I still remember the day I made the day of a Deaf couple. It was three years ago and I was working as a cashier at a restaurant where you ordered from one person and paid afterwards with the cashier who then gave you the food. I noticed them down the line ordering, but it was very busy and I would've had to leave my position to go help them. The woman was clearly more comfortable with speech than the man, so she was ordering for the both of them. He would sign to her what she wanted, and she would order it. By the time they got down to me at the register, they had just accepted that nobody here knew sign language and were doing their own thing. Then they got to me. At the time, I had been taking classes in ASL for about 3 years and was pretty confident in my ability to hold a conversation. Once they got to me, I saw the man sign to the woman "Tell her" and she was preparing to speak when I did a hand-wave and signed "I know ASL. You can sign to me." I will never forget their faces. They lit up in a way I can never describe with words. I rang them up entirely in ASL and even joked with them a little bit. I could tell it made them so happy. I was treating them like the humans they are. I will never forget that and if I get the opportunity to do it again, I would in a heartbeat.
“It breaks my heart that I feel normal, but a lot of people don’t see me that way.” Strong words. You’re a very strong person, Molly. Loved this video and loved seeing you open up about your struggles as well as many others. 💕💘
That's how I feel too. I do know I have disabilities, but I feel very normal. Until that 'one' day, I break down like Molly did and cried when people start to point out things that I am not normal. Then, a realization come to me. I started to doubt people around me and from the past. I started to question their sincerity to be friends with me just because I have disabilities. But, I'm glad to have people who love me just the way I am especially my family. I am truly grateful.
It's sad because I can relate to those words all to much.... Little things that are second nature to you dipict what others think of you.. Does the word " Normal " Even exist? We're all different in our own ways.... Shame how all because your normal is different than someone else you have to be labeled, why can't everyone just be friends and accept people? :(
I don't have a disability but that really somehow rang true to me. We all get used to our circumstances and unless someone points out our differences the world is just the world.
I have cerebral palsy..I relate to that. I forget that I walk different and have poor balance. When I feel down on life I need to remember to check my gratitude list. I'm really grateful for what I CAN do!
One of my teachers last year liked to remind me that I’m autistic all the time, I kind of want to send him a clip of this, no context, just let him figure it out
My partner came home after work yesterday pretty upset because his coworker is going to become blind within the next year. They are both in the army and the mans passion in life is art and drawing. My partner was devastated for his friend and couldn’t imagine losing sight being an artist. I told him about your love of fashion and esthetic , once I showed him your videos he really felt a lot of peace knowing how possible it is to continue having a life and enjoying the things you love in a new way after becoming blind. He went to work today and shared your videos with his friend and you’ve given his friend so much hope for his future.
I'm an artist as well and blindness runs in my family. My uncle and my Dad are pretty much blind. My Dad is blind in his left eye. He sees shadows like Molly. The right eye is starting to go now due to glaucoma. I got my eyes checked and my eye pressure is up in the same eye as my Dad. They said it's most likely glaucoma and to get on it quick.
I was medically separated out of the Marine Corps, I am considered a disabled veteran at the age of 23. I have nerve damage on the left side of my body and cannot walk well and cannot run/squat at all. Im in constant pain and people are ALWAYS telling me I am “not a disabled veteran” because Im “too young, dont look disabled, am not disabled enough”. This video hit home for me, I am in tears. Thank you for this, Molly. Thank you. People need to know the variation of disability, and how different it really is from what people expect it to be.
Most disabled veterans are first disabled under 30, what the heck? The majority I know who didn't get labelled a disabled vet before 30 were fighting the VA since before 30!
My brother faces these same struggles as a 27 year old disabled marine and I've been vouching for him and fighting for help and I hope you get the support you deserve, 💕💕💕
I work as a cashier in a store. Two days ago a man and his daughter came into the store. I noticed the man was blind right away by the way he was holding her elbow. I had never actually met someone that was completely blind before but I always want to be nice and not look at them as 'a blind man'. So he asked me for cigarettes after his daughter had finished putting the stuff on the table. I had to walk away for a second to get the cigarettes so I just said 'I'll get them from over there really quickly.' He probably wouldn't have talked to me anyways because he was talking with his daughter, but I felt like I had to let him know I was walking away for a second. Because of me finding your channel I am doing those small things that would really help you out, but at the same time I'm also treating them like another customer. Another time someone entered the store with a service dog. I didn't notice at first that it was a service dog because his harness was out of my sight. When I saw it though I paid no mind to the dog, letting him do his job. I don't know why I shared this haha. I think mainly because I want to let you know you are making people like me more aware. I was always aware of course, but I'm socially awkward so I never really know what to do or say in certain situations. Discovering your channel has really helped me and I'm sure many others' too!
TaeKLynn V bravo for you! You’ve accomplished a lot. Admitting you feel socially awkward takes a lot of courage. Learning from these videos is making you an even more compassionate person than you already are and plus an even better employee who knows how to follow ADA law, while making the customer feel valued.
I worKed in a super market and we had one blind customer - he used to hand me a list and I would quickly gather the things he needed and then help him to the checkout where he could pay. And we had one deaf customer. The first time she came in she wrote everything on a note. The next time she came in I had learned the sign for “thank you” and she was SO happy when I was able to communicate with her in such a small way. But I made an effort and it seemed to make her day. Cannot believe we do not learn sign language as a mandatory language in school. Imagine being shut away from your peers with nobody to talk to ❤️💔
My dad has always been fairly deaf. He can hear some things, but it's very hard. He lied all the way through his life to employers about his disability because he knew he'd get turned away. It was always embarrassing for him when people thought he was just too stupid to understand them, when really he just couldn't hear. It wasn't until recently that he has been able to get hearing aids that work well enough for him to function better in life. And by lying about his disability for so long, he really missed out on the deaf community and support. To make it lighthearted, he once didn't tell me he was wearing his new high-tech hearing aids, and so for two hours I was talking in the volume I've spoken to him my whole life, and he finally goes, "Why are you screaming at me?" Hahahaha
Wow this was a very nice story to read.. your dad must have gone through some very tough times.. takes a lot of character to be that strong. thanks for sharing
@John M. Castillo It was the volume I'd always spoken to him in, because it's the only way he could hear me. But he was wearing his new high tech hearing aids, so he was finally hearing how loud I actually was.
Vulnerability, crying, and just feeling the weight of a lot of emotions doesn't take away from how positive you are, and honestly, I bet it felt pretty good to get that cry out. I'm also glad you shared that restaurant with us, it's important to put businesses and people like that out there for more people to see.
My dad lost his arms in an accident when he was 11. He is now 53 and he is the most capable man I know. He is a high school teacher and he do everything a non-disabled person can do and even more. Yes he can, cook and get dressed by himself and he is also a very skilled driver. He has been married to my mom for 10 years and have 3 children. This summer, he gave conferences to the rehabilitation center he went as a kid to help people who also are missing limbs. He amazed us everyday by his determination and strong will to keep going. However, last year I went through hard times that ended up in me being temporarily paralyzed. It’s then that I realize what he had to go trough. I was so lucky to have my dad help me and share some of his tips with me. It hit me in the face how I took what I had for granted and how frustrating and embarrassing it felt to have my mom feed me for exemple, because I wasn’t able to hold the fork. Now I am better. That was for sure an experience that I learned a-lot from. And I can tell, that after 3 months, being able to climb up the stairs felt like such an accomplishment. So, all of this to say a special thanks to my hero, my dad. ♥️ Thank you for reading this.
I’m losing my hearing and I’m a singer .... and it’s a very slow progression but it’s heartbreaking and people at school called me the r word because I have to ask a lot of questions when the instructor says something. (She has a very small voice) and it’s like... idk losing your hearing is super scary and while I can’t imagine how losing sight would be, I can understand the fear of losing a sense. You’re such an inspiration and I adore you. For real. Thank you.
Omg this breaks my heart, I’ve been singing my whole life too and I always thought it would be so scary to lose my hearing. You are so strong and I may not know you personally, but I believe in you and am supporting you! You’ve got this ❤️❤️
You’re amazing Molly and it’s okay to cry and get emotional it’s what makes us human. Look at how far you have gotten and what you have built. You’re fantastic !
I know im not blind or have a disability but you really made me cry thinking one day I couldn't see or hear. It really breaks my heart seeing somebody I look up to and cherish cry, Molly if I ever see you (Even though I live in Australia) I promise to not treat you different and will treat you like any normal friend. Molly I owe the world to you, because of you my depression is getting better and im starting feel happy. Molly thank you for helping so many people.
This video is so inspiring. I was diagnosed with Retinitis Pigmentosa about 2 years ago (I'm now 14) and mine is progressing very slowly. But it gets difficult because in the day I see fine and I feel normal but I've lost my night vision so whenever it gets dim or dark I can't see. It sucks that I have this constant reminder of what is happening to me when the sun goes down. It sucks that when it gets dark I have to walk slowly behind my group of friends or I have to remind people that I can't see. It sucks that people stop inviting me to hang out with them at night because they think it's too much work to be with me. It sucks at school dances I have to be with people I trust or I stand in a corner because I can't see. I understand that people are going through worse things and are in worse situations but it still gets hard.
Sanjana K I can't quite relate, and in no way would I consider myself disabled, but I kinda get what you're saying. I have some poor vision and I wear glasses and that makes things clear, but when I take my glasses off everything's really fuzzy. I can relate to what your saying though. I don't even remember I'm wearing glasses until I take them off at night, or they break and I can't do homework, or someone asks if they can try them on. I don't think it really makes things as hard as being blind/semiblind or something along those lines would, but it definently sucks
Technically other people do have it worse, but that doesn’t mean you are any less valid. I’m sorry that people treat you differently because of your disability but don’t lose hope. You are an amazing person who deserves good things in your life. Know that there are people out there who want support you and be there for you just like what you would do for them. I hope you have an amazing rest of your day.
It doesn't matter that other people may have it worse. Everyone has problems and it's unrealistic for you to dismiss them just because someone else may have it "worse." Unfortunately the friend thing will likely always happen, but you will find friends willing to invite you to everything. :) I have two friends that plan for me so all I have to do is show up, and they make sure everything is accessible and all I have to do is show up. I also have friends that ask me to hang out, and then I have to remind them that I can't do x, y, or, z because I have mobility issues. It's unfortunate, and I wish they would think about it more often, but just keep in mind that some of your friends will forget about your disability at times. Some friends also don't invite you because they think you won't feel up to it. I found that letting them know that I can decide for myself if I feel up to something helped a lot. They were worried I would feel obligated to do things with them when I didn't feel like it. Communication can help a lot. (sorry this is so long
I 100% understand what you're going through! I remember dealing with all those things when I was a kid. I've never had night vision because my RP is very aggressive, so my whole childhood I remember feeling that exact way. I just want you to remember that it's okay to cry and be frustrated and ask why me, but it's not ok to live like that. You are going to get through it, it's not the end of the world, even though it feels like it sometimes. You aren't alone in this.
I don't have any disabilities myself, but I work as a nurse and I meet a lot of disabled people due to my work. It always breaks my heart when they tell stories about how they can't find jobs or love because of their disability and I wish more people would be accepting and willing to give them a chance. I recently heard of a case where a nurse student got into a car accident and lost the ability to walk in her last year of school. She wanted to quit nursing school but her friends convinced her to keep going. Now she's working as a nurse from a wheelchair. Something that might seem impossible to some, but she's proving to everyone it's possible. And you, Molly, is proving to everyone it's possible to be blind and work as well. Hopefully more people will realize how capable disabled people are and what an asset they can be as an employee. Technology is also improving all the time and my hope is that with the help of technology and a more open societal view on disabled people, we could remove the limitations. I want to thank you for my patients sake for bringing awareness to this issue and help make the world a more accepting place.
AM that is so beautiful! Empower her everyday. You have no idea how much that will make our days. By empowering her, she will feel confident and her patients will take away the stereotype. Having bad medical experiences, please listen to your patients and please look at the patients history. I had a doctor that asked if autism be removed from my record, but if this medical profession read my record he/she would have seen a nonverbal case. Research about autism doesn’t know if the symptoms comes back when I get to old age.
