What if it’s opposite I broke up with her and I been trying to get her back but she’s indifferent an says things like together or not will always be friends
I've been very respectful in the last month or so regaining my composure and being laid back. My ex and I broke up in December and we've been up and down since. But about 2 months ago I got my act together and she began to call / text more and even begun to make efforts to see me. I told her that pretty soon we're going to have to spend more time together to see if this can work and to see my progress. She initially got angry saying that she doesn't wanna feel rushed. I let her vent and didn't feed into the trap to pull me out of character. The next day she invited me over to her house to grill with her and the kids. Had a good time and I didn't do too much to ruin anything. We were interacting with the new neighbors that moved into the complex and she introduced me as her BF 🥴 I didn't say anything. We continued have a good time and I said I was leaving. She initially was like ok. 5 minutes into my drive home she called me and asked me to spend the night and I didn't want too. So I made up an excuse saying it's okay maybe another time and etc. She said " ok , maybe this weekend" I now feel like I have to get used to her presence again. I'm grateful for things trending upwards. Now I feel like I have more leverage and self control. Patience is key.
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman . I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back.
Yeah, it's become better each time coach says "they think they feel good making right decision leaving you), they anticipate something incredible ahead"😂
If my gut is telling me they are the one for me? She introduced me to christ even.. but was on and off during the 3 years we had mainly because i had done drugs before and some time into the relationship but stopped eventuually and got a job and are now taking my drivinglicens. was doing drugs and was atheist with no job before her.. she broke up but called 4 days after and said "sorry" that was a month ago but has kept calling atleast 2 Times per week until she said "she wants me the best but has No attraction and wants to be friends" but i told her to tell me if shr changes her mind and wants to go on a date and I wish her the best until then, then nothing for one week.. did i do the right thing
I did no contact with my ex (who I also work with). However, after a month of doing it I broke no contact since it was getting really awkward at work. After breaking the silence, she thought we were "friends", and could talk to me as "friends." Sending random text messages, and flirt with me at work. We even said that we missed each other. After a week of getting, to my eyes "signs", i asked her out for coffee. Coffee date turned out to be really awkward, so it confirmed to me that she isnt trying to get back. Later that night i had to tell her that i felt that she has been giving me mixed signals ever since i started talking to her. She said it was never her intentions. Lesson: walk away and never look back
I've been in no contact for almost 2 months and i am feeling great. Hell yeah! (*cries inside*) TBH it works, i am feeling good, there is a thin line between working on yourself FOR YOURSELF and "Working on yourself" FOR YOUR EX (when she comes back). And the second one will never work. Thanks coach
Haha thank goodness second video of the day from a coach relating to me. My ex just text me on iMessage two days ago and Snapchat today I had to restart no contact for the second time not long ago. Three weeks strong without responding. I’m healing and feeling so much better along the way. I wish everyone best of luck !❤ God has your back
Just wanted to say how much I appreciate you coach. Went back and listened to the last 20 livestreams and a bunch of your recent videos. Helps me a ton and I’m really enjoying the psychology aspect. You’ll be at 100k subs in no time
Dear Coach Blac, Thank you for helping me maintain my dignity in no contact, but it's been so long (2 months) that she reached out and I was completely over her. She no longer occupies time or space in my mind. Cheers!
I didn't really full advise but I gave my ex a good platform to come back to me and I ended all our problems that are stuck .. and I showed her the mercy of Allah.
Just did some research on my ex's Twitter for her only fans. Just realized she was cheating on me since last October with the person she left me for. She had the audacity to blame me for the relationship failing but she cheated. I'm convinced she's a narcissist because she's going around telling everybody untrue things about me. Some of them are very very nasty and I could possibly sue her for it. She's telling everybody. I'm a narcissist. She's telling everybody I'm a rapist. She's telling everybody. I'm abusive physically and emotionally. I'm just done. I'm dating other women. I'm looking out for the red flags of narcissism and I'm living my life. I'm so ashamed I gave a year and a half of my life to that woman.
@jeronchris my ex cheated on the new person and got evicted. She also got a psychology child care coordinator job. I reported her sex work history to her employer and she got fired. I also have been with my new girlfriend for about a year. I started dating her a week after I made this post. I live with her. She's in bed next to me right now. Life is amazing. The best advice I have for you is to properly investigate the women you date. See how they react when you say no and set boundaries. If they throw a temper tantrum then that is your sign to sleep with them and ghost them. A good woman is self aware, respects your boundaries & wants to start a family.
This message was so relevant for what’s going on. This man been calling/ FaceTiming my phone basically all week. Tho it was great to hear from him , i bluffed him with a “I wanna see you text”… of course no response. Super over the charade !
