Yes I agree with you. we live in a world that people see good as foolishness. I've been in his shoes. The guy has a good heart. He loved his wife and he did what he did out of trust and love.
They hold u bro is not ordinary don't worry Go to God repent u will recover all follow pastor Jerry link those people will confess cool God is more than them
The bible tell us to be soft like dove but wise like the serpent. Most wives will soft speak you into chaos and destruction. It is your job as a man to keep your eye open at home and both eye open in the world. The only person to trust is God.
This guy did nothing wrong. He was scammed by his ex wife and her mother. Daddy Freeze was wrong to make it look like the guy is not bright. The guy explained the reason why his name was not on the paperwork for the house; his credit score in the UK did not qualify him to buy the house. The guy with red hair behaves like a child.
This is the reason the world is the way it is no love, how can one claim to love someone without trusting them. Good people are now called mumu, where is this world going to. People like this always get the wrong humans, I have been in a similar situation. Evil is celebrated these days as being wise, that's the world we live in.
This daddy freeze is something else. Talk about kicking someone when they are down and when they have accepted they are down, no empathy to even understand that his comments were cutting and unnecessary. Someone came to tell his story, Freeze began to analyse and judge the story. What an absolute lack of grace.
He just made the guy even more demoralized rather consoling him and his same time the little money he gets from the 🌟. If I was the guy I would have end the conversation.
Daddy Freeze is speaking from an angle of someone who has suffered a divorce before, In his first marriage he was like this guy. He is suddenly speaking like he has always been like this. I go with this guy. He paid the price for marrying a bad woman
Man, forget that thing. I am not divorced before and when I buy an asset or a car, I put both my wife and my name. Forget that thing about love. You have to be smart also.
This guys story adds up real good and you need to be in the diaspora to understand his position. Most of the risk Nigerians take in the western world to survive is mind blowing and it cuts across the sexes. I am a Real Estate Consultant and this is what we see everyday. However, one lesson to learn in his case is to study your environment very well and learn how to guard your utterances very well. Your girl is 22 years and very close to her mum, you didn't handle that very well. Don't argue with a woman because if you do, there is a likelihood that what you say in that argument will be used against you and the actual problem will be swept under the carpet. You need a lot of growing up to do. Your inlaws will not fault their daughter and you need to relax with your control issues. Get these prophetic merchants off your life and get a lawyer to help you. If you are legally married and your marriage is legal in the UK, you are still a 50% owner of that real estate especially if it was acquired during the duration of the union. Your mother inlaw is toxic. Be very careful. Anyone who can take your house can take your life.
yes i believe he had to use the wife's credit profile (credit history, score, worthiness) to get mortgage approval, which is not readily available as a new immigrant
I agree to some of the things you but not some. He obviously has control issues as you said which was a problem and like someone here said, he must have used wife and mother’s names to make it even possible for him to be approved for the house. People that know how abroad works know that he did NOT BUY THE HOUSE since it’s a mortgage! So one pays monthly after some down payment which may not be much at all. How then did wife and mom take the house if there’s obviously still sooo much mortgage to be paid over MANY Years for them to own the house? Ridiculous! How many people can BUY a house outright? Rarely. You said people should avoid arguing with a woman or what they say will be used against them later. It is common knowledge that real threat and unaliving women and girls usually start from ignored threats, so a threat that may be masked in an argument should be taken seriously. That’s also why most civilized places take a verbal threat as serious as the action as should be. People should stop saying what they can’t, won’t or don’t intend to do, there are consequences…should apply to both men and women. That is not “his” house obviously and this is his wife and even MIL that made the purchase possible! People lie a lot when it suits them. He talks as if he just went into a store and bought something and then a stranger from outside came and snatched it from him. DF asked some pertinent questions and story started falling apart. If I ask him a few more, all will fall apart. You said for anyone to take one’s house, they can take their life? Haa! That is so far fetched as a house means nothing much and it’s equally the woman’s house, in this case this “supposedly” proud man of the house was not prideful enough to not need his MIL to help with even getting the mortgage approved.
It is unfortunate what happened to the guy; he seems like a good guy. However, he needed his wife to get the mortgage because, in the UK, you must have a good credit rating and a viable job for any bank to consider your mortgage application even if you have the money to make the first down payment, I am not sure the guy could meet all the conditions at the time as someone who moved newly to the UK. Hence, since his wife then had a good job and a good credit rating, it makes sense to buy it in her name. It is sad that it turned out badly
It still not enough not to include his name. Yes, the wife's credit and work history are paramount but his financial records and previous work history outside UK would have counted. I think they never sought for a professional help before reaching conclusion not to include him. It's really pathetic.
@@Amy-yw3lh it's not that straight forward and it depends on the bank in question. most UK banks would not allow him add his name anywhere On the mortgage . Getting a mortgage is not as easy as it was many years ago . The wife must have lied on the application that the deposit belongs to her and her mum therwise they wouldn't have been approved. I deal with mortgage brokers often . He was in the UK as a visitor not resident , not settled .
Which wife? She don born for am (him)? Like born first born ,second born? Hin no be black land den born am? Hin never dey Google on net and see wetin dey happen to all the soccer star wey dey marry there?
Honestly, everybody was just so insensitive to this guys story and it’s a bad one coming from this platform. Many persons will lack the courage to speak up next time though. Meanwhile, people are busy blaming others for having a good heart and loving unconditionally. Imagine Jesus being called a mumu because he died for the world. I feel really disappointed for real,SMH.
I'm supporting this person s comment...it's not easy to buy a house in abroad when you don't have status...so the lady is wife for Christ sake...the guy did nothing wrong...the woman I mean!!!!!!
@@QueenF0xx yea, apart from advice, I will ask daddy Freez, wat his he gonna do if he was the one. I dey vex for that small boy that was laughing. The guy with tinted hair🤦♀️
Wow. This is public flogging for a man who is sharing his experience for people to learn. I wonder if people, men especially, will be be willing to come forward with their experiences
This is the worst and most insensitive CRUDE TH-cam show. Who is this so called Daddy Freeze? He makes it all about him, not allowing his guest to speak and laughing at a man's mistake. VERY CRUDE MAN. DISTASTEFUL MIND SET:(
My exact thoughts. The guy was sharing something very sad but they were just laughing and saying he was a fool. That wasn't the kind of comment I was expecting. The guy has owned up to his mistake by being too trusting but it was completely unnecessary to call him a mumu to his face on a live show
Exactly I was about saying this. I'm just the same way as him. When you tend to do things the right way it has to be done, people see it as foolishness.
This Bro is a good hearted guy even cooking spoiling his wife, May God Bless him with a good hearted woman who will respect nd live him back. Bro be open minded you can date and marry woman from any country on planet earth
I sponsored my EX in school, got her apartment and money to start up a business... during her final year, she started giving me attitude and boom " she tagged me as not her dream man " just because she needed a car and I was still struggling as a guy. I gave her some money and she lied later on that some guys attacked her and transfered everything ... she got me angry with such words and then she asked for breakup... to be honest, we don't need to trust anyone even your wife or husband .. I learnt the biggest lesson in life
After them go say men no dey speak out. Daddy freeze you mess up, big time. See how una mumu that guy. Na the other useless guest way dey laugh up and down they vex me. Imagine calling someone who is sharing a bitter story and you guys are mocking him and then call it therapy session. I bet you this live session will hurt the guy more than even the events that happened to him. Big up the bros for sharing your story. May God heal you and see you through in life. Wishing you all the best.
