Not surprisingly, Dave says nothing to hold her accountable for anything; hate the double standards he has for men/women. He would never advise bankruptcy to a man, probably tell him to get a fourth job.
Her first mistake was taking on 2nd & 3rd jobs, that's when the courts up your Child Support payments. I commend her for trying to pay-off debts, but her case is proof sometimes it is more beneficial to declare Bankruptcy over taking on additional jobs to pay down debts.
The breakup of family structure is bad enough but the courts just make it impossible for people to proceed. I had a coworker who had to pay child support to his ex who had primary custody. He had to pay 25% of his gross salary to them and then all payroll deductions and taxes were taken form his 75%. How is that fair at all?
Its not a one size fits all. Is the ex working? Did you have a good lawyer? Was the judge having a bad day? Did his income increase over the years? Does he receive quarterly raises, side income? How many kids? So many factors. Justice is never “fair”
You didn't say how much your co-worker made. Most states have a minimum that must be paid on the 1st child, then a smaller amount for each additional child. For example: if he made $1K/month and the state's minimum for 1st child is $250/month, then that would work out to 25% of his gross monthly income.
The attorney should know that there’s a limit to how much of her paycheck can be garnished and if child support is already being garnished, what more does he think he’s gonna get? Doesn’t sound like he’s a very good attorney or very bright! I once had an attorney bill me for more hours in one day than most people are awake and he told me he woke up in the middle of the night thinking about my case. I’m not paying for your insomnia!
@@italoddd Isn't that the old dead guy that was found in his apartment after spending the night with the heavyset woman? I think his name was Kevin, not Kelvin.
Why was she fighting the child support using an attorney? The extra money for the attorney could have covered month's if not years worth of child support. Amazing
People always get lawyers in situations like this because they know have done wrong by not paying the child support that they were ordered to pay they do stupid things like go spend thousands on a lawyer to fight child support that they’re still going to owe on top of paying for a lawyer.
She said that she didn't pay her child support? All I heard was she didn't play the lawyer that was re[resenting her in the fight to keep the support from being raised up. Maybe I missed something.
She pays child support and has 50/50 custody. Her debt is for the attorney probably because her ex keeps asking for more money and putting in more motions not because she’s not paying child support
Divorce really is $50 grand... And this time it's the woman paying. Reverse the genders and Dave would be applauding the woman for getting all she can.
This is usually how it is working for the fathers. It's interesting seeing the genders reversed. Usually when a father who owes child support to a mother who does not work and keeps taking him to court files for bankruptcy, the world calls him a dead beat dad.
Indeed it is interesting. Don't know why Dave seem so shocked about her paying child support and owing $25k. That's common with the guys I know and more than $25k. The guy seem to be using the same weaponized child support tactic women have been using against men since the 90s.
She’s not telling the whole story must have had dirt on her being a bad mother 75% of the time the mom gets the kids. You can make payments to a lawyer. She must have fell behind.
That's not how it works. With 50/50, child support is usually computed on contributions by both parents. Each parent is assigned a percentage. It appears the mom has more to pay because she is a higher earner. It has nothing to do with her being a bad mother.
80% of the time courts side with a women or wife and she knows she will likely get away with initiating a divorce for no good reason. If this guy cheated or was beating her I would feel for her.
I know.hate it when ho*s bring out gender equality when it suits them but then turn around and say men should be responsible for this and that when they are feeling entitled
Well yeah but they don’t usually have 50/50 custody either. And then dad gets to have his adult college venture subsidized by her? That’s wrong no matter what genders are on which side.
You weren't listening. Her Ex is a scumbag and being a full-time student and making $10.50/hr means that she is funding his lifestyle. I wish we knew how old she and her daughter were, and why she's paying child support on a 50/50 patenting plan, doesn't seem right.
She said that she didn't pay her child support? All I heard was she didn't pay the lawyer that was representing her in the fight to keep the support from being raised up. Maybe I missed something.
