I'm dropping this comment here ....1 September 2024 ...and i wish whenever someone like my comment i heal more then before I heal every new days even more❤❤
Hum jiski jitni care karte hain wo hame utna hi pagal samajhta hain ... Starting mei khud aate hain aur jab hame aadat ho jati hain to wo ignore karne lagte hain
100% right kaha apne sister pata nhi log kiw sachche log ke sath aese kiw karte kya milta aese karne ,,life me aese pal dekh pata chal log sach matlabi hote abhi tak ye nhi socha log aese hota ab dekh sach hai,,,log matlab aapke sath rahte jab unka matlab khatam aapke sath chhod diya ak baat ,,ab life me ak baat sikha gaya jo gaya o apna nhi hai aur jo chala o apna tha nhi,,ab khud se pyar karte hai lekin kabhi rona aa jata log aese kiw karte hai😥❤️🔥
1. Self-love 2. Be busy (goals) 3. Theres nothing is permanent 4. Believe in u & god or natural force. 5. Spend time with your family 6. Give time a time
What i understood up till now is, emotional attachment is really a very dangerous thing, why I'm saying this, becoz, it destroy my focus, mental peace, and sometimes i can't even sleep properly. So what i suggest to people is : KISI SE ITNA BHI ATTACH MAT HONA, KI BADME HURT HO . and if you are already in that situation then : WAQT KO WAQT DO . Update : After almost 9 month, me usse 80% detach ho chuka hun, but still kahi na kahi uske liye aaj bhi ek jaga hai dil me, but if she come back to my life again, then i will talk to her and will not disrespect her but never accept the same way as she was in those golden days.
Thanks bro jarurat se jyada pyaar insan ko pagal bana deta hai .....promising myself never fell in love again with wrong person kabhi nehin ab sirf khudke baremein sochungi
Shi kha kuch log latka kr rkhte hain, na jane dete h na kadar krte h, jo bhi hoclear krdo atleast samne bala move on kr skta h, today gen doesnt understand true people, kind people
Relationship is compared to born and break up is compared to death. So when your love left you alone, its better you think that he or she is dead. And dead never comes back.
Bhaiya bachpan se hi ham ladkiyo ko ye sikhaya jata he ki dusro ka pehle socho taki sasural me ham adjust kar pay future me. Or is tarah se hamre upbringing kar di jaati hai ki self love kya hai aajtak ye ham samaj pay hi nai na samj pana itna asan he 20 sal se mindset hi aisa kardiya gaya hai ki ye self love itne jaldi ho jana bahot muskil hai🙂
Thank you, Anubhav. I need someone to hug me tight rn. I m broke. For the third time. Crying... screaming... Its really painful... Every honest effort breaks me...
Seeing you again after 2 yrs because earlier you made my way easy to get out of problems. Today again I searched for his videos beacause I want to forget someone!
Rista khtm ho gya thik h ye hi to dil accept nhi kr raha h 😭.qki bar bar aese hota h aese q hua h..hm to apne riste m loyal the.fir bhi kadr nhi. busy rahte huye bhi wo bate yaad aati h..kese khud ko postive rakhe
Feelings ,love ,attachment, attraction and whatever it All things are bad . Most precious and beautiful thing is love with us ❤️ And love with a beautiful nature A few time spend with nature Love with dog They never hurt you because they are always faithful ❤❤ 😊😊
1.self love is very important 2. Keep yourself busy 3. Relations are broken one-day.. accept it 4.keep faith in yourself and God 5.spend time with your family Keep patience, everything happens for a reason ✨❣️
I don't understand that everyone talks about Self Love. But when people leave us they do mention that we were not good or we should not force conversation. How can we love ourselves after that when they just leave. At the end we might feel that we were only wrong.
Bahot sahi kaha hai aapne. Par khudse pyaar karhi na pao to kya kare? Jisne sikhaya khudse pyaar karna agar vahi chala jaaye tumhe tumhare haal pe chhodke to ye nahi ho pata. Jyadatar log waqt jaise kyon hote hai, waqt badalta hai vaise log bhi badalte hai, par mai nahi badal paaya. Sunake to accha laga ye sab, implement kar paaye to maza hai varna....
"pyar" , pyar bahut pyari cheej ha , jo hum krte nhi bas ho jata ha but jab relationship end hota ha na ,to toot jate ha yrr , 🥲sanjh nhi aata kuch kyu kese kab ho gya ye sab 😵💫
Amazing point or apko ek baat pta h mene yeh cheez feel ki hai jo baatein ap bta rhe h woh m khud bhi sochti hu or guide krti hu others ko thanku ❤️❣️ lots of love 💕
What if even family don't love you, everyone loves for money only. If you're financially low, no one will give a damn, they will leave you when you'll be in your worst. Love is a fake concept, you will realise when you grow older. Focus on money. It's been 5 years, I'm doing good now but still I'm not able to come out of bad past, when my family and friend left me when I needed them the most, was at my lowest.
1. Love yourself 2. Keep yourself busy 3. Everything ends eventually, accept it. Accept your past and live in the present. 4. Trust yourself and your God. 5. Spend time with your family. 6. Give time to everything. Everything will be okay after some time. Waqt ko thoda waqt do.
Ultimate solution; attachment he to usse bol do, agar ha bole to sahi he, or agar bo na bole to or bhi acha he. Overthinking se bachoge or bahi se 100% clarity ho jayegi.
