The Power Of Indifference | Stoicism

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  • @ShaunZachary
    @ShaunZachary  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

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  • @OGTrollTroll8
    @OGTrollTroll8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    “We suffer more in imagination than in reality”
    -Seneca

  • @cyshehni
    @cyshehni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    That's true I've been following stoicism for the last 3 years and it has honestly changed my life. My narcissistic ex-wife would love to rub it in my face every time she was going on a date with a dude to see if she could get a rise out of me. I learned that I can't control what people say or do in the outside world but I can control how I respond in my mind. Marcus Aurelius says don't feel harmed and you haven't been!

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That’s facts- love Marcus Aurelius

    • @markbrookes6915
      @markbrookes6915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Going through the exact same thing my ex partner rubbing it my face & it's been hard

    • @cyshehni
      @cyshehni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@markbrookes6915 it is hard, it's hard for all of us brother. But you know what's even harder spend the rest of your life with someone that don't give a f*** about you. When it first happened to me I fell into a deep depression and I had to dig myself out one day at a time. And as days turn to weeks and weeks turned to months. I noticed that I was getting a little bit better and a little bit better every single day. My ex was a covert narcissist and suck the life out of me. Over the last 2 years I've just been focusing on myself rebuilding myself Finding my confidence myself worth my self-respect becoming disciplined. I've been able to accomplish more in the last 2 years then I did in the last 15 when I was with her.

    • @markbrookes6915
      @markbrookes6915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cyshehni unbelievable thanks for sharing appreciate that 🙏🏼
      2-3 months I've endured nothing but hatred towards women
      It's amazing that some women use there vagina as a tool Fucking detests me
      And we run around pleasing them by sucking up to them because we want to get laid know more .

    • @cloudcastellio9617
      @cloudcastellio9617 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good point.

  • @ntsikelelonkambule2299
    @ntsikelelonkambule2299 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    "No event is good nor bad, it's all about how you choose to view the situation", that's powerful

  • @Michael-calisthenics98
    @Michael-calisthenics98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Ain’t no grave can hold us down fellas 🥇

  • @Rudolph_Manor
    @Rudolph_Manor ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Controlling your emotions will make you a better person in yourself in the long run. 💯

  • @AhplaNam
    @AhplaNam 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    After my recent breakup, I’ve been all over TH-cam. I’ve been reading books and listening to audiobooks, and the best thing I’ve learned is not caring. I’ve never been happier.

  • @saxa21
    @saxa21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Epictetus Persistence and Self control.

  • @scottmac3539
    @scottmac3539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Stoicism is the virtuous alpha path 💪🏼🧠

  • @supratimsarkar4812
    @supratimsarkar4812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Shaun Just Changing Lives .. He Is Non toxic And on point Thank You ..Shaun to Teach us that you got from your own experience

  • @RexileGames
    @RexileGames 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thousands of languages around the world but our guy Shaun choosing to speak facts 🔥

  • @justareader____
    @justareader____ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Onward and upward, ever upwards, kings!

  • @DeeJay003
    @DeeJay003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thank you my brother.
    You speak the truth 🙏💯

  • @fresh10
    @fresh10 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true man. You would not believe how immature grown men are on the internet. Ive had first hand experience lol and indifference is the answer. Great video❤

  • @jacknorton3771
    @jacknorton3771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are so correct. Indifference comes into relationships. It is the opposite of love as well not hate. This very thing just happened in a FB group I belong to.. It happened to me on a post last month. Great troll impression btw 🤣

  • @Bigkahunatype100
    @Bigkahunatype100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Talk yo shit shaun

  • @JC-ov8ko
    @JC-ov8ko 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Beautifully said. This made me realize again how I react or have reacted to changes in my life and what to consider going forward.

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching fam 🙏🏻

  • @sdjrgoku5729
    @sdjrgoku5729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You have just earned a new subscriber brother i am most definitely feeling this. 💪💯🤔💯👍

  • @libo6368
    @libo6368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Fantastic way to put it

  • @dc9582
    @dc9582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You did it! 😁

  • @hodgeyfitness6058
    @hodgeyfitness6058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I needed to hear this thank you I know what to do

  • @ngalula
    @ngalula 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    O.P. Thanks brother.

  • @andrewalchemist
    @andrewalchemist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I started studying stoicism about a week ago, many people should follow this. Great video Shaun 🔥

  • @Gunslinger205
    @Gunslinger205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amor Fati

  • @Cluedup2399
    @Cluedup2399 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will now look into stoicism because I can be quite volatile when I get disrespected. Thanks man.

  • @barclayrogers8970
    @barclayrogers8970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wake up listening to you 💯💯💯💯💯🦾 thanks man

  • @Starnet01
    @Starnet01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for teaching us in every aspect brother

  • @indiamoreno4859
    @indiamoreno4859 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Appreciate you too Brother Shaun 🧘🏽‍♀️

  • @rickcanencia5762
    @rickcanencia5762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Another great video, bro. Appreciate you...stay blessed! 💯🤙🏽🙏

  • @garyrobinson8665
    @garyrobinson8665 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shaun. I try not to worry about anything and im happy most of the time i try to be indifferent. Im still a bit of a simp but im trying to eradicate it. My main problem is my mother is a trauma dumper and energy vampire. I limit my contact with her but its difficult. She always talks about negative things and I cant stand it.

