"I didn't purposefully GHOST her..." | Kyojun Q&A | Ramyun and Chill
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ม.ค. 2023
- Kyojun/KJ expresses his thoughts after Ramyun and Chill! He opens up about Tiffany, Bella and some mean comments!
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you guys should extend it to March unless you ar planning on filming soon cause most people are waiting for their paychecks to come in
Done it. I really want you to be able to do R&C 2 . Dont give up!
Just pledged! Good luck
No cause why was Tiffany made to read hate after hate about her character but we out here buttering KJ up?😭😭 anyways glad they all moved on
right…
Right
Weird. Maybe they don’t think he can handle it.
I’m just waiting for the Erika interview! ☕️
Yo I'm still mad at how they made Tiff the bad guy here. Honestly.
Oooh KJ.... that "Is Bella really that chill if she calls it 'ghosting'?" narrative is major deflecting. I'm pretty sure he knew exactly what he was doing... just like when he tried planting a seed of doubt in Tiffany about Changhak's interest in her by suggesting Changhak might only like her, because she speaks the best Korean. Not a good look.
Minjae, Chan and Chang are more sincere and gentlemen-like than Kj and Dan.
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@@christinejames4013 facts! This guy always gave me major fake vibes
Mhmmm. This comment is the one, lol. He knows.
Yup, KJ is still fake on camera down to the last cell. He knew he was ghosting Bella. That's the kind of person he is. It's very obvious with him trying to pin All the blame on her.
Anyways team Bella all the way
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Even after the show is over sir still gaslighting lmao, it's not his introverted personality we don't like, its the fact that he still turning back around on Bella saying maybe shes isn't that "cool" for saying she was ghosted, but being "cool" doesn't mean you don't have any feelings.
Bruh, KJ feels like the type to gaslight someone especially if he is in a relationship with them. What does he mean by ‘if she is chill will she refer to it as ghosting?’ Boy stop playing! That’s exactly what you did
The fact that he never owned up to whatever he did rather he came up with one of the dumbest excuse I have ever heard! Just shift pls. 🙄
yes, I had a thing with someone like this and that's just what happened, I started seeing the patterns pretty quick.
KJ is just a terrible guy. I hope girls don't fall for his facade
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Kyujun play boy
Lol shift..that's such a Nigerian thing to say.. I agree with u, he is vert manipulative. Never liked him when I saw him
dan and him talking about what happened with bella… like children. “is she really chill if she said ‘ghost’” YES. because that’s how she felt. if he took the time to watch what we all saw maybe he would have better perspective.
didn't the girls on the show gossip like children too? LOL
@@uok6216 He basically ignored everything he did wrong and pinned the blame on Bella. It felt like manipulating the viewers. Let me put it this way: Bella was upset that Kj began ignoring her after the night they made out in the Ramyeon and Chill room - not that he went with someone else to the Ramyeon and Chill room or began talking to the other girls. He avoided all eye contact with her intentionally and acted really cold. Yet, he has the audacity to say that Bella is the one who is being unreasonable and that's how the show works...smh
He knows what he did his reaction to it shows his disrespect of her and her feelings then and even know
@@bierangtamen Exactly. He seems to be going w that narrative especially since the one black male commentator mentioned that before as an excuse even after she voiced her feelings on it and he did do it period . he just dont care
I was ok with him until he said that then my opinion of him plummeted. He already hurt Bella once, why did he have to put her down more? That guy sucks.
Queens are people with emotions that need to be expressed too. 😤
I hope Bella sees how hypocritical these people at DKDKTV is. At first I thought it was great for Bella to come back for season2, but after watching the the directors previous video discussion and how the support Kj even while he was wrong, I feel like they are a bunch of hypocrite. This interviewer just keeps fawning over KJ, it is very insightfully and hard to watch.
The bottom line is, most of the viewers hates KJ and said many nasty things about him, so what are these messages that he is reading?
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Anna is the interviewer and she isn’t fawning over KJ. In fact, she is good friends with Bella.
I don’t like KJ, but the producers probably picked these comments/questions for variety. If they didn’t pick these questions/ comments, it would be comment after comment about KJ is boring or KJ is manipulative and ghosted Bella. All of the comments would be negative (which isn’t the problem). The problem would be that he would respond to the same comment over and over, which would be even more boring or would make an extremely short video.
@@daneshapetgrave4486 But they had Tiffany do that
He went from "we didn't have enough time to spend together" to "we spent a lot of time together." Which one is it? 😂 This interview gave me everything I thought it would 😑
I thought I was the only wanted who kept pointing that out. I don’t get when people say he’s calculating because if he’s calculating he would be hypnotical
I thought no one else caught that.
Sorry but listen, if you are not interested in someone after spending time with them, ghosting is the least mature thing to do and the "not enough time" argument is bs, dude. C'mon! Letting someone know "hey, I know we spend time together but Im more interested in getting to know other girls, so can we stay friends?" That does not take more than a minute to say and finding the time isnt impossible.
Since the very beginning this dude gave me a bad vibe and after legit ignoring Bella, I was not surprised.
His actions show dishonesty and also, he is not genuine, all his interactions felt so fake and unnatural.