I know this video has probably posted after the fact but I would suggest that you file the bankruptcy before you go to court tomorrow, because I guarantee he already has the paperwork drawn up to act on it and he will serve you notice that same day and possibly take anything you have in the bank.
@@Astro95Media Me too, but this is the continuous taking the non-custodial parent back to court to keep try to raise the support. Two totally different issues.
One lawyer in town can make a good living. Two lawyers, and dang if they both don't get rich. I believe it was Mark Twain that said that. In my twisted mind: Lawyer A calls up Lawyer B and tells him "Hey man, let's keep this going. I think we can still get some more fees out of them."
Don't be so petty, it's about the cost associated. Men are more deadbeats than women. Just look at yourself, no position to raise a boy into a man when you're so childish.
Child support should only be paid when a parent is actually providing most of the support. Why is a parent paying child support when he/she has the kid 50% of the time.
Not the child support issue at all. It's the continuous taking the non-custodial parent back to court to keep try to raise the support. Two totally different issues.
Dave you are giving her a "aww pooor baby" approach...she deserves the same as all the other men..if you don't pay you go to jail...doesn't matter if you physically don't make enough...she deserves jail
These type of child support cases are so sad to me. If the custody is split 50/50 then no one should be paying child support. Why should she pay child support for a child she is already supporting 50% of the time. Why should he not have to support his own child? He only has her 50% of the time and then he's getting money for that time. It's such a messed up system.
Just so I understand, you think if a man was making $100,000 before the divorce and the wife was not working and then they get divorced that the wife should not receive any money from my husband because they have 50/50 custody? Another words regardless of who makes more, each parent just pays for the care while they have that child? Because this is not how it happens in court.
It was better to be honest from the beginning!!!! She should have told the lawyer from the start my situation is X. People I lived with were not able to pay for s**t and they were going to try to get access but refused to leave when they did not have to money. Imagine if the law had to pay every time everyone ran up bills they could not pay knowing they did not have it to begin with.
"bankruptcy is a horrible process to go through" I love you Dave, but when I was facing over 80k in medical bills and consumer debt, the stress of all these debts, garnishments and law suits was far worse to bare than the bankruptcy process. I literally met with an attorney to review my case, paid the $1200 fee to file, Had my court date, and was clear of everything within 3 months. Best thing I ever did. 3 Years later my credit is already back to a 718. I bought a house 6 months ago, $0 debt other than the mortgage, 12k in an emergency fun, fully investing in my retirement. I've never felt so free. I cant image going back 3 years ago and still having the stress and anxiety of trying to work through the debts and law suits. Best thing I ever did and Ive never looked back or have any regrets.
Thanks for sharing. I'm filing right now over an 08 debt that turned into a wage garnishment. They added on 26,000 in interest. That will take me years to pay off. My debt was only 10,000. I can't wait till its filed.
@@michaelbutler1458 . I totally agree. I didn’t eat for 3 days before I filed due to stress. I paid way more than you did. 2,700 with Geraci law 🥲.How did you get your credit back up? What are best ways to do it and which cards are best ? Mine should be dismissed 60-90 days they said.
Well well well ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun. This is what us men have been dealing with for years! I feel bad for her but it’s good to see that the system can go both ways.
8:22 Ken should've just kept quiet the entire episode! 😭😭😭 Horrendous advice dude! yeah just find a second higher paying job, why didn't this lady just think of that already?? 🤪
He's OK stiffing the lawyer by filing bankruptcy? She know how much the lawyer was charging. Why should the lawyer be out what he is legally owed? Why should the lawyer work for free? Dave want's to give the lawyer only 5k?
I just woke up from a nightmare that my wonderful husband and i separated and i’m with this new person, and he took out all of our retirement savings, sought a Dave Ramsey individual stock pick decided by the alignment of the moon and the sun 😭😭😭 woke up hugging my husband tightly and went back to this channel
This call is a clear example of Ramsay Network hosts never being willing to criticize women. Not hating, still love everything they do just saying, if this was a man calling Dave would tell him to pull himself up by the bootstraps.
