Yes, underrated comment. I've been divorced for 14 years I have not even had a boyfriend or a date in 5 years because I agree with you. What I have learned in this experience is that I'm totally okay with being alone and am rarely lonely. Also if you do choose to be on a dating site, you must vet them because they will tell you that they don't use drugs and all kinds of other lies when in fact they are actually addicts and maybe married or spreading STDs etcetera etcetera who knows, but today's problems are so intense, you must vet these people or don't go on dating sites which is what I opted to do.
That's why it's so easy for them to trash and discard you. Its because you meant nothing to them. Truth. Actions speak louder. These are the sickest, most vile creatures.
I am at point in my life I am quite content being me.And being alone the rest of my life does not scare me for I will still exist.I just can't afford to lose myself ever again
Welp, I'll be hitting 59 this July and I sorely miss a simpler time of life and communication. Having a landline, reading the newspaper each morning, Getting excited to go to the book store, going to block buster every Fri night to rent a movie, not having to check out my own groceries and so forth. I despise smartphones but it does have its conveniences. I see it more of a curse though.. Sneaky, lying, abusive words and behaviors, loss of manners and a tool for entitlement for a lot of folks. Loss of privacy...I really don't enjoy living with one at all.
You said it. Me too. I so miss Block Buster. There was just something special about going over on a Friday or Saturday night and looking over the 🎥🍿 movies and picking one and taking one home to watch with some take out or a good meal you made.
It is UNCANNY how ACURATE 🎯 this video is!!! OMG!!! You described it to a "T" ALWAYS ON HIS PHONE. NIGHT AND DAY. Leaving, not telling me where he was going or when hed be back. He witheld communication about everything. Stay gone for HOURSSS. Silent treatment. Hed be in and out of Hotel rooms. Id find random cash money hidden in wierd places. I could go on and on. This dude was NEVERRRR faithful to me. I was FORCED into celibacy in 2020 b/c he withheld intimacy since marriage in 2012. It was rare when it happened. If he wasnt on his phone, hed be on a computer. This video is tooooo acurate. I could go on and on and on. This man who I WAS married to from 2012-2024 NEVER loved me. It was ALLLLL fake. If you are in ANYY kind of situationship w/one of these creatures-GET. OUT. 💯
Pray Psalms 91 over these demons, and ask God to remove them from your life and to remove the spirit from you, that is allowing them in. I can’t even imagine the damage these people are doing in other peoples nervous system. Praying for anyone dealing with this.
Thank your prayers mean a lot , I have almost been completely destroyed dealing with and putting up with the narcs demon behavior characteristics, I was backsliding and guess what I'm on the path that Jesus wants me to be on , I'm getting older and never again am I going to be with another narc , they come to destroy steal lie deception of it's core of what Satan is , There is decernment through the deception thank God , I thank you in advance of prayer it's been very rough I'm a single stay at home mom of three, but I know that my inheritance is mine and delieverance too whatever was stolen from me will be returned 100times fold , I'm so done believing the lies for years from bad fruits ,,God takes care of the rest ,
Chasing after dangling carrots, clinging to hope, and falling for the old bait and switch at work and in relationships was my former life as a people pleaser. No more. No contact and healing so I can become myself, live in peace, and enjoy my life. ❤️
I love what you said about narcs, they see you as an unpaid helper, and a sounding board. Only there to serve their needs and Heaven help you if you disagree in any way or have a difference of opinion. I prefer to call them soul suckers or psychic vampires, because they take, take, take, and it's never enough no matter how much you give.
Ahh... the phone game... but even in analog times... the narc ignores call and is unavailable whenever you need him - but if he needs you there are no excuses ;-))
I just ignore it whenever a random message pops up. I deleted his contact because I do not want his number or info in my address book. So when his number pops up. Automatic delete, it’s been a minute. He may have a new supply as he does move on VERY quickly. I told him last June to do us both a favor and rid of my number. Took a while but he’s gotten the hint. Don’t need the trash in my life. Be strong guys
Im a person who grew up surrounded by narcissists. I learned to not communicate well. This has affected my career and personal relationships but I now take responsibility for my own actions and in this I’ve healed and finally went limited to no contact. Learning to communicate better with others now.
I'd say about 80% of my encounters on dating apps ended up being mind games and flakes. Like you said there are genuine people on there, but they're buried under narcs and abusers.
I wish to also tell you guys not to feel guilty that you fell into one of those SOB'S You did not know about narcicism. I did not know anything about psychopaths until one became obsessed with me and stalked me and my husband Took forever to get rid of this dangerous maniac Also i have heard that many therapists do not detect them. Alot of them are such great cons and wear their sick mask so well Take care everyone All the very best to all of you Tamar🙏❤️
Because of financial reasons, I have to live with a narc. We're unmarried (I woke up to the fact that he is a narcissist before we actually married, thank God), no kids, both our names are on the deed of a historic house we're both devoted to. Fortunately the house is big and we keep to ourselves in separate areas. In the last week, I've had two unpleasant texts from him: One was at 6 a.m (scared me, because I always think FAMILY MEDICAL EMERGENCY at that early hour) commanding "I need a check." The other was actually just now - a photo of hair (we both have long hair) dredged up from a clogged sink drain with a used bandaid in there, accusing me of throwing bandaids down the sink. How incredibly petty. OK, apparently the little bandaid around my pinky finger fell off while I was washing my hands and I didn't notice, big deal 🙄. He simply ADORES even the slightest opportunity to scold and belittle me. Did I respond to either text? Of course not.
You don’t have to stay at all. Mine cut me off everywhere financially and I was not allowed to work. I filed a restraining order after he physically abused me, used that time to stay in the marital home and find a job, and left. I was successful and you can be too. Do not limit yourself or make excuses to stay. There is always a way out if you truly want it. I highly suggest getting counseling too for the trauma bond.
We all sadly remember the phone games very well. Never experienced anything like them with anyone else apart from the narc but l would say all narcs do this (crazy blocking unblocking, love one minute then devalued next minute just to inflict more pain, no texts back , love bombed at the beginning with adoration on voice calls etc but then no answer once they have you )
He didn't even have a smartphone but he was NEVER further than 2 ft away from his phone. He had a tablet and it was the same thing...and a Facebook junkie with MANY "old opposite gender school friends." So glad I finally said GOODBYE and don't even think of coming back.
Thank u so much for sharing this ☺️ I was in a relationship with a narcissist and I lost everything because of him glad I had the chance to leave I thank my best friend for calling the cops she saved me.. have a lovely day love melody
This video is spot on in every way Andrew. It is him. It was his downfall in the end, well the downfall with me. As I said before, he slyly took his phone into the toilet when we were together to talk to her... hed disappear for 20 minutes. What a complete low life. Lies and deceit....endless.
