- Loves God and His words - Shares and cares for others - A good father who loves and welcomes children - Leads the family with kindness, bravery, and humility - Stays committed to the marriage no matter what - Makes wise decisions and takes responsibility
Then their are all the verses & the whole new testament telling you not to . But you have to a prostitute & see hoe much you can get how much money are you to be sold for ? wow !!! how exciting to be a whore !!! yeah !! Jesus !!! How about obeying Christ !!! Mathew 19:10-11 IT's true it's just not for you .
“God never runs out of sons for his daughters” my aunty told me that one day and it keeps me hopeful today. Even though in this day and age it seems impossible to find a man with these qualities, we have a God that does the impossible. God loves us and when he makes a promise he never breaks it. It’s up to us to have faith and remain obedient in him for our needs and desires. Be strong my sisters in Christ❤️
Well he does not have a single wife fore he says Mathew 19:10-11, eat it the truth , choke on it I don't care , you will not obey the truth the verse even says it you will not receive this truth . Though it would be good if you did , you will not , I hope I'm wrong . But you are to right & GOD is a piece of Garbage to you .
I'm not in a relationship, yet this video came at the right time! I've been binging your videos and as 20 year old woman, these messages are beyond helpful! Thank you so much for sharing biblical knowledge in the midst of this chaotic world 💕
As a newly married woman who knows that marriage is not always sunshine and rainbows. PLEASE choose your future spouse with the utmost care and unselfishly with guidance from God. Choose a man that will be a priest for you and your household. Choose a man that will lead you into a deeper relationship with God. Please! Also, I do not recommend begging God for a specific person. God will give you the desires of your heart even if it's not the best for you. Lastly, save yourself for marriage, you won't regret it.
I wish I saved myself for marriage. Now I'm used. I also want a virgin wife but I don't see one accepting me. Plus im 33, if I haven't found a wife by now then I'm not sure it will ever happen.
@@BansheeKing22 as a man, you do have time as men age like fine wine 😆 just continue to seek God in your life first and ask him to satisfy this desire for you. God loves us very much and wants to give us a spouse who will be out partner in life to serve God with.
@Kunoichi139 men don't age like "fine wine." No clue where you got that nonsense from but that is far from the truth. As for the rest of your comment, what happens when I turn 70 and im still alone? You going keep using that same argument? I'm trying to seek God but don't act you're being encouraging to me because you're not. I feel the passing of every year and the age my body takes. We don't live very long. At most we can live till we're 80. 80 year olds don't have kids, or an active sex life or even a long marriage. So please just stop.
@BansheeKing22 welllllll sorrrrryyyy. I think men age like fine wine, and that's just my opinion. But what i meant is 33 is not that old for a guy and if you work on yourself to be attractive to a woman, even a woman in her 20s or 30s could be attracted to a man in his 40s.
Heyy Becca! Are you also preparing to make a video about some crucial qualities to look for in a Christian wife? I think that would be interesting to discuss as well, also as a woman preparing for marriage. I guess the first two points will be the same :) Thank you for this one and keep up the good fight!
Somewhat...I am just trying to get the female Christian perspective. I have my own strengths and weaknesses, so hopefully God can continue to work on those so that if/when I meet a godly woman, I can be that godly man she desires.
@@timothyrday1390 That too! Being single should be seen as a time to grow closer to God and prepare yourself to become the godly man your future spouse deserves. Stay positive, friend! God has the right woman for you out there.