Why? She fought her child support in court to the point of stupid, then stiffed her lawyer on his services. If this was a man calling in, Dave would have ripped him a new one that he needs to support his children and pay his lawyer.
With 50/50 custody she shouldn’t have to Pay any child support. Her ex is a full time student and works part time?? Too bad. He should be made to get a full time job and be a part time student.
Dave she need to despite the lawyers fee with the bar. Lay her case to the bar they may decide to stop the large fee. I did it won because they saw the lawyerbilled to much and remove the fees
Been listening to the show for many years and love Dave, does anyone else get the sense that he has been extra negative with callers lately? I find myself not agreeing with his tone and delivery a lot lately. Maybe it’s just me
How was he negative with this caller? He treated her with the usual “woman can do no wrong” attitude; if a man called in the same situation, he would never have suggested bankruptcy.
I can explain this. My kids mom and I are not together (she is an excellent mom though), so we do 50-50. I make more than she does by a decent amount, so when that happens you need to pay a difference of income to that person. It was kinda hard to get used to, because your financial situation is tied to another person to some degree, but thems the brakes.
It's a game women usually play... full time student as a career choice. Always stay registered for enough classes and get a check. They don't have to pass the classes... they don't have to ever get a degree. Claim emotional damage as the reason they never graduate.
If she from California? Sounds like all the attorneys out here, lol. Between filing for bankruptcy (10k) and paying this attorney (25k), child support would have been way less.
Feel bad for this woman. There are exceptions but women always want equal rights and responsibilities until it comes to child support and custody. I have joint custody with both my sons and i still have to pay child support. Mother works some dead end job and gets gov assistance. Fully capable of working but chooses not to because why would she when everything gets handed to her. The system is completely broken.
She's not going to qualify for a chapter 7 making 65k owing $25k. She will fail the means test and end up on a payment plan. He knows she doesn't qualify for a chapter 7. That's why he's suing her.
Honestly if he is actively trying to garnish her wages while not working, she should go after full custody arguing he doesn't have the ability to take care of the kids. Child support falls on its face when genders are reversed. She isn't a piggy bank while they have 50% custody and doesn't deserve to be robbed of a life with her kids AND her paycheck
Anyone else notice the ex husband and the lawyer the problem. She takes no responsibility for anything. I bet there’s a lot more to the story.
Not surprisingly, Dave says nothing to hold her accountable for anything; hate the double standards he has for men/women. He would never advise bankruptcy to a man, probably tell him to get a fourth job.
That's because Dave can be trash sometimes.
@@bryankovar2930 this comment no makey senses.
@@David-wo9unYou have Dave Ramsay confused with Gerry Springer.
What world be the point of verbally flogging her for things she can't go back in time and charge?
Imagine had this been a man calling in. Dave would have ripped him a new one! Told him to man up & support his kids. Smh
Exactly he would have!!
are your feelings hurt?
@@Xander71267 not in the slightest but clearly yours are to be commenting 2 years later💀💀😭😭😭
Practicing law for almost 25 years. Something here doesn't make sense.
She's obviously leaving certain things out. Maybe the attorney told her that she would have to pay the child support, but she still tried to fight it?
Yeah I agree. She's not being honest about something.
She was messing around? Maybe.
Yep, straight psycho
she's gambling her paychecks to try to get rid of child suport
We need an update on how this turned out for her.
It's only been six months.
“Sell your car, beans and rice rice and beans, and get a 4th job delivering pizzas, boom done better than you deserve.”
That's the approach Dave wouldn't taken if it was a male calling
Her first mistake was taking on 2nd & 3rd jobs, that's when the courts up your Child Support payments. I commend her for trying to pay-off debts, but her case is proof sometimes it is more beneficial to declare Bankruptcy over taking on additional jobs to pay down debts.
lol 😂😂😂
The breakup of family structure is bad enough but the courts just make it impossible for people to proceed.
I had a coworker who had to pay child support to his ex who had primary custody. He had to pay 25% of his gross salary to them and then all payroll deductions and taxes were taken form his 75%. How is that fair at all?