Molly, this topic is so important. Thank you for doing this video. As parents to a houseful of teens and young adults who are just beginning to transition from school to the "real" world, and also happen to be blind and have additional disabilities, employment is a big concern as are their rights. It almost seems like families have to create the jobs for their children to succeed. Our first adoptee was blessed to be hired by a local coffee shop that built the business for their Autistic daughter. Our Hannah is the first blind person they have hired to work in the kitchen. We are so proud of them for having the courage and to believe in her ability to give her that opportunity. She is thriving there and has become a valuable asset to their business. My blood boiled when you talked about the car speeding off because of your guide dog. We have seen it happen with just the cane, too. We started a black car service for that reason among others. That is just how it goes, but shouldn't! You are an amazing ambassador for all of us. keep up the great work! btw, your hair looks striking against that painting! 😉😄😊💕
SixBlindKids hey guys yes I will agree with you there it's on the site the parents have to find jobs for their children with disabilities or self jobs for their children with disabilities in my opinion it should be the site a community that actually gets the job is for us if they did that we would actually have a better world
@@jordanmahonytheblindworld8483 Thanks, Jordan! Hannah's school actually hooked us up with her employer which we so appreciate. But we have realized that we have our work cut out for us, especially regarding our "lower functioning" three to help them achieve their best potential. I like the model that Hannah's shop uses where they hire typical employees to work alongside those living with disabilities. Inclusion at every level is key and will lead to a broader sense of acceptance. We have 3 seniors this year. We can't help but wonder where they and all their classmates will work. We are doing our best to have something ready for some of them by the time those kids are 22 and ready to enter the workforce.
@@LaurenMca So sorry to hear that Lauren. Sometimes, depending on where you live, there are government agencies that might be able to help. You can also go to local autism support groups and ask if they know of places or google to see if there are employers in your area that support employees living with disabilities. If you are in school or recently out, you can go to your counselor or case manager. Make your need known to those who truly care about you. We hope you can find something soon! 💙
SixBlindKids I live in NYC so I went to get help from access VR and then I did a job training program but it was not helpful. A friend said they would hire me but I’m waiting to hear back. Luckily I have a place that I go to called Felicity house that is so great.
Ahh i can't get over this! I contracted a TERRIBLE disease when i was 29 and the providence (I lived in Canada at the time) wouldn't grant me the home care services that i DESPERATELY NEEDED (I couldn't walk and badly move) saying that i was "too young" to need home care as most of their clients were elderly 🤢
Orion Bear that’s absolutely horrible! People act like younger people can’t have certain things like that bc elderly ppl are more prone to it. It’s so sad:(
It's one of the things I've heard for so long and one of the worst! I was born into one of my chronic illnesses, developed the rest in adulthood. When people say I'm too young to say my body hurts or im so tired, it feel like my pain and the way my illnesses make me feel is invalid. Just today I was in the waiting room at my primary care physician's office and I had a hard time getting up from the chair when called and made noises like oof or ugh and the assisting NURSE said that oh come on, you're too young to be making those noises....like ummm seriously?!?!
As an able bodied person I just want to chime in and say thank you. I am so embarrassed to say that I have treated people with disabilities with kid gloves in the past. I did it because everything I saw on tv or in books was about how as the able bodied one I should be extra helpful, extra nice, and over all give special treatment. And I know I am not alone in that. As an adult I have made an effort to learn and improve the way I treat others, and videos like this are so important. I think back about when I was "being helpful" and my heart hurts so bad thinking about how it made that person feel embarrassed or stupid. Your videos help dummies like me become better people- thank you
I think we haven't been educated well by the media sensationalizing disability. We see severe cases of disability being shown as the norm. Sure those cases exist. No one denies this. But the fact is, we are treating regular folks who are just a bit different as aliens or fragile glass. We don't even listen to them when they say they are good and don't need help. We give them special treatment when they neither ask nor want it. Thank you for being more aware and genuinely feeling remorse for your past. It's how we learn. I am sure some time in the past I have been equally as ignorant. But we just need to move forward and be more educated.
Hey I agree ! I didnt know better. I haven't personally known anyone disabled and I dont know how to personally treat them. I am a server and have had some deaf customers, I know basic ASL and he got so excited when I asked how his day was. But until I started watching these videos I always tried to be more careful with them, like you mention, I feel in the past media portrays disabled people as something so fragile. I appreciate molly and these videos, and I hope people with disabilities get more equality
I think it’s important not to treat the differently but with consideration. So say you are working in a shop and you can see someone in a wheelchair, they are unable to reach something. Ask them if they would like help and then give them help with what they need. Just mention that if they need any more help to let you know but let them get on with it. Dont assume they need help with everything, they may be able to do most of what they need to do.
This video has stopped me in my tracks. I’m riddled with privilege and feel so overwhelmed and angry with how people with disabilities are put in a box. 80% unemployment for the blind community?!?!? 🤯 And the conversation about how no one signs up for a disability, so it truly is something everyone should care about - you really never know if it could become your journey.
For someone who has Lupus this video is super relatable. I have what’s called an “invisible illness” and I constantly struggle with people judging me because they can’t “see” what’s wrong with me. There are a lot of things I can’t do but people will tell me “you’re too young to be tired” “you’re too young to feel that way” etc. it’s a chronic illness that’s never going away and you shouldn’t tell me how I should feel. I’m afraid of trying to get a real job because I’m constantly thinking about “what if I get sick and can’t work and then I get fired because I don’t get better?” There was a long time I just stopped talking about my illness because i felt I was just annoying those around me. It’s rare to find people to relate these feelings with. So I’m glad you posted this video Molly. Thank you for this 💜
Oh molly. This made me cry as well. It breaks my heart as well that the majority of people do not understand. Its exactly like this for people with mental health problems as well. Because they look fine but on the indside they are not fine. It breaks my heart that people can be insensitive. We shouldn't have to prove that something is wrong.
Dianne Penfold that’s what I said! I have bad anxiety and people are like “just be happy and calm down” I can’t okay, it doesn’t work that way. You wouldn’t tell someone with cancer to stop having cancer. Ya know? We just all need to support each other and try to understand.
You give me the reminder not to limit my disabled brother molly, he is capable to do anything and i will support him all the way. Thank you so much for showing me how strong people with disabilities can be
I over heard a group of friends talking about you lol 1st Friend: "Hey do you watch Molly Burke?" 2nd Friend: "Hmm sounds familiar...describe her" 3rd Friend: "OH THE GIRL WITH PINK HAIR?!" 1st Friend: "Yeah! Her " * :)* 2nd Friend: "Yeah! I watch her" *:)* not once did they mention your disability
Rory N. That is so nice, I am actually blind and it is so frustrating sometimes, like I remember one time I was visiting this family friends house and the guy was on the phone talking to some other friends and I think they could hear me laughing so they asked oh who’s there with grill is there with you, and then he said my first name, and then I just heard him say, yeah exactly and this super awkward voice and I’m pretty sure they asked, oh the blind girl? And it’s just so sad when that’s all people see,
I really appreciate this! One of my best friends is in a wheelchair and when we graduated High school, the guidance consular gave us all a talk about possible carriers, except her. She got the "you have to have realistic goals" and a pamphlet for an activity center that gives people who cant work hobbies etc. so they have something to do. now, she has a degree in special education and volunteers teaching there! So proud!
Your hair is amazing! This video, just, thank you. My son is disabled. Autism, nonverbal, intellectual disability. One of those "invisible" disabilities. My hope is that one day he too can just be "basic" haha. I hope he can go get his own coffee when he's in his 20s. I hope he can have a job. He's 6 and I just have so much hope for him.
hold on to that hope! There is so much we don't understand about Autism, I believe that the future will be very different for people on the spectrum. Currently binging the show Atyplical and I'm learning so much about people on the spectrum
I loss my vision in one eye 11 months ago, I’m struggling with pain and depth perception and no job. I love how Molly connects us all. Makes us feel better by struggling together and being happy together too :)
My grandpa lost his sight in one eye from an accident when he was young but that never stopped him from achieving his goals. He did so much in his life and I know I can't speak for him as I don't know what it was like to have no sight in one eye, but he was definitely one of a kind. He always approached life appreciating everything he had rather than what he hadn't. He was always smiling and joking and happy everyday up until his death last year at 101. I loved him so much. I hope this gives you some hope for the future
Awww I’m sorry you guys have to go through that x it must be so scary to lose your vision... being born blind is one thing but going blind later in your life I feel like is so scary 💜❤️💜 You guys are strong! 💪🏼
I was born with Cystic fibrosis which is more or less an "invisible illness". If I had a dollar for everytime someone told me "well you look fine", or "you don't look sick", then I would have more money than the damn Kardashians. Molly you are so inspiring, and I don't know what it's like to be blind but I know how hard it is to deal with disability and stay positive. Its HARD, and its ok to break down and let it out. Girl I've been there too. Just brush yourself off and take it a day at a time.
I have chronic medical illness also, which isn't obvious to those who don't live with me. Most days are really super difficult, and I had to leave the profession I'd trained for and loved. I found that the people who care matter and the others don't. It is ok to have days when you cry and let go of those emotions deep inside where you are always trying to be "a big girl" and suck it up. Sometimes you just want to be "like everyone else" until you realize that most people have something bothering them silently also and you can't see it either.
I’m on disability for my heart condition and my depression. I’ve had multiple heart surgeries and get asked all the time why I’m parking in the handicapped spot. You can’t see my disabilities but they are very real, they wouldn’t just give me a handicapped sticker and SSI/Foodstamps every month for the rest of my life for no reason. I had to prove to them I had these disabilities, hundreds of doctors visits and notes and documents. I’m on a ton of medication. It’s hard when people tell you you’re faking what you have, like I wish it was fucking fake.
I can see this was difficult to film. Im disabled and i am 27. Everything you said HIT HOME HARD. I totally feel you. You feel so alone yet you know you arent. I also understand the whole “just wanna be a 27 (24) year old...”. Me too. The saying that helps me push forward is that “bad things only come to people who can deal with, good things go to people who deserve it.” Thank you for doing this video. I was struggling this week too and today you helped me.
Girl, I know you just want to be normal, but you are so much better than normal. Your positivity and your actions make you a beacon of light and inspiration to the world.
I love your videos. Two years ago I was diagnosed with NMO/devics disease. At 26 while working as an RN and a mother of a 5 year old, within the span of two weeks I went from 20-20 to 20-/600 in both eyes and was paralyzed from the chest down. I’ve since recovered the ability to walk and can walk with forearm crutches short distances however I will be blind forever. Thanks for posting such inspiring videos. They help more than you know ♥️
I'm so proud of you Molly. You are so kind and caring. You are the most inspirational person I have ever known. Keep up your amazing work. Know the killer bees will always be here for you. Lots of hugs and kisses being sent to you and Gallop. Love from Isla ♡
I'll never forget the first time I met a blind woman she was out shopping and went to the till to pay when she was counting the money she dropped some and did not hear it fall I was 3 people behind her nobody said anything or offered to help I as a six year old girl knew she needed help I walked up to the counter picked up the money and said : excuse me but you dropped some money I Will never forget the genuine happy shocked look on her face as she thanked me and I gave her the money back I said it was no trouble and said how cute her guide dog was I will never understand why people won't help others disabled or otherwise there was 3 adults in front of me none of them helped her why???
I know! I had a family member that was disabled. Including being blind. He needed plenty of assistance, and it's great that he had some. It's heartwarming to see the ones who need assistance get assisted. 😌
This video literally brought me to tears. My mom struggles with the same condition you have, Molly. She’s one of the ones who can’t get a job because people are scared to hire her. Even though she got a bachelors AND a masters degree while almost completely blind. It’s sad. I hate seeing how people treat her. Or me while I’m out with her. Thank you for bringing this up. It means so much and I’m so glad there are people like you in the world ❤️
I will never understand why people think it’s their business to say something to someone parking in a disabled parking space. If they have the placards for it why do you care? I’m sorry you have to put up with peoples BS.