I did similar thing with my aunt. She had a better credit than I. My property is still in my control after 3 years I have no reason to not trust her. He was not blind family is supposed to always be there for family. It's a wicked world but on a normal family is supposed to be strong bond.
The simple solution I decided to apply to my situation after my divorce was to develop myself properly so I could have options in life. My advice to all African men living in America or Europe is simple: build a solid career, go back to school, make more money, give yourself the privilege to have options when it comes to women. If your wife isn't making you feel the way you deserve as a man, you can either divorce her or live separately. There is no point living in the same house with a troublesome woman, especially because your kids will see you as a monster whenever you're in an argument with their mother. So, the best thing is to live a separate life outside of your marriage. Only a man who has developed himself, like I said, can afford to live such a separate life. Our men should learn to work on themselves, rather than wasting their energy on trying to make a marriage work, because women these days are not wired to live as wives in the prestine sense of the word.
Daddy freeze try to understand the guy. The guy is not mumu. It's just out of trust they have got married already is not a crime to love or trust you partner. Daddy Freeze so u don't trust your wife? And please stop bringing mumu people on your program like this adaripon guy that's laughing like mumu. The story isn't funny at all.
This should be titled the destruction of junior. It even concluded with him saying I am a Mugu. I have watched daddy freeze for 4 years, i have never seen him bully anyone to this level before. I felt pain for the guy, even my mom said why are they treating this guy so bad. Junior let me advise you, from the first insult daddy freeze gave u, you should have corrected him respectfully, made the interview very short and left. Instead u sat there and let him dig you into the ground concluding with you saying you were a mugu. You are a man, take this advice and learn to walk away from people that will treat u bad. Also it was stupid to bring a prophecy into your marriage, those prohecies have destroyed many marriages. Please take this advice seriously or you will be disrespected all your life. Imagine if you were interviewing daddy freeze, from the first insult, he would have fired back at you. Remember your children will see this interview, you have to show the world you are a man, make peace with your wife and forget the small issue of rice. You shouldn't have even brought that up. Also learn when to walk away, u stayed there till daddy freeze kicked u off, begging for the last word even after you gave him stars
Oga Freeze pls learn to allow your guests tell their stories. You are a journalist for goodness sake! it appears you're more interested in folks buying stars than people learning from this guy's story, Btw big shout out to the guy. He put his heart out without shame or fear. You will find who deserves you
If you call him names it simply implies you regard marriage as a partnership not a union. I felt sorry for him the way they just made him look like a fool. I could relate to his story because i had my own experience.
This is the worst and most insensitive CRUDE TH-cam show. Who is this so called Daddy Freeze? He makes it all about him, not allowing his guest to speak and laughing at a man's mistake. VERY CRUDE MAN. DISTASTEFUL MIND SET:(
The reaction this guy is receiving from all these people is what makes men not to voice out or say what they are going through. Some men (especially good ones) are having hard time just because of their innocency/naivety and evil treatment meted out on them by marauding jezebels🤦🏽♂️🥲
This is the worst and most insensitive CRUDE TH-cam show. Who is this so called Daddy Freeze? He makes it all about him, not allowing his guest to speak and laughing at a man's mistake. VERY CRUDE MAN. DISTASTEFUL MIND SET:(
These people were all judging the guy no empathy for him at all so sad and the way daddy freeze is asking him to buy stars is alarming .if I was that guy I would have not bought them
Thank you very much,l could not even finish watching it,when it comes to celebrities he gives them more time to explain themselves,but he kept cutting off this guy,surely why invite someone to share their story and they you end up bullying and intimidating them,he is or was clearly trying to act like Piers Morgan
No body gets taken advantage of in this world like someone who is trusting and understanding and once they find out that they can't use you they brand you unreasonable. Imagine if this guy refused all the suggestions his ex wife and her family brought to him and he rejected them and she came here to cry that her husband doesn't listen to her, we will all together as the online panel of judges call him out to be stubborn and unreasonable. There are some quotes that I have memorised since my younger years and they have helped me alot in several sticky situations and they are "The farthest you should let love go is your heart, not your head" and "once you start being emotional you stop being logical". I hope the brother finds peace and move on.
I have long admired Nigerians with their smartness , hard working mentality unfortunately I have been scammed by an Nigerian Ibu man. As an African I was inspired by a lot of things from him cos am also a hardworking woman here in the uk . But it seems alot of Africans both woman and man abroad get into relationships for very bad reasons 😢
What you all did to this guy on this show is the reason men don't come out and share their hurt. Typical Nigerian mentality. Let's stop victim shaming. It's not fair at all. I am a woman and I can relate to what he has been through because it happened to me, but in another way.
Daddy freeze, he is not a mumu. What he is saying is right. He won't have been able to buy a house in the Uk when he is not a resident and no evidence of the income. And because is a mortgage it have to be paid every month hence he won't be able to that because the money is suppose to be coming out of his account. What he did was the right thing if he wants to get a house. Friends are even worse. I know this because when my husband was about to buy our house in UK, despite he is a British man, but because he was not working in the UK then and was not a resident at that time because he works in Nigeria then, he needed his brother who was working staying there there was the who helped him get the house. In conclusion he did what he needed to do at that time to get the house. The wife and family are bad xx
You dont need to be a citizen or a resident to buy a house in UK or US if you are buying the house out right. You just need some sort of paper trail on how you get the money. Now if you want to mortgage the house, the bank need to assess your ability to pay them back the money(principle+interest) on monthly basis. This is where employment and credit history come into play.
@@miss_pearl but the mortgage is not in his name so the house doesn't belong to him technically. What he paid was the initial deposit and the mortgage arrangement is in his ex-wife's name. Yes he has been paying the mortgage repayments but he has no evidence as everything has been coming out of the woman's account.
Daddy Freeze, please stop been rude towards the man. You shouldn't be making caricature of the issue. This is quite sensitive and as a lady, I really sympathise with him. I wish this man all the best in life
@@martins2191 No worries! God's healing is the utmost. I reside in the UK so I totally understand what some men are passing through due to some of the outdated laws where bad women bark and the men are thrown out of their family homes even when the ladies are at fault. I understand the welfare of any minor children is at the heart of Family Law but allowing a man loose all or most of his hardwork with ridiculous Order is not nice. I am a victim of DV and i lost everything l suffered with my ex husband in Nigeria but I still stand for the truth. Good men are been set up by some of their spouses in the UK and these ladies part with their property while the so called smart men get away with everything. Just thank God he only lost one house and was not accused of sexual assault too. Very heartbreaking joor
This guy's story and experience are why we have many narcissistic Mugo Park men out there. You can imagine how he will treat the next woman that will enter into a relationship with him. Meanwhile, his case is not completely finished, he is married legally; if he challenges this in court, the court will ask them to sell the property share 50/50.
@Williams Ruona as long as they are legally married, all properties are shared equally. He needs a good lawyer in order to be able to get something back .
