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u need travel in China, exploring China with train is very affordable, the street food also same, u can experience many countries vibes only with travel in China. Like visiting xixuangbanna, Jilin, Qiongkushitai, hemu, enhe, hulunbuir, kashghar, Qiang village, LiTang, Dalli, harbin, and Gansu (Minqin County, Desert Sculpture Art Park Museum) and Qinghai Chaerhan salt lake.
Don't even bother responding to the hateful comments. It takes bravery to upload such a personal story such as yours. Glad you're headstrong and going through life in your own terms!
@@bee-the-dev thank you, Im new to these hateful comments. Not sure if I should ignore them or respond, im starting to think i should just ignore them, i know they trying to bring me on a negative vibe with them. Thank you for your comment 🙏❤️
I agree and his story will resonate with many people, lke me 😊 I love to work from home and be happy as well as productive. I'm also considerating selling my car if scenario will be emigrating and remote work. Internal dilemma's and wanting some kind of autonomy / freedom are human needs. I feel an urge to explore too bc I adapted myself in an office for years which was ok bc it gave me option to buy an apartment and pay off college debts but I'm in another stage now.
@@DonnyLuluYes ignore ( not always easy) 😊 I aporeciate your story and you come across as a civil genuine person. Sometimes we take different routes, what matters is we owe it and try to resolve it too.
I spent alot of my youth traveling on nearly nothing. I wouldn't change it for anything. The experience you get is priceless. Im waiting a few more months to take off again. Im 49 and i can't imagine staying in one spot and calling it a life. To each their own
I realized about it, thats why I decided living an ascetic life in the woods. I have not felt so free ever 😭 I used to live a normal life, but I felt like a prisoner. Regards from México!
I’m 50, your typical Asian male…college educated, career driven, committed to taking care of the family. I had to walk away from work and reevaluate life. My life was flipped upside down when my wife passed due to cancer. Me being the breadwinner, my wife always followed my lead…I loved her for that. I was focused on planning for our future…paying off the house, car notes, raising our son. Today, house is paid off, no debt, the boy is in college figuring out his life, got money saved up…even more money when the agent that sold us our life insurance policies contacted me to claim my wife’s policy. Now what?! Cudos to you Donny for living your life. Me, I’m taking it day by day trying to figure things out.
@@rqn1998 depends where you live. in LA and other expensive cities it seems everything is taxes and overpriced. its just endless chasing money and your a slave. best off to move to a low cost of living city .
@@rqn1998 So true. I don’t need much in life. My biggest expense these days is the cost of fuel…needed to get up to the mountains, deserts and beaches. I find peace sleeping under the stars…alone…well, with my dog, I’m never alone😊
Glad you too action! I am 41 asian male, married. Have never been able to 'unplug' due to family commitments. Have been career focused all my life now beginning to doubt if I made right decisions by not traveling and seeing the world. Just gave me an inspiration to book that trip to California :)
I traveled for three years after high school with my best friend, we traveled Africa, worked in South Africa, traveled Australia, Europe and the Middle East. My parents thought it was a great idea but they thought we would only travel a year. When I got back I went to school got married, got a masters and worked a successful career. I was lucky to be able to travel all over the world for work. Now I travel three or four times a year - usually 2 weeks at a time. That is about perfect for me. I love working and sometimes I need to force myself to self to travel. I took another masters degree two years ago. Just something to keep learning and growing. Love the story.
I was an assistant manager at a 24 hr Walgreens, the pay was absolute trash. Quitting your job and living your dream is the highest gamble but you are truly brave!
Today we are so wrapped up in why we feel so incomplete that we end up burnt out or hating what we do and trying to discover a path the enlightenment. Often times we take so many things in our daily routine for granted that we become spoiled. I hope we can train ourselves to practise gratitude for what we have and what we don't have.
True but also often we already had been grateful for small things for years and something happens a traumatic experience or illness burn out. We are getting paradoxal messages too a lot. One message tells us to count our blessings, not looking for wealth but mental health ( do what makes you happy overall) The other message: accept that having a roof above your head and being healthy is enough. Both are true 🙄
Thank you Donny. After watching Goobie , this is the second best video. I myself worked at scientific research for years includes FDA and NIH as contractor, and same culture; thinking about mom :)) decided to be brave finally . Will start my journey in 3-4 weeks. I am 46, as well. This was my plan when I got divorced in 2020; I just was stopped by covid . Afterwards, always delayed and made excuses since I was a bit scared to do it alone after covid. Also , financial part of it. I put the work first, not myself. I am feeling really so motivated to live my own life now, not family expectations or society rules or life consuming work which made me unhappy for years. Ready to leave things behind, the ones make me feel stuck… Since I have knowledge of 9 languages, I should start from one of those countries :) Thank you again Donny for sharing ...
I was also recommended your channel via recommendation algo and glad I came here. Watched one video now I'm on this one. Commenting for the algo to help you out. Love what you've put out so far and agree, just try to ignore the miserable aholes trying to get a rise out of you in comments. Most of them haven't achieved what you have or loved the way you have anyway. Just sad miserable folks.
I left my job on the 6th of July. I couldn't imagine renewing my contract. It was affecting my overall wellbeing. I'm travelling and documenting my journey. Even if I eventually go back (in the distant future) I need to do what I'm doing right now. It feels right and I'm taking care of myself. Good luck on your journey.
I totally agree with you….i grew up always wanting to please others…I wasn’t selfish enough to do what makes me happy….sometimes you have to take that first step in the other direction and ease towards that direction
Yes, it’s when I realize that it’s ok to be selfish, because it all starts from within us. Hopefully you are doing what you want to do now…. Thank you for sharing!
I'm 27 years old Asian male. I'm currently working as a software engineer, making good money and living a comfortable life but my passion has always been in drawing, painting and creating my own story and world. For a long time, I've wanted to go to art school but I've always been afraid to because I've been taking on too many of my family burdens and expectations. I really appreciate you making this video. I can relate a lot to where you were before going on your journey. Your words have given me motivation and hope to pursue my dream. I hope that one day I'll muster up the strength to make it happen.
I quit my first high paying popular job after 4 1/2 years and went to Spain for over a year. I regret a bit that I rushed to quit, but I don’t want anything different in my life after, so it’s all good. I worked for a FD for 18 years after and retired early last year so I could spend more time with my old parents, but ended up having to take care of my father, but I was able to do that and my father was able to spend the last time of his life at home instead of at a hospital, so it’s a blessing. Now I am an architecture student that I had been dreaming of, I don’t work so I feel a bit bad, but oh well, I am living my life that I like so it’s all good. Thank you for sharing an inspirational life story. We all have one life with the suit that we are in now, so we should live the fullest indeed 😊
Love this! Keep doing what u r doing bro! I'm currently in the same position as you were having lived overseas for close to 5 years, being in debt ect. Ect. but now I that am aware of it i will continue to pursue my passion n purposes throughout my travels now n later in life.
It's great to hear a good story such as yours. I listened to it 3 times. I had been through a similar spiritual experience like yours. I left my accounting job back in 2012, and I had to rely on credit card to pay for living expenses. Then, I got a much better accounting job after that. That job was beyond my imagination. I met great colleagues and earned enough money to pay off my credit debts and my student loans. I just got laid off in mid July 2024. Now, I ready for a new exciting journey. Edit: I listened to Bashar and Kryon. Their teachings changed my life.
Glad you have the guts to live out your dream despite the financial opportunity cost. Kudos to you. Grateful for you sharing an alternate to your typical American life. Good luck to you!
I always enjoy the discussions around the idea of "slow travel." How to frame it as adventure and fun rather than chaos while also balancing expectations with financials.
