What Actually Leads to Psychopathy?
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If you're wondering, "What actually causes psychopathy?" then listen up. There is indeed one childhood disorder that could lead to psychopathy, sociopathy or narcissism and its called "Oppositional Defiant Disorder".
Children can be difficult: this is a given. But sometimes a child’s difficult behavior occurs so often and is so severe that it can hurt family relationships. This series covers the diagnosis that, believe it or not, is an opportunity to change your child’s life for the better. Welcome to the MedCircle Original Series, “Oppositional Defiant Disorder: Parenting Strategies for Combative Kids."
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Children can be difficult; this is a given. But sometimes a child’s difficult behavior occurs so often and is so severe that it can negatively impact family relationships. This series covers the diagnosis that, believe it or not, is an opportunity to change your child’s life for the better. While all children have symptoms of oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) from time to time, there are certain factors that differentiate whether a child’s difficult behavior can be managed at home, or whether there’s a need for outside intervention. This series will walk you through how to recognize whether this behavior warrants professional help, how to find the right mental health providers if that’s the case, what treatment options are available, and how to successfully parent difficult behavior in the long-term. Welcome to your crash course for parenting combative kids.
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"It took a minute for me to put my ego aside"
I think you'd need a fork truck and at least half an hour!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I need help with my fiance's son. He jas ADHD, also shows a lot of signs of having sociopathic and psychopathic traits and believe he has ODD. My fiance does not believe me but he is not the one home with him all day. I have been watching the symptoms get worse for almost 4 years. He does not act out at teachers as far as I know, it is his grandparents and his father and I. He is almost 10 years old and he is also already talking about wanting to go to prison and hurting people and stuff like that. We had him in to see a counselor and he just told the counselor what he thought the man wanted to hear and the counselor said he is fine and he doesnt need to come in anymore. 😱🤯. I seriously need help. He has tried hotwiring 2 cars already and bragged about killing a chipmunk over the weekend at his grandparent's house.
A couple of arrogant dogs.
i know it is pretty randomly asking but do anybody know of a good site to watch new series online?
@Eden Madden Try FlixZone. Just google for it =)
My daughter exhibited signs of ODD, but ADD/ADHD was all a buzz when she was a kid, so it went undetected. I took her to several types of therapies from the time she was 4 or 5. she was thrown out of one school, and shamed at the next. Finally in high school, she found her place and was able to use her voice in a way that was welcomed. She is now an amazing 19 yo with a near 4.0 at college, and has many friends, and no scary vices. Thank God.
I so wish I had of intervened with my son at a younger age. He is 22 now and he is struggling with life. I see his future and it looks scary. I had never heard of ODD.
You can be very proud of yourself. Having her trough the whole process. 🤍🤍
@@chardear5824 I'm so sorry ... crazy question: does he eat meat? Meat is very healing for the brain.
How you helped her
4:00 “It took a minute to put my ego aside” yeah no not just a minute
" I took a minute to put my ego aside"
Christ! It would take a fork truck and at least half an hour - not a minute!
LOL ...
😅
that made me laugh!
Omg...Thank you for a morning belly laugh.
same here
Eh, I'll pass on this doctor. He asked questions, then answered them and talked about himself for much too long.
Yeah, this guy feels really "rehearsed" and seems to be trying to hard to be "smooth".
He’s trying waaaay to hard. He wants his own tv show. Aka Captain Douche-baggery!
@@MsKindaSorta hahaha. don't make him cry.
Kyle asked him questions about himself and how he felt
Totally. He never left an opening for the interviewer to ask questions.
DR. RAMANI SHOULD HAVE HANDLED THIS ONE... he's too charming and sounds like Narcissistic...
tha is a bit mean, but I was thinking something similar..like maybe that kid is acting out for a reason.
why did I get the same feeling?
Bro got the same fuckin feeling and thought I was thinking weird but then saw these comments
@@KingOfTheMandem ☺️ triggered ? Haha
@@KingOfTheMandem leave your ego aside
I think it was wrong to put his own kid and talk about himself. He put the focus on that instead of education. Plus it made me feel betrayed for his Son!
Handsome doctor, his acting is over-the-top, feels hella fake, and as many have pointed out, a potential narcissist!