My ex has reached out wanting a physical relationship. I said....Ummmm NO. That being said, i continued to say, I'm open to talking but thats it. He joked and said he wanted to setup an appointment to talk...possibly naked. I replied your relentless, give me a break. 2 weeks later He reached out again and said Hi, what are you doing? I never saw the text till late at night and responded with I'm going to bed. He read it the next day and didn't reply. I've made it 💯% clear, that i want and always will want a normal committed relationship ( which we had 10 months ago) I will never bend for him as Im worth more! If he ever wants to try to talk im open....until then he can continue to stalk me on my dating profile...because thats all hes entitled to😊
He was whatsapp calling me n see me on a next call n then he called me straight arguing with me about me being on call these exes are crazy when u stop chasing and living your best life n no longer interesting in them they crawling back
I fell for the silly games and won silly prizes. I got cursed out and blocked on everything after questioning his breadcrumbs every 2 day after 2 months of going along and being cordial not calling it out. I was damned either way may as well have called it out from the jump smh
over 3 years a mortage proposal and 3 fur babies together she leaves me once emotionally she couldnt do it i let her come back a month or two together she decides to leave me again we still talked for a little while then she got up in her feelings and got mad at me and blocked me from every social media and a phone as well now when i miss her and my fur babies shes nowhere to be found i tried to call and leave her gifts and money and food still nothing she threatens me to police when she unblocked me and texted me this so from now on i will just let her go to do what she wants later in life if shes ready to talk to me i will allow it still to be a nice guy in the end but for now i am just me ..
I’m done for good with my ex. We broke up mid April and he’s been just a FB friend, responding/ reacting on my posts but radio silence from texting me except on Mother’s Day. He knew I was having surgery but didn’t bother to reach out at all. I’ve had two other exes reach out to me to offer any help or assistance I need. He can kiss my ass. I’m disgusted that he’s still ignoring me. I was hurt at first, now I’m angry. This is the grieving process. Soon I won’t even think about him. He made it so I never want him back.
Hi coach I went throught this with my ex she contacted me about her cat and showing me her cat and I went along with it she has reached out to me about my story on snap and I didn't respond but I ended up texting her and she added me back but now i feel like all I did was help her get over me and now she can put all her attention on her new boyfriend and I'm over here all hurt and upset again
Im I’m no contact now and it is so hard because we have a daughter together and im currently 18wks pregnant, but im actually doing very well with no contact and my feelings
Been in no contact for 5 months. Last month she unblocked me on IG but then blocked me a week later. Then this week she unblocked me on Twitter. Idk what it means but I know she’s just going to block me again. I’m not going to do a thing
Me in may ex broke 9 days ago, then at 10 or 11 at night I get a message from cash app that he was asking for money back he gave to me. So yes I broke no contact and said they were gifts and I declined the cash app.
My ex of about 3 weeks finds a reason to text me every few days. It's been mostly logistics (we have a house & a dog), but then last week he was texting me pictures of our dog (I have her) & pictures from our time together. He even said how sad he was looking at old photos of us. I only responded with 1 liners, mostly indifferent. When we broke up, we both said that there was a possibility of us getting back together. We're in different states now, taking time & space apart. Should I stay the course of no contact & indifferent 1-liner replies? Great video by the way! I've been loving your content, super helpful during this time ❤
My pregnant ex left me Dec 28th 2022 she slept with a fwb back in February and halfway through May while 35 weeks prego too. This fwb is somebody she was fwb years before we met and she slept with him a month before we met in person the first time because we argued and i made her think i was leaving at the time. She basically said everything you said when she left me she said she never wants to be with me again she hates me she blocked me on everything ignored me etc eventually she gave me updates about our son going through all this I’m leaving to go back to her state to be there for the birth of my son this Tuesday . I went into no contact 2 weeks ago after getting tired of trying to work through things to the point where the things she said to me have made me practically hate her because she has hurt me so bad since the breakup i haven’t slept with anybody or did anything as well as her saying she didn’t care what i did through all that. She recently reached out to me May 31st 9AM asked me for money i said i didn’t have it. (I’ve sent her plenty for her and my son I’m fed up so i quit doing it.) then at 1PM she said “wyd” My phone was dead i knew she messaged before i died i didn’t have my charger so i let it go. After getting home 6PM i responded with “Getting my car tags.” because getting my life back together and getting us a car was my goal. Then a nice apartment or house is my next goal currently. She randomly messaged me back at 10PM finally saying “just wanted to talk about sex” I responded 2 hours later 12:30am and said “oh, yeah what’s up? Funny because I am watching big mouth” she said she was sleepy so she went to bed. June 2nd a day and a half later she asked me for 10$ I sent it. She explained the update for our son the doctors etc then said “And I was sleepy I was up yesterday since 8 u responded extra late I was horny and by time u responded I was already in and out of sleep” then she followed it with “But anyways I just wanted u to describe all the times we had sex u remember in detail Or how u remember it.” I sent her a book of a text explaining what I remember about our sex like in deep detail. It took her another day and a half before she said she went back and read then she said “that’s not what I meant I meant on a specific day that you remember like” (she gave two days we had sex as examples.) so I retyped it for the specific days I liked the convo went back to normal. After she said she hurt her hip I listened to her rant I have normal but not too push over style responses asked if she was okay left it at that she said she watched a movie and fell asleep I don’t say anything to her I always wait for her to reach out since no contact before I respond I take my time give it a few then think and responded so I don’t look desperate I sent first an hour ago and asked if she managed to sleep well she hasn’t looked or responded but she’s on and off fb messenger late at night at this time. I didn’t follow it up because I got no look or response. I assume she will say something 6 to 8 hours or so from now. I have no family no home just my 2002 Honda I just bought it’s messed up transmission is slipping I’m praying I can make it in time to see the birth of my son and I pray we work things out but I’ve hurt myself enough & I can’t tell how she feels and I only think she reaches out because our son even tho we made small talk over the last few days. I need an expert opinion and advice asap will be lacking updates
Coach, I've been in NO CONTACT for one month, he liked my story after 2 weeks on NC, then these last few days (it's already been a month now), he added a sad song on his story, I didn't react, he added me on his close friend list (he never really used stories even when we were together!!), so I added him days later on my close friend story (I know, I was wrong for this!!!), he only opened it, two days later after this he added again something on his close friend list, I won't do anything and I will stay radio silence. Do you think he is gonna reach out soon? He is also an avoidant!