I did the same cycle travelling for 6 months or so then coming back to the US to work... really reassuring to hear your story and how it all worked out. Lots of good points 🙏🧙🏿♂️👣
Wow going to be 32 this year and going to SE asia in December. I thought maybe for a few months but potentially longer now. Best thing I read recently ''you are not your job.'' there is so much more to life.
It's great to hear your story! I'm 27 years old and quit full-time work this year, and then I joined the project from contract work. So my contract will finish soon, and I decided to research freelance and remote work. Because I want to be able to travel and work in the same. In the future, I want to move to the country that I like... not sure about marriage yet as I'm still single. I guess this is called 'Leave from the comfort zone'. It seems risky and I'm still scared that I will fail. But I think it would be better than regretting and staying with the life that I dislike. I don't have anyone to support me, so it will be my solo journey. Can't wait to see!.
I am a 29 year old Persian man from California who always put my career and family before everything else. Over the past 2 years it’s been festering in my mind that I would like to go experience living somewhere new but I’ve been met with so much resistance from my mom and family. I bought an RV and am leaving in 3 weeks to go travel the United States for a few months. I have about $75k saved up. All the things you mention resonate with how I’m feeling and recently videos like yours have been popping up all over my TH-cam algorithm. Thank you for sharing your experience
@@Googladesh that is awesome! I too want an Rv to travel around the states, I wanted to get my international trips in then saving the states as I get older. Im excited for your new adventure! Would love to see your videos later. Thank you for sharing your story!
Everyone story and situation will be different, yes the only difference is that i have adopted a new set of beliefs that helped me overcome my blockages and allow me to follow my excitement. Thank you for taking the time to comment! 🙏
Thanks for the video, Donny. I also watched the one by the neurosurgeon, Goobie, that you mentioned. As a first-generation Asian Australian, I had a similar upbringing. A few months ago, I decided to quit my corporate job to carve a new path because the traditional route wasn't something I could see myself doing for another 30 years, even though my last job was the highest-paid and arguably the least stressful. I spent some time overseas and am now back in Australia, taking my time before stepping into something new. Returning overseas is still a possibility. I'd be lying if I said money and the thought of potentially being 'behind' wasn't the biggest thing holding me back from heading back overseas, but it's reassuring to hear that despite your setbacks, it wasn't the end of the world and you and your partner managed to keep going. I am also on a journey of spiritual discovery, so much of what you said resonated with me. I appreciate you opening up and telling your story. All the best.
Oh wow! That is amazing! Thank you for letting me know that! That inspires me to make more videos. Thank you for commenting and helping me out, I appreciate that!
Thank you for sharing your honest journey. Glad you got to see the world. You only live once and only you can make yourself happy. Do what you want. You are still young and when you look back it will be memories of travel. Living on your time. So many of us slave away our time at a job. Once that is gone we cannot get it back. Share some travel videos on your channel. ❤
Thank you for commenting and sharing. I totally agree with you. Yes I have lots of traveling videos, but it needs editing. Will take you advise and post more traveling videos.
As I watch this video, I think about down-sizing a lifestyle. I am about 3 years to early retirement. For the first time in my life, I know that there is a way to live my passion. First, I need to get rid of the fear of what if. When I don't enjoy working at my job anymore, I know that it is not my job that I don't like. It is my work environment that I don't like. I believe once we start down-sizing our lifestyle, any change we want to make in our lives is possible. The more we spend time for our 'individual' selves, the more chance we find our passion. Start there.
Yes, I totally agree, downsizing will be good, will give you more funds and flexibility to travel. Also traveling abroad to asia for example actually doesnt cost that much for cost of living when you start looking into it. I’m excited for you!
@@DonnyLulu Yes, I agree. My partner wants to retire in Asia. I, on the other hand would be homesick if I am gone abroad too long. So, I plan to down-size my home base and live a simple lifestyle and use funds to travel. Just in case my partner decides that living abroad long term is no longer for him, then he has a home to come back to.
This was a light bulb moment for me being of a similar traveler minded view and wondering if we should go again. One thing to add every time you come back money comes easier for some reason and it takes longer to break that free spirit back off you. ✊
I really admire your courage , donny . I was a seeker of knowledge, higher reality and meaning of life or whatever because I didn’t know exactly what I was seeking, the emptiness within caused uneasiness,after 10 years of studying Eastern religions, philosophies , then God called me to follow Jesus Christ, I was trying to reason very hard to avoid following Jesus but God wins . I wish you that you find your divine assignment soon , once you do , many of the things of this world start to lose their imaginary value, you will most likely reach your highest goal of human existence, there will be struggles too , ( I’m an authentic Christian) a chosen spiritual teacher , if you ever come to Vegas, we should talk if you like to ❤
I understand that this video is about following passions in life, but the biggest gaping hole is actually knowing what life is. This is probably the most important thing. The concept of getting pleasure from life, this is very new. For thousands of years, people have been poor and life has been hard. People didn't have leisure time, so the concept of passions was for many non existent
So happy Donny that u made this video. It would be a good idea if u would make a group that all of us can mentor one another. If u want to reach out. I this it will be an encouraging platform. Hats off to u as a person. I can just imagine how all ur viewers will add more life to this world if we launch ourselves to our passions. But we need that ignited from the aligned collective. There’s a viewer that commented he knows 9 languages, I have always wanted to learn but really had a hard time giving that permission to myself. A sigh of relief with everything that u share. May God truly bless u and your family. As a mother, I would like to say that I would prefer that my children can sit at ease within themselves even as they work within themselves than feel unease within themselves and contribute nothing but negative in this world. I am proud of u- as an Asian mother 😊.
@@epifaniacabangontongol3748 wow! You are amazing, so wise also! I agree with you on making a group. Im thinking eventually getting on the platform called “Skool” we can start a community on there where like minded people hang out and chat to help each other. We think alike! Thank you for your kind words and sharing!
I wouldn't travel without saving, I don't want to be a poor tourist and I like to be a happy tourist with enough money. I was brought up in a poor family, I knew nobody would help me. so I always save money in case something happens. I never dream about travel the world, I am satisfied with my country I am。
How lovely to know your story. Gives lot of assurance to we people who really want to do what they love but are damn scared to take that leap. Iam frm india and me too 47 now. Thanks a tonn for coming forward. Loved every bit of your journey ❤
I’m getting ready to do the same at 42. I’ve only been outside the USA once to Costa Rica…I’m heading to Asia- Vietnam/ Thailand…then taking from there.
If you purchase a small home early in life, pay it off, keep things simple, you can retire early and slow travel part of the year. Then in the later years you still have a roof over your head. Since I was 55 ive had no debt. I work if i want, but spend alot of time traveling. You can have both if you play your cards right.
Hey Donny, I dont know why your video came across my feed, maybe the university has it own algorithm but I think I have a very similar story. During covid pandemic, I experienced something different inside me, I became questioning a lot of things about my life, my career, my effort, my life and my future. I become more interested with spiritual subjects (astrology, buddhism, dark night of the soul, carljung - shadow work...), I started doing mediation religiously and I stated realizing things that I never thought about before. I became sick of trying/hustling as I see no point in everything and i couldn't find myself to do any work. Also there has been something inside me been telling me to go back to my home country (Vietnam), I have only visited Vietnam in 2018 for 1 month and honestly the sense of connection and being finally home hit me hard, but i kept it inside. I have been feeling so disconnected since I moved aboard. I have been a selfless person for as long as i know, i always see myself as person who is responsible for everything in my family - sometimes i do hate myself about that trait but growing up i was taught to be this person ( i know i realized i was being programed that way but honestly its hard to break the cycle). I also have an Asian mum who is extremely worried about everything. She was honestly against me going back to Vietnam but she eventually gave in. Anw, me and my partner finally booked a one-way ticket back to Vietnam, honestly we dont know what is ahead of us. Your video gave me some courage and strength. I would love to connect and have a chat if you ever come to Vietnam or Australia. Peace,
@@timvsannie wow! Amazing story Tim! And thank you for taking the time to share. Yes your story and situation seems very similar to mine. Congratulations on taking the leap to travel to vn, there is lots of adventures awaiting for you I’m sure. I’m excited for you! I do go to vn about once a year, will be in vn next summer. Would love to stay connected and meet you up one day if there is a chance. Thank you for taking the time to share your story! I appreciate that!
