Pastor is talking to me directly. I am 34 and still not married. I have learned a lot from this. I have done almost all the mentioned points. God is ready to give me a new life.
Sometimes being single @ 34 seem scary and disappointing but trust me we will be fine. Our most concern should be that we will be focus and dependent on God that we may not loose ourself worths and become miserable at @60 , but rather we put ourselves together in the word and do exploit in other areas of life and at 60 we will not look back and regret 360. At least something to be grateful for and something to be known for. A lasting impact on others. It’s overwhelming sometimes trust me but we should not regret 360.
10 RIGHT THINGS THAT LADIES DO AT THE WRONG TIMES (KINGSLEY OKONKWO) 1) Praying for a man that is not interested you, doesn't know you or praying for God to change their will for you. 2) Having a do or die approach in a relationship or courtship or dating. A broken relationship is better than broken marriage. Do or die is not in relationship but in marriage. 3) Wild sex or sex in relationship or before marriage 4) Following him to his church while dating 5) Giving him your money or buying properties together while dating 6) Changing your career path or location for a man you not yet married to 7) Submitting your life to him when you are not yet married to him. wife should submit to husband and not men 8) Over familiarity with inlaws while you are still dating 9) Accepting every bad things while dating or ignoring the red flags or making excuses for him while in relationship 10) Fighting for love in dating or relationship
SUMMARY 10 RIGHT THINGS THAT LADIES DO AT THE WRONG TIMES (KINGSLEY OKONKWO) 1) Praying for a man that is not interested you 2) Having a do or die approach in a relationship 3) Having sex in relationship or before marriage 4) Following him to his church while dating 5) Buying properties together while dating 6) Changing your career path or location for him while dating 7) Submitting your life to him while dating 8) Over familiarity with inlaws while you are still dating 9) Accepting every bad things while dating 10)Fighting for love in dating or relationship
I was like this before😭 I was always praying to date this guy( I fasted and prayed even sowed seed) for a guy that doesn’t know me. Fast forward to 2023 God finally answered my prayers and i and this guy started talking and we went on a date😂 after the first date😂 I understood why God took a long time to answer my prayers( he was trying to protect me) anyways I blocked this guy everywhere and I prayed to God to never make us cross-paths again 😂. These days I don’t even pray about a particular guy again😂 if it works toor if it doesn’t toor😂 let me not bring misfortunes to myself. God is always protecting us. He sees what we don’t see❤
😂 very true the part that weak me more was when he said you will be fighting and fighting till they pour acid on you and disfigure you. A man that never loved you even when your face was intact how much more when you are disfigured? 😅 am happy I watched the video to the end tho full of wisdom.
I just don't know why good people, both men and women, have difficulty finding true love. God, please help us who are in this situation and bless us with the right person. Thanks for the video, sir.
This hits so hard yet so factual. The good people in life seem to get the short end of the stick often than not but I guess life isn’t created for us to be sorrowful all time
Ladies, don't leave your career or location for the sake of a guy who has not married you because if the guy leaves you for another woman, you might become loveless, jobless, and hopeless. 🙂
SUMMARY: 1. Praying for a stressful man (a man that"s not interested in you) to change. 2. Staying no matter what (having a do-or-die mentality). 3. Wild sex (sex before marriage). 4. Leaving your church for his. 5. Changing your career path or location because of him. 6. Giving him your money. This should be in marriage and not in relationship or dating. Keep your money aside, it makes breakup easy. 7. Total submission. You're still under your parents authority not his. Submission is specifically for wives in marriage. 8. Overfamiliarity with In-laws (overly jovial, overly playful). Properly conduct yourself. 9. Learn to call out what you can't and don't accept before marriage. 10. Fighting for love. You can't fight for relationship or dating. You can fight for your marriage but not fighting for your place during dating and relationship. Thank You Pastor Kingsley!❤
No real man that loves you will put you in a position where it is unclear where you stand. Absolutely true👌 So insightful and informative. Thank you PK sir. I enjoy listening to you and I have learnt so so much from your teachings. I know better, thanks to your so many teachings I have listened to.