Hi coach I got played by my ex and now she hasn't contacted me in a couple days so I think that I truly lost my ex for good #1 she has a new boyfriend #2 she simply just asked if I was doing okay or if I was good #3 she unadded me and added me back and now she unadded me again so I think she was using these tactics to use me as a place holder and now she feels like she is fine and good to contuine her life without me so i know I definitely lost her.
@pridez4925 Thank you for asking she has reached out to me a couple of times since then but I can tell that she is happy and content in her new relationship so I'm moving on in my life I haven't found my person yet but I know they will come along sometime but yeah her contact to me is to see if I'm doing okay but nothing more and it isn't consistent it's here and there yah know. So yeah thats the update I hope you have a wonderful day.
I'm in that situation now....after 4 months not chatting and is staying1 street from my place ,, last month we tried to chat but still it ddnt work bkus I was the one was only texting he was not interested at all so lastweek still he calls I told myself that let me hear what he gonna say ...he told me he just want us to be friends so I rejected it as already we were in a separation we sleep I was thinking really his bac only to find his not there....the next morning he was someone else like he dnt know me,, I told myself to cut the cord and move on I blocked him no communication Im walking distance from him actually I'm done....he undervalued me in many ways, his dog was better than me I was just a devil in his eyes. .....I feel hurt I gave him soooo many chances he abuse them telling himself there's no day I will live him for good , is like a dream now I hate him I will teach him a lesson I will never take him bac.
My kids father keep blowing me up after he got caught up saying he wanted his fam well come to find out he had a gf and another situation to Make things worse I’m currently pregnant wit another child by him . When he got caught up I could tell she didn’t know I was currently pregnant since I would’ve had to have gotten pregnant since they’ve been together. Which to me was her fault in 1st place cause when she decided to get with him she knew I was pregnant with our other child .. now that I’ve been ignoring him it’s glad to take power back and see him as being the one that’s hurting
The dog 🐶 misses me? How about a meeting at a dog park with the dog 🐶? It’s a game, Coach Blac, BUT it’s a poor excuse to meet-up with the ex. If the ex has the maturity and says, I want you in my life, let’s take it slow, and my dogs would love to meet you at a local dog park.
Broke up w me after 15 yr - 2 kids and we own a home together. It’s been 1 week, I have been workin on my self a lot - gym, diet etc - she has notice the change and recognize it but she won’t open up or entertain getting back. Limited contact is real hard. Should I kick her out and break up the family ???
I've become distance with my ex sometimes he's blowing up my phone and I don't answer him unless I feel to now he video call me telling me he wants us to go out together n I'm to give him a date when I could I tell him I'll let him know plz guide me
What if my ex points out that I seem to have changed for the better and am not like how I was when the breakup happened, they are reminiscing about the good times and they know I have a girlfriend without me telling them? They text me but do not make plans or ask to talk to reconcile. She chose to leave but also made mistakes that led to the breakup.
West would be good date ideas to do if it ever happens. Like what to avoid and what to say or do to avoid triggers for them or yourself and not trying to jump back into how things were but having something new and better than it was before with consistency? I'm no where near there I think but just in case? Could be a good video topic.
I did clearly tell him he either has to let me move on or he is willing to take the next step but he is still constantly texting how r u what r I doing and all that. I am so confused and also getting angry. So what am I supposed to do ??? Help !?
You set the boundaries so you have to implement those boundaries. it looks like he’s just staying in touch to make sure that he still has access to you when he is ready. You have choices though. You can choose to respond to the breadcrumbs or you can choose to ignore them because you set that boundary. When You stick to the boundaries you set, you will gain more respect from him
What if its a child involved so wen he talks to the baby it's ok but wen I ask him to watch the baby because I have stuff to do hell say u just making this up all smart why I don't feed into it
What if I broke up with him a week ago and he came back to me after 5 days of no contact to tell me he got the job that we both been praying for him to get and that I am a blessing, he loves me and wishes me the best. I told him I was happy for him and wished him the best as well. After that, he proceeded to send me funny reels on fb, something he always did while we were together. I have no clue what if he is trying to get back with me or not. Thoughts?
