SAWYER'S 4 YEAR OLD AUTISM EVALUATION
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Never stop advocating and fighting! God gives these special children to special parents. I understand, my daughter is 5 and was diagnosed with ASD at 3.5, it was a huge fight to get a diagnosis, and even harder to get her services but Praise the Lord, he gave me the strength to fight for her, and she now receives in home therapy and has made AMAZING strides. My girl is a literal genius! Some days/nights are hard, really hard, but joy always comes in the morning ❤️ you two are wonderful parents and I am praying for you all💙
I’m happy that he’s got a diagnosis and it sounds like he has a bright future. He might be a genius.
I absolutely agree with this. People say Einstein was autistic... I think it was him. He isn’t broken. He sees the world differently. My kids know a girl who is autistic. Non verbal. They play with her. Sing to her. They could care less. Kids don’t see this stuff.
I personally think he could be the next Temple grandin
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After using Dr Oyalo herbal remedy whom I met his recommendation about healing autism on TH-cam channel, I can testify that my son is now completely ok in speaking, behavior and social skills. He read, played with friends and followed instructions by himself
Family is very beautiful you have a loving husband and you're a great mother don't let anybody tell you different you do what you think is right for your children I love watching your Channel yeah helps me get through the my grief right now I just lost my husband of 14 years in may and watching your channel helps me and also am now a widow of two special needs. Children
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I have 3 grandsons with autism. They are the most awesome kids. It doesn’t mean he will stay moderate. He can improve with therapy. I have seen this in my grandkids. There is hope and lots of improvement he can have. He has a bright future. He really does. You are such a wonderful mama. You’ve got this.
After using Dr Oyalo herbal remedy whom I met his recommendation about healing autism on TH-cam channel, I can testify that my son is now completely ok in speaking, behavior and social skills. He read, played with friends and followed instructions by himself
My daughter is autistic and I pretty much went through all of the emotions that you are currently experiencing. It’s hard and lonely! Four years later I am much more at peace. Hugs to you and Will-take care of yourselves. ❤️
Sawyer’s diagnosis is so very much like my now 21 year old son’s - he was diagnosed as a young boy and like you we knew.Also like you we were told with hard work from all quarters he could “outgrow “ the social awkwardness/ difficulties- I’m here to tell you he did with flying colours- and is a wonderful ,caring and compassionate young man but who has kept that inquiring and focused mind and I’m proud to call him my son ,not just because he is my son but because of the person that he has become, I’m telling you this not to “brag” but to say please hang on in there,you and Will are doing so so well in such hard times in so many ways -Please know our thoughts are with you- you can now access the support Sawyer needs and can all be on the same page - That is one BIG battle down you won’t have to fight again - well done - you are doing so well - be proud of Sawyer( I know you rightly already are) and of yourselves xxx
After using Dr Oyalo herbal remedy whom I met his recommendation about healing autism on TH-cam channel, I can testify that my son is now completely ok in speaking, behavior and social skills. He read, played with friends and followed instructions by himself
Thank you for your honesty and for NOT using a filter. That way we can get your heart behind it. My son is being assessed in 2 months and after this video I feel a little bit more prepared, not just for the process, but the emotions I may experience along the way. Thank you for your time in doing this.
Emily, you have been blessed to have been able to get to Colorado though where you can get so many services for your children! I am sure Stephanie will be glad to help and advise you all she can. HUGS! Everything will be easier when you have all the support in CO
Reach out to Stephanie at OLC...she will tell you what groups to join in Colorado and how to start services in Colorado Springs! Hugs!
Even though you "knew" getting an official diagnosis is hard no matter how prepared you think you are. Hopefully having the diagnosis now move things along faster once you move. Just keeping trying. You are doing your best that's all anyone can do.❤️🤗
just went through this same experience with my 4 year old son (also moderate) 5 days ago. Thank you for posting this! I went through every emotion you described and it’s good to hear you’re not alone…
Emily that was a beautiful talk!! The love you have for your babies is palpable through the screen. At the end of the day, diagnoses and struggles aside, those kids having amazing caring mom who loves them to the end of the earth! That will take them so far. Sending all the love as you deal with the reality of finally having an official diagnosis and move across the country! You got this!!!
One thing you could look into (if you haven't already):
In my state, I am certified to go into the home of a family, and I can do respite (tending/companionship), Attendant Care (laundry, cleaning, feeding, dressing), and Habilitation (Therapy, learning, reaching goals). I'm not a nurse or a therapist, rather I'm just a normal person, but I can go into the home and help, and the State pays me. I know every state is different, as far as services they provide, but my state has a really good program.