Log hote hi selfish hain..pehle khud aake ache dost bnaenge Unhe pyar ho jayega ache hone ka dikhawa krenge...jab hme pyar ho jaega to apni asli aukat dikhaenge... Whenever you love someone at his lowest time.. wo log usi Lowest time me tmhe pahucha denge... I really hate to see people changed after we'll get attached...🙂.. Hope so unhe unki tarah hi log mile unki jindagi me..😇
Same thing happened wity me😓I was in relationship for 1.3 years we just passed out 12th this year he moved to another city for college and I have taken a drop for my neet prep,,,we were in long distance relationship from 2 months and he changed ,he lost his interest in me hamari ladai hoti thi so he was like tumne mental health khrb krdiya tha maine soch liya breakup krna and freshers party me college ke he kissed a girl and now he wants to come in relationship witg her , he wants her , mera saal mere efforts mera sbkuch waste krdiya i m sp heartbroken Im not able to focus on my studies ,,,,I just cry all time Bohot anxiety hotii h bohot emotional pain milrha idk kaise mai move on kruuu nhi horhaa I lov3d him soo sooo muchh what should I do😓😓😓Mujhe koi move on krva doo bsss plss plss I beg youu guys jo koi mera comment padhrhaaa
@@Saanya2410Maine v jisse love kiya usne mjhe cheat kiya mental+ physical health dono abhi khrb ho rkhi h but usse ghnta fark nhi parta kyuki usse mil gyi h new gf... ... Isilye ab main bs khud pe focus kr rhi health+ job + Pooja n all... I know ye bilkul v easy nhi h uske jesa heartless bnna but kbtk uske piche bhagu jisse meri 1% v kadar nhi h.. Yha tk ki aaj v royi bhautt Syd wo wapas aaye but ab aur nhi 2025 se bs mjhe main chahiye aur success aur koi nhi... Ek baat yaad rkhna ek mard nhi sare mard ek jese hote h #Dhokebaaz Acha hoga ki apne goals ke piche bhago ek din toh marna h tb hmra lover hmre sath jayega kya ?? Nhi na.....sare dreams fulfill kro ache karam kro aur jisne tumhe hurt Kiya simply forgive kro aur aage badho...koi hate nhi rkho uske liye bs bolo jo kiya acha kiya bhagwan tumhe bhautt khushiyan de... Yakin mano karma aesi cheez h jo usne Kiya h usse wo return gift zarur milega...😄
Ya sab kehna bohat easy hain but karna utna hi mushkil hain Aap jitna bhi self love Ya busy bhi reh lo but ek time din main aisa bhi aata hain ki aap yaad karoge tabhi mood off ho jata hain and aap kisi aur chiz main mind nhi laga sakte ho.. Meri current situation aisa hain Maine sab kar li man ki kitna mana lu But thode time ke liye yaad aa hi jata hain..
Jo bhi kho kitne bhi motivation dekho lekin eska ek hi upay h Time , time ke sath sb kuch thik ho jata h lekin mushkil to vo thoda sa time nikalna hi h Bhale hi hume 6 mhine ke bad bhi uski yaad aaye lekin jeena aa jata h lekin us waqt ko katna bohot mushkil h ..sbse mushkil h duniya ke samne muskurana ...sbse chupana jbki bar bar uska soch kar rona aa jaye
You are 100% correct. Khud ko pyar krna , vakt ko vakt dena bht jaroori hai. I have faced a lot in my life journey. Boti bht lukhsan ke baad cheejomke bareme aur logomke baareme dheere dheere samajna seekhliya logomko doorr rakhna seekhliya. Abjaake toda sa sukun se jeeparahi hu.🙏
Bahut kuch bataya ap ne dost aur love k bare par kuch un selfish logo k bhi bare mein bateye Jin k sath hum Job karte aur jinhe hum apni family samajhte hai . Jan unhe humari Jarourat hoti hai . Hum bin bole hi kar dete hai aur hamen unki jarourat hoti pata nahi rang hi Badal lete hai hai.Aur uswaqt ansuon k elawa koi lafz nahi hote .
Muje ye video bohot achhi lagi aur mai apne life me ye sb chije follow kar hi rahi thi and ye sab sunkar maine bohot relate kiya.. Muje sach me bohot achhi advice aur thinking lagi in sir ki.. I am very happy😊❤ aur kuch nai chije jo muje sikhane mili mai unhe bhi apni life me add jarur karungi 😊 mai itni positivity par tab hi aayi hu jab maine bohot kuch face kiya bohot negativity and khud ko bohot akela mehsoos karti thi isliye kisi aur par emotionally depending nahi rehna chahiye jo ye bat smjhenge wahi life me kuch behtar bnke ayenge 🙏
Kisi se pyar karna, uske baad breakup hona,ye life nhi life ka ek phase h, ise par Karo, aage isse bhi khubsurat jindagi apka wait kar rhi h, best of luck 🤞
bhaiya me abhi use bhot miss kr rha hu pr muje mere shyam ji pr bharosa hai vo muje sikha rhe hai thanks for the video aapki sari bate mere sath haqiqat me ho rhi h
Bilkul sachai h bhai.sabse bdi baat ye h ki usko stock krna bnd kro social media se .... dhire dhire sb thik ho jayega..waat ko waat do waqt ke sath sb thik ho jayega 😔
Thank you so much sir❤️ this was all i needed..ur lines and words helped me.a lot ..as a overthinker my mind was so messed up but by listening to uhh it get clam... thanku sir
Mai 2 sal se realisation mai hu ek bnde ke sath & usne aacnk mujhe ignore krna start krdya mujhe smjh nhi aarha tha kue lekin apko sunke avi smjh aarha hai ki wo kue change hogya kue ignore kr rha hai & yeavi smjh aaya ki avi mujhe khudko payr krna cahiye apni family ko time dena cahiye apni goals pe focus krna cahiye & the best line is "wakt ko thoda wakt do "thankyou so much bhaiya 😊apne meri aadhi problems solve krdya thanks a lot dill se😊❤
Kisi ko cheat mila? Toh suno- Mera bhi hua tha 6 mahine phle main rota tha din raat lekin ek bat phir mujhe mehsoos hui most imporatant- Jis insaan ne tumhare sath itna bura kiya woh tumko chahiye hi kyu? Bhai meko woh sada hua insaaan wapas mile kbhi na lu.. Aur jisne mko cheat kiya woh wapas ayi maine laat mardi 😂😂😂😂
