6 Months Of Heartbreak Documented

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  • Hope you're all happy and healthy. This was obviously not made to take away from the world’s problems, but uploaded as a distraction for all of you to escape to. I have been filming since July and editing for months now. I’ve been too scared to upload for so long and I’ve come to realize I will always be able to find an excuse on why it’s not the right time. I hope this helps anyone who is sad or going through something similar. This was my reality for a good chunk of time but now I am the happiest I’ve ever been, and the people in my life are so amazing I can’t verbalize it. Nobody deserves to go through what I went through, but I am almost confident most of you have been through worse. I am sending each and every one of you so much love. Thank you for watching.
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  • @mccallmirabella
    @mccallmirabella  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4565

    I'm reading every single comment and have so many 'thank yous' to say. Thank you for watching, listening, and supporting me. It's crazy how many of us have been through the same thing. I know each and every one of you will find an abundance of happiness as you move forward on whatever journey you're on. Love you guys.

    • @lanieschott5181
      @lanieschott5181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      McCall Mirabella I’ve always looked up to you and your lifestyle. I was always so sad or lost or heartbroken that you inspired me to get out of my funk. Hearing that you went through the same things I was going through, made me feel so much stronger. I realize how close I do feel to you. You’re my forever role model and I never knew how much I respected you until after watching this. Thank you sharing McCall I love you💞

    • @mccallmirabella
      @mccallmirabella  4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Lanie Schott I love you!

    • @rawr6947
      @rawr6947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i want to say thank you for posting this. i thought that four months was too long to be dealing with heartbreak. and you showed me that it wasn’t. i thought that i was alone in my pain but i guess not because everything you said was so accurate for me. thank you so so so much for showing me that it’s okay to be in pain.
      xoxo ava

    • @mariah.mathews
      @mariah.mathews 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I needed this so badly. I absolutely adore your positive outlook & ur sense of style! It’s so apparent that you are a caring and thoughtful person to the core; anyone would be lucky to have a friend like you. I subscribed and I’m looking forward to ur future content!!🥺💘

    • @miachigango8925
      @miachigango8925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is my biggest fear your so strong 🥺❤️

  • @Bss1501
    @Bss1501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8788

    crazy how you can become fully addicted to someone and then act like two strangers

    • @emilymarung
      @emilymarung 4 ปีที่แล้ว +197

      And it hurts.

    • @Bss1501
      @Bss1501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@emilymarung If you went/are going throught this I hope you're well now

    • @emilymarung
      @emilymarung 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@Bss1501 I am not well, this is where I am at this moment. Days are not the same, but very soon I shall be well. And on most days we act like strangers and talk like colleagues.

    • @Bss1501
      @Bss1501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@emilymarung I don't know you but I swear I hope the best for you for the near future. Don't give up please, you seem to be a very strong person. Life is sometimes a battle, and your courage is your only weapon..
      Get well soon!

    • @vfancy9213
      @vfancy9213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@emilymarung Dont worry. Im going through the same thing. Its tough but we will be okay.

  • @Not4you2c
    @Not4you2c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8765

    My mom always told me, “Don’t make someone a priority who treats you as an option.”

    • @blnd4414
      @blnd4414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Your mom is right.

    • @michellesanchez6674
      @michellesanchez6674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Emma Bussell this is an amazing advice, we need to know our value, we are not just options 🙏🏻

    • @natalieh8023
      @natalieh8023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      I’ve heard that a thousand times but the problem is is that some guys can make you feel like a priority when you’re really not. It’s usually the ones who talk a lot but actions show otherwise.

    • @ellalee8409
      @ellalee8409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Your mom is wise

    • @addygillespie2334
      @addygillespie2334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      damn

  • @JulzWilliams
    @JulzWilliams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7953

    when she said that she feels like people get bored of her.. honey i FELT that
    OMG THIS GOT SO MANY LIKES WUT

  • @preranajoshi2661
    @preranajoshi2661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4732

    knowing that the other person moved on so much faster than you did hurts

    • @pachia2613
      @pachia2613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      It does. It really does.

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi friend, i really understand how you feel right now, do you really need help to recover your relationship by getting your ex back to you????

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatzap him now for help............

    • @simoncwellbtch3475
      @simoncwellbtch3475 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Truuue

    • @shelbyem
      @shelbyem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg this

  • @3arth2mauri
    @3arth2mauri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6395

    heartbreak is the most physically painful emotion that I’ve ever felt in my life.

    • @catherinealvin4822
      @catherinealvin4822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hello, do you need help on how to get your ex back

    • @catherinealvin4822
      @catherinealvin4822 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would like to recommend you to this love specialist who helped me restore my ex husband back to me few day ago after 5months of break up

    • @catherinealvin4822
      @catherinealvin4822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The love specialist can be of great help to you, he offers the best solution of restoring and fixing broken relationship

    • @catherinealvin4822
      @catherinealvin4822 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Text me on WhatsApp so I could tell you more on how the love specialist helped me

    • @lentzu
      @lentzu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's so bad 😥😥

  • @alexisjie
    @alexisjie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2952

    "he was my best friend... and best friends don't do that...."

    • @savvinagiannaka
      @savvinagiannaka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What happened, he died or sth?

    • @briennetougas4087
      @briennetougas4087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I felt that so hard

    • @kiyalynn432
      @kiyalynn432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mya Jones I felt that I felt that hard😭🥺

    • @samaras.8888
      @samaras.8888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hit me like a truck😭

    • @christopherlukassimpson3750
      @christopherlukassimpson3750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Mya Jones It’s funny how emotional pain can be so intense without being tangible. No one is ever prepared for a heartbreak; not even the strongest person in the world. The constant worry, fear, anxiety and lack of appetite are some of the things that naturally happen during such trying times, nobody is perfect but ones he or she know the meaning of love there won’t be any misunderstanding, because love is understanding, trust, emotional, and so on

  • @aaniyahhardwell9237
    @aaniyahhardwell9237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5647

    It’s crazy how you can be so happy when you’re with people and just break down when you’re alone.

    • @madelinenelson2406
      @madelinenelson2406 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Aaniyah Hardwell this is soo true. I will be totally fine around all of my friends and then get home and lose it

    • @NashleyC
      @NashleyC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Luv yourself before u luv someone else

    • @KissItBetter.
      @KissItBetter. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      this is so true...

    • @krisiekk4339
      @krisiekk4339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Thats what I did with my first breakup, I spent 4 years with him we lived together and had a cat, he left, the only thing that made me get over it was to not be by myself, I'm usually very introverted but I literally couldn't stay at home to the point where I started meeting new people on facebook and going oug with them lol, not going to lie did a lot of drugs aswell but, 3 years after that, I'm in a 2 year relationship and I have a career and I thought that I couldn't do anything without him and I couldn't be with anyone else, moral of the story don't be so dependent on people and love yourself more than anyone else

    • @Daphnieie
      @Daphnieie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      what if your sad around people but act happy cause ur scared that they will think you want attention so you try to act normal but ur really sad and you don’t know why and you don’t feel normal and your also sad alone but happy because there won’t be any people around judging. and I swear this comment isn’t for attention I just wanna know if someone knows how I feel

  • @adeeba014
    @adeeba014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +839

    When she said, "He was my best friend, and best friends don't do that." I felt that from the whole of my heart and cried.

    • @alexdavid9335
      @alexdavid9335 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP)attracted to you and also get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second Chance through the help of Dr BEN, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship also Dr BEN always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @alexdavid9335
      @alexdavid9335 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      message him on whatsapp.