Please lecture the single men that their girlfriend's body doesn't belong to them while dating/ courtship. Please let's encourage the men not to be pressuring young ladies to head to bed before they can decide if they want to marry. It's a very sad state of affairs, what some of these men do to innocent ladies during courtship, taking advantage of innocent young ladies. Smh.
I learnt this one with you, sir. Another right thing that ladies do at the wrong time is giving husband benefits ( cooking, washing, cleaning....)to a boy friend.
I did change my location without any proper plan, all what the guy said, he changed. Finally we didn't get married and I was jobless, loveless,hopeless,etc just as PK said. Thank pastor K
I think the most important is for us ladies to learn how to control and put our emotions in check. And also to be able to flee from anything that can and will stir up our emotions
I love what he said at 16:04. Don’t do things that show you don’t have authority figures in your life. You need to be accountable to someone. When you’re 21 and you’re already moving into your boyfriend’s house; or you get pregnant by someone who your parents haven’t even met talk more of marriage, it just shows you lack accountability to someone. It makes you look cheap. Isn’t there someone in your family that you respect to the point that you won’t do foolish things?
This is a timely message for I have struggled with accepting when someone doesn't want me thank you holy spirit I needed this word as I prepare to enter courtship
God bless you sir, your massage makes me cry 😭 bcos this was my character and I thought I was doing the best I did know I am doing the wrong thing at the right time, God bless you sir, How wish you can come to Delta state and preach for us, how wish I have the the money to invite you, I would have loved to bring you to Delta state, Sapele
All of these point seems to be too late already in my life....I am already a victim of all the points...I am heart broken and depressed...my family has talked to move on but everyday is a nightmare even as I pretend to be moving on......😪😪I don't even know what to do. But thank you sir....for these points.
Take your pains and heart break to the Lord, He will help you, He will carry you, support you and nurture you back to life, He’ll take away your shame and cloth you with a double portion of honor ❤
Hmmm pastor k ,did you hear my prayers to God😂. I literally have let go today before I turn my Bible to charm 😂. Thanks so much sir for your words today ,some hard decisions was made after this video . God bless you sir .
We should let God do his thing,we should trust in Gods plans… We have to rely on him for everything,God wants the best for us in every area of our life’s including relationships..
Even man that I have married if he changes and after several second chances he refuses to change I WILL LEAVE HIM. What nonsense! Ladies una well done oh. More grace to fight rubbish needless battles.
That number 6 really struck me, a guy I was dating was pushing for me to leave my job and relocate because of him. He even went as far as looking for a job for me over there. But I asked him why he couldn’t relocate instead, after all, he was running a business, he could move his business to Lagos, shebi all na sacrifice?? 😂. His response was family, he couldn’t leave his family, I didn’t budge o because I had gotten the dream job and wasn’t about to leave it for him.
The 4. point just reminded me of someone I met of recent. Like Pk will always say „don’t confuse attention for intention „ YOU NEED TO KNOW THE REASON he is chasing you. So, right from the onset I knew from our conversation that the guy is not even born - again. 😅
God bless you Pastor K❤❤ My marriage will be dedicated to you and Pastor M, infact I'll schedule my marital counselling physically to come and see you in Nigeria ❤❤❤🎉
👏👏👏👏 I did all this at the right time after marriage. But now a lot has changed, May God help us . Now he’s changing to a church I do not want and spiritually it’s not for me to be there
Yeap be wise choose wisely. It's the most important choice you make. Yet we jump into it like we're choosing a temp job. Lesson learned now that I'm divorced. Hoping God will use me to help others not go through the same.
I disagree, yes its true love can not be one sided, but love can not be 50, 50, by all means one person will love the other person more. sometimes the love between a man and a woman can be 40, 60. One person will love the other person more than the other. That's the truth . It's never the same . You both grow love after marriage
Wow, I love this message. I see some things I did in the past, but thank God i saw the light n left the relationship before it got worse. As he said better a broken rlshp than a broken marriage.
