A Day in the Life of Griffin and Turner
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ก.ค. 2019
- Turner is diagnosed with Down syndrome and wants to be like his big brother Griffin. This is a day in their life.
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Griffin needs his own identity. He seems to have a lot resting on his shoulders, you can see it in his eyes.Sweet and mature big brother!
I think they will, a bit later in high school or when Griffin goes to college. I hope Turner will be able to find a job. My Publix grocery store had a young man with D.S., but he had to move to a store that was closer to him (no transit system between our neighbourhood and his). Another younger man took his place recently.
unfortunately this is how things are if you have a disabled sibling . Glass children. They are used to having to compromise more or give certain things up to accommodate their disabled sibling
I agree, but as someone with a disabled sibling I can tell you that this is going to have some implications long-term. Eventually he'll have to place himself at #1
The way he couldn't answer the question about himself, but it was easy to answer the questions about Turner is really sad. He definitely needs his own identity.
@@sarahko1014 Glass children has two meanings. One is that the parents are less concerned about the 'glass' child breaking than their disabled child breaking. The other is that the parents see right through the 'glass' child and sometimes fail to see that they're their own person.
the older brother seems so mature
He looks so sad 😔
He’s hiding more than he’s showing. He’s not a very empathetic individual.
that's not a good thing. Children should be children, they shouldn't have responsibilities forced on them. He looks depressed
I mean you can't really know how he feels unless you were in his shoes. I mean that could of always been his personality... people are different lol. To me he seems so mature more than likely due to the unique situation he is in with his brother and needing to be his guidance as the older brother/role-model and watching out and helping his brother grow as an individual who can take care of himself and learn how the world truly is for his future. He seems very smart for his age and I believe he will be fine as he grows older. He will understand why things were the way they were with age.
oh and plus he is on camera sooo some people are just awkward or act different when they are being watched/recorded
Griffin is so wise and mature. It’s always challenging trying to balance the needs of all the family.
Griffin is an angel, bless his heart ✨
i pray griffin find happiness. i don’t know why i see such sadness in his eyes…i just want to hug him
I think both of these boys are awesome kiddos. Griffin needs a day to himself sometimes. A day where he's the focus and get to do whatever he wants to do. I say this because he seems so sad. He's just a little boy but is so mature for his age. He's only got one chance at childhood and I'm afraid he's missing out 😢 Don't make him grow up too fast and have too much responsibility at his age.
@Stella doll stop being rude!!!!
I don't think he's missing out of childhood, they seem to have a lot of fun. It's a different experience with an additional responsibility, that's for sure, but I don't think he's losing the core of what a healthy childhood looks like. I agree that it'd be great if he has some time for himself though.
Yes well said Texas proud
I'm sure (pre c19) he has his own things to do, but because this is a day in the life of both boys with one 📷...
Yeah agreed I am kinda worried for him
Oh man, Griffin is so mature and well spoken for his age. He contemplates every question he's asked and gives extremely intelligent answers.
Poor Griffin he’s completely over shadowed he such a lovely lad
I hope Griff is allowed to see these comments and can process all of this someday with someone who can make sure he understands them.
You’re a true brother, Griffin. You define this word. You are a man so long before your time.
I just want to hug sweet little Griffin ❤️🤗🙏
Griffin is so mature. "You have to learn to loose in life"
Lose*
Why do I have the feeling that Griffin's parents have said that to him quite often in defense of Turner always getting his way or as an easy way out of situations for the parents. Griffin seems to have been forced into growing up a lot sooner than he deserves or needs. The whole family needs to remember to maintenence their own and each other's personal and mental needs too to keep a healthy balance throughout. "Hakuna Matata" ❤️
@@OneSillyGrlI was thinking the same thing
I think this is a real example of what it can be like trying to raise multiple children when one is differently abled. However, I hope Griffin gets his own space and finds his voice because it is always hard to be treated harsher because you behave a little better or respond quicker. I empathize with these parents and I hope they figure this out for these boys. It can be so difficult but you can tell how much love there is in this house. It gets better when you find your groove!
Yes I have a special needs sister griffin needs time with his parents and time to him self
I love Griffin! He’s a great kid and wonderful big brother!
I was laughing the entire time, Turner is so charming, but I cant help but feel for Griffin. That is a lot of weight to carry as an older brother, myself being one. God bless this family!