    • @alexdavid9335
      @alexdavid9335 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ±2348059415144⏭⏭⏪

    • @klarabarunovic9841
      @klarabarunovic9841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @milenab8494
      @milenab8494 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @karylevenice6630
    @karylevenice6630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3241

    when she said "are you healed or just distracted?" it hit so hard

    • @robertstone7979
      @robertstone7979 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi dear

    • @bamidele0496
      @bamidele0496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I know, I'm not neither heal or distracted 💔

    • @rimjhimsarania8202
      @rimjhimsarania8202 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🥺🥺

    • @valeriegrace2144
      @valeriegrace2144 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      When did she say that? I must have missed it!!🙈🙈

    • @sristychettri8685
      @sristychettri8685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My 5 years relationship broke up and he moved on over me , but I try to overcome over him . But its hard I try alot but I just cant get over him I love him so much but now i feel like shit I just dont know were did I go wrong

  • @kassidycox1930
    @kassidycox1930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4298

    when she said “ i never knew that you could feel this much physical pain from something emotional” thank you for making this i have never seen something so relatable

    • @sergeantperkins7334
      @sergeantperkins7334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really want to speak to you add me up on hang out seargentperkins84@gmail.com

    • @sabrinagloeckner2098
      @sabrinagloeckner2098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      life is so sweet when you have your family around you, I'm so excited to share this testimony, I lost my man to 27 year old girl who cast a spell on him, I cry out for help for the past 4 weeks I have be looking for a way for me to get him back. one day I have it with my friend she give me a solution she said I should contact baba Isiaka for a solution and I tell him all my problems and between 48 hours my man come back to me and am so glad to share this testimony to you all, if you need is help you can contect him with is email babaisiaka98765478@gmail.com, Or you can also contect him on his WhatsApp. +233509257054

    • @psycmajor
      @psycmajor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      same. the first time i was actually just so heartbroken i felt painful chills throughout my whole body and as a reflex i put my hands to my chest. that’s the first time i realized heart break is more than just mental pain you can physically feel it.

    • @taylorlishka
      @taylorlishka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      agreed, this whole video and comment section is a safe place

    • @highpriestess2193
      @highpriestess2193 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly ..

  • @leilamoon6734
    @leilamoon6734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2650

    “i felt very embarrassed to be sad for so long” that hit me so so hard💔

    • @wiebkke
      @wiebkke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Leila Moon Same Here. It took me so long to get over my ex and people gave me the feeling I was being weak or embarrassing.

    • @leilamoon6734
      @leilamoon6734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Wiebke i havent been able to get over my ex and its been six months:/

    • @wiebkke
      @wiebkke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Leila Moon i’m very sorry you’re still feeling sad, but that’s completely normal!

    • @wiebkke
      @wiebkke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It took me almost 10 months to get over my ex, but it gets better, take one step at a time. It will be better, I promise! I’m going through heartbreak again at the moment and it is so hard and I am so sad, but I know I will be better. And so will you!

    • @merrissa3006
      @merrissa3006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@leilamoon6734 same

  • @shaggydudegaming
    @shaggydudegaming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +575

    The worst breakups are the ones you really considered the person as your best friend. Not only are you losing the one you loved and put all your love in but you are losing your best friend. It makes it all so much harder

    • @roselineanderson4210
      @roselineanderson4210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and who ever you want to manifest within two-days ❤❤❤

    • @roselineanderson4210
      @roselineanderson4210 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and who ever you want to manifest within two-days ❤❤❤

    • @roselineanderson4210
      @roselineanderson4210 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯

    • @roselineanderson4210
      @roselineanderson4210 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯

    • @roselineanderson4210
      @roselineanderson4210 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What sApp him
      +2347030894892.✔️✔️

  • @emersynshae3987
    @emersynshae3987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3408

    this is why im scared about being in a serious relationship

    • @haleyburkett2083
      @haleyburkett2083 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Same

    • @luvtea__
      @luvtea__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      Yep, you both should be. My Ex broke up with me a month ago. It hurts. He was my first love. And my best friend is friends with him. So we still see eachother. I'm happy that it is like this. We don't hate eachother. He left, because he felt bad that he didn't loved me and I did. That's just fair. It's good that he talked about it with me.
      But it still hurts. Very bad. Don't get a boyfriend, or you have to know him at least half a year.
      So I feel her.

    • @mimihadi8366
      @mimihadi8366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Before you do it pls love your self first pleeees

    • @netsrik_ybgir
      @netsrik_ybgir 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      love yourself first but don't be scared because the good times with someone you love so much are oh so good.

    • @llllllllll9577
      @llllllllll9577 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I am and this is freaking me the fuck out

  • @felicitylikesgreen4726
    @felicitylikesgreen4726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5884

    “this isn’t happing to me, it’s happing for me” that hit me hard
    Edit: damn

    • @amytanner144
      @amytanner144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +509

      how did you misspell happening twice

    • @alysatran3852
      @alysatran3852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Amy Tanner LMAOO 😭😭😭

    • @sumeya1923
      @sumeya1923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Amy Tanner maybe take into account that some people have dyslexia or it’s a simple mistake

    • @vanessamarie9855
      @vanessamarie9855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amy Tanner folk could have dyslexia so shut it dafty

    • @briannamunoz2644
      @briannamunoz2644 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I felt that dude... It's the worst feeling in the world.

  • @brightolofinsao285
    @brightolofinsao285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2110

    The worst feeling is feeling like you are not enough for someone.

  • @alliekelly3
    @alliekelly3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1140

    as someone who is going through their first breakup this video is so hard to watch but i feel like i need too , to see it gets better. also she’s so so so mature

    • @ameliajohn19
      @ameliajohn19 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi friend, i really understand how you feel right now, there is no problem without a solution to it, do you really need help to recover your relationship by getting your ex back to you????

    • @ameliajohn19
      @ameliajohn19 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let me recommend you to someone called baba Eseohe that helped me recover my relationship by bringing my ex back to me.
      He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @ameliajohn19
      @ameliajohn19 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatzap him now for help.................

    • @ameliajohn19
      @ameliajohn19 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348084023955

    • @ameliajohn19
      @ameliajohn19 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348084023955

  • @celii20
    @celii20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8755

    the clip of you deleting the pictures literally shatered my heart. Seeing someone suffer that much is really hard. We´re all really proud of how far you've come. Sending all my support and love :)

    • @invictus6360
      @invictus6360 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      what part is that? i wanna se what he looks like

    • @velvetshyeyes31
      @velvetshyeyes31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      It doesn't show him.. it's not about him it's about her

    • @velvetshyeyes31
      @velvetshyeyes31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I need to delete a boy out of my album as well. Ughhh I rlly don't want to do it but she did so I can too

    • @celii20
      @celii20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@velvetshyeyes31 I would suggest having someone keep the pictures, so they're not gone forever. But delete them from your phone, it'll hurt like hell, but in the long run, it's worth it. You can do this! I'm here if you want to talk

    • @TheKatarinaGiselle
      @TheKatarinaGiselle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Celia I agree. It’s always nice to look back later on in life, once you’ve long been healed.

  • @bunnyxray2985
    @bunnyxray2985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2648

    “You never needed him before, you don’t need him now”

    • @nayugarcemei6346
      @nayugarcemei6346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I needed this🥺❤️thanku

    • @ss1241
      @ss1241 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nayugarcemei6346 hey you need god. God is the stealer of suffering.

    • @jsamuel.official
      @jsamuel.official 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yh u never needed him
      Why not spice it up now
      + 234 8131 150 876

    • @MrSoBitchy
      @MrSoBitchy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you.

    • @os8051
      @os8051 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      When she hit the wall

  • @mercurialpierrot7073
    @mercurialpierrot7073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +625

    Once a cheater, always a cheater. This guy doesn't even deserve to be your friend. Boy bye.