Plot twist: Dr. Ramani pops out at the end and yells "surprise, this is how a narcissist acts! EVEN as a mental health professional"
He probably seems over the top because 1. He's speaking from at least a rough script, and 2. He's also trying to speak from personal experience
Hahaha! Would be amazing ending!
@@QockNobblr yeah that also would make sense but still feels off..
Exactly! I was wondering what Dr. Ramani would make of him.
I agree with you... He sounds like a narcissist... probably that is why he has a child with oppositional disorder
Kyle sitting there like ‘bruh I’m done with this BS, thank you next.’
Its felt like the doctor was in therapy him self and hella
Confused....
Man, never has a man that I didn't know creeped me out without being creepy!! How is this a thing? He's like a weird robot who learned how to be human
Yesssss i love when ppl discern correctly
Me too instantly something was OFF about him.
Ditto
@@rosebud_blooming ditto
Reminds me of mormons.
I've only got 2 minutes in... "I'm great, let me tell you why..." 1st med circle video that I CANNOT watch
You know Kyle........thats exactly a symptoms of narcissistic people and even psychopaths. To treat relatively strangers as best friends. Its a form of boundaries crossing.
is it?? I do that all th time and people like me. what's wrong with it?
What does it mean to treat someone as a best friend? Because I treat my best friend with brutal honesty and I wouldn’t do that to a stranger because idk if he’ll take criticism well.
@@sushiking56 no you treat strangers better than your best friend
I was literally thinking the same thing!!
There are some reasons why Dr Sportelli found a great deal of support when he came out and said his son had ODD. 1. He's a psychiatrist, so obviously colleagues will be supportive. 2. He's got money. 3. He looks like a male model.
If it was a child from a poor family that had the same diagnosis, signs and symptoms, they would be most likely blamed and yelled at. No support given at all.
The resources for parents in poverty for this condition is extremely tough. I strongly believe my daughter has it. All I can say is if you are broke like most of us and your child is like this, a lot of love, a lot of patience and attention is required.
Yup! Especially if you’re black, hispanic, etc. You’re just seen as a bad child...
actually now days its the parents that catch the blame
WHAT DID I JUST WATCH FOR 13 MINUTES??
I think this doctor should see Dr.Ramani, and he might be one of these narcissist...
He is off putting, too...slick, or plastic, smug....
Wtf
I don't really think that he's a narcissist, he admits that he's not able to deal with his child's problem on his own, which is actually impossible for a narcissist and foremost we should really watch our mouth when we talk about mental health, because even though we know bits and fragments, even the most knowledgeable psychologist always refrain himself from giving a diagnosis based on a short interview and if they do it, they do it on DEAD people, and they always put their hands forward by saying: ''this is not to be taken as a serious diagnosis'', so what success you think we might have in spotting an illness?
@Luke Groundwalker ehi, I'm not the one who gave diagnosis...
@Luke Groundwalker sorry
Why is the way he's talking making me uncomfortable????
YES!! Also distrustful of this “gold standard” dr. Couldn’t even finish.
I really felt the same he is so to drama he is letterly acting ,the answer to your question i think cause he must be a psycho that's why his kid have those symptome
Arbnora.He's making you uncomfortable because he's uncomfortable. He sounds like he's going off script
Cause maybe he's a narcissistic psychopath?
@@sameh3698
'Psycho' means psychotic not psychopath. Psychopaths are very far from psychotic. I hate that stigma, it annoys the hell outta me, especially when people rationalize by calling me a psycho, rather than admit it's a reaction to how they act.
Delightful to see in comments how many people are able to see narcissistic manipulations in conversation very fast!
It’s quite obvious, isn’t it?
thought I was the only one. glad it's not like that
😅 Great comment! I felt kinda bad watching it, I was like... uhhhh... Doc, I think I found the underlying problem your son is struggling with. 😬
@@potatopirate5557 Exactly my reaction as well.
Our little guy had the diagnosis at age 7 after having a traumatic brain injury at 5. He’s doing great now with intensive treatment. We also discovered stimulant ADHD meds make the emotional
fluctuations more intense and more frequent. We have made it a mission to increase natural empathy.