Yes! Respite care would be wonderful for you, Emily. You are a wonderful mom, but you deserve breaks and time away. It doesn’t mean you’re a bad mom. It only means you’re a mom who deserves a break.
Yes! In my state, I ahve received respite care from our Easter Seals program. It is the only way I have been able to continue to work part time and keep my sanity in a home with 3 autistics with lots of needs. You and Will can hopefully get this kind of help once you have moved.
I’m crying as I am watching your video. You are a great mom, you are doing everything for your son. I understand your feelings, Im on the same boat. I noticed my son had poor eye contact and no vocabulary around 20 months, and told my family about my concern, they all thought I was crazy. My parents blamed me for not teaching my son, and I throw all my emotions away took him to the doctors office for evaluation. He was diagnosed for level 3, I was depressed but I told myself to be strong. This diagnoses gives him access to early intervention! My son started to talk at 25 months and now he is 3.5 years old, he speaks with 4 to five words sentences and is catching up! Last time we went for yearly evaluation doctor sees his improvement and now is diagnosed with level 2. You will see his improvements when you get him professional help! I have faith in my son and I have faith in your son because they get great moms and they get good help and they are still young!!!!!
Thank you for sharing your family and experiences! My children are all grown, but I love seeing your videos. Keep being you! You and Will clearly want what is best for your family and I hope things go smoothly with your move!
I admire you so very much for the advocacy of your children. I beat myself up constantly for not advocating for my son. He wasn't evaluated until he was a teenager. He was diagnosed with being on the autism spectrum but we were offered no resources to help him. He has learned to cope with a lot but has severe social issues :'(. I saw the signs for years but didn't know where to turn to get him help. I worry about him constantly as he is an adult and struggles with social connections and social cues. Keep being you and stay strong because you are THE BEST
you are a wonderful mamma and lady! all the blessing in the world to you and your family! i'm excited for your new adventures coming soon. it's gonna be great! hugs!
You are so sweet. I know this is old, but I feel for you & your family. I completely understand how you’re feeling. Every emotion that you showed, I’ve felt in the same evaluation process. It’s like you’re holding the weight of the world on your shoulders. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability & Sawyer’s story.
So happy he is evaluated. And we all here know how smart that little cutie is, so just calm down. Sending virtual hugs to all of you...... 🤗
I’m not an Autism mama, but I’m an ADHD, sensory-seeking mama. Only my oldest has been diagnosed, but I have a feeling at least one more of my four has it too. The feeling of fighting to give your kids the best is a familiar feeling. Evaluations are somber and a ton of information at once. Feel whatever you need to about the official diagnosis. Even when expected, it still hurts. I will say, having an official diagnosis can make certain things, especially IEPs, easier to deal with. I wish there was less paperwork involved, but I get it. Sending lots of love to you 💖💖
Emily- he sounds exactly like my son, only mine has bad anxiety too. You can do this, I promise! Sending you love, hugs and strength from Colorado!
I know it seems daunting but there is hope. My son is on the spectrum and sometimes socially it is hard for him but we never put limits or let the label define him and now he is a senior in college finishing his degree in chemical engineering. Just keep an open mind and encourage learning. Sending lots of love. ❤️
My daughter has autism to keep fighting that's all you can do and learn as much as you can about it you are a great mother and you fight for your children and I love how you and will take care of your babies
Your Sawyer sounds just like my sweet boy, Will. He’s 10 and on the autism spectrum. Was diagnosed at 4 years old too. I remember all those same emotions the days he was diagnosed too. You know Sawyer best and will do everything in your power to help him. The one thing that worked the absolute best for us was taking an interest in every single thing Will obsessed over. We have big, long conversations over his favourite new video game or a new character he is loving. I encourage his learning... he is a master of gathering information and facts about things he loves. I’m just so proud of him. And years ago, I worried about things that never came to be. I’ve learned to live in the moment and it has made me so much happier. Big hugs to you, mama. It’s not a club you ask to belong to but I can say that some of the most amazing people in my life are other autism mamas. I would suggest joining Kate Swenson’s supporter’s group on Facebook. You can find her at Finding Cooper’s Voice. The private group is $5 per month but the information I’ve gathered there and the stories and support are priceless. Take care and allow those feeling to wash over you in the next coming days, weeks, months. ❤️
After using Dr Oyalo herbal remedy whom I met his recommendation about healing autism on TH-cam channel, I can testify that my son is now completely ok in speaking, behavior and social skills. He read, played with friends and followed instructions by himself
He's your baby - no wonder you have so many emotions - you have SO much going on & lots to deal with - while still recently grieving & dealing with family issues. Fighting for services is SO constantly draining & depletes you.....you & Will are beautiful wonderful parents doing your VERY best - you can do no more - dont berate yourself - evaluation day is now over & getting diagnosis is always difficult.....you just keep doing what your doing and be kind to yourself - you too are wonderful. Love from Scotland x
As a preschool speech therapist and a mama to a child with special needs, I want to give you a big virtual hug. Sawyer is blessed to have the parents he has and, although your parenting journey is different with your beautiful twins, trust me that there are lovely sights to see along the way.