This is exactly an X who said we have alot of history together he said I’m not just a nobody to him he says he’s not with anyone I don’t care he wanted to meet up and talk as we have a situation that we need to talk due to a house we own I’ve emotionally checked out so I can be mature talk about it business only. He even drove past the house one time he told me which I was shocked about He also feels easy talking to me all of a sudden but I let him get all of his stuff of his chest even though i made it clear I’m not that person for him to talk to me anymore he’s still worried about me living on my own blah blah but he can see I’m doing great on my own he’s trying to come back but I’m not entertaining that he’s so broken I said to him your words are meaningless to me unless they are shown through your actions he never cheated was a good guy to me he never made me a priority in his life was too busy but now he wants to come back but I won’t have it I’m done I said I can’t stop how you feel about me whatever that is but we are not friends you left me he thanked me for the talk I said don’t make it a habit he goes oh why not a lot of flirting words I was oml you haven’t changed one bit. I’m praying to God to help me understand remove him from popping up in my life
That happened to me a few times the first time we got back together stronger than before second time after our last break up we seemed good again and strong lasted two days than she broke up with me gain it’s been 50 days
What if your partner went directly back to his girlfriend before me the same day we broke up? A year later he is still with her but wants to see me on the side.
I made this mistake and we started hanging out again. As she reached out to me wanting to hangout. We chilled at my place and when she went to sleep something whispered in my ear said s you never went through her phone. I went through it finding out she was going on dates with people while we were together. And even more after. She had wanted me to promise not to let her back in my life than she came back the same day after reading journal I wrote talking the time we first meet till now saying I want to be with you I love you. She didn’t know I knew what she’s done. Overall I went through it again and this time she caught me and got mad left my place blocked me on everything.
Why does my ex keep contacting me and sending photos of her with other men saying bet your not as happy as me. I wished them the best in new relationship and said great to see it all worled out for you. Can you help me understand what this behaviour means. She dumped me by the way and i was genuine and kind plus being respectful how she feels so accepted it but her behaviour is really wierd almost like ahes lost the plot
Me and my ex been in no contact exactly two months this am I had to send her a invoice from this company did it via email she replied back via email thanks and asked how I was my response was everything is good thanks for asking be well was that bad did I sound desparate please let me know
Hi dear coach, I would appreciate your advice please, I'm on time regardless now, do you think I should block my ex on Tinder, or rather allow him to view my profile? Thanks for the response
Another time, thel last thing you said,...agree on datem,,,,must bring 1oo%. HER. I WAS JUST Thinking to aim for a call. With meet up as gaol..or maybe the goal hasn't been made clear. Like I c a n mk all sorts of good plans but timing, and where she's at...then just , just what if The G to da O 2daD has a whole different thing in mind.
And what if you reached the goal. There was a date (good time spent together) with a "promise" from his side to meet again...but there is silence since 12days (only one like of my first post on fb since break up month ago) and today a random picture sent by him which shows he was thinking about me as the situation on the picture is related to our relationship (we were joking about that together) I am in NC but I have impression the date didn't change a lot.
They followed me on IG after 4months no contact should I follow back or this maybe them trying to play games I already declined friendship after break up
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman . I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back.
I've been in stratetic contact for 5 weeks now. My ex. Texted me today with a question about my sons tablet. She sent me a picture of the screen, that stated it needed to be rebooted (really obvious) but she still choose to ask me about, what she should do to make it work. Would this be a "silly game" she's trying?
about a week ago at a baby shower I seen my ex for the first time since she broke up with me 3 months ago. When she seen me her heart sank and she started overly exaggerating how she talks and what she was doing. When she’d walks by me she’d tense up and looks like she wants to say something. At the end of the baby shower she made a point to walk by asked how I was doing. I texted her the next day and had a short conversation. Then didn’t talk for a couple days til I sent her a meme two days ago then she added me on IG. Now I’m confused and don’t know what I should do If I should do anything. What do you guys think?
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What if it’s opposite I broke up with her and I been trying to get her back but she’s indifferent an says things like together or not will always be friends
I've been very respectful in the last month or so regaining my composure and being laid back. My ex and I broke up in December and we've been up and down since. But about 2 months ago I got my act together and she began to call / text more and even begun to make efforts to see me. I told her that pretty soon we're going to have to spend more time together to see if this can work and to see my progress. She initially got angry saying that she doesn't wanna feel rushed. I let her vent and didn't feed into the trap to pull me out of character. The next day she invited me over to her house to grill with her and the kids. Had a good time and I didn't do too much to ruin anything. We were interacting with the new neighbors that moved into the complex and she introduced me as her BF 🥴 I didn't say anything. We continued have a good time and I said I was leaving. She initially was like ok. 5 minutes into my drive home she called me and asked me to spend the night and I didn't want too. So I made up an excuse saying it's okay maybe another time and etc. She said " ok , maybe this weekend" I now feel like I have to get used to her presence again. I'm grateful for things trending upwards. Now I feel like I have more leverage and self control. Patience is key.
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I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman . I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back.