The father's raw honesty is a beautiful thing. This is really an open, wonderful family. Griffin is such a responsible, mature kid for his age -- I truly hope he does have a sense of childhood, though. You're only a child once. Regardless, I hope he knows what he does for Turner is an amazing thing.
Poor Griffin,you can see the hurt in his eyes! I had a disabled Brother and I was where Griffin is and it hurts!!!! Give him more love then you do
Hey! Where did you find the love-o-meter? How do you know how much each kid is loved?
@@biddiemutter3481 Everyone in the comments seem to have found it so no wonder this commenter did too
I wouldn't say love. Attentiveness? They clearly acknowledged what they do to Griffin and how they baby Turner. The boy needs his own space sometimes and a damn break that he isn't getting. Some one on one time. That's what everyone is saying. @@biddiemutter3481
Man Griffin is so intelligent. I hope he becomes the very best in basketball.
He is
For his age the older brother is incredibly grown up. He is more mature and controlled than most adults. I think him becoming a caregiver and a constant comforting force for his brother has turned him into a responsible and caring young man. The parents need lots of credit for raising such a wonderful young man.
Griffin seems like he went through tough and rough times like he carries sadness 😔.
It’s so hard watching this it annoys me
@@TheeOrg_JollyRancher I know, he looks so sad!
@@a.j.marcantonio153 yeees an I kno his brother has a disease but he’s smart an they should get treated equally it’s like the other way around he wants to be like him so bad it’s not funny
@@TheeOrg_JollyRancher, individual kids need customised parenting, providing the love is equal, it's not always helpful to treat everyone exactly the same way
@@biddiemutter3481 I understand that, but at the same time there’s a difference between giving individuals what they need and wrongly treating others differently which seems to be happening with griffin and turner. They should each get what they need without turner being coddled and griffin being left behind
Griffin is such a sweet laid back patient young man. He's gonna be a fine young man when he grows up. I enjoy watching them.🙏🏽🤎
You're a smart, mature kid Griffin. I know how hard it is to be a big sibling, especially when your little brother/sister is different. Just remember your parents love you just as much, and you'll miss these moments with Turner even though they're imperfect.
14:30 feels really important because you can see the real time realization in the father's eyes. i think he realized the way he infantilizes Turner in a way that does both him and Griffin a disservice. both parents being aware of their strongsuits and shortcomings is really nice to see, i can tell they're doing the best they can with good intentions even if it doesn't always turn out ideally
They are totally just raising a brat, could you imagine them going at it, like any brothers do. I can tell you turner gets away with a lot but hen wants to be treated as "normal" BS
I agree with both of y'all. But they could do better. They're coddling Turner and he's a HUGE brat. Poor Griffin has to take his hitting, copying, being left out, getting reprimanded while Turner doesn't. 😐 If they can realize what they're doing, at least dad, then DO something about it while he's still young. Otherwise Griffin is more than likely going to resent them.@@Person0fColor
@@Frosty0762I’m sure you’re doing just as poorly managing your own life
@@daisysummer514 I'm not entertaining whatever it is that you're trying to suggest without any knowledge of my life.
@@Frosty0762yep, only you can project a whole lot of garbage onto a stranger then I guess
Griffin, you are so mature of your age and you are such a good person. You protected your brother, teach him a lot of things, and don't go easy on him for his own sake. No wonder he looks up to you. Just as I believe you are lucky to have turner, turner is also so lucky to have you as his brother.
Griffin is an old soul and needs some special praise because he is strong
Griffin is a good boy and great big brother. He is Turner's hero. Turner is a natural entertainer. He's so funny. Meow meow. I know they're having a lot on their plates but Kudos to the parents.
This is one of the very very few videos which i didn't skip.... Griffin is so deep and matured... Hope their bond never breaks and lots of prayers to turner and his family
Just support Graffin's talent and ambition for the sacrifice he makes for his brother.
@Stella doll So? Your point?
I think down syndrome people awesome. I have worked with several and they are awesome.
What sacrifice ?
I think I get what you’re saying and yes the older brother does have to adjust in a way that no one would truly understand unless you have a down syndrome little brother. I do believe though this is going to make him a better person as he grows up, learning patience and loving unconditionally. His job as a big brother is just a little bigger, and he’s luckier for it.