In March 2006 a new gal was hired at the pizza restaurant I began working at in 2002. I immediately liked her and thought that she was special to me and we often talked. One day she asked me out on a date. I briefly thought about it and said no because she was 20 and I was 39. I honestly wish I had said yes. I know that our basically conservative society looks down on that but I have wondered if the Bible mentions problems with big age gaps in dating or marriage? Within a few months I remember a day in which she “Abby” was making a pizza and I mentioned the beautiful eyes of an actress just shown in a TV commercial. Abby stopped what she was doing and walked around the kitchen make tables to stand right in front of me and look straight into my eyes. I don’t remember what she said but at that moment I felt a tingling starting at my feet that came up through my body. Looking back that was the moment I fell in love with Abby. I just loved being in the same room as her, listening to her voice and looking at her beautiful face. Abby worked there a year and in the last month this angry aggressive side emerged from her which was bipolar. She stopped working and went into a hospital to get stabilized and then she moved from Minnesota to Montana to live with her parents. I found her on Facebook in 2013 and she was in a serious relationship. That relationship failed in 2015 then I began to pursue her. Then she was 29 years old. Summer 2016 her and I talked about one of us moving so we could begin dating. I’m in Minnesota and she in Montana. Then in August things began to fizzle as she wanted kids and I didn’t. I was in the depths of a battle going through treatments for chronic Lyme disease which had taken 30 years to diagnose and I told her that I didn’t have the income to support a family or the energy to raise children. I was 49 at that time. I kept getting the feeling that my life would get harder if I married her. I wasn’t told what month it was that she began dating a guy near where she lived in Montana but she waited until December 15th 2016 to tell me. Her family and friends had been bugging her to tell me but she was scared to do that. Our daily texting ended January 3rd 2017 and she stopped talking to me. April 1st 2017 she unfriended me on Facebook. Occasionally I would email her and she finally replied around 3am Christmas Day 2020. She said that she was recently married. We each sent about 3 emails then her last one was “my husband doesn’t want us to communicate”. I think that there was several life lessons going through that. I helped her when she hit rock bottom after going off of her medications and she helped me have a reason to live going through treatments for chronic Lyme disease. I’m hoping to see her again someday, chat and share a hug. This one was me absolutely completely falling in love with her. I think that when we fall in love with someone that that love is given to us by God.
Remember God is a perfect matchmaker he knows every people deeply and also God is just in his judgement he gives prudent and good wives to good husbands, Proverbs 19:14
Been married one time, for 38 years. I’m a better Christian now in my personal walk and knowledge of the one true God. I’m just modified into a closer example of what God looks like.
Thank you so much for this video, I really liked how you included the aspect of finding someone you want and choose to submit to. I have seen similar videos on this topic, but the way you communicated these points really resonated with me!
This video was super helpful, but it also hurts my heart so much 🥹 As I was listening, my heart was breaking. There is someone in my life that I want to marry more than anything else in the world. He has theses qualities mentioned, and so much more. But I’m so sad to say that, to my knowledge, it only goes one way. We’re friends, but anything more than that I believe would be laughable- to him and to those around us. And it just breaks my heart. I don’t know what to do in this season. We’re constantly spending time with one another this summer, and we’ve gotten so much closer. And it’s so hard when my heart is just falling more and more in love with him, and yet I know there’s no hope. Please pray for me. And pray that if the Lord wills, that he could change his heart towards me/women. Sorry for ranting here, but I have no one to get advice from on this, as my mentor is his mom, and my friends are his best friends. I’m just kinda stuck with these feelings. Please pray for me and any advice that anyone has would be amazing.
Fix your eye on God. He alone knows the best and perfect man for you, because He knows your future more than you know your past, and He truly care for you. Do not be anxious. Pray continually for your future husband and home. Don't allow an idol to take root in your heart. As you trust Him who is the author of marriage, He will work out His plan for your home. ❤
Hi! I think it is wise to guard your heart, my dear sister esp when you know he only sees you as a friend for now. May the Lord give you the beat He thinks for you. God bless you
Find your purpose and practice it. Be active in church and ministry. Surrender those feelings to the Lord and open your heart to falling in love with other guys, otherwise the right man might come and you ignore him because you are hung up on your friend. It hurts and is difficult but it's men who identify and recognize their wives. Be prepared for anything including the possibility of him dating other women whilst you still there. 😊, your king will locate you, keep preparing for him. Shalom
Hi sister. What I would like to tell you is this: be very very careful with male friendship. You write that you two have gotten much closer. Beware of what parts of yourself you do and do not share with this person and other male friends that you might have. I am not saying that you should never befriend a man, but I am saying that the special relationship between a man and a woman that is meant to lead to marriage does not only include getting more intimate physically, but especially getting more intimate spiritually and emotionally. Don't miss this. If you and this man are now sharing so much with each other you are (perhaps both of you) technically already crossing a line... Read Proverbs 4:23, it is so important to guard your heart and ask God for wisdom whenever you're engaging with people of the opposite sex (before AND after entering into a relationship). Other helpful parts of scripture for me are psalm 119:9 and 1 Timothy 2:22. Don't forget that prayer is essential. I will pray for you and him the rest of this week, but I won't pray that his heart changes towards you specifically. If he is already a believer but his heart is somehow not right towards women in general, then that is something that I would desire for God to change most of all. I hope to have encouraged you in this way, be blessed! - a sister in Christ
Why those things are as you said? Not everyone fits in those things. Not everyone are looking for marriage, marriage between those genders, marriage between two people etc. Marriage institution is older than religion so it can't be "god given" thing. Marriage institution is also outdated as it is nowadays so it current oppressing form should put in the history. And I say those things as a person who is cis straight person who want get marriage someday.