This is so true, spot on!❤ I healed a childhood wound by meeting a new narc. It has been very painful, but it gave me the wisdom to see how the narcs opperate, and now I understand and I have healed the wounds caused by my father 🎭 becomes🤡👹
My ex used the phone in almost all of those ways, and it was late in the game when I realized that he was always calling me to make sure I was NOT anywhere near him, because he was usually with another woman. "Where are YOU?" was asked like an accusation! I wish I'd known enough to say "I'm at my Grandmother's having coffee" while I was in the parking lot of his business waiting to catch him with his supply du jour! Thank you, Andrew. All these years later, I don't answer and make him leave a voicemail (we co-parent). I know it drives him crazy LOL
Yes, wanting to your schedule, so they'd know where not to go. 😢😂. They usually have 2 phones plus a laptop. Late night phone call and pick a fight to leave the house for hours and come back exhausted. Blame you for things you never did. Have so much "supply" that they get confused who's, who.
If you co- parent please gray rock him or her.. Only talk about the children and keep all printed records of the conversations. I hope you do and this helps.
Yes they ask were are you ,or they tell you they have to nip to the shop for something just incase you turned up at there's, he has had phone calls once near Christmas 3 times but the person blocked there number ,I been out with him and he would go toilet at least 3 times and quiet a few fans to ,had the battery was going flat once .
My late narc would borrow an old phone of MINE that didn't have service and use it to take photos and video of whatever he was doing. He'd come back and set the phone down and my intuition would tell me to check it and that's how I found out what he was up to. The only time he checked in was after he was done doing whatever he was doing so he could accuse me of doing what he just did. He would tell on himself without confessing. Accusations are confessions.
Just because I have a cell phone doesn't mean I'm obligated to answer when it rings. I remember getting jibberish texts from at least one narcissist. I began ignoring them very quickly. Then they'd call angrily asking why didn't I answer their text. Oh, the one written in a foreign backwards jibberish? Arrrg and click. Me,,, hahaha. Next time after that the angry why didn't you answer my text....oh, well, I seem to have misplaced my secret decoder ring. A man standing nearby busted out laughing because she didn't know I had my phone on speaker and he was the same person I'd shown the text to asking would you respond to something like this? Naw,,,me neither. Or 5 minutes after I leave saying I'm going to here to get this ring ring ring...it didn't take long I'm not answering. Nowadays sometimes there's someone who I loosely call friend that automatically thinks I blocked their number when I just put my phone on airplane mode so I can nap or whatever. Red Flag... they're accustomed to being blocked and they're angry at the thought. Anyway, Namaste Andrew from the Midwest.
I find that phone energy is very PERCEPTIBLE. I easily was able to pickup the Narc’s game tactics: marked by consistent inconsistency, juvenile texts, dull convos and the protective behavior of phone placement. No mystery or rocket science here. 🙄
Years ago, I ran into the ex at one of our daughter’s game. The ex kept parading around in front of me pulling her phone out of its holster and flipping it to use it. I don’t know how I kept from laughing. She thought she was a bad ass. It would be the only game she showed up for, which made my life easier.
Texting someone else in front of you covertly pretending they are looking at gumtree in unison with the "someone" in the same room . You can't see the screens. What gripes me is I didn't pay attention to my own pineal glan, my intuition saying to me , hey something going on here, I guess I didn't want to make a scene or I turned a blind eye. The penny didn't drop till a few months after extracting myself from the narcissistic relationship. I left them & the narcissist on realisation that I had packed up & left the building, text me , "are you okay". This suggests they aren't acknowledging I was the one that made a decision & left. Just a smart arse is how I would summarise the narcissist. They think they are so childishly clever , you can see right through their bullshit. Once you wake up from the love bombing.
Andrew, this is exactly what he did and I was thinking before oh they care and they dont its all a game and I did notice if I dont answer then the onslaught of anger or victimhood whatever was working and he didnt like it.
Another thing my narc ex needed was my portable charger for her phone which she took from me after she cheated on me. The only way I could get it back was by accepting her hoover. Now I know about covert narcissism, I know better than to accept a second hoover from her.
Take the charger output cord and rewire it internally to the 120v AC input. That's a way to stop them blowing up your phone with texts. Poof goes the iphone😅😅
Yah this happened to me a lot lol was so frustrating, and they would be like, what's wrong with you? 🙄 They would play stupid. Just like the song: Games people play. They would always have excuses why they would breadcrumb. They enjoyed watching the torture. Until I became numb to it, then dropped the ball and walked away. Was the most liberating feeling lol thanks be to God and Andrew ❤
Oh my god... all the times i,ve had that battle about agreements over when to meet up and they said they didnt get the message i,ve sent or whatever. Ridiculously low level they are on... its incredable how much they f* up deliberatly to waste your energy and start disputes... The day i pulled down the curtain towards my narcissist was a beautiful day... sunlight for me... the abyss for him
One thing you cannot do with a narcissist is being straightforward. This sends them in a tizzy. They would like you to believe in the mask. If you don't learn the lesson than they will try all kinds of ways, even accuse you of cunning or lying or whatever to prove their point. It happens multiple times. 😟
Looking back I can see all the times I could have gotten away, she "needed " me she "couldn't live without me," she'd self harm etc. None of it was true, and she'd even taunt me with it in the devaluation stage; she was talking to others, almost gave up on pursuing me, it never was anything more than a game.
And that's why I can no longer be back with my ex again. That cellphone 📱 I will always know she has someone on standby. Not healthy, not good for a real relationship. I will never be her only one 😔
He's been calling me non-stop......it takes everything in me to not answer. He's already taken so much, I don't want to give anything else! Thx Andrew!
I burst into laughter... That's what happened to me few months ago and after shedding tears on the brutal realization... I came to my senses and now I can laugh about it 🤣🤣🤣
I thooght of doing this too. Last night I felt so hurt qnd angry that I deleted his nr. I'm crying all weekend. I still do my things but with heartache. I just cry it out or say it out loud when I feel hurt and angry and in a few days it will be better, as usual 😢 When I told him I want to move to spain, he replied: don't depend on me with your decision, I will follow you to Spain sweety". I told him to stop saying words that are never met with actions. I'm working hard mentally here and he is thriving . I'm usually relaxed fpr 3 or 4 days and then his silence after a promise wpuld start to annoy. me again. It's really infuriating my goodness. Also last week I decided to initiate to send him a morning text. No reply. I'm so angry again wow. But..now I'm no longer present. I'm out. Gone.
He knows I like to watch my security cameras a lot so he drives by my house on his way to hers. Part of my no contact (on the advice of my therapist) is to stop watching my cameras so often. 😂😂😂 If he didn’t come by I’d be disappointed and if he did I’d be happy.
Ugh…my narcissist-ex is a TH-camr….its a nightmare. Phone games on a whole other level. Masks on masks, smear campaigns,a twisted distorted ‘reality’….an absolute nightmare.
Thank you for the video, Andrew. We love you too and are grateful for your support! The phone games are really big with them. My ex therapist who turned full narc on me played this game in such a way that she made me scared of my phone. I had to mute it completely and whenever I hear her ringtone I get a panic attack. She would do all the things you have described. Those are evil games and I hope that in future I will not tolerate any of these behaviours anymore. My ex also always texted me the same text every single day. Copy - paste. It is ridiculous. My narc mother also uses the phone to spy on me so I had to change my phone behaviour and put everything on private. I feel through the phone they can come into my place and I don't want them there. Stay strong everyone and take care of yourselves!