He has NOT “lost” the house but the equity/cash he put in the house. He did NOT pay for the full value of the house from his own pocket. His “lost” is therefore not the 360,000 pounds house but ONLY the 25,000 pounds down payment, a year mortgage payment and other disbursements. IT IS THE WIFE WHO HAS THE LEGAL OBLIGATION TO PAY THE OUTSTANDING BALANCE of 335,000 pounds OF THE MORTGAGE as it appears that he will not continue to make further mortgage payments.His children benefited from occupying the space. He should say thank God that the house is in his ex-wife’s name only.
Bro you did right as man who loves his family and wanted a bright future just that it happen unfortunate bacause i`have done something like that though am lucky!! bro no regret about it stay blessed
He did made 100% mistake trusting wife waman bad deal even u stop trusting if trust is the answer why can't you do simple math 1+1=2 but the answer is not always 2 that why trust is not absolute get sense
@@elijahayomor5291 guy me I trained my wife in school if I tell you how much I spent on her and family you be shocked, brought her abroad , now she is now showing pepper, but there is plan B ,trust God
The young man is not at fault. He is a married man, who did what is best for his family out of love and trust. Mr. Daddy Freeze, you didn't handle this well. It seems like you were making fun of this man who is a victim. We unfortunately live in a terrible world where we can't trust even our wives or husbands. This dynamic is not African culture but Western culture.
Always buy house in both names husband nd wife joint hv both names on the Deeds seek advise on what's best way forward incase marriage turns sour how are you protected etc. Both Men nd women protect yourself in all situation, marriage is not guaranteed for life.
Anyone listening to this story will assume that the ex-wife walked away with 360,000 pounds house. That is misleading… the ex-WIFE is now stuck with the huge outstanding balance of the mortgage DEBT of approximately 335,000 pounds. He can walk away from paying that debt as the mortgage loan is in the wife’s name as the borrower.
They played that guy because they knew he was doing an illegal deal if he made his money from legal business he would be confident to add his name with any documents he has.
Please don't blame this guy. The smartest person can fall mugu. My ex... I paid international tuition fee for him to first come abroad and then prepare for me and our kids. I did everything for him as a family, but he was planning and told his friends that he will do paper for his side chick to join him in future and not me and my kids.
He's still coming back to beg. It's a matter of time. That side chick will deal with him in a way that for the rest of his life, he will never forget the experience. May the LORD take care of you and your children, in Jesus' name. Amen..
That man didn't say what he did for judge to favor his wife. When you're married in both US and UK all properties belong to both parties, regardless of whose name is on paper. Both the case of adultery or violence can affect the sharing of the properties.
Yes once its bought in the marriage. He would have had a constructive trust. If the marriage broke down there is no way he was going to be able to keep it unless he could have prove he can secure a mortgage by himself to continue the repayments. The house would have had to be sold or the ex is paying the mortgage so it makes no sense what he is saying. At worst he lost some deposit money. But they did not have the house long enough to even begin paying off the capital amount of mortgage. The court would have treated the deposit as money belonging to the marriage.
My 99-year-old Dad lives with me. I'm American. I grew up with my great-grandmother and grandmother in our home. But let's understand "Old folks home" there are those called Assisted Living which is where the adult can live on their own. They may still be driving and going out. The difference is they have someone in the facility to help them with certain things. They have activities for them like trips to Bingo or Casinos with people their age. These facilities can range from $6,000 a month depending on how luxurious it is. Ah, if an old folk's home have a swimming pool, indoor pool hall, and movie theater why on Earth would that person want to live with their children? The other is a Nursing home and that is where the elderly are sickly and need around-the-clock care from a medical professional. Do we understand how hard it is to take care of an elderly person who will walk out of your house at 2 am and not know where they are and you're calling the police to help find them? The only way either of these becomes a terrible option is when the children put the parentstherer and never seethemn again.
Yup Africans dont understand cause labor is cheap there. The kids wont be the actual ones caring for their parents. Itll be a househelp who they pay less then $50 a month. If that was the case we would keep our parents at home as well!
My very take on this matter Is… The father in law knowing truly well that the house his wife and daughter are fighting for is not theirs…. And is happy with the situation….That’s the beginning of the problem….
You do not need to be a British citizen to buy a house in the UK . You can get a mortgage as a foreign national. You can also get a mortgage via a joint mortgage with a non UK citizen
Since he just arrived the country then, his credit will not be good enough to get a mortgage in the UK even if he tried for a joint mortgage with the wife. Also, you can buy a fixer upper for a relatively cheap amount than normal. You need to do your research before calling someone a liar. That's really unnecessary.
Daddy freeze can be inhumane a lot of the times. Not good at all! Life does happen to people. When your own never happen you fit deh carry on as though you are as wise as Solomon and Socrates!
Daddy freeze I respect you a lot but Baba make una take am easy on That Brother it’s very complex here in WEST ! Who no go no know ….if no be the way we never know where NIGERIA de go most of us for just relocate . This system tough ! Am yet to finish this story but am just heartbroken. A lot is going on here in the Diaspora..
YOU SEE WHY I DO NOT SHARE MY PROBLEMS, FROM THIS VIDEO, NOBODY IS INTERESTED IN YOUR LIFE STORY... SO, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. THE WORLD IS SELFISH, AND EVERYONE IS GOING THROUGH SOMETHINH
Daddy Freeze you don't really understand how it works here in the UK. This guy is a pure victim of heartless wife and an ungodly mother. But the Lord God Almighty will vindicate for him He did everything in all honesty and they out smart him. Thank God he is strong.
The guy is a very sweet guy, it’s unfortunate that his ex-wife didn’t live him as much as he loved her. This is really unfortunate. May God comfort him and may he heal so he doesn’t take out his bitter experience on the next person he decides to date or marry. I am like him. I don’t believe in being careful while in a loving relationship cos I am supposed to be free. Plus, I am simple minded and very generous so I definitely understand what he did what he did. It’s just a shame. Wilfred said the gospel truth. I also stay in Yankee and the struggle is different. Over here you truly need to apply sense while in love cos humans are truly dynamic and no one knows tomorrow.
The guy started by saying he made a mistake and don't want another person to repeat such. DF I don't like how this guy was judged especially by the guy on pink hair (hoodie)
I understand what he is saying, he thought the love was the same for him, they took advantage of him. Hey there is someone out there for you and will love you and show you the same love you shown in return keep your head up
Wow! I can't believe Daddy Freeze is being this uncouth. Is this how he usually is? Why is he being so insensitive. He should advice him and others without calling him Mumu. Daddy Freeze was saying some truths but he did it without any emotional intelligence so it did not mean much. They didn't even give the poor guy a listen. Obviously this was more about him using the guy to get stars from his audience than it was about offering the guy any comfort or lessons. Also are you kidding me? So the same person that used to preach against tithes is the same person coercing people for stars. Let's all be using our tongue to count our teeth in this life oo. This is so annoying, this can happen to any good hearted person. Almost everybody on this call apart from the fair lady in a bonnnet is emotionally daft.. I'm disappointed! You don't kick a wounded dog I really hope this guy reads this comment and feels some comfort.
Daddy freeze is totally hypocritical. The stars are more important to you? Come freeze, this your program is very self serving and nothing to do with the interest of the people. Daddy freeze is a DIVORCEE, yet he pontigicates
Different strokes for different folks, its varies, some men or women are still loyal to the core. I'm a living witness. Sorry to hear ur sad Story though some human beings are wicked no matter how much love is shown towards them...May God deliver of everyone of us....
