What You Can Control vs. What You Can't

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  • @erinc8795
    @erinc8795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference 🙏❤

    • @CherryBerryFashion
      @CherryBerryFashion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for reminding me of that prayer 🙏🏻 ❤

    • @jackiemyers4548
      @jackiemyers4548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My favorite prayer :)

  • @the.kate.outdoors
    @the.kate.outdoors 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Just found out who this conflict is with. Ugh my heart is honestly enraged for you. You have changed my life for the better over the years and the KOZE Community has given me soooo much joy. I don't know how, but I truly trust the universe has some plan to have this work out in your favor. Without putting her down I will end with this. Your character is UNMATCHABLE and that shines through. So much love sis.

  • @corrineweiss7811
    @corrineweiss7811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Ive followed you for 6-7 years now Kalyn and I seriously don’t know where I’d be without your words and your brand. Thank you so much for Koze and I’m so sorry for the things surrounding koze that are out of your control. It’s so inspiring to see how you are handling it ❤️

  • @tarahofarrell
    @tarahofarrell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I have followed both you and the other creator involved for years. The moment I saw the brand name I was shocked and annoyed that it was happening because it shouldn’t have happened. However, as always, you handle things beautifully. Keep doing what you’re doing Kalyn, you have my full support 💕

    • @striketochill
      @striketochill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you no longer support the other creator too.

  • @sarahhouseman13
    @sarahhouseman13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    you make me a better person, luv u ❤

  • @Sarah-gi3ct
    @Sarah-gi3ct 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Fully support you girl! I’ve been a subscriber of yours and Koze for years. Years. Good will prevail. I will no longer support JH.

  • @meera99999
    @meera99999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Loved this Coffee Talk!! So sorry for everything going on with your business :( I will forever support All Things Koze 💛

  • @gabriellelevesque3187
    @gabriellelevesque3187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This video came at the right time for me. Just got in a huge argument with my mom concerning her drinking problem that she doesn't seem to even notice. Huge rage comes into me every time the subject comes up because I can't deal with anymore. I seriously need to just let go of what I can't control.

    • @liasawa1532
      @liasawa1532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I hope it's okay for me to reply to this. Just wanted to say I'm sorry for what you're going through, since I have had two people I loved very much end up as alcoholics. I couldn't stop either one of them, and finally had to let go and take care of myself so that what they were doing would not destroy me. I wish you the best and hope you are able to focus on giving yourself the life you deserve.

    • @Kaymitlit
      @Kaymitlit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sorry to hear that please take care of yourself as much as you can 💖

  • @kristinalockwood4970
    @kristinalockwood4970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love the world you’ve built around koze, I always leave your content feeling inspired by your grace and intention.

  • @gracevwagner
    @gracevwagner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Your coffee talks always seem to come at the perfect time 💜

  • @MariJadeWrites
    @MariJadeWrites 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed this today, feeling overwhelmed and discouraged.

  • @teresaperez1657
    @teresaperez1657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I admire how you handle life with such grace. You inspire me to work on becoming a better version of myself and change my perspective on the things I can and can’t control.

  • @linikedemarco
    @linikedemarco 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m kind of disappointed in myself for not knowing about you or your brand before the situation with what’s-her-face, but I’m so glad I eventually did. You are such a beautiful soul, Kaelyn.

  • @monica_.
    @monica_. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is a lesson in grace. It's so inspiring to witness how mindfully you've been handling this execrable situation. Your integrity is what matters the most but I also wish for this to be fully resolved in your favor 💕✨

  • @cesskin7979
    @cesskin7979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the way you think and articulate your findings - thank you for this reminder! Listening to you feels like a good deep talk with a friend 🤗

  • @imagine6876
    @imagine6876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is one of my favorite coffee talks of yours. I felt that I really needed this reminder. Thank you Kayln 🥰

  • @autumnboekeloo
    @autumnboekeloo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    thank you for talking about this ❤️ i’m really struggling to be happy in this transition period from college to the real world. it’s hard having a full time job. it’s hard being alone so much. i’ve been so in my thoughts lately so it’s a great reminder to let go of what i can’t control ❤️

