How Can I Stop My Stalker? Please Help!
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- Sweet Anita discusses the problems with her stalker and discusses the problems facing content creators / streamer with others who have had similar experiences to try and find a solution.
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Anita discusses the situation with her stalker as well as sharing stories from other streamers, such as Destiny, Sooshikitty Kaceytron & xchocobars who also have had similar experiences, to highlight the issue with online harassment and what can be done to protect content creators and streamers.
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"Call us when you die", thats basically what the police reponse was to this girls...
That’s just uk law. You aren’t allowed to defend yourself you have to sue them from beyond the grave
I called the police after I got hit by a car and the driver sped off. I told them the cameras from my workplace has picked the incident up with his number plate and they told me they'll be in touch with them. They never contacted them. When I questioned it they told me they had no investigation and they couldn't find the record of my report.
police -> clean up patrol nothing more are they
@@ThatDarnIrishMan A civilian answers your call and upon hearing it's a hit and run (other serious crime is presumably the same) they put you through to a copper to make the report. When you speak to the copper they give you a phone number to ring them back on, which was Woking's police station. Not even 3 months later they claim there's no record of it. They didn't seem like they cared enough to look into the report like Anita said with her case. Nobody told me they would look into why no report was filed. I didn't even know they could trace it back just like that otherwise I'd have requested it.
It sounds like you're just looking for an argument because people like to do that online.
@@ThatDarnIrishMan Its hilarious how your entire comment history is arguing with people online. Its seems like you just want to fight. Good job there bud.
It's actually disgusting how the authorities ACTIVELY REFUSE TO HELP
@Larry Bones it's not even necessarily that in this case anyway its because he's basically within his rights and there no laws to really prevent it in the first place without a person being victimized
@Larry Bones If you watched the video, Anitat states the case of Gwenyth Paltrow, who had mountains of evidence against her stalker be almost worth nothing when he was quickly acquitted. And that's coming from a person who can afford lawyers and has the resources to pursue legal action.
@Larry Bones or because police refuse to do anything about stalkers until “something real happens” aka the stalker actually kills the person they’re stalking. They don’t care about evidence. You can find literally thousands of cases of stalking that were ignored by the police up until the person being stalked was badly hurt and/or killed, and it should never have to get that far.
Not to mention Anita said there was evidence including a witness to one of the assaults and the police still chose to release the guy with a “caution” because they didn’t want to bother filling out a one page subpoena to confirm all the online evidence.
@Larry Bones Why the FUCK would someone lie about them having a stalker? One of my friends died from a stalker, and they told the police with many amounts of evidence, they did nothing until they died.
@Larry Bones literally witnesses and was caught with a knife by cops and detained for jail in july and then later anitas mother house broken into
This reminds me of bullying in school, where the kid who is bullied finally fights back, but then is punished by school authority.
Happened to me once. But it was more they were talking shit about me and I just took it, insulted them once, and got in trouble. Nothing physical, same shit though.
Happened to me. I mentioned the school. They wanted 'evidence'. Did nothing. Few mentions. I kicked his ass and i did get suspended. Worth it, it did stop the bully (was one guy kicking my bike daily when i wasn't around). But i was very happy my dad was ok with it since the situation and the fact that i tried to solve it the right way first.
Yeah that's what's happening to me right now, on a dumb website game.
So, yeah, way less serious than this video's topic... lol. But still. Shows the same type of problem.
@@shadyc7044 don't let it escalate to real life. Change your account name
Similarly with me. For years I was pushed, insulted, beaten but when I fight back then I am the bully. I only realized it after years that by not reacting to their bullying then they got bored of it. They found my reactions to be funny. So I didn't react like they wanted me to.
Incredible how calmly and composed she is describing mortal danger. That's a tough person right there.
especially inspiring that she kept her composure so well even with the emotional damage and her tourettes, these people need to be stoped
@@gavin2576 i think it was joe from YOU
she should be screaming at the top of her lungs reading every lines.
If she gets angry (which she had right to) she might tick more because of stress
Watch her interviews with Dr K. She takes care of her mother since she was little severly bullied, asaulted, was agoraphobic. She is very very very strong girl
It's a weird feeling sitting here, halfway across the world, fearing for your well being.
You said it best.
@Bounze she does
Even tho im in england, i still fear the same as you..
I agree. Being a simp is definitely weird feeling.
So much for serve & protect...my brown ass... this makes me sad,terrified & pissed off
The fact that the guy has probably watched this video is sickening
PROBABLY?
Declan Hill is it you ?
@Declan Hill lol, hes having a laugh ofc
@Declan Hill i feel like it's you dude
@Declan Hill 'i feel like its you dude'
Why is stalking on this level treated as if it's just a minor nuisance..?
Because most police departments don't take these things seriously. Since no physical harm has been done, or not sufficient harm, they don't take action. As she said, it's viewed as "too expensive" to pursue, regardless of the fact that someone could literally die through their inaction.
Jhaiisiin lowkey a threat is a threat and idk why they won’t take it seriously
@@hafealp9365 Quite simply, most police don't take any online threat as an actual threat. They instead brush it off as bravado and meaningless banter that can't possibly rise to a threat level alone.
Time and again, they won't action online messages. Hell, a lot of police won't even action text messages or phone calls. If it's not direct physical confrontation, it's not a "threat" for some reason.
It's insane, and is directly why so many end up hurt or killed from this stuff.
@@Jhaiisiin how many have been killed? id like to compare that to other crimes to really scope how much of a threat this is.
Cause those cops haven't been stalked.
i have a stalker, and his friends enable his behaviour too. The lack of awareness about how vindictive it is, is what protects these harmful, evil people.
What country is this, if you don't mind my asking?
Wjst country are ya in if u don't mind?
LOL two stalkers above tryin to get intel
@@kar12894 like what the fuck? Lol
Some quick advice, never say you have a stalker or refer to them as “my stalker”. Always say “there’s a person stalking me” or “I’ve been dealing with a stalker. Normalizing saying those types of phrases instead in your day to day life will take one inch away from the stalker as you refuse to claim them as yours. Calling them your stalker makes them feel more important than they have any business being to you.
Stalker behavior should not be taken so lightly. This level of stalking is sick and conniving. It's not a game.
I boop ur nose *Conniving* hahaha thank you! The silly spellcheck deceived me.
“Released 3 minutes from my house” absolutely disgusting. They sound utterly useless. Idk you but I’m so sick to death of hearing ab female creators having to go through similar situations.
