Was it like a vase? A bottle of beer? An expensive whisky? A window smashed by football? An old egyptian artefact that slipped through clumsy hands? An angry plate smashed by an arguing couple? A computer screen broken in frustration? A couch broken by an overweight person who had her last burger? A wrecking ball that broke a building? Use words, Franz, use words!
Personally, I think this is actually the definition of right person *right* time! Not every relationship is meant to last "forever". Most relationships are for different chapters of our lives and provide value not only during but also after the relationship ended. Mia and Seb helped each other become better people and accomplish their goals. This movie is a splendidly wonderful representation of how there is far more than just one "right person". We get to appreciate many relationships throughout different times of our lives which help us grow and become better versions of ourselves. Relationships don't always have to end on bad terms, sometimes relationships just end because they have served their purpose, and that's okay! To me this is what this movie is really about. There definitely are right person wrong time situations, but this story isn't one of them.
@@DulitzlivesOr she should’ve stayed with him. Both decided to follow their “dreams”. Now they got it. It only cost their love and future together. Now she’s Married and he’s alone. There’s nothing good about how things turned out. Specially for him.
@@Dulitzlives No, its not he screwed up. Rather they both had to sacrifice for each other's success. Their being together would have come on their way to achieving their dreams. Teh questions is had they not parted ways, would they have been happy? Likely not.
I’ve been here myself , with the right person but wrong timing. I searched for her in other people but never found her again. I seen her with kids and a family of her own and it’s like weight lifted off my shoulders knowing she found something I couldn’t offer.
I dont talk about her. People stopped mentioning her name to me, long ago. I can still see her, see us in the produce section... People see me go quiet from time to time. People see me smile for no apparent reason. I dont talk to them about her. Not to anyone. I just wanted to talk to her again.
Maybe you could, just not at that moment. I hate the “wrong time” thing. Effort, that must come from both sides, takes time. If you or her doesn’t want to afford the time, then you chose the situation you’re in. You just weren’t willing to sacrifice what you had for it.
A part of me died the day i watched it. Impossible to take eyes off this singular film or stop listening to it's brilliant music. "La La Land" is that plate of trauma and piece of art which plays the heart and throws it into abyss, lightyears away. Saw it years back and I come back to the songs sometimes, but not the film. Never again.
I’m kinda upset that I didn’t get the full experience because it was spoiled that they didn’t end up together so I watched the whole thing knowing how the end would go
@@moumitadas2351 its really annoying though because I like movies to have an effect if me but spoilers completely ruin it and now I’ll never get the true experience
I don't know why but for me the most powerful part, the part that really pierces through me and creates that beautiful yet fierce swelling of emotion in my soul, throat and behind my eyes, is the 5 seconds of silent contemplation before he begins to play.
I feel the exact same way. The millions of thoughts rushing through his head and yet the obligation to still perform for the crowd. I appreciate they didn’t choose to show “flashbacks” or something like that. Just stick with the human THINKING and let us fill in the blanks. Beautiful and heartbreaking.
I rewatch this scene because I relate to the part where Ryan just sits there and contemplates for a second before playing. The deep inhale and exhale.....😢
I can't stop thinking about that girl I had over 45 years ago. We parted exactly like this movie. Never saw her again though. For months now I can't stop thinking about her. My wife of 25 years would kill me if she found out. But I've not done nothing wrong. I can't get her out of my head.
Love never leaves the heart, no matter the distance in between it thrives in the mean attraction of progress, Life goes on. This scene crushes me, but what is not is more without. to grow and be with... continue the sentence...
i can't believe it's possible to live with somone truley loving other person/ I could not understand why Sebastian didn't go to Paris with her. He was telling her, that Jazz in Paris is also popular. He could have both jazz and love
@@zurifakimi8367 women do not wait . Most of them want children before they hit 30y old. It is a bit of nature effect mixed with culture reality. So how she can be asured he wont waste her time.
@@Corleone007 if she can't wait, then the first thing she can do is go to Sebastian, not some other dude🤡 she wouldn't achieve her dream if not for Sebastian effort to force her to audition, she already give up at that point, at least she can do is go for him, girl
they couldn’t pursue their careers and their relationship at the same time. sebastian needed to stay in los angeles and work his gigs to open his club, mia needed to go to paris and commit to her role. They both accepted the possibility that each others lives would go on without the other and they might find someone new in the time they were apart.
