Don't listen to that guy in white that stammered. Every man should always love and treat their wives well, but marry a woman who has African values that will raise good children with African values, don't marry those that wanna be feminists and change your family to that western lifestyle where being gay is ok etc. One of the best sacrifice I made was to bring my kids back home to put value into them and I'm super glad I did.
The Canadian man spoke like an informed, responsible, and respectful guest on this show. I'm in Canada too and yet to meet a Nigerian man here who speaks like him.
@ibexy... I generally believe that people respond according to their level of growth. That's why many times, it's pointless 're-acting', or if one chooses, 'responding' to comments that are not evolved. Nurture and nature are two things, and evolving in an ever changing world is a prerequisite for growth, and *some* old systems do not hold strong anymore in today's world.
How can this woman that spent less than 1 year in the USA feel she is qualified to discuss the problems? You will only know these issues when you have spent at least 5yrs abroad
I don't agree with this caption, African mentality doesn't work abroad. Most of these guys go back home and marry complete strangers, in the name of distant relationship, person weh your mama give you, and take them abroad, las las who won stay go stay and vice versa, no matter who come first. Its all about choice!!!
The guy from canada is still young and naive. He doesnt know women nature. Reality will deal with him but i like his innocence. Reminds me of me.. he definitely in his mid to late 20s maybe early 30s
@Truezlady E hmmm, I can be speaking to someone about a topic that I av knowledge and passion for and my tone can get high sometimes it does mean I am angry. John is doing well and married to a woman in Nigeria. His view are his view. I am in support of it.
@Seyi Akinbade There's something called 'over the top.' You can express your views without interjecting roughly and pointing fingers. Do you think he's an easy man to live with? I don't think so.
The guy on white shirt is man who has abandon tradition is one of those who you will say am Canadian but my parent are Nigeria n even though he was born in Nigeria
John sounds like a hurt soul, I pray he find love and peace in his soul. Destiny..... the way you threw those missiles eehhn... John couldn't resist it, it was piercing through his sensitivity. Lol
It all depends on the foundation of the marriage, it is important to be truthful to your partner about who you are. My husband bought me to the US, I am a nurse and we have be married for 18 years now. I have be in the US for 16 years and I keep less friends, I even help my husband to go through nursing school and we have never had any regret.
For the first time, I totally agree with John. The guy in white from Canada is a simp who has been brainwashed to misunderstand the role of a man in a relationship. Women respect everything he thinks men should not be doing.
funny enough it men like him ,women deal with the most or would never want to end up with em ....he sounded like a beta male ...cus he got it all wrong his he also saying the indigenous white men or blacks born and raised in western world,who are leaving to go 2 some part of Africa or asia in large numbers are also with low mentality ....the guy just disgust me with his thinking ...his being there 4 9years y hasn't he settled with 1 woman there ...and his online simping 4 same women who no send am
Visit your wife once a year in 9ja like how? It is never a good for married couples to live apart, period! No matter what people say about the nursing profession, both husband and the wife have to change their orientation. A solid union will withstand all the insecurities about money and how to settle abroad. Men cannot approach marriage the same way they do in Nigeria. "Copy copy", I must live like the Jones's, greediness are also factors affecting loads of Nigerian marriages.
Truths right there always copying others living fake lives too much competition everyone should stay in their lane. Anew Posh car nd an old banger can travel frm one city to another and they will all still arrive same day.
The earlier people realised that the only person people truly fear and respect is God the better. Weather your wife is in a remote village, city or abroad dearly beloved they can all do the unthinkable except they know God likewise men. Turn to God and he will turn to you! Just know today that many men and women are unfaithful in marriage! It's is only God that gives grace to be disciplined.
The western world is very pro-woman, the laws are Gynocentric in nature so it affects women who are power drunk, women who want to control their men mostly lose their marriage abroad. Men are victimised abroad …..the number of single moms is increasing on a daily basis and men are not marrying them anymore.
I also pity our men who travel from abroad to go and Mary in Nigeria, i live in Europe and i have swear not to get married back home i better marry from Another country Umu Nwanyi Nigeria Ndi Ara
Those same women from other countries are the ones yabbing Nigerian men left and right about womanizing, abandoning their kids, scamming them and fraud? When all women complain about you then maybe one needs to take a look at one’s self.😊
No it’s keep marrying your Nigerian women lmao! You people are very tribalistic anyways, majority of the time your own family don’t agree when you guys marry outside.