I have my grandma's old car and her handicap is still valid. I'm not disabled but one of my good friends is (he has osteoporosis so he can't stand for long amounts of time as well as many other handicaps) and anytime he rides with me I use the placard. So many people give dirty looks or say rude stuff. when we go to Disney he gets to use the disabled line we get horrible looks especially when he is having a good day and doesn't need his wheelchair. Sucks people don't understand not all disabilities are visible.
I agree I am disabled and on oxygen and a whole lot of muscle and mobility issues. My hubby parked in a handicap space so I could shop well an elderly woman drove by yelling I am not handicap. She has a handicap plate also. I look way younger for 51 not that that should matter. She came in the store behind me and boy she was a walking way way faster and further than I could. I would have loved to yell you are not handicapped but I am not that type of people. I love your spunk and videos
I will admit that before I took psychology classes and stuff that I use to judge someone who looked fine but had handicap plates. Now if someone else starts to judge someone for their plates I say maybe they are disabled maybe not but it could be anything and we shouldn’t just assume they are lazy and using the system. I do slip up every now and then but i am human and still don’t 100% understand the different disabilities. Molly you are an inspiration to so many people and I’ve learned a lot from you and a few other channels to where I’ve become more accepting and understanding. Disability rights are needed. Especially in the work environment.
I had a stroke at birth and was compleatly blind up until i was 3 when my mom took me to the eye doctor and he put eye drops in my eyes it hurt like hell but i was able to see relitively well out of my right eye and as i got older thr vision in both my eyes would fluctuate but i was always considered legally blind but i could see ok up until about 6,7 months ago when my vision started going crazy with the fluxuation. I went to the eye doctor in September and found out my vision is now 20/400 in my good eye.
@@gryffindore7 that sounds like it is a really scary process. And i know eye drops hurt like hell, especially when you are young. They always had to get an extra nurse to hold my brother down with my mom (and she is also trained in holding people down) whenever we had to get eyedrops. Cause our vision sucks, mine especially, but only without glasses. And those bitches were only to open your pupil. And only have an effect for the day(luckily. Cause the light then is a Bitch. A cap would help little. Sunglasses we didn't have) you could compare that to with hearing. Instead of hearing people talk at normal volume, they are screaming in your ear. Can't they give you the eyedrops again? That it would kind of fix it temporarily again? Because if it gives you a bit of sight (and you want that of course) wouldn't that be worth trying? If it are the same relaxant eye drops I've had (really doubt it) the optician has and can administer them too. They just rarely do that. Cause for the same test i get eyedrops with in hospital, i don't there.
@@dutchik5107 sadly all the eye drops do now is hurt like a bitch and make my eyes and skin burn. Funny enough though my eyes are perfect 😂 its my brain thats fucked.
Dria Erskine please do be aware of when a disabled person is just trying to live their life, because we get SO many questions, a lot of which are very intrusive, so be conscious of when it’s an appropriate time to ask questions and when someone’s just trying to live their life and they don’t want to have to talk through their medical history
K&F Kenn when you see a dog who is clearly working, PLEASE just don’t comment. I know people love dogs, but please let the service dog do their job and their handler live their life without having to answer a ton of questions about their medical equipment
@@shutupsavannah2195 yeah, sorry. i know you're never supposed to pet a service dog. it was meant to be like as a joke. like, in the context of (in an imaginary scenario as mentioned in the original comment) if we were already introduced in person and she was already explaining being blind, that would be my jokey response. but obviously things like tone of voice and stuff just dont come across at all in text.
I love this. For me it’s hard living with an ‘invisible disability’ and I’ll be 30 in December. I was born with one of my legs longer than the other. It’s not too dramatic to where I couldn’t hide it. I have hip dysphasia, scoliosis, arthritis and in July I had my first seizure. Since then I’ve had a few more health problems. I loved this video.
Seba Zeb wow. How is the school? I am interested in it, if you can please answer. (I’m sorry for stupid question and sorry if you don’t want to answer my question)
@@thin_white_duke1 It's not a stupid question at all. Even though everyone's experience is different, for me it was a little letdown. Going in I thought I'd learn more about human nature and how our mind's work but it turned out to be more about scientific experiments and focused on disorders. I developed an interest in disorder-aspect of it so I am pursuing that as I just finished my masters.
This really opened my eyes on disabilities. My sister and my mom are disabled because of many autoimmune diseases and I didn’t know that this is how they may feel. I have such a respect for people with disabilities because I see how hard my sister and mom work to be normal. People with disabilities don’t want pity: they want you to treat them like a person. Thanks for being a role model to so many people.
Can’t wait to visit this place! I work with students with disabilities and what an amazing opportunities the man is providing. Thanks Molly for all you do.
rachel.doremi It never ceases to amaze me when I see it in comments. I did not know there has been a Reddit page about it! Some people are unbelievable.
I agree it’s ridiculous. It’s typically people who stumble across her channel, don’t watch her videos, judge her immediately with the stereotype of blindness and disabled people and automatically accuse her of faking. Ugh makes me so mad
I just wanted to say that you're not basic, Molly. You're an amazing unique person with many different facets. The way you care makes you so much more than the standard millennial model homo sapiens. And I'm really grateful you're sharing so much of your life. We should all remember that all people are made of a multitude of details and no one is defined solely by one single aspect.
Representation is so important for disabled people to gain recognition and rights. Your work is so important! I'm glad I found you on this little parcel of internet. Thanks Shane! lol
Im a 25 year old who is physically disabled and nerodivergent. I watch you because i want to lear and because i feel less alone. Even though our disabilities are different you still help me so much. It really resonates with me when you say that you feel normal but other people don't see you that way. My walker is normal for me, but most abled people have never had to think about the idea of a young adult whos struggling to walk. Thank you.
It makes me mad when people talk like that. A former employer of mine did that. I was out of work recovering from my forst eye surgery she told a friend of mine that she thought I was taking it all for attention. I can't fake the shunts in my eyes!
Before I begin my real comment then I just have to say that it was hilarious to see your mum following behind you but trying not to be seen by hiding in the bushes, I had to watch that section a couple of times and couldn’t stop laughing. Now for the real comment, as a full time wheelchair user who was not disabled for the first 40 years of my life this was an amazing video to watch, people really don’t get how difficult it is as a disabled person living in a non disabled world. Everything is different and everything is so much harder. On your channel you do a great job of showing the amazing things that you achieve every single day so to see this video of you opening up to the fact that it’s not quite that easy was refreshing. I’m sorry you got upset but I’m glad you were able to show and articulate so beautifully how it is for us, that everyday isn’t a walk (or roll) in the park and that although we may have smiles on our faces we have challenges every single day, some can be brushed off and others hurt. Thank you Molly for today being real, it helps me realise I’m not the only one having a tough time.
wheelie26 loved your comment! I feel like I’m you! I lived 44 years with no disabilities then at 44 my life turned upside down! I got a severe bacteria infection from a cat lick and had to have my right leg amputated above the knee! I also had a chunk taken out of me left leg and severe neuropathy! I’m now in a wheel chair 90% of the time! I do have a prosthetic, but it’s so uncomfortable, I only wear when I have to drive or go out for short trips! So I feel your pain! It’s so hard to go from being non disabled to disabled! I don’t know about you, but I lost at least 85% if my friends?? Good luck you my friend!! 👍👍👍😊❤️
The Maine Scratcher our stories are more similar than you think, my disability was also caused by an infection, for me it was an MRSA sepsis after a routine surgery. I totally agree about the friends thing, they flock around when you are initially ill to offer support but the longer you are unwell for, you realise that you haven’t seen a few people for a while then a few more, until there are very few left. I wish you all the luck in the world and hope that your prosthetic improves in comfort, if that’s what you want x
I can relate to this so much. I'm 23 and I need a wheelchair because I can't walk long distances due to diabetic complocations and I always feel like people look at me and think 'she doesn't look disabled'. I've also just found out I need surgery or I am going to be blind by next year. There is no guarantee it will work because of how advanced the retinopathy is. I am so scared but watching your videos is really helping me to see that if it doesn't work it's going to be difficult but ok x
I just stumbled upon your channel. I could be your mom. I’m a high school teacher. You are doing GREAT things with this channel. This video really impacted me. I’m not disabled (but I have struggles) but what gets me is the disabled students I work with. I SEE them and yet so many people don’t. One particular mom thanked me profusely and all I did was treat her son like as if he were my own. I pray you change hearts and minds so everyone can be SEEN with things that don’t require vision. God bless sweet young badass awesome person.
This topic is so important Molly. As an 19 yo girl being disabled in a wheelchair because of rare chronic diseases, I relate to so many of the things you share. I try to feel as normal as possible, and in my everyday life I’m surrounded by people who see me and treat me as a regular teenage girl. But every time I go to parties with my bf and I get introduced to new people - it’s like they don’t know how to talk to me and the only question they can ask me is why I’m disabled. And that’s when my World usually break. Because again, I realize that a lot of people have some kind of anxiety to talk to me and this is the only thing they can ask me. Well, keep doing what you’re doing Molly and just scream this topic out loud! It’s so important
Ramie Lloyd Haha, I missed that but saw you and another mention it. Her name is pronounced “Nev,” but it is spelled, “Niamh.” I wouldn’t have known if it wasn’t mentioned in a past video. It is an Irish spelling. :)
This was really nice to watch. The encouraging stories and people just genuinely caring about each other and helping each other through hard times makes me a little teary. I don't have a disability but I have really severe mental health issues so like I can't keep a job and I can't go to school and it's very isolating and hard to deal with. And like you said, sometimes just remembering that you're not the only one struggling with certain things is nice because then we can all help each other. I feel like this is a good video to send somebody if they want to know the truth about being blind or having a disability. Like you feel fine or "normal" and then you have these little experiences of people treating you lesser and it sucks. All my love to you and all the guys at the restaurant y'all are doing important things
sourgreendolly well... someone can’t just decide that they are disabled. Of course you can be disabled by a mental illness, but you cannot just be like “I have anxiety I’m disabled” a medical-professional can help you decide. I too struggle with really bad mental health issues which is why I commented. I am not just some “normal” person assuming things. I have done a lot of research and just wanted to help educate.
I also deal with mental illness and it is a disability and it’s so frustrating when people brush it off like it’s something you can just switch on and off.
Molly, you are such a genuine sweetheart. I used to work with an older women who was deaf. I treated her the same as I would anyone else. I always looked directly at her when I spoke so she could read my lips and she would communicate the best she could since I didn’t know sign language. I learned some basic sign language and the day I walked into work and surprised her with it her face just absolutely lit up. From then on she would teach me anything I would ask her. Unfortunately I switched jobs and no longer work with her. She was such a sweetheart, and it makes me so sad that people like you and her get treated so differently. We also used to have a blind man who would come into shop so I would always volunteer to shop with him, because I had seen how the other workers treated him. They always said that he had a bad attitude, but every time I shopped with him he was great and I genuinely just think it was the way that they treated him. You’re wonderful Molly and you’re no different than anyone else, we all have our different struggles and you handle yours with such grace and positivity! Much love ❤️
Molly I just wanna give you such a big bear hug! 🐻❤️ His restaurant looks amazing & I love the story. The opportunity he gives for other people. Food looked delicious! Love you girl!
People sometimes dont even realise that they can hurt you with really small stuff.. Im in a wheelchair and i also hate it when people talk to the person who is with me and not to me directly..or if im in the supermarket and they see me coming but the put their trolley in the middle of the aisle so i have to ask them to move it and then they look at me pissed of because they have to move it..like im sorry my disability is inconvinient to you... I try to be extra kind to those kind of people so they start to feel bad and hopefully think twice about it next time that they are in the shop... Stay strong molly you are such an inspiration and such a kind person..dont ever feel less then anybody else because you are amazing! And big hug for gallob!