  • @tanzilamonsurhridi
    @tanzilamonsurhridi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +889

    When she said, 'The pain I felt like is never gonna go away, has gone away' felt that from core of my heart. It gets easier, eventually. Maybe a part of me misses him but not like before and it's completely fine. It gets better ❤️

    • @sarahrandy5795
      @sarahrandy5795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯

    • @sarahrandy5795
      @sarahrandy5795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whtsaap him**

    • @omaisgee123
      @omaisgee123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly how i feel about my ex gf of 6 years

    • @osobaseemmanuel6059
      @osobaseemmanuel6059 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get help from Dr Emmanuel who helped me reunite my 5 years broken relationship, he can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance, I will advise you seek his help now thanks.

    • @osobaseemmanuel6059
      @osobaseemmanuel6059 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

  • @nax1807
    @nax1807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2118

    Imagine wanting to give someone a piece of yourself everyday, until there's nothing left of you, then that someone just forgets you, like you never existed

    • @Ashley-km4qi
      @Ashley-km4qi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This was well put

    • @CobraDove1111
      @CobraDove1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If you give all of yourself to another, there IS nothing left of you to love and respect. For real.

    • @vyomps
      @vyomps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In that situation right now 😢

    • @jowb3656
      @jowb3656 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💔

    • @jamesmike411
      @jamesmike411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jowb3656 it really hurt but there’s nothing we can do about it but just move on

  • @Koj-ly9pw
    @Koj-ly9pw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1656

    What sucks is when you finally open up to someone and start being kind and loving them, and then they just start losing feelings for you and it’s obvious. Their texts get shorter and they just change completely.

    • @jdmatos2
      @jdmatos2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Ugh this 😭

    • @enriquesandoval163
      @enriquesandoval163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Can relate so much, currently in that situation and trying to do everything I can to save what we have.

    • @samirajinki
      @samirajinki 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      True. And they don’t see it as it is a big deal

    • @jenniisweird3661
      @jenniisweird3661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exact situation I was in

    • @thestarswillshineagain1824
      @thestarswillshineagain1824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Yep. It's horrible. I feel so unimportant but I should be important for that person anymore and that's hard to get over

  • @lolliepop09876
    @lolliepop09876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +680

    being cheated on is hands down one of the hardest things and i’ll take that to the grave

    • @elizabethschnell5240
      @elizabethschnell5240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Kaitlyn Gribko especially after putting such a great amount of trust into someone for it to leave u speechless like how could they have done that...to me? after all that was promised...after all that we went through?

    • @meg83685
      @meg83685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yess girl that comment is spot on 😂

    • @jazzy8941
      @jazzy8941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Especially if you had no idea and you just see your relationship fall apart before your eyes

    • @sashasai
      @sashasai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      whats his @

    • @hayleybourgeois5109
      @hayleybourgeois5109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tbh I told my s.o. that if they wanted to mess w someone else to just tell me bc I’d rather them just not lie to me.

  • @lindiepearl
    @lindiepearl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    There is nothing as heartbreaking as thinking that you finally found someone who was the price for all your pain, and then they just give up on you.

    • @patriciapatfamily6605
      @patriciapatfamily6605 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you back for a second chance.
      He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours

    • @patriciapatfamily6605
      @patriciapatfamily6605 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What sapp him

    • @patriciapatfamily6605
      @patriciapatfamily6605 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348115671212

    • @luckykonwea5032
      @luckykonwea5032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

    • @luckykonwea5032
      @luckykonwea5032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whtsaap him**

  • @oliviarolanti7071
    @oliviarolanti7071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1214

    “i wasn’t good enough for the other person, and that’s ok”
    girl i felt that..

    • @abbiesmith6180
      @abbiesmith6180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Olivia Rolanti girl just remember your amazing and beautiful :)

  • @leeoraj4365
    @leeoraj4365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1391

    When she was crying and she choked on her words..I felt that

  • @morgansteward1359
    @morgansteward1359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +888

    The part where she’s getting rid of his clothes 😭😭😭 and then the pictures. No one deserves a broken heart.

    • @briannavazquez6472
      @briannavazquez6472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      watching that part made me cry so much

    • @christopherlukassimpson3750
      @christopherlukassimpson3750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Morgan Steward It’s funny how emotional pain can be so intense without being tangible. No one is ever prepared for a heartbreak; not even the strongest person in the world. The constant worry, fear, anxiety and lack of appetite are some of the things that naturally happen during such trying times, nobody is perfect but ones he or she know the meaning of love there won’t be any misunderstanding, because love is understanding, trust, emotional, and so on

    • @christopherlukassimpson3750
      @christopherlukassimpson3750 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Morgan Steward thank you Morgan for your like, just that men’s of this days don’t know the meaning of love and what it take and pain when you brake somebody heart

    • @christopherlukassimpson3750
      @christopherlukassimpson3750 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Morgan Steward hope you are having a good day over there, happy weekend and stay save too

  • @berniehenry1960
    @berniehenry1960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    whose heart is currently aching...like when you start crying, the tears wont stop streaming down your face...

  • @flowergirl11122
    @flowergirl11122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2576

    i literally started crying at some of the points where she was crying. i just related so hard. thank you for this

    • @MysticDivinerLJ
      @MysticDivinerLJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SAME

    • @cherbaee
      @cherbaee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      on soul this hit hard !

    • @maryjones293
      @maryjones293 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Am really heart broken searching for a true lover to get married

    • @michellereeves9316
      @michellereeves9316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@maryjones293 There is a powerful love doctor
      I'd like you to contact,
      He helped me restore
      My ex back after
      3years of breakupHe offers the best solution
      In fixing broken relationships
      Msg me via whtsap messenger
      If you need his contact
      +1 (204) 819-7613

    • @TakeForLife15
      @TakeForLife15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes

  • @facingabluntt
    @facingabluntt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2394

    deleting everything is seriously one of the hardest parts

    • @sheiscalledsarah7076
      @sheiscalledsarah7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I will introduce you to the same Relationship restorer who attracted my ex back to me within 48 hours.. He can also help you to reunite back with your ex real quick.

    • @sheiscalledsarah7076
      @sheiscalledsarah7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatsapp him

    • @colinmorgan6439
      @colinmorgan6439 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My dear if you want help to get your ex back.

    • @colinmorgan6439
      @colinmorgan6439 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message me on WhatsApp

    • @colinmorgan6439
      @colinmorgan6439 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +1️⃣(9️⃣1️⃣4️⃣)2️⃣0️⃣6️⃣4️⃣0️⃣8️⃣5️⃣.

  • @maleneduusnielsen3957
    @maleneduusnielsen3957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +776

    “people get bored of me” literally every time i get really close with someone, they just leave and say they never actually liked me

    • @laineyr.8255
      @laineyr.8255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @melene duus Nielsen ik what you mean but we can be friends✌🏼add me on snap @ytv_lainey

    • @Glogirlucy
      @Glogirlucy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I thought I was alone

    • @christinarouse1209
      @christinarouse1209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Malene Duus Nielsen oh my gosh I’m sorry ):

    • @Kkween02
      @Kkween02 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤❤❤❤❤ stay strong...🌹

    • @sara_208
      @sara_208 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      THIS!

  • @oioloxo7282
    @oioloxo7282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The worst feeling is letting go of someone you’d run to when you’re sad.

  • @user-ed8me9fi2l
    @user-ed8me9fi2l 4 ปีที่แล้ว +672

    When u said u felt embarrassed for being sad for SO long.........I felt that

    • @chofis1996
      @chofis1996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amber I’m going trough that, I don’t know how long this is going to take but it’s been months

    • @Amanda-yp7js
      @Amanda-yp7js 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me too.. I gotten broken up with 7 months ago and I feel embarrassed for still feel sad about it sometimes.. it’s gotten better but I still cry about it :/

    • @chiasgarden
      @chiasgarden 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      PERIOD

    • @ronweasleyisme
      @ronweasleyisme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Amanda-yp7js aww, everything is going to be okay 💗💗🥺🥺 it's okay to be sad, but remember to stay positive as always :) also I wanted to give u a big warm hug!!!! 🥺💗

    • @Amanda-yp7js
      @Amanda-yp7js 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ron Weasley first of all I LOVE your username 😂 I’m a big potterhead
      Awww thank you❤️ like I said it’s gotten a lot better to deal with it! And yeah I’m trying to stay positive but sometimes I just start thinking about it too much or get too jealous of other people’s happy relationships 🥺 I hate how I still care and think about someone who doesn’t probably doesn’t do the same..