@No Name yeah, no this happens a lot actually. There are so many cases where girls end up dead because the police refuse to actually do anything. Bianca is a great example. Genuinely, you have to be messed up to immediately tell her she’s a liar. What’s *actually* wrong with you lmaoo. Insane. But “no name”, that makes sense, always the anonymous accounts that say the dumbest shit. 🤷♀️
@No Name did you missed the part where she said he moved down the street? Maybe that’s why they didn’t drove him further? Pretty nuts to say she is making stuff up when shit like that happens every day
No Name I don’t get your point. So even if she’s lying, then what? What about the other victims? What about her main point? Do we just not support her message? Even if some people lie, that doesn’t nullify the many people who do get assaulted and killed as a result of stalking.
No Name I never said she was lying. I believe her. But I don’t understand why just because other people lie, we have to assume everyone is lying. That doesn’t make sense.
No Name I want to clarify some things. I think there’s a difference between a claim and a truth. You claim that she is lying. We don’t know for a fact that she is. And second, I believe that you can support a good message without supporting the person. Those two can be separate. For example, if a liar said murder is bad. I can agree that murder is bad. (Most people would.) But we can still acknowledge the person did something wrong. Right?
If the police can put ankle monitors on felons to make sure they're home by 8pm, they can ankle stalkers to make sure they're nowhere near their victims. What the absolute hell.
You absolutely right. What the fuck man
They can fit simple plastic wristbands with trackers now, if the band is cut a signal is sent immediately.
What's sad is how over half of the county jails are filled with non violent offenders who tested positive for weed, yet violent offenders walk... don't make sense... the for profit jails here in the USA prefer to fill their jails with the non violent inmates because it's a far greater risk to all with the same financial benefit as a person in jail makes the owners the same money whether they killed someone or stole a candy bar.... pathetic.
or prevent them from living in certain towns like how p3d0$ have to live away from schools
The fact that you didn’t tick at all makes this a whole lot scarier
She says when she is more focused she ticks less
She ticked quite a bit it’s just majority of the video was clips from the past where she wasn’t talking over just showing us
Christina Grimmie is another perfect example of a stalker going so far that it led to the lost of her life. Her stalker shot her and then himself after being tackled by her brother. She bled out on her way to the hospital.
Yeah I was thinking of her when I saw this video 😫
As a man, i just dont get what drives these men. Is it love? power? the feeling of control? The chase? I was hopelessly in love once but she turned me down and never once did i taught in me= im gonnna stalk the shit out of her.
@@F4Wildcat Autism most of the time
@@fuzzzvibe saying it's autism is stupid. psychopath is more like it
@@F4Wildcat Its so many variables....but its definitely some kind of mental sickness. All these people have some kind of chip on their shoulders and it just gets amplified.
It’s disgusting that people like that exist I didn’t realize how unsafe twitch can be.
At this point its the brain dead police who decided to do nothing... Like its not just someone online... HE SLEEP ON HER BACKWARD AND DID DEADTREAT ITS A FUCKING HUGE CRIME
It's the world that isn't safe, once you get on the bad (or crazy) side of someone, you are fucked unless you have very little or no public records.
In 1 way, twitch might be safer since you aren't going out every single day to get stalked on the streets to and from work and such (unless you IRL stream a lot), but then there's obviously the whole issue of them knowing exactly where you are so long as you are live...
In places like the US it's even more dangerous as it's 100x easier to get/find access to a more dangerous weapon and more records are public.
Twitch, like other media platforms, is only going to increase your chances at getting "targeted", still happens far too often to people without a public presence, and in their cases, it can be a lot harder to get help as they feel even more alone/trapped.
we should not give everyone the right of being human. Thats the mistake of modern world. If someone stalks to this level, we should exterminate them like vermin.
those people exist outside of twitch .. . if they see you at " TV " or in pictures or any form where they can cross paths with other humans. Laws should protect people in general if you get into situations like those. If you threaten someone with death, show up in person with a weapon on someone's property then 100% you should be confined and seen by a doctor to evaluate if he is a danger to society .
>he didnt realise "stranger danger" in 2020
part of the problem
How can they do NOTHING when he BREACHES A RESTRAINING ORDER!?
It's the UK. Not a surprise unfortunately.
We need to send some US cops over there
They'll handle him real quick😂
@@nokachi3339 ok lol
@VechStein uh huh, keep thinking that
@VechStein thats not how all cops are man, and they sure as hell are hell bent on slamming stalkers down
THIS is why I fear becoming a online content creator.
God same
You can do it no problem. But the more access you give to criminals, the higher chance of getting in trouble you are. Real name, Face, Location or sharing from your life in any kind. But they dont tell or teach people this, they say "well you are surpose to be able to that" when their life is not on the line.
I think if you hide your name and face, you're probably pretty likely to be safe. I reckon stalkers are much less likely to be attracted to you if they don't know what you look like. anita has a bad combination of being female, very pretty, and seeming vulnerable. I think the oaul bros are probably less likely to get an actually dangerous stalker than gamer girls, even if their audiences are much bigger.
My mate had 1000 subs and a angry fan did this to him (stole his accounts, doxed him,) big and small creators experience this issue and it’s scary and sad
Oh na your good
Someone please help Poor Anita
yo
Tell you what. Pay for my plane ticket. Pay for me to have a passport, and I'll solve a problem within a week
Someone should remove the dudes kneecaps so he can't walk to her house again.
Ahhhahaha!!! Security guards are cheap... Or just pay someone to go kick his ass. This is fake. I hope u all realize that.
@@chalp1290 Okay, Anita's Stalker. Call it fake if you want, stalker.
Holy crap this makes me so angry
“Move to a house”
“Get a weapon”
How about ARRESTING STALKERS IN THE FIRST DAMN PLACE
Edit: yes Anita should protect herself but that shouldn’t even need to be an option if police did their job and made sure the stalker never went around her or her home again.
Well of course that's what has to be done, but I do recommend she gets a weapon. If police isn't gonna do shit, she should at least have a way to defend herself. But as I said, that should just be a second later of protection and police should do their damn job
@@Android25K She has tourettes, so carrying a gun is potentially dangerous for her. It seems self-defense is the only option, but that shouldn't be the case.
@@Fadeddreams5 Of course it shouldn't be the case, I left that pretty clear, police has to do its job and that's why they get government funding. I just wanted to say that maybe not a gun, but a weapon, a second later of protection should be something to consider. Of course I agree with the fact that police should take care of it, but I don't want nothing to happen meanwhile you know?
@@Android25K Yeah this is genuinely tragic that the police won't do anything. I'm not familiar with UK laws, but in some countries, if someone threatens your life, you are legally allowed to defend yourself. Even if a gun is dangerous for someone with tourettes, if this person ever comes to your house again you should be allowed to use that gun. It's horrible that the police and laws won't help her, but I see no other option. All people should have the right to defend themselves.
@@Android25K no, a weapon is dangerous if you suddently lose control of your movement, she needs someone close that doesn't have tourettes to be armed
She was so concentrated on this subject and so determined to pass her message she barely twitched!