Exactly. It would be perfectly fine if he had been upfront with her about his intentions, but he wasn't. He wanted to have a little fun, and there's no crime in that. I will never begrudge a guy for that at all with one exception. Do not lie to me about it. State your intentions for how you plan to use my time from the get go, and I can weigh the pros and cons myself. Not doing that means you don't respect my time or my judgment. It is discourteous and extremely disrespectful.
@@shemac1482 you said it perfectly! 🙌
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Thing is he had to ghost Bella, that was his only option in his mind considering that’s what he did. This is because he lied to Bella and said he had no interest in pursuing Tiffany. This guy is a simple case of a self righteous “lier” and he strike me as someone who finds it hard to see his faults so hence he will struggle to take accountability.
I’m disappointed by the person asking questions cause follow up question should’ve been “ why he lied to Bella about not having any interest with Tiffany’.
One perfect word to describe him is CALCULATING. The disrespect to have Tiffany read all her negative comments and like someone else before me said, his were only the comments that butter him up.
Honestly I liked Kyojun from Giggle & think he’s attractive, but I can’t get over how he sees nothing wrong with his behavior towards Bella. It has changed how I see him & to say she’s not chilled because she used the word “ghost” is ludicrous. What woman would be okay with you kissing & touching her & ignoring her afterwards? I think Bella handled it with class because some sistahs would have clowned his arse on camera. And the fact that he can’t accept any accountability or do any self reflection to say maybe I was inconsiderate is very telling of who he is for real…an A$$hole!
And he appears to be questioning Bella’s awesomeness (“comments basically saying she’s a queen”), which is just foul. Just because he couldn’t see her beauty or value doesn’t mean she doesn’t have any. She is definitely more charismatic than him. Frankly, this interview made him look worse. I didn’t expect him to apologize, but to double down is telling. It’s not about him not picking Bella, it’s about basic human decency. This guy is TOO full of himself! He figures the main audience is non-Koreans so he doesn’t give af.
He is such a hypocrite, he wants to act like he is this charming super sweet innocent guy when he is actually the opposite of that
He is sending a message to Bella, “if you are a Queen behave like a queen, don’t say things that a queen should not say, don’t use rude or insulting words about me”. He is really a cold blood human been, he took advantage of a person one night, he knew it and the next day, been the person that he is, (cold blood) he didn’t give a sh€€+. He thinks people are stupid and can fool them. 🤮
Exactly
@@MH-kj6kn what!!!? how did you know about the message 😲
The comments are really mean, I'm pretty sure he didn't want to do the interview, he seems aware of the hate comments. I get ghosting is wrong, but why are people making it such a huge deal ? It's not like they were in a non-consensual relationship
KJ is the perfect villain. He's calm & charming so no one suspects a thing.😂
😂😂😂😂
KJ INTJ
😂😂😂😂frfr
tbh, i noticed right away that he's a gaslighting, manipulative and selfish prick right from the start. he tries so hard to seem good that he only gives off bad vibes. He's quite sophisticated in the way he talks but if you really pay close attention, you'll see it. for example, when he read the question "i feel like kj is playing a role" he didn't say "yes, i was playing a role" but he implied it by basically saying that he thinks everyone's fake as hell too, so it should be fine if he's fake as well (excuses). guys, that's gaslighting if you can't pick it up. this dude plays hella games.
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Kyujun played with her
You know I really liked him on Giggle TV, he had a likable personality. But on this TV show, he ain’t it. KJ really gives me the ick. Him trying to portray himself as the “shy and introverted” type, did not work. His whole character comes off arrogant, manipulative and cold 🚩🚩🚩
OMG I THOUGHT THIS GUY LOOKED SOOOO FAMILIAR THROUGHOUT THE WHOLE SHOW! ,😂 THANK YOU FOR CONFIRMING IT FOR ME!
Do u like shy guys?
Spot on 😩
He experienced Bella and was done w her after he is full of it on that part him not having time to talk w her after is beyond laughable.
Hold up. Bella is a CONSENTING ADULT! She experienced him too. TF
If him going after another chick after the deed was such an issue, she should have held out in giving away the cookie until she knows he's totally into her, which is dang near IMPOSSIBLE to do in a 4 DAY PERIOD!.
Yeses man! Grow up!
@@sisanababy5884 again ghosting and acting as if she didnt exist after he could hv at least acted like she existed and even made up something - So I said what I said and if u trying to act like u dont see the issue just keep acting like u dont its facts and his explanation was full of it on him not having time period so address that part or just keep only blaming bella
@@nesswilliams6929 My point. It was his stupid excuse for me. I found that to be complete bs because Sonja and Minjae didn't partner up with different people. So try again, Kj. 😂
Is it even possible to ghost someone in such a short period of time?
@@adorali727 please ask! ASK THEM!
BIG MISTAKE Producers, you should have invited Sonja to listen to this interview and react to KJ‘s answers. That would have been epic because he threw some shade...comedians and dancer 🤣 He obviously watched the show and he knew where to fireback!!!
😂😂😂😂😂 Sonja mocking of his nonesense was one of the best parts of the show lol
“Dan sent me comments and it’s like bellas a queen if she was so chill why would she use the term ghost” !?!! Because that’s what you did GOOFY😭
Why do I have a feeling Dan is going to be on some bs too? 🤦🏽♀️
You and I both 😕
@@dulcejoao5465 Like come on. Dan sent comments from other people about what happen between him(Kj) and Bella so you already nothing but bs will come out of Dan's mouth. And quite frequently.... I'm ready for it. 😂
@Christine James I'm pretty all the participants who stayed in touch gossiped. That's completely normal.
