caused his daughter more distress than was needed. The first thing a hospice nurse will tell yoh is not to give a dying person fluids. This is how i know they refused hospice input!! He was more interested in getting "celebrities" to visit Julianna than actually interacting and listening to professionals who could help Julianna in her final days. Dont think Julianna wouod be interested in talking to an old woman and Miss America especially when she was feeling so crappy, you even see someone taking pics...why? Who is this to benefit? Seems to me it was to stroke the dads ego rather than help Julianna!!Says everything about the parents!!

  • @jeanettedegiulio8220
    @jeanettedegiulio8220 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    As a home health and hospice nurse my heart broke. There comes a time to hold the one you love and let go.
    The hardest I have ever done is my mom dying in my arms. We can't be selfish, let go 😣😭

    • @sowhatwearedoomed
      @sowhatwearedoomed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jeanette Degiulio , yes , these poor children don’t have a lot of say about the torture they are being put through .

  • @carole1a
    @carole1a 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    the hospital knew juliana was dying, her parants must have been told this.thats why she was taken home.thats only my thoughts...xx

    • @chellefell1331
      @chellefell1331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      if you go back to one of the older videos, he writes at the beginning that the hospital DID, in fact, inform him.... they knew. I understand how hard it is as a parent to hear that, your brain goes into a denial.... however, that hospital treated her amazingly and did all they could....

    • @Jessica-wo6px
      @Jessica-wo6px หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chellefell1331 If they knew the parents were in denial and not accepting the circumstances, they should have realized that they couldn't have given Juliana proper care due to their states of minds. Not bashing anybody but Juliana should have remained in the hospital under these circumstances, have a nice chance to say goodbye to everybody in a peaceful, quiet manner and be placed under right pain medication and in a medically induced coma so she could pass away peacefully as her body shut down. The Carvers were not in the right headspace to help their daughter's process when they were constantly denying the obvious signs that she was dying and I think the hospital should have realized that and intervene for Juliana's sake and not let her go home. I pray for healing for everybody involved. Juliana was such a little angel who deserved more in life but is now healthy and pain free in the arms of Jesus.

  • @Sophiafabfive
    @Sophiafabfive 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    She was actively dying when she left the hospital how could the nurses and doctors not know this?!?! So completely heartbreaking 💔 Juliana was the sweetest soul she even smiled at the camera as she was dying it ripped my heart out. These parents are beautiful. Rest in peace sweet girl 🙏🏻❤️

    • @jessicamerkert111
      @jessicamerkert111 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Some families chose to take their loved ones home on hospice instead of having their child go through the dying process in the hospital. It is their choice to do what is best for their family during that time. That does not mean the medical staff did not know she was dying. I am sure they knew she was dying.

    • @juniordixie9489
      @juniordixie9489 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The doctors and nurses knew this. The parents were in denial.

  • @marshallbyrne8191
    @marshallbyrne8191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a beautiful sweet inspirational girl my heart breaks for her family but I know she is with God and Jesus and no longer has to fight to breath run or play God bless you Juliana you are not a giver upper and you definitely are not a whiner overall just an inspiration and now you are flying high sweet girl.

  • @elirovowskiThela
    @elirovowskiThela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    This family's actions are not malicious- at least Tammy's aren't. They are the result of a lack of education and support regarding the dying process. It was Juliana's care team's responsibility to disclose that objectively, she was nearing death. Often in paediatric oncology, parents and care teams hold on to relentless hope of remission, which lends itself to having palliation and or hospice forgotten about. It was the care team's responsibility to tell the Carvers that Juliana was going to pass, or at least have a discussion in advance as to what Juliana and her family wanted done in end of life care. It's clear that these conversations were never held, or at least were quite short and surface level because there was zero contingent plan as to what would be done when she neared death. Her parents deserved an objective conversation to warn them that she was essentially palliative. They had little education on how close to death she was, and how to care for her in her final moments. This girl had a poor end-of-life experience due to her parents being ill prepared to support her emotionally and physically in dying. This girl deserved to have adequate analgesia, adequate respiratory support, and nursing care; She deserved to be held by her family and to be told it was okay to pass, not "you'll get better". Instead of building a bridge to a peaceful death, she was led off a cliff's edge.