This is why you sign prenups. If she refuses, red flag
I think state law regarding child custody has precedence over prenups
He should have married better
Its not a one size fits all. Is the ex working? Did you have a good lawyer? Was the judge having a bad day? Did his income increase over the years? Does he receive quarterly raises, side income? How many kids? So many factors. Justice is never “fair”
You didn't say how much your co-worker made. Most states have a minimum that must be paid on the 1st child, then a smaller amount for each additional child. For example: if he made $1K/month and the state's minimum for 1st child is $250/month, then that would work out to 25% of his gross monthly income.
Used to be men in this position. How the tides have turned.
They have 50/50 custody. Why is she paying him? That makes no sense.
@@susiex6669 she makes more money than him. 50/50 does not guarantee no child support
@@susiex6669guys pay child support on 50/50 every day your just saying this cause it’s a girl now lolll she deserves it
@@susiex6669the higher wage earner gets stuck with CS and sometimes alimony. It’s horrible.
Lady needs to pay her child support. Attorney fees are on her
Sounds like she is trying to keep it from be raised and raised. I know how that was.
@@pep590 Yup, she was fighting it thinking she would win!
The attorney should know that there’s a limit to how much of her paycheck can be garnished and if child support is already being garnished, what more does he think he’s gonna get? Doesn’t sound like he’s a very good attorney or very bright! I once had an attorney bill me for more hours in one day than most people are awake and he told me he woke up in the middle of the night thinking about my case. I’m not paying for your insomnia!
Instead of paying what is legally obligated to support her kids, she gave it to an attorney. What was she thinking?
Probably why she doesn't have custody lol.
Kelvin Samuel always said, "woman need to be "RIGHT" every time"
She didnt give it to her attorney, she used his services, didn’t pay the bill and that’s why she is being sued.
@@ChampippleD I meant that was her intention. To eliminate the child support, by paying an attorney to get that done.
@@italoddd Isn't that the old dead guy that was found in his apartment after spending the night with the heavyset woman? I think his name was Kevin, not Kelvin.
Why was she fighting the child support using an attorney? The extra money for the attorney could have covered month's if not years worth of child support. Amazing
Pride. She let pride dig her into a bigger hole 🕳
People always get lawyers in situations like this because they know have done wrong by not paying the child support that they were ordered to pay they do stupid things like go spend thousands on a lawyer to fight child support that they’re still going to owe on top of paying for a lawyer.
I have no sympathy for anyone that doesn’t pay child support. I grew up in a single parent household with no child support.
She said that she didn't pay her child support? All I heard was she didn't play the lawyer that was re[resenting her in the fight to keep the support from being raised up. Maybe I missed something.
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No child support should be paid in 50/50 custody. You both pay for your kids during your half, makes sense to me
@@gmarie3053 That would be logical and fair ... not something family courts are know for ...
Family court is a business! It’s all about the money not best for the kids
She pays child support and has 50/50 custody. Her debt is for the attorney probably because her ex keeps asking for more money and putting in more motions not because she’s not paying child support
Yep!
Yes
Get more money 💰! Equal 🟰 rights
Yaaassss king. Get that bag.
So....women have been doing that to men since the 70S....
This is wild, two adults so spiteful they'd rather pay a lawyer all their income than get along and do what's best for their child.
Doesn't pay her child support, doesn't want to pay her attorney's fees - this woman is 100% irresponsible and Dave is simping for her.
I find that Dave sympathizes with women more than men in general
She pays her child support, she owes an attorney 25k largely due to the pandemic delays. Listen
@@simplybeef8232 it’s almost as if men and women are different psychologically, physical etc who knew??
@@tylerhandsome7344 okay you go ahead and let women walk all over you, just cause they cry and want their way
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Divorce really is $50 grand...
And this time it's the woman paying.
Reverse the genders and Dave would be applauding the woman for getting all she can.
Yup
Incel
Incel
This demonstrates what divorced men have been dealing with for decades. The courts grind up divorced parents
This is usually how it is working for the fathers. It's interesting seeing the genders reversed. Usually when a father who owes child support to a mother who does not work and keeps taking him to court files for bankruptcy, the world calls him a dead beat dad.