Having a home is like a huge pit that you dump money 💰 into that will never fill up 😅 actually freedom is not being attracted to anything that can financially hold you accountable. Break the chains ⛓️ Not having anything is having everything!!!! If you can figure out what I mean then you will understand 💯
Hello, I am almost 40 years old. I worked for 20 years and bought land, built it and rented it to a laboratory. They pay me about $2,000 per month. I will take some and escape from the prison of work. Fortunately, I am not married and there are no obligations. I will live a life of laziness in Asia and get up when I want or when my body is comfortable and ready to get up. We do not have an income tax here. Fortunately, I also saved about $100,000 to buy an electric car and a small apartment and live from rents. Currently, after the Corona pandemic, everyone wants a life of comfort and laziness and to get away from the prison of work and life. I have fierce competition from everyone to move quickly before it is too late because everyone wants to become lazy. My regards to you
Have you tried working in HK? Lots of foreigners apply at a large private school system (ESF). Starting pay is US$4K a month plus $1.5K housing allowance. HK is also a great base to travel around Asia as you'll have about 17 holidays a year plus summer and Xmas period off.
@@DonnyLulu Good luck with your move. Australia is actually a good place to work as so many Australians go away on holiday for two months or so and they need foreign workers to fill in.
@@robocop581 thank you for commenting! Most of my income is online now, and investments so it gives me flexibility to travel. But part time jobs for the wife might be a good idea 😃
Interesting how individuals believe that throwing away their livelihood and traveling the world, following their passion will make them “happy.” Passion is like the white hot romantic phase of love. It cools off and acute passion fades and you have more practical issues like how to pay the bills. Look inward for happiness not outward is my advice.
There is no right or wrong way. If someone is happy doing the things they do right now including their job and way of life then of course there is no need to go anywhere. We want to work to live not live to work. Im glad you found your inner peace and happiness and thank you for sharing your perspective and commenting 🙏❤️
earlier this year i got a job offer in a big city i always wanted to live in. it would've payed more, and I would have gotten to live on my own and experience reality outside of my parents' home. unfortunately they did not want me to and i didn't, i declined the offer. i instantly regretted it. thankfully life isn't over based on that decision, but i will always wonder how things would've gone otherwise. it is difficult to reconcile the responsible and practical decisions with our passions and risk taking desires.
I love Switzerland! One of my favorite countries to travel, so beautiful! Been there twice and will definitely come back! Thank you for stopping by 🙏❤️
Do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it right now before it's too late I did this three times already in my life I'm 60 years old right now three different times once in my thirties once in my 50s and once in my 60s I sold everything and traveled around the world for more than one year without working
It"s my dream to move abroad and financially I could do it but I have so much fear to leave a job that I don't love and a house that stresses me out. What if, what if, what if I can never find a new job, or end up homeless. So much anxiety.
Its ok to have fear. Fear just means you are running through some unknown scenarios in your head through limiting beliefs. Be curious and continue to look into what you want to do. Play out in your head the worst case scenario then plan for it. If you already said you can do it financially then I would say go for it. Im very sure you will be glad you took the leap. Cant wait to hear your stories later on
Thank you so much for the moral support. One problem is I have deep roots where I am now that includes a mortgage and a full time job that provides some security. There is definitely fear in just uprooting to a very different scenario but what will I do 20 years from now when I regret never having taken the leap?
To all those who took , taking and about to take that leap of faith , may the force be with you ! I hope that someday, I, too, will have the courage to do the same. I envy men and women who go on solo trips . I would like to do it too but I often wonder , wouldn't it be boring ? Not having a friend to talk to , to share your excitement or experience? 😢
@DonnyLulu Yes, I am sure I will . Thank you. But how does one start ?! Presently, I want to go to Melbourne for the Australian Open in January 2025 but haven't found any friend who enjoys tennis like I do . 😔 Gathering the courage to take that one step forward of going alone . We shall see, eh . 😊
Enjoyed your video. You Vietnamese know the secret to the eternal fountain of youth, but are not sharing with the rest of us. I follow a Finanancial TH-camer of Vietnamese heritage who is 50 but looks 30. Follow your dreams, just as long as you have faith, family, and finance. Subscribed
@@ActiveDodger thank you for commenting. I had a few comments about the aging part. I contribute my slowing down the aging process through healthy diet, exercise, and most importantly doing the things that you love. Thank you for your kind words and motivation! 🙏❤️
Like you start to experience orgasmic levels of ecstasy. Imagine the best orgasm you've ever had and then multiply it by a thousand. You realize that caring about anything at all is completely idiotic. From the highest perspective if you realize that everything is love then that's it. Anything that happens is absolute love and nothing could be better. Everything is absolutely perfect.
Man it might sound racist but Asians do age really well , u look young bro , even if your really depressing , Focus on the Good , Mindset is Everything
Love your video I wish I had the courage to leave my job and start traveling. Have about 50k in savings but also have a kid, with this economy not sure if I can find a job after I quit.
You can do it! Look into teaching abroad and jobs online. In asia they value people from the U.s and we have an advantage when it comes to job hires. When i was in vn I was offered a job as a manager for the hard rock cafe. You just have to look and things will open up. Be open to it and believe its possible and start looking into your curiosity. Would love to hear about your future updates. You can do it!
@@YTMatrixWakeUp hi, for vn we did not needed. Depending on the country but usually when inquiring the job the employer will give you all the details and they will help you. Let me know if you have any other questions
Im inspired bro. I have 2 Jobs, but the Expenses here were i Lived in U.S. was so Expensive. $2,400 Mortgage $700 /month Car Payment $2,000 Credit Card bills. I dont have Debt, but I feel Unhappy. I feel Bad For my Wife, because i love her but feel like we Stuck here were we Lived just to Pay bills. Im so Tired of just Living a Boring Life. We need our Colorful Life back again. Hope 1 day, I could do what ever You doing. TraveL
@@norbelsemaj3870 thank you for sharing. I would suggest to look into options. Would you consider going to abroad to work? What countries would you go, start looking into it and opportunities will open up.
@DonnyLulu I always Dream of Going to Philippines 🇵🇭 I'm always watching video of Palawan (Puerto Princessa) Also $1 U.S. Dollars is ₽58 Pesos which is Cheap living. ( Specially Food ) I heard Rent there also is Cheap ($300) It's a Province kinda Place which is Perfect for me. Living in the City is Just Crazy Expensive
@@norbelsemaj3870 i love palawan el nido too. One of my favorite travel place. You need to be in line what that thinking and start looking into it. Yes cost of living is cheaper also. Just by moving your financial will be better. Just start to look for something to do to make money online or abroad. Are you from the usa?
@@norbelsemaj3870 i would say reevaluate whats important to you. If that is the life style you want to live. The cost of living abroad is a lot cheaper. What ethnicity are you?