They’re annoying af. Reasoning like children at their big ages
Honestly, I expected him to man up and talked it out and not ghost her. That’s just wrong.
They didn’t go out. They just had a make out session
Man up about what?! She was a CONSENTING ADULT. You cannot tell me that these people had any significant commitments towards each other within 48 HOURS of meeting each other that warrants some sort of entitlement to an explanation on the part of BELLA 😳
@@ThePricklyash doesn’t mean one acts like a loser and just act like you know nobody you was smooching less than 24hrs ago.
these are two grown adults who decided to kiss after drinking all night. If you kiss a boy (who mind you is still very much a stranger to you) who you know picked a different girl just hours before, a boy who you know is more attracted to someone else then thats on you, not him. You cant demand he gives you special treatment. The same way a man shouldnt demand a woman to give him special treatment just because she gave him some of her time on a short dating show or irl
@@GreycPelix you guys won’t be satisfied until he gets on one knee and proposes to Bella. Bella wouldn’t accept the proposal anyway! None of it was that serious. 3 days, 3 days that’s it. That’s all the time they had together.
Is she really that chill if she said the word "ghosted" tf
This guy's defensive approach to the way he handled the situation with Bella is so typical. And it's so obvious that he knows he ignored her after their dalliance, or he would have just apologised and sought to resolve the misunderstanding. Smh...
This dude is super gross. The gaslighting with Bella 🙄 is she really chill if she told the truth? Is he really asking that??? Being chill doesn't include being stupid or silent.
Disgusting
He's an open BOOK literally easily to read even kid can read him
The amount of hate I have towards him ...I frr don't like guys who do girls like that ...Bella deserves so much respect not what this dude did to her .... mxmmm
Hate is a bit much fam
KJ is a player and a narcissist. Whoever ends up with this red flag is unfortunate.
Tu as tout dit ma sœur, c'est un vrai "Cornas " et vrai "Kon" qui l'épouse sera la plus " malheureusement au monde" si j'étais un enfant né de lui, j'aurai honte de dire que c'est mon père 😅. Ce qui est pire c'est qu'il ne reconnaît pas son tors 🙄
Bella was interested in kj and kj didn’t have much interest but he saw an opportunity and he took it. Once he got what he wanted, he was done with her and wanted to pretend like nothing happened. If he was to talk to her about what happened, it would’ve helped the situation but not too much. It still would be awkward as hell. Bella and kj are both consenting adults. Kj doesn’t have to act all innocent, the picture is pretty clear. Bella doesn’t have to expect much from guy she just met either. It would be a little different story if he kept approaching her since he saw her and gave idea that he was really into her. He’s a player and she got played. They both made bad decisions at the end of the day. It would be basic courtesy to acknowledge what happened and clear the air but thats only something decent and caring people do, unfortunately not everyone is like that. The supposed to be meeting other people because its dating show is irrelevant to what happened but nice try tho. Seems like kj is mad that bella showed her hurt feelings, what did u expect to happen? 😂 you hurt someone, you’re gonna get your karma
You said it all 😍
He is butt hurt. Lol such an immature response.
They both saw an opportunity and took it. Its never a good idea to kiss anyone after drinking so much alcohol. Doesnt matter how much you like the person. In my opinion, Bella should have waiting until KJs interest shifted to her. Instead the guy didnt graft or pursue her yet they both felt it was a good idea to kiss on the first night. This is why you shouldnt drink with just any- and everybody. People get too excited too quickly and then feelings get hurt.
@@sadesuarez2954 He told her that they did shift towards her. Go back to their R&C room moments, pay close attention, and turn up your volume
@Sade Suarez he pursued her don't blame her. She expressly asked him if he was into Tiffany and he said no that, he isn't attracted to tiffany.
So he isn't into her yet gave a kiss and probably made out?. The way u folks loves to blame girls for guy's mistake tho
he's so damn suspicious... like , did he seriously just try to say Bella isn't as cool as people say she is because she said she felt like he ghosted her?
I'm looking at him through another lens now
@@loveofyourlife. I always knew he was suss tho
@@nzafe-belekwajoy6178 same
That comment made him so lame and uninteresting. Trying to discredit someone by gaslighting a situation is giving narcissistic behaviour. Bella is a forever Queen
That comment made him so lame and uninteresting. Trying to discredit someone by gaslighting a situation is giving narcissistic behaviour. Bella is a forever Queen
KJ…..sweetie….. if you ever read this listen. You’re going to have to learn eventually that being unemotional can be tricky. Almost unemotional people don’t understand emotions themselves which can lead to different trials and dramas.
Learning to at least be receptive to emotions even when feeling nothing, goes a long way. It helps in relationships/life as long as your dealing with people. This is why emotional intelligence is important. As the saying goes, “it takes one to know one”. It happens, awareness is key. 😉
Love that beautiful said
“Sweetie”
the most compassionate comment I've read online in a long time!
I'm glad that she is dating someone better than these Korean dudes
You foul played her when you could have blamed it on the alcohol or politely tell her she's not the one you wanted or the kiss was a mistake.
