Bob D. - AA Speaker - "Spiritual Principles in Relationships"

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  • Bob D. in a mini-workshop shares about practicing the principles of the program in all of his relationships. REALLY useful "recovery tools" are shared in this tape. Bob is one of the best AA speakers and this tape is very insightful, thought-provoking, and engaging!
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  • @rudypops1967
    @rudypops1967 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bob D is a gift! It works if you work it and your worth it !

  • @stevenm2526
    @stevenm2526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Since Covid 19 I have had the pleasure of seeing Bob D over 7 times and he never disappoints. Great guy and was able to talk to him on zoom. He actually left his phone number in the chat for people to call and I kept it. One day I would like to thank him personally for his experience, strength and hope.

    • @williamp.7304
      @williamp.7304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where does he speak?

    • @stevenm2526
      @stevenm2526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@williamp.7304 He was on Zoom again last Wednesday and Thursday doing Step 11 and 12. I am part of a number of groups on facebook some that host him and others he is friends with people in the group. AA Zoom Meeting Global List is one and the others are sorta private. On Monday a group meets on zoom at 7eastern all week starting on step 1 for an hour all week. They have some pretty powerful speakers like Chris R, Don L, Polly P, Craig C but Bob was on last week. Let me know if you're interested I can give you the zoom ID

    • @williamp.7304
      @williamp.7304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@stevenm2526 pls !!!! This guy saved my life

    • @stevenm2526
      @stevenm2526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@williamp.7304 He really breaks it down in a way I never heard. I've been in and out since 2005 but never heard about the mental obsession that he talks about. The group I am in tomorrow with Chris R, who is pretty big as well meets everynight at 7 tomorrow is step one.The zoom ID # is 5767698313 no password needed. My name is Steven M and live in PB county FL. Hope to see you there

    • @williamp.7304
      @williamp.7304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stevenm2526 you will! Thanks

  • @victorfernandes6323
    @victorfernandes6323 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m seven days sober.My sponsor sent me this and it just changed my life. Thank you Bob D🙏🏼

  • @keithfischer509
    @keithfischer509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This man is a GIFT FROM GOD. I believe everybody knows truth when they hear it. Some just choose to ignore it

    • @goldsmithstudent
      @goldsmithstudent ปีที่แล้ว

      You will hear the truth when your ready. There is no choosing with powerlessness

  • @tenajyak
    @tenajyak 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Been listening to Bob for years, so grateful. Helps me calm down , rest, sleep, get clear, and read my big book.

  • @mkartmkart6335
    @mkartmkart6335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bob D is my favourite speaker !! Thank you, Bob and God

  • @patriciamoody2852
    @patriciamoody2852 8 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I've been listenting to all your talks for about a week. I have a little over 21 years sober & clean. I found myself overwhelmed with depression. So greatful I stumbled across your talks. I called up my sponsor. I have my work cut out for me. Thank you for choosing to do your talks. They make a difference.

    • @scottboatright3880
      @scottboatright3880 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      For a newbie, that is sad to hear. If I were just miserable after 21 years I would just drink again.

    • @scottboatright3880
      @scottboatright3880 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yvette Rae Hinojosa True. Good thoughts

    • @andreylopez5368
      @andreylopez5368 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Patricia Moody im close to 9 years sober and my sobriety is very miserable

    • @keithguyman8495
      @keithguyman8495 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      bob is my grandsponsor .....I gyess it is this simple for me i am either serving myself which does not work or serving others provided I am living by the 12 steps and traditions....and when my distractions steer me away I ask God to return me to center ....so if you are stuck ask God for help and the willingness to move your feet

    • @vijaydacosta2260
      @vijaydacosta2260 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have heard of many people with depression even after many years of sobreity

  • @jennifermckernan1000
    @jennifermckernan1000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Two years 2 months and so grateful for these talks

  • @PdxOregon
    @PdxOregon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I listen to Bob’s, talks and apply them to each of my several addictions (media, sugar, etc.)
    This works really well for each of them😊😊😊

  • @Tapper98
    @Tapper98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Keep coming back friends. Yes AA works if you work for it....

  • @kinggsag
    @kinggsag ปีที่แล้ว +1

    grateful that these videos are still available but what i need is the rooms again

  • @shalitadavis5580
    @shalitadavis5580 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks Bob 74 days...so grateful for u tube and AA

  • @AnthonySims-zt5yz
    @AnthonySims-zt5yz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Another great day to be alive sober clean

    • @denazna4612
      @denazna4612 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @michaelevansrealtorC21
    @michaelevansrealtorC21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Bob, what a Great example of AA & emotional sobriety. I need to hear what he says. Staying in the Big Book, having a home group, building a foundation around Steps 1,2 & 3, and Sponsor/Sponsee relationships are the basis of my program. Hitting my knees upon awakening and taking inventory at night keep my relationship with God. Thanks Bob!