You’re such a positive and inspiring person Molly. I’m not physically disabled but I’ve been struggling with long term depression for a very long time now. Your words are extremely inspiring and beautiful
This was a really good video. My husband has cancer and is disabled because of it. I cannot even begin to tell you the ignorant comments about his cancer. We have been struggling with it for 6 years. People say “there are people who run marathons with cancer and work full time jobs why can’t you?” It’s so annoying because they have no idea what he has struggled with. That he has had a stroke and now he has seizures, that he has painful blood clots all through is vein and groin. His tumor is wrapped around his sciatic nerve so he is always in constant pain. We’ve been through so much especially my husband. I try to not let those ignorant comments get to me. But when it’s “friends” and family it’s hard not too.
I'm so sorry that people are so rude. Just try to keep your head up, they don't know what you guys have been through. I hope the future is good for you and your husband!
6 months ago my father lost his sight because of cancer and it has been really hard for all of my family just knowing that your family has expirience it for so long I admire yours and your husband strength.
Daniela Briceño I’m so sorry to hear that! I couldn’t even imagine. I hope everything goes okay for you and your family. Cancer is so hard for everybody involved 💕💕
Molly. I just wanted to say thank you because you show people that people with disabilities can do stuff to and should be treated like everyone else. I'm 15 and I have cerebral palsy which affects my muscles and coordination, it also means I can get muscle aches more easily than others. You have helped me accept that I may have disabilities but that doesn't mean I can't do what I want to or be what I want to be. Thank you again. -Melanie
I love this girl. She's so fucking *real.* Y'know? I wouldn't treat her like she's a special case, I wouldn't turn away to talk, and I would accept her guide dog despite all odds, y'know?
You should do more videos like this, even something like a docu-series Molly because I think its a very important subject with many different aspects that people need to know about, keep the good work!
This lady used to come to my job and pretend to be blind (as soon as she got busted, she suddenly wasn’t blind anymore) just so she could steal stuff and think we couldn’t care 😔 Then an actual, very beautiful lady inside and out who is blind came in. We did what we could to assist her and I’ll never forget how her confidence and kindness touched my heart. I technically have a “silent disability”, because I have seizure disorders. It’s destroyed me since my diagnosis about 8-9 months ago, although I’ve had partial seizures since I was around 9. Needless to say, you’ve inspired me a lot. I’ve so far only seen a couple videos, but I can already tell I’ll be watching your videos daily.
It's awesome that the first lady didn't change your attitude towards the second one, some would be different just because their first experience would lead all the following ones
I wanted to thank you for the video Molly Burke. I am currently disabled with server Social Anxeity, PTSD, and Bi-Polar type 2. I have been trying to get on Disability for years but every time they always tell me that just because you are diagnosed with these doesn't mean you're disabled. They tell me I can still work even though I have 4 or more panic attacks a day, i go through many episodes from my past which changes my moods and how I act that i can't control. People always think that it's "an act" so I don't have to work or that I'm lazy. I just get so frustrated and never know what to do. It sucks being mislabeled as something that someone believes you should be able to do on a spectrum of people.
Omg Molly 😭 when you started crying I just burst out crying too! I just happen to be wearing headphones in a room full of people and they were very confused lol but you are literally my all time inspiration. I’ve been binge watching your cannel for the past few months and you’ve helped me through a major rough patch in my life and I honestly feel so much better after watching your videos ☺️ Never stop doing what your doing! You change people’s lives! Love you Molly!! 😘
Society always makes people feel unqual.. we bleed the same, we share the same world.. just treat people the same no matter what their disabilities are or where they come from.
@@dr.seussisdaddymaterial6947 Well maybe you should stop abusing men whom you consider weak Chloe, and stop bitching when you get abused by men in return, hypocrite
8 years and 2 days ago, I was diagnosed with primary generalized epilepsy. Some nights, I'm angry. Because I know what I could've had. I'm 22, and there are "quintessential" experiences which I will never have, or choose not to have due to the high risk of a seizure. Other nights, I'm sad, because there was a life lost. I was 14 when I was diagnosed--in the swing of transition. But most nights...most nights I'm thankful. Thankful that having epilepsy has pushed me to where I am. I rock it. I wear the most rad blue lenses you will ever see; the very first medication I tried worked for me; I have loved ones who are living their own lives educated about epilepsy, disabilities, and seizures. If I didn't have epilepsy, I would've likely never traveled as much as I have. I might not have the academic and personal opportunities I've been granted. I have the extreme fortune to have a mild form of epilepsy--I want to be able to raise the voices of others with epilepsy who struggle more than I do. I want to support others who understand that you can get burnt out from taking the same medications everyday. I want to surround myself with people who understand the importance of our children's hospitals. I want to keep my epilepsy, I love what it's given me and how I can kick its ass (pardon my French). The most powerful thing anyone can do is share their experience.
This really hit me. For many years I’ve been complaining how I’m unable to wear shorts due to my varicose veins. I always thought I’d be judged and I thought they were ugly and people never see a 13 year old with them (usually older people get them). I made a fit not to wear my compression stocking just because i felt it was “uncomfortable” but seeing what people with ACTUAL disabilities makes me think from a whole new perspective. I have it easy and should be thankful for that. And keep doing what your doing molly. Your amazing and I truly enjoy your videos!🥰
When I was really little I thought they looked ugly, like worms in the skin, but now that I'm an adult, idk why but my whole view has changed. I think they look really cool and kinda badass in a way. Like tree roots growing up through the legs, like you're some kind of ultra-strong entity, fused with the fibres of nature. Or the purply ones look like an outer space satellite view of a river on Earth. I've also grown a fondness for other weird and funky discolourations too, like moles, freckles and port wine stains. I like to think of the skin as the night sky and the blemishes as the stars and milky nebulas and such. So don't be ashamed of your funky addons. Some people will find them gross, but they're also the kind of people who think they have to cover freckles with foundation. They're sad superficial people, and you're a beautiful tiger with epic stripes. You're beautiful :)
Whoever watches this channel and sees "basic" ...I mean, talk about being blind! Honestly, I wish that was basic! If everyone was as intelligent, positive, motivated, and capable as Molly -wow! This would be some special place wouldn't it.
I will definitely come and visit this place because I love that there is a community like this that welcomes disabled people from all walks of life, I'm Autistic and Dyspraxic so I am disabled when it comes to learning and motor skills and I really appreciate this! Love you Molly and Dan!! 🤗🤗💕 I hope to see you up there someday!
Thank you Molly. I have autism, and other disabilities and people always say ignorant things. It’s so hard to find a job and people don’t understand. You are a role model for me and I look up to you. I hate when people tell me I can’t or can do something. I heard 85% of autistic people are unemployed. It makes me so sad and frustrated. I love you, you’re my favorite TH-camr and I want to meet you someday!
Lauren M i feel you on a spiritual level. my boyfriend has Asperger, which as you'll know is similar -in some things the same- with autism and peeps react really badly when i ask not to - for example- make noise, and sometimes they will ask me why i'm with him if he has that syndrome. what can I say, I love him! and i respect and aknowledge autism! stay positive ^~^
Tel her she works at an amazing place and that Dan is an inspiration. Good on him for giving ppl with disability a job without prejudice and with total and complete acceptance. Definitely will have to look up this restaurant when I come to the States
This video was really difficult to film but I hope you appreciate the honestly and vulnerability it took.
Molly Burke you are amazing we 💗 u
Molly Burke we lysm and everyone gets upset it’s life! And we are so proud of u for all u do ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Molly Burke we love you and your vulnerability and the courage it takes to be vulnerable just inspire us 💯 you are making a GREAT job ✊🏽💜
♡ I Love you so much, Molly! 💕 💗 God bless 😘
Molly Burke here for ya 💕
I still remember the day I made the day of a Deaf couple. It was three years ago and I was working as a cashier at a restaurant where you ordered from one person and paid afterwards with the cashier who then gave you the food. I noticed them down the line ordering, but it was very busy and I would've had to leave my position to go help them. The woman was clearly more comfortable with speech than the man, so she was ordering for the both of them. He would sign to her what she wanted, and she would order it. By the time they got down to me at the register, they had just accepted that nobody here knew sign language and were doing their own thing. Then they got to me. At the time, I had been taking classes in ASL for about 3 years and was pretty confident in my ability to hold a conversation. Once they got to me, I saw the man sign to the woman "Tell her" and she was preparing to speak when I did a hand-wave and signed "I know ASL. You can sign to me." I will never forget their faces. They lit up in a way I can never describe with words. I rang them up entirely in ASL and even joked with them a little bit. I could tell it made them so happy. I was treating them like the humans they are. I will never forget that and if I get the opportunity to do it again, I would in a heartbeat.
Sierra Simpson you are amazing
I'm deaf good on you not many people know sign language here in Australia most don't
I just nearly cried at this comment. That is so cute 😭❤️
Bree Phoenix I know sign also it’s great! I haven’t learned all yet but I’ve learned most!
@@dancingdays278 good on you it should be taught throughout school
“It breaks my heart that I feel normal, but a lot of people don’t see me that way.”
Strong words. You’re a very strong person, Molly. Loved this video and loved seeing you open up about your struggles as well as many others. 💕💘
That gave me chills
That's how I feel too. I do know I have disabilities, but I feel very normal. Until that 'one' day, I break down like Molly did and cried when people start to point out things that I am not normal. Then, a realization come to me. I started to doubt people around me and from the past. I started to question their sincerity to be friends with me just because I have disabilities. But, I'm glad to have people who love me just the way I am especially my family. I am truly grateful.
@@_SY77 dont u be sad u will get what the world did NOT give u slooooowwwwly❤❤❤❤❤❤
As long as ur alive as long as u can make acheivements and friends dont look down❤❤❤❤
It's sad because I can relate to those words all to much.... Little things that are second nature to you dipict what others think of you.. Does the word " Normal " Even exist? We're all different in our own ways.... Shame how all because your normal is different than someone else you have to be labeled, why can't everyone just be friends and accept people? :(
When you said, "I don't remember that I'm disabled until people remind me that I am." -- That is what I say ALL. THE. TIME.
I don't have a disability but that really somehow rang true to me. We all get used to our circumstances and unless someone points out our differences the world is just the world.
So True I suffer from RP I was Born with it.
Focus on and make the most of the ability.
I have cerebral palsy..I relate to that. I forget that I walk different and have poor balance. When I feel down on life I need to remember to check my gratitude list. I'm really grateful for what I CAN do!
One of my teachers last year liked to remind me that I’m autistic all the time, I kind of want to send him a clip of this, no context, just let him figure it out
My partner came home after work yesterday pretty upset because his coworker is going to become blind within the next year. They are both in the army and the mans passion in life is art and drawing. My partner was devastated for his friend and couldn’t imagine losing sight being an artist. I told him about your love of fashion and esthetic , once I showed him your videos he really felt a lot of peace knowing how possible it is to continue having a life and enjoying the things you love in a new way after becoming blind. He went to work today and shared your videos with his friend and you’ve given his friend so much hope for his future.
Aww this is precious
This is such a sweet story 🖤🖤🖤
I'm an artist as well and blindness runs in my family. My uncle and my Dad are pretty much blind. My Dad is blind in his left eye. He sees shadows like Molly. The right eye is starting to go now due to glaucoma. I got my eyes checked and my eye pressure is up in the same eye as my Dad. They said it's most likely glaucoma and to get on it quick.
This made me cry, such a beautiful story/inspirational thing and I hope #mollyburke @@#mollyburke sees this comment.
This. This is why she makes videos
"See Gallop helps me not get hit by a semi truck, that's his job"
-Molly 2018
Yes this is true
SHE IS SO FASHIONABLE AND PRETTY I CANNOT
N d Ikr. She's like a real life doll! I wanna be this cute wahh
YES OMG I WAS THINKING THE EXACT SAME
She looks better than me and she can't even appreciate how she looks
RIGHT I luv her look in this vid
I was medically separated out of the Marine Corps, I am considered a disabled veteran at the age of 23. I have nerve damage on the left side of my body and cannot walk well and cannot run/squat at all. Im in constant pain and people are ALWAYS telling me I am “not a disabled veteran” because Im “too young, dont look disabled, am not disabled enough”. This video hit home for me, I am in tears. Thank you for this, Molly. Thank you. People need to know the variation of disability, and how different it really is from what people expect it to be.
