Hi! Absolutely wonderful sharing of knowledge, perception and perspective. I will start to cultivate your mindset.... Wow Sain, thank you! My takeaway from your sharing is.....(i imagined the situation from my experience) if i had done what you shared..... if i had knowledge/say hello first to the person, actually it would have created positive/happy vibes for me throughout the day but i carried negative thoughts that the person used/wronged me (i was simply feeling pity for myself) Your kindness is a win win situation!❤. Thank you Trio's.
I think a lot of us have been taught that we need to true or open before all people especially close relatives and family. Unfortunately that is WRONG! You don’t have to be that away. As the world changes, you need to change - if not you will get hurt! All of us face it and learn it day by day. When I feel sad - I say to myself this world is made up of 7 billion population - would be not find people who are nice - it doesn’t have to be our sibling or friends. There are many people out there who need us too and care for them - change your focus to them. Don’t care for people who don’t care for you!
Yes you are correct. Positive negative rendum kalanthathu than life nama than namakanatha choose pannanum. Niraya per irukanga nallatha share pannamatanga kan pattudumnu athu avagaloda virupam namaku theriya varum pothu oh appadiyanu poiduvom. ..👍👏❤️
Why should we feel bad when people dont share good news or positive developments in life. We may not be that important in their lives. Why are we getting affected by this?
Rajaashri - they were treated like this by others and they think it’s the right way to behave. Let them be. They are the loosers. Don’t waste your time on those loosers. They lost you! Definitely the relationship changes and it won’t be the same and that’s what you need to accept. You just focus on you and people who really care about you.
I see three common reasons why someone doesn't share information - -They believe if we say it out loud, it won't come true. -They believe in evil eye. -They don't want others to benefit from the info they share, out of jealousy and competition. I see a lot of relationships strained because of these reasons.
Nice video for the day I respect and appreciate the way you see and accept a person as they are and value them as a human being instead of having any grudges on them but as Vinod said different people have differing thoughts on others attitude but in the end you are what you are!!!Good content for the day!!!👏🙏
Sainthavi I think you do not care much about others opinion (I’m being positive not negative 😊) - may be because you don’t have siblings. Relationship between siblings before and after marriage is very different. Everything becomes secretive after marriage and seriously it’s toxic to see your own siblings like that. They could think the other sibling will feel jealous if they know they are buying more properties etc. but are able to trust new relationships easily and disclose to them. It feels yuck when you hear about your own siblings growth from third party - it just feels like we are strangers. This happened with close friendships too. I had to learn this the hard way and now I say hello when they hello. That’s pretty much it. Maintaining distance is important and don’t be a fool and pour out.
I understand. I have seen and heard similar stories. My mom was a principal at the age of 23. I was born to and raised with many people watching & judging us. That’s why I don’t take negativity too seriously because they don’t know who I am personally.
@@SainthavisKitchen How do you let it not affect you! Do you have a mechanism for it? Does no comment hurt you - not true either becoz you have also shared your anger on TH-cam comments 😂… I think you feel calmer once you vent it out but unfortunately we cannot do the same with close family members! The relationship will turn ugly and many just avoid that.
So true! Unfortunately People feel jealous if they share positive news and that’s why they act so much 😂. This is common among Indians but Americans just keep quiet about it until they are asked. Americans keep quiet but they are not negative. Indian culture is very toxic at times.
7:41 - I love this concept. Need to learn this 😊
Hi!
Absolutely wonderful sharing of knowledge, perception and perspective.
I will start to cultivate your mindset....
Wow Sain, thank you!
My takeaway from your sharing is.....(i imagined the situation from my experience) if i had done what you shared.....
if i had knowledge/say hello first to the person, actually it would have created positive/happy vibes for me throughout the day but i carried negative thoughts that the person used/wronged me (i was simply feeling pity for myself)
Your kindness is a win win situation!❤.
Thank you Trio's.
I think a lot of us have been taught that we need to true or open before all people especially close relatives and family. Unfortunately that is WRONG! You don’t have to be that away. As the world changes, you need to change - if not you will get hurt! All of us face it and learn it day by day. When I feel sad - I say to myself this world is made up of 7 billion population - would be not find people who are nice - it doesn’t have to be our sibling or friends. There are many people out there who need us too and care for them - change your focus to them. Don’t care for people who don’t care for you!
Yes you are correct. Positive negative rendum kalanthathu than life nama than namakanatha choose pannanum. Niraya per irukanga nallatha share pannamatanga kan pattudumnu athu avagaloda virupam namaku theriya varum pothu oh appadiyanu poiduvom. ..👍👏❤️
I don't know how you got this topic..I spoke about the same topic just 2 days back..😂😂
Why should we feel bad when people dont share good news or positive developments in life. We may not be that important in their lives. Why are we getting affected by this?
That’s your nature maam 😂
Because they are important people to her. It’s ok except and it’s ok learn to draw a line.
Rajaashri - they were treated like this by others and they think it’s the right way to behave. Let them be. They are the loosers. Don’t waste your time on those loosers. They lost you! Definitely the relationship changes and it won’t be the same and that’s what you need to accept. You just focus on you and people who really care about you.
I see three common reasons why someone doesn't share information -
-They believe if we say it out loud, it won't come true.
-They believe in evil eye.
-They don't want others to benefit from the info they share, out of jealousy and competition.
I see a lot of relationships strained because of these reasons.
I agree
Well Said!
Thank you 🙏🏽
Nice video for the day I respect and appreciate the way you see and accept a person as they are and value them as a human being instead of having any grudges on them but as Vinod said different people have differing thoughts on others attitude but in the end you are what you are!!!Good content for the day!!!👏🙏
Thank you Geetha! Exactly and with age comes maturity to handle such disappointments easily.
Sainthavi I think you do not care much about others opinion (I’m being positive not negative 😊) - may be because you don’t have siblings. Relationship between siblings before and after marriage is very different. Everything becomes secretive after marriage and seriously it’s toxic to see your own siblings like that. They could think the other sibling will feel jealous if they know they are buying more properties etc. but are able to trust new relationships easily and disclose to them. It feels yuck when you hear about your own siblings growth from third party - it just feels like we are strangers. This happened with close friendships too. I had to learn this the hard way and now I say hello when they hello. That’s pretty much it. Maintaining distance is important and don’t be a fool and pour out.
I understand. I have seen and heard similar stories. My mom was a principal at the age of 23. I was born to and raised with many people watching & judging us. That’s why I don’t take negativity too seriously because they don’t know who I am personally.
@@SainthavisKitchen How do you let it not affect you! Do you have a mechanism for it? Does no comment hurt you - not true either becoz you have also shared your anger on TH-cam comments 😂… I think you feel calmer once you vent it out but unfortunately we cannot do the same with close family members! The relationship will turn ugly and many just avoid that.
@@valoriefalorie4223 it’s a mechanism. I practice detached attachment. I will try to talk to about it some time in a video. Thanks for asking
Well said akka you are right 👍 really good one
Thank you so much 🙂
So true! Unfortunately People feel jealous if they share positive news and that’s why they act so much 😂. This is common among Indians but Americans just keep quiet about it until they are asked. Americans keep quiet but they are not negative. Indian culture is very toxic at times.
Americans are raised that way, they like to keep things private.
For some reason my comment got deleted 🤔
Oh!