  • @sarahcolegrove2326
    @sarahcolegrove2326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have been following your channels for years & love your content..wanted to show some extra support for you & your brand right now 💛

  • @marthelea
    @marthelea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I had to listen to this twice because the message was so strong and this is something I am personally working on all the time. So this talk will probably be a go-to for me in the future, kinda like a pep talk whenever I need it.
    Thank you for this you wise woman on the internet

  • @littlemaniacinmyhead
    @littlemaniacinmyhead 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video was so perfect in time for me. I was sitting there getting upset about things I can not control and the way I felt about myself. Your words grounded me again and I shifted my focus on to the things in my life that I can control. I struggle with Anxiety and the fear of loosing everything I love and sometimes my head goes nuts without me realsing until its too late and I am upset about the whole world. Your voice always brings me down. Thank you so much for being the lovely human being you are. I am only 23 y/o but I have been watching you videos sice what feels like a lifetime (Found your channel when I was 15) ❤❤️❤️

  • @vernatudela2131
    @vernatudela2131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow! Just recently I had to stop myself from being upset and overwhelmed to realize that I could only control me and my reaction to the situation and the obstacles thrown at me that day. My son was in the car and I didn't want him to feel the same way, so I took a breath, slowed my driving , and told him that no matter what's going on and the end of the day we will get there and that it was better late then never. Thank you for the reminder thos morning. 🙂

  • @mykaliii
    @mykaliii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    100% stand with you on all this!!!

  • @emilywilson9186
    @emilywilson9186 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video just changed my life in this moment. Thank you.

    • @emilywilson9186
      @emilywilson9186 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Specifically 10:00 to 11:00. Like. You don't understand what your words just did for me.

  • @ThatGirlShelbyy
    @ThatGirlShelbyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Sending all my love and support over the J/H thing **eyeroll** , and I won’t be supporting her again, since she once again pulled some BS with her launch.
    It’s just so unfair that one person can spend so much time and energy to establish a brand, just for someone else to try and claim is as an “original” brand that’s honestly way overpriced and just another cash grab.
    My heart dropped into my gut when I saw her brands name, and sure enough, MOST of the comments on the video were supporting YOU and AllThingsKoze ❤

    • @eneri_444
      @eneri_444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      shut up lmao i’ve never even heard of this kalyn girl and her brand. jaclyn doesn’t even sell the same things.

    • @shanaesmith112
      @shanaesmith112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@eneri_444 This Kalyn Nicholson girl has over a million subscribers on youtube. She is not a no one.

    • @eneri_444
      @eneri_444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shanaesmith112 never said she was a no one. just said i’ve never heard of her.

    • @mjl3753
      @mjl3753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@eneri_444 if you came here to troll you're very welcome to leave.

    • @eneri_444
      @eneri_444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mjl3753 i’m not trolling 😂 just giving my opinion like everyone else.

  • @marinatoadiewimmer
    @marinatoadiewimmer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Listening to this, while falling asleep, to not feel alone. :) Thank you big sister. Greetings from Germany

  • @tayhoops
    @tayhoops 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    freaking love your talks and anything you share with us. Thank you! 🧡 you have a beautiful glow to you these days and I’m just happy to listen/watch whatever you’re choosing to share with us!

  • @laurenambrose4012
    @laurenambrose4012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have so much wisdom. I wish you the best. 🙏🏻💖✨

  • @PaolaCLife
    @PaolaCLife 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish we lived near each other. I feel like we would be best friends! Thank you for being such a beautiful soul!