The phone games she played is the reason why I tapped out. She felt entitled 24/7 to my attention. She felt entitled begging me to help her with her so-called cell phone bill (just so coincidentally due the following day, too 🤨)…. “Phone money”… who knows where that even went towards… Never appreciatd anything I did. Even helping her out with said-phone, she’d have all these new rules in place like “call after 7”, “phones at 5%”, “can’t talk right now”, “he’s here”, the excuses were endless. Then I’d spy her liking videos instead of replying on the phone so that was the straw that broke the camel’s back for me. If only she had just been truthful and transparent instead of giving me the “I didn’t wanna upset you” excuse. I was only upset she was deceiving me and toying me around, NOT the fact she simply wasn’t available! Talk about lies upon lies. Smear after smear. Blaming after blaming. She’s been blocked and deleted since August of last year and never looked back… 😌
@@Mathews47. 🫤 sorry to hear. It wasn’t even about the money, I could give her the world and it wouldn’t be enough. It’s just the principle. How can someone be so two-faced and cruel? She’d say “I told you I appreciate the help”, “I’m not ignoring you I’ve just been busy” blah blah blah (apparently not too busy for social media though), but she gaslit me and shifted blame onto me, as if how dare I draw a boundary? How dare I not be a walking wallet anymore? How dare I ask or (attempt to) talk to her civilly about her lack of transparency? How dare I say “no”, the strongest word in the English language to her!? She had the gall to make it seem like I was at fault for sending just TWO texts, two days apart- yet she’d blow up my phone 24/7 for so long. The double standard, the entitlement, her attitude and arrogance was really something else… then she wonders why she has no family or no more close friends.
@@adventuresamNfamNo. for the record I was anything BUT “the other guy”; she was/is divorcing him. But she moved back into the house late last summer after we went NC so she could “respectfully coparent” but this was all due to her friend booting her out and that she couldn’t afford her own place with the kids. “The main guy”, her so-called ex at the time whom she supposedly separated from, had already kicked her out of his house before she started reaching out to me and now from what I gather everything is finalized. But she ain’t my problem now. She had been triangulating me w/ him & most certainly others in retrospect. She’d repeatedly give me the old “it’s just a friend” line while going out on weekends, or “I’m not getting back with him.” So hopefully that clears some of the air for you, I’m anything but somebody who’s swoop in to steal someone’s wife…Doesn’t take back what she did though.
@@adventuresamNfam idk why TH-cam deletes my comment but no that wasn’t the case. She was and is divorced from him now. She did move back into his house after we broke it all off because she couldn’t afford her own place after her friend kicked her out of a dainty apartment in a basement. Now from what I gather she’s living in another persons basement but she’s blocked and not my problem anymore. She’d been triangulating me with her ex and other orbiters too from the past. Wasn’t gonna stick around merely to be an option. And no I ain’t upset about it anymore. I’ve made peace with myself. Not my fault that she couldn’t be truthful or transparent with me. She’d been feeding me the old “it’s just a friend” line for a bit.. and considering after all the help I gave her for her phone, answering her phone, etc., naturally this video rang a chord with me. I am not upset still. FYI
My mom the Narcissist will butt dial and leave the line open as if she accidentally calls you... I don't even talk to her so I know my phone number wouldn't be readily available for her to just randomly butt dial!
Dear Andrew Good to see you well . By chance I watched you yesterday and it was really very emotional and brought tears to my eyes. I wish to thank you from the bottom of my heart for dedicating yourself every day to help alot of people going through this great difficulty with narcicism You sure helped me tremendously when it made me so ill. No words to describe my gratitude to you for that daily help. Like you I am fine now thank G-D I am very very happy to know that you are healed. Awesome ! I am no longer on the channel just came on it yesterday to check it. I want to take this opportunity to wish everyone well on their healing path. Please persevere eventually one does come out of it. If I did and Andrew did everyone can. You guys are very very lucky in my opinion to have found Andrew's channel and be able to get his daily help and support. I wish that everyone out there would be so lucky because out of my own past experience I know how very hard it is to be entangled with these SOB 'S I wish you all the very best Thanks again Andrew. You are doing a phenomenal work here I wish you the best in your life Take care everyone Tamar🙏
The narcissists had me admitted into a mental facility without my consent, yes i wasn't in the best of place bc i was just wrapping my head around the fact that i was in a narcissistic relationship and the narcissists took advantage of that to have me admitted ,i just got out the day b4 yesterday and they have me taking drugs that i don't want to take , these drugs makes me sleepy and uncomfortable, although they might have their advantages these drugs also have disadvantages and it should be taken into account..
I just love your videos and that head twist in the beginning. I met my ex narc on a dating app and our situationship lasted 15 years...13 pretty good years I thought. The last two years were not the best...he started dropping the mask and thinning out, ghosting, silent treatments etc. Anyway, with the phone he would call me and keep me on the phone for hours and get mad if I ended the conversation first. Sometimes he would text me on a Saturday night and say, Hey what u up to? Then when I would answer..... nothing...no response. Now I've been out of the relationship and No Contact for 7 months. I'd been healing and just living my life and all of a sudden he called me from someone else's phone that I knew and was texting me pretending to be that person. It took me a few texts to catch on to it but, yeah they play phone games. Texting and pretending to be someone else. Mine also stayed and lived on his phone 24/7. No matter on a trip, visiting me, out to dinner or whatever...he was always always on the phone or not too far so, you spot on in this video. 😉👍
Wow. The butt dial mistake, lol. That one hit home. He would call, let it ring once or twice then hang up. I would wait for him to call back but he wouldn’t. Just another mind game. It’s pathetic and sadistic at the same time.
First off I want to say sorry because I see the passion the pain and the shit pardon my French ( from a girl who rarely curses 🤬) that you’ve been through. I think only once you’ve gone though a narcs evil 😈 games you can REALLY see it in someone else and trust me when I say I see it in your eyes! It’s not fair but life I guess isn’t fair all the time. For anyone who hasn’t had a narc in their life, you’re lucky because they definitely change who you are. As your explaining them in this video it’s almost as if they are an illness and infection that spreads to the people they latch onto. For the people who are going through this right now, One day you’ll gain the strength to break away and stand up for yourself, one day you’ll truly know your worth and say goodbye once and for all. One day you’ll heal and one day you’ll smile again and won’t need them anymore
They play games like this too: I didn’t get the text, I didn’t get the VM, my phone died, I turned my ringer off, I left my phone in the car, I left my phone at home, I forgot to call you back, I fell asleep and didn’t hear the phone, I texted you, you didn’t get it?, The “butt dial” ? and then you call them back and they don’t answer. And they never even mentioned it happened. They also assign different names to phone numbers … like if they have a boyfriend they might name it Susan. So they can openly get calls from their sode piece. “Oh that’s Susan from work”.
I was the one who gave him the money to buy his smart phone. I felt sorry for him as he broke his last crummy one. He does all sorts of things on his phone and would hate me to know his slimey secrets. But I'm already aware of most of his dark dealings. Hopeing to move house in months to come. My new address will be unknown to him. This has been quite an experience and one I never want again.
