pulling myself out of a depressive episode

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  • @bibicos3140
    @bibicos3140 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    girl i literally cant get out of this rut UGH, good for u tho bb

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sending you sm love 🫶 you got itttt

  • @lizzyisgreat
    @lizzyisgreat ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i really needed this, sometimes it doesn’t feel like recovery but like relapse :/

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I totally feel you. Remember healing isn’t linear and there will always be ups and downs! Be patient with yourself and don’t give up ❤️

  • @bridgettebosch1985
    @bridgettebosch1985 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm crying right now as I watch this, I've been badly depressed for almost my whole life but I've been doing research on it and this video just gave me even more motivation to get better for myself so thank you so much❤

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so glad this video helped!! Yes research is so very important to understand the situation and to better yourself! Best of luck on your journey, love. ❤️

  • @irisroe
    @irisroe ปีที่แล้ว +11

    you don't know me but im grateful and proud of you for posting this

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so so much 🥹 this really means a lot to me!!

  • @doublea6252
    @doublea6252 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was beautiful. I am so sorry for all that you are goimg through. So glad that you are learning and growing! You are amazing!

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you love!

  • @aurorasuzanne
    @aurorasuzanne ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for being vulnerable! So happy you were able to break the stigma in your mind put their by other people. Ive definitely had to unlearn behaviors and stigmas and it was super comforting to know I'm not alone!

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was really shocked it took me this long to realize and unlearn the stigma put in my mind by others. Despite knowing that their thinking was misguided, I found myself entertaining the same thoughts. You’re definitely not alone!! I’m glad I’m reaching those who are going/went through something similar :)

  • @berealwrizzle
    @berealwrizzle ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for sharing your experience

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for watching, love u!🥹❤️

    • @berealwrizzle
      @berealwrizzle ปีที่แล้ว

      Was so powerful to see you validate yourself, empowering others including myself to seek help & not feel ashamed about our struggles. WE ALL LOVE YOU TOO ❤ thank you for creating this as a message to everyone to see themselves 💖🤗

  • @Zoey2579
    @Zoey2579 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Honestly needed this episode I feel so much better ❤

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m SO glad ❤️

  • @atopansa8696
    @atopansa8696 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love your video so much Rebecca❤ you are so strong and so inspiration. Don't stress🫂 this is what you're going through not who you are. And you're doing awesome

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much 🥹❤️

  • @maitripatel2628
    @maitripatel2628 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can relate to her so much that it felt so good watching her be better gradually. Felt so personal 🫂

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว

      That was the goal 🥹❤️

  • @tepach0495
    @tepach0495 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Th very much for videos like this!💗

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for supporting me🥹🫶

  • @swaralikulkarni8127
    @swaralikulkarni8127 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm going through the same phase from past 3 months ....and this vedio helped me to understand myself and what im feeling rn ...so thankyou so much!! YOU'RE SO BRAVE ❤

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m glad that I could help in some way! Thanks for watching and you got this! 🫶

  • @busy6977
    @busy6977 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank u, this helped me open up to my friends about my feelings and finally helped me cry which i needed 💕

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course!! I’m so glad to have helped❤️

  • @MarianaFerreira-z2t
    @MarianaFerreira-z2t 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    its been 8 years for me...this past year was the best and the worst at the beginning the best I ever felt traveling enjoying life then a couple of stress and traumatic events now back at major depression.I used to be strong and deal with it because it was my "normal" but after the light I reached this year I can't believe Im in this darkness again.I also deny it and others gaslight it too

  • @vanshikabali8830
    @vanshikabali8830 ปีที่แล้ว

    Posting this video and being so open and vulnerable about your mental health with us.. Makes me feel special. I felt so relatable, and just so you know Rebecca you're doing really good. Thank you for posting this video. ❤

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg thank you so much for your kind words 🥹❤️ It means the world!!

  • @oliviamalathy
    @oliviamalathy หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks a lot, I was looking for a video like this since I also think I have an episode. I had depression years ago but I thought these episodes are normal and are just kind of lazy days like everyone has. Lol seems like I was in denial too

  • @deemayhew4211
    @deemayhew4211 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad you’re seeing a therapist- yay!! It’s okay to fall back into depression, you’re not a failure.