I'm a 25-year-old Christian man and I'm looking for my future wife. If any good Christian girls are interested, let me know. Thank you, and God bless. 🙏
Not that I'm trolling but how do we know 'one man & one woman' is an absolute? I've never been convinced... I feel like it was just was accepted & mostly easy grasped as marriage because of what was expected of marriage in biblical times due to the fact that women couldn't own property, etc...
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- Loves God and His words
- Shares and cares for others
- A good father who loves and welcomes children
- Leads the family with kindness, bravery, and humility
- Stays committed to the marriage no matter what
- Makes wise decisions and takes responsibility
Then their are all the verses & the whole new testament telling you not to . But you have to a prostitute & see hoe much you can get how much money are you to be sold for ? wow !!! how exciting to be a whore !!! yeah !! Jesus !!! How about obeying Christ !!! Mathew 19:10-11 IT's true it's just not for you .
“God never runs out of sons for his daughters” my aunty told me that one day and it keeps me hopeful today. Even though in this day and age it seems impossible to find a man with these qualities, we have a God that does the impossible. God loves us and when he makes a promise he never breaks it. It’s up to us to have faith and remain obedient in him for our needs and desires. Be strong my sisters in Christ❤️
Well he does not have a single wife fore he says Mathew 19:10-11, eat it the truth , choke on it I don't care , you will not obey the truth the verse even says it you will not receive this truth . Though it would be good if you did , you will not , I hope I'm wrong . But you are to right & GOD is a piece of Garbage to you .
I'm not in a relationship, yet this video came at the right time! I've been binging your videos and as 20 year old woman, these messages are beyond helpful! Thank you so much for sharing biblical knowledge in the midst of this chaotic world 💕
Make sure you look long and hard before you make a long time contract
As a newly married woman who knows that marriage is not always sunshine and rainbows. PLEASE choose your future spouse with the utmost care and unselfishly with guidance from God.
Choose a man that will be a priest for you and your household. Choose a man that will lead you into a deeper relationship with God. Please!
Also, I do not recommend begging God for a specific person. God will give you the desires of your heart even if it's not the best for you. Lastly, save yourself for marriage, you won't regret it.
Thankyou❤
I wish I saved myself for marriage. Now I'm used. I also want a virgin wife but I don't see one accepting me. Plus im 33, if I haven't found a wife by now then I'm not sure it will ever happen.
@@BansheeKing22 as a man, you do have time as men age like fine wine 😆 just continue to seek God in your life first and ask him to satisfy this desire for you. God loves us very much and wants to give us a spouse who will be out partner in life to serve God with.
@Kunoichi139 men don't age like "fine wine." No clue where you got that nonsense from but that is far from the truth.
As for the rest of your comment, what happens when I turn 70 and im still alone? You going keep using that same argument? I'm trying to seek God but don't act you're being encouraging to me because you're not. I feel the passing of every year and the age my body takes. We don't live very long. At most we can live till we're 80. 80 year olds don't have kids, or an active sex life or even a long marriage. So please just stop.
@BansheeKing22 welllllll sorrrrryyyy. I think men age like fine wine, and that's just my opinion. But what i meant is 33 is not that old for a guy and if you work on yourself to be attractive to a woman, even a woman in her 20s or 30s could be attracted to a man in his 40s.