We just entered Mercury Retrograde, and many times people will try to resurface from the past, and emotions can run high. Narcs can sense this as well, and we need to stay grounded and strong. No phone calls, texts, emails from anyone in the past. There's a reason they're in our past. 💜✨💜
Most people have a combust mercury in their charts as mercury is 99% of the times placed with sun. Best be detached like the south node(ketu) and win over the 4 noble truths which Buddha speaks of.
I’ve dated two narcissistic women. One thing I noticed is that when you’re not with them, they’re almost impossible to get ahold of. Yet, when you are with them, they’re on their phone nonstop.
I love how you are in different places that so cool. But if I'm the one having a hissy fit because my brain is compromised. Sucks I always feel bad and like some of the shit he does.
When I still had to keep in contact with my narcissistic mother, I put a picture of the Emperor Palpatine from Star Wars as her contact picture on my phone, and changed the ringtone to the Imperial march.
It's the whole.I have nothing to hide on my phone but I'm gonna go fold a load of laundry and I just have to put my phone in my pocket like seriously.Those kind of games
The narcissist and smartphones, social media, etc. seem to go hand in hand with each other, but not in a good way… wish I’d meet somebody who wasn’t so self absorbed with their silly tiktok videos (she’s in her forties FFS) or uploading vids that smear other people’s character. The narcissist did that to her brother and she received much narcissistic supply. Many of the comments are like “you’re so strong for coming out about him”, “your brother is such a narcissist for not helping you out”, etc. but these were usually by simps & internet strangers who don’t know the whole story & who’re woefully ignorant to her REAL character- which is NOT a pretty sight. Sweet? Anything but!!! She actually was lying 90% of the time. She’s a cheater. Manipulator. Delusional. Most definitely a narcissist. Sounded completely deranged and jealous all the time. If she could speak such ill will about her own blood family, just imagine how she’d treat me and other people before.
@@Mike_Cosentino you are exactly on point I was trying to say. Covert narcissists and multiple accounts plus social media and character assasinations are today's deadly diseases. Nobody is safe .
Perfect timing! My brother (akin to my narcissistic mother) messaged me yesterday asking if we could ‘talk’. I said, “What the hell do you want and why are you messaging me? You sold out and are not loyal and unless you have something to offer.. I’m not talking to you.” Needless to say I didn’t hear anything back from the snake and I blocked that number. Once a snake it seems always a snake… for a narcissist.
The narc “husband” had access to my Amazon list - and of course I had no idea. He was ghosting me per usual but out of blue asks why I had a certain book on my Amazon list. I then begin filling my list with “How to divorce a narcissist” book titles. Checkmate.
Some hide it so well, and then when it's too late, we can figure them out. Yes, I despise the smart phone and do not use it, because it is a nuisance!! Guess I am too old for this mess. 🤠 lol
Very true indeed, you're spot on brother! I've been with quite of them in my life, I can smell them from miles away. Now I've became their nightmare, Usually I played along with their game for awhile until I starve their supply in the most unexpected time, and just do it on cold turkey, Boom!
Yup. Mine was mad at me for reminding him he couldn’t go to a event I was going to and cut my brakes.🌟but wait!, there’s more..he put his phone number on my phone for my “triple A” towing service. Oh yes.. lots more..I had just broke up with him. These people should have their own island together
Its overwhelming sense of entitlement: What theirs is theirs & whats yours is theirs and if you try to access what's yours, they will treat that boundary like a death threat.
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Once you see the disrespect, you can’t unsee it.😢
Thx Andrew. You are a bright light in this world.
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Dating apps are a narcissists playground.
Yes, underrated comment. I've been divorced for 14 years I have not even had a boyfriend or a date in 5 years because I agree with you. What I have learned in this experience is that I'm totally okay with being alone and am rarely lonely. Also if you do choose to be on a dating site, you must vet them because they will tell you that they don't use drugs and all kinds of other lies when in fact they are actually addicts and maybe married or spreading STDs etcetera etcetera who knows, but today's problems are so intense, you must vet these people or don't go on dating sites which is what I opted to do.
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Agreed!
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Absolutely, he used his to serial cheat. On his "work trips"
That's why it's so easy for them to trash and discard you. Its because you meant nothing to them. Truth. Actions speak louder. These are the sickest, most vile creatures.
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Numbers count
You said it!!!
One of the hallmark traits of the narcissist is lying. The short description of these people might be: They are all about the 7 deadly sins.
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So accurate.
The 7 deadly sins:
Pride
Greed
Lust
Envy
Gluttony
Wrath
Sloth
.. with pride being the most demonic. It’s where all other stems.
Thank you for reminding about the 7 deadly sins
Hallmark??
I am at point in my life I am quite content being me.And being alone the rest of my life does not scare me for I will still exist.I just can't afford to lose myself ever again
Beautiful Statement, I can relate!
This is the freedom mindset, wonderfully stated, thank you.
You just said exactly what I feel way better than I ever could .
Well said .
I totally agree
Oh yahhhh
Welp, I'll be hitting 59 this July and I sorely miss a simpler time of life and communication. Having a landline, reading the newspaper each morning, Getting excited to go to the book store, going to block buster every Fri night to rent a movie, not having to check out my own groceries and so forth. I despise smartphones but it does have its conveniences. I see it more of a curse though.. Sneaky, lying, abusive words and behaviors, loss of manners and a tool for entitlement for a lot of folks. Loss of privacy...I really don't enjoy living with one at all.
Yes, so sad and no real customer service like I learned it.❣️
Yeah...good days gone by...makes me sick how things have become.
Blessings
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You said it. Me too. I so miss Block Buster. There was just something special about going over on a Friday or Saturday night and looking over the 🎥🍿 movies and picking one and taking one home to watch with some take out or a good meal you made.
I miss Blockbuster, too.❣️
I miss the simpler times, too. People could go to concerts and shows without the whole crowd whipping out their iPhones.
I was married to narcissist and an alcoholic for 30 years I finally divorced him a couple years ago! The best thing I did!!!!!!!!
It is UNCANNY how ACURATE 🎯 this video is!!! OMG!!!
You described it to a "T"
ALWAYS ON HIS PHONE.
NIGHT AND DAY.
Leaving, not telling me where he was going or when hed be back.
He witheld communication about everything.
Stay gone for HOURSSS.
Silent treatment.
Hed be in and out of Hotel rooms.
Id find random cash money hidden in wierd places.
I could go on and on.
This dude was NEVERRRR faithful to me.
I was FORCED into celibacy in 2020 b/c he withheld intimacy since marriage in 2012.
It was rare when it happened.
If he wasnt on his phone, hed be on a computer.
This video is tooooo acurate.
I could go on and on and on.
This man who I WAS married to from 2012-2024 NEVER loved me.
It was ALLLLL fake.
If you are in ANYY kind of situationship w/one of these creatures-GET. OUT. 💯
Narcs are real
I was with one half of my life, now he has passed on going on 2 years August, & now he comes to me in my dreams!!!! Smh
The smartphone was the best invention for narcissists in history. It makes it much more difficult to truly be free of them.
I deleted and blocked, online and phone. I don't answer # I don't know. I blocked all our mutual friends on Facebook from seeing my posts.