What we lack in our part of the world is empathy. Though Daddy Freeze and everybody that spoke gave this guy the right advice but the way they did it was wrong by calling him a mugu and just like what he said, this is the reason a lot of people don't go into relationship with the right attitude. This is why a lot of our people's relationship is transactional and this is the reason men don't share their experience
Brother l honestly fill your pains l was a victim that too l lost everything too but hi you need to move on and believe in yourself to God be glory l got three times what I lost today
The guy did not say it was love that made him use his wife's name on the estate, it was circumstances. Daddy freeze needs to understand him clear. So, who is paying for the mortgage now?
The guy is really a good guy.Some women don't know what they have.The guy has a genuine love for her. My dear someone is ready to love and appreciate you. And take you the way you are if you are still available. You are a good guy every lady wishes to have.Sorry for your bad experience.
There are so many people that wish to do so much for their fathers. This point is not all valid unless you didn't raise your children properly. Is not about sending them abroad. That man is a good man just that he entrusted so much to children
Trusting your family 👪 & inlaws is normal except someone tries to be mischief..I will do d same thing as the guy did..I am actually in one now..kudos to the guy for coming out with his experience for us to learn
I have no sympathy for him...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. A lot of Nigerian guys have done the same scam to ladies in the UK/US/Canada. He felt that because the girl was 22 years old, he could control her. Also, I suspect he's one of those scammers. What kind of work was he doing in Turkey, that he had such huge sums of money, and he confessed that he didn't go to school?
One thing is that alot of naija men do not tell the full truth. Some will do illegal things and end up with no credit and yet not respect the person that is covering them
An ex-friend of mine was ushered into UK and made a Mrs with a guy who is a known Onidan(Magical Producer) who ended up putting her name on a property in same UK.
Correct. You are very smart. Large down-payment no history. I understand it was relocation from turkey, what's the history behind the income from turkey karma can come different ways.
Daddy Freeze, you and your guests need to be sensitive to those that bring their stories to your forum. It doesn't help to call him mumu and your other guests are laughing. He had no paper work and had to go thru his in law and wife who are already established. He did nothing wrong,just unfortunate he had an unfaithful wife and inlaw Your analogy about children and parents doesn't add up
Am sorry for your bad experience on losing your house. I wish they allow you to explain yourself to our understanding before drawing conclusion... I can relate to your bad experience. It did happen to me... You will not understand until it happens to you. Am a victim too. Trusted... Big mistake for me. Huge. God is good.
I don't think DF handles this properly, you can't blame this guy for loving and trusting his wife. This wife never loved him in the first place, the mother is very toxic. The lady is very inmatured, she will regret it later. This guy should not be blamed for what he did, this is the reason our community is the way it is. There is no love at all with our people, how can you fault this guy. The ex-wife and family should be blamed not this guy, this is the reason why evil is thriving in this world because wickedness is considered as being wise.
God bless you Our dear Daddy freeze most men are charmed with so called Love in marriage and forget their will mind and decisions it's so sad to hear this it's very revealing to us thank u
One thing with we Nigerians is that we don't like to learn and understand the laws of the country we are living. I live in Russia, Russian law in this case is fair. Any thing you buy or owns before marriage is untouchable in case of divorce. But things you buy inside marriage will be divided into two, in case you have children it will be 70 - 30%. 70% will go to the person who will be with the children.
I understand the guy,when you have a good heart you believe every one is like you.
Yes I agree with you. we live in a world that people see good as foolishness. I've been in his shoes. The guy has a good heart. He loved his wife and he did what he did out of trust and love.
They hold u bro is not ordinary don't worry Go to God repent u will recover all follow pastor Jerry link those people will confess cool God is more than them
The bible tell us to be soft like dove but wise like the serpent. Most wives will soft speak you into chaos and destruction. It is your job as a man to keep your eye open at home and both eye open in the world. The only person to trust is God.
This guy did nothing wrong. He was scammed by his ex wife and her mother. Daddy Freeze was wrong to make it look like the guy is not bright. The guy explained the reason why his name was not on the paperwork for the house; his credit score in the UK did not qualify him to buy the house. The guy with red hair behaves like a child.
I think the guy was naive and they took advantage of him. It's so sad.
Exactly. He didn’t even have credit score and history in the UK, so he couldn’t have bought a house in the UK. The system is different from Nigeria.
The red hair boy over there behaves like an immature teenager....a spoilt brat
This is the reason the world is the way it is no love, how can one claim to love someone without trusting them. Good people are now called mumu, where is this world going to. People like this always get the wrong humans, I have been in a similar situation. Evil is celebrated these days as being wise, that's the world we live in.
Daddy freeze is here on TH-cam making money
Daddy Freeze, this approach to this interview is not good at all; This guy has already suffered and you are re awakening his pain
Very unprofessional on his part. Very terrible behavior.
Daddy Freeze did that to open d eyes of others in his shoes. He even apologized!!!!
@okwuchiphilomena5640 unfortunately this was unprofessional with the apologies.
He should go to therapy not come on a live show and pour his heart out.
Daddy freeze has always been a horrible criminal always feasting on gossip and people’s circumstances
Daddy freeze abeggi, You know coordinate this show well, wether he is heal or not,common! He is sharing and enlightening people.
This daddy freeze is something else. Talk about kicking someone when they are down and when they have accepted they are down, no empathy to even understand that his comments were cutting and unnecessary. Someone came to tell his story, Freeze began to analyse and judge the story. What an absolute lack of grace.
He just made the guy even more demoralized rather consoling him and his same time the little money he gets from the 🌟. If I was the guy I would have end the conversation.
Daddy freeze help drag the ex
To come say her side story
Let all this good ones no stop doing or been good
DADDY IS A BAD HOST.HE NEED HELP HIMSELF
This guy is really advising us something that is happening. It is a good idea that you saying.
It's pathetic how he has proceeded to scoff at the victim
Daddy Freeze is speaking from an angle of someone who has suffered a divorce before, In his first marriage he was like this guy. He is suddenly speaking like he has always been like this. I go with this guy. He paid the price for marrying a bad woman
Exactly. He forgot he went through this and now seem to be mocking this innocent man.
Man, forget that thing. I am not divorced before and when I buy an asset or a car, I put both my wife and my name. Forget that thing about love. You have to be smart also.
This guys story adds up real good and you need to be in the diaspora to understand his position. Most of the risk Nigerians take in the western world to survive is mind blowing and it cuts across the sexes. I am a Real Estate Consultant and this is what we see everyday.
However, one lesson to learn in his case is to study your environment very well and learn how to guard your utterances very well. Your girl is 22 years and very close to her mum, you didn't handle that very well. Don't argue with a woman because if you do, there is a likelihood that what you say in that argument will be used against you and the actual problem will be swept under the carpet.