Thank you Pastor Kingsley Sir. You are talking about practical things that some of us women do which put us in a very compromising position whereas we are still single.
God can use pipo to speak to you 🧏🧏 this message is for me 🙏 I was about to make a big mistake, giving out mi 4m to a boyfriend , that we buy a land together yet we are not yet even seen each other 😢 but I was crying to God for guidance, here is the answer 🙏
Pastor is talking to me directly. I am 34 and still not married. I have learned a lot from this. I have done almost all the mentioned points. God is ready to give me a new life.
Gloryeee🙌🏽🎊🎉
Amen
I hear you sis, we're going to be alright ❤
@@eunice9574Amen
Sometimes being single @ 34 seem scary and disappointing but trust me we will be fine. Our most concern should be that we will be focus and dependent on God that we may not loose ourself worths and become miserable at @60 , but rather we put ourselves together in the word and do exploit in other areas of life and at 60 we will not look back and regret 360. At least something to be grateful for and something to be known for. A lasting impact on others. It’s overwhelming sometimes trust me but we should not regret 360.
10 RIGHT THINGS THAT LADIES DO AT THE WRONG TIMES (KINGSLEY OKONKWO)
1) Praying for a man that is not interested you, doesn't know you or praying for God to change their will for you.
2) Having a do or die approach in a relationship or courtship or dating. A broken relationship is better than broken marriage. Do or die is not in relationship but in marriage.
3) Wild sex or sex in relationship or before marriage
4) Following him to his church while dating
5) Giving him your money or buying properties together while dating
6) Changing your career path or location for a man you not yet married to
7) Submitting your life to him when you are not yet married to him.
wife should submit to husband and not men
8) Over familiarity with inlaws while you are still dating
9) Accepting every bad things while dating or ignoring the red flags
or making excuses for him while in relationship
10) Fighting for love in dating or relationship
SUMMARY
10 RIGHT THINGS THAT LADIES DO AT THE WRONG TIMES
(KINGSLEY OKONKWO)
1) Praying for a man that is not interested you
2) Having a do or die approach in a relationship
3) Having sex in relationship or before marriage
4) Following him to his church while dating
5) Buying properties together while dating
6) Changing your career path or location for him while dating
7) Submitting your life to him while dating
8) Over familiarity with inlaws while you are still dating
9) Accepting every bad things while dating
10)Fighting for love in dating or relationship
Nice of you to share.
Thank you so much
Thank you
Thank you for sharing again.
I was like this before😭 I was always praying to date this guy( I fasted and prayed even sowed seed) for a guy that doesn’t know me. Fast forward to 2023 God finally answered my prayers and i and this guy started talking and we went on a date😂 after the first date😂 I understood why God took a long time to answer my prayers( he was trying to protect me) anyways I blocked this guy everywhere and I prayed to God to never make us cross-paths again 😂. These days I don’t even pray about a particular guy again😂 if it works toor if it doesn’t toor😂 let me not bring misfortunes to myself. God is always protecting us. He sees what we don’t see❤
😂
😂😂😂most of us women believe that we can make a man love us with prayers
😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
😂😂😂
😂 the biggest testimony is "what I used today I don't do it again"
No real MAN that loves you in relationship or courtship will put you in a position where it is unclear where you stand
The Holy Spirit thought me this somedays ago
This is so true😅
Exactly
Exactly!
😂 very true the part that weak me more was when he said you will be fighting and fighting till they pour acid on you and disfigure you. A man that never loved you even when your face was intact how much more when you are disfigured? 😅 am happy I watched the video to the end tho full of wisdom.
I just don't know why good people, both men and women, have difficulty finding true love. God, please help us who are in this situation and bless us with the right person. Thanks for the video, sir.
Some virgins were foolish
Thank you, sir.
I've added to my knowledge bank.
I now have things to what out for.
God bless you, sir.
I'll be expecting the next video.
