3 Signs That A Female Dancer Might Be Romantically Interested In You
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ก.ย. 2024
- Do you find it hard to read the signs that one of your female dance partners might be interested in more than just dancing? This video is for you! This video was inspired by a friend of mine who struggles in this department, but I thought it would be helpful to lots of people who go out dancing as a way to meet someone, but find it difficult to know when or if they should make a move.
Check it out, and tell me your thoughts in the comments - and if you're a female watching this, tell the men if there's any signs they should look for! Share your secrets!
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I think it is fairly straightforward. Women who are interested establish a lot of eye contact, flirt and want to chat with *you*. Next filter is to arrange coffee. If they decline then move on. If nothing happens at coffee then move on. Women are extremely good at making it clear at some point. Rejection is possible and okay!
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That is true 👍
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This topic is such a wonderful idea, first video I see that talks about it in the salsa scene! well done,
@comando1629 thank you, I'm glad you found it useful 😊
What an interesting topic, wish this video existed 5 years ago when I first started dancing. So from my limited experience:
Massively agree with the points especially point 3, but I would say it's also better to be clear about your interest, that doesn't mean going in too strong, but be clear, because some women/followers are shy and won't make it obvious, better to be clear and if she's not interested move on. One extra tip try and have a conversation before and/or after the dance to see if there is a vibe
@herculeeza absolutely true 👍
Hi Rasa. I would say that the most important aspect in order to make sure you are not stepping out of line nor "wasting effort" on someone who's not interested, is to really look at the person in front of you. If someone is interested they will make sure to throw multiple signs at you and they will give you many chances, so there's no need to rush or force anything. Besides, flirting without rushing can be a really fun experience once it's clear that both people are interested 😇
@pachinkothemachine612 absolutely, agree with that 👏
Nice tips, I think these apply outside the dance floor in any social situation.
@zeropain9319 yeah I think they do 😉
The best guys, like your friend, won’t act on these ‘sometimes, maybe, if, possiblies’ because they have been told for years they’re not wanted, and to leave ladies alone.
@jameselder3476 Yes, which is such a shame 🥲.
That's not true at all. Socially aware men WILL act on these, and socially aware men are the BEST guys, not the nice guys you talk about.
@@jakub.kubicek No-one mentioned nice guys, only you. Unfortunately the guys who haven’t been filtered out by the ‘me too’ movement do tend to be the well-practiced serial approachers.
@@jakub.kubicek dude isnt here to make sense, just to grind axes
I married my salsa mate!
@@adorablebelle that's amazing 👏
feel like this was really a subtle rizz guide for follows! I'm clueless about signals and nervous at socials, and even I would pick up on these signs lol.
That's why I made this video, hoping it might help at least a bit 😇.
Good points!
@@charlottep.4843 😉😉😉
Thanks for the tips x
@@evertondod 😉👍👍👍
Thank you Rasa great Video and subject :D
I will see you on a dance floor ;-)
@@thediamondpropertyservices5265 definitely 😇
Hi Rasa, yes this is a topic that's very sensitive - to be fair I've been dancing for years and always struggle quite a lot to understand where there is genuine interest or not. From my experience lots of girls intentionally flirt without having any interest purely because sometimes there aren't enough leads and they want another dance or because they believe if they lead the guy on then he will make a extra effort and the dance will be better. Maybe we men do the same, really can't judge. but it does make it a minefield.
@@nvieira74 I think that is really not good when people lead people on...agreed ! Makes it difficult for others to really find somebody 😕
You are spot on: in my 20 years experience dancing, I have seen this happening very frequently.
I always assume no because everyone is always so friendly when dancing. She would pretty much have to kiss me on the lips for me to figure it out. I actually had that happen once right in front of everyone. I was shocked!
@neilmoomey ok that's a step too far 🤣
ohh wow, lucky guy!
Well that made it clear .... not 🤣Seems after years of dancing you get used to close contact with the opposite sex. it's a bit of a jump (pardon the pun) to actually date. I asked a girl on check-out at Tesco the other day 😂which was fun.
@@anthonyorafferty5632 how did that go ? 😅
Great video. There is a line sometimes were dancers are “used” for their dancing skill. But if they attempt to escalate beyond that point they are shut down. But in such situations are they to reduce dancing with that person?
True...... I feel that no, if you enjoy dancing with them. But if you don't enjoy their dances then spread out as it avoids offending and/or maintains your self respect.