Let me educate majority of the people on here (1)Every marriage will go through cracks especially if the woman wants to inculcate the western - borrowed negativities into her family and her patrheship or marriage The western people in any country you reside wants to recolonise people in how marriage and culture should be followed. The people in this discussion are not that grounded in how vast the western ideas of a freedom among African homes resident abroad have destroyed marriages and split families. If you live abroad more than a decade with your partner or wife there is no way, you won't experience this culture - shock of women wanting to be overly controlling of their spouses and husbands. It will be too lengthy to explain on here now, but if this topic comes up again in the future, DF can invite me to digress and give few suggestions as well as solutions
You see... Some people think John is a table shaker... But he's saying the facts... Real life facts... I don't know him or his attitude but I analyze critically what he's saying... And he's spot on.
It takes a low life woman to disregard her partner and relationship...... Check the background of majority of such women... They most uneducated/half educated from poor background. It takes a VERY GOOD WOMAN from backhome to stay faithful with her partner.
GUYS THE REALITY ASPECT OF IT IS THAT...WE'RE ALL HUMANS BUT...THE HARDEST THING TO FIND AMONGS WE HUMANS IS HUMANITY...AND...TELL YOU WHAT..WE'RE ALL SELFISH AND GREEDY AS HUMANS NATURALLY?
This woman I’m has been talking with those kinda woman about nurses been toxic in their marriages. She’s getting their too she just two weeks abroad time will tell. She has no right to speak about this issue bcos she’s new in the us.
And how was it easy to give birth @ age 44years ? Did u ask her what she want through and measure that as to what you went through., facts is important.
5 children under age 5 die every minute in the African Region due to diseases such as HIV, Pneumonia, malaria etc. If you see a child that survived all this would you say bec this child survived it, all these diseases no longer matter, that’s not how it’s works they are medical annually all the time. Your friend giving birth at 44 doesn’t change the fact that 1) it’s is risk 2) chromosomal abnormalities are more likely to develop in the eggs of older women .you may have a child with Down syndrome etc. 3) Genetic disorder etc
Users will be users...you want to be independent but waited for him to invest...and you wonder why Karma is destroying so many things. You cant keep a man in mind to destroy and then show him pepper...that is why you know you married evil to begin with...because God is not in her heart. In all of these, they forget Christ and seek to kill, destroy and steal...we know what Bible called that. You wan walk away...do so and don't destroy, drain or try to finish the man that made a way for you...las las, you cant do that and expect Grace at the end.
John. Stay strong. You are gaining popularity because of your frankness and bitter truth. Your army is growing. However, please tone down the aggression. You can be the next Kelvin Samuel.
We're did you hear that they give people especially women's free car abroad please get your bloody fact right, have lived abroad since i i was 19 years old and have never heard anything or seen anything regarding your assumptions
The Nigeria women today you bring them to your organisation you are finish with this social media nonsense today that woman go take your stuff and never look back you go for us or uk 🇬🇧
People keep saying foundations pray that your wife dont have bad friends that will be giving her bad advice. In abroad even if your a saint once you have bad friends your gone.
The guy from Canada clearly understands the Nigerian situation sadly a lot of Nigerian men are rigid and egotistical in their ideology on how a woman is meant to be while dealing with a modern woman , practices of old days cannot be applied today a lot of evolution has occurred with regards to gender roles in Nigeria that’s why we currently have high rates of divorce back here in Nigeria. 1) women want to be seen and heard in their relationships 2) women want to be loved and nurtured in their relationships 3) women want to feel secure in their relationships and families 4) women want to be respected. We want the same thing men want. I wish we had more men like the guy from Canada speaking up and advocating for women more so their fellow men understand that women having all the above I have mentioned does not emasculate them i
He spent all the time talking about what women want. What of the adjustments the women need to make to accommodate the man (including his so called stone age mentality)? I think he made valid points but he started sounding like a "simp" after a while.