You need a lot of growing up to do. Your inlaws will not fault their daughter and you need to relax with your control issues. Get these prophetic merchants off your life and get a lawyer to help you. If you are legally married and your marriage is legal in the UK, you are still a 50% owner of that real estate especially if it was acquired during the duration of the union. Your mother inlaw is toxic. Be very careful. Anyone who can take your house can take your life.
yes i believe he had to use the wife's credit profile (credit history, score, worthiness) to get mortgage approval, which is not readily available as a new immigrant
Great advice 👍🏿 👌🏿
I agree to some of the things you but not some. He obviously has control issues as you said which was a problem and like someone here said, he must have used wife and mother’s names to make it even possible for him to be approved for the house. People that know how abroad works know that he did NOT BUY THE HOUSE since it’s a mortgage! So one pays monthly after some down payment which may not be much at all. How then did wife and mom take the house if there’s obviously still sooo much mortgage to be paid over MANY Years for them to own the house? Ridiculous! How many people can BUY a house outright? Rarely. You said people should avoid arguing with a woman or what they say will be used against them later. It is common knowledge that real threat and unaliving women and girls usually start from ignored threats, so a threat that may be masked in an argument should be taken seriously. That’s also why most civilized places take a verbal threat as serious as the action as should be. People should stop saying what they can’t, won’t or don’t intend to do, there are consequences…should apply to both men and women. That is not “his” house obviously and this is his wife and even MIL that made the purchase possible! People lie a lot when it suits them. He talks as if he just went into a store and bought something and then a stranger from outside came and snatched it from him. DF asked some pertinent questions and story started falling apart. If I ask him a few more, all will fall apart. You said for anyone to take one’s house, they can take their life? Haa! That is so far fetched as a house means nothing much and it’s equally the woman’s house, in this case this “supposedly” proud man of the house was not prideful enough to not need his MIL to help with even getting the mortgage approved.
@Isaac Elinam Spielberg I read it again and again and reasoned it and it makes so much sense. Hmmm,this life.
Woo woow Great advice in this England evil land.thank y👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
It is unfortunate what happened to the guy; he seems like a good guy. However, he needed his wife to get the mortgage because, in the UK, you must have a good credit rating and a viable job for any bank to consider your mortgage application even if you have the money to make the first down payment, I am not sure the guy could meet all the conditions at the time as someone who moved newly to the UK. Hence, since his wife then had a good job and a good credit rating, it makes sense to buy it in her name. It is sad that it turned out badly
Thank you very much!! that was my thoughts too 👍🏽
It still not enough not to include his name. Yes, the wife's credit and work history are paramount but his financial records and previous work history outside UK would have counted. I think they never sought for a professional help before reaching conclusion not to include him. It's really pathetic.
@@Amy-yw3lh it's not that straight forward and it depends on the bank in question. most UK banks would not allow him add his name anywhere On the mortgage . Getting a mortgage is not as easy as it was many years ago . The wife must have lied on the application that the deposit belongs to her and her mum therwise they wouldn't have been approved. I deal with mortgage brokers often . He was in the UK as a visitor not resident , not settled .
He should come let's buy a house together .I am loyal and won't bail on him .
Which wife? She don born for am (him)? Like born first born ,second born? Hin no be black land den born am? Hin never dey Google on net and see wetin dey happen to all the soccer star wey dey marry there?
Honestly, everybody was just so insensitive to this guys story and it’s a bad one coming from this platform. Many persons will lack the courage to speak up next time though. Meanwhile, people are busy blaming others for having a good heart and loving unconditionally. Imagine Jesus being called a mumu because he died for the world. I feel really disappointed for real,SMH.
I'm supporting this person s comment...it's not easy to buy a house in abroad when you don't have status...so the lady is wife for Christ sake...the guy did nothing wrong...the woman I mean!!!!!!
The woman is bad and mean!!! Over mean!!!!
I never see this guy as a failure, many people can be a victim to this.
Even the freez himself.
Thank you👊🏼 Exactly 👍🏽
@@QueenF0xx yea, apart from advice,
I will ask daddy Freez, wat his he gonna do if he was the one.
I dey vex for that small boy that was laughing.
The guy with tinted hair🤦♀️
Stop being victim wise up
Im sorry to see the the way this guy story is treated.
He deserves better hearing.
Its about empathy and respect.
F**ls don’t deserve respect.
Wow. This is public flogging for a man who is sharing his experience for people to learn. I wonder if people, men especially, will be be willing to come forward with their experiences
This is the worst and most insensitive CRUDE TH-cam show. Who is this so called Daddy Freeze? He makes it all about him, not allowing his guest to speak and laughing at a man's mistake. VERY CRUDE MAN. DISTASTEFUL MIND SET:(
I thought Daddy Freeze is better than that. Why shame a man who has been scammed by a wife he trusted?
Daddy Freeze just ended up adding more pain and suffering to this man.
My exact thoughts. The guy was sharing something very sad but they were just laughing and saying he was a fool. That wasn't the kind of comment I was expecting. The guy has owned up to his mistake by being too trusting but it was completely unnecessary to call him a mumu to his face on a live show
Very unprofessional
True
@@gloryprah9139 correct
Daddy Freeze sounded ignorant
He did what he did out of love and trust. It’s unfortunate the wife didn’t deserve him. May God replenish him in a thousand fold 🙏
Exactly I was about saying this. I'm just the same way as him. When you tend to do things the right way it has to be done, people see it as foolishness.
This Bro is a good hearted guy even cooking spoiling his wife, May God Bless him with a good hearted woman who will respect nd live him back. Bro be open minded you can date and marry woman from any country on planet earth
I sponsored my EX in school, got her apartment and money to start up a business... during her final year, she started giving me attitude and boom " she tagged me as not her dream man " just because she needed a car and I was still struggling as a guy. I gave her some money and she lied later on that some guys attacked her and transfered everything ... she got me angry with such words and then she asked for breakup... to be honest, we don't need to trust anyone even your wife or husband .. I learnt the biggest lesson in life
I like this man he is honest. Kind man. Ooh God need more men like him. Good Spirit. God bless him financially and with a wonderful partner.
After them go say men no dey speak out. Daddy freeze you mess up, big time. See how una mumu that guy. Na the other useless guest way dey laugh up and down they vex me. Imagine calling someone who is sharing a bitter story and you guys are mocking him and then call it therapy session. I bet you this live session will hurt the guy more than even the events that happened to him.
Big up the bros for sharing your story. May God heal you and see you through in life. Wishing you all the best.
U make sense die...welldone
My exact thoughts
DF n d guy with red hair 🤦🏿 goofed there. No matter how stupid the story sounded show empathy.
This is why I don't seek love advice from people. Wtf is step in love,
@@franklinidegwu6020 , Very stupid talk. Step in love indeed.
I did similar thing with my aunt. She had a better credit than I. My property is still in my control after 3 years I have no reason to not trust her. He was not blind family is supposed to always be there for family. It's a wicked world but on a normal family is supposed to be strong bond.
The simple solution I decided to apply to my situation after my divorce was to develop myself properly so I could have options in life. My advice to all African men living in America or Europe is simple: build a solid career, go back to school, make more money, give yourself the privilege to have options when it comes to women. If your wife isn't making you feel the way you deserve as a man, you can either divorce her or live separately. There is no point living in the same house with a troublesome woman, especially because your kids will see you as a monster whenever you're in an argument with their mother. So, the best thing is to live a separate life outside of your marriage. Only a man who has developed himself, like I said, can afford to live such a separate life. Our men should learn to work on themselves, rather than wasting their energy on trying to make a marriage work, because women these days are not wired to live as wives in the prestine sense of the word.
Bros, share your story on obodo oyinbo TV, many of us want to learn from your story. Daddy freeze has no patience for such interviews.