I have been through the day you had today 3 times with my 3 daughters. One moderate, one severe and one with other issues that complicate everything! It is hard to hear your beautiful child is going to struggle with things but you are a tiger mom! You will help Sawyer and Griffin and your other children to be the best they can be. Once you get moved. I will send you a letter with some ideas to help. God Bless you! You precious family is in my prayers!
I am going to school right now to be a special education teacher and my long term goal is to be an Applied Behavioral Analysist. Thank you for sharing your experience. So much of what you are sharing about Sawyer is true to what we just covered in our Autism unit. It is very common for someone to thrive in a specific area but then struggle with socialization like you said. The eye contact, compassion, and imaginative play can all be tackled in his IEP just as you said they told you. I hope you guys get the right help for your boys in Colorado.
Don’t despair Emily. I can see Sawyer has made some great strides in the last few months! I’m sure with the right services he will shine 💜
You are a wonderful strong mama and you are doing your best. What a great role model you are for your kids and others who feel who feel like they maybe struggling as well. Keep up the great work mama you are not alone.
Thanks for sharing your journey. Sawyer will do great with the right help. You're doing a great job! Hugs from West Texas !
Emily, In my eyes you are a very strong young lady. You have been thru alots this year. I dont know if I could handle things as good as u have. You and Will and family are in my prayers.Hang IN There.
What a wonderful momma you are. I am in awe of you. Honey we all will be there in spirit to support your family. God bless.
Its such a massive relief when you get the diagnosis isnt it. Glad you have it sorted. Xx
Emily, you are an awesome mom. You are encouraging me to persevere getting the help for my nephew that he needs. My brother and his wife fostered and adopted him but my sister in law has been having so many health problems and is scheduled for brain surgery. Because of all her health problems my nephew hasn’t gotten the therapy he needs to deal with his problems. I want the best life possible for him and like you say, I have to fight for it. I look forward to every one of your videos. Thanks
I knew that my son was autistic before his evaluation, but once I heard from the doctor that she was diagnosing him with autism spectrum disorder, I went through so many emotions I thought I had already gone through.
I am so glad you were able to get him evaluated. Hopefully that will help him to get services faster once you are in Colorado.
When you move to Colorado you will get so much more services..this will be a good move for you guys.I know your Mom is shining down on you with so much love and very proud of you,your a loving,selfless,giving,patient,unconditional love of a Moma,God blessed you with a wonderful Man and Father for your kids...🙏🏻❤️Sawyer is a very smart,sweet boy that's GodsWork
I am proudly Autistic, and just wanted to say you are all so blessed to have Sawyer 😊 Neurodiversity is so beautiful 😍
Now you can accept Sawyers diagnosis for sure now. You have had so much to deal with. He is so handsome. Your babies are all gorgeous. House moving is the most stressful thing one can do. Big hugs when hubby comes home. Xx💖💙
My 3yr old son was just diagnosed with Autism and ADD 2 months ago. I am about to go thru another evaluation for my youngest son for Autism as well. I know what your going thru first hand and its hard. I pray that your move will provide better services for your kiddos. I am still learning everything I can as well. OurLandingCrew has been amazing help for me but I know you already follow them.
Keep on fighting! You and Will have challenges ahead with the move, 6 adorable children, and 2 of those children needing special services. I am praying for you!
