Anyone who does this to another person never loved them to begin with. To be capable of doing this to another demonstrates a complete and pathological inability to love period. And, people who mistreat others like this, end up somewhere down the line bitter because they can no longer attract anyone good.
I'm 73 and have been divorced for over 30 years. He was charming at first but then did everything in his power to destroy me. I never remarried because I would be afraid I would choose the wrong man again 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@Blessed_Eternity_888:: I sorry for dear but I'm in the same situation. Sick of the lying & cheating. I don't bother anymore just living my life focusing on my daughter.
As a woman this happened to I can attest to the truth of it all!!!! They will never admit their wrong...because they are small minded and extra small hearted.
Men are victims of things women do but people don't care about the men. It's all about the poor woman victim. I say fuck it. I got tired of the bullshit and have been single for 17 years. I have no use for anyone.
My mom was described as a "real lady" by so many.... None of them had any idea of the heartaches she bore alone in silence.... and none know what ive endured or know,, but i keep walking away from toxic people, better alone... family's can be so abusive and ignorant. RIP mommy.
@@evilbarbie2160same here with my late mom. Everyone spoke highly of her, especially after her death. But in truth, my mom terribly suffered emotionally when she was alive. I used to see her cry sometimes and tell me I will not marry a man that doesn’t love me. I’ll just say “amen” 😢 Now I understand her pain after her demise. Sometimes I hate and can’t forgive myself remembering her sufferings and that I couldn’t do anything to help her because of my childishness😢
@@emerald6858 your mom is free now, she would never want her baby to suffer because of her pain. Righteous rage is normal because we've repressed it.. but hard to deal with that much anger at the injustice, It doesn't make you a bad person, find a good outlet that helps you.
Yes my first husband destroyed me day by day and year by year . 12 years later I divorced him and he harassed me every chance he got . So glad I left him when I finally did !
Shoot, I have faced this kind of treatment all my life. One a man decides I love him, its time to forget about me and move on. Now I have a good husband. married 30 yrs. But people tend to take each other for granted all day long.
I agree because I know from personal experience. Guys, it doesn't help your situation with your wife or fiance or girlfriend if everytime she turns around, you're criticizing her because she didn't say or do something right for you. You need to stop because sooner or later she'll get tired of it and leave.
Haha women stay longest with abusers, it's more like if you want rid of her just treat her with love and respect and she will soon be gone. Women are emotional and hate stability they think it's boring, they want turmoil and drama and rough sex after it. They are not what society tells us they are at all.
So True Never kill somebody’s spirit of life Never kill a persons Emotionally When you chip away others joy of Life & cause pain suffering in any form You are asking the universe for the same for Yourself Karma comes back to You who started the PAIN
I have told my boyfriend a few times that when he acts like I don't exist that he's extinguishing my light... He once told me I was boring and I replied " well it's hard not to be when you ignore me or devalue me"....
This happens at jobs too. Eventually the woman/person stops caring because they see no point, then you just have a body going thru the motions, but without any attachment
I was married to a man who not only did this but regularly told me how unworthy I was. My Love for me died first and then my love for him. My two sons learned from him and they treat me the same way and tell me I deserve it. I so married the Wrong man because I don’t believe all men are like this 😊❤
@@kathleenwharton2139 I’m in your same boat. I definitely married the wrong man. And he’s sick now so I cannot leave him. Prayers for you. Re your sons, you do not have to take that from them. Set boundaries, like I have. My stepson treats me awful. He is simply out of my life until he can treat me with the same respect that I afford him. God bless your journey. PS you never know who you marry until you marry them. Just sayin.
@@mimilights I so agree! I never knew there were even people like him until I married him. I was totally unprepared. He was A big life lesson! I have compassion for you. Hopefully..God Will Save You. He did me after 32 years. May God Bless You 😇
@@DionMaat-d3j Not True! It was simply a learning experience because I was not True to myself and attracted the wrong man. That was Karma right there! Nothing to do with a debt.