His look and stalling to her was devstating to him ! Demonstrating he had cried gallons of tears for separating from her ! As a man ,I've suffered the same with the separation with the love of my life in1980 ! I had to get drunk but even though ,I could not stop crying because the agony was a torture not able to see her again !I was 21 and never though being together 2years would destroy my emotions !💔💔
i hate the fact how she was able to move on from Sebs and he never gave Mia's place to anyone in his life. It shows how easily woman move on and man just can't...
oh c'mon its about having a choice? maybe Mia, who became a successful actress was proposed into marriage and start a family life, as it shows how the society expects a woman to wed a man and build a family as she come of age. And Seb? he may not choose to opt for marriage or see anyone. Its quite a pity that you generalise this so easily about women moving on so easily. SMH.
@@dorothybarman2979 nah, who even cares about how society view them nowadays? Its not wrong to say women move on easier. For me I think its normal and nothing wrong with that. Women gets hit on way more than man. Higher chance for them to fall in love with someone else.
Two dreamers meet, and fall in love in California. They have to choose between a once in a lifetime love, or the spotlight. The persistent, and selfless character played by Ryan Gosling chose a once in a lifetime love, and the self centered character played by Emma Stone chose the spotlight. There is a difference between following your passion, and following your efforts. Mia did not deserve that kind of love.
To me, this shows the different strengths of a man and a woman : A woman who is able to adjust more easily being a the strength during difficult times & a man being a protector to that he is loyal to
that's definitely not the point of this scene. they're just people, gender didn't play a role in their decisions, just circumstances and consequences of their choices.
@@wilhelmpaulm Didn't say that's the point of the scene. But the appropriate gender works in each role because of the different strengths that I mentioned because it's relatable in a bitter sweet way. Imagine if the genders were switched in this scene - it just wouldn't hit in the same way.
The fact that i dj this bar and had no idea till i was like wtf this looks familiar lol if you do t know it’s The Blind Donkey In Long Beach come check out our goth nights they do more other nights but I do goth and 80s
It wasn't a wedding ring. Otherwise, you would not see him going home alone to his own apartment, and cooking food by himself. A man who owns a nightclub and stays up late into the night would have difficulty being a father. It was a ring, but not a wedding ring. You have to consider everything else they show about his present life.
The name - Seb's - and the logo both came from Mia, who gave Seb a design for his club earlier in the movie. She immediately recognises the logo, and realises that this is Seb's jazz club. She feels nostalgic, sad, confused, lots of emotions.. She is also naturally nervous about the possibility of seeing Sebastian himself.
they are both selfish in a non menacing way? oddly they both Chased passion and their dreams over each other making the true Tragedy that they wanted their ambitions more then each other. just my thoughts coming out the film, but totally can disagree up for a Chat
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You’ll never find the same person again. Not even in the same person.
Is that what this movie really means? I just watched it and I don’t think I’ll be emotionally
Impacted like that for a long time
The sad truth.
Wow, that. That what you said hit me so hard…
wow that says.. so much in so little words. Thank you
😢
That "welcome to seb's" broke me in a way I can't explain.
Was it like a vase? A bottle of beer? An expensive whisky? A window smashed by football? An old egyptian artefact that slipped through clumsy hands? An angry plate smashed by an arguing couple? A computer screen broken in frustration? A couch broken by an overweight person who had her last burger? A wrecking ball that broke a building? Use words, Franz, use words!
@romzeek you're trying too hard
@@romzeekLiterally trying too hard mate
@@romzeek lol I like it!!
Get over it, you’re not in a poem don’t waste your life like a forgotten one
Oh shit is that a poem
They are the literal definition of ‘right person, wrong time.’ The ending is so bittersweet.