This is an eye opener...much love from Kenya
Asked that again
This hits so hard yet so factual. The good people in life seem to get the short end of the stick often than not but I guess life isn’t created for us to be sorrowful all time
Ladies, don't leave your career or location for the sake of a guy who has not married you because if the guy leaves you for another woman, you might become loveless, jobless, and hopeless. 🙂
Pk destroyed all tables
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂
You're right
I would say homeless, not hopeless.
Words🔥
I'm almost 40 yet single and significant. Hopefully I'll get married according to God's original plan soon🙏 Thanks Ps Kingsley
Soon, God is faithful my sister
AMEN
Amen this year will not come to an end without us meeting our significant others in Jesus name amen
Amen
SUMMARY:
1. Praying for a stressful man (a man that"s not interested in you) to change.
2. Staying no matter what (having a do-or-die mentality).
3. Wild sex (sex before marriage).
4. Leaving your church for his.
5. Changing your career path or location because of him.
6. Giving him your money. This should be in marriage and not in relationship or dating. Keep your money aside, it makes breakup easy.
7. Total submission. You're still under your parents authority not his. Submission is specifically for wives in marriage.
8. Overfamiliarity with In-laws (overly jovial, overly playful). Properly conduct yourself.
9. Learn to call out what you can't and don't accept before marriage.
10. Fighting for love. You can't fight for relationship or dating. You can fight for your marriage but not fighting for your place during dating and relationship.
Thank You Pastor Kingsley!❤
Thanks to you
Women who married good men are still struggling,
yet some women want to marry a man who doesnt want them.
😢😢😢😢😢
Imagine that
That's so sad
May God help us ladies and give us wisdom
May the Lord dorect our paths!
It's a serious matter!
No real man that loves you will put you in a position where it is unclear where you stand. Absolutely true👌
So insightful and informative.
Thank you PK sir. I enjoy listening to you and I have learnt so so much from your teachings.
I know better, thanks to your so many teachings I have listened to.
Please lecture the single men that their girlfriend's body doesn't belong to them while dating/ courtship. Please let's encourage the men not to be pressuring young ladies to head to bed before they can decide if they want to marry. It's a very sad state of affairs, what some of these men do to innocent ladies during courtship, taking advantage of innocent young ladies. Smh.
LADIES SHOULD STOP BEING NAIVE TOO. CHOOSE TO HONOUR GOD!
Wow this is awesome
I'm a victim of almost all but with this now I must be a change person
God bless you man of God 🙏
PK really be making me laugh today 😂......... "now you're jobless, loveless and hopeless"😂😂......Deep, real stuff here. Thank you Pastor
😂😂😂😂😂 she lost on every side😂😭
😂😂😂
I learnt this one with you, sir.
Another right thing that ladies do at the wrong time is giving husband benefits ( cooking, washing, cleaning....)to a boy friend.
Same thing goes for men who spend on their girlfriends.
🤣I'm speechless@@Tomiwa101 .
I can't even pray for any guy. God thank you for not answering my prayer and opening my eyes quite early, I for don see shege by now
It means see finish 😁 oyinbo is familiarity breeds contempt
I did change my location without any proper plan, all what the guy said, he changed. Finally we didn't get married and I was jobless, loveless,hopeless,etc just as PK said. Thank pastor K
I think the most important is for us ladies to learn how to control and put our emotions in check.
And also to be able to flee from anything that can and will stir up our emotions
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂..."what can separate me from the love of Bode"
😂😂😂😂😂😂....my ribs
😂😂😂
I love what he said at 16:04. Don’t do things that show you don’t have authority figures in your life.
You need to be accountable to someone. When you’re 21 and you’re already moving into your boyfriend’s house; or you get pregnant by someone who your parents haven’t even met talk more of marriage, it just shows you lack accountability to someone. It makes you look cheap. Isn’t there someone in your family that you respect to the point that you won’t do foolish things?