  • @fatimahasan3410
    @fatimahasan3410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2551

    “Are you really healed or are you just distracted” I was crying throughout this entire video and as soon as I heard that, I knew that I wasn’t healed and I was only distracted. This was MY sign to start my healing journey. Thank you for putting this up, it touched me so much ❤️❤️

    • @mitzilou9560
      @mitzilou9560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You are not alone. We can do this! 💛

    • @malikafuruya3144
      @malikafuruya3144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sabrina Mitchell we can all do this❤️❤️

    • @Star-tg7xn
      @Star-tg7xn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mitzilou9560 not*

    • @Lucia-K-1111
      @Lucia-K-1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It took me 3 years to finally recover..
      Once you recover, you will be free and happier than ever !
      Send you all lots of love.. Stay strong

    • @jmeezy2362
      @jmeezy2362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too!!!🥺🥺🥺

  • @Fnukysknuk
    @Fnukysknuk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +514

    It's definitely not a coincidence we're all seeing this when we need to in our own time

  • @arifaupola9911
    @arifaupola9911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    I dont know why people come to our lives when they genuinely dont want to stay going through a heartbreak myself and cried the whole time with you can feel every bit of ur emotion

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi friend, i really understand how you feel right now, do you really need help to recover your relationship by getting your ex back to you??????

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let me recommend you to someone called baba Eseohe that helped me recover my relationship by bringing my ex back to me.
      He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatzap him now for help.............

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +234:808:402:39:55

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +234•808•402•39•55

  • @randomuploadsism
    @randomuploadsism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1883

    when your ex falls in with someone else it is the most gutting feeling on earth.

    • @randomuploadsism
      @randomuploadsism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      @Mia Kan Wow, thanks for exploiting my pian for money, that is fucking low.

    • @ikindoflikemangoes4951
      @ikindoflikemangoes4951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@randomuploadsism these comments are everywhere, it’s annoying as frick

    • @embrianne2286
      @embrianne2286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Especially when it’s your best friend

    • @tryharder1053
      @tryharder1053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Just happened to me broke my heart beyond repair

    • @tryharder1053
      @tryharder1053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Kuba P I’m good now I felt disappointed but she really down graded with the guy she’s with now it’s 😂 hilarious

  • @kiyamcqueen3764
    @kiyamcqueen3764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    “people get bored of me” that hit different. it hurts

    • @faizakarali5362
      @faizakarali5362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel the same

    • @user-gc3ou3sp8g
      @user-gc3ou3sp8g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      kiya mcqueen hits really close to home

    • @Ariez___
      @Ariez___ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happens to me as well no matter how good I treat them

    • @Montrell1225
      @Montrell1225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruhhhh that shit hit rs ima guy and shit I be feeling the same way

  • @peaches693
    @peaches693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1248

    “I just hope they’re happy and if they’re happy then I’m fine.. but it sucks because I’m not happy” I’m relating to that so much rn.
    I relate to this whole video.

    • @sandyavalos3305
      @sandyavalos3305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why would you care for someone to be happy who doesn’t give a shit if you are happy? I get it you want to be a good person and wish people good but why when they wouldn’t to you ?

  • @Nadiacarreoni
    @Nadiacarreoni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    wow, i started crying when i saw you crying. i understand exactly, im going through the worst heartbreak ive felt. its so hard.

  • @saigewright6557
    @saigewright6557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    When she threw up from the heart break i felt that

    • @charlybutler9222
      @charlybutler9222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I suffer with this too I always vomit cause of my BPD and anxiety

    • @Lanika1979
      @Lanika1979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have a child by the person i loved and she is 2. I have been feeling like i want to throw up..

  • @Lexaloodle
    @Lexaloodle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    You handled this SO well as a young girl. Giving him his clothes back?! Young me would have burned that shit. You're very mature and I'm so happy you went through this so you can grow.

  • @gisellevillacardo7288
    @gisellevillacardo7288 4 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    “If you know you should be walking away, you have to do it”

    • @codedricch4429
      @codedricch4429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      average life hi

    • @averagelife5449
      @averagelife5449 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@codedricch4429 hi

    • @15Banshee
      @15Banshee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I knew I had to, but I just couldn't do it. I didn't want to. An now he's broken up with me. I'm devastated. Three years of my life wasted on someone who didn't care enough about me.

    • @robertstone7979
      @robertstone7979 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This reminds me of my late wife death please Dm on Instagram please stonerobert097@gmail.com

    • @kissesbydessi4350
      @kissesbydessi4350 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      it hurts😕

  • @gamedream7468
    @gamedream7468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    It took me 11 years to heal my broken heart because i can never forget my first love. I was alone all these years while watching him married with another woman and having kids, and here I am alone because I love him waiting for him to come back, but he never did. There's few guys out there been trying to get me but I never had the interest in them, because my heart is still with him. All my 20's age wasted because of this guy, I could have marry by now and have kids but I did not, I felt stupid but can't help because I love him. Now in my 30's, finally I met a man who truly love me, he rescue me from the trap I been through for so long. I hope I never go through that pain again. Love is hurtful than anything else in the world.

    • @christabelhaneul4939
      @christabelhaneul4939 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours....
      He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him.

    • @christabelhaneul4939
      @christabelhaneul4939 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What''sapp him

    • @christabelhaneul4939
      @christabelhaneul4939 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      + 2 3 4 9 0 6 6 1 8 5 7 3 7

    • @izybunny1999
      @izybunny1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😢

    • @formulajuan644
      @formulajuan644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is hard to read.. Hope you're doing well

  • @nunijeon3519
    @nunijeon3519 4 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Once my mom told me "it's not your responsibility to rebuild a relation that you didn't break" and I felt that.

  • @keyairajohnson9448
    @keyairajohnson9448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1409

    Literally I broke down with her while she was getting rid of his sweatshirts and picture because I just lost the love of my life we were together for 6 years and them he said he just fell out of love with me.. I've never felt this much pain in my life 😭😭😭 so girl I feel you 10000000%

    • @claireelizabethmchale6400
      @claireelizabethmchale6400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Can I ask how you feel now? I’m going through similar

    • @sarakh9028
      @sarakh9028 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Omg me too we were together for 5 years and we got engaged but then he cheated...💔

    • @keyairajohnson9448
      @keyairajohnson9448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@claireelizabethmchale6400 at this point in life I'm okay bu I still think about him everyday

    • @claireelizabethmchale6400
      @claireelizabethmchale6400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Keyaira Johnson Thanks for your honesty, I honestly cannot stop thinking about mind I’m glad to know this is normal 😂

    • @majakrsnik2458
      @majakrsnik2458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm in a very similar situation. Be strong,we got this.

  • @e.morabit2818
    @e.morabit2818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +469

    Heartbroken watching her crying when she was taking away his clothes and deleting their pictures :(
    I was there too. I know how much it hurts.

  • @nicolenava8784
    @nicolenava8784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    I cried with you in that closet, thank you so much for sharing this with us. I know from this video and the comments below that I'm not alone

    • @jacksonlove7253
      @jacksonlove7253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

    • @jacksonlove7253
      @jacksonlove7253 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯

    • @jacksonlove7253
      @jacksonlove7253 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whtsaap him**

    • @jacksonlove7253
      @jacksonlove7253 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ___+2::3::4::81::40::79::93::23...