Yess i love that channel she keeps it professional and gives sound advice.
Very true,l am a Zimbabwean woman and l love how professional she is,
Daddy freeze try to understand the guy. The guy is not mumu. It's just out of trust they have got married already is not a crime to love or trust you partner. Daddy Freeze so u don't trust your wife? And please stop bringing mumu people on your program like this adaripon guy that's laughing like mumu. The story isn't funny at all.
This should be titled the destruction of junior. It even concluded with him saying I am a Mugu. I have watched daddy freeze for 4 years, i have never seen him bully anyone to this level before. I felt pain for the guy, even my mom said why are they treating this guy so bad. Junior let me advise you, from the first insult daddy freeze gave u, you should have corrected him respectfully, made the interview very short and left. Instead u sat there and let him dig you into the ground concluding with you saying you were a mugu. You are a man, take this advice and learn to walk away from people that will treat u bad. Also it was stupid to bring a prophecy into your marriage, those prohecies have destroyed many marriages. Please take this advice seriously or you will be disrespected all your life. Imagine if you were interviewing daddy freeze, from the first insult, he would have fired back at you. Remember your children will see this interview, you have to show the world you are a man, make peace with your wife and forget the small issue of rice. You shouldn't have even brought that up. Also learn when to walk away, u stayed there till daddy freeze kicked u off, begging for the last word even after you gave him stars
Oga Freeze pls learn to allow your guests tell their stories. You are a journalist for goodness sake! it appears you're more interested in folks buying stars than people learning from this guy's story, Btw big shout out to the guy. He put his heart out without shame or fear. You will find who deserves you
If you call him names it simply implies you regard marriage as a partnership not a union. I felt sorry for him the way they just made him look like a fool. I could relate to his story because i had my own experience.
he is a fool, he learnt the hard way, this modern day and age men are still dumb like this nawao
This is the worst and most insensitive CRUDE TH-cam show. Who is this so called Daddy Freeze? He makes it all about him, not allowing his guest to speak and laughing at a man's mistake. VERY CRUDE MAN. DISTASTEFUL MIND SET:(
This guy is good and has good heart. He will be successful by God's grace.
I don't see any reason why Daddyfreeze's guests are laughing at the victim brother....most of you guys don't live in the Uk
The reaction this guy is receiving from all these people is what makes men not to voice out or say what they are going through. Some men (especially good ones) are having hard time just because of their innocency/naivety and evil treatment meted out on them by marauding jezebels🤦🏽♂️🥲
This is the worst and most insensitive CRUDE TH-cam show. Who is this so called Daddy Freeze? He makes it all about him, not allowing his guest to speak and laughing at a man's mistake. VERY CRUDE MAN. DISTASTEFUL MIND SET:(
These people were all judging the guy no empathy for him at all so sad and the way daddy freeze is asking him to buy stars is alarming .if I was that guy I would have not bought them
Thank you very much,l could not even finish watching it,when it comes to celebrities he gives them more time to explain themselves,but he kept cutting off this guy,surely why invite someone to share their story and they you end up bullying and intimidating them,he is or was clearly trying to act like Piers Morgan
Freeze is a crude character with no class or sensitivity. Disgusting behaviour
@@emiliambanje-y2p Freeze is a crude insensitive money hungry man
No body gets taken advantage of in this world like someone who is trusting and understanding and once they find out that they can't use you they brand you unreasonable. Imagine if this guy refused all the suggestions his ex wife and her family brought to him and he rejected them and she came here to cry that her husband doesn't listen to her, we will all together as the online panel of judges call him out to be stubborn and unreasonable. There are some quotes that I have memorised since my younger years and they have helped me alot in several sticky situations and they are "The farthest you should let love go is your heart, not your head" and "once you start being emotional you stop being logical". I hope the brother finds peace and move on.
I have long admired Nigerians with their smartness , hard working mentality unfortunately I have been scammed by an Nigerian Ibu man. As an African I was inspired by a lot of things from him cos am also a hardworking woman here in the uk . But it seems alot of Africans both woman and man abroad get into relationships for very bad reasons 😢
His is not a straight forward man like many Nigerians. The marriage was for reasons best known to himself and only to get citizenship as they do. Sad
Nothing is wrong being a good husband. Stay strong brother.
Shame how this was handled insensitively by the host and guests. The world sure don’t care about how men are treated.
I live in the UK and I can relate to this man story.
What you all did to this guy on this show is the reason men don't come out and share their hurt. Typical Nigerian mentality. Let's stop victim shaming. It's not fair at all. I am a woman and I can relate to what he has been through because it happened to me, but in another way.
Well said
Best comment
Daddy freeze, he is not a mumu. What he is saying is right. He won't have been able to buy a house in the Uk when he is not a resident and no evidence of the income. And because is a mortgage it have to be paid every month hence he won't be able to that because the money is suppose to be coming out of his account. What he did was the right thing if he wants to get a house. Friends are even worse.
I know this because when my husband was about to buy our house in UK, despite he is a British man, but because he was not working in the UK then and was not a resident at that time because he works in Nigeria then, he needed his brother who was working staying there there was the who helped him get the house. In conclusion he did what he needed to do at that time to get the house. The wife and family are bad xx
You dont need to be a citizen or a resident to buy a house in UK or US if you are buying the house out right. You just need some sort of paper trail on how you get the money. Now if you want to mortgage the house, the bank need to assess your ability to pay them back the money(principle+interest) on monthly basis. This is where employment and credit history come into play.
@@da1nonlyobi The guy literally said he bought the house on mortgage.
@@miss_pearl but the mortgage is not in his name so the house doesn't belong to him technically. What he paid was the initial deposit and the mortgage arrangement is in his ex-wife's name. Yes he has been paying the mortgage repayments but he has no evidence as everything has been coming out of the woman's account.
@@Adukey exactly
DF stop interrupting these man. We learning heavily from him. He’s low key getting upsets with the laughs and co but holding it down as a BIG MAN.
Watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲 too much wicked people in the world
I wish you a greater future bro, I pray you recover all. Thanks for sharing this.
It is well brother, keep being yourself, God will grant you your heart desires... It hurts but you will get over it and be fine.
One should never forget that friends today could be enemies tomorrow. The rule of the game is protect yourself at all times. Be wise!!!
That's just it always make a smart move calculative one
Daddy Freeze, please stop been rude towards the man. You shouldn't be making caricature of the issue. This is quite sensitive and as a lady, I really sympathise with him. I wish this man all the best in life
Thank you for this comment
@@martins2191 No worries! God's healing is the utmost. I reside in the UK so I totally understand what some men are passing through due to some of the outdated laws where bad women bark and the men are thrown out of their family homes even when the ladies are at fault.
I understand the welfare of any minor children is at the heart of Family Law but allowing a man loose all or most of his hardwork with ridiculous Order is not nice. I am a victim of DV and i lost everything l suffered with my ex husband in Nigeria but I still stand for the truth. Good men are been set up by some of their spouses in the UK and these ladies part with their property while the so called smart men get away with everything.
Just thank God he only lost one house and was not accused of sexual assault too. Very heartbreaking joor
This guy's story and experience are why we have many narcissistic Mugo Park men out there. You can imagine how he will treat the next woman that will enter into a relationship with him. Meanwhile, his case is not completely finished, he is married legally; if he challenges this in court, the court will ask them to sell the property share 50/50.