Thats not how it works. Kids like this grow up wanting love attention and first priority. Everything they lacked in childhood. Thats how it happens always.@@dukie1616
Griffin is such a gentle boy. I hope that he gets into the NBA and become the best player in the USA. And Turner you are such an entertainer. Love to you both ❤❤
They live in Canada, not the US.
This video made me so sad. Turner is a hoot, but you can feel Griffin is zapped. It's in his eyes, his body language, his words and responses. I don't doubt he loves his brother, but I find some of the parents responses really telling. Being a parent isn't easy but it's hard seeing Griffin not getting the support and attention he needs compared to Turner. You get one shot at childhood and I worry for Turner. I hope their relationship can sustain itself when this is the foundation it's built on.
Glad someone else saw it too. Must be a lot of responsibility on his shoulders at that young of an age
As someone who has a sibling with down syndrome it can be hard but to some degree you understand why they need the “extra” love, though I 100% why his brother would sorta feel that way, btw turner is really smart for having Down syndrome
It's called glass child syndrome, when the needs of a sibling of a special needs child are overlooked.
I saw it to, as I have seen it before and I agree it is sad!
I guarantee you are a balloon head ma’am, mind your own business. Do some research, or can you? Because this is just a glimpse.
All these social media psychologists
Such wonderful siblings!
I also think it's Griffin being mellow like his dad and also extremely patient and tolerant by choice and also by force LMAO. I think he is an amazing brother to Turner. Griffin is so introverted and protective and Turner is an extroverted hoot!!! It's a good balance.
Wow. I feel like I’ve learnt a lot from Griffin. He is so mature and good kid. After 2 years i would love to see them again in this channel. Could you make another interview with them. Please
I admire the words his brother chose. So wise when it comes to their relation and his awareness for their bond and his brother in general. That‘s very rare. I know I‘m not the one to assess that but he seems a little sad in this video too.
I think Griffin is soft-spoken. Sometimes wise people are like that. He seems happy - and playful.
They complement each other so much! Such a nice relationship they have ♥️♥️♥️
I love the brother’s relationship! Griffin, you’re a great big brother! You’re a great role model for him!
I can see very clearly Griffin is only himself while he is playing basketball..that's why he likes to win...its only his chance to be mot judged or compared by others...its hard and sad..I wish you best Griffin. You deserve the best career at basketball
I love how Griffin is teaching Turner what life is,that you have deal with it as it comes.
I really hope that Griffin gets to spend one-on-one time with each of his parents since Turner gets so much attention due to his condition.
His dad did mention one on one with both the kids
I hope the parents realize that Griffin needs a life of his own let him do things with his friends without forcing him to include his brother in every little thing.(using guilt or not letting Griffin go unless he takes his brother) I speak from experience.Every child needs friends of their own.. especially as they get older.
They said that in the video so so so so many times. "We want griffin to be griffin, not just Turner's brother" and "I take griffin out alone once a week so we can have our us time".
@@schneedgod I wish there was a way to 'pin' your comment
@@schneedgod Well good, maybe they’ll let Griffin have friends and events of his own, more and more often.
Turner is so funny he'll be a great youtuber!!
Griffin I understand how you feel. My younger sister has down syndrome and our family dynamic growing up might have made me feel a little jealous some times. But never doubt that you also mean the world to your parents. They love you and are trying their best. Now that I'm an adult I am grateful for the love and hard work they put into raising my sibling and I. I love my sister to the moon and back and will always be there for her; and I'm sure all us siblings of people with down syndrome can relate to that. Love from Puerto Rico
My cousin has down syndrome (non-verbal) and he's one of the greatest things in my life, this was so heartwarming.
Griffin you are the man. You are such a mature person for your age and a great brother. Thank you for being you. Turner don’t forget to look after your brother as well.
Hopefully the parents will teach Turner to be a good sport when losing because all kids need to learn that.
Mh.. I feel bad for Grieffin.. He looks like he will soon need more space.
Little siblings do tend to cramp one's style!
Griffin: Sometimes you just have to let it go...
A child that young should not be speaking those words and with such sadness. Dear parents, I'm not trying to be rude, but it's important that you prioritise him at times and let him be relaxed and carefree than heavily burdened and melancholic the way he is now. Before it's too late...
Griffin is soft-spoken. That's not sadness. It's wisdom.