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3 months in no contact, still healing process. I do feel better by listening to the videos it's help me to move on......💯
Yeah, it's become better each time coach says "they think they feel good making right decision leaving you), they anticipate something incredible ahead"😂
I don’t want my ex back, they are an ex for a reason until God tells you otherwise God is your guide at all times
If my gut is telling me they are the one for me? She introduced me to christ even.. but was on and off during the 3 years we had mainly because i had done drugs before and some time into the relationship but stopped eventuually and got a job and are now taking my drivinglicens. was doing drugs and was atheist with no job before her.. she broke up but called 4 days after and said "sorry" that was a month ago but has kept calling atleast 2 Times per week until she said "she wants me the best but has No attraction and wants to be friends" but i told her to tell me if shr changes her mind and wants to go on a date and I wish her the best until then, then nothing for one week.. did i do the right thing
I did no contact with my ex (who I also work with). However, after a month of doing it I broke no contact since it was getting really awkward at work. After breaking the silence, she thought we were "friends", and could talk to me as "friends." Sending random text messages, and flirt with me at work. We even said that we missed each other. After a week of getting, to my eyes "signs", i asked her out for coffee. Coffee date turned out to be really awkward, so it confirmed to me that she isnt trying to get back. Later that night i had to tell her that i felt that she has been giving me mixed signals ever since i started talking to her. She said it was never her intentions.
Lesson: walk away and never look back
I've been in no contact for almost 2 months and i am feeling great. Hell yeah! (*cries inside*)
TBH it works, i am feeling good, there is a thin line between working on yourself FOR YOURSELF and "Working on yourself" FOR YOUR EX (when she comes back). And the second one will never work.
Thanks coach
2 sides of the same coin
@@charlesmoneyham2873 but… You know… One side is brighter haha
Haha thank goodness second video of the day from a coach relating to me. My ex just text me on iMessage two days ago and Snapchat today I had to restart no contact for the second time not long ago. Three weeks strong without responding. I’m healing and feeling so much better along the way. I wish everyone best of luck !❤ God has your back
You’re right.. we chatted all day yesterday talked about seeing each other.. but yet still seeing the same chick.. I will go back into NC
Just wanted to say how much I appreciate you coach. Went back and listened to the last 20 livestreams and a bunch of your recent videos. Helps me a ton and I’m really enjoying the psychology aspect. You’ll be at 100k subs in no time
Dear Coach Blac,
Thank you for helping me maintain my dignity in no contact, but it's been so long (2 months) that she reached out and I was completely over her. She no longer occupies time or space in my mind. Cheers!
Please do a video about if yo broke up with them and you really want them them back, however, you want them to understand you mean business.
I didn't really full advise but I gave my ex a good platform to come back to me and I ended all our problems that are stuck .. and I showed her the mercy of Allah.
Just did some research on my ex's Twitter for her only fans. Just realized she was cheating on me since last October with the person she left me for. She had the audacity to blame me for the relationship failing but she cheated. I'm convinced she's a narcissist because she's going around telling everybody untrue things about me. Some of them are very very nasty and I could possibly sue her for it. She's telling everybody. I'm a narcissist. She's telling everybody I'm a rapist. She's telling everybody. I'm abusive physically and emotionally. I'm just done.
I'm dating other women. I'm looking out for the red flags of narcissism and I'm living my life. I'm so ashamed I gave a year and a half of my life to that woman.
@jeronchris my ex cheated on the new person and got evicted. She also got a psychology child care coordinator job. I reported her sex work history to her employer and she got fired. I also have been with my new girlfriend for about a year. I started dating her a week after I made this post.
I live with her. She's in bed next to me right now. Life is amazing. The best advice I have for you is to properly investigate the women you date. See how they react when you say no and set boundaries. If they throw a temper tantrum then that is your sign to sleep with them and ghost them. A good woman is self aware, respects your boundaries & wants to start a family.
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This message was so relevant for what’s going on. This man been calling/ FaceTiming my phone basically all week. Tho it was great to hear from him , i bluffed him with a “I wanna see you text”… of course no response. Super over the charade !
My ex has reached out wanting a physical relationship. I said....Ummmm NO. That being said, i continued to say, I'm open to talking but thats it. He joked and said he wanted to setup an appointment to talk...possibly naked. I replied your relentless, give me a break. 2 weeks later He reached out again and said Hi, what are you doing? I never saw the text till late at night and responded with I'm going to bed. He read it the next day and didn't reply. I've made it 💯% clear, that i want and always will want a normal committed relationship ( which we had 10 months ago) I will never bend for him as Im worth more! If he ever wants to try to talk im open....until then he can continue to stalk me on my dating profile...because thats all hes entitled to😊
He was whatsapp calling me n see me on a next call n then he called me straight arguing with me about me being on call these exes are crazy when u stop chasing and living your best life n no longer interesting in them they crawling back
I fell for the silly games and won silly prizes. I got cursed out and blocked on everything after questioning his breadcrumbs every 2 day after 2 months of going along and being cordial not calling it out. I was damned either way may as well have called it out from the jump smh
over 3 years a mortage proposal and 3 fur babies together she leaves me once emotionally she couldnt do it i let her come back a month or two together she decides to leave me again we still talked for a little while then she got up in her feelings and got mad at me and blocked me from every social media and a phone as well
now when i miss her and my fur babies shes nowhere to be found i tried to call and leave her gifts and money and food still nothing she threatens me to police when she unblocked me and texted me this so from now on i will just let her go to do what she wants later in life if shes ready to talk to me i will allow it still to be a nice guy in the end but for now i am just me ..