    • @judithaborden1968
      @judithaborden1968 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I agree with you 100 %

    • @jeanmason3559
      @jeanmason3559 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I agree. She suffered too much at the end.

    • @scratchy1704
      @scratchy1704 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes agree 100%.Had my mum with us for palliative care and we knew when she was right near the end and she had a morphine driver.She died in no pain although the death rattle is upsetting.My mum had COPD and also had 2 brain bleeds.She was on a CPAP mask for 24 hrs a day for the last few months and was only taken of in her last 24 hrs due to her face swelling from it and her body was rejecting it.

    • @anjaknatz7157
      @anjaknatz7157 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am so thankfull for your comment.

    • @pathaynes1534
      @pathaynes1534 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@scratchy1704 l

  • @sweetarielangels2580
    @sweetarielangels2580 7 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    I do not understand why John says that the cause of Juliana's death is an overdose of opioids. if it had been the case, doctors would have noticed it and wouldn't have discharged her from hospital. she had been sent home in hospice care because she was terminal and her parents could not be unaware. the truth is that Juliana's body was destroyed by years of treatment and cancer and she was ready to fly away. Poor little girl ❤️

    • @ivyedan7183
      @ivyedan7183 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Sweet Ariel Angels that's what hospice does..they don't come unless you are dying.. it it wasn't opiates that had her like that..it was organ failure and a coma

    • @danielleschiazza6172
      @danielleschiazza6172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      If u are sent home on hospice that means your life is ending! That's what hospice is, end of life care/ comfort care! The goal is to keep her comfortable while she is actively dieing! The doctors did nothing wrong! Some families just do not want to except that! They want to force the person to fight and suffer and that is just selfish! But unfortunately some families just don't get it or accept it! I work in nursing and I do hospice care and I see so many families like this, Its so sad and u can't blame them because u don't know how it feels to be in their shoes all u can do is do your job and try your best to support the family. So sad god bless her

    • @fourchickensma4628
      @fourchickensma4628 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Danielle Schiazza The precious girl is obviously in the final hours of life, you can tell when they walk in the house from the hospital, she is even showing signs of reflexive breathing, also known as a death rattle, and they keep trying to pour raspberry tea down her throat. I wish they could have just backed off a little and let her go in peace. She didn’t die from opioid overdose, she died because her poor little body just gave out, I don’t know why her parents can’t see that. I know what they are going through must be awful, but she died because cancer finally took over and her body failed. She fought long and hard! Bless her heart!!

    • @tamaraeppinger4767
      @tamaraeppinger4767 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Omg just stop taping stop with the flipping tea I understand u wanted to show child hood cancer but good Lord enough is enough cancer is an evil disease it is but this is just way to much...stop put the camera down and what would have been the fatherly thing to do was to hold her tell her it's ok but no people taking pictures people filming people forceing tea down her throat just so sad and disturbing..

    • @tamaraeppinger4767
      @tamaraeppinger4767 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm sorry but u say she was over medicated if so y did u not call an ambulance..un real

  • @cherylgalli1994
    @cherylgalli1994 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Prayers to the whole family. 😢😢😢

  • @larenewhite2470
    @larenewhite2470 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless this beautiful angle ❤

  • @cassidycarson1065
    @cassidycarson1065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    From the POV of a healthcare worker, it’s very clear she was dying from a little less than halfway through the video. Her cancer either progressed, or the treatments themselves were much too harsh on her fragile body. She was most likely released from the hospital with some sort of palliative care recommendation, but the family was obviously in denial; that is evident by the fact that they were joking around about Juliana not having pizza, by the fact that they were trying to feed her and give her water. She was clearly uncomfortable in her final stages due to lack of pain management medications, and having things forced in her mouth. Her death rattle was very prominent. She was not saying “uh-huh” in agreement to anything. She had no control of the guttural sounds coming from her, because it was a death rattle. This poor girl suffered in death due to yet another family in denial. The hospital did nothing wrong. I see it all the time in my field...family members deny any decline in a patient’s health until it is far too late. I hope that the family educated themselves on death & the dying process in order to assure that nothing like this ever happens again when it’s the next loved one’s turn.