This was the very first video I saw when I learned about SBSK. It has always had a special place in my heart. This is also the first video I tell people to watch when I tell them about your channel. Griffin and Turner are two amazing brothers! The parents have done an awesome job in raising these terrific boys. Griffin has it going on, as far as how he treats Turner. He knows when to give big brother tough love, big brother protection, big brother guidance, etc. I would love to watch updates to these two in they years to come. I've already watched the most recent, but I hope you continue to show updates.
Griffin is an adult in a kids body..
I kind of feel for him..
Me to it’s so annoying to watch I feel bad for feeling that way
Amazing boys and amazing parents. Thank you Chris for the interview.
Griffin, I hope you're doing well kiddo, I hope you're happy, you feel loved and you're achieving everything you set out to! ❤️
I find there's sadness in this interview. I hope the parents (&other families) were able to watch this back and were able to work on and change things to better their family and strengthen their relationships with each other. I'd love to see an update on the whole family, especially interviewing Griffin, though that may have to wait until he's older🤷🏾♀️.
I love how honest this interview is! There’s ups and downs in all things and the struggles in this family are making each individual stronger. Well done Chris on portraying the blessings and challenges of life.
I have a disabled sister, I know how it is, His big brother is sweet and mature, but i hope he will get help and will be understood, with this situation it is very important to make sure he is really doing ok 💕
Love this family ❤️ thanks for sharing this. The honesty from the parents means so much.
Chris: what’s your favorite thing about summer
Turner: I get to eat pancakes and waffles and tea
I just absolutely love this pair !! This video makes me so happy. Turners answers to everything is brilliant !
I love this interview and the bond between brothers!! I also really appreciate the parents being open as well 🙏🏻 thank you for another great interview 💜
I honestly feel that Griffin’s tryna make his answers pleasable but there’s a lot happening in there family n behind that camera
felt the same
I've watched this several times since it's been put out. I love the bond between these boys. It melts my heart. Turner is a hoot, and Griffin has a wonderful heart. 👏
First, mad respect for the parents for introducing the ICONIC Beastie Boys to your kids! Second, this was a great and honest interview and I really loved the insight. Third, incredible family with TWO outstanding boys who I know will succeed on life. Last note, even with “typical kids” you can’t coddle them, you have to teach them how to lose and how it leads to improvement… his brothers insight into how the real world works is only going to help his lil bro and make him stronger! Griffin is wise beyond his years… something to. Be proud of!
Well said! And Griffin may be restraining himself for the interview but I get the impression that he probably gives as good as he get. Which is enough normal!
I want Turner to have a TH-cam channel when he grows up
they actually do! their dad posts videos on his yt, robscott
turner and griffin also have their individual channels
What are they?
@@jellynellye
Griffin is co-parenting. LOL
Griffin seems so sad and dejected. I hope he learns one day that he is loved no less than his little brother.
That Griffin and Turner truly are the most adorable brothers ever💜💜 I see sadness in sweet little Griffin, both boys need the same amount of love, attention and time from their parents, wishing the best for both boys, sending them prayers and big hugs...
Tuner has such a superb attitude and so energetic.
Griffin is sucha loving, mature, intelligent boy. Turner is blessed to have Griffin as his elder brother.
I kinda feel bad for big bro... Def a bright kid, very patient, but you can tell who gets the attention.
I feel so sorry for Griffin… He says the things 😢that everyone else wants him to say! Griffin is showing hurt. These parents have 100% failed PRECIOUS GRIFFIN!!
As a child of six my wonderful Mama made each one of us ( 70 to 60 years old) feel that we were her FAVORITE CHILD!
Go and visit him and be his mentor if it bothers you so much
Chris you bring a Lotta awareness with children and adults with disabilities I love watching your videos learning experience for those people they have no children or adults like this very impressed
Griffin is too mature for his age.
@Stella doll omg stop!
Righttt
Not true, I think. Not everybody is an entertainer in front of a camera. He seems like a wonderful, kind brother. They fuss at each other, tease each other, and play just like any other set of brothers. Some people seem to be too critical and judgmental here about Griffin and who they are assuming he is and what he's thinking. I love the dad's response on advice. "I'd give the doctors more advice" Amen!
Yes exactly. Reminds me of me when I was growing up basically parenting my mom who has scitzoaffective disorder which is bipolar and schizophrenia on top of dealing with abuse in the house, Just carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, feeling like your feelings aren’t important, and that you were born to take care of the person. You just never gained an identity that doesn’t revolve around being the caretaker and the one who always gets the brunt of things because “you know better”.