Indeed it is interesting. Don't know why Dave seem so shocked about her paying child support and owing $25k. That's common with the guys I know and more than $25k.
The guy seem to be using the same weaponized child support tactic women have been using against men since the 90s.
@@blackworldtraveler3711 but but but women shouldn't have to do that it's unfair bahaha
Good point. If it was a guy calling, then Dave would probably tell him to call the Waambulance.
@@blackworldtraveler3711 You did hear in the vid that the 25k was owed to the attny - not child support, right?
It is 2022!
If this was a man that called. Dave would say to just pay the bill.
After spending 20 mins saying what a piece of trash you are and saying you should goto jail
This lady sounds like her own worst enemy
She’s not telling the whole story must have had dirt on her being a bad mother 75% of the time the mom gets the kids. You can make payments to a lawyer. She must have fell behind.
In Florida it's easy to get 50 / 50 custody for men.
That's not how it works. With 50/50, child support is usually computed on contributions by both parents. Each parent is assigned a percentage. It appears the mom has more to pay because she is a higher earner. It has nothing to do with her being a bad mother.
EQUALITY!!!! no excuses in life
She is 💯 honest! Men usually never 👎 get child support and alimony! Equal rights!
Dudes livin good.
Get your money kings!
WE ARE KINGS. Stay on our bag men.
80% of the time courts side with a women or wife and she knows she will likely get away with initiating a divorce for no good reason. If this guy cheated or was beating her I would feel for her.
I know.hate it when ho*s bring out gender equality when it suits them but then turn around and say men should be responsible for this and that when they are feeling entitled
Considering the courts are biased in favor of woman in custody cases, the father must be quite an amazing parent to win custody
She said custody was 50/50 🤔
In a couple of weeks ima start trying to call in and describe the exact situation from a guys prospective and see if he acts totally different
Pull up past videos and you will have your answer. The woman is always the victim and the man is never working hard enough.
Will call the cops himself to get you tossed in jail
Well yeah but they don’t usually have 50/50 custody either. And then dad gets to have his adult college venture subsidized by her? That’s wrong no matter what genders are on which side.
@@aint2proud2meg yes women get 50/50 custody and child support all the time...quit turning a blind eye and just do 10 minutes of research
@@simplybeef8232 doesn't make it right
That's dumb, she should have paid the child support. She was better off paying the child support and instead of trying to fight it. 🤦🏽♀️
The lawyers are the problem.
You weren't listening. Her Ex is a scumbag and being a full-time student and making $10.50/hr means that she is funding his lifestyle. I wish we knew how old she and her daughter were, and why she's paying child support on a 50/50 patenting plan, doesn't seem right.
Mistakes were made.
She said that she didn't pay her child support? All I heard was she didn't pay the lawyer that was representing her in the fight to keep the support from being raised up. Maybe I missed something.
Has to be more to this story!
Agree. I get the feeling she did something
I know this video has probably posted after the fact but I would suggest that you file the bankruptcy before you go to court tomorrow, because I guarantee he already has the paperwork drawn up to act on it and he will serve you notice that same day and possibly take anything you have in the bank.
Probably cannot bankrupt on child support, men have tried, Judges are wise to that
Paying child support had my pockets on life support 🤣
You mEan taking care of your kids
This is true equality. Enjoy
Bingo. My ex-wife pays me child support through 2032. And it was a female judge who handed down that decision. Amazing.
@@Astro95Media Me too, but this is the continuous taking the non-custodial parent back to court to keep try to raise the support. Two totally different issues.
@@pep590 well she needs to support him...she makes more...HE deserves half of her stuff...INCLUDING 401k
Caller: Omg I can’t do this anymore I just want to give up I’m paying too much . I just want to cry.
Men: first time huh
@craigadams3639 lol I love it 😂😂😂
Good job on the attorney. Keep going man. Should have paid the bills lady.
