For S2, there is an entire reality's difference between "teaching someone a lesson" and "open triggering a panic attack", one if done poorly is a dick move, the other should be sued over. WTH was she thinking? There were literally 1,001 ways to actually teach a lesson (counseling, reddit discussion, f'ing Twitch Polls), that didn't have to verge anywhere close to trauma inducement.
The midwife falsely accused him of abuse! If that got back to the base, he could get in serious trouble. Not to mention forcing his wife to give birth without her husband or mother, and making him miss the birth of his first child. He absolutely did the right thing reporting the midwife, and it sounds like he needs better friends if they think this is okay.
Also they need to take her license completely. None of that temporary suspension with further training. I have no doubt that OP and his wife are not the midwife's 1st victim.
If someone took apart the first sewing project i made with my grandma (a wrap skirt) PISSED. IS. AN. UNDERSTATEMENT. It being the wedding gown........honey. there r urban legends that come from similar
That last story near to sent me into a full-on panic attack. Guys, whatever your age, if a woman in your life is losing the red stuff at the rate that she's actually staining furniture WITH feminine products applied- TAKE HER TO THE ER. Jfc... My own daughter suffers from (other) feminine issues, and the amount of dismissiveness and gaslighting by medical pros is absolutely unconscionable. One of the best ways to combat that is for women to have strong advocates to support them, and to learn to advocate for themselves. So glad the story turned out well. I can't imagine my kids going to freaking reddit in a medical emergency, but thank goodness it turned out well. Also, the OP reminds me strongly of my own (now adult) son- he's hilarious and sweet, if somewhat clueless. Hope that family does well going forward. Sounds like they have one another's backs.
Something similar happened to me. I had my period for pretty much 2 years (minus like four days in a row one summer) and no one took it seriously. I started bleeding through the largest hygiene products available within 15-20 minutes. Went to the ER bc i was in excruciating pain. ER doc kinda shrugged and asked if i wanted to start birth control. Asked four times if I was pregnant and did two blood pregnancy tests (both negative). Didn't even do a proper exam. When i finally got in to see my OBGYN, it was a few Nasty, thankfully benign, polyps. Needed a D&C (which isn't only for abortions), and still have a fucked up uterus ever since. 🤷🏼♀️ no one listens. Even when I say I want it Out.
Yeah, the amount of misinformation we're given is horrific. I dealt with horrible periods, to the point of treating them like literal illnesses: nausea, dizziness, incredible pain. Different medications made it worse (yay antidepressants for making me not want to self-delete from depression, boo for them making me sarcastically consider self-deletion because fuck this monthly subscription to satan's waterfall), but it got better with birth control. Years later? I learn I had endometriosis. THE WHOLE TIME. Luckily it was a fairly minor case so I don't have any lasting issues now that I've had a hysterectomy, but I want to go scream at every teacher and coach in high school who told me I was exaggerating. I HAD LESIONS ON MY LIVER AND DIAPHRAGM OF COURSE I FELT TERRIBLE. Good on the OP in that story for learning, even if OMG SERIOUSLY SHE'S LOSING THAT MUCH BLOOD TAKE HER TO THE HOSPITAL TWO UPDATES AGO was my thought process during the beginning of the story. I appreciate someone being willing to admit that they were being dumb and work to learn and better understand things.
@@lovewrote97 hysterectomy is absolutely worth it, if you can find a doctor who's not a dickweed and is willing to do it. I had mine almost 2 years ago and I have no regrets other than not doing it sooner. Consider looking into doctors who do gender affirming care; they tend to be more willing to accept the premise of "this organ is actively decreasing my quality of life and I want it gone". I don't know where you live, so this might be easier said than done, especially if you're in a more conservative area. But there are doctors out there who will listen to you, and I wish you the best of luck finding one. Also, the phrase "quality of life" is a really important one to use when talking with medical providers. As in, "this is having a significant negative impact on my quality of life". I think it's something to do with insurance paperwork? Maybe some medical people can weigh in on that. But there are absolutely key phrases to get doctors to take you more seriously. (geodendrochromosaur on tiktok has some awesome videos on how to interact with medical professionals to get them to take you seriously. Like there's a whole playlist of them. Highly highly recommend.) I hope you are able to find compassionate and proactive providers who are able to advocate for you to get the help you need.
Me, watching the lego gameplay video in the background: "...pick it up." "Come on, pick it up, don't just leave it laying like that..." "Bruh, it's dissapearing! Wtf are you doing?!" "PICK IT UUUUUP!"
