This Channel forgets not everyone is after the expression but after the feeling that accompanies the expression of someone. Encouraging a 'charismatic personality' for one's own benefit rather than for their own inner truth, and subsequently feeling like the person is just putting on a smile devoid of genuine feelings OR out of 'niceness' is actually very off-putting. They'd have to do it again and again consistently to convince me this is their personality. People who notice underlying behaviors should not be considered 'cold and calculating' for doing so either; it is very desirable to learn to see through courtesy and visual acting into someone's heart and energy they put out.
SHORX you’re right and some girls like The vampire bad boy look now I just need a cape And a new face Ah damn it was almost in my grasp Back to the coffin to play castlevania I guess sigh 😔 🦷
Believe me even if your teeth are not perfect but you have that natural inner glow, people will not even notice that there is smth wrong with them! So smile no matter what and miracle will happen!
The whole time seeing Emilia Clarke smile makes me genuinely happy but the moment you flashed Kanye West my mood was destroyed almost instantly, what a contrast.
damn, I'm so charming :D The only thing is I've come to do all those things (and they work) because I don't like interacting with others and people used to not like me at all (although I have nothing against them and don't do anything to harm them, of course) . The problem is , it's fake , it works but it's fake , giving all the time , pretending all the time exhausts me and I still don't know how to interact genuinely. I avoid people and friendships. Yet I still do that thing each time I'm forced to interact and people like me now, a lot, to the point that they fall in love. It"s powerful.
Well, shes good looking, a fine actress (I think) But at the end, I think I've never seen an interview that didn't make me smile... she does have great charisma, and I get the feeling thats just her being positive in nature. I've seen an interview with her mother, and to be honest, she isn't that different. You do see them together and get a feeling that Emilia has learned that from her mother, maybe even just by "learning by seeing what her mother days" on a daily basis.
@@ZuuZoor She's not terrible. I honestly liked the way she acted in season 8 and heard many people saying that it was good, maybe the only good thing about this season..
She's survived two aneurysms and will always be at risk of suddenly dying. It's amazing and a testament she can find the humour in everything. She's absolutely lovely and a monumental inspiration.
People who gone though a lot are usually funny or easily finds the humor in things. This is a known fact. I was bullied as a kid and later depressed on and off, suffered sometimes severe anxiety as well as social anxiety for many years. But I joke around a lot. I laugh a lot. If it wasn't for humor I don't know what I would do. I think this is the case for most other "funny people" as well and Emilia too.
When you face your own mortality as a younger person, you realise it can all be over anytime and tomorrow is not guaranteed. So you appreciate every day you wake up and every night you go to sleep. Its a wonderful lesson if you escape death as a young person
0:39 Have a beaming and frequent smile (a genuine smile comes from finding humor in things) 3:10 Build other people up (You can tease your friends if you tie up with a compliment) 5:32 Raise he energy in the room 7:24 Be in active listening
@@karinasprmanager1832 I think it's a joke because of that thing that says that if you say a glass is half empty you are a pessimist and if you say it's half full you are an optimist person. maybe
Well said lol. Yeah it's just better to naturally be in a good mood and as happy as you possibly can be. (Appreciate the Moment) and this could come naturally. #Gratitude
And listen to other people and acknowledge them. Thats the problem i have most. Its not that i dont want to hear what they say or that i dislike them Im just to eager to say what i want to say that i end up cutting other people off, coming off as rude or uninterested. So I would be genuinely happy, share that happiness, and pay attention and acknowledge other people
@@mayas8360 Bri Larson looks snobbish, that overpowers her looks. I find her very unappealing. I mean she maybe a great person n all, I'm only speaking about the energy she projects.
@@アレクサンドラ-y5l see that’s the thing. If amilia (the girl in this vid) doesn’t smile as much or isn’t that charismatic in general you’d just find her as a good looking girl. but because of her charisma she seems cute. the same can be applied to brie
I used to be so much like her. And then, without realising, I entered into an abusive relationship. It's weird to watch her. It's like listening to an echo that died 10 years ago. It's quite heartbreaking actually.
Just kidding, you can be ugly in this circumstance. (I speak from experience). You can mix and match on these too. Active listener should be number 1 in my opinion. So long as you actually care about what others are talking about, whether you would normally pay attention to it or not, people will pay you significantly more mind if you show interest in what they're talking about. The other things definitely help. This is pretty easy for me because I really don't care about things I have to say or feel others can say what I'm thinking/feeling just fine. It means I have less to say, but when I do have things to say, typically (not always) others are more interested/invested.
@@SailorSiFi Do you make other people feel awkward or do you make yourself feel awkward? Do you smile with just your mouth or do you smile with both your eyes and your mouth? And lastly, you don't have to compliment people directly it can usually be something as simple as agreeing with a choice they've made rather than something cosmetic or aesthetic, I think you'll have more success if you try that.
@@SailorSiFi I think your doing rather well so far your putting yourself out there and actually applying what you learned, I think one thing that would benefit you is trying to be more humorous in your conversations and get used to laughing at your jokes that will give you way more opportunities to smile and laugh but genuinely this time, next is whenever you give someone a compliment and you start to feel some tension build between you and them try making a joke and for extra information on how to do this successfully maybe check some of this channels videos on flirting mainly the "push and pull" technique, even if you aren't trying to hit on someone it's a very versatile technique that can be used in all types of conversations.
Emilia said she lives life to fullest because she survived two life-threatening Aneurysm while filming season 1 and season 3, so she said she knows if she gets a 3rd one...that will be the last
@@black_swanN > Sure puts things in perspective, though. When I get really down, I remind myself that some people have even more difficult obstacles...the ones that persevere are inspirational...like Emilia. :)
@@fundemort Don't watch it. She does have charisma but it's not because she's a nice person. Fun fact, sociopaths tend to be some of the most charismatic people
@@julieannanderson2228 I already knew you haven't lol. No need to go all psychology on me. Watch it first. Thats why people admire and like her. Don't let your jealousy take over your fair judgement lol.
Mike Greg not necessarily, as long as you have slightly more energy then it works perfectly. Especially in a group interview by the way it’s really good to get noticed.
Sometimes people don't smile too much or laugh too much because they are too conscious of their face. If they smile or laugh too much, they think they look ugly, so they just hold themselves from smiling or laughing too much. Emilia doesn't have to worry because she is beautiful. And when she smiles or laugh exagerrately, she is still beautiful. Her charms is so unique. When she smiles, you feel it that it comes from her heart. Her smile is magnetic.
When I go out places I sort of... practice. I pretend. Even during little interactions. When people don’t call me out somehow, saying, “Wait! You’re not normal like this! You’re faking it!” I realize maybe I’ve been a little silly and my expectations weren’t right. If it doesn’t go so well, eh, it’s not people I’m going to have to deal with anyway. Win win. 😅 Good luck on your charming road. 😜
How do you and 187 other people not see through them. They are contractually obligated to promote their projects so all they have to do is pretend to be charming and great people for ten minute interviews to sell their product.