Kj sounds so booty hurt after Bella said he practically ghosted her. I mean she wasn’t lying, yes you should put your attention to the person you are talking to her but come’n dude you couldn’t have talked to her after that? I was such a fan girl of KJ but now heck no. Him talking about Bella not being a queen because she used the term ghosted. 😂
he said she ain’t chill if she uses the term ghosted.. because it’s a strong term. not denying her being a queen. sorry just needed to clarify
@@dievicii no need to be sorry. I understood what he meant but immediately after he said that the viewers were calling her a queen, he kind of gave this dirty look and it seemed he didn’t agree with them. Which I mean I get that not everyone sees that, but it’s the attitude that he had while explaining it. Idk if that makes sense?
@@lucyandmitch4564 I get your point. To be honest I am just not going to say anything about them since I don't know what happend behind the scenes. I got KJ point and I get Bellas point. I would also like KJ to clear it up in one sentence like "I thought it's alright just to move on" that would be nice but in the end he just seems lacking emotional intelligence so idunno. (according to what we saw) Otherwise I can't really tell because maybe what we saw is different too. That's just who he is i think. And what if off camera Bella acted different either? Anyways according to that behaviour he won't see anything wrong with his action and he is allowed to disagree with comments opinion. In additon I think Bella is acting right in not making a big deal out of it :) (if that's really the case) it's still a dating show afterall
@@dievicii Yes, I want him to clear it up too. I feel like when he was asked to confirm he kind of like shrugged it off and didn’t really answer the question. And you’re right Bella, putting past her, which I love her for that. I just think he should have gone to her and explained this whole *ghosting* either after the show or during the show. But it seems like he didn’t according to both. But I mean at the end of the day they all went and experienced the show and either left with someone or didn’t and are happy with where they are at whether it be with someone from the show or not.
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This is what happend then he ignore her
What im getting out of this is that him and Dan were talking about Bella ? And he really threw shade at her and tries to say shes not a queen and as likeable as everyone thinks,hmmm. Doesnt sound like he's much of an angel either. So you want viewers and everybody else to dislike her because you didnt like her?
This guy is a liar! If everyone pay attention you can tell that he didn't want to have more contact with Bella after the night they spent together in that room!
what does being chill have anything to do with saying “ghosted?” just bc ur chill doesn’t mean u can’t feel some type of way when you feel disrespected
all i have to say to kj and dan is “boo, throwing tomatoes, no one cares, byee”
😭😭😭 right!
I was cheering for KJ from the very first episode until I'm like yuck, heck no!
I don't know if he realized it or not but his biggest downfall on the show was "gaslighting", even in this interview his demeanor seems like a whole facade. Heck, he was pressed when people brought up the method acting.
To think that I also used to like him at the beginning 😂😂😂
I don't hate him at all but one thing that I don't understand is why would be kiss Bella if he was not interested or was just getting to know everyone. You just don't kiss someone when you know you have others to catch up too
🤣🤣 maybe his plan was to kiss everyone💃
He wanted have fun 🚩🚩
He was drunk and probably just wanted to try something different. He looked interested when he was on the other end of that Pocky stick. 😂
probably using his "second brain" lol
'is she really cool if she used the term 'Ghosting?' Boy Wtf you literally ghosted she just told her side
FR that was such a red flag of him to say trying to shift the blame on her
Right and what does using one word have to do with someone being chill doesn’t make any sense smh
Lawd, I can't. 🤦🏽♀️ I just went on his instagram, though. Some girl called him a narcissist. 😂
Actually, she said a lot more than that. It's under his first post.
That is so true, he seems like a person people should avoid because he seem like he is a f boy because some people who is Chill will use that word especially how she said it (she said it in a cool collective way 👌). So, it doesn't mean that when somebody is chill they take take bull💩.
@@fundash5124 He acting like she called him every name in the book. And the fact that he said Dan sent him comments about the Bella situation you already know Dan going to be on some bs as well.
I rank him the lowest on the likeable chart. Tiff and him can fight for this position.
Fr 😭😭
😂😂😂 facts 💀💀💀
I think it was Tiffany that mentioned how friendly KJ was with production and he said he was just trying to make things easier for them - It really paid off! You can definitely tell that production wanted him to have a nice experience in this interview and didn't drill on the fact that he deliberately never had a conversation with Bella after their night in the room, even though she mentioned to him at the start that she thought he was interested in Tiffany and he said he wasn't, because he wanted to get with Bella that night.Yikes.
Yes yes and yes. They weren't impartial at all. Tiffany can be walled up and wishy washy but she's a real one. And in many subtle ways she would tell us about him and then she drops little tidbits of information to show us the dynamic that was going on. That may be some people didn't notice or pick up on and then it's so obvious how biased they were against Tiffany and showing her all these hate comments when there were so many more hate comments for KJ. Even if we think Tiffany is boring and wishy-washy, we still think she's a good person in general and I just did not want her to be with KJ at all because of that.
I don't like how the producers are buttering KJ up. This man is the least favorite guy on the show. He caused a scandal on the show with Bella, one of the best women and fan favorite, yet why aren't the producers holding him accountable for his actions? True he gave you guys good views, but that isn't a good excuse to not ask him about his behavior. If this is how the "bad boys" are going to be treated, then I won't bother watching season 2. I can't stand it when good women are treated badly by men and then those men are just given a slap on the wrist.