Sister: "hey I'm bleeding death. Let's go to the ER now" Brother: " I think you're just being dramatic but I'll ask reddit strangers what they think..." LISTEN TO WOMEN!!!
Nah this is getting out of hand Kevin, we gotta get you out of here they got you working in that basement. We getting you out of there‼️ [[Edit]] The last story is a banger to end off with and also the older brother is the goat 🐐
S2 is immediate break up territory. That's like having someone say something rude to you and you turn around and hit them in the head with a metal bat to "let them see how it feels." There is no good relationship built on that kind of revenge/reciprocation. That's purely abuse, and OP is an idiot if he doesn't go no contact with that psychopath. Jesus man he told her his deepest fear and she *USED IT* to terrorize him (literally) and she thinks this is justice. Absolute sociopath.
S2 is the exact reason why people tend to not open up. Sorry but the risk of your vulnerabilities being used against you is too much for alot of people. Assholes like the ex are why people are closed off.
I hereby declare that this narrator should fit in at least 2-3 wrestling references a video. Also, it good to end videos with good people doing good things to save lives.
The period story: i appreciate the brother trying to help the sister and doing whatever he could in the moment despite not knowing to do... but my god--- this is why sex-ed is so important and i feel like we need to learn about both sexs anatomy. This is a case where thaat knowledge is extremely helpful. Yes a period sucks but its different for each person- the fact that she mentioned it was a abnormal ammount of cramping and the fat she bleed through not only once but multiple times even after putting on a pad AND tampon to the point its running down her legs- the fact she was letting out MASSIVE clots- A period sucks bt it shouldnt be like your down right bleeding out and DIEING- To all the guys out there please know that that level of bleeding is never normal. There are so many number of life threatening scenarios that cold be casing that and all with a time limit as your body only has so much blood to use and takes a long time to replenish that blood if not needing a actual blood transfusion- On top of that people do go to the hospital a lot becase of there normal periods due to low iron defenciency and blood loss. Theres this weird stigma about periods where they both are spposed to be awful but also arent taken seriously enough to be regarded as a serious issue. Iv seen so many awful takes about periods in my life its downright baffling- The most absurd one that I see commonly is guys telling someone to just "hold it in" like its pee or soemthing??? Like sir maybe the next time you get a gash on your arm I refuse to give you a bandaid and tell you to "hold it in". The brother in the story though was doing extremely well given the situation and the lack of knowledge. I just cant stress enough why we need better sex-ed.
Kevin the Dragon is a teenager and doing well. Or is on the third grow phase, however I formulated it last time, after egg, then baby, now teenager, then adult.
Man the story with the brother was so heart warming. Yeah he was a bit dumb at first, but he’s also 19. He knew all his sister’s comfort items and how to help periods and didn’t make it a big deal until it was a big deal. I also laughed at “nah I’m not saying anything! She caught me smoking weed and still hasn’t ratted!” like that’s such a sibling response and I loved it. I’m showing this last story to my mother, since both of us are AFAB and have horrible experiences with men who have never experienced periods- so I think it’ll give us both a little bit of more hope :) I loved him knowing his sisters blood type and not his own as well. And the “ooohhhh I was wondering why she couldn’t just pee in a cup” made me laugh as well
Wow that last story was pretty scary and he handled that well though I was worried about him fkg around while the sister was bleeding so much. If she knew it wasn't normal that she was bleeding so much, then the ER is the only place they should be heading for. While he was stuffing around on the internet, she could have bled out. When in doubt, GO TO THE ER. That is the common sense thing. But I guess if you are 19, common sense doesn't really kick in so much. Good job that he got her there and that is safe and well. The other thing is that he has educated us on this as a thing. I am glad they found out and that they can do something about it.
I'm from a military family. And my grandmother was a nurse. THAT MIDWIFE IS BEYOND WRONG. Whoever in her life convinced her all military husbands r abusive, NEEDS a reality check. Yes. Some r. SO R CIVILIAN HUSBANDS. Actually, I know people that were abusive, went into the military, got their asses lit up, and NEVER laid a hand on anyone ever again. I know this doesn't always happen, but it can.
Story 4: Damn, I can be a bit of a slob, but I don’t let shit mold and wouldn’t expect someone to just sit there and deal with it for me. Story 5: Mama’s boy wants so bad to sleep in mom’s bed again. Story 9: Hey I got that reference!