  • @alisas6993
    @alisas6993 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so proud of you! I lowkey started crying…

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! I hope you’re okay🥹❤️❤️

  • @thaingocman
    @thaingocman ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this change in editing style it’s beautiful ❤

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank boo, I literally can’t choose one editing style so imma do them all LOL

  • @noemimartinez1116
    @noemimartinez1116 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sending you love and abundance 💜

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank u loveee 🫶

  • @jordana425
    @jordana425 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Haven’t watched one of your videos in a while. Needed this today. Keep doing what you’re doing Rebecca ❤Loved this.

  • @Mina_Lim_Vlogs
    @Mina_Lim_Vlogs ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hiii I just started watching your videos and U R SO FUNNY!!! I really want to go thrifting nowww

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AHA ILYYY GO THRIFTING GIRLY

  • @terena_world
    @terena_world ปีที่แล้ว

    this was such an illuminating video to watch- to see you go thru the ups & downs and gradually being more open and honest with us.. your vulnerability is admirable and excited to see more content like this in the future

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awee thank you so much!! It was one of my favorite videos to film 😊 I’m glad you enjoyed it🫶

  • @haru_art600
    @haru_art600 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lyyysm Rebecca! Always get so so excited when you post, literally make my dayyyy. Really appreciated this video and we're all so proud of you! x

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️

  • @sarsurab2778
    @sarsurab2778 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is why I love her!!!❤❤

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว

      Love you!!! 🫶🫶

  • @laurwata
    @laurwata ปีที่แล้ว

    You're brave and strong for sharing your journey. Thank you! BTW, Pop Tart crust lover here, too! Not weird at all! LOL Sending you love and hugs!

  • @M1IFHVNT3R
    @M1IFHVNT3R ปีที่แล้ว

    hey! i found this during a depression episode and at a time where i could use this as part of a project / assignment in school! i wanted to formally ask your permission before i went forward. technically, i am using this video as a source as to what it's like to live with depression / mental illness to back up the themes of the two things i'm comparing (hi ren by ren + "i made a new friend" by nicole kyler). seeing someone deal with the things that so many of us do and to show that there is always a way up is so inspiring for myself and so many others

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey! You absolutely could. Thank you for sharing both the song and article! I just checked them both out and wow are they so relatable. Best of luck on your project!! You got it👍

  • @Maureen-MO
    @Maureen-MO ปีที่แล้ว

    After so many episodes, I learned to let it be. Your body is literally telling you and going through what it needs. It’s not wrong. Those episodes are not a downfall but your mind and body reacting accordingly to something.
    As a perfectionist, it’s taken me long enough to STOP. Literally fall and let me. Let me be until I understand what’s going on. Focus on what I can do only. Sometimes it’s nothing. I can’t do anything. So I do nothing.
    Unfortunately that’s not feasible for everyone therefore your mental health can get worse. But really be your friend and hold your hand. If you are going up and down. Go ahead.

    • @Maureen-MO
      @Maureen-MO ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve been in weekly therapy for three yrs straight btw and take antidepressants medications which help me. However though, since I’m going through trauma therapy, I have to go through some tough downs as I head out of trauma.

  • @kashhaliwell
    @kashhaliwell ปีที่แล้ว

    been struggling with this for the past few months. i dont really have resources to get a therapist but i'm trying my hardest to pull myself out

    • @kashhaliwell
      @kashhaliwell ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for posting this so much tho ♡

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so sorry to hear 🥺 don’t give up! Educate yourself on the matter, that way you’ll have a better understanding of what’s happening to you❤️ Best of luck to you on your journey, love.

  • @dankyun9199
    @dankyun9199 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hiii i missed you sm 😢

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hiii! I’m so sorry for being inconsistent 😭😭

  • @soundslikeviv
    @soundslikeviv ปีที่แล้ว

    my fav vlogger

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel honored 🫡

  • @Muu_ffin
    @Muu_ffin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think with mental health for older generations it's either you're sane or insane there is no in between🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They’ll come around hopefully 😭😭

  • @React2022-u7l
    @React2022-u7l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do u take meds ?

  • @lvndrnymph
    @lvndrnymph ปีที่แล้ว

    I also only really like the crust of poptarts🤭

    • @RebeccaKo
      @RebeccaKo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HA we would be besties

    • @lvndrnymph
      @lvndrnymph ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RebeccaKo we can be!😭🤍

  • @ms_ss7603
    @ms_ss7603 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My current boyfriend called me a "fucking looser" for telling him i am suicidal .....

  • @alessialaw9843
    @alessialaw9843 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yay! I'm the first xx