ComaBerenices ComaBerenices totally agree, Emilia wouldn't do that. If they were together, then I think she'd be able to pacify him. But yeah I agree, he's positive about some thing but other things not so much, like politics and other things
not true... I had a pretty ugly friend (just being honest) and the dude was hella charismatic, and always had chick friends and decent looking girlfriends. He wasn't rich or anything, but looking back, he did some of the things talked about here.
Yuuuup! A person like me exhibits these behaviors and yet, probably isn't as charming to those who find her charming. Oh well... still not gonna stop me, can't see myself caring about what others think that badly enough to change my personality.
There was this one girl who me and many people had a crush on and she was quite ugly. She was fit but it was her charisma that made people attracted to her. Obviously it helps to have good looks but you can still go far without them.
People always think my brother is funny, but if you watch what he does, he really just points out the humor in what other people are saying. He highlights other people's jokes. He just sees humor that other people miss. It's a cool trick.
@@chrishope9169 It's tough because it's subtle, but it's like this: I have a cousin whose birthday is March 1, and he make a comment about 17 days until St. Patrick's day. And Andy made a comment along the lines of "yes, Tommy's b-day is the official start of the St. Patrick's day season", and then people all started riffing on that, making jokes about how they hate people who put up St. Patrick's day decorations before Tommy's b-day., etc. He got the bit going, and let everyone else in the room run with it.
pookie pie Just to add a quick smth: if you want to find easy genuine compliments it can be just a little thing you noticed like a nice shirt or complimenting they’re efficiency or nice writing. Compliments don’t need to be always on the same things.
When anybody says a compliment about me I /always/ assume it's fake or sarcastic. I figure there are people who /always/ assume it's genuine, too. It's gotta work both ways right?
Not exactly. You're always allowed to call a woman beautiful or a man handsome, pretty much no matter what they look like. Unless they were recently horribly disfigured and its still a sore spot maybe. But otherwise, even if people know youre buttering them up they will usually appreciate the gesture so long as it feels like its coming from a place of affection
Oh sorry, if it sounded like i really am that insecure. I am not. I know who i am, and i try my best to have a good life, and make others happy, so it makes me happy. Charming or not, i don't even care if i am. I just made a joke about those Thumbnails, i don't like it on youtube, and what it might suggest to people. But thanks for the kind words!
took me about 2 months to learn to smile with my eyes also when faking a smile, but I managed to do it. Guess I'm a psychopath Edit: Also, I am a subscriber and alot of the videos I've watched have been super helpful in manipulating people. I've managed to gain a few odd jobs here and there watching your stuff.
She doesn't care rocking back and forth while laughing while others are just so poised and fake. She's always "into the moment" and laugh at her own mistakes. She's adorable 🥰
"The perfect person doesn't exist." Emilia Clarke: Hold my dracarys. "? What does that me--GAAAHHHH!" *burns to a crisp* Everyone: "Y, you are perfect, my queen! Perfect!!" Emilia Clarke: *genuine full facial smile*
i mean, her instagram biography is "if at first you don't succeed, laugh until you do" and that pretty much sums up everything. great video, you explained something she feels deeply inside ❤️
I feel that. I've struggled with depression for a lot of years and it took some flip flopping hard work to find humor again! But now, even though I still struggle a lot with depression, I can find joy by finding humor in the little things. Even if it's just my dog's flatulence. Don't give up! Laughter is one of the keys to dealing with chronic depression! Find a happy spot and focus on it, until your perspective shifts from seeing the black to only seeing that tiny speck of light, until the blackness is overcome by the good you focus on! I believe in you! 😇😇😇
I think after everything she's been through, she appreciates being alive and keeping things lifted. She's lucky and thankful to be alive and it shows. She's a beautiful soul
the best thing is that she was already like that before the tough times and the surgeries. She full on strenghtened those ideals through the tough times, quite impressive
@@Despot993 She had 2 brain hemorages (I don't know how you spell it). Actually, a lot of people die from that, it's really dangerous, and Emilia got a positive message from it: "Be happy and appreciate life". She is amazing😊.
@@Marta-uv4id Like one of the characters in Peaky Blinders said "when you accept the reality you are about to die, you are dead already. You're free. Anything after that is an extra. And I fucking love it".
Same. I love his videos and thinks he gives clear, applicable advice, but it's a little exhausting/overwhelming too. I think for people with social anxiety or who are more introverted sometimes just committing to showing up and trying to engage and put your best foot forward even when you don't feel your best should be considered a win. I won't always have the energy to apply these as much as I would like, so maybe I won't be the most charismatic person. I'm learning to be kind and generous towards myself. I'm still working on showing up and I'm accepting that :D
I have a teeth gap and I avoid smiling with mouth open or close my mouth with my hand when I can't control myself because my gap is so great that I can even shove a straw to fill it :D
someone ones told me that my character reminded them of Emilia and it was the best compliment ive been given. I thought my constant smiling and giggling was annoying hahaha
Omg why is the Internet so filled with pessimists it's getting annoying. No one is going to perceive you as attractive until you start perceiving yourself that way. Sorry not sorry, trying to help.
@@steelbear2063 you're missing the point completely. I'm willing to bet you're "objectively" better looking than Peter Dinklage, but also im willing to bet if they'd put him and yiu in the same room even amongst people who don't know any of you, he'd make far more friends. Because you're a sad person with sad attitude. Sorrow and self pitty are the biggest turnoff there is regardless of preference. As for Emilia there are many girls as pretty as she is out there and many of them are hiding behind their complexes and bad attitude, and that's why you wouldn't perceive THEM as attractive.
Since nobody here seems to trust me on this, I'll have to insert self description lol : I'm short (5'4), have crooked nose, crooked teeth, brown hair, hazel eyes and too big jaw for a woman I'd say. There's nothing "objectively" attractive about me. And I wouldn't be proud of myself as I am now if I didn't have to learn how to love myself and how to show others that loving me makes sense. I don't want to "fix" my teeth or my nose because that makes me look like me, and I like myself. I don't want or need to look like a doll in other to leave an impression. In fact I think it might be harder for people with bland /flawless appearence to come across as interesting.
If you would that means you're just less charismatic, and it isn't a bad thing. Some people gets uneasy when confronted by overwhelming positive energy. It is always good to find a balance.
Not if you mean it. If you genuinely want to make others feel good, it becomes a habit. If you have to fake it then people can tell the interaction isn't genuine. The secret is to actually care about others and what they have to say.