Story 1 : wtf? Story 2 : WTF!???? Story 3 : WTAF!????? NO WONDER THE FRIEND REACTED THAT WAY!!!! I feel bad that the two people she trusted ended up betraying her. People like these suck!!!!
story 2 gf is psychotic “this is how you made me feel“ did you need an inhaler?? because if not then I DONT THINK IT WAS she should’ve been an ex immediately
To be fair, there's a lot of folks who don't. Usually because they either lost the paperwork informing such(sometimes babies get bloodwork done after birth for medical purposes like extended stays or needing to be in the NICU), or they've never been in a situation that requires them to be aware. I for example, fall in the latter category. Never needed surgery, never needed a blood transfusion, so on. That said, big bro is clearly the 'Lovable Goober' type. Which is nice. Here's hoping the Captain of the Banana Boat will continue to have smooth sailing and calm seas eh?
I would be so fucking pissed if someone said they were borrowing a sewing project i made with someone i love and they cut it apart.
cry about it lol
@@fandomfan2800what the actual hell mate
For S2, there is an entire reality's difference between "teaching someone a lesson" and "open triggering a panic attack", one if done poorly is a dick move, the other should be sued over. WTH was she thinking? There were literally 1,001 ways to actually teach a lesson (counseling, reddit discussion, f'ing Twitch Polls), that didn't have to verge anywhere close to trauma inducement.
Oh wow. That last story. That's a good big brother. Even if he did have a few dumb moments.
The midwife falsely accused him of abuse! If that got back to the base, he could get in serious trouble. Not to mention forcing his wife to give birth without her husband or mother, and making him miss the birth of his first child. He absolutely did the right thing reporting the midwife, and it sounds like he needs better friends if they think this is okay.
Also they need to take her license completely. None of that temporary suspension with further training. I have no doubt that OP and his wife are not the midwife's 1st victim.
If someone took apart the first sewing project i made with my grandma (a wrap skirt) PISSED. IS. AN. UNDERSTATEMENT. It being the wedding gown........honey. there r urban legends that come from similar
That last story near to sent me into a full-on panic attack.
Guys, whatever your age, if a woman in your life is losing the red stuff at the rate that she's actually staining furniture WITH feminine products applied- TAKE HER TO THE ER.
Jfc... My own daughter suffers from (other) feminine issues, and the amount of dismissiveness and gaslighting by medical pros is absolutely unconscionable.
One of the best ways to combat that is for women to have strong advocates to support them, and to learn to advocate for themselves. So glad the story turned out well. I can't imagine my kids going to freaking reddit in a medical emergency, but thank goodness it turned out well.
Also, the OP reminds me strongly of my own (now adult) son- he's hilarious and sweet, if somewhat clueless. Hope that family does well going forward. Sounds like they have one another's backs.
Something similar happened to me. I had my period for pretty much 2 years (minus like four days in a row one summer) and no one took it seriously. I started bleeding through the largest hygiene products available within 15-20 minutes. Went to the ER bc i was in excruciating pain.
ER doc kinda shrugged and asked if i wanted to start birth control. Asked four times if I was pregnant and did two blood pregnancy tests (both negative). Didn't even do a proper exam.
When i finally got in to see my OBGYN, it was a few Nasty, thankfully benign, polyps. Needed a D&C (which isn't only for abortions), and still have a fucked up uterus ever since.
🤷🏼♀️ no one listens. Even when I say I want it Out.
Yeah, the amount of misinformation we're given is horrific. I dealt with horrible periods, to the point of treating them like literal illnesses: nausea, dizziness, incredible pain. Different medications made it worse (yay antidepressants for making me not want to self-delete from depression, boo for them making me sarcastically consider self-deletion because fuck this monthly subscription to satan's waterfall), but it got better with birth control.
Years later? I learn I had endometriosis. THE WHOLE TIME. Luckily it was a fairly minor case so I don't have any lasting issues now that I've had a hysterectomy, but I want to go scream at every teacher and coach in high school who told me I was exaggerating. I HAD LESIONS ON MY LIVER AND DIAPHRAGM OF COURSE I FELT TERRIBLE.
Good on the OP in that story for learning, even if OMG SERIOUSLY SHE'S LOSING THAT MUCH BLOOD TAKE HER TO THE HOSPITAL TWO UPDATES AGO was my thought process during the beginning of the story. I appreciate someone being willing to admit that they were being dumb and work to learn and better understand things.