His name isn’t in the house Purcahase document
@@williamsruona5496 By Law, He dosn't own it.
@Williams Ruona as long as they are legally married, all properties are shared equally. He needs a good lawyer in order to be able to get something back .
Already he has bad about women.
@@vivianparadise8730 wat if the married out of community?
Mr man well done,never change. This outsmarted each other is what is making people mean.
He has NOT “lost” the house but the equity/cash he put in the house. He did NOT pay for the full value of the house from his own pocket. His “lost” is therefore not the 360,000 pounds house but ONLY the 25,000 pounds down payment, a year mortgage payment and other disbursements. IT IS THE WIFE WHO HAS THE LEGAL OBLIGATION TO PAY THE OUTSTANDING BALANCE of 335,000 pounds OF THE MORTGAGE as it appears that he will not continue to make further mortgage payments.His children benefited from occupying the space. He should say thank God that the house is in his ex-wife’s name only.
The guy just took the in-laws as family that was why he fell prey to their evil plans. May God help him heal as soon as possible.
This guy did no mistake in trusting his wife
@Don Papy Unfortunately, he will end up being mean to the next woman he meets. Na the next woman go suffer am pass. I pity dat woman😃.
Bro you did right as man who loves his family and wanted a bright future just that it happen unfortunate bacause i`have done something like that though am lucky!! bro no regret about it stay blessed
He did made 100% mistake trusting wife waman bad deal even u stop trusting if trust is the answer why can't you do simple math 1+1=2 but the answer is not always 2 that why trust is not absolute get sense
@@elijahayomor5291 guy me I trained my wife in school if I tell you how much I spent on her and family you be shocked, brought her abroad , now she is now showing pepper, but there is plan B ,trust God
The young man is not at fault. He is a married man, who did what is best for his family out of love and trust.
Mr. Daddy Freeze, you didn't handle this well. It seems like you were making fun of this man who is a victim.
We unfortunately live in a terrible world where we can't trust even our wives or husbands. This dynamic is not African culture but Western culture.
Thanks for sharing ur stories my bro , no one is too wise ✅
This guy was doing things out of love
Always buy house in both names husband nd wife joint hv both names on the Deeds seek advise on what's best way forward incase marriage turns sour how are you protected etc. Both Men nd women protect yourself in all situation, marriage is not guaranteed for life.
Anyone listening to this story will assume that the ex-wife walked away with 360,000 pounds house. That is misleading… the ex-WIFE is now stuck with the huge outstanding balance of the mortgage DEBT of approximately 335,000 pounds. He can walk away from paying that debt as the mortgage loan is in the wife’s name as the borrower.
Abroad children don’t get mind😳.! What a Truthful statement daddy freeze.❤
They played that guy because they knew he was doing an illegal deal if he made his money from legal business he would be confident to add his name with any documents he has.
What a good advice. Guard yourself. Don't buy important things in another person's name. For something like a house, buy it in a joint name.
You’re still young , don’t be disappointed in life.
Please don't blame this guy. The smartest person can fall mugu. My ex... I paid international tuition fee for him to first come abroad and then prepare for me and our kids.
I did everything for him as a family, but he was planning and told his friends that he will do paper for his side chick to join him in future and not me and my kids.
God have mercy! Wishing you and your children an awesome future!!!
Oh my hope you ok
Ewo
He's still coming back to beg. It's a matter of time. That side chick will deal with him in a way that for the rest of his life, he will never forget the experience. May the LORD take care of you and your children, in Jesus' name. Amen..
Is he the father of your kids? If not what were you expecting
That man didn't say what he did for judge to favor his wife. When you're married in both US and UK all properties belong to both parties, regardless of whose name is on paper. Both the case of adultery or violence can affect the sharing of the properties.
Yes once its bought in the marriage. He would have had a constructive trust. If the marriage broke down there is no way he was going to be able to keep it unless he could have prove he can secure a mortgage by himself to continue the repayments. The house would have had to be sold or the ex is paying the mortgage so it makes no sense what he is saying. At worst he lost some deposit money. But they did not have the house long enough to even begin paying off the capital amount of mortgage. The court would have treated the deposit as money belonging to the marriage.
My 99-year-old Dad lives with me. I'm American. I grew up with my great-grandmother and grandmother in our home. But let's understand "Old folks home" there are those called Assisted Living which is where the adult can live on their own. They may still be driving and going out. The difference is they have someone in the facility to help them with certain things. They have activities for them like trips to Bingo or Casinos with people their age. These facilities can range from $6,000 a month depending on how luxurious it is. Ah, if an old folk's home have a swimming pool, indoor pool hall, and movie theater why on Earth would that person want to live with their children? The other is a Nursing home and that is where the elderly are sickly and need around-the-clock care from a medical professional. Do we understand how hard it is to take care of an elderly person who will walk out of your house at 2 am and not know where they are and you're calling the police to help find them? The only way either of these becomes a terrible option is when the children put the parentstherer and never seethemn again.
Yup Africans dont understand cause labor is cheap there. The kids wont be the actual ones caring for their parents. Itll be a househelp who they pay less then $50 a month. If that was the case we would keep our parents at home as well!
My very take on this matter Is… The father in law knowing truly well that the house his wife and daughter are fighting for is not theirs…. And is happy with the situation….That’s the beginning of the problem….
Why are these people are laughing at the man pain its so 😥 i feeling so sorry for him
Bro you are right don't fall in love, am in Canada and i know what am saying men don't want to get married any more...
My brother dont worry you have done well it's not your fault they will sure suffer for it not goes for nothing mark my world you will remember me
You do not need to be a British citizen to buy a house in the UK . You can get a mortgage as a foreign national. You can also get a mortgage via a joint mortgage with a non UK citizen
I think he is lying and 8 bedroom in Leicester for 360k
Since he just arrived the country then, his credit will not be good enough to get a mortgage in the UK even if he tried for a joint mortgage with the wife. Also, you can buy a fixer upper for a relatively cheap amount than normal. You need to do your research before calling someone a liar. That's really unnecessary.
Daddy freeze can be inhumane a lot of the times. Not good at all! Life does happen to people. When your own never happen you fit deh carry on as though you are as wise as Solomon and Socrates!
I will do the same thing that this man has done. It is a trust issue. I will trust my wife.
Daddy freeze I respect you a lot but Baba make una take am easy on That Brother it’s very complex here in WEST ! Who no go no know ….if no be the way we never know where NIGERIA de go most of us for just relocate . This system tough ! Am yet to finish this story but am just heartbroken. A lot is going on here in the Diaspora..
The poor man have been defrauded by mother and daughter. I will never buy or have joint account with my wife or anybody.
YOU SEE WHY I DO NOT SHARE MY PROBLEMS, FROM THIS VIDEO, NOBODY IS INTERESTED IN YOUR LIFE STORY... SO, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. THE WORLD IS SELFISH, AND EVERYONE IS GOING THROUGH SOMETHINH
Daddy Freeze you don't really understand how it works here in the UK. This guy is a pure victim of heartless wife and an ungodly mother. But the Lord God Almighty will vindicate for him
He did everything in all honesty and they out smart him. Thank God he is strong.
men / women use your mind instead of your heart, with all this saga everywhere.