Travel does need money to spend. Try look for nomad jobs that do not stuck at a place. Try also locate or understand your own personality such as mbti or socio hierarchy. It is just like playing a role playing games for your ownself and plan yourself accordingly. Btw, this video is quite a video to telling your own self. Travel with survey or travel to enjoy or travel to relax or travel t experience or travel to make money and at the end travel to spend money. In summary, know your personality and complete yourself.
if you got no kids , why not go. thats the good thing about being single. less responsibilities and less obligations. you just got find a partner who also enjoys travelling
Omg this is popping up after I just got a call from a Recruiter in response to my cv. If they invite me for an interview I told myself I will take it and stay in Netherlands but if i can't find a good match Job in NL i will move to Spain, work remote and also sell my car and take it as savings to Spain. I'm 48, want through some big life events which led to selling house and rent apartment. High rent. The job I have no applied for pays well, my situation would be solved. Will have to work in office but hybride is an option. I was probably to open to the Recruiter told her where I'm at but she seemed to appreciate it. .i dont want to work for a company that doesn't view people as humans anyway. We will see. Ofcourse i hope tp get an interview and if it leads to a job i will take it, try and Spain can wait. The fact that I'm nervous for their call to tell me yes or no means I'm motivated I guess.
I am 35. Just landed from Nepal to Canada to be the west. I was about to start the rat race and now I see guys in mid 40s ranting about unfulfiling life. I am scared.
I don't have debts. If I sell my car and quit my apartment rent , I will have 13.000 eur to move to Spain but I will first look for work. Meanwhile I am waiting for a call from a company in my own country which will be enough to pay my rent. Ahhhh No rush. Step by step. If you don't have a family you can or want to depend on it feels more scary
@@silverpro8356 hi! Yes! My next video will be how to use the power of gratitude to strengthen the power of law of attraction. Great suggestion, great minds think alike!
Your family has a business for you to inherit though. Not everyone has that to fall back on. But it sounds like at least when your family needs you, you came back and kept the business going and didn't run it into the ground.
@@xo82 when i was traveling I didnt take $1 dollar from my family. When we sold the business I didnt take any money and give it all to my mom. All my debt was paid from my own money and efforts. I wanted to put myself in an uncomfortable place financially to see if I can come out of it positively and it all worked out. Thank you for taking the time to comment! 🙏❤️
@@macynguyen8864 thank you! Im trying to practice my zen, by responding, i know they are just crying for help and attention, im trying to spread positivity hoping it will help. It doesnt look too good right now 😅
You're correct about certain cultural restrictions! In certain cultures kids are treated as lifelong servants for their parents and I don't agree with that.
Very cool story, I would love to go back to Viet for a year, btw im curious about the class that you take to learn about your self complete that you mention
I didnt take any class, its through years of studying about spirituality. If you are curious you can look up Bashar by Darrel Anka, see if his message resinate with you. Let me know how that goes ❤
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u need travel in China, exploring China with train is very affordable, the street food also same, u can experience many countries vibes only with travel in China. Like visiting xixuangbanna, Jilin, Qiongkushitai, hemu, enhe, hulunbuir, kashghar, Qiang village, LiTang, Dalli, harbin, and Gansu (Minqin County, Desert Sculpture Art Park Museum) and Qinghai Chaerhan salt lake.
@@User-kjxklyntrw thank you ive been wanting to visit china. Will look into that. Is it crowded too travel?
@@DonnyLulu I think China only too crowded if in national public holiday season, so I think not crowded for now
Mr cheng said the property fraud got the best of ya
Don't even bother responding to the hateful comments. It takes bravery to upload such a personal story such as yours. Glad you're headstrong and going through life in your own terms!
@@bee-the-dev thank you, Im new to these hateful comments. Not sure if I should ignore them or respond, im starting to think i should just ignore them, i know they trying to bring me on a negative vibe with them. Thank you for your comment 🙏❤️
I agree and his story will resonate with many people, lke me 😊 I love to work from home and be happy as well as productive.
I'm also considerating selling my car if scenario will be emigrating and remote work.
Internal dilemma's and wanting some kind of autonomy / freedom are human needs. I feel an urge to explore too bc I adapted myself in an office for years which was ok bc it gave me option to buy an apartment and pay off college debts but I'm in another stage now.
@@DonnyLuluYes ignore ( not always easy) 😊 I aporeciate your story and you come across as a civil genuine person.
Sometimes we take different routes, what matters is we owe it and try to resolve it too.
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 thank you i appreciate that
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 thank you for sharing
I spent alot of my youth traveling on nearly nothing. I wouldn't change it for anything. The experience you get is priceless. Im waiting a few more months to take off again. Im 49 and i can't imagine staying in one spot and calling it a life. To each their own
@@Thedesertguy75 ❤️
Work, family and even money can turn into a jail eventually. Live your dream.
You are so right! The more we are attached to something the more it can have a hold on our life. Thank you for taking the time to comment!
I realized about it, thats why I decided living an ascetic life in the woods. I have not felt so free ever 😭 I used to live a normal life, but I felt like a prisoner. Regards from México!
@@DonnyLuluwhatever we can't say no to makes us it's slave
That’s only if u did all of that to meet the status quo
Another whining KUNG FU! Sometimes work is work. MOST people can't afford to retire early, sit on the LOG and WHINE-reflect.
I’m 50, your typical Asian male…college educated, career driven, committed to taking care of the family. I had to walk away from work and reevaluate life. My life was flipped upside down when my wife passed due to cancer. Me being the breadwinner, my wife always followed my lead…I loved her for that. I was focused on planning for our future…paying off the house, car notes, raising our son. Today, house is paid off, no debt, the boy is in college figuring out his life, got money saved up…even more money when the agent that sold us our life insurance policies contacted me to claim my wife’s policy. Now what?!
Cudos to you Donny for living your life. Me, I’m taking it day by day trying to figure things out.
Amazing story, I hope you figure it out. You deserve to live the rest of your life with joy and bliss. Thank you for sharing 🙏❤️
thats a rarity these days. a woman following a mans lead. femisim and all that bs in todays time
Crazy story yeah I quit work at 43 44 after redundancy 2020 being in inner syd job for 17 years. Money is overrated...
@@rqn1998 depends where you live. in LA and other expensive cities it seems everything is taxes and overpriced. its just endless chasing money and your a slave. best off to move to a low cost of living city .
@@rqn1998
So true. I don’t need much in life. My biggest expense these days is the cost of fuel…needed to get up to the mountains, deserts and beaches. I find peace sleeping under the stars…alone…well, with my dog, I’m never alone😊
Glad you too action! I am 41 asian male, married. Have never been able to 'unplug' due to family commitments. Have been career focused all my life now beginning to doubt if I made right decisions by not traveling and seeing the world. Just gave me an inspiration to book that trip to California :)
Thank you for sharing your story! Come to California! What part do you want to visit? Where are you from?
I traveled for three years after high school with my best friend, we traveled Africa, worked in South Africa, traveled Australia, Europe and the Middle East. My parents thought it was a great idea but they thought we would only travel a year. When I got back I went to school got married, got a masters and worked a successful career. I was lucky to be able to travel all over the world for work. Now I travel three or four times a year - usually 2 weeks at a time. That is about perfect for me. I love working and sometimes I need to force myself to self to travel. I took another masters degree two years ago. Just something to keep learning and growing. Love the story.
Love your story! Thank you for sharing! 🙏❤️
I was an assistant manager at a 24 hr Walgreens, the pay was absolute trash. Quitting your job and living your dream is the highest gamble but you are truly brave!
@@Joex0f thank you!
Today we are so wrapped up in why we feel so incomplete that we end up burnt out or hating what we do and trying to discover a path the enlightenment. Often times we take so many things in our daily routine for granted that we become spoiled. I hope we can train ourselves to practise gratitude for what we have and what we don't have.
You are so right! That is actually my next video! You read my mind. Great words! Thank you for taking the time to comment!