@@lovewrote97 hysterectomy is absolutely worth it, if you can find a doctor who's not a dickweed and is willing to do it. I had mine almost 2 years ago and I have no regrets other than not doing it sooner. Consider looking into doctors who do gender affirming care; they tend to be more willing to accept the premise of "this organ is actively decreasing my quality of life and I want it gone". I don't know where you live, so this might be easier said than done, especially if you're in a more conservative area. But there are doctors out there who will listen to you, and I wish you the best of luck finding one.
Also, the phrase "quality of life" is a really important one to use when talking with medical providers. As in, "this is having a significant negative impact on my quality of life". I think it's something to do with insurance paperwork? Maybe some medical people can weigh in on that. But there are absolutely key phrases to get doctors to take you more seriously.
(geodendrochromosaur on tiktok has some awesome videos on how to interact with medical professionals to get them to take you seriously. Like there's a whole playlist of them. Highly highly recommend.)
I hope you are able to find compassionate and proactive providers who are able to advocate for you to get the help you need.
Me, watching the lego gameplay video in the background:
"...pick it up."
"Come on, pick it up, don't just leave it laying like that..."
"Bruh, it's dissapearing! Wtf are you doing?!"
"PICK IT UUUUUP!"
Sister: "hey I'm bleeding death. Let's go to the ER now"
Brother: " I think you're just being dramatic but I'll ask reddit strangers what they think..."
LISTEN TO WOMEN!!!
"She freaks out over a minor cut" bruh, this is not a minor cut. This is "all the blood is draining out of my body"
No way, i was literally just checking to see if yall uploaded- i like listening to episodes while I do my night chores 😆
mooood i love turning these vids on when it’s time to do chores lol
Nah this is getting out of hand Kevin, we gotta get you out of here they got you working in that basement. We getting you out of there‼️
[[Edit]] The last story is a banger to end off with and also the older brother is the goat 🐐
I googled Pink Western Hognose and now I am in love
uhh if youlike hognoses there are some here on youtube that show alot of them .. i can recommend snakefull grace and snake discovery
Holy shit. The moment I hear the 'He's sorry that I feel that way'. I swear I could smell the gasoline from here from that gaslighting.
That last story was the funniest, best ended story I’ve heard in a while!!
Kevin, you have many fans. Sparked bosses need to give you a raise to a McDonalds meal every recording now, McFlurrys on Fridays😅
I LOVE MCFLURRIES
@@ABadPassword I'll speak to the bosses 💪😂
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S2 is immediate break up territory. That's like having someone say something rude to you and you turn around and hit them in the head with a metal bat to "let them see how it feels." There is no good relationship built on that kind of revenge/reciprocation. That's purely abuse, and OP is an idiot if he doesn't go no contact with that psychopath.
Jesus man he told her his deepest fear and she *USED IT* to terrorize him (literally) and she thinks this is justice. Absolute sociopath.
Love that humor apparently runs in OP’s family in the last story. Shoutout to the dad calling OP Banana Boat for the sunscreen thing LMAO
Babes.... take your sis the ER now. Large clots like that and excessive blood loss is bad and needs to be monitored and have tests ran.
Locked in syndrome? Knowing that’s a thing, is horrifying
S2 is the exact reason why people tend to not open up. Sorry but the risk of your vulnerabilities being used against you is too much for alot of people. Assholes like the ex are why people are closed off.
Yes my namesake has returned. A wonderful day
SNAKES COME IN EVERY COLOR! THERE ARE IRIDESCENT RAINBOW SNAKES!
I loved the last story! That’s a good big brother right there!
I don't know why but it drives me crazy that not all the coin lego pieces get picked up in the background gameplay
Aaaaaa bros back u know we can’t go more then a day with u we almost died 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Humor of the sibilings in the last story is great 😂 OP had some dumb moments but he's amazing brother. Also reddit was surprisingly noce to him lol.
I hereby declare that this narrator should fit in at least 2-3 wrestling references a video.
Also, it good to end videos with good people doing good things to save lives.