God bless u immensely Sir for this great advice. U're indeed a blessing to our generation
This is a timely message for I have struggled with accepting when someone doesn't want me thank you holy spirit I needed this word as I prepare to enter courtship
I really couldn’t keep a straight face while watching this video. Pastor Kingsley is too funny 😂
Thank you for this pastor K, am 27 but marriage scares life out of me, i pray i get it right 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen!!
Amen
Amen
Same here
You dont have to be dear. Get books on marriage and read and you will be equipped for it
A powerful marriage lesson for all indeed.
God bless you sir, your massage makes me cry 😭 bcos this was my character and I thought I was doing the best I did know I am doing the wrong thing at the right time, God bless you sir, How wish you can come to Delta state and preach for us, how wish I have the the money to invite you, I would have loved to bring you to Delta state, Sapele
All of these point seems to be too late already in my life....I am already a victim of all the points...I am heart broken and depressed...my family has talked to move on but everyday is a nightmare even as I pretend to be moving on......😪😪I don't even know what to do.
But thank you sir....for these points.
Take your pains and heart break to the Lord, He will help you, He will carry you, support you and nurture you back to life, He’ll take away your shame and cloth you with a double portion of honor ❤
You will heal….you will, Abba takes care of His Baby girls
@@maryamkazy2896 It is never too late when there is life
Yes sir. If there are women who are fighting for their man before marriage, then the winner is still the loser 🙌🏽
Pastor K 😂😂😂
Thank you for always giving value and making it very fun at the same time🙌
You are so on point Sir... The madness and witchcraft needs to stop!
😂Funny but it's true.
As in
Hmmm pastor k ,did you hear my prayers to God😂. I literally have let go today before I turn my Bible to charm 😂. Thanks so much sir for your words today ,some hard decisions was made after this video . God bless you sir .
This blessed me even as a guy. Thank you for sharing sir. More grace and glory.
😂😂😂 Your sense of humor is top notch sir
What can separate me from the love of odenigbo😂😂. I've learnt a lot thank you Sir
That “do or die approach” 😩😩. Lord pls free these women ❤
Wise words coming from a wise pastor🫡❤️
God help us to love ourselves enough, to allow ourselves to be loved 🤍🙏🏼
We should let God do his thing,we should trust in Gods plans…
We have to rely on him for everything,God wants the best for us in every area of our life’s including relationships..
Eleanor from Uganda 💫 I really appreciate you for the mentorship you do in us
Ps K your sense of humour is top notch! Thank you sir I have learnt alot
Sir you have said it all 😢😢I will be fighting for attention like you're my husband 😔😔😔
PK ooo😂😂😂😂😂 "did they steal him inside a polythene bag..??" 😂😂😂😂😂
Pst Kingsley please kind shed some light on narcissism In relationship.
I wish I could give you a very loud speaker and say these to my friend. 🇿🇦
Even man that I have married if he changes and after several second chances he refuses to change I WILL LEAVE HIM. What nonsense! Ladies una well done oh. More grace to fight rubbish needless battles.
Not PK defining see finish as See Finish😂😂😂. Thank you for this eords of wisdom Sir🙇🏾♀️
That number 6 really struck me, a guy I was dating was pushing for me to leave my job and relocate because of him. He even went as far as looking for a job for me over there. But I asked him why he couldn’t relocate instead, after all, he was running a business, he could move his business to Lagos, shebi all na sacrifice?? 😂. His response was family, he couldn’t leave his family, I didn’t budge o because I had gotten the dream job and wasn’t about to leave it for him.
Okay..but u u can leave ur family, Abi? Tooor!
Pastor do same video for guys please
When you have an IDOL in your heart you already set yourself up for disaster
😂🤣 This was so funny and informative at the same time. Thank you PK.
The part about your Mother being a witch took me out 🤣🤣🤣.
