Can charisma be taught?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ม.ค. 2012
  • Charisma. You either have it or you don't, right? Susan Spencer sought out to see if charisma can actually be defined by a concrete formula and if it can be taught to those less "gifted."

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  • @thedangerwich5476
    @thedangerwich5476 8 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Most people aren't charismatic, most people are afraid to even look and smile at a stranger while walking through the grocery store. That's why it's so memorable and striking when you meet someone who is charismatic. A person who can look you in the eye and shake your hand and smile, someone who, even if you just met them, can make you feel comfortable and not awkward. I wish everyday that it can be taught but deep down and know it truly is an innate gift that only a few of us can have.

    • @thedangerwich5476
      @thedangerwich5476 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ***** lol this post is depressing as hell

    • @DOTMH_1
      @DOTMH_1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I think you have to born with it or else it comes off fake. its kinda scary someone is teaching this because it forces a lack of authenticity.

    • @thedangerwich5476
      @thedangerwich5476 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      mary clark damn agreed

    • @Tbatbatba88
      @Tbatbatba88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      true. i know very few people who make eye contact.

    • @devannyblanco3309
      @devannyblanco3309 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ots kinda funny because when I'm alone with someone especially a man I become quiet and reserved instead of my usual bubbly self. I wish I had charisma but I'm a shy person most people say I'm like a mouse.

  • @oscarluja1002
    @oscarluja1002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    CHARISMA = STYLE. Nothing to do with handsomeness, thoughness, wealth or facade.

  • @johnpatrick3458
    @johnpatrick3458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Charisma CAN be taught. However it's much better taught in childhood and before 30 years old.

    • @nukbincanfly7560
      @nukbincanfly7560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where can people learn it from?

    • @johnpatrick3458
      @johnpatrick3458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@nukbincanfly7560 A child can learn it from an adult. If you're an adult, you can learn it by taking the time to practice being charismatic. The keys to becoming charismatic are developing a genuine positive attitude, listening and caring about what other people think, exhibiting confidence and not arrogance, being passionate about your own idea's, etc. These are all things that can be learned no matter what age. It just requires self discipline.

    • @mwloos1
      @mwloos1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true. To just start randomly doing these things at 30 would be odd.

    • @spoopyscaryskelebones3846
      @spoopyscaryskelebones3846 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@mwloos1 no it wouldn’t

  • @titansfan4215
    @titansfan4215 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The crazy thing about Bill is that on top of his charisma, he’s so freakishly intelligent.

    • @123ucr
      @123ucr 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The same thing applies to Barack Obama.

  • @james24vegas
    @james24vegas 9 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    how about it came from having had a good childhood & genetics. Having been really loved & nurtured and great genes from your parents.

    • @james24vegas
      @james24vegas 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      :)

    • @dorislittlefield7915
      @dorislittlefield7915 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      jason jones

    • @30ajgo
      @30ajgo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      BS. My dad was a player with a loving family. I can't even talk much without someone wanting to punch me in the face or at least getting staring at me like I'm the idiot. All that BS does not matter at all.

    • @sentry4270
      @sentry4270 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@30ajgo it does, been player doesn't involve looks or loving family, it only requires confidence, interpersonal intelligence and charm

    • @30ajgo
      @30ajgo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sentry4270 Yeah, which DOES NOT come from your genes or loving family.That part is what I am calling BS. It is something you just have or you don’t.

  • @earthwaterairspiritfireleb5482
    @earthwaterairspiritfireleb5482 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loving kindness for your attempts to honor sacred energy, link kavod - respect. I am Divine, so Are You

  • @clementgavi7290
    @clementgavi7290 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Like personality, charisma seems to be innate and nurtured. The part that comes from the acquired, can be given in the teaching.

  • @greenyoshigamergamingvlogs5197
    @greenyoshigamergamingvlogs5197 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I think Obama had amazing charisma!!!

    • @icvpoetry973
      @icvpoetry973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He still does

    • @ILOVEMUSIC159
      @ILOVEMUSIC159 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes yes he's amazing, you can see it all over him

  • @Harry-cb6pj
    @Harry-cb6pj 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Jfk didnt make the list??

  • @dabbayoo
    @dabbayoo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    charisma is directly attributed to how most people treat and look at you, unless you're a psychopath

  • @Yawarrior
    @Yawarrior 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a serious topic that is totally under study

  • @asktheanswer424
    @asktheanswer424 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the former hypnotist has a heart chakra awakening, sees that its wrong to manipulate people and its only caused them (the hypnotist themselves) to be manipulated, they decides to give up hypnosis denounce it as one of the most dangerous activities, and spend their life meditating without audio or video guides or even inner visualization just focusing on breathe and feelings. slowly they are able to play a big part in alleviating much of the harmful trances from the world, suddenly we realize how beautiful it all is, and how we actually aren't slaves nor are governments oppressing us, its just before ppl weren't using their potential. karmic cycle transcended. afterwords the world has much less problems, people live longer and are healthier and happier and more lucid. using hypnosis to attain lucidity is like fucking for virginity, lucidity is the absence of hypnosis, it is full consciousness.. people are not that stupid, suddenly theres far less gurus, but far more independent people thinking on their own about philosophy and life, and not acting stupidly, there are people sharing spiritual teachings about God, in a modern way, a kind God or even a Goddess, who is not trying to get us to do things that don't make sense or be nitpicky but just wants general morality, nonviolence, love towards all beings, and reminds us always that the universe is infinite and everything is love. mystical poems kind of like st. Catherine of sienna,except its like jewish people and pagans and and all kinds of people writing them not just Christians and muslims, but the message is the same, just different aesthetic, people aren't giving themselves up to stupid rituals to be religious, they are giving themselves up to love and channeling the most high, who is not only divine love but divine intelligence, bad people fail, karma is real. no slavery, respect for all life. theres no fascist empire trying to keep this from happening guys, that was all just the trance, we all realize this, and no one is afraid to be themselves about god, not do some stupid peer pressure ritual.