    • @branevans3705
      @branevans3705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yeah, so what they were in denial-if that was even the scenario. You are a health care worker and yet you feel you have this all solved from this video. And even if you are correct, so you not see the pain mom is going through? Omg really? Where’s your empathy man?

    • @Stacey0909
      @Stacey0909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@alicat7281 I'm learning all I can while I can...AND teaching those who will be caring for me in my last days. Unfortunately, the subject of death is taboo all too often, until it is too late. I got the feeling that the parents were told as much as they wanted to hear or were able to believe.

    • @alicat7281
      @alicat7281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Stacey Mask Yes, I agree with everything you wrote. And you are so correct about death being a taboo subject in our culture. That needs to change, because educating people about the death process not only benefits the dying person, it helps the family and caregivers, too. I wish you all the best. Being a caregiver to the dying is an honor.

    • @satos1
      @satos1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alicat7281 people can educate all they like and until they go through the "process" themselves then you have no idea what you are talking about. Have you heard about not losing faith.

    • @alicat7281
      @alicat7281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@satos1 I do know what I’m talking about. I was my husband’s caretaker while he was dying, and he died in my arms. I’m also in healthcare, and have been a witness to many deaths. I wouldn’t have commented if I didn’t know something about the dying process. As for faith, this is not about faith. My husband and I were (and I still am), very strong in our faith, and death doesn’t change that.

  • @agnesmon4940
    @agnesmon4940 7 ปีที่แล้ว +497

    The truth is her body was exhausted from many years of cruel and strong treatments, although she was a fighter her strength had a final, because she was just a little girl. Nobody can´t fight eternally .Leave her to rest in peace between angels, comfort yourself with her memories and cure your souls of the sorrow. Everything that you did was well done. God wanted it to happens for a reason that you can´t understand now, let time tells you the secret.
    God bless you all.

    • @agnesmon4940
      @agnesmon4940 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      ***** Yes, Juliana was exhausted from cruel cancer treatment during NINE years. And they are cruel treatments because destroy our organs, the quimo destroy both good cells and cancer cells,everybody knows that ¡¡¡ it is poison for Heaven sake!!! at least thats what the doctor say. Of course Juliana was very strong to keep on those years fighting but she was also HUMAN, and not the only girl who has died from cancer.
      It is very difficult to understand the death of a child much more if she is your own daughter, I don´t think the intention of the doctors was to kill Juliana. They did what they could and we are wrong if we think that they are God and can do miracles.
      And I don´t go away from here because I love and admire Juliana and her family.

    • @agnesmon4940
      @agnesmon4940 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Of course the treatments were TRYING to save her life but couldn´t. Thats the proof the treatments not always work Ok?? And if you say the quimo don´t harm the organs you know NOTHING about cancer although you have lived near people with this disease.
      I haven´t offended you so try to be respectful, it is for free and it helps to live together in peace.
      It only has been my honest opinion.

    • @Erica_America32
      @Erica_America32 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      +Kia Davis gosh, I think you need anger management treatment chill out! the truth is answers won't bring her back, she's finally free now would you rather her be in pain and suffer because your selfish? Why don't you act like an adult. let her rest in peace without your ignorance.