@@Raz0rIG Find a reason that is self-sacrificial perhaps (??) Ultimately you operate out of abundance or scarcity. If you believe that attention is scarce, and you have to impress people to attract attention (or worse, believe that attention for you is so scarce that it's not worth trying) then it's hard to care for others without being self-serving. But if you believe that attention is abundant, then there's plenty to go round, and you can genuinely care for others. Counter-intuitively as you do they reciprocate and begin to genuinely care for you. It's really, really hard though, to reprogram what has been programmed into you, modeled by your parents, and institutions when you were young. Changing your behaviour is not sustainable until you can change your beliefs, and that is in itself hard, unless you can change your identity. Think about a Fire Fighter, they go into a building on fire, because it's who they are - which drives what they do. Or an Olympian. They don't have a problem not smoking, because, well, they are an elite athlete. So as you become a charismatic person, you change your beliefs about abundance, and your behaviour, geniune care for others follows suit. Can I just say that even if you struggle, it's still way more fun caring for others and having fun with it, than it is trying to get attention for yourself.
Y'know that is so unlike Daenerys. But you gotta hand it to her after knowing how she struggled through her life-threatening strokes and still put up that kind of face.
5:40 I used to be more like this, but people would relentlessly taunt me for being high or on drugs or tell me to calm down. It really hurt my feelings, so I am not like this around ppl unless I know they are safe.
@@Warriorfall You are watching the same video as me right now right? The video about how to improve your personality on a channel about how to improve your personality right?
I know people like this; I share a house with someone like this! They're just great to have around because they're never trying to put anyone down to temporarily prop themselves up, they don't stimulate conversations by picking the most negative thing on the news, and they're "present" when you interact with them. And the smiling! I just love it!
I do think her attitude and character is what makes her so beautiful. I don't know if she would be as loved if she were a grumpy, unhappy actress 😅 she is beautiful! Don't get me wrong! But I guess what I want to say is, her charming self makes her seem even more beautiful, than she actually is 😁 (not mentioning that that is always subjective too.)
When I somehow started to be genuinely interested in all the people I met, I could feel my level of charm increase by the interaction. Now calling yourself out as charming is a rather uncharming move, so I'm not going to do that. But, the level of connection and joyful meetings with all sorts of people came with my awaken curiosity for the story behind the person! Just saying.
so true! I also took this tip from Charlies videos. And if you want to "steal the spotlight", be extra with something you do or wear. If you just look and talk about stuff like the majority of the ppl around you, you won't get a chance to stand out.
@@Tovashi IKR? I'm an introvert, and I think I might have Social Anxiety, too. :/ I've been watching all these videos and trying to be charming and energetic, but I feel like I'm just always kind of inevitably quiet and awkward. At first, when I start talking to people, I feel nervous, and then after a while, I just feel like my battery's being drained, and I'm kind of out of it and feel like I'm not really there, if that makes sense.
@@Tovashi Yeah. And the thing is, I feel like I'm a cheerful person overall, it's just that socializing is so hard for me, lol. I also just try to tell myself that other people probably aren't focusing on whatever small mistakes I made like I am. Thanks for the advice!
Yes! thank you. Sometimes I feel like some manipulative alien taking notes in my head on normal human behavior and I should focus on the instances where I let it come naturally
All this makes me want to do is go *aggressively* brush my teeth.
Same 😭
Same
Same & floss for 20 minutes.
Don't brush too hard, your gums will recede. Looking out for you guys ;)
This Channel forgets not everyone is after the expression but after the feeling that accompanies the expression of someone. Encouraging a 'charismatic personality' for one's own benefit rather than for their own inner truth, and subsequently feeling like the person is just putting on a smile devoid of genuine feelings OR out of 'niceness' is actually very off-putting. They'd have to do it again and again consistently to convince me this is their personality. People who notice underlying behaviors should not be considered 'cold and calculating' for doing so either; it is very desirable to learn to see through courtesy and visual acting into someone's heart and energy they put out.
The Kanye smile actually seemed genuine till he realised he was smiling
Aryan Malhotra he faked serious face, not smile
Aryan Malhotra word, he only smiles when nobody’s lookin
Kanye trying to keep that "idgaf" persona lol
hahahahaha
Apparently the only time people saw him smile recently was when he was working with YNW Melly
Laugh at yourself before anyone else can and you'll never be embarrassed
wear it like armor, and it can never be used against you.
Well Rabbit used that in 8mile he dissed himself and won because the other rapper had nothing to say since he said it XD
@@Che9009 I see what you did there
Sounds like Tyrion phase
@@Che9009 Damn. Nice reference.
Imagine being so charismatic that someone makes a video on how to be more like you. Damn. 👀
Goals.
imagine being a vip and that's it, no any rocket science really
I see that as about the same as being so evil someone makes a video about you. I laugh at the idea of aspiring to be charismatic.
Someone who's "trying" to push a P.C. WOKE SJW Leftist agenda of what charisma is...
Active Listeners are Super annoying & irritating. Yes..Yes...Uh huh..Uh huh...Right..Right......
Can we appreciate the variety of hairstyles Emilia has in this video
Yeah, like everyone else.
Arya Stark, try doing that with anxiety though
@@honeypots8787 Try doing what? Different hairstyles while having anxiety? That makes no sense.
@@aryastark575, wait no- I'm really really sorry. I thought this was a reply to a different comment I posted. My apologies.
@@honeypots8787 lol it's ok.
Her eyebrows have a different life of their own
They've got their own zip codes
Seriously, she has the bigget muscles on the film set. And they are all. Under. Her. Eyebrows. They probably could lift the Mountain from GOT.
Her eyebrows have eyebrows.
Imagine if she got Botox.
0:31 Yep!
If i have a teeth like hers, I wouldn't mind smiling all day
Same here my smile is my weakness
I don’t want to scare people with my vampire teeth
@@mightycirus Vampire teeth is so cool
SHORX you’re right and some girls like The vampire bad boy look now I just need a cape
And a new face Ah damn it was almost in my grasp Back to the coffin to play castlevania I guess sigh 😔 🦷
Exactly.
Believe me even if your teeth are not perfect but you have that natural inner glow, people will not even notice that there is smth wrong with them! So smile no matter what and miracle will happen!
The whole time seeing Emilia Clarke smile makes me genuinely happy but the moment you flashed Kanye West my mood was destroyed almost instantly, what a contrast.
Same
I was like :D then :/
And he's running for pres
Nah kanye made me happier yall trippinnn
I was like :D and then :d
If Chris Evans and Emilia Clarke sat in the same room, it would just be laughing and who has the best compliments
I'd watch that. For 3 hours, I don't care, I'd watch that
@@janvanhouwelingen4721 same lmao
Jan van Houwelingen samee
Laalaa Boy I freaking love Chris Evans
CAN SOMEONE LET THEM MARRY EACH OTHER AND HAVE BEAUTIFUL BABIES 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
Emilia Clarke is like the 😄 emoji
No she’s more of a ❤️ emoji
would have liked but it had 777
Mono Chrome Someone ruined it 😔
But with upside down eyebrows
I was the 888 like of your comment 😄😂
1. Genuine smile
2. Active listener
3. Raises energy in room
4. Builds others up
Damn im really not charming😂😂😂
@@sarabaci4186
Hey Sa, you just accomplished all four, good start!