As mothers we are WARRIORS! And I understand that it can be draining and heart breaking to fight all the time! Sending love and so much respect ❤ 🇨🇦
I love you, honey! Keep plugging. I wish all parents had the compassion and indurance you have. Your children are so blessed to have you for their Mom. Remember to love yourself! Bless you! Love ❤️ & prayers 🙏 Thanks for sharing! 🍀🌟
I'm an autism mama. My son is from twins. He was diagnosed at age 3. My world crashed. He got A.B.A. therapy( I'm not sure how you write it, English is my second language). It was 8 years ago. Today, NOBODY would tell that my son officially has autism, he is AWSOME!!! Independent, smart, straight A student, confident, I'm so proud of him!!!! I really belive Sawyer will be fine, don't worry honey!!!
Bless you!!!! Sawyer is absolutely beautiful! Our one and only child was diagnosed with autism at 17 months. He is 8 now. Therapy will help tremendously! Find him the best aba therapy in Colorado. It has been life changing! Also, he will start learning from his siblings! Our son had no eye contact when he was younger. It has gotten so much better as he’s gotten older. My biggest advice is to get him as much aba as possible. They will help him with everything. God bless you and your beautiful family! 💚
My son was diagnosed as dysprasic when he was 8. He was clumsy, fell alot, wasn't good at sports which in his school was a massive deal. One of the boys who was a few years ahead of him now plays Rugby for Scotland. My son's graduated from St Andrews university with a bachelors in French and art history and has just completed his masters. Sawyer is super bright I'm sure he'll go far especially with fantastic parents like you and Will. Much love frm Scotland ❤
After years of being told l was bi-polar l have recently been diagnosed as autistic it is a relief to know l am not just weird. I find socializing very hard so rarely go out only if it is essential. I am 62 and my daughter is 8 she has special needs and l struggle to go out with her, she is very
outgoing and will strike up conversation with anyone. She goes to taekwondo, horse riding for the disabled and a group at church called hirks brigade l am still trying to get her diagnosed so she can get more help. She is very smart and knowledgeable but finds reading hard and her handwriting us terrible she broke her right arm above and below elbow so is in cast and very pleased she doesn't have to do handwriting. She is a great storyteller and has a fantastic imagination but struggles to make friends, she adores animals and recently sobbed most of the day because my landlord had to fell a tree and she was sad for the birds and bugs. Her school has a cross country run yearly and she is a good runner but the last 2 yrs she has stopped and waited for the last runner so they didn't feel bad l am so proud of her she is an amazing little girl. Sometimes different is better l love her quirks and hope she always rolls to her own beat.
You are such an amazing woman. Never stop fighting for your kids.
Greetings from Brisbane Australia xx You and Will are strong amazing people, Never doubt yourselves ! Xx
I only just got to watch,I was unwell.Listening to you talk about your beautiful smart boy and fighting for him and for Griffin and all you sons and daughters with such passion and love is why they will succeed in whatever way that may be.Even though you new, having that diagnosis (although will open doors for help) would be hard.I can’t advise you about anything but I can tell you you are doing such an awesome job with all you kids.You and Will are doing greatI’m still praying and praying that all the move issues run as smooth as possible for you.Bring on December!!!😀🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sadness me to see you cry,I was there 23 years ago my son was diagnosed when he was 1 his preschool teacher noticed it I had no clue!
My advice to you is to just love him and be his advocate your his mother, you know best!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Glad he is getting help! He will do great things! To help you not be so afraid of what to say and what not to say try to use typical and atypical instead of normal and not normal. I suggest joining some adult autism groups on fb also to see what’s possible! I was actually just diagnosed as an adult as autistic, if it were before 2013 it would have been capped Aspergers. It’s sad that Griffins are all sad!!! I truly hope that when you move that the experience is different! Because Griffin CAN do so much! And the people who are helping you with him should make feel that way and really applaud what he can do!
Ive been praying for your family while comments have been off. You and Will are truly amazing parents.
I'm happy you got his diagnosis. My nephew was born with autism but not till he was 15. They kept telling us he was ADHD and we knew that was wrong. Well, he is now 25 and working and doing well. He still has certain things that bother him of course. But he is doing amazing.
You’re really on the right track. Getting the 2 Diagnosis will get the boys ahead and ready for Colorado. I raised 3 kids. Yes you cannot be self centered and be a good parent. And you are a great Mom! After they’re grown you will have grown as well. Hang in there Emily, I think you are such a great person & Mom!! If you need a Mom type listener I’m here. It’s awful not having our Moms around. 👍❤️
Sending love and Light-gentle thoughts to you and your AWESOME family!