Just delete her number never answer any of her calls and block block block
The Narcissist using the I phone to have you walking on eggshells 🙈🙄 Bingo 🤭🙈 Evil….. evil and ever so evil……….
Pray Psalms 91 over these demons, and ask God to remove them from your life and to remove the spirit from you, that is allowing them in. I can’t even imagine the damage these people are doing in other peoples nervous system. Praying for anyone dealing with this.
Thank your prayers mean a lot , I have almost been completely destroyed dealing with and putting up with the narcs demon behavior characteristics, I was backsliding and guess what I'm on the path that Jesus wants me to be on , I'm getting older and never again am I going to be with another narc , they come to destroy steal lie deception of it's core of what Satan is ,
There is decernment through the deception thank God ,
I thank you in advance of prayer it's been very rough I'm a single stay at home mom of three, but I know that my inheritance is mine and delieverance too whatever was stolen from me will be returned 100times fold , I'm so done believing the lies for years from bad fruits ,,God takes care of the rest ,
Amen 🕯
Chasing after dangling carrots, clinging to hope, and falling for the old bait and switch at work and in relationships was my former life as a people pleaser.
No more.
No contact and healing so I can become myself, live in peace, and enjoy my life. ❤️
YES!! Me too sister.
I love what you said about narcs, they see you as an unpaid helper, and a sounding board. Only there to serve their needs and Heaven help you if you disagree in any way or have a difference of opinion. I prefer to call them soul suckers or psychic vampires, because they take, take, take, and it's never enough no matter how much you give.
Ahh... the phone game... but even in analog times... the narc ignores call and is unavailable whenever you need him - but if he needs you there are no excuses ;-))
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Yes, my farm was ON FIRE & he never replied to texts or voicemails!
Exactly 💯
I just ignore it whenever a random message pops up. I deleted his contact because I do not want his number or info in my address book. So when his number pops up. Automatic delete, it’s been a minute. He may have a new supply as he does move on VERY quickly. I told him last June to do us both a favor and rid of my number. Took a while but he’s gotten the hint. Don’t need the trash in my life. Be strong guys
Why not block his number?
Remember the days before smart phones? The serenity..☮️
Oh yhea 😎
Right on Amen to that!
SNAKES are SNEAKY & unfortunately not dumb when it comes to using smart phones to enhance their sick games!
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@essiemarie1998
Hey luv!!!!
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Snakes also shed their skin as well when they move on to new supply. They got to look their best! Until it's time to shed again for another supply!
the phone games, the mind games, the crazy games my narc plays in insane 😮
Im a person who grew up surrounded by narcissists. I learned to not communicate well. This has affected my career and personal relationships but I now take responsibility for my own actions and in this I’ve healed and finally went limited to no contact. Learning to communicate better with others now.
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I'd say about 80% of my encounters on dating apps ended up being mind games and flakes. Like you said there are genuine people on there, but they're buried under narcs and abusers.
yes
You narrated parts of my life!
I wish to also tell you guys not to feel guilty that you fell into one of those SOB'S
You did not know about narcicism. I did not know anything about psychopaths until one became obsessed with me and stalked me and my husband
Took forever to get rid of this dangerous maniac
Also i have heard that many therapists do not detect them. Alot of them are such great cons and wear their sick mask so well
Take care everyone
All the very best to all of you
Tamar🙏❤️
That was an amazing message! Thank you.
"The cycle will always go on. It just needs to go on without you."
There ya go! 👍👍👍
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The X narc was 24/7 on his phone chatting and texting with women allover the world. Talkless of the pornstuff etc.
True! Narcs are porn addicts.
Because of financial reasons, I have to live with a narc. We're unmarried (I woke up to the fact that he is a narcissist before we actually married, thank God), no kids, both our names are on the deed of a historic house we're both devoted to. Fortunately the house is big and we keep to ourselves in separate areas.
In the last week, I've had two unpleasant texts from him: One was at 6 a.m (scared me, because I always think FAMILY MEDICAL EMERGENCY at that early hour) commanding "I need a check." The other was actually just now - a photo of hair (we both have long hair) dredged up from a clogged sink drain with a used bandaid in there, accusing me of throwing bandaids down the sink. How incredibly petty. OK, apparently the little bandaid around my pinky finger fell off while I was washing my hands and I didn't notice, big deal 🙄. He simply ADORES even the slightest opportunity to scold and belittle me.
Did I respond to either text? Of course not.
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I mean ain't that like number 1 communication 101?
You’re better off to live under a tree than with a narcissist.
You don’t have to stay at all. Mine cut me off everywhere financially and I was not allowed to work. I filed a restraining order after he physically abused me, used that time to stay in the marital home and find a job, and left. I was successful and you can be too. Do not limit yourself or make excuses to stay. There is always a way out if you truly want it. I highly suggest getting counseling too for the trauma bond.
He was always connecting with other women, even when sitting next to me.
The narc did the same. Morals and decency are alien to these idiots.
Mine too
It's so rude looking at them and not you it's disrespectful
We all sadly remember the phone games very well. Never experienced anything like them with anyone else apart from the narc but l would say all narcs do this (crazy blocking unblocking, love one minute then devalued next minute just to inflict more pain, no texts back , love bombed at the beginning with adoration on voice calls etc but then no answer once they have you )
Exactly what I went through,Exactly.
They lay the fake love on thick until you feel safe and get attached, then the hyper criticism and devaluation begins.
This is a spiritual battle they have come to remove all of your goodness.. they want it gone!
He didn't even have a smartphone but he was NEVER further than 2 ft away from his phone. He had a tablet and it was the same thing...and a Facebook junkie with MANY "old opposite gender school friends." So glad I finally said GOODBYE and don't even think of coming back.
I love it" Their( narc) dirty fangs had already sunken into you. So funny but sadly so true!
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We Must Choose to Be a Survivor NOT a Victim to Overcome Our Battles...God Bless, Sabian
Their duplicitous behaviour with their phones is SHOCKING to say the least. Such Liar's 😮😮😮
Thank u so much for sharing this ☺️ I was in a relationship with a narcissist and I lost everything because of him glad I had the chance to leave I thank my best friend for calling the cops she saved me.. have a lovely day love melody
Welcome..🙏💯😌
This video is spot on in every way Andrew. It is him. It was his downfall in the end, well the downfall with me. As I said before, he slyly took his phone into the toilet when we were together to talk to her... hed disappear for 20 minutes. What a complete low life. Lies and deceit....endless.
This is so true, spot on!❤
I healed a childhood wound by meeting a new narc. It has been very painful, but it gave me the wisdom to see how the narcs opperate, and now I understand and I have healed the wounds caused by my father
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More like my mom, it's best to decernment it's deception on their end ,
Now I know what narcs are
They blow up everything mine has destroyed me SILENCE is the only way as ANDREW says its hard but the only way out 😢😢😢😢
Very true! Being silent while co-parenting is a different layer to adjust
Mine destroyed me too. But he's gone n I'm still standin.