@@ibexy he did not speak on women adjusting because he rightly understands that African women have been raised to adjust most African women are quite flexible why do you think the adapt quicker than men when the move abroad ; they have be taught to adjust and accommodate men to the point some of them lose themselves (identity). I will also like to say this is not a battle of the genders but a battle to ensure that a healthy family unit is preserved, marriage requires sacrifice and compromise on the part of both parties it may not be equally distributed however it should be seen to be fair 🙏. Might I add that there was no need to insult the Canadian guy to put your views across let’s be respectful to one another🙏
@@ojomaokwute9316 Firstly I dont think the word "simp" is abusive. Its just another urban adjective to describe a "submissive" man. Secondly, a man that thinks a tried and tested system that molded even him needs to evolve should offer a more convincing argument than pandering to the meaningless hype he has been consuming off the media. evolve into what? Evolve into an effeminate man? Is he even married? I think he started by saying he was about to get into married life. How is he then a professor on the topic?
@@ibexy and your argument is that he must experience marriage to be able to speak about it? I don’t want to go ahead to cite instances that debunks this your position however I may need to ; do you know that just living as a child with your parents makes one knowledgeable about the institution ? Is that not where some of us learn what to do and what not to do when we get married? What approaches to adopt and what to discard in their future homes ? This young man is aware of the times we are in and has chosen to adapt let him he will find who suits his ideology, tried and tested you say? Yes it has been tried tested and is now currently being reviewed if you know nothing about behavioral change I will advise you go and read up on it, what is occurring in our institution of marriage today has been a long time coming , the role of women in families has evolved over time and so should the approach to dealing with them. You cannot expect a woman who works twice as much as you in her career (this argument is for another day) shares some of the families bills with you and comes home an hour or more after you do to come make a meal if you can do it particularly if you allege that you love her and she is your better half, same woman will do laundry, provide emotional and mental support to the children and then you what will you be up to during the time she is doing all this ? Watching tv or hanging out with the boys come on now does this picture I painted look healthy to you, does this look like two lovers , team mates working hard to ensure the create a successful family legacy? Leadership means service not bullying not controlling not Lording
@@ojomaokwute9316 Oh yes. If a man has never been married before, he probably doesn't know enough to comment about marriage. Has he ever lived under the same roof with a wife and children? If not, he does not qualify to lecture us. Why would we need to review a tried and tested system unless it begins to fail? If the system was a failure, it would not have produced a fine gentleman like him. Again, I dont know what part of Ibo land he is from. In my part, the glory of a man is in how well take care of his wife is.
Destiny appeared to be on the show for John, which was wrong, she triggered him to respond to her. If she had different opinion to his and other, she was suppose to say them without indirectly throwing jab at him, but it was obvious.
@@Dee___.. I'm not new to DF's show but I think it's wrong to take to take that manner of approach in airing your view, other people have rights to their opinion however diametrically opposed it is to yours. She was wrong to come out against him the way she did and don't expect him to detonate.
This guy from Canada, never no what's up, his so ignorant and he does not understand what marriage is. But hopefully the marriage experience would reset his brains. John thanks for sharing your truth .
He is ignorant because he has evolved while you are still in the dark.....you better remain single for life if you don't want to accept the modern woman
He spent all the time talking about what women want. What of the adjustments the women need to make to accommodate the man (including his so called stone age mentality)? I think he made valid points but he started sounding like a "simp" after a while.
Good day daddy freeze, can you please invite me to talk about this issue of abroad marriage. I live in UK with my wife and we have three children, I brought my wife to UK and we have been living together for 20 years ago now. I want to tell my fellow married men why my own marriage is intact and why we are happily married, it will help them and for those who intend to bring their wives to abroad.
That your marriage is intact in abroad does not mean that what make it work will may not make another marriage work. This marriage of a thing to work it must be two people that understand themselves.
@@amosadeleye8933 So what’s the difference between what you said and what I said? My own marriage is working because apart from the fact I married a good woman I have to live up to expectations too. My wife respect and honours me like a king because of how I handle my family and in return I value and respect her. A man can make a good woman become bad due to how he subject her to do everything he said and this is typical of an African man. In Africa men have excessive power over their women and unfortunately government don’t protect women. You see all this African men who come to social media to rant about how their wives drove them away, some of them are the course. My wife will never even imagine driving me away from my own house because I’ve earned so much respect that she does virtually everything to please me. If daddy freeze give me the opportunity to speak on his platform a lot of men will learn a lot from me.