Or just edited out those parts
Yeah I think she just edited those out to stress how serious this situation is.
@@DeimoZ300 there was evidently very few cuts
@@marigriffiths458 every 5 seconds is "very few cuts"?
@@DeimoZ300 she may of edited some of it out but when your so focused and really trying to explain something serious. Its kind of like your brain forgets about it sometimes. I can't explain it and you could never understand but the first comment is right, she probably didn't tic that much compared to the normal day.
This is horrifying and systemic behaviour. I cannot understand the "why" of stalking. The police will stop at nothing to catch someone for a simple traffic violation but their non-action over this is absurd.
The reason why some people stalk others is unfortunately simple: the stalker builds up a delusional narrative about the person they're stalking being in love with them or otherwise being emotionally invested in them, or that they have some justification for chasing after their victim. Like I mentioned elsewhere in the comments, a friend of mine, shortly before we first met, was being stalked by a religious fanatic who claimed that he had the right to kill her because she was a witch and that no jury in the world would convict him of her murder if he did kill her because God's law superseded mortal law. This is one of many reasons why the mental health "care" system and legal system in many if not most countries need a massive overhaul.
the same people who get angry about how cops don't react fast enough to stuff like this are the same people who laugh when people make the case for having guns for self defense because the cops can't always be there to defend you.
@@brandonporter6223 This is why I sleep with a broadsword next to my bed. Bad guys never hear it coming, and the neighbors aren't bothered by gunshots. Not to mention that the sight of a naked crazy woman swinging a sword and screaming obscenities in three or four different languages tends to make the average intruder think twice about ever coming back again. I'm not against having weapons for self-defense, as long as it's a reasonable weapon (like a 9mm or .45 automatic as opposed to a fully automatic AK-47 or M-16) and a reasonable definition of "self-defense" (as in, "it was a stalker who's been trying to hunt me down and kill me", not just "it was some random dude walking through my alleyway not harming anyone, so I shot him anyway").
because it doesnt make them money what you think there out for our safety pffft
@@kitirena_koneko jesus id shit myself if someone came at me with a fuckin elder scrolls ass sword
I’d be so scared if someone stalked me like that. I would probably cry if I had to make that video. Anita is so strong.
I've been through something similar, it's harder to talk about. What she's been through is so traumatizing, Anita is so strong. She really needs help.
It's good for me that I live with my parents and will probably live with them until I'm about 24 years old
They would take down the stalker if Anita was there child
It's incredibly scary to be stalked, it really takes a toll on your mental well being. I was able to deter my stalker by installing cameras around my house, it seems he didn't enjoy being watched and decided to go bother someone else. At least as far as I know that is....
gotta be tactical, trap em, setup some traps around your house and literally trap em like mice, then expose who they are, GG. stalker = rip.
this is what Glock is PERFECT for.
I was stalked all through high school by a girl that thought we were together. She found out where I lived. She spied on me when it was dark and sent me letters that she missed me, where I didn't even dated her - AT ALL. She told me we were meant to be with each other. I didn't even know her. She spied on me in school and sent her friends to tell me that I was a scumbag not to date her. 3 years of constant harassment. I finally got a restraining order against her and LUCKILY she stopped. But it was fucking scary and I always looked over my shoulder for 3 years. Constantly.
I've been in a similar situation. Only difference was the girl went to another school and I had no idea how she ever heard of me, let alone why she would be obsessed with me. I was known by a lot more people than I knew personally because I did odd things like wear suits to school monday through thursday and then dress casually on friday and call it casual friday.
@Light Bulb They as in stalkers, not women, right..?
@@brndnii7840 shh
Im going thru this right now i need serious help
@@shendetgashi2100 Can I do ANYTHING? Send me a message and we'll see what we can do about it and discuss what's going on. If you have Twitter, you can find me on @tehswedishbeard.
This is terrifying. How fucking broken does our police system need to be to put someone in this much danger??
Just du state the obvious - the police just executes the law. this is a thing the lawmakers have to address in order to give the police the power in hand to act.
@@pre66 This is well within current law to have him arrested and charged with several counts of harassment. This is beyond the pale.
90% of crimes committed that are reported to the police are never solved. The UK police are completely useless. They are only here to protect their political masters and cover up the crimes of the establishment.
@@jackriver1999 yeah, it's fucked up.
It's fucked up. I did a small google search for any articles of stalkers getting prosecuted in my country and it barely turned up anything. It's almost if it never happens, which is terrifying, why would that be allowed.
Wow, it's almost like the authorities exist to protect their own interests, and not to protect and serve the general public.
It's pretty scary when you realise you aren't even safe in your own home.
Tbh
@Stellvia Hoenheim hmm... Much true
@Stellvia Hoenheim is this a joke
Does she live alone?
@andre ibanez holy I am a pretty big guy and have a Staffordshire terrier but if there is a weapon involved fuck that I ain't going out mostly people that have weapons are scared to use them but if that person is crazy enough to sleep in front of your house than he might actually do it soo I hope she will be ok
My ex that became my best friend in the course of 10 years, dated someone that turn out to be married, when she broke up with him, he started stalking her, stole her credit card info and 8000 Mx (380USD), and use the money has an excuse to meet her, he killed her in her house, the police wanted to frame it has a suicide but thanks to my whole college going to strike for 2 weeks eventually the killer got caught. I think of her every day
Jesus, that's terrible, these stalkers should be dealt with very severly before they do this, like 5 years jail time.
@@tropingreenhorn exactly
Ya, that’s one thing that I’m very glad America as a whole does right, every call is taken seriously, not saying it’s all of America but most.
law enforcement is pretty much useless and i hate it
@@nathan7627 America the land of the ignorant, your country got some of the worst statistics for serial killings (murder) with no conviction. there is a whole Netflix series of the incompetence of your police. no wonder no one takes you Americans seriously.
Anita really is a good person. She's going through something horrifying and yet she's reaching out to help others.
He can be sectioned indefinitely under the mental health act in the UK.
If the Police won't arrest him perhaps everyone should push them to do that instead? Once he's under the community mental health team they become responsible for him.
You can get tasers on wish they are narrow and longyou should be able to fit it through the male whole just tells him in the eyeball when he looks through
I don’t really see anything wrong she has done ever, be strong like her
Lmao. She can just get a security guard. Stupid simps.
Anita is probably the most well balanced and level-headed people in all of the internet. I dont know how she has her sanity when this shit happens to her. Yet she shows so much strength in the face of it all. I dont feel so bad about my problems anymore. If she can get through this, I can get past my problems too.
Its insane that this guy can sit outside your house, with a restraining order in place, and the police still do nothing. But they'll arrest Count Dankula for a joke.
The UK police should be ashamed.
Scottish police are very different.