They are truly a wonderful family. Bless them all with happiness, health, prosperity and much love, always🙏
i hope griffin gets through this!! i hope this doesnt affect hos mental health in the future
I feel bad for Griffin. Look how hard his brother pushes him :(
I'm so in love! How real and true this video is!
Such a lovely relationship!
Wonderful Parents - All sharing the sorting out together!!! Great Brothers!
I feel like you. I have a Grandson that has downs and him and I very close. I have learned and Loved so much from him. So fortunate to have him. Love your boys!
The older brother is an old soul!
he looks sad to me
@@Gorda_ fr tho:/
Came to re-watch and enjoy. Did both, and am now excited to comment on a video ! Those boys are fun.
I applaud Griffin and Turner! Kudos boys. Thank you for this interview.
Bless this whole family for real
When these boys grow up, this video will be so priceless. I miss my big brother. I love this video.
5:54 that sass of griffins face was amazing
Yeah i replyed mny mny times i like
They are both really smart and adorable. They look really disciplined and overall great kids. Parents must be doing something right.
Griffin needs more attention, may we send him a few gifts?
Please do it’s so aggravating Watchn this I’m sorry
I loved seeing this update and the boys. Two very special kiddos! Their parents are wonderful too 😀
My cousin Susanne was one of those extraordinary human beings. She was so joyful, sweet funny. Dad, when you spoke about going to the Mall with Turner, to give the shoppers the awesome joy experience of Turner!!! EXACTLY. Suzy's #1 knock, knock joke. Suzy: Knock, knock. "Who's there?" Suzy : "It's me!" She was an artist. She would have been 60 this fall. "Heart. Back in the olden days they left those 7 holes!" Turner and Griffin thank you!! And an extra thank you to your folks, of course! 🎉🎉🎉🎉😊
that's the sweetest video I've seen in years, i'm in love with this family
Beautiful family and awesome brother’s relationship, nothing like family! 🙏🏻🙏🏻💙💙
I love the look Griffin gave his brother. So much love in it ❤
What stood out most to me in this video is how awesome that dad is!
Both of those boys are such a blessing ❤️❤️
Such a beautiful brother relationship, I think Griffin is a very wise young man, and I think Turner has a strong personality, two cute brothers, they are adorable. I wish for them both, lots of happiness. 😊❤
I love 💘 how he loves his big brother. He's so full of joy
The parents both really need some alone quality time with Griffin. The parents are treating Griffin like a third parent and coming down on Griffin when he wants time away from Turner. It needs to be okay to have his own alone time. And yes, Turner is disabled but he’s able to understand a lot. He throws a lot of temper tantrums and gets away with a lot that he shouldn’t. But if Griffin did the same, I’m guessing he’d get punished. Two standards. I have a feeling as he gets older he’s going to be leaving Turner behind a lot. I was the oldest and my parents did the same thing. I was always having to be responsible for my brothers. I never had a childhood because of responsibilities. The parents really need to hold Turner accountable and find ways to discipline him also. Stop feeling like Turner feels sorry for his disorder. You are imputing your feelings of guilt on Turner and he exploits this. It really isn’t fair to his brother and it’s not fair to him. As he grows up, this behavior will continue and it is much harder to control him as an adult.
I had the reverse: my older step brothers were always dragging me along with them when I wanted nothing to do with them. I was so relieved when they moved out.
Beautiful family who loves their boys. Incorporates both boys likes and adventures. What a great family they've built.
How precious! What great brothers....
I just love them so much griffin is so mature and soft spoken and turner is so cute ….
Griffin is so lucky to have Turner! Turner is a gift. He is phenomenal and he teaches us all what it means to be human. Love you Griffin and Turner. And your beautiful parents!
These kids are The Best! Turner is so funny, he needs a TH-cam channel! And Griffin is an amazing big brother! You can see how much Turner looks up to him.
I loved this video. Great loving family!
Ok, the dad! "You're so lucky you got this". I can't even come up with the words to describe how positively I feel toward this man after that slice of commentary. I was on pins & needles wondering what he was going to say when asked by Chris "what advice would give yourself (looking back) when you first received the diagnosis. I had no IDEA he would go where he went with that: "I wouldn't give myself any advice...I'd give the doctors advice". Protect this man at all costs...there's not another anywhere to be found on this planet.