I’m sorry but he gave me the creeps
Low keyyyy
I think he gives the host the creeps too.
I watch a vast majority of medcircle videos whether they’re applicable to myself or the cases on my case load. I’ve enjoyed listening to the various doctors, lmft’s, etc. and their insight on the topics presented. I must say, this particular doctor does not come across as warm/approachable. How he’s presenting the information on the topic reminds me more of a politician vs. someone children would find accessible / want to engage with. Hopefully, if he’s on additional video segments, I can get a better sense of him being a down to earth type of person.
val erie To be honest, my favorite teachers weren’t the stereotypical warm teachers. They were the ones that were matter of fact and presented information in an objective way and used a lot of analogies. As an adult, I don’t love listening to him. But as a child that had a hard time opening up and trusting adults, I think I would have really liked and done well with him. He takes a lot time to explain things and is patient. My mother was very warm and approachable and she is a very kind person. But she doesn’t explain things very well and she always told me to let things go instead of giving me relatable examples and helping me feel like I’m not alone and what I was feeling wasn’t wrong.
It's like he's memorised a script and is performing his lines badly. I noticed this last time he was on. He comes off as disingenuous. Don't know what's going on there but there's something up with this fella. He might be a psychopath. Wouldn't surprise me.
@@jeteaze well said! 👍
Silvia R. I was thinking the same things. My first thought was “ugh... Narcissist.” Second was “Psychopath.”
Period.
the way he talks makes me uncomfortable "you know kyle..." why are you saying his name like that ?
Omg. ODD is usually associated with other disorders! But bluntly it is a power struggle. Please have the lady do one on ODD.
If my psychiatrist sounds like that and keeps calling my name every 5 min I am gonna walk out with a dysregulated mood. He sounds like a highly functional sociopath.
Im weak!!! I know right
I agree. Though I think "successful" psychopath may be more accurate with this guy.
I felt the video was all over the place. I walk away with no more understanding of what the heck ODD is or what it is a smaller part of. I know the Dr. has issues with his child and all the information that goes with his son. I hope this series gets better. The physician does not have the same vibe that some of the other physicians do as being the most knowledgeable person with warmth and charm.
LOVE DR. RAMANI👏💗
He did 😂😂
Wow so it's not just me. Dr Domenick just seems so fake, it gets on my nerves and I actively avoid watching videos of him. Am I a hater? maybe, but I don't mind.
@@jordanbabin I noticed right away they were more interested in showing off the production equipment that the focus was more upon the production than on the topic. The presentation followed suit. Off to find other videos on the topic...
Yeah agreed
As soon as he said "I have 3 kids" I shut this off.....i knew where this was going.
Yeah I agree with some of the other people on here. He seems extremely rehearsed and comes across as unauthentic and narcissistic. My facial reactions to some of his responses are indicative that my gut instinct is correct
no, your facial reactions are a product OF your gut instincts.
Who is this ‘doctor’? His image is super carefully curated, watching him gives me the heebie jeebies. Like he went into psychology to learn how to mask.
I raised my grandson. He was diagnosed with ODD. It was excruciating. He did more damage in society by vandalism than theft or aggression. I understand and understood the “why?” But did not know how to fix it. He is now in his early twenties and is being assessed for autism. I am broken hearted for him.
Many Asperger kids also have ODD. My two cents is that I believe it's pretty much possible that the autism functioning helps develop ODD when the chid has a more aggressive temper (not all Aspergers do), because autistic kids have a hard time understanding social dynamics, are very inflexible and disconnected from people, which could "prepare" the ground for ODD to develop. There's a lot of blame and inhumane expectations being put on parents, as society tends to attribute mishavior to bad education, which is true only in some cases. Genetics plays a big role in such disorders. Parents in such settings are often the biggest victims ever. If this doc had a real ODD child, he wouldn't be smiling and being so positive. Or he's faking it, because, as a doctor, he can't show his despair, otherwise no one would trust his treatment. Plus, he's inflating data by saying up to 70% of ODD kids overcome it. What I've learned from several sources is that about 40 to 50% do so and not before spending all their infancy acting out in a way that takes parents to the verge of their sanity. The thing I've noticed to help the most is medication, which helps decrease their agressiveness and then all the rest tends to get a little bit better: they get to listen more and be able to stop lashing out more often. Behavioral assistance is also very helpful as these kids don't tend to respond to typical discipline.