Bahi lekin me kya karu vo insaan sada hua nahi tha bas thoda manipulate karte the ham ek dusre ko.. otherwise vo bhi kind tha me bhi kind thi uska intention mostly like attension lena or etc tha or Mera intention use forever keeping ka tha fir bhi mene use forever banane ki koshish ki thi by being over kind and hostility care emotional bcs me ab ye sab end karke usko khush rakhna chahti thi hamesha he was loving me but eventually he left for very practical reasons or hamara koi contact bhi nahi hai + uska koi partner hai jisse vo bahut attached h but somehow me kuchh dinke liye khas ban gayi thi fir vo chala gaya vo chata tha rukna but vo kar bhi kya sakta tha mene uska wait Kiya Ane ka but ab kuchh nahi ho sakta sab bigad gya bigada hua tha pehle se hi.. use pata tha vo chala gaya or dukh is baat ka hai vo mera kuchh lagta bhi nahi tha na ho hamara contact tha bas kuchh emotions the ek dusre ke liye
U r godfather by making such videos, we really need such videos, thank you❤ so much... Sir lekin kaunsa lesson? Kya bharosa krna glt hai, please🙏 make video on lesson, kya hum ne cheat nhi kiya vo glt hai? Honest rhna glt hai? Please lesson pr video bnao, ki hum ko lesson kya mila, ? 7 years of married life broke because he cheated me, another girl came into his life
Respected sir ji u r a very special person for me q I don't know.but mai real me aapki awaaz ki fan hu.thank u meri life me aane ke liye.h ki mujhe relationship mein koi problem nahi hai per hum online jude hai.thanks.
Selflove, be Busy, life's truth, believe in god, spent time with family Ye 5 bate samjh me ayi lekin me ek Student huu 2 mahine me exams hee, jab bhi padhne bethu yaa kahi par bhi concentrate karne ki Koshish karu to Uske thoughts ana chalu ho jaate he or me Suicide ke bare me sochne lagta huu... Mujhe 1.5 years hue breakup hue par abhi uske khyal had se jyada aa rahe he q ki mene study ke lie recently Job band ki islie busy nahi hun par self control kar ke padna hai Par agr busy na rahu to usi ke thoughts To mee kya karu Padhai karna chod du ? I can't find any solution, padhai bhi jaroori hai, family ko kyaa jawab duu ?
Ye questions ki glt hai . Ho sakta h little time k liye uska interest some develop ho Jaye pr wo long lasting nhi Hoga . Isliye aap apna interest dusri cheezo m ya khud m develop krna suru kr de . Ye option zyada sateek hai
Mujhe lagta hai ek sahi gentle conversation ki jarurat hai jaha pura apni Maan ki baatein bolo aar yaa paar ka khel khello(clarification) whether on calls or face to face. Lekin jyaada time maat lo Agar conversation ke Baad bhi she is not interested then move on apni Maan ki baatein bol diye yehi satisfaction hai.
The way which I found really good is.... increase your value by achieving good status in life (good job, financially independent,make yourself busy). I have done all this things in my life... And it will definitely work... I can bet you
Me ek maa hun. श्री राधे राधे 😭🙏🙏 Bahut ajj acha bat bataya aap ne iye dili karib bate he. Kiiyun? Ki job inisan eke la rhati he sab pata chalta he. Isime aap sikh di he ki bhagwaan Yaad karna chahiye dusara ke piche job daudte ho O inisan kadar nei karta.
I'm too soft hearted person that's why people disrespect me. I'm over thinker 😭 i get depressed coz of my thinking i think too far for her. I tried self love but when someone just talk nicely or when she show lttle care i fall in love with her i becomes possive for her😭😭😭😭
@@akansha2026 hmmm it's worse pain on the earth but very few people taste such pain I feel like I'm dead from inside I'm just behave like an robot for a family I'm broken i don't have strength in my soul 😔
@@millionaire_claims waise hum mnte nhi h ki ye sabb jo hai hmri wajah se hi hua hai but sach ye hi hai humne starting se usko na khode khin chli na jaye aisi vibration dene lgte hai jiss se wo sach m chle jate hai kbhi suna hi hoga acha socho acha hoga jb day one se ye hi soch rahe h khin mjh chodke chle na jaye to ekdin uss insan k jana tay hai… ek chz aur h jo maine smjhi hai har kisiko khusi chaiye iss duniya m kiski khusi dog m h kisiko music m milti h kisiko fav food khne se milti hai kiskio person m jb hum kisiko love krte hai tb hum ye nhi notice krte ki hum apni khusi k liye usse love kr rahe hai phir wo hmari khusi bn jta hai jaise wo hmari khusi hai aise uski bhi khusi hai agr uski khusi hmri khusi se match hjye to usse hum true love k naam de dte hai aur jinki khusi hmri khusi se match na ho to hum jaise log fail hjte hai phir hum uss insan ko ptni ky ky bolne lgte hai jbki glti humri hoti hai ki humne usse apni khusi bnya ab wo jb bhi jaye hmri khusi to jygi hi … to phle ye smjhna important h ki hmri khusi kisi p depend nhi honi chaiye jb jb aisa krnge tb tb hurt hnge aur soul ki power utni hi weak hoti chli jygi apne aap ko powerful bnane k tarika h phle morning m uthte hi ek thought create kro i am peaceful happy soul god ko good morning bolo thank you kro unka jo kuch bhi diya sabb acha h nd night m sote time same kro one two week krke dekho apko changes feel hnge aur uss insan k thoughts m vibration m jitna rahoge kitna bhi tear bhalo bimar se bimar hote chle jaoge soul aur weak hoti chli jygi trust me usko yaad krne se acha wo pal yaad kro jb tum uske milne se phle khush th bs waise phle jaisa bna blki uss se bhtr aur ye hume khud krna hoga m mnti hu phle ek do din mann nhi krga mann khyga mjh usse bhulna nhi h mjh puri life use love krna h loyal rhna h but aaj nhi kr paaoge kl nhi krge ek saal baad ya do saal baad krna ye hi pdga to dear jo krna hi hai aajse unn thoughts ko fullstop lgao ki bs bhut hgya jaise hi tbought ane lge uske mind ko chnge krdo nd best of luck hum pyar dene wale person hai logon ko pyar chaiye hum dene walon m se hai giving giving only giving 😊hamesha ye smile do khudko ki m sabse acha pyara ladka hu smile kro aur maa paa k bhi dhyan rkho tumse wo hai tum unhe bhi khusii do ek din sabb acha hjyga good luck tc😊keep smiling always😊♥️
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So motivating , thank you for all the efforts you put in really 💫✨
Can you give ur account number please
Sir maine pay kr diya h bứt confirmation email kyu nhi aa rha ?????