5. Floss
damn, I'm so charming :D The only thing is I've come to do all those things (and they work) because I don't like interacting with others and people used to not like me at all (although I have nothing against them and don't do anything to harm them, of course) . The problem is , it's fake , it works but it's fake , giving all the time , pretending all the time exhausts me and I still don't know how to interact genuinely. I avoid people and friendships. Yet I still do that thing each time I'm forced to interact and people like me now, a lot, to the point that they fall in love. It"s powerful.
I think number one should really be, "Get paid a lot of money", then, comes the genuine smile and so forth.
I watch these like I'm an alien tryna infiltrate humanity
this made me laugh out loud af lmaoooooooooooooooooo
As autistic girl. I'm with you.
Or are you....🧐
u stole that comment my g
😂
It also helps if you’re Emilia Clarke.
Well, shes good looking, a fine actress (I think)
But at the end, I think I've never seen an interview that didn't make me smile... she does have great charisma, and I get the feeling thats just her being positive in nature.
I've seen an interview with her mother, and to be honest, she isn't that different. You do see them together and get a feeling that Emilia has learned that from her mother, maybe even just by "learning by seeing what her mother days" on a daily basis.
Why? Cause literally the entire world has seen your private parts?
Gunnar Karotte *terrible actress. WhErE ArE mUh DrUgUnZ
@@ZuuZoor She's not terrible. I honestly liked the way she acted in season 8 and heard many people saying that it was good, maybe the only good thing about this season..
She seems to be the little chubby homey girl that would normally have no future. Yet with that smile and brains have turned it around.
Me at a funeral: *ups energy level to be more likeable*
Cry harder than everyone else
Lmao!
For some reason after reading this comment I could not stop laughing and I was laughing so damn hard 💀💀💀
Oh wow! Super funny! That would be me, just not getting it right. Ever.
I smiled like Emilia Clarke at this lol
She's survived two aneurysms and will always be at risk of suddenly dying. It's amazing and a testament she can find the humour in everything. She's absolutely lovely and a monumental inspiration.
Damn its so hard to imitate them specially if you're a psycho, anxious and have mental disorder... I think its not for everybody, right?
Wait!! Whoa!!! WHAT?! o_O
the brighter the light, the darker the shadow.
People who gone though a lot are usually funny or easily finds the humor in things. This is a known fact. I was bullied as a kid and later depressed on and off, suffered sometimes severe anxiety as well as social anxiety for many years. But I joke around a lot. I laugh a lot. If it wasn't for humor I don't know what I would do. I think this is the case for most other "funny people" as well and Emilia too.
When you face your own mortality as a younger person, you realise it can all be over anytime and tomorrow is not guaranteed. So you appreciate every day you wake up and every night you go to sleep. Its a wonderful lesson if you escape death as a young person
“At the end of the day people won't remember what you said or did, they will remember how you made them feel.”
~Maya Angelou~
That woman was the epitome of kindness.
Dude I’m Asian, no matter what I do my eyes squint
This is the comment
This made me Emilia Clarke laugh.
Epic...😂💥
I didn't mean to laugh xD
Well that mean you can be charming without trying
This channel is like a “how to” for sociopaths
👌👌👌
What is this love he speaks of?
Lena Oxton lol :)
yes!!!!
"BRIE LARSON"
It also helps if you have the most perfect teeth..
and a super cute face 😅
No not true at all that’s insecure talking
RexySmith zerowastealternatives there many people who are considered ugly to society they are charming some not all
Sarah Songz not true
I wish I had larger teeth😁
Here in Hawai'i, we call it smile with your eyes or Smile with Aloha.
In Korea it's called eye smile.
I think the lesson here is to be genuine.
You can be genuinely morbid
Not if you are called tim Burton or Todd Solondz. Lol
@@swozzares if you are still focusing on whether "it works" or not, then you are missing the point of being genuine
@@RsBanez Or perhaps your assumption of what being genuine isn't the same for everyone.
Helps to be paid millions to do so!
How to be charming without trying
Answer: Be a literal ray of light
..you know what 'literally' means, right?
ice cream *physical?
Check ✔️ 😂
"Be a literal ray of light"
Even my graphics card is better at that than I am
Wait, what? A literal ray of light is simply...a ray of light. You mean *figuratively.* :)
Who’s here after the Brie Larson video? Such a difference lmao
golden film Lol me. Trying to aspire like Emilia Clarke.
🤚
Hhhhhhhh me
Lol I know right?
Lol
0:39 Have a beaming and frequent smile (a genuine smile comes from finding humor in things)
3:10 Build other people up (You can tease your friends if you tie up with a compliment)
5:32 Raise he energy in the room
7:24 Be in active listening
Thankyou so much!
thank you!
Thanks
Thanks! Was looking for this comment
Thank you 🌹
Not to mention her amazing eyebrows. I think her eyebrow have more personality than most people
KayleeKakes so well said 😊
Definitely more than me
Truth😂
Cough cough Kristen Stewart
This comment actually made me laugh, cause my first thought was "I think I'm most people"!
Dude becoming like Emilia Clarke is a glass too tall to fill
The woman's a damn angel
Just fill the glass half full, you'd already be above average
@@jovanleon7 that was sweet
Jovan Leon
You mean half empty?
Hitoshi Shinsou it’s the same thing
@@karinasprmanager1832 I think it's a joke because of that thing that says that if you say a glass is half empty you are a pessimist and if you say it's half full you are an optimist person. maybe
step 1: be genuinely happy
step 2: share that happiness whenever possible
I think most people's issue is with step 1.
this is really all it is imo. when you're actually happy you want to uplift everyone around you to your level of happiness because it feels so amazing
'this is really all it is imo' being genuinely happy isn't as easy as it seems though, if it was i think everyone would be happy all the time
Well said lol. Yeah it's just better to naturally be in a good mood and as happy as you possibly can be. (Appreciate the Moment) and this could come naturally. #Gratitude
And listen to other people and acknowledge them. Thats the problem i have most. Its not that i dont want to hear what they say or that i dislike them Im just to eager to say what i want to say that i end up cutting other people off, coming off as rude or uninterested. So I would be genuinely happy, share that happiness, and pay attention and acknowledge other people
can't be happy when your grinding everyday trying to make ends meet a lot are in the box
First of all, she's extremely adorable and attractive
I mean so is Bri Larson but she is not charismatic
Maya S nobody like Brie Larson
@@mayas8360 brie larson is not adorable, just good-looking
@@mayas8360 Bri Larson looks snobbish, that overpowers her looks. I find her very unappealing. I mean she maybe a great person n all, I'm only speaking about the energy she projects.
@@アレクサンドラ-y5l see that’s the thing. If amilia (the girl in this vid) doesn’t smile as much or isn’t that charismatic in general you’d just find her as a good looking girl. but because of her charisma she seems cute. the same can be applied to brie
This was just ten minutes of Emilia Clarke smiling.