Chronic pain is such a horrible thing to have. I'm almost 3 years with chronic pain and constant fatigue.
Most disabled veterans are first disabled under 30, what the heck? The majority I know who didn't get labelled a disabled vet before 30 were fighting the VA since before 30!
My brother faces these same struggles as a 27 year old disabled marine and I've been vouching for him and fighting for help and I hope you get the support you deserve, 💕💕💕
Thank you for your service! Thank you for the sacrifice. Thank you for continuing to share your story, even when told to stop. Just thank you.
Dame sorry i just get pitied by older people cuz i was in and outta hospitals since i was 11.
when Molly said "is my makeup ok" and then her mum sorted it out, I thought it was a random stranger! :)
Lauren Caris same
Me too
Same
Same
Omg same😂😂
I work as a cashier in a store. Two days ago a man and his daughter came into the store. I noticed the man was blind right away by the way he was holding her elbow. I had never actually met someone that was completely blind before but I always want to be nice and not look at them as 'a blind man'. So he asked me for cigarettes after his daughter had finished putting the stuff on the table. I had to walk away for a second to get the cigarettes so I just said 'I'll get them from over there really quickly.' He probably wouldn't have talked to me anyways because he was talking with his daughter, but I felt like I had to let him know I was walking away for a second. Because of me finding your channel I am doing those small things that would really help you out, but at the same time I'm also treating them like another customer.
Another time someone entered the store with a service dog. I didn't notice at first that it was a service dog because his harness was out of my sight. When I saw it though I paid no mind to the dog, letting him do his job.
I don't know why I shared this haha. I think mainly because I want to let you know you are making people like me more aware. I was always aware of course, but I'm socially awkward so I never really know what to do or say in certain situations. Discovering your channel has really helped me and I'm sure many others' too!
TaeKLynn V I hope more and more people get to be like you. We all just really need to observe and think of others to make a better world.
I am also very socially awkward. So half the time I don't even know how to act with anyone. But I try. These videos are really good.
TaeKLynn V you are learning and that’s what I admire about you! Im sure molly is proud of you
TaeKLynn V bravo for you! You’ve accomplished a lot. Admitting you feel socially awkward takes a lot of courage. Learning from these videos is making you an even more compassionate person than you already are and plus an even better employee who knows how to follow ADA law, while making the customer feel valued.
I worKed in a super market and we had one blind customer - he used to hand me a list and I would quickly gather the things he needed and then help him to the checkout where he could pay. And we had one deaf customer. The first time she came in she wrote everything on a note. The next time she came in I had learned the sign for “thank you” and she was SO happy when I was able to communicate with her in such a small way. But I made an effort and it seemed to make her day. Cannot believe we do not learn sign language as a mandatory language in school. Imagine being shut away from your peers with nobody to talk to ❤️💔
The one person who never fails to move me💓
My dad has always been fairly deaf. He can hear some things, but it's very hard. He lied all the way through his life to employers about his disability because he knew he'd get turned away. It was always embarrassing for him when people thought he was just too stupid to understand them, when really he just couldn't hear. It wasn't until recently that he has been able to get hearing aids that work well enough for him to function better in life. And by lying about his disability for so long, he really missed out on the deaf community and support. To make it lighthearted, he once didn't tell me he was wearing his new high-tech hearing aids, and so for two hours I was talking in the volume I've spoken to him my whole life, and he finally goes, "Why are you screaming at me?" Hahahaha
Hannah Rannah I am so sorry I will be praying for you, just know that God will take care of him.
lmao
Wow this was a very nice story to read.. your dad must have gone through some very tough times.. takes a lot of character to be that strong. thanks for sharing
@John M. Castillo It was the volume I'd always spoken to him in, because it's the only way he could hear me. But he was wearing his new high tech hearing aids, so he was finally hearing how loud I actually was.
He can hear literally almost everything with vibrations except talking and things like that. Trust me i am also deaf.
Jake just ditching filming to give Molly a big hug was the sweetest thing ever!
There best friends. 😍😍😍
Vulnerability, crying, and just feeling the weight of a lot of emotions doesn't take away from how positive you are, and honestly, I bet it felt pretty good to get that cry out. I'm also glad you shared that restaurant with us, it's important to put businesses and people like that out there for more people to see.
“I feel normal, but people don’t see me that way” yeess exactly. Thanks for your vulnerability.
My dad lost his arms in an accident when he was 11. He is now 53 and he is the most capable man I know. He is a high school teacher and he do everything a non-disabled person can do and even more. Yes he can, cook and get dressed by himself and he is also a very skilled driver. He has been married to my mom for 10 years and have 3 children. This summer, he gave conferences to the rehabilitation center he went as a kid to help people who also are missing limbs. He amazed us everyday by his determination and strong will to keep going.
However, last year I went through hard times that ended up in me being temporarily paralyzed. It’s then that I realize what he had to go trough. I was so lucky to have my dad help me and share some of his tips with me. It hit me in the face how I took what I had for granted and how frustrating and embarrassing it felt to have my mom feed me for exemple, because I wasn’t able to hold the fork. Now I am better. That was for sure an experience that I learned a-lot from. And I can tell, that after 3 months, being able to climb up the stairs felt like such an accomplishment. So, all of this to say a special thanks to my hero, my dad. ♥️
Thank you for reading this.
Your dad sounds like such an inspirational person💓i’m glad that your health has improved aswell 💓💓
samantha gaskin Aww you are so sweet 💗 This makes my day💗 Thank you
Awww he sounds like a wonderful person! Hope you stay healthy 💞
Goodness! You need more likes! Your dad seems very inspiring, and so is your story! Also, good job, have a pat on the back. 👏🏽
Faith Thank you so much 💗
I’m losing my hearing and I’m a singer .... and it’s a very slow progression but it’s heartbreaking and people at school called me the r word because I have to ask a lot of questions when the instructor says something. (She has a very small voice) and it’s like... idk losing your hearing is super scary and while I can’t imagine how losing sight would be, I can understand the fear of losing a sense. You’re such an inspiration and I adore you. For real. Thank you.
Hi, wow i know this is really weird but you're like super pretty! Do you have an ig?
Carrera Fascia I do ! (If you meant me lol)
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@@sablebyrd5225 yeah it was 😂 followed you
Omg this breaks my heart, I’ve been singing my whole life too and I always thought it would be so scary to lose my hearing. You are so strong and I may not know you personally, but I believe in you and am supporting you! You’ve got this ❤️❤️
Heyyy, I know you!!
You’re amazing Molly and it’s okay to cry and get emotional it’s what makes us human. Look at how far you have gotten and what you have built. You’re fantastic !
This took courage💗 love you!
I respect that the owner went straight to her instead of her mom or camera guy
Agreed. I have so much respect for him and I would absolutely love to visit his restaurant.
I know im not blind or have a disability but you really made me cry thinking one day I couldn't see or hear. It really breaks my heart seeing somebody I look up to and cherish cry, Molly if I ever see you (Even though I live in Australia) I promise to not treat you different and will treat you like any normal friend. Molly I owe the world to you, because of you my depression is getting better and im starting feel happy. Molly thank you for helping so many people.
This video is so inspiring. I was diagnosed with Retinitis Pigmentosa about 2 years ago (I'm now 14) and mine is progressing very slowly. But it gets difficult because in the day I see fine and I feel normal but I've lost my night vision so whenever it gets dim or dark I can't see. It sucks that I have this constant reminder of what is happening to me when the sun goes down. It sucks that when it gets dark I have to walk slowly behind my group of friends or I have to remind people that I can't see. It sucks that people stop inviting me to hang out with them at night because they think it's too much work to be with me. It sucks at school dances I have to be with people I trust or I stand in a corner because I can't see. I understand that people are going through worse things and are in worse situations but it still gets hard.
Sanjana K I can't quite relate, and in no way would I consider myself disabled, but I kinda get what you're saying. I have some poor vision and I wear glasses and that makes things clear, but when I take my glasses off everything's really fuzzy. I can relate to what your saying though. I don't even remember I'm wearing glasses until I take them off at night, or they break and I can't do homework, or someone asks if they can try them on. I don't think it really makes things as hard as being blind/semiblind or something along those lines would, but it definently sucks
High school is a difficult time but you'll get through it.
Technically other people do have it worse, but that doesn’t mean you are any less valid. I’m sorry that people treat you differently because of your disability but don’t lose hope. You are an amazing person who deserves good things in your life. Know that there are people out there who want support you and be there for you just like what you would do for them. I hope you have an amazing rest of your day.
It doesn't matter that other people may have it worse. Everyone has problems and it's unrealistic for you to dismiss them just because someone else may have it "worse." Unfortunately the friend thing will likely always happen, but you will find friends willing to invite you to everything. :) I have two friends that plan for me so all I have to do is show up, and they make sure everything is accessible and all I have to do is show up. I also have friends that ask me to hang out, and then I have to remind them that I can't do x, y, or, z because I have mobility issues. It's unfortunate, and I wish they would think about it more often, but just keep in mind that some of your friends will forget about your disability at times. Some friends also don't invite you because they think you won't feel up to it. I found that letting them know that I can decide for myself if I feel up to something helped a lot. They were worried I would feel obligated to do things with them when I didn't feel like it. Communication can help a lot. (sorry this is so long
I 100% understand what you're going through! I remember dealing with all those things when I was a kid. I've never had night vision because my RP is very aggressive, so my whole childhood I remember feeling that exact way. I just want you to remember that it's okay to cry and be frustrated and ask why me, but it's not ok to live like that. You are going to get through it, it's not the end of the world, even though it feels like it sometimes. You aren't alone in this.
I don't have any disabilities myself, but I work as a nurse and I meet a lot of disabled people due to my work. It always breaks my heart when they tell stories about how they can't find jobs or love because of their disability and I wish more people would be accepting and willing to give them a chance. I recently heard of a case where a nurse student got into a car accident and lost the ability to walk in her last year of school. She wanted to quit nursing school but her friends convinced her to keep going. Now she's working as a nurse from a wheelchair. Something that might seem impossible to some, but she's proving to everyone it's possible. And you, Molly, is proving to everyone it's possible to be blind and work as well. Hopefully more people will realize how capable disabled people are and what an asset they can be as an employee. Technology is also improving all the time and my hope is that with the help of technology and a more open societal view on disabled people, we could remove the limitations. I want to thank you for my patients sake for bringing awareness to this issue and help make the world a more accepting place.
AM that is so beautiful! Empower her everyday. You have no idea how much that will make our days. By empowering her, she will feel confident and her patients will take away the stereotype. Having bad medical experiences, please listen to your patients and please look at the patients history. I had a doctor that asked if autism be removed from my record, but if this medical profession read my record he/she would have seen a nonverbal case. Research about autism doesn’t know if the symptoms comes back when I get to old age.
"I can't change this, so the best I can do is be happy." That's beautiful. Can't agree more.
Molly, this topic is so important. Thank you for doing this video. As parents to a houseful of teens and young adults who are just beginning to transition from school to the "real" world, and also happen to be blind and have additional disabilities, employment is a big concern as are their rights. It almost seems like families have to create the jobs for their children to succeed. Our first adoptee was blessed to be hired by a local coffee shop that built the business for their Autistic daughter. Our Hannah is the first blind person they have hired to work in the kitchen. We are so proud of them for having the courage and to believe in her ability to give her that opportunity. She is thriving there and has become a valuable asset to their business. My blood boiled when you talked about the car speeding off because of your guide dog. We have seen it happen with just the cane, too. We started a black car service for that reason among others. That is just how it goes, but shouldn't! You are an amazing ambassador for all of us. keep up the great work! btw, your hair looks striking against that painting! 😉😄😊💕
SixBlindKids hey guys yes I will agree with you there it's on the site the parents have to find jobs for their children with disabilities or self jobs for their children with disabilities in my opinion it should be the site a community that actually gets the job is for us if they did that we would actually have a better world
@@jordanmahonytheblindworld8483 Thanks, Jordan! Hannah's school actually hooked us up with her employer which we so appreciate. But we have realized that we have our work cut out for us, especially regarding our "lower functioning" three to help them achieve their best potential. I like the model that Hannah's shop uses where they hire typical employees to work alongside those living with disabilities. Inclusion at every level is key and will lead to a broader sense of acceptance. We have 3 seniors this year. We can't help but wonder where they and all their classmates will work. We are doing our best to have something ready for some of them by the time those kids are 22 and ready to enter the workforce.