I'm sorry Double Doctor Dreamboat Droolfest, I didn't listen to what you said... I stopped the video midway trough the overacted sappy tirade.
wow. I'm so glad to see all the exact comments I was thinking. Holy crap this guy needs to work on how he comes off.
I'm so happy everyone can see the narc patterns in this doctor!
I don't like how he adresses interviewer, highlight with every second sentence how he is a doctor, a specialist, and in general maintain patronizing tone. I would never like him to be mine or my child therapist
Poor child has problems cos of this narcissistic father...it hurts to hear him speaking. "I know everythibg better, you know Kyle".
This guy is kind of phony 😒 " you know Kyle, as a...", he said with a paternalising tone
Ugh!! Yes! That drove me nuts.
@@SchlichteToven exaaaaaactly. I mean, shit realizing you're a health professional with a kid in the system. But be thankful you saw it coming but I can't deal with this "...as a health professional, being really good at what I do..." Yeah, yeah, yeah, we know...
@@Fluxxi yeah I paused the video at that exact point and went to the comments to see if others were picking up the same vibe. It's so hard to watch, especially right after a video about Narcissism with dr Ramani
What is wrong with people? Your insecurities are ridiculous. He’s sharing something about his own child and his own vulnerability. He’s good looking. Get over it. Grow up. I clicked on this to learn and it did. He’s talking about reaching out for help and being vulnerable is hard. This is an excellent video. I hope someone sees this and chooses to watch this video - it’s extremely important. Thank you 🙏 for doing this video.
It's not insecurities. This doctor just doesn't seem sincere and it's not just "a few of us" picking up on it. If you think that's being insecure that's just on you.
@@jordanbabin grow uo
Proffessional psychologists never exploit their children. Lack of integrity and secrecy is not ok. Narcissistic behavior even from professionals, because they live on fake prosona of beeing so empathetic and understanding, but talk about their childrens bad behavior in a way that can harm that child, because that is how narcissistic people do, create a social Contactnet to ensure that their is something wrong with their child. I have been treating ODD and NFD and anti social behavior without medication or therapy treatment as one professional Swedish Healthpedagogy, and never worked with that kind of unproffessional way to talk about personal things about my child, or even mentoond someones vulnerability to gain some status myself. I haté that so much! And hope that your son have someone else to turn to.
Lina Vera Sjöberg Yes. This man is smarmy. 😒
You never went to med school and you are in no way in school so whatever you say is worthless anyways. You sure have enough baggage to tell people you need to be heard though.
@@ThatGmoney yeah they do need to be heard. I'd say, by many more people. The world needs people who speak the truth in a world that tries to silence it.
Kinda wasted my time with this clip. Learnt nothing.
I knew about my daughter’s ODD immediately but didn’t know what it was.
The husband had ODD behavior, he was antisocial, a substance abuser, ALL OF IT! Then covered up her “stuff” from the beginning because he saw himself! Oh She’s the baby I was the baby people don’t understand … he’s now dead, she’s 18 and its now on steroids.
I’m trying to keep my sanity and it’s difficult… my older daughter moved out first chance she got and I wanna 🏃♀️ run just like she did … I am 60!
A grown adult cannot have ODD. It's for kids. Teens get conduct disorder and adults get anti social personality disorder (Sociopathy/psychopathy).
You had a kid with a drug addict at the age of 42? Got a weird feeling her behavior isn’t 100% from daddy…
Maybe MedCircle should make a video about people who have watched a couple of psychology-related videos and they go on and tag everyone a narcissist! He mentioned it himself that he decided to include his relationship with his son in this talk on purpose. And he's not trying to "hide" his son's disorder under the carpet, which only means how much of a supportive father he actually is. Because as he said nobody is perfect and saying that somebody has a disorder shouldn't carry any amount of blame or incompetence , he owns his son's disorder and openly talks about it, something that only a professonal like him can do. And you can see that since it's his son, he's gotten emotional and can't easily maintain the level of professionalism he shows in other talks. It really hurt to read some of the comments
@Princess Saira Qayum Exactly..! sadly it's just so easy to get judgemental and insensitive on internet
I found this conversation to be very insightful, maybe 20 years too late but at least I have something that explains who my son is and has been all his life.