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Emily, it is sad to see you upset. I hope you and Will can show each other some grace during this very stressful time. I can imagine how much pressure you both are under. Just remember your marriage comes first. Having special needs kids puts extra strain on your marriage. Please show each other extra love and compassion 💗
It does sound like Sawyer may have special talent in some areas. It will be work to help him where he may be deficient, but with the move to Colorado it is possible. One day at a time so you are not so overwhelmed 🙏🏻💗
You are such a wonderful Mama. Love and prayers .
I'm crying while watching you, because I know my son has autism too, we are just waiting for the doctor's final diagnosis. I have kept my son on the waiting list for occupational and speech therapy. He is 4yo right now.
Hi Emily, i wanted to share with you that my brother also has autism (due to lack of oxigen at birth), and when he was diagnosed they told my parents that he would never graduate or live on his own. The expectations were very low. But... now he is 38, he lives on his own with al little bit of help from us, and he graduated with very high grades and is a very skilled web developer. Socialy he is very black/whit and sarcasm is someting he doesn't understand but he has a good, fullfilling life and some very good friend and longlasting relationships. Keep fighting for your kids, and believe in them. You're wonderful!
I'm so relieved for you that you now have the diagnosis you need to get what Sawyer needs. I would say to find a couple of Facebook support groups, stick with two or three & two or three TH-cam channels. Also, when you move & get into services in Colorado, make friends with some of the parents in Sawyer's therapy or school class with children with autism. The reason I say limit yourself to two or three is because it's all too easy to jump right in & get to know everybody, then you become overwhelmed & don't know what to do with yourself.
For now, apart from correcting Sawyer when he hurts someone else, I would stick to teaching him to ask for help for himself. You can move on to helping others when he's well practiced at asking for help for himself. You need to take things slowly, he can become overwhelmed very easily, which I'm sure you've already seen in him in other ways.
But you're doing an awesome job & you're open to learning new things. I'm really proud of you! All your kids have an awesome Momma (& Daddy)!
Swayer is Extraordinary :) It's fine if he's not like everybody else. He'll go far just keep him motivated and learning all the time. Take care Em
I’m glad that Sawyer got a better and more professional assessment. It’s hard to know when others don’t see it... others who are trained to be able to see it- argh. Been there. You are doing a great job for your kids. I think Colorado is going to be such a good fit for you all, even though this transition is a monster. Been there too. Hugs, love and wish I could come help box things up and talk about things only special needs Mommas truly get. Hang in there. Breathe. Realize you will need room to process the official diagnosis and the move. Carve out some time to take a run or drive on your own. Those minutes are vital to you getting through this. It may take a while for things to feel alright in your new home state. Someone once gave me the insight that it took them two years to feel okay in their new home state and that rule has been true in our two moves across state lines with kids. All the best to you and your precious family. You’ll be out of the moving treadmill zone before you know it!
Emily, I worked with a boy in Hawaii with autism, starting at his age of 5 through 11th grade, every day in his school as a certified one on one with special training in CARD. I had specialized in Autism in college and was a mom of two at that time.
(My cousin has three boys with autism.)
The boy I worked with was reevaluated in 11th grade to NOT have autism after all those years of ABA therapy. He graduated from high school and now is in school for photography. NEVER give up. (He is the funniest kids and very intelligent guy.)
I've worked with many kids now and things only get better with the right help. Your moving to Colorado is the right thing. Sawyer is going to be just fine!
As for communication, maybe try ASL, if you have any time! That helped my daughter start to use sentences! We still use sign and I teach my 2.5 year old as well! It has been amazing!!!
You’re doing an awesome job!
I'm happy that you have a diagnosis for him before you move. Because your going to be ready to get all the services you can get him. I love watching your videos because I see a momma and daddy that love their children. And will do anything to make them better. Or their lives better. You always say that we are wonderful. But I want you to know that both you Emily and Will are WONDERFUL!!! Our love and prayers are with you during this time of stress and always okay. 🤗❤🤗❤🤗❤🤗❤🤗❤🤗❤🤗❤🤗❤
Bless ur heart. Ur such a great momma. Ur kids are so blessed. I also follow fathering autism they are a great family also.
My daughter is 10, and walks on her toes. She does not have autism but still dose it. Now we are finding out it might be from a tethered cord from her birth. It’s been a roller coaster lately. ❤️ you got this girl. Stay strong 💪
Sounds like he really has a bright future!! You are a wonderful momma, momma heart is so so big!! Fight for those babies girlfriend!