    • @Erica_America32
      @Erica_America32 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      +Kia Davis you do know I'm not reading any of that LOL well maybe some .. you are insane and keep repeating the same things.. get a life go write a book and take your medications on time, ignorant people on TH-cam make me laugh I better shut up? I'm actually typing not talking and what you going to do come thru the computer TH-cam warrior LOL. yawn

    • @jadatorres7802
      @jadatorres7802 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Kia Davis I'm reporting you and hopefully your account will be shut off, how do you know if any of us have not lost a family member due to cancer? YOU DON'T! maybe not a child but a family member is a family member, all the comments you leave are the same exact thing your this bla bla i lost my cousin blabla WE ALL LOSE LOVED ONES IT'S LIFE! What are you going to do for the rest of your life sit on youtube acting like a complete dip shit, will that bring her back with your foolishness NO! face the fact shes in heaven in a better place with evil people like yourself that we are stuck with now GO AWAY!

  • @nici2446
    @nici2446 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    23:00 Uhr Düsseldorf Hallo Ihr Lieben... Ich habe alle Videos von Euch angesehen... Von ganzen Herzen wünsche ich Eurer Familie alles alles Gute. Ich bin sehr sehr traurig darüber das Juliana nach soviel Schmerz + Leid den Kampf gegen diese Krankheit doch verloren hat... Sie hatte fast immer ein Lächeln trotz der so vielen Schmerzen... Ihr seid super tolle Eltern ❤

  • @crystaljackson9148
    @crystaljackson9148 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so sorry about your beautiful daughter praying for you and your family rip sweetie 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @madisonby2490
    @madisonby2490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    God she was in so much pain at the end. They should have had her sedated and let her pass peacefully. God that’s torture. I can’t even imagine how she felt all she could do was moan uh huh. Truly devastating. May she Rest In Peace and live peacefully in heaven.

    • @martheberkenheide7410
      @martheberkenheide7410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      It's not mourning because of pain. It is life leaving the body, body functions driving down, air leaving the airway...it's more like a pipe. People who are under strong pain meds do this when they die. Complete sedating is depriving the human of the time he/she needs to let go of life.

    • @silviafigueroa8813
      @silviafigueroa8813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I agree
      Why couldn't the doctors sedate the poor sweet child
      Her suffering is heartbreaking

    • @kB5TVP
      @kB5TVP 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      And you are a dumbass. In the end they keep them comfortable with morphine every 2 hours. Noises and moaning doesnt mean she was suffering. Just the bodies process.... That surringe she gave her multiple times was morphine.

    • @oliviahonour4968
      @oliviahonour4968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@kB5TVP Tammy said it was raspberry tea not morphine

    • @sassyg950
      @sassyg950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Miyuki Jades I’m not sure any of us privileged to witness these final days need to use the word ‘should’ in any of our comments. This family have walked a very long and challenging road are are definitely qualified to make decisions that work for them. Do we need to assume that the parents and the 14 year old have never discussed end of life interventions available?

  • @troyrydell3904
    @troyrydell3904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Who else actually watched. The hole thing

    • @markvargas5356
      @markvargas5356 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    • @vitaminjovitaa
      @vitaminjovitaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      whole*

    • @nicolebrown5921
      @nicolebrown5921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Troy I have and it is very sad that Juliana had to go through all this. She is in no more pain cause she is in heaven with God.

    • @aliceforsyth9476
      @aliceforsyth9476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I did but it was killing me because it was for years after the fact that I first saw this if it hadn’t been I would’ve been very perturbed almost to the point of contacting them and telling these people you do not give a dying person pizza don’t give them anything no raspberry tea they’re dying good God Almighty this poor child was in pain what a way to die

    • @aliceforsyth9476
      @aliceforsyth9476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stupid hospital
      Why did they not send this child home with hospice care I will never know it doesn’t sound like there’s a lot of bright action going on around there thank God this child’s and having at least she’s out of pain

  • @paulinekirkham7945
    @paulinekirkham7945 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The poor girl was drugged up and breathing badly. How on earth did they expect her to answer or talk to them.

  • @isabelzabotto998
    @isabelzabotto998 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Essa menininha valente... guerreira.... é doce...meiga....lindinha demais.....foi para o papai do céu 😢❤

  • @Applehead.michaelj
    @Applehead.michaelj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    this is honestly so sad, to see a child dying🥺😢 may she rest in peace!