Plz never stop the wwe references 😂
The period story: i appreciate the brother trying to help the sister and doing whatever he could in the moment despite not knowing to do... but my god--- this is why sex-ed is so important and i feel like we need to learn about both sexs anatomy. This is a case where thaat knowledge is extremely helpful. Yes a period sucks but its different for each person- the fact that she mentioned it was a abnormal ammount of cramping and the fat she bleed through not only once but multiple times even after putting on a pad AND tampon to the point its running down her legs- the fact she was letting out MASSIVE clots- A period sucks bt it shouldnt be like your down right bleeding out and DIEING- To all the guys out there please know that that level of bleeding is never normal. There are so many number of life threatening scenarios that cold be casing that and all with a time limit as your body only has so much blood to use and takes a long time to replenish that blood if not needing a actual blood transfusion- On top of that people do go to the hospital a lot becase of there normal periods due to low iron defenciency and blood loss. Theres this weird stigma about periods where they both are spposed to be awful but also arent taken seriously enough to be regarded as a serious issue. Iv seen so many awful takes about periods in my life its downright baffling- The most absurd one that I see commonly is guys telling someone to just "hold it in" like its pee or soemthing??? Like sir maybe the next time you get a gash on your arm I refuse to give you a bandaid and tell you to "hold it in". The brother in the story though was doing extremely well given the situation and the lack of knowledge. I just cant stress enough why we need better sex-ed.
Kevin the Dragon is a teenager and doing well. Or is on the third grow phase, however I formulated it last time, after egg, then baby, now teenager, then adult.
Thank you for the update
Man the story with the brother was so heart warming. Yeah he was a bit dumb at first, but he’s also 19. He knew all his sister’s comfort items and how to help periods and didn’t make it a big deal until it was a big deal.
I also laughed at “nah I’m not saying anything! She caught me smoking weed and still hasn’t ratted!” like that’s such a sibling response and I loved it.
I’m showing this last story to my mother, since both of us are AFAB and have horrible experiences with men who have never experienced periods- so I think it’ll give us both a little bit of more hope :)
I loved him knowing his sisters blood type and not his own as well. And the “ooohhhh I was wondering why she couldn’t just pee in a cup” made me laugh as well
Wow that last story was pretty scary and he handled that well though I was worried about him fkg around while the sister was bleeding so much. If she knew it wasn't normal that she was bleeding so much, then the ER is the only place they should be heading for. While he was stuffing around on the internet, she could have bled out. When in doubt, GO TO THE ER. That is the common sense thing. But I guess if you are 19, common sense doesn't really kick in so much. Good job that he got her there and that is safe and well. The other thing is that he has educated us on this as a thing. I am glad they found out and that they can do something about it.
I started to cry at the 8 year relationship one...
kev the goat 🐐🐐🐐
I'm from a military family. And my grandmother was a nurse. THAT MIDWIFE IS BEYOND WRONG. Whoever in her life convinced her all military husbands r abusive, NEEDS a reality check. Yes. Some r. SO R CIVILIAN HUSBANDS. Actually, I know people that were abusive, went into the military, got their asses lit up, and NEVER laid a hand on anyone ever again. I know this doesn't always happen, but it can.
This dude didn’t know it yet but he was dating a clown the entire time
Haaa “daddy” it made me giggle
Story 4: Damn, I can be a bit of a slob, but I don’t let shit mold and wouldn’t expect someone to just sit there and deal with it for me.
Story 5: Mama’s boy wants so bad to sleep in mom’s bed again.
Story 9: Hey I got that reference!
2:31 nope you aren't the a-hole
Story 2: omg, what the heck is WRONG with her?! 😮💔🤬
op 1 is a brat
Story 2. HOW THE HELL DID OP SURVIVE 2016?????????
The period one PISSED ME OFF, just- wow.
the brother with the period sister, this story was way too funny for how serious this situation was 😭
Story 1 : wtf?
Story 2 : WTF!????
Story 3 : WTAF!????? NO WONDER THE FRIEND REACTED THAT WAY!!!! I feel bad that the two people she trusted ended up betraying her. People like these suck!!!!
Game?
Lego Indiana Jones
I am hungry
Aaaaye, a fresh upload. c:
Oooo I'm never this early! 😄
Sup
story 2 gf is psychotic “this is how you made me feel“ did you need an inhaler?? because if not then I DONT THINK IT WAS
she should’ve been an ex immediately
him knowing his sisters blood type but not his own 😭
To be fair, there's a lot of folks who don't. Usually because they either lost the paperwork informing such(sometimes babies get bloodwork done after birth for medical purposes like extended stays or needing to be in the NICU), or they've never been in a situation that requires them to be aware. I for example, fall in the latter category. Never needed surgery, never needed a blood transfusion, so on. That said, big bro is clearly the 'Lovable Goober' type. Which is nice. Here's hoping the Captain of the Banana Boat will continue to have smooth sailing and calm seas eh?