True but also often we already had been grateful for small things for years and something happens a traumatic experience or illness burn out.
We are getting paradoxal messages too a lot.
One message tells us to count our blessings, not looking for wealth but mental health ( do what makes you happy overall)
The other message: accept that having a roof above your head and being healthy is enough.
Both are true 🙄
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 everyones theme of life will be different
Bro. Your 46? You need to create a channel sharing your skincare routine.
Asian don't raisin....
ok Alex great idea I will work on that video soon 😂
Less stress, travel the world, eat healthy, low carb, stay active physically, stay hydrated , hair dye 😅….thats how you stay looking young 😊
Thats standar for an asian
First step: be Asian
Congrats Donny, for leaving your comfort zone which is something the majority of us fail to do in life ✅
Thank you Richie for the motivation and comment!
Thank you Donny. After watching Goobie , this is the second best video. I myself worked at scientific research for years includes FDA and NIH as contractor, and same culture; thinking about mom :)) decided to be brave finally . Will start my journey in 3-4 weeks. I am 46, as well. This was my plan when I got divorced in 2020; I just was stopped by covid . Afterwards, always delayed and made excuses since I was a bit scared to do it alone after covid. Also , financial part of it. I put the work first, not myself. I am feeling really so motivated to live my own life now, not family expectations or society rules or life consuming work which made me unhappy for years. Ready to leave things behind, the ones make me feel stuck… Since I have knowledge of 9 languages, I should start from one of those countries :) Thank you again Donny for sharing ...
Wow Amazing story! Thank you for sharing! You know 9 languages? Amazing! Im excited for your up coming adventures!
I was also recommended your channel via recommendation algo and glad I came here. Watched one video now I'm on this one. Commenting for the algo to help you out. Love what you've put out so far and agree, just try to ignore the miserable aholes trying to get a rise out of you in comments. Most of them haven't achieved what you have or loved the way you have anyway. Just sad miserable folks.
Wow! Thank you for your amazing comment! People like you motivates and inspire me to make more videos! Thank you for helping with the algorithm 🙏❤️
I left my job on the 6th of July. I couldn't imagine renewing my contract. It was affecting my overall wellbeing. I'm travelling and documenting my journey. Even if I eventually go back (in the distant future) I need to do what I'm doing right now. It feels right and I'm taking care of myself. Good luck on your journey.
@@fionaslife im excited for you
@@DonnyLulu Thank you.
Do you have a channel too?
@@beaub650 yes I do. It's Fiona's Life .
I totally agree with you….i grew up always wanting to please others…I wasn’t selfish enough to do what makes me happy….sometimes you have to take that first step in the other direction and ease towards that direction
Yes, it’s when I realize that it’s ok to be selfish, because it all starts from within us. Hopefully you are doing what you want to do now…. Thank you for sharing!
I'm 27 years old Asian male. I'm currently working as a software engineer, making good money and living a comfortable life but my passion has always been in drawing, painting and creating my own story and world. For a long time, I've wanted to go to art school but I've always been afraid to because I've been taking on too many of my family burdens and expectations. I really appreciate you making this video. I can relate a lot to where you were before going on your journey. Your words have given me motivation and hope to pursue my dream. I hope that one day I'll muster up the strength to make it happen.
@@timtran898 im glad you got value out if the video. Thank you for sharing your story
I quit my first high paying popular job after 4 1/2 years and went to Spain for over a year. I regret a bit that I rushed to quit, but I don’t want anything different in my life after, so it’s all good. I worked for a FD for 18 years after and retired early last year so I could spend more time with my old parents, but ended up having to take care of my father, but I was able to do that and my father was able to spend the last time of his life at home instead of at a hospital, so it’s a blessing.
Now I am an architecture student that I had been dreaming of, I don’t work so I feel a bit bad, but oh well, I am living my life that I like so it’s all good.
Thank you for sharing an inspirational life story. We all have one life with the suit that we are in now, so we should live the fullest indeed 😊
@@mariyork well said! Thank you for sharing your story. I appreciate that! 🙏❤️
I love to listen migrant’s life story that in USA so just not me alone that feel trapped with family . Thank u for sharing
Thank you for taking the time to comment
Love this! Keep doing what u r doing bro! I'm currently in the same position as you were having lived overseas for close to 5 years, being in debt ect. Ect. but now I that am aware of it i will continue to pursue my passion n purposes throughout my travels now n later in life.
Thank you for your comment!
It's great to hear a good story such as yours. I listened to it 3 times.
I had been through a similar spiritual experience like yours.
I left my accounting job back in 2012, and I had to rely on credit card to pay for living expenses.
Then, I got a much better accounting job after that. That job was beyond my imagination.
I met great colleagues and earned enough money to pay off my credit debts and my student loans.
I just got laid off in mid July 2024.
Now, I ready for a new exciting journey.
Edit: I listened to Bashar and Kryon. Their teachings changed my life.
Thank you for sharing that! I appreciate your comment. Im excited for your new adventure. Bashar is the one changed my life also
Glad you have the guts to live out your dream despite the financial opportunity cost. Kudos to you. Grateful for you sharing an alternate to your typical American life. Good luck to you!
@@phimphonesiripanyo100 thank you i appreciate your comment
Thank you for this! A very timely reminder for myself after having gotten very sick from the stress of my job. Really, thank you!
Yes, Stress can make us sick. i hope you figure out the balance, thank you for sharing
I feel like you were speaking to me directly. This struck a cord and I’m more motivated to start traveling. Thank you 🙏
Awesome! That was my intention, to help anyone that was in the same spot! Thank you for commenting!
Donny. You make the right decision. I'm happy for you. God Bless! Living in the Good Life.
Thank you i appreciate that!
I always enjoy the discussions around the idea of "slow travel." How to frame it as adventure and fun rather than chaos while also balancing expectations with financials.
Yes Michael, slow travel is different from quick travel trips that we have to rush to see things…
As a fellow asian...i agree with the expectations from the asian elders! Good story and keep it up. One life
Thank you for the motivation!
I did the same cycle travelling for 6 months or so then coming back to the US to work... really reassuring to hear your story and how it all worked out. Lots of good points 🙏🧙🏿♂️👣
Thank you 🙏
I’ve seen the video you referenced in this video. Beautiful channel.
Thank you for commenting! 🙏
Wow going to be 32 this year and going to SE asia in December. I thought maybe for a few months but potentially longer now. Best thing I read recently ''you are not your job.'' there is so much more to life.
Nice! You will enjoy it!
It's great to hear your story! I'm 27 years old and quit full-time work this year, and then I joined the project from contract work. So my contract will finish soon, and I decided to research freelance and remote work. Because I want to be able to travel and work in the same. In the future, I want to move to the country that I like... not sure about marriage yet as I'm still single. I guess this is called 'Leave from the comfort zone'. It seems risky and I'm still scared that I will fail. But I think it would be better than regretting and staying with the life that I dislike. I don't have anyone to support me, so it will be my solo journey. Can't wait to see!.
In excited for you! You are young and wise
It’s refreshing to hear a more realistic story about being a nomad or traveler!
@@DebraJohnson ❤️
I am a 29 year old Persian man from California who always put my career and family before everything else.
Over the past 2 years it’s been festering in my mind that I would like to go experience living somewhere new but I’ve been met with so much resistance from my mom and family.
I bought an RV and am leaving in 3 weeks to go travel the United States for a few months. I have about $75k saved up.
All the things you mention resonate with how I’m feeling and recently videos like yours have been popping up all over my TH-cam algorithm.
Thank you for sharing your experience
@@Googladesh that is awesome! I too want an Rv to travel around the states, I wanted to get my international trips in then saving the states as I get older. Im excited for your new adventure! Would love to see your videos later. Thank you for sharing your story!