I believe anyone can respectfully refuse multiple dance requests by saying thanks, but I really want to get as much dance variety as I can. Anyone having a problem with that statement should be avoided.
Not at all, if there is respect you can definitely keep dancing with them 😉.
It's all about using good judgement. If somebody's uncomfortable ofcourse no need to dance, but if both are OK and respectful then no issues 😉
When first starting, as a guy without experience, you notice that from time to time, there appears a girl who dances so crazy close to you that she would wake you up even if you were in a comma. Automatically, the first thought I would have is that she is flirting and she´s trying to seduce me. However, after some time I am aware that usually that is not the case as some don´t seem interested in a conversation outside of the dance. So one theory I have for this is that they see how I keep my professional poker face while dancing and they are trying to break it by making me blush.
@MusicAndParkour that's true, if after the intimate dance they don't want to chat definitely leave that one alone 🤣
@@DanceWithRasa Yes, I am there to dance, not to chat 😂
It's a harsh reality when you're analyzing if a girl is into you while other guys might be dating her or sleeping with her easily.
Some guys need a bit more confidence. Hopefully, this video can give them some 😉.
I can agree it can be confusing but in reality girls like guys more than guys realise, it's just guys are obvious and visual often. After my exp, 3 steps make the difference
1# dnt tell anyone, dnt talk about her/him( me personally dnt talk anything personal on the dance floor and thats what I tell ppl, especially men lately for some reason.
2# take things off the dance floor, if ppl ask tell them politely, that's my business ❤
3# make the move, 80% of guys have a girl that like them, they just dnt make the move, make the move 💯
@gogokizomba6903 exactly, what's the worse that could happen, she says no .
There is a caveat, when ladies play hard to get, it's 2024. I understand the possibilities of why, but games attract game players.
It 2024, men don't mind making effort, usually the better rewards come after you know eachother. But there has to be a mutual respect.and input ( Romantically speaking ) when ppl play games they don't respect eachother, that's why either men dnt ask or don't take it seriously.
@@gogokizomba6903 I hate playing games, honesty best policy 😉
If we are honest I don't know when you do a video like this again,
Heating, water or electricity problems in home are often fixed by a simple switch or turn of the wrench 🔧. But If you don't know where, is bigger problem than is.
Where I see problem is the path of Romance,Seduction or sensual are not the same.
Romance = less Sex , more adventure having fun non sexualise way, serenading like 1940-50s America movies 🎬
Seduction = more sex, physical connection, escalation and mood setting.
It's different parts of the brain 🧠
Ppl try to do both, both work when in couple but try to do both at beginning is what leads to the mess we have, it is a mess wright now.
What makes men not desire the Romance path ( effort and investment)is putting more work than someone else for same or sometimes less rewards from a male perspecrive. For some Men it is a disrespect. Disrespect won't be returned with respect. For others it's self value or self-respect. Others it's reputation, no man want to be the guy that other has girl other guys just bang, it 💯 ego possibly but its reality and unlikely to change.
Sad truth is you have to forget, IF, is a big IF, but if you want it to have a chance Romantically. Focus on eachother and this will likely but not certainly, lead you both away from the dance like before if successful unless Teaching. The decision if its worth it only Time will tell.
I can't speak for women but I would say ultimately Sacrafices and decision would have to be made, if is worth it Time can only tell.
🐘 in the room is most don't want to waste time in case they are wrong, so play it safe.
Hope you do more vids like this as I honestly believe it will help make Social Dance scene a better place.
It's kind of super obvious 😂... The biggest one is if she wants to dance with you even though you are rubbish or the last dance was rubbish 😅 Dunno if it's a good or bad thing if you get this 🤣
@dadada486 🤣🤣🤣right ? That's definitely a give away 🤣🤣🤣
From a man's perspective, the first sign you describe - shadowing and following the guy you like - it often feels kind of creepy and uncomfortable, just the same if the guys asks you to dance over and over or follows you around.
@jakub.kubicek everything can be creepy or not, if you like them back it's not creepy and if you don't creepy. But it's definitely a sign 😅
@@DanceWithRasa it is a sign haha ;)
@@jakub.kubicek 🤣🤣🤣
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@@juratepetrikauskiene9908 😇😇😇
Easy. We're probably not. That's why we're dancers. 😅
@@bluesbulletin 😅😅😅
Don't, just don't. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. The Risk/Benefit equation is way negative.
@@ghost46857 😅😅