My problem is with the job too. I have autism and every place I keep applying to doesn’t hire me.
@@LaurenMca So sorry to hear that Lauren. Sometimes, depending on where you live, there are government agencies that might be able to help. You can also go to local autism support groups and ask if they know of places or google to see if there are employers in your area that support employees living with disabilities. If you are in school or recently out, you can go to your counselor or case manager. Make your need known to those who truly care about you. We hope you can find something soon! 💙
SixBlindKids I live in NYC so I went to get help from access VR and then I did a job training program but it was not helpful. A friend said they would hire me but I’m waiting to hear back. Luckily I have a place that I go to called Felicity house that is so great.
My Grandpa has been paralyzed since he was 9. There’s no “too young to have a disability”
Ahh i can't get over this! I contracted a TERRIBLE disease when i was 29 and the providence (I lived in Canada at the time) wouldn't grant me the home care services that i DESPERATELY NEEDED (I couldn't walk and badly move) saying that i was "too young" to need home care as most of their clients were elderly 🤢
Orion Bear that’s absolutely horrible! People act like younger people can’t have certain things like that bc elderly ppl are more prone to it. It’s so sad:(
It's one of the things I've heard for so long and one of the worst! I was born into one of my chronic illnesses, developed the rest in adulthood. When people say I'm too young to say my body hurts or im so tired, it feel like my pain and the way my illnesses make me feel is invalid. Just today I was in the waiting room at my primary care physician's office and I had a hard time getting up from the chair when called and made noises like oof or ugh and the assisting NURSE said that oh come on, you're too young to be making those noises....like ummm seriously?!?!
i think you are completly right
As an able bodied person I just want to chime in and say thank you. I am so embarrassed to say that I have treated people with disabilities with kid gloves in the past. I did it because everything I saw on tv or in books was about how as the able bodied one I should be extra helpful, extra nice, and over all give special treatment. And I know I am not alone in that. As an adult I have made an effort to learn and improve the way I treat others, and videos like this are so important. I think back about when I was "being helpful" and my heart hurts so bad thinking about how it made that person feel embarrassed or stupid. Your videos help dummies like me become better people- thank you
I think we haven't been educated well by the media sensationalizing disability. We see severe cases of disability being shown as the norm. Sure those cases exist. No one denies this. But the fact is, we are treating regular folks who are just a bit different as aliens or fragile glass. We don't even listen to them when they say they are good and don't need help. We give them special treatment when they neither ask nor want it. Thank you for being more aware and genuinely feeling remorse for your past. It's how we learn. I am sure some time in the past I have been equally as ignorant. But we just need to move forward and be more educated.
Hey I agree ! I didnt know better. I haven't personally known anyone disabled and I dont know how to personally treat them. I am a server and have had some deaf customers, I know basic ASL and he got so excited when I asked how his day was. But until I started watching these videos I always tried to be more careful with them, like you mention, I feel in the past media portrays disabled people as something so fragile. I appreciate molly and these videos, and I hope people with disabilities get more equality
I think it’s important not to treat the differently but with consideration. So say you are working in a shop and you can see someone in a wheelchair, they are unable to reach something. Ask them if they would like help and then give them help with what they need. Just mention that if they need any more help to let you know but let them get on with it. Dont assume they need help with everything, they may be able to do most of what they need to do.
This video has stopped me in my tracks. I’m riddled with privilege and feel so overwhelmed and angry with how people with disabilities are put in a box. 80% unemployment for the blind community?!?!? 🤯 And the conversation about how no one signs up for a disability, so it truly is something everyone should care about - you really never know if it could become your journey.
Who else loves it when TH-camrs get real
YES! So important. :)
Omg I am freaking out that Molly replied and it’s not even my comment.
For someone who has Lupus this video is super relatable. I have what’s called an “invisible illness” and I constantly struggle with people judging me because they can’t “see” what’s wrong with me. There are a lot of things I can’t do but people will tell me “you’re too young to be tired” “you’re too young to feel that way” etc. it’s a chronic illness that’s never going away and you shouldn’t tell me how I should feel. I’m afraid of trying to get a real job because I’m constantly thinking about “what if I get sick and can’t work and then I get fired because I don’t get better?” There was a long time I just stopped talking about my illness because i felt I was just annoying those around me. It’s rare to find people to relate these feelings with. So I’m glad you posted this video Molly. Thank you for this 💜
I love Molly’s outfit! It’s so CUTE!
"Disabled" people are normal people with extreme challenges. That's all.
Also, thank you Molly. You care about everyone.
Oh molly. This made me cry as well. It breaks my heart as well that the majority of people do not understand. Its exactly like this for people with mental health problems as well. Because they look fine but on the indside they are not fine. It breaks my heart that people can be insensitive. We shouldn't have to prove that something is wrong.
Dianne Penfold that’s what I said! I have bad anxiety and people are like “just be happy and calm down” I can’t okay, it doesn’t work that way. You wouldn’t tell someone with cancer to stop having cancer. Ya know? We just all need to support each other and try to understand.
Dianne Penfold well I want to change that for Mottley of people
You give me the reminder not to limit my disabled brother molly, he is capable to do anything and i will support him all the way. Thank you so much for showing me how strong people with disabilities can be
I over heard a group of friends talking about you lol
1st Friend: "Hey do you watch Molly Burke?"
2nd Friend: "Hmm sounds familiar...describe her"
3rd Friend: "OH THE GIRL WITH PINK HAIR?!"
1st Friend: "Yeah! Her " * :)*
2nd Friend: "Yeah! I watch her" *:)*
not once did they mention your disability
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And then everyone applauded in the room
Amanda Gildenhar lol we’re on the same page
Perfect girl, pink hair, adorable dog, Canadian, and can't see my hideous looks.
Rory N. That is so nice, I am actually blind and it is so frustrating sometimes, like I remember one time I was visiting this family friends house and the guy was on the phone talking to some other friends and I think they could hear me laughing so they asked oh who’s there with grill is there with you, and then he said my first name, and then I just heard him say, yeah exactly and this super awkward voice and I’m pretty sure they asked, oh the blind girl? And it’s just so sad when that’s all people see,
I really appreciate this!
One of my best friends is in a wheelchair and when we graduated High school, the guidance consular gave us all a talk about possible carriers, except her. She got the "you have to have realistic goals" and a pamphlet for an activity center that gives people who cant work hobbies etc. so they have something to do.
now, she has a degree in special education and volunteers teaching there! So proud!
I'm glad your friend got a good carrier.
I prefer the ones at asda.
I bet she’s going to be the best teachers.
@@philevans6935 I see where i went wrong. Not a native English speaker so thanks for correcting me and making me laugh while doing it.
Your hair is amazing! This video, just, thank you. My son is disabled. Autism, nonverbal, intellectual disability. One of those "invisible" disabilities. My hope is that one day he too can just be "basic" haha. I hope he can go get his own coffee when he's in his 20s. I hope he can have a job. He's 6 and I just have so much hope for him.
Chelsea Moss, your comment almost made me cry while waiting for my next class. I have hope for your son, too :)
hold on to that hope! There is so much we don't understand about Autism, I believe that the future will be very different for people on the spectrum. Currently binging the show Atyplical and I'm learning so much about people on the spectrum
Oh honey I have no sight in one eye due to an accident and I’m also going blind in my left eye too but this video has helped me feel better about it
I loss my vision in one eye 11 months ago, I’m struggling with pain and depth perception and no job. I love how Molly connects us all. Makes us feel better by struggling together and being happy together too :)
My grandpa lost his sight in one eye from an accident when he was young but that never stopped him from achieving his goals. He did so much in his life and I know I can't speak for him as I don't know what it was like to have no sight in one eye, but he was definitely one of a kind. He always approached life appreciating everything he had rather than what he hadn't. He was always smiling and joking and happy everyday up until his death last year at 101. I loved him so much. I hope this gives you some hope for the future
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Awww I’m sorry you guys have to go through that x it must be so scary to lose your vision... being born blind is one thing but going blind later in your life I feel like is so scary 💜❤️💜 You guys are strong! 💪🏼
I was born with Cystic fibrosis which is more or less an "invisible illness". If I had a dollar for everytime someone told me "well you look fine", or "you don't look sick", then I would have more money than the damn Kardashians. Molly you are so inspiring, and I don't know what it's like to be blind but I know how hard it is to deal with disability and stay positive. Its HARD, and its ok to break down and let it out. Girl I've been there too. Just brush yourself off and take it a day at a time.
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I love being told “Well at least you have your health” like girl, if you only knew.
I have chronic medical illness also, which isn't obvious to those who don't live with me. Most days are really super difficult, and I had to leave the profession I'd trained for and loved. I found that the people who care matter and the others don't. It is ok to have days when you cry and let go of those emotions deep inside where you are always trying to be "a big girl" and suck it up. Sometimes you just want to be "like everyone else" until you realize that most people have something bothering them silently also and you can't see it either.
Elp Smith like grace on degrassi😂😂 all jokes aside watching it i learned so much about cf and i admire your strength. Dont stop fightinh
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I’m on disability for my heart condition and my depression. I’ve had multiple heart surgeries and get asked all the time why I’m parking in the handicapped spot. You can’t see my disabilities but they are very real, they wouldn’t just give me a handicapped sticker and SSI/Foodstamps every month for the rest of my life for no reason. I had to prove to them I had these disabilities, hundreds of doctors visits and notes and documents. I’m on a ton of medication. It’s hard when people tell you you’re faking what you have, like I wish it was fucking fake.
I can see this was difficult to film. Im disabled and i am 27. Everything you said HIT HOME HARD. I totally feel you. You feel so alone yet you know you arent. I also understand the whole “just wanna be a 27 (24) year old...”. Me too.
The saying that helps me push forward is that “bad things only come to people who can deal with, good things go to people who deserve it.”
Thank you for doing this video. I was struggling this week too and today you helped me.
"Twice the woman in half the body" 😁 Love it!
could not have said it any better...so true!
You can see how that the owner Dan is a little camera shy and I think it's wonderful he put himself on camera to make this video with Molly ♥️
Best backhanded compliment I read today!
Girl, I know you just want to be normal, but you are so much better than normal. Your positivity and your actions make you a beacon of light and inspiration to the world.
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I love your videos. Two years ago I was diagnosed with NMO/devics disease. At 26 while working as an RN and a mother of a 5 year old, within the span of two weeks I went from 20-20 to 20-/600 in both eyes and was paralyzed from the chest down. I’ve since recovered the ability to walk and can walk with forearm crutches short distances however I will be blind forever. Thanks for posting such inspiring videos. They help more than you know ♥️
I'm so proud of you Molly. You are so kind and caring. You are the most inspirational person I have ever known. Keep up your amazing work. Know the killer bees will always be here for you. Lots of hugs and kisses being sent to you and Gallop.
Love from Isla ♡
This was so sweet, thank you!
@@MollyBurkeOfficial it's ok we're all here for you ❤
I live the pink hair on you, it compliments your skin tone!
ROOD!!
Savannah Rose ???
Savannah Rose how?
@@savannahlynn5880 no it's not, it's pink.
Savannah Rose how and r u sayin rude?
I saw the thumb nail and I was like
'molly don't cry!'