Ooooff. . My last manager spoke in this EXACT same manner, and tone.
I was fired without cause, without a rational explanation, and, in my emotional breakdown, he smirked and laughed at my misfortune.
Gives me the chills!
Ur manager spunds like a narcissist or something like that
What I understand about this video is this:
Overt narcissistic parents will make psychopaths/sociopath OR people pleasers.
End of the story.
Yes its not easy to parent i was married to a narcissistic abusive husband for 13 years and just left him sept 2018 and my poor kids geard saw things it was horrific for me and hard to come to terms with but thanks god i did managed to save them mentally emotionally and they are great and blossoming in school and outside just now and again they mentioned dad and things and i just tell them concentrate on your mother and siblings each other your loved your great all positives and i just discipline them and build them up in every way too i encourage them. At time i feel i owe them for the time i was in the abusive relationship since their birth but im out and they are too. And i work hard to makesure they feel know they are loved safe and secure and they come to me for anything no secrets or worries as everything can he fixed and i van support yhem through anything. They tell me daily mama your so amazing and they tell me how lucky they are and i tell them how luck and amazing they are. I was acared to death my kids would feel worthless or to blame for their father or our family becoming a single parent family but thanks god the children are flourishing and i have and will be proactive in parenting my children.
Happy for you my momy she is now 65 she spend her whole life with daddy who is a psychopath i m 24 now and a adopted child he never loved me not my mother even i have alots of bad memories from my chilhood where me and my sister who is also adopted got beaten by daddy's shoe without any reson i rember being tie up with bed without any reasons i rember being asking him always to buy me things i like but he never did i am so broken now from inside i just want my this life end soon so i ll get relief life is very harsh but yet beautiful unfortunately my mother is still with him and at this age he is still touchring her mentally each day and devorce is not a thing here in this society i ask her many times why you cant just leave him but sshe always says what wwill society say well my story is toooo long and can,t sumup in this small paragraph but i wish you luck 👍
I was under the impression based on other videos here that psychopathy is a trait. Ask yourself which one of you has passed that trait on to your child and maybe that will help you and your diagnosis.
I was beginning to wonder which one of these gentlemen was the doctor in which one was the interviewer. I think the doctor was a patient and the interviewer was a confused I don't know what
God if you’re still around.. THANK YOU THIS COMMENT!! And I quote..”Ask yourself which one of you have passed that trait unto on your child…”
W0W!!
It’s actually a cluster of traits, and is typically only diagnosed if the person has *also* experienced environmental conditions that pushed those traits towards being antisocial. Basically everything is nature *and* nurture.
Dr.Dom's voice is soooo calming!
Kyle does NOT like this man at all, it's so obvious on his face. 😂 I'm not even sitting there and getting chills - there's something not quite right about this doc.
There’s something about him that I don’t like and that’s coming from someone who’s emotional intelligence is low.
he seems to basks in himself...slightly narcissistic and manipulative....i feel for his son tho
This dude sounds like he talks to kids all day
Wow I just saw other peoples comments after I posted mine… I’m glad I wasn’t alone in that feeling…
I am a parent who suffers with depression adhd and childhood trauma and now my day has adhd and odd it’s stressful and triggering and I was out of her life for 5 years now have her back with a new family I know it’s alot but we are trying to make things right and I hold so much guilt and I believe that it is limiting the progression of my daughter and I continuing to build our relationship in a healthy way
I love MedCircle videos, they’re always very educational and explained in layman’s terms. However, this doctor talked about himself too much. We didn’t learn much about ODD- just about how he’s dealing with it himself. He also comes off as a disingenuous.
That's the first thought that I had. He seems like he's putting on a show. If I took my kid to him... there would be only one visit.
He does force the sentiment of his words
is he the reason why the child has ODD....
THAT is what I thought. Exactly. So it isnt just me, thank god
He's a narcissist
Not sure but I think you have to hit the actual pinned website and then sign up for the in depth. This video was just a introduction.