    • @sq891
      @sq891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same I cried so much 😭

  • @zonglo1900
    @zonglo1900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    I think the hardest part is when you’re alone ... you can surround yourself with your friends and family, but once you’re alone it hits harder and u miss the other person so much ... when you love deeply you hurt deeply . 🙁

    • @henrycicacerrilli4643
      @henrycicacerrilli4643 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello, do you seek professional help on how to get back with your ex?

    • @henrycicacerrilli4643
      @henrycicacerrilli4643 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kindly DM me on what application to know how I got back with my wife

    • @henrycicacerrilli4643
      @henrycicacerrilli4643 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      +1 (325) 242-9499📲📲📲📲📲

  • @tamarawilson9642
    @tamarawilson9642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +560

    This is the reason I’m scared to date again, the heartbreak is literally the worst, it feels like your chest is caving in, you’re dying, screaming and nobody can help you no matter what. You just want him back because he was the best part of your life....but like you say, it gets better. It gets so so much better, you learn so much through the healing process, you learn that you don’t love yourself as much as you claimed you did, you learn that you’re emotionally dependent and that you are not a friend to yourself alone. These are all things you need to work on, it’s crucial...it hits harder if you’re a genuinely caring person like you are. You are amazing ❤️

    • @israelantonio1795
      @israelantonio1795 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello pretty can we discuss more on instagram my handle is robinrand50

    • @TonTreyMarc
      @TonTreyMarc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @selinalynn4822
      @selinalynn4822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      nothing will hurt like that first love

    • @jameslarry8459
      @jameslarry8459 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi

    • @jameslarry8459
      @jameslarry8459 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@selinalynn4822 Hello pretty can we talk on whatsapp

  • @cliodhnatoner8233
    @cliodhnatoner8233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1769

    i cried the whole way through this video.

    • @odilebuysse8490
      @odilebuysse8490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same

    • @laurenelizabeth3330
      @laurenelizabeth3330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same

    • @KissItBetter.
      @KissItBetter. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cliodhna Toner same

    • @nspreacts
      @nspreacts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cliodhna Toner grow up

    • @pumpkiu
      @pumpkiu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Larry The Killer Clown you still have “killer clown” in your name. get out of 2016 bro

  • @thatoneguy1612
    @thatoneguy1612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, you won’t give up. If you give up, your not worthy... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just have to find the ones worth suffering for.
    -Bob marley

    • @patriciapatfamily6605
      @patriciapatfamily6605 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you back for a second chance.
      He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours

    • @patriciapatfamily6605
      @patriciapatfamily6605 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What""sapp him

    • @patriciapatfamily6605
      @patriciapatfamily6605 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      + 2 3 4 9 0 6 6 1 8 5 7 3 7

    • @christopherebel1190
      @christopherebel1190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +/"1/" (/"7/"5/"7/") 7/"0/"4-3/"5/"6/"4/''.....k

    • @christopherebel1190
      @christopherebel1190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

  • @susan6290
    @susan6290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +632

    I was literally crying when she went through the pictures

  • @glencoconut
    @glencoconut 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1422

    I hate seeing other people upset but honestly this made me feel less alone while I try and figure my way through my own breakup and it gives me some hope for the future. Thank you.

    • @gg_kworth52
      @gg_kworth52 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope things get better for you soon 🙏 just know you are worthy of so much love (and your username is hilarious)

    • @Catherine-e5q
      @Catherine-e5q 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Things will get better over time. Take some time for yourself, I’ve been there and it’s going to be okay

    • @Sykes6453
      @Sykes6453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You go Glen Coco!

  • @melliechinea6824
    @melliechinea6824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    I feel like this comment section is giving me a warm hug

  • @sabrinanaser9327
    @sabrinanaser9327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    " this isn't happening to me, this is happening for me " This video is literally getting me through the hardest breakup of my life. So many good quotes in here... Im trying to remember how to love myself again.

    • @estherale3696
      @estherale3696 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can introduce you to the most powerful relationship restorer who helped me got my ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly

    • @brb7929
      @brb7929 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you're doing better.

  • @nazmoonilam945
    @nazmoonilam945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +764

    i broke up today.. crying in silence.. scrolling in youtube, and this was recommended

    • @qudexmustaphs87
      @qudexmustaphs87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      It's all gonna be good
      You shouldn't loose hope because someone didn't know how to love you properly

    • @less05x12
      @less05x12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You feeling better ?

    • @zahram2376
      @zahram2376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Big hugs 🤗

    • @sydpai5962
      @sydpai5962 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We’re going to be okay bb

    • @cch-ss6sx
      @cch-ss6sx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 😖

  • @arys6574
    @arys6574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    “he’s an amazing person, it just, didn’t work out”
    *that hits hard*

    • @maryjones293
      @maryjones293 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Am really heart broken searching for a true lover

    • @ananyaraphael3648
      @ananyaraphael3648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ara Reyes are u bts fan?

    • @arys6574
      @arys6574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ananya Raphael yes I’m an army hehe ☺️

    • @ananyaraphael3648
      @ananyaraphael3648 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ara Reyes even me 💜💜

    • @micfranco697
      @micfranco697 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/w0iwYgcsAl4/w-d-xo.html HURTS MORE THAN WHAT I SHOW ☹️

  • @Idk-dm3xy
    @Idk-dm3xy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +989

    “People get bored of me, I feel like it’s just better to be friends with a lot of people but don’t be best friends or get too close because they’ll get bored of me” 🥺😢
    I feel exactly the same😭😭😭
    I’m SOOO proud of your journey. this really helped, thanks for being brave and posting this. You are beautiful😊

    • @RenishaJesvita
      @RenishaJesvita 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Relatable

    • @Vampxiii_
      @Vampxiii_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi 123 felt that. Same

    • @thecatchannel2158
      @thecatchannel2158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi 123 Please don’t think about youself like that. It hurts my heart knowing that you think people will get bored of you. I don’t even know you but I can tell you with certainty that you are enough just as you are. We grow up, we change but you should decide to change for the better. For yourself, not for anybody else. Do the things you like, visit the places you like. Eat healthier, because trust me, that can change you. And beauty comes from within, if they can’t see it, it’s their miss. Love yourself, you are given this one life and one body and one soul. Basically you are ‘stuck’ to yourself for the whole life, so if you don’t take care of yourself, who will? And I am sure somebody will come into your life and love you just the way you deserve it.

    • @Idk-dm3xy
      @Idk-dm3xy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Ema Jenjic thank you so much🥺❤️
      I went through a lot the past month, but you’re so right!😊 I should stop thinking bad about myself. Thanks💖

  • @mahmudrimon
    @mahmudrimon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    Your life will never be same as before after heartbreak. It hurts man. It hurts freaking much to losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much. It hurts to seeing yourself as you used to see you before, It hurts to seeing that so much of you has fallen and determination to pick it up is almost It’s nonexistent

  • @carolinagonzalez6364
    @carolinagonzalez6364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +558

    you shouldn’t be ashamed of being sad and heart broken for 6 months healing takes time whether it be 6 months or a year or even a few years. you aren’t just trying to heal a heartbreak you’re also trying to gain strength back the love for yourself back and your mental health

    • @ronweasleyisme
      @ronweasleyisme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said 🥺

    • @JessLayton
      @JessLayton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly! It took me a good year to forget them

    • @Ash-zc3yv
      @Ash-zc3yv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think I’m messed up again my best friend since 1st grade liked him since 3rd grade dated in 5th-6th grade I broke up with him because I think he was bored with me. And I’m in 8th rn it took a 1 years 7 months to get over him. We’re still best friends. And now I’m back at missing him like wtf just get over him already I know your in love and will never stop loving him by damn bitch you thirst for him. I’ve never told him that I love him. But I wish I could I love him I really do.