Just say to him out of the blur "you know, you're not very supportive... you don't act cold to someone you say you love"... see what bis response is. Could be he's an asshole, but let's not jump to conclusions, let's first see if there's other factors... i.e. he's distracted, stressed, lots of work, depressed, etc... never know. Best of luck and God bless
@@KEPSAGAMER his father was physically and verbally abusive. To him and his mother. He learned how to treat a woman from him. He is extremely broken, does not have Jesus and told me he'll never forgive his father. He's gone to counseling. I should have left years ago.
I matched her course and speed. I tried peace and love and kindness. Praying to be a better husband. Nothing worked. You bring fight ill fight. You bring disrespect ill disrespect. She liked it. Nc of her past. It defined her.
Hey new subscriber here.. Whatever u said is 100 % true.. My husband treats me the same way..always insulting me in front of others.. Demeaning me.. Passing hurtful comments on me nd my family 😢
If you try to the same to him infront of people on the same gathering that he littled you, i promise you either he will stop doing it again, or he will fight with you either in front of them or after which either way you SHOULD tell him “when you direspect me dont expect respect from me, i WILL treat you the same way and from now on i WILL, & if you want me to respect you, you HAVE to do the same with me, respecting should be earned it is a CURRENCY OF EXCHANGE TREATEMENT, IT IS NOT GIVE FOR FREE EVER” ❤❤❤
A respect full man will never treat a woman in such way but there are 99 percent man are like that this shows their upbringing and they come from which type of family
I've wondered how I've been losing my sense of existence along with my memory of who I was while living with "friends" who discarded me as soon as I allowed them to move into my house for free. They have refused to speak with me or even acknowledge me for the last 10 months. I find myself longing to be validated for simply existing.
I hope you kicked those people back out immediately? Taking advantage of your kindness and resenting you for it at the same time... I so hate this kinda attitude!
no one has the right to strip someone of their self-esteem. you are exactly right about that. or their dignity. or any part of what makes a person who they are. no one male or female. has the right. disagreement isn't doing that by the way. people are allowed to disagree. its ok. the answers to what makes another feel so destroyed? is in compromise. and thats non-existent in modern dating. a skill lacking in people. if i offer my help does it matter how i help? the my way or the highway thinking? taken as my not helping. for example. you need something from a certain service. i offer to get ahold of them and take care of it. and im told to just send money instead. and then a huge argument about how i dont help. or told a gift i bought should be sold and the money sent instead. some think they have the right to stip people of their self-esteem. no more self-evident than their actions towards another. examples by the way. not digs. just scroll any social media site. its thick with it.
If you try to the same to him infront of people on the same gathering that he littled you, i promise you either he will stop doing it again, or he will fight with you either in front of them or after which either way you SHOULD tell him “when you direspect me dont expect respect from me, i WILL treat you the same way and from now on i WILL, & if you want me to respect you, you HAVE to do the same with me, respecting should be earned it is a CURRENCY OF EXCHANGE TREATEMENT, IT IS NOT GIVEN FOR FREE EVER” ❤❤❤
Girls that are paying attention will learn match this person's energy, and find solice and comfort within herself. This girl will grow up to be self-sufficient, self- trusting and self-motivated and will never need anyone. This woman is dangerous, calculated and never misses a thing, so men should learn that a woman's silence is not her obedience or strong listening skills, it is her waiting for the ideal moment to crush his security and obliterate his sanity. Women have never needed men to tell them what they are capable of, but they do need them to divert their attention away from annihilation of the world around them. So, be the man that pays attention, rather than the man that gets caught unaware.
I'm just going to quickly answer before I get back to my yoga and meditation. NEVER treat a human being like they are nothing because to somebody else they could mean everything. Only abusers treat others with such cruelty and disrespect. Be a better person. Never judge a book by it's cover. Negative energy is so toxic that I'm allergic. Let the light shine on all those things that others are so desperately trying to hide or twist truths on because a truth will always be a truth, a lie will always be a lie. And let me just tell you that the divine spirits around us see EVERYTHING and spiritually energy channels such information to us. 🙏 Think about it? ❤
How about "when you treat a man like he's nothing." It goes both ways. One is not above the other. So, I hope to see a video that describes "when you treat a man like he's nothing." 😊
Lay it on baby. Sooooo True. After my last beating and they took my husband to jail, my neighbor came over to console me. She said " now you can be yourself" It was the scariest thing anyone ever said to me because I didn't know who that was. You move on but those pieces of you they destroyed with mental cruelty you NEVER get back. I could never marry again. What makes such inhuman acts in a person? GUYS, BE A MAN. SAY YOU HAVE TO LEAVE INSTEAD OF TORTURING SOMEONE DAY IN AND DAY OUT.