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That part. That man represented her for two years.
One lawyer in town can make a good living. Two lawyers, and dang if they both don't get rich. I believe it was Mark Twain that said that.
In my twisted mind: Lawyer A calls up Lawyer B and tells him "Hey man, let's keep this going. I think we can still get some more fees out of them."
happens more than ppl think
Child support sorry lady happens to men allll the time. Allll the time. Equality 🤗
Don't be so petty, it's about the cost associated. Men are more deadbeats than women. Just look at yourself, no position to raise a boy into a man when you're so childish.
@@CaBdosdos Equality. I hope to see more of this in the future. Hits a little close to home huh.
Child support should only be paid when a parent is actually providing most of the support. Why is a parent paying child support when he/she has the kid 50% of the time.
@@rachelcarper9297 Happens all the time to men. Equality. Sucks don't it.
Not the child support issue at all. It's the continuous taking the non-custodial parent back to court to keep try to raise the support. Two totally different issues.
This is literally how every man ends up after a divorce. Zero sympathy. Suck it up like almost every man has to.
Ken was a little unrealistic at the end and even Dave couldn’t look like he agreed lol.
Dave you are giving her a "aww pooor baby" approach...she deserves the same as all the other men..if you don't pay you go to jail...doesn't matter if you physically don't make enough...she deserves jail
Dave would’ve called the cops himself if it was a man
Men are different than women dude.
These type of child support cases are so sad to me. If the custody is split 50/50 then no one should be paying child support. Why should she pay child support for a child she is already supporting 50% of the time. Why should he not have to support his own child? He only has her 50% of the time and then he's getting money for that time. It's such a messed up system.
Welcome to being a man. We typically take it up the poop chute 99% of the time. She needs to step up and stop being a dead beat dad.
😂😂😂 million of men are doing the same but you care ab the one women doing it sad sad
Just so I understand, you think if a man was making $100,000 before the divorce and the wife was not working and then they get divorced that the wife should not receive any money from my husband because they have 50/50 custody? Another words regardless of who makes more, each parent just pays for the care while they have that child? Because this is not how it happens in court.
People and their messes and their bad marriages
Happens to thousands of men everyday. Welcome to equality.
I don't feel sorry for her women been screwing men over in the child support department for a long time.
You owe him money. Pay him.
The father has probably got primary custody and she gets weekends and holidays ... sadly I don’t believe her
I’m glad a woman is experiencing what us men go through all the time at Family Court.
It should be “I’m sorry ANYONE is going through this”
SMH. Why is it always a gender issue?
@@MarcyJ2F Ever see a man leave divorce court with a duffel bag full of cash? me either. Bout time....equal rights!
@@alinatamashevich3354 you must be the side chick/2nd or 3rd wife. Bad experience?
@@MarcyJ2F Nope, I am not as dumb as you are. I can spot a player/Chad from a mile away.
I'm going to get my popcorn ready for this comment section all day!
Stop fighting the child support & pay it. It's costing you too much money
She owes this to the lawyer....not child support
@@JaneDough23every time she fights it, the lawyer gets paid
I think there’s more to this story. We (and Dave) are getting a 5 minute story on years issues.
She thinks she is going to win, cause the courts are stacked against men.
You know it.
The lawyer is gonna act on it as soon as he wins. Come on, Dave.
It was better to be honest from the beginning!!!! She should have told the lawyer from the start my situation is X. People I lived with were not able to pay for s**t and they were going to try to get access but refused to leave when they did not have to money. Imagine if the law had to pay every time everyone ran up bills they could not pay knowing they did not have it to begin with.
Did Dave just say he would borrow it?
"bankruptcy is a horrible process to go through" I love you Dave, but when I was facing over 80k in medical bills and consumer debt, the stress of all these debts, garnishments and law suits was far worse to bare than the bankruptcy process. I literally met with an attorney to review my case, paid the $1200 fee to file, Had my court date, and was clear of everything within 3 months. Best thing I ever did. 3 Years later my credit is already back to a 718. I bought a house 6 months ago, $0 debt other than the mortgage, 12k in an emergency fun, fully investing in my retirement. I've never felt so free. I cant image going back 3 years ago and still having the stress and anxiety of trying to work through the debts and law suits. Best thing I ever did and Ive never looked back or have any regrets.