Amazing topic, everyone has spoken 💯. And I admire the strength and option of everyone. Marriage is a great institution and need a deep understanding & patience , tolerance and love to strive . I thank all the Ladies for their contributions. Please John try work on your anger & speech when daddy freeze bring you online, so times John says valid point but destroys it with his words/ anger . Nice 👍 topic . Please let’s learn to live peacefully life is too short. One love ❤️
You love him because he has refused to evolved and accept the modern woman For those of you that support him you better remain single for life because this generation of women refuse to live like our mothers
Alpha male that wife divorced and he is on the second wife, him and his million dollars is so uncouth….. this kind of man na chop money and run away from him….. he is not a loving and kind husband at all. The day his ex-wife will call this daddy freeze live, our ear go full.
@@seyiakinbade7784 a man that honours and worships money like this, na dem girls dey chop pass, cos think about it John has a very poor character, all he brags about is money, cars, bla bla….. na that money car energy he go carry go toast babe too….. that’s not alpha male. Alpha male is a man that values human interaction, has self confidence, and great character…. Not a man that is shouting million million
It has happened to me by marriage my Nigerian wife , when i relocate to europe bringing her here niw she is even reported me lies that i have abuse her and she is now took our2 kids go run , when thise womans will understand the powers is more on womans then they will just leave you run for the money monthly payments Europe is giving, just ashamed
Don't listen to that guy in white that stammered. Every man should always love and treat their wives well, but marry a woman who has African values that will raise good children with African values, don't marry those that wanna be feminists and change your family to that western lifestyle where being gay is ok etc. One of the best sacrifice I made was to bring my kids back home to put value into them and I'm super glad I did.
He sounds like a simp
Respect to that brother from Canada big up yu self love from a Jamaican woman you said it all.
The thing is men aren't going to change. These new modern marriages haven't stood the test of times. Men have been the same for thousands of years.
@@dipo2142 tell them ooo. Change for were
The Canadian man spoke like an informed, responsible, and respectful guest on this show. I'm in Canada too and yet to meet a Nigerian man here who speaks like him.
He spoke of evolving form the same system that brought him up to be the responsible person he is today. Doesn't that scare you?
@ibexy... I generally believe that people respond according to their level of growth. That's why many times, it's pointless 're-acting', or if one chooses, 'responding' to comments that are not evolved. Nurture and nature are two things, and evolving in an ever changing world is a prerequisite for growth, and *some* old systems do not hold strong anymore in today's world.
How can this woman that spent less than 1 year in the USA feel she is qualified to discuss the problems? You will only know these issues when you have spent at least 5yrs abroad
Bros I tire ooo can u imagine. Somebody who just landed less than a month feels she knows it all. Anyway make she dey play.
Maybe she's Tiamiyu sister .The man that spoke with BBC concerning Japa. He came to UK less than a year and he had known anything.
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You too foolish to say this
Can you imagine
John is just the contradiction of almost every topic brought on this show ..but well it makes it really fun .. he is always on the left😂😂😂
He's actually a right winger (conservative)
Destiny i owe you lunch for challenging John it's obvious his wife dealt with him he is an angry man...thanks Samaria
I don't agree with this caption, African mentality doesn't work abroad. Most of these guys go back home and marry complete strangers, in the name of distant relationship, person weh your mama give you, and take them abroad, las las who won stay go stay and vice versa, no matter who come first. Its all about choice!!!
Destiny 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
John is a TROUBLE MAKER! Not letting anyone speak! Common
GUYS JAPA NAH PROBLEM
MARRIAGE NAH PROBLEM
UNDERSTANDING EACH ORDER NAH PROBLEM
NAH SORROWS AND TEARS 🗣🗣🗣🗣WAHALA WAHALA WAHALA 😂😂😂
This John is so annoying and air headed😮😮😮
enter computer go change am nah. Aunty boss chick.
@@seyiakinbade7784 No! Do your worst!