I just know his kids are going to rebel against him. In fact he’s probably the reason his kids need therapy and because he’s such a narcissist, he can’t even acknowledge it and needs to label it as ODD. 🙄
Think you for this series. My daughter is currently diagnosed with Autism, ODD, ADHD and Anxiety.
I was recently shown an article about defensive mode in Autism and how ODD maybe misdiagnosed in Autism. So I’m really interested in seeing if this series will help.
I am curious about this too! Both my girls auto answer is 'no' and I feel it's possibly because of the ASD and not being sure or needing some time to process or being overwhelmed....or sensory....so many reasons for this
There was a boy in our class when i was a kid, he used to make people join him into doing vandalism, throwing apples at people, stealing stuff from the gym at night. Making forest fires, he once or twice attacked another child with a stick and spit on him on the way home from school. I cant count all things i heard about him and that many times i witnessed. One time when i visited him he asked me if i was sexually attracted to animals and he tried to penetrate a cat in front of me. He said he had done it alot. And that he sometimes lost controll and just loved to scare the cats. He didnt hit them or make them bleed or anything. But im still sure trying to penetrate a cat, put it in bags and throw it around is considered animal cruelty?
I always wondered how a kid could make himself do these things. And what the root of his actions is.
He's the type of egotistical doctor you see on TV.
He literally sounds like a terrible actor on Lifetime
I work in an ER and have known TONS OF doctors. This guy and the interviewer both sound so fake.
First of all,I think that you being a father and doctor makes you better expert because you have a 360 viewpoint.I'm proud of you. Secondly,I've studied Psychology and noticed the signs in my Mother.What do I do?
lolololololol i'm glad i wasn't the only offput one. I learned nothing and that dude i cannot take seriously AT ALL.
Its like whatever he says he is....he looks like they hired an actor...And he is playing the wrong part🤣
I think people are being a bit harsh on this guy... I'm betting he feels a lot of guilt about his son having ODD and that goes affect how he comes across. This video will help people who have been affected by undiagnosed family members with ODD and explain some things about their family dynamics and potentially how it has impacted their own mental health. The only REAL problem I have here is that he's just outed his kids mental health disorder and that really may come back to haunt his child and their relationship. I know it's meant to make it more trustable, but his son may not thank him...
Wel , to be fair, his kids feelings arent important ;)
I like how the good doctor talks almost entirely about himself when speaking to his 11 year old’s acting out ….
I learnt a lot from this video, don't understand how ppl can judge so easily. Dr Ramani isn't "perfect" either. You can see sometimes how she moves her foot neurotically and so what? At some point we all try look better than we feel, especially in public. Always look at yourselves first, try to learn/benefit and not to judge others! Find narcissistic behavior in in yourself - almost everybody have some traits and it doesn't mean we have a disorder. It's always risky when doctor admits problems in his own family - some ppl will blame him but other might thrust him better. And one more think - what if the doctor wasn't handsome - would you be so willing to call him narcissist???
CODE NARC Paging Dr. Ramani, paging Dr. Ramani.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 paging Dr Ramani 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
the jack seems like it. Notice how in the beginning he went on a self complimenting rant
Kyle is like "ahh emm aha " 😂
My son didn’t get the right help as a child with his ODD and we lived in an abusive lifestyle of a home. I am away from that situation and have been and I’m stable enough to help him. He is an adult and struggling with deep depression. He won’t admit it. Drinks to hide the pain. Keeps to himself. Struggles to have any kind of relationships friends or partners. Do you have any advice or podcasts you can direct me too please help. My heart is breaking because I failed him as a child
that doc would make a very good youtuber bc he's a good story teller
This is the diagnosis you give them before conduct disorders, which can’t be treated with regular therapy and needs to be addressed in juvenile.
I appreciate the intellect. That’s why I searched this. The hotness is an added bonus!
Although too distracting 😂🤔
I'm definitely sharing this video. You could only do the most. I'm glad for you and your family. Keep up the amazing work.