Maine appointment book kiya h
I'm dropping this comment here ....1 September 2024 ...and i wish whenever someone like my comment i heal more then before I heal every new days even more❤❤
❤❤you can brother
Hum jiski jitni care karte hain wo hame utna hi pagal samajhta hain ... Starting mei khud aate hain aur jab hame aadat ho jati hain to wo ignore karne lagte hain
Thanku
Sach me
Fact
100% right kaha apne sister pata nhi log kiw sachche log ke sath aese kiw karte kya milta aese karne ,,life me aese pal dekh pata chal log sach matlabi hote abhi tak ye nhi socha log aese hota ab dekh sach hai,,,log matlab aapke sath rahte jab unka matlab khatam aapke sath chhod diya ak baat ,,ab life me ak baat sikha gaya jo gaya o apna nhi hai aur jo chala o apna tha nhi,,ab khud se pyar karte hai lekin kabhi rona aa jata log aese kiw karte hai😥❤️🔥
Ekdum sahi hai
1. Self-love
2. Be busy (goals)
3. Theres nothing is permanent
4. Believe in u & god or natural force.
5. Spend time with your family
6. Give time a time
U ok?or going through heart break
@@alkasaini2000 it is very complicated dear
@@ankushnartam134 married'??
@@alkasaini2000 no
Right pr. Nhi ho paata
Yeh video Tak aana padega kabhi socha Tak nahi tha 😢😢
Same here
Same here
😢
Same
Hmmm🙂🙂
When you love someone more than they deserve ❤😍.... Surely they will hurt you more than you deserve 💔🙁
And u said it very amazingly 😢
True 👏
100% right
Right bro
Attechment is normal but , I can't detached his 😢
Love starts with attraction and ends with dipression 😊😊
What i understood up till now is, emotional attachment is really a very dangerous thing, why I'm saying this, becoz, it destroy my focus, mental peace, and sometimes i can't even sleep properly. So what i suggest to people is : KISI SE ITNA BHI ATTACH MAT HONA, KI BADME HURT HO .
and if you are already in that situation then : WAQT KO WAQT DO .
Update : After almost 9 month, me usse 80% detach ho chuka hun, but still kahi na kahi uske liye aaj bhi ek jaga hai dil me, but if she come back to my life again, then i will talk to her and will not disrespect her but never accept the same way as she was in those golden days.
Well said👏🏻
Feeling same
Hope so time heal
Yes mai b aisa he tha same copy apki thi😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
This is fact
Time heals everything, time changes everything
Yes
Kitna time lagayga
I hope it will happen
Kase rahu jineka he man nhi hai
Thanks bro jarurat se jyada pyaar insan ko pagal bana deta hai .....promising myself never fell in love again with wrong person kabhi nehin ab sirf khudke baremein sochungi
Bilkul same❤
Fir bhi sab yad aata h yr
Bilkul
True meaning of deattachment is that ki agar samne wale insann ki activities ka appe asar hona band ho jaye then.. U absolutely deattached with them😢
kaise band kare asar?
True bhai
Dost🙎♀️ se woo crush bangayiee 💗, crush 🫀se wo jaan bangayiee🧎♂️ and jaan se woo aanjan bangyie 💔💔
We all are attached to someone who cares someone more than us and that's why we are here
No
Yes Ur right
Ryt
Trueeee❤
🥺🥺 sahi baat h...
So true..be detached alwaz...
I heard one quote
" Connected to everything , Attached to nothing "... So bful quote
100 percent right self-respect bhi kuch hoti hai, jab koi clarity nhi deta then boundaries create kro let go and move on
Shi kha kuch log latka kr rkhte hain, na jane dete h na kadar krte h, jo bhi hoclear krdo atleast samne bala move on kr skta h, today gen doesnt understand true people, kind people
Relationship is compared to born and break up is compared to death. So when your love left you alone, its better you think that he or she is dead. And dead never comes back.