@@chinonyeukaegbu8163 say werin happen. I no get power to fight u. I am a gentleman. Try relax.
I was a victim of domestic and emotional abused 💔
CRAZY JOHN WITH CRAZY TALKS
you people dont know what is happening in US
The guy in pink should marry me 😊❤!
Please which number can you call in
Daddy Freeze, as you mentioned John, I just knew the whole table will scatter. 🤣🤣
The guy from canada is still young and naive. He doesnt know women nature. Reality will deal with him but i like his innocence. Reminds me of me.. he definitely in his mid to late 20s maybe early 30s
U are the one that is naive and needs reorientation.......
I was going to say same. He’s inexperienced.
I’ll like to hear from him after he’s been married for 5 years.
The man from Canada and lady from Australia spoke 💯
John is an angry and aggressive man.
What's ur definition of an angry and aggressive man.
@@seyiakinbade7784
Watch his actions and tone of voice.
@Truezlady E hmmm, I can be speaking to someone about a topic that I av knowledge and passion for and my tone can get high sometimes it does mean I am angry. John is doing well and married to a woman in Nigeria. His view are his view. I am in support of it.
@Seyi Akinbade
There's something called 'over the top.' You can express your views without interjecting roughly and pointing fingers. Do you think he's an easy man to live with? I don't think so.
@@truezladye1893 Some people are more "animated" than others.
John that woman that left you really did a number on you…… go for therapy bro.
John is speaking the truth. You are a simp
The guy on white shirt is man who has abandon tradition is one of those who you will say am Canadian but my parent are Nigeria n even though he was born in Nigeria
Thanks, bro. You nailed it. To be respected as a man, you must earn it.
John sounds like a hurt soul, I pray he find love and peace in his soul. Destiny..... the way you threw those missiles eehhn... John couldn't resist it, it was piercing through his sensitivity. Lol
Hmmmmm, when some speaks his truth he becomes a hurt soul. Kaiiii
When women are rewarded financially for making wrong choices why would they stay in the marrige.
It all depends on the foundation of the marriage, it is important to be truthful to your partner about who you are. My husband bought me to the US, I am a nurse and we have be married for 18 years now. I have be in the US for 16 years and I keep less friends, I even help my husband to go through nursing school and we have never had any regret.
you are just that 5% of rare women ,who loves and respect her man .
@@knix9014 - Her husband in one of the rare 2% of men who respects women.
For the first time, I totally agree with John. The guy in white from Canada is a simp who has been brainwashed to misunderstand the role of a man in a relationship. Women respect everything he thinks men should not be doing.
funny enough it men like him ,women deal with the most or would never want to end up with em ....he sounded like a beta male ...cus he got it all wrong his he also saying the indigenous white men or blacks born and raised in western world,who are leaving to go 2 some part of Africa or asia in large numbers are also with low mentality ....the guy just disgust me with his thinking ...his being there 4 9years y hasn't he settled with 1 woman there ...and his online simping 4 same women who no send am
Visit your wife once a year in 9ja like how? It is never a good for married couples to live apart, period! No matter what people say about the nursing profession, both husband and the wife have to change their orientation. A solid union will withstand all the insecurities about money and how to settle abroad. Men cannot approach marriage the same way they do in Nigeria. "Copy copy", I must live like the Jones's, greediness are also factors affecting loads of Nigerian marriages.
Truths right there always copying others living fake lives too much competition everyone should stay in their lane. Anew Posh car nd an old banger can travel frm one city to another and they will all still arrive same day.
The earlier people realised that the only person people truly fear and respect is God the better. Weather your wife is in a remote village, city or abroad dearly beloved they can all do the unthinkable except they know God likewise men. Turn to God and he will turn to you!
Just know today that many men and women are unfaithful in marriage! It's is only God that gives grace to be disciplined.
The western world is very pro-woman, the laws are
Gynocentric in nature so it affects women who are power drunk, women who want to control their men mostly lose their marriage abroad. Men are victimised abroad …..the number of single moms is increasing on a daily basis and men are not marrying them anymore.
The system made it that way in order to destroy the family
I also pity our men who travel from abroad to go and Mary in Nigeria, i live in Europe and i have swear not to get married back home i better marry from Another country Umu Nwanyi Nigeria Ndi Ara
Those same women from other countries are the ones yabbing Nigerian men left and right about womanizing, abandoning their kids, scamming them and fraud?