2month 5 days ist no cont rule und I Not need i am greit full my Self 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 thanks 🙏
I’m done for good with my ex. We broke up mid April and he’s been just a FB friend, responding/ reacting on my posts but radio silence from texting me except on Mother’s Day. He knew I was having surgery but didn’t bother to reach out at all. I’ve had two other exes reach out to me to offer any help or assistance I need. He can kiss my ass. I’m disgusted that he’s still ignoring me. I was hurt at first, now I’m angry. This is the grieving process. Soon I won’t even think about him. He made it so I never want him back.
Hi coach I went throught this with my ex she contacted me about her cat and showing me her cat and I went along with it she has reached out to me about my story on snap and I didn't respond but I ended up texting her and she added me back but now i feel like all I did was help her get over me and now she can put all her attention on her new boyfriend and I'm over here all hurt and upset again
THANKS COACH BLAC, on Polarity emphasis ❤
Im I’m no contact now and it is so hard because we have a daughter together and im currently 18wks pregnant, but im actually doing very well with no contact and my feelings
Been in no contact for 5 months. Last month she unblocked me on IG but then blocked me a week later. Then this week she unblocked me on Twitter. Idk what it means but I know she’s just going to block me again. I’m not going to do a thing
Thanks for the great advice coach Black
What do u do when they text u but don't say anything about fixing the problem. Or don't want to spend time with u.
Me in may ex broke 9 days ago, then at 10 or 11 at night I get a message from cash app that he was asking for money back he gave to me. So yes I broke no contact and said they were gifts and I declined the cash app.
My ex of about 3 weeks finds a reason to text me every few days. It's been mostly logistics (we have a house & a dog), but then last week he was texting me pictures of our dog (I have her) & pictures from our time together. He even said how sad he was looking at old photos of us. I only responded with 1 liners, mostly indifferent. When we broke up, we both said that there was a possibility of us getting back together. We're in different states now, taking time & space apart. Should I stay the course of no contact & indifferent 1-liner replies?
Great video by the way! I've been loving your content, super helpful during this time ❤
What happened? Going through this same situation but she lives 10 mins away.
My pregnant ex left me Dec 28th 2022 she slept with a fwb back in February and halfway through May while 35 weeks prego too. This fwb is somebody she was fwb years before we met and she slept with him a month before we met in person the first time because we argued and i made her think i was leaving at the time. She basically said everything you said when she left me she said she never wants to be with me again she hates me she blocked me on everything ignored me etc eventually she gave me updates about our son going through all this I’m leaving to go back to her state to be there for the birth of my son this Tuesday . I went into no contact 2 weeks ago after getting tired of trying to work through things to the point where the things she said to me have made me practically hate her because she has hurt me so bad since the breakup i haven’t slept with anybody or did anything as well as her saying she didn’t care what i did through all that. She recently reached out to me May 31st 9AM asked me for money i said i didn’t have it. (I’ve sent her plenty for her and my son I’m fed up so i quit doing it.) then at 1PM she said “wyd” My phone was dead i knew she messaged before i died i didn’t have my charger so i let it go. After getting home 6PM i responded with “Getting my car tags.” because getting my life back together and getting us a car was my goal. Then a nice apartment or house is my next goal currently. She randomly messaged me back at 10PM finally saying “just wanted to talk about sex” I responded 2 hours later 12:30am and said “oh, yeah what’s up? Funny because I am watching big mouth” she said she was sleepy so she went to bed. June 2nd a day and a half later she asked me for 10$ I sent it. She explained the update for our son the doctors etc then said “And I was sleepy I was up yesterday since 8 u responded extra late I was horny and by time u responded I was already in and out of sleep” then she followed it with “But anyways I just wanted u to describe all the times we had sex u remember in detail
Or how u remember it.” I sent her a book of a text explaining what I remember about our sex like in deep detail. It took her another day and a half before she said she went back and read then she said “that’s not what I meant I meant on a specific day that you remember like” (she gave two days we had sex as examples.) so I retyped it for the specific days I liked the convo went back to normal. After she said she hurt her hip I listened to her rant I have normal but not too push over style responses asked if she was okay left it at that she said she watched a movie and fell asleep I don’t say anything to her I always wait for her to reach out since no contact before I respond I take my time give it a few then think and responded so I don’t look desperate I sent first an hour ago and asked if she managed to sleep well she hasn’t looked or responded but she’s on and off fb messenger late at night at this time. I didn’t follow it up because I got no look or response. I assume she will say something 6 to 8 hours or so from now. I have no family no home just my 2002 Honda I just bought it’s messed up transmission is slipping I’m praying I can make it in time to see the birth of my son and I pray we work things out but I’ve hurt myself enough & I can’t tell how she feels and I only think she reaches out because our son even tho we made small talk over the last few days. I need an expert opinion and advice asap will be lacking updates
Coach, I've been in NO CONTACT for one month, he liked my story after 2 weeks on NC, then these last few days (it's already been a month now), he added a sad song on his story, I didn't react, he added me on his close friend list (he never really used stories even when we were together!!), so I added him days later on my close friend story (I know, I was wrong for this!!!), he only opened it, two days later after this he added again something on his close friend list, I won't do anything and I will stay radio silence. Do you think he is gonna reach out soon? He is also an avoidant!