  • @earthwaterairspiritfireleb5482
    @earthwaterairspiritfireleb5482 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    story about kissing a frog ~ rastafari has true heart.. I want rastafari to have a good experience.. not one of oppression but trust and optimism... this feels like a story about kissing a frog haha... it is a good spirit.. the ice frogs IC-FROGS.. ANYTHING TO HEAL MY HEART!!! LET THE LOVE FLOW FOREVER!!! NEVER FORGET I LOVE YOU!!!!

  • @scaboi
    @scaboi 9 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Charisma is innate. Plain and simple.

    • @thedangerwich5476
      @thedangerwich5476 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It truly is, most people don't have it. But those that do have something special.

  • @DarthMessias
    @DarthMessias 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wait, what I read was that charisma either makes people love you or hate you.

    • @RenzoIsHereYT
      @RenzoIsHereYT 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Charisma allows you to have people want to be around you bc you make them feel good.

    • @jamesanarchy6469
      @jamesanarchy6469 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      AyToNiic nah modesty aside I'm very charismatic and most people exploit me for it I'm also colored annoying more often than not PS I'm 14

    • @sentry4270
      @sentry4270 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are right, they hate you cause they're jealous of you

  • @ericnightengale3667
    @ericnightengale3667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @jason Jones I understand your logic, but I would have to disagree with you. I’ve met people with a terrible child hood with charisma

  • @realniga3012
    @realniga3012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Charimsa comes from the hood simple

  • @Lennon6412
    @Lennon6412 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Romney does not have warmth at all.

  • @mohssenkassir431
    @mohssenkassir431 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It absolutely can

    • @Fly6lights
      @Fly6lights 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mohssen Kassir right on, Charisma On Command is proof of that!

  • @francesgaia4649
    @francesgaia4649 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You have charisma when you open your heart chakra. That's where Barack Obama comes from, which the press could never figure out.

    • @justbe3532
      @justbe3532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Haha thanks for the laugh.

  • @DreCallinitquits
    @DreCallinitquits 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    she say charisma weird .

  • @earthwaterairspiritfireleb5482
    @earthwaterairspiritfireleb5482 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *MEDITATION*

  • @frankrodrig9908
    @frankrodrig9908 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    charisma hulk hogan and rock and bruce lee and my dog

  • @TheBladeX10
    @TheBladeX10 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No, charisma can't be taught. It's possible only, but only learn charismatic behaviours how to act charismatic. Who doesn't have it just i mean... how can somebody learn energy. This doesn't makes any sense. That energy you must just have in yourself. What's interesting, is the fact that charisma is not connected with the movements at all.
    I know by myself.... I get way too much attention from the people (female mostly). Connection also. I can attract both people and animals for some reason. Like a magnet. It's simply going on me.
    Charisma is a special energy which you must have inside. In my case, looks like it's not even connected with the current emotions like happiness, sadness, anger or disappointment. No matter how i feel at some times. Looks like that energy always remains in me. Only thing that is sometimes gets so strong... i can feel the extreme warmth from my own hands in front of my face, and my hands are not even that close to it. The amount of attention that i receive is not changing at all. So yes, i strongly believe that charisma can't be taught.

  • @ohyeah6453
    @ohyeah6453 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I want Charisma

  • @carolcornell6332
    @carolcornell6332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No ! You absolutely can not teach charisma ....you got it or you don't !

  • @pogzie
    @pogzie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its 2020, look what 2016's most charismatic candidate got us. RIP Philippines.

  • @SomeRandomdude857
    @SomeRandomdude857 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s not charisma. They have financial freedom and that makes people more relaxed. As opposed to the taxpayers that are tied to a paycheck.

  • @KleWdSide
    @KleWdSide 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nope.
    But confidence can.

  • @Fyawtfc
    @Fyawtfc ปีที่แล้ว

    No, u either have it or u don’t, it’s not something that can be acquired. True leader therefore are born that way

  • @freshhug
    @freshhug 12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't dislike Obama for his charisma, I dislike him for the tretchery on the american people and the world.

    • @MajorMlgNoob
      @MajorMlgNoob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude you can't spell lol
      Also Romney would've been worse smh

  • @LIONRIVER1
    @LIONRIVER1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ANTHONY HOPKINS !

  • @jm-gy1by
    @jm-gy1by 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Joe Biden gaffes top this video by 1,000,000,000,000%

  • @carolcornell6332
    @carolcornell6332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Obama is very charasmaric

    • @123ucr
      @123ucr 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So is Bill Clinton. And they are both highly intelligent.

  • @EmperorScottYee
    @EmperorScottYee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I predict Mitt Romney will beat Obama.