Thanks for sharing. I'm filing right now over an 08 debt that turned into a wage garnishment. They added on 26,000 in interest. That will take me years to pay off. My debt was only 10,000. I can't wait till its filed.
Hope you thanked the tax payers for paying your debt
@@michaelbutler1458 . I totally agree. I didn’t eat for 3 days before I filed due to stress. I paid way more than you did. 2,700 with Geraci law 🥲.How did you get your credit back up? What are best ways to do it and which cards are best ? Mine should be dismissed 60-90 days they said.
@@iblizzard7573 Did you tell Dave that ? He filed himself.
men go through this all the time.
I filed bankruptcy and it wasn't horrible at all, it was simply a necessary financial decision.
In some countries it means never getting a job again cos u have to declare it on every form.
Well well well ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun. This is what us men have been dealing with for years! I feel bad for her but it’s good to see that the system can go both ways.
BINGO, perfect comment
Yeah, some people married for the wrong reason, wrong person, and had kids to make a bigger mess.
Nobody will loan her 5 k unfortunately
8:22 Ken should've just kept quiet the entire episode! 😭😭😭 Horrendous advice dude! yeah just find a second higher paying job, why didn't this lady just think of that already?? 🤪
Absurd advice. Easier said then done. Oo ya I want to be a nuclear engineer and make bank why didn’t I think of doing that
He's OK stiffing the lawyer by filing bankruptcy?
She know how much the lawyer was charging. Why should the lawyer be out what he is legally owed?
Why should the lawyer work for free?
Dave want's to give the lawyer only 5k?
I hope he sabotages her case for worse
If only all Attorney's only got 5k per case. Think what a Wonderfull world it would be.
Just start going to school too. Lol
when there was a pause followed by Dave saying "yeah, you needed a new attorney "
Ken gets very little speaking time when he teams up with Dave. Sometimes it's hard to watch Dave talk over him and cut him off. 😕
It's called Ramsey solutions not Coleman solutions
@@cutehumor cool 👍
Anything to get Ken less time to talk, the better honestly
@@cutehumor 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭this comment got me
In the end the house always wins, lawyers and courts as well, try and avoid these sharks/systems 🥺🙏 edit: I forgot banks🙄
Keep up the good work
I hope the husband gets everything he can out of her.
I just woke up from a nightmare that my wonderful husband and i separated and i’m with this new person, and he took out all of our retirement savings, sought a Dave Ramsey individual stock pick decided by the alignment of the moon and the sun 😭😭😭 woke up hugging my husband tightly and went back to this channel
This call is a clear example of Ramsay Network hosts never being willing to criticize women.
Not hating, still love everything they do just saying, if this was a man calling Dave would tell him to pull himself up by the bootstraps.
How is the ex able to afford an attorney to file motions to get more child support on 10:50 an hour?
Free legal aide
You can’t file bankruptcy on any kind of child support.
Welcome to being a man in America
Poor you, imagine being a woman in America 😐
Do it! Dave did!
Why do I feel like this isn’t all the details involving the attorney
Dave should help her and give her 25000
That's pocket change for him.
Why? She fought her child support in court to the point of stupid, then stiffed her lawyer on his services. If this was a man calling in, Dave would have ripped him a new one that he needs to support his children and pay his lawyer.
Welcome to the club lady.
With 50/50 custody she shouldn’t have to
Pay any child support. Her ex is a full time student and works part time?? Too bad. He should be made to get a full time job and be a part time student.
If you can’t afford an attorney don’t hire one. Attorneys are not supposed to work for free.
Another victim of "wamanism" only this time it's friendly fire. Welcome to the club sis
Got news for her -- child support is NOT dischargeable in bankruptcy!!