To be honest he should have gotten arrested for breaking the restraining order not just let go
@@angelrose1714 I find a lot of situations involving rules or the law end in something that should have happened not actually happening, and nobody responsible for enforcing the rules having any good reason why they didn't.
They're absolutely fucking hopeless, They wait until you're dead before they do something about it.
At least they're fining and throwing people in jail for saying mean things about Muslims, instead.
Police: Arrest anita for having a disease that makes her say random words
Also Police: See there is a literal murderer and is threatening to kill an entire family but still decide not to help because its "too much work"
It's so infuriating
But keep on voting.
It’s actually a disability since if it were to be a disease it would mean it can be transferred over to someone else in some ways, sorry if I annoyed you I just couldn’t help but point it out since I have a disability myself
@@AngleF Nope that's not a requirement for a disease. Cancer is a disease, not a disability.
@@AngleF A disease doesn't need to be infectious to be considered a disease. It's a disorder not caused by injury. A disability is a condition (like a disease, disorder, or injury) that affects how people can interact with the world.
"Disease: a disorder of structure or function in a human, animal, or plant, especially one that produces specific signs or symptoms or that affects a specific location and is not simply a direct result of physical injury."
"Disability: any condition of the body or mind (impairment) that makes it more difficult for the person with the condition to do certain activities (activity limitation) and interact with the world around them (participation restrictions)"
*edited in response to the comments*
Pushing for change is hard, I could really use your help. If you want to do your part please take to social media and use the hashag #stopstalking. Nobody else should have to lose their lives or their livelihoods. If you have ever been affected by this issue or you want to stand with those who have been this is a way that you can help us.
If this gets enough attention, we can use that to push for change. Nothing can be done until we have enough awareness and public support. The police are clearly not up to date with modern tools of harassment online. And many platforms that content creators take to do not have effective measures to pass on evidence to law enforcement. This causes a HUGE blockade which drastically impedes a conviction. Its time we did better.
Not only this, but two factor verification on accounts can combat "botting" and doxing on streams. Along with a "verified accounts only" access setting for streamers to enable when harassment starts in chat.
This and is so much more that can be done, and can potentially protect streamers.
*To those suggesting that I get a gun.*
I have tourettes and my involuntary movements make a gun impossible to use. I have had a few stalkers in my life and had an abusive ex partner. In those cases if guns were easier to get in the UK, I would have been shot and killed by one of them long ago. I'm lucky to be living in a place where Neither I nor my stalker can get a gun easily.
*To those that suggest that I move.*
I am a carer for my mum. Also it takes seconds to dox someone, and months to move house. Destiny moved to evade stalking and was doxed before he even moved his stuff into his new place. Also I'm too busy to move all the time, sometimes I sleep twice a week, I don't have time to move house on top of caring for my mum, streaming, and caring for my rescue animals.
*To those that suggest I move to the USA*
Most of the examples in this video are not in the UK. This is a global problem. Several people mentioned are from the USA.
*To those suggesting that I hire a guard.*
That is not a viable option. I already pay mods, editors, and a management team.
*To those suggesting that Dox him*
If I do manage to take this to court, I would be charged with doxxing as it is a crime. Also using my position of power as a popular streamer would prejudice a court against me, and hurt my ability to prosecute. Also he's mentally ill, I don't wish him harm I just want to be safe myself.
*To those suggesting I get a taser or pepper spray*
They are illegal in the UK. And No man who I have ever defended myself against has stopped after I hurt him. One guy actually asked me on a date as soon as he got out of hospital with broken knuckles, and another did the same with a broken arm and leg. Violence has never resolved this kind of situation for me, it has just impressed every man I have ever had to protect myself from.
Also please stop sending business emails saying that you will be my body guard for free. I appreciate the sentiment, but I'm not inviting any strangers to come and stand watch on my doorstep. The problem is that I already have too many people doing that lol.
I don't have much social media, but I'll let people that do know. Thank you for sharing this, and I'm sorry you have to deal with this.
Is it alright if i share what you said including your name with the hashtag?
stalker is actually a sweet guy, he just thinks there is a 0.0000001% chance that you feel something for him, and he's bold and gutsy enough to try his luck even with those odds because he truly loves you for who you are
if you want him to no longer be around you, then make sure to turn this 0.00000001 that's only in his head into a blank, indisputable 0
or perhaps that's another type of stalker that you have (i didn't click on your video, i'm just here because i stalked andrea botez)
This is horrendous. Has anything changed in the last couple of years?
Wait i think a civil class lawsuit against the police may be a viable option and maybe get them to actually do their job.
That's the thing unfortunately... It's... legal. The reason why the police doesn't do a lot comes from their own unwillingness to do something obviously. But they have very little room to act within the law anyway, if I understood correctly.
Of course they could be zealous and use many other means to make the life of the stalker impossible, but they have plenty of other things to deal with...
So in other words, if something has to be done, it has to be taken up all the way to the house of common.
@@JohnDoe____ yess. Extra paperwork for Brexit. Well done. Bog down in bureacracy and paperwork while public funds are used to bomb countries like Afghanistan. Which have absolutely no more freakin ties to any counter terrorist threat to UK and wasnt exactly UK problem...it was the US
That money that is used to bomb some talibans..wonder where else can it be used properly. Yea so that happened.
More paperworks and nothing gets done? How fascinating.
yeah if they dont try to straight up kill or frame you for doing so the police are a gang and dont like being messed with
@@JohnDoe____ you didn’t understand correctly. Looks like you don’t know the law very much at all.
@@dathunderman4 Heh perhaps.
The fact that death threats are standard nowadays disgusts me.
I agree hentai good
the death threats aren't the problem. it's the disgusting laws that don't do ANYTHING AGAINST IT.
Hentai God it’s bcs we now communicate at least 50%, minimum , online. Behind a screen. Behind an alt account. One says the things we wouldn’t dare to someone’s face when we feel we can say these things with impunity. But I don’t support censorship of any kind either , just common sense, obv not calling for CP to be allowed on YT; there’s no place on this planet for pedophiles, but I digress. Nowadays you have 17year olds getting people swatted in the US just for getting slighted online. I think within 5years we’ll see a change slowly. It’s like we’re in the Wild West of the Internet still messaging wise. There needs to be better safe guarding without having to pay for a years vpn which will only work if you do EVERYTHING via your browser and most VPN companies do log and sell data. There’s no answer really. Being on your own with a device and with an endless stream of bile to spew at people it won’t stop til people stop. Don’t feed the trolls is very true. Just never interact with someone. That one whack job comment you reply to might be the start of a chain of irreversible events. People have very strange minds and with twitch going on 24/7 there’s a lot of weird people who get fixated on people they think they know , just because the dono’d $/£/€5 they think they’re owed something or think they’ll be the one guy the streamer remembers. There’s a lot wrong with the Internet , but it’s the people using that are the biggest thing wrong. Anyone can access anything they like, given the resources.