That's why I live a detached life
My ex used the phone in almost all of those ways, and it was late in the game when I realized that he was always calling me to make sure I was NOT anywhere near him, because he was usually with another woman. "Where are YOU?" was asked like an accusation! I wish I'd known enough to say "I'm at my Grandmother's having coffee" while I was in the parking lot of his business waiting to catch him with his supply du jour! Thank you, Andrew. All these years later, I don't answer and make him leave a voicemail (we co-parent). I know it drives him crazy LOL
Yes, wanting to your schedule, so they'd know where not to go. 😢😂. They usually have 2 phones plus a laptop. Late night phone call and pick a fight to leave the house for hours and come back exhausted. Blame you for things you never did. Have so much "supply" that they get confused who's, who.
If you co- parent please gray rock him or her.. Only talk about the children and keep all printed records of the conversations. I hope you do and this helps.
So true!! He had all of that
Not to mention the weird texts that have nothing to do with what you last spoke about.
Yes they ask were are you ,or they tell you they have to nip to the shop for something just incase you turned up at there's, he has had phone calls once near Christmas 3 times but the person blocked there number ,I been out with him and he would go toilet at least 3 times and quiet a few fans to ,had the battery was going flat once .
I just had to block her on everything. Its insane. The games!
My late narc would borrow an old phone of MINE that didn't have service and use it to take photos and video of whatever he was doing. He'd come back and set the phone down and my intuition would tell me to check it and that's how I found out what he was up to. The only time he checked in was after he was done doing whatever he was doing so he could accuse me of doing what he just did. He would tell on himself without confessing. Accusations are confessions.
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100% correct. ✔️
Just because I have a cell phone doesn't mean I'm obligated to answer when it rings.
I remember getting jibberish texts from at least one narcissist. I began ignoring them very quickly. Then they'd call angrily asking why didn't I answer their text. Oh, the one written in a foreign backwards jibberish? Arrrg and click. Me,,, hahaha. Next time after that the angry why didn't you answer my text....oh, well, I seem to have misplaced my secret decoder ring. A man standing nearby busted out laughing because she didn't know I had my phone on speaker and he was the same person I'd shown the text to asking would you respond to something like this? Naw,,,me neither.
Or 5 minutes after I leave saying I'm going to here to get this ring ring ring...it didn't take long I'm not answering.
Nowadays sometimes there's someone who I loosely call friend that automatically thinks I blocked their number when I just put my phone on airplane mode so I can nap or whatever. Red Flag... they're accustomed to being blocked and they're angry at the thought.
Anyway, Namaste Andrew from the Midwest.
I find that phone energy is very PERCEPTIBLE. I easily was able to pickup the Narc’s game tactics: marked by consistent inconsistency, juvenile texts, dull convos and the protective behavior of phone placement. No mystery or rocket science here. 🙄
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It sounds like a nightmare you’re stuck in. So scary. God bless everyone who goes through this.
Absolutely Andrew, I'm surprised the narcissist's smart phone isn't inside a holster on their hip. Just as deadly as a gun.
Years ago, I ran into the ex at one of our daughter’s game. The ex kept parading around in front of me pulling her phone out of its holster and flipping it to use it. I don’t know how I kept from laughing. She thought she was a bad ass. It would be the only game she showed up for, which made my life easier.
Hihi the narc had it in a little bag that was fixed at the belt! It was a weapon!!
Oh the, the good morning texts
Texting someone else in front of you covertly pretending they are looking at gumtree in unison with the "someone" in the same room . You can't see the screens. What gripes me is I didn't pay attention to my own pineal glan, my intuition saying to me , hey something going on here, I guess I didn't want to make a scene or I turned a blind eye. The penny didn't drop till a few months after extracting myself from the narcissistic relationship. I left them & the narcissist on realisation that I had packed up & left the building, text me , "are you okay". This suggests they aren't acknowledging I was the one that made a decision & left. Just a smart arse is how I would summarise the narcissist. They think they are so childishly clever , you can see right through their bullshit. Once you wake up from the love bombing.
Andrew, this is exactly what he did and I was thinking before oh they care and they dont its all a game and I did notice if I dont answer then the onslaught of anger or victimhood whatever was working and he didnt like it.
Another thing my narc ex needed was my portable charger for her phone which she took from me after she cheated on me. The only way I could get it back was by accepting her hoover. Now I know about covert narcissism, I know better than to accept a second hoover from her.
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Take the charger output cord and rewire it internally to the 120v AC input.
That's a way to stop them blowing up your phone with texts. Poof goes the iphone😅😅
Some flat out come up and ask, did you block me, why yes i did.
My phone serves me, not everybody else , when you abuse my phone, you get block
You are exactly right.. Never leave it laying down.. I'm so I got away from the NITE MARE... Thank you for sharing. 9:26
Yah this happened to me a lot lol was so frustrating, and they would be like, what's wrong with you? 🙄 They would play stupid. Just like the song: Games people play. They would always have excuses why they would breadcrumb. They enjoyed watching the torture. Until I became numb to it, then dropped the ball and walked away. Was the most liberating feeling lol thanks be to God and Andrew ❤
I hated hearing "what's wrong with you?" Like I had a mental problem when all I wanted was the truth....
Oh my god... all the times i,ve had that battle about agreements over when to meet up and they said they didnt get the message i,ve sent or whatever.
Ridiculously low level they are on... its incredable how much they f* up deliberatly to waste your energy and start disputes...
The day i pulled down the curtain towards my narcissist was a beautiful day... sunlight for me... the abyss for him
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This is spot on
One thing you cannot do with a narcissist is being straightforward. This sends them in a tizzy. They would like you to believe in the mask. If you don't learn the lesson than they will try all kinds of ways, even accuse you of cunning or lying or whatever to prove their point. It happens multiple times. 😟
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Looking back I can see all the times I could have gotten away, she "needed " me she "couldn't live without me," she'd self harm etc. None of it was true, and she'd even taunt me with it in the devaluation stage; she was talking to others, almost gave up on pursuing me, it never was anything more than a game.
Nailed It.
Thank you for giving us the heads up about the phone being a weapon for control❤
They really do weaponize the phone in my personal experience
And that's why I can no longer be back with my ex again. That cellphone 📱 I will always know she has someone on standby. Not healthy, not good for a real relationship. I will never be her only one 😔
He's been calling me non-stop......it takes everything in me to not answer. He's already taken so much, I don't want to give anything else!
Thx Andrew!
silence that number.very effective. reduces the pressure
One of the worst is mimicry.It’s so devious.Ultimately Deception.
Love your messages...Too funny with the hearts, puppies rainbows, had me laughing. So true . This is what they do??? 😂😂❤
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I burst into laughter... That's what happened to me few months ago and after shedding tears on the brutal realization... I came to my senses and now I can laugh about it 🤣🤣🤣
Great video Andrew!
I had to turn my phone off for a long time. It really helped me slow things down.
Wishing everyone clarity and peace...
Thank you..😌🙏💜
I thooght of doing this too. Last night I felt so hurt qnd angry that I deleted his nr. I'm crying all weekend. I still do my things but with heartache.
I just cry it out or say it out loud when I feel hurt and angry and in a few days it will be better, as usual 😢
When I told him I want to move to spain, he replied: don't depend on me with your decision, I will follow you to Spain sweety".
I told him to stop saying words that are never met with actions.
I'm working hard mentally here and he is thriving .
