Why do I ALWAYS do this to myself? I'm STRESSED
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- Why do I ALWAYS do this to myself? I'm stressed out to get everything done in time.
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Just watching you made me tired. Please don't overdo it. You need all the strength for Kyle and you. Whatever you get done I'm sure everything will look beautiful. As you know I send all my prayers to you and Kyle and your families.
Thank you for your gentle reminders and kind words 🥰🥰
Rachel, you are one of those RARE people who live your life not even knowing how you light up a room! I'm impressed ... you are a jack of all trades and I totally understand why you feel that your chores need to be done as soon as possible. In between, don't forget to take other precious moments with your husband, especially like that wonderful picnic you guys shared down at that pretty lake. Your videos help me too as I feel more grounded after listening to your words of wisdom. Sending more hugs to you guys from across the Pacific Ocean in Australia.🦘🐨🌏
🥹🥹 this is truly the kindest message and touches my heart so deeply! I am so glad you’ve found your way to my videos and I’m so honored 🤍 we are taking that picnic suggestion and running it with this weekend and cannot wait yo share pieces of it with you 🤗
As a fellow master procrastinator, I can relate. When I finally get something done, I realize I spent much more time fretting about it than it took to do it.
100% and yet we will likely keep doing that way thing over and over atleast for me!
My philosophy is do what you can. I tend to over think stuff and that raises my anxiety level. Take each moment and concentrate on the one thing for that day. You will get things done.
Ahh love that way of getting things done!
Awesome Video!!!! I had to change the title of my "to do" list to "maybe" list!!!! It reduce my stress!!! I would spread it out to a week (7 days) instead of a daily one!!!! Beautiful green ottoman!!!! Great Shelves!!! God Bless!!!!
Thank you so so much! I do something similar I put everything in a master list of things I need or want to do and each week move things into that current week! It’s so easy to feel overwhelmed
It's about control. You can't control Kyle's surgery, but you can control home projects. I'm the same, in times of stress, I need do what I can.
Absolutely!! Plus it just feels so good to get those projects DONE!!
I too work so much better under pressure. I leave Saturday on a 9 days cruise. Not one stitch of packing done. Just now finishing laundry. Tomorrow I’ll make a list of what I’m taking and I’ll pack Friday. No problem. 🤣😂
I love what you’ve done. Love your sweet home and your style. You are doing great.
Oh my gosh I am the exact same way you got this and have the most amazing trip!!
@@SimplyRachelOBare thank you so much.
Praying for his surgery to go well. 🙏
Thank you so much ☺️
Dang Rachel you are so impressive. Running those power tools!!! AND look what you accomplished❣️❣️ so impressive. Remember to take care of yourself though. Kyle will need your strength after surgery and you will be exhausted. Prayers of strength to you both🙏🏼🙏🏼 God bless you all❤
Awh thank you!! It feels so good to use power tools you really feel powerful! Also slightly terrifying 😂 thank you for the love and kind reminders!!
You are a talented girl!! Way to go!! Praying for Kyle’s surgery and complete healing!!!
🥹🥹 thank you!! May it be so 😍
I love these videos! They Pop up at the perfect time! ❤🙏🏻Praying for you and Kyle! And that surgery goes well! Can’t wait for y’all to come home and heal and get much needed rest! Dang girl, you are a carpenter too! I love it! ❤️🙏🏻🥰
😂😂 I didn’t know I was a carpenter either! Fun thing about life is always being able to learn, Kyle has taught me a lot since we started dating but since he isn’t really able to use those tools I’ve had to practice what I’ve seen and learned!!
That's what procrastination is! 🤙You work really hard when there's pressure! I love you so much, it really baffles me... I love you I love you I love you! Not really, Iim the same way, just not nearly as bad!
Or adhd 😂 I love you big my love!!!
I need some of your energy, Rachel. Love how the ottoman turned out!
Girl I’ll share it I’m buzzing 😂 and thank you! I am pretty pleased with it!!
Great progress 👍👍👍prayers continue for you both 🙏🙏🙏🕊🕊😇
Thank you thank you 😊 🤍
A little bit of nervous stress does seem to kick one into high gear too. Just try not to wear yourself out!!❤❤❤
@@sineriafrankenstein7316 it absolutely does and I guess it’s a way to have control in a situation when you only have so much control. Trying to remind myself to also rest, that’s hard though!
I totally get the ADHD crunch time productivity. You slayed it! I love the shelves and ottoman ❤
You truly cannot understand unless your a fellow adhd human the pressure is key to get things done!
@@SimplyRachelOBare And good in a crisis too! The hyper focus is real.
@@TheQueensWish 100% I can do hard things but easy task like dishes and laundry no way it’s like climbing Mount Everest
Im impressed with your skills and creativety ! Think, I might be wrong, guess thats what give you strengh and peace at the same time. Dont gorget to take care of your self ! You matter !!! Hugsss 😘😘
Thank you 🥹 yes it’s wild how different a neurodivergent brain works!
Very creative and very impressive! You go girl❤
🥹🤗 thank you so much! Feeling proud of myself I must say
Giddy Up Go … Great job!
Thank you thank you 🤗🤗
You have a beautiful home!! I love your kitchen!!
Thank you so much 😊 we really love and feel so lucky to call it home
Loved this!!! You go girlie❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much! Feeling pretty accomplished 🥰
Well done 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Ottoman looks great!
Thank you so much ☺️ we are loving it
LOL. I work a lot better when I have short deadlines. Usually deadline I do not set for myself! Like filling donation boxes on the last day before the donation pickup day! you are fortunate to have a great helper, I dont'.
I completely understand that I always drop my ballots the last day even when I have had them done for weeks 🤦🏻♀️
Hi! where do you shop? you always have the most beautiful clothing!
Ahh that’s so sweet of you! I try to buy most things secondhand and if it’s new I buy from small and ideal woman owned companies. I’ve been loving Studio Ora (my dear friend) Sondarhaus and Linenfox
@@SimplyRachelOBare ah! Thank you!
Your so so welcome!
Sounds like your nesting instinct is kicking in! Awaiting the birth of a new Kyle!
Oh my gosh 🥹🥹 I love this!!
@@SimplyRachelOBare I thought you might!
You thrive with a deadline … ??? I think you are just addicted to your own adrenaline !!!
It’s actually what many who have ADHD experience. We need that pressure to stay focused and motivated.
You’re such a great, kind, caring, genuine and intentional soul. You are a gift to all.
As Always, Sending an Abundance of Love, Strength, Peace, Support and Positive Thoughts to BOTH of You. ♥️✨🕊️🎗️🫶🏻💫
***super random, have you ever sketched a tattoo for someone (paid of course)? I noticed your beautiful artwork in the beginning and instantly thought, “if it’s something enjoyable, calming for her, I’d love for her to sketch out my next tattoo!” If you’re ever interested please lmk.
Thank you so much!! Also I am not sure you’d want a tattoo by me I cannot draw 😂