Good luck brother.
I can't say I agree with your way of living or thinking, but I enjoyed listening to your story. Thank you for sharing brother.
@@newtypetommy thank you! I appreciate you taking the time to comment!
You have a parent you can stay with, not sure your friend will allow that...your situation allows you..and you are lucky and mentally strong..
Everyone story and situation will be different, yes the only difference is that i have adopted a new set of beliefs that helped me overcome my blockages and allow me to follow my excitement. Thank you for taking the time to comment! 🙏
Thanks for the video, Donny. I also watched the one by the neurosurgeon, Goobie, that you mentioned. As a first-generation Asian Australian, I had a similar upbringing. A few months ago, I decided to quit my corporate job to carve a new path because the traditional route wasn't something I could see myself doing for another 30 years, even though my last job was the highest-paid and arguably the least stressful.
I spent some time overseas and am now back in Australia, taking my time before stepping into something new. Returning overseas is still a possibility. I'd be lying if I said money and the thought of potentially being 'behind' wasn't the biggest thing holding me back from heading back overseas, but it's reassuring to hear that despite your setbacks, it wasn't the end of the world and you and your partner managed to keep going.
I am also on a journey of spiritual discovery, so much of what you said resonated with me. I appreciate you opening up and telling your story. All the best.
Thank you for taking the time to share your story! Im excited for your spiritual journey and future travels!
Got recommended this video. commenting for the algorithm. good luck.
Oh wow! That is amazing! Thank you for letting me know that! That inspires me to make more videos. Thank you for commenting and helping me out, I appreciate that!
Thank you for sharing your honest journey. Glad you got to see the world. You only live once and only you can make yourself happy. Do what you want. You are still young and when you look back it will be memories of travel. Living on your time. So many of us slave away our time at a job. Once that is gone we cannot get it back. Share some travel videos on your channel. ❤
Thank you for commenting and sharing. I totally agree with you. Yes I have lots of traveling videos, but it needs editing. Will take you advise and post more traveling videos.
As I watch this video, I think about down-sizing a lifestyle. I am about 3 years to early retirement. For the first time in my life, I know that there is a way to live my passion. First, I need to get rid of the fear of what if. When I don't enjoy working at my job anymore, I know that it is not my job that I don't like. It is my work environment that I don't like. I believe once we start down-sizing our lifestyle, any change we want to make in our lives is possible. The more we spend time for our 'individual' selves, the more chance we find our passion. Start there.
Yes, I totally agree, downsizing will be good, will give you more funds and flexibility to travel. Also traveling abroad to asia for example actually doesnt cost that much for cost of living when you start looking into it. I’m excited for you!
@@DonnyLulu Yes, I agree. My partner wants to retire in Asia. I, on the other hand would be homesick if I am gone abroad too long. So, I plan to down-size my home base and live a simple lifestyle and use funds to travel. Just in case my partner decides that living abroad long term is no longer for him, then he has a home to come back to.
This was a light bulb moment for me being of a similar traveler minded view and wondering if we should go again. One thing to add every time you come back money comes easier for some reason and it takes longer to break that free spirit back off you. ✊
Thank you for sharing!
I really admire your courage , donny . I was a seeker of knowledge, higher reality and meaning of life or whatever because I didn’t know exactly what I was seeking, the emptiness within caused uneasiness,after 10 years of studying Eastern religions, philosophies , then God called me to follow Jesus Christ, I was trying to reason very hard to avoid following Jesus but God wins .
I wish you that you find your divine assignment soon , once you do , many of the things of this world start to lose their imaginary value, you will most likely reach your highest goal of human existence, there will be struggles too , ( I’m an authentic Christian) a chosen spiritual teacher , if you ever come to Vegas, we should talk if you like to ❤
Thank you for sharing!!
I understand that this video is about following passions in life, but the biggest gaping hole is actually knowing what life is. This is probably the most important thing.
The concept of getting pleasure from life, this is very new. For thousands of years, people have been poor and life has been hard. People didn't have leisure time, so the concept of passions was for many non existent
Yes I agree! We need a new set if beliefs of what life is, maybe another video about it soon 😊
Live your life, Donny. It is only yours - for better or worse - but only yours. Wish You well!
Thank you! 🙏 ❤
So happy Donny that u made this video.
It would be a good idea if u would make a group that all of us can mentor one another. If u want to reach out.
I this it will be an encouraging platform.
Hats off to u as a person.
I can just imagine how all ur viewers will add more life to this world if we launch ourselves to our passions. But we need that ignited from the aligned collective.
There’s a viewer that commented he knows 9 languages, I have always wanted to learn but really had a hard time giving that permission to myself. A sigh of relief with everything that u share.
May God truly bless u and your family.
As a mother, I would like to say that I would prefer that my children can sit at ease within themselves even as they work within themselves than feel unease within themselves and contribute nothing but negative in this world.
I am proud of u- as an Asian mother 😊.
@@epifaniacabangontongol3748 wow! You are amazing, so wise also! I agree with you on making a group. Im thinking eventually getting on the platform called “Skool” we can start a community on there where like minded people hang out and chat to help each other. We think alike! Thank you for your kind words and sharing!
Just found your channel and I enjoy your videos it resonates a lot keep it up 👌🔥
Thank you! I appreciate that!
You have family and friends that supported you. Unfortunately most of us don't have that and wouldn't be able to do what you did. But love your story.
We all have obstacles in our lives, we have to spend time looking for the possible solutions. Thank you for commenting!
Thank you for taking the time to share your story.
Thank you!
I wouldn't travel without saving, I don't want to be a poor tourist and I like to be a happy tourist with enough money.
I was brought up in a poor family, I knew nobody would help me. so I always save money in case something happens.
I never dream about travel the world, I am satisfied with my country I am。
@@曾幼芬 thank you for sharing!
Nice bro. I'm glad you got to experience life. Money comes back. We only experience life once
@@Dagothdaleet 💯
“A compact scoop…” :) I couldn’t relate to the Neurosurgeon. But I can definitely relate to this and to you. Thank you for sharing.
Yes i still feel bad for that compact scoop 😂. Thank you for your comment! ❤️
Thank you so very much for sharing your Story
@@adesuaodihirin6688 🙏❤️
How lovely to know your story. Gives lot of assurance to we people who really want to do what they love but are damn scared to take that leap.
Iam frm india and me too 47 now.
Thanks a tonn for coming forward. Loved every bit of your journey ❤
@@jyotinipulal3752 thank you for taking the time to comment. I appreciate that! 🙏❤️
I’m getting ready to do the same at 42. I’ve only been outside the USA once to Costa Rica…I’m heading to Asia- Vietnam/ Thailand…then taking from there.
@@beaub650 im excited for you!
If you purchase a small home early in life, pay it off, keep things simple, you can retire early and slow travel part of the year. Then in the later years you still have a roof over your head. Since I was 55 ive had no debt. I work if i want, but spend alot of time traveling. You can have both if you play your cards right.
Thank you for sharing!
Hey Donny, I dont know why your video came across my feed, maybe the university has it own algorithm but I think I have a very similar story. During covid pandemic, I experienced something different inside me, I became questioning a lot of things about my life, my career, my effort, my life and my future. I become more interested with spiritual subjects (astrology, buddhism, dark night of the soul, carljung - shadow work...), I started doing mediation religiously and I stated realizing things that I never thought about before. I became sick of trying/hustling as I see no point in everything and i couldn't find myself to do any work.
Also there has been something inside me been telling me to go back to my home country (Vietnam), I have only visited Vietnam in 2018 for 1 month and honestly the sense of connection and being finally home hit me hard, but i kept it inside. I have been feeling so disconnected since I moved aboard.