*and I loved every minute of it*
Every second
I'm just a little bit sorry about not getting on the G.o.T. train... If only for Emilia.
brian facts
yes and No tips.
Signed
1.) Genuine smile
2.) she builds others up
3.) she raises the energy in the room
4.) active listener
Like so others can see this too👍
Thank you for saving me time
Thanks, I did not want to watch this lol
I would have liked this comment but since you told me to, now I'm not gonna.
amakam But he wanted others to see too so that's kind
I am still watching it but I apretiate the cliffnotes. Thank you.
also, one tiny detail about her: she is extremely cute.
I strive to one day be as adorable as her 😭
@@Hamppariranskis I bet you already are, cutie
@@Fairiesandbonesxx I cant tell if thats nice or creepy
@@meanieeheart4236 compliment maybe?
@@meanieeheart4236 In another video the commentator suggested we assume positive intent when it comes to ambiguous comments.
I used to be so much like her. And then, without realising, I entered into an abusive relationship.
It's weird to watch her. It's like listening to an echo that died 10 years ago. It's quite heartbreaking actually.
You're not alone and escape is certainly possible. Seek help. Eventually you'll be older and wiser -- and happier. I promise.
I hope you can get back to being that person💗
Yes yes!! This is exactly how I felt when watching this..
You are still the same person you 10 years ago, just stronger. I hope you find peace and happiness again. Sending love your way
You can still get yourself back. The Lord is helping me to get myself back. You're wonderfully and beautifully made, please keep this in mind.
1. Beaming and frequent smiling
2. Build others up (compliments)
3. Raise the energy (of social interactions)
4. Be an active listener
@JP 5. Don't be ugly.
Just kidding, you can be ugly in this circumstance. (I speak from experience). You can mix and match on these too. Active listener should be number 1 in my opinion. So long as you actually care about what others are talking about, whether you would normally pay attention to it or not, people will pay you significantly more mind if you show interest in what they're talking about. The other things definitely help. This is pretty easy for me because I really don't care about things I have to say or feel others can say what I'm thinking/feeling just fine. It means I have less to say, but when I do have things to say, typically (not always) others are more interested/invested.
Number 5 Be humble and happy with life. Otherwise, It may not come off as genuine.
@@SailorSiFi Do you make other people feel awkward or do you make yourself feel awkward? Do you smile with just your mouth or do you smile with both your eyes and your mouth? And lastly, you don't have to compliment people directly it can usually be something as simple as agreeing with a choice they've made rather than something cosmetic or aesthetic, I think you'll have more success if you try that.
@@SailorSiFi I think your doing rather well so far your putting yourself out there and actually applying what you learned, I think one thing that would benefit you is trying to be more humorous in your conversations and get used to laughing at your jokes that will give you way more opportunities to smile and laugh but genuinely this time, next is whenever you give someone a compliment and you start to feel some tension build between you and them try making a joke and for extra information on how to do this successfully maybe check some of this channels videos on flirting mainly the "push and pull" technique, even if you aren't trying to hit on someone it's a very versatile technique that can be used in all types of conversations.
Me: forgets how to human
This video: I gotchu
Oof
Human.exe has stopped working
Wiki how
LOL
Covid be like
Have you seen Emilia’s teeth? They’re absolutely perfect. Who wouldn’t smile with teeth like hers? Damn.
"HEE HAW!!
Didn't even notice her teeth! Saw the whole face smile instead!
Vagitarian lll
Her teeth? She's all perfect
@Dominique Lavalle 6 years of fermented Cod liver oil may realign them some what.
I'm at the corner of the party with no friends smiling and laughing like Emilia Clarke and everyone keeps looking at me weird. Why isn't it working?
😂😂
OMG I feel ya dude😂😂 yk not everyone can receive or more like tolerate a very bright ray of sunshine. So you do you bro😊
🤣
Brah, you high lmao
They are the weird ones 😂
Emilia said she lives life to fullest because she survived two life-threatening Aneurysm while filming season 1 and season 3, so she said she knows if she gets a 3rd one...that will be the last
That is depressing
Rain aneurisms can be detected & clipped so they don’t burst. Hope she gets that procedure done!
You're a mood destroyer... 😢
@@black_swanN > Sure puts things in perspective, though. When I get really down, I remind myself that some people have even more difficult obstacles...the ones that persevere are inspirational...like Emilia. :)
@@leannemo7382 isn't a " i can work it " enought?
Her smile is so contagious as well, i was smiling throughout this whole video😁
Me too! It really is contagious. She's like a lighthouse of joy.
It's not just her, it's contagious in general, but hers is sort of in your face
Same
Emilia has the most beautiful and genuine smile, many times you'll find yourself smiling watching her without even noticing.
Her eyebrows smile along with her lips. XD
This is so true haha. She just makes you happy and smile
Ruy Wang I couldn’t stop smiling watching her
It's true
Watching this video I didn't just smile. I laughed.
damn im gonna come out of quarantine as a different person
I’m coming out of quarantine as Emilias eyebrows and smiling eyes 😄
people be like: girl u ok?
Same!
@@Hifirrrr Right I have changed so much in two years😂
How is it going
In simple 2 words: She's "genuinely nice".
or "two faced"
(Idk, people are not what they seem)
that doesn't mean you have charisma though. I know nice people with no charisma
@@julieannanderson2228 You are right. It's not a guarantee. But have you seen her playing Dragon Queen in Game of Thrones?
@@fundemort Don't watch it. She does have charisma but it's not because she's a nice person. Fun fact, sociopaths tend to be some of the most charismatic people
@@julieannanderson2228 I already knew you haven't lol. No need to go all psychology on me. Watch it first. Thats why people admire and like her. Don't let your jealousy take over your fair judgement lol.
when he pulled out the Kanye video I SCREAMED
Lol 😂😂
I l9ve Kanye
As P
I died at that Arnold Schwarzenegger smiling clip
😂😂
RIP
That shit was amazing
RIP
RIP
RIP the chosen one.yYou were like a brother to me.You will be always in my heart.
She is just a nice person inside out without too many insecurities that's why she is charming naturally
U never know how much insecurities someone really have and sometimes people who smile alot have the most insecurities
I died at kanye's fake smile 😂💀
RIP
How to be charming WITHOUT trying:
3. Raise your energy above everyone el-
Me: nope
@Mike Greg I think the key is to do at "one level higher" not just be a goofball.
Yep cuz that shit's scary
My heart would probably give out after .48 seconds
This actually works. I am either the worst person for this or the best. No in between
Mike Greg not necessarily, as long as you have slightly more energy then it works perfectly. Especially in a group interview by the way it’s really good to get noticed.
I think the reason Emilia looks so genuine is that she is comfortable with her own self..
Sometimes people don't smile too much or laugh too much because they are too conscious of their face. If they smile or laugh too much, they think they look ugly, so they just hold themselves from smiling or laughing too much. Emilia doesn't have to worry because she is beautiful. And when she smiles or laugh exagerrately, she is still beautiful. Her charms is so unique. When she smiles, you feel it that it comes from her heart. Her smile is magnetic.
ikr
Everyone become prettier when smiling.