That’s dkdktv for you
It gets worse and worse. Unfortunately he just looks more arrogant cold and manipulative 😕
These comments are definitely not the comments I saw about KJ every episode 😭😭 They chose the comments that went IN on Tiffany when a lot of comments I saw about Tiffany was based on KYOJIN!!!! And her relationship with HIM…. Damn this could’ve been the moment the villain of the season gets their “yeah so what 😈” that we get at a lot of reunion type segments after reality shows, and that would’ve been DRAMMAAAA but they chose some….interesting comments for KJ. He kind of got it with the Bella comment but it’s not giving drama it’s giving uncaring and callous 😐
(Starting to think they went a little easy on him because he’s gonna be a producer in S2 if it happens ? A little conspiracy theory I’m not saying this as fact)
He would be a turn-off for most people if he were to come back for S2. Because by doing so, they are condoning his manipulative behavior which would not create a healthy atmosphere. I would like to think that the people who sign up for these sort of things are sincere, although I am sure some do it to get recognition.
Agree, I honestly do not want this dude back. He has zero personality, more plain than a drywall and very manipulative. If he wants to return they should keep him behind cameras. We dont need his boring ass vibe in the show, and untop of that insincere 💀
Tiffany handled it pretty well. The response from viewers was good too.
Why would any adult sit there and be questioned as a villain ? He already has a bad rep, he knows it, why would he go there and accept to participate in the "drama" questions ?
@@Nili7012 reality tv baby…. That’s what we’re here for. Also Tiffany took her lashing from the comments like a champ, she maintained her classy position and smiled it off… kj however did not really do that with this video lmao. I’d love to see Tiffany at a reunion type deal because I feel like she’d eat everyone up quickly and still remain a lady
@@Nili7012 Bella, Chan, and Mingu, and Sanja seemed to be only ones to kinda of GET the reality Tv thing. Drama = Views and not liking that kind of thing kind of means that youve signed up for the wrong kind of show 😬
Him speaking lies 😂
KJ confirms what most Korean guys do, Bella was only good enough to mess around with behind closed doors to fulfill his fantasy with an African girl but Tiffany was a good enough girl to take home to family and friends!! we all know it!! He is such a gaslighter!!!! he thinks being eloquent in how he hides it by totally changing the narrative to suit him will work for him but it doesn't cause we can clearly see right through him for who he really is and that is that he can easily live a double life!!
The nerve of this guy and lack of remorse whatsoever by invalidating Bella's pain/disappointment caused by him then actually finds a rather eloquent way to insult her in the same breath is really sad to say the least
naurrr not him trying to throw bella under the bus...he seems even more fake and disingenuous after this interview. "i was the one with the most experience in filming so i knew how to control my tone and manner in front of the camera" yeah you were playing a role buddy bffr.
hopefully if season 2 happens there won't be boring dudes like him. literally no personality besides being a player.
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Amen. He has no personality to speak of.
@@Ubuntu-7 😂 facts! Dude talks and acts like a robot. Weird in the audition he seemed more lively
@@katherinejimenezmatos2009 omg where do I see the audition clips?
@@brittanys505 th-cam.com/video/imKo4JpsNMQ/w-d-xo.html KJ comes in minute 9:25
WHY DIDN'T HE GET SHOWN THE COMMENTS OF HOW *WE REALLY FELT ABOUT HIM & HIS SUS BEHAVIOUR?* WHY DID TIFFANY GET TO RECEIVE ALL THE HATE IN THE INTERVIEW AND NOT THIS MAN. NOW HE SITTING HERE STILL GASLIGHTING AND DEFLECTING THINKING HE'S A PRINCE?? 🙄🙄
I shouldn't really be surprised that Dan had sent those messages to KJ. It fits the type of person he was projecting throughout the show. Now it makes sense how it played out in the end between Dan and Bella. It seems this interview was done to give KJ a chance to explain himself and his actions. He did to a certain point. I think many people were looking for him to go into details about Bella. No matter how much KJ will try to explain or justify how he approached the situation people who like Bella will be upset. Sometimes, you have to accept what people show you are the real person that they are.
I don't think he really wanted to do the interview. I think there was some arm-twisting. He has zero self-awareness. I can't even call it arrogance, because an arrogant person knows when they are being arrogant.LOL
@@Ubuntu-7 That is so true. Everyone else who has done the interview so far were really jovial. KJ came off so matter of fact when reading the comments.
@@nicolewilson4058 I would go as far as to say he chose the questions?😁
i dont like how people are acting like KJ committed a crime or cheated on a lover. His interest never shifted, it always stayed on the same person. The only "issue" i have with KJ in this video is the fact that he didnt watch the show. I dont think he did anything seriously wrong or has to give Bella an explanation however it makes no sense to react to comments without having watched the show. As viewers WE know how obsessed Bella was with KJ however I can very well imagine that KJ wasnt aware of that and just thought she was giving all the guys equal chances. Point is, i think if he watched the show he would have chosen his words here more wisely than he did
@@sadesuarez2954 an apologist for bad behaviour
idk why but when he speaks korean he seems not so arrogant as if he speaks english 😂
I think thats the case with a lot of non native speakers. In most european countries for instance, were they learn english in school, fluent speakers would sound very arrogant because they try to speak extra formel and correct whereas when speaking in their native tongue they sound more free and without thought. I notice this with my own family and friends sometimes
@@calistajen very true. This image he has or the way he comes off in a cold way just comes from that because of the way he speaks english i think
Bro you probably don’t even know Korean so you most likely don’t know what words he’s actually using plus the tone he’s using them with… y’all weird
@@DrEilllx pls 😂 i dont have to know korean to judge the way it makes me feel… lil snowflake ❄️
He still does sound arrogant even kinda more fake if you understand Korean or the way ppl speak in Korean. Koreans only speak like this if they trying to pretend to be nice or being passiv aggressiv . He was speaking in the formal polite form but actually being suuuuper rude
Bella is a queen,why are you so pressed...mans be so pissed,I don't care what anybody says I genuinely do not like this guy
I don't understand what he meant by that, "if she was so chill she wouldn't use the word ghosted". Because some people who is Chill will use that word especially how she said it (she said it in a cool collective way 👌). So, it doesn't mean that when somebody is chill they take take bull💩.