😢
😞
Sahi kaha usko koi aur mil gayi hogi tabhi mujhe chor diya 😢😢😢 mar gaya yahi maanungi ab😢
Right
अगर कोई भी ऐसी वीडियो लोगों के जीवन में बदलाव ला सकती है तो ये बेस्ट वीडियो है।
बनाने वाले को ढेर सारा प्यार❤️
Bhaiya bachpan se hi ham ladkiyo ko ye sikhaya jata he ki dusro ka pehle socho taki sasural me ham adjust kar pay future me. Or is tarah se hamre upbringing kar di jaati hai ki self love kya hai aajtak ye ham samaj pay hi nai na samj pana itna asan he 20 sal se mindset hi aisa kardiya gaya hai ki ye self love itne jaldi ho jana bahot muskil hai🙂
Sabse jyda ladkiyan hi kat ti hai bahen !
" Time Heals Everything " 😇
No it's not😢
No it doesn't. We learn to live with the pain :)
ज़िंदगी में ये सब वीडियो भी सर्च करके देखना पड़ेगा ये कभी सोचा भी नहीं था ….
Never thought i would watch this video because of someone who left me very badly and broken😢
1.Self Love karo
2.Busy raho
3.Jo aata h wo jaata h
4.Apne aur Apne Bhagwan par bharosa rakho
5.Family ke saath time spent Karo
6.Waqt ko waqt do
Bilkul Allah behtareen krta h or ek waqt p sabar de hi deta h Allah 💯❤️
Ha apki baat shi insaallah o sabar denge
Muslim hi h vo vese toh dono ke mnn mein h pr samaj ke wjh se us ko rukna pad rha h... Aur ye ekdum ho rha h -_-
Thank you, Anubhav. I need someone to hug me tight rn. I m broke. For the third time. Crying... screaming... Its really painful... Every honest effort breaks me...
Don't worry diidii... Everything is alright
Isiko abhi bhot jyda jarurat tha bhaiyaa 😊
Seeing you again after 2 yrs because earlier you made my way easy to get out of problems. Today again I searched for
his videos beacause I want to forget someone!
Rista khtm ho gya thik h ye hi to dil accept nhi kr raha h 😭.qki bar bar aese hota h aese q hua h..hm to apne riste m loyal the.fir bhi kadr nhi. busy rahte huye bhi wo bate yaad aati h..kese khud ko postive rakhe
Feelings ,love ,attachment, attraction and whatever it
All things are bad .
Most precious and beautiful thing is love with us ❤️
And love with a beautiful nature
A few time spend with nature
Love with dog
They never hurt you because they are always faithful ❤❤
😊😊
1.self love is very important
2. Keep yourself busy
3. Relations are broken one-day.. accept it
4.keep faith in yourself and God
5.spend time with your family
Keep patience, everything happens for a reason ✨❣️
❤
😊
Last line is best 🤞😇
bhai last line gajab hai
❤
I don't understand that everyone talks about Self Love. But when people leave us they do mention that we were not good or we should not force conversation. How can we love ourselves after that when they just leave. At the end we might feel that we were only wrong.
Yes..... healing process is very slow and it's too hard to move on .... I'm also in that kind of condition and trying everything......,,
Bahot sahi kaha hai aapne. Par khudse pyaar karhi na pao to kya kare? Jisne sikhaya khudse pyaar karna agar vahi chala jaaye tumhe tumhare haal pe chhodke to ye nahi ho pata. Jyadatar log waqt jaise kyon hote hai, waqt badalta hai vaise log bhi badalte hai, par mai nahi badal paaya. Sunake to accha laga ye sab, implement kar paaye to maza hai varna....
"pyar" , pyar bahut pyari cheej ha , jo hum krte nhi bas ho jata ha but jab relationship end hota ha na ,to toot jate ha yrr , 🥲sanjh nhi aata kuch kyu kese kab ho gya ye sab 😵💫
Amazing point or apko ek baat pta h mene yeh cheez feel ki hai jo baatein ap bta rhe h woh m khud bhi sochti hu or guide krti hu others ko thanku ❤️❣️ lots of love 💕
What if even family don't love you, everyone loves for money only. If you're financially low, no one will give a damn, they will leave you when you'll be in your worst. Love is a fake concept, you will realise when you grow older. Focus on money.
It's been 5 years, I'm doing good now but still I'm not able to come out of bad past, when my family and friend left me when I needed them the most, was at my lowest.
U will 1 day find a person, who deserve u .
Same here sis🙂
Nhi aisa ni hota koi ni ata
Let's move on not with someone but with urself🙂
1. Love yourself
2. Keep yourself busy
3. Everything ends eventually, accept it. Accept your past and live in the present.
4. Trust yourself and your God.
5. Spend time with your family.
6. Give time to everything. Everything will be okay after some time.
Waqt ko thoda waqt do.
Sir apki baate sunke sukoon milta hai khushi hoti hai ki koi to ek insaan hai jo feelings smjhta hai thankyou so much😊
1) Self love
2) keep yourself busy
3) accept the truth
4) believe in yoursef and believe in god
5) Spend time with family
6) time heals everything
Thanku dear
Sahi baat kahi bhaii..aaj aapne hame nind se jaga diya..sahi me....thank you so much.. Bhaii
मौत आ जाए पर ये दौर न आए 😢😢💔💔💔💔 प्यार के नाम से भी नफरत है मुझे.......😮😮😮😮
Bahut support karta hai apka video but dekhne k thodi der bad hum fir wahi pahuch jate hain 😢 jaha se nikalna chahte hain but yes I'll be strong
Shi kha apne
Tq sir mai bht preshan thi lekin aapka Ye video dekh kr mujhe bht sukun mila tq soooo muchhh sir bhgvaan aapko hmesa khus rkhe ❤️
Finally know what self-love is. ❤
Thnks ...i got too attached now its time to detach myself...😊
Right brother.. Busy rakhna jaruri hai first point and last for Detachment..