@@hunterrammusic not me
So are you saying ugly people shouldn’t smile?
@@bullymaguireneedsyourprimo6581 jsjsj
*walks into a funeral
EYYO GUYS WASSSUP
cool story bro
It's not hard to raise your energy above that of a corpse.
Andrew Jenkins Lmao good one.
Bro you made me die of laughter 🤣🤣😂 good job 😂
@@mightyelf2660 RIP
My checklist:
First: Change my DNA
LOL
Ppppfffthahahahaja
Same
Second: change the way you were raised
Literally made me lol. See you're doing some of what the video said. 😉
As an uncharming female i want to be jealous of Emilia because of how amazing she is, but i just cant. Shes too charming
if you are female you have vagina
@@MontyQueues Yes, indeed. That is anatomy...
Absolutely Nobody;
Eddy que: ..
You can become charming, though!
When I go out places I sort of... practice. I pretend. Even during little interactions. When people don’t call me out somehow, saying, “Wait! You’re not normal like this! You’re faking it!” I realize maybe I’ve been a little silly and my expectations weren’t right. If it doesn’t go so well, eh, it’s not people I’m going to have to deal with anyway. Win win. 😅
Good luck on your charming road. 😜
She’s bubbly, affirming and damned adorable. Her smile is infectious and her personality simply contagious.
But she burned an entire city so maybe it is al fake?
*Emilia and Chris must be protected at all cost. They're too pure for this world*
They are actors.
How do you and 187 other people not see through them. They are contractually obligated to promote their projects so all they have to do is pretend to be charming and great people for ten minute interviews to sell their product.
Hey! Keanu Reeves too!
ASSMAN u okay assman
@@clipcutter7977 why not!
Emilia Clarke X Chris Evans- that would be one happy positive couple
I know right! I always thought that too. They're so similar, with a lot of the same goals, I feel like they'd be perfect for each other
There's a picture of them from an awards show and I was like omg. They would be so perfect!
@ComaBerenices I agree he gets WAAAY too political too quick.
ComaBerenices ComaBerenices totally agree, Emilia wouldn't do that. If they were together, then I think she'd be able to pacify him. But yeah I agree, he's positive about some thing but other things not so much, like politics and other things
I say Emilia and Chris Hemsworth!
It helps to be hot though doesn’t it
not true... I had a pretty ugly friend (just being honest) and the dude was hella charismatic, and always had chick friends and decent looking girlfriends. He wasn't rich or anything, but looking back, he did some of the things talked about here.
@@Chrisko1492 charisma is charisma... imo, it's not like attraction where being hot helps.... being ugly doesn't impede charisma. So you're in luck.
Yuuuup! A person like me exhibits these behaviors and yet, probably isn't as charming to those who find her charming. Oh well... still not gonna stop me, can't see myself caring about what others think that badly enough to change my personality.
There was this one girl who me and many people had a crush on and she was quite ugly. She was fit but it was her charisma that made people attracted to her. Obviously it helps to have good looks but you can still go far without them.
Bp
People always think my brother is funny, but if you watch what he does, he really just points out the humor in what other people are saying. He highlights other people's jokes. He just sees humor that other people miss. It's a cool trick.
That's so interesting! Could you share any example stories of what the other person said and then what your brother said to make it funny?
@@chrishope9169 It's tough because it's subtle, but it's like this: I have a cousin whose birthday is March 1, and he make a comment about 17 days until St. Patrick's day. And Andy made a comment along the lines of "yes, Tommy's b-day is the official start of the St. Patrick's day season", and then people all started riffing on that, making jokes about how they hate people who put up St. Patrick's day decorations before Tommy's b-day., etc. He got the bit going, and let everyone else in the room run with it.
Pro tip: NEVER give fake compliments. People KNOW
pookie pie Just to add a quick smth: if you want to find easy genuine compliments it can be just a little thing you noticed like a nice shirt or complimenting they’re efficiency or nice writing. Compliments don’t need to be always on the same things.
When anybody says a compliment about me I /always/ assume it's fake or sarcastic.
I figure there are people who /always/ assume it's genuine, too.
It's gotta work both ways right?
Not exactly. You're always allowed to call a woman beautiful or a man handsome, pretty much no matter what they look like. Unless they were recently horribly disfigured and its still a sore spot maybe. But otherwise, even if people know youre buttering them up they will usually appreciate the gesture so long as it feels like its coming from a place of affection
You have eyes
@@charimuvilla8693 That's very charming and genuine of you to say
so to sum up the video: Be kind, happy, and don't forget to genuinely compliment
*be attractive. The world is shallow and nobody likes an ugly grin.
imagine a man who get emilia's heart and marry her. and life rest of life full by her smile and laugh. what a lucky man
I just clicked this Video to comment this:
"How to be charming without trying"
"Be Emilia Clarke"
Okay.
Sadly im not Emilia Clarke.
You don't have to be. Being a Mega-Star and pretty does not make her special. Being friendly and fun to be around does.
Oh sorry, if it sounded like i really am that insecure. I am not. I know who i am, and i try my best to have a good life, and make others happy, so it makes me happy. Charming or not, i don't even care if i am.
I just made a joke about those Thumbnails, i don't like it on youtube, and what it might suggest to people.
But thanks for the kind words!
@@Schluviel Unexpected
@@Schluviel There's always a bit of truth behind every joke😶
@@alphakennyone8 Well the truth behind it is: I am not Emilia Clarke. :'D
Have been practicing the huge smile and squinting eyes in the mirror for weeks now.
Friday night, gonna destroy some boys....
Oh wow good luck dominating some men you psycho 😂
Dirty Blond+ God rest their souls.
You dirty blonde you
Come, Destroy me
Oh god 😂
*You look super charming while smiling when you're bloomed with genuine happiness/joy!*
Mindprovement Yes, exactly what I was thinking
Everyone looks kind of beautiful while laughing. That sounds cheesy, but it's true.
took me about 2 months to learn to smile with my eyes also when faking a smile, but I managed to do it. Guess I'm a psychopath
Edit: Also, I am a subscriber and alot of the videos I've watched have been super helpful in manipulating people. I've managed to gain a few odd jobs here and there watching your stuff.
@@jjokinen8420 Really? Wow!
@@jjokinen8420 Unless you want to "hurt" people, I'd say more power to you! 💪
She doesn't care rocking back and forth while laughing while others are just so poised and fake. She's always "into the moment" and laugh at her own mistakes. She's adorable 🥰
Basically: Stop being depressed lol
Eh. Robin Williams had a similar effect and I think we can all agree he was pretty depressed.
Sadly this is also basically what depressed people have to listen to all the time.^^
y’all are deep
not always :/
My thoughts exactly lol
Everybody: Come on Arnold.. try and smile..