As a Christian woman, I can confirm that I agree with everything here. God has definitely worked on me about all of these ❤
Heyy Becca! Are you also preparing to make a video about some crucial qualities to look for in a Christian wife? I think that would be interesting to discuss as well, also as a woman preparing for marriage. I guess the first two points will be the same :) Thank you for this one and keep up the good fight!
Came to this video to see how many of these qualities I already had even though I’m not married yet. Any other guys do the same?
Somewhat...I am just trying to get the female Christian perspective. I have my own strengths and weaknesses, so hopefully God can continue to work on those so that if/when I meet a godly woman, I can be that godly man she desires.
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@@timothyrday1390 That too! Being single should be seen as a time to grow closer to God and prepare yourself to become the godly man your future spouse deserves. Stay positive, friend! God has the right woman for you out there.
In March 2006 a new gal was hired at the pizza restaurant I began working at in 2002. I immediately liked her and thought that she was special to me and we often talked. One day she asked me out on a date. I briefly thought about it and said no because she was 20 and I was 39. I honestly wish I had said yes. I know that our basically conservative society looks down on that but I have wondered if the Bible mentions problems with big age gaps in dating or marriage? Within a few months I remember a day in which she “Abby” was making a pizza and I mentioned the beautiful eyes of an actress just shown in a TV commercial. Abby stopped what she was doing and walked around the kitchen make tables to stand right in front of me and look straight into my eyes. I don’t remember what she said but at that moment I felt a tingling starting at my feet that came up through my body. Looking back that was the moment I fell in love with Abby. I just loved being in the same room as her, listening to her voice and looking at her beautiful face. Abby worked there a year and in the last month this angry aggressive side emerged from her which was bipolar. She stopped working and went into a hospital to get stabilized and then she moved from Minnesota to Montana to live with her parents. I found her on Facebook in 2013 and she was in a serious relationship. That relationship failed in 2015 then I began to pursue her. Then she was 29 years old. Summer 2016 her and I talked about one of us moving so we could begin dating. I’m in Minnesota and she in Montana. Then in August things began to fizzle as she wanted kids and I didn’t. I was in the depths of a battle going through treatments for chronic Lyme disease which had taken 30 years to diagnose and I told her that I didn’t have the income to support a family or the energy to raise children. I was 49 at that time. I kept getting the feeling that my life would get harder if I married her. I wasn’t told what month it was that she began dating a guy near where she lived in Montana but she waited until December 15th 2016 to tell me. Her family and friends had been bugging her to tell me but she was scared to do that. Our daily texting ended January 3rd 2017 and she stopped talking to me. April 1st 2017 she unfriended me on Facebook. Occasionally I would email her and she finally replied around 3am Christmas Day 2020. She said that she was recently married. We each sent about 3 emails then her last one was “my husband doesn’t want us to communicate”.
I think that there was several life lessons going through that. I helped her when she hit rock bottom after going off of her medications and she helped me have a reason to live going through treatments for chronic Lyme disease. I’m hoping to see her again someday, chat and share a hug. This one was me absolutely completely falling in love with her. I think that when we fall in love with someone that that love is given to us by God.
This makes so much sense! Thanks for sharing
Well nobody can be perfect but spouse should unconditionally love one another no matter what
yes I am happy that you made this video❤❤
Braidy is awesome! you should do a live Q and A video with him.
This video was a blessing! Thank you for being obedient in making this! God bless!
That moment when I need this video! Becca def you gotta do one for women next I am over here asking myself if I am even ready to be married yet tbh
Remember God is a perfect matchmaker he knows every people deeply and also God is just in his judgement he gives prudent and good wives to good husbands, Proverbs 19:14
@FarAwayDistance. Why is there a scammer in becca bowen comment section🤨
Been married one time, for 38 years. I’m a better Christian now in my personal walk and knowledge of the one true God. I’m just modified into a closer example of what God looks like.
Thank you so much for this video, I really liked how you included the aspect of finding someone you want and choose to submit to. I have seen similar videos on this topic, but the way you communicated these points really resonated with me!