Very correct, now I love only myself and my work.
Aapki aawaj sun kr Dil ko sukun milta h
Ultimate solution; attachment he to usse bol do, agar ha bole to sahi he, or agar bo na bole to or bhi acha he. Overthinking se bachoge or bahi se 100% clarity ho jayegi.
Log hote hi selfish hain..pehle khud aake ache dost bnaenge
Unhe pyar ho jayega
ache hone ka dikhawa krenge...jab hme pyar ho jaega to apni asli aukat dikhaenge...
Whenever you love someone at his lowest time.. wo log usi Lowest time me tmhe pahucha denge...
I really hate to see people changed after we'll get attached...🙂..
Hope so unhe unki tarah hi log mile unki jindagi me..😇
Mere sath bhi yahi hua Mai uska lowest tym me bhi usko nahi choda lekin vo mujhse bahana banake nikal gaya...😢😢😢
Same thing happened wity me😓I was in relationship for 1.3 years we just passed out 12th this year he moved to another city for college and I have taken a drop for my neet prep,,,we were in long distance relationship from 2 months and he changed ,he lost his interest in me hamari ladai hoti thi so he was like tumne mental health khrb krdiya tha maine soch liya breakup krna and freshers party me college ke he kissed a girl and now he wants to come in relationship witg her , he wants her , mera saal mere efforts mera sbkuch waste krdiya i m sp heartbroken Im not able to focus on my studies ,,,,I just cry all time Bohot anxiety hotii h bohot emotional pain milrha idk kaise mai move on kruuu nhi horhaa I lov3d him soo sooo muchh what should I do😓😓😓Mujhe koi move on krva doo bsss plss plss I beg youu guys jo koi mera comment padhrhaaa
@@Saanya2410Maine v jisse love kiya usne mjhe cheat kiya mental+ physical health dono abhi khrb ho rkhi h but usse ghnta fark nhi parta kyuki usse mil gyi h new gf... ... Isilye ab main bs khud pe focus kr rhi health+ job + Pooja n all... I know ye bilkul v easy nhi h uske jesa heartless bnna but kbtk uske piche bhagu jisse meri 1% v kadar nhi h.. Yha tk ki aaj v royi bhautt Syd wo wapas aaye but ab aur nhi 2025 se bs mjhe main chahiye aur success aur koi nhi... Ek baat yaad rkhna ek mard nhi sare mard ek jese hote h #Dhokebaaz Acha hoga ki apne goals ke piche bhago ek din toh marna h tb hmra lover hmre sath jayega kya ?? Nhi na.....sare dreams fulfill kro ache karam kro aur jisne tumhe hurt Kiya simply forgive kro aur aage badho...koi hate nhi rkho uske liye bs bolo jo kiya acha kiya bhagwan tumhe bhautt khushiyan de... Yakin mano karma aesi cheez h jo usne Kiya h usse wo return gift zarur milega...😄
Waqt ko thoda waqt do kitna achha kaha hain aapne....it's really true 🌸
Ya sab kehna bohat easy hain but karna utna hi mushkil hain
Aap jitna bhi self love
Ya busy bhi reh lo but ek time din main aisa bhi aata hain ki aap yaad karoge tabhi mood off ho jata hain and aap kisi aur chiz main mind nhi laga sakte ho..
Meri current situation aisa hain
Maine sab kar li man ki kitna mana lu
But thode time ke liye yaad aa hi jata hain..
tum jaise chutiyo se luch nahin ho payega yaad rakhlo
Jo bhi kho kitne bhi motivation dekho lekin eska ek hi upay h Time , time ke sath sb kuch thik ho jata h lekin mushkil to vo thoda sa time nikalna hi h
Bhale hi hume 6 mhine ke bad bhi uski yaad aaye lekin jeena aa jata h lekin us waqt ko katna bohot mushkil h ..sbse mushkil h duniya ke samne muskurana ...sbse chupana jbki bar bar uska soch kar rona aa jaye
You are 100% correct. Khud ko pyar krna , vakt ko vakt dena bht jaroori hai.
I have faced a lot in my life journey.
Boti bht lukhsan ke baad cheejomke bareme aur logomke baareme dheere dheere samajna seekhliya logomko doorr rakhna seekhliya. Abjaake toda sa sukun se jeeparahi hu.🙏
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Bohot problem hoti hai... Koshish karne ke baad bhi naa ho paaye toh koi kya kare
Sir apki baatein, नसीहत se, bahut kuch sikhne ko milta hai.
Right sir , I agree with you . vaqt ko agr vaqt de to sb thek ho hi jata h ek din . 😊😊
Things are really understanding , all points are genuine and believe me after listening to this I forced myself to not think about her...
Bahut kuch bataya ap ne dost aur love k bare par kuch un selfish logo k bhi bare mein bateye Jin k sath hum Job karte aur jinhe hum apni family samajhte hai . Jan unhe humari Jarourat hoti hai . Hum bin bole hi kar dete hai aur hamen unki jarourat hoti pata nahi rang hi Badal lete hai hai.Aur uswaqt ansuon k elawa koi lafz nahi hote .