Arnold: *tensing facial muscles*
Everybody:*runs*
"The perfect person doesn't exist-"
Emilia Clarke: hold my wine
Leshaun Griffith
Better yet:
Emilia Clarke: "Hold my somehow smiling eyebrows"
This is a joke btw.
Hold my starbucks
Totally agree!
"The perfect person doesn't exist."
Emilia Clarke: Hold my dracarys.
"? What does that me--GAAAHHHH!" *burns to a crisp*
Everyone: "Y, you are perfect, my queen! Perfect!!"
Emilia Clarke: *genuine full facial smile*
@@hamzabenchaita4000 "hold my beaming smile with me"
I did not know who Emilia Clarke was until this video. She is so charming.
you should watch me before you movie. genuinely attractive this girl
@@zeroandone8654 I came here to say the exact same thing!
In 'Me before You' she is totally herself
She's not acting
She's living the role
Emilia Clarke is honestly so pure we need to protect her at all costs
Definitely!
No
Pure? U do know she plays in game of thrones right?
Just because someone smiles and laughs a lot does not make them pure.
@@danaevs2232 Relax
There are 2 types of people guys.
1.Emilia Clarke
2.Jimmy Fallon
EDIT: Celebrity: does something
Jimmy Fallon: ROFLMAOOOO LOOOL😆😂🤣🤣
SHAAAAADE but real t.
Oof
Lol
nice profile pic
Fuck im Jimmy Fallon
In korea it's called "Eye Smile". It very charming and infectious.
Eye smile? That's a very nice and descriptive phrase 👍👍
Jimin's smile 💞
Same here in Sr Lanka. Its kind of an attractive thing too.
Same here in Czech Republic
Like Hobi & jimin's eye smiles ❤
"How to be charming without trying" I'd say watching a video about how to be charming without trying, is trying?
ahahaha exactly what I've been thinking
emilia would have made a fine captain marvel
Adrigogo3 lmao
I think Steve Buscemi is a better candidate 😂
Is that a personal attack or something?
Finally a good idea
Her height, or lack thereof, is a problem though. XD
I wish I could raise the energy in the room but I’m just constantly tired and trying to be energetic drains me so much
When you are energetic, the happiness of the people surrounding you gives you the energy that you need.
Interesting hypothesis
yeah this is me too. and although i love emilia i would find talking to people like her incredibly draining after a while
i think the more important thing is to try to have fun and enjoy the situation
You’re not supposed to always be tired. That means something is draining you. You ok mate?
i mean, her instagram biography is "if at first you don't succeed, laugh until you do" and that pretty much sums up everything. great video, you explained something she feels deeply inside ❤️
And then I laugh all the time and people call me crazy. Sup with that ?
@@alexandert696 lol just keep being you, being happy!
Wouldn't really agree with just laughing off failures but I'd rather fail and be happy than succeed and be sad
@@MiniNoahTheWorm that's a good point
Anna Lívia Gomes that comment basically pretty much sums up how she got her job
emilia allows herself to find the humor in everything
my depression doesn't allow me to find humor in anything
touché
I feel that. I've struggled with depression for a lot of years and it took some flip flopping hard work to find humor again! But now, even though I still struggle a lot with depression, I can find joy by finding humor in the little things. Even if it's just my dog's flatulence. Don't give up! Laughter is one of the keys to dealing with chronic depression! Find a happy spot and focus on it, until your perspective shifts from seeing the black to only seeing that tiny speck of light, until the blackness is overcome by the good you focus on! I believe in you! 😇😇😇
Sometimes you have to "act" the part. After a while, and with some help, it will come naturally. Good luck
Just bcz she's smilling doesn't mean she's not depressed. She might be she might not be. Sometimes smiling is a trauma response.
I think after everything she's been through, she appreciates being alive and keeping things lifted. She's lucky and thankful to be alive and it shows. She's a beautiful soul
the best thing is that she was already like that before the tough times and the surgeries. She full on strenghtened those ideals through the tough times, quite impressive
Outoftheloop, what did she go through?
@@Despot993 She had 2 brain hemorages (I don't know how you spell it). Actually, a lot of people die from that, it's really dangerous, and Emilia got a positive message from it: "Be happy and appreciate life". She is amazing😊.
@@Marta-uv4id Like one of the characters in Peaky Blinders said "when you accept the reality you are about to die, you are dead already. You're free. Anything after that is an extra. And I fucking love it".
I love her but sometimes watching her makes me tired. I cant imagine ever having that much energy to easily display. It looks like work to me.
welcome to the introvert club
It doesn't have to be 24/7. Just enough to win people over.
welcome to the ambivert club.
Same. I love his videos and thinks he gives clear, applicable advice, but it's a little exhausting/overwhelming too. I think for people with social anxiety or who are more introverted sometimes just committing to showing up and trying to engage and put your best foot forward even when you don't feel your best should be considered a win. I won't always have the energy to apply these as much as I would like, so maybe I won't be the most charismatic person. I'm learning to be kind and generous towards myself. I'm still working on showing up and I'm accepting that :D
@@chai_lattes and that's okay 🤗
But my smile looks terrible. XD Thats the problem.
nobody could look bad smiling ....so please SMILE
no one's smile can look terrible. there's no such a thing
Awww 😊 You haven't met me. I am not bad looking but i do not have a great smile. 😅 But i do smile alot without knowing it. 😂
@@phantomdaze2599 glad to hear that ....well it's ok. I also have bad laugh but a beautiful smile so I am surviving beautifully 😂😆🥰,
I have a teeth gap and I avoid smiling with mouth open or close my mouth with my hand when I can't control myself because my gap is so great that I can even shove a straw to fill it :D
someone ones told me that my character reminded them of Emilia and it was the best compliment ive been given. I thought my constant smiling and giggling was annoying hahaha
Damn woww
Emilia Clarke: *exists*
Depression: *AM I JOKE TO YOU?*
😂😂😂
*WeLl tEcHnIcAlLY* -
Depression isn’t real
@@russiankodiak6849
The real depression was the friends we made along the way.
@@Raccon_Detective. Struggling to understand your quote I am
"How to be charming"
: Having good looking face....
*mission failed"
Omg why is the Internet so filled with pessimists it's getting annoying. No one is going to perceive you as attractive until you start perceiving yourself that way. Sorry not sorry, trying to help.
@@ani_n01 laughing-crying face emoji
Occasionally Grumpy
Yeah because genuinely unattractive people do not exist, uh-huh
@@steelbear2063 you're missing the point completely. I'm willing to bet you're "objectively" better looking than Peter Dinklage, but also im willing to bet if they'd put him and yiu in the same room even amongst people who don't know any of you, he'd make far more friends. Because you're a sad person with sad attitude. Sorrow and self pitty are the biggest turnoff there is regardless of preference. As for Emilia there are many girls as pretty as she is out there and many of them are hiding behind their complexes and bad attitude, and that's why you wouldn't perceive THEM as attractive.