Exactly, right person wrong time
Personally, I think this is actually the definition of right person *right* time! Not every relationship is meant to last "forever". Most relationships are for different chapters of our lives and provide value not only during but also after the relationship ended. Mia and Seb helped each other become better people and accomplish their goals. This movie is a splendidly wonderful representation of how there is far more than just one "right person". We get to appreciate many relationships throughout different times of our lives which help us grow and become better versions of ourselves. Relationships don't always have to end on bad terms, sometimes relationships just end because they have served their purpose, and that's okay! To me this is what this movie is really about. There definitely are right person wrong time situations, but this story isn't one of them.
He screwed up. He should have gone with her.
@@DulitzlivesOr she should’ve stayed with him.
Both decided to follow their “dreams”.
Now they got it. It only cost their love and future together.
Now she’s Married and he’s alone. There’s nothing good about how things turned out. Specially for him.
@@Dulitzlives No, its not he screwed up. Rather they both had to sacrifice for each other's success. Their being together would have come on their way to achieving their dreams. Teh questions is had they not parted ways, would they have been happy? Likely not.
my heart will never recover from this, and it's not even my story
Yeah😭
I feel you
It’s mine
@@thewavepilots You are NOT Sebastian nor Mia 💀🙏
Here after Emma won her Oscar and Ryan performed a musical number
I know Robert Downey Jr. did an amazing job in Oppenheimer, but man I would've liked seeing Ryan win the oscar
@@guilhermeknak9687I love Ryan but if we’re being realistic and honest, he had no chance again RDJ. RDJ definitely deserved it
The way they both stared at each other when Seb found her in the crowd....CRYING HARD.
I’ve been here myself , with the right person but wrong timing. I searched for her in other people but never found her again. I seen her with kids and a family of her own and it’s like weight lifted off my shoulders knowing she found something I couldn’t offer.
I dont talk about her. People stopped mentioning her name to me, long ago. I can still see her, see us in the produce section... People see me go quiet from time to time. People see me smile for no apparent reason. I dont talk to them about her. Not to anyone. I just wanted to talk to her again.
Maybe you could, just not at that moment.
I hate the “wrong time” thing.
Effort, that must come from both sides, takes time.
If you or her doesn’t want to afford the time, then you chose the situation you’re in. You just weren’t willing to sacrifice what you had for it.
it’s 2024 and we still feels we broken , that why we are here 😢❤
you caught me
Same goes to me
Admit it...
This is a moment that we all have fantasized about atleast once in our lives.. :)
To be heartbroken? No thank you, sometimes ignorance is bliss... Good thing I have bad memory, I'd rather not remember
and l had it
Who the F wanna fantasized that your ex will watch you perform on the stage?
No the hell we have not
No?
It‘s that kind of love that always stays in your heart…❤
That look means "thanks for everything"
This is heavy, everytime I watch this scene the is a little "beep" bound inside my heart and it feels like my world has broken in to many pieces.
A part of me died the day i watched it. Impossible to take eyes off this singular film or stop listening to it's brilliant music. "La La Land" is that plate of trauma and piece of art which plays the heart and throws it into abyss, lightyears away. Saw it years back and I come back to the songs sometimes, but not the film. Never again.
We're old souls who love hard, who feel hard..
I’m kinda upset that I didn’t get the full experience because it was spoiled that they didn’t end up together so I watched the whole thing knowing how the end would go
@@Spedbrenn so you missed the real burn
@@moumitadas2351 its really annoying though because I like movies to have an effect if me but spoilers completely ruin it and now I’ll never get the true experience
straight up horror movie
EXACTLY ITS TOO REAL
I don't know why but for me the most powerful part, the part that really pierces through me and creates that beautiful yet fierce swelling of emotion in my soul, throat and behind my eyes, is the 5 seconds of silent contemplation before he begins to play.
My God
I feel the exact same way. The millions of thoughts rushing through his head and yet the obligation to still perform for the crowd. I appreciate they didn’t choose to show “flashbacks” or something like that. Just stick with the human THINKING and let us fill in the blanks. Beautiful and heartbreaking.
My god yes. Him just sitting there. He wanted to just cry.
In the end when Sebastian nodded while smiling that literally broke me
Maybe someday we will be two people meeting again for the first time.