  • @Dirtanddiamonds1
    @Dirtanddiamonds1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I’m completely in awe of your spirit and attitude! Wishing you much success in everything you’re pursuing, I know in the end, everything will work out for your good💗

  • @liasawa1532
    @liasawa1532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Perfect timing...have been struggling with this and appreciate your wisdom. Thank you :)

  • @traceypeacock8018
    @traceypeacock8018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are dealing with everything so well and have faith that people see the bigger picture and can see you are a genuine, honest person that has good morals 😊 carry on being the bigger person in those difficult situations so proud of you for dealing with this anxiety in a positive way, you have so many good things in your life that are so much more important right now and you are so right in focusing on those ❤ sending you good vibes 🫶🏼 keep doing you 😉

  • @mariamorenavicente
    @mariamorenavicente ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this conversation! By the way, I really love your hair!

  • @vvmarie9922
    @vvmarie9922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You helped me so much today you uplifted me I have anxiety and it's been pretty bad lately I want to start getting more motivated and more productive

  • @TrueChristina
    @TrueChristina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, I needed this this week!

  • @meep3832
    @meep3832 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    lovin the divine timing along w many in comments

  • @goldenforhours
    @goldenforhours 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So relatable especially with the overwhelm/ overstimulation of life sometimes these days. This is why I love yoga and things that bring me into the “now” and what really matters. Thank you 💕 you are such a role model and example of how to move gracefully through hard things

  • @44cosmogurl
    @44cosmogurl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing job staying so poised and positive through it all ❤

  • @Liz-bt2sk
    @Liz-bt2sk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow. This video is mental health gold for me right now🍯🧠 lol. I have so many takeaways from this video that I know are going to help me. Thank you for putting so much time and consideration into what you put out in the world.
    PS - the description ❤️ I’m rooting for you Kalyn

  • @tiffanyschuna3484
    @tiffanyschuna3484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guuuurl I am so proud of you! It has been a beautiful thing watching you grow darling ❤

  • @chrisoulalakkas7935
    @chrisoulalakkas7935 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    People change, feelings fade, things go wrong, memories remain but life goes on.

  • @aprilbrooks
    @aprilbrooks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These videos give me so much nostalgia ✨🥰

  • @dominiquejasperse4841
    @dominiquejasperse4841 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Needed this reminder before I start my day, was feeling overwhelmed but your videos always help me take a step back ❤

  • @juliomatos122
    @juliomatos122 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent video nice work , thank You !

  • @bridget349
    @bridget349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for this, i really neededit 💞 your coffee talks have helped me so much over the last year! also you are glowing girl!! any advice on feeling lost in a job? that you dread and know you don’t want to continue but also need the income to survive? any help anyone?❤

  • @alissamicheleanderson
    @alissamicheleanderson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Here from the “Jaclyn” brand - KOZE Collection

  • @martialag
    @martialag 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning! Peace and blessings!

  • @jsmith8904
    @jsmith8904 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the reminder

  • @TCCDIGITALSTICKERS
    @TCCDIGITALSTICKERS 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great talk. Loved it ❤

  • @evelyne.u
    @evelyne.u 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This reminds me of Stephen Covey’s circle of influence and circle of concern :)

  • @yasminvilla7002
    @yasminvilla7002 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re amazing 💕

  • @HeyyJillian
    @HeyyJillian 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Release Control by Alexa Sunshine Rose 🌹 is my one of my favorite songs to meditate to 😊

  • @veronika__asmr_
    @veronika__asmr_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such a class act! 💋💋💋( I love the vampire picture) ☝️you have such a beautiful soul! Thank you for this video!

  • @MOMO-YYDS
    @MOMO-YYDS 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤😊

  • @Angelasalchemy
    @Angelasalchemy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you!!!

  • @mjl3753
    @mjl3753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤗❤️🙏

  • @RigobertBidoung
    @RigobertBidoung 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎉 bonjour Madame chef bidoung onana rigobert koundessong merci

  • @maggieruth
    @maggieruth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate you. Proud of your calm resilience. Way to go Goddess ✨🫶🏼🌙

  • @joanacgarcez
    @joanacgarcez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed the reminder so much right now - just turned 25 and the future seems so scary to me sometimes it gets overwhelmed because I feel I'm not doing enough and I'm running out of time. This really helped me put things into perspective, you really are the big sister I never had