Sad but true that's why I put my ex-husband out in 2012 and I have not looked back. Love is kind not hurtful. The truth is God will never show your true worth to the wrong man.
@RickWalters-r1e That's the same thing that's happening to me too. But I have faith in God. He'd never just leave us like that. One day, he'll bless you with an epic love.
Ya… I was recently ignored. He fed me bs. I’m pretty sure. I can’t believe I let someone do that to me. One month . Never again. I deserve better. I value me.
Walk away you are a queen 👸 make him think about it after you are gone because Good people are hard 2 replace it is his lost not yours he will see it hopefully sooner then later
When they treat you like nothing, then be nothing to them, walk away, and block and never ever look back
Exactly. No one is allowed to destroy you.
Exactly
I have been through it. Yes it destroys your Confidence and leaves a scar in your heart
Anyone who does this to another person never loved them to begin with. To be capable of doing this to another demonstrates a complete and pathological inability to love period.
And, people who mistreat others like this, end up somewhere down the line bitter because they can no longer attract anyone good.
Sore spot huh 😂
@@YvonneZuzich-z9f consider yourself fortunate
❤
God bless you too
I agree❤
It's time to move on when someone dismisses you.
I agree ! Narcissists could rob you of your mind and soul
They treat you the way they feel about themself. Useless.
Exactly
I'm 73 and have been divorced for over 30 years. He was charming at first but then did everything in his power to destroy me. I never remarried because I would be afraid I would choose the wrong man again 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
You finally found peace. Protect it at all costs. That's a sad story to hear. 🫂🕊️🕊️🕊️ HEAL and love yourself more and more!
@@MrExtraFINESSEtrial❤
Unfortunately, the man that does that to his woman is aware and he enjoys to hurt her.
He enjoys it because he is not stopping the damage
Yes... I am that woman and it hurts like hell💔💔💔😭😭😭
@@Blessed_Eternity_888:: I sorry for dear but I'm in the same situation. Sick of the lying & cheating. I don't bother anymore just living my life focusing on my daughter.
@@Blessed_Eternity_888: Mine is the same story but I don't bother anymore. You'll heal too. 👍
I'm that women also and fuck this shit
Totally, it is terrible to see any female or male child or adult treated like this.
As a woman this happened to I can attest to the truth of it all!!!! They will never admit their wrong...because they are small minded and extra small hearted.
Women do it men too, i had it done to me
@@johnwilliams-si8hj narcissistic people are both male and female.😔
Men are victims of things women do but people don't care about the men. It's all about the poor woman victim. I say fuck it. I got tired of the bullshit and have been single for 17 years. I have no use for anyone.
That is only if you allow that behavior to try and destroy you. Just live on. If they don't value you, move on and find someone who sees your worth.
Preach!!!!
The best people are and will always be people who treat others well. That's why it's what they talk about at funerals.
My mom was described as a "real lady" by so many.... None of them had any idea of the heartaches she bore alone in silence.... and none know what ive endured or know,, but i keep walking away from toxic people, better alone... family's can be so abusive and ignorant. RIP mommy.
@@evilbarbie2160same here with my late mom. Everyone spoke highly of her, especially after her death. But in truth, my mom terribly suffered emotionally when she was alive. I used to see her cry sometimes and tell me I will not marry a man that doesn’t love me. I’ll just say “amen” 😢
Now I understand her pain after her demise. Sometimes I hate and can’t forgive myself remembering her sufferings and that I couldn’t do anything to help her because of my childishness😢
@@emerald6858 your mom is free now, she would never want her baby to suffer because of her pain.