The guy is a very sweet guy, it’s unfortunate that his ex-wife didn’t live him as much as he loved her. This is really unfortunate. May God comfort him and may he heal so he doesn’t take out his bitter experience on the next person he decides to date or marry.
I am like him. I don’t believe in being careful while in a loving relationship cos I am supposed to be free. Plus, I am simple minded and very generous so I definitely understand what he did what he did. It’s just a shame.
Wilfred said the gospel truth. I also stay in Yankee and the struggle is different. Over here you truly need to apply sense while in love cos humans are truly dynamic and no one knows tomorrow.
Daddy Freeve you are damn right bro. " abroad children no get conscience". Guys do not rely on your children for retirement.
Completely agree!
The guy is right.He is dealing with his WIFE not a stranger.Buying a house in his wifes name should be seen normal.
Df is just too insensitive. So annoying
Daddy freeze please endeavor speaking in English some of us are not Nigerians but we enjoy your show.thank you
The guy started by saying he made a mistake and don't want another person to repeat such. DF I don't like how this guy was judged especially by the guy on pink hair (hoodie)
I understand what he is saying, he thought the love was the same for him, they took advantage of him. Hey there is someone out there for you and will love you and show you the same love you shown in return keep your head up
Wow! I can't believe Daddy Freeze is being this uncouth. Is this how he usually is? Why is he being so insensitive. He should advice him and others without calling him Mumu. Daddy Freeze was saying some truths but he did it without any emotional intelligence so it did not mean much. They didn't even give the poor guy a listen. Obviously this was more about him using the guy to get stars from his audience than it was about offering the guy any comfort or lessons.
Also are you kidding me? So the same person that used to preach against tithes is the same person coercing people for stars. Let's all be using our tongue to count our teeth in this life oo.
This is so annoying, this can happen to any good hearted person. Almost everybody on this call apart from the fair lady in a bonnnet is emotionally daft.. I'm disappointed! You don't kick a wounded dog I really hope this guy reads this comment and feels some comfort.
Very disappointing to see Daddy Freeze go so low and become uncouth because of money. Emotional Intelligence is very far from him.
Daddy freeze is totally hypocritical.
The stars are more important to you? Come freeze, this your program is very self serving and nothing to do with the interest of the people. Daddy freeze is a DIVORCEE, yet he pontigicates
Daddy Freeze has never struck me as emotionally intelligent though!! Just a talker
Daddy freeze, YOU ARE REAL. I like your style. Something is not right regarding this story. God knows best
My dear you are a good man do not blame you conscience..God will bless you with a bigger house 😊 ❤️
There are people that have done this and no issues, the man was just unfortunate to be scammed bu his wife
Different strokes for different folks, its varies, some men or women are still loyal to the core. I'm a living witness. Sorry to hear ur sad Story though some human beings are wicked no matter how much love is shown towards them...May God deliver of everyone of us....
Daddy freeze you lie here. You don't close your eyes when getting into marriage. Someone you marry is someone you love & trust.
What we lack in our part of the world is empathy. Though Daddy Freeze and everybody that spoke gave this guy the right advice but the way they did it was wrong by calling him a mugu and just like what he said, this is the reason a lot of people don't go into relationship with the right attitude. This is why a lot of our people's relationship is transactional and this is the reason men don't share their experience
I totally understand this guy. What a sad story. God will replenish all that he has lost.
Amen
Brother l honestly fill your pains l was a victim that too l lost everything too but hi you need to move on and believe in yourself to God be glory l got three times what I lost today
The guy did not say it was love that made him use his wife's name on the estate, it was circumstances. Daddy freeze needs to understand him clear.
So, who is paying for the mortgage now?
The guy is really a good guy.Some women don't know what they have.The guy has a genuine love for her.
My dear someone is ready to love and appreciate you. And take you the way you are if you are still available. You are a good guy every lady wishes to have.Sorry for your bad experience.
Daddy freddy good morning my brother and happy Sunday thank you for uploading your channel sad story
There are so many people that wish to do so much for their fathers. This point is not all valid unless you didn't raise your children properly. Is not about sending them abroad. That man is a good man just that he entrusted so much to children
My brother you are the best HUSBAND EVER THAT IS HOW IT SHOULD BE, BUT YOUR WIFE AND HER FAMILY ARE EVIL 😈 BUT WILL HELP YOU.
Trusting your family 👪 & inlaws is normal except someone tries to be mischief..I will do d same thing as the guy did..I am actually in one now..kudos to the guy for coming out with his experience for us to learn
I have no sympathy for him...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. A lot of Nigerian guys have done the same scam to ladies in the UK/US/Canada. He felt that because the girl was 22 years old, he could control her. Also, I suspect he's one of those scammers. What kind of work was he doing in Turkey, that he had such huge sums of money, and he confessed that he didn't go to school?
One thing is that alot of naija men do not tell the full truth. Some will do illegal things and end up with no credit and yet not respect the person that is covering them
An ex-friend of mine was ushered into UK and made a Mrs with a guy who is a known Onidan(Magical Producer) who ended up putting her name on a property in same UK.
Non of u is how the big question of how he has no credit but yet has large down payment. I live in CA I know the story does not add up
You are right
Correct. You are very smart. Large down-payment no history. I understand it was relocation from turkey, what's the history behind the income from turkey karma can come different ways.
Daddy Freeze, you and your guests need to be sensitive to those that bring their stories to your forum. It doesn't help to call him mumu and your other guests are laughing. He had no paper work and had to go thru his in law and wife who are already established. He did nothing wrong,just unfortunate he had an unfaithful wife and inlaw
Your analogy about children and parents doesn't add up
Am sorry for your bad experience on losing your house. I wish they allow you to explain yourself to our understanding before drawing conclusion... I can relate to your bad experience. It did happen to me... You will not understand until it happens to you. Am a victim too. Trusted... Big mistake for me. Huge. God is good.
The way daddy freeze is talking it shows that he can not buy any property in his wife name hmmmm I hope freeze wife is watching this video?
Daddy Freeze you are belittling this man's pain....it's not fair at all
I don't think DF handles this properly, you can't blame this guy for loving and trusting his wife. This wife never loved him in the first place, the mother is very toxic. The lady is very inmatured, she will regret it later. This guy should not be blamed for what he did, this is the reason our community is the way it is. There is no love at all with our people, how can you fault this guy. The ex-wife and family should be blamed not this guy, this is the reason why evil is thriving in this world because wickedness is considered as being wise.
I like the advice that Daddy Freeze gave, buy your own, then buy joint if you can so that worse case scenerio, you don't get burnt
God bless you Our dear Daddy freeze most men are charmed with so called Love in marriage and forget their will mind and decisions it's so sad to hear this it's very revealing to us thank u
Ooops so sorry my brother, more grace, God will uplift you beyond your imagination.
One thing with we Nigerians is that we don't like to learn and understand the laws of the country we are living. I live in Russia, Russian law in this case is fair. Any thing you buy or owns before marriage is untouchable in case of divorce. But things you buy inside marriage will be divided into two, in case you have children it will be 70 - 30%. 70% will go to the person who will be with the children.
Hmm i learn new things today, i Guess that make sense
God bless u Oscar. Pls educate them
Viva Russia
Does it apply to just court wedding?