  • @debrabradley3297
    @debrabradley3297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you Bob D. your talks help me want to stay sober

  • @rachelc.720
    @rachelc.720 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Bob D is one of my favorites- thank you for your service!

  • @tivvy6146
    @tivvy6146 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    ‘It works if you work it, it won’t if you don’t ‘🙏🏻

    • @daniellet5550
      @daniellet5550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      AA isn't for those who need it, AA isn't for those that want it, AA is for those that DO IT 😉

    • @allisonerickson3598
      @allisonerickson3598 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do I work it

    • @allisonerickson3598
      @allisonerickson3598 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so lost

    • @laurenoliver1815
      @laurenoliver1815 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@allisonerickson3598 go to a meeting and find a sponsor to take you through the steps :)

    • @cherylworkman1210
      @cherylworkman1210 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@allisonerickson3598 have you found the help you wanted?

  • @aimteresacomperatore1686
    @aimteresacomperatore1686 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've been stuck at home due to my health lately. So I haven't been able to get out to my usual church basements. Your talk is exactly what I needed to hear. Because I am evolving in my spiritual relationships. And it hit the nail on the head. Thanks for the great message. Thank your Creator for me.

  • @roapesamino2268
    @roapesamino2268 11 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Page 52, drunk or sober...totally me!!! Such a great way to spend my lunch listening to Bob D. We are sooooo not unique! Lol.

    • @freddysteady1547
      @freddysteady1547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bob d is the best. I like how he says. Whose making the descisions for this guy. Fire him. Which is obviously us.

    • @chelseamiller5704
      @chelseamiller5704 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m sorry d!

    • @tomc9790
      @tomc9790 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have a long lunch break Bob D yep

    • @NijFix
      @NijFix 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep, we are all human too.

  • @MTRyan321
    @MTRyan321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’ve met Bob a few times along the way. Great guy, great speaker.

    • @malthael_aoe
      @malthael_aoe 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      what does he look like, hes my favorite speaker, but I didn't see any of his pics.

  • @jdschellstar5986
    @jdschellstar5986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really needed to listen to this. In Al-Anon pursuing my own recovery and trying to grow.

  • @PaulyOncu
    @PaulyOncu 11 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The best speaker i ever heard and related to in AA. Bob D explains alcohoISM so well. Thx

  • @dwaynewells315
    @dwaynewells315 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    LOVE THIS GUY, 3-5 X A WEEK, HELPING ME ONE DAY AT A TIME

    • @johnsmith4916
      @johnsmith4916 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you know AA offers a plan to get recovered permanently. It's explained in the Big Book.

    • @rhonakate
      @rhonakate 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SingeSabre we do actually recover. It tells you before the preface “The Story of How Many Thousands of Men and Women Have Recovered from Alcoholism” - on page 90 of Working With Others it says “If he says yes, then his attention should be drawn to you as a person who has recovered”- that’s why when doing a 12th step call I introduced myself as recovered. I have recovered from the mental obsession (the lie that I can control and enjoy my drinking). The status of being recovered though depends on the MAINTENANCE of my spiritual condition. I treat that by unity (going to meetings, joining a group), recovery (working step 10 and 11 throughout my day, working with a sponsor) service (carrying the message to still suffering alcoholics- sponsoring women). This doesn’t mean that I am cured.
      It mentions recovered 15 times pertaining to alcoholics in the big book- and many more in the 12 and 12.
      If you don’t think you have recovered, ask yourself why that is? There are many great Big Book studies that have brought this to life for me. I used to feel like you did until I had a psychic change! Peace and love to you! Xx

  • @somebodyu.usedtoknow
    @somebodyu.usedtoknow ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This talk NEVER gets stale!! This gossip deal in AA has the power to kill!! 😢❤ 👀

  • @jordanreiter6404
    @jordanreiter6404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yeah this guy is me and I hope to meet him someday.

  • @susanrogers6678
    @susanrogers6678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This guy knows top shelf recovery i in love already

  • @jefferybarton6387
    @jefferybarton6387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Something to hear that I needed to keep me sober thanks to AA from Bob d

  • @maryann-dr2jp
    @maryann-dr2jp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this

  • @tammypollock853
    @tammypollock853 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thanks so much I am taken a trip from Baltimore MD to Orlando FL and could not stop for meeting but threw people doing 12 step work I got one thanks so much

  • @nancylamb1117
    @nancylamb1117 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Was looking for something related to dilemma of relationship with member who has a chronic illness... and here I am...

  • @johnotterpohl4290
    @johnotterpohl4290 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    very much enjoyed this. Don't know what to make of aa but one thing, it has helped.

  • @siddharth118
    @siddharth118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loved the share. Amazing clarity and delivery. Thanks for the lessons.

  • @chrisplaysmadden8053
    @chrisplaysmadden8053 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So many spiritual giants in these rooms.

  • @chaos4854
    @chaos4854 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    this guy is great. I'm happy someone in my group suggested I listen to his stuff.