Dave she need to despite the lawyers fee with the bar. Lay her case to the bar they may decide to stop the large fee. I did it won because they saw the lawyerbilled to much and remove the fees
A casualty of administrative warfare. The dangers of marriage and divorce are that everyone ends up bankrupt except for the lawyers
Welcome to the club, ma'am. Nice blame shifting, btw.
She has a judgement for a reason that involves personal accountability issues.
Been listening to the show for many years and love Dave, does anyone else get the sense that he has been extra negative with callers lately? I find myself not agreeing with his tone and delivery a lot lately. Maybe it’s just me
I personally feel like Dave gives a very tiny pass on women in general over a man
How was he negative with this caller? He treated her with the usual “woman can do no wrong” attitude; if a man called in the same situation, he would never have suggested bankruptcy.
Why would one parent have to pay child support to the other, if it's 50-50 custody?
I can explain this. My kids mom and I are not together (she is an excellent mom though), so we do 50-50. I make more than she does by a decent amount, so when that happens you need to pay a difference of income to that person.
It was kinda hard to get used to, because your financial situation is tied to another person to some degree, but thems the brakes.
I’m just going to say it, Dave is probably team Amber Heard 😂😂😂
I can't 😆😆😆
Another video that teaches us to stay single and never get married, it's just not worth it...
A-fricken-men!
FACTS 💯
Having a girlfriend maybe but I don’t think I’ll marry again.
She’s been doing this for four years and he’s still a full time student? Will at some point he not be a full time student? Costs should go down then.
It's a game women usually play... full time student as a career choice.
Always stay registered for enough classes and get a check. They don't have to pass the classes... they don't have to ever get a degree. Claim emotional damage as the reason they never graduate.
The man is beating her in womens own game
If she from California? Sounds like all the attorneys out here, lol. Between filing for bankruptcy (10k) and paying this attorney (25k), child support would have been way less.
bankruptcy for 25 +10 grand is a lot of pain for not a lot of money
Feel bad for this woman. There are exceptions but women always want equal rights and responsibilities until it comes to child support and custody. I have joint custody with both my sons and i still have to pay child support. Mother works some dead end job and gets gov assistance. Fully capable of working but chooses not to because why would she when everything gets handed to her. The system is completely broken.
Reason number 2000 to not have kids or get married.
She's not going to qualify for a chapter 7 making 65k owing $25k. She will fail the means test and end up on a payment plan. He knows she doesn't qualify for a chapter 7. That's why he's suing her.
Can she get legal aide help? No more attorney fees
Ask judge for a payment plan. Pay 1$ a month
If they have 50/50 custody why is there child support?
Income differences. The parent earning more has the pay the parent earning less. If enough time passes without you paying things don’t go well.
Lol this is what millions of men have to deal with every day. Sucks doesn’t it?
Lady....just file a bankruptcy, sometimes you have to do something to get a break. Seriously just do it
But she owes the money; she signed on to the terms of the attorney and his fees.
Honestly if he is actively trying to garnish her wages while not working, she should go after full custody arguing he doesn't have the ability to take care of the kids. Child support falls on its face when genders are reversed. She isn't a piggy bank while they have 50% custody and doesn't deserve to be robbed of a life with her kids AND her paycheck
The ex isn’t trying to garnish her wages, her attorney is.
It's what women do to men all the time in divorces...
This time it's the woman who got burned for once.
@@gottesma The father still gets to see the kids. 🙄
Most lawyers are bottom feeders
A woman is getting dragged by the family court system? Hold on a second. Im going to cry everyone a river.
Dave never misses an opportunity to brag.
Calls like this makes glad I don’t have kids. Drama free over here
Calls like this make me glad I had kids with someone I’m enjoying raising them alongside. Drama free over here as well.
Yeah I prefer renting my nieces and nephews.
I wish I knew her social media name. I’d like to know how this plays out. Maybe even call out the lawyer.
For what? She knew how much the lawyer was charging.
So lawyers should work for free?
can you work for me doing what you do for free. for two years of your life. and i dont have to pay you just like the lawyer and this lady?