Righteous rage is normal because we've repressed it.. but hard to deal with that much anger at the injustice, It doesn't make you a bad person, find a good outlet that helps you.
You are a 150% correct. Thanks for bringing this to, hopefully, men. They really don't have a clue. Thank you
Absolutely
Communication is key. If they won’t discuss, sitting side by side, got nothin
Yes my first husband destroyed me day by day and year by year . 12 years later I divorced him and he harassed me every chance he got . So glad I left him when I finally did !
Shoot, I have faced this kind of treatment all my life. One a man decides I love him, its time to forget about me and move on. Now I have a good husband. married 30 yrs. But people tend to take each other for granted all day long.
😢😢😢Agreed.
This… I’m sorry you went through same like me. Once I started to show him love… he disappeared. Playing games
I agree because I know from personal experience. Guys, it doesn't help your situation with your wife or fiance or girlfriend if everytime she turns around, you're criticizing her because she didn't say or do something right for you. You need to stop because sooner or later she'll get tired of it and leave.
If I had any where to go ud already be gone
Women mentally leave, long before they physically leave. The only reason that it may take a while to physically leave, is lack of finances to do so.
Haha women stay longest with abusers, it's more like if you want rid of her just treat her with love and respect and she will soon be gone.
Women are emotional and hate stability they think it's boring, they want turmoil and drama and rough sex after it.
They are not what society tells us they are at all.
@@gracebe235true 100%
EVERYTHING I'VE BEEN THROUGH HAS MADE ME A WARRIOR OF GOD,WITH HIM I'M UNSTOPPABLE. GOD FIGHTS MY BATTLES,AMEN 🙏 🙌 👏 👌 😳
Preach it! He is the only reason I am now back to my old self healed from the wounds I had from my past relationship 🙏🙏 🙏
So True
Never kill somebody’s spirit of life
Never kill a persons Emotionally
When you chip away others joy of Life & cause pain suffering in any form
You are asking the universe for the same for Yourself
Karma comes back to You who started the PAIN
I have told my boyfriend a few times that when he acts like I don't exist that he's extinguishing my light... He once told me I was boring and I replied " well it's hard not to be when you ignore me or devalue me"....
Don’t stay with someone like that ,they will not change .You deserve better
He needs to find his raison d'être,
his deep needs from God!
Not suck them out of another person!
We all do
This happens at jobs too. Eventually the woman/person stops caring because they see no point, then you just have a body going thru the motions, but without any attachment
Me atm
Well said
When you treat a woman like she’s nothing, she keeps it moving and realizes you were never worth her time!💯💯💯
I was married to a man who not only did this but regularly told me how unworthy I was. My Love for me died first and then my love for him. My two sons learned from him and they treat me the same way and tell me I deserve it. I so married the Wrong man because I don’t believe all men are like this 😊❤
@@kathleenwharton2139 I’m in your same boat. I definitely married the wrong man. And he’s sick now so I cannot leave him. Prayers for you. Re your sons, you do not have to take that from them. Set boundaries, like I have. My stepson treats me awful. He is simply out of my life until he can treat me with the same respect that I afford him. God bless your journey. PS you never know who you marry until you marry them. Just sayin.
@@mimilights
I so agree! I never knew there were even people like him until I married him. I was totally unprepared. He was A big life lesson! I have compassion for you. Hopefully..God Will Save You. He did me after 32 years. May God Bless You 😇
@@kathleenwharton2139 thank you. God is with me. He never leaves or forsakes us.
Most of you are clearing karmic debt but just want to place blame....the signs were there you chose to ignore it...
@@DionMaat-d3j
Not True! It was simply a learning experience because I was not True to myself and attracted the wrong man. That was Karma right there! Nothing to do with a debt.
Well you can never dim a Queens light ✨💃🏾
Yes , I agree . ,
This is my husband…however, he cannot and will not steal my joy. I just walk away. Such a coward.
Dang that’s wild
Just say to him out of the blur "you know, you're not very supportive... you don't act cold to someone you say you love"... see what bis response is.