Teilo Turner and only 52 years ago it inter-racial marriage was illegal in the US. Times have changed , for the better? Only hindsight will tell us how good or bad we’ve got it now. For such an intelligent species as humans are, were fucking dumb too.
@Teilo Turner you still can in certain countries
“Not worth the funds or time” it’s literally their job to serve and protect the public!! They are basically refusing to do their jobs.
I feel so bad that this happens to not just you but loads of people on a daily basis and people turn a blind eye! This needs to be spoken about and people need to be made aware! This affects people physically and mentally!
Unfortunately the police job is not to protect people
No basically about it, they are.
The police have no obligation to protect the people. They are there to enforce law if they protect a person while doing so then it is secondary.
@@negan2714 Last I checked their slogan is to serve and protect.
I feel bad for Anita because she’s so sweet and doesn’t deserve this
True
True
Sweet Anita ❤️
I agree, but also, nobody deserves it. Even if someone isn't sweet and nice, even if they are obnoxious or espouse views we disagree with, stalking is not ok, and it needs to be taken seriously.
Great advice that mate, that will show him..
I respect people who go through this type of stuff and are able to keep their composure as well as Anita does
Emailed Victoria Atkins MP to let her know the anti-stalking laws her department introduced earlier this year won’t work if they’re not being enforced.
Is there any petition that could be signed by civilians that could move this case forward?
You do understand she's in the UK right?
@@king_kiff3969 victoria atkins is a uk mp tho
Can we get this comment pinned?
I find a hand gun has a way of solving these problems.
Respond to the police with "Nevermind, he is now dead on my floor" See how quickly they get there then. (for legal reasons this is a joke)
I'm arresting you on suspicion of defending yourself.
I thought "I will kill you" is enough to get you arrested.
@@uselessfarmer depends on the country
No do this and they will come
when do you write (for legal reasons) can be imply what's your real meaning lol so dosnt really have the effect you desire sir
this makes me realize this is one of the reasons Bo Burnham said "if you can live your life without an audience, do it" and its so sad this is happening to her
This made my heart rate go up, it pissed me off to no extent.
Anita: Yes, officer he threatened to stab me with that knife.
Police: Did he stab you?
Anita: no
Police: Ok, only call us when he does stab you. Good day.
Yerh pretty much UK police lol
Think that all the people who cry wolf have ruined things for people who actruly need help. Laws need to change.
Thats what the fbi basically told me about my stalker too.. she said she had sent a bomb through the mail to me and my family in one threat and in another and posted a video of her and her child laughing about killing me and still nothing could be done.. we are on our own and its so scary
Threats to kill gets you arrested & prison time in the uk(I'm talking from experience) there's something false with her story. 100% police will get rid of him immediately. where's the video footage & proof Sweetanita, should be very easy to acquire & post to the internet.
@@5izzy557 you're gonna get bully my dude
oh shit, I was underestimating how scary and serious this stalking thing is.
I was thinking like "OH LOL THIRSTY BOYS" but I was wrong.
I appreciate you speaking up about this, and everyone else who told their story
@Rix Prester I just looked her up, that's terrible, may she R.I.P.
some people are really fucked in the head.
she brought it up in such a mature and informative way instead of just wanting clicks and views ''sTaLkEr sTorYtImE'' style
I feel like that's why cops wont take it seriously, because they see it as "oh pfft, just a little thirsty boy has a crush on you. Your life isn't in any REAL danger."
Unfortunately restraining orders won't stop these kinds of people, The only thing you can do is stay alert constantly and protect yourself by means such as installing security into your home. I am so sorry to hear this is happening to you. Stay safe.
Actually if he breaches the restraining order he will be jailed which is really good
@@Maneatermissa THIS!
@@Maneatermissa for what like 30 days... the justice system is shit. People get more prison time for doing drugs than rapists and pedophiles.
@@Maneatermissa He breaches it and nothing happens. He SHOULD be jailed but the police are useless
Or get a man who can actually protect you and not some skinny little toothpick
Thank you for releasing this. This is my second time getting a restraining order against this individual and the police won’t arrest. I don’t get it
UK police: Oh? You said an offensive joke? Right then you're coming with us.
Also UK police: You're stalking someone? Threatening to kill them? Oh and you constantly sleep in her garden? Right, well no harm in all that. Carry on.
Sadly that was my first thought, lol
@Mohammad Hussein yeah but trespassing doesn't hurt a black persons fee fees so who cares, right?
@@vorbo01 It's never even the black people that complain. It's white people being offended on their behalf.
They hate women more than they hate hitler
@@gamerfanification they hate anyone who disagrees with their political views*
The sad thing is, if you told the police that there was someone dealing drugs in your home they would be there in minutes
Depending where you live. Been trying to get rid of dealing junkies from my building for years
in Britain just say he isnt wearing a mask or he said something mean on Twitter.
No they wouldn't idiot
Polish Afrikaner no need to be hateful dude, just chill
“Lol sorry unless you’re actually dead we can’t help you be safe”
Haha
I’m so sorry you & so many others have had to deal with this insanity. Blows my mind that law enforcement hasn’t done more to stop it...
Since I started my TH-cam channel last year, I’ve seen just how many crazy people there are out there on TH-cam & social media. I’ve had my own minor versions of trolls stalking me online, but nothing remotely as serious as what you’ve experienced.
I sincerely hope that these deranged individuals are finally dealt with appropriately & that you can live your life normally without fear of being stalked, attacked, or blackmailed. Wishing you all the best!
I came from Aba and Preach TH-cam channel as soon as they finished I'm here. Sorry you have to go through this sweet Anita.
I got their notification earlier today but assumed it was gonna be some worn out woman bashing. I'll go check it out now.
Same here
I was stalked by my ex for a long time and I was told that I was silly and I'm not being stalked and I need to calm down and even got told I can't be stalked because I'm a boy which is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard if this ever happens to you please reach to someone
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you're doing much better.
What the hell is wrong with them? You don't have to be straight for your life to be in danger
We all want stalker girls till we get one. Similarly we want a girl with high sex drive till we get one.
@@mariow7818 ok?
@@mariow7818 ???