I have been a selfless person for as long as i know, i always see myself as person who is responsible for everything in my family - sometimes i do hate myself about that trait but growing up i was taught to be this person ( i know i realized i was being programed that way but honestly its hard to break the cycle). I also have an Asian mum who is extremely worried about everything. She was honestly against me going back to Vietnam but she eventually gave in.
Anw, me and my partner finally booked a one-way ticket back to Vietnam, honestly we dont know what is ahead of us. Your video gave me some courage and strength. I would love to connect and have a chat if you ever come to Vietnam or Australia.
Peace,
@@timvsannie wow! Amazing story Tim! And thank you for taking the time to share. Yes your story and situation seems very similar to mine. Congratulations on taking the leap to travel to vn, there is lots of adventures awaiting for you I’m sure.
I’m excited for you! I do go to vn about once a year, will be in vn next summer. Would love to stay connected and meet you up one day if there is a chance. Thank you for taking the time to share your story! I appreciate that!
When you radiate incompleteness, that life scenario is going to come to you that way. Damn bro, gotta pin that up on the wall
I appreciate that! Im glad that resinated with you
Video was recommended. Like and subbed to keep the algorithm happy
@@mirchiboyz wow! I appreciate that so much! Thank you for spreading the love!!
Peace n happiness is found inside yourself. Your seeking contentment outside. You will never find it and spend ur entire life wandering.
Yes agree, sometimes it takes us to go through life experiences to get to that realization or else we will just wonder what if.
Having a home is like a huge pit that you dump money 💰 into that will never fill up 😅 actually freedom is not being attracted to anything that can financially hold you accountable. Break the chains ⛓️ Not having anything is having everything!!!! If you can figure out what I mean then you will understand 💯
Wise words
Hello, I am almost 40 years old. I worked for 20 years and bought land, built it and rented it to a laboratory. They pay me about $2,000 per month. I will take some and escape from the prison of work. Fortunately, I am not married and there are no obligations. I will live a life of laziness in Asia and get up when I want or when my body is comfortable and ready to get up. We do not have an income tax here. Fortunately, I also saved about $100,000 to buy an electric car and a small apartment and live from rents. Currently, after the Corona pandemic, everyone wants a life of comfort and laziness and to get away from the prison of work and life. I have fierce competition from everyone to move quickly before it is too late because everyone wants to become lazy. My regards to you
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m excited for your new adventure
Hope you make more videos . Don’t give up
@@jle430 thank you for the motivation! 🙏❤️
man thank you for the video that have a lot of inspiration for me (Y)
Thank you for commenting! Im glad you were able to get something out of it. ❤
Only because you're American you are able to do this. American privilege is real im convinced
Yes that is true freedom, we can always come back home if things don’t work out. We also have an advantage when it comes to seeking out jobs overseas
yea other countries need to learn from us. Democracy and capitalism thrives a country.
Socialism is for plebeians.
About to sell my car now, Getting a moped overseas
That sounds like a great adventure. I bought a moped in vn also. Drove it for a year then sold it after. Saves alot of money compares to gas here.
Ah another one of these vids. Thank you algorithm! Subbed
Thank you!
Have you tried working in HK? Lots of foreigners apply at a large private school system (ESF). Starting pay is US$4K a month plus $1.5K housing allowance. HK is also a great base to travel around Asia as you'll have about 17 holidays a year plus summer and Xmas period off.
Wow, I didn’t know they pay that well. I have not worked in HK. Thank you for sharing and commenting!
@@DonnyLulu Good luck with your move. Australia is actually a good place to work as so many Australians go away on holiday for two months or so and they need foreign workers to fill in.
@@robocop581 thank you for commenting! Most of my income is online now, and investments so it gives me flexibility to travel. But part time jobs for the wife might be a good idea 😃
Interesting how individuals believe that throwing away their livelihood and traveling the world, following their passion will make them “happy.”
Passion is like the white hot romantic phase of love. It cools off and acute passion fades and you have more practical issues like how to pay the bills. Look inward for happiness not outward is my advice.
There is no right or wrong way. If someone is happy doing the things they do right now including their job and way of life then of course there is no need to go anywhere. We want to work to live not live to work.
Im glad you found your inner peace and happiness and thank you for sharing your perspective and commenting 🙏❤️
earlier this year i got a job offer in a big city i always wanted to live in. it would've payed more, and I would have gotten to live on my own and experience reality outside of my parents' home. unfortunately they did not want me to and i didn't, i declined the offer. i instantly regretted it. thankfully life isn't over based on that decision, but i will always wonder how things would've gone otherwise. it is difficult to reconcile the responsible and practical decisions with our passions and risk taking desires.
Thank you for sharing! Hopefully you have learn something that will help you with future decisions.
I like your thoughts - thanks & greetings from Switzerland, take care
I love Switzerland! One of my favorite countries to travel, so beautiful! Been there twice and will definitely come back! Thank you for stopping by 🙏❤️
Do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it do it right now before it's too late I did this three times already in my life I'm 60 years old right now three different times once in my thirties once in my 50s and once in my 60s I sold everything and traveled around the world for more than one year without working
@@3rdStoneObliterum thank you for sharing that 🙏❤️
You have done the right thing
@@reborn2020 thank you i appreciate that
It"s my dream to move abroad and financially I could do it but I have so much fear to leave a job that I don't love and a house that stresses me out. What if, what if, what if I can never find a new job, or end up homeless. So much anxiety.
Its ok to have fear. Fear just means you are running through some unknown scenarios in your head through limiting beliefs. Be curious and continue to look into what you want to do. Play out in your head the worst case scenario then plan for it. If you already said you can do it financially then I would say go for it. Im very sure you will be glad you took the leap. Cant wait to hear your stories later on
Thank you so much for the moral support. One problem is I have deep roots where I am now that includes a mortgage and a full time job that provides some security. There is definitely fear in just uprooting to a very different scenario but what will I do 20 years from now when I regret never having taken the leap?
Thank you for this video. I agree 100%.
Thank you!
To all those who took , taking and about to take that leap of faith , may the force be with you ! I hope that someday, I, too, will have the courage to do the same. I envy men and women who go on solo trips . I would like to do it too but I often wonder , wouldn't it be boring ? Not having a friend to talk to , to share your excitement or experience? 😢
@@rik4673 you might me someone on the trip 😊
@DonnyLulu Yes, I am sure I will . Thank you. But how does one start ?! Presently, I want to go to Melbourne for the Australian Open in January 2025 but haven't found any friend who enjoys tennis like I do . 😔 Gathering the courage to take that one step forward of going alone . We shall see, eh . 😊
@@rik4673 😊
@@rik4673 follow your exciting with no expectations
Enjoyed your video. You Vietnamese know the secret to the eternal fountain of youth, but are not sharing with the rest of us. I follow a Finanancial TH-camer of Vietnamese heritage who is 50 but looks 30. Follow your dreams, just as long as you have faith, family, and finance. Subscribed
@@ActiveDodger thank you for commenting. I had a few comments about the aging part. I contribute my slowing down the aging process through healthy diet, exercise, and most importantly doing the things that you love. Thank you for your kind words and motivation! 🙏❤️
Just be prepared if you or your wife has a health crisis out o f nowhere that leaves you disabled. I didn't think it would happen to me either.
Im sorry to hear that. But i believe sickness can come to us anytime. When it’s time, it’s time… hope you are better 🙏❤️
Lovely video Donny! It’s Nhu, Anne’s friend❤. Thanks for sharing.
Hi Nhu! Thank you for stopping by and commenting!