I think he means if she was Chill she wouldnt have seen it as a big deal, which is right and exactly why Bella IS chill because Bella wasnt complaining. If she wasnt chill she would have made this an issue and told everyone about this but she didnt, she only spoke of this when asked what she thought and there is nothing wrong with that.
@@calistajen true she only talked about it after Tiffany asked her about it.
This guy definitely has not shame or morals for that matter.
The real villain. Leave Tiffany alone😅
So, Kyojun is saying,Bella is not cool bcoz she used the word "ghosting".Are serious boy. Wen u luk in da mirror,do u seriously believe wat u did to her is cool.Kissing smone and then not talking to them literally is disrespectful.
I respect him and the whole cast but what he said about Bella was wrong and I disagree with it. That doesn't give me the right or any reason to hate on him and try to bring him down.
So you respect what he did … chose a side bro… fyi “hate” isn’t always when someone points out what you did wrong it’s more like look you said something or did something offensive learn from it and do better…
Why does Anna seem so whipped for him? She is laughing at everything he is saying. Is she like this with every interview?
she has a pretty flirty/playful personality in general. i think it cranks up especially with guys haha
@@l2727 she’s a pick me
@@ryn4860 y'all are so weird
Probably embarrassed or finds him good looking.
What do you mean? She's the host, is she not? Do you think she would get her guests to talk if she was disagreeable?
Dan is racist as well... Changhak as well. You didn't see any of the other girls get treated like Ericka and Bella.
If it gets renewed please find men, who are open minded and have some flavor to them.
I want to believe kyojun clearing things up with Bella wouldn’t be a better time than when they were together. Everyone at the show was aware of the fact that they were together that night and using a few mins to clear up the ground instead of ghosting her shouldn’t have been an issue. Yh she is chill doesn’t mean she is talkative. Queens don’t talk much, they demand. She deserves few mins before you go to the next buffet. Yh right buddy, you owe her an apology with the explanation. Why is no one saying something? I don’t see where you still have given her an explanation even after the show. That’s wrong. Cheers to Queen Bhee 🎉
Queen's don't put themselves in compromising positions the way Bella did without commitment. This man promised NOTHING to Bella! . Queens don't allow camera's to get turned off the first night! Queens don't allow themselves to be JUMP OFFS!.
Yall need to grow TF up and stay away from dating shows if yall are going to act like sore losers when dudes do what dudes do. 🙄
but they spoke the next day after their date which was day 2 out of four and Bella wanted to pick him again until they said she wasnt allowed to. You cant say someone OWES someone an apology when you dont know what happened and you cant demand an apology from someone who things they did nothing wrong nor does he owe her an explanation. It was four days and its a dating show!
He doesn't know how to be a gentleman. So please forgive him. I do hope he has grown due to this experience and will treat women better in future.
@@helenmoehn7775 that’s the problem here. With his personality, he feels he doesn’t owe her an apology. I feel like she wanted to pick him again to talk things out because they are the only ones who knew what happened. For her to demand an explanation, something happened no matter how little and she has a right to demand ‘no ghosting’. If he feels he doesn’t owe her anything, she remains Queen Bhee
@@Ubuntu-7 I love this reply and I respect it. Thank you.
Hmm interesting. Him and Tiffany have the same personality, but look at the comments he got/read and what Tiffany got/read.
It's the pickme's thinking their wannabe Korean drama guy will pick them. 😂😂😂 Cause how do you not see this man is a walking 🚩🚩🚩🚩
lol cuz they are protecting the Korean dude tbh I don’t like Tiffany nor kj thy should’ve putted both on blast not just Tiffany
He's a racist anyway Bella... and enjoyed the show, but kinda glad it's not getting a season 2, especially if the men are gonna mistreat the Black Women (Bella and Ericka).
Being an extrovert doesn’t mean being talkative
i think its both tbh. Being extroverted doesnt necessarily mean being talkative but it doesnt mean being able to talk with anyone in any social setting and whenever, whereas introverted people arent really able to be talkative with everyone or anywhere. Thats why people say introverted people tend to observe a lot because its almost as if they pick out the personalities they like to speak to or be around.
@@calistajen very true
That’s what it means… extroverts are talkative and like to be around people… bffr which extrovert won’t talk lol
@@DrEilllx I disagree…. Not all extroverts are the same.