Assalamualaikum..wht happen shabnam
Muje ye video bohot achhi lagi aur mai apne life me ye sb chije follow kar hi rahi thi and ye sab sunkar maine bohot relate kiya.. Muje sach me bohot achhi advice aur thinking lagi in sir ki.. I am very happy😊❤ aur kuch nai chije jo muje sikhane mili mai unhe bhi apni life me add jarur karungi 😊 mai itni positivity par tab hi aayi hu jab maine bohot kuch face kiya bohot negativity and khud ko bohot akela mehsoos karti thi isliye kisi aur par emotionally depending nahi rehna chahiye jo ye bat smjhenge wahi life me kuch behtar bnke ayenge 🙏
Kisi se pyar karna, uske baad breakup hona,ye life nhi life ka ek phase h, ise par Karo, aage isse bhi khubsurat jindagi apka wait kar rhi h, best of luck 🤞
bhaiya me abhi use bhot miss kr rha hu pr muje mere shyam ji pr bharosa hai vo muje sikha rhe hai thanks for the video aapki sari bate mere sath haqiqat me ho rhi h
Bilkul sachai h bhai.sabse bdi baat ye h ki usko stock krna bnd kro social media se .... dhire dhire sb thik ho jayega..waat ko waat do waqt ke sath sb thik ho jayega 😔
Thnku so much I really need this 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much sir❤️ this was all i needed..ur lines and words helped me.a lot ..as a overthinker my mind was so messed up but by listening to uhh it get clam... thanku sir
Kya kisi ke sath hote hue dittach nii hua ja sakta vo mujhe apna bhi nii rhe thukra bhi nii rhe what am I suppose to do
@@tamannaYadav__can u connect with me
Bahot badhiya bataya ye jarur kam krega thanks lots itna accha batane ke liye 👌👌👍
Mai 2 sal se realisation mai hu ek bnde ke sath & usne aacnk mujhe ignore krna start krdya mujhe smjh nhi aarha tha kue lekin apko sunke avi smjh aarha hai ki wo kue change hogya kue ignore kr rha hai & yeavi smjh aaya ki avi mujhe khudko payr krna cahiye apni family ko time dena cahiye apni goals pe focus krna cahiye & the best line is "wakt ko thoda wakt do "thankyou so much bhaiya 😊apne meri aadhi problems solve krdya thanks a lot dill se😊❤
Really true ❤❤
Q ignore krta tha
@@shreyasrivastava5378dusra mil gaya isliye meri ne bhi isliye hi ignore karna start kar diya 😅
Hi
I have one bad habit last 10 years but can't leave this things 😢😢😢😢😢😢😮
Seriously sir ap hmesha hmari situation k according videos hme dete h thank you so much sir 🙏🙏
It's my pleasure
Kisi ko cheat mila?
Toh suno-
Mera bhi hua tha 6 mahine phle main rota tha din raat lekin ek bat phir mujhe mehsoos hui most imporatant-
Jis insaan ne tumhare sath itna bura kiya woh tumko chahiye hi kyu?
Bhai meko woh sada hua insaaan wapas mile kbhi na lu..
Aur jisne mko cheat kiya woh wapas ayi maine laat mardi 😂😂😂😂
Bahi lekin me kya karu vo insaan sada hua nahi tha bas thoda manipulate karte the ham ek dusre ko.. otherwise vo bhi kind tha me bhi kind thi uska intention mostly like attension lena or etc tha or Mera intention use forever keeping ka tha fir bhi mene use forever banane ki koshish ki thi by being over kind and hostility care emotional bcs me ab ye sab end karke usko khush rakhna chahti thi hamesha he was loving me but eventually he left for very practical reasons or hamara koi contact bhi nahi hai + uska koi partner hai jisse vo bahut attached h but somehow me kuchh dinke liye khas ban gayi thi fir vo chala gaya vo chata tha rukna but vo kar bhi kya sakta tha mene uska wait Kiya Ane ka but ab kuchh nahi ho sakta sab bigad gya bigada hua tha pehle se hi.. use pata tha vo chala gaya or dukh is baat ka hai vo mera kuchh lagta bhi nahi tha na ho hamara contact tha bas kuchh emotions the ek dusre ke liye
U r godfather by making such videos, we really need such videos, thank you❤ so much... Sir lekin kaunsa lesson? Kya bharosa krna glt hai, please🙏 make video on lesson, kya hum ne cheat nhi kiya vo glt hai? Honest rhna glt hai? Please lesson pr video bnao, ki hum ko lesson kya mila, ? 7 years of married life broke because he cheated me, another girl came into his life
Respected sir ji u r a very special person for me q I don't know.but mai real me aapki awaaz ki fan hu.thank u meri life me aane ke liye.h ki mujhe relationship mein koi problem nahi hai per hum online jude hai.thanks.
Absolutely right,👍🏻
From Broken Heart💔💔💔To Sukoon❤❤❤😌😌😌
Selflove, be Busy, life's truth, believe in god, spent time with family
Ye 5 bate samjh me ayi lekin me ek Student huu 2 mahine me exams hee, jab bhi padhne bethu yaa kahi par bhi concentrate karne ki Koshish karu to Uske thoughts ana chalu ho jaate he or me Suicide ke bare me sochne lagta huu...
Mujhe 1.5 years hue breakup hue par abhi uske khyal had se jyada aa rahe he q ki mene study ke lie recently Job band ki islie busy nahi hun par self control kar ke padna hai
Par agr busy na rahu to usi ke thoughts
To mee kya karu Padhai karna chod du ?
I can't find any solution, padhai bhi jaroori hai, family ko kyaa jawab duu ?
you are right thabku anubhav your voice is relaxing my mind though he is bored from me he hv choosen his priorities
Zada care zada pyarr zada izzat zada expectations sb se zada hurt krti hai
you're my real mentor❤❤
The best relief I got Listening to you,, this video after my nibour love got married to someone else,,
Aisa lagta hain ki aap ne bhi life main bohut kuch jhela hain nhi toh aise aap baat karne nhi pate. Much ❤️
Very helpful❤❤
Sir forth point bhut acchi lagi👍👍
Ur every point like self-love,busy I tried but I'm not detached that person.
Next topic plz :- jab koi app me interest ktm kr chuka h.....par bhi feelings h....then what to do to make them interested again....