When all women complain about you then maybe one needs to take a look at one’s self.😊
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No it’s keep marrying your Nigerian women lmao! You people are very tribalistic anyways, majority of the time your own family don’t agree when you guys marry outside.
Let me educate majority of the people on here (1)Every marriage will go through cracks especially if the woman wants to inculcate the western - borrowed negativities into her family and her patrheship or marriage The western people in any country you reside wants to recolonise people in how marriage and culture should be followed. The people in this discussion are not that grounded in how vast the western ideas of a freedom among African homes resident abroad have destroyed marriages and split families. If you live abroad more than a decade with your partner or wife there is no way, you won't experience this culture - shock of women wanting to be overly controlling of their spouses and husbands. It will be too lengthy to explain on here now, but if this topic comes up again in the future, DF can invite me to digress and give few suggestions as well as solutions
I live in Houston Texas, and it’s been the same story over here.
You see... Some people think John is a table shaker... But he's saying the facts... Real life facts... I don't know him or his attitude but I analyze critically what he's saying... And he's spot on.
It takes a low life woman to disregard her partner and relationship...... Check the background of majority of such women... They most uneducated/half educated from poor background.
It takes a VERY GOOD WOMAN from backhome to stay faithful with her partner.
Keeping your wife for Nigeria because na you hold her destiny!!
For the two before visiting hope you will not have a girl friend?!
The more I listen to you guys , the more I want to marry a white woman, God bless you John, you have alot of experience, we need to hear more from you
GUYS THE REALITY ASPECT OF IT IS THAT...WE'RE ALL HUMANS BUT...THE HARDEST THING TO FIND AMONGS WE HUMANS IS HUMANITY...AND...TELL YOU WHAT..WE'RE ALL SELFISH AND GREEDY AS HUMANS NATURALLY?
John really met his match today 😂😂😂
Dude is speaking from his own experience... Not the case for everyone
John need to learn accountability he is bitter 😮
Destiny, u were superb👏🏻 Making your points clearly and I can totally relate with you.
This woman I’m has been talking with those kinda woman about nurses been toxic in their marriages. She’s getting their too she just two weeks abroad time will tell. She has no right to speak about this issue bcos she’s new in the us.
gbam!
This John Bull guy is a tout.
this is not true daddy pls being me in
A church friend of mine just gave birth at 44 years, age doesn’t count anymore
Wait till 44na if e sure for you
And how was it easy to give birth @ age 44years ? Did u ask her what she want through and measure that as to what you went through., facts is important.
@Seyi Akinbade this man you are really local
Educate and update yourself
Illiterate
5 children under age 5 die every minute in the African Region due to diseases such as HIV, Pneumonia, malaria etc. If you see a child that survived all this would you say bec this child survived it, all these diseases no longer matter, that’s not how it’s works they are medical annually all the time. Your friend giving birth at 44 doesn’t change the fact that 1) it’s is risk 2) chromosomal abnormalities are more likely to develop in the eggs of older women .you may have a child with Down syndrome etc. 3) Genetic disorder etc
@@seyiakinbade7784 How is that your business?
JOHN IS MAKING SENSE FOR SURE.
Users will be users...you want to be independent but waited for him to invest...and you wonder why Karma is destroying so many things. You cant keep a man in mind to destroy and then show him pepper...that is why you know you married evil to begin with...because God is not in her heart. In all of these, they forget Christ and seek to kill, destroy and steal...we know what Bible called that. You wan walk away...do so and don't destroy, drain or try to finish the man that made a way for you...las las, you cant do that and expect Grace at the end.
This man with the yellow cannot open his mouth and talk?😢😢I didn't get what he said 😡😡😡. Talking with his throat 😑😑.Hmmmmm.
John. Stay strong. You are gaining popularity because of your frankness and bitter truth. Your army is growing. However, please tone down the aggression.
You can be the next Kelvin Samuel.
We're did you hear that they give people especially women's free car abroad please get your bloody fact right, have lived abroad since i i was 19 years old and have never heard anything or seen anything regarding your assumptions
Daddy Freeze, that's a wrong woman you have on there. She is yet to understand the situation out there! She just got there.