Make his face public, show everyone who he is, this man doesn’t deserve the decency of respecting his privacy, this is a person that deserves to be shown to the world
I don’t like doxxing but in this case it’s warranted
It's cool that you're virtue signaling, but that doesn't help anything. The problem is with the police since they have the authority and responsibility to deal with this stuff
Kriba well it would bring awareness to the person, it’s better to make someone doing this shit known rather than giving them the ability to hide in the shadows, the police clearly don’t give a fuck so why bother wasting time before it’s too late ? I’m not saying we should actively search for the person and kill him or whatever I’m just saying if more people are aware of who he is he has less places to hide, hence why they make it public if a pedophile moves into a neighbourhood, not saying they’re the same things but it’s the same difference
Doprah Winfrey I know what your saying but the sad fact is that if she does that and he gets enraged or someone kills him to help her she would be in trouble and could possible get arrested
KidWithTallent that is true, I suppose at the end of the day she has thought of every possible angle there is to take and has assessed what is best for her and the community, I just hope this problem is resolved soon, no one deserves to live their life in fear because of someone else
I'm seeing this for the first time 2-years after it's original post.
I have to say that I am so impressed at the professional level of this public service announcement.
I'm sure this has made an impact, and I hope things have improved. Perhaps, it's time for an update.
Surely the whole point of a restraining order is that if someone repeatedly breaks it they will be charge, how has this guy not been locked up already!
@Holy Hand Grenades This is sadly the case for people all over the world. The problem limited to the UK, Many of the people in the video come from different places all over the world.
@@SweetAnita why will you not release his information, seems like a easy solution. Just release the court records from his conviction. That's public record.
@@DylanVolksVictim this could get her in more trouble than the trouble he could be in. It is a good question though, would like to know @Anita
@@scrungy3540 in America court records are public record, i would think it's similar in Europe. Honestly if I'm afraid for my life I'd take the chance.
@@SweetAnita Move to Texas, if he's on your property you have the right to shoot him. And especially if you have a restraining order on him.
Anita: There is literally a murderer outside my house
PD: Yeah... it’s not in the public interest that we come to your house as mobilizing that many units would be rather costly... you’re on your own on that buddy.
The fact that she's not ticing just does to show how serious the situation is and traumatized she is. It's every sad
That or she re-recorded untill she got a clean take.
The video has a lot of edits, probably to remove the tics for easier listening.
She probably just cut the tics out of the interview since she was trying to make a serious video. Obviously she is going to edit out the clip of her cutting off one of these people mid sentence to tell them she wants to fist their ass while they are trying to share a serious personal story.
She already did a video about surpressing her ticks. She absolutely can for some minutes but it comes with a price.
some days she also dont tic as much
I cannot fathom how the authorities haven't done a single thing, im actually disgusted.
Same.
If you can stomach it, just check out, how british authorities handle the wide spread child grooming gangs and you know that they give a shit even about children being sexually exploited. Also the british police is probably busy harrassing people for supposed "hate speech" on the internet... It's a giant, corrupt mess
Police are notoriously useless
@@Ratrix especially in the UK
@@Ratrix Wait. Let me give you a little translation here, okay? Because my Dad certainly was NOT useless. So, 'Police' are the good guys and ladies who do the damned job like they are SUPPOSED to do, and they actually help people. But 'Cops' are thugs. Please take this into consideration. Thank you.
The headline “E-Girl Murdered” really rubs me the wrong way somehow
e-girl for a while was kind of a pejorative widely, now its really just used by incels
@@someonecool8533 it's not about Anita, it's about Bianca Devins.
and the fact that he posted it online and fucking T-SHIRTS were made is disgusting
Because it’s dismissive to the persons identity, the only reason they’d use the term is to collect traction on a story
Police be like huh ded girl welp nothing we can do here
This need to be heard. Everyone needs to see this. I hope you stay safe Anita.
I'm a old man new to this world I never knew that this was happening to people I'm sorry I hope this will stop and the law's change take care
The fact that the cops won't do anything until AFTER the victim is dead/badly injured is infuriating.
In my college there was an incident once. One of the girl's ex had been stalking and threating her to get back together and telling her that he would kill himself with her.
She saw him once with a knife and went back to her room running. She contacted police and everything and being in a hospital (medical college) police is always there so she thought it should be safe. And girls had a very gaurded hostel so it was relatively safe for her. She was adviced by her friends and the officer to stay in the hostel untill they catch the suspect, her friends would get her anything she needed.
For 3 days she didn't leave her room but eventually she got frustrated and thought it should be ok by now. So she just went out for a cup of tea on campus itself not even 100meters from the hostel. The stalker knived her in the neck multiple times Severing her major vessels. He then stabbed himself in the stomach. Hospital was right there so both of them were admitted but the girl was beyond saving. Boy on the other hand was saved by a simple surgery.
It's at those times it feels bad being a doctor. You can deny the treatment to this vile person but your own ethics don't let you do that. Hearing your story reminded me of that. Police wasn't so unreceptive like in your case but they surely didn't put that much active effort into catching this killer.
Omg this broke my heart. May she rest in peace. I hate that people like this exist and do stuff like that
@@cryptic2121 fr 😔
Girl is harassed and gets death threats from stalker
Police:
Girl turns up dead
Police: *surprised Pikachu face*
For real tho, the inaction of the police is completely disgusting, police right now is something we are afraid of instead of something in which we trust to keep us safe
when someone who i knew was killed by her ex bf, the police knew that the ex had threatened her with a knife a week prior and yet said "we could never have predicted him killing her"
What’s the police gonna do, they don’t have guns to shoot em
Well if she got murdered, which is what the police would prefer, then they'll be able to do something.
@@MultiChrisjb Yeah but that's the worst option out of the ones available
seriously wtf are they spending their resources on? Just fining people instead of keeping someone who is being threatened to die safe.
I hope this has/does improve 💜 stalkers can be terrifying. police in my country are pretty useless too, two of my stalkers stalked/assaulted multiple women+they always get away with it so I've had to learn to deal to/with them in creative ways
You know she's too sweet when she's concerned for her stalkers knuckles. Protect Anita!
"im sorry but we cant do anything untill its too late"
-Joe swamson from family guy
Do you have evidence?: Yes
Do you have his details?: Yes
Do you have witnesses?: Yes
Can anyone help?
Police:.........Do you have evidence?
Police: has a crime been committed?
Gunless Victim: no
Stoopid useless police 😠😠
British police are a joke
Not owning a gun is a joke
@@10duders It doesn't mean you are going to be safe if you have a gun if your stalker has one my guy
TheGamerFromMars just made a video on this. I really do hope that this gets resolved, this stalker is insane. Sweet Anita is such a wholesome person I can't believe something like this is happening to her. She really does not deserve this.
Many still mourn the loss of Christina Grimmie 💔 She was stalked, then murdered at a show/autograph session, if I recall. Her sweet life, friendship, fine voice & music, all stopped. We can honor her memory & that of others by raising awareness & getting proactive. God bless & keep our precious content peeps! Abrazo💛⚘💪👏👏🏽👏🏿
RIP Christina Grimmie.
Was she that singer that was killed during her concert?
@@jaiminsharma Yeah, she was. Idk, i think a meet & greet, back stage.