I like these. Being a cat lover I would add love animals
Major kitty lover here! Canines for everyone else, felines for me!
@FarAwayDistance. what is it
I always look forward to your full TH-cam videos❤😊. You're so helpful!
I died in December 2016 God gave me the name of the man that I am waiting for to eventually marry.
You better Preach!!!!!
Thank you so much!
This video was super helpful, but it also hurts my heart so much 🥹 As I was listening, my heart was breaking. There is someone in my life that I want to marry more than anything else in the world. He has theses qualities mentioned, and so much more. But I’m so sad to say that, to my knowledge, it only goes one way. We’re friends, but anything more than that I believe would be laughable- to him and to those around us. And it just breaks my heart. I don’t know what to do in this season. We’re constantly spending time with one another this summer, and we’ve gotten so much closer. And it’s so hard when my heart is just falling more and more in love with him, and yet I know there’s no hope. Please pray for me. And pray that if the Lord wills, that he could change his heart towards me/women. Sorry for ranting here, but I have no one to get advice from on this, as my mentor is his mom, and my friends are his best friends. I’m just kinda stuck with these feelings. Please pray for me and any advice that anyone has would be amazing.
Fix your eye on God.
He alone knows the best and perfect man for you, because He knows your future more than you know your past, and He truly care for you.
Do not be anxious.
Pray continually for your future husband and home.
Don't allow an idol to take root in your heart.
As you trust Him who is the author of marriage, He will work out His plan for your home. ❤
Hi! I think it is wise to guard your heart, my dear sister esp when you know he only sees you as a friend for now. May the Lord give you the beat He thinks for you. God bless you
Thank you both so much! What an encouragement! Praise the Lord for you sisters!
Find your purpose and practice it. Be active in church and ministry. Surrender those feelings to the Lord and open your heart to falling in love with other guys, otherwise the right man might come and you ignore him because you are hung up on your friend. It hurts and is difficult but it's men who identify and recognize their wives. Be prepared for anything including the possibility of him dating other women whilst you still there. 😊, your king will locate you, keep preparing for him. Shalom
Hi sister. What I would like to tell you is this: be very very careful with male friendship. You write that you two have gotten much closer. Beware of what parts of yourself you do and do not share with this person and other male friends that you might have. I am not saying that you should never befriend a man, but I am saying that the special relationship between a man and a woman that is meant to lead to marriage does not only include getting more intimate physically, but especially getting more intimate spiritually and emotionally. Don't miss this. If you and this man are now sharing so much with each other you are (perhaps both of you) technically already crossing a line... Read Proverbs 4:23, it is so important to guard your heart and ask God for wisdom whenever you're engaging with people of the opposite sex (before AND after entering into a relationship). Other helpful parts of scripture for me are psalm 119:9 and 1 Timothy 2:22. Don't forget that prayer is essential. I will pray for you and him the rest of this week, but I won't pray that his heart changes towards you specifically. If he is already a believer but his heart is somehow not right towards women in general, then that is something that I would desire for God to change most of all. I hope to have encouraged you in this way, be blessed! - a sister in Christ
Wow now i want someone like u 👍
here is something from the bible, the qualifications of a Pastor
ladies, find yourself a 1 Timothy 3 man. He should be able to pastor his home
Amen.
Why those things are as you said? Not everyone fits in those things. Not everyone are looking for marriage, marriage between those genders, marriage between two people etc. Marriage institution is older than religion so it can't be "god given" thing. Marriage institution is also outdated as it is nowadays so it current oppressing form should put in the history. And I say those things as a person who is cis straight person who want get marriage someday.
Are you a Christian?
I'm a 25-year-old Christian man and I'm looking for my future wife. If any good Christian girls are interested, let me know. Thank you, and God bless. 🙏
Not that I'm trolling but how do we know 'one man & one woman' is an absolute? I've never been convinced... I feel like it was just was accepted & mostly easy grasped as marriage because of what was expected of marriage in biblical times due to the fact that women couldn't own property, etc...
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One word: Trump. The one an only messiah.
you’re backkk 🫶 love ya becca thanks for this