I'm usually relaxed fpr 3 or 4 days and then his silence after a promise wpuld start to annoy.
me again.
It's really infuriating my goodness.
Also last week I decided to initiate to send him a morning text. No reply.
I'm so angry again wow. But..now I'm no longer present. I'm out. Gone.
He knows I like to watch my security cameras a lot so he drives by my house on his way to hers. Part of my no contact (on the advice of my therapist) is to stop watching my cameras so often. 😂😂😂 If he didn’t come by I’d be disappointed and if he did I’d be happy.
Ugh…my narcissist-ex is a TH-camr….its a nightmare. Phone games on a whole other level. Masks on masks, smear campaigns,a twisted distorted ‘reality’….an absolute nightmare.
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Thank you for the video, Andrew. We love you too and are grateful for your support!
The phone games are really big with them.
My ex therapist who turned full narc on me played this game in such a way that she made me scared of my phone. I had to mute it completely and whenever I hear her ringtone I get a panic attack.
She would do all the things you have described. Those are evil games and I hope that in future I will not tolerate any of these behaviours anymore.
My ex also always texted me the same text every single day. Copy - paste. It is ridiculous.
My narc mother also uses the phone to spy on me so I had to change my phone behaviour and put everything on private.
I feel through the phone they can come into my place and I don't want them there.
Stay strong everyone and take care of yourselves!
The phone games she played is the reason why I tapped out. She felt entitled 24/7 to my attention. She felt entitled begging me to help her with her so-called cell phone bill (just so coincidentally due the following day, too 🤨)…. “Phone money”… who knows where that even went towards…
Never appreciatd anything I did. Even helping her out with said-phone, she’d have all these new rules in place like “call after 7”, “phones at 5%”, “can’t talk right now”, “he’s here”, the excuses were endless. Then I’d spy her liking videos instead of replying on the phone so that was the straw that broke the camel’s back for me.
If only she had just been truthful and transparent instead of giving me the “I didn’t wanna upset you” excuse. I was only upset she was deceiving me and toying me around, NOT the fact she simply wasn’t available! Talk about lies upon lies. Smear after smear. Blaming after blaming.
She’s been blocked and deleted since August of last year and never looked back… 😌
I paid my exes car insurance for four years yeah I got nothing back in return
@@Mathews47. 🫤 sorry to hear. It wasn’t even about the money, I could give her the world and it wouldn’t be enough. It’s just the principle. How can someone be so two-faced and cruel?
She’d say “I told you I appreciate the help”, “I’m not ignoring you I’ve just been busy” blah blah blah (apparently not too busy for social media though), but she gaslit me and shifted blame onto me, as if how dare I draw a boundary?
How dare I not be a walking wallet anymore?
How dare I ask or (attempt to) talk to her civilly about her lack of transparency?
How dare I say “no”, the strongest word in the English language to her!?
She had the gall to make it seem like I was at fault for sending just TWO texts, two days apart- yet she’d blow up my phone 24/7 for so long. The double standard, the entitlement, her attitude and arrogance was really something else… then she wonders why she has no family or no more close friends.
So you knew she had someone else and that you were the other guy and you’re still upset?
@@adventuresamNfamNo. for the record I was anything BUT “the other guy”; she was/is divorcing him. But she moved back into the house late last summer after we went NC so she could “respectfully coparent” but this was all due to her friend booting her out and that she couldn’t afford her own place with the kids.
“The main guy”, her so-called ex at the time whom she supposedly separated from, had already kicked her out of his house before she started reaching out to me and now from what I gather everything is finalized. But she ain’t my problem now. She had been triangulating me w/ him & most certainly others in retrospect. She’d repeatedly give me the old “it’s just a friend” line while going out on weekends, or “I’m not getting back with him.” So hopefully that clears some of the air for you, I’m anything but somebody who’s swoop in to steal someone’s wife…Doesn’t take back what she did though.
@@adventuresamNfam idk why TH-cam deletes my comment but no that wasn’t the case. She was and is divorced from him now. She did move back into his house after we broke it all off because she couldn’t afford her own place after her friend kicked her out of a dainty apartment in a basement. Now from what I gather she’s living in another persons basement but she’s blocked and not my problem anymore. She’d been triangulating me with her ex and other orbiters too from the past. Wasn’t gonna stick around merely to be an option.
And no I ain’t upset about it anymore. I’ve made peace with myself. Not my fault that she couldn’t be truthful or transparent with me. She’d been feeding me the old “it’s just a friend” line for a bit.. and considering after all the help I gave her for her phone, answering her phone, etc., naturally this video rang a chord with me. I am not upset still. FYI
I got the 😘😘 emojis right up to the text he discarded me by. What a joke! They are so twisted, fake and sick.
I got I love yous the morning that she blocked and discarded me
My mom the Narcissist will butt dial and leave the line open as if she accidentally calls you... I don't even talk to her so I know my phone number wouldn't be readily available for her to just randomly butt dial!
My narcissist mom did that too
Dear Andrew
Good to see you well .
By chance I watched you yesterday and it was really very emotional and brought tears to my eyes.
I wish to thank you from the bottom of my heart for dedicating yourself every day to help alot of people going through this great difficulty with narcicism
You sure helped me tremendously when it made me so ill. No words to describe my gratitude to you for that daily help.
Like you I am fine now thank G-D
I am very very happy to know that you are healed.
Awesome !
I am no longer on the channel just came on it yesterday to check it.
I want to take this opportunity to wish everyone well on their healing path.
Please persevere eventually one does come out of it. If I did and Andrew did everyone can.
You guys are very very lucky in my opinion to have found Andrew's channel and be able to get his daily help and support.
I wish that everyone out there would be so lucky because out of my own past experience I know how very hard it is to be entangled with these SOB 'S
I wish you all the very best
Thanks again Andrew.
You are doing a phenomenal work here
I wish you the best in your life
Take care everyone
Tamar🙏
The narcissists had me admitted into a mental facility without my consent, yes i wasn't in the best of place bc i was just wrapping my head around the fact that i was in a narcissistic relationship and the narcissists took advantage of that to have me admitted ,i just got out the day b4 yesterday and they have me taking drugs that i don't want to take , these drugs makes me sleepy and uncomfortable, although they might have their advantages these drugs also have disadvantages and it should be taken into account..
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Oh, my. I hope you research each one of those meds.
Eat meat to get back your nutrients. That will help your mental health a lot.
OMG!
Yes he was on his smart phone 24/7 on dating apps & then would look me in the face like nothing..
Sucks..
I just love your videos and that head twist in the beginning. I met my ex narc on a dating app and our situationship lasted 15 years...13 pretty good years I thought. The last two years were not the best...he started dropping the mask and thinning out, ghosting, silent treatments etc. Anyway, with the phone he would call me and keep me on the phone for hours and get mad if I ended the conversation first. Sometimes he would text me on a Saturday night and say, Hey what u up to? Then when I would answer..... nothing...no response. Now I've been out of the relationship and No Contact for 7 months. I'd been healing and just living my life and all of a sudden he called me from someone else's phone that I knew and was texting me pretending to be that person. It took me a few texts to catch on to it but, yeah they play phone games. Texting and pretending to be someone else. Mine also stayed and lived on his phone 24/7. No matter on a trip, visiting me, out to dinner or whatever...he was always always on the phone or not too far so, you spot on in this video. 😉👍
Wow. The butt dial mistake, lol. That one hit home. He would call, let it ring once or twice then hang up. I would wait for him to call back but he wouldn’t. Just another mind game. It’s pathetic and sadistic at the same time.