Hearing how many people are terrorized by stalkers is truly heartbreaking. My mother had a guy stalk her in uni but she was “lucky” enough that he had already assaulted other women, so he was arrested for that before he could do too anything serious to her. But why did it have to get to that point?!
I’m afraid this is only going to escalate. He’s going to get tired of this routine and feel he needs to step it up...please stay safe Anita, we’re here for you
Yes, agreed, escalation is a thing. He will continue to test boundaries to see what he can get away with...
why does she not hire private security? She has the cash. Ex-military 2-3 security will handle him. Why cheap out on that matter, she will feel much better
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She legit needs a bodyguard or a gun. This stalker and lack of police inaction really provides a strong case for her to own a gun.
@@evil7011 expensive to have 24/7 security
@@ramoraid uk gun good luck
Get him to follow you to Florida. We have "stand your ground" laws here. I would be glad to handle him for you no police needed.
Lol
florida man comes to the rescue
Damn straight they just don't put that on the front page you know with their agendas and such.
Any place in the south tbh
Yes but considering the police were so ignorant they would believe she murdered him and she would get in trouble
This is absolutely horrid. They won't do anything until you are unable to call 911 anymore.
999 for UK, but its the uk, so don't expect too much from them
@@astafire6810 the uk police are stupidity underfunded and are constantly getting cuts of 100s of millions every year.
@@chaeyoung212 i know, but they should at least look into cases, if nothing else
@@astafire6810 see that's the issue they cant look into them without the higher ranked allowing it the second they deny that. they cant do shit
Second amendment looks really appealing right now...
It’s ridiculous that stalking isn’t already taken more seriously after of all the horror stories that have already occurred till this point.
I'm not a violent person but hearing that this happens to people makes me want to do something bad to the stalkers...
I am violent... (in the gym) I wish I could meet such an individual but never seem to have such luck.
That's the only way to stop it.
yea it makes me do want to do something as well, like why do they blur the names of these asshole . we could go and mob the shit out of them
Bad people only understand one language and that's violence
@@gabiedubin they do it because most people won't tolerate that kind of bullshit, and would end up in prison for doing what's right.
“I shouldn’t have to lose my life for it” that is something nobody should ever have to say
It’s crazy that this is just a “normal” thing that the police just expect people to deal with
I think the police have the attitude like, Hey you are advertising and broadcasting yourself, eventually you will get some whacko who follows you.. It happens to all celebrities.. Its the price to pay of stardom. In this crazy world, if you are in the spotlight, you will attract unwanted attention.
Its because they only care if something's illegal, they function like a gang.
@@Isaac-ho8gh Ok so two things.
1) They're SUPPOSED to only care if something is illegal. That's their jobs. Not to protect the people but to enforce the law.
2) The stalker literally broke the law multiple time from what she just said in the video
Bonus : tf you mean they function like a gang, that has nothing to do with what you said before.
@@naunau311 exactly, its that people think that police are there to protect people when they protect the government. But even then, they still don't give a shit about the stalker which is where the gang mentality comes in. They care about the government MUCH more than the people, like how gangs care about their superiors more than anyone else. They're both authoritarian forces.
@@Isaac-ho8gh That makes more sense now :) you should articulate your sentences more especially when throwing things like that around
xchocobars saying "I have given up a long time ago" broke my heart into a thousand pieces
Its so disgusting how people can just judge based off of their job or maybe even lack there of a job. Just because people are turning on a camera and chatting with their chat doesnt mean they dont deserve safety and the best protection. Even s3x workers, just because they do that shit for a living doesnt mean that they can just leave them without any protection. These people are giving you entertainment. Just please stop downplaying their situation and just help them regardless of their job.
This comment is extremely important.
I went to the police department to inquire about a restraining order on ONE of my stalkers and was told that if I got a restraining order on him, he could end up putting one on me. It’s horsesh!t. I know this video is a few months old but I hope that things have gotten better for you. I hope something has been able to be done about that POS. And I hope you’re doing okay, Anita.
Well, that's fine if he gets one on you.
Why would it be a problem if he put one on you? You don't want to have contact with him anyway.
I must be missing something?
Imagine how fast a police department would act if one of it's own officer's we're being stalked... that person would be in a jail cell in 12 hours
That person would never even see a damn jail cell
was just thinking that...
hey im in Scotland (your accent sounds English) the threats via messages of threat of death needs to be driven by the police. The fact they arent helping I 100% recommend you sharing your story on good morning britain and release it to papers do everything you can to get your subscribers to share this onto the likes of piers morgan i know hes not poppular and abit of a twat but one thing is he would love to be in front of this and be the one highlighting and challenging the police on this situation.
I’m from Glasgow but i don’t think you need to mention that you are Scottish lmao. But good show mate. Morgan is a bit of a wank but putting the police in this negative light will help spread pressuring them to do something
@@MrAlastairwylie I'm from Edinburgh but I don't think you need to mention that you are from Glasgow, ever.
@@inanis9801 and I don’t think you need to mention you are from Edinburgh either, btw did I mention I was from Glasgow?
Ight now joke over
@@MrAlastairwylie I'm from São Paulo, Brazil and I don't have anything relevant to say about the topic
@@torugho i like your thinking
This is just so horrible, I can’t even imagine how hard and terrifying this would be. This situation is just so disturbing, I’m so sorry you have to go through this.
I can't take you seriously I imagined a southern Kermit voice
That incredibly articulate monologue was the longest I've seen her go without a tick
Get a good civil litigation law firm. Sue the met police for their failure to act. Make it very public and get other people who have been or are being stalked to sign on to make it a class action suit (or the UK equivalent). Make it in the police's best interest to take action.
Thats a great idea
I don't know if it's that same in the UK but I know in the US the police don't have any legal obligation to protect people. They could literally do nothing and the law says they are in the right to not do anything.
good idea get every streamer to tell their fans Making it viral
It’s crazy how the police won’t do anything until it’s escalated to the extreme.
It's the politicians and judges fault! Police in the UK have absolutely no power, that's true for most of Western Europe and it needs to change.
That's how it was for me in the military. I couldn't do anything until someone else died first. They tell you you can, but no one actually believes it with how one sided the investigations can be. The law is written in a way that can damn you if you take action first.
@@slicklol Having spoken to the police for something similar, I can assure you it's nothing to do with the government lol. Policies may have made it easier for the police to be lax, but it's their own personal attitudes that allow this lack of concern to keep happening.
@John As someone who's been a victim of quite a few crimes all done by the same person, all with evidence, and all completely ignored anyway, I can assure you it's not that simple.
It's not efficient for them to waste resources on something that they don't know will actually be bad or not
Since this was posted in September, how are you doing now, Anita? What has happened since? Hopefully nothing worse.. *I know she’s likely not gonna respond to this, but I’m just wondering*
Same. I hope he stopped
I was thinking the same.