I've watched so many of your video's. ONE THING YOU NEED TO KNOW IS....YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND NEVER EVER HAVE TO EXPLAIN OR JUSTIFY what your going through to ANYONE!!!
How lucky are are these babies to have you two as parents. 🤣🤣❤❤
You are both amazing!!! I cannot imagine the stress. I am so sorry you lost your mom. My condolences to you and your family.
BUT REMEMBER THESE ARE THE MOST LOVED CHILDREN AND LUCKIEST CHILDREN EVER TO HAVE BOTH OF YOU AS PARENTS!!!! SENDING HUGS, LOVE AND PATIENCE YOUR WAY. ❤❤❤❤❤
Emily you are always real. I appreciate that. You are a good mom. You are a better mom than you would be if you sugar coated it all. Being real is a super power and a curse. It takes one to know one!
I’m proud of sawyer yes I’m watching this for like the 3rd time when he’s 7 years old he’s coming so far in everything sawyer your a trouper warrior and everything thing else there’s ups and downs but that parry of life sadly oh sawyer you now you when you were just born you at what ever age you are and what ever happens I’m gunna support you in my mind
This diagnosis opens up so maaany doors for him!!
I feel so much for you , I have a 6 yr old who was diagnosed at 3 and most recently my 2 yr old was diagnosed with autism, and for some reason even though i knew early on that he was probably more severe than his brother, it was still so devastating , more so than my other sons diagnosis ..I think because i knew I had to go through the Aba , ot , speech , play therapy all over again , and I felt he wasn’t going to get the same fair chance that his brother got because of Covid, so all his therapies are on zoom.. it’s tough , but hang in there !
You are such a good mama you love your babies with all your heart. Just know that God will never give you something that you can't handle with his help.
I just cried watching you cry. My son is currently 5 and my main concern is his speech delay. Patiently waiting for my son to be evaluated the wait list in Baltimore is very long.
Yay!!! They see what you see! Now he has a team of people helping him and you!
So much I want to say but will just write I love you so much and am so proud of who you are! Mama"z do give up their self but you will be so much more amazing then you already are when they are grown! You will only get Better, Stronger, more Focused! You are Wonder Woman in this Mom and Grandmas eyes and heart ❤. Stay kind to yourself especially during this move! The move will be hard but at the end of the day be encouraged by how much you got accomplished and don't forget to laugh!!! You and Will hold tight to each other... your on the same team!!! LOVE AND BIG BEAR HUGS 🐻 ❤ 💕 Sawyer and Griffin are doing GREAT! And that is mainly because of YOU and WILL!! and tears are a good thing.... its just a release method so let those tears roll during good times and bad. 👵 Grandma Kelley of 7!!
You are strong and you got this. Try to not stress. Get what you can for him. Work with him and love on him. Keep pushing forward. You can also watch rebranding autism she’s super smart and in MENSA and Lauren Brazee channels as well. Maybe look into aba therapy along with his OT and get respite care it’s important to get that time. Just know But your child is your child he’s not made like anyone else. That’s amazing. 💜
I know it feels hard to get this diagnosis but you are very lucky to get it now as opposed to later. My daughter's first special ed evaluation was in kindergarten, another in 6th grade but no diagnosis until she was 18. She was assigned to a therapeutic school from 7th to 12th grade which helped a lot but she struggled so much when she shouldn't have had to. If she had been diagnosed younger I think she would've been more successful because it wouldn't have been such a shock to her. I knew but everyone kept telling me she was fine.
Finding Cooper’s Voice and Story of Noahism are two I follow in Instagram. Praying you get the services the boys need. You are wonderful
My heart goes out to you. You are such a good Mom. Don't forget that. I believe as we give and give and lose ourselves in the service to others we actually FIND ourselves in the process, We came to this earth too grow and learn and experience, and you are doing all of that. There is nothing better to put our time and whole heart into than raising our children. As you pray and turn to God, he will be there for you. He will always be there for you and give you answers...because remember, before your precious children were yours, they were his. You and Will weren't meant to do this parenting thing all by yourself. Turn to prayer. I promise you over the long haul you will find strength and wisdom come to you, and you will be able continue being the Mom you were meant to be. When you get older like me, you will look back with such joy and gratitude that you gave so much to your family. I am in awe by you Emily. You are such a strong, good woman. xoxo
Being a mom means we sometimes have to fight for our kids. Bless you!