One thing everyone ESPECIALLY KIDS need to know is mental illness is not your fault if you feel misunderstood about your feelings for you know or feel as if you don’t feel the same as other people or kids whatever it may be get help the worst that will happen if you go into a conversation with a responsible adult the worst that will happen is they tell you they don’t think you have a disorder and the only person capable of saying such is a therapist your parents can’t say that if you need someone professional go to your parents or someone and ask for someone who can prof. Diagnose you all the other things or people who deny these things who aren’t professionals don’t listen to them
Hey MedCircle! The personality of the guest was a distraction for getting the gist of the video. Just, some screening before, would save you the trouble.
I have ADHD and was diagnosed with adolescent antisocial personality disorder, but I think it was misdiagnosed ODD. I don't really meet the criteria for ASPD as I feel empathy, remorse, and the full spectrum of emotions. I don't bully or manipulate and would never let another person take the blame for something I did. I have a sense of morality, although it is based on being kind to others, not following laws and rules. Still, I have major issues with authority, and I see society as more of an evil than a good. i think my defiance came from a conscious decision I made to punish my mother for kicking my dad out of the house when I was 3 (He was cheating, but I couldn't understand that). I made up my mind to not be good anymore, and would refuse to do whatever she told me to do.
Oh my God! I am a Montessori teacher and deliver the exact speech of this Doctor when speaking to the parents however, most or better said %99 of the parents are in absolute denial and don’t follow my recommendations! I am at the point that when parents ask for further advice or recommendations, I look at them in the eye and say I have nothing more to say but repeating myself!
Thank you! I just replied as an early learning center owner with a child with ODD. I get no cooperation from his parents to help their poor out of control child. He has ODD and that is a fact. These parents make me so upset because I care more than they do about his actual future AND the other children exposed to this at our center!!! So, the struggle is real and TRAGIC. But, I don't give up, the moment I do, I am done in. If parents can get over themselves when it comes to ODD, they can do their child justice!!
I worked with kids with ODD and the best way to explain most of them is psychotic. One even yanked his moms steering wheel causing them all to crash because he wanted his electronic
And a very angry spoiled brat.One of my neighbors son was dx with this. She was at the school at least twice a week. He was put on all kinds of med's. Became a zombie. Would stagger across the floor and stand in the corner.She took him off all the meds. After she stopped letting him run the show.. in high school he calmed down .Has been a successful adult for 15 years now.
@@cindys5426 good news!
I understand why you changed your service but I also kind of hate it. I use to be able to learn so much and now we only get one video and have to pay for the rest. To be honest I can find similar information other places for free. I cannot afford to pay $10 a month to access series.
It's pretty affordable compared to, you know, therapy.
The real reason children are not being accurately diagnosed…Most psychologists refuse to make a diagnosis before the age of 12. Even IF you are educated and 500% correct that there is a disorder, they will simply start with methylphenidate and say it’s ADD until the child is old enough to do an assessment. This is malpractice, imo, being an extremely unhealthy route of therapy. However, the majority of Psychologists/Psychiatrists all practice this placebo method and it gets swept under the rug! It was refreshing to hear somebody officially say the earlier it’s diagnosed the better💗
OMG. . . As soon as I started watching the video. . I felt like the doctor came off as a little narcissistic. Also there was a video where Dr Ramani talks about eyebrows possibly being prominent give aways of Narcissim. I brushed it aside as me overthinking things but the comments 😆 guess I am not the only one feeling that way. . . 🙈
Exactly holy sh*t I felt so uncomfortable right off the bat. I CANNOT watch videos of him, but I want to learn more about different mental disorders so it's like I force myself to watch this creep weirdo talk.
Wow, you are scanning for narcissism or help for a child? Who cares! Trump is Narcissistic and yall follow him!
Is this an introduction or a interview. I learned nothing. What is going on?
What video are you guys watching? I found this doctor to be quite well informed and he does explain stuff in a pretty accesible way. He was sharing his personal experience with the disorder, because it has actually affected his life. Sure he is no Ramani, but tbh, she is pretty much a supreme being. Jeez, just because you dont demean yourself infront of the camera doesnt mean you are a narcissist.
All my red flags went off with this guest, towards covert narcissism and it is interesting that he made it all about himself, spoke about negative family influence, and spent a good minute kinda defending/ explaining himself.