He killed her and she died.
@@LeatherCladVegan XDDDDDDDDD
Great job on this video young lady. I would love to hear an update on this situation is it still ongoing or has it been solved yet. You are right on target with everything you said and it's great that people like you can bring these situations into light
Ahhn yes, the mighty UK police. Won't do anything about a stalker, will drag someone into interrogation over a tweet.
exactly
The police is dead. Actually all over Europe.
Just tell the cops the stalker used a homophobic slur. They will come in asap.
@@Manic_Panic or even better, transphobic.
Will fine someone 800 quid for a joke.
Security cameras everywhere. Post videos of him invading your privacy, full face shots, sprinkler system in your garden turn it on random hours. Plant out poison ivy in your garden (just remember where). Make it extremely uncomfortable to be near you.
Keep A squirt gun or spray bottle full of vinegar or ink. Not dangerous but will mark him and make him uncomfortable. Never go anywhere alone until he's gone. This is not your fault!!!
This is his fault. This person is sick and needs to be slapped down hard. Please stay safe.
The cops that are supposed to be protecting you are rubbish and I know you aren't religious but you're in my prayers. Please try to keep yourself as safe as possible.
This stalker needs to be behind bars or in a mental institution.
Good luck and stay safe. We love you x
Usually a big bloke with a bat has a more discouraging effect.
Ammonia
@@Angel1015ful Can't use ammonia because "he'd" report the attack and "she'd" go to jail. Ammonia can blind and he'd win in the end. As Nix said, make it "extremely" uncomfortable to be around. I would go as far as putting up sirens that blasted when approaching the house. Directional, not just open, kinda like a bull horn. Not only would it hurt his ears, but the neighbors would immediately know she was in danger, too. Squid ink make a good marking fluid, too. VERY hard to remove. Or that ink they use in Toilet bowl clear LOL Especially if it was in the face, he'd look like a smurf.
Go full 'home alone' on him. Boobytraps everywhere!
Yeah i like the big bloke with a bat idea more personally. Get ya own mob boss
Share his name and a picture of him. Restraining orders are public documents. Let the people do what the police won’t
Reach out to a biker club or something similar they get results
@@chrisk3097 Worked for Tara
I agree with this. A single person cant do much, but the people can do much more.
Of course, that means that his punishment may be worse than that of a persecution in court.
@Kokainuser I'd rather be in jail than dead. Not likely to have it traced back to her anyway.
@Kokainuser In the country where 67% of murders never get solved back when they were even doing such statistics, I doubt it. This is a country where they have to invent new terminology so it does not just say "murder" or "Homicide" in the statistics. I have never seen so many roundabout ways of naming a homicide in statistics ever, Interpol people are laughing at Scotland Yard and UK police.
This situation is pissing me off. The fact that the police isn't doing anything is outrageous and deeply disturbing.
Why are they blurring his name if he isn't even respecting other's privacy?
Probably because if people started messaging him, it would probably anger him and provoke him to attack Anita further :(
Ya, what ollie said and also he may be doing it for attention
They crave and react to attention, so it's often better not to feed the troll.
Maybe for legal reasons too
Because two wrongs dont make a right. Her only option to get any leverage in this scenario is to hold a moral high ground. The second she releases his info, him doxxing her becomes something she can no longer use against him.
Be safe, keep documenting this no matter how small, film him when you can, dont give up contacting the police, every time he threatens you report it, when he follows you film him and post it to the police.
stalk the police like he stalks you.
try to get a single contact from the police, always notify that one person every time. this will help alot because often reports are dealt with by different officers who cant possibly know the extent of what is happening.
i know its hard but try to keep in mind that many police officers are on your side, that they get incredibly frustrated that they are not allowed to do anything.
wish you all the best
commenting for the algorithm. this needs to be spread.
I wish, but TH-cam is absolutely going to repress this video, because it is not advertisor or kid friendly.
Yeah dont know how much it would help but its worth trying
Worth a try
AquanSFM it has ads tho
PLEASE! NEVER adress people who stalk you as “My/Your stalker” it gives them a sense of entitlement and a feeling of them belonging to you!!
When Destiny talked about how he tried to call his stalker's father and the father refused to acknowledge that the stalker had done anything wrong, that showed at least a small part of the problem. In short, parents need to parent, and police need to police.
And we need governments that don't prevent parents from parenting and police from policing!
@@RickySpanish12344 Thats absolutely not true. They dont inforce laws to help anyone but themselves. Did you hear the part when they refused to write a page cause they didnt want to waste funding? ON HER LIFE?! The laws and the justice system is wrong in most countries but police is were the rot starts.
I dunno if you can blame a parent for that, If I rang you up and told you that the baby you raised who you love is a monster you'd refuse to believe it, its human nature to refuse to believe such things about your loved ones. But the reality is anyone including your baby or your best friend can be a psycho monster who just hides it.
@@Ariplaygames you are not educated at all smh
@@Ariplaygames let me guess all police are racist too?
It's disgusting that people do this and even more disgusting the fact that in every country police doesn't care about psychological damage...
Thats not true at all, the UK punishes sever stalking with up to 10 years in prison and every light stalking with 5 months in prison. Don't believe everything you read on the Internet.
@@RaVeN1K So the video above is about what? Police arresting stalkers? I don't think so.
@@Pintarolas24 The video above is misleading and full of misinformation at best or lies at worse. It is also highly manipulative by comparing murder with stalking.
@@RaVeN1K
1) "Don't believe everything you read on the Internet.
" Where do you get your information?
2) "The video above is misleading and full of misinformation at best or lies at worse" How do you know that when the video is about someone's personal experience of being stalked? Also, I would love to see you pointing out the "misleading facts" in the video.
3) "It is also highly manipulative by comparing murder with stalking." To a certain degree, I see how that's possible, but for her, it did lead to life-threatening situations. But, in the end, it was never openly compared in the video. And let's be honest stalking can be a stepping stone towards murder.
Well , in the US you could shoot him if hes trespassing your property
1) Pepper spay. When you see eyes in the mail , spray him.
2) Record every time you see him and send the recording to the police.
3) Strike a deal with your neighbors to call the police every time someone sees him.
If my girlfriend had that happening to her, I would be probably in jail by now for murder and hiding the body.
Pff you are that bad at hiding?
@@yoster39 geez
@@yoster39 hiding a body is not a problem, the odor is!
pepper spray is illegal in uk
@@newsnk3679 better having an illegal spray that being killed by a psychopath.
I didn't know how bad this issue was, I know it was an issue but not this bad. I really appreciate you for sharing your story and educating people about this issue that is much larger than I think people think it is. Thank you.
It's interesting to see British police turn up to warn people that they're saying naughty things on Twitter but can't arrest a stalker