What if you just want to be in a friends with benefits relationship with your ex?
Hi coach I got played by my ex and now she hasn't contacted me in a couple days so I think that I truly lost my ex for good #1 she has a new boyfriend #2 she simply just asked if I was doing okay or if I was good #3 she unadded me and added me back and now she unadded me again so I think she was using these tactics to use me as a place holder and now she feels like she is fine and good to contuine her life without me so i know I definitely lost her.
Any updates
@pridez4925 Thank you for asking she has reached out to me a couple of times since then but I can tell that she is happy and content in her new relationship so I'm moving on in my life I haven't found my person yet but I know they will come along sometime but yeah her contact to me is to see if I'm doing okay but nothing more and it isn't consistent it's here and there yah know. So yeah thats the update I hope you have a wonderful day.
They want u to be friends and not for u to move on
Accurate!!!! Goin through this now!!!
Is there anyone in comment section who would to share a feedback if they have done 1 on 1 consulting with couch??
What about the call when they let the phone ring a couple of times an hang up
I'm in that situation now....after 4 months not chatting and is staying1 street from my place ,, last month we tried to chat but still it ddnt work bkus I was the one was only texting he was not interested at all so lastweek still he calls I told myself that let me hear what he gonna say ...he told me he just want us to be friends so I rejected it as already we were in a separation we sleep I was thinking really his bac only to find his not there....the next morning he was someone else like he dnt know me,, I told myself to cut the cord and move on I blocked him no communication Im walking distance from him actually I'm done....he undervalued me in many ways, his dog was better than me I was just a devil in his eyes. .....I feel hurt I gave him soooo many chances he abuse them telling himself there's no day I will live him for good , is like a dream now I hate him I will teach him a lesson I will never take him bac.
Love your videos
My kids father keep blowing me up after he got caught up saying he wanted his fam well come to find out he had a gf and another situation to Make things worse I’m currently pregnant wit another child by him . When he got caught up I could tell she didn’t know I was currently pregnant since I would’ve had to have gotten pregnant since they’ve been together. Which to me was her fault in 1st place cause when she decided to get with him she knew I was pregnant with our other child .. now that I’ve been ignoring him it’s glad to take power back and see him as being the one that’s hurting
The dog 🐶 misses me? How about a meeting at a dog park with the dog 🐶? It’s a game, Coach Blac, BUT it’s a poor excuse to meet-up with the ex. If the ex has the maturity and says, I want you in my life, let’s take it slow, and my dogs would love to meet you at a local dog park.
Thank you so much. Your video as been so helpful to me
After all of this do you really want this person anymore? This sort of kills the attraction for me... the relationship will never be the same.
Broke up w me after 15 yr - 2 kids and we own a home together. It’s been 1 week, I have been workin on my self a lot - gym, diet etc - she has notice the change and recognize it but she won’t open up or entertain getting back. Limited contact is real hard. Should I kick her out and break up the family ???
I've become distance with my ex sometimes he's blowing up my phone and I don't answer him unless I feel to now he video call me telling me he wants us to go out together n I'm to give him a date when I could I tell him I'll let him know plz guide me
What if my ex points out that I seem to have changed for the better and am not like how I was when the breakup happened, they are reminiscing about the good times and they know I have a girlfriend without me telling them? They text me but do not make plans or ask to talk to reconcile. She chose to leave but also made mistakes that led to the breakup.
Kinda hard to not socialize with the ex if you have kids with them :/
What if he ask to come over my house and " talk"...?
@blacademic what do you do if you fell for this
West would be good date ideas to do if it ever happens. Like what to avoid and what to say or do to avoid triggers for them or yourself and not trying to jump back into how things were but having something new and better than it was before with consistency? I'm no where near there I think but just in case? Could be a good video topic.
I did clearly tell him he either has to let me move on or he is willing to take the next step but he is still constantly texting how r u what r I doing and all that. I am so confused and also getting angry. So what am I supposed to do ??? Help !?
You set the boundaries so you have to implement those boundaries. it looks like he’s just staying in touch to make sure that he still has access to you when he is ready. You have choices though. You can choose to respond to the breadcrumbs or you can choose to ignore them because you set that boundary. When You stick to the boundaries you set, you will gain more respect from him
What if its a child involved so wen he talks to the baby it's ok but wen I ask him to watch the baby because I have stuff to do hell say u just making this up all smart why I don't feed into it
The third video ever done on this channel deals with that topic specifically
We did this five months ago now she well not even talking talking to me .blocked every were and she has not responded to anything.
Also it's hard to do no contact if kids are involved
Thanks bro...!!!
What if I broke up with him a week ago and he came back to me after 5 days of no contact to tell me he got the job that we both been praying for him to get and that I am a blessing, he loves me and wishes me the best. I told him I was happy for him and wished him the best as well. After that, he proceeded to send me funny reels on fb, something he always did while we were together. I have no clue what if he is trying to get back with me or not. Thoughts?