  • @lauracat2526
    @lauracat2526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +761

    I love how she keeps telling herself that she will be healed. My bf of 2 years just broke up with me. Atm I feel like I will never recover but hearing her repeating that is inspiring

    • @esmesal6006
      @esmesal6006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      laura Cat25
      keep ur head high. I’m going through the same situation. Your not alone.❤️

    • @sissasue952
      @sissasue952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I see it’s been a month, how are you doing? ❤️

    • @esmesal6006
      @esmesal6006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Sissa Sue I am doing well actually. I’m learning more self love and yes I do miss him sometimes. However I remind myself how he would treat me. It’s all the process of letting go. I feel as the universe sent you to check up on me. ❤️✨

    • @sissasue952
      @sissasue952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Esmeralda Salinas Aw Im so glad, I feel the same way. It’s so important to love yourself before anyone else, it helps you to know what kind of love you are worthy of. It also is hard to work on yourself with someone else so you have to learn how to work on yourself by yourself before you learn how to work on yourself being with someone else. I’d recommend listening to Emma Chamberlains podcast episode on relationships and lots of prayer right now.❤️ Im a christian, so blasting christian music and praying makes me super happy. :)

    • @esmesal6006
      @esmesal6006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sissa Sue thank you!! I’ll definitely will be looking into those suggestions. Have a blessed day❤️💫

  • @ashtynbullert9887
    @ashtynbullert9887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1153

    I’ve been crying for 11 hours straight. I’ve never cried so hard in my life. In the beginning when I saw that you threw up, I definitely know what it feels to cry so hard you throw up. I can relate throughout everything you say in this video. Thank you for this.

    • @annieswirl
      @annieswirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you’re okay!! You deserve love and don’t forget that. I’m going through a lot of relationship problems so I’m happy this video sorta helped me. This is a late reply but you’re a queen please keep slaying your crown 💗💗

    • @JorDel_1111
      @JorDel_1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same experience here 🤧🤧🤧🤧

    • @hahdb1061
      @hahdb1061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same

    • @bropoke6799
      @bropoke6799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lmao same sort of. I hyperventilate when i cry and i almost passed out yesterday. Love is so great sometimes cause it can make u so happy but it also causes the worst pain in the world

    • @JorDel_1111
      @JorDel_1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bropoke6799 omg same happened with me 2 months ago
      I developed psychosomatic fever for 2 days consecutively !
      I won’t be able to love anyone ever again after these kinda experiences
      I love myself now that’s all !

  • @LaloRacer1
    @LaloRacer1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +415

    10:35 I’ve never related to something so much. I have no clue of when I went from being the always positive, outgoing, and uplifting person to hitting rock bottom all for love to this one person. I feel extremely sad and embarrassed about it. Got so much respect for you for having the courage to put this out for the world to see because I know I absolutely couldn’t. This sucks so much, but I hope that just like yourself I will learn not to miss her this much and hopefully move on. Thank you.

    • @davepromise504
      @davepromise504 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A powerful m a n. C a n. H e l p. Y o u. O u t. M e s s a g e. H i m. On. W h a t s A p p.
      +2:=:3=:4=:8=:1=:0=:7=:0=:0=:0=:2=:4=:7=:3

    • @christopherebel1190
      @christopherebel1190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +/"1/" (/"7/"5/"7/") 7/"0/"4-3/"5/"6/"4/''.....k

    • @christopherebel1190
      @christopherebel1190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I recommend you to a powerful man who can help you get your ex back immediately..

    • @christopherebel1190
      @christopherebel1190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on WhatsApp..

    • @davepromise504
      @davepromise504 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A powerful m a n. C a n. H e l p. Y o u. O u t. M e s s a g e. H i m. On. W h a t s A p p.
      +2:=:3=:4=:8=:1=:0=:7=:0=:0=:0=:2=:4=:7=:3

  • @kari_p2090
    @kari_p2090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    When you said “it’s ok I’m fine, I just want them to be happy, as long as their happy I’m fine....it just sucks that I’m not happy” I bursted into tears cause that hit hard

    • @robertstone7979
      @robertstone7979 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi dear nice meeting you, hope you don't mind can we communicate better on goggle hangout stonerobert097@gmail.com

  • @aarionat
    @aarionat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    To actually meet someone who you felt was your freaking soul mate , the person who understood you the most, the person who you showed all your flaws to, the person who literally made you feel at cloud nine, that amazing human and have a situation where you lose them...hurts the most. It leaves you completely lost, alone, broken and shattered. You lose so much motivation and hope for a better future. You cry in the middle of anything. You literally lose sight of your actual self. I can’t really explain my outcome because I’m still in the middle of it but hopefully things get better...hopefully

    • @noahbrian4256
      @noahbrian4256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What was your outcome?

    • @aarionat
      @aarionat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Noah Brian well I’m doing a lot better. Life is well and so am I. I haven’t met anyone new so I still think about the past, it doesn’t hurt as much but it still gets me a little down. Not only that he still is in my life due to the fact we both share the same friends.

    • @sophielouise4551
      @sophielouise4551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@aarionat your not on your own,I'm in a very similar situation to you as he still lives in my area and we have the same circle of friends. I hope it does get easier that's for sure. I hope your okay and sending you my thoughts because I know how you feel

    • @reverse_mirzy4433
      @reverse_mirzy4433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @aariona trader I cant stop thinking left her my body is numb weed can only numb the pain body doesn't feal right life doesn't feal right she blocked me first time I liked someone and I was gonna ask her out this week but I guess not.

    • @aarionat
      @aarionat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sophie louise Same for you.

  • @decembrdime
    @decembrdime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +388

    grief is the final act of love. to everyone going through a rough breakup, please love on yourself. let it all out. you’ll be alright in the end❤️

  • @Naoomayoo
    @Naoomayoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Day 1 of finally accepting we're over: It hurts so bad even though I'm the one that ended it.. I'm learning that I left for a reason and that I'd rather have NOBODY rather than half of somebody.

    • @366vvbx78
      @366vvbx78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      you're so right😭 this made me realize why i ended things too

    • @lee-ahi
      @lee-ahi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How are you feeling now? I broke up with him but i always end up going back to him and texting him😭

    • @Naoomayoo
      @Naoomayoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@lee-ahi I actually feeling better I’ve learned that focusing on you and learning yourself more and more everyday helps with big on.

    • @annafromhsm
      @annafromhsm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg its been a year woop woop

    • @Naoomayoo
      @Naoomayoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@annafromhsm and for some reason i still love her but im not in pain

  • @yasminbrum5644
    @yasminbrum5644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    i just broke up with my ex, and he was a real bad boyfriend and i don’t miss him, i miss the memories, the good moments. it really is hard, i’m crying everyday, but i know that everything will be better and happens for a reason. seeing your video made me feel 100 times better. thank you so much! ❤️

    • @FaisalKhan-os7bv
      @FaisalKhan-os7bv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      U looks so Beautifull nd boyfriend who left u ,he just make a big mistake

    • @srhtlb
      @srhtlb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hope you feel better soon 🍀

    • @aileensali3714
      @aileensali3714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yasmin brum Im going through the same thing :/

    • @anamihaila271
      @anamihaila271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too. Exactly the same thing. I blocked him. This helped me so much too🥰

    • @qudexmustaphs87
      @qudexmustaphs87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aileensali3714
      It's all gonna be good
      You shouldn't loose hope because someone didn't know how to love you properly.

  • @kittens3029
    @kittens3029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    Breakups do get easier. I'm 24 years old but I remember when I was 18 onwards I was unable to cope. I cried for months and went into a dark depression. But the more it happens you learn to build resilience and coping strategies.

    • @Unbearable_Truth
      @Unbearable_Truth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No guy wants a girl that's had bfs in the past cause it psychologically ruins them.