  • @marinadee2771
    @marinadee2771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    That dog just knew

    • @Kitkat.hvbbbb
      @Kitkat.hvbbbb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yeah dogs can sense cancer

    • @satos1
      @satos1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@Kitkat.hvbbbb cats also. The year before mom passed away to the dreaded "C" her pet cat would often go into her room meowing. At the time mom was not diagnosed with cancer yet. On the night she passed away I was on the cell phone talking to one of mom's friends. The cat began meowing non stop again in the background. Her friend said "is that a baby" crying in the background. I said no. Its her cat grieving her passing. Animals can sense sadness and grief like we humans can do.

    • @kharlie22
      @kharlie22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Kitkat.hvbbbb they sense a lot. My dog knew that I was pregnant. I thought I might be, but she would never leave my side from the moment I get home to the moment I'd leave the house.

    • @dariacordella
      @dariacordella ปีที่แล้ว

      😡☝⚡

  • @joetisdale30
    @joetisdale30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You should have had way more support from hospice in your area. At the time of my loved ones end the hospice was great. I was giving my loved one pain medicine as much as they needed. Bless her and your family.

  • @amandamiller7926
    @amandamiller7926 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm very confused why they didn't have a hospice nurse or why they didn't take her BACK to the hospital if they thought she was over medicated???

  • @deannaeverhart9506
    @deannaeverhart9506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Oh my god boy she was a fighter . she never gave up. She kept fighting and fighting. Your always in my heart. My true fighter.

    • @cesargonzalesviera1954
      @cesargonzalesviera1954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      god? , porque permite eso?,

    • @annhughes1503
      @annhughes1503 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Deanna Everhart I agree

    • @shananalexander9789
      @shananalexander9789 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Deanna I am still crying.

    • @juliettemacdonald5792
      @juliettemacdonald5792 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Deanna Everhart A fighter???
      I see her more as a tortured sufferer!

    • @louisavevers9709
      @louisavevers9709 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juliettemacdonald5792 how? She had a terminal illness. She had fought it 8times! *scratches head*

  • @angelaherrera5027
    @angelaherrera5027 5 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    the girl is obviously dying, gasping for air, but she's trying to respond in every way she can, such a brave soul.. As a mother, this is too painful for me to watch, the parents should've comforted her on her last days..kissed her goodbye, talked to her in her sleep, stop feeding her with anything, thinking it will maker her strong feeding her.. Rest in Peace little girl.

    • @norawilcox2357
      @norawilcox2357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Were you there? I think not, so you don't know what her parents did or didn't do. My dad was dying from cancer and my mom fed him liquids the same way. So be quiet because it's obvious you don't know what you are talking about

    • @norawilcox2357
      @norawilcox2357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@JulieR73 does your mouth have a mute button

    • @kimberleybasta9959
      @kimberleybasta9959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't see Phd in front of your name Angela so I agree with Nora STFU!!!!!!

    • @juliettemacdonald5792
      @juliettemacdonald5792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Nora Wilcox She doesn’t HAVE TO BE THERE- it’s IN THE VIDEO!
      Everyone is entitled to their opinion + I feel exactly the same as the the lady that you’re telling to “shut-up”!
      Do YOU realize that after a patient’s 1st remission if the cancer returns in another site that it’s the cells from the first cancer.
      So basically those cancer cells are everywhere in their body + WILL keep “waking up” in the form of new tumours that become increasingly resistant to chemotherapy.
      So if the Dr’s did their job right + told the parents the truth- they should have let her die peacefully when Juliana felt she was ready to escape the 7 years of horrible suffering she’s been told to go through “to inspire millions of people”- bullshit!
      She’s responsible to herself.
      As far as I’m concerned this makes me furious. Unnecessary suffering!
      Tons of videos + picture flashes every 10 minutes sometime.
      So don’t you dare tell someone else off!!!
      Your dad’s condition has nothing to do with this case.

    • @juliettemacdonald5792
      @juliettemacdonald5792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kimberley Basta I happen to AGREE with Angela! So you + Nora can both STFU + 🤬!!!!