The Nigeria women today you bring them to your organisation you are finish with this social media nonsense today that woman go take your stuff and never look back you go for us or uk 🇬🇧
People keep saying foundations pray that your wife dont have bad friends that will be giving her bad advice. In abroad even if your a saint once you have bad friends your gone.
If an African man decides to misbehave by adopting Nigerian mentality abroad it cannot work o baba
I beg, guy's should love ❤️ themselves first. Don't be an idiot about women.
Not all women please
The woman will stop cooking for her husband too. Fear of God thrown away.
What’s the Canadian guys handle! He’s a spec 🥰🥰 i like how pleasant and brilliant he tackled the topic.
Hanging out to escape house chores.
John it is well with you forever!
BABA AS YOU DEY KALOLO SO FOR FREEZE PLATFORM I DEY SUSPECT SAY YOU DEY UNDER PRESSURE ALSO BABA REMEMBER SAY DEM NO DEY WOMEN FINISH OOOO😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you for saying just what women want..evolve and comit back..how is this hard?
John is 💯 on point
Why is Daddy freeze always " Waving" his hands ?
Please how can I follow JOHN 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The guy from Canada clearly understands the Nigerian situation sadly a lot of Nigerian men are rigid and egotistical in their ideology on how a woman is meant to be while dealing with a modern woman , practices of old days cannot be applied today a lot of evolution has occurred with regards to gender roles in Nigeria that’s why we currently have high rates of divorce back here in Nigeria. 1) women want to be seen and heard in their relationships 2) women want to be loved and nurtured in their relationships 3) women want to feel secure in their relationships and families 4) women want to be respected. We want the same thing men want. I wish we had more men like the guy from Canada speaking up and advocating for women more so their fellow men understand that women having all the above I have mentioned does not emasculate them i
He spent all the time talking about what women want. What of the adjustments the women need to make to accommodate the man (including his so called stone age mentality)? I think he made valid points but he started sounding like a "simp" after a while.
@@ibexy he did not speak on women adjusting because he rightly understands that African women have been raised to adjust most African women are quite flexible why do you think the adapt quicker than men when the move abroad ; they have be taught to adjust and accommodate men to the point some of them lose themselves (identity). I will also like to say this is not a battle of the genders but a battle to ensure that a healthy family unit is preserved, marriage requires sacrifice and compromise on the part of both parties it may not be equally distributed however it should be seen to be fair 🙏. Might I add that there was no need to insult the Canadian guy to put your views across let’s be respectful to one another🙏
@@ojomaokwute9316 Firstly I dont think the word "simp" is abusive. Its just another urban adjective to describe a "submissive" man. Secondly, a man that thinks a tried and tested system that molded even him needs to evolve should offer a more convincing argument than pandering to the meaningless hype he has been consuming off the media. evolve into what? Evolve into an effeminate man? Is he even married? I think he started by saying he was about to get into married life. How is he then a professor on the topic?
@@ibexy and your argument is that he must experience marriage to be able to speak about it? I don’t want to go ahead to cite instances that debunks this your position however I may need to ; do you know that just living as a child with your parents makes one knowledgeable about the institution ? Is that not where some of us learn what to do and what not to do when we get married? What approaches to adopt and what to discard in their future homes ? This young man is aware of the times we are in and has chosen to adapt let him he will find who suits his ideology, tried and tested you say? Yes it has been tried tested and is now currently being reviewed if you know nothing about behavioral change I will advise you go and read up on it, what is occurring in our institution of marriage today has been a long time coming , the role of women in families has evolved over time and so should the approach to dealing with them. You cannot expect a woman who works twice as much as you in her career (this argument is for another day) shares some of the families bills with you and comes home an hour or more after you do to come make a meal if you can do it particularly if you allege that you love her and she is your better half, same woman will do laundry, provide emotional and mental support to the children and then you what will you be up to during the time she is doing all this ? Watching tv or hanging out with the boys come on now does this picture I painted look healthy to you, does this look like two lovers , team mates working hard to ensure the create a successful family legacy? Leadership means service not bullying not controlling not Lording
@@ojomaokwute9316 Oh yes. If a man has never been married before, he probably doesn't know enough to comment about marriage. Has he ever lived under the same roof with a wife and children? If not, he does not qualify to lecture us. Why would we need to review a tried and tested system unless it begins to fail? If the system was a failure, it would not have produced a fine gentleman like him. Again, I dont know what part of Ibo land he is from. In my part, the glory of a man is in how well take care of his wife is.