Love you so much I am and always will be a loving killer bee 🐝 xxx
I'll never forget the first time I met a blind woman she was out shopping and went to the till to pay when she was counting the money she dropped some and did not hear it fall I was 3 people behind her nobody said anything or offered to help I as a six year old girl knew she needed help I walked up to the counter picked up the money and said : excuse me but you dropped some money
I Will never forget the genuine happy shocked look on her face as she thanked me and I gave her the money back I said it was no trouble and said how cute her guide dog was
I will never understand why people won't help others disabled or otherwise there was 3 adults in front of me none of them helped her why???
@SMG omg that's awful how can they do that and not feel guilty about it I really hate humanity sometimes 😢
I know! I had a family member that was disabled. Including being blind. He needed plenty of assistance, and it's great that he had some. It's heartwarming to see the ones who need assistance get assisted. 😌
This video literally brought me to tears. My mom struggles with the same condition you have, Molly. She’s one of the ones who can’t get a job because people are scared to hire her. Even though she got a bachelors AND a masters degree while almost completely blind. It’s sad. I hate seeing how people treat her. Or me while I’m out with her. Thank you for bringing this up. It means so much and I’m so glad there are people like you in the world ❤️
Your mom is a walking angel, I hope she knows that, because I’m a stranger to her, and I’m sure of it💓 bless you and your mom xoxo
I will never understand why people think it’s their business to say something to someone parking in a disabled parking space. If they have the placards for it why do you care? I’m sorry you have to put up with peoples BS.
TEAM MANDY yeah like i can see saying something if they dont have any placard but if they do theyre obviously disabled in some way lol
People actually think you can fraud your way into getting disabled parking access.
I have my grandma's old car and her handicap is still valid. I'm not disabled but one of my good friends is (he has osteoporosis so he can't stand for long amounts of time as well as many other handicaps) and anytime he rides with me I use the placard. So many people give dirty looks or say rude stuff. when we go to Disney he gets to use the disabled line we get horrible looks especially when he is having a good day and doesn't need his wheelchair. Sucks people don't understand not all disabilities are visible.
Yeah I have CFS and I always get judged because I don’t “look” sick
I agree I am disabled and on oxygen and a whole lot of muscle and mobility issues. My hubby parked in a handicap space so I could shop well an elderly woman drove by yelling I am not handicap. She has a handicap plate also. I look way younger for 51 not that that should matter. She came in the store behind me and boy she was a walking way way faster and further than I could. I would have loved to yell you are not handicapped but I am not that type of people. I love your spunk and videos
I will admit that before I took psychology classes and stuff that I use to judge someone who looked fine but had handicap plates. Now if someone else starts to judge someone for their plates I say maybe they are disabled maybe not but it could be anything and we shouldn’t just assume they are lazy and using the system. I do slip up every now and then but i am human and still don’t 100% understand the different disabilities. Molly you are an inspiration to so many people and I’ve learned a lot from you and a few other channels to where I’ve become more accepting and understanding. Disability rights are needed. Especially in the work environment.
molly i literally call you 'molly my best friend' whenever i talk about you, i love your videos so much
As i am loosing my vision once again your videos make me feel less overwhelmed. You are an inspiration
Hugs, stay strong!
@@saurora5615 how again? What happened before that you got it back?
I had a stroke at birth and was compleatly blind up until i was 3 when my mom took me to the eye doctor and he put eye drops in my eyes it hurt like hell but i was able to see relitively well out of my right eye and as i got older thr vision in both my eyes would fluctuate but i was always considered legally blind but i could see ok up until about 6,7 months ago when my vision started going crazy with the fluxuation. I went to the eye doctor in September and found out my vision is now 20/400 in my good eye.
@@gryffindore7 that sounds like it is a really scary process.
And i know eye drops hurt like hell, especially when you are young. They always had to get an extra nurse to hold my brother down with my mom (and she is also trained in holding people down) whenever we had to get eyedrops. Cause our vision sucks, mine especially, but only without glasses. And those bitches were only to open your pupil. And only have an effect for the day(luckily. Cause the light then is a Bitch. A cap would help little. Sunglasses we didn't have) you could compare that to with hearing. Instead of hearing people talk at normal volume, they are screaming in your ear.
Can't they give you the eyedrops again? That it would kind of fix it temporarily again? Because if it gives you a bit of sight (and you want that of course) wouldn't that be worth trying? If it are the same relaxant eye drops I've had (really doubt it) the optician has and can administer them too. They just rarely do that. Cause for the same test i get eyedrops with in hospital, i don't there.
@@dutchik5107 sadly all the eye drops do now is hurt like a bitch and make my eyes and skin burn. Funny enough though my eyes are perfect 😂 its my brain thats fucked.
Literally, if I met Molly for the first time and she told me she was blind, I'd be all like, cool... why can't a night be a night for her?
Id ask questions but bc i find it interesting. I love to learn im a lil sponge
My only follow up question would be "does that mean I'm not allowed to pet the dog, or...?"
Dria Erskine please do be aware of when a disabled person is just trying to live their life, because we get SO many questions, a lot of which are very intrusive, so be conscious of when it’s an appropriate time to ask questions and when someone’s just trying to live their life and they don’t want to have to talk through their medical history
K&F Kenn when you see a dog who is clearly working, PLEASE just don’t comment. I know people love dogs, but please let the service dog do their job and their handler live their life without having to answer a ton of questions about their medical equipment
@@shutupsavannah2195 yeah, sorry. i know you're never supposed to pet a service dog. it was meant to be like as a joke. like, in the context of (in an imaginary scenario as mentioned in the original comment) if we were already introduced in person and she was already explaining being blind, that would be my jokey response. but obviously things like tone of voice and stuff just dont come across at all in text.
I love this. For me it’s hard living with an ‘invisible disability’ and I’ll be 30 in December. I was born with one of my legs longer than the other. It’s not too dramatic to where I couldn’t hide it. I have hip dysphasia, scoliosis, arthritis and in July I had my first seizure. Since then I’ve had a few more health problems. I loved this video.
Being a psychology student Molly i am really learning how to listen to people while actually hearing them from you... Thank you girl!
Seba Zeb psychology student?! God bless. Clinical psychology?
@@lunamoonjisu2979 Yep! You too?
Seba Zeb wow. How is the school? I am interested in it, if you can please answer. (I’m sorry for stupid question and sorry if you don’t want to answer my question)
@@thin_white_duke1 It's not a stupid question at all. Even though everyone's experience is different, for me it was a little letdown. Going in I thought I'd learn more about human nature and how our mind's work but it turned out to be more about scientific experiments and focused on disorders. I developed an interest in disorder-aspect of it so I am pursuing that as I just finished my masters.
Seba Zeb oh, thank you for answering! I will see how my grades will be in this school year but I’ll study that.
This really opened my eyes on disabilities. My sister and my mom are disabled because of many autoimmune diseases and I didn’t know that this is how they may feel. I have such a respect for people with disabilities because I see how hard my sister and mom work to be normal. People with disabilities don’t want pity: they want you to treat them like a person. Thanks for being a role model to so many people.
I SUPPORT YOU SO MUCH MOLLY!!!
Can’t wait to visit this place! I work with students with disabilities and what an amazing opportunities the man is providing. Thanks Molly for all you do.
The 231 people who disliked were crying so hard that they missed the like button
How are people still asking if she's blind?
rachel.doremi It never ceases to amaze me when I see it in comments. I did not know there has been a Reddit page about it! Some people are unbelievable.
I agree it’s ridiculous. It’s typically people who stumble across her channel, don’t watch her videos, judge her immediately with the stereotype of blindness and disabled people and automatically accuse her of faking. Ugh makes me so mad
rachel.doremi I KNOW
I know, right? I feel like if someone was faking blindness, they would try to follow as many stereotypes as possible.
I'm so pissed at them 😡
I just wanted to say that you're not basic, Molly. You're an amazing unique person with many different facets. The way you care makes you so much more than the standard millennial model homo sapiens. And I'm really grateful you're sharing so much of your life. We should all remember that all people are made of a multitude of details and no one is defined solely by one single aspect.
Representation is so important for disabled people to gain recognition and rights. Your work is so important! I'm glad I found you on this little parcel of internet. Thanks Shane! lol
Im a 25 year old who is physically disabled and nerodivergent. I watch you because i want to lear and because i feel less alone. Even though our disabilities are different you still help me so much. It really resonates with me when you say that you feel normal but other people don't see you that way. My walker is normal for me, but most abled people have never had to think about the idea of a young adult whos struggling to walk. Thank you.
I am so sorry that people are saying you're faking being blind!
It makes me mad when people talk like that. A former employer of mine did that. I was out of work recovering from my forst eye surgery she told a friend of mine that she thought I was taking it all for attention. I can't fake the shunts in my eyes!
Drink Your Kool Aide .. so sorry to hear that 🌹
Society's default is thinking disabled people are lying. It sucks
@@SjofnBM1989 I completely agree, the wheelchair issue especially. That's a great point about the cost, most people have no idea!!!
Before I begin my real comment then I just have to say that it was hilarious to see your mum following behind you but trying not to be seen by hiding in the bushes, I had to watch that section a couple of times and couldn’t stop laughing.
Now for the real comment, as a full time wheelchair user who was not disabled for the first 40 years of my life this was an amazing video to watch, people really don’t get how difficult it is as a disabled person living in a non disabled world. Everything is different and everything is so much harder. On your channel you do a great job of showing the amazing things that you achieve every single day so to see this video of you opening up to the fact that it’s not quite that easy was refreshing. I’m sorry you got upset but I’m glad you were able to show and articulate so beautifully how it is for us, that everyday isn’t a walk (or roll) in the park and that although we may have smiles on our faces we have challenges every single day, some can be brushed off and others hurt.
Thank you Molly for today being real, it helps me realise I’m not the only one having a tough time.
wheelie26 loved your comment! I feel like I’m you! I lived 44 years with no disabilities then at 44 my life turned upside down! I got a severe bacteria infection from a cat lick and had to have my right leg amputated above the knee! I also had a chunk taken out of me left leg and severe neuropathy! I’m now in a wheel chair 90% of the time! I do have a prosthetic, but it’s so uncomfortable, I only wear when I have to drive or go out for short trips! So I feel your pain! It’s so hard to go from being non disabled to disabled! I don’t know about you, but I lost at least 85% if my friends?? Good luck you my friend!! 👍👍👍😊❤️
The Maine Scratcher our stories are more similar than you think, my disability was also caused by an infection, for me it was an MRSA sepsis after a routine surgery.
I totally agree about the friends thing, they flock around when you are initially ill to offer support but the longer you are unwell for, you realise that you haven’t seen a few people for a while then a few more, until there are very few left.
I wish you all the luck in the world and hope that your prosthetic improves in comfort, if that’s what you want x
I can relate to this so much. I'm 23 and I need a wheelchair because I can't walk long distances due to diabetic complocations and I always feel like people look at me and think 'she doesn't look disabled'. I've also just found out I need surgery or I am going to be blind by next year. There is no guarantee it will work because of how advanced the retinopathy is. I am so scared but watching your videos is really helping me to see that if it doesn't work it's going to be difficult but ok x
queenofthedamned x hows it going ❤️❤️
@@sarahdonnelly5236 it's going ok thank you x
good luck we all love u
wish you all the best and luck
I just stumbled upon your channel. I could be your mom. I’m a high school teacher. You are doing GREAT things with this channel. This video really impacted me. I’m not disabled (but I have struggles) but what gets me is the disabled students I work with. I SEE them and yet so many people don’t. One particular mom thanked me profusely and all I did was treat her son like as if he were my own. I pray you change hearts and minds so everyone can be SEEN with things that don’t require vision. God bless sweet young badass awesome person.
This topic is so important Molly. As an 19 yo girl being disabled in a wheelchair because of rare chronic diseases, I relate to so many of the things you share. I try to feel as normal as possible, and in my everyday life I’m surrounded by people who see me and treat me as a regular teenage girl. But every time I go to parties with my bf and I get introduced to new people - it’s like they don’t know how to talk to me and the only question they can ask me is why I’m disabled. And that’s when my World usually break. Because again, I realize that a lot of people have some kind of anxiety to talk to me and this is the only thing they can ask me.