Never thought a movie ending could break my heart
Right person , wrong time” absolutely amazing movie
I rewatch this scene because I relate to the part where Ryan just sits there and contemplates for a second before playing. The deep inhale and exhale.....😢
The Price of dreams 🥺
This part kills me always, I can’t watch la la land without crying
Amazing acting by two of the current greats.
4:32 That nod tho like so long partner❤
Men never forget.
Best horror film I ever saw, yet to emotionally recover. 10/10
This ending broke me. Such a fucking brilliant movie
I can't stop thinking about that girl I had over 45 years ago. We parted exactly like this movie. Never saw her again though. For months now I can't stop thinking about her. My wife of 25 years would kill me if she found out. But I've not done nothing wrong. I can't get her out of my head.
Wow! I am interested to know if did you just start thinking about her again for the past couple of months or she’s never been out of your mind?
This movie hits me like I didn’t expected.
It’s been some years now since I first saw this scene and still hurts…
Love never leaves the heart, no matter the distance in between it thrives in the mean attraction of progress, Life goes on. This scene crushes me, but what is not is more without. to grow and be with... continue the sentence...
Piango ogni volta e non penso riuscirò mai a smettere vedendo sta scena
i can't believe it's possible to live with somone truley loving other person/ I could not understand why Sebastian didn't go to Paris with her. He was telling her, that Jazz in Paris is also popular. He could have both jazz and love
The question should be, why she can't married him after she bcome an actress? Wth she can't wait for him?
@@zurifakimi8367 women do not wait . Most of them want children before they hit 30y old. It is a bit of nature effect mixed with culture reality. So how she can be asured he wont waste her time.
@@Corleone007 if she can't wait, then the first thing she can do is go to Sebastian, not some other dude🤡 she wouldn't achieve her dream if not for Sebastian effort to force her to audition, she already give up at that point, at least she can do is go for him, girl
they couldn’t pursue their careers and their relationship at the same time. sebastian needed to stay in los angeles and work his gigs to open his club, mia needed to go to paris and commit to her role. They both accepted the possibility that each others lives would go on without the other and they might find someone new in the time they were apart.
This made me cry...😢😭
His look and stalling to her was devstating to him ! Demonstrating he had cried gallons of tears for separating from her ! As a man ,I've suffered the same with the separation with the love of my life in1980 ! I had to get drunk but even though ,I could not stop crying because the agony was a torture not able to see her again !I was 21 and never though being together 2years would destroy my emotions !💔💔
Am a die hard action and sci-fi movie buff but this movie always gets me. I must have watched this love story a dozen times or more!
i hate the fact how she was able to move on from Sebs and he never gave Mia's place to anyone in his life. It shows how easily woman move on and man just can't...
True 🙂
That's coded on our DNA
Oh fuck off don't turn this into a projection of your own generalized beliefs about women.
oh c'mon its about having a choice? maybe Mia, who became a successful actress was proposed into marriage and start a family life, as it shows how the society expects a woman to wed a man and build a family as she come of age. And Seb? he may not choose to opt for marriage or see anyone. Its quite a pity that you generalise this so easily about women moving on so easily. SMH.
@@dorothybarman2979 nah, who even cares about how society view them nowadays? Its not wrong to say women move on easier. For me I think its normal and nothing wrong with that. Women gets hit on way more than man. Higher chance for them to fall in love with someone else.
Still should’ve won Best Picture
This will never not destroy me 💔
Till we meet again una, maybe in another universe. Thanks for everything...
This last scene has screwd me up so bad.