  • @twyladavidson7169
    @twyladavidson7169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great speaker!

  • @stevejohns1459
    @stevejohns1459 9 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    this is bob at his best gossip spirit of love n tolerance friction etc

  • @karenmazzola8758
    @karenmazzola8758 ปีที่แล้ว

    Forever grateful to aa and my beautiful sponsor ❤❤❤

  • @niallwilson3787
    @niallwilson3787 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love bob d shares so much identification gets me everytime

  • @JanTijmes
    @JanTijmes 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    this audio is vital to AA.

  • @todddeckard7771
    @todddeckard7771 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Bob D is great

  • @jkm7458
    @jkm7458 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you aa❤

  • @tylerscriven107
    @tylerscriven107 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:07:00-1:08:22. This is me for sure. I'm sure a lot of people can relate!!!

  • @NijFix
    @NijFix 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This talk reminded me to put my ex sponsees on my step 8 list from when i was sponsoring and relapsed while in yr 7 sober.
    If its helpful for anyone, what came out of my recent inventory around it is - I was confusing 'Having had a spiritual awakening' with being in 'fit spiritual condition'.
    Stay current folks 🙂🙏

  • @kimjolicoeur9187
    @kimjolicoeur9187 ปีที่แล้ว

    This man speaks to me. If anyone asks me “what was the moment that made you decide to stop?” I would just make them listen to this…😂 almost verbatim. Even in sobriety, I’m guilty of stuff he speaks about we do.

  • @lisabanner5125
    @lisabanner5125 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bob is the best love him

  • @particles343
    @particles343 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this tonight.

  • @tanaschlosser7573
    @tanaschlosser7573 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Bob!!!!

  • @nangkitatudor4679
    @nangkitatudor4679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Forever

  • @mikeos1262
    @mikeos1262 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    great stuff

  • @herbert0215
    @herbert0215 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Excellent

  • @CraigMcCullough-t9j
    @CraigMcCullough-t9j ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your work

  • @kathleengevorkian5335
    @kathleengevorkian5335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good stuff

  • @leopardrockssherrylemeille1192
    @leopardrockssherrylemeille1192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hope my love listens to all this from you

  • @whatiswrongwithyou5583
    @whatiswrongwithyou5583 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This mans is a genius

  • @royjennings58
    @royjennings58 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks brother, I love the 36 .-) good shaireing .

  • @rogerfournier3284
    @rogerfournier3284 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm listening to get out of my thinking.

  • @perlasanchez5429
    @perlasanchez5429 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    man i would Like to Meet this Man.

  • @michellearchuleta7881
    @michellearchuleta7881 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Idk, I disagree with one thing regular people are just as selfish, so many lovers of self, it just kills us much faster if we don’t let god help us get rid of it.

  • @kennethkosmala495
    @kennethkosmala495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great

  • @slyericketson6780
    @slyericketson6780 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Better shot of staying sober as a drug dealer than as a drug and alcohol counselor... Scary! Lol

  • @KayBrendaWinters
    @KayBrendaWinters 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love this but not the diet medication adverse reactions. If I need to loose weight, I go to OA.

    • @johnsmith4916
      @johnsmith4916 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      that's weird, but explains why AA is not as effective as in the past. Perhaps Weight Watchers is a better choice for losing weight. I might add many AAers would be better served in SOS, Smart, or RR

    • @daniellet5550
      @daniellet5550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We have a spiritual malady. It really depends on what your drug of choice is but AA's steps and spiritual principals can solve all your problems as it says in the Big Book. The reason for the different groups is the importance of identification. I do not use food to take me out of myself, or crack cocaine, or meth, but I have used alcohol, pills etc to fill that black hole so I relate to those in the rooms that do.

    • @daniellockwood7605
      @daniellockwood7605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alcohol is but a symptom

  • @Mhdz-ne4pi
    @Mhdz-ne4pi หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bob D is my sponsor now. Send help

  • @jeffwermuth8375
    @jeffwermuth8375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Steps get us sober ...traditions keep us that was ....without the ..." Ic "

  • @Freeskybird
    @Freeskybird ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to hear "what do you get when a horse thief goes to AA? A sober horse thief". Saying that basically people don't change in that respect. I'm sorry but I cannot believe that. A horse thief could not remain sober if he continued to steal.

  • @callum7081
    @callum7081 ปีที่แล้ว

    1:29:08

  • @sparkjones9500
    @sparkjones9500 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had a relaps

    • @MLBTwins
      @MLBTwins 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me too man

    • @pennyburns4425
      @pennyburns4425 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@MLBTwins don't worry, it's a relapsing illness! Just get to a meeting and share. Yesterday is HISTORY! Xxx

  • @NsTrainMan07
    @NsTrainMan07 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    why what happened?

  • @TCB690
    @TCB690 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have 11 month's sober today 7-19-23🥰🙏🏽

  • @medicmikerelfjr7830
    @medicmikerelfjr7830 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love this