I was a foster kid, orphaned, and ODD was mentioned about me- even though I was being flat out abused, neglected, trafficked, along with many others- my abusers tried to label my reactions to the violent abuse and neglect as the issue, instead of the abuse.
ODD is a diagnosis used by tyrannical, abusive, and or neglectful "experts" to control and label harmed children who cannot speak up about the abuse properly because they do not have the words, courage or knowledge to do so because of the nature of severe abuse and neglect.
I was going to be a trauma counselor for kids like I used to be, but then I got to see the other side and realized that the kids aren't the issues in most cases:
The "parents," families, teachers, authority figures and society are the problem.
I believe only in a holistic, love based approach after removing the child from the abusive place/ people.. which almost never happens, and which motivated me to never join that system.
This is HORRIFYING and I would not be surprised if this "psychiatrist" was exposed for doing the same thing. I'm so sorry for what you went through I truly wanna hug you right now.
Hi, i just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story and having the vulnerability to let us know. I am also a victim of abuse from a narcissist. But i wanted to challenge your opinion that this man is one. Please be careful when calling people out because it takes a while before your body and mind feels safe and while that happens, you’ll see abuse everywhere you look. This is a NORMAL reaction to trauma. It happened to me and it happens to just about every person who has been a victim of abuse. Its okay that you are seeing red flags but i wanted to say that i do not and i am past the stage where i would see them on people that didn’t deserve it.
Looks normal to me. I've seen a lot of adults talk like this and it's is actually how I view the average educated adult
I can sooo relate: I’m gorgeous, I’m a doctor and I’ve got a kid or two with symptoms. Why do we perfect people have to deal with children with oppositional defiant disorders? 😂
😝😅😂 perfect!
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@@operaaa5449 it's a joke obviously lol
Is this a Ted Talk presentation?
In my view ODD is a Child form (and initiation) of the adult personality disorder called NPD ( Narcissist Personality Disorder) Plain and simple.
No it’s the precursor to conduct disorder - psychopaths.
He looks positively narcissistic
So, when do they get to the point? Not to be rude, but I’m not interested about the Dr.’s life but the symptoms and the why.
kyle is giving very much ✨narcissistic✨
Love your channel, Kyle. Keep up the good work x
Thank you for this and for admitting and bringing up that your son has ODD.
Even though it is my 12.5 yr old step son who just got diagnosed with ODD, I had believed he had ODD na d ADHD for years.
I did so well managing and even helping his behavior and emotional health.
But I still feel like a failure. And now even more so seeing my bio son struggle becasue of my step son and his behavior are causing so much stress and pain in my life and I struggle with severe depression and anxiety becasue of it.
The interview with this doctor was like watching an info commercial. 😳
This video does not explain anything about ODD. I don’t even know what it stands for.
That last part is on you though as it is explained in the video.
Though I do agree he could've talked less about him fucking self
Yes doctor, find out why?
When the Dr. is probably a narcissist.. even look at kyles whole reaction after he goes on his mini ego trip.. 😂
This is also a symptom of the Aspergers/Autism Spectrum Conditon child not coping.
When are you going to cover Aspergers/Autism Spectrum Condition?
Very professional, I loved this introduction and am looking forward to learning from you. Will definitely look at what you have to offer society. May God bless your family and bless you in your work.
Look forward to the entire series. How long has ODD been on the diagnosis books?
He bullshitted through the whole thing because he doesn't know what ODD is.
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable your personal experience, Dr. Sporteli
Video should be renamed: "This is how you sound like an ass"
😂😂😂
All the people that are bashing this Dr apparently do not or have not ever had a child with ODD.. he makes perfect sense
Talk therapy is a waste of money for kids with ODD. If they can tolerate it at all, they will very easily manipulate most therapists into seeing them as sweet and innocent, and nothing will be accomplished. A loving home life, and possibly meds, is what works best.
First, MedCircle is really great and helpful. Second, I am glad that there's talk about these symptoms of anger, opposition and potential psychopathy because there are so many murders and breaking the law in America so this maybe dealing with the cause. Third, I wonder why people are irritated by this doctor who is a bit cocky but mainly honest like all others... he brought up an important issue... anger is not bad... and I thinkmthat children who are suppressing anger are potentially in danger for disorders more than children who express anger...