Oh lol I was about to provoke and okay our game, to see if she would turn it on when she sees my discord status 🤔
My ex. Blocked me on everything I love her so much
Somebody else is clapping those cheeks. Move on she doesn't care
If they blocked you on everything that means they don’t want nothing to do with you anymore or are in a new relationship
This is exactly an X who said we have alot of history together he said I’m not just a nobody to him he says he’s not with anyone I don’t care he wanted to meet up and talk as we have a situation that we need to talk due to a house we own I’ve emotionally checked out so I can be mature talk about it business only. He even drove past the house one time he told me which I was shocked about
He also feels easy talking to me all of a sudden but I let him get all of his stuff of his chest even though i made it clear I’m not that person for him to talk to me anymore he’s still worried about me living on my own blah blah but he can see I’m doing great on my own he’s trying to come back but I’m not entertaining that he’s so broken
I said to him your words are meaningless to me unless they are shown through your actions
he never cheated was a good guy to me he never made me a priority in his life was too busy but now he wants to come back but I won’t have it I’m done
I said I can’t stop how you feel about me whatever that is but we are not friends you left me he thanked me for the talk I said don’t make it a habit he goes oh why not a lot of flirting words I was oml you haven’t changed one bit. I’m praying to God to help me understand remove him from popping up in my life
What if she called me back after more than a month and we hooked up and stuff. Is that the wrong move?
That happened to me a few times the first time we got back together stronger than before second time after our last break up we seemed good again and strong lasted two days than she broke up with me gain it’s been 50 days
Heyy coach I made a mistake of being with friends with my ex and now she is posting how happy they are and it's hard to not be friends with her
What if your partner went directly back to his girlfriend before me the same day we broke up? A year later he is still with her but wants to see me on the side.
Tell him 2 fuck off ✌🏻
You deserve so much more ❤
Love yourself sweetheart
At this point your just an option to him. He doesn’t like you enough to want to be with you but he wants to see you on the side 🤔 Don’t fall for it.
I think that happened to me after my ex left me pretty sure she went back to her husband babydDdy
Soninshould block my ex on social media? Because she's spying but I'm not in contact so better to block completely?
What if you have kids together?.. How could we apply the “No Contact Rule”?
The third video ever done on this channel, deals with that topic specifically
What about the long distance ( different countries) break up?
I made this mistake and we started hanging out again. As she reached out to me wanting to hangout. We chilled at my place and when she went to sleep something whispered in my ear said s you never went through her phone. I went through it finding out she was going on dates with people while we were together. And even more after. She had wanted me to promise not to let her back in my life than she came back the same day after reading journal I wrote talking the time we first meet till now saying I want to be with you I love you. She didn’t know I knew what she’s done. Overall I went through it again and this time she caught me and got mad left my place blocked me on everything.
Hey can you make a video about if she breaks up with you and y'all have a kid or kids? Not many people are talking about that. Thank you in advance
Why does my ex keep contacting me and sending photos of her with other men saying bet your not as happy as me. I wished them the best in new relationship and said great to see it all worled out for you. Can you help me understand what this behaviour means. She dumped me by the way and i was genuine and kind plus being respectful how she feels so accepted it but her behaviour is really wierd almost like ahes lost the plot
Wants to hurt you, wants you to chase her I’d just block them completely
Me and my ex been in no contact exactly two months this am I had to send her a invoice from this company did it via email she replied back via email thanks and asked how I was my response was everything is good thanks for asking be well was that bad did I sound desparate please let me know
Hi dear coach, I would appreciate your advice please, I'm on time regardless now, do you think I should block my ex on Tinder, or rather allow him to view my profile? Thanks for the response
Another time, thel last thing you said,...agree on datem,,,,must bring 1oo%. HER. I WAS JUST Thinking to aim for a call. With meet up as gaol..or maybe the goal hasn't been made clear. Like I c a n mk all sorts of good plans but timing, and where she's at...then just , just what if The G to da O 2daD has a whole different thing in mind.
And what if you reached the goal. There was a date (good time spent together) with a "promise" from his side to meet again...but there is silence since 12days (only one like of my first post on fb since break up month ago) and today a random picture sent by him which shows he was thinking about me as the situation on the picture is related to our relationship (we were joking about that together) I am in NC but I have impression the date didn't change a lot.
what happened?
update?
They followed me on IG after 4months no contact should I follow back or this maybe them trying to play games I already declined friendship after break up
It's bait to see your reaction if youll chase and breadcrumbing. Wait until bold, direct effort to reconcile
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman . I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back.
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i wish i watched this before
I've been in stratetic contact for 5 weeks now. My ex. Texted me today with a question about my sons tablet. She sent me a picture of the screen, that stated it needed to be rebooted (really obvious) but she still choose to ask me about, what she should do to make it work. Would this be a "silly game" she's trying?
Amen
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Should you pass them straight if you happen to see them in public?
Indifference.
I rely wish u made this 2 days ago lmao
about a week ago at a baby shower I seen my ex for the first time since she broke up with me 3 months ago. When she seen me her heart sank and she started overly exaggerating how she talks and what she was doing. When she’d walks by me she’d tense up and looks like she wants to say something. At the end of the baby shower she made a point to walk by asked how I was doing. I texted her the next day and had a short conversation. Then didn’t talk for a couple days til I sent her a meme two days ago then she added me on IG. Now I’m confused and don’t know what I should do If I should do anything. What do you guys think?