@@GreycPelix Gurl they are called extroverts for a reason…
i knew he was gonna pull this, it ain’t even surprising. he shoulda been reading the hate comments about him like y’all did to tiffany. honestly, it’s obvious he took a chance to get what he wanted from bella and then dipped. it’s also the fact that he sat there and brought up the comments that dan had sent him abt bella and then sat there and insinuated that bella “isn’t chill” because she said she felt that she was ghosted by him. that’s how she FELT, it’s okay for her to feel that way and say so.
No one even liked kj
Walking red flag.
This dude should have been dragged to filth, there are so many comments that address him and his behavior, not just with Bella, even though that was the main issue yet he got practically the most easiest of comments when Tiffany was being dragged. Like I'm pretty sure everyone hates KJ more then they dislike Tiffany, like this guy showed the world what kind of person he really is, yet for some odd reason they're trying to keep this "I'm innocent and I was a good person this entire show and have done no wrong" image for Kj when he was extremely unlikable at a certain point, even dan got a little hate, I genuinely dislike how easy and comfortable they made majority of his comments for him.
It’s interesting he says it’s a rule to interact with everyone but minjae and Sonja only gave each other the time of day same with Muscle dude only liking tiffany…KJ could have still been friendly with Bella after they basically went all the way. You used her then she realized she was used which is heartbreaking… it was wrong no matter if ghosting was the right word to use or not.. I wouldn’t hate on you but you still should own up to the fact that you hurt Bella’s feelings. Do at least that much.
Why and how should he own up to something he doesnt think is true? At this point you are just asking for a fake apology
@@helenmoehn7775 He ghosted her. Point blank.
1) Bella is a GROWN ADULT! what is all this "used" talk?
2) She got it on with a dude she had barely known for 48hours! Wtf did yall expect to happen? 😳.
Leave this dude ALONE!
@@christinejames4013 Saying "point blank" doesnt make it true ... and feeling offended doesnt mean you are right.
@@helenmoehn7775 He used some stupid excuse. "Oh we had to partner up with different people" 😂 Meanwhile, Minjae and Sonja staying loyal to each other.
He is deflecting on the situation with Bella and not answering the question!!! Do you ghost her or not? And why is using the word ghost something a person who is chill or cool wouldn't say, KJ? Like, come on. Once you kissed her and didn't talk to her after even though you followed Tiffany to the kitchen! You could have made an effort you just didn't. Be honest.
This SOB just tried to gaslight Bella. You Ghosted her period!!!
Dkdktv can I have 12:47 minutes back? 😂😂😂😅
😂😂😂😂
Is it just me? I think this video just made me see why people don’t like kj. He’s so bitter. Apologize when you do something wrong. Don’t try to shift the blame on someone or something else. There is a reason people think what you did is not good enough. At least be matured🙄. ‘if she’s really cool she won’t use the word ghost’ for real kj? Like she shouldn’t say how she feels about you acting like you didn’t know her after literally spending the whole night together? To the point of you avoiding eye contact😂 The least you could do is to be a man bruh😂
4 days is extremely short for a dating show especially when each day you only have activities and dates. I think in future (of course if there is enough resscources) if the show is only four days long then maybe change the rule so that people can pick who they want for dates no matter how many times they went together and organise. I think this concept only works best if the show goes on for longer e.g. a week. I personally wouldnt be able to get to know all five men equally within 4 days, there would end up being people i have barely spoken or given attention too. Or if it is 4 days then maybe have less people?
Wasnt it technically 5 days?
@@adorali727 no
Miss Anna was giggling a little too hard on this one🧐🧐. What he said about if Bella is really chill because she used the word "ghosted" was just a load of BS.
Exactly! And Anna is supposedly Bella's "friend"! Hmmmmm sounds like a shady "friend" to me😳
And that’s weird cuz they are friends and she even recommended Bella lol these people are snakes that’s why I call her Ana the witch
This was just annoying, I really hate that Tiffany got to read hate comments and she wasn't even that bad, but the actual bad person gets nice comments. Bissssh I'm done.
what a weirdo anyways team Bella
i thought i would like him after the interview but this is not helping
My god even his interview is boring. Don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with simple introverted personalities but they are NOT for reality t.v. and I think that's a big reason why the show didn't do as well as it could have. This show has so much potential but ya'll casted the most uninteresting people on the planet. There was no tea and no drama no suspense even the "drama" with bella, kj and tiffany seemed so played up and manufactured (like was it really that serious?) but i understand why yall played it up because there was litereally nothing else to latch on to. if you guys end up making a 2nd season im begging plzzz plzz cast attractive and interesting people.
So none's gonna talk about him choosing dry over wet?😭 You like sand paper?? Saw dust?? That's real Psychopath behavior right there🥲
He likes em deceased so they can’t argue wit him
Surprise surprise chill people use "ghost" too! It's a term they use to describe what you just pulled and will take no accountability for. There are no excuses like... we couldn't go together again... getting to know others.... clearing the air is a decent person thing to do. If kj wanted, he could've pulled Bella aside any moment and cleared it up, especially given how much he seemed to be into Tiff. All the more reasons to clear things up. 🤷♀️
Erika was right in a way but it only really applied to Bella since she is a dark skinned black woman to these males she is Only good for a good time nothing serious and not worthy of an explanation , they should be glad a more of an IDGAF just as sexy and pretty black woman wasnt on the show because she would have called KJ out and he would most likely been afraid to even try to ghost her comfortably.