Kai 31:50 how can I like this video twice 😂
May God give me the courage to call out bad things before entering marriage and seek Godly counsel
This was full of so much wisdom and so hilarious at the same time. I feel like I was listening to a wise uncle lol
The 4. point just reminded me of someone I met of recent. Like Pk will always say „don’t confuse attention for intention „ YOU NEED TO KNOW THE REASON he is chasing you. So, right from the onset I knew from our conversation that the guy is not even born - again. 😅
I thought it was only me that found it really educating and funny😂😂
This message found me in the right time. Thank You God... Thank you pst K for this vid..
It is Witchcraft trying to manipulate him to marry you. Nice point raised 👍
It's the Jobless, loveless and hopeless for me...PK! 😂😂
God please help me to get it rightfully in marriage
God bless you Pastor K❤❤
My marriage will be dedicated to you and Pastor M, infact I'll schedule my marital counselling physically to come and see you in Nigeria ❤❤❤🎉
They's too much sense here❤
I don laugh tire 😂😂😂 too many quotes to choose from 😂
Watching you from Zambia 🇿🇲 chaii 🙆 point number one u are talking to me😂😂😂😂
🤣😂
👏👏👏👏
I did all this at the right time after marriage. But now a lot has changed, May God help us .
Now he’s changing to a church I do not want and spiritually it’s not for me to be there
Pk has destroyed all tables
We are learning sir
This is sooooo hilariously and sadly funny
Yeap be wise choose wisely. It's the most important choice you make. Yet we jump into it like we're choosing a temp job. Lesson learned now that I'm divorced. Hoping God will use me to help others not go through the same.
What is your advice for a 21 year old girl that has never been in a relationship?
Ride on Pastor!😂😂
Thank you so much PK. I have learnt a lot from this teaching. God will help me and have mercy on me.
God will surely help us ladies 🤲🙏
I disagree, yes its true love can not be one sided, but love can not be 50, 50, by all means one person will love the other person more. sometimes the love between a man and a woman can be 40, 60. One person will love the other person more than the other. That's the truth . It's never the same . You both grow love after marriage
Thank you Jesus for this teaching. I am deliveref
Your are a blessing to this generation, may God give you more grace
Thank you sire for the teachings 🙏
Wow, I love this message. I see some things I did in the past, but thank God i saw the light n left the relationship before it got worse. As he said better a broken rlshp than a broken marriage.
Hmmm. Same experience here too. Am glad I saw light too . Thank you Pastor K
Thank you sir 🙌😢❤
I am super blessed by this words
May the lord blessed you Pastor k this message is so timely and in season I trust everyone is blessed as I'm.
Thanks God for ur life PK 🙏
This is so Apt at the moment. This message is unfathomable.
😂😂 😂😂😂 screaming aah PK this is so funny and true at the same time
Thank you Pastor Kingsley Sir. You are talking about practical things that some of us women do which put us in a very compromising position whereas we are still single.
I learnt frrom this. Thank you Pastor
No. 10 is so funny 😂 30:35
Absolutely loved these points😂👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you pastor for this teaching , I actually learnt alot on submission
10 solid points.
Thank you sir for such a profound teaching 👏🏿👏🏿😊 May God richly bless you
God bless you Papa, I have really learnt a lot in teachings and vigilant henceforth.
God can use pipo to speak to you 🧏🧏 this message is for me 🙏 I was about to make a big mistake, giving out mi 4m to a boyfriend , that we buy a land together yet we are not yet even seen each other 😢 but I was crying to God for guidance, here is the answer 🙏
GOD has answered you o. Don't make a mistake
😮😮😮dont dare i was corned by someone who claimed to be my lover have never even met him wueh dont
Thank you pastor k. You are indeed the best
Good day... Please how do I end a relationship without hurting the other person.. I need answers please
Thank you Holy Spirit
Thank you Daddy, we are grateful please
Thank you sir 🙏 I actually needed this
Please try to reduce the frequency and number of ads in the videos 😢
Money affi mek 😂😂
Very insightful and invaluable advice. Thank you Sir for sharing. 🙏🙏👌💯🔥🔥🔥✨️
Im whole with this topic
Good evening hmmm thing is that he is right but I want to ask how can I get his books to read