I also have a son with Autism now 16. I'm still learning everyday about Autism. Each day brings different challenges as they grow. It's a marathon, so pace yourself. I'm glad that you have a diagnosis now and you can get him some help. Follow Finding Coopers Voice on Facebook. She's great!
You are one beautiful person and a great mum. 😘❤️
Stay strong Emily
I'm here crying with you watching this video. My son is 3 years old , he will turn 4 in jannuary. He does not play with his friends in school unless an adult engange the playing, he is really smart kid, He knows his ABCS, SHAPES,NUMERS AND COLORS, He has empathy for others when they cry he says its ok, don't cry, and he makes eye contact and tells his name and age, loves pretent and playing. But he is lacking on social interaction and answering questions. I can not wait to get him evalluated but the wait its 12 months now. Praying for you family, may God give bless you guys.
My daughter will turn 4 in February and she will be evaluated next month, I'm nervous she is speech delay she just started talking. She knows nr shapes color ,letters she understand most of the thing . When we have a new word she will repeat that word, she knows all the family members her name. But God I'm so nervous, I have a lot stres,
Hugs to you. Everything will be great. Hang in there.
I think you will like Colorado Springs. I hope the service is much better. He is a sweet, handsome boy! You have to look at the positive gifts each of your children. They have good parent's and will be the best they can be.
Diagnosis is hard because it's so official. but then you can get him exactly what he needs. best of luck mama!
I can’t relate to you on the same scale of having a child with autism, but there have been many frank & open discussions between myself & my mother, & a few very close friends of mine, about autism running in my family - starting with my now 75 y/o father. I’ve always known since I was very little something wasn’t ‘right’ (but certainly not in a negative way) - my fathers anxiety was very paramount & unfortunately that’s something I ended up suffering from myself. My father has never (& still doesn’t) understand social cues, he fumbles & says very very awkward things (followed by laughter), hoarding issues - an obsession with paper, he’s struggled with basic grammar / spelling all of his life, no sense of direction.. & yet if you were to ask him a history question, out of nowhere he’d just come out with the answer. One of my brothers didn’t talk until he was 4 years old, completely non verbal, both he & my father want constant routines & if that routine changes.. lawdy, get out of the way! They’ll have horrible tempers for a few days. I’m not referring to ‘creatures of habit’ but real structured schedules.
I don’t know if either have it, I know my sister in law who was married to my brother studied child psychology for a little while & really saw so many traits in him too.
Sawyer can absolutely go on to live a functional, beautiful, contented, happy life - but I’m glad you got this diagnosis Emily. It’s going to open so many doors for you all in Colorado, & I believe once he has the right help / guidance he’ll thrive! You’re such an amazing mummy to those children Emily & things will come together, I promise.
You & Will are a team..& boy do I know how stressful moving is. Never let the sun set on an argument. Love & blessings to you both ❤️❤️ xxx
You are such a great mom 👩🏼
I know its a steep learning curve your on. My best tip is to seek advice from Autistics themselves. Autistic led services are great .
I was wondering where u got the hummingbird pictures in your kitchen love watching u guys vlog
I have a cousin just like Sawyer to the "T" and guess what ? He smart very smart,verbal, he is in high school has a job and doing well. Hang in there it will be fine.
I was surprised when the contestant on big brother this year (who had already won the game a few years ago) told his housemates he was on the autism spectrum. We have 4 children in our family with autism, everyone of them is at different levels. All perfect to us. Hopefully you will be getting much better services in Colorado.
I want to let you know that is so great that he has a one on one person with him because in many states kids do not get services like that. Also here in California kids do not get occupational therapy because the demand is high I guess.
Emily I understand that as a Mom you will have to fight for your kids. You will not loose yourself, you and Will will just became a beter version of who you are now.
I gotta tell you - you got this! I totally get the “hearing “ that word autistic as a diagnosis really sucks! my daughter is 30 and has multiple disabilities and I remember hearing each diagnosis and it sucked!
The older they get the easier it gets with both diagnosis’ ! One of my best friends has a son with Angelmans and another best friend has a daughter with Down’s syndrome and one daughter is autistic and one friend who’s daughter has Down syndrome and is autistic! Trust my honey you and your guy totally got this!! Much love and I’m a veteran if you ever need to vent lol 😊❤️