Like you start to experience orgasmic levels of ecstasy. Imagine the best orgasm you've ever had and then multiply it by a thousand.
You realize that caring about anything at all is completely idiotic.
From the highest perspective if you realize that everything is love then that's it. Anything that happens is absolute love and nothing could be better. Everything is absolutely perfect.
@@dmtdreamz7706 thank you for sharing that
Those who wander are not lost.
Great quote!
Man it might sound racist but Asians do age really well , u look young bro , even if your really depressing , Focus on the Good , Mindset is Everything
I will take that as a compliment 😂. Thank you for commenting!
Gotta keep wetting the scooper to make it easier to scoop the ice cream 🍨
Yes! 😂
Love your video I wish I had the courage to leave my job and start traveling. Have about 50k in savings but also have a kid, with this economy not sure if I can find a job after I quit.
You can do it! Look into teaching abroad and jobs online. In asia they value people from the U.s and we have an advantage when it comes to job hires. When i was in vn I was offered a job as a manager for the hard rock cafe. You just have to look and things will open up. Be open to it and believe its possible and start looking into your curiosity. Would love to hear about your future updates. You can do it!
Don’t do it bro
@@phongho2179 thank you for commenting, just curious did you have experience teaching abroad?
@DonnyLulu - do you need a work visa? I will appreciate your response.
@@YTMatrixWakeUp hi, for vn we did not needed. Depending on the country but usually when inquiring the job the employer will give you all the details and they will help you. Let me know if you have any other questions
"I had $7K debt and $7K cash"
Dude, you didn't have $7K cash. You had nothing
yes was buying time lol
Im inspired bro.
I have 2 Jobs, but the Expenses here were i Lived in U.S. was so Expensive.
$2,400 Mortgage
$700 /month Car Payment
$2,000 Credit Card bills.
I dont have Debt, but I feel Unhappy.
I feel Bad For my Wife, because i love her but feel like we Stuck here were we Lived just to Pay bills.
Im so Tired of just Living a Boring Life.
We need our Colorful Life back again.
Hope 1 day, I could do what ever You doing.
TraveL
@@norbelsemaj3870 thank you for sharing. I would suggest to look into options. Would you consider going to abroad to work? What countries would you go, start looking into it and opportunities will open up.
@DonnyLulu
I always Dream of Going to Philippines 🇵🇭
I'm always watching video of Palawan (Puerto Princessa)
Also $1 U.S. Dollars is ₽58 Pesos which is Cheap living. ( Specially Food )
I heard Rent there also is Cheap ($300)
It's a Province kinda Place which is Perfect for me. Living in the City is Just Crazy Expensive
@@norbelsemaj3870 i love palawan el nido too. One of my favorite travel place. You need to be in line what that thinking and start looking into it. Yes cost of living is cheaper also. Just by moving your financial will be better. Just start to look for something to do to make money online or abroad. Are you from the usa?
@DonnyLulu
Yes, I'm From U.S.A And we're I lived is Very Expensive.
Houses 🏘 around me Sell for $1.2 Million the Lowest
@@norbelsemaj3870 i would say reevaluate whats important to you. If that is the life style you want to live. The cost of living abroad is a lot cheaper. What ethnicity are you?
Travel does need money to spend. Try look for nomad jobs that do not stuck at a place. Try also locate or understand your own personality such as mbti or socio hierarchy.
It is just like playing a role playing games for your ownself and plan yourself accordingly.
Btw, this video is quite a video to telling your own self. Travel with survey or travel to enjoy or travel to relax or travel t experience or travel to make money and at the end travel to spend money.
In summary, know your personality and complete yourself.
Thank you for sharing that!
@@DonnyLulu you are welcome. Try Malaysia. A center hub for traveling with tasty food and fruits.
@@stevenchan7537 ive been to Malaysia, nice country
@@DonnyLulu tq. Hope u have cleared some thoughts about living and distraction.
Thank you for sharing
Thank you for commenting
if you got no kids , why not go. thats the good thing about being single. less responsibilities and less obligations. you just got find a partner who also enjoys travelling
@@yanyant-q1l ❤️🙏
Omg this is popping up after I just got a call from a Recruiter in response to my cv. If they invite me for an interview I told myself I will take it and stay in Netherlands but if i can't find a good match Job in NL i will move to Spain, work remote and also sell my car and take it as savings to Spain. I'm 48, want through some big life events which led to selling house and rent apartment.
High rent. The job I have no applied for pays well, my situation would be solved. Will have to work in office but hybride is an option.
I was probably to open to the Recruiter told her where I'm at but she seemed to appreciate it. .i dont want to work for a company that doesn't view people as humans anyway.
We will see. Ofcourse i hope tp get an interview and if it leads to a job i will take it, try and Spain can wait.
The fact that I'm nervous for their call to tell me yes or no means I'm motivated I guess.
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 keep looking something will come! I’m excited for you
I am 35. Just landed from Nepal to Canada to be the west. I was about to start the rat race and now I see guys in mid 40s ranting about unfulfiling life. I am scared.
Dont be sacred. Just be-aware and start to have back up plan
Thanks for sharing your experience. 👍
I think it is a different perspective for anyone. Definitely perpetum traveller is not for everybody 🌍
Thank you for commenting
You still owe that kid a public apology for the crappy over cream scoop! Life isn’t all about you! Sheesh
Yes I want to buy that kid a gallon of ice cream now. Hope he is watching lol
I don't have debts. If I sell my car and quit my apartment rent , I will have 13.000 eur to move to Spain but I will first look for work.
Meanwhile I am waiting for a call from a company in my own country which will be enough to pay my rent. Ahhhh
No rush. Step by step.
If you don't have a family you can or want to depend on it feels more scary
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 thank you for sharing
You save enough money to go with and you save enough money to come back to and give your self time to get a job.
Agree
Some peoples problem they don’t have a net for coming back. In my opinion you shouldn’t be going if you haven’t sufficient cash to come back to.
@@danielkeenan1984 everyone’s net will be different, you have to do what is comfortable for you
🙏🙏🙏
@@tinanguyen1794 🙏
Thank you for sharing!
My pleasure!
Hey Donny great video. Would you be able to do a video on the law of attraction and how you use it and how it helped your life ?
@@silverpro8356 hi! Yes! My next video will be how to use the power of gratitude to strengthen the power of law of attraction. Great suggestion, great minds think alike!
Your 46? You look 30 at most. Good job!
@@RussianStyle1987 thank you! You are too kind 🙏❤️
Finally your really living!
Thank you 🙏 ❤
Your family has a business for you to inherit though. Not everyone has that to fall back on. But it sounds like at least when your family needs you, you came back and kept the business going and didn't run it into the ground.
@@xo82 when i was traveling I didnt take $1 dollar from my family. When we sold the business I didnt take any money and give it all to my mom. All my debt was paid from my own money and efforts. I wanted to put myself in an uncomfortable place financially to see if I can come out of it positively and it all worked out. Thank you for taking the time to comment! 🙏❤️
@@DonnyLuluthere’s a lot of cry babies out there… u really don’t need to explain yourself…
@@macynguyen8864 thank you! Im trying to practice my zen, by responding, i know they are just crying for help and attention, im trying to spread positivity hoping it will help. It doesnt look too good right now 😅
You're correct about certain cultural restrictions! In certain cultures kids are treated as lifelong servants for their parents and I don't agree with that.
Yes agree!
Very cool story, I would love to go back to Viet for a year, btw im curious about the class that you take to learn about your self complete that you mention
I didnt take any class, its through years of studying about spirituality. If you are curious you can look up Bashar by Darrel Anka, see if his message resinate with you. Let me know how that goes ❤
@@DonnyLulu thank you so much
@@atnguyenbuitien4994 you welcome