    • @carolinabam6559
      @carolinabam6559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I’m 27 and this is my worst breakup, never been this heartbroken before. For me it just gets worse with age

    • @robertstone7979
      @robertstone7979 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi please dear Kasia please Dm on Instagram please stonerobert097@gmail.com cause I am heartbroken

    • @robertstone7979
      @robertstone7979 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carolinabam6559 hi dear please give me a chance to get to know more about you please Dm on Instagram please stonerobert097@gmail.com

    • @Unbearable_Truth
      @Unbearable_Truth 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carolinabam6559 At that age you're honestly supposed to be married. It's gonna get worse with with age I'm not gonna lie.

  • @boutaynaelhammouchi3140
    @boutaynaelhammouchi3140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    "I never knew that it physically hurt so much from something like emotional" I let that sink in cause when my sister died it hurt so much both emotionally and physically and I never understood it

    • @Cecilia-
      @Cecilia- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm sorry. I wished I could give you a hug

    • @laurennnfoxxx
      @laurennnfoxxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I lost my sister the past couples years. I hope you're doing the best you can. If you ever need someone to talk to we can exchange contacts

    • @justinenguyen1059
      @justinenguyen1059 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      the worst thing about that is you cant do anything to make it better
      it depends on you
      its just too much to handle most of the times

    • @abiolathecreator3205
      @abiolathecreator3205 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m sorry :(

    • @doralilikovacs2898
      @doralilikovacs2898 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so sorry 💛 wish you the best

  • @liligalvez7
    @liligalvez7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The “i don’t know. i’m so confused” is where i’m at right now. This is hopeful and encouraging. Waiting for the day where it won’t hurt anymore.

    • @victorymelisa5058
      @victorymelisa5058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My ex come back to me few days ago❤ I got help from a relationship Restorer Dr Ezekiel who was able to mend back my broken 💔 relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for second chance.He can bring your ex back.

    • @victorymelisa5058
      @victorymelisa5058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wh'atsapp him for help*.香港 香港 香港.👇👇

  • @lexmybooty3124
    @lexmybooty3124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    “he was my bestfriend, and bestfriends dont do that” 🥺🥺

  • @jadamclean7927
    @jadamclean7927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    the worst thing is when they hurt you then say 'i love you' like goodbye liar! emotional manipulation, GIRL YOU ARE STRONG...

    • @JedicatedBeileber
      @JedicatedBeileber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      literally what just happened to me 2 days ago bruh...boys aint shit

    • @rose968
      @rose968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      lea Even though we are hurting it’s reassuring to know I’m not alone because this happened to me this week as well. I hope you guys heal from this pain and become the best you, you can be. 💕

  • @Ana-ly5ek
    @Ana-ly5ek 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1180

    I felt that when you talked about wanting to know how they are doing. He wasn’t just my boyfriend he was my best friend. I told him everything. Now that he’s gone I still find myself thinking “oh I’ve got to tell him this” then it hits me that he’s gone. Months of tears and depression and I’m finally ready to move on officially. I deserve better

    • @horrorscope375
      @horrorscope375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Eden -.- hope you’re doing okay babygirl❤️

    • @delancey3181
      @delancey3181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      At least you’ve had a boyfriend I’m 16 and nobody’s liked me and I’ve never holded hands with a boy or been kissed never been “talking” with a boy or dated so be happy and grateful

    • @kristengallagher6627
      @kristengallagher6627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      • N O L E E • you are beautiful and don’t need a boyfriend. Don’t worry about it now, love will come around eventually, just be patient. the perfect person for you is waiting for their perfect person too❤️

    • @ellaashcraft317
      @ellaashcraft317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      • N O L E E • it’s not fair to tell someone to be happy and grateful when they’re fighting such a hard battle. everyone is struggling with something different so you can’t discount someone’s problems just because you don’t know how it feels. i’m sorry you haven’t had a boy in your life but you’ll find your soulmate don’t worry

    • @birriabrain
      @birriabrain 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m having the same problem. though, even after over a year, i still can’t find myself getting over him. our friendship meant everything. he meant everything. and to have that taken away..i guess i just haven’t fully accepted it, yk?
      edit: oh! sorry, he was never my boyfriend, just a really, really close bestfriend. i kinda misread your comment.

  • @mx8357
    @mx8357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    I hope you know how many people find your video in their darkest hour, and it makes a difference 💙

    • @sarahrandy5795
      @sarahrandy5795 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest anything you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

    • @sarahrandy5795
      @sarahrandy5795 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whtsaap him**

    • @sarahrandy5795
      @sarahrandy5795 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @iheartbrentfaiyaz
    @iheartbrentfaiyaz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    When she said people get bored of her Iv never related so much

  • @missrozaliah4536
    @missrozaliah4536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    When you said, "i thought i was the person who knows him the most", "he's my bestfriend and bestfriend dont do that", "i was a learning experience for him".

    • @NagaLakshmi-yn8zs
      @NagaLakshmi-yn8zs 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will recommend you to a powerful relationship restorer Dr Frank who can fix back your relationship perfectly, he was the one who restored back my broken relationship of 8 years by bringing back my ex , he can also help you

    • @NagaLakshmi-yn8zs
      @NagaLakshmi-yn8zs 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on whatsapp

    • @edehobinna3722
      @edehobinna3722 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello dear how are you doing

    • @louisanthony898
      @louisanthony898 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes you are right

  • @mirandag3304
    @mirandag3304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    “i was a learning experience for them” BROOO THAT GOT ME. crying actual tears rn

  • @hanissufia320
    @hanissufia320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    “and i know that one day they’re gonna treat somebody so right, it wasn’t with me because I was the learning experience for them” truly hits me hard... that’s my biggest fear when breaking up with someone..

    • @sweetanita5219
      @sweetanita5219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my dear let me introduce to you dr usifoh who help me bring back my ex after many months of separation

    • @sweetanita5219
      @sweetanita5219 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @christabelhaneul4939
      @christabelhaneul4939 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi I know of a good and a very powerful man who can help you to manifest back your ex within 2 days .
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    • @christabelhaneul4939
      @christabelhaneul4939 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What sapp him

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      @christabelhaneul4939 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @llizbetthh05
    @llizbetthh05 4 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    "I have an abundance of love FOR them,but i'm not IN love with them.And those are two different things..." realest things i've ever heard. She just earned so much respect from me.

  • @Kim-yp5ps
    @Kim-yp5ps 4 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    This is the thing, we heal but we’re scared to try again. We don’t feel attracted to anything or anyone after a break up. We’ll get through this everyone, one day we’ll be with our soulmates and none of this will be worth it. Stay strong!

  • @flowersinmay9743
    @flowersinmay9743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1069

    I got broken up with yesterday. We've been together for 4 years and I literally thought he was my soul mate. Right now I am clinging so hard to the hope that he might come back to me that I cant start to heal. I want him so bad and knowing that he doesn't want me anymore is simply beyond me...

    • @Certifiedbbc
      @Certifiedbbc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me rn off his TH-cam bc we live together and realizing then hurts more I hope the best for u all sisters stay strong

    • @AM-wt1pm
      @AM-wt1pm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      The beauty about this is, when you are done and healed and he comes back.
      You might not even want to anymore.
      Their are so many people in this world, change, grow, cry, love, move on.
      Life is a rollercoaster.
      We don’t know what’s going to happen so don’t get stuck of that question.
      Live your life to the fullest

    • @natalia5900
      @natalia5900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How are you doing now?

    • @NadinMagdy
      @NadinMagdy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How are you doing right now

    • @kimirsn8911
      @kimirsn8911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I‘ll tell you something, even though it‘s a little late...
      The person who breaks your heart, can‘t be the person who‘ll heal it 😞❤️

  • @milliewhite3677
    @milliewhite3677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    me watching these videos because i’m going through my first heartbreak

    • @sweetanita5219
      @sweetanita5219 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      my dear let me introduce to you dr usifoh who help me bring back my ex after many months of separation

    • @sweetanita5219
      @sweetanita5219 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatapp him and thank me later

    • @sweetanita5219
      @sweetanita5219 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2349054773429

    • @milliewhite3677
      @milliewhite3677 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sweetanita5219 awww thanks!

    • @Dbarbie
      @Dbarbie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeh Breakups are hard.
      How u feelings now..?

  • @yolandamccray4146
    @yolandamccray4146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    This is why i refuse to be in a another relationship i dont think i can handle another heartbreak 😔

    • @jessicalima132
      @jessicalima132 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yolanda McCray, don't worry ok I will recommend you to a man that can help you get your ex back to you,

    • @jessicalima132
      @jessicalima132 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The man helped me get my ex back when I was in a problem like this before

    • @jessicalima132
      @jessicalima132 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Contact the man on WhatsApp to get your ex

    • @jessicalima132
      @jessicalima132 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      +234 9050 8613 14

    • @lu-fg7ih
      @lu-fg7ih 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      you’re not alone i’m with you, we’ll get through this together. don’t let one love ruin everything, go be happy again, but make sure you love yourself first

  • @bric3328
    @bric3328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    you’re so f’ing brave for this . i went through this and it’s the worst , you feel it in your stomach. thank you for posting this

  • @im6295
    @im6295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Imagine breaking up with this beautiful sensitive girl smh
    gotta throw the whole man away

  • @bryannaamariee
    @bryannaamariee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    This video literally helped me through my break up after my break up I started to focus more on school , got all my requirements and all I’m actually graduating class 21 .. thank you for this video

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi friend, i really understand how you feel right now, do you really need help to recover your relationship by getting your ex back to you????????

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let me recommend you to someone that helped me recover my relationship by bringing my ex back to me.
      He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatzap him now for help..............

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +234:808:402:39:55

    • @marywilliam8481
      @marywilliam8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +234•808•402•39•55

  • @edaa9757
    @edaa9757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    When the song “July” started playing I started crying immediately. I listened to that song on repeat for weeks after i had my heart broken😞

  • @onlybriajae
    @onlybriajae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    Videos like this really help bc sometimes it feels like “does this happen to everybody or am I just being extra” “is this feeling normal ?” And then I’m reminded that this is normal and I will get through it

    • @trellnba176
      @trellnba176 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got back my ex wife with the help of someone who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems too 💎💎💎

    • @trellnba176
      @trellnba176 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Text him on what's app 💎💎

    • @trellnba176
      @trellnba176 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348077751695💎💎💎

    • @wimbballm
      @wimbballm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Guys feel it too. You are not alone. I’m suffering with you. We will get through this. I’m at the bottom too. We will rise again!

  • @emxma8441
    @emxma8441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    Breakups are seriously something everything needs to go through, it hurts so much but you learn and value yourself more!

  • @sanriofanxoxo
    @sanriofanxoxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    The fact that he cheated on her once and she forgave him makes me really admire her. (Not playing sides here)

    • @isabellajames157
      @isabellajames157 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||Ex|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me restored my Broken Home. He can make your |ex| beg you for a second chance. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)

    • @isabellajames157
      @isabellajames157 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Send him a message on Whatsapp 💕

    • @isabellajames157
      @isabellajames157 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2347030894892....

    • @northkoreaninc9202
      @northkoreaninc9202 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can also help you to get back with yours with much love .

    • @northkoreaninc9202
      @northkoreaninc9202 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What sapp him

  • @gracefairband5492
    @gracefairband5492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +827

    it felt so....comforting...to know someone else was hurting, for so freaking long, to where it feels like forever and you're never going to get over it, over one person. It made me feel so much less alone. I'm so happy you're healing, beautiful, some days I feel like I'm starting to get there too.

  • @sofiex01
    @sofiex01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    "if you know you should be walking away, you have to do it." that hit me soo hard

    • @hmmmm5895
      @hmmmm5895 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read this just as she said it lol

    • @sandyavalos3305
      @sandyavalos3305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah it hits hard. I thought of walking out on him several times but didn’t because I wanted to make things work. He ended up leaving me. I should have walked away earlier

    • @jocelynovelar4315
      @jocelynovelar4315 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sandyavalos3305 same thing is happening to me, how you doing now?

    • @sandyavalos3305
      @sandyavalos3305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jocelynovelar4315 I’m still hurting. This has probably one of the hardest breakups. There is so much going on I think that’s why

    • @sandyavalos3305
      @sandyavalos3305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jocelynovelar4315 what about you? How are you putting up?

  • @chloesoles2825
    @chloesoles2825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    There is such a maturity in being able to be honest about pain. Even when it feels pathetic. I know what it's like to lose people and I don't think I've been as honest about it as I should have been, therefore the healing was never complete. This was really inspirational to watch.

  • @kaylamyerss
    @kaylamyerss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    i literally cried through this. i could relate to everything, except it's been a year and three months. he's moved on and happy and im still stuck crying myself to sleep. literally the worst because i see him at college everyday.

    • @kemeaccrah9843
      @kemeaccrah9843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I got my ex husband back through the help of a love specialist

    • @kemeaccrah9843
      @kemeaccrah9843 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Contact me on whatsap so I could tell you more about how he helped me

    • @kemeaccrah9843
      @kemeaccrah9843 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +1( 6 2 3 ) 2 5 0 3 9 6 6

    • @kemeaccrah9843
      @kemeaccrah9843 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He can also help you get your ex back just as he did mine

    • @rievalesonsky1419
      @rievalesonsky1419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      + 1 9 0 9 4 3 7 4 6 8 9

  • @AyeitsAngel
    @AyeitsAngel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    taking me over a year to heal, i still get the random flashbacks, dreams of him, stomach aches, heartaches, the random outbursts of bawling my eyes out as if he left me yesterday. you’re SO fucking strong for this. im so glad you made this. i feel less alone and i bet everyone else does too ❤️

  • @indiakees4916
    @indiakees4916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +467

    just imagine being the ex and seeing this vid. proberally broke his heart

    • @michellesanchez6674
      @michellesanchez6674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      india kees hopefully...

    • @mercedesmartinez8650
      @mercedesmartinez8650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      He'll realize that he lost the best girlfriend he ever had. By then our girl will be moved on:)

    • @nicolecuesta7526
      @nicolecuesta7526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      The sad truth is that there’s motherfuckers out there that just simply don’t give a shit , they don’t care that you’ve cried , they can say sorry and feel bad about it and have pity but then they just return to doing the same shit

    • @void0885
      @void0885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nicolecuesta7526 yep

    • @zaraoliva7513
      @zaraoliva7513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      he probably does not care and it is really sad

  • @valeriafernandez4378
    @valeriafernandez4378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    My ex came back for his clothes, and we put them in boxes. And honestly, it was one of the hardest moments I´ve ever experienced, i tried not to cry cause i didn´t want him to see me like that, but i couldn´t help it. It hits you hard, like is really over. Don´t be ashamed of your process ! it is different for everyone, take YOUR time, all the time you need. It has been over a year now, and i´m still healing, still processing everything, and i still cry once in a while. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING ! Lots of love from Uruguay !!

    • @timothyramos9334
      @timothyramos9334 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello am so sorry about that
      You can text me on Hangouts
      If you don't mind
      ramostimothy338@gmail.com

    • @jameslarry8459
      @jameslarry8459 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello pretty can we talk

    • @robertstone7979
      @robertstone7979 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello please can you Dm on Instagram please stonerobert097@gmail.com if you wish

    • @robertstone7979
      @robertstone7979 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi dear hope you don't mind text me on Hangouts stonerobert097@gmail.com

    • @nurauniizzatiaminudin1112
      @nurauniizzatiaminudin1112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      the more it happens you learn to build resilience and coping strategies.
      U can get through this trust me, I've been in the same situation too, exactly like yours