I also need this advice
Ye questions ki glt hai . Ho sakta h little time k liye uska interest some develop ho Jaye pr wo long lasting nhi Hoga . Isliye aap apna interest dusri cheezo m ya khud m develop krna suru kr de . Ye option zyada sateek hai
@@apnizindgi8395 in my case....it is clearly visible that she is interested....but why she is showing that she dont...i dont know..
Same q sir and I'm confuse about him he already blocked me but I don't know why he is doing with me what I do give some advice
Mujhe lagta hai ek sahi gentle conversation ki jarurat hai jaha pura apni Maan ki baatein bolo aar yaa paar ka khel khello(clarification) whether on calls or face to face. Lekin jyaada time maat lo
Agar conversation ke Baad bhi she is not interested then move on apni Maan ki baatein bol diye yehi satisfaction hai.
The way which I found really good is.... increase your value by achieving good status in life (good job, financially independent,make yourself busy).
I have done all this things in my life...
And it will definitely work...
I can bet you
Love you anubhav Bhai and you know you have great anubhav :)
Feeling relax after watching urs vedio... Thank you so much😊 n i must work for that.. ..
Again very much thank you 😇n God bless you😇
Thank you so much sir esa hi video chahiye tha mujhe ❤
Wao very great speech thanku bro
Me ek maa hun. श्री राधे राधे 😭🙏🙏
Bahut ajj acha bat bataya aap ne iye dili karib bate he. Kiiyun? Ki job inisan eke la rhati he sab pata chalta he. Isime aap sikh di he ki bhagwaan
Yaad karna chahiye dusara ke piche job daudte ho O inisan kadar nei karta.
I'm too soft hearted person that's why people disrespect me. I'm over thinker 😭 i get depressed coz of my thinking i think too far for her. I tried self love but when someone just talk nicely or when she show lttle care i fall in love with her i becomes possive for her😭😭😭😭
Same here
@@akansha2026 hmmm it's worse pain on the earth but very few people taste such pain I feel like I'm dead from inside I'm just behave like an robot for a family I'm broken i don't have strength in my soul 😔
@@millionaire_claims waise hum mnte nhi h ki ye sabb jo hai hmri wajah se hi hua hai but sach ye hi hai humne starting se usko na khode khin chli na jaye aisi vibration dene lgte hai jiss se wo sach m chle jate hai kbhi suna hi hoga acha socho acha hoga jb day one se ye hi soch rahe h khin mjh chodke chle na jaye to ekdin uss insan k jana tay hai… ek chz aur h jo maine smjhi hai har kisiko khusi chaiye iss duniya m kiski khusi dog m h kisiko music m milti h kisiko fav food khne se milti hai kiskio person m jb hum kisiko love krte hai tb hum ye nhi notice krte ki hum apni khusi k liye usse love kr rahe hai phir wo hmari khusi bn jta hai jaise wo hmari khusi hai aise uski bhi khusi hai agr uski khusi hmri khusi se match hjye to usse hum true love k naam de dte hai aur jinki khusi hmri khusi se match na ho to hum jaise log fail hjte hai phir hum uss insan ko ptni ky ky bolne lgte hai jbki glti humri hoti hai ki humne usse apni khusi bnya ab wo jb bhi jaye hmri khusi to jygi hi … to phle ye smjhna important h ki hmri khusi kisi p depend nhi honi chaiye jb jb aisa krnge tb tb hurt hnge aur soul ki power utni hi weak hoti chli jygi apne aap ko powerful bnane k tarika h phle morning m uthte hi ek thought create kro i am peaceful happy soul god ko good morning bolo thank you kro unka jo kuch bhi diya sabb acha h nd night m sote time same kro one two week krke dekho apko changes feel hnge aur uss insan k thoughts m vibration m jitna rahoge kitna bhi tear bhalo bimar se bimar hote chle jaoge soul aur weak hoti chli jygi trust me usko yaad krne se acha wo pal yaad kro jb tum uske milne se phle khush th bs waise phle jaisa bna blki uss se bhtr aur ye hume khud krna hoga m mnti hu phle ek do din mann nhi krga mann khyga mjh usse bhulna nhi h mjh puri life use love krna h loyal rhna h but aaj nhi kr paaoge kl nhi krge ek saal baad ya do saal baad krna ye hi pdga to dear jo krna hi hai aajse unn thoughts ko fullstop lgao ki bs bhut hgya jaise hi tbought ane lge uske mind ko chnge krdo nd best of luck hum pyar dene wale person hai logon ko pyar chaiye hum dene walon m se hai giving giving only giving 😊hamesha ye smile do khudko ki m sabse acha pyara ladka hu smile kro aur maa paa k bhi dhyan rkho tumse wo hai tum unhe bhi khusii do ek din sabb acha hjyga good luck tc😊keep smiling always😊♥️
@@akansha2026worth reading 🧡
Same bro.. me too same
Very true... Khudse jyada pyar or koi nahi kr sakta.,..
Din to guzar jati hai..masala raton ka h 😢
True...
Sar aapki baten man Ko chhu jaati Hai
Kitna bhi busy rakho at the end yaad aa hi jaati hai
Aap Jo bol rahe ho mere life mein chal raha hai sir 😢 really
Thanks for this important information sir 🙂😞🤞🏻❤
Always welcome
बहुत ही मस्त वीडियो सर जी 🙏🙏🙏
Thanku for dis video.. sir. we always wasting time for searching happiness with others ..self love is always best.. thank u for the guidence..
So nice of you
Is video tak ana pdega kabhi ni sochi thi 😞
Thanks for this session❤️
You're so welcome!
Suffering painful condition
Nice 👍 advice
Relief feel, Thanks God
God bless you