The funnest narc trick is never texting you in the first place but stalking you online, unblockable personas being the exception.
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First off I want to say sorry because I see the passion the pain and the shit pardon my French ( from a girl who rarely curses 🤬) that you’ve been through. I think only once you’ve gone though a narcs evil 😈 games you can REALLY see it in someone else and trust me when I say I see it in your eyes! It’s not fair but life I guess isn’t fair all the time. For anyone who hasn’t had a narc in their life, you’re lucky because they definitely change who you are. As your explaining them in this video it’s almost as if they are an illness and infection that spreads to the people they latch onto. For the people who are going through this right now, One day you’ll gain the strength to break away and stand up for yourself, one day you’ll truly know your worth and say goodbye once and for all. One day you’ll heal and one day you’ll smile again and won’t need them anymore
When I was still talking to him. I would get one word answers.
Even the name of the "smart" phone is a lovebomb.
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The x narc, x boss, in my life wanted me available before work hours, after work hours, and on weekends. I put down a boundary, said no. He got mad.
They play games like this too: I didn’t get the text, I didn’t get the VM, my phone died, I turned my ringer off, I left my phone in the car, I left my phone at home, I forgot to call you back, I fell asleep and didn’t hear the phone, I texted you, you didn’t get it?, The “butt dial” ? and then you call them back and they don’t answer. And they never even mentioned it happened.
They also assign different names to phone numbers … like if they have a boyfriend they might name it Susan. So they can openly get calls from their sode piece. “Oh that’s Susan from work”.
Absolutely!
Yeah..I know the Susan from work too😂😂😂😂
This is proof they are demon possessed
Mine did that with my friends numbers
My phone is only 1 % charged .call you tomorrow xx
I was the one who gave him the money to buy his smart phone. I felt sorry for him as he broke his last crummy one.
He does all sorts of things on his phone and would hate me to know his slimey secrets.
But I'm already aware of most of his dark dealings.
Hopeing to move house in months to come. My new address will be unknown to him.
This has been quite an experience and one I never want again.
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Once you peep the characteristics of a NARCISSIST 😈, 🚫 BLOCK THEM & KEEP THEM ON 🚫 BLOCK
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We just entered Mercury Retrograde, and many times people will try to resurface from the past, and emotions can run high. Narcs can sense this as well, and we need to stay grounded and strong. No phone calls, texts, emails from anyone in the past. There's a reason they're in our past. 💜✨💜
well said
Good advice
Most people have a combust mercury in their charts as mercury is 99% of the times placed with sun. Best be detached like the south node(ketu) and win over the 4 noble truths which Buddha speaks of.
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I’ve dated two narcissistic women. One thing I noticed is that when you’re not with them, they’re almost impossible to get ahold of. Yet, when you are with them, they’re on their phone nonstop.
Very interesting thank you, I am getting rid of social media. Just want to listen to motivational podcasts ✊🏼
When I met the narcissist 30 years ago he only had a house phone. When he left our marriage he was sending K texts.
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Thank you, Andrew for sharing your wisdom!
I needed to hear this yrs ago Andrew.
I love how you are in different places that so cool.
But if I'm the one having a hissy fit because my brain is compromised. Sucks I always feel bad and like some of the shit he does.
I love the bell sounds in the background, makes this feel spiritual
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omgggg this is sooo on point! the sending of diff heart emojis... the going to hike on a mountain when it was just all-made up lies and so on.
When I still had to keep in contact with my narcissistic mother, I put a picture of the Emperor Palpatine from Star Wars as her contact picture on my phone, and changed the ringtone to the Imperial march.
OMG...Too funny!!! 👍
Thanks for making me laugh, that is great!
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@@marieeakin8534 Glad I could make you laugh! 😀
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LMFAO!! that's awesome haha!
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It's the whole.I have nothing to hide on my phone but I'm gonna go fold a load of laundry and I just have to put my phone in my pocket like seriously.Those kind of games
I found out that my ex locked a phone in his car 🤷♀️🤷♀️
The worst thing in the world is a narcissist, and one who has more then one smartphone.
They always have phone issues. 😂 abruptly hanging up. Lost service not answering
The narcissist and smartphones, social media, etc. seem to go hand in hand with each other, but not in a good way… wish I’d meet somebody who wasn’t so self absorbed with their silly tiktok videos (she’s in her forties FFS) or uploading vids that smear other people’s character. The narcissist did that to her brother and she received much narcissistic supply. Many of the comments are like “you’re so strong for coming out about him”, “your brother is such a narcissist for not helping you out”, etc. but these were usually by simps & internet strangers who don’t know the whole story & who’re woefully ignorant to her REAL character- which is NOT a pretty sight. Sweet? Anything but!!! She actually was lying 90% of the time. She’s a cheater. Manipulator. Delusional. Most definitely a narcissist. Sounded completely deranged and jealous all the time. If she could speak such ill will about her own blood family, just imagine how she’d treat me and other people before.
@@Mike_Cosentino you are exactly on point I was trying to say. Covert narcissists and multiple accounts plus social media and character assasinations are today's deadly diseases. Nobody is safe .
@@josephhale9198 😅😅😅 scary how it's the same patterns everywhere 😳
No, the worst thing in the world is a gay man with a chipped tooth🤣
Perfect timing! My brother (akin to my narcissistic mother) messaged me yesterday asking if we could ‘talk’. I said, “What the hell do you want and why are you messaging me? You sold out and are not loyal and unless you have something to offer.. I’m not talking to you.” Needless to say I didn’t hear anything back from the snake and I blocked that number. Once a snake it seems always a snake… for a narcissist.
The narc “husband” had access to my Amazon list - and of course I had no idea. He was ghosting me per usual but out of blue asks why I had a certain book on my Amazon list. I then begin filling my list with “How to divorce a narcissist” book titles. Checkmate.
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That a girl!!!
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Lol. Good one 😂
Some hide it so well, and then when it's too late, we can figure them out. Yes, I despise the smart phone and do not use it, because it is a nuisance!! Guess I am too old for this mess. 🤠 lol
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Very true indeed, you're spot on brother! I've been with quite of them in my life, I can smell them from miles away. Now I've became their nightmare, Usually I played along with their game for awhile until I starve their supply in the most unexpected time, and just do it on cold turkey, Boom!
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Yup. Mine was mad at me for reminding him he couldn’t go to a event I was going to and cut my brakes.🌟but wait!, there’s more..he put his phone number on my phone for my “triple A” towing service. Oh yes.. lots more..I had just broke up with him. These people should have their own island together
You're so right saying that I am facing fires that he placed and fixing the problems he created,b
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Its overwhelming sense of entitlement: What theirs is theirs & whats yours is theirs and if you try to access what's yours, they will treat that boundary like a death threat.
Their arrogance is on another level