Could be he's an asshole, but let's not jump to conclusions, let's first see if there's other factors... i.e. he's distracted, stressed, lots of work, depressed, etc... never know.
Best of luck and God bless
@@KEPSAGAMER his father was physically and verbally abusive. To him and his mother. He learned how to treat a woman from him. He is extremely broken, does not have Jesus and told me he'll never forgive his father. He's gone to counseling. I should have left years ago.
Does he provide for you? Allow you to have time with your friends.
I matched her course and speed. I tried peace and love and kindness. Praying to be a better husband. Nothing worked. You bring fight ill fight. You bring disrespect ill disrespect. She liked it. Nc of her past. It defined her.
Agreed and one man trued and failed to break my will and spirit. He didnt succeed
💯 Truth
Thank goodness I have my perfect husband for me.. I love him so much❤
Me, too. I didn’t whither; I fought back. I told him, “YOU; are one man’s opinion……and I use the term loosely.”
Hey new subscriber here.. Whatever u said is 100 % true.. My husband treats me the same way..always insulting me in front of others.. Demeaning me.. Passing hurtful comments on me nd my family 😢
If you try to the same to him infront of people on the same gathering that he littled you, i promise you either he will stop doing it again, or he will fight with you either in front of them or after which either way you SHOULD tell him “when you direspect me dont expect respect from me, i WILL treat you the same way and from now on i WILL, & if you want me to respect you, you HAVE to do the same with me, respecting should be earned it is a CURRENCY OF EXCHANGE TREATEMENT, IT IS NOT GIVE FOR FREE EVER” ❤❤❤
Yes I agree I lived it and almost lost Me.
That is so true!!
I agree. Now leave me alone please. That's all I ask. I wish you all the best ❤
Men Shouldn't Ever treat their woman like that!
only if YOU let it, never bothered me, u cant shake me.
This person destroyed a part of my soul .. finally getting bk to my true self ❤
Such a man deserves nothing. I will give it to him in abundance.
This applies more to Women. Women needs to make sure the mans needs are all met. Its team work
"applies more to women...." a fool has arrived
@@anyagaladima8668 learn accountability first
i agree wow how amazing words...so true...
A respect full man will never treat a woman in such way but there are 99 percent man are like that this shows their upbringing and they come from which type of family
Yes i agree
I've wondered how I've been losing my sense of existence along with my memory of who I was while living with "friends" who discarded me as soon as I allowed them to move into my house for free. They have refused to speak with me or even acknowledge me for the last 10 months. I find myself longing to be validated for simply existing.
I hope you kicked those people back out immediately? Taking advantage of your kindness and resenting you for it at the same time... I so hate this kinda attitude!
@@sebelzahntigerkind3923 Sadly no. I am collecting data on their abuses to take to court to try to get some protection.
no one has the right to strip someone of their self-esteem. you are exactly right about that. or their dignity. or any part of what makes a person who they are. no one male or female. has the right. disagreement isn't doing that by the way. people are allowed to disagree. its ok. the answers to what makes another feel so destroyed? is in compromise. and thats non-existent in modern dating. a skill lacking in people. if i offer my help does it matter how i help? the my way or the highway thinking? taken as my not helping. for example. you need something from a certain service. i offer to get ahold of them and take care of it. and im told to just send money instead. and then a huge argument about how i dont help. or told a gift i bought should be sold and the money sent instead. some think they have the right to stip people of their self-esteem. no more self-evident than their actions towards another.
examples by the way. not digs. just scroll any social media site. its thick with it.
I needed to see this video
Well, I keep a very healthy balanced self esteem, so I prefer to ignore those who don't treat me well, however rich or handsome they seem to be.
Pretty sad, but so true! I wish I could get her back! Someday ❤
This message is ever so true. ❤😊
He was a wonderful provider father terrible husband
Same situation here.
I think no man has truly loved me. Truth
TRUTH.
This is so true @ONE❤
Yes, I'm dimmer because of the way things are becoming.❤❤
So true. Thank you 4 this 🩷🙏Save me and us pls Jehovah. In the name on JESUS. Amen❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏
A whole new world
TRUE. 😢
Amen Exactly.