Destiny appeared to be on the show for John, which was wrong, she triggered him to respond to her. If she had different opinion to his and other, she was suppose to say them without indirectly throwing jab at him, but it was obvious.
You must be new to DF’s live. They are usually like that with each other on almost every show😂
@@Dee___.. I'm not new to DF's show but I think it's wrong to take to take that manner of approach in airing your view, other people have rights to their opinion however diametrically opposed it is to yours. She was wrong to come out against him the way she did and don't expect him to detonate.
Daddy Freeze. I dey enjoy from Texas
So true 👍This guy made so much point
John is here😂😂😂😂😂
John is right
This guy from Canada, never no what's up, his so ignorant and he does not understand what marriage is. But hopefully the marriage experience would reset his brains. John thanks for sharing your truth .
He is ignorant because he has evolved while you are still in the dark.....you better remain single for life if you don't want to accept the modern woman
He spent all the time talking about what women want. What of the adjustments the women need to make to accommodate the man (including his so called stone age mentality)? I think he made valid points but he started sounding like a "simp" after a while.
how to call in?
John: Bro, how old are you?
Me: Good question, John. The man or preferably boy has a lot to learn. I wish him the best.
Power couples!
Good day daddy freeze, can you please invite me to talk about this issue of abroad marriage. I live in UK with my wife and we have three children, I brought my wife to UK and we have been living together for 20 years ago now. I want to tell my fellow married men why my own marriage is intact and why we are happily married, it will help them and for those who intend to bring their wives to abroad.
That your marriage is intact in abroad does not mean that what make it work will may not make another marriage work. This marriage of a thing to work it must be two people that understand themselves.
@@amosadeleye8933 So what’s the difference between what you said and what I said? My own marriage is working because apart from the fact I married a good woman I have to live up to expectations too. My wife respect and honours me like a king because of how I handle my family and in return I value and respect her. A man can make a good woman become bad due to how he subject her to do everything he said and this is typical of an African man. In Africa men have excessive power over their women and unfortunately government don’t protect women. You see all this African men who come to social media to rant about how their wives drove them away, some of them are the course. My wife will never even imagine driving me away from my own house because I’ve earned so much respect that she does virtually everything to please me. If daddy freeze give me the opportunity to speak on his platform a lot of men will learn a lot from me.
Amazing topic, everyone has spoken 💯. And I admire the strength and option of everyone. Marriage is a great institution and need a deep understanding & patience , tolerance and love to strive . I thank all the Ladies for their contributions. Please John try work on your anger & speech when daddy freeze bring you online, so times John says valid point but destroys it with his words/ anger . Nice 👍 topic . Please let’s learn to live peacefully life is too short. One love ❤️
John I love u for this. May God over bless u. U r a really alpha man
You love him because he has refused to evolved and accept the modern woman
For those of you that support him you better remain single for life because this generation of women refuse to live like our mothers
Alpha male that wife divorced and he is on the second wife, him and his million dollars is so uncouth….. this kind of man na chop money and run away from him….. he is not a loving and kind husband at all. The day his ex-wife will call this daddy freeze live, our ear go full.
@@chibuzorokpala6717 and u think he would be an idiot to let a woman chop is money.
@@seyiakinbade7784 a man that honours and worships money like this, na dem girls dey chop pass, cos think about it John has a very poor character, all he brags about is money, cars, bla bla….. na that money car energy he go carry go toast babe too….. that’s not alpha male. Alpha male is a man that values human interaction, has self confidence, and great character…. Not a man that is shouting million million
It has happened to me by marriage my Nigerian wife , when i relocate to europe bringing her here niw she is even reported me lies that i have abuse her and she is now took our2 kids go run , when thise womans will understand the powers is more on womans then they will just leave you run for the money monthly payments Europe is giving, just ashamed