No offense, but there’s no comparison with Oppa Gongyoo.
Thank you! He was apologizing to Gong Yoo as if he thinks he looks better than Gong Yoo. He is too arrogant!
why is he actually doing mental gymnastics men are mad
So Tiffany had to read mostly negative comments. Had to read why thes men preferred her and what not but you dont ask KJ why he picked Tiffany instead of other? Oh and you let him read mostly "fanmail"?
Its clear that he regretted kissing Bella and instead of telling her that he just hoped she would forget. I wouldnt call it ghosting because they would still spend most days doing group activities together and Bella was off on dates most nights anyway but he was definitely avoiding having that uncomfortable chat with her. Im guessing he just thought and hoped she would move on to getting to know other guys. I think KJ developed tunnel vision the moment he saw Changhak pursuing Tiffany, thats probably when he thought he needs to step up his game.
I dont agree with his comment about how he had to get to know everyone. Keep it real, he wanted to get to know the girl he picked on the first day lol. KJ gives me strong politician vibes. He wants doesnt want to give in to "people pleasing" by doing what viewers want him to do e.g. apologize but at the same time he isnt honest or brave enough to just keep it real because he is afraid of the backlash so he just gives vague answers and tries to be in the middle for everthing.
Does he owe Bella an apology? I personally dont think he does since i dont think it was that deep considering the nature of the show. I also dont think Bella felt it was such a big issue, think its mostly her fans. Bella was simply explaining why she lost interest and thats okay.
I am happy to see a few sensible people. What's wrong with Bella fans? They acting as if they had a non consentual relationship, Bella herself didn't seem to care. There was a video with Anna of Bella saying she was just treating the show as a fun vacation.
It's crazy how unchill her fans are compared to her 😂
New F boy rep! U guys are playing nice with him with all the gentle comments. He can't watch bec he knows what he has done.
The 'if she were chill she wouldn't have said 'ghost'' it's just nonsensical.
He’s just contradicting himself the whole time😭😭
I hate KJ with all my lungs how he played girls and acted like he ....,.now here only reading good comments only
Ann be like we like you KJ and I'm like Who's WE cuz I ain't NO WE some ppl here ain't NO WE 2 LMFAO
Honestly kj is the one bs talking self centered guy
Why won't you extend the deadline for the kickstarter? I'm sure it will reach the goal within 2 months max.
That’s a good idea. Plus don’t day get pay by us watching the first season? I was just wondering that today. When I read that they light be able to do the second season.
hopefully they don’t reach it
The world doesn't favor extroverted people. There are sometimes those people are looked down on as well but I think the reason people said they were boring was maybe because of their conversations. What they really talked about and what they portrayed. You might be introvert but lively and with smiling face too. Sabrina and Erika were kind of introvert people as well but people didn't complain of them being boring.
The world absolutely does favor extroverted people. All people are looked down on at times, but introversion is definitely seen as abnormal and "alternative" to being like the majority of people on the planet.
the world favours extroverted people, there are a lot of jobs that require being extroverted
Please try to filter out jerks like KJ next time. He's such a player and then he blames the girl? Participants need to have some basic morals in a dating show.
You do know that most if not all the cast was known by the “producers” so they knew what they were doing and if you don’t like that then don’t support them cuz they hang over people like that which means they are like that too
Wow, I was giving this guy a chance to redeem himself but now I really don't like this guy. I think all the girls on the show picked up on this easily. Sonja called it. He is trying too hard to seem perfectly genuine but he's not pulling it off at all. For someone to become intimate with someone and then have no empathy even if it was a misunderstanding then gaslight her was a really poor character. This interview was creepy.
The change of hairstyles got him looking different 😂
Not a fan of his. There is something off about him. FAKE!
KJ такой изворотливый как змея! его спросили "почему он перестал общаться с Беллой внезапно" он начал "у нас так мало времени на шоу" и тд. скажи прямо, что не умеешь общаться и всё
Dont really think anything is wrong with this guy, straight to the point and being honet but i wish you gave Tiffany the same kind of interview style instead of just giving her 90 percent negative comments....
É modi? Abó é de CV?
yep agreed. so many incel women in the comments "how dare he!!" i mean its a 4 day show, kj owes bella nothing, its a dating show, thats what a dating show is. incels.
@@vegastation24 of course he doesn’t. but he could’ve at least had the decency to talk to her after she literally said they made out
@@vegastation24 of course he doesn’t. but he could’ve at least had the decency to talk to her after she literally said they made out
Well, when you make out with someone that you meet at a bar/club and don't exchange phone number, the result is pretty obvious, but in a dating show you have to live with the others for couple days,make some activities with them, so he could have told her the morning (there's a sequence where they're together) "well it was cool but, I prefer to put an end and just stay friend". Wouldn't it been better, and more refined (just like the image he's try to build but just crumble)?
He use the word courtesy when he's obviously not that much courtois himself.
6:44 I just hear full of BS excuses
When i first saw him, i felt like something was off about him 😂😭
Yea cuz he’s goofy looking
@@iluvyouu00 He tries too hard
Y'all know KJ watched the show. 🙄 remember, he watches and observes people. Work on those emotional barriers, homie.
I would rather read comment than watch this dude 😏😏😏🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
I did jus that.
5:47 no offense to KJ, but who tf said he looked like the King Gong Yoo ?😭😭😭😭