  • @toneblue6380
    @toneblue6380 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love your content man im a young man still trying to conquer this mindset and your explanation and view on these ideas make it so much easier. keep doing what you do

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep grinding family 💪🏼

  • @cloudcastellio9617
    @cloudcastellio9617 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I did like the video, thank you.

  • @Wahinies
    @Wahinies 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    10:58 some of the best concepts and exercise question I have ever heard. Thanks for this video.

  • @JesusLoves-w81
    @JesusLoves-w81 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks!

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Appreciate it!

  • @dougholimon
    @dougholimon ปีที่แล้ว

    Had to travel back to this gem. Blessings bro.

  • @SicosisXL
    @SicosisXL ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks man, really needed to hear this type advice , get my way of thinking back out of negative land

  • @CoachKen10
    @CoachKen10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Fantastic wisdom as always Coach Zachary!

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching my guy 💪🏼

  • @thembanisibanda6574
    @thembanisibanda6574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Stoicism' is why I'm here...yoh' new Subscriber #Zimbabwe"

  • @Frontlineinvestigation71
    @Frontlineinvestigation71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My preacher Z!!!!!!":thks bruh for your words

  • @paulsum2496
    @paulsum2496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Absolutely true and a great way to approach life. Thank you very much for the life lessons !

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No problem bro thanks for watching

  • @3oxisprimus848
    @3oxisprimus848 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Premium content aside, you know that intro was fire!

  • @FollowingJesus17
    @FollowingJesus17 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is very helpful video.and lots of wisdom .that's why I turn the comments off on my videos because I cannot stand the hurtful things that people can come with . As a trauma survivor I'm just not gonna read anything hence turn off comments.

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I go no f@@@s for anything!!!

  • @roboutaboutintas5444
    @roboutaboutintas5444 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is great advice Shaun, i appreciate yor work, thankyou!

  • @chevchelioz6663
    @chevchelioz6663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video again Shaun !!😎💪

  • @jaydakatt2.072
    @jaydakatt2.072 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🐐 brah

  • @williamtiyanjane7880
    @williamtiyanjane7880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am the prize.. Peace!

  • @James-ud2yt
    @James-ud2yt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you shaun👍

  • @gregbuze9143
    @gregbuze9143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Speak on it !! My friend !! And continued Blessings 🙌 🙏

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Speaking the truth 💯

  • @YourDriverSasan
    @YourDriverSasan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,495 subs and > 1,000 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s a beautiful thing! Congrats on your success my dude

    • @nathananderson8720
      @nathananderson8720 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShaunZachary Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my TH-cam channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a TH-camr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this TH-cam thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)

  • @dave-rupofficial4627
    @dave-rupofficial4627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was waiting for this video.

  • @jackcaubat9168
    @jackcaubat9168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the advice 🙏

  • @kaomalevy6539
    @kaomalevy6539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How can I get in touch with you.... I really need your help please

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The.Shaun.Zachary@gmail.com

  • @andrewboykaworlikoh9658
    @andrewboykaworlikoh9658 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good fella

  • @Yung_Wicklove
    @Yung_Wicklove ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally agree. 💯

  • @Jcantbstopped
    @Jcantbstopped ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was mentioned in 48 laws of power

  • @gregorysmith1140
    @gregorysmith1140 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video 💯 🔥🔥

  • @bestmotivationpurposes2683
    @bestmotivationpurposes2683 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this been wondering why been so successful in life and others don't get that far to the top. There are 1 percent of people make it in this world successfully succeed in life

  • @thomasharris2847
    @thomasharris2847 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey man, I just want to say you are dope

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @Matt-p3p
    @Matt-p3p ปีที่แล้ว

    You have the best nerd voice

  • @scullydas753
    @scullydas753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hell yeah, with dreams to be a king first one should be a man.

  • @polymathable
    @polymathable ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like that haha. Marcus Arelius out here defending the Rome ... but ONLINE XD naah, not him! Anyone who is winning in life is not sitting around arguing with people on the internet.

  • @The_LoneHawk
    @The_LoneHawk ปีที่แล้ว

    He suffers, more than necessary, before it is necessary..

  • @thewynndynasty9652
    @thewynndynasty9652 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sigma male personality.. Always wins..

  • @RonnieColeman80
    @RonnieColeman80 ปีที่แล้ว

    The problem is I'm not healthy and strong right now, what should I do?

  • @nnkb1405
    @nnkb1405 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to prove my self to whom lmoa

  • @jacobwhite6935
    @jacobwhite6935 ปีที่แล้ว

    💪

  • @clintonsthilaire
    @clintonsthilaire 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @samuelibrahim5420
    @samuelibrahim5420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    yes it's true.......indifference is totally devastating

  • @Justabust5775
    @Justabust5775 ปีที่แล้ว

    @shaun Zachary I recently was released from a job and in the past have been told that I'm too quiet I'm too much of an absorber that it scares people and I'm not the right fit in many companies that I've worked for that now it's best for me to do the opposite maybe I need to speak more maybe being stoic isn't it for me maybe you can explain

  • @ameenmitchell379
    @ameenmitchell379 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bozos and keyboard Warriors, funny is fu** 🤣😆

  • @Wise333
    @Wise333 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ha exactly

  • @nellth7136
    @nellth7136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree