They Regret Losing You When THIS Happens (Podcast 707)

[@giovannij1368]

I also never understood some coaches who use "attachment styles " as a reason to reach out to someone who broke up with you. I agree that there are ppl who are avoidant or things like that but, the only way for someone to vhange their mind aftwr a break up , as along as you didnt cheat, you should not be contacting them unless they contact you first, like you say

[@mmosley8492]

What if the dumper and dumper are both listening to your videos then what

[@valerie2827]

I completely agree with your version of no contact. I never understood the coaches who say 30 days, 6 months, etc. What happens when the "time limit" you've put on it is up? What then? If they haven't initiated contact by then, it's most likely they've moved on from the relationship and don't care to hear from you. Just my thoughts.
Another great thought provoking video. Thank you for all you do Vincent!
-Valerie

[@vincentbos]

Thank you for your kind words Valerie. I hope you’re feeling positive 🙂

[@asmisamaze1234]

Sometimes I think that dumpers don’t even have a heart
How can throw away all the beautiful memories they had
If the dumpee did something extremely bad like cheating abuse or something unforgivable than yes they should

[@tarabonner341]

Love this ! Great content & very interesting

[@vincentbos]

Thank you Tara. Hope you are feeling positive.

[@jazzclassicalclarinetmaste435]

8 months of silence. I guess all the possible missing and curiosity are gone

[@vincentbos]

I’ve known people reach out after many years of silence. (I don’t want to give false hope) but never say never

[@conniegray2892]

Thanks!

[@vincentbos]

Thank you so much 😊