Since nobody here seems to trust me on this, I'll have to insert self description lol : I'm short (5'4), have crooked nose, crooked teeth, brown hair, hazel eyes and too big jaw for a woman I'd say. There's nothing "objectively" attractive about me. And I wouldn't be proud of myself as I am now if I didn't have to learn how to love myself and how to show others that loving me makes sense. I don't want to "fix" my teeth or my nose because that makes me look like me, and I like myself. I don't want or need to look like a doll in other to leave an impression. In fact I think it might be harder for people with bland /flawless appearence to come across as interesting.
Damn she's so charismatic, I smiled throughout the video, her smile is infectious!
Same fam
*watches this because I'm so afraid of my friends secretly hating me*
Hey ... that's at least unlikely, if possible, have you considered getting some sleep à John Mulaney?
I don't even know her and I want to be her friend. This is what a genuine person looks like. Wow.
I want to be her boyfriend 😁
@@for-real-tho sike
I'd fall into depression if i had to do this 24/7
Seems exhausting
If you would that means you're just less charismatic, and it isn't a bad thing. Some people gets uneasy when confronted by overwhelming positive energy. It is always good to find a balance.
Not if you mean it. If you genuinely want to make others feel good, it becomes a habit. If you have to fake it then people can tell the interaction isn't genuine. The secret is to actually care about others and what they have to say.
@@thedirewolf5535 How would you say one can cultivate a desire to care for others without a self-serving reason?
@@Raz0rIG Find a reason that is self-sacrificial perhaps (??) Ultimately you operate out of abundance or scarcity. If you believe that attention is scarce, and you have to impress people to attract attention (or worse, believe that attention for you is so scarce that it's not worth trying) then it's hard to care for others without being self-serving. But if you believe that attention is abundant, then there's plenty to go round, and you can genuinely care for others. Counter-intuitively as you do they reciprocate and begin to genuinely care for you.
It's really, really hard though, to reprogram what has been programmed into you, modeled by your parents, and institutions when you were young. Changing your behaviour is not sustainable until you can change your beliefs, and that is in itself hard, unless you can change your identity. Think about a Fire Fighter, they go into a building on fire, because it's who they are - which drives what they do. Or an Olympian. They don't have a problem not smoking, because, well, they are an elite athlete.
So as you become a charismatic person, you change your beliefs about abundance, and your behaviour, geniune care for others follows suit.
Can I just say that even if you struggle, it's still way more fun caring for others and having fun with it, than it is trying to get attention for yourself.
Y'know that is so unlike Daenerys.
But you gotta hand it to her after knowing how she struggled through her life-threatening strokes and still put up that kind of face.
Grateful to be alive. Joie de vivre. She got it in spades. Dracarys
5:40 I used to be more like this, but people would relentlessly taunt me for being high or on drugs or tell me to calm down. It really hurt my feelings, so I am not like this around ppl unless I know they are safe.
That's really sad. People can be so mean-spirited.
1- be genuine. 2- compliment something about the person that they can control (outfit, personality, choice of food etc)
you can't control your personality
Warriorfall yes you can. You can choose to be a nice person or not, you can choose to be friendly and talkative and energetic or not.
...escalating into a debate on free will and determinism...
@@Warriorfall You are watching the same video as me right now right? The video about how to improve your personality on a channel about how to improve your personality right?
Charisma breakdown of andy samberg/jake peralta please
Please make a video on this
No thanks
AGREE
I've been asking for ages now!!
If Emilia Clarke and Chris Evans got together they would be unstoppable omg
To be voted king and queen of the world.
They're both my favourite individually.
I think you might be onto something
theyll rule the universe
Lol I’m related to him
I know people like this; I share a house with someone like this! They're just great to have around because they're never trying to put anyone down to temporarily prop themselves up, they don't stimulate conversations by picking the most negative thing on the news, and they're "present" when you interact with them. And the smiling! I just love it!
We need a TED Talk: "Being Charming is easier than you think" by Emilia Clarke
Rodrigo Vazquez+ I second this.
True
She is so charming because it's who she truly is without any faking 😭
10 minute video of "I have a crush on Emilia Clarke, here is why"
I mean most of us do lmao
I was smiling throughout the video... She really is lovely 😍
exactly hahahhaha
fo real hahha
@@g.c.4824 yo..its contagious i mean joy ...its contagious
Yuck
How To Be Effortlessly Charming.. Be super attractive to begin with.
Being radiantly beautiful might also have something to do with it....
pseudostew Nope.
And perfect teeth 😭😭
I do think her attitude and character is what makes her so beautiful. I don't know if she would be as loved if she were a grumpy, unhappy actress 😅 she is beautiful! Don't get me wrong! But I guess what I want to say is, her charming self makes her seem even more beautiful, than she actually is 😁 (not mentioning that that is always subjective too.)
@@hannab129 I totally agree. There are probably people who are more objectively beautiful than her but not as attractive.
seventhseance you’re a perfect weirdo
You should do a video on the Impractical Jokers.
That would be so awesome!
The title of the video will be "How to be funny while killing the audience with cringe"?
HEISENBERG Cringe? im sorry but they were anything but cringe
Putin did nothing wrong. They are insaaaaanley corny
Please don't.
When I somehow started to be genuinely interested in all the people I met, I could feel my level of charm increase by the interaction. Now calling yourself out as charming is a rather uncharming move, so I'm not going to do that. But, the level of connection and joyful meetings with all sorts of people came with my awaken curiosity for the story behind the person! Just saying.
so true!
I also took this tip from Charlies videos.
And if you want to "steal the spotlight", be extra with something you do or wear.
If you just look and talk about stuff like the majority of the ppl around you, you won't get a chance to stand out.
@@Tovashi
IKR? I'm an introvert, and I think I might have Social Anxiety, too. :/
I've been watching all these videos and trying to be charming and energetic, but I feel like I'm just always kind of inevitably quiet and awkward.
At first, when I start talking to people, I feel nervous, and then after a while, I just feel like my battery's being drained, and I'm kind of out of it and feel like I'm not really there, if that makes sense.
@@Tovashi
Yeah. And the thing is, I feel like I'm a cheerful person overall, it's just that socializing is so hard for me, lol.
I also just try to tell myself that other people probably aren't focusing on whatever small mistakes I made like I am.
Thanks for the advice!
Yes! thank you. Sometimes I feel like some manipulative alien taking notes in my head on normal human behavior and I should focus on the instances where I let it come naturally
@Flowered Sentiments
Yes, I've been planning on talking to a doctor about it.
Thank you for the advice. :)
Being like her is so tyring
God she's so free! I love her. She's the most genuine person on TV.
She's an actress. Most of this is surely rehearsed and internalized behavior.
@@iWillWakeYouUp oh yeah but it's so natural. Most definitely some of it is innate.
Maybe...but at a certain point you can't continue with pretense. What she does is too natural to be false.
I like your bar at last written every single point
@@iWillWakeYouUp yeah she's not a good actor though.