And then they say "women initiate divorce most of the time", "I didn't cheat or abuse her, she still left"
I agree with this
Seriously I would rather be alone…😂
Yes I agree. I wish you could tell my boyfriend that. Really doesn't matter. I'm leaving
Yes. 🙏
Truth
It what she intentionally did to me.
If you try to the same to him infront of people on the same gathering that he littled you, i promise you either he will stop doing it again, or he will fight with you either in front of them or after which either way you SHOULD tell him “when you direspect me dont expect respect from me, i WILL treat you the same way and from now on i WILL, & if you want me to respect you, you HAVE to do the same with me, respecting should be earned it is a CURRENCY OF EXCHANGE TREATEMENT, IT IS NOT GIVEN FOR FREE EVER” ❤❤❤
So true
God bless you ❤
Amen 💯
🎯 Bingo!
She is my angel..she is my beautiful dream..how can treat her like she is nothing...
I know you are correct, that some people do this to other people.
And that's not human nature to begin with.
She will be gone forever. For sure.
Women treat me like this all the time. Ive just given up on them and work 60+ hours a week now
Girls that are paying attention will learn match this person's energy, and find solice and comfort within herself. This girl will grow up to be self-sufficient, self- trusting and self-motivated and will never need anyone. This woman is dangerous, calculated and never misses a thing, so men should learn that a woman's silence is not her obedience or strong listening skills, it is her waiting for the ideal moment to crush his security and obliterate his sanity. Women have never needed men to tell them what they are capable of, but they do need them to divert their attention away from annihilation of the world around them. So, be the man that pays attention, rather than the man that gets caught unaware.
I'm just going to quickly answer before I get back to my yoga and meditation. NEVER treat a human being like they are nothing because to somebody else they could mean everything. Only abusers treat others with such cruelty and disrespect. Be a better person. Never judge a book by it's cover. Negative energy is so toxic that I'm allergic. Let the light shine on all those things that others are so desperately trying to hide or twist truths on because a truth will always be a truth, a lie will always be a lie. And let me just tell you that the divine spirits around us see EVERYTHING and spiritually energy channels such information to us. 🙏 Think about it? ❤
How about "when you treat a man like he's nothing." It goes both ways. One is not above the other.
So, I hope to see a video that describes "when you treat a man like he's nothing." 😊
Lay it on baby. Sooooo True. After my last beating and they took my husband to jail, my neighbor came over to console me. She said " now you can be yourself" It was the scariest thing anyone ever said to me because
I didn't know who that was. You move on but those pieces of you they destroyed with mental cruelty you NEVER get back. I could never marry again. What makes such inhuman acts in a person? GUYS, BE A MAN. SAY YOU HAVE TO LEAVE INSTEAD OF TORTURING SOMEONE DAY IN AND DAY OUT.
Sad but true that's why I put my ex-husband out in 2012 and I have not looked back. Love is kind not hurtful. The truth is God will never show your true worth to the wrong man.
@RickWalters-r1eWhy do you think that's bullshit?
@RickWalters-r1e That's the same thing that's happening to me too. But I have faith in God. He'd never just leave us like that. One day, he'll bless you with an epic love.
I agree 100%. 😢
Yes🙏🏽
True 💯
Women want FREEDOM 😢
I agree
yes
Wish my daughter will listen and leave the man that's treating her like she nothing
Then, realize the one who is insignificant is the one who puts others down to feel higher.
You won’t. Destroy me. I ll rise like a phoenix 😂😂😂😂😂😂 alive next to sone one else if you. Continue
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Me and Co Co good!
Ya… I was recently ignored. He fed me bs. I’m pretty sure. I can’t believe I let someone do that to me. One month . Never again. I deserve better. I value me.
You. Will get. Nothing. Back
So true M
My ex wonders why I divorced him😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes this is absolute
Walk away you are a queen 👸 make him think about it after you are gone because Good people are hard 2 replace it is his lost not yours he will see it hopefully sooner then later
Profound
Amen
Ladies do most of this things to guys today. This is the fact today