Well, keep doing what you’re doing Molly and just scream this topic out loud! It’s so important
watching mama Burke walk in the grass attempting to get out of the shot 😂 I love you Niamh
Ramie Lloyd Haha, I missed that but saw you and another mention it. Her name is pronounced “Nev,” but it is spelled, “Niamh.” I wouldn’t have known if it wasn’t mentioned in a past video. It is an Irish spelling. :)
This was really nice to watch. The encouraging stories and people just genuinely caring about each other and helping each other through hard times makes me a little teary.
I don't have a disability but I have really severe mental health issues so like I can't keep a job and I can't go to school and it's very isolating and hard to deal with. And like you said, sometimes just remembering that you're not the only one struggling with certain things is nice because then we can all help each other.
I feel like this is a good video to send somebody if they want to know the truth about being blind or having a disability. Like you feel fine or "normal" and then you have these little experiences of people treating you lesser and it sucks.
All my love to you and all the guys at the restaurant y'all are doing important things
I also have mental issues 😞
Eva Alys Not for everyone. I’m disabled from mine but if Sarah doesn’t feel she is, that’s up to her.
sourgreendolly well... someone can’t just decide that they are disabled. Of course you can be disabled by a mental illness, but you cannot just be like “I have anxiety I’m disabled” a medical-professional can help you decide. I too struggle with really bad mental health issues which is why I commented. I am not just some “normal” person assuming things. I have done a lot of research and just wanted to help educate.
Go Killer Bees!
I also deal with mental illness and it is a disability and it’s so frustrating when people brush it off like it’s something you can just switch on and off.
Thank you! I am disabled and I just found you in suggested videos. It's so hard to find people who ACTUALLY "Get it"!
His baby looks so so much like him. It is very adorable.
Molly, you are such a genuine sweetheart. I used to work with an older women who was deaf. I treated her the same as I would anyone else. I always looked directly at her when I spoke so she could read my lips and she would communicate the best she could since I didn’t know sign language. I learned some basic sign language and the day I walked into work and surprised her with it her face just absolutely lit up. From then on she would teach me anything I would ask her. Unfortunately I switched jobs and no longer work with her. She was such a sweetheart, and it makes me so sad that people like you and her get treated so differently.
We also used to have a blind man who would come into shop so I would always volunteer to shop with him, because I had seen how the other workers treated him. They always said that he had a bad attitude, but every time I shopped with him he was great and I genuinely just think it was the way that they treated him. You’re wonderful Molly and you’re no different than anyone else, we all have our different struggles and you handle yours with such grace and positivity! Much love ❤️
Your hair is so pretty
OMG SHE LIKED MY COMMENT ILY
ikr! its unbelievable! soft, smooth straight, and vividly hot pink! its so nice it makes me wanna dye my hair pink
Molly I just wanna give you such a big bear hug! 🐻❤️ His restaurant looks amazing & I love the story. The opportunity he gives for other people. Food looked delicious! Love you girl!
YAS THE QUEEN HAS UPLOADED!
People sometimes dont even realise that they can hurt you with really small stuff.. Im in a wheelchair and i also hate it when people talk to the person who is with me and not to me directly..or if im in the supermarket and they see me coming but the put their trolley in the middle of the aisle so i have to ask them to move it and then they look at me pissed of because they have to move it..like im sorry my disability is inconvinient to you... I try to be extra kind to those kind of people so they start to feel bad and hopefully think twice about it next time that they are in the shop... Stay strong molly you are such an inspiration and such a kind person..dont ever feel less then anybody else because you are amazing! And big hug for gallob!
You’re such a positive and inspiring person Molly. I’m not physically disabled but I’ve been struggling with long term depression for a very long time now. Your words are extremely inspiring and beautiful
This was a really good video. My husband has cancer and is disabled because of it. I cannot even begin to tell you the ignorant comments about his cancer. We have been struggling with it for 6 years. People say “there are people who run marathons with cancer and work full time jobs why can’t you?” It’s so annoying because they have no idea what he has struggled with. That he has had a stroke and now he has seizures, that he has painful blood clots all through is vein and groin. His tumor is wrapped around his sciatic nerve so he is always in constant pain. We’ve been through so much especially my husband. I try to not let those ignorant comments get to me. But when it’s “friends” and family it’s hard not too.
I'm so sorry that people are so rude. Just try to keep your head up, they don't know what you guys have been through. I hope the future is good for you and your husband!
6 months ago my father lost his sight because of cancer and it has been really hard for all of my family just knowing that your family has expirience it for so long I admire yours and your husband strength.
Bethanie Curtis thank you so much! He has been doing a lot better than in the past! But always a struggle but that’s ok! We keep it moving 💕
Daniela Briceño I’m so sorry to hear that! I couldn’t even imagine. I hope everything goes okay for you and your family. Cancer is so hard for everybody involved 💕💕
Molly. I just wanted to say thank you because you show people that people with disabilities can do stuff to and should be treated like everyone else. I'm 15 and I have cerebral palsy which affects my muscles and coordination, it also means I can get muscle aches more easily than others. You have helped me accept that I may have disabilities but that doesn't mean I can't do what I want to or be what I want to be. Thank you again. -Melanie
aww I love you so much!! ❤️
I love this girl.
She's so fucking *real.* Y'know? I wouldn't treat her like she's a special case, I wouldn't turn away to talk, and I would accept her guide dog despite all odds, y'know?
You should do more videos like this, even something like a docu-series Molly because I think its a very important subject with many different aspects that people need to know about, keep the good work!
This lady used to come to my job and pretend to be blind (as soon as she got busted, she suddenly wasn’t blind anymore) just so she could steal stuff and think we couldn’t care 😔
Then an actual, very beautiful lady inside and out who is blind came in. We did what we could to assist her and I’ll never forget how her confidence and kindness touched my heart. I technically have a “silent disability”, because I have seizure disorders. It’s destroyed me since my diagnosis about 8-9 months ago, although I’ve had partial seizures since I was around 9. Needless to say, you’ve inspired me a lot. I’ve so far only seen a couple videos, but I can already tell I’ll be watching your videos daily.
It's awesome that the first lady didn't change your attitude towards the second one, some would be different just because their first experience would lead all the following ones
Mackenzie Sharp I have seizures too, it’s soul destroying isn’t it! Molly is amazing! An amazing help! X
I wanted to thank you for the video Molly Burke. I am currently disabled with server Social Anxeity, PTSD, and Bi-Polar type 2. I have been trying to get on Disability for years but every time they always tell me that just because you are diagnosed with these doesn't mean you're disabled. They tell me I can still work even though I have 4 or more panic attacks a day, i go through many episodes from my past which changes my moods and how I act that i can't control. People always think that it's "an act" so I don't have to work or that I'm lazy. I just get so frustrated and never know what to do. It sucks being mislabeled as something that someone believes you should be able to do on a spectrum of people.
Omg Molly 😭 when you started crying I just burst out crying too! I just happen to be wearing headphones in a room full of people and they were very confused lol but you are literally my all time inspiration. I’ve been binge watching your cannel for the past few months and you’ve helped me through a major rough patch in my life and I honestly feel so much better after watching your videos ☺️ Never stop doing what your doing! You change people’s lives! Love you Molly!! 😘
Semi truck.
When she started to cry it broke my heart, cause I get it. My father is physically disabled.
Literally clicked soooo fast
Rachel The Awesome One Omg that sucks 😂🥺
Society always makes people feel unqual.. we bleed the same, we share the same world.. just treat people the same no matter what their disabilities are or where they come from.
Im pretty sure that guy with the flamingos shirt wife abuses him
@@artv.9989 that's none of your business so stfu
@@dr.seussisdaddymaterial6947 Well maybe you should stop abusing men whom you consider weak Chloe, and stop bitching when you get abused by men in return, hypocrite
8 years and 2 days ago, I was diagnosed with primary generalized epilepsy.
Some nights, I'm angry. Because I know what I could've had. I'm 22, and there are "quintessential" experiences which I will never have, or choose not to have due to the high risk of a seizure.
Other nights, I'm sad, because there was a life lost. I was 14 when I was diagnosed--in the swing of transition.
But most nights...most nights I'm thankful. Thankful that having epilepsy has pushed me to where I am. I rock it. I wear the most rad blue lenses you will ever see; the very first medication I tried worked for me; I have loved ones who are living their own lives educated about epilepsy, disabilities, and seizures.
If I didn't have epilepsy, I would've likely never traveled as much as I have. I might not have the academic and personal opportunities I've been granted.
I have the extreme fortune to have a mild form of epilepsy--I want to be able to raise the voices of others with epilepsy who struggle more than I do. I want to support others who understand that you can get burnt out from taking the same medications everyday. I want to surround myself with people who understand the importance of our children's hospitals. I want to keep my epilepsy, I love what it's given me and how I can kick its ass (pardon my French).
The most powerful thing anyone can do is share their experience.
This really hit me. For many years I’ve been complaining how I’m unable to wear shorts due to my varicose veins. I always thought I’d be judged and I thought they were ugly and people never see a 13 year old with them (usually older people get them). I made a fit not to wear my compression stocking just because i felt it was “uncomfortable” but seeing what people with ACTUAL disabilities makes me think from a whole new perspective. I have it easy and should be thankful for that. And keep doing what your doing molly. Your amazing and I truly enjoy your videos!🥰
I have them too and am so self conscious. You're not alone
When I was really little I thought they looked ugly, like worms in the skin, but now that I'm an adult, idk why but my whole view has changed. I think they look really cool and kinda badass in a way. Like tree roots growing up through the legs, like you're some kind of ultra-strong entity, fused with the fibres of nature. Or the purply ones look like an outer space satellite view of a river on Earth. I've also grown a fondness for other weird and funky discolourations too, like moles, freckles and port wine stains. I like to think of the skin as the night sky and the blemishes as the stars and milky nebulas and such. So don't be ashamed of your funky addons. Some people will find them gross, but they're also the kind of people who think they have to cover freckles with foundation. They're sad superficial people, and you're a beautiful tiger with epic stripes. You're beautiful :)
Kate thanks love
We Support You Molly!!!
Your profile pic is a mood
Whoever watches this channel and sees "basic" ...I mean, talk about being blind! Honestly, I wish that was basic! If everyone was as intelligent, positive, motivated, and capable as Molly -wow! This would be some special place wouldn't it.
I will definitely come and visit this place because I love that there is a community like this that welcomes disabled people from all walks of life, I'm Autistic and Dyspraxic so I am disabled when it comes to learning and motor skills and I really appreciate this!
Love you Molly and Dan!! 🤗🤗💕
I hope to see you up there someday!
Thank you Molly. I have autism, and other disabilities and people always say ignorant things. It’s so hard to find a job and people don’t understand. You are a role model for me and I look up to you. I hate when people tell me I can’t or can do something. I heard 85% of autistic people are unemployed. It makes me so sad and frustrated. I love you, you’re my favorite TH-camr and I want to meet you someday!
Lauren M i feel you on a spiritual level. my boyfriend has Asperger, which as you'll know is similar -in some things the same- with autism and peeps react really badly when i ask not to - for example- make noise, and sometimes they will ask me why i'm with him if he has that syndrome. what can I say, I love him! and i respect and aknowledge autism! stay positive ^~^
Awwww I love you Molly. This video made me so emotional
Same I'm crying with her lol
Her voice is so cute
Erin Johnson I agree!!
This was the most informative video I have ever watched. Thank you molly you are incredible. I wish I could go to that restaurant.
Brittnee Holloway did you catch the name of the restaurant by chance?
My mom is a manager at this restaurant :) shes the one who was contacting mollys mom!
Whoa awesome!
That's amazing :)
Tel her she works at an amazing place and that Dan is an inspiration. Good on him for giving ppl with disability a job without prejudice and with total and complete acceptance. Definitely will have to look up this restaurant when I come to the States
What's the name and address? I want to go
Vanessa Hernandez the address is 743 E 4th St, Long Beach, CA 90802 the restaurant is called fourth and olive.