  • @BellaXX69
    @BellaXX69 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rip beautiful angel and god bless the family and maddie 🙏❤️

  • @lifeoflw84
    @lifeoflw84 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful soul.. RIP sister.. your not sick anymore!! 🤍

  • @user-vd2jk7dl3p
    @user-vd2jk7dl3p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Thank you for posting this. Whenever I have seen people with cancer whether in person or in the media they really never look sick. They have no hair but they are typically walking around and being normal. So I have never had an accurate idea of what cancer is and what it can actually do to a person and how QUICK it can deteriorate a body and take a life. You have shown me how serious this really is . I always knew it was but it never really connected until I saw this.

    • @tracyshelton5599
      @tracyshelton5599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh it s horrible , my mom died of complications of Lung / liver cancer stage 4

    • @becibabe7364
      @becibabe7364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tracyshelton5599 who cares

    • @lunamoone5231
      @lunamoone5231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@becibabe7364 and who cares about your nasty disgusting comment?

    • @katluann
      @katluann 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My mom died of cancer and Alzheimer’s but they kept her on morphine to keep her comfortable. She just slept The Whole time. She was comatose.

    • @jennybyrd2818
      @jennybyrd2818 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@becibabe7364 no one cares that you want attention so bad you go on the internet to insult people. What you need to do is find a hobby other than hiding behind a keyboard.

  • @kkdoc7864
    @kkdoc7864 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    When someone is dying whether over a couple of weeks or days, the last thing he or she wants is oral nourishment. Not only is thirst gone, but food is repulsive and often nauseating, and you run the risk of having her aspirate. Trying to push food or fluids on the dying patient can even be considered abusive in spite of the fact that you think you are helping. Wetting her lips is a safer thing to do.

  • @dencabal7241
    @dencabal7241 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rest well in Paradise Beautiful young lady,God bless

  • @Italian_girl89
    @Italian_girl89 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What’s wrong with the woman who said “they order pizza without you”?!? I am shocked 😥 poor Julie.

  • @spartadelavega5436
    @spartadelavega5436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Seeing someone actively dying is so heartbreaking

  • @mariposatx9703
    @mariposatx9703 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    As a mother I would be laying next to her holding her, not having all these annoying people come visit and make annoying conversations. This is heartbreaking, rest in peace sweet angel!!

    • @miamibone7448
      @miamibone7448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I would be in my baby bed and holding her and kissing my baby telling her how much she loved and always will be

    • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
      @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too . This is heart breaking. I am a mother of two daughters

    • @claudia2341000
      @claudia2341000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They let the dog do the kissing...unbelievable

    • @krisrhood2127
      @krisrhood2127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In a way I'm glad that I wasn't with my dad when he was dying. He might not have wanted me to see him like that

    • @lornabarret7929
      @lornabarret7929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Especially miss beauty queen,with her anoying voice,chatting and asking question that the poor girl had to use her little energy to answer.

  • @Sal0989
    @Sal0989 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I hope you get the answers from the hospital. They need to realise that as her parents it’s vitality important to know what happened in that short time period. If they have an ounce of empathy & compassion they will give you the information you need to help your grieving journey.
    I pray that your good memories help heal your tomorrows ❤

  • @saraelle610
    @saraelle610 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Cette jeune fille est superbe ,son comportement viv a viv de Julia a est incroyable elle est d une patience elle est a l écoute avec de la compassion d’osés , j ai suivis jullina du début a sa fin , une maman hors du commun ! Ainsi que le papa magnifique,j aurai voulu avoir un père comme lui. Julia a est parti trop trop tôt, mais elle a tellement était aimé pou toute une vie, elle est parti entouré de toutes les personnes qui l aime. .Elle a connu beaucoups de souffrances et si elle n aurait pas eu de parent comme sa ,elle serait parti y’a très longtemps

  • @evamarek5205
    @evamarek5205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This is so heartbreaking even four years later. She suffered so. RIP sweet little angel.