May be in next life
Best actor of the decade
公園で、２人の今後の会話までは良かった。その後は手抜きしちゃったのか？どうしちゃったの？と言うほど、いきなりの５年後に失望。ミアは大女優になった。しかも2、3歳の子どもまでいた。と言うとは約２年程で別の男性の子を、みごもった。
あの公園で、セブにずっと愛してる、と言った。
セブは必ず合格すると言ってミアを激励した、そしてミアの女優への道を応援し、自分もジャスの道を頑張ると言った。それだけミアを大切に思っていた。そんなセブを捨ててミアは２年もしないうちにはみごもってる。理解不能。
私たちこれからどうなるの？と、むしろミアの方がセブへの想いが熱いかのようなセリフであるのに。
あの５年後にはガッカリだった。
大好きな映画ではあるが、そして、2人が結ばれないからこその傑作であり、私たちの心に残るものとなったが、最後お互いを見つめ合うところで、切なく許されるところではあるが、
出来ればあの、幻想が現実となって欲しかった。
例えばミアの子どもが、セブの子だったとか、そんな泥々したものは不要かもしれないが、やはり、
たったの２年で、セブを捨てたミアにガッカリ。所詮作り物ですが。
セブがどれだけミアを愛し生きていたか、所々の場面に見受けられます。
ミアが親と電話している内容を聞き、セブは経済的に頑張らねばならない、その為に好きでも無いバンドにまで入った。そんなとこ、ミアは理解していなかった。
セブより自分の事しか考えていない結果があの結末。
自分の店に来たミアを発見した時のセブの動揺、心が痛かった。
あの動揺からすればセブは独身であると言える。
セブは一途だった。あの幻想では、セブは夢を叶えていず、ミアだけが叶ったと言う説もあったが、そうは思えない、セブも夢を叶えているのだ。
やはり、あの結末でなければ、この映画に涙は伴わないのであろう。
Two dreamers meet, and fall in love in California. They have to choose between a once in a lifetime love, or the spotlight. The persistent, and selfless character played by Ryan Gosling chose a once in a lifetime love, and the self centered character played by Emma Stone chose the spotlight. There is a difference between following your passion, and following your efforts. Mia did not deserve that kind of love.
Another movie end that breaks my heart.
For you Nyla...you know how I feel
And everytime I hear this, I remember her
To me, this shows the different strengths of a man and a woman : A woman who is able to adjust more easily being a the strength during difficult times & a man being a protector to that he is loyal to
that's definitely not the point of this scene. they're just people, gender didn't play a role in their decisions, just circumstances and consequences of their choices.
@@wilhelmpaulm Didn't say that's the point of the scene. But the appropriate gender works in each role because of the different strengths that I mentioned because it's relatable in a bitter sweet way. Imagine if the genders were switched in this scene - it just wouldn't hit in the same way.
I learned this song on piano to combat my feelings for this movie 😭
SİNEMA TARİHİNİN EN EFSANE FİNALLERİNDEN BİRİ
So long my beloved Cayni. Maybe in another lifetime
This scene always makes me feel uncomfortable 😢
Damn mate got a big punch
Un tiro duele menos
2:00
The most horror movie I have ever watched
Ελενη I hope you can see my comments one day by yourself, under the all lala land videos. you can understand me that I love you
My favourite horror movie
Literally me
Blubfest 😭😭😭
The fact that i dj this bar and had no idea till i was like wtf this looks familiar lol if you do t know it’s The Blind Donkey In Long Beach come check out our goth nights they do more other nights but I do goth and 80s
😢
I should've watched this movie earlier:")
I just noticed he has a wedding ring on in the present
It wasn't a wedding ring. Otherwise, you would not see him going home alone to his own apartment, and cooking food by himself. A man who owns a nightclub and stays up late into the night would have difficulty being a father. It was a ring, but not a wedding ring. You have to consider everything else they show about his present life.
我也好想...有機會...巧遇妳！😂😂
The one thing i don't understand is: why she's so scared when she see the title of the seb's jazz club?
I think it's more the flash of memories
The name - Seb's - and the logo both came from Mia, who gave Seb a design for his club earlier in the movie. She immediately recognises the logo, and realises that this is Seb's jazz club. She feels nostalgic, sad, confused, lots of emotions.. She is also naturally nervous about the possibility of seeing Sebastian himself.
she drew that logo for SEbastian and recognized her artwork.
Memories…
Bruh I guess I just did this
Why don’t they make such horror movies now?
Why always Men.
they are both selfish in a non menacing way? oddly they both Chased passion and their dreams over each other making the true Tragedy that they wanted their ambitions more then each other. just my thoughts coming out the film, but totally can disagree up for a Chat
Mia finally moved on and found and married a faithful loving husband and had a child together. So inspiring!
Nope
what
what the actual fuck
bruhhh 💀
This comment fucking sucks you should be ashamed